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Barbara Louise Cuomo - August 13, 1947 - May 14, 2024

Departed: 05/14/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Louise Cuomo, 76, of Brooklyn passed away peacefully on Tuesday May 14, 2024, at Hartford Hospital. Barbara was born in Putnam on August 13, 1947, the daughter of the late William and Marjorie (Baker) Racine. She was the wife of William Cuomo; they were married for 56 years. Besides her husband she is survived by her daughter Dawn Renaud and husband Daniel of Chepachet, RI. Granddaughters Jessica Calzo, Billie Jo Cote, Bobbie Jo Cote and great grandsons Gianni and Antonio Calzo. She is also survived by her siblings Richard Racine, Cynthia Racine and Bruce Simmons and many nieces and nephews. Her caregiver and family friend Barbara Wedell, childhood friend Gladys and sister-in-law Ann Parent who was like a sister to her. A celebration of Life will be held at a later date.

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Janet E. Bryer - September 21, 1943 - May 07, 2024

Departed: 05/07/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Janet E. Bryer, 80, of Danielson, passed away with her family by her side, at St. Vincent’s Hospital in Worcester, MA on Tuesday May 7, 2024. She was born in Brownville, Maine on September 21, 1943, daughter of the late LeRoy and Margaret (Bagley) Burgoyne. Janet was the wife of Sheldon Bryer for 60 years. He passed away in 2022. Janet worked for many years as a deli clerk at Stop & Shop (previously Finast and then Edwards) in Putnam. In her younger years she was an interior designer, wall paperer and painter. Janet was a devout Catholic and a communicant of Our Lady of La Salette in Brooklyn, where she also participated in adoration. Janet’s hobbies included counted cross stitch. She expertly created beautiful birth announcements, baby quilts, wedding photos and countless pictures and gifts. She was an avid card player and enjoyed playing poker with family every Saturday night and pitch with friends on leagues. She loved going to local racetracks with her family and traveled annually to Nascar races in PA with friends Marsha and Ed. Janet was a member of the F.A.T. Club (Fun And Travel) for many, many years with special friends Nancy, Chrissy and Judy. Although there were weekly weigh-ins, they also enjoyed flaming cheesecake, floating on tubes (all tied together) on the lake at the cottage, and Kahlua Sombreros. Janet was also a Den Mother with her son’s Cub Scout Pack. On Saturday nights you knew where to find Janet and Sheldon- Look for their favorite country western band and they would be on the dance floor.

Janet is survived by her children Tammy Herrick and husband Patrick of South Killingly, Roy Bryer and wife Melissa of Danielson, and Michael Bryer and wife Cheryl of Dayville. Siblings Margaret (Peggy) Witham of Brownville, ME and Olivia Bell and husband James of Dexter, ME. She enjoyed her grandchildren Patrick, Megan, Nicole, Alisha, Hunter, Savannah, Alexandra, Joshua and Victoria. She also was a GiGi to Wyatt, Mason, Theo, Brooke and Charles (Buddy). Janet took great pride in how she and Sheldon raised their family. They were known as the “Waltons”, extremely close and the envy of many. Always having meals together at the table, a special “Sunday Dinner” and annual vacations to Maine to visit family.

Besides her husband, Janet was predeceased by her sister Lorraine Thibault and brother in law Douglas Bryer.

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Wallace V. Peabody - November 29, 1925 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Wallace V. Peabody, 98, of Ligonier, PA passed away peacefully on Sunday April 28, 2024, at Independence Health in Latrobe, PA. Wally was born in East Killingly, Ct. on November 7, 1925, son of the late Verdi and Augusta (Steuckle) Peabody. He was the husband of the late Lorraine B. (Hubert) Peabody. Wally graduated from Killingly High School in 1944, and served in the Navy from 1944 -1946. He was stationed in the Asiatic Pacific Theater, and earned the American Theater Medal, Asiatic Pacific Medal and the WWII Victory Medal. Wally was employed at Spirol International Corp. from 1960 until his retirement in 1990. He loved music, and he had a popular dance band called Wally’s Harmoneers that played at weddings and local clubs. He was awarded the Connecticut Veterans Wartime Service Medal. Wally enjoyed attending the Ligonier Valley Chamber of Commerce Summer Band Concerts, and building elaborate puzzles and models. Most recently, he was known for his amazing paint-by-number creations of which he sold to many who knew him. Wally is survived by his daughter, Debra Ann Sarault and husband David of Ligonier, PA, grandson Jeffrey David Sarault, niece Karen Peabody and nephew Matthew Peabody. He was predeceased by his brothers Frederick and Paul Peabody.

Wally’s family would like to thank the nurses and staff at Concordia at Ligonier Gardens for their excellent care while a resident there for the past five years.

A graveside service will be held June 10, 2024 at 11AM at High Street Cemetery, Dayville, CT.

Donations in Wally’s memory may be made to Concordia at Bethlen Activity Fund in memory of Wally Peabody, 66 Carey School Rd, Ligonier, Pa 15658…Attention Letitia Berkey or Ligonier Valley Railroad Association, 3032 Idlewild Hill Lane, Ligonier, Pa 15658.

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Theresa E. Mathurin - October 10, 1932 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Theresa E. Mathurin, 91, of Brooklyn passed away on Wednesday April 24, 2024, at Hartford Hospital. She was born in Putnam on October 10, 1932, daughter of the late Adolphe and Yvonne (Benoit) DesJardins. She graduated from Putnam Catholic Academy. Theresa worked at American Optical Co., Spedcorp Industries, worked in the cafeteria at Horace W. Porter School, W.T. Grant and Phaneuf Collection Agency throughout her working years until her retirement. Theresa was an avid collector of cookbooks, loving to cook and make relishes. She refinished kitchen cabinets and loved to groom and care for her Boston terriers. She loved to make floral wreaths, knit, crochet, wallpaper and paint her homes. She enjoyed reading and doing crossword puzzles and tag sales. Theresa kept up with politics and current events. She was a member and Past Regent of the Daughters of Isabella as well as financial secretary. She is survived by her two daughters Michelle Julian of Danielson and Elaine Julian Marino and husband Jeffrey of Cromwell, and granddaughter Juliann Marino. She is also survived by several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her husbands Marcel O. Julian and Maurice J. Mathurin, her son Richard Paul Julian (in infancy) and her brother Leonard DesJardins. Calling hours will be held on Saturday May 4, 2024, from 11:30AM-1:00PM at Tillinghast Funeral Home 433 Main Street Danielson, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 1:30PM at Our Lady of LaSalette Church Brooklyn. Burial will be held on Monday May 6, 2024, at 11:00AM at New Notre Dame Cemetery, Southbridge, MA.

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Rita M. Levola - June 03, 1922 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Rita M. Levola. 101 of Danielson, passed away peacefully in her home on Wednesday April 24, 2024. She was born in North Hatley, Canada on June 3, 1922. She was the daughter of the late Nazaire and Mary (Collins) Carrier. Rita was the wife of the late Carlo Levola who passed away in 1995. Rita is survived by her son Timothy K. Levola of Jamacia Plain, MA., her brothers Joseph Carrier and Francis Carrier both of Killingly, and grandchildren Peter and Christy Levola, Christine Farrell and Nancy Levola. She is also survived by many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her siblings, Napoleon Carrier, Agnes Carrier, Rose Eagan, Henry Carrier, Theresa Bachand, Albert Carrier and Yvonne Allen. A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday May 11, 2024, at 12:00PM at St. James Church, Danielson. tillinghastfh.com

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Margaret Laura Byrd - January 09, 1934 - April 23, 2024

Departed: 04/23/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Margaret Laura Byrd died peacefully on Tuesday April 23, 2024, at the age of 90 from congestive heart failure. She was born on January 9, 1934, in Hyannis, MA. She survived two husbands, James Bruce Odell and Jack Byrd. She is survived by two children, David Scott Odell and Shari Ann Dupuis, two grandchildren, Autumn Faith Dupuis and Isabel May Dupuis, and her brother R. Keith Pickering. She was a devoted housewife who always made her home beautiful. If anything was broken in the house, she could fix it. She loved to sew, knit, crochet, cook, bake, clean and manage the household finances. She also loved antiques and liked to refinish furniture back to its original beauty, but most of all she loved God and her country. Funeral services will be private and at the convenience of the family.

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Raymond K. Williams - July 06, 1927 - April 20, 2024

Departed: 04/20/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Raymond K. Williams, 96, - After a long, very full life Ray’s ageless spirit peacefully released to heaven on Saturday April 20, 2024. He will be deeply missed and forever loved by many. Whether you knew him as Ray, Dad, Gramps, Grampy, Great Grampy, or Pop, Ray will be remembered as a man that loved his family, his country, and having a good time, the king of “one-liners,” and being a “straight shooter”. He was a man short on stature and big on his word. Ray was the 1st to arrive and the last to leave the party. He always said, “I’m not afraid to die, I just don’t want to miss the good times.” Ray enjoyed Sunday morning Bloody Mary’s at the Thompson Rod and Gun up until 2 weeks before his passing. Ray loved Summers with his family at Alexander’s Lake, sunset cruises, 4th of July, his weeklong birthday celebrations, baseball, basketball, football, jeopardy, WWE Smackdown, and the Moosup VJ Parade. Ray was born in New Britain, CT on July 6, 1927, the son of the late Charles C. Williams Sr. and Florence M. (Herre) Williams. He desired to join the military early in life, being underweight and bad eyes were no match for his desire to join the Army Air Force. Ray had his father drive him up and down the East Coast drinking milkshakes until he met the weight requirements and learning the eye chart while the recruiters were on lunch to be able pass the entrance exam. Ray finally met the requirements and served in the Army Air Force leaving out of Woodstock CT. At the time of his passing, Ray was the 2nd to the last surviving WWII veteran from Woodstock. Ray served in the 5th Air Force in the Pacific Theatre Japan, Occupation forces 1945 – 1947.Ray was honorably discharged after reaching the rank of Sergeant, receiving Army of Occupation, Japan WWII Victory, Asian-Pacific Campaign, American Campaign and Good Conduct Medals. Upon returning from the Army Air Force Ray worked at various manufacturing facilities, retiring from CT Rubber Molding in 1988. After his retirement he worked for the Killingly School Department for 10 years. Ray was a life member of the American Legion, served as Post #21 commander for 12 terms and was inducted into the Connecticut American Legion Hall of Fame in 2017. He also served 4 years on the CT American Legion Executive Committee. Ray was the first to serve two terms as commander of the American Legion 4th district 1992 & 2004. Ray was the last surviving original member of the American Legion Post #91 VJ Day Parade Committee and has been a continuous member of the American Legion since 1948 serving in numerous positions throughout the many years. Ray was also a life member of the AMVets Post #45, a life member of the VFW Post # 4908 in East Killingly and a member of the Putnam Elks Lodge #574. Ray will be deeply missed by his many friends, and his loving children, daughter Nadine L. (John) Edwards privileged to have shared their home with him for the past year in Thompson, his 6 sons; Gary (Angela) Williams, of Harrellsville NC, Ronald (Brenda) Williams of Woodstock, Steven Williams of Thompson, Raymond S. (Christine) Williams of Thompson, Timothy (Tina) Williams of Pomfret and his chosen son Kenneth (Jennifer Delaney) Bennett of Canterbury. Stepchildren, Helen Birkbeck of Mississippi and William Birkbeck of Willimantic. Ray is survived by 22 beautiful grandchildren, 27 beautiful great grandchildren and 3 beautiful great great grandchildren, one loving niece (Goddaughter), two great nieces and one great nephew. Ray is also survived by his ex-wife and special friend of 70+ years Lorraine Breton. Ray was predeceased by his wife Patricia Williams, his two brothers Eugene Williams and Charles Williams Jr. and his great grandson Dyllan Troiano Funeral services will be held at a time and date to be announced.

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Prescott H. Baxter - December 12, 1928 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: It is with great sadness that the family of Prescott “Pep” Baxter announces his passing on Friday, April 19, 2024. He was born December 12, 1928, in Providence, RI, and raised by his parents Gladys and Wilton, Sr., in Foster, RI.

Pep joined the Naval Air Force at the age of 18 and served as a third-class petty officer in the active reserves. At the age of 21 he accepted a job at Tennett Tree Service, as a ground man and worked his way up to expert tree trimmer and arborist. He and his wife, Bernice, purchased Tennett Tree Service in 1977. Never looking back, he tenaciously persevered in expanding the business from a small (two truck) company to the much larger thriving establishment it has become today.

He was predeceased by his loving wife of 68 years, Bernice (Beeney) Baxter. He will be forever cherished by his four children: Bruce Baxter, Sharon Turkia and her husband, Michael, Beverly Huber (Joseph Clark) and Barbara Bohonowicz (Mark Linskens). In addition, he will be lovingly remembered by nine grandchildren, Christian, Jennifer, Brett, Lee Ann, Brittany, Cameron, Nicole, Kyle, Kayla and ten great-grandchildren, Carissa, Courtney, Catherine, Caroline, Kane, Emily, Jace, Julia, Cayson and Cali. Pep was predeceased by his parents; as well as his brother, Wilton Baxter, Jr., his sister, Connie Tyler, his grandson, Joel Turkia and his daughter-in-law, Cheryl Baxter. Pep was generous, hardworking, fun, quick-witted and loving. Always “there” for his family and friends. His zest for life was unparalleled as he chose to live it to the fullest and often encouraged others to “count their blessings”! He and his wife enjoyed traveling and spent many weekends at their property on Quaddick Lake where the saying “the more the merrier” very much applied. Besides boating, he enjoyed riding his Harley, flying his plane and making everyone else look bad on the dance floor!

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Leena M. Cacciapuoti - December 06, 1941 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Leena Marjatta Cacciapuoti (nee Vaananen) passed away on April 17, 2024, in Plainfield, CT, at the age of 82. She was born on December 6, 1941, in Vartsila, Finland. Leena was a dedicated employee, having worked for 43 years at Connecticut Light & Power.

A kind and gracious woman, Leena always had an open ear and an open heart for those in need. She was devoted to her family and friends, cherishing the relationships she held dear.

Leena is survived by her grandson Zachary Provost, granddaughter Alisa Boisse, great-granddaughter Lexus Provost, great-grandson Ethan Maxim, brother Esko Vaananen, stepson John Cacciapuoti, stepson Joe Cacciapuoti & Family. She was preceded in death by her husband Thomas J. Cacciapuoti, mother Irene (Tenhunen) Vaananen, father R. Tepani Vaananen, daughter Liisa (Barton) Provost, and great-grandson Reilly Provost-Maxim.

In lieu of a service, donations can be made to PAWS Cat Shelter of Woodstock, CT. A private family burial will be held.

Leena will be deeply missed by all who knew her and her memory will forever be cherished by her loved ones.

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Jacqueline A. DeSiano - May 26, 1931 - April 16, 2024

Departed: 04/16/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Jacqueline (Dumas) Ravenelle DeSiano, 92, of Moosup, passed away on Tuesday April 16, 2024, at Day Kimball Hospital in Putnam. Jacqueline was born in Danielson on May 26, 1931, the daughter of the late Joseph R. and Lucienne (Pelletier) Dumas. She resided at Pierce Baptist Home for the last year and before that she was a resident of Moosup for many years. Jacqueline worked at the former Plainfield Dog Track for many years. She enjoyed dancing, camping and gardening. She is survived by her three daughters, Michelle J. Charron (Joseph Jr.), Debra L. Kuckel (William Jr.) and Sharon Ravenelle (Peter LaPlante). Grandchildren Jonathan Charron, Brittney M. Lussier (Michael), William L. Kuckel III and Kailyn Sullivan. Great grandchildren Brantley, Myles and Ozra. Nieces close to her heart, Joanne, Sheri and Jackie, and her dear friend Ken Dupre. She was predeceased by her sister Lorraine Comtois, brother Rosario Dumas, husband Frank DeSiano and former husband Alexander E. Ravenelle. Funeral services will be private.

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Lawrence R. Ledogar Jr. - April 12, 1960 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Lawrence R. Ledogar Jr. 63, of Danielson passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his family on Tuesday April 9, 2024. Larry was born in Putnam on April 12, 1960, the son of the late Lawrence R. and Marie (Andrews) Ledogar. He was the husband of Melissa (Hitchew) Ledogar. Larry served in the United States Marine Corps and was employed for over 20 years at Raytheon Corp., and later at Lowe’s Distribution Center in Plainfield retiring in 2022. He was an avid Dallas Cowboys fan and enjoyed golf and spending time with his family. He will be forever missed. Besides his wife Melissa Larry is survived by his children Greg Ledogar of Danielson, Ashley Ledogar and Zachery Smith of Danielson, and grandson Austin Ledogar. One brother Andrew Ledogar and Sharon Gardner of Central Village and many nieces and nephews. Calling hours will be held at Tillinghast Funeral Home 433 Main Street Danielson on Friday April 19, 2024, from 9-11AM, followed by a graveside service with full military honors at South Killingly Cemetery.

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Sandra L. McKenna - March 12, 1940 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Sandra L. McKenna, 84, of Plainfield passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her family on Thursday April 4, 2024. Sandra was the oldest of five children. She was an awesome grandmother to ten grandchildren, ten great grandchildren and two great great grandchildren. Sandra was loved by everyone who knew her. She was a successful office manager who thrived on challenges across many industries and also spent many years driving a school bus. She will surely be missed. She is survived by her husband of forty-eight years, William J. McKenna, three daughters Bonnie L. Ripani, Sharon L. Patterson and Lori J. Schlough and three sons-in-law. Sandra was predeceased by her stepson and two granddaughters. Funeral services will be private.

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Kusti Murd - October 24, 1941 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Kusti Murd, 82, of Brooklyn passed away unexpectedly at his home on Monday March 25, 2024. Kusti was born on October 24, 1941, in Kuresaar, Estonia, the son of the late August and Ella (Ulkekutt) Murd. Kusti served in the Army from 1961-1964. In 1972 he married Mary Aline (Trudel) Murd, she passed away in 2022. Kusti is survived by his brother Ulo Murd of Danielson. One niece Krista Lea Ricci and husband Derrick, nephews Karl Murd of Brooklyn and Jason Murd and wife Amanda. He is also survived by several grand nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brother Leo Murd. Funeral services will be private. Tillinghast Funeral Home 433 Main Street Danielson is in charge of arrangements.

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Richard A. DiCapua - May 05, 1936 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Richard A. DiCapua, aged 87, passed away peacefully in the early morning hours of Sunday, March 24, 2024. He leaves behind his beautiful wife of 41 years, Kathleen Brainerd, and his adoring children, Nancy Walsh, Norine and husband Michael Durkin, Karen and husband Clay Farnsworth, Kenneth DiCapua, and his bonus children Kelly Peasley and Kent Madden, who helped create his much loved blended family. Nothing made Dick prouder than being a father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. He will never be forgotten by his grandchildren Gavin and wife Andrea Walsh, Evan Walsh, Emily, Chris and Jaclyn Durkin, Olivia, Chris and Connor Peasley, and Justin Madden and wife Chloe, along with great grandchildren Noelle, Lucas, Carter and Freyja. He was predeceased by his parents Helen and Anthony DiCapua, his beloved son Richard W. DiCapua, and his sons-in-law Keith Walsh and Robert Peasley.

Dick proudly served as a Professor of Immunology, in the School of Pharmacy, at the University of Connecticut for 30 years, retiring in 1996. He got his pilot’s license and eventually became a Certified Flight Instructor, helping dozens of students fulfill their dreams of piloting an aircraft.

To Dick’s family he was the jack of all trades! His many skills included building additions, home renovations, and fixing cars… if you needed help, you called Grandpa! Lesser known interests of Dick’s included art and music. His children fondly remember him playing the piano as they danced around the room, and singing loudly, with his five children joining in, as he drove cross country in their Volkswagen Camper Bus. He was in his glory at any outside concert, and talked fondly of his opportunity to see James Taylor and Carly Simon’s last concert together on Martha’s Vineyard. His love of sports crossed many fields including being a Super Fan of UConn Basketball, The New York Giants and the Boston Red Sox. He coached his kids in both soccer and baseball, and was always in the stands for early morning swim meets. Later in life nothing made him prouder than watching his grandkids excel at whichever activity they enjoyed. Whether it was chorus, plays, or sports, his presence was felt as he cheered them all on. His adventurous nature drove his love of travel, as he and Kathy visited many countries. He loved learning and trying new things, such as cooking classes in Italy, or the infamous zip line ride he took in Costa Rica when he was already in his 80’s. Dick loved to be near the water, whether boating, fishing, or clamming, he was in his element, so it was no surprise that after living in Mansfield, Dick and Kathy chose to live on Martha’s Vineyard, in Naples and Boca Grande, Florida, and on Lake Bungee in Woodstock, CT, where for many years he honorably piloted the lead vessel at the annual July 4, boat parade, with his joyous, raucous family members in tow.

His optimism, zest for life, and love for his family will resonate in the hearts of those who will love him forever and ever.

Dick’s family and friends will gather in his honor, at the Tillinghast Funeral Home, 433 Main St, Danielson, CT, on Thursday, March 28, 2024. His family will receive visitors starting at 11AM followed by a remembrance service at noon.

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Thomas J. Larkin - April 03, 1953 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Thomas James Larkin, 70, of Danielson, CT, passed away peacefully on March 14, 2024. Tom was born in Providence, RI on April 3, 1953, son of the late Anne McDonnell and Robert Louis Stevenson. He was a graduate of Pilgram High School in Warwick, RI, class of 1971. He continued his education and obtained an associate degree from CCRI in Warwick, RI. He was also a veteran of the US Coast Guard and was honorably discharged in 1975. Tom went on to work for the Providence and Worcester Railroad as a locomotive mechanic for 35 years. He also served as a treasurer for the local Brotherhood of Railroad Signalman union for several years. He retired from the railroad in 2013 and spent his retirement with his family. Tom met the love of his life, Kyle Ann Murphy-Larkin, in 1975 through mutual friends and were later married in 1981. They welcomed their first daughter on their third wedding anniversary and their second daughter two years later. Tom loved his family and worked very hard to provide for them. He treasured the time he spent with his grandchildren and loved being their “Grampy”. Tom is survived by his wife of 43 years, his daughters Jenifer Lynn Greenleaf of Woodstock, CT, and Samantha Ann Larkin of Thompson, CT, his son in laws, Aaron Greenleaf and Peter Manoogian Jr., his grandchildren Amira Rose and Declan James Greenleaf, and many other family and friends.

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Bruce Albert Patterson - April 09, 1937 - March 13, 2024

Departed: 03/13/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Bruce Albert Patterson, 86, of Uncasville, passed away peacefully surrounded by his family at L&M Hospital in New London on Wednesday March 13, 2024. He was born in Dunkirk, NY on April 9, 1937, son of the late John Kern Patterson III and Violet May (O’Neill) Patterson.

Bruce was a graduate of the Coast Guard Academy. He retired as a Commander in the Physics department. He then went on to get a Masters of Science degree from the University of Connecticut. That led him to become an APRN.

Bruce was proud to be a Coastie. He went on to teach Physics at the Academy for 22 Years. He was named Officer of the Year in 1977. His second career was as a Family Nurse Practioner which he retired from at age 82. His hobbies were keeping his families fleet of Volkswagons running, rehabbing countless houses with his children and friends, and long distance running. He completed the Boston Marathon in 1978. He spent many summers at cabins in Pachaug and Lake Alexander and loved hanging out with his family and friends. He will be greatly missed.

Bruce was married to Joal Patterson for 37 wonderful years. He survived her by one day.

Bruce is survived by his children: Denise Manguse, Englewood,Fl., Dawn Patterson, Quaker Hill, CT., Daniel Patterson, Davie, FL., stepchildren, Bob Paddon, Elizabeth Ouellette, and Faith Paddon Silverman.

Grandchildren Lindsay Story, Lukas Ouellette, Jacob Ouellette, Joshua Nixie, Brianna Nixie, Deanna Cotto, and several great grandchildren including Cheila Concepcion-Perez.

Bruce was predeceased by his wife Joal Mary (Friese) (Paddon) Patterson, Genevieve A. (Fleury) Macdougall Patterson, and his daughter Debra L. Patterson Kingsbury.

A calling hour will be held in Westfield Congregational Church on Tuesday April 2, 2024, from 10-11 AM immediately followed by a Memorial Service in the church. A graveside service with full military honors will follow at Evergreen Cemetery in Plainfield. In Lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Terri Brodeur Breast Cancer Foundation https://tbbcf.org/donate/

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Joal Friese Patterson - June 17, 1936 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Joal Friese Patterson, 87, of Uncasville passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on Tuesday March 12, 2024, at Midstate Medical Center in Meriden. She was born in Putnam on June 17, 1936, daughter of the late Joseph William and Alice (Young) Friese.

She graduated from Hartford Hospital School of Nursing - RN Joal spent many years as Director of Nursing and took pride in developing several programs for infection control and CNA training. Her interests included painting, sailing, playing piano, traveling, bird-watching, following UCONN basketball, and most of all spending time with her family and friends. She also had wonderful, lifelong memories of summers at Alexander Lake.

Joal was married to Bruce Patterson for 37 wonderful years and predeceased him by one day. She is survived by her children Robert (Kathleen) Paddon of Brooklyn, Elizabeth Paddon Ouellette of Norwich, Faith (Philip) Paddon Silverman of Manchester. Stepchildren Denise (Peter) Manguse, Dawn Patterson, and Daniel Patterson. Grandchildren Lindsay Storey (Matthew Schill), Lukas Ouellette, Jacob Ouellette, Joshua Nixie, BriAnna Nixie, Richard Cofone, Lettie-Lea (Jason) Martin, Michael (Kayleigh) Mowrey, and Deanna Cotto, her sister Marilyn Brent, several cousins and great grandchildren.

Joal was predeceased by her former husband, Robert Paddon Sr.

A calling hour will be held in Westfield Congregational Church on Tuesday April 2, 2024, from 10-11 AM immediately followed by a Memorial Service in the church. A graveside service will follow at Evergreen Cemetery in Plainfield. In Lieu of Flowers, the family requests donations be made to Westfield Congregational Church, Danielson CT.

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Barbara A. Burditt - June 15, 1934 - March 07, 2024

Departed: 03/07/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Barbara A. Burditt, 89, of Danielson passed away peacefully on Thursday March 7, 2024, at home surrounded by her family. Barbara was born in Putnam on June 15, 1934, daughter of the late Hordimas and Ellen (Hill) Charron. She was the wife of the late Frank W. Burditt Jr... Barbara worked as a waitress at various area restaurants for many years. She was a member of the Griswold Senior Citizens and a volunteer for the TVCCA meals on wheels program. Barbara loved dancing and playing bingo. She is survived by her children Frank W. Burditt III of Plainfield, Jeffrey Burditt of Ellsworth, ME, Debbie Scriptjac of Danielson and Cheryl Cote of Brooklyn. One brother Ronald Charron of Brooklyn and many grandchildren and nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her children Linda Hery, Trisha Tifft, Cindy Burditt and Bob Griggs, brothers Henry and Alfred Charron, and grandsons Matthew and Robert Griggs. Funeral services will be private and at the convenience of the family.

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Vaidis Mongirdas - August 09, 1941 - March 07, 2024

Departed: 03/07/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Vaidis Mongirdas, 82, resident of Brooklyn CT passed away peacefully in his home on Thursday, March 7, 2024, with his beloved wife by his side. Vaidis was born in Siauliai, Lithuania on August 9, 1941, to his parents Vladas and Aldona (Zaremba) Mongirdas. His father died while fleeing Lithuania with his family during World War II, and his mother remarried Danis Buivydas and settled in Cambridge Massachusetts. Vaidis went on to serve in the Vietnam War and obtained his Bachelor’s Degree from Northeastern University. In 1969, he married his lifelong partner Elizabeth Mary Mongirdas (Gricci) and raised two sons in Westford, MA where they resided. He worked as a computer engineer at Digital Equipment Corporations for many years.

In addition to his professional accomplishments, Vaidis had a zest for life. His weekends were spent doing various home improvement projects with his sons and spending time with his family. He was an accomplished piano player and held music close to him and often played for family and close friends on many occasions and holidays. True to his heart, he also loved animals, and his home was always filled with them. He also enjoyed traveling, playing billiards, and spending time outdoors where he was frequently found working with his hands.

Vaidis is survived by his wife Elizabeth (Betsy), sisters Daiva Richardson, Aldona (Royston) Small, Ruta (Nordeen) Jouniari, and his brother Romas Buivydas (Audra), as well as his two sons Christopher Mongirdas (Susan) of Sterling Virginia, and Eric Mongirdas (Gillian) of Fairfield Connecticut. He is also survived by his granddaughters Leah, Kady, and Emma, and many nieces and nephews.

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Arline Scheibeler - April 27, 1934 - February 28, 2024

Departed: 02/28/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Arline (Kelly) Doyle Scheibeler, age 89

Born April 27, 1934 in West Haven, CT.

Arline (Kelly) Scheibeler passed away peacefully on February 28, 2024.

Over the past couple of years Arline was a resident at Pierce Memorial Baptist Home in Brooklyn but was a lifelong resident of Plainfield.

Arline was the daughter of Edward and Rose Doyle. She is predeceased by her husband of 37 years, Attorney James N. Scheibeler and a brother Richard Doyle of Canterbury.

She is survived by a daughter, Charmaine Mizak, (Kevin) and grandchildren Drew and Meghan and two great grandchildren, a stepson, Eric Scheibeler, (Kristen) and stepdaughter, Shelly Scheibeler. Arline is also survived by several nieces, nephews, and cousins, including niece Keely Doyle who compassionately ensured that her aunt’s needs were met during her struggles with Dementia. They both enjoyed each other’s company and shared many memorable times together. Arline will be remembered fondly as being a caring and generous aunt.

Arline had many hobbies throughout her life, including bowling, golf, oil painting, crafts, gardening, yoga, playing piano, and playing cards. Arline loved her many dogs she had over the years and she took immense pleasure and pride tending to her beautiful gardens, charming yard, and home. Arline enjoyed taking trips to Quebec, Canada to see family and she treasured visits with family and friends at her home in Plainfield, where everyone was always welcomed. Arline worked for many years as a legal secretary.

A memorial graveside service will be held at St. John’s Cemetery in Plainfield, on Saturday, March 23, 2024 at 11:00 a.m. where friends and family are welcome to share their fondest memories of Arline.

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Timothy A. Scott - December 01, 1965 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Timothy A. Scott, 58, of Winsted passed away in his home on Monday February 26, 2024. He was born in Lincoln, ME on December 1, 1965, son of the late Wayne L. Scott Jr. and Lorraine (Breen). Tim is survived by his sister Lynne Girard of East Killingly, two brothers Wayne Scott and Gary Scott both of Red Spring, NC. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews. Funeral services will be private.

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Brenda A. Grenier - November 15, 1963 - February 23, 2024

Departed: 02/23/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Brenda A. Grenier, 60, of Danielson passed away peacefully on Friday February 23, 2024,7 at Davis Place. She was born in Putnam on November 15, 1963, daughter of Carol A. (Giard) and the late Fred W. Wood, Jr. Brenda is survived by her mother Carol Wood of Danielson, brother Bradley Wood of Danielson, and daughter Laura Grenier of Canterbury. A calling hour will be held in Tillinghast Funeral Home, 433 Main Street Danielson on Monday March 4, 2024 from 10-11 AM with a memorial service at 11.

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Pauline T. Perreault - October 22, 1939 - February 23, 2024

Departed: 02/23/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Pauline T. Perreault, 85, of Sterling, CT died Friday, February 23, 2024 at Davis Place in Danielson, CT. She was born October 22,1939 in Pawtucket, RI daughter of the late Hormisdas and Virginia Lampron. She was the dearly loved wife of Robert M. Perreault they were married February 8, 1958 in Danielson, CT.

Pauline was fun loving and very talented woman who possessed the skills to perform most any task while making it look easy. A list of some of skills included, sewing, furniture reupholstering, painting wallpapering and the list goes on. She maintained the bookkeeping of a family operated carpentry business for many years while contributing to every aspect. She was the navigation system for many traveling vacations. She was a loving, caring, sitter for grandchildren, and grand pets.

She leaves her husband Robert M, Perreault of Sterling, CT; her son Anthony F. Perreault and His wife Michele (Sweet) Perreault of Sterling, CT; Her grandchildren Adam (Christine), Tayler (Nick), and Alex. Her great grandchildren Anthony, Avery, Nora, Julian, and Henry. Her grand dog Ellie Mae.

Her request of no services will be honored.

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Robert Francis Lee, Jr. - August 01, 1938 - February 20, 2024

Departed: 02/20/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Robert (Bob) Francis Lee, Jr., 85, resident of Brooklyn, CT passed away peacefully on Tuesday, February 20, 2024 at Pierce Memorial Baptist Home in Brooklyn. Bob was born on August 1, 1938 in Nashua, NH to parents Robert F. and Lucille Guilmette. He graduated from Nashua High School in 1956. While in high school, he enlisted in the US Army and was honorably discharged in 1956, his service being cut short due to family hardship. Bob married his best friend, J. Gloria Paquin, in Lowell, MA on May 16, 1959.

A lifelong lover of geology and a devoted rockhound, Bob graduated with a Bachelor’s of Science in Geology from the New Mexico Institute of Mining and Technology, Socorro, NM in 1966. His professional career began at The Boeing Aircraft Company in Renton, WA that same year. In 1969, Bob began a 35-year-long career with Rogers Corporation in Arizona. He settled with his family in Brooklyn, CT in 1972. At Rogers, he pioneered industry-defining environmental health and safety practices. Bob retired from his position as Manager of Corporate Environmental and Safety in 2004.

In addition to his professional accomplishments, Bob was also active in his community. He was involved in the Boy Scouts of America with Troop 44 of Brooklyn and served as a District Commissioner, for which he received the District Award of Merit. He was also an active member of the Exchange Club, the American Legion Post 21 for over 18 years, and a past member of the Danielson Elks. In addition, he served as the Emergency Management Director for the Town of Brooklyn as well as a member of the Resource Recovery Authority following his retirement. He and his wife also enjoyed traveling across Europe and Australia and trying new hobbies in their retirement.

Bob is survived by his wife, J. Gloria; brother, John (Anne); sister, Sandra; sons, P. Bryan and R. David; grandchildren, R. Tyler (fiancée Katelin) and Alyssa; and several nieces and nephews. Bob was predeceased by his parents, Robert F. and Lucille; and his sister, Patricia. The family thanks the staff at Day Kimball Hospital (ICU), specifically Dr. Fattaleh, and Pierce Memorial Baptist Home for caring for Bob, as well as friends and family for their thoughts and prayers. Services will be private at the request of the family. There are no calling hours. There will be a celebration of life in August with more information to come. To honor Bob, donations can be made to a charity of your choice in his name.

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Keith John Kalemba - June 14, 1960 - February 16, 2024

Departed: 02/16/2024 (Danielson)

Obituary Preview: Keith John Kalemba, 63, longtime resident of Brooklyn passed away in his home on Friday February 16, 2024. He was born in New Jersey on June 14, 1960, son of the late Clifford John and Agnes (McMahon) Kalemba. Keith was an exemplary employee for many years at Ensinger Precision Components in Putnam until his passing. He is survived by his siblings Kevin Kalemba and wife Pat of Rocky Hill and Kimberly Ann (Kalemba) of New Philadelphia, OH as well as his nieces and nephews.

Funeral services will be private and at the convenience of the family.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing essential information for those who want to pay their respects. They help to notify people of the person's passing, share details about their life, and provide information about funeral services and memorial contributions.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend of the deceased writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or obituary writer may assist with writing the obituary. The writer should be someone who knew the person well and can provide accurate and meaningful information about their life.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, city of residence, and a brief biography that highlights their achievements, interests, and relationships. It may also include information about surviving family members, funeral services, and memorial contributions.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Generally, it's recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important information. A good rule of thumb is to aim for 100-200 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more engaging for readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some newspapers may have online submission forms or email addresses where you can send the obituary.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy. Just be sure to store it in a safe place where it can be found by your loved ones after your passing.

What is an online obituary?

An online obituary is a digital version of a traditional print obituary. It's published on a website or social media platform, allowing friends and family to share condolences, memories, and photos with each other.

Are online obituaries free?

Some online obituary platforms offer free listings, while others may charge a fee for premium features or longer-term storage. Be sure to check the pricing and terms before publishing your loved one's obituary online.

How long do online obituaries stay online?

The duration of an online obituary varies depending on the platform. Some websites may keep them online indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period (e.g., 30 days). Be sure to check the platform's policies before publishing.

Can I edit an online obituary after it's been published?

Yes, most online platforms allow you to edit an obituary after it's been published. However, be sure to check the platform's editing policies and deadlines before making changes.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, typically including only the most essential information (e.g., name, age, date of death). It's often used when there isn't enough space or time for a full obituary.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice that announces someone's passing and provides biographical information. A eulogy is a speech or written tribute that celebrates the person's life and legacy, often delivered at a funeral or memorial service.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to capture the personality and spirit of the deceased. Just be sure to keep it respectful and tasteful.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If you're unsure about including sensitive information (e.g., cause of death, personal struggles), consider consulting with family members or close friends. Remember that the goal of an obituary is to honor and celebrate the person's life.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes! Many families prefer donations to charity instead of flowers. Be sure to specify the charity name and any relevant details in the obituary.

How do I proofread an obituary for errors?

Carefully review the obituary multiple times for spelling, grammar, and factual errors. Ask others to review it as well before submitting it for publication.

Can I republish an obituary from another source?

If you're considering republishing an obituary from another source (e.g., newspaper), be sure to obtain permission from the original publisher or copyright holder first.

How do I handle corrections or updates to an online obituary?

Contact the online platform directly to request corrections or updates. They should have procedures in place for making changes to existing listings.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider reaching out to a professional writer or asking a trusted friend or family member for assistance. Funeral homes may also offer guidance or resources.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes or lyrics that resonate with the person's life or personality can add depth and meaning to the obituary.

How do I ensure that an online obituary is easily searchable?

Makes sure to include relevant keywords (e.g., name, dates, locations) in the headline and body of the online obituary. This will help search engines index it correctly and make it easier for people to find.

What if I'm not comfortable writing an obituary at all?

If you're feeling overwhelmed or struggling with grief, consider asking someone else to write the obituary on your behalf. Alternatively, you can reach out to a professional writer or funeral home for guidance and support.