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Introduction to Torbert Funeral Chapels - E. Lebanon Rd.

Torbert Funeral Chapels - E. Lebanon Rd. is a trusted and compassionate funeral home located in Dover, Delaware. With a long history of serving the community, this funeral home has established itself as a beacon of hope and support during difficult times. In this article, we will delve into the services and amenities offered by Torbert Funeral Chapels - E. Lebanon Rd., providing you with a comprehensive understanding of what they can do for you and your loved ones.

A Brief History of Torbert Funeral Chapels - E. Lebanon Rd.

Torbert Funeral Chapels - E. Lebanon Rd. has a rich history that dates back several decades. Founded on the principles of compassion, respect, and dignity, this funeral home has been dedicated to providing exceptional service to the families of Dover and surrounding areas. Over the years, they have built a reputation for being a trusted and reliable partner during times of grief, earning the trust and respect of the community they serve.

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Brenda Lee Long - August 10, 1959 - May 14, 2024

Departed: 05/14/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Brenda Lee Stevens Long of Frederica passed away on Tuesday, May 14, 2024. She was 64. Brenda was born on August 10, 1959 to the late Barbara and Ronald Stevens.

Brenda spent the entirety of her life living in Kent County. She was a kind and thoughtful woman and a great mom. She loved to shoot pool, which she taught to her sons. She loved spending her time at the beach, where she loved the salt and sand. While she was there, she loved to get salt water taffy.

In addition to her parents, Brenda is preceded in death by her husband, Guy Lewis Long; brothers, Ronald, and Larry Stevens; and sister, Ida Ranshaw.

Brenda is survived by her sons, John Frazee of Clayton, Luke Long of Frederica, Levi Long of Newark; brother, Brian Stevens of Goldsboro, MD; sister, Tracy Mackey of Boyertown, PA; and grandchildren, Kirsta, Byron, Luishen, and Hunter Long.

A memorial service will be held at 7pm on Thursday, May 23, 2024 at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Rt.10), Dover. A visitation will be held one hour prior.

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Jean C. Quillen - September 13, 1931 - May 09, 2024

Departed: 05/09/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: She was the fifth child born to Frank F. and Irene L. Carrow of Little Creek in September 1931. Jean graduated from Dover High School in 1949 and in January 1950 she married the love of her life Robert E. Quillen of Dover, a marriage that would last for 55 years until his death in 2005.

When her two sons were of school age, she went to work as the secretary for the Dover Chamber of Commerce. In 1962, she became the Assistant Librarian at South Dover Elementary School in Dover, retiring in 1987. In 1968, she became a member of the Ladies of the Elks, B.P.O.E 1903 in Dover. She enjoyed supporting the Lodge and its activities and the support they provided to the community of Dover.

Her greatest joy came when she became a grandmother spending time with granddaughters Veronica and Jamie; her joy increased when her great grandchildren came into her life, she love to dote over the grandbabies.

In addition to her parents, she is preceded in death by her husband Robert E. Quillen, Sr.; her sisters Francis C. Pyatt and Hester S. Carrow-Clark; brothers Edward F. Carrow, Warren F. Carrow, Sr., and Vernon L. Carrow.

She is survived by her sons Robert E. Quillen, Jr. of Dover, James L. Quillen of Magnolia and her brother Charles L. Carrow Sr. (Michele) of Smyrna. Her granddaughters Veronica L. Eastman (Michael) of Felton, Jamie L. Johnston of Kitchener Ontario Canada and Erin H. Kershaw, RN of Solebury, PA. Great grandsons Bradley H. and Jacob T. Jackson of Felton and great granddaughters Brooklyn C. and Peyton M. Eastman of Felton. She is also survived by several nieces and nephews.

Friends may call on Friday, May 17, 2024 between 12 and 1PM, at Torbert Funeral Chapel 1145 Lebanon Road, Dover. Services will follow at 1PM; burial will be in Sharon Hills Memorial Park, Dover.

Flowers are optional or contributions can be made to the American Diabetes Association of Delaware or the American Heart Association of Delaware.

For those unable to attend the funeral service there will be a livestream on www.torbertfuneral.com, it can be found under the “Upcoming Livestreams” tab and viewed by clicking on her name. Friends may call on Friday, May 17th 2024 between 12:00 and 1:00 at Torbert Funeral Chapel, 1145 Lebanon Road, Dover. Services will follow at1:00; burial will be at

Sharon Hills Memorial Park, Dover. Flowers are optional or contributions can be made to the American Diabetes Association of Delaware or the American Heart Association of Delaware

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Paul Edward Browning - November 18, 1937 - May 09, 2024

Departed: 05/09/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Paul Edward Browning Sr. joined the rest of his heavenly family on May 9th, 2024. He was 86 years old.

Paul was a simple man with simple pleasures. He was happiest with his family, going fishing and tending to his garden. His garden was his world next to his family. Within his garden, he grew many types of produce, so much that you often couldn’t get rid of it fast enough once harvest really blew in. It really took the phrase “coming out of your ears,” to a new level. He also liked to grow different types of flowers. From Hydrangeas for his wife, to Daffodils to send with the grandkids to give to their teachers, to the tomato plants for himself.

Paul was born and raised in Procious, WV on November 18th, 1937, to the late Emerson Emanuel Browning and Mary Susie Drennen. His siblings included: Alice “Marie” Browning Smith, John William Browning, CPL James Perry Browning, Ruby Maxine Browning Sheldon, Betty “Jane” Browning Kelley, Freda M. Browning James, Oliver Emerson Browning, Gladys Margaret Browning Morton, Dolly Ethel Browning White, Roberta “Jean” Browning White and George E. Browning.

He entered into the Air Force in 1955, where he graciously served 33.5 years and rose to the rank of Chief Master Sergeant. In that time he met his wife, Maria “Merche”. Together they shared a lifetime of memories over the course of 66.5 years with their sons and grandkids previously mentioned.

Paul had nothing but love for his family, especially for his grandkids, who could be known together as the Bubbe-teers. Joseph, known as Bubby, Marisa, known as Bubbette, and Elena, known as Bubbetina. These kids, who grew up into fine young adults, could do no wrong in the eyes of their Poppop.

Paul was preceded in death by his parents: Emerson and Mary Susie, and ten of his siblings: Alice “Marie” Browning Smith, John William Browning, CPL James Perry Browning, Ruby Maxine Browning Sheldon, Betty “Jane” Browning Kelley, Freda M. Browning James, Oliver Emerson Browning, Gladys Margaret Browning Morton, Dolly Ethel Browning White, and George E. Browning.

He is survived by his Wife: Maria Mercedes Browning, sister Jean White (Larry) sons: Paul Browning Jr. and Tony Browning (Cheryl), his grandkids: Joseph, Marisa, and Elena along with many more extended family members.

There will be a visition Tuesday evening, May 21, 2024 from 6-8 pm at Torbert Funeral Chapel located at 1145 E. Lebanon Road, Dover, DE 19901. Funeral services will be held 11AM, Wednesday, May 22, 2024 at Torbert Funeral Chapel. Interment will be in Odd Fellows Cemetery.

For those unable to attend the funeral service there will be a livestream on www.torbertfuneral.com, it can be found under the “Upcoming Livestreams” tab and viewed by clicking on his name.

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Alvin Glyn Carney - January 28, 1956 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Alvin was born January 28, 1956, in Dover, Delaware to the late Leroy Glendon Carney and Marian Ramona Durham Carney.

After graduating from Dover High School in 1974 he went to work for his father doing carpentry, eventually venturing out on his own and adding painting and a variety of other skills to his list of jobs as a handyman, and later retiring at the age of 62.

He enjoyed hunting, fishing, playing baseball, camping, playing music, and singing. He was active in three separate bands, The Anyway Band, The Starlighters, and Double Deuce. Alvin was also a member of the Dover Elks Lodge, coached for Marydel-Hartly’s Little League, and was an active scout leader and proud band parent during his son’s participations in the Boy Scouts of America and school band programs. He was a man who loved sharing these passions amongst his friends and family.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his sister, Roxanne Carney; aunts, Glendora Ridgeway and Dorothy Eleanor “Toby” Carney, both of Dover, and Iona Gould of New Jersey; uncles, Purcell “Duke” Durham and Garland Carney, both of Dover, and Samuel “Jazz” Durham of New Jersey; cousin Lucinda “Cindy” Davenport; as well as his best friend Anthony “Tony” Seeney, whom he considered his brother.

He is survived by his beloved wife of 34 years, Wanda Lorraine Carney and cherished son, Jared Carney, both of Dover, his close cousins Beth Osborne and Dee Ridgeway, his other best friend Andy Ridgeway, as well as a variety of other cousins, in laws, and dear friends.

Funeral services will be held 2PM, Monday, May 13, 2024 at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Rt.10), Dover. A viewing will be held one hour prior. Interment will be in the Immanuel U.M. Church Cemetery, Cheswold.

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Warren G. Fairess - January 20, 1938 - May 02, 2024

Departed: 05/02/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Warren G. Fairess of Dover passed away, Thursday, May 2, 2024, at Kent General hospital. He was 86.

He was born and raised in Camden County, New Jersey to the late Woodrow Fairess and Marie Fisbeck Fairess.

He attended and graduated from Woodrow Wilson High School in June 1955. Warren was a very active committee member for his high school class reunions for their 50th, 55th, 57th and 60th celebrations.

Warren served in the United States Navy from June 1955 until retirement in May 1974 as a Senior Chief Sonar Technician, serving on 8 U.S. submarines and visiting 13 countries.

After retiring from the Navy, Warren worked for 26 years in the oil refining industry at Texaco Eagle Point in Deptford New Jersey and then at the Texaco Refinery in Convent Louisiana where he retired as a senor pipe inspector. After 23 years in Louisiana, Warren and his wife of 42 years, Barbara Mae Stone Fairess relocated to Dover, Delaware in October of 2006. Barbara passed away just shy of 3 years later in June of 2009.

Warren was blessed to spend the last almost 14 years traveling and sharing family events with the very special Joyce Marie Bruner Damask. Warren and Joyce were very involved in their shared community of Wild Meadows, the Wild Meadows senior bowling league, Modern Maturity bowling league, Capital City Lions Club, Wild Meadows Homeowner’s association and Bocce league.

In January 2007 he joined the Mid-Atlantic Base of the United States Submarine Veteran’s Inc. and in 2013 was inducted into the Holland Club, an exclusive club for veterans that have been qualified for 50+ years in submarines. He served as President of his bowling league, Director and Chair of the Publicity/Pictures Committee for the Capitol area Lion’s Club and 1st Vice President and Treasurer of the Lion’s Club.

In addition to his parents and wife, Barbara M. Stone Fairess he was preceded in death by his sister, Shirley Fairess Hubler.

He is survived by his sons, Gerig “Rick” Fairess and his wife Nicole Melancon of Wintergarden, FL, Glen Fairess and his wife Karen Young of Denham Springs, LA; brother, Woodrow Fairess and his wife Joan Ven Steyn of Magnolia, DE; grandchildren, Jacob Fairess, Brittany Montceret and her husband Hayden, Bailey Fairess, Jared Fairess and Aubrey Fairess; great grandson, Eli Montceret; special frien and partner, Joyce Damask and numerous nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews as well as great nieces and nephews.

Services will be private.

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Kahle M. Shaner - September 16, 1999 - April 30, 2024

Departed: 04/30/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Kahle was born September 16, 1999, in Dover, Delaware to Robert Shaner and Susan Masten.

From a young age Kahle had a great passion for the outdoors. This love carried on throughout his adulthood where he would spend all his free time on or near the water. He created his own lures and would offer them to other avid fishermen through a business he named Southside Custom Jigs. It didn't matter what hour it was or if he was by foot, kayak or boat Kahle would find a way to fish. He worked hard to perfect those skills and enjoyed bringing his friends and family along to learn his ways on the water. He was a fiercely passionate teammate on both the Caesar Rodney Lacrosse Program (#9) as well as the Virginia Wesleyan University Lacrosse Team (#19). In 2018, Kahle's Senior year, he proudly assisted the CR Lacrosse Program as a midfield player to compete in the State Championship. As an adult, Kahle was able to apply his creativity and resourcefulness through his employment at Arenas Signs. He manned the Ad Boat along the Delaware Bay and eventually was tasked with installing billboards and lettering for local companies. Kahle was compassionate and kind which left a lasting impact on everyone he met. There is no doubt that Kahle left this earth much better than he found it.

Kahle was preceded in death by his grandfather, William Smith and great grandmother, Shirley Shaner.

He is survived by his mother, Susie Masten and her husband Jamie of Milford and father, Robert Shaner and his wife Sarah of Dover; brothers, Gage Foster of Dover and Joshua Masten of Milford; sister, Michelle Spicer and her husband Logan Spicer of Milford; and nephew, Karson Kaiser.

A celebration of his life will be held 5PM, Thursday, May 9, 2024 at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Rt.10), Dover. A visitation will be held from 3-5PM.

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James Vernon Turner, Jr. - December 19, 1954 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: James Vernon Turner, Jr of Dover, Delaware, passed away Saturday April 27th, 2024, at home. He was 69 years old.

He was born December 19th, 1954, in Washington, D.C., to the late James V. Turner Sr and Mary Louise Burton.

Mr. Turner grew up in Annapolis, he joined the United States Navy and served for 20 years until retiring, once he retired, he continued working another 10 years for the Reserves. While he was actively serving, he worked on the USS Independence and several other carriers, which is where he learned his passion for cooking. He was a talented Chef and loved to step up and help with cooking at any function he attended. He was a Chef in the College Park area, and in Millsboro, then Wesley College. James was a member of the VFW Post #8801 Smyrna and their Honor Guard. A member of Wesley United Methodist Church, President of United Methodist Men, Bible Study, and took charge of all the fundraisers especially those which involved food prep. He was also an avid sports fan, enjoyed watching and rooting for Tampa Bay Buccaneers, Baltimore Orioles, and the “Shore Birds”.

James is survived by his loving companion, Pat Lieske of Dover, DE; Son, Kevin Turner (Karen) of Melbourne, Florida; Granddaughters, Gemma, and Lena; Brothers, Kermit Turner (DC), Mark Turner (NJ); Sister, Spring Dove (James) (SC); Niece, April Dove (SC); other cousins in NJ and Annapolis, MD.

Funeral services will be held 11:00am, Tuesday May 28th, 2024, at Torbert Funeral Chapel, 1145 E. Lebanon Road, Dover, Delaware. A viewing will be held one hour prior at 10:00am.

Interment will be held 1:00pm, Tuesday May 28th, 2024, at Delaware Veterans Memorial Cemetery, Bear, Delaware.

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Alice Naile Seal - January 15, 1931 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Alice Naile Seal, beloved wife, mother, grandmere, great grandmere, and pet owner went home to our Lord on Friday, April 26, 2024. She was 93.

She was the youngest child, born January 15, 1931, of the late Frederick and Geneva Naile of Norristown, Pennsylvania. She was preceded in death by her brothers and sisters (Ernest Naile, Elizabeth Savage, Dorothy Russell, James Naile, Marion Kirchman, Sarah Miller, Mary Bookheimer, and Edward Naile).

Alice is survived by her husband of 72 years, Jack F. Seal. Alice and Jack met in second grade at East Norriton Elementary School, marrying on June 28, 1951 in Norristown, Pennsylvania. They retired in 1992, traveling all over the world and enjoying each other’s company. Together, they raised their two children, Stewart J Seal (married to Paula Edwards Seal) and Robin G. Seal-Whitlock (widow of Phillip K. Whitlock) in a loving home to be independent and thoughtful adults. They were blessed with four grandsons, Christopher B. Seal (Kristin Rosholt) of Laurel, MD, Daniel E. Seal (Casey Greene) of Algonquin, IL, Zeke K. Whitlock (Lindsay Whitlock) of Greensboro, MD, and Cabe K. Whitlock (Ashleigh Frampton) of Marydel, MD and two great-grandchildren, Phillip J. Whitlock and Peyton L. Whitlock. Additionally, Alice loved their dog Tank and cat Bootsie.

Alice was often described as sweet and gentle. It is not uncommon to see Alice and hear the refrain, “I just love her!” She loved music and sang her entire life in church choirs and chorale groups, often as a soloist. She particularly enjoyed Big Band Music and always had music playing in her car or home.

She was loved heart and soul by Jack and her family and will be dearly missed.

Visitation will be Monday, May 20th at 10 am at Torbert Funeral Chapel, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Rt.10), Dover, DE with service and interment at 1 pm at the Delaware Veterans Memorial Cemetery, Millsboro, Delaware.

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John Henry Gingerich - February 24, 1958 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: John “John Boy” Henry Gingerich of Hartly, Delaware, passed away Thursday April 18th, 2024, at home. He was 66 years old.

He was born February 24th, 1958, in Dover, Delaware, to the late Henry J. Gingerich and Gertie D. Miller.

Immediately after school, John Boy worked laying block for masonry. For a short time, he was a diesel mechanic and finally found his way to Heavy Equipment Operation, where he worked at Allen Meyers and then at Kinsley Construction until retirement. He enjoyed hunting and fishing, as well as hanging out with his brother in his shop. John Boy was also well known for his cooking skills, especially his famous Chicken and Dumplings that the family all loved. On his relaxing days, you’d find him sitting back and relaxing in the shade, enjoying his beautiful garden.

In addition to his parents, he is preceded in death by his wife, Deborah Gingerich.

John Boy is survived by his loving children, Tiffany Strauss of Smyrna, DE, Shannon Gingerich of Hartly, DE, and Christa Rowlands (Scott) of Smyrna, DE; his siblings, Rosa M. Yoder of Camden, DE, Barbara E. Cheslock (Mike) of Marydel, DE, Enos L Gingerich (Frances) of Smyrna, DE, Jacob “Jake” H. Gingerich (Diane “Boots”) of Hartly, DE, David H. Gingerich (Connie) of Hartly, DE, Ruthann Gingerich of Hartly, DE, Willis E. Gingerich “Pic” (Rhonda) of Hartly, DE, and Miriam E. Sommers (Barry) of Hartly, DE; and his grandchildren, Casey Strauss, Eric Strauss, Devon Gingerich, Zoe Wright, Kara Rowlands (George), Samantha Graham (Robbie), Scott Rowlands, Matthew Rowlands, and Owen Rowlands.

Memorial services will be held 2:00pm, Tuesday, April 23rd, 2024, at Torbert Funeral Chapel, 1145 E. Lebanon Road, Dover, Delaware. Visitation will be held one hour prior.

For those unable to attend the funeral service there will be a livestream on www.torbertfuneral.com, it can be found under the “Upcoming Livestreams” tab and viewed by clicking on his name.

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Doris List Redick - December 10, 1930 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Doris List Redick passed away Monday, April 15, 2024 at Delaware Hospice Center, Milford.

Doris was born December 10, 1930 in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania to the late Walter List, Sr. and Mary (Marie) Campion List. She was born and raised in Philadelphia and graduated from Roxborough High School. In 1982 she graduated from Wilmington University with a Bachelor’s Degree in Social Services.

She retired from the State of Delaware Department of Health and Social Services in 1994.

Doris loved to volunteer and was a strong community advocate. Her volunteer services included Delaware Hospice for over 20 years, the Schwartz Center, the Agricultural Museum, and the Clothing Closet at Wesley United Methodist Church. She was a culinary judge at the Delaware State Fair, a judge of the Odyssey of the Mind and she especially loved being a 4-H leader for many years. Following her retirement, she enjoyed traveling with her husband Laurie William (Bill) Redick and dancing at the Modern Maturity Center.

She is survived by her husband Laurie William Redick, III of Dover; children, James A. Waldbusser of Georgetown, Ontario; Nancy Cardena Waldbusser and her husband Victor of Long Beach, CA; Carol Waldbusser Hoch and her husband David of Sheridan, WY; Lynne Waldbusser Newlin and her husband Roy of Clayton, DE; Susan Waldbusser Chumley of Camden, DE; Debra Ann Huttie and her husband Stephen of Wooster, OH; David Allan Redick, Sr. and his wife Sandra of Camden, DE; and Dawn Allison Coleman and her husband Jason of Felton, DE. Grandchildren include Kevin, Michelle, James, Maleah, Lucas, Taylor, Katelyn, Lauren, Carlie, Jase, Elizabeth, Sarah, David and Shaun and many great grandchildren.

Visitation will be held at 1 PM on Friday, April 19, 2024 at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Rt.10), Dover. Memorial services will be held immediately following the visitation at 2 PM.

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Robert "Bob" E. Hartley - April 20, 1955 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Bob focused much of his life on helping others. This manifested itself with a charitable event organized by Bob and friends, celebrated annually, for the past 46 years, the June Jam. In 1978, 3 friends were electrocuted in an accident where 1 died. Bob and friends rallied to help the survivors by holding an outdoor concert. The next year they helped a family who lost everything in a fire. From these events, the annual music festival was born and became one of his greatest passions. Over the last 47 years, he led a throng of hundreds of volunteers, booking artists from across the country, setting up the venue and attending to the myriad of details to bring about such a large event. The funds raised have been donated to individuals and charities all over Delmarva. Veterans, children, cancer victims, and the homeless are just a few of those helped. Bob and June Jam played a large part in opening the “Home of the Brave” in Milford for homeless veterans and “Peachtree Acres”, a Brain Injury facility in Harbeson. Bob loved to help others and thoroughly enjoyed meeting the musicians and artists, befriending many. This musical event also produced many special moments in Bob’s life such as when singer Donnie Van Zant finished performing at the annual event, pulled Bob aside and said, “you folks may not realize it, but you have your own little slice of heaven right here”. He wanted to create that for everyone and help as many people along the way as he could.

Bob is survived by his long-time partner Brenda Carter, his niece who he loved like a daughter, Katheryn Hartley, and his 4 siblings: Mary (Tom) Stenson, Tom (Marci) Hartley, Liz (Bo) Dunn and Ann (Ken) Baker. He also very much adored his nieces Cameron Hartley, Cassidy Baker, Brittany Baker, Kaitlin Stenson, Brittany Kelly, and Holly Dunn and his nephews, Wilson Hartley, TJ Hartley, Christopher Stenson, and Chris Dunn, great nieces Kaleigh Kelly, Emma and Kate Nicholson and great nephew Colin Kelly. He also had a wealth of cousins, aunts, uncles, and friends, all of whom he was very fond of, and who will all miss him dearly.

He was predeceased by his loving parents Robert W. Hartley and Mary “Dee” Hartley.

A viewing will be held from 6-8pm, Wednesday, April 24, 2024, at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Rt.10), Dover and from 12:00 – 1:00pm, Thursday, April 25, 2024 at Calvary Church, 1141 E. Lebanon Road (Rt.10), Dover. Services will be held immediately following at 1:00 at the church. Interment will be at Sharon Hills Memorial Park, Dover.

A Celebration of Life will be held from 4-7pm, Thursday, April 25, 2024 at Loblolly Acres, 3893 Turkey Point Road, Viola, DE 19979.

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Patricia Mary Bartley - August 17, 1938 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Mary Bartley “Pat" went to be with the Lord on April 12, 2024. She passed away peacefully surrounded by her beloved daughters and family pups. Pat was 85 years old.

She was born in Jersey City, New Jersey in 1938 to Maude and Dennis Duffy. Pat met her husband John D. Bartley in Jersey City through mutual friends, and he became the love of her life. They married in St. Petersburg, Florida in 1958. From there, they started their life of travel and adventure together — John was a Seabee in the Navy. They also started a family and welcomed their first daughter Elizabeth, who was born in Morocco, North Africa. Returning to the states two years later, their second daughter Kathleen was born in Beeville, Texas. With another move a year later to Fort Belvoir, Virginia, their youngest daughter, Shawn was born, and their family was complete. The family also moved to Orlando, Florida, North Kingstown, Rhode Island and Bainbridge, Maryland before settling in Dover, Delaware when John retired from the Navy, as a Master Chief Petty Officer.

Pat was a homemaker while the girls were young, keeping them active in various activities, scouts and sports. The family also enjoyed many trips to Miami, Florida for extended stays with Pat’s parents, Maude and Dennis Duffy.

Once the family settled in Dover, and her kids were in their teens, Pat worked in civil service at Dover Air Force Base. After she retired from the Base many years later, she sold fine jewelry part-time at Strawbridge’s in the Dover Mall and won many awards for top sales.

The family traveled together and made great family memories. Once Pat and John were empty nesters, they continued to see the world and traveled to many great cities and countries over the years. They also enjoyed decades of relaxing vacations in Ocean City, Maryland, as well as lots of pool parties at home with many friends and extended family.

When their granddaughter Jessica was born, they were thrilled to be grandparents, and excited to be able to show her the local sights as well as bring her along on vacations to various destinations. The loving couple really enjoyed their travel, personal and family time.

Pat was a talented creator and painter as well as a social butterfly with many friends. She was involved in various social groups, including the Red Hat Society, Irish Society and Columbites. Pat cherished and loved the many friendships she made over the years.

Later in life, Pat enjoyed game shows, fun times at the casino, dining out, and most of all, time with her girls and pups.

Pat demonstrated courage and strength as she battled metastatic breast cancer for two decades, setting an example of perseverance and true grit for her daughters and granddaughter.

In addition to her parents, Pat is preceded in death by her husband John D. Bartley.

Pat is survived by her three daughters, Elizabeth Bartley-Garris of Dover, DE, Kathleen P. Bartley of West Chester, PA, Shawn D. Bartley of Dover, DE and her granddaughter Jessica Garris of Harrington, DE.

Funeral services will be held on April 19, 2024. The viewing will be from 10:00 am to 11:30 am, at Torbert Funeral Chapel, 1145 East Lebanon Road, Dover, DE. A Funeral Mass will follow at 12:00 pm at the Church of the Holy Cross, 631 South State Street, Dover, DE 19901.

In remembrance of Patricia Bartley’s life and love, the family asks that any charitable donation be made to Delaware Hospice.

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John Merritt Hurd, Jr. - September 24, 1935 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Hurd was born September 24, 1935 in Denton, Maryland to the late John Merritt Hurd, Sr. and Ann Short Hurd. He grew up in South Dover and graduated from Caesar Rodney High School.

Once John graduated high school he served in the United States Navy for four years. He worked several security jobs before he discovered his passion for fire safety. This interest led him to careers protecting the public. He served 20 years as a Delaware State Fire Marshal and worked for Kent County Building Inspections. Mr. Hurd’s commitment to serving the public led him to be a life member of Robbins Hose Company, Dover Delaware. He also enjoyed being a member of Union Lodge #7, VFW in Camden, and the Camden Wyoming Moose Lodge.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his wife, Bonnie Mae Hutchins Hurd, and sister, Emily Brougher.

In his earlier years, John enjoyed camping with family and friends. He was known for his infectious smile and sweetness towards others. He loved to dance and would often use the entire dance floor with Wife Bonnie. His later years were a bit calmer and enjoyed the warm air, chirping of birds, and passing of boats while he dropped his crab pots at Port Delmarva, Delaware. He loved and cherished his five grandchildren.

He is survived by his sons, Michael Hurd and his wife Amy of Dover and Scott Hurd and his wife Kimberly of Felton; grandchildren, Tyler Merritt, Averie, Blake, Joshua and Emmitt Hurd.

Funeral services will be held 11am, Wednesday, April 17, 2024 at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Rt. 10). A viewing will be held from 6-8 Tuesday evening. Interment will be in Sharon Hills Memorial Park, Dover Delaware.

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Maria Antonia Rodriguez-Valintine - June 13, 1944 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: She was born June 13th, 1944, in Santurce, Puerto Rico, to the late Maria Valintine and Raymondo Roman-Guzman.

Mrs. Rodriguez worked as a seamstress for I.L.C. for many years. She enjoyed spending time with her children and grandchildren. She loved cooking and being around her family. Maria Rodriguez is survived by her children, Rosa Schmidt of Dover, DE, Felix Schmidt of Ruskin, FL, Angel Lee Rodriguez of Milford, DE, and Maritza Hitch of Dover, DE; her brothers, George Roman, Nelson Roman, and David Roman; her grandchildren, Amylee Rodriguez, Caryn Rodriguez, Alec Rodriguez, Cindy Negron, Natasha Negron, Deja Hitch,

Maria Waters, Steven Waters, Denise Victoria Schmidt, Anthony Schmidt, Felicia Schmidt. Her great-grandchildren Haven, Jordan, Elijah, Felicity, Levin, Liam, Scott, Patrick, Rylee, James, Payton, Tristen, Kameron, Maddox, Angel, and Aurora; and great-great-grandchild; Kayon.

In addition to her parents, Maria is preceded in death by her siblings.

Funeral services will be held 1:00pm, Thursday April 18th, 2024, at Torbert Funeral Chapel, 1145 E. Lebanon Road, Dover, Delaware. A viewing will be held one hour prior.

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Wilfredo Q. Cuyco, Sr. - October 27, 1945 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Wilfredo Q. Cuyco, Sr. of Dover passed away, Saturday, April 6, 2024 at Bay Health Medical Center. He was 78.

Mr. Cuyco was born October 27, 1945 in Manila Philippines to the late Dr. Esteban Cuyco and Milagros Quizon.

He was in the restaurant business for 22 years retiring in 2005. Mr. Cuyco enjoyed golf, gardening and traveling. He was a member of Holy Cross Catholic Church.

In addition to his parents he was preceded in death by his brother, Rene Cuyco and sister, Evelyn Cuyco.

He is survived by his wife of 41 years, Elvira Lucero Cuyco of Dover; children, Rowena Suarez (Danilo) of Cape Coral, FL, Marvin Cuyco of Manila, Philippines, Wilfredo Cuyco, Jr. (Clark Cuyco-Wurth) of Walnut Creek, CA, David Steven Cuyco (Kathryn) of Temecula, CA, and Ethel Guintu (Gilbert) of Las Vegas, NV; brother, Dr. Edmund Cuyco of Manila, Philippines; grandchildren, Isabella, Marianna, Luke, Tyler, Sophia, Dylan, Sebastian, Spencer, Antonio and Danilo.

Funeral services will be held 3PM, Saturday, April 13, 2024 at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Rt.10), Dover. A viewing will be held from 1-3pm.

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Phyllis G. Simpkins - April 11, 1943 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Phyllis G. Simpkins of Smyrna passed away, Saturday, March 30, 2024 at Kent General Hospital. She was 80.

Mrs. Simpkins was born, April 11, 1943 in Wilmington, Delaware to the late Frank R. Bacon and Nettie M. Vickers Bacon.

She worked for Ametek/Haveg for 40 years, working as materials handler and retired in 2014 as materials manager. Mrs. Simpkins enjoyed collecting Christmas Trees and had a huge collection. She loved sewing, upholstering furniture, antique shopping, but especially loved spending time with her family and friends. She also volunteered for Meals on Wheels at the Mamie Warren Center with her husband, Larry.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her parents, brother Frank Bacon, sister Annabelle Appenzeller.

She is survived by her husband of 46 years, Larry Dennis Simpkins and daughter, Robin Hinderer both of Smyrna. She also leaves behind to cherish her memory numerous nieces and nephews as well as other relatives who she loved wholeheartedly.

Funeral services will be held 2PM, Saturday, April 6, 2024 at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (RT.10), Dover. A viewing will be held one hour prior. Interment will be at Delaware Veterans Memorial Cemetery, 2465 Chesapeake City Road, Bear, DE on Monday, May 6, 2024 at 2PM.

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Frances Theresa Waxman - December 24, 1940 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Frances ‘Franny’ Theresa Waxman (née Gagliardi), 83, of Dover, DE, went home to be with Jesus on March 26, 2024. She passed peacefully surrounded by her family.

Franny was born in Philadelphia, PA on December 24, 1940 to Attilio and Carmella ‘Mildred’ Gagliardi. She grew up in Philadelphia and attended John Bartram High School where she was a member of the Memorial Color Guard. She was known to be a stylish dresser and an amazing dancer. As a young person, she spent her weekends at the Jersey Shore. She was also a USO Hostess and would speak with great enthusiasm of her days going to various events with her sister, Marie.

Franny married John Maddy in 1962 and had three children, Theresa, John and Karen. She was a loving and gentle mother who taught her children how to be compassionate and to always think of others first. She instilled strong values and morals in her children and lived her life with grace and dignity.

Later settling in Delaware County, Pennsylvania, Franny met and married Joseph Waxman. There they blended their two families together and made it a priority to spend time with their children and grandchildren. She and Joe would famously dance the jitterbug and draw onlookers because of how good they were. She loved to dance and would do so every time she heard music – and would dance with anyone who was willing. She was amazing at the craft and even had a stint on American Bandstand.

Franny worked for many years as a manager of a bridal salon. She took great pride in her work and helped many brides prepare for their special day. Franny also volunteered for Meals on Wheels and donated her time to various charities and organizations. She always opened her home and offered people a meal and a place to sleep. She was an extremely gracious person.

She never missed a birthday for any of her loved ones. She loved spending time with her grandchildren and hosted many family dinners, Easter egg hunts and birthday parties.

Christmas was always a very special time for Franny. It gave her a reason to dote on her family but it was also a time for her family to dote on her since her birthday was on Christmas Eve. Her birthdays were always celebrated with an Italian-style dinner at Olive Garden, followed by gifts, joy and laughter. She was incredibly deserving of her ‘double-treat’ on Christmas Eve.

After the passing of her husband Joe, Franny moved to Dover, Delaware where she spent the remaining years of her life. She met many new friends and was surrounded by people who loved her and enjoyed her company as much as she enjoyed theirs.

Those who knew Franny remember her as being a very vivacious woman. Her faith in God was very important to her and she would religiously pray to her favorite Saint, Saint Anthony. She was compassionate, kind, quick-witted and always had a smile for everyone. Franny had a special place in her heart for babies and puppies.

Despite her battle with dementia and other medical issues, Franny still smiled, gave hugs and kisses and made everyone she met laugh. She was an incredibly strong woman who continued to rally despite the obstacles she faced. She had a heart of gold and there are no words that could be penned here to describe how much she meant to those in her life.

She is survived by her children Theresa Bennett (Bob), John Maddy (Heather), Karen Maddy, Susan Callahan (Hershel) and Paul Waxman (Kim).

Frances was preceded in death by her parents, Attilio and Carmella Gagliardi, her sisters Antoinette ‘Toni’ Bruce, Marie Krupinski and brother Carmen Gagliardi.

Other surviving family members include grandchildren Amanda Hescock (Jason), Nicolas Ganley (Ashley), Madeline Bennett, Dylan Bennett, Joseph Callahan (Tiffany), Carissa Callahan, Vincent Waxman (Jessica), Collin Campbell, Mackenzie Campbell, Mason Campbell (Alex) and great-grandchildren Juliana Byrd, Mia Waxman, Declan Callahan and Jackson Callahan – as well as numerous nieces, nephews, friends and neighbors who loved her dearly.

She will be missed by the many lives she touched throughout her time on earth. The family would like to sincerely thank the Nurses and Aides of Delaware Hospice as well as the entire staff at Brookdale Senior Living Facility.

Funeral services will be held at 11AM, Friday, April 5, 2024 at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road, Dover. A viewing will be held one hour prior. Interment will be in Saints Peter and Paul Cemetery, Springfield, PA.

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Eleanore Schammel - December 18, 1936 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Eleanore Schammel of Smyrna passed away, Friday, March 22, 2024 at home. She was 87.

Mrs. Schammel was born December 18, 1936 in Baltimore, Maryland to the late Walter Balakier and Josephine Kolicki Balakier.

She was a executive secretary for Maryland National Bank for more then 20 years. In 2011 she moved to Delaware with her daughter. Mrs. Schammel enjoyed traveling, books and reading.

In addition to her parents she was preceded in death by her husband Philip Walter Schammel.

She is survived by her daughters, Karen Adamski and Lynne Simmers; grandchildren, Danny, Greg and Deb Adamski Krystal Rinehart and Charles Griffith; great grandchildren, Aiden, Evelyn, Julianna, Elizabeth, Jakob and Landon.

Services will be private, on March 26, 2024.

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Stacey A. Johnson - December 25, 1963 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Stacey Ann Johnson of Dover passed away suddenly on Tuesday, March 19, 2024, surrounded by family. She was 60.

Stacey was born December 25, 1963, in Dover, Delaware to Austin M. and Sharron L. Carney (Sammons).

She had worked for many medical offices in Delaware before joining Delaware Eye Care Center in the medical billing department, where she became the manager for all the Delaware Eye Care Centers. Stacey enjoyed shopping, traveling, trying new restaurants, interior decorating and taking care of and spending time with her family. She also enjoyed the Phillies and Eagles, but she especially loved the teams her husband, sons and grandchildren were on. She could be found in the stands at every baseball, softball, basketball, or football game and every wrestling match, cheering louder for her boys than anyone else.

She is preceded in death by her grandparents, Ulysses and Delores Sammons and James and Esther Louise Carney; and father-in-law James Johnson Sr.

Stacey is survived by her parents Austin and Sharron Carney of Dover; her loving husband of 38 years, James Johnson, Jr. of Dover; sons, James “Jim Jim” Johnson III and his wife Staci and Austin J. “ AJ” Johnson, all of Dover; twin sister, Stephanie Carney and her partner Jerry Ledwith of Harrington; grandchildren James Johnson IV and Todd Johnson; mother-in-law Connie Johnson; 6 special sisters-in-law and 1 brother-in-law; nephew and godson Justin Sharp and his wife Allison, and great-nephew and niece Michael and Penelope Sharp; along with a host of relatives.

Funeral services will be held at 1:00 pm on Saturday, March 30, 2024, at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Rt.10), Dover. A viewing will be held prior from 11:00-1:00. Interment will be at Immanuel Union Church Cemetery, Cheswold.

For those unable to attend the funeral service there will be a livestream on www.torbertfuneral.com; it can be found under the “Upcoming Livestreams” tab and viewed by clicking on her name.

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Charles "Jack" Kirmes, Jr. - June 29, 1959 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Charles “Jack” Kirmes, Jr. of Clayton passed away, Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at Christiana Care, Wilmington, DE. He was 64.

Mr. Kirmes was born June 29, 1959 in Chester County, Pennsylvania to the late Charles Jack Kirmes, Sr. and Alice Wasley Kirmes.

In 1983 he was hired with the Department of Corrections and worked at Gander Hill, in 1984 he transferred to the Staff Training Academy and in 1999 he was promoted to Corpral, in 2001 he was promoted to Sergeant and in 2019 promoted to Lieuenant at Kent County Community Corrections. In 2020 he helped open the Community Corrections Treatment Center. Mr. Kirmes was a member of the Asbury United Methodist Church in Smyrna. Bowling was a hobby and had met his late wife Charlotte while they were both bowling. He enjoyed watching the Eagles and Philly’s and working crossword puzzles and collecting memorabilia of different things. He loved to travel but hated flying.

In addition to his parents he was preceded in death by his wife Charlotte Jackson Kirmes and his only sister, Nancy Baum.

He is survived by his son, Steven Lennox Kirmes of Rehoboth, DE and daughter, Nicole Lynn Law and her husband Nicholas of Williamsburg, IA; grandchildren, Rachel Kirmes and William Lennox Law, and several nieces, nephews, sisters and brother in laws.

Funeral services will be held 7PM, Tuesday, March 26, 2024 at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Rt.10), Dover. A viewing will be held from 5-7.

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Robert Arthur Lane - July 30, 1945 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Robert Arthur Lane passed away on Tuesday, March 12, 2024. He was 78. Bob was born in Dover, Delaware to the late Mary and Arthur Lane. Bob attended Caesar Rodney high school and graduated in 1964. He met the love of his life, Bridget, in 1965. They have enjoyed 56 blissful years of marriage. They had 2 amazing daughters and 4 wonderful grandchildren. He loved spending time with all of them. He worked very hard to ensure that he could

attend any activities that they were involved in to support them. Bob was an avid baseball player from little league to a pitcher for Caesar Rodney high school. He continued to play for many years with Dover Merchants and Schreppler. Bob continued his love of baseball by coaching his daughters, Michelle and Sandi, when they were old enough to play; he continued to coach Sandi at Goldey Beacon college. Later he coached with his son-in-law, DJ, when his grandson played travel ball. He was a diehard Phillies fan. Besides baseball, Bob enjoyed golfing, boating,

bowling and camping. Bob joined the fire service in 1987 by becoming a member of the Magnolia Volunteer Fire Company. He also served as the company’s president for many years. From 2001-2002, he served as president of the

Kent County Volunteer Firefighters Association. Bob spent most of his career in car sales where he met many lifelong friends. He spent 15 years at the

Delaware State Lottery before becoming a Realtor. He retired in 2018 from The Moving Experience. He enjoyed many years singing in the choir at the Magnolia Methodist Church and he always looked forward to the Christmas Cantatas. For the past several years, we have attended services at the Roby

United Methodist Church in Leipsic, where the members have welcomed us as part of the family.

In addition to his parents, Bob is preceded in death by his sister, Mary Edith Lane George.

Bob is survived by his loving wife Bridget, their daughters, Michelle Lane (Dennis) Stump of Milford, and Sandra (Pete) Unkrur of Felton; and grandchildren, Sydney Miranda Lane Stump, Bridget Ireland Lane Stump, Roman Jacob Lane Stump, and Phoenix Joseph Lane Stump.

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Sheryl A. Paquette - October 04, 1955 - February 12, 2024

Departed: 02/12/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Sheryl A. Paquette passed away on Monday, February 12, 2024. She was 68. Sheryl was born in Wilmington on October 4, 1955, to the late Carolyn and John Wrightson.

Sheryl grew up in Wilmington, before moving down to Kenton where she served as a member of the Kenton Town Council for 10 years. Sheryl worked for the State of Delaware for 23 years as an Administrative Assistant. When Sheryl was not serving the community, she was very family oriented and loved spending time with her family.

In her free time, Sheryl loved doing crafts, especially quilting. She was a member of the Modern Maturity Center Quilting Group and the Quilting Guild. Sheryl also had her American Sign Language Certificate.

In addition to her parents, Sheryl is preceded in death by her son, Jonathan Paquette.

Sheryl is survived by her husband of 45 years, Reagan; son, Jeffrey (Erica) Paquette of Smryna; sisters, Vicki Bonsall and Bonnie Wrightson; and granddaughter, Callie Paquette.

A memorial service will be held at 3:30pm on Wednesday, February 21, 2024, at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E Lebanon Rd, Dover. The visitation will begin at 2:30pm.

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Barbara Lenox Miller - November 10, 1928 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Dover)

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The world lost a phenomenal woman and trailblazer on February 10, 2024.

Barbara Lenox Miller was a writer of romances and mysteries, a journalist, and the first female lawyer in private practice in Kent County.

She was born in Trenton, NJ, November 10, 1928, to Samuel David Lenox and Violet Wagner Lenox. Barbara was the youngest of three children.

She attended schools in Trenton. Then, inspired by her mother, Barbara took up the trailblazing mantle and attended Bucknell University, where she first met her future husband.

After college she worked in New York City for a women’s magazine. One day, while walking in Greenwich Village, she ran into her college chum, James E. Miller, and they reacquainted. They were married in 1952. During her young married life, she wrote romance and mystery stories. She also worked undercover as Della in “Dial Della” for the Delaware State News, while her husband Jim wrote “Grist from the Miller.”

In the 1970s, Barbara decided to go to law school, following the family tradition of lawyering: her father, the prominent and very honorable Trenton lawyer Samuel D. Lenox, and her brother, NJ Superior Court Justice Samuel D. Lenox, Jr. Barbara was astounded at how many people, women especially, who said “Who do you think you are? Women can’t be lawyers”. She graduated Delaware Law School and was the 40th woman admitted to the Delaware Bar. Barbara petitioned the Supreme Court to use her tenure as a Magistrate in the Justice of the Peace court for her clerkship, because the firms would not accept her. When law firms would not accept her without a clerkship on her curriculum vitae, Barbara found work as a magistrate in the Justice of the Peace court – and petitioned the Delaware Supreme Court to use her tenure there as said clerkship.

While a magistrate, Judge Miller instituted that probable cause was a requirement for warrants. She was unpopular with the police because of it.

Later Judge Miller ruled that “No Parking” signs were in one direction forward, not both ways unless specifically stated. Barbara said that her job in JP was the best job she ever had. One never knew whom or what would walk through the door.

Barbara joined the Brown, Sheils, and Chasanov law firm, where she worked directly for Herman Brown. Former Governor David P. Buckson called her “a crackerjack lawyer” for her work in Family Court when he presided as judge there. Barbara retired from law to care for her mother and pursue her antiques business, “The Miller’s Wife.”

Barbara lived 70 years in Huntly Circle (please note: no ”e” per the original deeds) before moving to Harmony at Kent. She loved the spring in Huntly, when the exquisite landscaping she had developed over those 70 years. Many people stopped to compliment her on her beautiful gardens. Those gardens kept her vibrant as she worked them until she moved to Harmony.

Barbara loved to reminisce about old Dover before stoplights, which she abhorred. One of her favorite places was Spence’s Auction on Tuesdays and Fridays. At Spence’s, she made many friends. Jack Jacobs is a cherished friend.

She loved to get a bargain even more than getting something for free. A child of the depression, she was very frugal. Barbara was very active, caring for her one-acre homestead by herself and exercising. She enjoyed the time spent with her friend Carol Hastings on archeological digs.

Barbara is predeceased by her parents, her brother, her sister, internationally renowned playwright Jean Lenox Toddie, and her niece Virginia Ann (Annie) Toddie. Barbara lamented the loss of her two sons: Poet Richard Luther Miller and journalist and editor James Lenox (JL) Miller both deceased on February 25 of different years. She is also predeceased by her adventure pal, Orna Lee Massey.

Barbara Lenox Miller is survived by her niece Barbara (Barbie) Toddie Geraghty and her husband Joe, of West Chester, PA, both of whom Barbara treasured. She is survived by her sister-in-law Jacqueline Lenox and niece Linda Fair Lenox of East Amwell, NJ. Her daughter in-law and caregiver, Lyn B. Arnold of Wyoming, DE, widow of JL Miller survives her. In addition, an extended family of grandnephews and their children will remember her as “neat,” and “feisty.” Barbara also leaves behind dear friends from her exercise classes and Lunch Bunch, as well as from her days in the antiques business.

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Avery Wallace Stichberry - January 05, 1947 - February 09, 2024

Departed: 02/09/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Avery Wallace Stichberry of Dover passed away Friday, February 9, 2024, at Kent General Hospital. He was 77.

Mr. Stichberry was born January 5, 1947, in New Castle, Delaware to the late Avery Stichberry, Jr. and Elizabeth Josephine Zimmer.

He served in the United States Air Force for 19 years. After the military he worked for The Smithsonian Institution security services as a Lieutenant. Mr. Stichberry enjoyed archery, woodworking, and sketching. He was a loving husband and great provider. He was loved by so many.

He is survived by his wife of 40 years, Jocelyne Ga Stichberry; stepchildren, Jose Azarcon, III, Jessica Koehler, Jaysen Pollum and Jorja Andres; 10 step grandchildren, Arin Azarcon, Aizia Edwards, Aysis Azarcon, Alonzo Pollum, Andrew Pollum, Romeo Pineda, Dallas Andres, Arieyana Andres, Gabrielle Koehler and Gerard Koehler; 2 step great grandchildren, Skye Rosalee Pollum and Kehlani Moon Edwards.

Memorial services will be held 1pm, Tuesday, February 13, 2024, at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Rt.10), Dover. A visitation will be held from 12-1pm.

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Richard E. Stoops, Sr. - September 03, 1942 - February 07, 2024

Departed: 02/07/2024 (Dover)

Obituary Preview: Richard E. Stoops, Sr. passed away on Wednesday, February 7, 2024 at home surrounded by his family. Dick, as he was called by his friends and family, was born on September 3, 1942 to the late William Stoops, Jr. and Lucy E. (Starkey) Stoops. He was also preceded in death by his brother William Stoops, III and his sister-in-law Ann N. Stoops.

Dick grew up in Greensboro, MD where he graduated from North Caroline High School in Denton, MD and then Goldey Beacon College in Wilmington, DE. In 1962 he married his high school sweetheart and best friend, where soon after, they started their family. He worked for various construction companies as a Corporate Secretary/Office Manager, Safety Director and a Human Resources Manager for more than 40 years.

He enjoyed fishing and boating on the Delaware and Chesapeake Bays with family and friends. He especially had great enjoyment watching his grandchildren tubing and water skiing. He was so proud to support his grandchildren’s athletic and academic endeavors. He loved the game of golf where he played many different courses and was a former member of Wild Quail Golf and Country Club. Dick was a very good bowler and bowled in several leagues over the years. He loved to shoot pool anytime he could even putting a table in his basement. He also loved to shop for all sorts of the things and wanted to be sharply dressed at all times.

Dick was a kid at heart and even on a whim went to Fort Lauderdale, FL with several buddies to watch the Dover Big League team play in the World Series. He loved haunted houses and would often take a car load of his children and their friends to the scariest haunted houses he could find during the Halloween season. Most of all he enjoyed spending time with his family during the summer vacations at the Delaware beaches, the Outer Banks, Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays.

He was an active member of Wesley United Methodist Church, serving on numerous committees for the church and the United Methodist Men’s Group. He was a past President, Treasurer and as the chief dishwasher for the many fundraisers the church held.

Dick is survived by his bride of 61 years Victoria Stoops, children Debbie Stoops-Hogsten (JD), Richard “Rick” Stoops Jr. (Christine), grandchildren Steven Hogsten (Virginia), Matthew Hogsten (Emily), Dana Roop (Jacob), Brady Stoops, Wesley Stoops and great granddaughter Harper Roop. Nephew Bill Stoops (Eva) and niece Terry Layton (Mike) and to all other members of his family.

Memorial Services will be held on March 9th at 11:00am at the Torbert Funeral Chapel, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Rt.10), Dover, DE. A visitation will be held one hour prior. The burial will be private at a later date.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and funeral or memorial services.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary or provide a template for the family to use.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their military service, awards or achievements, and any notable contributions they made to their community.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the notice and help readers remember the deceased.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online publication?

Contact the publication directly to find out their submission guidelines and deadlines. Some publications may have an online form or email address where you can submit the obituary, while others may require you to fax or mail it in.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and the length of the notice. Some newspapers and online sites offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge by the word or line.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure that their life is represented accurately and to spare their loved ones from having to do it during a difficult time.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only the most basic information such as name, age, and date of death. It is often used in addition to a full obituary.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing someone's death, while a eulogy is a speech or written tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service to celebrate the person's life.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include humorous anecdotes or quotes in an obituary as a way to capture the personality and spirit of their loved one.

How do I handle sensitive or difficult information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or difficult aspects of the person's life that you're unsure how to address in an obituary, consider consulting with other family members or a trusted friend for guidance.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorials in lieu of flowers as a way to honor their loved one's memory.

How long after someone passes away should I wait before submitting an obituary?

The timing of submitting an obituary varies depending on the circumstances and cultural traditions. Generally, it's best to submit it within a few days of the person's passing.

Can I edit an obituary after it has been published?

In most cases, it is not possible to make changes to an obituary once it has been published. Be sure to proofread carefully before submitting it to ensure accuracy and completeness.

What if I need to correct errors in an already-published obituary?

If you discover errors in an already-published obituary, contact the publication immediately to request corrections. They may be able to issue a correction or reprint the revised obituary.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

Sometimes families choose to republish an obituary on significant dates such as anniversaries or birthdays as a way to continue honoring their loved one's memory.

How do I preserve an online obituary over time?

If you're concerned about an online obituary being removed or archived over time, consider printing out a copy or saving it digitally for future reference.

Are there any specific rules or regulations around writing an obituary?

No, there are no strict rules around writing an obituary. However, it's generally considered respectful to follow traditional formats and guidelines provided by publications or funeral homes.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include meaningful quotes or song lyrics in an obituary as a way to add personal touches and celebrate their loved one's life.

How do I ensure that all relevant family members are notified about an upcoming funeral or memorial service?

In addition to publishing an obituary, consider using social media, email listservs, or phone trees to notify extended family members and friends about upcoming services.

Can I write multiple versions of an obituary for different audiences?

Yes, some families choose to write multiple versions of an obituary tailored to different audiences, such as one for local newspapers and another for online platforms or social media.

What if I'm struggling with writing an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress, consider seeking support from friends, family members, or professional counselors who can help guide you through the process.