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Helen Stilley Lilly - August 23, 1954 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Helen Stilley Lilly, 69, passed away on Friday, May 3, 2024 at her home.

The funeral service will be held on Tuesday at 2 pm in the Vanceboro Free Will Holiness Church in Vanceboro. The family will receive friends from 12:30 – 1:45 prior to the service. Burial will follow in Cayton Family Cemetery.

Helen was born in Craven County in the Cayton Community and was a lifelong resident of Craven County. She was a member of the Vanceboro Free Will Holiness Church for the past 8 years. She was employed by Weyerhaeuser retiring after 30 plus years.

Helen was an avid gardener and she loved to cook.

Helen was preceded in death by her parents, Randol and Muriel Stilley; husband, Jason Lilly; brothers, Jack, Grady and Randol Stilley; sister, Rebecca Laughinghouse; and a step grandson, Latham Lilly. She is survived by her: son, Jonathan Hannah and wife, Stacey; grandson, Alex Hannah; granddaughter, Brittany Wright and fiancé, Joshua Morris; great-granddaughter, Alora Morris; sister, Diane Stilley; step-son, Donald Lilly; step-daughter, Michelle Lilly; step-grandchildren, Jessica, Stephen, David, Jaclyn Lilly, Shelby Dubiel and Cole ;

and several nieces and nephews.

A special thank you to Martina of Craven County Hospice.

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Marie Williams Midgette - February 20, 1931 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Mrs. Marie Williams Midgette, 93, of Vanceboro, went home to be with her Lord and Savior on Sunday, April 28, 2024.

A celebration of her life will be held on Thursday, May 2, at 2:00 P.M. in the Wilkerson Funeral Chapel in Vanceboro. The family will receive friends from 12:45 to 1:45 P.M. prior to the service. Burial will take place at Celestial Memorial Gardens in Vanceboro.

Mrs. Marie, daughter of the late Agnew and Julia Williams, was born on February 20, 1931, in Craven County. She attended Vanceboro schools and married Columbus Midgette, a native of Hyde County, on March 1, 1947. Mrs. Marie was an outstanding cook, especially her homemade cakes and biscuits. She was also known for her clean house. Mrs. Marie was very active in her children’s life as they were growing up and volunteered with the PTA for many years. She was a devoted wife and mother who loved her family. She was affectionately called Granny by her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Mrs. Marie was a faithful member of Vanceboro Christian Church for over 60 years. She will be missed by all who knew and loved her.

In addition to her parents, Mrs. Marie was preceded in death by her husband, Columbus Midgette; her brother, Agnew Mott Williams, Jr., and her sister, Julia Belo Paul.

She is survived by her daughter, Rose Midgette Morris and husband, Willie; son, Joseph Midgette and wife, Gail; son, Johnny Midgette and wife, Alesia; grandchildren, Tina Holton and husband, Bart, Amy French and husband, Joe, Amanda Pittman and husband, Roger, Joseph Midgette and wife, Danielle, Chelsea Midgette, and Emily Midgette; great–grandchildren, Noah Holton and wife, Lana, Gracyn Pittman, Chloe Ringer, Jenna Holton, Hailey Pittman, Joseph (Tripp) Midgette, and Ainsley Midgette.

Memorial contributions may be made in memory of Mrs. Marie to the Vanceboro Christian Church, PO Box 505, Vanceboro, NC 28586.

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Madge Whitley Ferguson - June 02, 1947 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Madge Whitley Ferguson, 76, died Saturday, April 13, 2024.

Madge was born in Robersonville in Martin County on June 2, 1947 to the late Alton Funston Whitley and Magnolia Roebuck Whitley. Growing up in Vanceboro, Madge attended Vanceboro Elementary School and Farm Life High School. She was graduated from East Carolina University in 1969 with a Bachelor of Science degree in Biology.

Madge was a life-long Christian and as a youth attained an 18-year perfect attendance pin for Sunday school from Vanceboro Christian Church.

She began her career teaching middle school science and taught in various school systems in North Carolina. Later, she worked as a computer programmer for Reynolds & Reynolds in Greensboro, as well as Norcross and Blairsville, Georgia.

During her adult years, Madge traveled widely and lived in numerous cities in North and South Carolina, Virginia, Georgia, the US Virgin Islands, Colorado, and Texas; counting herself fortunate for all the opportunities and experiences she enjoyed in each location.

Madge was an excellent cook to the delight of her family and friends. She was equally a talented crafter in sewing, needlepoint, cross stitch, crewel embroidery, jewelry making, and in later years, quilt making. She enjoyed selecting fabrics and sewing quilts for family and friends, with each one lovingly made and uniquely designed for each person. Madge made ceramic items and giftware and fired them in her own electric kiln. In addition, she enjoyed reading, traveling, photography, and camping out with her husband and son.

Madge was predeceased by her husband, Patrick McHugh Ferguson, and her parents. She is survived by her son, Maxfield Alton Sussman of Colorado; and her two sisters, Jane Davis Whitley of Vanceboro, and Barbara Whitley Thompson (Phillip) of Gibsonville.

There will be a private memorial service for the family.

Memorial contributions may be made to The Service League of Greenville Inpatient Hospice, 920 Wellness Drive, Greenville, North Carolina 27834; or a charity of one’s choice.

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Lucille Chandler Nobles - September 11, 1931 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Lucille Chandler Nobles was called home to be with her Lord on Saturday, March 23, 2024.

A graveside service will be Wednesday at 11:00 AM at Celestial Memorial Gardens in Vanceboro.

Margie Lucille Chandler Nobles, born on September 11, 1931, was a native and lifelong resident of Craven County. She was a devoted wife to Clarence for 65 years and a favorite aunt to many nieces and nephews whom she loved as her own. Before retirement Mrs. Nobles worked in area sewing facilities and always enjoyed being the family seamstress. She was also a wonderful cook and loved to gather her family for fabulous holiday and birthday meals. She and her husband were active members of Oak Grove Free Will Baptist Church in Vanceboro for many years. Lucille and Clarence were avid campers and loved to travel with their tents, camper and eventually motorhome and enjoyed many trips, visiting campgrounds near and far with friends and family. Many wonderful memories were made around a campfire which usually included some lively gospel music.

Mrs. Nobles was preceded in death by her husband, Clarence Ray Nobles; mother, Geneva Porter Waters; father, John Robert Chandler; brothers, Robert Chandler, LeRoy Chandler, and Darrell Chandler; sisters, Dorothy Chandler and Gloria Chandler Hollowell; sisters-in-law, Lillian Nobles Carrow and Patsy Bell Lee.

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Frances Lilly White - October 07, 1928 - February 14, 2024

Departed: 02/14/2024 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Mrs. Frances Lilly White, 95, went to sleep in death on Wednesday, February 14, 2024, at her home in Vanceboro.

The funeral will be Monday, February 19 at 1:30 in the Wilkerson Funeral Home Chapel in Vanceboro. Burial will follow in the Vanceboro Cemetery.

Frances was born October 7, 1928, in the Epworth Community to the late Latham and Virgie Lilly. She was a devoted homemaker who cared for and loved her family dearly. She enjoyed gardening and took a lot of pride in the yard. She was also a dedicated Jehovah’s Witness who loved preaching the good news of Gods Kingdom, which will bring about a resurrection of dead loved ones here on a paradise earth in the near future (Rev 21:3,4).

She was proceeded in death by her husband, James Edward (Pete) White, Sr. Sisters Evelyn Gaillard, Opal Cayton and Shelby White. Brothers James, Gene and Grady Lilly.

She is survived by sons James Edwards (Skookie) White, Jr. and wife JoAnn of Vanceboro, Frederick Latham White and wife Mary of Greenville, Charles Richardson White of New Port and Daughter Lisa White Dunn and husband Darrell of Vanceboro.

The family wishes to thank Jennifer and Jessica from Craven County Hospice for the loving and tender care they gave our mother.

The family will receive friends Sunday, February 18 from 5:00 to 7:00 at Wilkerson Funeral Home in Vanceboro and at other times at the home.

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Twila Coward Toler - January 03, 1938 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Ms. Twila Coward Toler passed away on Saturday, February 10, 2024 at the age of 86.

A graveside service will be held Wednesday at 2:30 PM in the Chapman’s Church Cemetery. The family will receive friends prior to the service on Wednesday from 1 to 2 PM at Wilkerson Funeral Home in Vanceboro.

Born in the Dudley’s Crossroad community of Craven County, she lived most of her life in the Vanceboro area and was a member of Juniper Chapel Free Will Baptist Church.  Mrs. Toler was a homemaker for most of her life. She was employed at Metts Garment Factory, Belk’s of New Bern, and also Wilkerson Funeral Home in Vanceboro for a few years.

She was preceded in death by her father, Romie Lee Coward; mother, Bertha Hardee Coward; brother, Donald Lee Coward; and husband, Clifford Toler.

She is survived by her daughters, Cathy Smith and husband, Spike of Clayroot, Connie Lancaster and partner, Mike Gray, of Dudley’s Crossroads, Denise Wilson and partner, Bert Stallings, of New Bern; grandchildren, Gwen Carter and husband, Brandon, of Vanceboro, and Chelsea Russ and husband, Kenneth, of Greenville; and great-grandson, Jackson Carter of Vanceboro.

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Robert Harold Drake - October 29, 1938 - February 04, 2024

Departed: 02/04/2024 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Robert Harold Drake, 85, of Vanceboro, passed away Sunday, Feb. 4, 2024.

Funeral service will be at 3 p.m., Saturday, Feb. 10, 2024 at Wilkerson Funeral Home in Vanceboro, with the Rev. Bryant Jones and the Rev. Mike Scott officiating. Visitation will be from 1-2:30 p.m. prior to the service. Burial will follow at Vanceboro Cemetery.

He was born Oct. 29, 1938 in Craven County, a son of Robert and Maryland Drake. A graduate of Farm Life High School, Harold married Alma Chandler on June 26, 1959 and they had two children. Harold worked as a tire changer and truck driver and served in the National Guard before beginning a 28-year career at Weyerhaeuser. He retired to take care of Alma. He was involved in several Vanceboro-area churches throughout his life and served as a Sunday school teacher and deacon.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his wife of 56 years, Alma Drake; his son, John Harold Drake; three sisters, Helen Drake, Hazel Jones and Arlene Parker; and a brother, Linwood Drake.

He is survived by his daughter, Wanda Toler (William Shadie “Pee Wee”) of Caton; grandchildren, William R. Toler of Rockingham, Jesse Toler of Caton, Robert Chandler Drake (Chloe Meyer) of Arizona, Jordan Parnin (John) of Greenville, and Macy Cannon (Kalee) of Fuquay-Varina; great-grandchildren, Harley Franks (Zach), Charlotte Rae Parnin and Camden Meyer; daughter-in-law, Susan Drake; brother, Bobby Drake (Bonnie); nephew, Patrick Troutner of Vanceboro; other nieces, nephews and friends; and caretaker, Melanie Evans Jones.

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Peggy Fillingame Huff - April 16, 1944 - January 13, 2024

Departed: 01/13/2024 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Peggy Fillingame Huff, 79,  passed away on Saturday January 13, 2024.

A graveside service will be held on Wednesday at 1:30 pm at the High Bridge Cemetery near Askins.

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Sandra Lynn Whilhelm - April 16, 1961 - January 10, 2024

Departed: 01/10/2024 (Vanceboro)

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Sandra Lynn Whilhelm - April 16, 1961 - January 10, 2024

Departed: 01/10/2024 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Mrs. Sandra Lynn Whilhelm, 62, passed away on Wednesday, January 10, 2024.

The funeral service will be held on Sunday, January 14, 2024 at 2:30 PM in the Wilkerson Funeral Home Chapel in Vanceboro. Burial will follow in Vanceboro Cemetery.

Mrs. Whilhelm, a native of Delaware, had lived in the Vanceboro Community for the last 24 years. She was employed with C-A HVAC in New Bern. She has a great love for her dogs.

She is survived by her: husband of 26 years, Dale Whilhelm; daughter, Stefanie Stevens of Vanceboro; son, Shane Pardoe of New Jersey; sisters, Jackie Couvillon and Pam Roberts both of Maryland; 9 grandchildren; and 4 great-grandchildren.

The family will receive friends on Sunday from 1:30-2:30 pm at Wilkerson Funeral Home in Vanceboro.

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Shirley M. James - February 14, 1935 - December 15, 2023

Departed: 12/15/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Mrs. Shirley M. James, 88, went to be with her Lord on Friday December 15, 2023 after a brief illness and was surrounded by her family.

The funeral service will be held on Tuesday at 12 noon in the Wilkerson Funeral Chapel in Vanceboro. The family will receive friends prior to the service from 11 – 12 pm in the Wilkerson Funeral Home in Vanceboro. Entombment will follow in Greenleaf Cemetery, New Bern.

Mrs. James was a native and lifelong resident of Craven County where she touched many lives through her many years of teaching at Farm Life Elementary School. She was active in the Sudan Truckettes. Mrs. James was also an active member in her church, the Global Methodist Church in Vanceboro. She was a member of the Order of the Eastern Star Vanceboro #231. She loved her family and was their matriarch. Her shoes will be hard to fill.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Johnnie and Margaret Moreadith; husband, Charles James; and a son, Warren James. Left to cherish her memory are her: daughter, Nancy Ormond and husband, Frank; grandchildren, Joey Register and wife, Ashley, John Register and wife, Shannon, and Miranda Witherington and husband, Dustin; great-grandchildren, Hailee, Taylor, Logan, and Wesley Register and Lillian Witherington; and her later life sweetheart, Mr. Beverly Ross;

and a number of nieces, nephews, and friends.

Memorials may be made to the Vanceboro Global Methodist Church Building Fund, PO Box 65, Vanceboro, NC 28586 or Shriners Hospital for Children, PO Box 947765, Atlanta, GA 30394.

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John Henry Anderson - November 16, 1959 - December 11, 2023

Departed: 12/11/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Mr. John Henry Anderson, 64, passed away Monday, December 11, 2023.

A service will be announced at a later date.

John lived most of his life in the Vanceboro community and was a graduate of West Craven High School. He loved to hunt and fish and cherished spending time with his family.

John was preceded in death by his parents, Charlie and Geneva Anerson; a sister, Lori Ann Anderson; and a niece, Crystal Thompkins.

He is survived by his daughter, Sara Anderson and her fiancé, Trampis Waters; grandson, Landon Waters; Siblings, Jimmy Anderson, Betty Anderson, Charlie Anderson, Jr., Linda Anderson, and Kerrie Thomas; and many nieces.

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Glenn Thomas Snider - December 13, 1934 - November 05, 2023

Departed: 11/05/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Glenn Thomas Snider, age 88, of New Bern, North Carolina, passed from this life into eternity at his home on Sunday, November 5, 2023, surrounded by his family and loved ones.

The funeral will be Wednesday, November 8, 2023, at 2:00 pm at the Wilkerson Funeral Chapel in Vanceboro. The family will receive friends from 12:30 - 1:45 pm. He will be laid to rest at Celestial Memorial Gardens in Vanceboro, North Carolina.

Glenn was born in Gastonia, North Carolina on December 13, 1934. He was one of eleven children. At the age of twelve, after his father’s passing, Glenn and two of his siblings went to live at Oxford Masonic Orphanage. While at Oxford, he learned the trade of printing. He graduated in 1954. After graduation, he moved to New Bern, North Carolina to work at Owen G. Dunn Printing. In 1955, he enlisted in the United States Army and went to boot camp at Fort Jackson, South Carolina. He served three years, including an eighteen month deployment in Germany. Upon his discharge he returned to his position at Owen G. Dunn Printing. In 1967, he began working at the United States Marine Corps Air Station at Cherry Point as a pressman. Through the years, he advanced to the supervisor of the base printing shop and had the highest level of civilian security clearance on the base. He retired in March of 1995.

Glenn loved Jesus and loved people. He was known for his humble and gentle spirit. He lovingly served at Saint’s Delight FWB Church in New Bern, North Carolina as a deacon and church leader for many years. In more recent years, he joined Holly Hill PH Church in Vanceboro, North Carolina.

There were few things he enjoyed more than working outside, whether it was in his garden, tending the grape vine, cutting grass or just “piddlin” in the yard. He loved his Folgers coffee, reading, and watching the Redskins or Panthers play football.

He was preceded in death by his parents Samuel McAfee Snider Jr. and Bessie Smith Snider Shook; his siblings Kate Patterson (Clifford), Mary Wells (Ernest), John Snider, Shirley Leesnitzer (Robert), Jimmy Snider (Beth), Hunter Snider, Lilly Snider, Billy Snider and Dorothy Snider; and his step-daughter, Valerie Tyndall.

He is survived by his loving wife, Elizabeth Morris Snider; two children, Glenn Timothy Snider and Cheryl Snider Morrow (David); one step-daughter, Kay Tyndall Bennett; grandchildren, Joel Snider (Kelli), Olivia Snider, Caitlyn Sutton and Caroline Sutton; two great grandchildren, Adrian Meza and Nora Grace Snider; his sister Paulette Shaw (Bernard); and numerous nieces and nephews.

The family would like to express their heartfelt appreciation and love to PruittHealth Hospice for their excellent care, guidance, and devotion.

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Barbara Louese Taylor - April 07, 1942 - October 25, 2023

Departed: 10/25/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Taylor was called home to be with the Lord on October 25, 2023. She passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by her loving family. She was born April 7th, 1942 to the late Willard F. Hohenstein and Ethel L. Weatherwax in Albany, NY. She is a graduate of Guilderland High School.

Barbara devoted her 32-year career to the New York State Department of Health, first as a senior laboratory technician in the Wadsworth Center, and later as a research scientist in the Tuberculosis Control Program.

Barbara is survived by her loving husband Grant C. Taylor, Sr. She was the cherished mother of Rasheeda Yvonne Khan (Adil), Lori Iarossi (Steve), Todd Lance, and Tony Lance. She was the beloved grandmother of Rahila Beaudoin, Dane Moslander (Nicole), Adnan Khan (Zorina), Kelsey Moslander, Talib Khan, Joshua King, Ashley Zuercher (Kevin), Samantha Piel (Codey), Jessica Jeune (Kristopher), and Alexandra Lance. Barbara was the treasured great-grandmother to MaryEllen Moslander, Mason Moslander, Rayyan Beaudoin, Addlyin Jeune, Deacon Piel, Zara Khan, and Zoey Zuercher. She was also a precious aunt, great-aunt, and cousin.

Barbara is preceded in death by her parents, and brother, Philip Gene Hohenstein (Carolyn); and former husband, Charles Yerbury.

An avid reader, Barbara devoured all types of books. She loved spoiling her three cats and could often be found reading, covered in a purple blanket, with a purring cat in her lap.

She enjoyed creating a beautiful garden with her favorite lilies, providing an oasis for the cardinals she adored.

She loved visiting local antique shops seeking rare finds as she bought and sold precious antiques as the owner of Carousel Cottage Antiques in New Bern, NC.

Barbara’s life-long love of Elvis music included many years as the President of the local Elvis Presley Fan Club.

The family deeply appreciates the staff of Craven County Hospice for the wonderful care and attention provided to Barbara and her family.

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Eugene "Gene" R. Johnson - January 14, 1955 - October 12, 2023

Departed: 10/12/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Eugene “Gene” R. Johnson, 68, son of the late Eugene and Pearl Reaney Johnson, died Thursday, October 12, 2023.

Gene was a native of Greensburg, PA, but since 1990, Gene had made his home in the Vanceboro community.

He was very active in Pop Warner Football and church baseball leagues; and West Craven wrestling. Gene was an avid fisherman and enjoyed gardening, traveling, and carpentry. He also enjoyed spending time with his family.

Gene is preceded in death by a grandson, Boston Lawrence Johnson.

He is survived by his wife of 43 years, Catherine “Kate” Johnson; two sons, Aaron Johnson, and Nicholas “Nick” Johnson and wife, Erika all of Vanceboro; a daughter, Rachael Smith and husband, Cole of Grifton; a grandson and four granddaughters; two sisters, Judy Beckel and husband, Dale of Mansfield, OH; and Diane St. George of Massachusetts; and two brothers, David Johnson and Dan Johnson of Deland, FL.

The family will receive friends Sunday, October 22, 2023 from 3-5PM at Wilkerson Funeral Home, Vanceboro.

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Robert Harold Woolard - September 09, 1929 - October 05, 2023

Departed: 10/05/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Robert Harold “Bobby” Woolard, age 94, of Vanceboro, North Carolina, passed away peacefully at his home on Thursday, October 5th, 2023.

A graveside service will be held at 2 pm on Monday, October 9th at Celestial Memorial Gardens in Vanceboro.

He was born on September 9th, 1929 in Washington, N.C, a son to the late Johnie Frank Woolard and Daisy W. Woolard. He is proceeded in death by his parents, his loving wife of 71 years, Doris B. Woolard, and 4 of his 6 siblings; sisters, Joyce W. Pipkin, Oma J. Harris-Buettner, and brothers, Johnny Frank Woolard, Jr., and Otis Woolard.

Robert served in the U.S Army for two years and worked at Nutrien, formerly Texas Gulf/PCS Phosphate for 30 years. After retirement, he enjoyed being outside gardening, canning fruits and vegetables, and visiting with his family and friends.

He is survived by his son Michael Woolard and wife, Joanne of Vanceboro, NC; daughter, Lori Woolard of Vanceboro, NC; three grandchildren, Emily Woolard of Trent Woods, NC, Hunter Jones of Vanceboro, NC, and Hannah Newsome and husband, Evan of Winton, NC; brother, Melvin (Joe) Woolard and wife, Charlotte of Washington; and sister, Carol Latham. He also leaves behind his beloved cat, Oreo.

A special thank you to Patty Fornes for her love and care of Bobby and Doris for the past 8 years. The family would also like to thank the staff and nurses of 3HC.

Visitation will be held at Wilkerson Funeral Home in Vanceboro, on Sunday, October 8th from 6-8 pm, and other times at the Woolard residence.

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James Harvey Williams - January 06, 1952 - September 24, 2023

Departed: 09/24/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: John Harvey Williams, 71, passed away on Sunday, September 24, 2023.

Private burial services were held by the family in the Vanceboro Cemetery.

John Harvey, a native of Wayne County, was the son of the late Malcolm Williams and Myrtle Anderson Williams Summerell. He lived most of his life in Caswell Center in Kinston. He was always ready to tell you the time of the day and always ready for a chew of Red Man Chewing Tobacco. He was very fortunate to have lived where his caregivers were like his family always showing him compassion and love.

In addition to his parents, John Harvey was preceded in death by his step-father, Eugene Summerell, a brother, Malcolm Ray Williams, and sisters, Civeleen Williams Arrington and Kathleen Howard.

He is survived by his sister, Lorraine Sutton of Wilmington, brother, Mack Williams of Vanceboro; and several nieces and nephews.

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Rev. Lonnie Wetherington, Jr. - June 27, 1936 - September 23, 2023

Departed: 09/23/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Rev. Lonnie Wetherington, Jr., 87, passed away peacefully on Saturday, September 23, 2023 at his residence following a short but hard fought battle with cancer.

The funeral service will be held on Wednesday at 3 PM at Vanceboro Free Will Holiness Church. Burial will follow in Juniper Chapel Free Will Baptist Church cemetery.

Lonnie was born on June 27, 1936 to the late Leoana and Rev. Lonnie Wetherington, Sr. He was a dedicated pastor for 25 years at Vanceboro Free Will Holiness Church and worked as a carpenter all of his life. You could depend on his quality of work in building a home, extra room or carport. No job was ever too large or too small. He continued building until his retirement even though he never actually retired. He began to slow down by not taking larger jobs and continued doing additions and started a small rental business with his late wife, Velva.

Lonnie will be remembered for his hard work. He never just “relaxed”. He always said “when you stop moving, you die”. During the last 3 months of his life, he finally sat down, but this was not his choice. He told everyone that God had retired him and he was ready for his reward in heaven.

During his younger years, after accepting Jesus into his life, he started to minister to others in home prayer meetings. In the early 1970’s, he, along with others in his family, organized and started a small country church known today as West Vanceboro Church of God. He continued his ministry until he was called to pastor Vanceboro Free Will Holiness Church. This church was dear and close to his heart as it was his childhood church and filled with many of his earliest memories of his family’s strong ties to the ministry of serving God.

Lonnie loved spending time with his family. Fishing, hunting and cooking a rock stew for all of his “crowd” always put a smile on his face. He was a one of a kind and his family’s world will never be the same. Lonnie was a trusted and loving husband, daddy, granddaddy, brother, friend and most of all a child of God. His family has comfort in knowing he is no longer hurting and no longer worried with his earthly life.

In addition to his parents, Lonnie was preceded in death by his first wife, Velva Wetherington, and his brother, James Richard Wetherington. He is survived by wife of 12 years, Linda G. Wetherington; son, Lonnie Wetherington, III and Lisa Nobles; daughter, Lori W. Mills and husband, Raymond; grandchildren, Alisha Mills (Chris), Jim Mills, J.R. Mills, Rendi Wetherington, Lonnie W. Wetherington, IV (Will); great-grandchildren, Camrie Hart, Raymond Mills, IV, Taytum Mills; step-children, Robert Gurganus, Jr., Jennifer G. Whitehurst, Thomas Gurganus and wife, Meera, Jessica G. Kirk and husband, Matt, and Caitlin Andrews and husband, Justin; step-grandchildren, Bailee Mae Andrews, Cadence Kirk, Brian Gurganus, and  Chrisy G. Lewis and husband, Jordon; step-great grandchild, Wayne Thomas; sister, Melba Hawks; sister-in-law, Ruth Wetherington;

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Roger William Brown, III - March 16, 1975 - September 01, 2023

Departed: 09/01/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Roger William Brown, III, 48, passed away Friday, September 1, 2023.

A Celebration of Life service will be Saturday, September 9, at 2:00 PM at Wilkerson Funeral Chapel in Vanceboro. The family will receive friends from 1:00 – 1:45 PM. Interment will take place at Celestial Memorial Gardens in Vanceboro.

Roger, son of John McClain and the late Connie McClain, was born on March 16, 1975, in Montgomery, Alabama. He attended West Carteret High School in Morehead City. He enjoyed his work with farm animals.

In addition to his mother, Roger was preceded in death by his grandparents, Mary and Bob Lang and Anne and Joseph McClain.

Roger is survived by his father, John McClain of Vanceboro; sister, Melissa Gilmour of New Bern; his aunts, Rosemary Berry, Pam Avery, and Susan Sanders; and two cousins.

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Hoyte Brannon, Jr. - December 15, 1965 - August 30, 2023

Departed: 08/30/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Hoyte “Buddy” Brannon, Jr., 57, passed away on Wednesday August 30, 2023.

A memorial service will be held on Monday at 4 pm in the Wilkerson Funeral Chapel in Vanceboro. Hoyte had been a resident of the Vanceboro Community his entire life. For 20 years he was in the Auto Sales Industry and most recently owned and operated, along with wife, Buddy’s Barbeque. His life was fulfilled by his love for cooking, hunting, fishing and time spent with his family. He is survived by his: loving wife, Tischa Brannon; daughters, Kailie Brannon and fiancé, James Grimes, Brittani Brannon and fiancé, Casper Jones and Caitlin Trower; mother, Judy K. Chandler Lamm and husband, Wayne; brother, Jamie Rideoutt; sister, Mary Ammon and husband, Jay; four step-daughters;

six step-grandaughters.

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Nancy Judy Roberts - March 12, 1945 - August 30, 2023

Departed: 08/30/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Judy Anderson Roberts, 78, passed away on Wednesday, August 30, 2023.

A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, September 16, at 11:00 AM at the Wilkerson Funeral Chapel in Vanceboro. The family will receive friends following the service.

Judy, daughter of the late John and Louise Anderson, was born on March 12, 1945, in Pamlico County. She received her Degree in Cosmetology from Craven Community College and was a hairdresser for over 40 years in New Bern. The name of her shop was “Sister’s Salon” located on Metcalf Street. Judy would go out of her way to help others. She was a great mother and grandmother. She will be missed by all those who loved her.

Judy is survived by her three children, Donald Lee Phillips, Jr. and wife, Jeannie, of Vanceboro, Judith Lynn Keaton of Florida, and Donna Louise Phillips of Vanceboro; eight grandchildren; sixteen great-grandchildren; sister, Vicky Fevorka; brothers, Johnny Anderson and Carl Anderson; several nieces and nephews as well as many friends.

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Edna Helen King Ipock - September 23, 1933 - August 17, 2023

Departed: 08/17/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Mrs. Edna Helen King Ipock, 89, passed away on August 17, 2023 at Carolina East Hospital New Bern. She would have celebrated her 90th birthday on September 23.

Per her wishes a private service will be held by the family.

Helen was born in Craven County and graduated from Vanceboro Farm Life High School. She worked for many years for the Sagner Sewing Room in New Bern NC, Texfi in New Bern, Stanley Power Tools in New Bern and lastly Bosch Power Tools in New Bern, where she retired at the age of 70. She then babysat for her granddaughter’s three boys until age 80.

She was a lifelong member of Macedonia FWB church in Ernul NC (her home church) but in recent years watched the online services of The First Church of Goldsboro NC (her son’s church) and dearly loved The First Church Pastor, Bill Rose who made several visits to sit and talk with her.

Helen was preceded in death by her husband, Lewis Dalton Ipock; parents, Lee Rollins King and Sarah Edna Dail King; brother Grady Lee King, sister in-law Billie King and niece Terry Smith.

She is survived by her daughter, Teresa Ipock Hartsell and husband Danny Hartsell of New Bern; son, Lewis Ipock Jr and wife Theda Edge of Goldsboro; grandchildren, Michelle Hartsell Dixon and husband Brian Dixon of Chocowinity, Guy Benton Hartsell and wife Katie Butler Hartsell of Angier, Ethan Ipock and wife Corrine Chase Ipock of Goldsboro, Charlie-Marie Ipock Molnar and husband Craig Molnar of Leland, step-granddaughter Stacie Edge Moore and husband Rickie Moore of Goldsboro. She leaves behind her great-grandchildren who were the most precious things to her, Brice Dixon, Latham Dixon, Jake Dixon, Bentlee Hartsell, Haylee Hartsell, Brenna Ipock, Keegan Molnar and step grandson Connor Moore; special niece/care-giver Carla Smith and many other special nieces and nephews. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

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John Carter "Rusty" Woolard - July 19, 1944 - August 04, 2023

Departed: 08/04/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: John Carter "Rusty" Woolard, age 79, passed away peacefully surrounded by family in the early hours on Friday, August 4th 2023.

Rusty was born and raised in Washington, NC, and graduated from Washington High School in 1963. He had a great joy for baseball and played for many years; famed for being one of the outstanding performers ever produced at Washington High School. In 1963, as a high school senior he signed a Uniform Player Contract with The Pittsburgh Pirates. At 18 years old, an ace pitcher, at that time, he became the first local baseball player in almost two decades to sign a professional baseball contract in Beaufort County. In March of 1965, he met the love of his life Joyce Barrow, saying the day he met her that he knew she would be the one he would marry. Rusty and Joyce were married for 57 years and lived in Craven County where they made their home and raised their family. Rusty was employed with the Craven County Sheriff's Office for many years under the direction of the late Sheriff Pete Bland; rising through the ranks, ultimately finishing his career as a Lieutenant with the Criminal Investigative Division. During his tenure with the Sheriff's office he was instrumental in cultivating many programs such as the Craven County Community Crime Watch Program which was the forerunner of the Crime Stoppers tip line; initiating numerous training programs for fellow employees, one in particular being the incorporation of the first portable drug testing kit for Craven County. In 1987, he was awarded the Outstanding Governor's Award by being cited for his efforts in crime prevention, particularly with the Crimestoppers program. The Crime Stoppers program became one of the most successful programs in the state, as being awarded in the years to come. In 1989, Rusty was appointed as a Craven County Magistrate where he served until his retirement in 2008.

Rusty was preceded in death by his father Lindsay, mother Marion, and brothers Robin and Mac Woolard.

He is survived by his wife Joyce Woolard, daughter Wendy Craft and husband Dennis, daughter Karen Roberg and husband Tony, grandchildren Michael James, Ashton Craft, and Alexa Thomas, and great-grandchildren Jaci Rae and Colton James. Rusty enjoyed hunting and fishing dearly, his greatest love was the time he spent in serving others in many capacities. +

In keeping with his love and service to others, as well as the safety of the community; the family is asking in lieu of flowers that donations be made to West Vanceboro Church of God Benevolence fund, P.O. Box 486, Vanceboro, NC, or the Craven County Sheriff's Office Crime Stoppers Program, 1100 Clarks Road, New Bern, NC 28560.

A Memorial of Rusty's life will be held  at West Vanceboro Church of God, 2360 NC-43, Vanceboro, NC on Saturday August 12, 2023 at 12 noon. The family will receive friends 2 hours prior to the service at the church.

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Ricky Earl Lewis - April 09, 1963 - July 30, 2023

Departed: 07/30/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Ricky Earl Lewis, 60, passed away Sunday, July 30, 2023.

The funeral service will be held Friday, August 4, 2023, at 2:00 PM in the Wilkerson Funeral Chapel in Vanceboro, officiated by Rev. John Coward. Burial will follow at Celestial Memorial Gardens. The family will receive friends Friday for one hour prior to the service at the funeral home.

Mr. Lewis was a native and lifelong resident of the Ernul community of Craven County. He owned and operated Lewis Tree Works for many years. He loved taking pictures, spending time at the beach, going to the mountains, and riding his best friend Dakota around. He was a very hard worker and trustworthy; and would give the shirt off his back to anyone who needed it.

In addition to his parents, Mr. Lewis was preceded in death by his father, David Earl Lewis, mother, Audrey Lewis Cote and step-father, Claude Cote. He is survived by his wife of 15 years Frances Carol Lewis; son, David Adam Smith and wife, Jennifer;

daughter, Summer Locklear and boyfriend, Michael Day; grandchildren, Lynnsey Smith, “Pepa’s Little Buddy”, Liam Smith, and “Fur Baby”, Dakota Lewis; a special aunt, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews.

Memorials may be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital,https://www.stjude.org. Online condolences at www.WilkersonFuneralHome.com.

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Robert M. Satonick, Sr. - August 03, 1937 - July 12, 2023

Departed: 07/12/2023 (Vanceboro)

Obituary Preview: Robert M. Satonick, Sr. passed away on July 12, 2023.

Robert, who is a native of Pennsylvania, had lived in Vermillion, Ohio before moving to North Carolina in 1995. He retired from the Ford Motor Company after 30 years of service in 1993.

He is survived by two sons, Robert M. Satonick, Jr. and wife Sherry, and Kenneth V. Satonick and best friend, Kelly; a daughter, Tracie L. Brisk (Dean); four grandchildren, Jordan Satonick and wife Helena, Heather Satonick and fiancé Jason Sturms, Adam Peacock, and Ryan Satonick; four great-grandchildren; and many other family members.

He was preceded in death by his wife Catherine E. Satonick (Mitts); brother Michael Satonick, Jr.; a granddaughter, Kayla Marie Peacock; and several nieces and nephews.

A non-formal, casual, Family/Friends gathering to celebrate his life will be held at the Fountain Baptist Church in Fountain, NC from 1PM-3PM on July 22, 2023.

The family wishes that in lieu of sending flowers, to please send donations to Tender Mercies Pet Organization. Pay pal site information is in the link included here (https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted_button_id=ERVVBGVFF7CT6&source=url) or if you prefer, you can send your donation to Tender Mercies Pet Organization, PO Box 249, (or 767 NC 124 West), Macclesfield, NC 27852.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including biographical information, details about their life, and information about the funeral or memorial services. It is usually published in a newspaper, online, or in a funeral home's website.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to inform friends, family, and acquaintances of a person's passing, as well as to provide details about the funeral or memorial services. It also serves as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. Funeral homes may also offer assistance in writing and publishing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the deceased person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral or memorial services, charitable donations, and any other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Typically, it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the notice and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to find out their submission guidelines and deadlines. They may have specific requirements for formatting, length, and content.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms and websites that allow you to publish an obituary. These may include funeral home websites, online memorials, and social media platforms.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and the length of the notice. Some newspapers and online platforms may charge a fee, while others may offer free or low-cost options.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary can vary depending on the publication's schedule and deadlines. Online platforms may publish immediately, while print newspapers may take several days or weeks.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. However, this may depend on the publication's policies and procedures.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer to keep the obituary private, you can choose not to publish it publicly. Alternatively, you can restrict access to certain individuals or groups.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to control how they are remembered and celebrated. This can be a unique opportunity for self-reflection and storytelling.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives, visiting local libraries or genealogical societies, or contacting the newspaper directly to request copies of old obituaries.

Can I reuse an existing obituary for multiple publications?

Yes, you can reuse an existing obituary for multiple publications. However, be sure to check each publication's guidelines and formatting requirements before submitting.

What if I'm unsure about what to say in an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking help from a friend or family member. You can also consult with a funeral home or professional writer for guidance.

Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary is a celebration of life, so feel free to include humorous stories or personal anecdotes that capture the personality and spirit of the deceased.

How do I handle sensitive or difficult information in an obituary?

If you're dealing with sensitive or difficult information, such as a tragic death or complicated family dynamics, consider seeking guidance from a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor.

What if I want to include a special message or tribute in the obituary?

You can certainly include special messages or tributes in an obituary. This could be a favorite quote, song lyrics, or a personal message from loved ones.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes! Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share an obituary with a wider audience. You can also create a memorial page or group to honor the deceased.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy, double-check facts such as dates, names, and spellings. You may also want to have someone review the obituary before publishing.

What if I need help writing an obituary due to emotional distress?

If you're struggling with grief or emotional distress, consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support. You can also seek help from a professional counselor or therapist.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary?

Yes! Many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in the obituary as a way to honor their loved one's legacy.

How do I preserve an online obituary over time?

You can save a copy of the online obituary as a PDF or screenshot. You may also want to consider creating a permanent online memorial or archive.