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Themistocles Damasceno Joaquim D'Silva - July 18, 1932 - May 13, 2024

Departed: 05/13/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Themistocles Damasceno Joaquim D’Silva (known to loved ones as either Themis, Tim, Dad, or Papa) July 18, 1932 – May 13, 2024

Themistocles D’Silva was born in Lira, Uganda, where his father Justino da Silva was working at the time in the British colonial civil service. When he was six, his family moved back to their ancestral village of Arossim, Goa, where he grew up as the eldest brother to three surviving children (Jessie, Julia, and Oliver), who lovingly referred to him as Babush, or ‘baby boy’ in the Portuguese language that was widely spoken during that colonial period. His childhood was spent among a large extended family, before electricity, when life was intimately tied to seasons, Church feasts, and generations of tradition. He helped his father maintain the old home and manage rice and coconut harvests, and had many adventures with uncles and close friends, and attended the nearby English-based Jesuit high school, Loyola. While Themis was studying for his Bachelor’s of Science degree at St. Xavier’s College in Bombay, the family was struck by the tragic premature death of his father due to cancer. In order to financially support his mother, Joanita da Silva and the rest of his family, he returned to Uganda to teach in a secondary school, living with his family’s closest friends, the Carvalhos.

In 1959, he came to Washington D.C. for graduate study, living with other foreign student friends in a Newman Hall, while earning a Master’s in Education, and then a Ph.D. in organic chemistry at the Catholic University of America. It was there that he met Rose Marie de Sousa who was working on her Ph.D. under the same professor. They married on July 24, 1965, and began their family near Worcester, Massachusetts. The following year, they moved to South Charleston, West Virginia, where he took up a position as a research chemist with Union Carbide. From 1966-1981, they built a home both literally and figuratively, raising four children on Ellen Drive. In 1981, the family moved to Chapel Hill, North Carolina as the center relocated to the Research Triangle Park. As a synthetic organic chemist, Tim discovered dozens of new compounds that resulted in 70 patents being issued, the most notable being Thiodicarb Insecticide/Ovicide that was marketed under the brand name LARVIN®. These achievements contributed to his elevation to Fellow in the late 1980s in both the American Institute of Chemists and the Royal Society of Chemistry.

Outside of work, Dad pursued a broad range of interests, including tennis, badminton, table tennis, chess, bridge, gardening, stamps, coins, genealogy, reading, and cooking dinner whenever he would come home from work before Mom. He encouraged his children to also pursue diverse interests and to take pride in giving your best effort, regularly exclaiming “if you’re going to do something, do it right!” He took particular pleasure in creating new dishes or recreating existing ones that “were better than what you could get at a restaurant”. He also never wavered in the struggle to keep his vegetables, apples, and flowers on Kensington Drive from getting eaten by squirrels and deer which, while a great source of joy for his grandchildren, were not so much for him.

In 1993, Tim retired from Rhone-Poulenc (which had bought the agriculture chemicals division from Union Carbide), but not before taking on the two challenges of learning the French language of his new company and learning how to use a computer in the new way of working. This latter skill would serve him well in his retirement, as he undertook three extensive research initiatives. The first was to ensure that the real facts of the 1984 Bhopal gas tragedy were documented and told. Combining both his first-hand contributions to the scientific team that analyzed what chemical reactions took place that fateful night with unprecedented research into various court records, Tim wrote and published The Black Box of Bhopal in 2006.

His second focus was literally closer to home, as he applied his research skills to document the history of his village in: Unravelling History: A History of Arossim, Goa, which was initially published in 2011 with a later edition in 2015. Themis inherited this love of learning about and documenting family history from his own father, who had kept detailed notes of each family member going back 7 generations, and never tired of sharing stories, full of surprising details here and there, with the younger generations to make sure they knew about their ancestors. In his final decade, his interests broadened to include a focus on prehistory, specifically neolithic megaliths, which first intrigued him given their presence in Arossim and other parts of Goa.

Throughout all of this, Papa always made sure to prioritize time with his grandchildren, be it soothing them to sleep with his walks, reading to them in their early years, encouraging them to understand the world around them and the history behind them, or simply sitting on the swing appreciating the birds, and chasing away the squirrels. He was like a second father to his Chapel Hill grandchildren, teaching them geography, letting them help with gardening, sharing weekly family meals, and attending many of their milestone events through early adulthood.

Tim and Rose Marie were a tremendous example of marriage for nearly 54 years, up until her sudden passing in 2019. In retirement they were fortunate to travel extensively to many countries and historic sites. They were active members of the Newman Center Parish for 38 years, volunteering in many capacities and enjoying long-lasting friendships made through their monthly dinner group. Tim died peacefully in his sleep after a brief illness, and just a week after having spent quality time together with all his children doing what he loved the most—eating crab and playing bridge at home.

Tim is survived by his four children, Marisa D’Silva Whitesell (Chapel Hill), Karena D’Silva (Chapel Hill), Carl D’Silva (wife Joni, sons Walker and Blake, Chicago) and Marc D’Silva (wife Chinar, Portugal), and five grandchildren, Blaise, Romy and Carmen Whitesell, and Caia and Eva D’Silva, as well as one brother, Oliver D’Silva (Arossim, Goa) and one sister Jessie Saldanha (Arossim, Goa), and many nieces and nephews.

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Sterling Gaylen Bradley - April 02, 1932 - May 09, 2024

Departed: 05/09/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Sterling Gaylen Bradley, beloved husband, father, grandfather, scientist, and educator, peacefully passed away at the DuBose Health Center at the Cedars in Chapel Hill NC, on May 9, 2024. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

Gaylen was born in Springfield MO to Benn and Lora Bradley. He earned his bachelor's degree from Missouri State University and completed his MS and PhD at Northwestern University.

Throughout his remarkable life, Dr Bradley distinguished himself as a prolific researcher, dedicated educator, and esteemed academic leader. He chaired the Department of Microbiology and Immunology and served as Dean of Basic Sciences at the Medical College of Virginia of Virginia Commonwealth University. He was Vice President for Academic Affairs at the University of Maryland Biotechnology Center and served as a visiting professor at Penn State College of Medicine.

Dr Bradley was widely recognized for his unwavering commitment to mentoring individuals across all stages of education and career development, from grade school students to doctoral candidates and junior faculty. He generously welcomed international students into his home through his involvement with Rotary International, and was an active leader in Boy Scouts and Indian Guides, where he fostered leadership skills among youth.

Preceded in death by his parents, brother, and youngest child Kevin, Dr Bradley is survived by his devoted wife, Dr Judith Bond, four children and their spouses, eleven grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren, daughter-in-law Gloria, and a host of other relatives and friends.

Dr Bradley's legacy of groundbreaking research, visionary leadership, and profound dedication to nurturing talent will be forever cherished and celebrated by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

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Richard Nigel Lyon Andrews - December 06, 1944 - May 05, 2024

Departed: 05/05/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Pete Andrews, beloved son, brother, spouse, father, grandfather, teacher, mentor, professor, singer, and folk dancer, passed away unexpectedly on May 5, 2024 at the age of 79. In 1944, Pete, the eldest of 3 sons, was born to the Rev. and Mrs. Nigel Lyon Andrews, in Newport, Rhode Island. Pete grew up and attended schools in Newport, RI, Syracuse, NY, New Haven, and Old Lyme, CT. He spent his summers swimming, sailing, biking, picking blueberries, and fishing in Nantucket, Cape Cod, and Jamestown, RI. Pete graduated from St. George’s School in 1962. He attended Yale University from 1962-1966, graduating with a Bachelor’s degree in Philosophy and a minor in English. While in college, Pete sang with the Yale Russian Chorus. In October, 1963, he helped Yale students organize a Freedom Vote rally in Hattiesburg for the Mississippi Mock Election. This was a precursor to the Freedom Summer of 1964.

After college, Pete served in Nepal with the Peace Corps from 1966-1968. Participating as a linguist in an agricultural group, Pete helped teach farmers how to plant Mexican Wheat, a species which only requires 12 inches of rain to grow in the dry season. The use of Mexican Wheat over the years has significantly contributed to Nepal’s food supply. An interesting story from his stay in Nepal was that Pete assisted in rescuing a cow from a well. Cows are sacred in Hindu culture, and Pete was the only person in his village who could swim. Six months later in Narayanghat, Pete translated pesticide warnings from English to Nepalese because the farmers had never worked with pesticides before. While he was there, he joined a Nepalese cultural group which presented poetry, songs, and plays.

After returning from the Peace Corps, Pete started a Master's degree in City and Regional Planning at UNC-Chapel Hill. In the fall of 1968, he met his future bride Hannah at the International Folk Dance Club. Pete and Hannah were married the following spring on June 7, 1969.

Pete completed his Masters in 1970 and a PhD in City and Regional Planning at UNC in 1972. Pete, Hannah, and their newborn, Sarah, moved to Ann Arbor, MI, where Pete taught for 9 years on the faculty of the University of Michigan’s School of Natural Resources. While there, he helped raise his children, enjoyed folk dancing with his wife, and performed in Gilbert and Sullivan shows.

In July, 1981, Pete and his family returned to UNC-Chapel Hill where he taught for 34 years until June, 2015. Pete served as a Professor and a Chair of the Department of Public Policy, UNC College of Arts and Sciences. He was also a Professor in the following departments and programs: City and Regional Planning, Environmental Sciences and Engineering of the Gillings School of Global Public Health, the Environment, Ecology and Energy Program, and the Carolina Institute for the Environment. From 2004 to 2009, he held the first Thomas Willis Lambeth Distinguished Professorship in Public Policy. From 1997-2000, Pete served as the Chair for UNC’s faculty.

Pete used an interdisciplinary approach to improve environmental policy. According to his friend and colleague Daniel Gitterman, “Pete challenged his students to critically evaluate arguments and recognize the complexities and frequent paradoxes in public policy issues, all the while working towards creative and constructive solutions.” According to Gitterman, one of the best examples of this was “in Pete’s response to UNC’s Nike controversy” beginning in 1997. A group of students challenged UNC for selling “it’s good name” [in exchange] for athletic contributions to a high-profile company who was accused of exploitative labor practices in third-world countries. Pete responded by creating a seminar course on the economics, ethics, and environmental and labor impacts of globalization, using Nike as a case study. This was taught in collaboration with colleagues from Anthropology and the Kenan-Flagler Business School. Students read about the complexities of global manufacturing and trade, followed by face-to-face discussions with senior Nike managers, their critics in the global arena, senior UNC administrators, and scholarly experts on key issues involved in the controversy. The course was ultimately featured in a segment of a documentary on ESPN. Nike’s CEO Phil Knight attended the final class session to hear the students’ recommendations. In a speech to the National Press Club several weeks later, Knight credited UNC students with several policy changes at Nike.

Between 1999 and 2020, Pete wrote 3 versions of his book Managing the Environment, Managing Ourselves. This book provides a comprehensive history of environmental policy spanning 4 centuries, which has helped policy makers, scholars, and students better understand the global, environmental challenges we face today. In 2015, Pete was awarded the Order of the Long Leaf Pine, an honor bestowed by the Governor of North Carolina for a record of exceptional public service to the people of North Carolina. One way in which Pete’s legacy lives on at Carolina, is through the Richard N. L. (Pete) Andrews Environmental Policy Fund. This Fellowship is awarded annually to a rising senior majoring in public policy, environmental studies, or environmental sciences engaged in research and/or service on solutions to local, state, national, and/or global environmental policy challenges.

Throughout his career, Pete made positive impacts in environmental science and policy at the local, national, and international levels. His influence made a difference in places throughout the world including North Carolina, United States, Austria, the Czech Republic, and Thailand.

Pete’s love for people, cultures, and the world were paramount in his life and a driving force behind his constant engagement with family, friends, colleagues, and causes. He was an advocate for communities great and small. He loved to travel with members of his family, and exposed them to different cultures in Europe, Thailand, Nepal, and Africa. In church, he served as an usher, a reader, a vestry member, an advocate, and a Lay Eucharistic Minister. His service to others was driven by his love of humanity and his faith. He was a devoted member of the Choral Society of Durham (Durham Choral Society) from 1990 to 2024.

After officially retiring in 2015, Pete created the 3rd edition of his book which was published in 2020. He held several leadership positions which included President of UNC Chapel Hill’s Retired Faculty Association, and Vice President and President of the Residence Association at Carolina Meadows. As the isolation of COVID lifted, Pete greeted residents and staff with a smile, listened to their stories, helped them feel included, and served as an advocate for their ideas. In 2023, he helped co-create and perform in Carolina Meadows first musical, Movin’. He continued to sing, travel, and enjoy the thrills of being a proud father and grandfather through his visits and adventures with his family.

Pete is survived by his loving wife, Hannah, his brothers, Paul and John, and John’s wife Eleanor Howard. He is also survived by his children Sarah and her husband Roland, Chris and his wife Emily Harville, and his grandchildren, Amber and Nicholas Roehrich, Charles and James Andrews, and Marjorie Harville.

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William C. Hamlett Jr. - January 22, 1948 - February 18, 2024

Departed: 02/18/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: William Cornelius Hamlett, Jr, 76, passed away at his home under the care of Gentiva Hospice, on February 18, 2024. Will was born on January 22, 1948, in Henderson, NC, the son of the late William C and Dorothy Ayscue Hamlett. He graduated from Hartsville High School and went on to earn both Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees in Biology from University of South Carolina, followed by a PhD in Zoology from Clemson University in 1983. He then held a postdoctorate followed by a faculty position at Medical College of Ohio at Toledo. In 1991, he joined the faculty of Indiana University School of Medicine, South Bend branch, where he retired as Professor of Cell Biology and Anatomy in 2009. In addition to teaching cell and developmental biology to medical students, he also did extensive research involving sharks. Organizing conferences in various worldwide locations for fellow researchers, he was able to experience many different cultures, fostering a lifelong love of foreign travel. In his retirement, he settled in Chapel Hill, NC.

He is survived by his wife of 53 years, Martha Dunlap Hamlett of Chapel Hill; daughter, Kathleen Hamlett of Elkhart, IN; son, Alexander Hamlett (Jessica) of Parker, CO; grandchildren, Alexis and Lucas Hamlett; and brother, Chris Hamlett of NC. He was preceded in death by his son, Hayes Hamlett.

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Helen Tobiczyk Kaferle - June 01, 1924 - February 16, 2024

Departed: 02/16/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Helen Tobiczyk Kaferle, 99, of Chapel Hill, NC, formerly of Meriden, CT, passed away peacefully with her family by her side February 16, 2024, at the University of North Carolina Medical Center.

Born June 1, 1924, in Library, PA, to the late Joseph and Frances Tobiczyk she was predeceased by her husband of 70 years, John A. Kaferle.

“Tobi” as she was known by her close friends was a longtime resident of Meriden and a fixture at Meriden City Hall for many years where she worked in the Assessor’s Office. She also worked in the Meriden Welfare Office and at the Napier Co.

She moved to Chapel Hill, NC in 2017 after her husband’s passing.

To know Tobi was to know someone with near boundless energy and concern and love for her family and friends. She loved to travel, dance, watch the New York Yankees and Connecticut Huskies women’s basketball team and most of all, be with her grandchildren. One of her grandsons confessed just recently that he loved going to her house because she and his grandfather let him get away with a lot more than his parents, like jumping from furniture piece to furniture piece with a cape on like Superman.

Besides her parents and husband, she was predeceased by her brothers, Joseph and Frederick and sister Adelaide. She also was predeceased by her lifelong friend and partner in fun Marie Gardiner.

She is survived by her sons John and his wife Marcia of Ridgefield, CT and Daniel and his wife Linda of Chapel Hill, NC. She also is survived by grandchildren Karl and his wife Colleen of Norwalk, CT, Anne of Helper, UT, Colin of Portland, OR, and Ian and his wife Annie of Berkeley, CA. Also, great grandchildren Mette, Kelsey and Theo. She was very close to her niece, Tisha Mears of Yukon, PA.

A celebration of Helen’s life will be held later this year.

Donations can be made in Helen’s name to the Step Forward Scholarship Fund, PO Box 4631, Chapel Hill, NC, 27515-4631.

The family would like to thank the staff at Brookdale Meadowmont in Chapel Hill for their compassionate care in her last years.

Walker's Funeral Home of Chapel Hill is in charge of arrangements.

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Eugene Bozymski - September 29, 1935 - February 15, 2024

Departed: 02/15/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Eugene Michael Bozymski, beloved husband, father, grandfather and gastroenterologist passed away peacefully at home on February 15, 2024. He was the youngest of six children born in 1935 to Clementine and Alexander Bozymski in Mansfield, Ohio. He is survived by the love of his life for over 70 years, Mary Kay.

Gene graduated from John Carroll University and Marquette School of Medicine in a remarkable six years. Gene trained at Scripps Mercy in San Diego and returned to the Medical College of Wisconsin for his three year residency as he began his over 50 year career as a gastroenterologist. A two year stint in the US Army was followed by his final posting at Marquette. A fellowship at UNC School of Medicine helped to prepare him to serve as Professor of Medicine and Head of Endoscopy at Carolina for many years.

Dr. Bo held esteemed positions within various medical societies. His commitment to excellence in patient care and dedication to nurturing future generations of gastroenterologists were evident in his leadership roles and mentorship of GI fellows. He served as Governor of North Carolina for the American College of Gastroenterology on two occasions and attained the status of Master with both the American College of Gastroenterology and the American College of Physicians. He was also recognized as a Fellow of the American Society of Gastrointestinal Endoscopy and the American Gastrointestinal Association.

In 2007, the Mary Kay and Eugene Bozymski and Linda and William Heizer Distinguished Professorship at the University of North Carolina Medical School honored his legacy. A loyal Tar Heel, he cherished Carolina Athletics and was an avid fan of Marquette basketball and Notre Dame football. Gene loved sports specifically tennis, football and fishing and was a member of the Chapel Hill Choir for over 30 years. He especially enjoyed the beach with his grandchildren.

Medicine was his vocation, but faith and family were his lifeblood. Family was his greatest joy. Gene Bozymski is survived by his wife Mary Kay and four sons; Mike (Cathy), Mark (Mary), David (Nata), and Eric. He was affectionately known as “Pop Pop” by his ten grandchildren; Mary Catherine Maus (Michael), Evan (Sunny), Blake, Isabel, Sophie, Max (Caroline), Alexandra Bressoud (Hayden), Emma, Sarah and Abigail and great granddaughter, Charlotte Maus. Survivors also include his brother Eddie (Kris) and sister Jenny. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his sister Lee and two brothers Tony and Val.

A service to celebrate Gene Bozymski will be held at St. Thomas More Catholic Church in Chapel Hill on Friday, March 22 at 2:00pm.

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Jane Smith - June 28, 1949 - February 14, 2024

Departed: 02/14/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Jane Coe Smith, 74, of Chapel Hill, North Carolina, passed away on February 14, 2024, following a stroke. Her family remained by her side through her passing in the peace and respite of the Jim and Betsy Bryan Hospice Home of UNC Health Care.

Jane was born to John and Bessie Coe on June 28, 1949, in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. She was a member of Konnoak Hills Moravian Church and graduated from Parkland High School in 1967. Jane attended Virginia Intermont College in Bristol, Virginia, and the University of North Carolina at Greensboro, where she graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Home Economics in 1972.

She was married to Dale Smith on May 19, 1973, and they resided over the years in Pearisburg, VA; Charlotte, NC; Columbia, SC; Rocky Mount, NC; and, since 1985, in Chapel Hill, NC. They recently celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. Jane is survived by her husband, Dale Smith, of Chapel Hill; her children, Claire (Brad) Lambert of Greensboro, NC, and Andrew (Jennifer) Smith, of Roswell, GA; her sister, Mescal Ann Coe Conrad of Chapel Hill, NC; and her nephew, David (Kathy) Conrad of Holly Springs, NC. Jane was a devoted “Mimi” to her four grandchildren: Henry and Tom Lambert, and Eleni and Connor Smith. She is preceded in death by her parents, John and Bessie Coe, and brother-in-law, Ronald Conrad.

Across more than two decades, Jane made significant professional contributions to the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. She served in the Office of Special Projects, later a division of University Development, and retired in 2014 as Associate Director of University Events. In this capacity, Jane facilitated the installation of multiple chancellors, University Day, Commencement, and events in support of the Boards of Governors, Trustees, and Visitors. Jane played a central role in orchestrating the Chancellor’s Box ticketing and seating for an untold number of UNC football and basketball games that filled her evenings and weekends throughout her career. She shaped the experiences of the university’s donors and political supporters with her deep knowledge of the most advantageous seating in the box. Her meticulous memory for details told her which guests to seat together and which guests to keep at a distance as she worked the puzzle of the Chancellor’s Box before each game. These countless events fostered the bond of alumni, community members, donors, faculty, staff, and students to Carolina. Jane took great pride in the many young women she mentored and celebrated their achievements, both professional and personal. In 2009, Jane was honored with the C. Knox Massey Distinguished Service Award in recognition of her outstanding contribution to the university. Additionally, Jane was an active member of the North American Association of Commencement Officers (NAACO) and served a term as president in 2010.

Jane’s interests included decorative arts and craftsmanship, North Carolina people and places, and cultural events in the Chapel Hill community. She was devoted to her family and friends and held a genuine interest in learning and sharing the everyday details of the lives of those around her. She had a talent for remembering names and stories, and often deployed her quick wit and wry commentary in her retelling. Travel energized Jane, from taking a simple beach weekend to hosting a UNC General Alumni Association trip to China. Jane and Dale enjoyed visiting cities across North America for annual NAACO conferences. Jane loved watching her grandchildren grow up, cheering for the Tar Heels, and relaxing with a cup of hot tea.

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Thomas Neff - July 10, 1952 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Thomas “Tommy” Neff, of Pittsboro, NC, passed away peacefully with his loving wife Pamela at his side on February 10, 2024, at the age of 71 years old.

Tommy and Pamela were blessed with 32 years of marriage and simply loved spending time together. They enjoyed holidays and dinners with family and friends, and took many memorable vacations, especially their tour of Italy, trips to Ireland, and Bar Harbor Maine. Tommy was a lifelong NY Yankee fan and had fun teaching Pamela the ins and outs of baseball. Since relocating to the area, Tommy shared with Pamela some of their happiest years together, and so appreciated their home life, community, and friendships.

After 32 years working for Con Edison in New York, Tommy retired as a Troubleshooter Dispatcher for the High Voltage Department. His prior position was Senior Electrical Technician which included brave work at the 9/11 World Trade Center site to help restore power to lower Manhattan. Tommy had a fervor for American Literature and earned a Bachelor of Arts Degree in English from Queens College, NYC. He had a true passion for Mark Twain and liked visiting historical sites of authors as an extension of his literature interests. With a Certificate of Alcohol Counseling from Marymount College, Manhattan, Tommy made valuable contributions to the Volunteers of America. He volunteered at the Men’s Rehabilitation Center in the Bowery section of NYC, providing counseling and tutoring men for GED qualifications. Tommy also served on the board for the NCADD Westchester, NY.

Tommy is survived by his beloved wife, Pamela Neff. He leaves his two sisters and their spouses, Maureen and John, and Terry and Dave, as well as five nephews, a niece, two niece-in-laws and two grandnieces. Tommy was embraced as family by Pamela’s parents, sister Paula, and sister Sharlene and her partner Mike. He is preceded in death by his parents, Thomas and Regina Neff, and his father in-law and mother in-law, Wallace and Pauline Straub.

Pamela would like to express her heartfelt gratitude to their dear friends for their loving support, and to Tommy’s care teams at UNC Basnight Cancer Hospital, Chapel Hill and most recently at UNC Neurosciences Hospital, Chapel Hill, and UNC Hospice Home, Pittsboro. The doctors, nurses and nurse aides treated Tommy with the utmost compassion and dignity.

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John Edward Maroney - August 06, 1937 - February 08, 2024

Departed: 02/08/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: John Edward Maroney, 86, died in Durham, NC on February 8, 2024 after a long illness.

John was born in Medford, MA on August 6, 1937 to Evelyn (Finegan) and Edward Maroney. He graduated from Tufts University in 1959 and in 1960 was married to Patricia (Pat) Maria Folsom, whom he met in 1956 through a mutual friend. Having gone through college in the ROTC, he joined the Air Force upon graduation and served during the Vietnam conflict; exposure to Agent Orange during that service would cause him serious, chronic health problems later in life. In the years immediately prior to leaving the Air Force in 1974 he was stationed at Lockbourne Air Force Base in Columbus, Ohio.

John then worked for the Ohio Environmental Protection Agency (EPA), obtained a masters degree in Public Administration at Ohio University, and started work on a Ph.D. in Atmospheric Sciences at the Ohio State University. In 1976, he and his family–Pat, Timothy, Kevin, and Terry–relocated to Chapel Hill, where John worked for Northrup Industries in their environmental protection program. John became an expert in the Clean Air Act and, after leaving Northrup, continued to perform environmental compliance audits and instruction until his retirement. John and Pat remained happily ensconced in Chapel Hill until 2019, when they downsized and moved to Croasdaile Village in Durham.

John was a polymath, deeply informed across a wide spectrum of hobbies and interests, including: languages and linguistics (he spoke Russian and Esperanto and had a familiarity with dozens of other languages, including Thai and Yiddish); science fiction and fantasy; Americana music, especially bluegrass and modern folk; Irish music; Russian literature and Japanese art; martial arts, particularly judo; political administration; philosophy, religion, modern physics, and computers; and so much more. He loved his pet cats and the birds at Croasdaile’s lake. He loved to travel, making it to Ireland, Russia, and Cuba in his retirement, and in the 1980s gained Irish citizenship through his Irish-born grandfather. John was committed to the ideals of peace and justice, and was particularly devoted to the music and antiwar activism of Joan Baez, Woody Guthrie, and Pete Seeger.

John was an active member of the science fiction fandom, Mensa, and Esperanto communities, through which he made many friends. Those who knew him for even a short time admired his evident intelligence, wide-ranging knowledge, delight in the unusual, and deep curiosity about the world.

John is survived by his wife Patricia and their two living children, Kevin (from Yonkers, NY) and Terry (from Nashville, TN), and their spouses.

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Robert Bernard Bizal - March 31, 1927 - February 05, 2024

Departed: 02/05/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Robert Bernard Bizal died February 5, 2024 at his home in Chapel Hill, NC.

Born on March 31, 1927, Bob was the son of John Bizal and Margaret Gergic, immigrants from Slovenia in Austria-Hungary. He was the second youngest of 13 children. Bob’s parents and all his siblings predeceased him.

A native of Emporia, Kansas, he graduated from Emporia High School in 1945 as president of his class. Bob served in the Navy during World War II in the Pacific Theatre where he was a storekeeper (disbursing).

Upon discharge from the Navy, Bob joined his family in Oklahoma City and graduated, cum laude, from Oklahoma City University with a B.A. degree in journalism, thanks to the GI Bill. At Oklahoma City University, he served as Editor of “The Campus” newspaper and as an officer in various clubs including the Press Club, the French Club, and the Newman Club. He also did post-graduate work in political science under a Fulbright Scholarship grant at the Sorbonne in Paris and the University of Lyon, France. His time as a Fulbright Scholar instilled a great interest in the world. Throughout his life, Bob traveled extensively in North and South America, Europe, North Africa, and Asia. He was married to Mildred Semtner, formerly of Oklahoma City, who preceded him in death. They had three children, Jennie Bob “J.B.” Culpepper of Chapel Hill, Melanie Bizal of Chapel Hill, and Raymond Bizal (Cindy) of Long Beach, California. He has three grandchildren, Alex Culpepper (Sara) of Durham, NC, Adam Culpepper (Lauren) of Nashville, NC, and Jennie Bob Bizal-Clark of Chapel Hill. Bob also has two great-granddaughters: Charlotte Marie and Emma Kathleen Culpepper.

Early in his career, Bob was a reporter for United Press International, The Tulsa Daily World, and The Daily Oklahoman. He began his oil and gas industry career with the Independent Petroleum Association of America in Tulsa and Washington D.C., worked a year with the American Petroleum Institute, and was with The Oil and Gas Journal for 8 years as director of editorial research. In his later years, he identified most with this journalism background. He joined Amoco (now BP) in 1964 as public relations representative for exploration and production, serving in that capacity in Tulsa and Houston for 10 years. They moved to the nation’s capital in 1974 where Bob was a Washington representative in Amoco’s governmental relations department. In 1978, he opened an area government and public affairs office in Denver. The office served 18 states. He retired from Amoco in 1986. Following retirement from Amoco, Bob served as a Loaned Executive and volunteer for the Oil and Gas Division, the Mining and other Divisions at Mile High United Way from 1987 to 1996. In this capacity, his accounts raised $6 million for human services. He was also active as a volunteer meal deliverer and committee member at Denver’s Project Angel Heart for 14 years, having personally delivered an estimated 7,000 hot lunches.

A life-long member of the Fulbright Association, Bob also served on the Board of Directors of the Colorado Chapter and the North Carolina Chapter of the Fulbright Association. He was an active member of Americans United for Separation of Church and State, the American Civil Liberties Union, and the Humanists of Colorado. At various stages of his life, he was active in the National Council as well as the World Council of Churches, Great Books of the Western World, the United Nations organization and the Public Relations Society of America. Bob also held offices with various trade and professional organizations in Oklahoma, Texas, Kansas, Washington, D.C., New Mexico, and Colorado.

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Marlyse Emilie Bach - Unknown - February 04, 2024

Departed: 02/04/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Marlyse Emilie Bach passed away peacefully in Chapel Hill on Sunday, February 4 2004, aged 74. For many years she had put up a very brave and stubborn fight against cancer.

Marlyse, whose family lives in Nancy, France, came to study US history at UNC Greensboro in 1976. She then obtained a second Masters in French at UNCG and earned her doctorate in French at UNC Chapel Hill. Then she taught French at Wake Forest University and later at Duke University.

In 1978, while still at UNCG, she wed John Kennedy, from Winston-Salem, who was also at UNCG and they were happily married for 45 years. Her husband taught elementary education at various schools in North Carolina including in Chapel Hill. For the last 23 years they lived in Southern Village, Chapel Hill.

They used to travel to France regularly and she enjoyed showing off her French cooking and entertaining. Her neighbors especially enjoyed her Christmas treats.

She is survived by her husband, John, and relatives in France.

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Robert Dirk Lotz - February 09, 1970 - January 24, 2024

Departed: 01/24/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Robert Dirk Lotz, 53, of Asheville, NC, passed away on January 24th, 2024 at UNC Hospital after an almost 3-year battle with colon cancer.

Rob was born on February 9th, 1970 in Frankfurt, Germany. He lived in Germany, Mexico, and Spain throughout his youth and graduated high school with a German Abitur from the Deutsche Schule in Madrid in 1988. He initially attended University in Stuttgart, Germany, but transferred to Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute (RPI) in Troy, NY in 1991, where he obtained his Bachelor’s, Master’s, and PhD in Aeronautical Engineering.

Rob began his professional career with CD-adapco in 2000 where he held various engineering positions in New York, Michigan, and California. The highlight of his career with CD-adapco was opening and developing the CFD services office at their Detroit branch.

In the spring of 2008, Rob joined Hawker Beechcraft in Wichita, KS to pursue his dream of designing airplanes. Unfortunately, the company was severely impacted by the recession and Rob returned to CD-adapco in 2009, where he worked in their LA office for 2 years.

In 2011, Rob was given the opportunity to move near his family in North Carolina when he joined BorgWarner Automotive in Asheville, NC as a Senior Aerodynamics Engineer. His work focused on radial compressor and turbine aerodynamic design.

Rob was passionate about aviation and high-performance cars from an early age. In his childhood, he demonstrated an early skill in engineering and design by building miniature models of airplanes and cars. While studying at RPI he designed, developed, and built an RP-3 Sailplane. During the same time, he constructed a single engine Rutan Long-EZ airplane with a friend. He personally piloted the plane after receiving his pilot’s license.

Rob was also passionate about nature photography. He spent much of his time capturing pictures of birds, flowers, plants, and landscapes. Among his favorite images are those he took in Yosemite, Grand Teton, and Yellowstone National Parks. He collected vintage cameras and enjoyed recreating Ansel Adams photographs with his own camera equipment.

Rob is survived by his parents, Wolfgang and Ingeborg, his sister, Ruth and brother, Daniel. He had four nieces and one nephew, Emily, Julia, Annika, Alisia, and Nicolas.

He was an active member of The Chapel of the Cross church in Chapel Hill where he regularly ushered Sunday Services and attended a weekly book club.

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David Zurbuch - May 30, 1967 - January 22, 2024

Departed: 01/22/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: David L. Zurbuch (56), of Chapel Hill, NC passed away on January 22, 2024. Born on May 30, 1967 in Fort Wayne, IN to James Zurbuch and Barbara Hollowell. Dave was a loving and dedicated husband and father as well as the proud owner and founder of Zurbuch Construction in Chapel Hill.

He is survived by his wife of over 30 years, Amy Knight and their five children Jacob Hartley (26), Erica Jane (24), Eliza Kate (21), Isaac Paxton (17), Liam Detrick (11), his mother, Barbara Hollowell, and siblings, Kari Jenkins, Dan Zurbuch, Jennifer Cartwright, Andy Zurbuch, and Chris Zurbuch. He is preceded in death by his father, James Zurbuch and his twin sister Lisa D. Zurbuch.

After graduating from Purdue University with a degree in engineering, Amy and Dave worked briefly in Columbus, IN before relocating to beautiful Chapel Hill after touring the East Coast looking for a forever home and perfect place to raise their future family.

Dave was an eternal optimist, the hardest worker and quiet problem solver. He was dedicated to fitness and health. By far his greatest joy was spending time with his family, all the moments big and small.

Dave’s family will host a service to honor Dave on Saturday, January 27, 2024 at 11:00am. The service will take place in The Chancellors Ballroom at The Carolina Inn, 211 Pittsboro St. Chapel Hill, NC 27516.

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Rickie C. Bland II - April 10, 1979 - January 13, 2024

Departed: 01/13/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Rickie C. Bland II, 44, passed away on January 13, 2024, in his hometown of Mebane, North Carolina. He was born on April 10, 1979, to Karen and Rick Bland, at Fort Bragg, North Carolina. He grew up traveling the world with his family while his father pursued a career in the military.

Rickie was a graduate of Staunton River High School, class of 1997, and went on to obtain a Bachelor’s degree in Computer Science -Information Technology from East Tennessee State University and a Master’s degree in Instructional Design and Technology from the University of Tennessee, Knoxville. He went on to work in the IT field in both Florida and North Carolina.

Rickie will be greatly missed by his loving parents, Karen and Rick, his sister, Christina (Christopher) Donahue, his beloved niece and nephew, Brileigh and Caden, his grandmother, Janet Bland, and loving uncle, aunts and cousins.

Rickie was predeceased by his grandparents, Louise and Frank Akers and Junior Bland.

To honor Rickie’s memory, a celebration of life will occur with details to be determined.

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Jacqueline Ann Chalfin - August 11, 1939 - January 08, 2024

Departed: 01/08/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Jacqueline Ann (Hayes) Chalfin, age 84, of Chapel Hill, NC passed away peacefully on January 8, 2024, after many years with the challenges of multiple health issues. Jacquie was living with her husband, Dick Chalfin, at Azalea Estates -Senior Independent Living in Chapel Hill, NC.

Jacquie was born and raised in Minneapolis-St. Paul Minnesota, daughter of the late Margery E (Massey) Hayes and James T Hayes. Sister of her late twin brother, Jim H Hayes (Jean). Beloved wife for 61 years of surviving husband, Dick Chalfin. Loving Mother of son, Todd Chalfin (Kristy) and cherished by granddaughter Reagan, 16 and grandson Reid, 14.

Jacquie had a talent for art at an early age and attended weekend classes at the Minneapolis Art Institute.

Jacquie’s parents and family moved to Cincinnati, Ohio at the end of her sophomore year. She then attended Withrow High School in Cincinnati. Jacquie graduated from the University of Cincinnati College of Design, Architecture and Art. At the University of Cincinnati Jacquie was a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma Sorority and honored by Motor Board. Jacquie first met her husband Dick Chalfin (born in Kenton, Ohio) while attending the University of Cincinnati.

After Jacquie’s marriage to Dick in 1962 they lived in the Dayton, Ohio area (Centerville) for 20 years. Jacquie pioneered the hiring of female graphic artists at ad agencies, and for 10 years was Art Director at The Dayton Power and Light Company. She was active in The Dayton Philharmonic Women’s Assoc., Women’s Aglow, several Bible Study groups and Normandy United Methodist Church.

In 1983, Jacquie and her husband moved to Bloomfield Hills, MI where they lived for 27 years. Jacquie was active at Brightmoor Tabernacle Church (now Brightmoor Christian Church), Bethesda Christian Church. She was an active member in the Bloomfield Hills Vernor Estates Garden Club.

Dick and Jacquie moved to Chapel Hill, NC in 2010 to be near son, Todd, and family. Jacquie was a member of King’s Park International Church. Jacquie and Dick moved in February 2021 to Azalea Estates -Senior Independent Living in Chapel Hill.

The foundation for Jacquie’s life as a wonderful wife and mother and all her activities was her strong faith and steadfast love for the Lord. The joy of the Lord showed in her face and eyes with her big smile and friendliness to all people.

The family invites all to services on Saturday, January 20, 2024, at Amity United Methodist Church -located at 825 N Estes Dr., Chapel Hill, NC 27514 (Note: with construction on Estes Dr., you can only access North Estes Dr. from Martin Luther King, Jr. Blvd). Services start at the church with a viewing from 2-3p.m., followed by a Celebration of Life service from 3-4 p.m. A reception will follow in the fellowship hall from 4-5 p.m. Funeral arrangements are being handled by Walker’s Funeral Home, Chapel Hill, NC.

In Kenton, Ohio on Saturday January 27, 2024 at 10 am, the family invites all to Graveside Services to be held at the Grove Cemetery in The Grove Committal Building followed by a reception for all at the Memorial Park Golf Club.

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Dr. Ralph E. Wileman Jr. - April 28, 1931 - January 07, 2024

Departed: 01/07/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Ralph E. Wileman Jr., 92, passed away on Sunday January 7, 2024, at UNC Hospital in North Carolina.

Ralph was born on April 28, 1931 in Akron, Ohio to Ralph and Ruth Wileman.

In 1953, Ralph earned a Bachelors in Education from Otterbein University and went onto achieve a Masters in Education from Kent State University. He was a high school teacher in Winter Garden, Florida for two school years. Afterwards, Ralph moved to New York City and worked at Smith Scherr McDermott and then Lippincott & Margulies, as a graphic designer. In 1961, he became an Associate Professor at Fredonia College (NY), where he met his deceased ex-wife, Ann Keane Wileman. In 1967, he earned a PhD in Education at Columbia University in New York City. After teaching for one year at the University of Hawaii, he became an Associate Professor at the School of Education, UNC Chapel Hill in 1968. Ralph taught educational media, becoming Professor Emeritus after almost 30 years at UNC Chapel Hill. He enjoyed being a Professor and was passionate about mentoring his students’ careers.

In the later part of his teaching career, he consulted for IBM at their Palisades Executive Conference Center in New York. He published several books including Exercises in Visual Thinking, Visual Communicating, and co-authored A Structure for Population Education. Ralph also spent many summers in Africa and Asia consulting for the US Agency for International Development in educational methodology regarding family planning and public health.

While on a summer vacation in 1968, Ralph and his family discovered South Bristol, Maine and purchased a seasonal home. During his summers in Mane, he developed a passion for antiques and started gathering many collections. One of his collections, pre 20th century optical toys and illusionary devices, was donated to the North Carolina School of Science and Mathematics in Durham, North Carolina.

In 1977, he was introduced to needlepoint as therapy for a hand injury. Ralph quickly completed six chair seats, a number of pillows and then went onto tackle staircase risers and framed wall hangings. At first, books and kits were his references, but he soon created his own original designs. His works found here: https://needlepointsofview.com. One framed wall hanging was recently donated to the Royal School of Needlework in Hampton Court Palace, United Kingdom, two were donated to the Museum für Gestaltung in Zürich, Switzerland; and one donated to the Gregg Museum of Art & Design in Raleigh, North Carolina.

Ralph had a passion for historical preservation and was a long-time member of the Chapel Hill Preservation Society (now Preservation Chapel Hill) including a term as its President. After retiring in 1996, he preserved Dunn Hill Farm, an 1860s tobacco farm on 140 acres, in Vernon Hill, Virginia. In addition to preserving the original homestead, he built a guest house and swimming pool. Dunn Hill Farm became a destination for friends and family.

Ralph is survived by his children, Laura Wileman Alves (Braintree, MA) and John Howard Wileman (Chapel Hill, NC); two grandchildren Henry Birdsall Wileman (Minneapolis, MN) and Michael Keane Wileman (Bethesda, MD); and two step grandchildren, Leah Alves Polcari and John Alves Jr. (Braintree, MA). Ralph was predeceased by his sisters Beverly June Barber (Brighton, MI), Shirley L. Shill (Brighton, MI), and his brother Norman Wileman (Canton, OH).

A celebration of life will be held on Thursday, January 18, 2024 from 2:00pm to 5:00pm at Walker's Funeral Home, 11680 US Highway 15 501 North, Chapel Hill, NC.

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Eric Joseph Serge - May 09, 1967 - January 03, 2024

Departed: 01/03/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Eric Joseph Serge, 56, passed away on January 3rd, 2024. He was born on May 9th, 1967, in South Bend, Indiana, to Thomas Edward Serge and Sue Ann Serge. He was a proud Orange County, North Carolina resident, and a 1985 Chapel Hill High School graduate. He married his high school sweetheart Judi Briggs on June 30th, 2002, on Ocracoke Island, North Carolina. He is survived by his wife, Judi Briggs; daughters, Vale Serge and Graylinn Serge; father, Thomas Serge and wife Mary Serge; brother, Thomas Serge and wife Tracie Serge; sister, Nicole Serge; and many nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, and cousins.

He is leaving behind a legacy of love and kindness. Eric lived a life woven with compassion, dedication, and a profound love for his family. Eric's warmth and generosity touched the lives of all who knew him. He held an unwavering love for his wife, a love that stood as a testament to commitment and devotion. As a father, his guiding presence and unconditional love shaped the lives of his children, instilling values of integrity and empathy that will endure through generations.

Eric found peace and joy in simple pleasures. He enjoyed spending many of his weekends and afternoons watching his daughters play volleyball. A big fan of Notre Dame football, his spirit soared with every touchdown, sharing in the triumphs and defeats of his beloved team. His greatest moments of contentment were spent by the water, casting his line in pursuit of the perfect catch. Fishing was more than a pastime for Eric; it was a tranquil escape that brought him abundant happiness.

His passion for life, infectious laughter, and genuine care for others created ripples of positivity that reached far and wide. Eric's memory will continue to live on in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know him, to love him, and to be touched by his kindness.

In honoring his memory, let us carry forward the lessons he imparted—of love, of dedication, and of finding joy in life's simple pleasures. His spirit will forever remain alive in the memories and the love he shared with all who knew him.

May his soul find eternal peace, surrounded by the serenity he cherished in life.

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Henry Carrison Thomas Jr. - September 13, 1945 - January 02, 2024

Departed: 01/02/2024 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Henry passed away peacefully on Tuesday January 2, 2024, at the UNC Hospice Home facility in Pittsboro, North Carolina.

He was born in New Haven, Connecticut, to Mary Russell Thomas and Henry Carrison Thomas.

Henry is survived by his wife, Linda; daughter, Elizabeth, and son-in-law, Derick, of Johnson City, Tennessee; and son, Jordan, of Redondo Beach, California. He is also survived by two siblings: Mary Ann Handel and brother-in-law Steve Handel of Bar Harbor, Maine; and Francis Thomas of Chicago, Illinois. Henry was preceded in death by his parents. Henry “truly, madly, deeply” loved Linda, his wife of 44 years. He frequently and spontaneously brought her flowers – “just because” – to brighten her day. He shared his love of poetry, often reading her the William Yeats poem, “When You Are Old”: “But one man loved the pilgrim soul in you, And loved the sorrows of your changing face.”

Henry was extremely proud of the accomplishments of his children as they made their way into adulthood, exuberantly sharing their latest adventure or award with anyone who asked after them.

Henry is remembered for his ready smile, his infectious sense of humor, his kindness, his wit and wisdom, his inquisitive nature (he never stopped wanting to learn), his giving spirit and loving heart, and his enthusiasm for life, relationships and community. His joie de vivre was evident to all, as he embraced everything that life offered – good food and wine; cooking (including extensive cookbook and cookware collections); entertaining and sharing his culinary skills with many (a small group of friends, a dinner club of 30 plus years, and open house holiday parties); traveling in the U.S. and throughout the world, especially to his beloved France; and meeting new people of all ages. He was a devoted student of the French language. He loved to read non-fiction, especially history, and he helped establish a book club that is still going strong after 20 years. Henry was always ready for the next adventure.

In the 1960s, Henry volunteered for the Peace Corps and was sent to Tetouan in Morocco. There, he developed enduring friendships and engaged with Arab, French and Spanish cultures and foodways.

Throughout his lifetime, Henry was involved in many causes from the civil rights and anti-war movements to the Moral Monday protests. He was one of the “Clean for Gene” volunteers -- riding a bus to Indiana in 1968 to knock on doors in support of Eugene McCarthy’s presidential bid. Henry also volunteered to cook for the homeless at the original Carrboro location (bringing the meal with you). This was a family affair and his children (in elementary school at the time) also participated. Later he joined a cook team from his church and prepared and served meals in the Chapel Hill homeless shelter. Shortly after retirement, Henry volunteered to read to young children at the same preschool his own children had attended. He even collected children’s books while on his travels to read to the kids.

Henry enjoyed a long career (over 30 years) with the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency, first in Chicago, then later in Durham and Research Triangle Park (RTP). For much of his career he worked on setting and implementing national air quality standards, including some early efforts to deal with the effects of sulfur dioxide and acid rain. He worked easily with a wide variety of people and was often called on to help resolve challenging personnel issues. Henry held many positions over the years, but at his retirement he was the Associate Director for Program Operations in the Office of Air Quality Planning and Standards. He was very proud of the small contribution he made to “keep the air clean,” as he told his children. Funeral services will be held on Saturday, January 20, 2024, at 1:00 pm at The Chapel of the Cross, 304 E. Franklin Street, Chapel Hill, NC 27514

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Dulcie Murdock Straughan - May 13, 1949 - December 30, 2023

Departed: 12/30/2023 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Dulcie Murdock Straughan died December 30, 2023, in Chapel Hill after an extended illness. A beloved wife, mother and university professor, Dulcie was known for her warm and welcoming smile, her generosity of self, and her love of family and friends. A memorial service will be held at a later date in the spring.

The daughter of Ruth Mathieson Murdock and Daniel Sheridan Murdock, Dulcie was born in Ocean Side, Long Island. Along with her sister Sheri, the family moved to Saint Michael’s on the Eastern Shore of Maryland just a few years after Dulcie was born and remained there throughout her childhood and teenage years. It was those serene shores that sparked her lifelong affinity for the water and boating. And it was the example of her mother, a heroic public school teacher who fought for the privilege of an equal education for all of St. Michael’s students, that inspired Dulcie to strive to reach the highest levels of teaching.

During their teenage years, Dulcie and Sheri caused quite a fuss when they decided to protest the school’s dress code by leaving the house with jeans under their skirts and revealing them when they got there. In high school, Dulcie also developed a serviceable jump shot and a deep love for the sport of basketball, both of which she passed down to her children.

Before continuing her education, Dulcie moved to Norway with Sheri to meet extended family and spend two years working and learning Norwegian. This would be the first of many travels abroad in a life that took Dulcie to many distant places around the planet.

Dulcie received bachelor's and master's degrees from Virginia Commonwealth University in Richmond, Va., and taught as an instructor at VCU for three years. Along with one other student, in 1978 Dulcie became the first to receive a degree in VCU’s new journalism master’s program, while working fulltime for the Virginia Department of Mental Health and Mental Retardation, a role she held for five years. She also gained newspaper experience working for a Virginia weekly newspaper. In 1981 she moved to Chapel Hill to seek a Ph.D. from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. It was in the beautiful, vibrant and romantic academic village of Chapel Hill, she met a charming and wild-eyed southern boy named Chris Straughan who would become her partner for life and a father to her children, David and Dani, whom they raised together in Durham, to be quality human beings. Over kitchen tables supporting mac and cheese, pizzas, diapers and dissertation drafts, Dulcie completed her dissertation and received her doctorate in 1986.

In other professional experience, Dulcie was acting manager in media relations and public relations consultant for a major pharmaceutical company based in Research Triangle Park and a part-time public relations director for a Chapel Hill advertising and public relations agency.

Dulcie taught in the public relations sequence in the UNC-Chapel Hill journalism school as an instructor and visiting assistant professor before joining the faculty in a permanent, full-time position in 1990. She became the head of the PR program upon the retirement of her mentor and professor, Dr. Carol Reuss, and served in that role until retirement in 2016. She was the James H. Shumaker Term Professor before being named the James Howard & Hallie McLean Parker Distinguished Professor.

Faculty, especially junior faculty new to Chapel Hill, relied on Dulcie for her knowledge of the School and the University. She advised them on topics from tenure and promotion guidelines, committee assignments, research and creative work, and even day care options. Her door was always open to faculty, staff and students.

In addition to teaching and even creating some of the PR courses still taught today in the school, Dulcie took on administrative and service roles and often was requested as a PR speaker on organizations’ panels for media relations and PR strategy. In the School, she served on numerous committees ranging from the Appointments, Promotion and Tenure Committee to search committees to graduate admissions committee; participated in preparing site team reports for the School’s accreditation process every six years; and advised the student chapter of the Public Relations Society of America. She served on University committees, including the Faculty Grievance Committee, Committee on Enrollment Management, Faculty Council, Administrative Board of the College of Arts and Sciences, and Child Care Advisory Committee. On the national level she joined 11 site teams and chaired two other teams in evaluating schools’ accreditation status for the Accrediting Council for Education in Journalism and Mass Communication. The list goes on and on.

In administration in the School, Dulcie served as associate dean for undergraduate studies in 2005-08 and as senior associate dean in 2008-2011. She stepped in as interim dean July 1 through Dec. 31, 2011, after Dean Jean Folkerts stepped down and before Dean Susan King took the helm. She returned to the faculty and continued to teach until her retirement. She was named a member of the 2009 Academic Leadership Program in the Institute of Arts and Humanities at the University.

Dulcie oversaw countless students in internships locally and beyond. She advised master’s and graduate students, chairing 55 thesis and dissertation committees, as well as committees for undergraduates writing senior honors theses, and serving on dozens of other thesis and dissertation committees to help students across the degree finish line. Her graduate students won academic awards for their work, including the Arthur Page Case competition. Her students have gone on to teaching careers at universities around the country, to prestigious PR firms and to essential service in nonprofit organizations. Her commitment and dedication with her quick smile and encouragement were hallmarks of her teaching and mentoring students. Her teaching was recognized with the School's David Brinkley teaching excellence award in 1993; the University's Tanner Award for excellence in undergraduate teaching in 1995; and the Outstanding Faculty Award presented by UNC General Alumni Association in 2000. She was also selected as an inaugural member of the Academy of Distinguished Teaching Scholars at UNC Chapel Hill in 2001.

Her research work has been published in "Public Relations Review," "Journalism and Mass Communication Quarterly," "International Communication Bulletin" and "Media History Monographs." Her 2007 book, "Women's Use of Public Relations for Progressive-era Reform: Rousing the Conscience of a Nation," looks at women reformers during the Progressive era and how they used public relations tactics to work for social justice issues for all Americans and at a time when they did not have the vote. She also published research on the NAACP and how the organization used public strategies to bring awareness to its purpose and mission especially during a time of crisis and also on public relations efforts to improve maternal and child health in the early 1900s. She presented papers at dozens of conferences, including the International Public Relations Conference and the Association for Education in Journalism and Mass Communication, and also served as a paper judge for AEJMC.

In her spare time, Dulcie enjoyed spending family vacations at Emerald Isle and Banner Elk, reading and dabbling in photography. In her 50s she joined Carolina Masters Rowing club, training on University Lake and competing in regattas, including the Head of the Hooch in Chattanooga, Tenn., and the Head of the Charles in Boston. After retirement she and her husband moved to the Cedars in Chapel Hill. She was a long-time member of Chapel of the Cross. As extraordinary as Dulcie’s academic career and contributions to UNC’s institution and students were, her grace and energy allowed her to be much more. Her children expressed it this way –

The world lost a powerful force for joy when Dulcie Murdock Straughan passed away. Dulcie touched the lives of hundreds of people in her 74 years, and despite her long illness, she smiled and laughed her way through her final months and days – just as she lived the rest of her life.

Dulcie was a sister to Sheri, an aunt to Sandy, Blair, Gretchen, and Stacy, and a great-aunt to Lauren. She was a partner-in-crime to Jan, Lois, Anne, and many others; a beloved teacher and advisor to countless students; a ringer of a crew member; an ace seashell and sea glass hunter; and a die-hard Tar Heel basketball fan. Most important to Dulcie, she was a loving and supportive wife and partner to her husband, Chris, and mother and inspiration to children David and Dani. And a friend to every person she ever met.

Today, the world is missing a source of light that warmed and guided an uncountable number of people.

She is survived by her husband and much better man of 40 years; her children; her nieces and nephew; her best friends; and her cat, Fiona. Her parents and sister predeceased her.

Memorials can be made to the Carol Reuss Fund in the Hussman School of Journalism and Media through the School’s website at http://hussman.unc.edu/ and use gift fund number 242472; to the Chapel Hill Public Library at https://friendschpl.org/donation; or to a preferred charitable organization.

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Lisa Marie Seman Tobin Fitzpatrick - February 07, 1964 - December 28, 2023

Departed: 12/28/2023 (Chapel Hill)

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Augustine Joseph D'Ercole - March 20, 1944 - December 21, 2023

Departed: 12/21/2023 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Augustine Joseph “Joe” D’Ercole, M.D. died on December 21, 2023 at home in Chapel Hill, NC after a battle with cholangiocarcinoma surrounded by his loving family. He is survived by his beloved spouse of 52 years, Virginia (Weyant), his children Ethan (Melinda, Chicago, IL) and Jed (Nicole, Washington, DC), and grandson (Will). He was predeceased by his parents, a son (Seth), and the other members of his extended family.

Joe was born March 20, 1944 in Salt Lake City, UT. His father, Augustine Dominic D’Ercole, served as a Lieutenant in the Army specializing as a chemist. His mother, Margarita Assunta “Susan” Gonnella D’Ercole was a trained X-ray technician and research associate to a radiologist. Following his father’s discharge from the Army, the family returned to their hometown of Springfield, MA before relocating several times while his father advanced in his career as a food technologist at General Foods. They lived in Lyons and Albion, NY, Lakeland, FL, where Joe attended elementary school through second year of high school, and then White Plains, NY where he graduated from Archbishop Stepinac High School in 1961. Joe graduated from the University of Notre Dame, B.A., in 1965 and Georgetown School of Medicine, M.D., in 1969. He completed Pediatric Residency in 1972 at Tufts New England Medical Center – Boston Floating Hospital followed by two years as a Public Health Service Officer assigned to the Environmental Protection Agency in Stoneville, MS.

Joe completed his fellowship in Pediatric Endocrinology at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill in 1976 and joined the faculty of the UNC School of Medicine and rapidly climbed to tenured-professorship in Pediatrics. He remained on faculty until his 2011 retirement. During his tenure he was active in clinical care, teaching, and research, as well as administration. His research focused in large part on the actions of insulin-like growth factor-I (IGF-I), was funded by the NIH for over 35 years, and resulted in over 150 peer-reviewed reports of IGF-I's role in multiple tissues and organs including fetal growth and brain development and functions. His research was recognized by the E. Mead Johnson Award for Pediatric Research. He also authored over 50 book chapters and/or invited manuscripts. Through the years, he served on many university, medical school, and professional society committees. He was Chairman of the Pediatric Endocrinology sub board of the American Board of Pediatrics, held the Harry S. Andrews Distinguished Professorship in Pediatrics, and sat on numerous NIH study sections and editorial boards for scientific journals. He was Chief of the Division of Pediatric Endocrinology from 1998 to 2008.

Joe had many outside interests, which became the focus of his life post-retirement. He was an avid reader, an amateur photographer (especially of birds), a cook, a genealogist, and writer. He wrote and published a novel, “Circling the Past”, which explored 300 years of family history and how it related to his own life. He was a fist-pumping Bruce Springsteen fanatic and a serious student of rock n’ roll. He was immensely proud of his eldest son’s music and art career. He took great pride in his youngest son’s career working for the U.S. Congress and the Department of Energy in Washington, DC. Joe loved to travel with his beloved wife and while on the road he proudly sought out the most authentic cuisine and learned from it in his own dishes. A family favorite was his paella with locally sourced ingredients, including clams harvested by him and his grandson on Planting Island (Marion, MA). Joe fully embraced a lifelong passion for the University of Notre Dame; the school, the atmosphere, and most certainly Fighting Irish Football. He never missed a game, and win or lose, it was important to him.

His friends and family will remember his sharp wit and dry humor; his ability to distill the most mundane into something funny for the ages. Most of all, he loved his family.

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Thomas Tiemann - Unknown - December 21, 2023

Departed: 12/21/2023 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Tiemann, the second child of Ruth and Robert Tiemann, was born in St. Louis, Missouri. Tom initially grew up in St. Louis, but the family relocated to New Jersey in 1951 when Anheuser-Busch, Mr. Tiemann’s employer, transferred him to its new Newark plant. From his father’s long career with Anheuser-Busch and Pabst, Tom gained an appreciation of the brewing industry and its products. Tom’s mother was from a long line of ministers. That family heritage led Tom to develop a strong faith and a commitment to the United Church of Christ and its institutions. Ruth and Bob were loving and supportive parents.

Tom graduated from Ladue High Horton Watkins High School in St. Louis. He received his undergraduate degree from Dartmouth College in 1970. Tom’s years at Dartmouth shaped him, intellectually, socially, and politically. He retained a love of Dartmouth all his days. Tom earned a Ph.D. in Economics from Vanderbilt University. It was also at Vanderbilt that he met his wife, Eileen McGrath.

Tom and Eileen started their professional careers at Marquette University in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. In 1984 Tom began his long career at Elon University, where over time he was dean of the business school, director of the general studies program, director of the business fellows program, and Jefferson-Pilot Professor of Economics. Tom never thought that equations could tell the full story of our economic lives. He was always paying attention to the choices that communities and individuals make. The end of the Soviet Union opened up a new area of interest for Tom. He studied how several former Soviet Bloc countries, especially Poland, transitioned their economies. He encouraged his students to engage with the larger world by leading classes of students on study trips to Eastern Europe, and by developing an Elon business school dual-degree program with two European universities.

In retirement, Tom read, gardened, and served on community and church boards. He was a trustee at Eden Seminary in St. Louis for over a decade. Family was important to Tom; the great sadness of the past few years was the deaths of his beloved sister Liz and her husband, John Howard. Tom died at his home in Carrboro on December 21. Tom is survived by his immediate family: Eileen McGrath, Jane Tiemann, Bob Tiemann, and Jonathan Tiemann, and their spouses. Tom also had great love for his nieces and nephews Owen Rundall, Anne Fahlgren, Rob Howard, Maggie Hong, Amelia Tiemann, and Sarah Tiemann.

There will be a memorial service for Tom at a later date at United Church of Chapel Hill. Friends who wish to make a gift in Tom’s memory may direct donations to Eden Theological Seminary, 475 East Lockwood Avenue, St. Louis, MO 63119 or United Church of Chapel Hill, 1321 Martin Luther King, Jr. Blvd, Chapel Hill, NC 27514.

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Herbert Richard Salmon - October 31, 1927 - December 14, 2023

Departed: 12/14/2023 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Herbert Richard Salmon passed away on Thursday, December 14, 2023 at the age of 96. Arrangments are incomplete.

Walker's Funeral Home of Chapel Hill is assisiting the Salmon family.

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Molly C. Pratt - May 04, 1934 - December 09, 2023

Departed: 12/09/2023 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Molly Chalmers Pratt passed away on Saturday, December 9, 2023 at the age of 89. Arrangements are incomplete. The Pratt family is being assisted by Walker's Funeral Home of Chapel Hill.

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Margaret Wilkins Carver - November 17, 1930 - December 08, 2023

Departed: 12/08/2023 (Chapel Hill)

Obituary Preview: Margaret Wilkins Carver, 93, died peacefully on December 8, 2023. A Durham native born on November 17, 1930, she was the daughter of Margaret Elizabeth Moring Wilkins and Lyman Logan Wilkins, Sr. She was a graduate of Saint Mary's School in Raleigh 48HS/50C.

Those that knew Margaret longest and best and as "Skeelie" can attest to her expertise and love of cooking through gifts of delicious yeast rolls, cucumber sandwiches, cheese biscuits, boiled custard and peanut brittle. She loved music from Classical to Soul, Sinatra to a little Country and sang in the Epworth Methodist Church choir for many years. With a love of fashion, Margaret enjoyed a career at The College Shop, the Tyler House as manager and Fine Feathers well into her 80's. She was passionate about the color pink, ruffles, pearls, butterflies, her poodles and Dennis the Menace. Until recently, she enjoyed playing Bridge every Thursday and was always excited to celebrate her penny winnings! Many kind messages to family have painted her as classy, adorable, gracious, smart, elegant and spicy; but most recently described as special, amazing, and a strong and determined lady. As an inspiration to others and a life well-lived, a friend said, "I want to be like her when I grow up!"

She was preceded in death by her parents; brother, Lyman Logan Wilkins, Jr; former husband, Marvin J. Carver, Jr.; and daughter-in-law, Deborah Williamson Carver. With heavy hearts and left to cherish her memory are her children, Connie Carver Carter (Ken) of Wilmington, NC; Marvin J. Carver, III of Chapel Hill, NC; William S. Carver (Janet) of Rocky Mount, NC; and Jennett Carver Skipper (Alan) of Raleigh, NC. She was affectionately known as Meme/Mimi by her grandchildren, Kathleen Carter; Jeff Carver (Amanda); Barrett Carver Muth (Devin); Eva Skipper Jones (Austin); Emily Skipper; and great-grandchildren, Phoebe and Mabel Jones; and nieces, Susan Tandy Scheffler, Martha Young, Ibba Surface and nephew Lyman Logan Wilkins III.

The family is grateful for Vanna Russ, whose friendship and companionship allowed Margaret to live in the comfort of her home.

A Memorial and Celebration will be held on Friday, February 2nd at the Hope Valley Country Club in Durham from 3:00PM to 5:30PM.

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A Team of Dedicated Professionals

The staff at Walker's Funeral Home is comprised of experienced and compassionate professionals who understand the importance of personalized attention during a difficult time. From funeral directors to support staff, each team member is dedicated to providing exceptional care and guidance throughout the funeral planning process. Their expertise and empathy ensure that every family receives the highest level of service and support.

Customized Funeral Services to Honor Your Loved One

Walker's Funeral Home recognizes that every life is unique, and therefore, every funeral service should be tailored to reflect the personality, interests, and values of the deceased. The funeral home offers a range of options to accommodate different preferences and cultural traditions, including traditional funerals, cremations, memorial services, and celebrations of life. Their experienced staff will work closely with you to design a personalized tribute that honors your loved one's memory.

A Facility Designed for Comfort and Reflection

The funeral home's facility is designed to provide a peaceful and comforting atmosphere for families and friends to gather and pay their respects. The chapel features ample seating, state-of-the-art audiovisual equipment, and a serene ambiance that fosters reflection and remembrance. Additionally, the facility offers private meeting rooms for family consultations and planning sessions.

Premier Pre-Planning Services for Peace of Mind

Walker's Funeral Home understands the importance of planning ahead and offers comprehensive pre-planning services to help individuals prepare for the future. By pre-arranging funeral services, you can ensure that your wishes are respected, alleviate the burden on your loved ones, and even lock in costs at today's prices. The funeral home's experienced staff will guide you through the pre-planning process, addressing any questions or concerns you may have.

Community Involvement and Support

Walker's Funeral Home is deeply committed to the Chapel Hill community and actively participates in local events and initiatives that promote education, awareness, and support for those coping with loss. From bereavement support groups to charity partnerships, the funeral home demonstrates its dedication to serving families beyond the funeral service itself.

A Commitment to Excellence in Funeral Service

Walker's Funeral Home is proud to maintain high standards of excellence in all aspects of funeral service. From meticulous attention to detail in preparing loved ones for viewing to ensuring that every family receives personalized support throughout the grieving process, the funeral home strives to exceed expectations at every turn. Their commitment to excellence has earned them a reputation as one of the most trusted funeral homes in the region.

A Message of Hope and Healing

In times of sorrow, it can be difficult to find solace. Walker's Funeral Home wants you to know that you are not alone. Their compassionate staff is dedicated to walking alongside you during this difficult journey, offering guidance, support, and reassurance every step of the way. As you navigate the complexities of grief, remember that healing is possible, and that with time, patience, and love, you will find a way forward.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It often includes details about their life, achievements, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community. They provide an opportunity to honor and celebrate the person's life, and offer a sense of closure for those who are grieving.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend writes the obituary, but it can also be written by a funeral home or other entity responsible for handling the deceased person's arrangements.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their accomplishments, awards, or notable achievements.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but it's usually between 100-500 words. The most important thing is to include the essential information and highlights of the person's life.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many newspapers and online obituary platforms allow you to include one or more photos of the deceased person. This can help make the obituary more personal and meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to find out their submission guidelines and deadlines. Some newspapers may have online submission forms or email addresses where you can send the obituary.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance, often as part of their estate planning or as a way to have control over how they are remembered. This is sometimes referred to as a "self-written" or "advance" obituary.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a longer, more detailed tribute that celebrates the person's life.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the person who has passed away. Including humorous stories or anecdotes can help make the obituary more engaging and memorable.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or discounts for online publication.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes, many online platforms and funeral homes offer the option to publish an obituary online only. This can be a cost-effective and environmentally friendly alternative to traditional print publication.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

This varies depending on the platform or website. Some may keep obituaries online indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time.

Can I make corrections to an already published obituary?

If you need to make corrections to an already published obituary, contact the newspaper or online platform directly. They may be able to make changes or issue a correction notice.

What if I want to keep my loved one's obituary private?

If you prefer not to share your loved one's obituary publicly, you can opt for private publication or share it only with close friends and family through email or social media.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased person's legacy.

How do I find an old obituary from years ago?

You can try searching online archives or contacting local libraries or genealogical societies for assistance. Some websites also offer paid services to search for and retrieve archived obituaries.

Can I republish an old obituary on social media or a website?

If you have permission from the original publisher or copyright holder, you can republish an old obituary on social media or a website. Be sure to cite the original source and respect any copyright restrictions.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

It's okay to take your time and seek support from friends, family, or a professional writer if needed. You can also consider writing a draft and revising it later when you're feeling more emotionally prepared.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's personality or spirit.

How do I ensure that my loved one's obituary is accurate and respectful?

Take your time to review and proofread the obituary carefully before submitting it for publication. Consider having multiple people review it as well to catch any errors or inaccuracies.

What if I'm unsure about what information to include in an obituary?

Contact a funeral home or bereavement counselor for guidance on what information is typically included in an obituary. You can also look at examples of other obituaries for inspiration.

Can I create a digital archive of my loved one's life stories and memories?

Yes! Many online platforms and memory books allow you to create a digital archive of stories, photos, and mementos celebrating your loved one's life.

How do I handle condolences and messages from friends and family after publishing an obituary?

You can respond personally to each message, or designate someone else to handle condolences on your behalf. Consider creating a memorial page or guestbook where people can leave messages and share memories.