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Carolyn A. Dompier - June 04, 1941 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Brattleboro- Carolyn A. Dompier, 82, of South Street, a lifelong resident of the area, passed away in the comfort of her home on Friday, April 19, 2024 surrounded by her loving family.

Carolyn was born in Brattleboro on June 4, 1941, the daughter of Henry and Mary (Jasienowski) Wojchick. She attended Hinsdale public schools and graduated from Hinsdale High School in 1959.

She attended the Doerr Academy of Beauty Culture in Springfield, Massachusetts and graduated on April 28, 1961. Carolyn later opened her own business which she operated out of her home. She catered to her elderly clients by traveling to nursing homes and making house calls to those who were unable to travel.

Carolyn enjoyed and found great comfort attending church and was a communicant of Saint Michael’s Roman Catholic Church and a former parishioner of Saint Joseph’s Church in Hinsdale.

On May 25, 1963 at Saint Joseph’s Church in Hinsdale she was married to Donald S. Dompier.

Carolyn loved to spend time and travel with her husband Don, traveling to many places including Niagara Falls for their honeymoon, Dutch Amish Country, New Mexico, Hawaii, Venezuela, and the Dominican Republic. She loved going to the beach, whether it was Spofford Lake or Hampton Beach. She loved to “people watch,” sitting in the sun and floating for hours in the water. She loved flowers and was always puttering around in her flower beds. She loved feeding and watching the birds at her home, especially the cardinals that visited her on a daily basis. She was a caring daughter and spent most Sundays with her mother when she was alive both shopping and hosting Sunday dinners at her home. She enjoyed spending time with her brothers and sisters and loved her nieces and nephews. However, her greatest joy was becoming a mother and grandmother. She was loving, compassionate, fun, and devoted. She found great joy in planning holiday celebrations for her grandchildren and attending their school and sport functions. She valued family over everything else.

Carolyn is survived by her beloved husband of 61 years, Donald, and their three children and grandchildren: Kenneth Dompier of Chester, Connecticut and his wife Kimberly and their two children Jared and Kamilla; Steven Dompier of Spofford, New Hampshire and his wife Kristi and their two children Jacob and Justin; and Cheri Hill of Brattleboro and her husband Bill and her two children Gregory and William. She also leaves behind her two brothers, Martin Wojchick of Chesterfield and Michael Wojchick of Hinsdale, her sister, Janet Faucher of Hinsdale, and her many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents, Henry and Mary Wojchick, and her sister, Patricia Lord.

The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Saint Michael’s Catholic Church, Friday (4/26) at 11:00 A.M. Committal Rites and burial will follow in the family lot in Christ Church Cemetery in the Algiers section of Guilford.

Memorial contributions in her name may be made to Saint Michael’s School or Brigid’s Kitchen, 48 Walnut Street, Brattleboro, VT 05301.

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Dennis A. Peters, Sr. - September 21, 1934 - April 16, 2024

Departed: 04/16/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Dennis (Denny) Adelbert Peters, Sr., a beloved figure in his family and community, was born on September 21, 1934, in Eden, VT. He was fiercely independent and fought to age gracefully, passed away peacefully on April 16, 2024, at the age of 89, in Brattleboro, Vermont with his loving family by his side. Dennis was a longtime resident of Marlboro, VT and spent many winters in Florida. He most spent the last decade of his life residing in Dover, VT and most recently a resident of Vernon Hall.

Dennis was known for his kind and loving nature, his strong work ethic, and his unwavering dedication to his family. He married his beloved Marion, who he met at a penny auction, on August 2, 1953 in Montgomery Center, VT. As a husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, and great-great-grandfather, he touched the lives of many with his warmth and wisdom. His greatest pleasure in life was spending time with his family.

Dennis worked as a manager at R.S. Robert’s in Brattleboro, VT for decades and continued on-call there while he started Denny’s Auto body Shop in Marlboro, VT. His safety and reliability as a wrecker operator are something that local and state law enforcement still talk about. Dennis loved working and despite retiring, he continued to stay working as the maintenance man for his retirement community, even awarded Maintenance Man of the Year at Butterfield Commons.

He loved square dancing, bluegrass festivals and his, “old country music.” Dennis loved spending time outside, both hunting and fishing. Dennis took pride in his brook trout that he would catch while fishing with his grandkids and great grandkids. He was a devout Catholic and enjoyed church on Saturday evenings with his wife. His love of cars transcended throughout all generations, down to his youngest great grandkids. He spent much of his retirement traveling with his wife and family in their motorhome, spending much of their time in Zephyr Hills, FL during the winter. His favorites being Maine, the White Mountains, Tennessee, Arizona and Florida.

Dennis leaves behind his beloved wife of 72 years, Marion, four children, Dennis Peters Jr. of Vernon, VT, Deborah Wood and her husband, Donald, of Dummerston, VT, Norman Peters and his wife, Linda of Marlboro, VT and Edward Peters and his wife, Maria of East Orlando, FL; brother Robert Peters and his partner Sue of West Berkshire, VT; nine grandchildren, 17 great grandchildren and one great-great grandson. He was predeceased by his parents, his sisters, Leah Bonnette and Flora Gilbeau, and two brothers, Clinton Peters, Jr., and Artie Peters.

The Mass of Christian Burial will be conducted Monday, April 22nd at 10:00 a.m. at St. Michael’s Catholic Church. Committal Rites and burial will follow in New Westminster Cemetery.

Friends and family may call at the Atamaniuk Funeral Home on Sunday from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m.

His legacy of love and commitment will forever be cherished by those who knew him. In honor of Dennis Adelbert Peters, contributions can be made to Rescue Inc., P.O. Box 593, Brattleboro, VT 05302.

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Byron Stookey - July 18, 1933 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Byron Stookey died peacefully at home in Brattleboro at age 90 on April 12, 2024. During the last months of his life, he was cared for by his three daughters and wife of almost 64 years, Lee. She was holding his hand when he died.

Byron was born and raised in Manhattan with two brothers, John and Lyman, to whom he was devoted throughout his life.

He was thoughtful and soft-spoken. He lived with quiet integrity and dedicated his life to taking care of others.

He worked harder than most, though that was not always the case. During his first two years at Harvard, he prioritized driving (and hitchhiking) around the northeast, returning rental cars to Boston (night driving, backroads, and diners became a lifelong pleasure). The college “suggested” he take some time off. He enlisted in the U.S. Army Infantry and served for three years as a paratrooper and officer in the 82nd Airborne Division. He credited the Army with giving him opportunities to work with purpose, to lead, and to learn from and with people from very different backgrounds. It also left him with a permanent affection for olive green.

When he returned to Harvard, he earned his B.A. and a Master of Arts in Teaching (History) while continuing to serve in the Army Reserves. He wrote about Jack London and the socialist movement and became committed to education as a motor for social and personal transformation.

He met Lee in Cambridge. After numerous proposals, she finally said “yes,” and they were married in 1960. They had four daughters in five years: Sarah, Anna, Kate, and Joan. Always close, our family of “originals” held each other more tightly during the year and a half after Joan was diagnosed with ALS and through her death last year.

Byron described his career as “checkered” but there was a consistent throughline. He always worked to strengthen the voice and capacity of people with less power. As an administrator at Harvard he started the Freshman Seminar Program, connecting young students with senior professors, directed the initial Peace Corps training program, and founded the first student housing cooperative. In 1963 he was recruited as part of a small team to develop the University of California Santa Cruz. When he and Lee arrived from Cambridge with two toddlers, UCSC was a 3,000-acre ranch with a padlocked gate. Byron soon became the first Director of Academic Planning. He was a moral and intellectual force in shaping the culture and programs of the campus. He advocated for student voice, academic creativity, and connections between campus and the community.

Byron and Lee returned East in 1968, settling in Brooklyn. Together they worked to end segregation and improve the quality of public schools. Byron helped create an alternative public high school in East Harlem (Park East) and a social services organization in Queens (Sunnyside Community Services). Both of these organizations continue to thrive. Beginning as a senior center in a church basement, SCS now offers programs for all members of the community and is one of the largest home care agencies in the city. He was the extraordinary combination of an expert administrator and a wildly creative visionary. Whether students or old people, he believed in and worked to build people’s capacity for managing and owning their organizations. Byron was most drawn to the work of starting organizations and shied away from accumulating power.

At fifty he returned to education. He became a New York City public school teacher and taught world history to high school students in East Harlem for a decade. He was dedicated to helping his students connect their lives and concerns to larger histories and ideas.

Byron and Lee moved to Brattleboro in 1994. They had built a cabin in Westminster West in 1970 and felt a strong connection to this area. He was happiest when he was at the cabin with family, engineering drainage channels, and making trails. Byron was often teased by his children and nine grandchildren for “vacuuming the woods.” He helped found Brattleboro Area Affordable Housing, worked with the residents of the Westgate community in West Brattleboro to establish tenant control, and fought the exploitative rent-to-own industry.

Byron liked to be at his desk when the world was quiet and asleep. He and Lee often stayed up working together into the wee hours. They were partners in ways well beyond family. Tireless activists and advocates for a more just world, they rode school buses to Washington D.C. for war and justice protests and joined Occupy Wall Street. Byron became particularly dedicated to the fight to address climate change. In October of last year, at 90, he led a family delegation in the March to End Fossil Fuels to the United Nations. A prolific writer, he used words to make unassailable arguments, convey white hot outrage and express love. His handwriting was beautiful; there should’ve been a font called “Byron.” Whether a letter to the editor about the life cycle of ladybugs

or the horrors of war or climate change, an essay on careers, or advice to a grandchild, he took care with everything he wrote. He wrote extraordinary toasts and delivered them so beautifully that, no matter how large the room or gathering, you could hear a pin drop.

Though Byron worked hard, he was a master snoozer, ice cream eater, novice woodworker, wannabe surveyor, and a lover of music and hardware stores (especially Brown & Roberts). He liked exploring – places, people, and the way things worked. Byron acted with integrity and humility. Small gestures mattered. It was always “more important to be interested, than interesting.”

He leaves a hole in the lives of his wife, Lee, his daughters Sarah Stookey, Anna Clancy (Tom), Kate Haviland (Sandy), his son-in-law Jeff Harring, and nine grandchildren Holly, Quitzé (Melissa), Adam (Sarah), Kate, Elena (Sam), Emma, Charlie (Julia), Laura, and Grace, and his first great-grandchild, Arthur. He was pre-deceased in 2023 by his youngest daughter Joan Harring.

All who knew Byron are welcome at a memorial gathering with light refreshments at The Stone Church, 210 Main Street, Brattleboro, VT on Saturday, May 4th from 10:00 to 1:00, with a brief program at 11:00. A live stream of the program will be available; please email kateshaviland@gmail.com for details.

Donations in Byron’s memory may be made to Brattleboro Area Affordable Housing (baahvermont.org), Groundworks Collaborative (groundworksvt.org), or Sunnyside Community Services (scsny.org).

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Kenneth N. Toney - February 03, 1942 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: BRATTLEBORO VT – Kenneth N. Toney, 82, of Brattleboro, VT, passed away on April 10, 2024, surrounded by his loving family. Kenneth (Kenny) was born in Brattleboro, VT on February 3, 1942, son of the late Nathan and Deanna Toney. Kenny was a loving, Brother, Father, Grandfather, Uncle, and friend to all who knew him.

Growing up in Brattleboro VT as one of 4 siblings, he worked to develop and maintain the family run business known as Toney’s Market and Deli with his brother Robert as co-owners, when their father and Uncle (Thomas Toney) could no longer continue.

Kenny was a proud member of the Brattleboro Community, until he was drafted into the U.S. Coast Guard in the fall of 1962 where he served in the Vietnam War as a Powder Keg man onboard the Coast Guard Cutter - Duane. “Loading the 5-inch guns” as he would say... He completed his service honorably in 1966. Upon his return to Brattleboro, he worked for Pepsi Cola and then Toney’s Market for several years. He and his brother sold the family business to pursue other interests. Kenny went into the printing field, first working at Kwick Copy located in Harmony Parking Lot (at that time) and then going on to work for The Book Press on Putney Road where he Retired.

In retirement he kept busy working small part-time jobs, as a food service specialist and janitor for the High School, and as a fill-in painter for his nephew Martin. He was always helping neighbors and friends whenever he could.

He loved sports at an early age and played for the St. Michaels basketball team throughout his school years. He also played local rec. basketball and softball. During his family years he coached his son and daughters’ Little League and Local Rec. teams. If he wasn’t on the sports field, he would be in the auditoriums with a big smile on his face listening to his girls sing or play instruments in the school concerts. As his children grew older and left school, he continued to help coach other teams through the years... He was also an umpire and referee at many of the Brattleboro area games. He hung up his whistle in 2015 as he said, “he just couldn’t keep up with how fast these kids have gotten today” or perhaps he had just slowed down.

His love for activity never stopped. He was a proud member of the American Legion. He was affiliated with a singing group in Keene NH called the “Swingers” who held dances and put on talent shows. He was an avid bowler and belonged to several leagues.

Those left to cherish his memories include his devoted partner of several years Mary Craig, of Marlborough NH; Brother Robert (Marie) Toney of Graham NC; his five children: Brian (Elizabeth) Toney of Long Island NY; Amy (Kevin) Bolduc of Saco ME; Serena Toney (Robbin Scully) of Hoosick Falls NY; Deanna Toney (Don Brittenham) of Chantilly VA; Jaclyn (Raymond) Penson of Etters PA; Twelve grandchildren: Bethany, Jacob, Benjamin, Matthew, Lillian, Robbin, Graham, Randy, Luke, Aiden, Layla and several Nieces and Nephews.

He was predeceased by his father, Nathan; his mother, Deanna; and his brother, Raymond Toney and sister, Theresa Toney.

There will be calling hours at St. Michael’s Church (47 Walnut St, Brattleboro VT) on Saturday, April 20th at 10:00am followed by the Mass of Christian Burial at 11:00am. Graveside Committal Rites and burial will follow the services in St. Michael’s Cemetery on Oak Street in Brattleboro.

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Merry B. Haskell - December 20, 1949 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Brattleboro- Merry Belle Haskell, 74, beloved mother, grandmother, aunt and sister, died Monday evening, April 8, 2024 at Pine Heights, surrounded by her family, following a courageous battle with cancer.

Merry was born in Goffstown, New Hampshire on December 20, 1949, the daughter of Edwin and Ruby (Stevens) Haskell, Jr. She was raised and educated in Hooksett, New Hampshire, graduating from Mashoba High School with the Class of 1967.

Merry went on to attend the former Thompson School for Practical Nursing earning her LPN license, was a graduate of Southern Vermont College in Bennington where she received her RN Degree, later graduating from the University of New Hampshire where she earned her Bachelor’s Degree (BSN) in Nursing.

She worked her entire career in healthcare starting her career as a nurse’s aide at the Thompson House Nursing Home. She later worked at Applewood Healthcare Center in Winchester, Cheshire Medical Center in Keene, and Brattleboro Memorial Hospital where she was employed as a nursing shift supervisor.

A devout Catholic, Merry was a communicant of Saint Joseph’s Church in Hinsdale and was a member of the Catholic Daughters.

Of her leisure time activities, she enjoyed quilting, travel, riding motorcycles, baking and tending to her plants.

Merry was known for her positive outlook on life, her desire to always keep learning, her wonderful spirit of friendship, and the love she had for her family.

Survivors include two sons, Eric Graham (Sharon) of Ormond Beach, Florida, Wesley Graham (Alice) of Westminster, one sister, Jacqueline House of Green Cove Springs, Florida, one brother, Harold Haskell of Lubbock, Texas, 11 grandchildren, 11 great grandchildren, as well as a few nieces, nephews and cousins.

Merry was predeceased by her daughter, Laura Graham, her brother, Edwin Haskell III, one niece, Tammy Jo Linececum, and her parents, Edwin and Ruby (Stevens) Haskell.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated April 20, 2024 at 10am, at Saint Joseph’s Church in Hinsdale with a reception to follow in the church fellowship hall. She will be laid to rest in Saint Joseph’s Cemetery on Plain Road.

Memorial contributions in Merry’s name may be made to St. Joseph Church, c/o the Parish of the Holy Spirit, 173 Main Street, Keene, NH 03431.

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Leah Bonnette - October 04, 1936 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Hinsdale – Leah Bonnette, 87, a prior resident of Indian Acres in Hinsdale, passed away Friday, April 5, 2024 at Maplewood Nursing Home in Westmoreland where she has been a resident for the past five months.

Born in Lowell, VT on October 4, 1936, she was the daughter of Clinton and Elizabeth (Mason) Peters. She was raised and educated in Lowell, attending Lowell Elementary School and Richford High School. She continued her education later in life by taking bank courses through Vermont National Bank.

Leah worked at the Book Press for many years. She left the Book Press to start her own business. Leah ran the Double Header Restaurant in Hinsdale with two of her sons, Bruce and Terry. She then ran a catering business before starting work at the Vermont National Bank. She went on to work to Brattleboro Savings & Loan as a receptionist for 14 until her retirement in 1996. While working at the Book Press, she also completed hair dressing school.

She and her husband, Royal, spent many years living in the Algiers section of Guilford before moving to Hinsdale in 1964. With her husband, she was a member of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church.

Leah was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. Her greatest pleasure in life was spending time with her family, whether it was at family gatherings or at sporting events for her children, grandchildren or great grandchildren. She spent much time at baseball/softball fields, soccer fields and basketball courts. She was their biggest fan. She also loved working in her gardens and tending to her lawn.

Prior to her husband’s passing, they enjoyed traveling together, spending time in Florida, South Carolina and Tennessee. Those were her favorite places.

On August 8, 1953, at St. Isadore Parish in Mongomery Center, VT, she was married to Royal Bonnette. Her faithful and devoted husband of 57 years predeceased her on October 7, 2010.

Leah leaves behind three sons, Bruce (wife, Maryann), Steve (partner, Claire) and Terry (wife, Kim) Bonnette, all of Hinsdale; one daughter, Diane (husband, John) Butler of Virginia Beach, VA; two brothers, Dennis Peters of West Dover, VT and Robert Peters of Enosburg Center, VT; 11 grandchildren, 18 great grandchildren and several nieces and nephews.

Besides her husband, she was predeceased by her parents; her sister, Flora Gilbeau; and two brothers, Clinton Peters, Jr. and Artie Peters.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Michael’s Catholic Church in Brattleboro on Friday, April 12th at 11:00 a.m. Committal rites and burial in St. Joseph’s Cemetery in Hinsdale will follow, where she will be laid to rest beside her husband.

Family and friends may call at the Atamaniuk Funeral Home on Thursday, April 11th, from 6 to 8 p.m.

Memorial contributions in Leah’s name may be made to the Hinsdale Education Foundation, P.O. Box 837, Hinsdale, NH 03451.

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Pamela G. Chickering - January 15, 1942 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Pamela G. Chickering, 82, of West Chesterfield, NH, died Wednesday afternoon, March 27th, 2024 in the comfort of her home, surrounded by her family following a lengthy and courageous battle with idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis.

Pam was born in Brattleboro on January 15th, 1942, the daughter of Murray and Mabel (Young) Gould. She attended Brattleboro schools, was a graduate of Brattleboro Union High School (Class of 1960), and went on to attend Concord Hospital School of Nursing, receiving her Diploma in Nursing. As a mother of 4 children, she proudly served as a leader in the PTA at Chesterfield Elementary School as well as a den leader for the Boys Scouts. She worked for many years at Brattleboro Memorial Hospital as a staff RN (ER, Med-Surg, OB-GYN), and worked in the medical office of Dr. R. Keith Clarke. She used her skill as a nurse in later years, as the Emergency nurse at Hinsdale Racetrack, Staff RN at Thompson House & Hilltop House in Brattleboro and Assistant Manager at Vernon Hall. She gave comfort care to the terminally ill as a private duty nurse. Instead of retirement, Pam took on the role of training those interested in healthcare by teaching LNA classes for the American Red Cross. One of her favorite (and most impactful lessons) was the importance of NOT putting a bedpan on a patient’s tray table, as it was the same place they put their cookies. (Cue clanging 2 bedpans together for emphasis!)

In a book of handwritten stories, she notes that her most rewarding job was being a mother and wife. Coming in at a close second was a winning day at the casino, chatting with close friends and family, and sipping on an ice cold Awful Awful (awful good!) milkshake.

She became engaged on November 23, 1962 and was married on August 31, 1963 to Richard G. Chickering, Jr., at All Souls Church in Brattleboro, celebrating 50 years of marriage in August 2013.

She is survived by two sons, Mark (Jennifer) Chickering of Grantham, N.H. and Duane (Stacy) Chickering of West Chesterfield, two daughters, Christine (Paul) DiGeronimo of Warner, N.H. and Karen (Dan) Todd of West Chesterfield, nine grandchildren, one great-grandchild on the way, and one niece, Kimberly Miller.

Special thanks go out to Dorothy Hunt, for her culinary generosity and kindness, Gary Anderson from Lincare who shared his latest adventures of the 1973 Ford F100 when delivering oxygen, and Katheleen Gauthier for her care and compassion during mom’s final days.

Committal services and burial in Chesterfield West Cemetery will take place later this spring to be announced by the funeral home.

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Elizabeth E. Ellison - March 28, 1940 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Brattleboro- Elizabeth Elaine “Betty” Ellison, 83, of Monument Road in Hinsdale, a lifelong resident of the area, died Tuesday night, March 26, 2024 at Pine Heights Nursing Home following a period of declining health.

Betty was born in Brattleboro on March 28, 1940, the daughter of Howard and Catherine (Lindsey) Tudor. She grew up in the lower South Main Street area attending Canal Street School and graduated from Brattleboro Union High School with the Class of 1958.

She worked most of her career as a legal secretary for several Brattleboro area attorneys that included the late Edward John. Later she had been employed in the Public Defenders Office in Brattleboro where she retired from following several years of faithful service.

Of her leisure time activities, Betty enjoyed trips to the area Casinos and loved playing BINGO every week with her beloved aunt, Marion Longueil. Betty was well known for her pleasant, easy-going personality and spirit of friendship.

On December 31, 1987 in Brattleboro, she was married to Richard E. Ellison who predeceased her on March 5, 2016.

Survivors include nine first cousins, Shirley King, Janice Bristol, Linda LeClair, Peggy Scott, Robert Lindsey, James Lindsey, Debbie Langlois, John Lindsey and Carolyn Ross. Additionally, she leaves a host of friends that include Mike Gillis and Christine Dunleavy.

In keeping with her final wishes, there are no formal funeral services scheduled. Betty will be buried next to her beloved husband in East Clarendon Cemetery.

Betty loved animals and it is suggested that memorial contributions in her name be made to the Windham County Humane Society, P.O. Box 397, Brattleboro, VT 05302.

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Lenita Ruth Harris - August 17, 1948 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Hinsdale- Lenita Ruth Harris, 75, of Apache Avenue, died Monday morning, March 25, 2024 in the comfort of her home surrounded by her family following a brief battle with cancer.

Lenita was born in Burnet, Texas on August 17, 1948, the daughter of Malcolm and Clara (Warden) Pafford. She was raised and educated in Texas and was a graduate of Burnet High School, Class of 1966.

She had been employed as a classification specialist at the Holstein-Friesian Association in Brattleboro where she retired from in 2011 following 32 years of faithful and dedicated years with the Association.

In conjunction with her full-time position at Holstein-Friesian, Lenita was a faithful and devoted wife and loving mother and grandmother whose life centered around her family. She was known for her big heart and quiet spirit of generosity, and on a year-round basis shopped for the Toys for Tots Program, usually amassing three full large bags of toys by the time the Christmas season arrived. She couldn’t bear the though of a child not having a toy under the Christmas tree.

Lenita enjoyed playing golf with her husband and friends at the former Pine Grove Springs Country Club in Spofford. She also enjoyed both vegetable and flower gardening, always looking forward to spring planting. Of her other interests, she was an avid reader, enjoyed knitting, and time spent with her family.

One very memorable highlight in her life was an RV road trip along the eastern seaboard from New York to Key West, Florida with the final destination being her hometown of Burnet, Texas. Traveling with the couple were her sister-in-law and brother-in-law, Doris and Jay Shaffer of Willow Spring, North Carolina. Lenita always considered Doris a sister.

For several years she served as a Brownie leader for the Girl Scouts of America program in Hinsdale.

On January 23, 1968, in Burnet, Texas, she was married to Kenneth P.T. Harris who survives.

Besides her husband of 56 years, she leaves two daughters, Kimberly Fortier (Conrad) of West Brattleboro and Kelly Harris Gabriel, also of West Brattleboro; two brothers, Clyde Pafford of Burnet, TX and Lennon Davidson of Bertram, Texas; a sister, Bobbi Startzel of Round Rock, Texas; and four grandchildren, Madison Fortier, Tarah Gabriel, Logan Fortier, and Jake Gabriel. Additionally, she is survived by many nieces and nephews.

A memorial gathering in celebration of her life will be held at the Millstream Community Center on Main Street in Hinsdale on Saturday (3/30) from 1 to 3 P.M.

Friends are invited to call at the Atamaniuk Funeral Home on Friday from 4 to 6 P.M.

In memory of her beloved pet Maltese “Missy”, memorial contributions in Lenita’s name may be made to Windham County Humane Society, P.O. Box 397, Brattleboro, VT 05302.

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Dean Karl Hudock - December 29, 1958 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Brookline, VERMONT - Dean Karl Hudock, 65, of Harris Hill Road, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly late Saturday afternoon, March 23, 2024 at his home.

Dean was born in Greenwich, Connecticut on December 29, 1958, the son of Andrew and Lucy (Morano) Hudock.

He was raised and educated in Greenwich, graduating from Greenwich High School, Class of 1977. He went on to attend Vermont College and later moved to Florida where he took aircraft power plant and airframe training, graduating with his Associate's degree in Aviation Maintenance Technology from Embry-Riddle in Daytona Beach, Florida, the oldest, most highly regarded aeronautical university in the country.

Upon graduation, Dean went to work for Sikorsky in Stratford, Connecticut employed as a helicopter mechanic in the hangar and on the flight field, a position he excelled at. He was a member of the Teamsters union, and earned a reputation in the hangar for his meticulous and conscientious work in testing and maintaining the aircraft as part of flight operations. He likely worked on every single Blackhawk helicopter they ever made over the years, and was known for catching problems that others missed.

Dean retired from Sikorsky on March 5, 2021 following 35 dedicated years with the company. He fulfilled a life-long dream of moving to Vermont permanently to spend time with his wife and family on his homestead. He loved the outdoors. He was an expert skier, loved riding motorcycles with his friend Jeff, and was an avid, highly skilled, lifelong deer hunter. He was also well known for his expertise and encyclopedic knowledge of firearms and much of the related military history as well.

An unassuming man, Dean enjoyed helping others whether it be a neighbor, a friend, or a family member. He enjoyed puttering and doing chores around his home every day. Being a gifted mechanic, Dean could fix or repair just about anything. He was enjoying his retirement very much.

On April 24, 2004 he met his future wife Sarah (Gochenour) in Brattleboro, Vermont. They were married August 8, 2009, in an open field wedding ceremony in Dummerston, Vermont. They spent a too-short 20 years together and Sarah now survives him.

Besides his loving wife, he leaves many loving family members: his mother Lucy Hudock of Goshen, Connecticut, daughter Jen Bratko and husband Ben of Lincoln, Rhode Island, a brother, Drew Hudock and wife Kim of Newtown, Connecticut, his sister, Karolene Carlson and husband Clay of Cornwall Bridge, Connecticut, and his nieces and nephews: Ryan Hudock and wife Stephanie, Kirsten Hudock, Gunner Carlson, and Hope Carlson. Dean was predeceased by his father.

He will be forever missed.

A simple memorial service will take place at St. Peter's Evangelical Lutheran Church, 7 Bolton Hill Rd, Cornwall, CT, on Saturday April 13, 2024 at 11 AM. Afterward there will be a catered reception in celebration of his life.

Some of Dean's ashes will be scattered around his favorite hunting grounds, and the rest will be laid to rest later in the springtime.

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Vincent J. Latronica - November 12, 1939 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Brattleboro- Vincent J. “Vinny” Latronica, 84, of Fuller Drive, a resident of Brattleboro since the 1970’s, died Sunday, March 17, 2024, at Brattleboro Memorial Hospital following a period of declining health.

Vinny was born in the Richmond Hill section of Queens, New York on November 12, 1939, the son of Joseph and Minnie (Grasso) Latronica. He was raised and educated in Queens and Manhattan, graduating from the New York School of Printing in 1957.

He worked his entire career in the printing industry and earned his Master Printers certificate. Locally, Vinny had been employed at the former American Stratford Company and the Book Press, both of Brattleboro, and managed the printing department at C&S Wholesale Grocers where he retired from following many years of faithful service.

A lifelong Catholic, he was a communicant of Saint Michael’s Roman Catholic Church.

Of his leisure time activities, he enjoyed puzzles, collecting Lionel trains and spectator sports of which he was an avid Green Bay Packers fan. He also cherished time spent with his family.

On May 14, 1967, at St. Bonaventure’s Roman Catholic Church in Jamaica, NY, he was married to Barbara A. Glembocki who survives.

Besides his faithful and devoted wife of 56 years, he leaves one son, Anthony V. Latronica of Brattleboro; a daughter, Anna N. Borgatti and husband Joseph, Jr. of Brattleboro; one brother, Thomas Latronica of New York; and a granddaughter, Ava K. Borgatti of Brattleboro. Additionally, he is survived by several nieces and nephews.

In keeping with his final wishes, no formal funeral services are scheduled. He will be laid to rest in St. Michael’s Parish Cemetery.

Memorial contributions in his name may be made to the Windham County Humane Society, P.O. Box 397, Brattleboro, VT 05302.

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Kim Lanore Patterson - October 12, 1958 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Lebanon, N.H. - Kim Lanore Patterson, 65, of Back Westminster Road in Westminster, died unexpectedly Sunday, March 17, 2024 at the Jack Byrne Center (DHMC) in Lebanon, N.H. following a period of declining health.

Kim was born in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania on October 12, 1958, the daughter of Dean and Georgia-Ann (Schantz) McCandless. She was raised and educated in Bethlehem and later earned both her Bachelor’s and Master’s Degree in Early Child Education.

Kim had been employed as a school bus driver for Laidlaw Transportation in Brattleboro, taking an early retirement due to her failing health.

She enjoyed gardening, camping, crocheting and time spent with her family.

Kim had been married to Edward Berger for sixteen years prior to his passing. She later married James Patterson on February 6, 2006 in Brattleboro, who survives.

Besides her husband, other survivors include her three children, Jennifer (Berger) Buckley of Brattleboro, Nathaniel Berger of Brattleboro and Ariel Berger of Burlington; an adopted son, Jed Walz, currently serving in the military; and seven grandchildren, Joslynn and Jayden Wright, Andrew and Alexander Berger, and Hesten, Trever and Rosajean Allison. Additionally, she leaves one brother, Scott McCandless, Sr. of Allentown, PA; a sister, Kelly Wunsch of Vernon; and many nieces and nephews.

Kim was predeceased by her parents; stepfather, Maynard E. Berger; brother, Dean McCandless, Jr.; sister, Lori Costello; grandson, Richard Allison; and nephew, Jason Wunsch.

In keeping with her final wishes, there are no formal funeral services scheduled.

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Patricia Besserer - May 28, 1943 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: We are sad to announce the passing of Patricia Ann (Lynch) Besserer on March 12, 2024 at the age of 80. She was a wonderful wife, mother, and sister.

Pat was born in Union City, NJ on May 28, 1943. After college, she married Lawrence Besserer (Larry) and taught elementary school until their pioneering spirit led them to West Brattleboro. Here they embraced all things Vermont starting with ownership of the Vermont Maple Museum where they made maple syrup and homesteaded. Eventually they settled in their forever home and raised five children.

Throughout her life, Pat was an avid gardener, active knitter, and passionate environmentalist. Above all, she was a committed educator. Pat loved children of all ages and inspired their love of reading, innate curiosity, and intellectual growth. Pat is survived by her husband, Larry, their five children (Janet, Mark Jennifer, Michael, and David) and ten grandchildren including baby Rosalie, expected on March 18th. Pat is also survived by three loving siblings, two sisters (Kathleen and Barbara) and a brother (Frankie).

As a devout Catholic, Pat has been an active parishioner of St. Michael’s Catholic Church. Those who knew Pat, will remember her kind and caring ways. As Vice President and Treasurer of the local AARP chapter, Pat set up speaker programs and planned seasonal dinner parties. She always made time to listen and was forever eager to help. Pat instilled her values in her family who are actively committed to making a positive impact on the world in various capacities such as educators and medical professionals.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Michael’s Catholic Church in Brattleboro, Vermont on March 15, 2024 at 11am preceded by a vigil at 10:30 and a burial at noon.

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Elliott R. Freeman - March 19, 1943 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Elliott Ralph Freeman, longtime resident of Brattleboro and Dummerston, passed away on March 12th, due to complications from congestive heart failure and Alzheimer’s disease. We resolve to carry on his sense of decency, dry humor, inquisitiveness, generosity, kindness, and compassion.

Elliott was born on March 19, 1943 to Lawrence Shaw Freeman and Alice Jean Freeman (nee Elliott) in Ann Arbor, Michigan and was raised in Michigan with his older sister Janet Jean Hudak (nee Freeman). Their early life after their father sold the “Freeman Market” in Ann Arbor was spent managing the “MarLawn Resort” on the shores of Lake Michigan north of Manistee. Summers were idyllic with large grass pastures, towering pine trees, and sandy beaches, but winters were rough. After a few short years, the family moved back to Ann Arbor. Elliott graduated from Ann Arbor High School in 1961 as a member of the student council and varsity swim team, matriculated at the University of Michigan to study architecture, and joined the Air Force ROTC.

Flying was Elliott’s dream, so in 1963 he entered the U.S. Navy flight school in Pensacola, FL and earned his wings as a Navy helicopter pilot in February 1965. His active service included duty on the U.S.S. Randolph, with the highly decorated Seawolves squadron in Viet Nam, and on Operation Deep Freeze in Antarctica. There, he flew scientists and VIPs to penguin rookeries, dry valleys, and glaciers. While serving at McMurdo Station, he joined some “Kiwis” and climbed Mt Erebus. He also had a mountain in Antarctica named for him. Later, on leave in New Zealand, those same acquaintances introduced him to trekking. He mustered out of the Navy in Christ Church and took 6 months hitchhiking home through New Zealand, Australia, Southeast, and South Asia on a “road less traveled,” cutting his trip short in Turkey after learning of his father’s death.

He returned home to Ann Arbor to settle his father’s estate, drove his teenage brother in a Land Rover on an adventurous cross country journey to the West Coast for his brother to live with Janet and her young family, to renovate and eventually sell the family home, and to graduate with an Aeronautical Engineering degree from the University of Michigan. While waiting to vote in the 1972 presidential election near the university campus, he introduced himself to the person in front of him in line, named Diane Larsen, who had just served as a Peace Corps Volunteer in Malaysia. They regaled each other with their travel stories.

Diane and Elliott were married in May 1974 and moved to Granby, Connecticut so Elliott could work on the space shuttle for United Technology. However, Elliott was not happy with working in a corporate atmosphere, so when Diane finished her PhD and accepted a faculty position at UCLA, he was glad to leave Connecticut and move to Los Angeles. While in California, Elliott participated in frequent flying missions with the Navy Reserves in San Diego (and later So. Weymouth, MA), rising to the rank of Commander, and worked with an entrepreneur to develop designs for solar greenhouses. Their first son, Brent, was born in the spring of 1978, and Elliott lovingly devoted himself to the role of stay-at-home father. The young family left the bustle of Southern California and moved to Brattleboro with Diane’s appointment to the faculty at SIT in the summer of 1978.

Elliott found Brattleboro a place to live and thrive, purchasing a pair of multi-unit houses on Pleasant Street, refurbishing the apartments, starting an organic garden, and pursuing an active recycling program (long before it became a common practice).

Their second son, Gavin, was born in 1983 in Toronto, Canada. Shortly thereafter the family moved to their “forever home” in West Dummerston, leaving for periods of time for Diane to take up positions at the University of Michigan and the University of Pennsylvania. In addition to caring for the house, vegetable garden, pool and kids, Elliott and the boys joined Diane on international travels to Italy, Spain, Australia, New Zealand, Costa Rica, Japan, Mexico, and Peru.

Elliott was engaged in everything from bird-watching to hiking to international travel. His interests included history, nature, architecture, environmental sustainability, sports, and politics. At his heart, though, Elliott was a loving husband and father and nothing made him happier than ensuring the family had everything we needed. He cherished his grandchildren as well and would save “treasures” from the forest to share with them.

Elliott is survived by his wife, Diane Larsen-Freeman, his sons, Brent (wife, Jen) and Gavin (wife, Grace), his grandchildren, Thea, Noah, and Lucia, his brother, Larry Freeman (wife, Elizabeth), brother-in-law, Larry Hudak (wife, Janet), and many (grand)nephews and (grand)nieces.

We wish you an easy passage, gentle man. We will miss you more than you will ever know.

The family is grateful for all the support we have received from the SIT community, the Guilford Community Church, and for neighbors and friends. We live in a truly caring community.

A memorial service in celebration of his will be held at the Guilford Community Church in Guilford on April 19th at 2:00 p.m.

Friends are invited to call at the Putney Friends Meetinghouse on Route 5 (across from the former Basketville Outlet) on Friday afternoon (3/15) from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m.

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Donald M. Hazelton - May 13, 1930 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Donald Merton Hazelton, 93, passed away peacefully surrounded by family members March 8, 2024.

The son of Hazel (Carr) and Merton Hazelton of Dummerston, VT, he graduated from Brattleboro High School with an Austine Prize for being one of the top four students. He was an electrician in the Air Force in Biloxi, MS before returning to Dummerston. He worked at the Scott Farm and was a delivery man before joining the family farm, H&M Orchards. Don grew “happy” strawberries, the highest quality apples, particularly his large Macouns, and made hundreds of gallons of maple syrup each year.

In the late 1980’s he gave up the farm and began working at the School for International Training in the maintenance department. He loved meeting people from all over the world and retired at age 82.

Don married the love of his life, Carolyn “Bunny” Jones, while on leave from the Air Force and they shared many adventures. They raised a loving family while tirelessly serving their community. Don volunteered on the Dummerston Fire Department and Rescue and was honored as Rescue Person of the Year by the Vermont State Firefighters Association. He was a leader for 4H groups and summers at Camp Waubanong in Brattleboro. The Evening Star Grange awarded him and Bunny Citizens of the Year for their involvement. At the Dummerston Church Apple Pie Festival he organized parking for the hundreds of cars and motorcycles attending. For the Grace Cottage Fair, he would annually donate time setting up and taking down booths. He served as custodian for the Dummerston Center Cemetery. He and Bunny were officers for the Maple Leaf Squares western square dance club. Even in his 80’s and ‘90s, Don was a vital part in running a “wood kitchen”, splitting and delivering wood for those in need, earning him Super Senior designation by WCAX-TV. In 2023, he was honored by the Dummerston Historical Society with a Don Hazelton Day for his years of service to the town.

He spent his final year at Valley Cares Assisted Living in Townshend, VT and was lovingly cared for by staff there and from Bayada Hospice.

Above all, Don was a true family man who loved spending time with others playing cards, appreciating nature, or working outside, especially at a camp on Putney Mountain.

He is survived by sons David (Karen) of Dummerston, Steven (Barbara) of Mount Holly, VT, and Ted (Joan) of Vassar, KS and daughters Phyllis (Dominic) Isbell of Albuquerque, NM and Jeanette (Allen) Fairhurst of Thornwood, NY, as well as his many cherished grandchildren and great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews and many “adopted” family members.

He was predeceased by his wife, a son, Michael, and a granddaughter, as well as his beloved sisters and their husbands, Mary (Robert) Bolster and Carol (Raymond) Bessette.

He leaves behind a legacy of love, kindness, resiliency and common sense.

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Louise J. Woodlock - November 17, 1938 - March 07, 2024

Departed: 03/07/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Marlboro- Louise Jeanette, “Lucky” Woodlock, 85, of Higley Hill Road, died Thursday afternoon, March 7, 2024 in the comfort of home with her eldest daughter at her side.

Lucky was born in Revere, Massachusetts on November 17, 1938, the daughter of Fred and Dorothy (Perkins) Collar. She was raised on Revere Beach and was a graduate of Revere High School.

In the late sixties she took a vacation that brought her to Higley Hill in Marlboro, where she stayed at a country inn operated by Alice “Grandma” Whitney and family. It was a life-changing trip. She would soon make Marlboro her new home.

On October 18, 1969, at Our Lady of Hope Parish in Wardsboro, she was married to Edmund “Woody” Woodlock. They spent nearly 50 years together prior to his passing August 25, 2019. Together they built their own log home with the help of family and friends.

With her husband, she owned and operated The Berry Shed Sugar House, a berry farm in Marlboro. In conjunction with running the farm, Lucky was the assistant nursery school teacher at the Marlboro Meetinghouse School from 1983 to 1990. Lucky's young students honored her playful nature by referring to her as "The Big Kid." She will be remembered fondly for her elaborate extended-day rodeos.

Gifted with a beautiful singing voice, Lucky played guitar and ran sing-a-longs for the Horizon Inn in Marlboro for many years. Along with playing the guitar, she also played the accordion, banjo, tin whistle and several other instruments. Lucky loved John Denver's music, old western movies, canoeing with her husband, and animals.

Survivors include her two daughters, Danielle Marie “Dani” Woodlock of Marlboro and Teresa Dorothy Woodlock of Brattleboro; Melody “Little Sister” Squires of Guilford; brothers-in-law, John Woodlock of Norwell, MA and Gerard Woodlock (Bernice) of West Bridgewater, MA; sister-in-law, Ellen O’Connell (Timothy) of Norton, MA; and first cousin, Barbara Oliver (Victor) of Dunnellon, FL. Additionally, she leaves a host of dear friends, including lifelong friends Liz Averill of Wareham, MA, William Gibson of Winthrop, MA, and the MacDougall family originally from Medway, MA.

She was predeceased by her brother, Fred Collar.

Graveside committal services in King Cemetery in Marlboro will be private where she will be laid to rest beside her beloved husband.

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Kathi Renaud - October 31, 1932 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Kathi Renaud, 91, passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 2, 2024, with family at her side.

Born on October 31, 1932 to Gottfried Kohli and Frieda (Hofer) Kohli in Häutligen Switzerland, she grew up on her family’s farm with her three older siblings, Verrena (Vreni) Bartschi, Hans (Johnny) Kohli, and Daniel (Dan) Kohli.

At 15 and a half years old after graduating school in Switzerland, Kathi moved to the French part of Switzerland where she learned French. After about a year in the French part of Switzerland Kathi went to business school in Bern, Switzerland. At 19 she went to London, England by train and crossed the channel by boat. After one year in England Kathi boarded the vessel Queen Mary traveling 2 weeks where she then docked in Saint John, New Brunswick, Canada, then took the train to Montreal, Canada where she lived for a number of years working for a family and later for Swiss Bank Corporation.

At 23 years old Kathi met her Husband Romeo Renaud who was on a fishing trip at Lake Memphremagog. About a year later in 1956 Kathi and Romeo moved to Brattleboro, VT and married at St. Michael's Church. Kathi and Romeo built their house in 1966 in Hinsdale, NH where they raised their family.

Kathi was a loving wife and mother to her two children, Audrey Renaud and Godfrey Renaud. Kathi was grandmother (Grossi) to her three grandchildren, Rachel Hill, Logan Turner-Renaud, and Cooper Turner-Renaud.

Kathi was a loving person and was loved deeply by her family and friends. She enjoyed travel, was adventurous, beyond caring & nurturing, strong, hardworking, and truly the matriarch of her family. At 91, Kathi was very active and often gathered her remaining family around her table with her deliciously cooked home-made meals. Not one dinner passed without her infamous saying “if you leave the table hungry it’s your own fault”, her family can confidently say we always left the table with full bellies and love in our hearts. Kathi will be sorely missed by her family and friends. Kathi now rests peacefully reunited with many of her family and friends.

The Liturgy of Christian Burial will be conducted Saturday, March 23rd at 10:30 a.m. at St. Michael’s Catholic Church. Burial will follow in St. Michael’s Cemetery where she will be laid to rest beside her husband.

Memorial contributions in Kathi’s name may be made to St. Brigid’s Kitchen, 47 Walnut Street, Brattleboro, VT 05301.

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Richard J. Corey - January 07, 1935 - February 29, 2024

Departed: 02/29/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: BRATTLEBORO VT - Richard J Corey, 89, of Brattleboro, VT, husband of Mary Ann Corey, passed away on February 29th, 2024, surrounded by his loving family. Richard (Dick) was born in Littleton, NH on January 7th, 1935, son of the late Alexander and Martha Corey. Dick was a loving Husband, Brother, Father, Grandfather, and friend to all who knew him.

Growing up in Littleton, NH as one of 11 siblings, he worked to develop Corey's Mobile Home Park in Littleton, co-owned with his brother Raymond, and later with nephews John and Steve Simon.

In 1965, Dick moved to Brattleboro, VT where he worked at Henry's Fruitland, a mid-sized grocery store originally owned by Henry & Louise John, then by Dick’s brother Joe, then later owned by his brother Raymond.

He married Mary Ann John on May 14th, 1966, at St. Michael’s Church in Brattleboro, VT.

They built their own house on Wantastiquet Drive in Brattleboro and moved there in 1969.

He then built and ran Corey’s Market on Canal St in Brattleboro for nearly a decade. Dick and Mary Ann also sold Christmas trees from there every winter for several years. During their biggest season, they sold over 1,000 trees.

From 1974 to 1995, Dick worked for AmTote servicing the betting machines at the Hinsdale, NH Raceway. He retired from AmTote in 1995 yet they still called him back into service when they needed someone to travel to Oaklawn Park Racetrack in Hot Springs Arkansas to help with operations down there. Dick was there for months at a time over a period of two years and still talked about these trips to this day. Dick was a handyman his whole life. His neighbors would regularly call him with “projects” which included: cleaning their gutters, trimming bushes, repairing decks and fencing, painting entire houses…you name it, he could do it!

Over the years he gained the affectionate nicknames of “Superman” and “The Human Wrench” (for his incredible grip strength).

In retirement, he enjoyed his daily morning drives to McDonald’s for their “senior coffee” (“they give free refills, Dunkin’ doesn’t do that!”).

His voice and spirit always perked up when his children would call to say “Hi”. The conversations never lasted long but these were truly cherished moments that will be missed.

Those left to cherish his memories include his devoted wife of almost 58 years, Mary Ann Corey of Brattleboro, VT; his three sons: John (Kimberly) Corey of Farmington, CT; Brian Corey (and Erin Vilay) of Newark, DE; and Michael (Stephanie, and granddaughter Delaney) Corey of Marlton, NJ.

He was predeceased by his father, Alexander; his mother, Martha; and all 10 of his brothers and sisters.

There will be calling hours at St. Michael’s Church (47 Walnut St, Brattleboro VT) on Saturday, March 16th at 10am followed by a Mass at 11:30am.

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Geraldine Helen Lopez - October 11, 1949 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Hinsdale, NH- Geraldine Helen “Gerri” Lopez, 74, of Hinsdale, beloved wife of Frank Lopez, passed away peacefully on February 26, 2024 with her loving family by her side following a brief illness.

Gerri was born in Stamford, Connecticut on October 11, 1949 daughter of the late Vincent and Marjorie (Smith) O’Leary. After graduating Central High School, she was employed as an Administrative Assistant for the Board of Education in Bridgeport where she retired after 29 years of faithful service. She often said how much she loved her job at the Board of Ed and was lucky she found a job she really enjoyed.

On April 17, 1993 she married the love of her life, Frank Lopez. The couple married in Connecticut and later moved to Hinsdale in 1995.

Gerri’s love of her family encompassed all aspects of her life, from daily phone call chats to her daughters and sisters, to hosting holidays where her family would gather and celebrate together. She was loving, funny, and caring, often described as the life of the party and made everyone feel welcomed. Gerri enjoyed playing golf, listening to music, trips to Foxwoods, and time spent volunteering and being a member of the Brattleboro Elks Lodge #1499. She also enjoyed traveling with her husband, Alaska and Hawaii were just a few of her favorite trips. They recently vacationed in Iceland just prior to her becoming ill, getting to see the Northern Lights which Gerri always dreamed of seeing one day. One of her greatest joys was watching her grandsons grow up, attending their sporting events as often as she could.

Besides her faithful and devoted husband of 30 years, she leaves two daughters, Colleen DeNitto of Bridgeport and Angela Dawley (Tim) of Northford, CT; four sisters, Kathy Masso, Patricia Liscio, Helen Anderson (Lee), and Maureen Quagon; two brothers, Patrick O’Leary (Jodi), and Steven O’Leary; and three grandchildren, Aidan, Jacob and Ryan. Additionally, Gerri is survived by many nieces, nephews and a host of close friends.

Friends are invited to call at the Atamaniuk Funeral Home on Tuesday, March 12th from 10:00 A.M. until noon. A celebration of her life will follow the calling hours to be held at the Elk’s Home on Putney Road.

For those who wish, memorial contributions in Gerri’s name may be made to the Jack Byrne Center for Palliative and Hospice Care, 1 Medical Center Drive, Lebanon, N.H. 03756.

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Alexander W. Hiam - August 01, 1957 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Alexander W. Hiam, 66, of Putney, Vermont, passed away on February 26, 2024.

Born in Evanston, Illinois on August 1, 1957, Alex spent much of his childhood in Needham and Falmouth, MA. He was the son of the late Edwin W. Hiam and Katharine C. Hiam.

A brilliant student, Alex overcame dyslexia as a child and went on to graduate from Harvard College in 1980 with a bachelor’s degree and from the Haas School of Business, U. C. Berkeley, in 1986 with an MBA. He leaves behind his beloved spouse and soulmate, Deirdre Hiam.

Alex taught business classes at Western New England University, American International College, and the Isenberg School of Business at UMass Amherst. He wrote countless business books and training materials, often with a uniquely creative approach. More recently he wrote, illustrated, and published a number of children’s books and young adult fiction books.

Inspired by nature, Alex was an artist in several mediums and also a collector and a teacher. He led art workshops and readily gave tours of his paintings, books and antiques for friends and children. He also loved music and enjoyed playing the piano, flute, dulcimer, harmonica and ukulele with his family.

From his father, Alex developed a love of birding and had a deep interest in ornithology throughout high school and college, organizing many trips and working with the Audubon Society. He was often seen birding on the side of the road with his binoculars or hiking in the woods with Einstein, the family pup. Alex loved sailing, skiing, racket sports, and renovating houses. He had boundless energy, a beloved sense of humor and unflappable creativity and kindness. He served on boards, and supported local and philanthropic organizations.

Alex viewed raising a family and becoming a grandfather as his proudest accomplishments. He was happiest sharing his many gifts with his family and being involved in his children’s lives, taking on roles like coaching and substitute teaching. A deeply devoted parent and husband, Alex loved his children, Eliot, Paul, Noelle, Sadie and Eisa beyond measure.

Alex is survived by his wife Deirdre, his five children, and two grandchildren. He leaves behind his sons Eliot Hiam of New Rochelle, NY and his spouse Jessica; Paul Hiam and his partner Mary Claire Abbot of Staatsburg, NY, and their son Paul Edwin; his daughter Noelle Hiam and her partner Nick Aives of Bolinas, California and their daughter Mona; and his youngest two Sadie and Eisa Hiam of Putney. Alex also leaves behind two sisters, Claire Telford of California and Joan Hiam of New Rochelle, NY; and a twin brother, Jerry Hiam of Putney, extended family and many dear friends.

A service will be held at the Friends Meeting House on Saturday, March 2, 2024 at 1pm.

Those who would like to commemorate Alex are encouraged to do so by donating to Woods Hole Oceanographic Institution. LINK TO DONATE: https://www.whoi.edu/give-now *** Please select ‘Honor or Memorial Gift’ on the third page of the donation form and type in “Alex Hiam” ***.

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Carol P. Bryant - June 19, 1931 - February 25, 2024

Departed: 02/25/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Carol P. Bryant passed away on February 25, 2024 at the age of 92.

She was born June 19, 1931 to Arthur and Lillian (Russell) Poynton in New Rochelle, NY. She graduated from Mamaroneck High School in NY and attended the University of VT where she was a proud sorority member and she met her future husband, Lawrence E. Bryant. They were married on September 6, 1952 in Shelburne, VT and made their home in Putney until his death in 2003, 1 year after their 50th anniversary.

Together they owned and operated both the Putney Nursery (formerly Aiken Nursery) for 32 years and Linden Gardens in Brattleboro from 1971-1989. They travelled extensively in the U.S. up and down the east coast, wintering in Ft Myers Beach, FL starting in 1982. Travel also included trips to Hawaii, Alaska, Oklahoma, Missouri, Oregon, Kentucky, Texas, as well as Mexico, Canada and Ireland.

Carol was always very active in the local VT community. She was a member of the Homemakers' club, the original Putney Pool planning and building committee (later ensuring her 5 grandchildren attended swimming lessons), board of Putney Community Center, board president of the Windham County Extension and most recently member of the Fortnightly Club. She volunteered teaching square dancing and cross country skiing to local school youth, and at the BMH coffee shop for 15 years. She was also a member of the Windham County and Senior Center clogging clubs. In Florida, she was a member of both the Socialites club and a clogger with the Kookie Band, as well as volunteering by reading the newspaper on the radio for vision -impaired. She was a member of the Putney Federated Church, Dummerston Congregational Church (participating in their annual apple pie festival) and the Chapel by the Sea in Ft. Myers Beach, FL.

Carol was well known for her deep love of all family and friends, letter writing, card sending, the color blue, joke telling, brownie making and chocolate carrying. In addition- her endless generosity, ceaseless optimism and strong will. She also spent her life supporting family and friends in all their adventures and aspirations which gave her enormous pride.

She is survived by her brother, Brian; daughters, Susan and Patricia; daughters-in-law, Andrea and Rosemary; and grandchildren, Kathleen, Christopher (Alexandra) and Ashley.

She is predeceased by her husband, Lawrence; sons, Bruce and Robert; and grandsons, Ian and Ryan.

Her final requests are attending her services in bright colors and sharing memories. Carol - there is not enough chocolate in the world to replace you.

Visitation for family and friends will be held at the Atamaniuk Funeral Home on Saturday (3/2) from 4-6 p.m. Graveside services will be conducted Sunday in Mount Pleasant Cemetery in Putney at 11:00 a.m. where she will be laid to rest beside her husband.

Memorial contributions in Carol's name may be made to the Windham County Humane Society, P.O. Box 397, Brattleboro, VT 05302.

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Mildred M. Momaney - October 07, 1929 - February 20, 2024

Departed: 02/20/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Brattleboro- Mildred May Momaney, 94, of South Main Street in the Fort Dummer section of Brattleboro, died unexpectedly Tuesday evening, February 20, 2024 in the emergency department at Brattleboro Memorial Hospital.

Mildred was born in Mooers Forks, New York on October 7, 1929, the daughter of Henry and Emma (LaValley) Gero. She attended school in Mooers Forks, Chesterfield, New Hampshire, and Brattleboro.

She had been employed through the years at several Brattleboro area businesses that included the former Berkshire Fine Spinning Associates and Arnoldware, both on Cotton Mill Hill, the American Optical Company, and worked as an apple sorter for Francis Miller Orchards in Brattleboro.

A devout Catholic, Mildred was a longtime communicant at Saint Michael’s Roman Catholic Church.

Of her leisure time activities, she enjoyed BINGO, playing cards, fishing, and cooking, especially putting on big meals for her family.

On September 3, 1951, at Saint Michael’s Church, she was married to Richard D. Momaney who predeceased her on February 21, 2016.

Survivors include one son, Michael Momaney, of Brattleboro; a sister, Lillian Record, of Brattleboro; three grandchildren, Sheldon Momaney, Duncan Momaney and Nicole Jernudd; five great grandchildren, Mariam, Chloe, Damien, Theodore and Freya; two special daughters-in-law, Kathy Momaney, of California, and Judith Palmeri, of Hawaii; and many nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews.

Mildred was predeceased by a son, Mark Momaney, and 13 siblings.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, March 4th at 11:00 A.M. at Saint Michael’s Catholic Church. Committal Rites and burial will follow in Saint Michael’s Parish Cemetery.

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Ruth M. Lapan - June 01, 1931 - February 16, 2024

Departed: 02/16/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Brattleboro- Ruth Margaret Lapan passed away on February 16, 2024 at the age of 92, 19 years and 1 day after her husband Richard’s passing. She’d lived in Brattleboro since 1956.

Born June 1, 1931 to Raymond and Catherine (McGarr) Noonan, Ruth grew up on the Bostwick Farm on Lake Champlain. A self-identified “tomboy,” she played basketball and softball while taking an interest in the farming operation her father oversaw.

She graduated from Shelburne High School in 1949 as valedictorian and class president, with a scholarship to UVM and a DAR Good Citizenship Medal. After 3 years at UVM, where she was on both the basketball and debate teams, she briefly joined a convent in Ireland to explore a larger commitment to her Catholic faith.

When reflecting on this experience Ruth acknowledged heartbreak upon being dismissed by the Mother Superior and also certainty that the woman had ultimately been correct about a different life being meant for her. After returning from Ireland, Ruth graduated from Trinity College with a Bachelor’s Degree in Science before enrolling in medical school at UVM. During this time she was introduced to, in her words, “a nice young man from Brattleboro” by her sister Rae Catherine and Rae’s co-conspirator & eventual husband Leo Stack.

Whilst in medical school she became engaged to Richard E Lapan after he walked across several fields to find her fixing a tractor in the pouring rain. Ruth appreciated his lack of surprise or complaint when she promptly went back under the machine as a reflection of their quiet understanding of one other. They were married at St Catherine’s in Shelburne on October 8th 1955 before making their marital home in Brattleboro. Their quiet understanding fortified 49 years of marriage until his passing on February 15th, 2005.

Ruth went on to earn her Master’s Degree in Education from Keene State College in 1977 and a second Master’s Degree in Physical Science from Worcester Polytechnic Institute in 1982. Her fascination with math & science and voracious appetite for learning were lifelong, hallmark traits.

She worked most of her career as an educator teaching at Chester High School, Southern Vermont College, Rivier College, Hinsdale High School, and Whitingham High School. Brilliant at differentiating instruction, she tutored many nursing students at her dining room table on Grove St. Her efforts were memorable and deeply appreciated by these nurses as essential to their careers. Additionally, Ruth assisted her husband with the daily operation of Lapan’s Cash Market on Main Street in Brattleboro.

A loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister and aunt, Ruth’s family was very important to her. She also served folks in need, donating considerable time to a crisis hotline. She was quietly invested in the communities in which she dwelled and the people she loved. She was masterful at comfortable silence as well as an excellent storyteller.

Ruth was a lifelong devout Catholic and longtime communicant of St. Michael’s Roman Catholic Church. She was also an ardent Red Sox fan.

Survivors include her children, Patrick Lapan (Roben) of Brattleboro, Richard Lapan (Dru) of South Barre, James Lapan (Alyson) of Burien, WA, Mary Worsman (Ken) of West Brattleboro, and Bridget Devlin (Dylan) of Putney, one brother, John Noonan (Brenda) of Shelburne, two sisters, Sheila Fanelli of Madison, CT and Sharon (George) Sinnott of Lake Orion, MI.

She also leaves ten grandchildren, Grace Freeman (Gavin), Maggie Fleming (Dan), Harrison Lapan, Addison Worsman, Richard Worsman (Eliza), Devon Lapan, Kaitlyn Odell (Ross), Connor Lapan, Martin Lapan and Siobhan Devlin. Her legacy includes great-grandchildren Lucia Freeman, William Odell and Lillian Worsman.

In addition to her beloved husband Richard, Ruth was predeceased by one son, Raymond Lapan, and sisters Nancy Rice, Ellen Young and Rae Catherine Stack.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated February 23rd at 11 a.m. at St. Michael’s Catholic Church. Committal Rites and burial will follow in St. Michael’s Parish Cemetery.

Friends are invited to call at the Atamaniuk Funeral Home on February 22nd from 4:00-6:00 p.m.

Memorial contributions in Ruth’s name may be made to St Brigid’s Kitchen.

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Nancy R. Powling - December 10, 1939 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Nancy (Rice) Powling of Williamsville, a lifelong resident of the area, passed away unexpectedly and was reunited with her Eternal family on Saturday, February 10, 2024, following an extended period of declining health; she was 84 years old.

Nancy was born in Brattleboro on December 10, 1939, the daughter of Carroll and Ethel (Dorr) Rice. She attended Brattleboro public schools.

For over 35 years, she was employed as a school bus driver, as well as the bookkeeper for her husband's logging business. For numerous years, Nancy worked different jobs to help support the family.

Nancy held membership in the American Woodsman Association, was a former member of FFA (Future Farmers of America), and was a member of the Eastern Draft Horse Association. While raising her family, she served as a Cub Scout Leader and supported her boys when they moved on to the Boy Scouts.

Nancy loved to plant all kinds of gardens, and she was still growing fresh vegetables up until last year. Her greatest joy was showing her children and grandchildren the joy she found working with her hands. Crafting, sewing, quilting, canning, making jams, and most of all, cooking, she was always happy to share the kitchen. From an incredibly early age, Nancy enjoyed being outdoors; hunting and fishing were great pastimes she loved and shared with her entire family.

A strong woman of faith, she was a member of the Church of Jesus Christ, Latter Day Saints in Keene.

On August 16, 1980, in Brattleboro, she was married to Percy F. Powling, who predeceased her on January 7, 2023. Nancy is also survived by one daughter, Wannetta Powling, and her husband, Mark of Williamsville, 14 grandchildren, 16 great-grandchildren, and three great-great-grandchildren, as well as countless nieces and nephews.

She was predeceased by three sons, Leon Knapp, Jr., Milo Knapp, Sr., Alonzo "Peter" Gilbert, Jr., one sister, Beverly "Chris" Matteson, two brothers, Carroll Rice, Jr. and Paul Rice, and a grandson, Jason Gilbert who died in infancy.

There will be no calling hours; graveside services will be held at the family lot in the South Newfane Cemetery in the springtime when the cemetery reopens at a date and time to be announced by the funeral home.

Memorial contributions in Nancy's name may be made to NewBrook Fire & Rescue, P.O. Box 77, Newfane, VT, or the Windham County Humane Society, P.O. Box 397, Brattleboro, VT 05302.

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Hugh W. Whitney - October 04, 1937 - February 09, 2024

Departed: 02/09/2024 (Brattleboro)

Obituary Preview: Marlboro- Hugh William Whitney of Marlboro, Vermont died peacefully in the comfort of his home on February 9, 2024.

Hugh was born at home in Brattleboro, VT on October 4, 1937 to J. Perry and Pearl (Elmer) Whitney. In his early years he spent time between Marlboro, where the family kept animals, and Brattleboro, their main residence. He attended schools in Brattleboro. After graduating from Brattleboro High School in 1955, Hugh enlisted in the U.S. Army with an honorable discharge in 1958.

On May 25, 1957, in Hinsdale, NH, he married Joyce Ethridge, who survives. They lived their entire 66 years together in Marlboro.

He worked as a mason for O’Bryan Construction in Brattleboro, then owned and operated, with his family, Whitney’s Marlboro Grocery on Rt. 9. He also drove a school bus for Marlboro School District. In semi-retirement years he worked for SEVCA and owned and operated Marlboro Glass & Supply, then continued to work and do other odd jobs and services for people in the community.

Hugh was a member of the Marlboro Volunteer Fire Department and Marlboro Historical Society. He also served the Town of Marlboro as a Lister and Weigher of Coal. He was a proud life member and 32nd Degree Mason, Brattleboro Lodge #102, F&AM, Scottish Rite Bodies and was a member of the Mt. Sinai Temple Shrine of Montpelier.

Hugh loved the outdoors. Hunting, fishing, walking in the woods, and cutting and whittling canes were just a few of his many interests and hobbies. He cared a great deal for animals and had many throughout the years. His favorite were the teams of oxen he raised and trained. Hugh was also very interested in history, particularly local history and family genealogy. The thing he enjoyed most was family and the times spent together.

He is survived by his wife and his daughters: Lynn Lundsted (Martin) of Marlboro, Kathleen Coulombe (George) of West Halifax, and Deborah Osowski (John) of Northfield, MA; and a brother-in-law, Norman Hewes. He is also survived by six grandchildren, seven great grandchildren, nieces, nephews and cousins.

He was predeceased by his sisters, Susan Margaret O’Connell, Catherine Emond and Barbara Hewes.

The family would like to thank the Marlboro Volunteer First Responders and Bayada Hospice for their care and comfort to the family.

Committal services and burial will be conducted Tuesday, April 23rd at 12:30 p.m. in Center Cemetery in Marlboro with officers and members of Brattleboro Lodge #102 conducting their Evergreen service.

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Choosing Atamaniuk Funeral Home Inc. means selecting a partner that will ease the complexities of a challenging time. Their commitment to personal and dignified services, paired with their rich history and deep-rooted community ties, makes them a distinguished choice for residents of Brattleboro and beyond.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a notice of someone's death, typically published in newspapers and online platforms. It usually includes a brief biography of the deceased, details about their family, information about the funeral or memorial services, and often a photo. Obituaries serve as a way to inform the community of a person's passing and to celebrate their life.

What information is typically included in an obituary?

Typically, an obituary will include the full name of the deceased, their date of birth and death, a list of close surviving relatives, a brief account of their life, career, and accomplishments, details on the time and place of the funeral or memorial service, and sometimes a cause of death if the family wishes to share it.

Who writes obituaries?

Obituaries are often written by family members of the deceased or close friends. In some cases, newspaper staff or a funeral home may also assist in writing an obituary, particularly if it is to be formally published.

Why is it important to write an obituary?

Writing an obituary is a way to publicly acknowledge the loss of a loved one. It informs the community about the death and provides essential information about any services. An obituary also serves as a historical record and can help future generations keep track of family history.

Can anyone submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Yes, anyone can submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform, but there might be submission guidelines or fees depending on the publication.

How long should an obituary be?

There is no set length for an obituary, but most tend to be between 200 and 500 words. The length may vary based on the publication’s guidelines or the amount of life history and details the family wishes to include.

Is there a difference between an obituary and a death notice?

Yes, there is a difference. A death notice is a shorter announcement of someone's passing, providing only essential details, and is usually placed by the family. An obituary is more detailed and often includes a biography, list of survivors, and other personal details.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary can vary widely depending on the newspaper, length of the obituary, and geographic location. Some papers charge by the word, while others have a flat fee.

What should I do if I want to publish an obituary but have a limited budget?

If you have budget constraints, consider publishing a shorter death notice instead of a full obituary, look for a community bulletin or website that offers free postings, or ask the funeral home if they include obituary publication as part of their services.

Should we include a photo with the obituary?

Including a photo adds a personal touch to an obituary. It can be a recent picture or one from the individual's youth, depending on the preference of the family.

Can obituaries be published posthumously, long after someone has passed?

Yes, obituaries can be published after the fact, often referred to as a posthumous recognition of the individual's life. It can be for the purpose of a memorial, remembrance event, or simply to share the news with a community that might not have been informed earlier.

Are there any legal requirements for writing an obituary?

In most cases, there are no legal requirements for writing or publishing an obituary. However, it is important to be accurate with facts and respectful in tone to honor the deceased.

Is it mandatory to publish an obituary when someone dies?

No, it is not legally required to publish an obituary when someone dies. It is a personal choice made by the family or the estate of the deceased.

How can we ensure the accuracy of the obituary?

To ensure accuracy, fact-check all dates and names, have multiple family members review the obituary, and consider having the funeral home or a professional writer proofread the final version.

Can we include charitable donation requests in the obituary?

Yes, it's common to include requests for charitable donations in lieu of flowers. This informs readers of the deceased’s preferred charities or causes.

What is the best way to handle the omission of certain family members in the obituary?

If certain family members are omitted intentionally, it's typically due to complex personal reasons. Addressing this can be sensitive, so a statement such as "survived by numerous friends and family" may be a diplomatic way to handle the situation. It is important to respect the wishes of the immediate family handling the arrangements.

How do I include a meaningful quote or saying in an obituary?

To include a meaningful quote or saying in an obituary, choose something that reflects the beliefs or personality of the deceased. Place it at the beginning or end of the obituary to serve as a thematic bookend.

What cultural considerations should we keep in mind when writing an obituary?

Different cultures have various traditions and customs regarding death and obituary writing. It's important to be sensitive to these practices and include or exclude details accordingly. Consulting with family members or leaders within the cultural community of the deceased can provide guidance.

How should we announce the funeral details in the obituary?

Announce funeral details, making sure to include the date, time, and location of the services, as well as whether the services are public or private. It's also helpful to mention if there will be a reception or gathering afterwards.

What can be done if a significant error is discovered in a published obituary?

If a significant error is found in a published obituary, contact the publication as soon as possible to see if a correction or retraction can be issued. It's also possible to publish a corrected version in the next edition or post an update on online platforms.

How does the rise of social media affect the tradition of obituary writing?

Social media has broadened the way news of a death is communicated. Obituaries can now be shared widely and rapidly online, allowing for a more immediate and personal reach. It also enables people to express condolences and share memories interactively.