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Paul Michael Cadarian - March 07, 1940 - May 09, 2024

Departed: 05/09/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Paul Michael Cadarian of Waukegan, IL passed away on May 9, 2024 at the age of 84. He was born March 7, 1940 to Paul and Marie Cadarian. Paul attended Lake Forest High School before proudly serving in the U.S. Marine Corps. Paul’s careers in life to name a couple included The Navy Exchange and City of Lake Forest for many years managing the beach, the ice rink, and the golf course.

After retirement Paul enjoyed gardening, golfing and spending time with family. He especially enjoyed Quonset Pizza and Beef and Sausage Combo at Buffo's.

Paul was preceded in death by his loving and devoted wife Carole Gernenz Cadarian whom he was married to for 52 years and His parents Paul and Marie Cadarian. He is survived by his brother Ronald Cadarian (Lisa), Loving Uncle (and great uncle) to so many including nephews John Gernenz (Amy), Micheal Gernenz (Emily Jenner), and many other family and friends who will miss him dearly.

Visitation will be Thursday May 16th 11:30-12:30 at Wenban Funeral Home with a graveside service following immediately at Lake Forest Cemetery.

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Polly Scott - August 27, 1927 - April 30, 2024

Departed: 04/30/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Polly Ann Richards was born August 27, 1927, to Carl and Esther Richards in Grand Rapids, MI, the third of four siblings, including Mary, Carl, Jr., and Jane. Attending Creston High School, she was an active member of Park Congregation Church, where she sang in the choir for many years. At University of Michigan she became a rabid Wolverines fan, never forgiving the coaches a loss in over 70 years.

In 1951 while visiting her uncle Roger Hemion, a US Army Colonel, in Aberdeen, MD, Polly was set up on a blind date with Lieutenant Edwin A. Scott, Jr. (originally touted as “Captain” Scott.) His rank notwithstanding, the date went well; Ed sent Polly two dozen roses following that first date, upon which her father commented, “The flowers are alright, but what about the man?” The man proved alright, too, and the couple was married in Bronxville, NY, in 1953.

They soon settled in Briarcliff Manor, NY, and had three children, Mary Jane, Andy, and Beth. During the summer and Christmas holidays, the family returned to Michigan to spend time with aunts, uncles and cousins, helping to forge familial bonds which remain strong to this day. Following Ed’s business consolidation in 1976, the family moved to Lake Forest, IL, and in 1991 built a home in Lake Bluff, where they lived until 2013. Polly and Ed then moved to downtown Lake Forest, residing there together until Ed’s death in 2015.

Through the years, Polly and Ed spent most summer weekends at Haderway cottage in West Olive, MI, enjoying the company of various extended family members and friends, and hosting an annual July 4th reunion for 46 years and counting. Polly never tired of the view of Lake Michigan from the cottage's deck, and the sound of the waves lapping against the sand.

Polly’s small stature often belied her strength, as her children would no doubt attest. Andy recalls her fight to the death with a copperhead, which had entered their family room from the surrounding woods, wielding the vacuum cleaner she happened to be using when the hapless, though venomous, snake appeared. A fearless (and speedy) driver, Polly thought nothing of tooling up to Grand Rapids from Lake Forest, and back the same day, simply to have lunch with old high school friends, a habit she maintained into her early 90s. She most recently passed her driver’s test just last August, and only grudgingly gave up that freedom in her final months.

Polly loved to laugh, had a terrific, contagious sense of humor, and savored a great story. Her unwavering sense of right and wrong, informed by her lifelong faith, guided her actions and attitudes throughout her life. In the last 10 years, she became a frequent diner and beloved figure at the Deer Path Inn, appearing frequently on its Instagram page, a medium she didn’t fully appreciate yet tolerated with her usual good humor and grace.

Her greatest joys were found in the interests, successes and happiness of her children, and those of her extended family, relishing time spent with each of them. She welcomed son-in-law Don, and daughter-in-law Kristen and her children, Natalie and Daniel, and later Natalie’s husband Darren, as treasured additions to the family. A brilliant conversationist who made all her acquaintances feel included and cherished, Polly was considered by those who knew her as a truly gracious lady, and she will be dearly missed by the many people whose lives she touched for almost a century.

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Carol W. Keenan - October 27, 1937 - April 30, 2024

Departed: 04/30/2024 (Lake Forest)

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William Allan Brandt - June 24, 1945 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: William A. Brandt, age 78, of Lake Forest, Illinois passed away peacefully on Sunday April 28, 2024.

William was the beloved husband of Carolyn M. Schiffels and father of William Brandt Jr., Thomas Brandt, Christopher Brandt (Jenna Musil), and Katharine Brandt (Michael Pacholczak); grandfather of Olivia Brandt, Louise Brandt, Hazel Brandt, Fiona Brandt, and Timothy Brandt. He was the ex-husband of Donna K. Brandt, mother of their four children. He is survived by his sister, Carol Brandt Tichy and daughter in-law Joan Brandt.

William was born June 24, 1945 to Herman and Alice Brandt in Chicago, Illinois. He graduated from Northern Illinois University and worked in the financial industry. He retired from the Chicago Board Options Exchange (CBOE) and enjoyed many vacations to Europe, dining at special restaurants, enjoying live theater and music.

William was a longtime member of Exmoor Country Club, served as President of the Lake Forest Caucus, and was a core member of the Hometown coffee group. He was a man of style, with “amazing outfits for every occasion”, and was often termed to be “dapper”. He truly was a free spirit as could be seen when riding his Harley Davidson motorcycle or driving one of his many convertible Corvettes over the years.

There are so many happy memories of “Papa” or “Uncle Bill” and he will be greatly missed by his dear family and friends. He was loving, generous, open minded, cheerful and witty, and a great conversationalist. The kids describe Bill as a warm soul with a good sense of humor, whether taking them shopping at Costco, for a treat at Walker Brothers, for a round of mini golf or to swim at Lake Forest Beach.

He will be greatly missed as he gets “on the road again, going places he’s never been, insisting the world go his way” God Bless William Brandt, our best friend and love.

Visitation will be held Thursday, May 2nd, 4:00pm-7:00pm at Wenban Funeral Home. Funeral Mass will be held Friday, May 3rd, 10:00 am at the Church of St. Mary. For those who are unable to attend the Funeral Mass in person, there will be a livestream at the link below.

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Richard Janson - October 31, 1938 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Richard “Dick” Janson was a devoted husband and father who joined his wife, Diane Yoder Janson, and parents Roy Janson and Violet Krafjack Janson, in heaven on April 26, 2024. Dr. Janson passed peacefully of natural causes surrounded by family after living a very full and adventurous 85 years.

Dr. Janson was a dentist practicing in Highland Park for 55 years, having earned his degree at Northwestern University Dental School. He served his patients with care, compassion, generosity, and a delightful sense of humor. In his personal life, Dr. Janson was a lifelong train enthusiast who knew more about the railroads than most people. He had an extensive collection of model trains and shared his passion with family and friends. Dr. Janson was a recreational sailor and had a boat named Mysterium for many years. Dr. Janson followed in the footsteps of his father and uncles as a Rotarian, serving as Club President for the Lake Forest – Lake Bluff Rotary Club in 2020. Dr. Janson enjoyed the arts, the Chicago Symphony Orchestra, Ravinia, the Shakespeare Theatre, the Lyric Opera of Chicago, and jazz clubs throughout Chicago. Dr. Janson and his wife enjoyed long walks at the Botanic Gardens and traveling extensively around the United States and Europe. But they especially enjoyed any opportunity to dance, which was the hallmark of their relationship.

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Ann Hernandez - July 18, 1931 - April 23, 2024

Departed: 04/23/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Ann Bland Hernandez, beloved wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother passed peacefully on April 23, 2024 in her Lake Forest home. Ann was born in Chicago, Illinois to Veronica and Steven Pelc. She graduated from Waukegan high school and married Abraham (“Abe”) Dick Bland in 1950. They had two children, Susan Bland Boehm and Holly Bland.

Ann worked for 36 years at Abbott Laboratories in numerous roles including testing and research. Following Abe’s death, Ann met Robert (“Bob”) Hernandez at Abbott and they married in 1982. With the marriage, Ann became stepmother to Bob’s daughters, Julia and Marissa. Through 42 years of marriage, they were involved members at the Church of the Holy Spirit and loved spending time at their home with family and friends. She baked the most delicious popovers and was known to steal the first swipe of frosting off any cake.

Ann is survived by her husband, Robert; her children, Susan and Holly; her step daughter, Marissa Kalman (Greg Kalman); her grandchildren, Katie Rooney (Patrick Rooney), Jake Boehm (Jennifer White Boehm), Lindsay Giometti (Brian Giometti); her step-grandchildren, Ava Kalman and Ellie Kalman; her great grandchildren, Graham Rooney, Sydney Rooney, Norah Rooney, Aurora Boehm, Oliver Boehm.

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James B. Connor - October 30, 1934 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: James B. Connor, 89, of Lake Forest, IL passed away peacefully on April 10th, 2024, surrounded by family. James was a beloved husband of 68 years to Norma, nee Klefstad, father of James (Linda), Shawn (Gina, deceased), Shannon (Ed, deceased), and Michael (Dixie). Grandfather of Jonathon Connor (Katherine), Michael Connor (Katie), Jessica Connor, Ian Subowsty, and Kelsey (Adam) Jennings. Great Grandfather to Maggie Connor, Anna Connor, Jack Connor, and Jameson Jennings and a great friend to many.

James was born October 30, 1934, in Fort Smith, Arkansas, graduated from Los Alamos, New Mexico High School and the University of Colorado, where he met Norma. He proudly served in the U.S. Navy as an explosive ordinance demolition (EOD) diver (aka a “Frogman”, predecessor to today’s Navy SEALs). He then went on to a long prosperous business career, which included sales, manufacturing, and finally settled into his passion for real estate development and asset management. He owned several businesses over the years and was an active member of the Chicago business community. Big Jim (as his friends and family knew him) retired in 2012. He loved golf, cooking, and spending time with friends, but he would tell you his best times were traveling with his family, of whom he was most proud. In his later years, he most enjoyed sitting on the patio of his home in Arizona watching the sunsets with Norma.

He was preceded in death by his parents James and Bonnie and his sister Betty. Jim lived a wonderful adventurous life and raised a big successful family of which he was very proud. He will be greatly missed by those that knew him, as he was truly a great, fun loving, family man with a big laugh and an easy smile. He left the world a better place and will be long remembered and revered.

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Basil Borders - May 11, 1936 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Lake Forest)

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Basil Borders, 87, of Lake Forest, IL, passed away at Lake Forest Hospital on April 1, 2024.

He was born in Falcon, KY, May 11,1936 and grew up in Eastern Kentucky. Basil attended Paintsville (KY) High School before studying Business at Berea College (KY). Basil was selected as a Kemper Scholar in 1956, and graduated in 1958. He served in the US Army in Germany from 1958 - 1960, and in the US Army Reserves from 1960 - 1963. His career as a Corporate Systems Officer and Manager at Kemper Insurance was from 1960 - 1993, and afterward he and Ellie enjoyed 31 years of retirement.

Basil was a member of the Union Church of Lake Bluff for 56 years, serving as chairperson of the Elders and Trustees, as well the Finance Committee. He served multiple terms on the Lake Bluff Library board. He enjoyed time on both the golf course and tennis court, and spent many an evening serving the homeless with PADS of Lake County.

Basil was the last surviving child of Manuel and Margie Borders, and is survived by his loving wife of 58 years, Eleanor Borders of Lake Forest; his daughter Kay (Brad) Wilson of Mount Prospect; his son Keith (Erin) Borders of Saint Louis, and granddaughters Alexandra and Brooke Wilson. A Memorial Service and reception will be held at 1 PM on May 21, 2024, at the Union Church of Lake Bluff (525 E. Prospect Ave.)

Memorial gifts to the Union Church of Lake Bluff would be greatly appreciated. Info: Wenban Funeral Home, Lake Forest www.wenbanfh.com or (847) 234-0022

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Barbara Tray - November 29, 1936 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Barbara J. Tray, 87, of Lake Forest, Illinois died March 31, 2024. Barbara was born in Milwaukee to Leo and Bernice Brahm (Bartelt) and raised in Wauwatosa, Wisconsin. Preceded in death by her parents, her sister Patricia A. Brahm, and her husband of 62 years Steuart E. Tray. Survived by her children Kathy Nelander, Nancy (Pat) Cashman, Patrick (Tami) Tray; grandchildren: Lucas (Lizzy) Nelander, Emma and Tray Cashman, Daniel, Olivia, Edward and Charles Tray as well as nieces, nephews and many cousins.

Barbara loved traveling, especially to Europe which she and her husband did many times; including trips with good friends as well as a trip with their two daughters. Their most memorable trips were with family, travelling across the US, renting summer cabins in Wisconsin and Michigan, and going to Florida for spring break.

Barbara and Steuart enjoyed curling for 45 years in the Midwest, Canada and Scotland. They met many wonderful people over the years, some remaining friends for life.

Barbara always looked forward to family gatherings and felt very blessed to have a wonderful family, a caring and loving husband, children, grandchildren and good friends.

A memorial mass and internment will be private.

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Anne Marie Fluno - August 19, 1941 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Anne Fluno of Marco Island, Florida, a pillar of strength, love, and community, passed away peacefully on March 27, 2024, surrounded by her loving family. She was born on August 19, 1941, in Stevens Point, Wisconsin, to the late Edwin and Theresa Derezinski. She spent her childhood in Stevens Point, with her siblings and friends, enjoying adventures together like ice skating at Bukolt Park, and having a Coke and fries at the local soda fountain.

Anne attended the University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point, where she met her beloved husband, Jere. Their love story blossomed, leading to a lifetime of cherished memories over the last 64 years.

Anne was the epitome of devotion, dedicating her life to supporting her family in every possible way. She wore many hats throughout her lifetime, serving as her family’s cheerleader, room mom, brownie leader, confidant, and backgammon foe. You would often find her playing tennis and golf or passionately cheering on her Chicago Cubs or Wisconsin Badgers. Her nurturing spirit and unwavering support were the cornerstones of her family’s strength.

She generously donated her time, treasure, and talent to numerous organizations including JDRF, Guild of St Mary, Women of Maryville, Boys and Girls Club, among others. One of her greatest passions was education, and throughout her life, she advocated for the importance of learning. Her dedication to education extends beyond words, as she and her husband have provided over 600 scholarships to high school and college students, ensuring that they had the opportunity to pursue their dreams and achieve their full potential. In recognition for her outstanding service and community involvement, she was awarded the 2011 Distinguished Alumni Award from Pacelli Catholic Schools.

Anne’s greatest joy in life was her family, and she leaves behind a legacy of love and devotion that will continue to inspire generations to come. She is survived by her husband, Jere, 4 children, Debra Fluno (Tim Colter), Julie Fluno (Lee Hawkins), Mary Beth Harrison (Milo), and Brian Fluno (Alysha). Anne has 13 grandchildren: Alex, Annika, and Camden Colter; Lauren and Alyssa Hermsen, Amanda Wick (Mike); Hannah, Aidan, Cole, and Greta Harrison; and Maddox, Mason, and Maxton Fluno. Anne is survived by her siblings Frank, Richard, and Rita Derezinski and preceded in death by Rose McIlhone and Norbert Derezinski. She is also survived by her precious dog, Sasha.

Visitation for Anne will be held on Friday, April 5th from 4 to7 p.m. at Wenban Funeral Home located at 320 East Vine Avenue in Lake Forest, Illinois. A mass to honor Anne’s life will be held on Saturday, April 6th, at the Church of St. Mary, located at 175 East Illinois Road in Lake Forest, Illinois.

Anne’s family kindly requests that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to Pacelli Catholic Schools (1301 Maria Drive, Steven Point, Wisconsin, 54481) or University of Wisconsin Foundation – Carbone Cancer Center # 112909110 (UW Foundation, US Bank Lockbox Box 78807, Milwaukee, WI, 53278-0807). Your generosity will help continue Anne’s legacy. She lived her life by these words: How beautiful a day can be when kindness touches it.

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Antoinette Minuzzo - November 20, 1938 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Antoinette “Teta” Agnes Minuzzo, passed peacefully through the gates of heaven on March 27, 2024. Teta was welcomed to be with the Lord by her parents, Francesco and Maria Minuzzo, her dear brother Frank (Virginia) Minuzzo, her loving sister Mary (Elmer) Bock, her nephew George Bock, and many ancestors and friends.

She is further survived by her niece Christine (Daniel) Edwards and nephews Frank Bock Sr. and Alan (Ellen) Bock. Teta was honored to share her life with her great nieces and nephews; Rebecca Edwards, Benjamin (Melissa) Edwards, Frank (Amanda) Bock, Sandra (Joseph) Sjostrom, Matthew (Scarlett) Bock, Luke Bock, and furthermore many great-great nieces and nephews who are privileged to call her Aunt Teta.

Teta was born November 20, 1938 in Lake Forest IL. She was the youngest of her siblings, living life as an independent and outspoken young girl. Teta enjoyed going to the library with her sister, reading books, participating in girl scouts and even helping her dad make homemade wine. In her younger years, Teta attended St. Mary’s Catholic School and graduated from Lake Forest High School. She continued her education at Lake Forest College, earning her bachelor’s degree in 1960. She accomplished her Master’s Degree in Curriculum Development from Northwestern University in 1967.

Teta’s teaching career began in 1960 and she devoted her life to being a 1st grade teacher at Oak Terrace School. She taught for over 35 years and had an everlasting impact on all the children who came through her classroom. Her passion for teaching evolved as she became one of the most admired leaders and role models, not only at Oak Terrace School, but in the organizations she was actively involved with. Teta was a literacy advocate, providing guidance and patience to anyone who wanted to learn to read. She was committed to being a leader, sister and supporter with Delta Kappa Gamma International Society, Lambda State Legislation, Alpha Nu Chapter, District 111 Education Association, Illinois Education Association, Literacy Volunteers of Lake County, North Lakes Retired Education Association, Lake County Retired Teachers Association, and the Highwood Historical Society. Her roles within these organizations and the impact she made will always be remembered.

Teta was a beautiful person. She had a kind heart and comforting soul. Everything she did, she did with love. She was very charismatic and had a smile that could light up a room. She had an overflowing joy for life. She adored cats, especially her rescues, Frisky, Pumpkin and Callie. Teta loved spending time with her family, doing puzzles, crafts, writing, watching the birds and squirrels outside and collecting ladybugs. She is known to many as the Ladybug Lady. When you see a ladybug, she would want you to think of her. Teta also traveled all over the world. From riding elephants in Africa, to visiting all three major waterfalls, to connecting with ancestors in Italy, she truly made lifelong memories everywhere she visited.

Teta left footprints on the hearts of everyone who knew her. She leaves behind a legacy built around love, dreaming, giving, volunteering, leading and advocating. May we all live by Teta’s favorite quote, “Happiness is catching, we get it from each other.”. Donations in memory of Teta Minuzzo may be made to either of the two below: DKG Golden Gift Fund 12710 Research Blvd., Ste 230 Austin, Texas 78759 M. Josephine O'Neill Arts Fund c/o Vicki Smith 727 N. Plum Princeton, IL. 61356

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Susan Belle Banner - June 27, 1943 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Banner, Susan 80 years old of Lake Forest, IL Passed away on March 27, 2024

Born in Detroit, Michigan on June 27, 1943 to Ula and Wave Farmer.

Susan has now joined her beloved husband, Dennis Banner.

Susan was a faithful, loving and generous lady with a quick wit and a big smile. She was an accomplished Marketing and Advertising Executive, equestrian, and lover of all animals. Along with her husband Dennis Banner, they built a successful aviation business, Banner Aviation Inc., flying some of the world-renowned celebrities around the globe. Susan also obtained her pilot license. She was bilingual and had many friends of all nationalities. Heaven has gained a very special angel.

Susan is survived by her nieces Kendra Farmer (Robert) Mathieu and her children Gina (Wolfgang) Muhlhofer and Anthony (Devin) Catalli, her adopted niece Missy Wang, her in-laws James (Laurell) Banner, Katherine (Robert) Seemann, Virginia Banner and their children Christopher, Shane, Jackie, Jamie, Gina, Britt, Mick and Corey, her best friend Sharon Quill, her dog Shannon and many loyal friends and extended family members.

Visitation is at 10am on Friday, April 19, 2024 followed by a Mass at St. Patrick Church: 928 W Everett Rd, Lake Forest, IL 60045. A luncheon will follow the mass at Miramar Bistro: 301 Waukegan Ave, Highwood, IL 60040.

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Thomas J. Moulder - June 01, 1942 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Thomas J. Moulder, 81

Beloved husband of Lynne (nee Rappaport) for 57 years.

Loving father of Jeffrey (MaryBeth), Kelly (David) Astrahan, and Daniel.

Adoring Papa of Morgan, Raechel, and Connor Moulder, Kaitlyn, Colin, and Hailey Astrahan.

Brother of Susan (Frank) Strainis, James R. (Christine), Connie (Bill) Geraghty, John (Joe Cervantes), the late Bonnie Piccolo.

Brother-in-law of Jill and Scott Metzger. Tom was an athlete, a scholar, a waterski instructor, a horse trainer, a chemist, an entrepreneur and a financial advisor amongst the many hats he wore on his journey;

However, those were simply hats worn so he could be a great son, brother, husband, father, grandfather, friend, confidant, confessor, advisor, shepherd, comedian, advisor, mentor, partner, coach, cheerleader, survivor, hero...

– and now, guardian angel.

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Elizabeth Anne Hamlin - September 24, 1933 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Elizabeth Anne Hamlin passed away peacefully on March 24, 2024. Through her last days, the 90-year-old was a vibrant, independent member of her community of Lake Bluff, Illinois who delighted everyone she met and was beloved by her kids, grandkids and great-grandkids.

Ann was born in Beech Creek, Kentucky in 1933, the eldest of three. Her family soon moved to California but settled in Michigan where she graduated from Wayne High School. Ann received a prestigious scholarship at the University of Michigan to study organ and piano, but the summer after her freshman year, while working at Les Cheneaux Club in northern Michigan, she fell in love with Notre Dame student and seasonal schooner mate Thomas Michael Hamlin. “I looked across the room and said, ‘That’s the person I want to be with for the rest of my life,’” Ann remembered in a 2019 family interview. “I just felt comfortable around him. I just felt like it was supposed to be.”

By the end of that fall semester, the two decided to get married and Ann did not go back to school but followed Tom back to finish his schooling at Notre Dame in South Bend, Indiana. They wed April 11, 1953, and soon started a family. Tom joined the Marine Corp Platoon Leader Corps while studying at Notre Dame and rose through the ranks, retiring as a Colonel.

Ann and Tom had six children and moved frequently, living all over the country and in Stuttgart, Germany. It takes an incredibly strong woman to raise 6 military brats, with a husband sometimes spending long stints abroad in Vietnam or Okinawa.

In all of this hard work, she continued to pursue her own dreams. She earned an associate degree in accounting, was a certified paralegal, a licensed realtor and rose to GS 13 in government procurement at Great Lakes Naval Base, after many years with the Army Advertising Agency at Fort Sheridan. She was also a pioneering computer programmer and loved to recount the punch card era of data processing.

As they headed toward retirement, Ann and Tom put down roots in Lake Bluff, Illinois, where they could be close to a military base, while still living near their beloved Lake Michigan. There, Ann became “Nana” to her grandkids and great-grandkids. She lost her sweetheart in 2015 after 61 happy years of marriage.

Ann was no typical nonagenarian. She had a packed weekly schedule until her final moments. She taught bridge and delighted to be welcomed by the folks at the Lake Bluff Fire Station bridge group and dear friends at Lake Forest Place. She volunteered with the League of Women Voters, the Lake Bluff Womens Club, created brilliantly colorful quilts, read stacks of books, played the piano and traveled to visit friends and family, including regular trips to Tom’s hometown, Charlevoix, MI.

The greatest legacy Ann leaves, aside from her family, is her work as a volunteer adult literacy tutor at the Waukegan Public Library. She spent more than 35 years specializing in unique learning disabilities and sharing her lifelong love of learning with her adult students. The Illinois Secretary of State recognized Ann for this work in 2019 with a Spotlight on Service Award. “Be patient, be adaptable to the student’s needs, have confidence in your own teaching ability, and listen to and get to know the student,” Ann said of her approach to tutoring in a 2012 Daily Herald article. “Their goal is your goal.”

Ann will be dearly missed by everyone that had the pleasure of spending time with her. She is survived by brother, Rupert Hillyard; children, Ree (Tom) Lewis, Washington, MO, Tom Hamlin, Atlanta, GA, Charlie (Becky) Hamlin, Lake Bluff, IL, Theresa (Clay) Grumke, St. Louis, MO and Jeff (Leisa) Hamlin, Eureka, MO; grandchildren, Zach (Mandy), Jen (Jeff), Tyler (Katie), Betsy (Brian), Jake (Lauren), Stevie (Ben), Shore (John), Troy, Emily (Ross), Kate (Kyle), Maggie, Eric; and 14 great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by husband of 61 years Tom; daughter, Paula Hamlin; parents, Lourae and Rupert Hillyard; sister, Kathryn Reynolds; and sister-in-law Peggy.

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Wanda Perschke - August 05, 1943 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Wanda J. Perschke passed on March 24, 2024. She was 80 years old. Born in Avery Texas in 1943 and resident of Lake Bluff for 55 years. She is survived by her sister Sue Cobb, her 3 step children Debra Alfeld (Bob Alfeld), Steve Perschke (Anna Perschke), Mark Perschke, nieces, nephews and grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her husband Oliver J Perschke, her parents, brother, and sister. She retired after many years with Fiat Allis in Deerfield and then as office manager with Ragsdale, Inc in Lake Bluff. She enjoyed card games, trivia, and spending time with friends and family. Visitation is Friday, March 29, 2024, 11am to 1pm at Wenban Funeral Home. Further visitation service and burial will be held in her home town in Texas

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Kathleen Barnett - September 04, 1947 - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Kathleen (Kathy) Barnett passed away at her home in Lake Forest, IL. Kathy was born on September 4, 1947, the second child and daughter of Joseph Jerome Clancy and Gladys Viola Jackson Clancy in Fort Wayne, Indiana. The family soon relocated to nearby Angola, Indiana, where Kathy and her older sister, 3 younger sisters, and 2 younger brothers grew up. The Clancy kids enjoyed travels and adventures with their parents and extended family.

After graduating from high school, Kathy attended Nazareth College in Kalamazoo, MI, before transferring to Indiana University in Bloomington, IN where she graduated in 1969 with a degree in Social Work. Shortly after graduation Kathy moved to Chicago where she amassed a large troop of friends and worked in many different areas of the City, including as a Social Worker for Cook County. Kathy lived in Chicago until she met the love of her life, Curtis Barnett, and moved to Kenilworth.

Kathy and Curtis were married August 1987 in Ocean Springs, MS, surrounded by assorted friends and family. In classic Kathy fashion she was late to the wedding because she was baking corn muffins for the reception. Kathy and Curtis were happily married until his passing on January 23, 2008.

Following Curtis’s passing, Kathy resided in Lake Forest and most recently worked as a Student Relations Rep at Lake Forest College. Kathy loved to read and cook and was an excellent pet sitter to Zoe the cat, Mr. Bean the dog, and many other furry family members.

Kathy was preceded in death by her husband Curtis Barnett, father Joseph Clancy, mother Gladys Clancy, sister Linda (John) Kline, and brother Michael Clancy. Kathy is survived by sisters: Patricia (Tom) Russell, Judith (Rick) Bagby, and Sheila Benner; brother, Joseph Clancy; step-daughter, Captain Sarah Sherwood (Mike Lujan); nieces and nephews Jenny, Amy, Nathan, Chris, Michael, John, Melanie, Sarah, William, Trey, Philip, and Sandy; sister-in-law Cecilia (Henry) Meers; countless cousins by blood and marriage; and many friends from every part of her life.

Burial is private. A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date to honor Kathy’s life.

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Edward Gurza - November 07, 1945 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: With heavy hearts, we said goodbye to Dr. Edward Joseph Gurza, 78, of Lake Forest, who passed away peacefully at home, right where he wanted, surrounded by his family on March 12, 2024.

Ed was born on November 7, 1945 to Dr. Agustín and María Esther Gurza in Torreón, Coahuila, México. His family moved to the United States, first to Tacoma, WA and then to San Jose, CA. He attended high school at Bellarmine College Prep in San Jose and went on to Marquette University in Milwaukee, WI for undergrad. He graduated from medical school at La Universidad Nacional Autónoma de México in Guadalajara, which was co-founded by his father Agustín. He completed his internal medicine residency at St. Francis Hospital in Evanston. Ed remained there in practice and as a teacher of residents and Loyola medical students assigned there for various rotations. Ultimately, he was recruited by Loyola University to accept a full-time faculty position at its new medical center and medical school, Stritch School of Medicine, in Maywood. He developed and directed a new comprehensive medical school course, Introduction to the Practice of Medicine, and developed Stritch's first Standardized Patient Center in which "actors" were trained to mimic various illnesses to help train and evaluate physicians and nurses. His foresight in this area allowed Stritch to be one of the country's first medical schools to have such a program. In addition, he served as the General Internal Medicine Section Chief for the Department of Internal Medicine. He taught multiple students and internal medicine residents and was nominated multiple times for teaching awards. He was such a respected, accomplished and admired mentor, educator and doctor that he was recognized by Loyola's faculty as being one of Stritch School's most astute diagnosticians.

In 1969, he married Elizabeth Frances Curtin in Madison, WI. He was a beloved husband for 55 years to his adored wife, Liz, who he fondly referred to as Curt. They met over Liz’s roommate’s Biology notes. Liz did not like Biology, but she sure liked him and his choice of cars! At the time, he was driving an XKE and soon after a British Racing Green Austin Healy. That Austin Healy stayed running in the lot while he and Liz attended the infamous Ice Bowl in Green Bay on New Year’s Eve 1967. They spent free time finally traveling and visited several meaningful locations in México, including rekindling the family bond with the Gurzas in México City. One of their favorite trips was with his brother Agustín’s family which led them through France, England, Italy and Ireland, where Liz was able to introduce them to her Irish roots. They loved walking through the Chicago Botanic Garden and enjoying fine wine and meals at their favorite local restaurants. He also loved to share a salud/slainte with his wife at the end of the week with a snifter of scotch neat with a twist of lemon.

Ed was a devoted father to his 3 children, Lisa, Allison, and Edward. He looked forward to annual duck hunting trips along the upper Mississippi with his son Edward and his brothers-in-law Bill and Tom. He enjoyed skiing trips and fly-fishing trips to the Rockies with his wife and son. A connoisseur of great food, he also had quite a sweet tooth and he and Allison always loved making the New Year’s Eve trifle for dessert - both a work of art and a special yearly treat. He was a proud Chicago Bears season ticket holder and enjoyed game days with tailgating and rooting for Da Bears. He was also able to share his love of woodworking with his daughter Lisa while making a standing vegetable planter. Toward retirement, he shared his love of sport shooting with his daughters, Lisa and Allison, who he took skeet shooting on several occasions at the Northbrook Sports Club.

An avid lover of all things nostalgic, especially Christmas (El Niño Dios), Da Bears and, of course, Porsches. He loved planning and research, which led to amazing family vacations, including annually to his favorite deep woods cabin in Wisconsin and a once-in-a-lifetime trip to Kauai. He would commemorate these special trips with beautiful photo books. As a craftsman, he liked home improvement projects and had a special talent for woodworking, with a knack for collecting tools and crown molding scraps for future use. We can still picture him wearing his old lab coats covered in paint splatter and sawdust. He was also a voracious reader, and a few of his favorite authors had a special place on the shelf - Ian Fleming (shaken not stirred), Stephen King and Lee Child to name a few. Above all, he was impeccably organized with all things in life - with the help of bins and a label maker, of course.

Lalo, a dear son and trusted brother, was preceded in death by his parents, Agustín Gurza and María Esther Gurza Sanchesviesca, and brothers, Agustín and Roberto. Survived by his siblings Mary Esther, Piti, Guillermo, Patti, and Alejandro. Ed, a loving husband and father, is also survived by his wife, Liz, and their children, Lisa, Allison and Edward (Amy). He is also survived by many nieces and nephews: Charlie White, Miguel and Andres Gurza, Joaquin Gurza, Will and Sonia Witherow, David, Rachel and Olivia Dully, and Daniel Gurza.

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Robin Lavelle O'Neill - March 29, 1946 - March 11, 2024

Departed: 03/11/2024 (Lake Forest)

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Allen Eliot - May 17, 1925 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Allen Eliot passed away peacefully on March 8, 2024 at the age of 98. He was born on May 17, 1925, the eldest son of Ben and Esther Eisenberg, both Jewish immigrants from Poland who met in Rochester, NY. Allen and his brother David (b. 1927) grew up above the family business, a dry goods store on Joseph Avenue that catered to immigrants. The family spoke Yiddish at home and everyone helped in the store, with Ben traveling to buy wholesale in New York City and sell to customers in rural areas. Esther, who immigrated as a young child and spoke better English than Ben, also worked for a time at Sibley’s, the big downtown store in Rochester. When not working in the store or attending Hebrew shul, Allen was a latch-key kid who loved to play and watch sports. He would play baseball and basketball in the lot near his grammar school and Allen later became something of a star on the varsity basketball team at Franklin High. In the last seconds against Edison Tech, Allen made a mid-court shot that won the game and got written up in the newspaper. But his busy parents never came to watch him play!

A great fan of Rochester’s minor league baseball team, the Red Wings, Allen saw many great players who went on to the very successful St. Louis Cardinals. He showed his little brother how to sneak into games by crawling under a fence and teased David for thinking they had to crawl under the fence to leave as well. Later, they both worked the ground crew and concessions, so could watch for free. Late in life, Allen could still remember many of the Rochester players from those days. Upon graduating high school, Allen qualified for the Navy’s V-12 program and enlisted in early 1943, at age 17. He started military service in November of that year. The program focused on naval science, and Allen attended what later became Georgia Tech and the University of South Carolina. He earned a degree in Naval Science and Mathematics, served at sea aboard the USS Columbia and USS Missouri—the very ship where the Japanese signed the surrender to end WWII—and was discharged in the fall of 1946

After exiting the Navy, Allen held various jobs, including with Eastman Kodak in Rochester, and may have also worked for the US Post Office. He spent two weeks at Harvard Law school before deciding the law wasn’t for him. Eventually, he applied to the MBA program at the University of Chicago and matriculated in 1949, although he first attended a preparatory accounting class at the University of Wisconsin in Madison. This time in Madison was a precursor of things to come.

In 1951, Caryl Schillinger, a nursing student at the University of Wisconsin, was sent for a 3-month Ob/Gyn rotation to the University of Chicago. Caryl and Allen met near the shared mailroom of Snell and Hitchcock Halls, adjacent dormitories on the University of Chicago quadrangle. They started dating that summer, taking walks on the U of C campus, and as they had no money for entertainment, Allen would serenade to her. He confided years later that he thought to himself, “Now, I am in trouble!” He’d developed great affection for Caryl, a problem since he was Jewish, and she was Lutheran.

After she returned to Wisconsin, they continued writing to each other, and Allen visited Madison, where he felt warmly welcomed by Caryl’s family. But then he suddenly stopped writing, and Caryl thought it might be over, until some months later, when he sent a long letter declaring his love for her and it was clear they would marry. Due to their mixed religious backgrounds, they chose the First Unitarian Meeting House of Madison for their wedding, on June 20, 1953. It was just a year after completion of this beautiful sanctuary, designed by Frank Lloyd Wright and now a national landmark. It was a small ceremony, and due to their strong religious beliefs, no one from Allen’s family attended.

Allen and Caryl honeymooned in Florida and then settled in Chicago, living in a series of apartments. He began his professional career as a CPA, having passed the CPA exam with the highest score in his cohort. Allen worked at jobs for Kimberly-Clark, and later for independent accounting firms Grant Thornton and Tinan Roberts. Several months after their marriage, he asked Caryl if she would be okay with changing their last name, and she suggested ‘Eliot,’ perhaps recalling “Charles Eliot,” one of the names inscribed at the Unitarian Meeting House.

The young couple eventually bought their first home in the west Chicago suburb of LaGrange, Illinois in 1955. Their first son, Brian David, was born in September of that year, followed by Daniel Robert in November of 1956, and Bruce Miles in June 1958.

In 1956, Allen joined the accounting firm of George Bagley and Company. Founder George Bagley was a bright but quiet man who left Allen to do his work with minimal oversight. This management style suited Allen’s character, as he liked to work independently and did not like others to question or challenge his work. Allen remained at George Bagley and Company for almost 35 years, until his formal retirement in 1990 at age 65. He continued to work from home for several clients over many years following his retirement, still doing a handful of clients’ tax returns into his early 90’s.

At George Bagley’s recommendation, Allen and Caryl moved in 1960 to the North Shore Chicago suburb of Glencoe, purchasing a house on Oakdale Avenue, which they ended up owning for 60 years. In January, 1962, their last child and first daughter, Lise Suzanne was born. The 1960’s and 1970’s were busy child-rearing years for the Eliot family, with children attending local public schools in Glencoe and New Trier East High School in nearby Winnetka.

Allen continued his steady work at Bagley, which at that time served many small loan companies. He deepened his client relationships, recruited new business, and became managing partner by 1972. Although the firm remained small, the practice produced a stable income for the family, and Allen was able to support his children’s college educations and many adventurous trips for him and Caryl, including a tour of Israel and Egypt in 1973, where they were stranded for 3 weeks in Cairo when the Yom Kippur war broke out.

He was a gifted accountant; he worked quickly and accurately, had a phenomenal memory, and was committed to billing fairly. His clients placed great value on his trustworthiness, and Allen became the executor of several estates and served on the Board of Directors of Commercial National Bank. He had a quick wit, as well as a sharp tongue, but always earned the respect of those around him because of his careful work and sound advice.

In November 2018, Allen crashed his car into the office building of his orthopedist. He was not badly injured, but Caryl, who was in the front passenger seat, broke both her legs. The very same orthopedist was on-call and repaired Caryl’s legs! They then endured 3 months of rehab together but could no longer live in their multi-level home, so moved in February 2019 to the Sheridan at Green Oaks retirement community in Lake Bluff, IL, where they shared a small assisted-living apartment.

In May of 2023, they celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary, returning to Madison for a tour of the First Unitarian Meeting House with all of their children and grandchildren, now living across the U.S. It was a glorious spring day and tribute to a remarkable couple and the beautiful family they created.

Allen grew weaker over the past year and endured more falls, but continued to get around with a walker and remarkably little assistance, remaining clear-headed until just shortly before his death.

Allen was pre-deceased by his parents and brother David. He is survived by his wife, Caryl, and children Brian, Dan (Meng), Bruce (Denise), and Lise (William Frost), along with seven grandchildren: Max (Ali Soldner), Conor (Lina), Kenton, Julia, Samuel, Hannah, and Tobias. Max and Ali are expecting the first great-grandchild in early April.

Interment to follow at Northshore Garden of Memories Cemetery. Family requests that the burial be a private event.

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Susan Carol Lamb - March 20, 1943 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Susan Carol Lamb….age 80 and amazing passed away peacefully on March 4, 2024 at her home in Lake Forest, Illinois.

Artist, entrepreneur, devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother, she was born in Washington DC, March 20, 1943, the beloved daughter of the late Maurice Rylas Newton and Julia Maxine Newton nee Lovejoy Price.

Both of her parents were from Central Illinois and after leaving the Navy once the war effort was concluded the family moved to Detroit, Michigan where she grew up alongside her three younger sisters: Joan (Greg) Wallace, Bonnie (Phil) Henault and Patricia Sype. They moved to suburban Farmington Michigan in the summer of 1955 as she was to begin the 6th grade. She attended Farmington High School and graduated in 1961. She was active in choir and enjoyed enormous popularity.

After graduation she immediately set upon a career in business working in several administrative roles. She was most proud of her ability to advance and make a difference in all her endeavors. She worked at the renowned Creative Industries in Detroit as part of the development teams secretly designing and fabricating some of the most innovative cars for Ford, Chrysler, and General Motors….including the Chevrolet Corvette and other iconic brand names.

She came to the Chicago area in the early 1970’s where she continued to find exciting career opportunities and success….especially in advertising. She worked for Post Keyes Gardner, Cunningham Walsh, Playboy, and at Take Ten Productions where she met her husband, Ronald. They were married on December 12, 1981, and are the proud parents of two sons Brian Charles (Kristin) Pertler and Ronald Corbett (Lisa) Lamb. She was also the cherished grandmother of Morgan (Jordan) Fields, Marissa (Michael) McNamara, Jillian Pertler, Annabelle Lamb, and Ryder Lamb. She was also a proud great grandmother of Kinsley, Brody, and Charlie Fields.

Upon moving from downtown Chicago to Glenview in 1983 Susan set upon an active period of designing and remodeling several of their homes. From Glenview to Winnetka to Lake Forest she had a remarkable ability to envision and transform living space in a way that reflected her personality and spirit. Her homes were welcoming and warm and inviting. She was meticulous about the details and never wavered from that throughout her life.

Her talent, activity, and passion extended to a host of interests. Shortly after arriving in Glenview, she became an active member of the United States Navy League (The civilian support arm of the U.S. Navy) where she ultimately rose to be elected Vice-President of the Chapter. She worked on a host of social and historical initiatives and received numerous awards of merit and accolades for these events. Her fondness and love of the Navy grew out of her father Newt’s service and his commitment during World War II. She was incredibly proud of him having been named a squadron “Honor Man” at the Great Lakes Naval Training Center in 1942.

In 1993 she and her husband co-founded Source Line Inc., a full-service corporate meeting production company. She successfully developed and implemented the company’s systems for finance and administration. The company flourished during the late 90’s and beyond to become one of the nation’s premier business communications firms. As company Chief Operating Officer, she loved mentoring and sharing the success of the organization with her many co-workers. Her vision for seeing what the company could become was one of her strongest attributes. The company’s clients included some of the Countries top Fortune 500 corporations. She retired in 2014 and relished her time to relax and reflect about the journey to this point. She avidly interacted with so many friends on social media and her Facebook Page was always creative and reflected the beauty she found in graphic arts.

Susan was a 10th generation American and was so very proud of her roots which traced back to the American Revolution. Her maternal grandmother Phoebe Lovejoy Price was an avid genealogist and wrote several family archives that were published in the 1960’s before the popularity of the internet. This inspired her to do the extensive research to herself be inducted into the Daughter’s of the American Revolution on October 8, 2005. She so proudly joined the General James Cox Chapter of the DAR in Kokomo Indiana; the same one her grandmother had been prominently a part of. She went on to assist them in developing a comprehensive website and to enhance the profile for promoting the chapter to national prominence.

Susan so loved Lake Forest Beach. She and Ron would often spend time there reflecting about love and life and the joy they were able to share. She loved the color and beauty of the water and its calming waves rolling on shore. They both believed that you “give your children two things….one is roots the other is wings”. She has certainly earned hers. She and Ron shared this measure of undying love….I loved you yesterday. I love you today. And I’ll love you tomorrow. And now escielle is truly....Going Home. That’s HER!

NB. There will be NO visitation and currently there are no plans for a memorial based on her wishes. Susan will be buried at Lake Forest Cemetery in a private service.

If you wish, you may make a donation in her name to the Lake County Navy League or Lake Forest Opens Lands.

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Cheryl Knoll Jarosz - Leone - June 03, 1955 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Cheryl Knoll Jarosz-Leone of Lake Forest, Illinois and Ajijic, Jalisco, Mexico died March 2, 2024. She is survived by her beloved husband Kenneth R. Leone, her daughters Kari, Ryan and Rebecca and by her grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her late husband Richard A. Jarosz.

Cher was proud of her 38 years of Federal Government service. She was an IRS Special Agent and later an ERISA (Employee Retirement Income Security) investigator for the U.S. Department of Labor.

She loved to travel and was always seeking new adventures. She visited more than 40 countries and had hoped to soon be moving to Sicily and was also planning a return trip to Kenya.

Cher was an avid lifelong horsewoman and a lover of all animals domestic and wild. She took in numerous dogs, cats, birds, goats, geese, rabbits, chickens and other creatures. She was an active volunteer with Lucky Dog Rescue and Adoption Center in Chapala, Jalisco, Mexico. Visitation 9:30 to 11:30 AM at Wenban Funeral Home, 320 E. Vine Ave., Lake Forest, IL 60045 Info: 847-234-0022 or www.wenbanfh.com

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Bonnie B. Ford - April 18, 1934 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Bonnie Brackin Ford, 89, of Lake Barrington, former longtime resident of Lake Forest, passed away peacefully on February 21, 2024 after being surrounded by family members for several days. She was born on April 18,1934 on a farm in Fayette County, located between Elgin and West Union, Iowa to John Butler Brackin and Louise Verena Miller Brackin. Bonnie’s father established and ran a successful farm raising purebred hogs. She was the youngest of 13 children, predeceased by John Wesley, Edna Sarah, Edward Cornelious, George Henry, Frank Leroy, Marie Clara, Irvin Laverne, Darlene Beth, John Junior, Verna Earlene, Lawrence Clifton, and Richard Lewis.

Bonnie graduated from Waterloo High School in Iowa where she was a drum majorette. She received a BA in English Literature and Education from the University of Oregon in 1956 where she was a proud member of the Gamma Phi Beta sorority. Bonnie went on a blind date with Donald Ford, who became her husband three months later on August 13, 1955 in a ceremony held at her sorority house at the U of O.

Bonnie and Don’s three daughters were born in Oregon, and the family moved to several locations in California. While living on the west coast, Bonnie began a lifelong interest and passion for art and antiques. As Don’s career progressed, the family moved to Lake Forest, Illinois. While raising her daughters, she built a career in antiques appraising, becoming a certified Senior Member of the American Society of Appraisers (ASA) with a designation in personal property and residential contents. From 1979-1985, Bonnie owned and operated a successful estate sale business, Deerpath Sales, which served the North Shore suburbs of Chicago. This business evolved into Bonnie B. Ford and Associates Sales. She was also a noted speaker on topics of antiques and collectibles in the Chicago Area. While living in Lake Forest, Bonnie was very involved with the Gamma Phi Beta Alumni Group, as well as the Questers Antique Group of Lake Forest. Additionally, she also continued her involvement with the American Association of University Women, which she began while living in Oregon.

Bonnie’s unique aesthetic and sense of style permeated her life and did not go unnoticed by those who knew her. She was an avid reader, and she and Don enjoyed many years of travel together, as well as owning second homes in Gleneden Beach, OR and Naples, FL. Bonnie was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. Over her lifetime, she also held a very important role in the lives of her siblings’ extended families.

Bonnie will be deeply missed by daughters Jennifer Ralston (Mark), Karen Malec (Dennis), Andrea Malec (Kevin); grandchildren Emilia Kingham (Christian), Adrienne Ralston, Sean Malec, Jessica Malec, Alissa (Malec) Roane (Jeff), Jarrett Malec, and great grandson, Roland James Kingham.

Bonnie was preceded in death by her husband in 2022. A private family interment and celebration of life will be held on Saturday, March 9, 2024 in Lake Forest.

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Carol Morita-Torcivia - August 25, 1964 - February 13, 2024

Departed: 02/13/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Carol Hiromi Morita-Torcivia passed on Tuesday February 13th, at the age of 59 after battling a brain tumor. She wanted everyone to know that she had a wonderful life and loved her family more than anything in this world. She was thankful to her parents who left Japan and provided her a life in the United States. Born in Hyde Park Chicago while her parents were pursuing PhDs and Master degrees at the University of Chicago, Carol then lived in various states and attended six different grade schools, graduating from Upper Arlington High School in Upper Arlington, Ohio. After writing for school and local newspapers, she returned to the Chicago area to earn her Bachelor of Science in Journalism from the Northwestern University Medill School of Journalism, then obtained a merit-based scholarship to attend The Ohio State University Moritz College of Law. After earning her JD, she worked at the law firm of Masuda, Funai, Eifert & Mitchell, Ltd. In Chicago, then worked at Underwriters Laboratories Inc. as Vice President, Assistant General Counsel and Assistant Corporate Secretary. She ended her career as Associate General Counsel at Jim Beam Brands Co. before retiring to take care of her parents in 2018. Carol remained an active volunteer with Northwestern University, primarily as an executive council member of the Northwestern University Council of 100. She was an avid cook, loved international travel and enjoyed spending her free time throwing pottery, and playing pickleball, golf, paddle and curling at Exmoor Country Club in Highland Park.

She is survived by her husband Bryan Torcivia, daughter Miya Kakuda (Dylan Flesher), son Quentin Kakuda, her mother Ichiko Morita, her sister Louise Landry (John Landry), six nieces and nephews, and four stepchildren.

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Dennis C. Suder - October 25, 1936 - February 08, 2024

Departed: 02/08/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Dennis C. Suder, 87, of Lake Forest, IL, passed away on February 8, 2024. He was born on October 25, 1936, in Chicago, IL. Dennis was a loving husband to Carol and a devoted father to daughters Caryn and Amy.

Dennis had an impressive career as a trader at the Chicago Mercantile Exchange for nearly 30 years. His dedication and expertise made him a respected professional in his field.

He received his primary education at St. Pancratius and later attended St. Rita of Cascia High School. Dennis furthered his education at Loyola University, Chicago where he received his degree in accounting.

A private memorial service was held in his honor. Wenban Funeral Home in Lake Forest, IL, assisted the family with the arrangements.

Dennis will be remembered for his kind heart, unwavering integrity, and the positive impact he had on those around him. He will be deeply missed by his family, pets, friends, and all who knew him.

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Alain Wood Prince - May 28, 1934 - February 03, 2024

Departed: 02/03/2024 (Lake Forest)

Obituary Preview: Husband, father, outdoorsman

Alain was born to Claude Barrelet DeRicou and Eleanor Edwards in Paris, France. After his father’s death, Eleanor returned to America and married William Wood in 1940. Alain attended Wheaton public schools, Latin School of Chicago, Groton School, and Yale University, graduating in 1956.

He married Barbara Barton Jones in 1957, worked one year for the First National Bank of Chicago, then launched his long career as a freelance writer for outdoor sports magazines. Together he and Barbara welcomed three children: Barbara, (Sandy), Wendy, and Ted. In time came five grandchildren: Bill, Lucia, Cat, Andrew, and Eleanor, then two great-grandchildren: Archer and Aliette. Dad and Mom considered their children’s and grandchildren’s partners to be their children as well: Sandy’s husband Mike, Ted’s wife Dara, Bill’s wife Rachel, Andrew’s wife Josie, Cat’s partner Greg.

His writing and love of fishing took him around the world - from Baja California to Newfoundland, Patagonia to Canada, from hidden farm ponds to the wild north Atlantic to the Mississippi River. He most loved sharing this passion with family.

Dad, and Mom, took hundreds of thousands of photos of the outdoors for Dad’s articles, as well as for Lake Forest Open Lands, of which Dad was an active member for decades, creating some of their annual calendars.

He was a superb lifelong tennis player, known for his crafty play, often sending younger opponents sprawling and gasping. He loved his tennis buddies dearly.

We have received so many messages about dad from so many people, describing him as kind, generous, intelligent, and classy. But there are two words that keep coming up again and again: “gentle” and “gentleman.” He lived that every day, shared that with everyone he met.

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What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It serves as a way to share information about the deceased with friends, family, and community, and often includes details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving loved ones.

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Yes, it's common to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary. This allows friends and family to make contributions in memory of the deceased person.

How do I ensure that my loved one's obituary is accurate and respectful?

To ensure accuracy and respectfulness in an obituary, gather information from multiple sources, verify facts carefully, and involve family members or close friends in the writing process.

Can I create a digital archive of my loved one's obituary?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to create a digital archive of your loved one's obituary. This can serve as a permanent record and provide easy access for future generations.

What if I need help writing an obituary due to emotional distress?

If you're struggling emotionally during this difficult time, consider reaching out to a trusted friend, family member, or professional writer for assistance with writing the obituary. Funeral homes may also offer guidance and support.

Can I include humor or lighthearted anecdotes in an obituary?

Yes, incorporating humor or lighthearted anecdotes into an obituary can help celebrate the deceased person's personality and spirit. Just be sure to maintain respectfulness and tact when sharing these stories.

How do I handle conflicting opinions about what should be included in an obituary?

If there are conflicting opinions about what should be included in an obituary, try to reach consensus among family members and close friends. If necessary, consider seeking guidance from a neutral third party or funeral director.