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Lisa Ynda Razo - November 10, 1951 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: It is with heavy hearts and deep sadness, that we announce the passing of

Mama Lisa Ynda Razo.

Lisa is Survived by her son Julian, his wife, Amanda. Their children, her grandchildren, Israel and Monai.

Lisa had a huge heart and amazing spirit. She loved to chat with everyone she came across and make new friends everywhere she went.

She loved the beauty of the world, from flowers to balloons to puppies, to blue skies and even rain.

Lisa loved thrift store shopping with her daughter in law, coloring with her granddaughter, watching videos with her grandson, and visiting with her son while he worked on cars. Making great memories together was the ultimate blessing to her.

She will be deeply missed and forever loved. Never forgotten, and always hold a special place in our hearts!

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Donald Royal Baughman - March 20, 1928 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Donald Royal Baughman Highland, California March 20, 1928-April 3, 2024

Donald R. Baughman passed away April 3, 2024 with his immediate family by his side.

Born March 20, 1928, in Seattle, Washington to Onas and Lola Baughman. Don attended Beacon Hill Grade school and graduated Cleveland High in 1946. He worked a few local jobs before joining The Air National Guard then enrolled and graduated from University of Washington. It was here on campus that he fell in love and married Sydney L. Wilcox, so began a 65 year adventure together. During this time while working for Farmers Insurance they welcomed their two children Jeffrey and Kimberly. Working for Farmers for 35 years provided them the opportunity to move to Seattle, Tacoma, Gig Harbor, Salt Lake City, Los Angeles, Portland and retiring to Thousand Oaks, CA. Boating and fishing were high on his bucket list as well as exploring the Southwest for Indian Art and pottery. Both Don and Syd were world travelers especially enjoying Mexico every year for months, a place that they made many friends. Don was preceded in death by his wife Sydney Baughman in 2022

Don is survived by his son Jeff (Marilyn) of Boise, Idaho. Kym Baughman of Highland CA. Grandson, Will House of Olympia, WA and Granddaughter Kaitlyn (Jordan) Browning of Bell Gardens CA. and his sister Miriam Monroe of Redmond, WA.

The Baughman family wish to extend a heartfelt “thank you” to La Posada in San Bernardino for the excellent care they gave to our father.

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Thomas Carney Shoultz - January 25, 1932 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Carney Shoultz, born January 25, 1932 in Jonesboro Arkansas, passed away Tuesday April 2, 2024 at the age of 92 in San Bernardino, California.

Tom was born to Thomas Ike Shoultz and Elsie Shoultz (nee Norris), and at the age of 5 moved from Arkansas to Cleveland Ohio with his parents. He married Cynthia Shoultz (nee Ricketts) in 1954, and had 3 sons: Steve Shoultz (Lorie), Dave Shoultz (Sylvia), and Jeff Shoultz (Deana).

Tom served in the Ohio National Guard, 4 years in the U.S. Air Force during the Korean conflict, and served on the East Cleveland police department for almost 4 years. The family moved to Ontario, California in 1959. He served in the Ontario police department from 1959 to 1987 and retired after 28 years at the rank of Sergeant.Tom remained active in the Ontario Police Association and also organized the Fraternal Order of Police Lodge 2 in the state of California.

Tom has held many positions, including State Trustee, and in 2018 was awarded the Lifetime achievement award. He was also a lifetime member of the Elks Lodge #1418, and a lifetime member of the Masons.

Tom was affectionately known as "Trouble" by many friends and family for reasons that were well known to him. He was greatly loved and will be deeply missed.

Tom is survived by his wife Cynthia, son's David and Jeffrey, daughter-in-laws Lorie, Silvia and Deana, his 6 grandchildren, 6 great grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews.

Tom was preceded in death by his father Thomas, mother Elsie, stepfather Conrad Schardt, son Steve Shoultz, and brother Bill Shoultz.

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Shirley Ann Mabey - October 02, 1943 - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Remembering Shirley Mabey October 2, 1943 – March 15, 2024 Shirley Ann Mabey passed away at the age of 80 on March 15th, 2024. She was born Shirley Ann Sabol on October 2, 1943 in Tioga Falls, Ohio and later moved to La Mirada California where she met her

future husband Glen Mabey.

After getting married, Shirley worked to save money and helped buy their first house in Valinda when she was 23 years old. She stopped working to be a stay at home mother and had two children Jim and Jennifer. Shirley did a lot of volunteer work at Jim and Jennifer’s schools along with helping out with cub scouts and girl scouts. Shirley and Glen saved and bought a beautiful new, larger home in Claremont in 1977. The home is on an elevated corner lot, right across from the Claremont Bike Trail with views of the foothills from the front of the house. The Claremont home continues to remain in the family to this day.

Shirley was a lifelong learner and educator. After finishing raising her children, Shirley attended Cal Poly Pomona and received a Bachelor’s Degree to pursue a career in Education. Shirley taught in private schools and worked at the Fontana Unified School District in Speech Pathology for over 30 years and she retired from the Fontana Unified School District in January, 2019. Shirley lived an amazing life full of fun and adventure. Shirley loved animals, especially her dogs Sandy, Goldie and her cat Lily. Shirley would often take her dogs on long walks up and down the Claremont bike path and feed apples to horses. Shirley loved going to Crossroads Church in Corona, Disneyland, Balboa/Newport Beach, La County Fair, camping, boating, swimming, water skiing and snow skiing. Shirley was very creative and artistic and loved gardening, writing, painting, sewing, making pottery and many other things. Shirley was an unselfish and giving person who loved to help others. Shirley always looked for the good in people and things. She loved her family and sought to bring her family closer. Shirley mentions

she wishes for a cure for Multiple Sclerosis- the disease her mother Evelyn had. Shirley Mabey is survived by her two children Jim Glen Mabey in Corona and Jennifer Lyn Owens in Fontana and their 4 children Janelle, Jessica, Spencer and Connor.

Time is more precious than silver or gold. It’s precious minutes cannot be bought or sold As the minutes tick-away, Say goodbye to another day Time waits for no one, as they say, We can never retrace footsteps made today Spend the riches of minutes wisely, Live each day as if it were your last - Poem Time, written by Shirley Mabey

Always have Faith. Never lose hope. Trust God. Appreciate everything.

Always do your best.  Always help others.

Never forget family. Never give up. Don’t look back.

Forgive others. Forgive yourself.

Life is short. Make the most of each day. - From a journal written by Shirley Mabey for her survivors Visit Shirley Mabey’s Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/shirley.mabey

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Aaron Luther Parris - October 03, 1989 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Aaron Parris on March 12, 2024, at the age of 34. Aaron, a cherished son, brother, uncle, grandchild, nephew, and friend, left an indelible mark on the lives of all who were fortunate enough to know him.

Born in Palm Springs, CA, Aaron was the beloved son of Debbie Hicks and the late Mark Parris. He shared a close bond with his sister, Aimee Parris. Aaron also leaves behind his loving grandmother, Jane Hicks, his aunt, Lynette Hicks, his niece, Annabelle Parris, along with his nephew, Mathew Parris, and many other relatives and friends who will miss him dearly.

Aaron's magnetic personality and infectious laughter brightened the lives of those around him. He possessed a unique ability to make everyone feel welcomed and valued, and his genuine kindness touched the hearts of many. Aaron was a true gentleman, always willing to lend a helping hand and offering his support without hesitation. His presence brought comfort and joy to those who were lucky enough to know him.

From a young age, Aaron shared his father's passion for working on cars. Spending countless hours alongside his dad in the family shop, he developed a deep appreciation for automotive mechanics. His skillful hands and love for tinkering were evident to all who knew him. In addition to his love for cars, Aaron enjoyed shooting, fishing, off-roading, and enjoying his favorite tunes. He embraced life with enthusiasm and a sense of joy that was contagious to all who joined him.

Aaron's passing leaves a void in the hearts of those who loved him, but his memory will forever be cherished. His laughter, his kindness, and his unwavering spirit will live on in the hearts of his family and friends. Though he may no longer be with us in body, his presence will be felt in every warm memory and shared moment.

As we mourn the loss of Aaron, let us also celebrate the love and light he brought into the world. May his legacy inspire us to be kinder, more compassionate, and to live life with more love in our hearts. Though he may be gone, Aaron will never be forgotten, and his spirit will continue to shine brightly in the hearts of all who knew him.

Rest in peace, dear Aaron. You will be forever loved and deeply missed.

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Yalonda Rene Barnes - May 02, 1962 - February 22, 2024

Departed: 02/22/2024 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Yalonda Rene Barnes was born May 2, 1962, in Longview, Texas.

After just living in White Oak, Texas for only 3 years, she and her family moved to Chinle, AZ on a Navajo Indian Reservation from 1966-1969 at the age of 4. This is where she became the "little mama" always wanting to take care of her baby brother. After 3 short years on the reservation, Yalonda and her family moved to a small desert community named Eagle Mountain, California. Eagle Mountain is where Yalonda had her formable years in life. Yalonda lived with intense headaches throughout her life, but that didn't stop this determined young mind from achieving a nearly perfect record of all A's throughout her high school time (she amassed 1-B one grading period which prevented her from having a perfect high school time).

Yalonda dedicated her life to her God, Jehovah through water baptism on January 26, 1980, 5 months before graduating high school in June of 1980. After graduating high school, she moved to Rialto, CA and attended Skadron business college where she earned an associate degree in accounting in 18 months.

She worked only a few jobs until stepping into the role as a Customer Service Representative (CSR) for America West Airlines on October 15, 1985. Although serving as a flight attendant for only a couple years, she decided to return to the CSR position for the remainder of her career. Through acquisitions, America West Airlines became American Airlines. Here, Yalonda spent the remainder of her career serving customers to the best of her ability. Even while on disability from a recent surgery, Yalonda was looking forward to getting back to work to finish her 41-year career with the Airlines and had planned to retire this summer.

The friendships she built throughout her career are a number that can't be counted. Although never married, she loved to travel with friends and family, and it can be said that she was a true "globe trotter". You name a place, and she probably touched down there.

Words cannot be expressed to say how we all already miss her dearly as she had an impact on each and every one of us.

Yalonda departed from us on February 22, 2024, at the age of 61. She leaves behind her dear father Gene Barnes age 90 from White Oak, TX, her loving mother Lola Barnes age 86 from White Oak Texas, her ever caring brother Darrell Barnes age 63 from Ontario, CA, her always concerned brother Ronnie Martin Barnes age 63 from Milwaukee, WI, her beloved brother Nathan Barnes age 57 from Mansfield, TX along with her cherished nephews Jaeden and Jaxon and his wife Samantha and her son Jonah and her caring sister Kelly Barnes Peden age 31 from Gilmer, TX along with her husband Grant and sweet nephews Ethan and Ezekiel.

She will always be remembered by her Congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses at Padua Hills, Montclair, CA, her loving American Airlines family of nearly 41 years at Ontario International Airport, her loving neighborhood neighbors and her dear friends from New Jersey, Maryland, Florida, Chicago, Michigan, California, Texas, and more places not named.

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Peter Francis Feenan - July 19, 1976 - February 07, 2024

Departed: 02/07/2024 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Peter Francis Feenan Jr July 19, 1976 - February 7, 2024 Peter Francis Feenan, age 47, of Henderson, NV, was born into this world on the July 19, 1976, at Silas B. Hays Army Hospital, Fort Ord, California. He unexpectantly passed away on February 7, 2024, surrounded by his family and leaving behind a legacy of kindness, service, and affection. Peter was always willing to help anyone out, to include a stranger in line at a store who needed help moving a couch from the second story apartment and no elevators. Peter walked through life with a humble heart, a servant to all, embodying the virtues of compassion and boundless charity. Those who have had the pleasure of meeting Peter have commented that his big smile was genuine and infectious!

As a young child Peter loved being outdoors riding bikes and skateboards, playing baseball and basketball, scouts, and church. Peter was a huge Michael Jackson fan and would request favorite songs of his every Friday night for roller skating at the Ft. Huachuca Community Center. He made friends easily and always tried to stay in touch with them in spite of our numerous “opportunities to see the world” compliments of the U.S. Army. Peter accepted the Jesus into his life when he was eight years old and was baptized at 12 years old at Sierra Vista Lutheran Church.

Peter was active in High School playing basketball, football, and baseball. He worked all throughout High School at Pep Boys to support his passion of keeping his green Volkswagen Bug running and making sure his stereo was top-of-the-line (that he could afford) so he and his friends could play loud music while they cruised down Fry Blvd. He graduated from Buena High School in 1994 prior to joining the United States Army in 1996. He continued his education throughout his career, earning his Bachelor’s Degree in 2016.

A man who served his country with pride, Peter dedicated eight years of his life to the United States Army as a Military Police Officer before continuing his vocation of safeguarding the public as a Department of Defense Police Officer in Sierra Vista, Arizona; Albany, New York; and Phoenix, Arizona, for an admirable 14 years, and rounded out the last seven years of his career as a Special Agent for the Defense Counterintelligence and Security Agency in Las Vegas, Nevada.

Peter leaves behind a grieving family who will cherish his memory: fiancé, Jennifer Viola, parents, Peter and Peggy Feenan, sister Heather Burdett, brother-in-law Erik Burdett, nieces Aliaja Bothwell and Isabella Burdett, daughter, Kailie Mallett, grandfather Thomas Schenkel, many special aunts, uncles, cousins, dear friends and colleagues. The void left by his departure is shared by those who preceded him in death: his grandparents Marla and Robert Sotelo, James and Mary Feenan, and Uncle Daniel Martin. Peter's reverence for God's creation was evident in his love for the outdoors. He loved camping (not glamping), and sought the divine in the quiet of the fishing waters where he would sit or wade in the water for hours, not catching anything but a nibble. He looked forward to watching UFC fights and spending time texting back and forth with Heather all day during the fights. Peter and his parents were avid fans of the U of A basketball team and looked forward to attending the PAC 12 games at T-Mobile Arena in Las Vegas to cheer on the Wildcats. Peter and his fiancé Jennifer took pleasure in cooking together almost every Friday night, playing dominoes and making bonfires, working out, doing home projects and cherishing every moment they had together. They took an active interest in gardening, experimenting with tomatoes, basil (they made a fantastic homemade basil pesto sauce!), and many other herbs and vegetables. They were engaged at sunset on the Hale Koa beach in Hawaii in October while on a family vacation and looked forward to tying the knot this year. He also enjoyed the adventure of riding motorcycles, off-roading in his jeep, working out at the gym, being the “Commish” for the family Fantasy Football League, listening to country and hip-hop music, golfing and going to the gun range with family and friends. Peter had a wonderful sense of humor. He loved April Fool’s Day and truly enjoyed planning his next April Fool’s jokes!

Most of all, Peter treasured spending time with his family and friends, and loved them deeply. His zest for life and his favorite pastimes brought joy and camaraderie to those around him and he will be dearly missed.

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Sharon Lee Delaney - October 01, 1931 - January 25, 2024

Departed: 01/25/2024 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Sharon Lee Delaney has departed from her loving family on January 25th 2024 in Ontario, CA with her family at her bedside.

Sharon was born in Cincinnati, Ohio on 10-1-31 to Charles and Eva Francisco. She was preceded in death by her husband of 58 years, Dennis J. Delaney in 4/2010.

She was a loving mother to her 6 children and raised them with unconditional love and devotion. She was mother to Denise Armour, Thomas Delaney, Joe Delaney, Mary Smith, Randy Delaney, and Michael Delaney. Sister to Roger Francisco, and Gracie Nola.

Sharon was known for her clean home and lifestyle. She was a night owl, and always ahead of her time. She was an avid gamer, playing Atari Mario Bros until the wee hours of the morning. To the grandchildren, she was known as the dictionary. This social butterfly was involved in the Women’s’ Club, the PTA, and her kids sports activities. She enjoyed being the center of attention. Hobbies included gardening, cooking, and traveling. She retired from the City of Ontario, Code Enforcement.

She is survived by her sons and daughters and their spouses, her 16 grandchildren,10 great grandchildren, and her brother and long lost sister.

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Dan Glen Croy - July 08, 1961 - January 22, 2024

Departed: 01/22/2024 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Dan Glen Croy , a beloved husband, father, brother,son and grandfather passed away peacefully surrounded by loved ones on January 22, 2024 at the young age of 62. After a courageous 11 month battle with cancer, Dan was called to his final fishing trip in heaven.

Dan was born in Iowa City, IA, in 1961 and grew up there until moving out to the west coast when he turned 19. Dan loved the sunshine and lived in CA until he passed.

Dan is survived by his wife Tracy Croy, his three children: Victoria (Croy) Covarrubias, Jacob Croy, Mackenzie (Croy) Hill; his mother Shirley Croy, his brother Todd Croy, his sisters Tina Croy and Denise Dennison, and 6 grandchildren. A "Celebration Of Life" for Dan will be held on Saturday, February 24, 2024

from 1-5pm at Todd Croy's house, 5459 Concha Drive, Jurupa Valley, 91752.

Dan was a great man with a heart of gold who will be dearly missed. We hope you can come and enjoy some food, drinks and good stories in remembrance of Dan.

IN LIEU OF FLOWERS, the family would appreciate donations to be made to the American Cancer Society.

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Andrew James Cleaver - December 03, 1976 - January 14, 2024

Departed: 01/14/2024 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Andrew James Cleaver, born December 03, 1976 in San Bernardino, California passed away on January 14, 2024 in San bernardino, Calfioria at the age of 47.

Andrew, known as Andy by family and friends is survived by his parents Cathryn (nee Mulligan) and Greg Dunn, sisters Michele Dunn, Mindy (Johnny) Ahumanda, Kaitlyn (Sean) Smith, and Shannon (Jordan) Fowlkes and many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews.

He will be met with open arms by those who have gone before him, his sisters Meghan Dunn and Casey Lennon, grandparents, Jim and Margaret Mulligan, and Francis Dunn along with many other loved ones.

Andy was born and raised in San Bernardino. He loved playing sports, baseball the most, and running around the neighborhood with his friends. He graduated from SBHS in 1995. Andy was always ready for the next adventure. From learning how to be a Hibachi chef, to scuba diving and deep-sea fishing. He loved spending time with family and friends, he especially enjoyed driving around and singing Garth Brooks with Katie and his Godson, Joey. He loved grilling with his chosen brother, Kenny, and spending time with his Goddaughter, Sydney. He was kind, generous, and was never too busy to lend a helping hand whenever he was called. He will be missed by all those who knew and loved him.

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Nona Jean Spillmann - September 30, 1940 - January 12, 2024

Departed: 01/12/2024 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Nona, a resident of Yucaipa, died in Redlands California on January 12th in the Redlands Community Hospital.

She is survived by her son, Kent Spillmann, his wife, Kali Spillmann, granddaughter’s Noelle and Nicolette Spillmann, sister Cathy Fuller, brother in laws Thomas Fuller and Rickard Spillmann along with her many nephews and great nieces and nephews.

She is preceded in death by her husband Don Spillmann and son Kraig Spillmann.

Services will be held on Saturday, March 2nd, at 11a.m. at the Calimesa Worship Center located at 940 2nd St, Calimesa, CA 92320.

A reception will be held immediately following.

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Sonja Denise Alexander - August 18, 1962 - January 12, 2024

Departed: 01/12/2024 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Sonja Denise Alexander, born on August 18, 1962 in Los Angeles, California, passed away on January 12, 2024 in San Bernardino, California

Sonia entered into rest after a brief illness, and leaves behind her loving parents, father, Robert Charles Alexander of Texas, and mother, Willie Mae Alexander (nee Brown), of Louisiana. She is also survived by her brothers, Darryl Alexander and Anthony Alexander, and sisters, Janet Lock (nee Alexander), Amelia Vasquez (nee Alexander).

Sonja was a woman of kind heart and generous spirit who will be missed by all who knew her.

Memorial services will be scheduled at a future time.

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Karen Dale Knight - April 12, 1955 - December 01, 2023

Departed: 12/01/2023 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Karen was born in Corner Brook, Newfoundland, Canada. When she was 9 years old, her family came to the United States and settled in Mountain Home, Idaho. After Graduation she moved to San Bernardino with her sister Shirley Diane Knight and Robert Wyatt.. Karen & Robert were inseparable for 47 years until Robert's passing in April 2020.

Karen worked at Yamava for the last 38 years, where she earned several awards and accolades for her exceptional service and work ethic.

She created long and lasting friendships with not only her coworkers but her customers as well.

Karen enjoyed going to the beach, gardening in her backyard and shopping. She also loved spending time with her 4 fur babies. Pooter, Princess, Darkie, & Fatso.

Karen is survived by her 6 siblings, several nieces and nephews and countless friends. She was very much loved and will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

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Frances Eleanore Hull - December 27, 1921 - December 01, 2023

Departed: 12/01/2023 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Frances Eleanore Hull, the youngest child of Lewis & Bertha Bricker of Oswego Indiana, was born December 27, 1921, and passed away December 1, 2023 at home with her daughter by her side at the age of 101.

Frances worked as a Bookkeeper before joining the Navy as a WAVE in Oct. 1944 during WWII. She was trained in Bronx, NY & stationed in Dallas TX until her discharge in Nov. 1945.

She married Robert E. (Bob) Hull of Warsaw Indiana February 22, 1948. They moved to El Paso, TX in 1952 where they raised their 2 children. Retired to Port Charlotte, FL in 1979 where they were active in their church and volunteered for Meals on Wheels for several years.Moved to Beaumont CA in 2002 and were members of Banning Methodist Church.

Frances became a widow in 2018 when Bob passed away. They were happily married for 70 years.

Frances is survived by her son Rodney (Frances) Hull of Houston TX & daughter Vicki (Charles) Hulse of San Juan Capistrano CA; 4 grandchildren & 7 great grandchildren.

Frances was a loving, devoted wife, mother, and grandmother; and a friend to all. She will be dearly missed.

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Lance Allen McGee - November 11, 1956 - November 09, 2023

Departed: 11/09/2023 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Lance McGee was born on November 11, 1956 at St. Bernardine Hospital in San Bernardino. He was recently diagnosed with kidney cancer and passed away at Loma Linda Hospital on November 9, 2023.

Lance was raised in Fontana and attended St. Joseph’s and Resurrection Elementary Schools. He graduated from Aquinas High School in 1974. He then attended San Bernardino Valley College and Cal Poly Pomona, studying electronics and computer science.

Lance married Janet Egan in 1981 and they were married for over 42 years. Lance and Janet initially resided in San Bernardino and then moved to Highland in 1991. The couple happily raised three daughters, Brenna Leslie (Trenton), Kinsey Egan-McGee and Miranda Egan-McGee.

Lance was also an adoring Grandpa to Nolan and Nylah Leslie.

Lance was a highly-regarded Network Engineer for over 40 years, working for employers including University of California, Riverside, Pac Tel Cellular, Cisco Systems, Chaffey College and Red Rock Telecommunications. Lance was always on the cutting edge of technology. The early part of his carrier was spent turning up the very first routers of the internet. Later he joined the beginning of the cellular industry advancing the services offered. His last journey of technology was perfecting the transport of the internet over the electric grid into homes and businesses.

Lance enjoyed astrophotography, travel, riding his E-bike and an occasional yoga class. He loved all kinds of food, a small glass of Gentleman Jack and a very diverse music collection. His favorite thing was hanging out with his family, especially “The Grands,” Nolan and Nylah. He was a devoted, funny, hardworking husband, father, grandfather, son, brother, uncle and friend.

Lance was predeceased by his parents, Solomon and Wreba McGee and his brother, Reverend Richard McGee.

He is survived by his wife, daughters, grandchildren, siblings Edward, Marcel, Brian and Michel, numerous sisters- and brothers-in-law, nieces, nephews and countless friends. Everyone loved Lance and he will be missed by all who knew him.

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John Coute - July 05, 1944 - October 23, 2023

Departed: 10/23/2023 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: In Loving Memory of John Coute

John Coute, a beloved husband, father, grandfather and cherished member of our community, peacefully departed this world on October 23, 2023 at the age of 79. He leaves behind a legacy of love, strength, and unwavering support for his family and friends.

John was born on July 5, 1944 and raised in Bristol, Rhode Island, where he graduated from Colt High School in 1962. He moved to California in 1968 where he spent the rest of his life as a patriarch of his family and was a large presence in his community. He was a devoted husband to his loving wife, Barbara of 54 years, proud father to his daughters, Nicole Howes and Melissa Bennington, grandfather to Delanie Howes, Jackson Bennington, and Demi Bennington, and father in law to Scott Howes and Jay Bennington. He was loved by many including his nieces, nephews, brother in laws, cousins, and countless friends.

He was preceded in death by his mother and father, Almerinda and John Coute, and sister Bernice (Coute) Parenti.

Throughout his life, John displayed remarkable qualities that endeared him to all who had the privilege of knowing him. He was loving, generous, and his smile would bring a smile to all he knew. He possessed a strong work ethic, determination, and a genuine sense of responsibility. These attributes were evident as he owned many businesses including Arrow Auto Air and Service Center, formerly Goodyear Tire San Bernardino and GT Kawasaki Fontana. He showed his incredible talent for sales as a Snap-On Tools Dealer for 27 years and later a franchisee plus spent countless years selling vehicles.

In his free time, John had a passion for Hot Rods which he often shared with his family and friends. These shared moments were filled with laughter, joy, and a deep sense of connection.

He was a member of the Over The Hill Gang San Bernardino, where he donated much of his time and energy raising funds for various cities and charitable organizations.

John was also a former member of The Lions Club Fontana, a member of Saint Adelaide Catholic church, and a long term member of the San Bernardino Planning Commission.

John was proud to serve his country in the United States National Guard from 1965 until 1971. He displayed his love for his country regularly to his family and continued to display his patriotism for 18 years as the proud annual announcer at the Veterans Car Show for the Volunteer For Veterans Foundation.

He also leaves behind a network of friends and extended family who will miss his fun loving pranks, wisdom, kindness, and a good time! His legacy of love, resilience, and commitment will live on as an enduring example to us all.

The memory of John Coute will forever be cherished in the hearts of those who knew him.

John's devotion to his family was unwavering, and his presence will forever be missed.

A memorial service to celebrate John's life will be held on Friday, November 17, 2023 at St Adelaide’s church in Highland at 2:30pm. His Celebration of Life will follow from 4-8 p.m. at The Elks Lodge San Bernardino.

As we say our goodbyes to John Coute, let us remember the beautiful moments we shared with him and the love he brought into our lives. Please continue to share your stories so his memory will continue to shine brightly, and his spirit will forever remain in our hearts. In Lieu of flowers the family is requesting donations be made in John's name by Venmo to Volunteer for Veterans Foundation @VFVF22 or mailed to VFVF c/o Betty Volk 9473 Emerald Ave, Fontana, CA 92335

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Alice Marie Stein - April 18, 1934 - September 18, 2023

Departed: 09/18/2023 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: In Loving Memory of Alice Marie Stein

Alice Marie Stein, born on April 18, 1934, peacefully departed from this world on September 18, 2023, surrounded by the love of her family in her cherished home. She was 89 years old.

Alice is survived by her devoted children, daughter Maryann Barbaro, sons Mark Cusack, Daniel (Danny) Cusack and his wife Ann, and daughter Julie Kelley and her husband Patrick. Alice leaves a legacy of love and family, with 12 grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren, who will forever cherish the memories of her.

Alice was predeceased by her son, William (Billy) Cusack,III and her beloved husband, Richard Stein, and her first husband, William Cusack, Jr. Their memory lives on in the hearts of those who loved them.

Alice was devoted to the Lord, her church, and her family. She loved music, books, laughter, and was very proud of her Irish heritage.

Services to celebrate Alice’s life will be held on Friday, October 27, 2023, at Saint Matthew’s Church, located at 26 Highland Street, Southborough, Massachusetts. Interment at Southborough Rural Cemetery, 11 Cordaville Road will immediately follow the church services.

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Travis Stenson Upshaw - September 04, 1983 - September 04, 2023

Departed: 09/04/2023 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Travis was born at Kaiser Hospital in Fontana, California, on September 04, 1983, and went to heaven on September 04, 2023 with family at his side at home in Highland, California. He was 40 years old.

Travis loved his job working at the Loma Linda University Del Webb Library Circulation and Interlibrary Loan Dept. He also had worked at the County of San Bernardino Highland Library and University of Redlands library. His passion for reading and love of books and coins was his great delight.

Travis graduated from San Gorgonio High School in 2002 with honors. He then graduated with an Associate Degree from Crafton Hills College in Yucaipa, California, and went on to receive his Bachelor Degree in English Literature from Cal State San Bernardino.

He attended St. Adelaide’s in Highland. His love for God brought a desire to be close to the Lord through prayer.

Travis and his brother Matt did everything together—no matter what, no matter where—they were together.

He is survived by his parents, Michael and Pam Upshaw (nee Edenfield), brother Matthew, his pug “Steamer”, Aunt Sherry and Uncle Danyl, cousins Luke, Steve, and Cindy Browning, Jeremy and Jaime Waitman, Randy and Carol Waitman, and Jamie and David Bailey, along with many friends and family members.

Travis is preceded in death by grandparents, Stenson and Ruth Edenfield, Gordon and Beverly Upshaw, Aunt Penny, Uncle Dick Browning, and Uncle Bud Edenfield.

We will miss his smile, laugh, and dry humor. Most of all he will remain forever in our hearts. A memorial of Celebration of Life will be held for Travis. Details to be announced

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A.L. Ward, Jr. - April 14, 1923 - August 31, 2023

Departed: 08/31/2023 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: A.L. Ward, Jr. born on April 14, 1923 in Tarkio Missouri, passed away on August 31, 2023 in San Bernardino, California at the age of 100 years old.

A.L. was the fifth of nine children born to Alva Leonard and Gladys Maude Ward, and was the last living member of his birth family. His wife, Agnes, whom he married in 1940, preceded his death December 16, 2008 at the age of eighty-eight. A.L. and Agnes had three children, Larry, Shirley Jean, and Donna Jean. Shirley died at birth and his son, Larry, passed away in 1990 at the age of fifty.

In 1943 he joined the Navy and was assigned to the aircraft carrier, Intrepid. On his return home in December 1945 he took flying lessons and earned a commercial pilot’s license and later retired as a flight instructor. A.L. worked for the Greyhound Bus Company as a driver, dispatcher, and assistant terminal manager from 1948 to 1955. In 1955 he joined three of his brothers, Fred, Dallas, and Richard at the San Bernardino, California Police Department, working in several divisions until his retirement in December of 1980.

During his police service, A.L. learned the process of hypnotism and was one of the first to use those talents in police work. In 1966 he wrote the book, “The Inner Mind”. In 2002 he wrote “The Inner Mind Revisited”. His book, “Heaven, The Road Back Home”, was published in 2010. Following his retirement from Law Enforcement, he maintained an office in San Bernardino for fifteen yeas offering the service of hypnotism. He also taught, and earned a Community College lifetime teacher’s credential in Law Enforcement Forensic Investigation.

He was a Free Mason for over fifty years, a member of the National Guild of Hypnotists over twenty years, and won their Presenter of the Year award for 1996. He was a member of the International Hypnosis Federation since 2003, and was given their Awards of Excellence, and Lifetime Achievement. He appeared on television several times, even hosting his own program on local San Bernardino Channel Six.

He is survived by his daughter Donna Jean Scott (nee Ward), and his five grandchildren, Randy, Steven, Todd, Rob, and Traci, three great grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews.

A.L. arranged for his cremation several years ago and is to be interred with is wife, Agnes, at the Riverside National Cemetery, Riverside, California.

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Barbara Jean Becker - October 01, 1947 - August 13, 2023

Departed: 08/13/2023 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Jean Becker, formerly known as Barbara Jean Grisham, peacefully passed away on August 13, 2023 at home in San Bernardino, California with her loving, caring husband Chester at her side, she was 75. Barbara was a devoted wife, caring mother, loving sister and doting grandmother and great grandmother. Born on October 1, 1947 in Eu Clair, Wisconsin. She was a woman of many talents and found great joy in the art of crafting. With her skilled hands, she created beautiful dolls and much more,

Barbara’s passion for crafting was a true reflection of who she was. Beyond her creative pursuits, she loved to have fun. She embarked on adventurous activities, such as skydiving, camping, water skiing, and boating, relishing in the beauty of nature and making memories with her loved ones. Barbara is survived by her loving and caring husband Chester Becker. Married in 1982 at Edwards Mansion in Redlands, California. They spent their honeymoon in Hawaii. Combining their families into one, now they were a family of eight. Barbara had two sons; one deceased, also a loving daughter. Her husband Chester with two sons, and a loving daughter,

Barbara is also leaving behind one sister, 14 grand-children 7 great grand-children. Her presence and love will be deeply missed by her family and friends, as she leaves behind a legacy of warmth and affection in our hearts. Barbara will forever be remembered as a kind-hearted woman with a gentle soul. Her love for life will an inspiration to all who knew her. As we mourn her loss, we take solace in the memories we shared and the love she bestowed upon us. Her family as a source of joy and pride cherishing ever moment spent with them

She will be deeply missed by all who knew her. She a lot of love in her. May her soul find eternal peace and may her memory continue to inspire and bring comfort to those who loved her.

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Laura Lee Foster - December 20, 1989 - August 03, 2023

Departed: 08/03/2023 (Highland)

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Laura Lee Foster, 33, of Barstow, California, passed away unexpectedly on August 3, 2023. She was born in Barstow on December 20, 1989, and was always a bubbly, happy, excited girl, full of enthusiasm and love for others.

Laura attended local schools, graduating from Barstow High School in 2008 and completing a few classes at Barstow Community College. She worked a short time as a barista, then gravitated to retail sales, but her all-time favorite occupation was being a homemaker and a mother. The absolute love of her life was her daughter Lyllah Spring, whom she loved unconditionally.

Laura had a huge heart and what little she had, she freely gave, even opening her home to many who would otherwise be on the street. She had the most infectious laugh and could rarely stay mad at anyone. She was a fun-loving daughter, sister, and friend, and will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

Laura was preceded in death by her biological mother, Christina Lee Foster, a baby sister, Christina Marie Johnson who died at birth, her brother Dino Bucci Jr., her Grandparents Amelia & Duane Foster, Grandmother Marilyn Beardshear and her uncles Richard and James Foster. She is survived by her daughter Lyllah Spring Johnsen, her adopted mom, Rose Beardshear, stepfather Ron Beardshear, sisters Janelle Bucci, Holly Rudd, Katelyn Beardshear, brothers Dominic Villegas and Jonathan Beardshear and Grandfather Ronald Wayne Beardshear. She also leaves behind many aunts, uncles, and cousins.

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Gary Ross Collier II - March 24, 1971 - August 02, 2023

Departed: 08/02/2023 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Gary Ross Collier II, 52, of Victorville sadly left us on August 2nd, 2023.

Gary will be missed more than any words could express but he will be forever in our hearts until we meet again. Remember that life is fragile and short and should be lived to the fullest.

Gary spent his time focused on his passion of teaching, coaching, spending time with his family, traveling, and enjoying nature.

Gary is survived by his loving and heartbroken wife Corina, his children Skyler, Stephen, Siera, Tony, Kailey, Tyler, and his mother Darlene.

To honor Gary’s memory, we are holding a celebration of his life on September 14th, 2023 from 5:30pm to 7:30pm at Mountain High Amphitheater at the top of, Table Mountain Rd, Llano, CA 93544.

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Wade Cameron Cheney - May 13, 1946 - July 16, 2023

Departed: 07/16/2023 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Wade Cameron Cheney, 77, passed away on July 16, 2023 in San Bernardino. Wade was born on May 13, 1946 in Plymouth, New Hampshire. Soon after enlisting in the United States Air Force, Wade relocated to San Bernardino in 1970. He earned his bachelor’s degree in accounting from CSUSB, and founded a tax and accounting business in 1984, which he operated for 36 years. Wade is survived by his wife Nancy; his children Veronica Price, James Cheney, Michelle Cheney, and Andrew Cheney; six grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. A memorial service will be held on Wednesday, August 9th at 11:00 a.m. at Riverside National Cemetery in Riverside, California.

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Pamela Dorlene Emerine-Biccum - June 30, 1957 - July 10, 2023

Departed: 07/10/2023 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Pamela (Pam) Dorlene Emerine-Biccum, 66, passed away peacefully in Big Bear, California on July 10, 2023, as her family sang her through the gates of Heaven after an almost two year fight with Pancreatic cancer.

Pam is survived by her husband Scott of Oceanside; children: Rachel (Michael) Hicks, Sarah (Benjamin) Carr, Rebekah (Matthew) Nolen, Micah (Rebecca) Emerine, Amber Perryman, Aaron Biccum, Sarah Biccum, Achlee (Christian) Rodarmel; multiple grandchildren; mother Betty Sullivan; siblings: Dennis (Kathi) Sullivan, James (Lori) Sullivan, Sheryl (Todd) Nadeau; and many other family members.

Pam was preceded in death by her father-in-law Ken Biccum, stepson Alec Biccum, her mother-in-law Dolores Evelyn Emerine, her father Robert Sullivan, her father-in-law Dr. Ollie Emerine, and her first husband Dr. Richard Emerine.

Pam was born on June 30, 1957, in Danville, Illinois to the parents of Robert and Betty Sullivan. Upon graduation in 1975 from El Cajon Valley High School, Pam attended Northwest Christian College in Eugene, OR, where she participated in the musical group Pilgrimage. She graduated in 1981 with a Bachelor’s in Biblical Studies and Educational Ministry. During one of her college Christmas visits home to Lemoore, CA, she met and fell in love with Richard (Ritchie) Emerine. Upon graduation from college, Pam and Ritchie were married on June 12, 1982, in Lemoore. They had 4 children together. Having a military husband, Pam moved a lot: California, Florida, Guam, and Washington to name a few.

Upon Ritchie’s untimely death on December 13, 2000, Pam invested her time in her family, church group, and her preschool co-workers and students. Pam’s passion for early childhood was evident in her nearly 40 years as a Preschool Teacher, including 25 years at Tri-City Christian School in Vista, California. In 2002, she fought breast cancer and won that battle. In 2004, Pam met Scott Biccum and wondered if love had given her a second chance at happily ever after. They were married at Oceanside Harbor on July 19, 2009, to the approval of family and friends.

Pam could often be found worshiping in church on Sundays, working with preschool age children, baking in the kitchen, sewing clothes for her grandkids, making memories on vacations with her family, checking in and catching up with friends, and singing and voice acting her way through life. She was known as “Party Pam,” a term coined for her zest for life, taking each challenge head on with gusto, and creating epic parties such as: high tea, Kentucky Derby, caroling, and birthday sleepovers complete with monkey bread. Pam remembered to give God the glory through life’s ups and downs, so although she is missed here on Earth, we know she is partying it up in Heaven.

The family would like to extend their thanks to the many family, friends, doctors, and nurses that helped care for Pam these past two years. Your care reminded her of God’s hand in the situation and allowed her to run her race and fight her fight with everything she had until God called her home (2 Timothy 4:7). Please join the family for Pam’s Celebration of Life on August 26th at 11:00 am at Calvary Chapel Oceanside. A reception at the church will follow. Address: 3715 Oceanic Way, Oceanside, CA 92056. Link to Pam’s Celebration of Life: https://www.punchbowl.com/parties/ed02ebfdfad69f25a9bf

A private family burial will take place at Rosecrans National Cemetery.

If you are interested in helping Scott and the family during this time of grieving, instead of sending flowers, please consider the following GoFundMe that has been setup to cover upcoming expenses: https://gofund.me/216df79a.

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Samuel Chavez - September 11, 1940 - July 01, 2023

Departed: 07/01/2023 (Highland)

Obituary Preview: Samuel Chavez was born on September 11, 1940 and passed away in San Bernardino, California on July 1, 2023, and was a long-time resident of Colton, California.

He proudly served our country for 4 years as a member of the United States Marine Corps.

Sam retired from his job as manager of ALCOA PLANT after 30 years of service.

He is survived by his loving wife of 13 years, Cory Chavez; son Todd Chavez (Rosemary); daughters Julie Wilson (Ron) and Jodi Loera (Ralph); multiple grandchildren, great grandchildren, and even great great grandchildren.

Sam was preceded in death by his long-time wife and mother of his children, Pat who passed away on January 20, 2008.

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Recognizing that each individual is unique, Arrowhead Aftercare provides numerous options for personalized memorials and tributes. From photo displays and video tributes to custom music selections and personalized funeral stationery, they ensure that every aspect of the service reflects the personality and spirit of your loved one.

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Dealing with the logistics after losing someone can be overwhelming, which is why Arrowhead Aftercare strives to make the administrative process as smooth as possible. From filing death certificates and handling insurance claims to offering advice on legal requirements and paperwork, the staff has the experience and knowledge to assist you with the necessary formalities.

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Arrowhead Aftercare values the strong connections they have formed within Highland and the surrounding areas. They are not just a business; they are a neighbor committed to supporting and engaging with the community. By hosting remembrance events, participating in local activities, and providing educational programs, Arrowhead Aftercare fosters a sense of unity and communal support that extends far beyond their services.

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Honoring the rich diversity of the community they serve, Arrowhead Aftercare has expertise in conducting services that are respectful of cultural and religious customs. They work closely with families to ensure that every aspect of the service aligns with their traditions and beliefs, providing a sense of familiarity and comfort during the farewell to a loved one.

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At Arrowhead Aftercare, they are not just caring for the deceased but also building a legacy of compassion and understanding within the community. The trust that families place in them is not taken lightly, and they honor that trust by ensuring that every family receives the highest level of care and service. From the tranquil setting to the dedicated staff, Arrowhead Aftercare stands as a beacon of support to those going through life's most challenging times.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a notice of a person's death, usually published in a newspaper or online, that often includes a brief biography of the deceased, information about the funeral service, and details about surviving family members. Its purpose is to both inform the community of the death and to honor the life of the departed.

Who typically writes an obituary?

Obituaries can be written by family members, friends, funeral home staff, or newspaper employees. Sometimes, individuals even write their own obituaries prior to their passing to ensure their life is captured as they wish.

Is an obituary the same as a death notice?

No, an obituary is more detailed than a death notice, which is typically a very brief announcement of a death and the funeral service details. Obituaries often contain a life story, accomplishments, and mention of the people who were significant in the deceased's life.

How long after a death is an obituary published?

An obituary is usually published within a few days of a person's death to allow timely notification for potential attendees of the funeral or memorial service. However, the timeline can vary depending on the publication process and the family's wishes.

What details are usually included in an obituary?

An obituary typically includes the full name of the deceased, dates of birth and death, a brief history of the person's life, notable achievements, information about the funeral or memorial service, and the names of close surviving relatives.

How can I submit an obituary to a newspaper or website?

Most newspapers and websites have specific guidelines for submitting obituaries. This usually involves contacting the publication directly, either via their website, by email, or by phone, and submitting the written obituary along with any requirements such as deadlines and fees.

Is there a standard length for an obituary?

No, the length of an obituary can vary greatly. Some obituaries are brief and just cover the basic facts, while others are more detailed and can be several paragraphs long. It often depends on the preferences of the family and the cost, as some publications charge by the word or length.

How much does it typically cost to publish an obituary?

The cost to publish an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, the length of the obituary, and the geographic location. It can range from free to several hundred dollars. It's best to check with the individual publication for their rates.

Can an obituary be published for free?

Some local newspapers, community newsletters, or online platforms may publish obituaries for free, particularly for brief notices. However, most traditional newspapers will charge a fee for publishing an obituary.

Is it necessary to include a photograph with an obituary?

Including a photograph with an obituary is optional but can be a comforting way for members of the community to recognize the deceased. If a photo is used, it should be a high-quality image that represents the individual well.

Can friends and extended family be mentioned in an obituary?

Yes, friends and extended family can be mentioned in an obituary. It is a way to honor those who were important in the deceased's life, although the list should be limited to avoid an overly lengthy obituary.

What if I don't know all the details about the deceased's life?

If you are missing details about the deceased's life, it's acceptable to write the obituary with the information you have. You can also ask other family members or friends for help or choose to keep the obituary simple with only the most important facts.

How do I write an obituary that truly honors my loved one?

To write an obituary that honors your loved one, focus on the qualities that best represented them, their passions, their achievements, and how they impacted the lives of others. Personal anecdotes or quotes can add a touching and unique aspect to the tribute.

Should I mention the cause of death in an obituary?

Mentioning the cause of death is a personal choice. Some families opt to include this information, especially when the deceased had a long illness or was a public figure, while others might prefer to keep it private.

Can an obituary be updated or corrected after it has been published?

Most publications will allow corrections to be made if there are errors in the obituary after it has been published. It is essential to contact the publication as soon as possible to arrange for any necessary updates or corrections.

Is it appropriate to mention a request for charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes, it is entirely appropriate and common to mention a request for charitable donations in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased's memory, especially if the chosen charity reflects a cause they were passionate about.

How can someone outside of the immediate family find out if an obituary has been published?

Those outside the immediate family can find out if an obituary has been published by checking the deceased's local newspapers, searching online obituary databases, or contacting the funeral home handling the arrangements.

Can I post an obituary on social media?

Yes, it is increasingly common to post obituaries or death notices on social media. This can be a way to reach a broader audience, particularly for those who have friends and family spread out geographically.

Are there different cultural practices for obituaries?

Cultural practices can greatly influence the content and style of an obituary. Different cultures may have specific traditions or protocols for announcing a death and highlighting the life of the deceased.

Is it possible to write and publish an obituary for someone who died many years ago?

While it is somewhat unusual, it is possible to write and publish an obituary for someone who died many years ago, especially if the person's passing was never formally announced or if there is a significant anniversary of their death.

What can I do if I find writing an obituary too difficult in my time of grief?

If you find the task of writing an obituary too challenging during a period of grief, you can ask other family members to contribute, seek assistance from friends, or even hire a professional writer or the funeral home to help craft the obituary.