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Jesse Chaidez - August 03, 1975 - March 30, 2022

Departed: 03/30/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Jesse "Jess" Chaidez died unexpectedly in his home on March 30th in Fairfield, CA at the age of 46.

Jesse is survived by his parents, Gilbert Chaidez, Verna Rosamond, Mark Ward; children, Tidus Chaidez, Bay Chaidez; siblings, Naomi Santoyo, Mike Chaidez, Michelle Chaidez, Eric Hunt, Lee Hunt, Brad Ward.

Jesse was born on August 3, 1975 in Napa, CA. He graduated from Napa High School. Jess spent years of his life traveling and adapting to new cultures around the world. Many years later, he welcomed two beautiful children into his family, Tidus and Bay. Jesse cherished and enjoyed the time he had to spend with his children.

Jess was accomplished at anything involving handywork. His most proud accomplishment was working on a luxury catamaran called Ali'i Nui as a deckhand, including dinner cruises and snorkeling, on Maui. He was a dedicated individual who loved his children and who was passionate about playing the guitar. He was a free spirit- he enjoyed traveling, surfing, and spear fishing. Jesse was a man of few words, but he was always a man of his word.

A viewing is scheduled this Friday, April 8th from 10:00 am - 12:00 pm, followed by a memorial service from 12:00 pm - 3:00 pm at Tulocay Cemetery. Chaplin Lee Shaw will officiate the ceremony. All are welcome to attend and celebrate Jesse's life.

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Neil Martin Schafer - May 25, 1959 - March 24, 2022

Departed: 03/24/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Neil Martin Schafer born on May 25, 1959, passed away on March 24, 2022, at the age of 62 doing three things he loved, driving his car; out in the countryside; after a great workout at the gym. He passed unexpectedly and even though he went too soon he lived a full life.

Neil's love of cars started at the age of 2 when he received his first kid-sized version for his birthday, and he never looked back. He became a collector of toy cars and then, and as a teenager, the real ones; everything from Blazers and trucks to Corvettes and Camaros. He got a firsthand knowledge of this by working at his father's service station from a young boy to a young man. This gave him the opportunity to create his strong work ethic that he carried on throughout his life. These early experiences encouraged his love for buying, fixing and selling anything from vehicles to large motorhomes, to real estate and more.

Neil was a savvy businessman that re-invented himself many times in his life. He tried his hand at an 8-5 job with Pac Bell just out of High School and soon realized he had bigger dreams. In his mid-twenties passed his real estate agent & broker exam and began buying and selling real estate for clients and himself. As an entrepreneur he started several businesses including a frozen yogurt shop in Yountville, RV Dealership in Napa and with his son Keith, M3 General Engineering in Napa. He dabbled in other ventures such as a stockbroker creating much success in his life, but his favorite and most recent passion was to develop and build out properties with his closest friends by his side.

Born and raised in Napa Neil developed a great love of the outdoors. He spent the summers growing up at both Lake Berryessa and Lake Tahoe with his family, boating, fishing, skiing, swimming, camping and hunting. He loved sports and played competitive softball throughout his adult life. He cherished his hunting trips with his best friends.

When Neil started his own family, he carried on his love for all these things and shared them with his children, Keith and Nichole and then later with Brandyn, Justin and Desirae. Neil had multiple families, those with his parents & siblings, his first and second marriages, his friends and his famous "lunch crew." He was a genuine animal lover especially his dogs Zeus, Zina and Zoey.

Neil was a "get it done" kind of guy and if it wasn't perfect the first time, he' d do it again until it was. Neil went after what he wanted. He was a calculated risk-taker and determined force to reckon with. His determination was matched only to his loyalty to his closest friends and family. To be in his circle was gift. If you knew him, you knew how kind, thoughtful and responsible he was to those he cared for.

Neil is survived by his sister, Paula Dunn of Napa, Lisa Blackwood of Napa, D'Nyse Chisholm of Napa, his children, Keith Murdock, Nichole Murdock, Brandyn Duncan, Justin Duncan & Desirae Luna. His nephews, Donny Schafer, Jared Dunn, Kenny Schafer, Joel Dunn. His grandchildren, Keira, Kennedy, Maverick Neil Murdock and Olivia Miller. He was Papa Neil to Sophia, Kadence and Olivia Duncan. He was predeceased by his parents, Marvin and Dorothy Schafer, his brother, Wayne Schafer, nephew Jason Dunn and close friend Dave Hulbert.

There will be a Viewing at Tulocay Cemetery on Friday, April 8, 2022, between 12 pm and 5 pm. His Celebration of Life Memorial date and time will be posted on social media.

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James Jim Norman - February 09, 1948 - March 22, 2022

Departed: 03/22/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: James “Jim” Norman passed away in Sacramento, CA on March 22, 2022 at the age of 74 after a battle with liver cancer.

Jim was born on February 9, 1948 in San Francisco, CA to Eleanor and James Norman. He attended grammar school at Epiphany in San Francisco, high school at St. Joseph’s Seminary in Mountain View, and graduated college in 1970 with a degree in Humanity from St. Patrick’s Seminary in Menlo Park.  Jim married Susan Madruga in 1971.  Their family grew as they welcomed three daughters, Carolyn “Carrie”, Lisa and Laura Norman.  Jim began working for the City of San Jose in late 1971 in the Parks & Recreation Department where he held various leadership positions for over 30 years.  After San Jose, Jim's lifelong career within public works led him to positions in Henderson, NV and Gilbert, AZ.

Over the years, Jim was involved with his family in both church and 4-H.  He enjoyed playing guitar and competed in several marathons.  He could tell a good story, as well as a good joke.

Jim is survived by his daughter, Carolyn “Carrie” Peterson (Robbin); his daughter Lisa Payton (Brian); his daughter Laura Hinton (Jay); his brother Terrance Stretch (Cecile); his brother Timothy Norman (Barbara); grandchildren Seth Peterson, Sarah Peterson, Nathan Payton, Victoria Payton, Isaiah Payton, Rider Payton and Amy Hinton and many nieces and nephews.

Jim’s wishes were to be cremated and honored in a private ceremony with his three daughters.

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Mary Elizabeth Carden - November 04, 1950 - March 21, 2022

Departed: 03/21/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Mary Elizabeth Carden was born in Napa, California on November 4, 1950. Liz loved her family and friends deeply; from Alaska to Alabama, they cherished her laughter and spirit. She was exceedingly generous and loyal to those she loved. She made countless sacrifices for anyone who needed her. Her favorite things were lemons, watermelons, fresh garden tomatoes, baseball and her grandsons. You could always find her in the front row at her grandsons' sporting events. Her four grandsons brought her the greatest joy. She was their number one fan.

Liz graduated from Napa High in 1968. After graduation she worked as a nurse's aid for 10 years. Many in the community would agree that Liz spent her life caring for anyone who needed her. Liz made a big impact as the site supervisor at The Samaritan Family Shelter for 15 years. Through those years she helped countless families get back on their feet. She forged lifelong relationships with many of the families who lovingly referred to her as "Mother Mary". After retiring from CANV, she worked for Black Tie Taxi and loved meeting people from all around the country.

Those who loved her will always remember her warmness and infectious laughter. She will be greatly missed.

Liz is survived by her sister Kathy Beemer, her daughter Melissa Ortega, Raul Ortega (Husband), son Brandon Abernathy, grandsons Raul and Gabriel Ortega, Austin and Jordan Abernathy, great grandsons Clayton and Sawyer Abernathy, her nieces and great nieces. She is preceded in death by her father Oscar Thomas Carden and mother Jimmy Nell Carden.

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Francine Clemons - July 15, 1938 - March 19, 2022

Departed: 03/19/2022 (Napa)

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David Schreiner - November 15, 1958 - March 17, 2022

Departed: 03/17/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: David Wayne Schreiner, 63, of Antelope, California, went to heaven on March 17, 2022. Born November 15, 1958, at Kaiser Hospital in Vallejo, California, David was the oldest of Ronald and Florence Schreiner’s four children. David grew up in Napa, California. He attended Pueblo Vista Elementary School, Redwood Jr. High, and Vintage High, graduating in 1976. At a young age, David was enthusiastic about doing yard work around the house. While in high school, he worked part-time at Hagedorn’s Christmas Tree Farm. At Vintage, he took many elective courses in Ornamental Horticulture, taught by Mr. Ralph Early. His senior year in high school he started working at Van Winden’s Nursery. David continued studying Ornamental Horticulture at Napa Jr. College, where he earned his A.A. Degree. After college he worked at Payless Garden Center in Vallejo then moved on to Sonoda Nursery in Sacramento. After that he began his career as a sales representative for Patio Products and most recently at Central Garden and Pet. David married Susan Fuller in 1984 and they settled in the Sacramento area. Their son, Chad, was born in 1986, followed by daughter, Chelsea, in 1988. David and Susan divorced in 1999. David married Tedi Riggs in 2007. They divorced in 2014. David remained friends with both Susan and Tedi. David enjoyed baseball and many other sports. He was an excellent tennis and ping pong player. David was a well known youth soccer coach and mentor for Antelope AYSO and touched many young lives through his coaching. He coached his son Chad’s soccer teams for many years and has been coaching his grandson Benjamin’s soccer teams these past few years. David’s children and grandson were his pride and joy. David loved working in his beautiful yard and garden, and hosting family and neighborhood gatherings. He enjoyed traveling, attending sporting events, and spending time with family and friends. David was very thoughtful, considerate, and generous. He was always there when you needed him. He was quick to volunteer to help a friend or family member. David left us suddenly and way too young. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. David is survived by his son Chad Schreiner, daughter Chelsea Schreiner, and grandson Benjamin, all of Antelope, California; brothers Paul Schreiner (Suzanne) of Lodi, Mark Schreiner (Kim) of Napa, and sister Marci Wetterlund (John) of Fairfield; many cousins, nieces and nephews. David was preceded in death by his parents, Ronald and Florence Schreiner. A memorial service is scheduled for Thursday, April 21st at 1:00 pm, at the Tulocay Cemetery Chapel, 411 Coombsville Rd. in Napa, with a reception to follow.

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Carolyn Spence - September 09, 1937 - March 16, 2022

Departed: 03/16/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Carolyn Spence passed away at the Queen of the Valley Hospital on March 16th in Napa, California at the age of 84. Carolyn was born in Crescent City, California to Robert and Alice Lutz. She grew up in Placerville, California. She graduated from San Francisco State College and one of her favorite times was her junior year abroad in Lebanon. While at college she roomed with her lifelong friend, Sue Haug, who she shared many adventures and laughs over the next 65 years.

She married Will Spence after they re-met on the N streetcar in San Francisco. They had met previously at a church group at San Francisco State College which they both attended. Three months later, Will proposed and they began their 62-year marriage. They had 6 children and 6 grandchildren. Carolyn raised her 6 kids and then worked as a teaching aide at Bel Aire Elementary School for 20 years. One of her legacies is the 30 years that she volunteer coordinated The Table that fed thousands of needy people in Napa. She was also an active member and leader at the First Presbyterian Church of Napa, the United Presbyterian Women, and long-term member of the Napa Quilter's Guild.

She is survived by her husband, Will and 5 children; Alan (Kristen), Paul (Lynn), Katie (Steve), Tom (Becky), and Debbie. She was pre-deceased by daughter Linda.

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Donald William Heatherington - December 10, 1930 - March 16, 2022

Departed: 03/16/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Donald William Heatherington "Don Heatherington", of Napa Valley, passed away peacefully on March 16th, with family at his bedside.

Don was born in Alberta, Canada on December 10, 1930. He graduated from Camrose Lutheran College.

May of 1953 Don married the love of his life, Audrey Kinsel who preceded him in death in April of 2018.

Don is survived by his two children, Dean Heatherington (Beverley) and Kim Randick (Kevin). He is also survived by grandchildren, Donald and Courtney Heatherington and Katherine and William Randick. Surviving siblings are Doreen Rude and Gordon Heatherington. He also leaves behind many cousins, nieces, and nephews.

Don had a successful career in Financial Planning that took him and Audrey from Calgary to Hartford, then Toronto, and finally the Bay Area.

Don was an avid and accomplished golfer. Members of Silverado Country Club referred to him as "The Iron Man", playing over 200 rounds of golf a year. He was a member of many clubs and organizations including Silverado Country Club, Olympic Club, and the World Trade Club.

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Phyllis Fleming - March 16, 1934 - March 16, 2022

Departed: 03/16/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Phyllis Fleming passed away on March 16, 2022, the day of her 88th birthday. Phyllis was born on March 16, 1934 in Vallejo, CA. She met her husband, Matt, there and they married in 1951 Phyllis was the dedicated wife, and mother of three children, grandmother of five, and great grandmother of 6. She spent her younger years leading women's home Bible studies, and was always active at her Church, Creekside Community.

In the early 1970's, Phyllis went to work at the Valley Bible and Book store in Napa, eventually becoming store manager there. She retired after twenty-five years at Valley Bible, and continued to be actively involved in the church as choir director and Sunday School teacher.

Phyllis was a voracious reader and a prolific writer of poetry. Always the dedicated prayer warrior, she spent her life encouraging those around her. She was a tremendous blessing to all who met her, and we truly rejoice in her going home to her heavenly Father.

Family members joined in a private graveside ceremony in celebration of Phyllis' life on March 26. We wish to express our most sincere gratitude to those at Stayman Estates and Anchor Hospice for the remarkable love and care they provided for Phyllis in the past months. Donations in Phyllis' name may be made to: Expressions of Hope 2303 Trower Ave Napa, CA 94558

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Kevin Don Johnson - May 24, 1970 - March 10, 2022

Departed: 03/10/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Kevin Don Johnson, 51, of Napa, California passed away peacefully on March 10, 2022. Kevin passed from this life to start a new adventure after a well fought battle of an aggressive cancer for over a year.

Kevin was born on May 24, 1970 in Napa, California to Ray Johnson and Catherine Jessup. He was raised in Napa where he attended elementary, junior high, and high school. Kevin worked 25 plus years as a Commercial/Residential Painter in Napa and surrounding counties. He enjoyed the outdoors, and fishing was a favorite activity. Other hobbies Kevin loved include going to see NASCAR and watching wrestling from his favorite recliner at home.

Kevin is survived by his father, Ray; brothers, Brian, Troy, Rick, and sister, Tammy; son, Devon Johnson and daughter, Rachelle, 2 grandchildren; several nephews and nieces. He was preceded in death by his mother, Catherine, and grandparents.

A Memorial Service will be held on Monday, April 11 at 11:00am. Tulocay Cemetery, 411 Coombsville Rd., Napa, CA.

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John Dunlap - September 11, 1922 - March 07, 2022

Departed: 03/07/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Former Sen. John Dunlap, a champion of progressive causes, died on Monday, March 7 with his loving wife Mary Lu and his children by his side. He was 99 years old. John's life spanned 100 years in the history of the Napa Valley and the State of California. The roots of his family extend back to the founding of the town of Napa, wrapping John in a web of family and community history celebrated with gatherings for all occasions. He initiated or joined in family picnics, Lion's Club breakfasts, trips to the mountains, and, of course, fourth of July picnics at the Fitches' with flag football and homemade peach ice cream.

He was the youngest of the four sons of Amy Coombs and Harry Dunlap, raised on the family's prune ranch in Yountville. He graduated from Napa High School in 1940, enrolled at the University of California at Berkeley, and after four years in the Army during World War II, graduated from the UC in 1946, going on to Law School.

He would meet a girl from Pennsylvania, Janet Jack, traveling by train when returning to his Southern California Army base after a weekend visit with his parents in Napa. He offered her the window seat. They would talk through the night, and before they parted ways, he asked for her phone number.

After a Pennsylvania wedding, the couple briefly lived in San Francisco before settling in Napa where John joined the family law firm, Coombs and Dunlap. Over the late 1940s, 50s, 60s, and 70s John and Janet raised children and Cain together.

John was an energetic and fun father, friend, and community leader. Once the Viet Nam war drew his attention, though, his serious moral bearing rose to the top as he (to give one example) spoke out against the war at a public rally. His public speaking was part of his service work as he represented North Bay counties in the state Assembly from 1967 to 1974 and in the state Senate from 1974 to 1978. His service in the legislature was in keeping with family tradition, though he was a Democrat, while his great- grandfather, grandfather and uncle were all Republican lawmakers.

In the state Legislature, Dunlap led the fight to protect the California coastline. He authored the bill that created the California Agricultural Labor Relation Board. He carried legislation to ban the use of aerosols that were blamed for the depletion of ozone layer in the atmosphere. And he was a prime mover in the campaign to compel state government to stop investing in companies with business ties to South Africa, where the then-apartheid government denied rights to the black majority.

While John led with his politics, his deep interest in people enabled him to build relations of significance. Janet steered him in both through her love of psychology. After many years of marriage Janet died in 2007.

John met Mary Lu Kennelly in a bereavement class they joined after the deaths of their spouses in 2007. They were married in 2016. "I didn't know it could be this wonderful twice," John would later say.

Since John and Mary Lu shared a passion for progressive politics, it was only fitting that their honeymoon included a tour of the Obama White House. The honeymooners were honored at a family dinner and sat courtside at a Washington Mystics basketball game. Mary Lu's nephew coaches the WNBA team in Washington.

They also traveled to Holland, Belgium, Cuba, Alaska, Argentina, Brazil, Chile, New York, Boston, Quebec and Montreal, as well as to the annual Shakespeare festival in Ashland, Oregon. And, when home, they like to read aloud to one another. Dunlap was an avid bocce player. He and Mary Lu were active members of the Napa Valley Unitarian Universalists. Mary Lu was grateful to have spent the last 14 years with John. In an op-ed in his hometown newspaper, Dunlap - then age 97 - remembered high school friends and the contributions they made to their state and to their town. He also spoke to the Napa Historical Society about his family's place in the history of the county.

In addition to his wife, Mary Lu, John is survived by four children, Jane Dunlap of St. Paul, Minn., Peter Dunlap of Petaluma, David Dunlap of Napa and Jill Dunlap Golis of Santa Rosa. He is also survived by his daughter-in-law Margaret Dunlap of Petaluma and his son-in-law Pete Golis of Santa Rosa; by five grandchildren - Lauren Dunlap of Santa Monica and Trask Dunlap of Berkeley, Christopher Golis of San Francisco, Andrew Golis of Brooklyn, N.Y. and Leslie Truex of Charlottesville, Va. - and by five great-grandchildren.

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Mary Laura Bettencourt - April 14, 1931 - March 07, 2022

Departed: 03/07/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Mary Laura Bettencourt died peacefully on March 7 surrounded by her family. She was 90. A native of Napa, Mary Murray attended St. John the Baptist Catholic School and graduated from Napa High in 1949. On July 27th, 1952 she married the love of her life, Nelson Bettencourt, Jr. Mary and Nelson were the proud parents of 5 children, 11 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren.

Mary's life can be summed up quite simply: a genuinely wonderful person, great mother, loving Grammie and caring friend to many people who always found her sweet, warm, and gentle. She was an active parishioner at St. John's Catholic Church, an avid volunteer, and was more fond of collecting cookbooks than cooking. Mary carpooled a good portion of the neighborhood to school prompting a teacher to say, "When the Bettencourt kids are late, half the school is late." But, it was family that was the centerpiece of Mary's life and while she will be missed, her spirit and sense of humor will continue to guide all of us who knew her.

Mary is pre-deceased by her husband Nelson, brothers Richard and Terry Murray, and grandson Owen Euser.

She is survived by her sister, Anne Goodsell. She also leaves behind her children Valerie Grinsell (Mark), Nelson Bettencourt III (Darlene), Michela Euser (Andy), Katie Batt (Richard) and Caroline Gerlomes (Jeff); grandchildren Wood and Zuleika Grinsell, Amber Bettencourt, Brianna Larson (Roger), Anneka Meza (Este), Cecilie Euser, Br. Philip Neri Gerlomes, OP, Mary Keown (Tom), and Robert and Emily Batt; great-grandchildren Gino and Dominic Larson, and August Grinsell.

A Rosary will be held on Tuesday, March 15 at 7:00 PM at Tulocay Funeral Home in Napa. A Funeral Mass will be held at St. John The Baptist Catholic Church in Napa on Wednesday, March 16 at 10:00 AM followed by a reception at Tulocay.

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James Alton Wilson - June 27, 1944 - March 06, 2022

Departed: 03/06/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: James Alton Wilson was born to Alton and Martha Wilson on June 27, 1944 in Bakersfield California. At the age of seventy seven Jim passed away peacefully in his home in Napa California on March 6, 2022.

Jim is survived by his wife Bobby Wilson, daughter Wendy (Wilson) Mitchell (John), son Tim Wilson, granddaughter Jamie (Wilson) Polley, (George IV); grandson Bo Wilson (Denae), Kelsey Gloeckner, great grandchildren Shelby Polley, Riley Wilson, Fallon Polley, Allie Wilson, sister-in-law Patt (Burnsed) Bettinelli (Charlie), nieces and nephews Erin Wilson, Alfreda (Bettinelli) Vasquez (Mike), Therese (Bettinelli) Calvelo (the late Gregory), and Dominic Bettinelli (Erin).

Jim is predeceased by by his father Alton Wilson, mother Martha Wilson, brother Don Wilson, and nephew Charles Bettinelli, Jr.

Jim is a graduate of Napa High School in 1963 and attended Napa Jr College.

Jim worked at Basalt Rock Company for thirteen years before opening Wilson Feed and Supply in 1976.

Jim was active with the 4-H and FFA livestock committee for many years. His interest in the kids and their projects was a great joy for him.

Jim enjoyed fishing trips to Mexico and Alaska, scuba diving trips all around the Caribbean and Bali, and his motor cycle road trips with his buddies. He enjoyed hunting trips for birds and deer and squeaks.

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Gerald Dean Tidwell - August 15, 1940 - March 02, 2022

Departed: 03/02/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Gerald Dean Tidwell passed away peacefully at the Queen of the Valley Hospital in Napa, CA on March 2, 2022 at the age of 81.Gerald was born on August 15, 1940 in Corpus Christi, TX to the late Issac and Rena Tidwell. He graduated from Deer Creek High School in Edmond, OK in 1958. He married Phyllis Marie Sparks, his high school sweetheart, in 1958. In 1964, Gerald and Phyllis moved to Napa, CA. Gerald began working for Bill Maher & Sons Construction Company as a heavy equipment operator. Gerald was a loving husband and father and enjoyed spending countless hours with his grandchildren. He enjoyed fishing, hunting, and reading western novels. Throughout the years Gerald was a true animal lover and cared for many animals ranging from dogs and cats, to even birds and a ferret.  Those that knew Gerald, knew how generous he was with his time and resources for all of his friends, family and those in need. Gerald is survived by his wife Phyllis of 63 years; daughters: Corena Calderon and her husband Ezequiel of American Canyon, CA, Mary Morgan and her husband Shawn of Redbluff, CA, and Cheryl McCormick and her husband James of Corning, CA; grandchildren: Rita Dougherty, James McCormick, Tyler McCormick, Sandra Calderon, Eric Calderon, Kara McCormick, Caitlyn Morgan, and Kylee McCormick; as well as many great-grandchildren, nieces, and nephews. Gerald will be deeply missed by Rowdy, his beloved Dachshund, who laid by his side until his very last day. A service to celebrate Gerald’s life will be held at Tulocay Cemetery in Napa on Friday, March 18, 2022.  The viewing is scheduled from 9-11AM, followed by the service officiated by Wesley Sparks, Gerald’s nephew, and concluding with a reception.

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Cynthia Cyndee Donovan - January 02, 1964 - February 22, 2022

Departed: 02/22/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Cynthia Donovan, more fondly known as Cyndee, age 58, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, February 22nd, 2022, at the Queen of the Valley hospital in Napa, CA after an eight-year battle with breast cancer.

She was born in San Bernardino, CA on January 2nd, 1964, to Diane Gentry and Don Donovan. She moved to Napa at a young age and graduated in 1982 from Napa High School. Cyndee truly lived an exciting life and enjoyed the simple pleasures of gardening, baking, and spending time with her family. She had an ability to reach people in a deep and intense way and was never afraid to speak her mind.

Cyndee will join her sister Karen Lehmann in Heaven and will be survived on Earth by many – Her son Kyle Wanninger and his fiancé Stephanie, daughters Isabelle and Lauren Webster and their father Harold Webster. Cyndee's mother and stepfather, Diane and Tim Gentry. Her father Don Donovan, her sister Julie (James) Stewart and her Sister Megan Gentry. Her nieces and nephews, Cameron, Olivia, Jessica, and Jake.

Family, friends, and others whose lives Cyndee touched are invited to Tulocay Cemetery 411 Coombsville Road, Napa, at 2:00 pm on Tuesday, March 29th, 2022 to reminisce, grieve and most importantly, celebrate Cyndee's life.

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Barbara Jean Bambula Cordell - February 17, 1945 - February 21, 2022

Departed: 02/21/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Jean Carriger Bambula Cordell passed away February 21, 2022 in her home in Napa, CA with family beside her, shortly after her 77th birthday.

Barbara was born in Oakland, CA on February 17, 1945 to her parents Gerald Emerson Carriger and Dianne May McHugh family of (5) Barbara, Raymond, Wayne, Brenda and Bobby Carriger. The family moved to Richmond, CA where she went to Portola Jr. High School, then moved to Sacramento where she attended Sacramento High School. She was a second mom to her siblings, helping with cooking a cleaning while her mother worked.

Barbara met Johnny Robert Bambula and eloped at the age of 17. She then had Ronnie, Donna, Linda and Jerry Bambula. Barbara went to work for the County of Sacramento for 25 years. She met her second husband, Bobby Cordell, they were married for 32 years. Bobby passed away in 2013.

Barbara was diagnosed with frontotemporal/dementia sometime in 2014. She moved into and adult senior living and then to Orangevale Assisted Living.

Barbara moved in with her son Ron and wife Eileen Bambula as of March 2019. Barbara enjoyed Napa City Nights downtown, listening to concerts on Friday nights and having a glass of wine. She also went to Kennedy Golf Course to listen to local bands play music while having dinner with friends and family.

Barbara enjoyed cruising on the Pontoon boat wearing her big hats and sunglasses to keep the sun out of her beautiful blue eyes. Barbara enjoyed our family lake house on the water, watching fish, pelicans, cranes, herons, mallards, river otters and turtles swimming and others from our back patio deck overlooking the water as a family friend played the harmonica or violin. She was always full of smiles and laughed a lot.

Barbara enjoyed going to the Fathers House and Community Crosswalk for church and loved singing. During Covid times she listened to Joel Olsteen. I would like to add Barbara’s last month of enjoyment with her four children was sleep overs at our family lake house sharing many stories of her kids childhood and her motherhood adventures.

Barbara’s hobbies were gardening, crocheting, board games, reading, sewing, having dinners and playing cards with family and friends. She enjoyed dressing up and going out and always looking good. She never forgot occasions and had a card to send for any occasion. She liked playing pranks and having water fights and bringing the water hose in the house.

She will be missed by all family and friends. We will forever keep her memories alive and in our hearts.

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Michael Patrick Burke - August 05, 1953 - February 20, 2022

Departed: 02/20/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Mike was born in the Bronx NY on August 5 1953. He grew up in Paramus NJ, the second oldest of nine children. He moved to Napa CA in 1981 with his wife Barbara. After their divorce in 1993 they raised two sons Jesse and Jake, who both reside in Napa.

Along with his sons he leaves behind a granddaughter Kaitlyn and numerous brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents with whom he will be buried in Paramus NJ. He will be missed by his family and many friends.

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Vera Mae Hanson - March 11, 1931 - February 20, 2022

Departed: 02/20/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Vera Mae Marsh Hanson was born March 11, 1931 in Michigan. She was a vibrant person always in forward motion, eternally optimistic, and she loved to laugh. From her experiences of being raised during the Great Depression, Vera Mae embraced a life of service in helping others. She loved to tell stories of her childhood and preserved these stories in a book she wrote for her children and grandchildren which are cherished by her family. A lifelong Seventh-day Adventist she often expressed her love of keeping the Sabbath.

A good student, Vera Mae achieved both a bachelors and masters degree and became a dietician, graduating from Andrews University.

She then completed her dietetics residency via Loma Linda University at the White Memorial Hospital in Southern California. During Vera Mae's time there, she met the man she' d marry, Grayson Hanson, while ice skating with a church group. He spotted her from across the ice and the rest was history. To every date he brought a single rose which captured her heart. They married in 1957.

Family was Vera Mae's desire and focus and she and Grayson had 4 children. She loved being a mother. The family moved to the Napa Valley in 1971 and she and Grayson settled on acreage in the Oak Knoll appellation where they fulfilled the desire for their children to have a rural upbringing. She, Grayson, and their children built their own home on the property and a side business, the Berry Patch, growing/selling red raspberries and boysenberries locally.

Vera Mae had a successful career as a corporate dietician first managing the food service division for a chain of nursing homes. The last ten years of her working life she managed the school food service for the Santa Rosa School District. She received an award from the Department of Agriculture for her prescient work. A passionate volunteer, she also received awards both locally by the Napa Chamber of Commerce and nationally via President George Bush Senior's Daily Points of Light Program for: "her dedication to helping others." She and Grayson also went on many mission trips to build schools and churches with Maranatha Volunteers International.

Vera Mae was a devoted Grandma, she and her grandchildren have many shared memories of baking Christmas cookies and sweet rolls, and traveling together both outside and in the U.S.

Always active, Vera Mae notably climbed Mt. Whitney twice, ran/walked the Bay to Breakers several times, took countless exercise and dance classes, and was an avid walker trekking 2 to 3 miles a day until she was in her late eighties.

Her life and retirement were filled with music - playing the violin and piano and singing in choirs in her youth as well as later in life playing in the Napa Seventh-day Adventist Church orchestra and singing in the choir. Always desiring to learn she took courses in language, tole and doll painting, and quilting. Her quilting works of art will always be treasured by her family.

Vera Mae is survived by her husband Grayson, 4 children: sons Dean and David and their wives Debbie and Jill, her son Donald, daughter Susan and her husband Leif Kirschenbaum, her nephew Dennis Hunt and his wife Heller, and grandchildren Eli, Eva, Tess, Eric, Grayson, James, Olivia, and was predeceased by granddaughter Echo.

Vera Mae will be missed by her beloved family, friends, church family, and Napa community. A private family graveside service was held March 4, 2022 and a life celebration/memorial service is being planned for a later date at the Napa Seventh-day Adventist Church.

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Jean Marino - February 16, 1927 - February 20, 2022

Departed: 02/20/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Jean Marino passed away peacefully in the early morning hours of February 20, 2022, with her daughter by her side. She recently celebrated her 95th birthday with video calls from her beloved grandsons Jason and Brett, this was a highlight of her day.

Jean was born in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania on February 16, 1927 to James Brogan and Genevieve Marcoux. Jean and her mother relocated to the Los Angeles area in 1931.

During the latter part of World War II, Jean was employed at the Naval Supply Depot in San Pedro, CA.

Jean met the love of her life Donald Marino in January of 1947. This handsome young sailor came waltzing into the skating rink and swept her off her feet. They were married in Las Vegas, NV on April 12, 1947 and shared a wonderful 68 years together. During her husband's extended military service (USAF Ret) they lived throughout the United States, including 2 years in Japan.

After arriving in Napa in 1959, Jean started as a volunteer at St. Apollinaris Catholic School, later becoming the school secretary until retiring in June of 1983.

To Jean's surprise in March of 1983 she was honored as the "Secretary Of The Year" by Grolier Educational Services at the National Catholic Education Association Convention in Washington, D.C. Sr. Mary Corcoran S.M., then Principal at St. Apollinaris wrote a letter to Grolier nominating Jean for this honor. An all expense paid trip was presented to her and Sr. Mary with Don in attendance too.

In 1987 with encouragement and support of her friend Ann Schill (deceased) they opened the Religious Gift Shop at the Carmelite House of Prayer in Oakville.

Jean is proceeded in death by her beloved husband Don and son Paul Marino. She will be deeply missed by her family; son, Mike Marino; daughter, Jeanne Stall; grandson's, Jason Stall (Brianne); Brett Marino (Tim) and her great-grandson, Kord Stall.

The family wishes to thank Collabria Hospice for their compassion and care for the past 2 years.

A memorial service will be held at Tulocay Mortuary in Napa CA on April 4, 2022 at 11:00 am with a reception to follow in the Reception Room.

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John H Duser - February 06, 1932 - February 18, 2022

Departed: 02/18/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: John H. Duser passed away peacefully at the age of 90 on February 18, 2022 after a brief illness. "Johann" was born February 6, 1932, to Wilhelm and Alma (Mangels) Duser in Oldenburg, Germany. After achieving his apprenticeship in painting and paper hanging he came to the U.S. in 1954 under the sponsorship of his uncle, Henry Duser. In 1955 his fiancé, Hannelore Vahlenkamp, arrived from Germany and they were married. After serving 2 years in United States Army, including being stationed in Anchorage, Alaska, they returned to Napa in 1958 where they welcomed their first daughter, Linda, followed by Ingrid in 1961.

John established his painting and decorating business in 1958 and became known for his high quality, perfectionist work that beautified every corner of the valley until his retirement in 1997. John was a member of service organizations including Active 20/30 Club, E Clampus Vitus, and most recently the North Napa Rotary Club of which he was a charter and lifetime member. His service contributions touched many causes and people, notably the restoration of the Old Bale Mill, driving cancer patients to chemo treatments, volunteering with the Veterans Home in Yountville, and conducting trash clean up on Highway 29 in north Napa.

John loved to travel and, alongside Lore, they explored the U.S. by car, towing their travel trailer to many coveted locations in the western states. They loved sharing their city and state with visiting German family and traveled to Germany to visit family and to attend class reunions. They were able to visit each of their grandchildren in their college cities and attended many graduation, birthday, and wedding events and enjoyed nothing more than gathering with family for any occasion or none at all. John was a loving "Opa", prolific gardener, avid reader, and a quiet and contemplative gentleman. He will be sorely missed by his family and community.

John was preceded in death by his parents and sister, Hanna. He is survived by his wife of nearly 67 years, Lore; daughters Linda (Randy Harrell), Ingrid (Scot Strotman); grandchildren Ashley Harrell, Travis Harrell (JD Bergeron), Kyle (Amy) Harrell, Hannah Strotman, Drew Strotman; and great-granddaughter Harper Harrell. He is also survived by his sister Helga Bartsch (Reinhard) of Wahnbek, Germany.

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Garry L Waggoner - January 02, 1950 - February 18, 2022

Departed: 02/18/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Garry Waggoner passed away peacefully with his wife and children by his side on Feb. 18, 2022. The Napa native was born on January 2, 1950 in San Francisco. He attended Lincoln Elementary, Silverado Junior High, Napa High (Class of 1968) and Napa College. He played football and participated in track and field in high school and college. He went into pest control after college and owned Big Foot Pest Control for over 20 years. He loved playing his guitar and singing at farmer's markets, private events and retirement homes. Garry was also an accomplished photographer, taking exceptional landscape photos throughout the Napa Valley.

Garry is survived by Gail, his beautiful bride of 31 years, his loving daughter Kara Vasquez (Joaquin), stepsons Alex Pereira (Stephanie), Ryan and Daniel Geohegan, and his five grandchildren Cameron, Brayden, Averi, Bruce and Daniel. His Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.

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Sarah Dunlap Galbraith - February 20, 1941 - February 17, 2022

Departed: 02/17/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Sarah Dunlap Galbraith, a homemaker with a brilliant analytical mind and deep love for her family, died peacefully of biliary tract cancer at her home in St. Helena, CA on February 17, 2022.

Born in 1941 to David Coombs Dunlap and Elizabeth Farrell Dunlap, Sarah grew up in the Bay Area.  She loved reading and excelled at school, even after a serious case of polio that left her with a permanently weakened back.  During part of World War II, she and her sisters lived in the Napa Valley, home to many of her Dunlap and Coombs relatives, and spent many holidays there afterwards.  Her family also took trips to the Sierra, which led Sarah to a lifelong love of the California mountains.

Sarah graduated from Berkeley High School in 1958.  After winning a National Merit Scholarship, she attended Radcliffe College in Cambridge, MA, graduating in 1962.  During her summers, she returned West to work as a cook for Sierra Club High Trips.  After college, she attended Harvard Law School, where she volunteered for the legal aid organization and was one of the few women in the class of 1965.

From 1965 to 1969, Sarah served as a law clerk for Justice Mathew Tobriner of the California Supreme Court.  In 1967, she started playing bridge with another young law clerk working for the Court, Alan Galbraith.  They married in 1969, and Sarah joined Alan in Washington DC, returning to California every year to visit and go camping in the Sierra with family and friends.

In Washington, Sarah raised her three children, tended to her eccentric border collie Socks, looked after her extended family, and built a community of friends.  She did not practice law, but her children grew up listening to her and Alan argue joyfully over all kinds of legal issues.  She taught her children to have integrity, to love books, to delight in mountains, to bake delicious cookies, and to express love through humor.  She was an expert puzzle-doer, writing early computer programs for fun on her Apple II Plus and filling in the New York Times crossword puzzle in a set order to keep it from being too easy.

In 2008, Sarah and Alan moved back to California, settling in St. Helena after Alan retired from the practice of law.  Sarah read countless books, did endless puzzles, and tried her best - unsuccessfully - to keep Alan from becoming too deeply mired in local government, even as they developed a strong network of friends in the Valley.  Together, they played bridge and cribbage, watched sporting events, enjoyed meals on the back porch, and delighted in each other’s surface foibles and deep affection.

Sarah made many trips during her retirement to visit her children and grandchildren and took them on several hiking adventures in her beloved Sierra.  She had a special gift for understanding children and made each grandchild feel special.  During the pandemic, she kept little Alan well-stocked with Legos; played online bridge every week with Ben and little Sarah; listened with delight to the preschool exploits of Ken; taught Bryce the names of all the counties of California; and read books over FaceTime every day to Kate and Noor until just two weeks before her death.  She was brave and uncomplaining in the year following her cancer diagnosis, passing away just days before her eighty-first birthday.

Sarah is survived by her husband Alan; her three children David, Katie, and Jean and their spouses Alyce, Adam, and Jeremy; her seven grandchildren Ben, Sarah, Kate, Alan, Noor, Ken, and Bryce; and her sister Louise.

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Anastacio Nick Marquez - April 23, 1960 - February 17, 2022

Departed: 02/17/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: Anastacio "Nick" Marquez passed away on February 17, 2022 at the young age of 61 from complications due to COVID-19 despite being vaccinated and boosted.

Nick was born at St. Mary's Hospital in San Francisco on April 23, 1960. The family moved to American Canyon in 1963 where he remained for 58 years. He graduated from Vintage High School in 1979.

While still in High School Nick got his first job picking up papers at the local landfill. That job turned into a 40-year career and he retired as a supervisor from Recology in 2019. After he retired, he became a part time volunteer with Rebuilding Solano. While working for Recology in the early days, he was also served a reserve fire fighter in American Canyon for fifteen years. His Captain at the time, Keith Caldwell, wrote that "Nick was dedicated to his community, and was one of our best Reserve Firefighters and he was honored on several occasions as Firefighter of the Year. Not only did he serve American Canyon but often responded on strike teams throughout the state."

He was proud of all of his children and the adults that they have become. Nick's children were his life, they are: Theresa (Christopher Bennett), Cameron (Maddy Heisler), and Corinne. He also left behind his best friend, Susan Slater, his father, Nick Sr., his brother Robert (Kristy), his sister Maria Cleary and many nieces, nephews, and cousins who were close to his heart. He is predeceased by his mother Sharon and brother Rick. We will be having a Celebration of Nick's life on Friday evening March 11th at the Vallejo Senior Center located at 333 Amador St. Vallejo from 5pm to 8pm. Please RSVP to nickscelebration2022@gmail.com

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John Francis Tognetti - April 04, 1917 - February 16, 2022

Departed: 02/16/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: John Francis Tognetti passed away peacefully as he slept on February 16, 2022 at the age of 104 at his home in Napa surrounded by family members.

Jack was born in San Francisco on April 4, 1917 to Mary and Joseph Tognetti. They had two children, Jack and Bill. His formative years were spent in San Francisco. He spent his summers in Watsonville at his grandfathers ranch. It was there that he developed an interest in agriculture. He enrolled at UC Davis in 1937 and graduated with a degree from the College of Agriculture.

Upon graduating, Jack worked for American President Lines. As WWII began APL was taken over by the US Military, the cargo ships were used to transport troops. He became the Finance Officer on various troop ships. After the war ended Jack continued to work for APL. His job as Managing Director took him and his family to Hong Kong for several years. Upon retirement after 47 years, in 1987, Jack began his career as a full-time farmer at the age of 70. He planted Chardonnay grapes at his ranch in Carneros, Aloise Francisco Vineyards.

Jack was married to Camille in 1942, they met in grammar school. Together they had four children, Tom (Diane), Dan (Brenda), Cris (Ken) and Bob (Wendy). They had nine grandchildren, twelve great grandchildren and 2 great great grandchildren. They were married for over 72 years.

Jack is preceded in death by his wife Camille, and his brother Bill. His memorial will take place on March 7 at Tulocay in Napa, beginning with a viewing at 9:00am, followed by a service at 10:00am and reception. Please join us as we raise a glass in celebration of Jack and a life well lived.

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JessieAnne Goldberg - October 07, 1951 - February 12, 2022

Departed: 02/12/2022 (Napa)

Obituary Preview: JessieAnne Goldberg passed away on the morning of February 12th in the loving arms of her three children and husband, Ron. She fought a courageous battle with cancer for a year and a half. She was preceded in death by her parents, William and Agnes Kuhnen, and her brother Bill, and is survived by Ron, daughters Samantha (Tom) and Lyndsey (Jimmy), son Paul (Lia), sisters Suzie, Judy, Janie, Jill, Jean, and numerous grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Jessie was born and raised in Orland, California. After graduating from Orland High School she enrolled at Santa Rosa Junior College. It was there that Ron spotted this beautiful girl when they shared the same geology class. When it was time to pair up for the once a week lab, Ron made his move. They became not only lab partners but, after long-distance dating for two years (Jessie had transferred to Chico State and Ron had transferred to Long Beach State), partners in life when they married on January 28, 1972. No doubt because their relationship formed in a geology class, their love rocked for the next 50 years.

Jessie and Ron lived in Long Beach for two years while Ron completed college and then made their home in Napa for the next 48. Jessie worked in various secretarial and administrative roles over the years, at the Napa Chamber of Commerce, the Napa Town and Country Fair, and the Napa Valley Unified School District. But the most important role to her was as mother, having taken time off work after each of her children were born, and being devoted to their care and well being for the rest of her life.

Jessie relished in simple moments: reading in the sun on her front porch, watching her favorite TV shows, walking the Alta Heights neighborhood with Ron, traveling by train across the country to visit with her daughters, meeting with her friends, and swimming with her grandchildren. Her greatest joy of all was spending time with Ron and her children and grandchildren (Kate, Julia, Jack, Jane, Lina, Marie, and John) at their Jonesville cabin in Lassen National Forest. Jessie created a family of love, generosity, and gratefulness. She was one true and gracious woman, and she will be missed. Indeed!

A celebration of Jessie's life is being planned for the spring. For information, email celebratejessieanne@gmail.com Donations in Jessie's name can be made to the Historic Jonesville Hotel Restoration and Preservation Fund, c/o Jonesville Cabin Owners Inc. PO Box 1950 Chico, CA 95927

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• Grief support groups for adults and children
• Seminar series on topics such as estate planning and bereavement
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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, achievements, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community. They provide an opportunity to honor the deceased person's life, share memories, and offer condolences to those who are grieving.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend writes an obituary, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, the deceased person may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their life achievements, military service, or charitable work.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Typically, it ranges from 100 to 500 words. Online obituaries may be longer and more detailed than those published in print.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed and personalized tribute to the deceased person's life.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and newspapers allow you to include one or more photos of the deceased person. This can help to make the obituary more personal and meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the newspaper or online platform directly for their submission guidelines and deadlines. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for publication.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, location, and length of the obituary. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to $1,000 or more for print publication.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately and with dignity. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life.

What if I don't want to include certain information in the obituary?

You have control over what information is included in the obituary. If there are certain details you prefer not to share publicly, you can omit them or ask a funeral home or obituary writer for guidance.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary can be a celebration of the person's life, including their personality quirks and humorous moments. Just be sure to keep it respectful and tasteful.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive issues or conflicts within the family, it's best to approach them with care and sensitivity. Consider consulting with other family members or a trusted advisor before finalizing the obituary.

What if I need to make corrections to an already-published obituary?

Contact the publication or online platform immediately to request corrections. They will guide you through their process for making changes.

Can I republish an obituary from another source?

If you want to republish an obituary from another source, such as a different newspaper or online platform, obtain permission from the original publisher first. You may also need to provide proof of copyright ownership or permission from the author.

How long are online obituaries typically kept available?

The duration that online obituaries remain available varies by platform. Some websites may keep them archived indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period (e.g., 6 months or 1 year).

Can I create a memorial website or page instead of an obituary?

Yes! Memorial websites or pages can be a beautiful way to honor your loved one's memory and share stories, photos, and memories with others. Many online platforms offer this service.

What if I'm not comfortable writing an obituary myself?

If you're struggling to write an obituary or need guidance, consider asking a funeral home or professional obituary writer for assistance. They can help you craft a fitting tribute to your loved one.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial contributions in an obituary?

Absolutely! Many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial contributions in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor your loved one's legacy.

How do I notify social media platforms about someone's passing?

Contact each social media platform directly to report the account holder's passing. They will guide you through their process for handling deceased users' accounts.

What if I need additional support or resources during this difficult time?

DON'T hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or professional counselors for emotional support. You can also contact local bereavement groups or organizations that provide resources for those coping with loss.

Can I reuse an existing obituary template or example?

You can use existing templates or examples as inspiration, but be sure to customize the content to fit your loved one's unique life story and personality. Avoid copying verbatim without permission from the original author.

How do I ensure that my loved one's legacy lives on after they're gone?

Celebrate their life by sharing stories, memories, and accomplishments with others. Consider creating a memorial fund, scholarship, or charity in their name to continue their impact beyond their passing.