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Sister Geraldine Hartke - September 09, 1933 - February 01, 2023

Departed: 02/01/2023 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: A Mass of Christian Burial will be held for Sister Geraldine at 11:00am Friday, February 3, 2023, in the St. Francis Chapel on the grounds of St. Francis Convent.   For those who wish to view her services in real time, please click the play button in the video screen below.

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Terri Lynn Aeschleman-Cass - May 28, 1958 - January 26, 2023

Departed: 01/26/2023 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Terri Lynn Aeschleman-Cass, age 64 of South Bend, passed away with her family by her side on Thursday, January 26, 2023.  Terri was born May 28, 1958, in South Bend, Indiana to the late Ernest and Willadean (Hale) Miltenberger.  She was a graduate of Clay High School.  Following her graduation, she began a long and rewarding career as a patient insurance benefits specialist at St. Joseph Regional Medical Center and later at Memorial Hospital.  She later worked in customer relations at the South Bend Four Winds Casino from the time it opened until recently.  On February 26, 2005, Terri married Joe Cass.  They were eagerly preparing to celebrate their 16th anniversary.

Joe survives, along with her daughters Shanaka (Matt Stumpf) Aeschleman and Tammy (Noe) Rodriguez, both of South Bend and her son Bradley (Courtney) Cass of Mishawaka.  Surviving as well are her grandchildren Taedon Stumpf of Mishawaka and Shayley Stumpf of Anderson, Indiana.  Terri is also survived by her brothers Ernest (Cheryl) Miltenberger of Murfreesboro, Tennessee and Millard (Deborah) Miltenberger of Ocala, Florida.  Her brother, Daniel J. Miltenberger and infant sister Christine Miltenberger preceded her in death.

Visitation will be held from 3-6:30 pm Tuesday, January 31, 2023, at Wells and Cruz Family Funeral Home (formerly Goethals and Wells) in Mishawaka, with funeral services to follow at 6:30 pm.  A livestream of the service will be available in the window below beginning at 6:15 pm.

Terri enjoyed watching Notre Dame football, playing BINGO, planting flowers, cooking dinners for special holidays, particularly Christmas and Thanksgiving, spending time with her family at get-togethers and barbeques, and visiting casinos throughout the area with her Aunt Elsie, where the two of them would rock out to Elvis tunes along the way.  Terri was an animal lover, not only of those she owned, but all of her family’s pets as well.  She also loved attending car shows and riding with her husband Joe in their 1971 Dodge Charger.  She was also extremely proud of her Native American heritage and was a longtime member of the Miami Tribe of Oklahoma.

Most of all, Terri put her family first.  She often referred to Taedon as the “Light of her life.”  Her generosity, outspoken personality and caring heart will be missed by those who were fortunate enough to get to know her.

In her memory, donations may be given to the National Kidney Foundation at www.Kidney.org/Donate.  To light a virtual candle, share a story of Terri’s life, or leave a message of comfort for her family, please follow the links provided on the Tribute Wall tab above.

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Sherry Ann Black - April 05, 1943 - January 25, 2023

Departed: 01/25/2023 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Sherry Ann Black, age 79 of South Bend, passed away with her family by her side at the Center for Hospice, Raclin House on January 25, 2023.  Sherry was born April 5, 1943, in South Bend to the late Harry and Viola (Kretchmer) Kardel. Sherry was a graduate of South Bend Washington Clay High School.  While she was in elementary school, she met a boy named Jerry Black and the two of them grew very fond of each other. Throughout their middle school and high school years, they began dating and on January 26, 1963, Jerry and Sherry were united in marriage at Christ the King Catholic Church. Jerry preceded her in death in June of 2021. With her passing, they are reunited again on what would be their 60th anniversary.

She is survived by her children Brian Black and Christine Black, both of South Bend and her brother Angelo (Amy) Kardel of Arizona.  Surviving as well are her grandchildren MaKayla Black, Anthony (fiancée Ilona Fitzke) Harris and Envy Clay along with her great-granddaughter Ava Fitzke. She was preceded in death by her sisters Sonja Allsop and Patty Chestnut.

Visitation will be held from 12-2pm Thursday, February 2, 2023, at Wells and Cruz Family Funeral Home (Formerly Goethals and Wells) in Mishawaka, with funeral services to follow at 2pm.  Following her service, Sherry will be laid to rest beside her husband in Fairview Cemetery, Mishawaka. A livestream of her funeral service can be viewed in the video player below starting at 1:45pm.

Sherry was employed by the School City of South Bend and Mishawaka in their cafeterias for several years prior to taking a position at the Meijer store on Portage Avenue, South Bend where she took great pride in greeting customers with a smiling face and warm welcome as they arrived to shop. At the age of 62, she decided to retire and spend more time enjoying the hobbies she loved- playing BINGO and Euchre, going to the Casino, and spending time with friends at the Clay Democratic Club where she was a longtime member.  Sherry also enjoyed volunteering with the Ladies Auxiliary of the VFW Post 624 in Roseland for many years.

Sherry will also be remembered as the quintessential “Polish Housewife” who was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother to her family.  She truly loved being known as the life of the party and her wonderful sense of humor and zest for life will be greatly missed.

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Harley E. Evans - February 11, 1939 - January 23, 2023

Departed: 01/23/2023 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Harley E. Evans, age 83, of Palm Harbor, Florida, passed away on Monday, January 23, 2023. Harley was born February 11, 1939, in South Bend, Indiana to the late Harley E. and Geraldine (Mossman) Evans. He graduated from Washington Clay High School and later enlisted in the US Navy, where he served honorably until his discharge in 1960.

He is survived by his ex-wife Suellen Evans-Dowe of 42 years, and their children: Anthony Evans, Kimberly Evans & (Christopher Schultz), and Dr.Kelly & (Randy) Hansen. His grandchildren are Madison &(Anthony) Szeltner, Mallory & (Austin) Ryan, Hannah Hansen, and his great-grandson, Oliver Ryan. All of his family resides in the Clearwater, Fl area. He is also survived by nieces and nephews in South Bend. He was preceded in death by his parents and his sister, Dorothy Jean Bonk & (Leonard).

Visitation will be held from 10 am-11 am Friday, February 3, 2023, at Wells and Cruz Family Funeral Home (formerly Goethals and Wells). A Mass of Christian burial will follow at 11:00 am Friday, February 3, 2023, at St. Joseph Catholic Church, Mishawaka, Indiana, with Rev. Christopher Lapp presiding. Following the Mass, Harley will be laid to rest with Military Honors at St. Joseph Valley Memorial Park, Granger, Indiana.

The Torrington Company employed Harley for over 20 years as a machine operator, and later owned Harley's Lincoln way Grill in South Bend before moving to Florida at the age of 54. He was a longtime member of the American Legion Post #7 and was a faithful attendant at St. Catherine Catholic Church. In his spare time, he enjoyed hunting and fishing and was an avid fan of Notre Dame Football and the Chicago Cubs. He loved going to Las Vegas, playing slot machines, going to Octoberfest, and listening to polka music.

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Violet G. Christian - January 01, 1929 - January 19, 2023

Departed: 01/19/2023 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Violet (Gulyanics) Christian, 94, died on January 19, 2023, in Saint Joseph Regional Medical Center, Mishawaka.  She was born January 1, 1929, to the late Michael and Julia (Sverenijok) Gulyanics. Violet married Charles (Cris) Christian, her spouse of thirty-seven years, June 1, 1963, in San Gabriel, California.

Violet is preceded in death by her husband Cris, and all her siblings, namely brothers Michael Gulyanics Jr., and George (Ann) Gulyanics and sisters Annie Gulyanics, Mary (John) Sweeney, Julia (Vere) Robinson, and Elsie (Warren) Groh. She is survived by a step-daughter, numerous nieces and nephews, great nieces and nephews, and great-great nieces and nephews.

Violet held a degree in musical education from Chicago Musical College that she used to enrich the lives of children. She taught music in multiple states but switched to teaching kindergarten, which she did for thirty-three years, in Southern California. She was a skilled violinist and vocalist. She played with the South Bend Symphony, at special events, and with the musical group, The Lemanics.

Outside of education and music, Violet lived a blessed and adventurous life. She was vivacious and had a fun-loving spirit. In her younger years, she worked at Ball Band during what she dubbed “the victory shift”. Violet and Cris cherished traveling. They often were involved in programs where they would swap houses with families from overseas, so they could truly immerse themselves in the language and culture of other countries all while making lifelong friends along the way.

Violet lived most of her adult life in Southern California retuning to Mishawaka in late 2018, to be closer to family, who will miss her dearly.

Memorial contributions can be made to the South Bend Symphony Orchestra’s youth-oriented programs (Symphony-To-Go; Young People’s Discovery Concerts), 127 N. Michigan Street, South Bend, IN  46601.

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Joan M. McLane - February 01, 1947 - January 10, 2023

Departed: 01/10/2023 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Joan Marie McLane, age 75 of Mishawaka, went to be with the Lord on Tuesday, January 10, 2023.  Joan was born February 1, 1947, in South Bend, Indiana to the late Robert and Dorothy (Kowalski) Weller. She was a graduate of St. Joseph High School, class of 1965, and later became certified as a phlebotomist where she served the Michiana community for many years as a lab technician. While at Chippewa Bowling Alley one evening, Joan caught the eye of John McLane, and they developed a love that lasted a lifetime. They were married on June 5, 1971, at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church in South Bend and recently celebrated their 51st anniversary.

John survives, along with their children Doug (Kerri) McLane of Jacksonville, Florida, Anne (Brad) Bell of Elkhart, Indiana, Laura McLane of Westlake Village, California, Jennifer (Ian) Anderson of West Lafayette, Indiana, and David (Emily) McLane of Mercer, Pennsylvania.  Surviving as well are her stepchildren Tobin (Jimmy) McLane of Palm Desert, California and Trent (Marisa) McLane of San Jose, California, along with seventeen grandchildren (with another due in March of 2023) and her siblings Terri (Michael) Garland of Mechanicsburg, Pennsylvania, James Weller of Loma, Colorado, and Robert (Ann) Weller of Granger, Indiana, and Brian Weller of South Bend, Indiana. Her brother-in-law, Ron Borkowski of Lexington, Kentucky is surviving as well. She was preceded in death by her sister Carol Borkowski, her brothers Steve and John Weller and her granddaughter Karsyn Joann Bell.

The McLane’s moved to Warsaw, Indiana and Joan took a job driving the School Bus for the Warsaw Community School System. After moving back to Mishawaka, she resumed her career in Phlebotomy until her retirement in 2013.

She enjoyed crafts and baking. Her delicious holiday cookies were enjoyed by friends and family alike. She also made a trip to Denver to see the Pope and fulfilled a lifelong dream when she took a trip to Israel to spend time in the Holy Land.

Joan was a longtime member of St. Bavo Catholic Church and volunteered her time with CCD and her women’s prayer group whom she formed strong bonds with over the past 17 years. Her generous spirit and love for the Lord was shown to others as she volunteered often and delivered communion to the homebound.

Most of all, Joan loved being a wife, mother and grandmother to her family. She loved life and enjoyed spending time babysitting all of her grandchildren. Her gentle and kind soul will be deeply missed.

Visitation will be held from 4-7 pm Monday, January 16, 2023, at Wells and Cruz Family Funeral Home (formerly Goethals and Wells) 503 W Third St. Mishawaka, with a Rosary service beginning at 7pm. There will also be one hour of visitation on Tuesday, January 17, 2023, at Wells and Cruz Family Funeral Home prior to the 11:00 Mass of Christian Burial at St. Bavo Catholic Church. Following services, Joan will be laid to rest at St. Joseph Cemetery, South Bend.

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Sarah Marie Ulrich - April 13, 1981 - December 20, 2022

Departed: 12/20/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: **Sarah's funeral service will begin live streaming at 5:50pm Eastern Standard Time***

Sarah Marie Ulrich, beloved Wife, Mother, Daughter, Sister, Aunt, and friend battled epilepsy for many years, and it, unfortunately, took her from us too soon. She went home to her Lord and Savior on Tuesday, December 20, 2022, at the age of 41. Sarah was born on April 13, 1981, in Mishawaka, Indiana.   She was a graduate of St. Joseph High School, class of 2000, where she excelled at Basketball. Her love for sports continued throughout her life. Sarah has passed on her skills to young athletes of all ages as a coach and referee. Sarah gave back to the community by coaching many different sports throughout the years.

On April 4, 2019, she married her best friend and the love of her life, Larry Ulrich, becoming not only a wife, but also a loving mother to his children, Olivia and Lucas.  Sarah is also survived by her mother Deborah (David) Walorski of South Bend, her father, David Jr. (Tammy) Sklorenko of McCordsville, Indiana, her brother David III (Carla) Sklorenko of Fishers, Indiana, and their children David IV, Charles, Benjamin, and Alexandra, and her sister Melissa (Doug) Vervaet of Granger and their children Henry and Emily.  Surviving, as well, are her paternal grandparents David Sr. and Sharon Sklorenko of Mishawaka, her husband’s grandmother, Connie Davis of Mishawaka, her closest friend of several years, Galyn (Jason) Young and their children Milah, Garon, and Nolan, her dogs “Thunder” and “Rusty,” and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and extended members of the family. Spending time with these people is what meant the most to Sarah, especially Lucas and Olivia.

Sarah was employed for over 19 years as a Pharmacy Technician.  Later, she took a position at Wnek Family Orthodontics as front office manager, using her organizational skills and compassion for others to excel at her position.

In her spare time, Sarah enjoyed traveling and volunteering for her kids’ sports teams, playing volleyball, and competing in local and state dart leagues and tournaments. She was also an avid sports fan. She often cheered for the Chicago Cubs, Purdue Boilermakers, and Notre Dame Fighting Irish.  She loved to work out and enjoyed spending time at Burn Boot Camp in Granger. She ran multiple marathons throughout her life, including the Chicago Marathon and the Marine Corps Marathon.

Sarah spent many years as a member of St. Pius X Catholic Church in Granger where she was always willing to volunteer her time coaching sports, serving on the school athletic board, and teaching Vacation Bible School. She and Larry currently attend New Life Church in Osceola.

She also loved to travel, especially to Hawaii, spending time on the beach soaking up the sun and going on cruises.

Sarah was always a big kid at heart; her huge smile, bubbly disposition, competitive nature, natural athletic ability, and willingness to help anyone in need will be deeply missed.  Sarah knew the true meaning of the Hawaiian word “Ohana” (translation, “Family”) and lived out its meaning daily through the love she had for those she knew.

Sarah will live on in the memories of those who love her and through the lives she saved as an organ donor. Because of her selfless act of kindness, Sarah has granted four Christmas miracles and improved the lives of many others. Thanks to her generosity these families will celebrate many more holidays. Because Sarah is a Donor Hero, the Ulrich family would like you to consider a donation in her memory to Indiana Donor Network at https://indianadonornetwork.org/foundation/

Sarah loved to help brighten someone’s day, consider a donation in her memory at https://save.org/get-involved/donate/.  Sarah also enjoyed empowering youths through various sports leagues, consider a donation in her memory to Any Children’s Charity of your choosing.

Visitation will be held from 3-6 pm Wednesday, December 28, 2022, at New Life Church, 11593 McKinley Avenue, Osceola, Indiana.  Immediately following the visitation, Dr. Michael Cramer will officiate the 6:00pm funeral service at New Life Church.  Wells and Cruz Family Funeral Home (formerly Goethals and Wells) of Mishawaka has been entrusted with her care.

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Edward Bowling - March 01, 1935 - December 19, 2022

Departed: 12/19/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Edward Joseph Bowling, age 87, went to be with his Lord and Savior on Monday, December 19, 2022, at West Bend Nursing Home, South Bend. Edward was born March 1, 1935, in Mishawaka, Indiana. On May 7, 1955, Edward married the love of his life Dolores “Dolly” (Wisniewski) Bowling. They were married for over 60 years prior to Dolly’s passing in 2015.

He is survived by his children, Michael Bowling, Debbie (Dion) Manee, Linda (Ed Marang) Hagen. Grandchildren, Mindy, Leslie, Christopher, Brandon, Adam, Jennica, Wyatt, and Lerah. Great-grandchildren, Austin, Cayden, Madison, and Mason and Edward's special dog "Ernie". He was preceded in death by his wife, Dolly and his sister, Mary Elizabeth Bowling.

A "Celebration of Life" gathering will be held from 5-7 pm Thursday, December 29, 2022, at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home in Mishawaka.

Edward grew up in Mishawaka, then moved to South Bend where he lived with his pride and joy Dolly for 62 years. He was a member of St. Jude Catholic Church. Edward had several jobs throughout his life which included delivering milk, managing McDonalds for over 25 years, and then working at a local factory. Most of all, Edward will be remembered for his love of family and friends. He loved to listen to and dance ("Just look at us") with his beautiful bride to polka music. He loved to watch wrestling on TV, huge Notre Dame football fan, and loved to cook. His favorite phrases were "If you got time to lean, you got time to clean" and "I'll get over it!" Don't remember me with sadness, don't remember me with tears,

Remember all the laughter, we've shared throughout the years. Now I am contented, that my life it was worthwhile,

Knowing that I passed along the way, I made somebody smile. When you are walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind,

I'm walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind. So please don't be unhappy, just because I'm out of sight,

Remember that I'm with you, each morning, noon and night.

Always loved, Forever missed, Never forgotten. Love from your daughters, Linda and Debbie, your "Golden Girls!" In his memory, donations may be given to Pet Refuge, 4626 S. Burnett Drive, South Bend, IN. 46614

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Lequita Faye "Lea" DeLaruelle - June 29, 1938 - December 18, 2022

Departed: 12/18/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Lequita Faye (Starnes) DeLaruelle, or “Lea,” as her friends knew her, was born in Caraway, Arkansas on June 29, 1938. She moved to Mishawaka, Indiana at the age of 13 where she resided most of her life. Lea was a graduate of Mishawaka High School, class of 1956.  She later met and married the late Bernard “Ben” DeLaruelle on December 20, 1958.

She is survived by her children Bradley (Michelle) DeLaruelle and Suzanne (Jon) West, her grandchildren, great grandchildren who she adored, and her sister Wilma “Nadyne” Starnes-Lacey. Lea’s parents, Albert and Opal (Rogers) Starnes, a brother, Cleburn, a sister Lula (Starnes) Smith and her companion of seven years, Jack Champion, preceded her in death.

Lea had a servant’s heart and spent many hours volunteering at her church.  She had also been a volunteer at the Ronald McDonald House and the American Cancer Society.  She enjoyed working with children and worked at Jack and Jill Day Care for many years before moving on to work with Reis Furniture Store and the Montessori Academy at Edison Lakes.  Her friends meant the world to her, and she stayed in touch with all who were special to her.

Visitation will be held from 4-7pm Tuesday, December 27, 2022, at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home in Mishawaka.  Funeral services will be held at 10am Wednesday, December 28, 2022, at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home and a private graveside service will follow at a later date in Fairview Cemetery.

Her children would like to thank the staff at The Laurels of Goshen for the loving care they provided Lea for the last 15 months, and her dear friend Teri Foley for her support and the many hours she spent with their mother.  A thank you as well to the Center for Hospice Care for the support they provided the DeLaruelle family in their time of need.

At Lea’s request, in lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Ronald McDonald House or The Main Stage; a non-profit theater program which is her son-in-law’s passion.  She had a great appreciation for the arts and enjoyed the countless performances Jon produced and participated in with her grandchildren and great grandchildren throughout the years.

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Vera Lucille Sheets - January 04, 1938 - December 18, 2022

Departed: 12/18/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Vera Lucille Sheets, age 84 of Mishawaka, passed away at the Center for Hospice Care, Raclin House on Sunday, December 18, 2022.  Vera was born January 4, 1938, in New Philadelphia, Ohio to the late Lester and Laura (Scott) Byers.

Surviving are her sons Dan (Cherie) Sheets Jr. and Timothy Sheets, both of Mishawaka, and her grandchildren Michael Sheets, Jessica Sheets and Rhandi Savco.  Surviving as well are 10 great grandchildren.  Her husband of 58 years, Daniel Sheets Sr. preceded her in death on March 27, 2014.

Vera will be laid to rest beside her husband Dan Sr. at Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens at a later date. Wells and Cruz Family Funeral Home (formerly Goethals and Wells) has been entrusted with her care.

Vera spent many years as a waitress in the Michiana area.  In her spare time, she loved to read, work in her flower gardens, attend events at the Moose Lodge, and fish on the river with her husband.  She also loved spending the holidays with her family.

She was a wonderful cook and will be remembered by her family for her famous homemade noodles. She was everyone’s “Grandma” and was loved by many.

In her memory, donations may be made to the Center for Hospice, 501 Comfort Place, Mishawaka, IN 46545.  To light a virtual candle, share a story of Vera’s life, or leave a message of comfort for her family, please follow the links provided on the tribute wall tab above.

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Mark Joseph DeVliegher - May 08, 1974 - December 10, 2022

Departed: 12/10/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Mark Joseph DeVliegher, age 48 of Mishawaka, passed away at home on Saturday, December 10, 2022.  Mark was born May 8, 1974 in Mishawaka, Indiana.  He was a graduate of the class of 1992 from Marian High School, where he played Lacrosse and wrestled.  He later studied at ITT Tech where he earned his Microsoft Certification in Computer Technology and worked as an IT Specialist with the Partnership for Behavioral Change in South Bend.

He is survived by his parents Cyril and Irene (Trippel) DeVliegher of Mishawaka.

Visitation will take place from 6-8 pm Wednesday, December 14, 2022, at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home in Mishawaka, with a prayer vigil beginning at 8:00.  A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11:00 am Thursday, December 15, 2022, at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Mishawaka and Mark will be laid to rest in St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery, Mishawaka following the service.

While at work, Mark enjoyed helping the children at the center.  In his spare time, he enjoyed playing video games, playing golf, and traveling to Oregon with his friends. He enjoyed spending time in a social setting and was very personable, leaving a lasting impression on those he’d meet.

In his memory, donations may be given to the Women’s Care Center.  To light a virtual candle, share a story of his life, or leave a message of comfort for his family, please follow the links provided on the tribute wall tab above.

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Jeramy Lee Jenks - December 15, 1980 - December 05, 2022

Departed: 12/05/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Jeramy Lee Jenks, age 41, passed away unexpectedly at his home in Mishawaka on Monday, December 5, 2022. Jeramy was born December 15, 1980, in Sanford, North Carolina.  Following graduation from Edwardsburg High School in 1999, Jeramy began a long and rewarding career as a chef in the Michiana area and became well known and sought after by numerous restaurants in the area such as Cheddar’s, Carrabba’s Italian Grill, Bonefish Grill, Metro Diner and Carmela’s. He was a master of his craft and a magician with a menu.

He is survived by his mother and stepfather, Rhonda and Chris Atkinson and his children, Dylan, Cameron, Marissa, Isabella, Olivia and Vivian Jenks, all of Mishawaka, and his siblings Noah and Matthew Atkinson and Michele Wegner of Paragould, AR, and Paulita Hernandez of South Bend.  Surviving as well is his grandmother, Jane DeWinter of Mishawaka.  He was preceded in death by his grandparents Carol and Robert Badders, Ivan “Bud” Smith, Larry and Nancy Jenks, and Jim DeWinter. His father, Gregory Lee Jenks preceded him in death.

Visitation will be held from 2-5 pm Sunday, December 11, 2022, at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home in Mishawaka, with funeral services to follow immediately after at 5pm.

In his spare time, Jeramy enjoyed playing golf, fishing and ice fishing, and watching Notre Dame football, the Chicago Cubs, and the Chicago Bears. He enjoyed cooking and tailgating in his garage with his friends during many games.

Most of all, Jeramy will be remembered for his love of friends and family.  He always chose to find the good in others and never met a stranger.  He seemed to form a bond with all he met and it was hard for him to leave the house without running into an old friend. His wonderful sense of humor, his smile and laugh, and his generous and caring nature will be missed by those whom he loved so dearly.

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Alfred "Al" J. Hoerstman - April 22, 1930 - November 12, 2022

Departed: 11/12/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Alfred Joseph “Al or A.J.” Hoerstman, age 92, passed away Saturday, November 12, 2022, at his home in Mishawaka. A lifelong resident of our area, Al was born April 22, 1930, in Mishawaka, Indiana to the late William H. and Marie (Kronewitter) Hoerstman. He was a graduate of Mishawaka High School, class of 1948.  On May 1, 1954, he married the former Ms. Joan Marie VanDriessche at St. Bavo Catholic Church in Mishawaka. They celebrated 57 years of marriage before her passing in June of 2011.

A.J. is survived by his children; Ann Doyle of Elkhart, Mark (Angela) Hoerstman of Lakeville, Mary Guyer of Rancho Cucamonga, California, Rita (Matt) Weiss of Walkerton, Linda J. Szalewski of Mishawaka, and Karen (David) Zigon of Warsaw. Surviving as well are 15 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren. Al was preceded in death by his son Jim Hoerstman in 2016, his brothers James A. and Robert W. Hoerstman, his son in law, Ted Szalewski and his grandson David Jordan Zigon.

Visitation will be held from 4-7 pm Thursday, November 17 ,2022, at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home in Mishawaka. A Mass of Christian burial will take place at 10:00am on Friday, November 18. 2022, at St. Bavo Catholic Church, Mishawaka. Al will be laid to rest beside Joan in St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery at a later date.

A.J. was employed for over 45 years with different automobile dealerships in the Michiana area where he served his customers with pride in the parts and service departments and later as a service and body shop manager before retiring at the age of 62.

In his spare time, he enjoyed fishing and hunting as well as working in his garden and tinkering around with small projects around the home he built with his own two hands. He also loved to watch hockey and football and was a longtime fan of the Notre Dame Fighting Irish.

Al will be remembered as loving husband, father, and grandfather whose sense of humor and silly jokes made everyone around him laugh. He never met a stranger and made friends easily, yet he never forgot his high school classmates and stayed in touch with them frequently.

In his memory, donations may be made to Heartland Hospice.  To light a virtual candle, share a story of Al’s life, or leave a message of comfort for his family, please follow the links provided on the tribute wall tab above.

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Wendi Lee Hamman - September 01, 1968 - November 02, 2022

Departed: 11/02/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Wendi Lee Hamman, age 54, of Mishawaka, passed away on November 2, 2022, holding the loving hand of her fiancée. Wendi was born on September 1, 1968, in South Bend.

Wendi had a feisty and vivacious spirit. But when she loved, she loved fiercely. Her loves included her family, her fiancée, her fur babies and Texas. She was very selfless and always put others before herself. She would give the shirt off her back to anyone who needed it and made sure that no one left her home hungry.

Wendi loved making people and her surroundings beautiful. She was a seamstress, specializing in wedding gowns and bridesmaids’ dresses. Her true love, however, was making silk flower arrangements.

Wendi was a graduate of South Bend Adams High School where she was an active member of the dance squad and choreographed several routines. Wendi spread her love of dance by teaching at a local dance studio while still in high school. Wendi worked in a variety of different career fields including dancer, model, retail, florist and construction.

Wendi was born and raised in South Bend, but she loved Texas and lived there for 20 years. She spent her days enjoying the Texas weather by fishing and gardening. She was a big Dallas Cowboys and Texas Longhorns fan. Even though she spent the last seven years in Indiana, she still had a strong Texas accent. Wendi loved animals - her favorite was giraffes. One of her happiest moments was feeding the giraffes at the Fort Wayne Zoo.

Wendi is survived by her dad, Patrick Hamman of Mishawaka; mom Carolyn (Richard) Rush of Lakeville; fiancée Aaron Nickel of Mishawaka; mother-in-law Nancy Nickel of Mishawaka; brothers Jeremiah (Gary Cox) Rush of Mishawaka and Bronson Rush of Lakeville; sister Kaitlin (Austin) Wray of Lakeville; sister-in-law Carmen (Brian) Cox of Valparaiso; nieces Violet Wray of Lakeville, Destiney Cox of Valparaiso and Brooke Hamman and nephews Don and Dontevoin Cox of Valparaiso and Brandon Hamman.

Visitation and a time to share memories with her family will be held from 4-7 pm Friday, November 11, 2022, at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home in Mishawaka.  Interment will take place privately at a later time.

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Virginia M. DeMeester - March 21, 1926 - November 02, 2022

Departed: 11/02/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Virginia Mae DeMeester, age 96, formerly of Mishawaka, passed away November 2, 2022, in Carmel, Indiana.  She had resided in the Indianapolis area for the last ten years to be near her family. Virginia was born March 21, 1926, in Mishawaka, Indiana to the late Lester and Olive (Fries) Rider. She was a graduate of Mishawaka High School, class of 1944.  On May 22, 1949, she married James DeMeester. They celebrated 41 years of marriage before James’ passing on January 4, 1991.

Surviving are her children Gary DeMeester and his wife Debbie of Carmel, Indiana and Gayle Szmurlo of Indianapolis. Surviving as well are her granddaughters Stephanie Tennessen and her husband Steve and Kimberly DeMeester-Kutylo and her husband Andrew, along with her great granddaughters Madeline and Violet Tennessen.  Her son-in-law, Roger Szmurlo preceded her in death.

Visitation will be held two hours prior to the 11:00 a.m. funeral service on Saturday, November 12, 2022 at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home in Mishawaka with interment to follow in Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens, Osceola.

Virginia was a homemaker and loved being a wife, mother and grandmother to her family. In her spare time, she enjoyed reading and sewing.  She also volunteered her time with the Mishawaka High School Alumni Association.

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Helen Mary Ivancsics - June 25, 1926 - October 31, 2022

Departed: 10/31/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Helen Mary Ivancsics, age 96 of South Bend, passed away on October 31, 2022, at Memorial Hospital. She was born June 25, 1926, in Mishawaka, Indiana, the only child of the late George and Olga (Wagner) Frick.

Helen excelled at academics and graduated at the top of her 8th grade class at St. Joseph School in Mishawaka. With a scholarship to the all-girls St. Joseph Academy in South Bend, Helen earned Salutatorian honors for the graduating class of 1944. A close-knit group, they gathered for their 50th reunion in 1994 and continued to stay in touch for years later. Helen was one of the last surviving class members. After high school, Helen continued her education at the South Bend College of Commerce. After graduating in Secretarial Studies, she began working for the Schindler-Richard Insurance Agency.

Helen took dance lessons at the Marie Buczkowski School of Dance in South Bend where she met Julius Ivancsics who had recently returned home from serving his country in WWII. They fell in love and were married at St. Joseph Catholic Church, Mishawaka, on August 28, 1948. They celebrated 39 years of marriage before Julius, who retired as a photographer from the South Bend Tribune, passed away in 1987.

With the birth of her first child in 1953, Helen left the business world to dedicate her life to raising a family. Helen loved to read non-fiction books and enjoyed studying history and politics. She was a lifelong fan of the Chicago White Sox and was thrilled when they won the World Series in 2005. Grandson Michael shares her love of baseball and made daily deliveries of box scores to his Grandma. Helen spent many happy hours babysitting her four wonderful grandchildren, being an active part of their lives and watching them grow into young adults.

She is survived by her children Thomas Ivancsics and his wife Tina Dombrowski of St. Paul, Minnesota, Mary Beth Ivancsics of Mishawaka, Robert Ivancsics of South Bend, and Michael and his wife Mary (Walsh) Ivancsics of South Bend. Surviving as well are her grandchildren Michael, Maria, Johnny, and Stephen Ivancsics. She was preceded in death by her daughter Susan Ivancsics in February of 2022. She loved her children and grandchildren dearly and will be remembered for her wisdom, sharp mind, and strong Catholic faith.

Helen was a member of Little Flower Catholic Church in South Bend for over 60 years. In the past few years due to mobility issues, she reconnected with St. Joseph Catholic Church, Mishawaka, watching Masses on-line. With her funeral Mass, Helen will have received all her Blessed Sacraments at St. Joe.

Visitation will be held from 4-7 pm Monday, November 7, 2022, at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home in Mishawaka with a Rosary to begin at 6:30 pm. A Mass of Christian Burial will begin at 10:00am Tuesday, November 8, 2022, at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Mishawaka with interment to follow in Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens, Osceola.

In her memory, donations may be given online to the St. Joseph’s Indian School in Chamberlain, South Dakota at http://stjo.org, St. Joseph Catholic Church in Mishawaka, or the Disabled American Veterans.

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Patricia Ann Haley - September 27, 1931 - October 27, 2022

Departed: 10/27/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Ann Haley passed away peacefully on October 27, 2022, at the age of ninety-one. The South Bend native also lived in New York, California and Michigan, but spent most of her years calling Indiana home. Born September 27, 1931, Patricia was the third of Mary (Matson) and J. Arthur (Art) Haley’s four children. She loved and deeply admired her brothers John, George and Tom (all predeceased her), even if their initial welcome of a baby sister was suspicious. Family lore has it that one time, newborn Patsy was found in her bassinet under layers of heavy magazines and scissors. She learned pretty quickly to hold her own.

Patricia graduated from John Adams High School before heading east to Rosemont College, outside Philadelphia. Rosemont bestowed not only a degree in French Literature, but many cherished, lifelong friendships. Junior year was spent at Laval University in Quebec, navigating classes in a second language as well as area ski slopes! She spoke of writing to her mother to please send a warmer coat, not having fully understood the cold brace of a Canadian winter. After college, she shared an apartment in New York City with friends while working as a production assistant at CBS Television. Forever after, she welcomed any opportunity for a return visit, excited to see friends and take in a performance, art exhibit or the U.S. Open tennis.

Notre Dame’s golden dome cast its warm glow over Patricia’s childhood. Her father, Art, played a central role in elevating the University’s stature and support base, serving as director of public relations for more than four decades. The family frequently entertained benefactors and other VIPs in their home, at football games, and on campus. Patricia recalled that as a teenager, she and her mother once drove a handsome young man “with the clearest eyes ever” to the airport. She later learned the aspiring politician’s name: Jack Kennedy.

Patricia joined her father and brothers as Notre Dame alumni when she earned a Masters Degree in Communications in 1975. The writing-focused program served her well; she went on to become a longtime, frequent contributor to the South Bend Tribune sports and feature sections, as well as an adjunct professor at Indiana University South Bend (IUSB).

Reading-writing-learning-exploring, these were all constants in Patricia’s life. Books were always prominent. Modern fiction, classical novels, collections of Shakespeare, history titles, and beautiful art folios (mostly Italian), she devoured them all. At one point, Patricia was in three different book clubs. Patricia loved to travel, studying intensely beforehand to understand a destination’s art, culture and history. Keen to acquire new skills and pastimes, as an adult Patricia learned to safely land a small airplane and took up sailing, tennis, bridge, kayaking, and cross-country skiing. Though Patricia loved walking in the serenity of nature, she could quickly transform into a fierce and vocal sports fan, especially when it came to Notre Dame football, women’s basketball or tennis favorite, Rafael Nadal.

Patricia’s faith and upbringing taught her the value of service. She was an engaged South Bend citizen as Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA), in-school reading tutor and prison ministry volunteer. She was long-active in the local Alcoholism Council and served as its president. In 1973, Governor Otis Bowen sought Patricia’s input on the issue at a state level when he appointed her to the Citizens’ Advisory Council. A devoted member of South Bend’s Junior League, Patricia co-chaired a major fundraiser that brought Arnold Palmer, Ara Parseghian and Perry Como to play the South Bend Country Club course.

Best of all, Patricia was an amazing mom, mother-in-law, and grandmother who emphasized the importance of giving back, remaining humble, that “love is as love does.” She leaves behind four children, James, Jr. (Carol) of South Bend, Molly (William) Robertson of Wilton, CT, Megan (Jonathan) Catherwood of Warrenton, VA, and Haley (Jeffrey) Deitchley of South Bend and eleven grandchildren.

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Mark Edward Wasowski - July 01, 1960 - October 23, 2022

Departed: 10/23/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Mark Edward Wasowski, age 62 of Mishawaka, passed away unexpectedly at his home on October 23, 2022. Mark was born July 1, 1960, in South Bend, Indiana to Edward and Louise (Amato) Wasowski.  He was a graduate of LaSalle High School and worked as a cosmetologist in local beauty salons for several years.

Surviving is his mother Louise Wasowski of Mishawaka, his daughters Tuesday ((Jimmy) Bernhard and Tabitha Thurston, both of South Bend, and his siblings Dan (Cindy) Wasowski of Wildwood, Missouri, and Larry (Jerrianne) Wasowski of Queen Creek, Arizona.  Surviving as well are his grandchildren Alyssa, James “J.J.” Jr., Caiden, Leviathan, Emma and Sarena.

There will be a private memorial service for Mark at a later date.  Goethals and Wells Funeral Home and Cremation Care of Mishawaka has been entrusted with his care.

Mark enjoyed playing golf, listening to music, and watching movies.  He also loved sports and was an avid fan of the Chicago Bears and the Chicago Bulls.

He will be remembered for his generosity and his heart of gold. No matter what the circumstances, when someone needed help, Mark gave of his time and money to make sure they were cared for.

Most of all, Mark loved his family, especially his grandchildren. He truly enjoyed spending time with each of them and was proud of the young men and women they are becoming.

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Jean Ann Flowers - May 09, 1935 - October 21, 2022

Departed: 10/21/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Jean Ann Flowers, age 87 of Mishawaka, passed away at Creekside Village Nursing Home on Friday, October 21, 2022. Jean was born May 9, 1935, in Mishawaka, Indiana to the late Louis and Emma Zeiger. She was a graduate of Mishawaka High School, class of 1953 and later worked for over 30 years in the payroll department of Ball Band (Uniroyal).

Surviving are her children Tammy (Mike) McAlexander of Mishawaka and David W. (Joella) Flowers of Avilla, Indiana. Surviving as well are her grandchildren: Tim (Sara) McAlexander, Melissa (Buddy) Connett, Jeremy (Cynthia Hope) Flowers and Abbie (Gavin) McGuire and 9 great grandchildren.

Visitation will be held from 4-7 pm Wednesday, October 26, 2022, at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home in Mishawaka. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10:30 am Thursday, October 27, 2022, at St. Joseph Catholic Church in Mishawaka and interment will follow in Fairview Cemetery.

Jean was a longtime member of St. Joseph Catholic Church and enjoyed showing the love of God to others as a volunteer in the Church and at the local soup kitchens where others were in need. She also loved helping to bake and package Christmas cookies at the Albright United Methodist Church during the holidays.

Most of all, she was a loving mother and grandmother to her family. She loved spending time with them going to plays and the theater and taking the grandchildren “back to school shopping” every Fall.

In her memory, donations may be made to St. Joseph Catholic Church, Mishawaka. To light a virtual candle, share a story of Jean’s life, or leave a message of comfort for her family, please follow the links provided on the tribute wall tab above.

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Donald D. White - June 11, 1931 - October 17, 2022

Departed: 10/17/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Donald D. White, age 91 of Granger, passed away Monday, October 17, 2022.  Don was born June 11, 1931, in South Bend, Indiana to the late Howard H. and Bernice K. (Stahowiak) White.  Following his graduation from Mishawaka High School in 1949, Don enlisted in the US Navy where he served honorably during the Korean War. On January 23, 1954, Don married Phyllis Corle in South Bend, Indiana.  They recently celebrated 68 years of marriage.

Don is survived by his wife Phyllis of Granger and his children Ronald D. (Janice) White of South Bend and Cynthia Becker of Bolingbrook, Illinois. Surviving as well are his grandchildren Kyle A. White, Samantha White and Sara White.

A private service will be held at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home with interment to follow in St. Joseph Valley Memorial Park in Granger.

Don was employed as a Master Plumber and owned Donald D. White Plumbing and Heating in Mishawaka.  His skill, honesty and integrity allowed him to serve his clients in the community until his retirement in the mid-1990’s. Following his retirement, Don worked as the head of maintenance at St. Joseph High School. He was also very handy and was able to fix anything and everything.

In his spare time, Don enjoyed fishing, visiting casinos throughout the area and traveling the world with his wife. Don and Phyllis set foot on six of the seven continents in the world, and they especially loved the time they spent in Alaska.

Most of all, Don was a devoted husband, father, and “Papa” to his grandchildren.  He adored his wife and children and was always present to support his grandkids at their games and events.

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Harry T. Homeleski - September 30, 1930 - October 16, 2022

Departed: 10/16/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Harry T. Homeleski, age 92, passed away October 16, 2022, in Fishers, Indiana. He was a 1948 graduate of Washington High School, after which he proudly served in the United States Navy, as an electrician. In 1952 he was honorably discharged at the rank of EM2, after having sailed around the world twice thanks to the USS Valcour AVP-55 and the USS Leyte CV-32. He valued the memories surrounding his military days and spoke often of relationships built, education acquired, sights seen, and adventures had. He wore the title of Veteran as a badge of honor.

Upon returning to civilian life, Harry worked at Ball Band's and Studebaker's, before settling in long term at AT&T. In 1987, after 32 years of being a Communications Technician, he retired from their South Bend, South Scott Street address.

Harry married twice and embraced the families both wives brought with them. Along with that extended family he also has several nieces, nephews, and a devoted care giver. Harry is now with loved ones who passed before him; parents Anna (Rozwarska) & Alexander Homeleski; wives Dorthy (Story) & Anne (Claeys); siblings Walter LeBelt, Judy (LeBelt) Heidtman, Stella LaBelt, Arthur Homeleski & Al Homeleski, just to name a few.

Harry loved pork chops, mashed potatoes, sliced tomatoes, dark chocolate, Dr Pepper, and Salerno butter cookies. He also loved dancing, traveling, woodworking, anything electrical, retirement luncheons, and giving.

While those left behind will feel his absence, those he has joined will celebrate his presence. He was ready for that reunion. Until we see him again, he'll live on through his stories ...

A graveside service and military honors will be held at 11:00 am Thursday, October 20, 2022, in the Mausoleum at Fairview Cemetery in Mishawaka. Goethals and Wells Funeral Home has been entrusted with Harry’s care.

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Harold Edward Phillips, Jr. - January 04, 1962 - October 05, 2022

Departed: 10/05/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Harold Edward Phillips, Jr., 60, of Elkhart, IN passed away on Wednesday, October 5, 2022. He was born on January 4, 1962 in Garden City, MI to Harold Phillips, Sr. and Marjorie (Richmond) Phillips.

Harold loved all University of Michigan sports, primarily football. He enjoyed watching and attending NASCAR races, going camping, sitting around a fire, working outdoors, and spending time with his family and friends. Harold thought the world of his two boys and enjoyed activities with them. He thoroughly enjoyed all of his mother’s cooking.

Harold is survived by his sons, Jason and Andrew Phillips; his mother, Marjorie Phillips; his brothers, Tom (Lola) Phillips, Duaine (Marilyn) Phillips, Fred (Suzy) Phillips, and Ed Phillips; and his nephew, Michael Richmond. He was preceded in death by his father, Harold Phillips, Sr., and two brothers, Bernard and Brian Phillips.

No services will be held. Arrangements are in the care of Goethals & Wells Funeral Home, Mishawaka.

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Carol Marie Chamberlin - February 12, 1932 - September 23, 2022

Departed: 09/23/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Last Thursday evening, Carol Chamberlin was surrounded in her home by her six children, as they all prayed together for an end to her suffering. Early the next morning on September 23, 2022, everyone’s prayers were answered as Carol peacefully began her new life of no pain and eternal joy.

Born in Mishawaka in 1932, Carol spent most of her childhood years living right next door to the home where she spent the last sixty-one years of her life. She enjoyed many hours playing in Battell Park right across the street – the same park where she later pushed her own children and grandchildren on the swings.

Carol’s faith was a central part of her life from the very start. She was baptized and made her first communion at St. Monica Catholic church, where she also attended elementary school. She graduated from Mishawaka High School in 1950, and in 1951 she married Bruce Chamberlin in St. Monica church. After spending some time in Norfolk, VA (courtesy of the Navy), the newlyweds and their growing family lived in several locations before moving into a house that Carol’s father had bought and renovated (right next door), where they both spent the rest of their lives. After high school, Carol briefly worked as a secretary at Mishawaka High School, as well as assisting in the new Hannah Lindahl Children’s Museum, housed at Mary Phillips Elementary School. Eventually, however, she discovered her true vocation: Carol dedicated her life to the challenging task of raising six children, each with differing personalities, abilities and interests. She lovingly and creatively found ways to be actively involved in each of her children’s lives – whether it involved being a den mother for cub scouts, PTA president, chairman of school festivals, bowling team coach, tennis partner, or barber for the entire family, in addition to sewing matching outfits for her daughters, planning and implementing the annual family camping odyssey, and occasionally smelling up the house with Toni Home Perm Kits!

After her children were raised, Carol transferred her parental love onto her many grand and great-grand children, while continuing to show her innate joy of caring for others by volunteering at St. Joseph Hospital of Mishawaka and also becoming the ultimate care-giver (and friend) for various elderly people who had no one else to care for them.

In her senior years, Carol continued to support her beloved St. Monica parish. Although her physical ability to actively participate diminished, she continued her prayerful and financial support, in addition to her faithful trunk-loads of donations for the church rummage sales.

Visitation will be held from 4-7 pm Tuesday, September 27, 2022, at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home, 503 W. 3rd St. in Mishawaka.  There will also be one hour of visitation prior to the 11:00 am Mass of Christian Burial on Wednesday, September 28, 2022,  at St. Monica Catholic Church, 222 W. Mishawaka Avenue, Mishawaka, Indiana.  Carol will be laid to rest beside her husband Bruce in Fairview Cemetery following funeral services.

Carol will have her funeral mass in the same special place where she was baptized, as she is reunited with her husband Bruce, infant daughter, Kathleen Ann, and the following family members who await her in Heaven: parents Edward and Florence (Poehlman) Vanderbosch, brother James Vanderbosch, and sister Dorothy Lindzy. Carol is survived by her six children: Janice Chamberlin (Doug Mohlke), Laura (Cary) Kuminecz, Sallie (Kirk) Janowiak, Edward (Kim) Chamberlin, Steve (Jill) Chamberlin, and Maria (Paul) Kil, as well as her sixteen grandchildren and fourteen great-grandchildren. Surviving as well are her sisters Shirley D’Haenans and Ruth Huyvaert.

Donations can be made to the following organizations: The Chamberlin, Hull, Hummer and Snider Memorial Scholarship Fund Katie and Kyle Chamberlin - Community Foundation of St. Joseph County online at https://cfsjc.org/donor-stories/katie-and-kyle-chamberlin or The Center for Hospice Care  at http://foundationforhospice.org/donate/. To light a virtual candle, share a story of Carol’s life, or leave a message of comfort for her family, please follow the links provided on the tribute wall tab above.

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Sue Ellen Kostry - January 15, 1942 - September 02, 2022

Departed: 09/02/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Sue Ellen Kostry, age 80 of Mishawaka, passed away at the Center for Hospice, Raclin House, on September 2, 2022. Sue was born January 15, 1942 in South Bend, Indiana to the late John Charles and Ruth Alice (Lange) Kostry.

She was a graduate of St. Joseph High School class of 1959 where she was the seventh ranked student for all classes and honored with the Award of Merit for the “Outstanding Business Education Student of 1959." She also enjoyed bowling in leagues and playing Bridge.  Her high school accolades allowed Sue to obtain full scholarship to the University of St. Francis in Fort Wayne, Indiana where she obtained her bachelor’s degree in education in 1963. In her senior year of college, Sue was named among the “Who’s Who Among Students in American Universities and Colleges in 1962-1963.

Later, Sue completed her Master’s degree through Purdue University in 1968. While at Purdue, she earned her Reading Recovery certification.

Her dedication to her career as an educator began at Navarre School in South Bend from 1963-1969. Later, she taught in Virginia and New York before returning to her hometown to teach and mentor students at Hums Elementary School and Battell School in Mishawaka where she was honored as the Teacher of the Year in 1993 by the School City of Mishawaka.  She retired as an educator after 31 years of service to her students and colleagues.

In her spare time, Sue served twice as the President of Delta Kappa Gamma Educational Society and served tirelessly as the district treasurer for the Parent Teacher Association with her friends, reading, and taking trips across the US.  She also served several years as the secretary for the St. Joseph Valley Ski Club.  Most of all, Sue loved her family dearly.  Her selfless and caring nature will be remembered by the many students, colleagues, family and friends she made throughout the years.

Sue is survived by her brother John L. Kostry and his wife Janice of South Bend and her sister Marilyn Kostry of Granger, along with her nieces and nephews Alicia (Brian) Bottorff, John Charles (Jinny) Kostry, Neal (Abby) Kostry and Karen Miles.  Surviving as well are her great nieces and nephews Ben, Charlie, Sam, Zeke and Henry Bottorff, John Aiden Kostry, Luca Kostry and Jessica and Colleen Rivet.

Visitation will be held from 5-7 pm Thursday, September 15, 2022 at Goethals and Wells Funeral Home in Mishawaka, with the Rosary to follow at 7pm.  A Mass of Christian burial will take place at 10:30 am Friday, September 16, 2022 at Holy Cross Catholic Church, 1050 Wilbur St., South Bend, IN 46628.  Interment will follow in Highland Cemetery.

Sue’s family would like to thank the following people for the amazing care given to Sue during her time of need: Dr. Alice Lusk and her nurse Jodie, Dr. Paul Guentert, Dr. Doug Kolmodin and the entire staff at Hamilton Grove Assisted Living Center in New Carlisle, Indiana.  Your heartfelt concern for Sue will never be forgotten.

In her memory, donations may be made to the Center for Hospice or Holy Cross Church. To light a virtual candle, share a story of Sue’s life, or leave a message of comfort for her family, please follow the links provided on the tribute wall tab above.

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Timothy Justin DeVreese - October 20, 1959 - September 01, 2022

Departed: 09/01/2022 (Mishawaka)

Obituary Preview: Timothy Justin DeVreese, age 62, of Mishawaka passed away at St. Joseph Regional Medical Center on Thursday, September 1, 2022.  Tim was born October 20, 1959 in South Bend, Indiana.  He was a graduate of Penn High School, class of 1978.  On September 5, 1981, he married Catherine Blair in Elkhart, Indiana.

Surviving is his wife of 41 years, Catherine DeVreese and their children Justin (Paige) DeVreese and Sr. Regina DeVreese, O.S.F., both of Mishawaka.  Tim is also survived by his mother Mary Lou (Baker) Jeske of Elkhart, one sister, and his grandchildren Isabelle Santa, Adelaide DeVreese, and Noah DeVreese.  Surviving as well are his three best friends, Bob Wordinger, Rob Arnold, and Ray Crawford.  His father, George J. DeVreese preceded him in death.

Visitation will be held one hour prior to the Mass of Christian Burial at 10:30 am Thursday, September 8, 2022 at Queen of Peace Catholic Church in Mishawaka.  Tim will be laid to rest at Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens following his funeral service.  Goethals and Wells Funeral Home of Mishawaka has been entrusted with his care.

Following graduation, Tim became certified as a Master Plumber and worked as an independent contractor throughout the Michiana area until his retirement at the age of 55.  His skills in the Plumbing and HVAC industry were unmatched.  Tim often joked with his family and friends that he could “plumb a skyscraper” and he earned the trust of numerous new home construction contractors who knew when they contracted “Tim DeVreese Plumbing” that the job would be done properly and on time.

In his younger years, Tim enjoyed riding dirt bikes and when his children were born, he traded his dirt bikes in on a mountain bike and loved taking his family on long bicycle rides around the city.  He was also an avid collector of firearms and was skilled both as a gunsmith and a marksman. He loved to remain active, playing tennis, running and swimming.  Tim also enjoyed watching stand-up comedy concerts both in person and on video, and his quick wit and “dry” sense of humor will never be forgotten by his family and friends.

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A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their personality, accomplishments, and any charitable donations in their memory.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Typically, they range from a few sentences to several paragraphs. Online obituaries can be longer and more detailed than those published in print.

Can I include photos or other media in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms allow you to upload photos, videos, and other multimedia elements to enhance the tribute. Some print publications may also accept photos or other visual elements.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the newspaper or online platform directly to learn about their submission guidelines and deadlines. You may need to provide the written obituary, along with any accompanying photos or information.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication and the length of the obituary. Online platforms may offer free or low-cost options, while print newspapers may charge by the word or line.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituaries in advance as a way to reflect on their life and legacy. This can also help to ensure that their wishes are respected and that their loved ones are spared from having to write it during a difficult time.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only the most basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a longer, more detailed tribute that celebrates the person's life and achievements.

Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries are meant to be a celebration of the person's life, so including humorous stories or personal anecdotes can help to capture their spirit and personality.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

When writing an obituary, it's essential to be respectful of the deceased's privacy and sensitive information. Avoid including details that might be embarrassing or hurtful to surviving family members or friends.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes! Including quotes, poems, or other literary elements can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose pieces that resonate with the person's values or personality.

How do I proofread an obituary for errors?

Carefully review the obituary for spelling, grammar, and factual errors before submitting it for publication. Ask multiple people to review it as well to catch any mistakes.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it has been published?

In some cases, yes. If you find errors or want to make changes after publication, contact the newspaper or online platform directly. However, some publications may not allow changes once it has been printed or posted.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer not to share the obituary publicly, you can choose to keep it private by sharing it only with close friends and family or by creating a private online memorial.

Can I create an online memorial instead of publishing an obituary?

Yes! Online memorials offer a flexible and often free way to celebrate a person's life and share memories with others. They can be created on social media platforms, memorial websites, or other online spaces.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

The duration that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform. Some websites may keep them active indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period.

Can I republish an old obituary for a anniversary or special occasion?

Yes! Republishing an old obituary can be a meaningful way to honor the person's memory on special occasions such as anniversaries or birthdays.

What if I'm unsure about what to write in an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking guidance from a funeral home director, grief counselor, or professional writer. You can also look at examples online for inspiration.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including information about charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary can help support causes that were important to the deceased and provide comfort to grieving loved ones.

How do I handle multiple marriages or complicated family relationships in an obituary?

In cases where there are multiple marriages or complicated family relationships, it's essential to approach the situation with sensitivity and respect. Consider consulting with all parties involved before finalizing the obituary.

What if I want to write an unconventional or creative obituary?

If you want to write an unconventional or creative obituary that doesn't follow traditional formats or structures, go for it! Just be sure to check with the publication beforehand to ensure they will accept it.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share news of a person's passing and reach a wider audience. You can also create a social media group or page dedicated to celebrating their life.