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Bonnadell "Bonnie" M. Hemmer - September 19, 1937 - April 19, 2022

Departed: 04/19/2022 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Bonnadell "Bonnie" (Klepel) Hemmer, age 84, of Howard, formerly of Madison, passed away on Tuesday, April 19, 2022, surrounded by her family, at the Good Samaritan Society in Howard. Funeral services will be 10:30 AM, Saturday, April 23, 2022, at St. John Lutheran Church in Howard. Burial will follow at the St. John Lutheran Cemetery in Howard. Visitation will be one hour prior to services at the church on Saturday.

Bonnie was born on September 19, 1937, in Canton to Emil Klepel and Iva Irene (Hemstock) Klepel. After graduating from high school in Canton, Bonnie gave birth to three daughters, Starr, Edna, and Dee as result of her first marriage. Bonnie met LeRoy Hemmer at the Arkota Ballroom in Sioux Falls and on November 15, 1969, the couple were united in marriage and to this union their daughter Jodie was born.

Once they retired from the farming business they moved to Madison for 23 years. The couple then moved into the Good Samaritan Society in Howard in 2018. Bonnie enjoyed her life on the farm. Her and LeRoy were also very active with Square Dancing, where they traveled around the state to different events. They also enjoyed traveling with family to all different parts of the country where they brought back all kinds of souvenirs for their grandchildren.

Bonnie always had a special love for all her grandchildren and great -grandchildren. She especially always enjoyed when her entire family was together. Big family get togethers would always bring her so much joy and were certain to bring a smile to her face.

Bonnie is survived by her children Mary (Bob) VanEmmerik of Salem, Starr Cheeseman of Sioux Falls, Edna (Brian) Jorgensen of Colome, Dee Paige of Vermillion, Joe Hemmer (Colleen Healy) of Sioux Falls, and Jodie (Rodney) Gluhm of Canova; her 19 grandchildren and numerous great-grandchildren; her sister Jean Thompson of Canton; and many nieces and nephews.

Bonnie was preceded in death by her husband LeRoy; her parents Emil and Iva Irene Klepel; sisters Charlotte O’Brien and Karen Farnsworth; brother Emil Klepel Jr.; a granddaughter Brandi (Wahl) Lueders; and her son-in-law Lynn Cheeseman.

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Drexel "Pete" U. Miller - December 22, 1934 - April 03, 2022

Departed: 04/03/2022 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Drexel "Pete" Miller, age 87, of Carthage, died Sunday, April 3, 2022, at his residence. Memorial services will be held at a later date.

Pete was born on December 22, 1934, to Howard and Pearl (Maxson) Miller. Following graduation, Pete worked at various jobs, the longest as a groundskeeper at the Lebanon School District in Oregon.

He is survived by his children, Teresa Arnett, David Miller, Rod Miller, Tina Miller, Becky Nelson and Lydia Vaden. He is also survived by his sisters Wanda, Karen and Emily and brother Ronnie.

He was preceded in death by his parents; his wife Myrna; and one son Tracy Vanden.

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Margaret Joan Mary Austreim - May 18, 1925 - March 19, 2022

Departed: 03/19/2022 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Margaret Joan Mary Austreim, age 96, of Howard, died Saturday, March 19, 2022, at her residence. Funeral services will be 11:00 AM, Friday, March 25, 2022, at Beach United Methodist Church in Howard. Inurnment will follow at Belleview Lutheran Cemetery, rural Howard. Visitation will be 5-7 PM, Thursday, at the Willoughby Funeral Home in Howard.

Margaret Joan Mary Hooper was born in Southampton, England on May 18, 1925, to Kathleen (Jefford) and Leonard Hooper. Margaret, known as Peggy to her English family, was the oldest of 8 children.

Margaret attended St. Anne’s All-Girls School in Southampton up until the age of 9. WWII made it too dangerous to continue living in Southampton, so she moved to Devonshire and lived with her grandmother.

After finishing school, she had to work for the War effort. She had to take her turns watching for small bombs (incendiaries). Since raising food was considered war work, she worked for an opera singer, Lovett Crosley, who owned 3 large garden nurseries. Margaret met her husband, Orrin Austreim who was serving in the American Army, at a bus station in Southampton. For dates, they would walk around Southampton or picnic on St. Catherine's Hill under the Spitfire Bridge in Winchester. They fell in love, but Orrin had to leave England on D-Day and they would not see each other again for several years. They continued their relationship through letters. After the war ended, Margaret traveled to the United States on the Queen Elizabeth in January of 1947. While on the ship, the worst storm in fifty years occurred. She got very sea sick and lost a lot of weight. After arriving in New York City, she took a train to Woonsocket, SD, where Orrin met her and took her out for a steak dinner!

Margaret and Orrin were married on January 26, 1947, at Belleview Lutheran Church in rural Howard, SD, following morning worship. They were blessed with 3 children, Douglas, Kathleen, and Peggy, whom they raised on a farm north of Howard. They later retired in Howard, where Margaret was living at the time of her death. She attended Belleview Lutheran Church where she was an active member. She was a loving mother and grandmother that enjoyed going to family parties and activities. She will be remembered as quick witted, a wonderful cook and bread baker, a skilled knitter, a chocolate lover, and a daily tea drinker.

Margaret is survived by her son, Doug (Cheryl) of Brookings, SD and daughter Peggy (Tim) Clarke of Howard, SD; 10 grandchildren: Laura Curtler, Lisa Jenson, Allan Austreim, Andrew Austreim, Abigail Bisschop, Megan Wright, Emily Heilman, Kyle Quinn, Kevin Quinn, and Allison Muilenburg; 31 great-grandchildren; sister, Patricia White of Chandlersford, England; brother, Gerald (Shirley) Hooper of Chandlersford, England; a very special friend and neighbor, Gloria Bremmon and wonderful housekeeper, Diane Kleinsasser.

Margaret was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Orrin; her daughter Kathleen Quinn; sister, June Walker; and brothers, Peter, Brian, Leslie, and Tony Hooper.

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Carolyn L. Genzlinger - December 18, 1941 - March 17, 2022

Departed: 03/17/2022 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Carolyn Lee (Anderson) Genzlinger, age 80, of Madison, passed away peacefully on March 17, 2022, at the Dougherty Hospice House in Sioux Falls. Memorial services will be 2:00 PM, April 19, 2022, at Our Savior Lutheran Church in Madison. Inurnment will follow at St. John Lutheran Cemetery in Howard.

Carolyn was born December 18, 1941, to Norman and Lulu (Zimmermann) Anderson in Howard. Carolyn married Winston Genzlinger on September 15, 1961. They had 3 sons, Adam, Eric and David.

Carolyn graduated from Howard High School in 1960. She attended General Beadle State Teachers College, graduating in 1962. Carolyn retired after 20 years working as an In-Home Health Care Aide for Fond du Lac County Wisconsin Health Department. Carolyn enjoyed quilting, bird watching, and tending to her flowers. She also loved antiquing and finding treasures at auctions and estate sales. Carolyn was an avid reader of history and autobiographies.

Those grateful for having shared in her life include her sons: Eric (Nataliya) of Zebulon, GA, and David (Roxanne) of Garretson; grandchildren: Gregory, Evan, Breana (Luke McAllister), Braedon, Kayla & Karlie Genzlinger, Yuri (Olenka) Lazor; great grandchildren: Jordan McAllister and Dominik Lazor; siblings: Greg Anderson, Leon Anderson, LuAnn Rice, Rocehelle Anderson; and many relatives and friends.

She was preceded in death by her husband Winston; son Adam Genzlinger in infancy; parents Norman and Lulu Anderson; and brothers Nolan Anderson and Larry Anderson.

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Kathryn Francis Kothe - April 20, 1933 - February 17, 2022

Departed: 02/17/2022 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Kathryn Francis Kommes, age 88, passed away on February 17, 2022, at the Avera Brady Care Center in Mitchell. Mass of Christian Burial will be 10:30 AM, Wednesday, February 23, 2022, at the St. Agatha Catholic Church in Howard. Interment will follow at the St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery in Howard. Visitation with family present will be Tuesday, February 22, 2022, at the church from 5pm to 7pm, with a scripture service to be said at 6:30pm.

Kathryn Francis Kommes was born on April 20, 1933, to Mathias (Matt) and Sarah “Sadie” (Esser) Kommes on the family farm south of Howard.. She attended St. Agatha grade school and high school. After graduating from high school, she worked for Northwestern Bell as a telephone operator in Howard. On February 19, 1957, she married LaVerne Kothe at St. Agatha. To this union were born three children. LaVerne and Kathryn made their home north of Fedora,  where they lived for 61 years. They were inseparable best friends.

She was very active in her community and church, serving on many committees, a religion teacher and as a 4-H leader for the Happy Pals 4-H club. After her family was raised, she was employed by the Miner County Sheriff’s office as a dispatcher. She retired in November 2003.

Kathryn loved to knit, crochet, quilt, bake and read. She was known for her angel food cakes and taught many friends and family members her secret to a good cake.   Your birthday was not completed until you received one of her yummy cakes. She always had a large garden and enjoyed sharing the harvest. There were many “disputes” over if her salsa was evenly distributed among family members.

She loved to share a meal with friends and family who dropped by the house Her family was her most prized possession. Kathryn wrote, “I would like to pass this life exhausted.” …and she did just that.

Kathryn is survived by her husband and friend of 65 years, LaVerne. Daughters, Diane (Merle) Bechen, Donna (Ted) DeLoy. Grandchildren and great-grandchildren: Alyssa (Brandon), Caleb, Carsyn and Cohen McLellan, Angela (Zach), Sophia, Rory and Izzy Nolz, Amanda Bechen, Mackenzy DeLoy, Tanner (Maddie Palmquist) Atlas DeLoy. Brother Ralph (Sharon) Kommes, Sister, Mary Ann Olson and sister-in-law, Sharon Kommes.

She will be greeted in Heaven by her parents, son, David and brothers, Leo, Merle and Alan.

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Steven "Steve" R. Brown - February 18, 1942 - February 06, 2022

Departed: 02/06/2022 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Steven R. Brown, age 79, of Howard, passed away Sunday, February 6, 2022, at the Madison Regional Health System. A memorial visitation will be 9-11 AM, Saturday, February 12, 2022, at the Willoughby Funeral Home.

Steve was born on February 18, 1942, to Fred and Darline (Perry) Brown, in Bridgewater. He was the 7th child out of 8. When Steve was five, the family moved to a farm in Salem. He attended country school before attending Salem High School. On March 24, 1972, he married Linda Kruse and to this union four children were born.

Steve farmed most of his life with his father and also worked part-time at Feterals in Salem. He later moved to California and worked in Los Angeles for 20 years until being injured at work which eventually led to him relocating to Howard in 1998.

He loved to work on his 1950 GMC pickup and doing anything related to the farm.

He is survived by his wife Linda; three daughters, Judy of Brookings, Kim of Madison, and Katrina of Howard; five grandchildren; and one brother.

He was preceded in death by his parents; one son Roger; three brothers; and three sisters.

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Merleen Duxbury - July 08, 1926 - February 01, 2022

Departed: 02/01/2022 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Merleen Duxbury, age 95, of Howard, passed away Tuesday, February 1, 2022. Mass of Christian Burial will be 10:30 AM, Saturday, February 5, 2022, at the Holy Three Kings Catholic Church in Epiphany. Inurnment will be held at a later date at the church cemetery. Visitation will be one hour prior to services on Saturday.

Merleen Eich was born July 8, 1926, to George and Catherine (Gassman) Eich. She attended elementary school in Epiphany and high school at Burbank Consolidated School near Epiphany. Upon graduation, Merleen spent two years in service to her country during WWII. She sold war bonds at the Merchandise Mart in Chicago. Upon return home, she met and married Max Duxbury on November 9, 1948. The couple lived in the Canova area their entire lives except for two years that Max helped his father in his farming operation near Hurley. Upon Max’s death in 1994, Merleen moved to Howard. She worked at the Howard School and at the Children’s Care Center. Working with young people kept her young. She had fond memories of all the children she worked with and cared for.

At the time of her passing, Merleen lived at Whispering Winds Senior Care Center in Howard.  She enjoyed playing Tripoli with her friends in Canova, bingo at the Senior Citizen’s Center in Howard and reading novels.

Merleen was very active in her community.  She was a member of the Canova Legion Auxiliary, Holy Three Kings Church in Epiphany and St. Agatha Church in Howard.

Those grateful for having shared her life are her three sons Ron (Rosemary) of Sioux Falls, Blaine (Robyn) of Vermillion, and Kevin of Sioux Falls. Also surviving Merleen are four grandchildren and one great grandchild. She is survived by her brother Glenn (Peggy) Eich of Sioux Falls; and sisters-in-law Shirley Eich of Rapid City and Lois Duxbury of Sioux Falls. She is survived by many special friends, including Tiffany (Glanzer) Dansby and Walt Dansby, and many cousins, nieces, nephews and relatives.

Merleen was preceded in death by her parents; husband Max; and three brothers Dennis, Dale and Darrell.

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Gary R. Tripp - June 01, 1944 - January 10, 2022

Departed: 01/10/2022 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Gary R. Tripp, age 77, of Howard, passed away peacefully on Monday, January 10, 2022, at the Good Samaritan Society in Howard. Funeral services will be 10:30 AM, Saturday, January 15, 2022, at the Beach United Methodist Church in Howard. Burial will follow at Graceland Cemetery in Howard. Visitation will be 5-7 PM, Friday, January 14, 2022, at Willoughby Funeral Home.

Gary was born June 1, 1944, in Mitchell, to Dorothy (Hagge) and Robert Tripp. Some of his childhood was spent in California before moving to Howard. Throughout his childhood much of his time was spent on his Grandpa Hagge’s farm where his love for farming began. He attended school in Howard. He worked in trade industries including power line work. He had a love for playing baseball and competing in sports.

He married Miriam Lusk on July 9, 1965, at the Beach United Methodist Church in Howard. They resided on a farm North of Canova and were blessed with 2 children, David and Shannon. He milked cows faithfully each and every day for 17 years. He concluded his farming career by raising and selling Holstein steers before retiring due to failing health.

Gary served the community in many ways. He was active on the Miner County Extension Board for 9 years, Howard Farmer’s Elevator for 11 years and Miner County Golf Course Board for 6 years. He loved to play golf, loved fixing and building golf clubs and socializing over coffee or at the Golf Course.

Gary is survived by his wife, Miriam; daughter Shannon Becker of Miller; granddaughter Deidra and 2 great grandsons of Miller; sister Vicki (Jack) Treloar of La Mars, IA. Also blessed to have experienced life with Gary are his many in-laws, nieces, nephews, and friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents, his sister Judy, and his son David.

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Beverly J. Morris - May 23, 1932 - December 29, 2021

Departed: 12/29/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Beverly Joan Lindstrom Morris, age 89, passed away peacefully on December 29, 2021, at United Living Community in Brookings, after an extended illness due to dementia. She was a loving wife, sister, mother, mother-in-law, grandmother, and great-grandmother. The staff of ULC and Hospice of Brookings Health System provided excellent care throughout her final days. A Celebration of Life will be held at the Artesian Community Center on February 12, 2022, at 2:00 PM. Inurnment will be held at a later date in the Mt. Pleasant Cemetery in Artesian.

Beverly was born to Ted and Agnes (Nelson) Lindstrom of Carthage, on May 23, 1932, in Mitchell. She was the youngest of five siblings. As a youngster, Bev helped her father at his grocery stores in both Carthage and Madison and also helped her mother with her seamstress work.

She graduated from high school in Madison, SD in 1950, and then she attended Dakota Wesleyan University in Mitchell for two years, leaving to marry the love of her life, Thomas David Morris. They were married on August 16, 1952, in Hartford, and moved to the family farmstead near Fedora. Bev and Tom were blessed with four children – Doug, Terri, Peggy, and Rick.

In 1965, Bev and Tom moved from the farm to Artesian, after Tom became the Superintendent of Artesian Public Schools. Beverly eventually returned to school at Dakota Wesleyan, and in 1968, she received her Bachelor’s degree in English Language Arts. Upon her graduation, she became a high school language arts teacher at Artesian High School. Beverly was a respected teacher at the high school for many years where she also directed plays, coached declam and debate, and was involved in all aspects of the school.

As an active community member, Beverly sang at many weddings and funerals, never failing to provide food for a family mourning the loss of a loved one. Beverly became a master calligrapher, and in her later years, she got involved in many craft projects. She was a member of the First Lutheran Church in Artesian and played the organ as well as performed many other volunteer tasks for the church over the years.

She and Tom loved going out for dinner and dancing on weekends. They had a wonderful marriage, and during their retirement, they spent 11 years doing extensive traveling including Florida, Branson, MO, San Antonio and Texas. Tom died of cancer in 2001 after nearly 49 years of marriage. Beverly gained a special friend, Leonard Lorenz, after Tom died, who provided her with wonderful companionship for 11 years.

Beverly is survived by her four children: Douglas (Mercy) Morris of Anchorage/The Philippines, Terri (Craig) Mulford of Louisville, CO, Peggy Morris (Jack Gries) of Brookings, Rick (Diane) Morris of Dell Rapids; six grandchildren: Lynanne Gries (Matt Gorder), Anjelik Gries (Chris Mulhair), Christopher (Lindsay) Mulford, Bailey Mulford, Bernard (Margaret) Morris, and Emjhay Morris; and two great-grandchildren: Ella Mae Nelson and Gabrien Morris.

She was preceded in death by husband Tom Morris, special friend Leonard Lorenz, her two sisters, Maxine (Sid) Hallowell and June (Steve) Wallace, and two brothers, Blair (Maxine) Lindstrom and Ward (Eva) Lindstrom.

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Leona R. Feldhaus - April 28, 1926 - December 20, 2021

Departed: 12/20/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Leona Rose (Reisch) Feldhaus, age 95, died December 20, 2021, with two of her children by her side. Mass of Christian Burial will be 10:00 AM, Wednesday, December 29, 2021, at St. Agatha Catholic Church in Howard. Burial will follow at St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery. Visitation will be 5-7 PM, Tuesday at the church, with a prayer service at 7. Leona was born on April 28, 1926, to Nickolas and Mary Reisch of Howard. She was the 11th of 13 children, five of whom died before her birth. Leona graduated from St. Agatha High School in 1944. That following summer, she commuted by train to Madison, and attended classes at what is now Dakota State University. Because the war was going on she was able to earn a teacher certificate in 12 weeks. She then taught at a country school north of Howard for 2 years.  Leona married the love of her life, Leo Feldhaus, at St. Agatha Catholic Church in Howard, on June 3, 1946. Leo had recently been discharged from the navy, and they were ready to start their life together. They bought a farm north of Howard and spent their entire married life of 73 years there. In later years, Leo and Leona operated The Village Florist shop in Howard. Leona was a very busy farm wife. She grew a huge garden, canning and freezing fruits and vegetables. She baked and cooked, sewed clothes for the kids, and made many, many crafts. She loved to read, play the piano, sing, and play games, especially pinochle. Fishing was another favorite pastime. She had a strong faith in God and made sure each of her children received the sacraments and attended church regularly. Leona was a wonderful example of a Christian woman. She will be greatly missed. Leona is survived by 12 children: Ronald (Vernie), Jack (Deirdre), Linda (Gary) Daiss, Sharon (Rick) Daniels, Eugene, Elaine Loers, Rebecca (Fr. Michael) Walker, Susan Ellsworth, Connie Iverson, Mary Ann Esping, Laura (Joe) Miller, and David (Heidi), 36 grandchildren, 78 great-grandchildren, 4 great-great-grandchildren, and 1 sister, Vivian Lynde.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Leo; one son, Theodore; her parents; seven brothers; four sisters; great-grandson, Tyrese Parson; and two sons-in-law, Gary Loers and Clifford Esping.

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Richard E. Eppe Jr. - October 05, 1971 - December 16, 2021

Departed: 12/16/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Richard E. Eppe Jr., age 50, of Howard, passed away Thursday, December 16, 2021, at his home. A Celebration of Life will be on Thursday December 23, 2021, from 5-8 PM at Willoughby Funeral Home in Howard.

Richard was born in Mitchell, on October 5, 1971, to Richard Sr. and Dorothea (Winter) Eppe. He grew up in rural Howard on the family farm where he also moved back to later. Richard attended Howard High School and graduated in 1989.  He then attended College at SDSU for Dairy Science and Pre-Vet. Richard was known by many names, but the one that stuck the most was “Dickie”. His 30 year High School reunion was a memorable moment for him and he talked about it often.

Richard married Jennifer Kellogg in 1992, and to this union one son and one daughter were born. Richard had a few different jobs that included working/managing a Dairy farm, Dispatch at Miner Co, and also Rosebud manufacturing in Madison and Shopko in Mitchell as a manager before it closed. Richard later moved back to the family farm, where he loved the outdoors. Richard grew up helping his mother milk the cows and his love for animals was never a question. He had many different animals in the last few years and would sell them also.   Richard loved gardening, woodworking and many other crafts.

He is survived by his son, Andrew Eppe of Sioux Falls; his daughter Lorrie Eppe of rural Howard; sister Maria (Rick) Olsen, of Plankinton; brother Donald (Dawn) Eppe, of Howard; brother Charles (Danielle) Eppe, of Wentworth; one uncle, nieces and nephews, aunts and cousins.

He was preceded in death by his parents; and grandparents, August and Marie Winter and Victor and Edith Eppe.

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Irene M. Ellsworth - November 18, 1929 - December 13, 2021

Departed: 12/13/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Irene Ellsworth went home to Jesus Monday, December 13, 2021, at the age of 92. Memorial services will be 1:00 PM, Saturday, December 18, 2021, at Gloria Dei Lutheran Church in Sioux Falls. Inurnment will follow at Graceland Cemetery in Howard. There will be a luncheon immediately following the memorial service.

Irene was born to Mildred (Chapin) and Emil Larsen on November 18, 1929, on the family farm in Wilmot. As a child, she enjoyed growing up on a farm, helping in the kitchen, caring for her younger siblings, and setting a good example. She graduated from Wilmot High School in 1947 and attended Northern State University. She obtained her Teaching Certificate and began her teaching career, teaching country school.

She married her high school sweetheart, Robert “Bob” Ellsworth on June 12, 1949, and moved to Watertown. Bob and Irene went on to raise 4 children in a loving and traditional home filled with small town activities, lasting friendships, and Christian values. Their lives took them from Watertown, to Philip, and then to Howard for 24 years before retiring in Sioux Falls. Irene went to work as a teller at the Miner County Bank when her children were all in school and remained a loyal employee there for over 22 years.

Irene was “one of a kind”! She was a strong Christian woman who enjoyed sharing, spreading, and teaching the Word with a love like no other. Her family, friends, co-workers, and acquaintances were touched by her gentle ways.

Following her children’s, grandchildren’s, great grandchildren’s, and her great great grandchildren’s activities were in her heart and soul and she never grew tired of it. The number of wrestling matches, football games, basketball games, baseball and softball games, soccer matches, dance recitals and competitions, concerts, and church and school performances are endless as is the love for her by those she leaves behind. Irene was the person that everyone loved, honored, admired, and cherished. She “wrote the book” on how to treat others the way you want to be treated, and opened her heart, arms, and home to anyone who needed it. She is a true reflection of God’s Love. An avid member and participant of Bethany Lutheran Church in Howard and Gloria Dei Lutheran Church in Sioux Falls, she was a faithful follower.

She is survived by her sister, Delores Ward; brothers Don Larsen, Larry Larsen, and Jerry (Jeanette) Larsen; children Bonnie (Greg) Behm of Omaha, NE, Tim Ellsworth of Ankeny, IA, and Elisa Coequyt of Sioux Falls; 12 grandchildren; 23 great grandchildren; 4 great-great-grandchildren; as well as a multitude of nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

She was preceded in death by her husband Robert “Bob” Ellsworth; parents Emil and Mildred Larsen; son Greg Ellsworth; great-grandchild Tyrese Parson; sister-in-law Joanne Larsen; and brother in-law Don Ward.

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Jason E. Nurnberg - March 26, 1974 - December 08, 2021

Departed: 12/08/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Jason E. Nurnberg, age 47, of Forestburg, passed away Wednesday, December 8, 2021, at the Avera Queen of Peace Hospital in Mitchell. Funeral services will be 10:30 AM, Saturday, December 18, 2021, at the Sanborn County 4H Building in Forestburg. Burial will follow at Silver Creek Cemetery, rural Forestburg. Visitation will be 4-8 PM, Friday, December 17, 2021, at the Sanborn County 4H Building with a prayer service beginning at 8.

Jason Ernest Nurnberg was born on March 26, 1974, in Mitchell, to Doug and Elma (Hunter) Nurnberg. He was raised in the Forestburg area where he attended school through the 1st grade before attending school in Artesian where he graduated in 1992. Following high school, Jason attended Southwestern Technical College in Granite Falls, MN where he earned a degree in Robotics and Flexible Automation in the spring of 1994.

Jason began his working career shearing sheep and hoeing melons. He worked as a Maintenance/Automation Technician at several companies including Falcon Plastics, Twin City Die Castings, Hendrickson, and Graphic Packaging in Mitchell where he was employed at the time of his death.

He thoroughly enjoyed music, he was an avid guitar player and loved collecting Gibson guitars. For several years, he was a member of Scotty and the Melonheads which consisted of his brothers and a close friend. Jason’s love for the outdoors was infinite. His family and friends share countless memories hunting, fishing, and farming with him. Every year in June, he looked forward to his annual fishing trip with his buddies at Mobridge where many walleyes were caught, and stories were told. In 2017, he successfully harvested a nice bull elk in the Black Hills with his rifle. In 2019, he successfully drew his archery bull tag. He was again successful in his own mind because of all of the beautiful views the Black Hills had to offer. Unfortunately, this time he didn’t fill his tag. Above all, Jason loved chasing and hunting deer. Every year as the snow melted, he longed to go look for shed antlers so he could determine the location of the next Boone & Crockett buck he needed to put on the wall. His family and friends could always count on deer pictures from him on the famous bossbuckbuster@gmail.com e-mail address which he proudly owned.

Although never having children of his own, he loved kids, especially his nieces and nephews, always looking forward to spending time with them making another memory. He was a patient man who never had a lot to say. He was an excellent cook and his smile and laugh were contagious. His family remembers smiling and laughing simply because he was. Hands down his best quality was as a caretaker, especially for his mother following the passing of his father in 2011. He always made sure her requests and necessities were handled.

He was a member of the Forestburg Lutheran Church.

He is survived by his mother Elma of Forestburg; his three brothers, Russ (Kathy) Nurnberg of Watertown, Clint (Jeniffer) Nurnberg of Mitchell, and Scott Nurnberg of Forestburg; his nieces and nephews, Alex Nurnberg of Forestburg, Kala (Alec) Williams of Des Moines, IA; Kaden Nurnberg of Mitchell, and Taryn Nurnberg of Mitchell; one great-niece Millie; two great-nephews Jaxon and Tate; and many aunts, uncles, cousins; and a host of friends. He will be missed by all.

He was preceded in death by his father Doug; and one nephew Blake.

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Dorothy Wipf - March 04, 1949 - December 01, 2021

Departed: 12/01/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy Wipf, age 72, of Howard, went to be with her lord and savior, surrounded by her loving family on Wednesday, December 1, 2021, at Prairie Lakes Hospital in Watertown. Funeral services will be 11:00 AM, Saturday, December 4, 2021, at the Christian Fellowship Church in Fulton. Burial will follow at Cloverleaf Cemetery. Visitation will be 5-6 PM, Friday at the church with a prayer service at 6.

Dorothy was born on March 4th, 1949, to Josh and Elisabeth Hofer at Graceville Colony. Dorothy worked at PBM in Howard for 35 years. She was known for her great cooking. She loved baking and making treats to share with friends and loved ones. At Christmas time she would make tons of goodies and candy and made sure everyone got some. Her family would agree she makes the best pancakes and angel food cakes in the world! Dorothy was happiest surrounded by her kids and grandkids and loved to spoil them. Her family meant the world to her including her loving brothers and sisters! In her spare time she enjoyed traveling, shopping and going to coffee shops. Church and church activities brought great joy to Dorothy. She had a motherly presence that stole people's hearts and was considered "Mom" to many!! Dorothy will be greatly missed by family and friends!

She is survived by her children Miriam, (late) Joshua, Loretta, Jeannie (Sam), and Lisa (Richard) She had 8 beloved grandkids Andrea (Thomas), Samantha, Amelia, Amber, Samuel, Kaylee, Jaylon (Ashley), Keira and 15 great-grandkids, her sister Elisabeth, brother Mike, sister Margaret (Joe), brother Don (Annie), brother Johnny (Annie), sister Anita (Melvin) and sister Eva.

She was preceded in death by her parents, her husband Walter, son Joshua, and brother Josh.

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Don Threadgold - October 25, 1948 - November 21, 2021

Departed: 11/21/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Don Threadgold, 73, of Fedora, passed away Sunday, November 21, 2021, due to natural causes at his home in Sioux Falls. A Mass of Christian Burial will be 10:30 AM, Saturday, November 27, 2021, at St. Agatha Catholic Church in Howard. Burial will follow at Mt. Pleasant Cemetery in Artesian. Visitation will be 3-5 PM, Friday, at St. Katherine Drexel Catholic Church in Sioux Falls, with a prayer service at 5.

Donald LaMoine Threadgold, the son of Robert and Doris Threadgold, was born October 25, 1948, at St. Joseph Hospital in Mitchell. He grew up on a farm west of Fedora and attended school in Fedora. He was proud to tell everyone he was Fedora High School’s last graduate in 1966. During his school years, he was active in basketball, football, fastpitch softball, and 4-H.

After high school, Don attended college at South Dakota State University graduating with an Ag Economics degree in 1970. Don was an active member of FarmHouse Fraternity, serving as President, and continuing to be an active alumni member.

At SDSU, Don met his future bride Kathleen Uckert. They were united in marriage on March 3, 1973, at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Clear Lake. Together, they raised 8 children and are blessed with 22 grandchildren.

Following college graduation, Don worked for the USDA Statistical Reporting Service in Sioux Falls. His famous wienerburger recipe, a family favorite, debuted at an office picnic. When Don’s job required relocating out of state, he chose to stay in South Dakota and began farming with his dad near Fedora in 1973.  The drought of 1976 brought Don to Artesian’s branch of LiveStock State Bank, later known as CorTrust Bank, where he began his 45-year career as Teller, Loan Officer, Branch Manager, Vice President, Board Member, and most-recently Farm Manager.

As an avid outdoorsman, Don always carried a gun in his pickup and was ready for any opportunity to hunt.  Opening day of pheasant season brought excitement, additional hunters, and plenty of treats for the kids.  The camaraderie with family and friends during hunting season created unforgettable memories each year.

Don loved adventure. He drove the van across the country, followed ND to Ireland, walleye fished on the Missouri, caught Salmon in Alaska, honeymooned in Hawaii, piloted his plane at 50, went dog sledding in Montana, chauffeured grandkids in the limo, taught all generations to drive, trekked through 5 states in 5 days in the RV, fed burrows at Custer, vacationed at Disney, perfected fudge and divinity, competed in Carbles and Pinochle with family, and celebrated numerous birthdays, graduations, and victories. He and Kathleen prioritized family baptisms, first communions, confirmations, and weddings.

He made a lasting impact because of his generosity. Continuing Don’s legacy are those he is survived by: his wife, Kathleen; daughter Maria (Joe) Palmquist of Boise, Idaho; grandchildren Aydan, Paige and Jace; son Thomas (Terri) Threadgold of Glen Allen, VA; grandchildren Anna, TJ, and Oscar; son Barry (Nicole) Threadgold of Carrington, ND; grandchildren Olivia and Alec; daughter Laura (Duane) Barringer of Winterset, IA; grandsons Brady, Ty, Jackson and Garrett; daughter Ann (Michael) Riggs of Lakeville, IN; grandsons Pierce and Braxton; daughter Joan (Willy) Edwards of Tucson, AZ; grandchildren Kade, Maddox, Teagan and Drue; daughter Theresa Weckerly of Milford, IA; grandchildren Isabel, Tristan, and Madeline; daughter Katie (Charles) Abel of Granger, Iowa; grandson Calvin; sisters Betty Ann (Dale) Anderson of LaBolt, SD, Kathie (Roger) Nordtvedt of Cottage Grove, MN, and Janice (Donell) Froehlich of Brookings; and many beloved nieces and nephews.

Don is preceded in death by his parents Robert and Doris Threadgold; brothers John, James and Bob; his premature infant son Robert Daniel; son-in-law Cole Weckerly, and favorite hunting dog Stella.

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Dolores M. Rasmussen - July 13, 1921 - November 19, 2021

Departed: 11/19/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Dolores M. Rasmussen, age 100, of Howard, died Friday, November 19, 2021, at the Good Samaritan Society in Howard. Mass of Christian Burial will be 10:30 AM, Wednesday, November 24, 2021, at St. Agatha Catholic Church in Howard. Burial will follow at St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery. Recitation of the Rosary will be 4:30 PM, Tuesday at the church, with a visitation to follow from 5-6:30 PM. The Mass will be live-streamed through the Willoughby Funeral Home Facebook page.

Dolores Marie Neises was born July 13, 1921, on their farm in Miner County, (Bob Gassman farm) to William & Mary Neises.  She grew up in rural Miner County attending Clearwater Country School and Woodworth #3 in Roswell and graduating from Burbank High School in 1939.  Dolores attended Grand Island Nebraska Business College. She then moved to Chicago, IL. where she worked as a bookkeeper at a Coffee Company.

Dolores was united in Holy Matrimony to Wilbur Rasmussen at Epiphany, South Dakota on November 22, 1941. To this union three children were born: James, Judith, and Thomas.

After their marriage they returned to Chicago until Wilbur went to war.  They then moved to Florida, where they resided and their first child, James was born.  After the war they moved back to Howard when Judy and Tom were added to the family. In their retirement, they spent 29 years traveling to Harlingen, Texas as winter Texans.

Dolores was active in St. Agatha Guild, teaching CCD, bowling, Gray Lady at the Good Samaritan Center, Bridge Club, Extension Club and the Howard Golf Course.  Dolores was the City Golf Champion for many years. She enjoyed dancing, gardening, canning, fishing, bird watching and spending time with family. She enjoyed attending plays locally. Family camping/fishing trips were enjoyed in her younger years. Trips to the river fishing were also a hit. It was always a blessing when her nieces and nephews would stop to visit. She thoroughly enjoyed visiting with her sisters and other family that would stop to visit. Dolores was known as mom, Grandma Dee, gigi, and gma.  She always had a cookie for the kids (any age) and “one for the road”.  She was well known for her fried chicken.  She enjoyed playing cards and games with the kids.  “Little Stinker” was the favorite game with the kids. Dolores’ faith was inspiring.  She was a prayer warrior.  She taught her grandkids to pray the rosary when they stayed.

Those grateful for having shared her life include her son: James (Betty) of Rapid City, SD; a daughter:  Judy (Don) Smith of Sioux Falls, SD; 4 grandchildren: Christi (Lynn) Borgers of Howard, SD; Jennifer Forbes of Gilbert, Arizona; Brian (Kodi) Callies of Howard, SD; Steven Callies & Juana Paulson of Keystone, SD; Great-grandchildren: Shelby, Sarah, William, Alexander, Andrew, Thomas, James , Jacob, Jonah, Samuel, Landree, Leah and Wesley; 1 sister-in-law Bonnie Burmeister;  a special “helper”/niece Barb Genzlinger as well as many nieces and nephews.

Dolores was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Wilbur; a son: Thomas, all of her siblings: Gerald, John (Elaine), Leon (Jeannine), Marjorie (Perry), Alice (Gilbert), and Phyllis.

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Walter "Jack" Fargo - July 03, 1942 - November 18, 2021

Departed: 11/18/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Walter "Jack" Fargo, age 79, of Canova, died Thursday, November 18, 2021, at Avera McKennan Hospital in Sioux Falls. Per his request, no services will be held.

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Janet Martin - August 11, 1958 - November 18, 2021

Departed: 11/18/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Janet Martin, age 58, of Howard, died Thursday, November 18, 2021, at the Good Samaritan Society in Howard. Per her request, no services will be held.

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Walter Wipf - November 28, 1946 - October 27, 2021

Departed: 10/27/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Walter J. Wipf, age 74, of Howard, died peacefully with family by his side on Wednesday, October 27, 2021, at Avera Queen of Peace in Mitchell. Funeral services will be 11:00 AM, Saturday, October 30, 2021, at the Fulton Christian Fellowship Church. Burial will follow at the Cloverleaf Cemetery. Visitation will be 5-8 PM, Friday at the church.

Walter was born on November 28, 1946, on Olivet, to John and Suzanne Wipf. As a little boy his family lived at Tschetter Colony for a short time, later moved to Graceville Colony and eventually moved to Cloverleaf Colony, where he met the love of his life Dorothy. They were married on August 6, 1967, and were married 54 years. Together they had 5 children, Miriam, Joshua, Loretta, Jeannie (Sam) and Lisa (Richard). He had 8 beloved grandchildren Andrea (Thomas), Samantha, Amber, Amelia, Samuel, Kaylee, Jaylon (Ashley) and Keira; and 15 great-grandkids. Walter worked at the chicken and turkey barns at Cloverleaf for many years. He also hauled grain for the colony. Later he worked for Dr. Karlen and sons farm, PBM in Howard, and Meyers Bee Company in Winfred till his accident which led him to retirement. In recent years, he enjoyed road trips attending many Rodeos with his wife, brother John and sister-in-law Elizabeth. In his spare time he loved riding around the farm with his golf cart and listening to gospel music. He had a passion for collectables and antiques. He found great joy in face timing with his children, family and friends. Walter was well known as (the Jerky and chicken guy) selling it to many friends and family. He will be greatly missed by many!!

Survivors include his wife Dorothy; two sisters, Ester Hofer of Maple River, ND, Susie (Pete) Altona, MN; and the other relatives listed above.

He was preceded in death by his parents; one son Joshua Wipf; three brothers, Herman, John, Henry; and four sisters, Becky, Christy, Dora, and Helen.

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Eileen R. Bockorny - May 11, 1925 - October 25, 2021

Departed: 10/25/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Eileen R. Bockorny, age 96, of Howard, died Monday, October 25, 2021, at the Good Samaritan Society in Howard. Funeral services will be 11:00 AM, Monday, November 1, 2021, at Willoughby Funeral Home in Howard. Inurnment will follow at St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery in Howard.

Eileen was born on May 11, 1925, in Huron, to Charles and Alma (Authier) Zieman. She was united in marriage to Bill Bockorny on December 2, 1944, at Woonsocket. The couple moved to Howard in 1947, where Eileen worked for several businesses throughout her working career.

Eileen was a very active member of St. Agatha Catholic Church in Howard, the Howard Golf Club, the senior citizen's club, and the bridge club. She enjoyed camping, fishing, hunting, bowling, reading and playing cards.

Those grateful for sharing her life include her two sons, Gary Bockorny and Bob (Darla) Bockorny both of Sioux Falls; two granddaughters, Jody, and Tracy (Dan) Nelson of Sioux Falls; two grandsons, Stacy and Chad; one step-granddaughter, Lennea Solem; one step-grandson, Mark (Susan) Solem; great-grandson, Luke Nelson (Dan & Tracy); and two step-great-granddaughters, Elle and Kora; two step-great-grandsons, Joshua and Andrew Solem. She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband; two brothers, Bob and Gil; one sister, MaryLee; and one daughter-in-law, Karen Bockorny

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Dorothy Snedeker - December 19, 1918 - October 22, 2021

Departed: 10/22/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy D. Snedeker, age 102, of Carthage, died Friday, October 22, 2021, at the Good Samaritan Society in DeSmet. Memorial services will be 1:00 PM, Wednesday, November 3, 2021, at the Carthage Community Center. Inurnment will follow at Pleasant View Cemetery at Carthage.

Dorothy was born on December 19, 1918, in Danube, MN, to Fred and Bertha (Riel) Seehusen, the second of eight children. She moved to Carthage with her family in 1926, where she attended school and graduated in 1937. She met her future husband Joe at a dance in Carthage and they were married in 1938. Joe and Dorothy worked at Tailor Ranch west of Iroquois. Joe was a ranch hand and Dorothy cooked for the entire working crew. Eventually, they purchased a farm west of Carthage and lived there from 1941 - 1986 before they moved into a home in Carthage. Joe passed away in 2000, and Dorothy remained living at the house until March of 2020 when she moved to the Good Samaritan Society in DeSmet. She was a great neighbor and was known for her excellent cooking, especially her pecan pie.

Grateful for sharing her life is one sister, Ardene Langfield of Farmers Ranch, TX; many nieces and nephews; and a host of friends.

She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Joe in 2000; three sisters; and four brothers.

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Lloyd W. Koepsell - April 28, 1930 - October 21, 2021

Departed: 10/21/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Lloyd Koepsell, age 91, of Canova, died Thursday, October 21, 2021, at Madison Regional Health System. Funeral services will be 10:30 AM, Tuesday, October 26, 2021, at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Canova. Burial will follow at the church cemetery. Visitation will be 5-7 PM, Monday, at Willoughby Funeral Home in Howard with a prayer service at 7 PM following the visitation.

Lloyd William Koepsell was born on April 28,1930, in the Canova Hospital (Canova, SD) to William and Mathilda “Tillie” Koepsell and lived until age 91.  His father passed away in 1934. He was raised by Rudolph Koepsell until his death and then by Elvie Moomaw.

Lloyd attended country school through the 9th grade.  In 1947, he worked on the Jack Gosmire farm.  At 17, Lloyd proudly drove a 6-horse hitch on a 3-bottom plow.  In 1948, he farmed with Ralph Salmen.  From 1949-50, Lloyd worked to build the Fort Randall Dam in Pickstown, SD.

In October 1951, he was drafted.  He completed his basic training in Fort Knox, KY.  He went overseas where he served in the Army with the A Company 1st Engineers.  He came home in September 1953 where he began farming on the Koepsell farm.

Lloyd married the love of his life, Connie Hanten, on July 10, 1955.  Of this union, 6 children were born – Dawn, LaVoy, Roxie, Wanda, Chad, and Heath.  In 1961, Lloyd moved the John Block house (located south of Immanuel Lutheran Church) to the home place. Lloyd had the ability to build and fix anything. He took great pride in his farm, had a love of animals, and was fortunate to stay active around the place until his very last days.

Lloyd was a baptized and confirmed member of Immanuel Lutheran Church where he served as Deacon for many years.  He was also a member of the American Legion Post 61.

He is survived by his children Dawn (Dave) Mason, Sioux City, IA; LaVoy (Buck) Amundson, Colton; Roxie (Dave) Frey, Mt. Vernon; Wanda (John) Laible, Howard; Chad (Kelli), Canova; Heath (Ronda), Canova; 21 grandchildren – Jaime, Shawn (Amie), Carly (Adam Pemberton), Cara, Cally, Sabra, Chelsea, Sierra, Brooke, Stephanie, Dean, Drew, Camren (Becki), Vanessa (Wyatt Walter), Landon (Abby), Ceri (Alex Klopp), Carolyn, Cayla, Morgan (Brady Maher), Madisen, and Kolt; 13 great-grandchildren – Austyn, Canyon, Hadynn, Leon, Emberlee, Collins, Tawny, Blake, Zack, Lettie, Ransom, Whitley, and Grey; brother-in-law, sisters-in-law, and several special friends.

Lloyd was preceded in death by parents, step-parents, his wife (Connie), granddaughter (Shannon Kidd), son-in-law (Dave Neises), sister (Jeanette Peterson), half-brother (Leroy Koepsell), sisters-in-law, brothers-in-law, and many friends.

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LeRoy E Hemmer - March 14, 1927 - October 05, 2021

Departed: 10/05/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: LeRoy Hemmer, age 94, of Howard, died Tuesday, October 5, 2021, at the Good Samaritan Society in Howard. Funeral services will be 10:30 AM, Saturday, Ocober 9, 2021, at the Willoughby Funeral Home in Howard. Burial will follow at St. John Lutheran Cemetery. Visitation will be one hour prior to services on Saturday.

LeRoy Edward Hemmer was born on March 14, 1927, north of Howard. He went to school through the 8th grade in the Canova area. He farmed all his life north of Canova until retirement in 1994.

LeRoy married Thelma Wallwin at St. John’s Lutheran Church in Howard on December 7, 1962. A son, Joseph LeRoy, was born to the union on June 10, 1963. LeRoy adopted Thelma’s daughter, Mary Ann. Thelma passed away on September 20, 1966.

The family grew in November of 1969 when LeRoy married Bonnie Paige. Bonnie had three daughters (Starr, Edna, & Dee) and they had one daughter (Jodie) together.

LeRoy & Bonnie retired in 1994 and moved to Madison in 1995. They lived there until 2018 when they moved into the Good Samaritan Society in Howard, SD. LeRoy & Bonnie loved all kinds of dancing and were active in the Senior Center in Madison.

Over the years LeRoy was a board member of the Canova Lumber Yard and an elder at St John’s Lutheran Church in Howard. He also planted trees for the ASCS office and volunteered at Prairie Village after his retirement. He also helped various farmers with field work.

LeRoy is survived by his wife, Bonnie, and 6 children: Mary (Robert) Van Emmerik, Starr Cheeseman & special friend (Rick Griffith), Edna (Brian) Jorgensen, Dee Wilson, Joe Hemmer & special friend (Colleen Healy), Jodie (Rod) Gluhm; numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren; and brother-in-law, Gene Van Emmerik.

LeRoy was preceded in death by his first wife, Thelma; parents, August & Minnie Hemmer; sister, Helen Van Emmerik; infant sister, Delores Hemmer; granddaughter, Brandi Lueders; and son-in-law, Lynn Cheeseman.

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Henry VanDenHemel - June 03, 1941 - September 23, 2021

Departed: 09/23/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Henry VanDenHemel, age 80, of Madison, died Thursday, September 23, 2021, at the Good Samaritan Society in Howard. Private Mass of Christian Burial will be 12:00 PM, Saturday, October 2, 2021, at St. William Catholic Church in Ramona. Inurnment will follow at the church cemetery. There will be no reception in consideration of COVID 19.

Henry was born on June 3, 1941, in Madison to Achille and Cecilia (Discher) VanDenHemel. He attended St. Thomas School in Madison through the 8th grade and then attended Madison High School where he graduated in 1957. Henry was employed by the railroad and by Gehl Manufacturing in Madison until his retirement. He enjoyed motorcycling and car racing.

He is survived by his brother Francis VanDenHemel and his wife Barbara of Omaha, NE, his sister Betty Stockwell and her husband Daniel of Palatine, IL, his brother John VanDenHemel and his wife Marilyn of Fairmont, MN, and several nieces, nephews, and cousins.

He was preceded in death by his parents, and one sister, Marie VanDenHemel.

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Bradley Clary - December 24, 1953 - August 25, 2021

Departed: 08/25/2021 (Howard)

Obituary Preview: Bradley Gene Clary, 67, of Howard, passed away on Wednesday, August 25, 2021, at his home. Memorial services will be 11:00 AM, Tuesday, August 31, 2021, at Heritage Funeral Home in Sioux Falls. Inurnment will follow at the Eden Cemetery in Hudson.

He was born on December 24, 1953, in Hawarden, IA, to Kenneth and Marian (Kruse) Clary.

Brad was raised on the family farm southwest of Rock Valley, IA, where he attended grade school until his family moved to Harrisburg, where he graduated from high school in 1972. After high school he attended Mitchell Vo-tech where he learned to be mechanic.

Brad was married to Kathryn (Froseth) Hoekstra and they had 3 children, Rochelle, Michael and Renae. He shared with them his enjoyment for the outdoor and many hours were spent riding motorcycles, going to races, shooting guns, hunting either rifle or archery and especially fishing. The Missouri River is a special place and being out in the boat with a rod in the water was the best place to be, didn’t even matter if you were catching fish or just listening to tunes waiting for the next bite.

Brad lived and worked in Sioux Falls and surrounding areas until his love of hunting and fishing moved him west to Platte, in 2001. He worked at Kelly’s Auto Parts as a mechanic until 2014 when he moved to Howard, to manage Sturdevant’s where he was until his death.

Brad’s love for motorcycles turned into an annual trip to the Sturgis Rally for the past 25 years as well as the purchase of 2 Harley Davidson motorcycles. His trip to Sturgis was the highlight of his year. Riding in the hills with his friends and family was always his favorite time. Brad loved living life his way which always included Coors.

Brad is survived by his three children Rochelle (Michael) Tietgen, Burke, Michael (Brenda) Clary, Howard, and Renae (Rodney) Carlson, Neola, IA; seven grandchildren Sawyer Tietgen, Morgan Tietgen, Ki-ya Clary (Sam Johnston), Lillian Mead, Casidee Clary, Kimberly Carlson and Candace Carlson; one great-grandchild Harlow Mead and one brother Rickie Clary (Sioux Falls).

He was preceded in death by his parents.

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What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It serves as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and the community.

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Obituaries are important because they provide a way to honor and remember the deceased, while also informing others of their passing. They can also serve as a historical record, providing valuable information for genealogical research and family histories.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by the family of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, a close friend or colleague may also write an obituary.

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How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but it's generally recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important information. A good rule of thumb is to aim for 1-2 paragraphs at most.

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