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Located at 9660 Old Redwood Highway, Windsor, CA, 95492, Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary is a trusted and respected funeral home that provides compassionate and professional services to families in their time of need. With a commitment to excellence and a deep understanding of the importance of honoring loved ones, Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary has established itself as a leader in the funeral industry.

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Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary has a rich history of serving the Windsor community and surrounding areas. For years, the funeral home has been dedicated to providing exceptional care and support to families during one of the most difficult times of their lives. The mortuary's experienced staff is comprised of licensed funeral directors, embalmers, and support staff who are passionate about helping families create meaningful and personalized tributes to their loved ones.

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Harold J. Miles - June 18, 1940 - November 06, 2020

Departed: 11/06/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Harold J. Miles was born on June 18, 1940 and entered in to rest on November 6, 2020. He was the sixth child of eight born to Thomas and Eleanor Miles. A lifelong resident of Sonoma County, he enjoyed fishing with his brothers and sons; going on bus trips to Reno for little getaways… and a little gambling; and spending time with his family. His favorite pastime was taking drives out to the Pacific Coast and lunch dates with his beloved wife, Jean.

When he wasn’t spending time with his family, he was happiest behind the wheel of a Peterbilt. Having much pride in the work he performed, he worked for Camron & Camron, Kendall-Jackson Winery and Charter & Company.

Harold joins his parents Thomas & Eleanor Miles; his wife, Jean; four brothers – Thomas Jr., George, Edward & Daniel and his sister, Eleanor; his daughter, Deborah Ann Mathwig; his step daughter Jeannie and his step son, Terrance.

He is celebrated by his brothers Alvin and Henry; his children Theresa, Kenny (Jennifer) and Norman (Marcella); step children David, Melody & Ross; his grandchildren Jay (Karen), Kayla (Tim), Kenny (Emma), Tim (Rani), Nick (Kelli), Alex, Chloe, Tempest, John, Sage, Garrett, Taylor (Eli), Dakota, James, Andrew (Amanda) and April; great grandchildren Cassie, Michael, Jacobi, Jayde, Rylynn, Alexa, Amiya, Kaylee, Aria and Ayden; as well as numerous nieces and nephews.

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Christine Gladys Bethards - February 20, 1938 - October 11, 2020

Departed: 10/11/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Christine Gladys Bethards, 82, was defined by the unconditional love she had for her family and friends. Ever ready with a hug, she was a source of compassion, advice, love, help encouragement, kindness and sympathy for her family and friends in their times of need and celebratory joy in their successes. She was born in 1938 and spent her childhood years in Skaneateles, New York. Her parents and five siblings moved to Arizona when she was 13 due to her mother’s health. She was married to Dale Whitlock from 1954 to 1984 and married Christopher Bethards in 1989. She worked as a realtor for more than 20 years, was a member of the Healdsburg Community Church and loved gardening. She died peacefully in her sleep on October 11, 2020 in Healdsburg, CA.

Christine’s role as a mother and later grandmother were the most important in her life. Through her actions she taught those around her how to love and cherish one another. She maintained close ties to her siblings throughout her life and encouraged her children and grandchildren to be close as well. Living in Sonoma County allowed her to be an integral part of the lives of her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

She is survived by her husband, Chris Bethards, daughters Dalene Whitlock (Jerry Jaromin), Cheryl Whitlock-Hoffman, Laura Manges, son Dan Whitlock (Christine Naber), ten grandchildren, six great- grandchildren, five step-grandchildren and seven step-great grandchildren.

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Donald Duane Dutil - August 05, 1928 - September 29, 2020

Departed: 09/29/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Donald Duane Dutil, 92, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, September 29, 2020 after three years coping with Lewey Body Dementia and its accompanying effects upon the body. Don was born on August 5, 1928 and raised in San Francisco. Son of Emile and Elsie Dutil, deceased. He was preceded in death by his brothers, Bertram Dutil, Emil Dutil, and Albert Dutil.  He graduated from Polytechnic High School in San Francisco where he was inducted into the Poly Hall of Fame for Basketball. He attended San Francisco State University and the Wharton School of Finance in Philadelphia.  He started his banking career with Crocker National Bank and spent most of his career there as Vice President and Manager of Crocker’s statewide governmental service group. He joined the Bank of New York in 1985 as Vice President responsible for governmental agencies and union relationships for the Western United States. He spent most of his adult life in San Mateo and was appointed to the San Mateo County Retirement Board. He was also a member of the San Francisco Commercial Club and The Bankers Club. Don retired from the Bank of New York in 1999 and moved to Sonoma with his wife, Maureen. He was subsequently appointed by the Sonoma County Board of Supervisors as the public member to the County Oversight Committee, which oversees the investments of the County’s portfolio, which has well over a billion dollars in assets. Served 11-1/2 years on the Committee and 6 years as the Chairman. He was an avid sports fan and followed all the Bay Area teams both professional and college. Don has three children, Donald Dutil, Denise Dutil, and Michael Dutil (Laura) and two grandchildren, Michelle Dutil and Mikey Dutil (Bethany) and a great grandchild, Sofia Dutil. He also has many cousins, nieces and nephews living in the greater San Francisco Bay Area. Due to Covid-19 and affects of fires, a private funeral and burial will be held. A memorial celebration of his life will be conducted at a later date when restrictions are lifted. Words of thanks and appreciation during Don’s stay in Sonoma Post Acute are extended to the Hospice by the Bay staff and to the Nurses and CNAs of Sonoma Post Acute. Donations in Don’s memory may be made to: Hospice By The Bay, 190 W. Napa Street, Sonoma, Ca or St. Francis Solano Catholic Church, 469 Third Street West, Sonoma, California. Inquiries can be made to Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary at 707.838.6000 or by visiting www.whcmortuary.com.

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Dana Schornstein - Unknown - September 13, 2020

Departed: 09/13/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Dana Miller Schornstein 1961-2020

After a heroic 30-year battle with multiple sclerosis, Dana died peacefully, surrounded by her family, on September 13, 2020. She was 59 years old. Her exceptional courage will forever inspire the loved ones she left behind.

Dana grew up in the Laurel Canyon area of Los Angeles. She graduated from the University of Denver with a Mass Communications degree. After a short stint living in Miami, FL and working in the advertising industry, she moved back to California and began a career in visual effects film production. She received screen credit on over a half dozen major movie releases including Poltergeist II: The Other Side, The Lost Boys, and The Abyss, which won an Oscar for Best Visual Effects in 1990.

Dana’s natural curiosity, positivity, and genuine interest in people left an appreciative smile on the face of everyone she encountered. Albert Camus captures Dana’s egalitarian approach to life in her favorite college quote: “Don’t walk behind me; I may not lead. Don’t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.” She was a loving spouse and a devoted mother.

Dana is survived by her husband of 35 years, Hal Schornstein, her three adult children Brittany Schornstein, Lucas Schornstein, and Chace Schornstein, her father Dr. Irwin Miller (Helen) and her sisters Ellen Gleitman (Rick) and Julie Alpert (Derek).

Memorial contributions in lieu of flowers may be made to your local chapter of the National Multiple Sclerosis Society.

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Evelyn Louise Montaldo - June 16, 1921 - September 11, 2020

Departed: 09/11/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Sonoma resident, Evelyn Montaldo, passed away peacefully at her home at the age of 99 on September 11, 2020. In her final days, she was surrounded by the love of her large family who traveled near and far to be with her. Evelyn was born to Charles and Cecelia Banchero, on June 16, 1921 in Napa, CA. She lived in Sonoma nearly all of her life and attended Sonoma Valley schools, with the exception of a short time living in Napa as a young girl.

Evelyn was married to her late husband Charles Montaldo for nearly 60 years. They moved into the home he built for her in 1939 where she lived until her death. Family meant everything to Evelyn, affectionately known as Nonnie. She was a devoted mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother who was kind, compassionate and generous. She surrounded her family with love and support and was always willing to help in any way she could. Evelyn’s great sense of humor, quick wit, and wonderfully positive outlook on life was enjoyed by all who knew her. Spending time and having fun in the company of family and friends brought Evelyn great joy in life.

After raising her six children in the family home, she worked part-time at Sebastiani Winery. Evelyn had a flair for interior decorating, flower arranging and fashion. One of her favorite pastimes was going out to lunch and shopping for clothes with her daughters. People always commented on how well put together she looked in her meticulously coordinated outfits with matching accessories.

She was a wonderful cook and loved to bake delicious desserts much to the delight of her family. She was fond of spending time in her garden, surrounded by beautiful flowers. Evelyn’s favorite holiday was Christmas and the sight of her beloved Christmas tree was anticipated by many in the valley for decades. Over the years, Evelyn enjoyed playing bingo with friends, card games with family, and the occasional trip to the casino to try her luck at the slot machines. She always looked forward to the annual family summer vacations to Lake Tahoe, which of course, would not be complete without a trip to the casinos. In her later years, she also enjoyed the opportunity to travel to Europe several times and sail on various cruises with her daughter Joan and son-in-law Alan. Evelyn was also an avid sports fan. She especially loved attending San Francisco Giants games and following the Warriors on T.V. She enjoyed spending her mornings catching up with friends over coffee at the Basque Boulangerie Café, formerly co-owned by her son Jack. Evelyn was one of a kind and will never be forgotten by the many who loved her.

Evelyn in survived by her daughters Nancy Hogberg (Bill) of Napa, Linda Sullivan (Mark) of Sonoma, Joan Cantrell (Alan) of Prescott Valley, AZ and Cece Schoen (Dan) of Windsor. She was grandmother to David and Doug Hogberg, Jeff, Scott and Michael Sullivan, and Tyler and Ryan Schoen and great-grandmother to Adelyn Sullivan, Eleanor and Max Sullivan, and Charlie Hogberg.

She was preceded in death by her brother, Robert Banchero, her husband Charles Montaldo, infant daughter Judy Montaldo, son Robert Montaldo, and son, Jack Montaldo.

Due to Covid-19 restrictions, there will be a private interment at Mountain Cemetery in Sonoma. Viewing is at Windsor-Healdsburg Mortuary on Monday, September 21, from 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. at 9660 Old Redwood Hwy, in Windsor. Donations may be made to Hospice of Petaluma or the charity of your choice.

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William Bonetti - December 29, 1925 - September 07, 2020

Departed: 09/07/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: William Bonetti passed away on September 7, 2020 in Healdsburg at the age of 94. Raised in the northern Italian alps and educated at the venerable Conegliano School of Viticulture, he brought a traditional and formal winemaking background to America at the age of twenty-two.

Mr. Bonetti worked as a chemist with E. & J. Gallo and Cresta Blanca the Central Valley, where he met the love of his life, Giuseppina, who was visiting from Switzerland, and they enjoyed a long and happy marriage until her death in 2018. Mr. Bonetti was hired by Robert Mondavi as the winemaker at Charles Krug in St. Helena, where his only child Lisa was born during the height of the crushing season. At Krug, Mr. Bonetti innovated new methods to press grapes while cold, to transfer wine with inert gas, and to barrel ferment Chardonnay — the first such undertaking in America. From Krug, he was hired to design and operate the new Geyserville Chateau Souverain facility in 1973, where he helped pioneer the production of fine wines in Sonoma County. Mr. Bonetti’s crowning achievement was the design and operation of the Sonoma-Cutrer in 1981. He brought to bear his wealth of knowledge and experience to produce world class Chardonnays, where he hosted the first Focus on Chardonnay colloquiums, to stimulate open industry discussions. Mr. Bonetti retired from Sonoma-Cutrer where he left a legacy not only in Sonoma County, but in the California wine-making industry. He received many professional accolades and honors and in 1987 joined the Wine Spectator’s “California Wine Pioneers”. Humble and understated, Mr. Bonetti worked in the European model, and firmly believed that “in order to permit a wine to express its heritage, the winemaker cannot allow himself to intrude.”

William Bonetti’s family eventually expanded to include his son-in-law Stephen (Brad) Gospe, who learned to make wine and champagne at home using simple practices. William and Giuseppina shared their love of art and cooking with their beloved grandchildren Spencer and Tatiana, and holidays always included hand-rolled pasta. Summers were spent with the family in the mountains at the little cabin near Big Trees State Park, in Calaveras County, which William furnished with his hand-crafted furniture in the style of the Tyrolean Alps.

A prodigious hiker in his younger years, William felt fortunate to enjoy walks in the Healdsburg Open Space Preserve until the end. The family would like to thank the many kindnesses they received from the Healdsburg community, especially the Senior Center. Father Sean of St. John’s Catholic Church will officiate a private funeral mass later this month.

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Cristobal "Kiko" Pena - April 14, 1965 - September 06, 2020

Departed: 09/06/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Cristobal(Kiko)Pena, 55, of Windsor passed away in Santa Rosa, CA on Sept. 6, 2020. He worked in construction for 15 years and was a 55 year resident of Sonoma County. Cristobal was loved by many and touched everyone’s heart. He was never to good to say Hi and always asked how your day was. He will truly be missed. Heaven has gained another angel.

Cristobal is survived by his children Danny Pena Luevano, Desiree (Joshua) Fernandez, Natalie Pena, and Alex Pena; his grandchildren: Angelina, Luciano, Valentino, and Davina; his parents, Daniel and Esperanza Pena, and nine brothers and sisters. He is also survived by numerous nieces & nephews. Friends are invited to attend a viewing on Weds. Sept. 16, 2020 from 3-6pm at Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary, 9660 Old Redwood Highway, Windsor, CA 95492. A Rosary will take place at 11:30a.m. and a funeral Mass will take place at 12:00, noon on Thursday, September 17, 2020 at Our Lady of Guadalupe Church, 8400 Old Redwood Highway, Windsor, CA 95492. There will be limited space available. Please practice social distancing and please wear your mask!

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William "Bill" Bidwell Cook - Unknown - August 28, 2020

Departed: 08/28/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: William (Bill) Bidwell Cook passed away peacefully the afternoon of August 28, 2020, in a retirement home in Santa Rosa, CA. He was born in Seattle, WA in 1926 and grew up in Bellevue, WA. Bill attended kindergarten and high school with his future wife of 60 years (Elizabeth V. McCray) in Medina, WA. They would begin to date when both were attending the University of Washington in Seattle and were married in 1949. Betty passed away in 2009 in Covelo, CA. Bill graduated with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Forestry from University of Washington. His college education was interrupted twice by WWII and the Korean War, which he served in the Army as a Private and finally as Second Lieutenant.

He leaves behind his four children; Joy Bidwell, Gail Cook, Dawn Lewellyn and Grant Stuart Cook, each born in different states due to his transit work with the US Geological Survey making Topographic Maps from 1953 to 1977. In 1966, Bill moved his family to Covelo, CA towing their house trailer, and made it their permanent location after 23 moves in 11 years.

Bill earned his Private Pilot’s License in 1964 while living and working a project in Utah. A year later he bought a Cessna and would commute home to Covelo on weekends as he continued making maps on the West Coast until 1977. In 1979 he used his piloting skills to start Cook’s Air Taxi Service. He flew Mendocino County residents and US Forestry Department firefighting personnel out of Covelo to many destinations in California, Oregon and Nevada. He logged over 11,000 hours by the time he retired in 2001.

In his retirement years he was often seen riding his bicycle around Covelo, opening Covelo's annual Mother’s Day/FFA Field Day parade by flying his Ultralight, and faithfully attending Covelo Presbyterian Church. Bill enjoyed socializing over coffee with Covelo residents and talking about his time in the Army, his work, and flying adventures around the country.

Bill will be buried next to his beloved wife, Betty, at the Covelo Valley View Cemetery in the near future. Inquiries can be made to Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary at 707.838.6000 or by visiting www.whcmortuary.com.

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William Paul "Bill Matz - December 14, 1948 - August 18, 2020

Departed: 08/18/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: MATZ, William Paul "Bill," died peacefully on August 18, 2020 in Santa Rosa, CA. Bill was born on December 14, 1948 to Melvin and Margaret Matz in Eureka, CA and was the oldest of two sons. Bill loved to talk about history specifically military as he was very proud of his own accomplishments in the U.S. Navy as well as just being apart of something bigger. His military career would take him to places in Asia such as Vietnam and Thailand. He would frequently volunteer at the Santa Rosa Veteran's Building where they would hold their Vet Connects on Monday’s where he would give free legal advice to fellow veterans on a number of different subjects.

Within MOAA (Military Officer's of America Association), Bill was the chapter president for Santa Rosa appearing with other vets in the Rose parade many times he loved being in his uniform and seeing other vets in theirs. He was also very active within the church and any congregation he belonged to going on many mission trips to help build homes in central/southern America as well as spread the word of God which was something he held very dear.

Languages were another of his passions as he spoke Spanish, German, and Portuguese and loved to immerse himself deeply in new cultures as he loved the diversity of the world and it’s many people. He was also a member of MENSA an organization for people with particularly high IQs. Whether he was at home or abroad he was always able to find a common ground with someone regardless of who they were because he treated everyone the same with courtesy and respect just like how he would want to be treated. He also studied and embraced his own heritages Bill was an active member of the Caledonia club in San Francisco which is a Scottish heritage organization that also holds culturally relevant events such as the Highland games.

Bill is survived by his wife Erica, son Phillip and younger brother Gerry. A private viewing for family and friends was held previously at Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary. Immediate family and close friends will gather for a Graveside Service on Monday, September 14, 2020 at 12:30 p.m. at the Sacramento Valley National Cemetery located at 5810 Midway Road, Dixon, CA 95620. The United States Navy will be rending full military honors as part of the committal service. Inquiries can be made to Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary by calling 707.838.6000 or by visiting whcmortuary.com

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THOMAS ALAN BARKER - April 21, 1931 - August 08, 2020

Departed: 08/08/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: THOMAS ALAN BARKER April 21, 1931 – August 8, 2020

In the Early morning on August 8, 2020, Thomas Alan Barker died peacefully at the age of 89, at home with his son and daughter-in-law by his side in Sonoma County. Thomas was born the proud son and only child of CPL Lancie T and Marie A Barker, at Fort Totten Army Hospital in New York on April 21, 1931.

At a young age Thomas moved with his parents to the San Francisco Bay Area. Later graduating from Sacred Heart High School, and San Francisco State University where he pursued his love of vocal and theatrical performances. Throughout his youth, and life you would find Thomas performing in many USO shows, and community theatre throughout the Bay Area. As a young man he followed in his father’s footsteps and joined the US ARMY at age 18 and served very proudly beside his father in food service. This would lead to a diverse military career of 30 years, formally retiring in 1991 at the age of 60. One could have a great understanding of his love and pride for his country, by the many service achievement, good conduct, skills and humanitarian service medals and ribbons he received throughout his career.

Thomas’s love of his country was surpassed by the greatest love of his life, his only child Steven. As such a loving, proud, supportive father to his son, he instilled his true family values, commitment, and beliefs, and never missed one of his son’s baseball games or performances. He was a man who always put others before himself in life. Thomas’s love and commitment were unmatched and highly regarded among friends, and family. He was the favorite “Uncle -Dad” to many of Steven’s classmates and friends for over four decades. He was the chosen and so proud Godfather to several cousins and friends. Thomas was an active member of the Corte Madera Lions Club for many years and served as their President one year. A proud, loyal, and active member of “The Good Guys” (a group of retired Veterans) who meet weekly for lunch at numerous bay area restaurants. There was never a place that someone would not recognize him, with a friendly smile and a hello greeting. Throughout the 70’s-80’s Tom enjoyed many nights performing with his son Steven, friends Larry and Joan at San Rafael Joe’s in the Lounge just for the love and fun of it!

Preceded in death by his Grandparents Ellen and William Barker, Mother and Father, Marie and Lancie Barker, Steven’s mother, Patricia Ann Schomp, and Shelagh Kew Barker, several loving cousins, and dear friends. Tom is survived by his son, Steven Kent Barker...and his “adopted sister” Barbara Johnson. Thomas’ final words – “I LOVE YOU”

Due to COVID-19 private services for immediate family only currently 10 or less. After COVID-19 his family will host a Celebration of Life TBD in 2021. Donations can be made to Sacred Heart Cathedral Preparatory, San Francisco, CA in his name, in lieu of flowers.

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Dorothy Jean Garrison - March 05, 1939 - July 26, 2020

Departed: 07/26/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy Jean Garrison, born, Dorothy Jean Brooner to Evelyn and William R. Brooner in Marion, Kansas March 5, 1939, passed away with her loving family by her side, July 26th 2020. Dorothy, her 5 siblings, Billie, Harry, Maxine, Karen, and Robert moved to California when World War II came to an end in 1945 with their parents and not long after her youngest and truly adored littlest brother Eddie was born. The family worked hard for a living and valued family most of all.

In 1960 Dorothy married the love of her life, Warren, and they raised 4 adoring children. Dorothy went to Psychiatric Technician School and ultimately gained employment for the state of California at what was Sonoma State Hospital but later referred to as Sonoma Developmental Center. Dorothy enjoyed her clients very much, in those days she could bring clients home to let them spend time with the family and have meals, she loved everyone no matter where they came from. Dorothy retired with close to 50 years of State service.

Dorothy and Warren enjoyed retirement life together; they traveled all over the world as well as in their motor home together. The joys of her life were her grandchildren and later on her great grandchildren whom she spent countless hours with.

Dorothy is preceded into death by her sweetheart Warren, infant daughter Robin, Daughter Jennifer, sisters Billlie, and Karen, and her baby brothers Robert and Eddie.

Survived by her loving children, Thomas Garrison, Jeffery Garrison (Kim), and Crystal Garrison, adoring grandchildren, Branden Garrison, Adrienne Garrison, Alexis Garrison, Amanda Charkins, Warren Kelsay, and Kaprice Kelsay, great grandchildren, Audrey Garrison and Isaiah Charkins, she also had numerous bonus grandchildren whom she considered her family, Dorothy is also survived by her oldest brother Harry Brooner, whom the last 5 years was her side kick and traveling partner and her oldest sister Maxine Pierce (Bob) that Dorothy enjoyed face timing with as well as traveling up to Oregon to spend time on the river. She was a loving aunt to numerous nieces and nephews as well as many cousins, Dorothy is also survived by an abundance of close friends whom she considered family.

The Garrison Family Matriarch will be dearly missed and always loved.

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Raymond Lee Casebeer - Unknown - June 20, 2020

Departed: 06/20/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Raymond Lee Casebeer

It is with great sadness that the death of Ray Casebeer is announced. Passing after a long illness, on Saturday, June 20, 2020, in Windsor, CA at the age of 87 years.

Ray will be lovingly remembered by his wife of 48 years, Margaret (Peg) and his son Rick, by his sisters, Claudine Rushton, Betty Randall, Barbara Hlebakos, Sherri Estes-Witt and by sister-in-law Debbie Banthrall. Also many nieces and nephews. Ray was predeceased by his father Walter Casebeer, mother Marie Casebeer, brothers Eddie and Bob Casebeer, sister Jean Lombardi, brother-in-law Mel Banthrall.

Ray dearly loved his family, hunting, fishing and flying small planes. A US Navy veteran.

No Memorial planned at this time.

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Paul Cross - November 30, 1929 - June 15, 2020

Departed: 06/15/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Paul Cross passed away on June 15, 2020 at the Veterans Home, Yountville. He was 90. He had been a member of the Yountville Home since 2013. He was born on November 30, 1929 in San Diego to Georgia and Ray Cross. The family remained in San Diego until Paul was 12 when the family moved to San Francisco. After graduating high school, Paul became part of the Army Transport Service as a Navigator. Then after two years, he joined the Coast Guard and continued as a navigator in Japan and China. His ship took part in the China Invasion.

Paul returned to the states after 3 years in the Coast Guard and pursued his AA Degree at City College, San Francisco. His degree was in surveying and mapping. He worked as a surveyor for the Division of Highways (now CalTran) for several years. Eventually, after caring for his mother for a few years, then became a rancher with his brother and sister-in-law in the back country of Mt. Hamilton and later in Hollister, California.

Paul enjoyed hunting, reading and he was a people person, enjoying being around people.

He is survived by his brother, Earl, wife Gara and distant relatives.

He will be buried in the Veterans Home Cemetery at Yountville.

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Michael "Tom" Conway - December 08, 1912 - May 26, 2020

Departed: 05/26/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Michael "Tom" Conway

Michael, better known as Tom, passed away on May 26, 2020 at the Veterans Home, Yountville. He had been a member of the Yountville Home since 2009. He was born on December 8, 1912 to Margaret and Timothy Conway in Cleveland, Ohio.

He served in the US Army from 1956 to 1958, receiving an Honorable Discharge. He spent a 1 ½ years in Japan. Upon return from the military he attended college, but never graduated. He spent many years as a salesman. He also had his own artificial flower business in Sunnyvale and San Jose for 20 years.

He will be buried at Calvary Catholic Cemetery in Cleveland, Ohio.

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Robert A. Kooker - January 17, 1942 - May 18, 2020

Departed: 05/18/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Robert A. Kooker

Bob passed away on May 18, 2020 at the Veterans Home, Yountville. He was 78. He had been a member of the Yountville Home since 2013. He was born on January 17, 1942 in Marquette, Michigan to Molly and Lawrence Kooker. He lived several places during childhood, graduating from high school and then on to college, receiving his BA in 1964.

After marriage and before the military, he got his medical degree in Psychiatry. He served in the US Air Force from 1981 to 1987. He achieved the rank of Lieutenant Colonel. He worked stateside in forensic. He saw no combat.

After the military, he and his family moved to Sacramento where he went into private practice. Bob was a people person and had a good sense of humor. He was very centered on belonging support groups, which he attempted to start at the Yountville Veterans Home.

He is survived by his children: Michael, Jonathan and Elizabeth and grandchildren.

He will be buried at the Veterans Home Cemetery at Yountville.

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Jon A. Lama - April 03, 1929 - May 02, 2020

Departed: 05/02/2020 (Windsor)

Obituary Preview: Jon "Tony" Lama

Jon, better known as "Tony," passed away on May 2, 2020 at a location off campus from the Veterans Home. Jon was 91. He had been a member of the Yountville Home since 2016. He was born on April 3, 1929 in Rochester, New York to Josephine and John Lama. After high school graduation, John continued working in the family grocery business until he was drafted into the US Army. He served during the Korean Conflict from 1951 to 1953.He worked in The Army Security, spending 1 year in Korea, above the DMZ, and the remaining time in Japan.

After the military he married and soon had a family. He attended 3 years of college, then entered the insurance industry, specifically with Prudential. The family moved to San Francisco where Jon continued his insurance business. He eventually opened his own brokerage in San Rafael. He retired after more than 50 years in the business.

He and his friend, Carol enjoyed running many road races and marathons. They ran in 60 races and a marathon in Ireland. He also enjoyed reading and doing Sudoku. He was a passionate member of the Catholic Church. He was loved by everybody at the Home.

He is survived by his son, Bret, daughter, Hollie and friend, Carol, daughter-in- law Midori Liu and grandson, Dexter.

He will be buried at the Veterans Home Cemetery at Yountville.

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Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary offers a comprehensive range of funeral services designed to meet the unique needs and preferences of each family. From traditional funeral services to cremation options, memorial services, and celebrations of life, the mortuary's staff will work closely with you to create a personalized tribute that honors your loved one. Whether you prefer a simple service or an elaborate ceremony, Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary has the expertise and resources to make it happen.

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At Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary, the staff understands that every family is unique, and every life is precious. That's why they offer personalized funeral planning services designed to reflect the personality, interests, and accomplishments of your loved one. From selecting music and flowers to creating a customized video tribute or memory book, the mortuary's staff will guide you through every step of the planning process to ensure that your loved one's farewell is both meaningful and memorable.

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Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary also offers cremation services for families who prefer this option. The mortuary's staff will handle all aspects of the cremation process with dignity and respect, ensuring that your loved one is treated with care and compassion. From direct cremation to cremation with a memorial service, Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary provides a range of options to suit your needs and preferences.

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The facilities at Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary are designed to provide comfort and convenience for families during their time of need. The mortuary features a spacious chapel, visitation rooms, and reception areas where families can gather to pay their respects and share memories of their loved one. Additionally, the mortuary offers ample parking, wheelchair accessibility, and other amenities designed to ensure that all families feel welcome and supported.

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Windsor Healdsburg Mortuary understands the importance of preserving precious memories and keepsakes after the loss of a loved one. That's why they offer a range of memorialization options, including customized urns, jewelry, and other keepsakes. The mortuary's staff will work with you to select a meaningful way to honor your loved one's memory, providing comfort and solace during a difficult time.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who may want to attend the funeral or memorial service. They can also help to notify people who may not have been aware of the person's passing.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include details about the funeral or memorial service.

Who writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. Funeral homes or obituary writers may also assist in crafting the obituary.

How long does it take to write an obituary?

The time it takes to write an obituary can vary depending on the complexity and length of the notice. On average, it can take anywhere from 30 minutes to several hours to gather information and craft a well-written obituary.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can ensure that their life story is told in their own words and can be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's accomplishments and legacy.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life and accomplishments.

Where are obituaries typically published?

Obituaries are commonly published in local newspapers, online obituary platforms, funeral home websites, and social media pages. Some families also choose to create a memorial website or blog to share the obituary and other memories.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Newspaper obituaries can range from $50 to $500 or more, while online obituary platforms may offer free or low-cost options.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's possible to make corrections or edits to an obituary after it's been published. However, this may depend on the publication or platform's policies and procedures.

How long are obituaries kept online?

The duration for which an obituary remains online varies depending on the publication or platform. Some online obituary platforms keep them archived indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period.

Can I include photos or videos in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and funeral home websites allow you to upload photos or videos to accompany the written notice. This can help bring the person's story to life and provide a more personal tribute.

What is a living obituary?

A living obituary is a biographical sketch written about a person while they are still alive. It's often used as a way to celebrate milestones, achievements, or special occasions.

Can I use humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber and serious. Many families choose to incorporate humorous anecdotes or personality traits to make the notice more reflective of the person's spirit.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

You can usually submit an obituary to a newspaper by emailing or faxing it to their editorial department. Be sure to follow their specific guidelines and deadlines for publication.

Can I republish an obituary from another source?

If you're republishing an obituary from another source, be sure to obtain permission from the original publisher or author. You may also need to provide attribution or credit to the original source.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking assistance from a funeral home director, grief counselor, or professional writer. They can provide guidance and support during this difficult time.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you discover errors or inaccuracies in an already-published obituary, contact the publication or platform immediately. They will work with you to correct the mistakes and issue a revised version.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes! Many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the person's legacy and continue their impact.

What is the purpose of an online guestbook?

An online guestbook allows friends and family members to leave condolences, share memories, and pay tribute to the deceased. It can provide comfort and support during the grieving process.

Can I create a memorial website for my loved one?

Absolutely! Memorial websites can be created using various online platforms or tools. They provide a dedicated space for sharing memories, photos, stories, and tributes to your loved one.

How do I deal with negative comments or trolls on an online obituary?

If you encounter negative comments or trolls on an online obituary, report them to the platform administrators immediately. They will work to remove offensive content and maintain a respectful environment for mourners.

What is the significance of including survivors in an obituary?

Including survivors in an obituary acknowledges their loss and provides important information about who will carry on the person's legacy. It also helps friends and acquaintances know who to offer condolences to.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes! Quotes or lyrics that resonate with the person's personality or spirit can add depth and meaning to the obituary. They can also provide comfort and inspiration to those reading it.

How do I preserve my loved one's memory through their obituary?

An obituary serves as a lasting tribute to your loved one's life. Consider saving copies of the notice, creating a memory book or scrapbook, or sharing it with family members and friends as a way to preserve their memory.