White Family Funeral Home Obituaries

Introduction to White Family Funeral Home

Located in the heart of Idabel, Oklahoma, White Family Funeral Home has been providing compassionate and professional funeral services to the local community for years. With a long history of serving families in their time of need, this funeral home has established itself as a trusted and reliable choice for those seeking to honor their loved ones. In this article, we will delve into the services and amenities offered by White Family Funeral Home, as well as what sets them apart from other funeral homes in the area.

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White Family Funeral Home has a rich history of providing exceptional care and support to families in Idabel and surrounding areas. Founded on the principles of compassion, empathy, and understanding, this funeral home has built a reputation for going above and beyond to ensure that every family's needs are met. From traditional funeral services to cremations and memorial ceremonies, the staff at White Family Funeral Home are dedicated to providing personalized attention and care to each and every family they serve.

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Sylvia Louise Cotton - March 20, 1934 - April 13, 2022

Departed: 04/13/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Sylvia Louise Cotton, age 88 longtime Wright City, OK resident passed away on Wednesday, April 13, 2022 in Broken Bow, OK. She was born on March 20, 1934 in Chickasha, OK, the daughter of Robert and Ethel (Scott) Rankins.

Sylvia worked in the Wright City School Cafeteria for many years. She was a wonderful homemaker and enjoyed canning, quilting and gardening. Sylvia liked to hunt and also cook the fish her family caught on the river. She was a longtime member of the Wright City First Baptist Church where she taught Sunday School, helped put plays on, took kids to Church Camp and anything else she could do to help.

She was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Charles E. Cotton; son, Charles L. Cotton; brothers, Eugene Rankins, Clyde Rankins, Eldon Rankins, Robert Rankins, Edmond Rankins, Blondie Rankins and James Rankins; sisters, Virgie Rankins and Lorena Lawrence.   Sylvia is survived by her sons, Mitchell Cotton and Valerie of Coyle, OK, David Cotton of Wright City, OK; daughters, Mary Mahon and Dale of Valliant, OK and Vicki Migliaccio and Dr. John of Idabel, OK; brother, Raymond Rankins and Kay of Broken Bow, OK; sisters; Doris Roberts and William of Wright City, OK and Yvonne Tidmore and Amon of Swink, OK; grandchildren, Eric Cotton, Ashley Delorme, Rebecca Carper, Kristie Cotton, Charlena Kennedy, Heather Cotton, Shawn Campbell, Jessica Evans and Sarah Flowers; several nieces, nephews other relatives and many friends.

Funeral services will be held at 2:00 pm on Monday, April 18, 2022 at the First Baptist Church in Wright City, OK with Bro. Aaron Strange and Bro. Jerry Speck officiating. Interment will follow at the Glover Cemetery.

The family will receive friends from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Saturday, April 16, 2022 at the funeral home..

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Martha Janoice Ingram - March 24, 1937 - March 28, 2022

Departed: 03/28/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Martha Janoice Johnson Ingram, age 85 passed away on Monday, March 28, 2022 at her home in Idabel, OK. She was born on March 24, 1937 in Hochatown, OK, the daughter of Opal Johnson.

Martha enjoyed embroidering in her spare time, but most of all she loved spending time with her family and friends. Martha was a longtime member of the Lynn Lane Church of Christ. She was a lifetime resident of McCurtain County.

She was preceded in death by her mother; Opal Johnson; husband, Henry W. Ingram in 1987; sons, Walter Wayne, Delmar Ray, William Hank Ingram; uncle, Victor Johnson and cousin, Della Jackson.

Martha is survived by her daughters, Ruth Ingram and husband, Robert DeMoss of Idabel, OK and Glenda Johnson of Idabel, OK; son-in-law, Charles Olive, Durant, OK; grandchildren, Kyle Caldwell, Ryan Caldwell, Jackie Caldwell Farley, Ashley Caldwell and Preston Stephens; great-grandchildren; Hannah, Austin, Stormy, Ayden; special friend, Fay Allison and other relatives and friends.

Grveside services will be held at 2:00 pm on Saturday, April 2, 2022 at the Canfield Cemetery in Idabel, OK with Bro. Jimmy Smalling officiating.

The family will receive friends on Friday, April 1, 2022 from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm at the funeral home.

Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.whitefamilyfh.com.

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Betty Ruth Ramsey - August 28, 1941 - March 23, 2022

Departed: 03/23/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Betty Ruth Ramsey, age 80 passed away on Wednesday, March 23, 2022 at her home in Idabel, OK. She was born on August 28, 1941 in Sapulpa, OK, the daughter of William Riley Tidmore and Ruth Inez Faulkner Tidmore.

Betty was a woman of many talents. She worked many jobs and did not like being told what she could not do. She was a carpenter, welder, brick layer, hay baler, sign maker, musician, teacher and artist. She worked in the Court Clerk's office for 12 years prior to going back to college. After she received her bachelor's degree, she taught art at the Idabel Middle School. During that time, she received her Master's Degree in Education.

After retirement, she started traveling with the Museum of Red River and saw 21 different countries. She enjoyed spending time with her family and friends, singing in the choir at the Methodist Church in Idabel, OK and helping to provide ministry through music for the local nursing homes.

Betty Ramsey was a very talented artist and musician that enjoyed life to the fullest.

She was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Chester Ramsey; infant son, Anthony Lester; sisters, Martha Inez Tidmore, Glenda Ann Tidmore and her brother, Jimmy Dale Tidmore.

Betty is survived by her son, Wayne Provence and Sylvia of Valliant, OK; daughter, Robin Adams and Kurt of Hochatown, OK; grandchildren, Kerrie Beene and Allen, Cody Wood and Nikki, Scooter Provence and Jessica, Kasha Butler and Ryan, Sydney Provence, Joey Adams and Kyler Adams and Marisa; great-grandchildren; Raelyn Beene, Rayner Beene, Mikayia Wood, William Provence, Jett Provence and Lennox Butler; brothers, Billy Ray Tidmore of Franklin, TN and William Eugene “BooG” Tidmore of Seminole, OK; sister, June Bean of Valliant, OK; several nieces, nephews, other relatives and many friends and former students.

Funeral Services will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Monday, March 28, 2022 at the First United Methodist Church in Idabel, OK with Rev. Mark Polson officiating. Interment will follow at the Valliant Cemetery. The family will receive friends from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm on Sunday, March 27, 2022 at the funeral home.  Memorials can be made to the Lewy Body Dementia Society or the Idabel First United Methodist Church.

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Virginia Franklin - May 08, 1938 - March 19, 2022

Departed: 03/19/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Virginia Franklin, age 83 passed away on Saturday, March 19, 2022 at her home in Bokoshe, OK. She was born on May 8, 1938 in Idabel, OK, the daughter of Tobias and Rosa Tushka Williston.

Virginia enjoyed quilting, going for car rides and eating ice cream. She was very close to her sisters and had their own table at the church known as the sister's table. Virginia was a longtime faithful member of the Bokchito Methodist Church and cared deeply for her church family and enjoyed worshipping with them. She loved her family and cherished time spent with them.

She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Benjamin Franklin; daughters, Nawatha Baker and Connie Franklin; grandsons, Kevin Raymond and Gabriel Tonihka; granddaughter, Rendi Franklin, brothers, Silas Williston, John Williston, Angus Williston, Kenneth Williston, Ben Williston, LeRoy Williston, William Williston and James Williston; sisters, Aline Johnson and Estherline Anderson.

Virginia is survived by her sons, Ben Franklin, Jr. of Eufala, OK, Brian Franklin of Broken Bow, OK and Edmond Brent Franklin of Oklahoma City, OK; daughters, Marietha Bond and Larry of Bethel, OK, Valeria Franklin of Battiest, OK, Thelma Kaniatobe and Rick of Golden, OK, Wahneeta Ferguson and Richard of Bokoshe, OK, Tracie Willis of Bethel, OK, Inese Mitchell and Shawn of Garvin, OK, Neomi Franklin of Bokoshe, OK and Rowena Franklin of Bethel, OK; son-in-law, Billy Baker of Broken Bow, OK; sisters, Effielene Harley, Stella Williston and Martha Williston all of Idabel, OK; numerous grandchildren, great-grandchildren and great-great-grandchildren; several nieces, nephews other relatives and many friends.

Funeral services will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Thursday, March 24, 2022 at the Bokchito Methodist Church in Idabel, OK with Edgel Samuels, Osborn Roberts, Tommy Wesley and Richard Ferguson officiating. Interment will follow at the Canfield Cemetery.

The family will receive friends from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Wednesday, March 23, 2022.

Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.whitefamilyfh.com.

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Willie German - October 25, 1957 - March 17, 2022

Departed: 03/17/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Willie James German, age 64 of Idabel passed away on March 17, 2022 in Idabel, OK. He was born on October 25, 1957 in Flagstaff, AZ. He was the son of Sam and Madge German.

Willie was an avid fan of Tesla and a lifelong friend of Jeff Keith and his family. His father instilled a love of hunting and deer camp, and he enjoyed that as long as he was able. He was member of the K.B.I., and was a top earner for their Toys for Tots charity. Willie was a diehard Dallas Cowboy fan. He loved nothing more than spending time with his friends and family. He will be missed by all that knew him.

He was preceded in death by his parents, and brother, Louis German.

Willie is survived by his brother Sam and Kathy German of Garvin, OK, as well as his daughters, April Jennings and husband, Earl Fredrick of Duncan, OK and Melissa Campana and husband, Tony of McAlester, OK; seven grandchildren, Courtney Jennings of Henryetta, OK, Amy Jennings of Henryetta, OK, Derrick Jennings of Henryetta, OK, Ashlynn Fredrick of Duncan, OK, Adalynn Fredrick of Duncan, OK, Samantha German of McAlester, OK, Dylan Reed of McAlester, OK; one great-grandchild, Kalum Smith of Henryetta, OK other relatives and friends.

The family is planning a memorial to be held on Saturday, March 26, 2022 at 11:00 a.m. at Garvin Cemetery. The memorial will include his brother, Louis German who passed away on February 28, 2022. All friends and family are welcome.

Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.whitefamilyfh.com.

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Mary Ann Harmon - April 01, 1937 - March 16, 2022

Departed: 03/16/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Mary Ann Harmon, age 84 passed away on Wednesday, March 16, 2022 at her home in Idabel, OK. She was born on April 1, 1937 in Blanco County, Texas, the daughter of W.P. and Jewell McClendon Smith.

Mary Ann began working at the Idabel National Bank in 1967 and retired in 1999. In her 32 years she served as a teller/cashier and was an assistant Vice-President. Prior to her banking career Mary Ann was a telephone operator.

She was a founding member of the ARK of McCurtain County. Her passion was taking care of and loving her animals. In her spare time, she enjoyed taking pictures.

Mary Ann had the most tender and good heart of anyone you have ever met. She was the ultimate friend and could be trusted with anything.

She was preceded in death by her parents; brothers, Phil Smith Jr. and Duane Smith; sisters, Wynona Valentine Smith, Barbara Jean Smith and Ellen Jane Wall.

Mary Ann is survived by her special friend, Vickie King of Idabel, OK; a daughter, Pam Youngblood, brother, Don Smith and Janie of Kerrville, TX; sister, Patsy Laskoski of Idabel, OK; her work family from Idabel National Bank; her Church family from Immanuel Baptist; many nieces, nephews other relatives and friends.

Funeral services will be held at 3:00 pm on Saturday, March 19, 2022 at the White Family Funeral Chapel in Idabel, OK with Bro. Mickey Haley and Curtis Fuller officiating. Interment will follow at the Forest Hill Cemetery.

The family will receive friends on Friday, March 18, 2022 from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm at the funeral home.

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Mary Mills - March 24, 1943 - March 15, 2022

Departed: 03/15/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Mary Mills, age 78 passed away on Tuesday, March 15, 2022 at her home in Edmond, OK. She was born on March 24, 1943 in DeQueen, AR, the daughter of Silas Randolph Crowell and Anna Elizabeth Brown Crowell. Mary attended Idabel Gray High School.

Mary was a homemaker. She loved traveling and spending time with her children and grandchildren. Mary was a longtime member of the By Pass Church of Christ. She was a lifetime resident of McCurtain County until recently moving to Edmond, OK to be close to her new great-granddaughter, Channing.

She was preceded in death by her parents; husband, James Mills; a son, Jeff Mills; a great-grandson, Paxton Mills; sisters, Ailean Harris, Betty Haughney and Jean Monday.

Mary is survived by her daughter, Jamie Bullock and Clint of Talihina, OK; grandchildren, Blake Mills and Kirbi of Edmond, OK, Josh Bullock and Kobe Billy both of Talihina, OK; great-granddaughter, Channing Mills of Edmond, OK; a sister, Geraldine Bates and Donald of the Goodwater Community, OK; several nieces, nephews, other relatives and many friends.

Funeral services will be held at 10:00 am on Saturday, March 19, 2022 at the By Pass Church of Christ in Idabel, OK with Wayne Warren and Larry Brinkley. Interment will follow at the Denison Cemetery.

The family will receive friends on Friday, March 18, 2022 from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm at the funeral home.

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Eva Murphy - January 29, 1937 - March 12, 2022

Departed: 03/12/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Eva Mae Murphy, age 85 passed away on Saturday, March 12, 2022 in Paris, TX. She was born on January 29, 1937, the son of George and Florence Coffey Hallum.

She enjoyed canning and tending to her flowers in her yard. Eva loved and cherished her family. She was a lifetime resident of McCurtain County and a member of the Garvin Church of Christ.

She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Lloyd Murphy; brothers, Ernest Hallum and Charlie Hallum; sisters, Georgia Settles, Alice Hancock, Lorene Austin, Myrtle McCleskey and Nellie McCleskey.

Eva is survived by her daughter, Eva Michelle Murphy of Idabel, OK; sister, Betty Bunn of Garvin, OK; several nieces, nephews other relatives and friends.

Graveside funeral services will be held at 10:00 am on Tuesday, March 15, 2022 at the Forest Hill Cemetery in the Forest Grove Community with Steve Endsley officiating.

The family will receive friends from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Monday, March 14, 2022 at the funeral home.

Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.whitefamilyfh.com.

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Geraldine Voss - September 12, 1928 - March 06, 2022

Departed: 03/06/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Geraldine Voss, age 93 longtime Idabel, OK resident passed away on Sunday, March 6, 2022 in Arab, Alabama. She was born on September 12, 1928, the daughter of Claud Henry and Lina Jones.

Geraldine was a homemaker. She spent her life doing two things, loving Jesus & loving her family. You could usually find her sewing or altering clothes for her many clients, cooking the best biscuits known to man for her many family members & guest, singing her heart out any chance she had, or at church worshiping the Lord of her life, Jesus.

She was preceded in death by her parents; a brother, Claud Henry Jones Jr.; sisters, Earline “Sis” Hendrix and Evelyn “Lil” McCormick; husband, Kenneth Voss; children, Sherril Hobbs, Ricky Hobbs and Kenna Austin; a granddaughter, Stephanie “Ticka” Tetrault; and a great-grandson, Jeremiah Truette.

Geraldine is survived by her sister, Reba “Nez” Jones; a daughter, Carolyn Tetrault; grandchildren, Leesa Hobbs, Tanya Lozano, Kenneth Alden, Misty Mckillip, Ricky Hobbs and Chelsea Truett; many great-grandchildren; along with a large extended family and many friends.

Geraldine has fulfilled 2 Timothy 4:7 “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith”. She will be greatly missed by all her family and friends.

Funeral services will be held at 3:00 pm on Monday, March 14, 2022 at the Grace Assembly Church in Idabel, OK with Bro. Kyle Jordan officiating. Interment will follow beside her husband at the Redland Cemetery.

The family will greet friends on Monday, March 14, 2022 beginning at 1:00 pm prior to the service at the Grace Assembly Church.

Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.whitefamilyfh.com.

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Chester Blewett - June 08, 1935 - March 05, 2022

Departed: 03/05/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Chester Blewett, age 86 of Idabel, OK passed away on Saturday, March 5, 2022 at Idabel.

A private inurnment will be held.

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Kurtrina Lynn James - January 23, 1973 - March 01, 2022

Departed: 03/01/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Kurtrina James, age 49 passed away on Tuesday, March 1, 2022 at Bethel, OK.

Funeral services will be held at 2:00 pm on Friday, March 4, 2022 at the White Family Chapel.

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Louis Leonard German - November 29, 1963 - February 28, 2022

Departed: 02/28/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Louis Leonard German, age 58 of Idabel passed away on Monday, February 28, 2022 in Paris, TX. He was born on November 29, 1963 in Pittsburg, TX, the son of Sam and Madge Austin German.

Louis enjoyed hunting and fishing, as long as the fish were biting. He was a collector of model cars and airplanes. Louis was an avid fan of the Kansas City Chiefs. He was a history buff and loved war documentaries.

He was preceded in death by his parents.

Louis is survived by his wife, Ginger German of the home; sons, Ethan German of Idaho, Daniel Stocks of Houston, TX; daughters, Chrissy Cantrell of Battiest, OK, April Murphy of Pensacola, FL, Megan Murphy of Broken Arrow, OK; brothers, Willie German of Idabel, OK, Sam German and Kathy of Garvin, OK; grandchildren, Bentlee Stocks of Houston, TX, Avery Stocks of Houston, TX, Tristian Cantrell of Battiest, OK, Triton Cantrell of Battiest, OK, Gunner Cantrell of Battiest, OK; nieces, nephews, other relatives and many friends.

Memorial service will be private.

Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.whitefamilyfh.com.

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Marie Lundy - January 11, 1933 - February 27, 2022

Departed: 02/27/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Marie Lundy, age 89 passed away on Sunday, February 27, 2022 at her home in Idabel, OK. She was born on January 11, 1933 in Nicholls, GA, the daughter of Leland and Lois Taylor Jordan. Marie married her husband Bob Lundy on August 30, 1959 in Jacksonville, FL and he preceded her in death in 2020.

Marie was a homemaker. She and Bob moved to Idabel in 1971 for him to work for the Valliant Paper Mill. While Bob worked at the mill Marie focused on raising their three daughters. Marie enjoyed camping and travelling with her family. She loved taking care of and spending time with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Marie was a devout Christian and follower of Jesus Christ. She was a longtime member of the Grace Assembly Church where she was very active until her health declined.

She was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Bob Lundy; a daughter, Donna Reeves; and a sister Elouise Cappabianca.

Marie is survived by her daughters, Lisa Lundy of Battiest, OK, Terri Mosier of Idabel, OK and Susan Mandy Brown of Maysville, MO; sisters, Mattie Gainley and Mary Stepp; 15 grandchildren; numerous great-grandchildren and great-great-grandchildren; along with several nieces, nephews, other relatives and many friends.

Funeral services will be held at 10:00 am on Friday, March 4, 2022 at the Grace Assembly Church in Idabel, OK with Bro. Kyle Jordan officiating. Interment will follow at the Denison Cemetery.

The family will receive friends from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm on Thursday, March 3, 2022 at the funeral home.

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Tanya Chanta' Moran - August 15, 1972 - February 27, 2022

Departed: 02/27/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Tanya Chanta’ Moran, age 49 lifetime resident of Idabel, OK passed away on Sunday, February 27, 2022 at in Pawhuska, OK. She was born on August 15, 1972 in Longview, TX, the daughter of Phillip Gilbert and Becky Kitchings Gilbert Brock.

Chanta was a homemaker and a very strong independent lady. Her life was full of challenges and she met them head on and accomplished many of the goals she set forth for herself. Chanta’ never gave up, she sometimes just found a different path. She loved people, never met a stranger and cherished time spent with her family. Her greatest joy was serving as a pink lady every Thursday at McCurtain Memorial Hospital. She enjoyed crocheting on Fridays with the “Happy Hookers” and playing bingo at the Idabel Public Library.

Chanta’ always had a positive attitude and a smile for everyone. She will be greatly missed by those who knew her.

She was preceded in death by her father, Phillip Gilbert; maternal grandparents, Mitchell and Irene Kitchings; paternal grandparents, Jake and Louise Gilbert; aunt, Linda Coleman; sister-in-law, Amanda Moran and nephew, Jake McLain.   Chanta’ is survived by her husband, Adam N. Moran of Idabel, OK; mother, Becky Brock and Gary of Idabel, OK; mother-in-law, Charlene Jones of Mexico; father-in-law, Gary Moran of McAlester, OK; brother, Todd Gilbert and Heidi of Stillwater, OK; sister, Kristin Bell and Chris of Hawaii; brother-in-law, Damon Moran and Katie of Edmond, OK; nephews and nieces, Dakota Gilbert and Ally of Moore, OK, Kayla Pierce and Zach of Yukon, OK, Brett Bell of Hawaii, Brock Bell of Phoenix, AZ, Ethan Moran, Ellah Moran, Beckett Moran and Sophie Moran all of Edmond, OK; a great-niece, Haidyn Pierce of Yukon, OK; and a very special Auntie Grandma, Mary Lou Mooring of Lindale, TX along with other relatives and many friends.

Funeral services will be held at 2:00 pm on Thursday, March 3, 2022 at the White Family Chapel in Idabel, OK with Bro. Doug McClure officiating. Interment will follow at the Denison Cemetery.

The family will receive friends prior to the service beginning at 1:00 pm.

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Austin Battiest - May 24, 1946 - February 24, 2022

Departed: 02/24/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Austin Battiest, age 75 passed away on Thursday, February 24, 2022 at his home in Broken Bow, OK. He was born on May 24, 1946, the son of James and Elsie Battiest. Austin married Barbara Winship in Clarksville, TX on December 23, 1969.

Austin was a veteran serving in both the US Army and US Navy. He was an electrician at DOMTAR for many years before retiring in 2009. He enjoyed hunting and coaching  little league baseball and soccer in his younger years. Austin was a former president of the Broken Bow Quarterback Club, member of the Broken Bow City Park Committee and the Weyerhaeuser Foundation and also was instrumental in getting the County Wide Dumpster Program implemented.

Austin was a minster of the Gospel in the OK Indian Missionary Conference, serving as pastor at the Choctaw Academy in Rufe, Bethel Hill in Battiest and Bokchito Methodist in Idabel. Served as Director of Recruitment and Enlistment and was the SE Youth Coordinator for many years. He did missionary work for 25 years helping to build and remodel churches, fellowship halls and parsonages.

He was preceded in death by his parents; a daughter, Andrea Battiest; brothers, Joe Freeman Battiest and Virgil Battiest; and a sister-in-law, Delores Battiest.

Austin is survived by his wife, Barbara Battiest of Broken Bow, OK; a son, Ed Ryan Battiest of Moore, OK; granddaughter, Morgan Battiest of Goldsby, OK; sister, Eveline Steele and Dale of Broken Bow, OK; several nieces, nephews other relatives and friends.

Graveside funeral services will be held at 10:00 am on Monday, February 28, 2022 at the Broken Bow Cemetery.

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Ellen R Pearson - September 06, 1916 - February 24, 2022

Departed: 02/24/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Ellen R. Pearson born to James Fredrick and Minnie Camille Bond Rone on September 6, 1916 in Ethel, MS. She passed away on February 24, 2022 in Broken Bow, OK. She was born in Ethel, MS and moved in the winter of 1921 to Shults, OK. She then lived in Forest Grove for two to three years and moved to Smithville, OK in approximately 1925 where she attended Folsom Training School in the Smithville area. She married Frank Pearson on May 1, 1949 in Buckner, AR who preceded her in death on February 19, 1956.

Ms. Ellen was Miss Centennial for Idabel, OK in 2002. A very successful business woman, having a Beauty Shop and then a large Gift Store for years in the Jumper Shopping Center. Later she became known as “The Bread Lady” making sourdough bread, which she sold and gave to bereaved families and others in need.

She was active in the First United Methodist Church for many years, until she could not attend due to her health. Ms. Ellen always had a smile for everyone.

She was preceded in death by her brothers, Jesse Rone, Donald Rone, Gordon Rone, Allen Rone, Hugh Rone, Nash Rone and John Rone; sisters, Laura Rone Hendricks, Laverne Rone Van Dyke, Mildred Rone Martin and Marie Rone; nieces and nephews, Flint Hendricks, Mike Hendricks, Stephen Rone, Myra Hebert and Butch Martin.

She is survived by many nieces and nephews; Luella Riessland, Susan Riley, Paul T. VanDyke, Clifford, Aretta and Fredrick Rone, Camilla Riley, Myrna Brooks, Eleanor Jones, Nancy Johnson, Linda Haddon, Connie Sanders; a host of great and great-great nieces and nephews, and a host of other family and friends along with she was Godmother to Brad and Edgar Ramsey and all were loved by Aunt Ellen. Funeral services will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Tuesday, March 1, 2022 at the United Methodist Church in Idabel, OK, with Rev. Mark Polson officiating. Interment will follow at the Denison Cemetery. Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.whitefamilyfh.com

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William Don Farley - August 29, 1947 - February 23, 2022

Departed: 02/23/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: William Don Farley passed away on Wednesday, February 23, 2022 with his loving wife by his side. He was born August 29, 1947 in Haworth, Oklahoma, the son of William Victor Farley and Donnie Virginia Stout. He married Shirley Ann Ryan, his wife of 56 years in Redland, Oklahoma on May 28, 1966.  William Don attended and graduated from Haworth schools in 1965. He also went to school in 38 different states due to his father working the pipe line. He moved to Tuttle, Oklahoma in 1968 where he raised two children, Gregory Don Farley of Haworth, Oklahoma and Anngela Kay Whittington of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Upon retirement in 1995 he returned to Redland/ Goodwater area. William Don worked in the Oil field where he was a welder then became a construction superintendent and was self employed throughout his years. He wasn’t afraid to try something new and loved his work. He traveled from Maine to Florida to Alaska while working. He was preceded in death by his parents, William Victor and Donnie Virginia, his brother Wesley Farley. William Don loved his wife, children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. He loved sharing stories with them and always enjoyed hearing from them. William Don is survived by his wife, Shirley Ann of the home; children Greg Farley & Elaine Fischer of Haworth, Oklahoma and Anngela Whittington & Daniel Kim of Oklahoma City, OK; brother Jimmy Wayne & Barbara Farley of Broken Bow, Ok; sister Brenda Ann & Roger Cox of Dekalb, Texas. One uncle, John Paul & Naomi Farley of Idabel, OK. Six grandchildren; Jeffrey Whittington, Andrew Whittington, Nicolas Whittington, Grayson Dries, Steffen & Breahleigh Farley. Four Greatgrandkids; Malakai, Kynlee, Maverick & Penelope as well numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and a host of friends. He will be missed by many and remembered for his uncanny memory and his great story telling. The family will receive friends from 6:00pm to 8:00pm on Monday, February 28, 2022 at White Family Funeral Home in Idabel, OK.  A celebration of Life service will be held at 11:00 am on Tuesday, March 1, 2022 at the Redland United Methodist fellowship hall with his life long friend, Kenneth Farley officiating. Cremation will follow.

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Michael Eugene Rock - May 06, 1977 - February 18, 2022

Departed: 02/18/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Michael "Mike" Rock, age 44 of Oklahoma City, OK passed away on Friday, February 18, 2022 at Oklahoma City. He was born on May 6, 1977 in Lawton, OK, the son of Martin Ponkilla and Elizabeth McKinney Rock.

Mike worked as an aircraft mechanic at Tinker Air Force Base for several years. An avid OU Football Fan along with the Cleveland Browns. He had many likes including, drawing, paranormal shows,  true crime shows, fishing and many others. Mike enjoyed Hip Hop, Rap and Classic Rock music. He was of the Christian Faith and had lived in Oklahoma City for most of his life.

He was preceded in death by his parents; and a sister, Stephanie Washington.

Mike is survived by his wife, Belinda Rock of Oklahoma City, OKs; a daughter, Semya Rock of Oklahoma City, OK; brother, William Rock of Idabel, OK; sisters, Patricia Rock of Oklahoma City, OK and Adrienne  Rock of Lawrence, KS; several nieces, nephews other relative and friends.

The family will receive friends from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm on Friday, February 25, 2022 at the funeral home.

Funeral services will be held at 2:00 pm on Saturday, February 26, 2022 at the White Family Chapel in Idabel, OK. Interment will follow at the Philadelphia Cemetery.

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Jimmy Carson Lambert - February 15, 1941 - February 15, 2022

Departed: 02/15/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Jimmy Carson Lambert, age 81 passed away on Tuesday, February 15, 2022 at his home in Idabel, OK. He was born on February 15, 1941 in Garvin, OK, the son of Roe and Pearl Maze Lambert. He married Pat Wheeler, his wife of 57 years in St. Charles, Illinois on January 29, 1965.

Jimmy served in the Army National Guard, received a marksmanship badge and was honorably discharged after six years of dedicated service. He enjoyed fishing, hunting, walking his dog and working in his garden. Jimmy spent a lot of his time volunteering with his church in many different organizations. He lived most of his life in Idabel and was a member of the Haworth Church of Christ. Jimmy was passionate about the Bible and read his Bible daily.

Jimmy loved his wife, children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren with a passion. He will be missed by everyone who knew and loved him.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Roe and Pearl Lambert and his sister, Gail Mattingly.

Jimmy is survived by his wife, Pat Lambert of the home; children, Tonya Johnson of Idabel, OK and David Lambert of Ohio; sisters, Bobbie Simpson of Sand Springs, OK and Peggy Qualls and husband, Donald of Shawnee, OK; brother, Jerry Lambert and wife Bobbie of Mountain Home, AR six grandchildren, Christa Johnson, Cody Johnson, Katelyn Johnson, Breanna Lambert, Blaine Lambert, Chantae Lambert; three great-grandchildren, Lincoln Johnson, Parker Johnson and Benton Melton; and a very special niece, Beverly Qualls; special dog “Pepper Lane”; other relatives and friends.

Funeral services will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Friday, February 18, 2022 at the Haworth Church of Christ in Haworth, OK with Aubrey Thompson officiating. Interment will follow at the Denison Cemetery.

Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.whitefamilyfh.com.

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Jackie Allen - December 30, 1950 - February 11, 2022

Departed: 02/11/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Jackie Lynn Allen, age 71 of Valliant, OK passed away on Friday, February 11, 2022 at Paris, TX. She was born December 30, 1950 to Herbert Mitchell and Johnnie Marie Magby. Jackie married Francis Allen on July 14, 1968, which would be 54 years happily married. Jackie was a devoted wife, mother, memaw, and friend to many.

Jackie worked many years in Home Health and Hospice as a certified Home Health aide, taking exceptional care of all her patients here in McCurtain County. She was a wonderful memaw to all her grandchildren and great grandchildren, all 11 of them. She loved spoiling them rotten. Never saying no to sweets, but sending them home for mom and dad to wrangle with them. In her younger years, she really enjoyed horseback riding, visiting Beavers Bend, and listening to music at revivals. She had a one in a million personality and always spoke what was on her mind (good or bad for that matter). She was the rock of the family that everyone came to when they just needed someone to talk to.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Herbert Mitchell and Johnnie Marie Magby, siblings Sandra Ragsdill, Allan Mitchell, Larry Mitchell.

Jackie is survived by her husband, Francis Allen; children, Davey & Tasha Allen of Clarksville, TX, Rex & Misty Donaldson of Valliant, OK, Tiffany Hames of Valliant, OK; grandchildren, DJ & Brittany Billy, Dallas & Dylan Donaldson, James “Buckshot” Fulton, Kameron Allen, Dustin and Kaylee Hames; great-grandchildren, Kaedynce, Kristian, Kanyin & Kyzer Billy; many special nieces, nephews, great nieces, and great nephews, other relatives and friends.

Pallbearers will be Davey Allen, Kameron Allen, Rex Donaldson, Dylan Donaldson, Buckshot Fulton, DJ Billy, Dustin Hames and Dakota Ragsdill.

The family will receive friends from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm on Wednesday, February 16, 2022 at the funeral home.

Graveside funeral services will be held at 2:00 pm on Thursday, February 17, 2022 at the Rufe Cemetery.

Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.whitefamilyfh.com.

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Ernest David Hallum - April 16, 1934 - February 10, 2022

Departed: 02/10/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Ernest "Ernie" Hallum, age 87 longtime Garvin resident passed away on Thursday, February 10 , 2022 at Idabel, OK. He was born on April 16, 1934 in Garvin, OK, the son of George Henry Hallum and Florence Dora Coffey Hallum.

Ernest worked for the Goolsby family for many years in their farming/ranching operation. He was a hard worker and enjoyed hunting and taking care of his cattle. Ernest was a member of the Garvin Church of Christ and was a lifetime resident of Garvin, OK.

He was preceded in death by his parents; a brother, Charlie Hallum; and his sisters, Nellie McClesky, Myrtle McClesky, Lorene Austin, Georgia Lee Settles and Alice Mills.

Ernest is survived by his sisters, Eva Murphy of Idabel, OK and Betty Bunn of Garvin, OK; special nieces, Julie Magby and Dennis Farley of Idabel, OK and Peggy Hughes and Kenneth of Haskell, OK; great-nephews, Jason Hughes and Mason Hughes and their family all of Coweta, OK; several other relatives and many friends.

The family will receive friends from 4:00 pm to 6:00 pm on Sunday, February 13, 2022 at the funeral home.

Funeral services will be held at 10:00 am on Monday, February 14, 2022 at the White Family Chapel in Idabel, OK. Interment will follow at the Forest Hill Cemetery.

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Doris Mills - March 15, 1936 - February 08, 2022

Departed: 02/08/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Doris Marie (Wright) Mills of Millerton, Ok went to be with her Lord and Savior on Tuesday February 8, 2022, after a long illness. She was 85 at the time of her passing. She was born March 15, 1936. Doris was a wife, daughter, sister, mother, memaw and great grandmother and loved by all. She lived a life of passion for her family. She was a Deacon of Spirit Rock Church and enjoyed leading the ladies group. She was a matriarch, mentor, “The” Yoda adviser of our family and friend to all. She is survived by her son Roger Mills, daughter in law Patricia, her daughter Cheryl (Mills) McCauley, son in law Casey McCauley, and two other daughters in law, Ranae Mills, Vicki Mills, grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces and nephews along with many friends. She was proceeded in death her husband Murray Mills, two sons, Michael and Joel Mills, her parents and all of her brothers and sisters. As we all know, Memaw had many “Pearls of Wisdom”. One which comes to mind is “You have the same shoes to great glad in” SPECIAL NOTE ABOUT SERVICES:

Doris Mills’ son Joel Mills preceded her in death on Saturday October 9, 2021. Due to Covid-19 restrictions we were not able to have a funeral for Joel at the time of his death. Therefore, Doris Mills’ funeral will be a combined funeral and memorial service for her and her son Joel. Their combined family night for Doris and her son Joel will be at the White Family Funeral Home at 3 N.E. 3rd St., Idabel, OK 74745 on Thursday, February 17th 2022, from 6pm to 8pm under the direction of David White. Doris Mills’ funeral and Joel Mills Memorial Service will be a combined service on Friday, February 18, 2022 at 10am at “THE CHURCH” 13891 W US Highway 70 Garvin, OK 74736. Pastor Brent Coffee and Zachary and Sydney Naylor will be Officiating. Doris Mills’ Interment will be at the Old Ringold Cemetery and according to Joel’s wishes his Internment (His Ashes) will be placed with his wife Vicki when they are reunited for Eternity.

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Rebecca Ridge Alford - November 02, 1958 - February 05, 2022

Departed: 02/05/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Rebecca Lee Ridge Alford, age 63, passed away on Saturday, February 5, 2022 at Paris Regional Medical Center in Paris, TX.  She was born November 2, 1958 in Ashdown, AR the daughter of Earl Edward Ridge and Nola Virginia Davis Ridge

Rebecca lived in Idabel, OK and the surrounding area most her life.  She enjoyed crafting, word puzzles, painting, gardening, taking care of her dog “Missy” and spending time with her family. She was a affiliated with of the Cross Life Church in Millerton, OK.

Rebecca and Jimmy Alford were united in marriage on January 13, 1976 in Haworth, OK.

She was preceded in death by her parents, daughter, Brandy Lee, sister, Linda Foran and bothers, Ronald and Mark Ridge.

Rebecca is survived by her husband, Jimmy Alford; children, Amanda and Josh Flood of Haworth, OK and Paige and Marshall Fortune of Idabel, OK; grandchildren, Tanner Flood, Emily Flood and fiancé, Dalton Hutchison, Billy Flood and Jay Flood; great grandchild, Jentree Hutchison and one great granddaughter on the way Journee Hutchison; three brothers, William  and Sue Ridge of Tom, OK, Loyd and Darlene Ridge of Garvin, Ok, Troy and Pam Ridge of Tom, OK; one sister, Virginia and Howard Jones of Garvin, Ok and sister-in-law, Mary Ridge of Haworth; special friends, Sandie Franklin and Pam Baker, several nieces, nephews other relatives and friends.

Memorial services will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Saturday, February 12, 2022 at the Cross Life Church in Millerton, OK.

Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.whitefamilyfh.com.

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Merril Dean Bunn - January 05, 1941 - February 04, 2022

Departed: 02/04/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Merril Bunn, age 81, passed away on Friday, February 4, 2022 at Hills Nursing Home in Idabel, OK. He was born on January 5, 1941 in Holly Creek, OK the son of Roy and Della (McGinty) Bunn.

Merril lived in Garvin, OK most of his life.  He enjoyed fishing, wood crafts and tinkering around the house.  He was a member of the Garvin Church of Christ.  Merril loved spending time with his children and grandchildren and especially enjoyed vacation in Branson, MO with his wife and children.

Merril Bunn and Betty Hallum were united in marriage on December 16, 1961. They shared 60 years of marriage together.

He was preceded in death by his parents and two brothers, Joe and James Bunn.

Merril is survived by his wife, Betty Bunn of the home; children, Julie Magby and fiancé Dennis Farley of Idabel, OK and Kenny and Peggy Hughes of Haskell, OK; grandchildren Jason and Tiffany Hughes and Mason and Rachel Hughes all of Coweta, OK; step grandchildren, Judson Farley and Ashlyn Farley both of Idabel, OK; great grandchildren, Kaydence Hughes, Camden Hughes, Braden Hughes and Nora Hughes all of Coweta, OK; one brother, Donald Ray Bunn of Holly Creek, OK; two sisters, Lois and John Wyatt Kingston, OK and Mary Francis Johnson-Henslee of Tablerville, OK; many nieces, nephews and a host of friends.

A celebration of life service will be held at 10 AM on Monday, February 7, 2022 in the White Family Funeral Home Chapel in Idabel, OK.  Interment will follow at Forest Hill Cemetery in Idabel, OK. Steve Endsley Jr will officiate.

Family will receive friends from 4 PM – 6 PM on Sunday, February 6, 2022 at White Family Funeral Home Chapel in Idabel, OK.

Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.whitefamilyfh.com.

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Betty Faye Scott - July 09, 1941 - February 02, 2022

Departed: 02/02/2022 (Idabel)

Obituary Preview: Betty Faye Scott, age 80 passed away on Wednesday, February 2, 2022 at her home in Haworth, OK. She was born on July 9, 1941 in Haworth, OK, the daughter of O.H. and Stella Cauthen Lawler.

She enjoyed gardening, tending to her yard along with working inside her home. Her favorite hobby was crafting. She spent as much time as possible on a variety of crafting projects. Betty loved her children and grandchildren. She was a lifetime resident of McCurtain County and was of the Christian faith.

She was preceded in death by her parents; O.H. “Shine” Lawler and Faye Cauthen; brother, Kent Lawler and her son, Gary Scott.

Betty is survived by her children; Holly Scott of Haworth, OK, Jay and Lisa Scott of Haworth, OK; grandchildren, Chris DarkLight of Haworth, OK, Laci Moore of Haworth, OK, Gary “Bubba Scott of Haworth, OK, Carrie VanNest of Ireland; aunt, Eunice Cox of Union Grove, OK; uncle, Kenneth and Dortha Cauthen of West Fork, AR; six great-grandchildren; one great-great-great grandchild; nieces, nephews and cousings.

The family would like to express their appreciation to Jimmy Smalling, Elara Hospice and Rachel Williamson.

Funeral services were private.

Online condolences can be shared with the family at www.whitefamilyfh.com.

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Services Offered

At White Family Funeral Home, families can expect a wide range of services designed to help them say goodbye to their loved ones with dignity and respect. These services include:

• Traditional funeral services with visitation and burial
• Cremation services with options for memorial ceremonies or scattering
• Memorial services for those who have passed away without a traditional funeral
• Pre-planning and pre-funding options for those who wish to plan ahead
• Grief support and counseling services for families in need

The Facility

Nestled in the heart of Idabel, the facility at White Family Funeral Home is warm and inviting, providing a comfortable and peaceful atmosphere for families to gather and celebrate the life of their loved one. The funeral home features a spacious chapel with seating for up to [insert number] guests, as well as a variety of private rooms for visitation and viewing. Ample parking is available, making it easy for families to accommodate large gatherings.

The Staff

The staff at White Family Funeral Home are truly what set this funeral home apart from others in the area. Led by [insert name], a licensed funeral director with [insert number] years of experience, the team is comprised of caring and compassionate individuals who are dedicated to providing exceptional service to every family they serve. From funeral directors to support staff, every member of the team is committed to ensuring that every family's needs are met with kindness, empathy, and understanding.

Community Involvement

At White Family Funeral Home, community involvement is an integral part of their mission. The funeral home is actively involved in local charities and organizations, working to make a positive impact on the lives of those in Idabel and surrounding areas. From hosting educational seminars on topics such as grief support and pre-planning, to participating in local events and fundraisers, the staff at White Family Funeral Home are committed to giving back to the community they serve.

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Why Choose White Family Funeral Home?

So why choose White Family Funeral Home for your loved one's final farewell? The answer lies in their unwavering commitment to compassion, empathy, and understanding. At White Family Funeral Home, families can expect:

• Personalized attention and care from a team of experienced professionals
• A wide range of services designed to meet every family's unique needs
• A warm and inviting facility that provides a comfortable atmosphere for gathering and celebrating
• A reputation for excellence built on years of trusted service to the local community

Contact Information

If you're looking for a funeral home that truly cares about you and your family, look no further than White Family Funeral Home. Located at 3 N.E. 3rd, Idabel, OK, 74745, this funeral home is easily accessible from anywhere in the area. To learn more about their services or to schedule a consultation with one of their experienced funeral directors, please don't hesitate to contact them at [insert phone number] or [insert email address]. At White Family Funeral Home, they're always here to help.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and funeral or memorial services.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

Obituaries are often written by family members, close friends, or a funeral home. In some cases, a professional writer or journalist may be hired to write the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their accomplishments, military service, or charitable work.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Typically, it ranges from 100 to 500 words. Longer obituaries may be published online or in specialized publications.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Can anyone publish an obituary?

In most cases, yes. Anyone can publish an obituary in a newspaper, online platform, or social media site. However, some publications may have specific guidelines or requirements for submitting obituaries.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers and online sites offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge by the word or line.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes. Many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help to personalize the tribute and make it more engaging.

What is the purpose of an obituary photo?

The primary purpose of an obituary photo is to provide a visual representation of the person being honored. It can also help to evoke emotions and create a sense of connection with those who are reading the obituary.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes. Quotes, poems, or other forms of creative expression can be included in an obituary to add depth and personality to the tribute.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. You may need to provide written consent from the family or executor of the estate.

Can I edit an obituary after it has been published?

In most cases, no. Once an obituary has been published, it is difficult to make changes. It's essential to proofread carefully before submitting the final version.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The time frame for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Online platforms may publish immediately, while newspapers may take several days or weeks.

Can I request corrections to an obituary after it has been published?

Yes. If there are errors or inaccuracies in the published obituary, contact the publication or platform directly to request corrections.

What is a living obituary?

A living obituary is a self-written tribute that celebrates a person's life while they are still alive. It can be used as a way to reflect on one's accomplishments and share their story with others.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes. Writing your own obituary can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy. It can also ensure that your story is told in your own words.

Is it appropriate to include humor in an obituary?

Yes. Humor can be an effective way to celebrate a person's life and personality. However, it's essential to consider the tone and audience when deciding whether to include humor in an obituary.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes. Including information about charitable donations or memorial services can provide friends and family with ways to honor the deceased and continue their legacy.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites such as Ancestry.com or FamilySearch.org. Local libraries or historical societies may also have access to archived newspapers and obituaries.

Are online obituaries permanent?

In most cases, yes. Online obituaries are typically archived permanently and can be accessed for years to come. However, it's essential to check with the specific platform or publication for their archiving policies.

Can I create a digital scrapbook or memory book from an obituary?

Yes. You can use online tools or software to create a digital scrapbook or memory book from an obituary. This can be a meaningful way to preserve memories and share them with others.

How do I cope with writing an obituary during a difficult time?

Writing an obituary can be an emotional task. Take your time, gather support from loved ones, and focus on celebrating the life of the deceased rather than dwelling on their passing.

Is it necessary to include every detail about the deceased in an obituary?

No. While it's essential to include key details such as name, age, and date of death, you don't need to include every aspect of the person's life. Focus on highlighting their achievements, personality traits, and relationships that made them special.