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Terpening & Son Mortuary is a family-owned and operated funeral home located in the heart of Artesia, New Mexico. With a rich history and a commitment to providing exceptional service, this mortuary has been a trusted name in the community for generations. At 611 W. Grand Ave, Artesia, NM, 88210, Terpening & Son Mortuary offers a warm and welcoming environment where families can come to say goodbye to their loved ones with dignity and respect.

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Terpening & Son Mortuary has been serving the Artesia community for many years, earning a reputation for its compassionate and caring approach to funeral services. The mortuary's experienced staff understands the importance of providing personalized attention to each family they serve, tailoring their services to meet the unique needs and wishes of every individual. From traditional funeral services to cremations and memorial ceremonies, Terpening & Son Mortuary is dedicated to helping families celebrate the lives of their loved ones in a meaningful way.

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Michael Dean Crouch - April 04, 1949 - April 20, 2022

Departed: 04/20/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Michael Crouch of Artesia, New Mexico passed away on Apr 20, 2022. His loved ones are composing his obituary, which you will be able to read here.

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Troy Lee Crouch - February 14, 1938 - April 20, 2022

Departed: 04/20/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Graveside services are scheduled at 10 am Thursday, April 28, at Woodbine Cemetery for Troy Lee Crouch of Artesia, New Mexico.Mr. Crouch, 84, died on April 20, 2022 in Clovis, New Mexico.Pastor Bobby Argo will officiate at the services.Troy was born on February 14, 1938 in Artesia; the son of Clinton "Jack" Crouch and Annie Mae Morris Crouch. On January 29, 1983 he was married to Mary Lou McKenna in Artesia.He was a member of Trinity Temple Assembly of God, and a heavy equipment operator doing road construction. He enjoyed tinkering with cars and doing yard work around the house.He was preceded in death by his parents, three brothers and two sisters.He is survived by his wife Mary Lou Crouch.

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Georgia Lee Bledsoe - September 26, 1941 - April 19, 2022

Departed: 04/19/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: A memorial service is scheduled for 10:00 AM on Tuesday, April 26, 2022 at Catalyst Church for Georgia Lee Bledsoe of Artesia, New Mexico.Mrs. Bledsoe, 80, died on April 19, 2022 in Artesia.Nolan Fredrick will officiate at the services. Cremation has taken place under the direction of Terpening & Son Mortuary.Georgia was born on September 26, 1941 in Artesia; the daughter of Lee Newman Seely and Bernice Blakeley Seely. She was a lifelong resident of Artesia and worked for Yates Petroleum Corporation for 38 years before retiring. She loved flower gardening, line dancing, raising horses, shopping and as Tommy liked to say she rotated the store inventory regularly but most of all she loved her family.She graduated from Artesia High School in 1959 and on May 3, 1963 she was married to Tommy Bledsoe in Artesia, NM. She was preceded in death by her parents and a brother Glenn Smith.She is survived by her husband Tommy Bledsoe; sons Forrest Neal and Joni Bledsoe and Allen Wade Bledsoe all of Artesia; grandchildren Alyssa and Nick Alvarado of Richmond Hill, Georgia and Ryan Bledsoe and Marlee Runyan of Artesia; and by geat-grandchildren Noah Alvarado and Avery Alvarado of Richmond Hill, Georgia.

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Jerry Luan Ramsey - May 16, 1935 - April 19, 2022

Departed: 04/19/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Graveside services are scheduled for 2 pm Friday, April 29, at Woodbine Cemetery for Jerry Luan Ramsey of Artesia, New Mexico. Mrs. Ramsey, 86, died on April 19, 2022 in Artesia. Pastor Rick Smith will officiate at the services. Jerry was born on May 16, 1935 in Vaughn, New Mexico; the daughter of Earl Welburn Collins and Katie Jane Yocum. She graduated in 1953 from Hot Springs High School, also known as Truth or Consequences. She married Eugene D. Ramsey Sr on July 1, 1953. She was blessed with four children, Jeanie Lou Ramsey, Roger Wade Ramsey and wife Judy, Earl Dee Ramsey and wife Lea, and John Russell Ramsey and wife Audrey. She is also survived by 6 grandchildren, and numerous nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her husband on August 29, 1983. Also by brothers Jess Collins, Lewis Collins, Fred Collins, Gene Collins and Pete Collins, and by sisters Johnny Cooper, Lois Watson and Helen Rogers. Jerry moved to Artesia in 1979 from Albuquerque, New Mexico. She became involved at the Roadrunner Extension Club and also Senior activities and craft club. She baby sat numerous kids and ran a day care for 2 years. She moved to being a teacher's aide for six years and then retired. She stayed with the Senior Center and did crafts, sales, Tops, and garage sales. Jerry has been a member of Calvary Missionary Baptist Church for ten years. She will be missed by all of her family, friends, and church family.

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Roberta DellaMae Taylor - August 05, 1943 - April 17, 2022

Departed: 04/17/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Roberta was born on August 5, 1943, to Hugh Harvell and Zettie Harris in the city of Pittsburgh Pennsylvania.  Zettie later went on to marry Ardusters Felton in which a blended family began.  Roberta’s early childhood years were spent amongst her siblings, her family, and her church friends in the Washington D.C. area. She also completed her early education while residing in D.C. area.  Roberta was always known for her cooking skills and as a child, her favorite original recipe was her sweet potato biscuit sandwich. The family would spend many fond Holidays and Vacations traveling to Pittsburgh, PA.

Roberta was first introduced to Christ while attending Refreshing Spring C.O.G.I.C. under the leadership of late Bishop A.D. Headen. Roberta’s childhood activities were centered around her church involvement.  While attending Refreshing Spring C.O.G.I.C, Roberta was a member of the youth choir and junior usher board among many other church activities.

During her teenage years Roberta relocated to Pittsburgh and resided with her grandmother Leslie, and ultimately went on to reside with her aunt and uncle, John, and Blanche Harris. While living in Pittsburgh, she went on to graduate from Westinghouse High School in 1962. She later met and married Johnnie Becton, and during their union Roberta gave birth to three girls (Christine, Celestine, and Denise). The family moved to Los Angeles, California in 1965 during the Watts riots. Although Roberta and Johnnie dissolved their marriage, the family was resilient and thrived.  While living in LA, Roberta attended LA Southwest College to further her education.

Roberta’s early working days consisted of a position as a Bingo Attendant where she was responsible for paying the winners. This may be where she developed a little fondness for games of chance, and her favorite was playing the slot machines. She also worked for Kelly Girl Services for a short time. After leaving Kelly Girl Services, she went on to work for Dominoes which was a clothing company. She worked there for 18 years before retiring.

In 1984, while attending a nightclub after work, Roberta met her soul mate Jimmy (JT) Taylor whom she affectionately called “J”.  Jimmy was the drummer of the band and ultimately became the beat to her heart. The two were inseparable and eventually married on Valentine’s Day in 1988. The two blended their families together and created years of fun and cherished memories.

In 1993, Jimmy and Roberta relocated to Artesia, NM.  The two joined Bethel Baptist Church in 1995, and it was during that year, Roberta was baptized under the leadership of the late Pastor W.H. Miller.  Roberta was an active member of Bethel Baptist church serving in many capacities. She served as the church financial clerk, secretary of the choir, and was a hospitality greeter who read the morning announcements during Sunday morning service.

In 1995, she also became a member of the Eastern Star, Chapter NO. 11 in Artesia NM, and received numerous Certificates of Appreciation and Achievements.  She was a faithful member until her health prevented the two from making the long commutes for their meetings.

Roberta was preceded in death by her mother, Zettie H, Felton; father, Hugh R. Harvell; stepfather Ardusters Maxie Felton; stepmother, Rosa Massenburg-Harvell; sisters, Elaine O. Felton, Yvonne Felton-Jordan and Doris Felton-Cunningham; and brothers, Robert Leon Harvell and Donald R. Harvell, and her son in law, Bruce Dion Taylor.

Left to pass on her legacy of love are her husband, Jimmy Taylor; daughters, Christine L. (DeeDee) Becton-Palmer (Terrence), Celestine M. (Pottie) Becton-Taylor (Bruce), and Denise E. (Neicy) Becton (Michael); grandsons, Ronnell Woods and Terrence Palmer III; granddaughter, Tyler McDuffie; great-grandson Brent’ton Woods; great-granddaughter Bri’elle Woods; brothers, Ardusters Nathan Felton (Carole), Larry Harvell (Barbara), Wayne Harvell (Kimberly), and Lester Harvell (Janney); sisters, Ethel Mae Felton-Watson, Patricia Harvell-Groce (Ronald), Lorraine Harvell-DeFairia, Iris Harvell-McGraw, and Lisa Harvell; and a host of nephews, nieces, cousins, extended family and friends.

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Steven Lee Kupcak - October 16, 1954 - April 14, 2022

Departed: 04/14/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: A gathering and time of sharing is scheduled for 2 pm Wednesday, April 20 at Terpening & Son Mortuary for Steven Kupcak of Artesia, New Mexico.Mr. Kupcak, 67, died on April 14, 2022 in Albuquerque, New Mexico.Cremation will take place under the direction of Terpening & Son Mortuary.Steven was born on October 16, 1954 in Plainview, Texas; the son of Jacob Kupcak II and Clarice Stults Kupcak.He was married to Lenora Philpott on January 16, 1981 in Carlsbad, New Mexico. She preceded him in death on February 4, 2010.Steven was a truck driver for many years. He loved fishing, watching movies, reading Louis Lamour books and going out to eat.He was preceded in death by his parents, and a sister Lucy Whitt.He is survived by his daughter Janie Fugate; sons JonMichael Scott Ward and Steven Prescott; a sister Angel Hendricks; a brother Jacob Kupcak III; 3 grandchildren and 4 great-grandchildren; and also by 9 nephews and 3 nieces.

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Ruby Irene Hokett - May 14, 1944 - April 14, 2022

Departed: 04/14/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Services are scheduled for 10 am Thursday, April 21, at Faith Baptist Church for Ruby Irene Hokett of Artesia, New Mexico.Mrs. Hokett departed this world and arrived at her final destination in the arms of Jesus April 14, 2022" in Carlsbad, New Mexico. We say bon voyage one last time on April 21, 2022. Michael Elliot will officiate the services. Burial will follow at Twin Oaks Memorial Park. Visitation will be at Terpening & Son Mortuary from 2 to 6 pm on Wednesday, April 20th. Irene was born on May 14, 1944 in Artesia, NM ; the daughter of Claude Eston Nivens and Ruby Dean Reed Nivens.Irene was the owner and operator of Busy Bee Travel Agency for 39 years. She started Busy Bee in 1983 while also operating the local Montgomery Ward franchise. Before that, she worked at and eventually became the first female manager of Goodyear Tire until retiring in 1981. She took great pride in this and her work in general. If you ran into Irene somewhere, she would always tell you she's "busy as a bee". And she was. Even if things were slow, she was ALWAYS making herself busy. She was preceded in death by her parents and brother in law Kenneth Foster. Survivors include her son Kevin Hokett and wife Tiffany; daughter Danielle Husselman and husband David; brothers Johnny Nivens and Dennis Nivens; sisters Nelva Johnson and Shirley Foster; grandchildren Danessa Dudley, Tyler Dudley, Demrie Denson, Destiny Todd, Coly Hokett, Shanna Liles, Baylee Miller, and Braydon Brooks; great grandchildren Brody Todd, Brance Todd, Brinlee Todd, Tryston Hokett, Tresley Hokett, Beckham Liles, Channing Liles, Mikah Vaughn, Ryker Vaughn, and Cohen Dudley; and also by her longtime friend Irvin Smith.Pallbearers will be all of her grandchildren.

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Samuel Morales - September 15, 1968 - April 12, 2022

Departed: 04/12/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Services are scheduled for 10 am Wednesday, April 20, at St. Anthony's Catholic Church for Samuel Morales of Artesia, New Mexico. Mr. Morales, 53, died on April 12, 2022 in Roswell, New Mexico. Fr. Frances Lazar will officiate at the services. Burial will follow at Woodbine Cemetery. Pallbearers will be Jayvon Reza, Alejo Cortez, Salvador Gurrola, Sandro Reza, Steven Orosco, Sergio Luevano, Lorenzo Morales. Visitation will be at Terpening & Son Mortuary from 2 to 6 pm on Tuesday. Samuel was born on September 15, 1968 in Dumas, Texas; the son of Arnold Morales and Rachel Madrigal Morales. Sammy liked hunting, golfing and going to the lake. He loved his sports team Miami Dolphins and LA Lakers. Sammy was very involved at the Moose lodge and was an active member for many years. He cherished and loved the family that he made there. He was preceded in death by his parents. Survivors include his son Ray Morales; daughters Karena Reza and Geneva Montano; a brother Manuel Morales; sisters Linda Aguilar and Amia Morales; grandchildren Larissa Orosco, Jayvon Reza, Amunique Reza, and Neveah Montano.

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Jesus Andres Leon - November 30, 1959 - April 11, 2022

Departed: 04/11/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Services are scheduled for 10 am Tuesday, April 19, at Our Lady of Grace Catholic Church for Jesus A. Leon of Artesia, New Mexico. Mr. Leon, 62, died on April 11, 2022 in Rio Rancho, New Mexico. Fr. Vijay will officiate at the services. Cremation will follow under the direction of Terpening & Son Mortuary. A rosary is also scheduled for 9:30 am Tuesday. Visitation will be at Terpening & Son Mortuary from 3 to 6 pm on Monday. Jesus was born on November 30, 1959 in San Bernardo, Durango, Mexico; the son of Luis Leon and Lucia Rios Leon. He loved watching western movies, eating at IHOP, chinese food, and most of all chile rellenos. He enjoyed taking his wife to the casinos. He loved spending time with his family, joking around and pulling pranks on them. He was blessed to be able to tell his family what he wanted and to encourage them to stay united after he was gone. His last words were to his wife, telling her she "was the love of his life!" He was preceded in death by his mother. Survivors include his wife Maria Del Carmen Leon; father Luis Leon; a son Luis Leon wife Faviola; daughters Esmerelda Leon and Lizeth Leon; brothers Francisco Leon and Fidel Leon; sisters Marta Ponce, Julia Barraza, Paola Bueno, and Rosa Leon; and by grandchildren Alejandro Lopez, Leslie Santacruz, Jose Santacruz, Arianna Leon, Emiliano Leon and Tania Becerra.

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Ruth Elizabeth (Bette) Clark - June 14, 1926 - April 08, 2022

Departed: 04/08/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Ruth Elizabeth (Bette) Clark stepped into the arms of Jesus surrounded by family on Friday, April 8, 2022. A memorial service officiated by Jeff Houghtaling will be held at Hermosa Drive Baptist Church, Artesia, NM on Wednesday, April 20, 2022 at 2 pm. Bette was born in Lanesborough, MA on June 14, 1926 to Edward H. and Ruth E. (Mickle) Clairmont. She married Harry J. Clark on July 18, 1992. He preceded her in death February 6, 2021. Bette moved to Loco Hills, New Mexico in September 1949, which she considered the greatest culture shock of her life. She moved to Artesia three months later and considered it home until her passing. Bette was known as Grandmom by anyone who knew and loved her. This was an endearing name to her. The doors to her home were always opened and you were always welcomed by her beautiful smile. You could hear her singing or humming as she walked around her home. Grandmom made the choice each and every day to make the best of everything and would say "inch by inch anything's a cinch." She was a woman of great faith and trust in the Lord. She faced life with courage, strength, love and forgiveness. She worked many years in medical offices as a receptionist and insurance clerk. Grandmom was never idle. She began each day reading her bible and devotionals. She loved working in her flower garden, knitting, needle point, working on puzzles, reading, baking (really loved experimenting with recipes on the family), playing games with family, babysitting grandchildren and great-grandchildren and attending all of their activities. She enjoyed being camp host with Harry during the summer months and traveling in their RV. She was also known to try every gadget the great-grandkids got for Christmas including a motor scooter which she rode down the sidewalk. Bette leaves behind three daughters: Kathy Wilbanks and husband Ronnie, Debbie Shuman and husband Johnny, and Donna Marsh. Grandchildren: Lance Wilbanks and wife Michelle, Jennifer Miller and husband Robby, Aaron Wilbanks and wife Nicole, Jarrod Richardson and wife Tianna, Christopher Lee and wife Melyssa, Cara Beth Petersen and husband Andrew, Iris Rodriquez, Carter Shuman and wife Trish, Landon Shuman and wife Courtney. Great-grandchildren: Kierra Liles and husband Cameron, Kambree Wilbanks, Tyler Mansell, Keaton Wilbanks, Ethan Wilbanks, Kenna Wilbanks, Teagan Miller, Peyton Stone, Presleigh Stone, Mya Wilbanks, Adaelyn Lee, Embry Lee, Oliver Lee, Mable Lee, Kinslee Richardson, Amanda Shuman, Radyn Shuman, Happiness Shuman, Hudson Shuman, Amelia Shuman, Brighten Shuman, Kellan Petersen, Kennedy Petersen, Macsen Petersen, Tyler Henson and wife Kayla, Payton Henson, Lauren "Sissy" Henson, Chevy Rodriquez and Lilly Rodriquez. Great-great-granddaughter: Blakely Liles. Brothers: Donald Clairmont and wife Dot and LeRoy Clairmont and wife Carol. Numerous nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, brothers Edward H. Clairmont and John "Puzzy" N. Clairmont, sister Phyllis Amuso and great-grandson Jordan Shuman. Our sincerest thanks to all those who loved and cared for our mother/grandmother in her final days including Jamie and Cierra with Encompass Hospice nursing staff, her caregivers from Comfort Keepers, and Lina Esparza Flores. The words that she left us are, "I pray that you will remember the words of our Lord, and love one another as I have loved you"

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Justin Todd Coker - October 20, 1963 - April 06, 2022

Departed: 04/06/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Graveside services are scheduled for 11am Monday, April 11, at the Texas State Veterans Cemetery at Abilene, Texas for Justin Todd Coker of Artesia, New Mexico. Mr. Coker, 58, died on April 6, 2022, at his home in Artesia. Jason Kraft will officiate at the services. Veteran Honors will also be given by United States Air Force. Visitation will be at Terpening & Son Mortuary from 2 to 6pm Sunday, April 10. Justin was born on October 20, 1963, at Lackland Air Force Base in Texas; the son of Tom Coker and Vergie Singleton Coker. On December 19, 2011, he was married to Laura Robbins in Las Vegas, NV. Justin and Laura came to Artesia in July 2015 from San Angelo, TX. Justin served in the United States Air Force for 20+ years, retiring with honors in 2004. He also served the federal government as a training manager and instructional systems specialist for 17 years. He was a Christ follower who enjoyed studying God's Word, riding motorcycles, camping, and playing bass guitar. He was also a member of the Christian Motorcyclists Association, San Angelo, TX chapter. He was preceded in death by his father Tom Coker and his mother Vergie Coker. Survivors include his wife and soulmate Laura Coker; son Joshua Coker, daughter Brandi Coker Weaver, step-son Samuel Wilder; brothers Tommy Coker and Jeffery Coker; sister Connie Coker Griggs; grandchildren Caitlin Weaver, Maximus Weaver, Leonidus Weaver, Jettson Coker, Stevie Coker, and Charlie Coker; daugher-in-law Brittany Coker and son-in-law Ben Weaver.

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Timothy Paul Williams - June 26, 1967 - April 04, 2022

Departed: 04/04/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: No services are scheduled for Timothy Paul Williams of Artesia, New Mexico.Mr. Williams, 54, died on April 4, 2022 in Roswell, New Mexico.Cremation has taken place under the direction of Terpening & Son Mortuary.Timothy was born on June 26, 1967 in Odessa, Texas; the son of Walter Lynn Williams and Mickey Vaughn Williams.He was an automation specialist in the oil field.He was preceded in death by his mother Mickey Gothard, father Walter Williams, and a brother Anthony "Tony" Williams.He is survived by his sister Nancy "Trini" Williams.

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Clovis Antonio Samora - June 13, 1936 - April 02, 2022

Departed: 04/02/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Clovis Samora of Artesia, New Mexico passed away on Apr 2, 2022. His loved ones are composing his obituary, which you will be able to read here.

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Branda Bartlett - October 21, 1993 - April 02, 2022

Departed: 04/02/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Branda "Boo" Bartlett, age 28 left us to be with God on April 2, 2022.

She leaves behind many friends and family members. She was preceded in death by her Dad Billie May and her Grandfather Leo Pennington.

She is survived by her mother and stepfather Christine and Michael Pascoe. Grand parents: Donna and Glen Bishop, Becky and Donnie May, Cathy Pennington, and Linda and David Pascoe. Her brother Dustin Pennington and life partner Brittany Caley, and her step-sister Katelyn Pascoe. Nephews Jackson and Jace and nieces Chloe and Mallory. Aunts and Uncles: Terri and Johnny Woods and Tracy and Jesse Ramirez and numerous cousins.

Branda leaves behind more than just the memories of the times shared with her; she leaves a piece of her heart in each of us. For many of us who had the pleasure of knowing her, she inspired us with her sincerity, her loyalty , and her bravery. We owe it to Branda to take what she gave us and keep that part of her alive forever.

Services will be held on April 22nd at 2pm at Faith Baptist Church, 401 S. 20th street in Artesia NM.

The family requests that everyone wear bright colors to help celebrate her life and legacy.

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Carol Northam - Unknown - March 28, 2022

Departed: 03/28/2022 (Artesia)

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Service are scheduled for 10 am Saturday. April 9, at Terpening & Son Chapel for Carol Jean Northam. Burial will follow at Woodbine Cemetery. Pallbearers will be Patrick Allen, Dusty Allen, Andy Allen, Paul Northam, Rusty Westfall, Ryan Craine, and Rhonda Bollman.  Born in Artesia, New Mexico, Feb. 26, 1945, Carol was a Godly woman, wife, mother, and grandmother. A life-long member of the church of Christ, Carol passed from this life, Monday, March 28, 2022, in Houston, Texas, of natural causes. Survived by husband, Thurman Ray Northam; children, Rhonda Gayle Bollman and Paul Ray Northam; daughter-in-law Heather Leigh Lewis Northam; grandchildren Katy Brooke Bollman, Kobe James Bollman, Luke Conner Northam, Lydia Ella Northam, and Micah Lynn Lewis Northam; sister and brother-in-law, Betty Jo and Smith Allen, and a large family including numerous nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, and cousins. To her family, she was "Sister" or "Aunt Sister." To be her friend was an honor; to have her as a friend was to have someone you could always count on. Carol was preceded in death by her father, J.B. (James Benjamin) Cox and mother, Vernace Marie McCasland Cox. She graduated from Artesia High School in 1963 and from Massey Business College in 1969. Carol and Thurman Northam married June 3, 1966. Following their marriage, they lived in Chicago and Lamesa, finally settling in Houston, Texas in 1970. Carol had a long-varied career including culinary arts, school food services (specializing in wonderful desserts), then working with special needs students at Sparks Elementary School in Pasadena, Texas. Carol's favorite hobby was using a needle and thread. She loved to sew, crochet, knit, quilt, embroider, and even reupholstered furniture. She always found time to visit the sick and help where she was needed. Never meeting a stranger, she was a loyal, caring, generous, much-loved friend. Although she is missed more than we can express, her spirit lives on within us, and we take solace in the knowledge that she is no longer suffering but is in the arms of her loving Lord and Savior.

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David Luis Aguilera - March 09, 1988 - March 27, 2022

Departed: 03/27/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Services are scheduled for 10 am Friday, April 15, at Terpening & Son Mortuary for David Luis Aguilera of Lake Arthur, New Mexico.Mr. Aguilera, 34, died on March 28, 2022.Visitation will be at Terpening & Son Mortuary from 2 to 6 pm on Thursday.David was born on March 9, 1988 in Artesia; the son of Juan Antonio Franco Aguilera and Lorenza Guiterrez.He worked as an operator in the oil field.Survivors include his mother Lorenza Aguilera; father Juan Antonio Aguilera; children Nazarena Chavez, Analia Chavez, Alejandro Chavez, Esmerelda Chavez, David Luis Aguilera Jr., and Zayana Aguilera; brothers Valentin Gutierrez, Miguel Barrios, Juan Antonio Aguilera Jr., Daniel Aguilera, and Tony Aguilera; sisters Veronica Romero, Yolanda Corza and Kelly Aguilera.

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Linda Murl Harvey - June 13, 1957 - March 25, 2022

Departed: 03/25/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Linda Murl Harvey passed away March 25, 2022, in Albuquerque, NM and was immediately received in Heaven by our Lord Jesus Christ.Linda was born on June 13, 1957, in Artesia, New Mexico, to Roosevelt Harvey and Jimell "Hutson" Harvey. She was a graduate of Artesia High School, class of 1975, afterwards she went on to earn a Bachelor's Degree from New Mexico State University in Las Cruces, NM. She was a long time resident of Albuquerque, NM, where she worked for Johnson & Johnson for many many years and spent the last 17 years of her life working for Curia Global Inc.Survivors include her father Roosevelt Harvey of Artesia, NM. Siblings, Donald Lee Hutson of Artesia, NM, Evangelist Willie Howard Hutson and wife Marcela of Austin, TX. She leaves behind many aunts and uncles, nieces and nephews as well as many cousins who reside throughout New Mexico, Mississippi, Illinois, Texas, California and New York. Linda was blessed to have many good friends that she loved very much and cared deeply for; just as much as she did her own family. She was preceded in death by her mother, Jimell "Hutson" Harvey, brother Johnny P. Hutson and sister Wilma Jackson.She will be remembered as one who encouraged us all to treat people with love and kindness; regardless of how they treated us. Linda, you are deeply loved and you will be deeply missed. Thank you Lord, for placing her in our lives.Services will be held at Terpening & Sons Mortuary at 611 W. Grand Ave., Artesia, NM. 88210.The viewing will be held Thursday, April 7, 2022, 6-8 pm Services are scheduled for 2 pm Friday, April 8th. Burial will follow at Woodbine Cemetery. Arrangements are under the direction of Terpening and Son Mortuary. Condolences may be expressed online at www.artesiafunerals.com.

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Thomas Elzie Brown - October 24, 1929 - March 25, 2022

Departed: 03/25/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Thomas E. Brown, Jr. went to be with his Lord on March 25, 2022. Tommy, as he was known to family and friends, was born in Coleman, Texas on October 24, 1929 to Tom E. Brown, Sr. and Anna Cleo Bowers Brown. Tommy and his parents moved to Artesia in 1938, where his father opened Brown Pipe and Supply.Tommy was preceded in death by his beloved wife Mary Frances Gandy Brown, his parents Tom and Cleo Brown and many many dear friends and family. He is survived by his children Mary Ann Brown of Westminster, CA; Paula Brown Miller of Roswell, NM; Thomas E. Brown, III and his wife Wendy Forbes Brown of Albuquerque, NM; his granddaughters Mary Michelle Miller Pisciotta and her husband Tom of Frisco, TX; and Anna Cassidy Brown of Oklahoma City, OK. He is also survived by Mary Butcher Macaulay and her husband Phil who reside in Perth, Australia. In addition, the family would like to recognize and thank LaRue Pinson who served as Tommy's executive assistant for 54 years.Tommy met his best friend, Ed Mitchell, when his family moved to Artesia. They learned to fly together and Tommy always joked that they both achieved their goals; Tommy got his private pilot's license and eventually a plane and Ed walked on the moon.Tommy graduated from Artesia High School in 1947 and enrolled in Baylor University. During his time at Baylor he met Mary Frances Gandy on a blind double date. They were married on November 22, 1949 at her mother's house in Temple, Texas. After graduation they moved to Artesia and began managing the family business.Tommy loved public service. He served on the Artesia City Council from 1956 - 62; the Police and Fire Commission, 1956 - 62; Mayor Pro Tem, 1960 - 62; Chairman of the City Planning Commission, 1962 - 63; New Mexico House of Representatives, 1966 - 82; New Mexico State Police Commission where he served as Chairman and was instrumental in the formation of the New Mexico Department of Public Safety; and a lobbyist and consultant for various oil and gas producers in New Mexico. He worked as a lobbyist for 16 years.Tommy was a member of First Baptist Church for more than 80 years and was the long time voice of the Bulldogs as both the stadium announcer and then the play-by-play announcer for KSVP. He continued to work supplying stats for many years.A Memorial Service is scheduled for Friday, April 8, 2022 at 1:30 pm at First Baptist Church of Artesia. The family invites you to join them for coffee,, tea and conversation in Fellowship Hall after the service.

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David "Skip" B. Singleton - February 29, 1964 - March 22, 2022

Departed: 03/22/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: On Monday, March 22, 2022, David “Skip” Singleton, age 58, peacefully made his way to the heavenly gates, into the arms of family. Skip was born on February 29, 1964, in Artesia, NM. He was the son of David B. Singleton & Gayle L. Singleton.

Memorial services will be held Monday March 28,2022 1 o’clock pm at Harvest Fellowship in Artesia New Mexico.  Honorary pallbearers are: Jacob Trejo, Patrick Singleton, Jerry Jones, EJ Carnero, J.R. Null, Shane Donaldson, Blaze Donaldson, Dakota Corbell, Justin Cartwright, & Anthony Castillo.

Skip started his love for sports in his early life, he loved football and baseball. He served the community of Artesia for many years coaching both sports. In his spare time Skip spent his time managing the baseball fields at Jaycee Park, making sure the kids always had a safe, clean field to play on. Skip also enjoyed hunting and fishing, playing golf, & he loved to tinker with everything. If you know Skip, you know he had a love for guitars and music. If a song was playing he was dancing and if he didn’t know the words to the song he hummed along like he did. Skip was the ultimate handyman. He enjoyed working on cars and anything else he felt “needed” fixing. Skip was a jokester. He loved to tell jokes he made up himself or that he had heard from others. He had a real knack for making people laugh. Skip was loved by many and will be missed terribly.

He was preceded in death by his parents, and grandparents. Survivors include daughter Tieler Corbell & husband Dakota, brother Tim Singleton and wife Vickey, sister Krystal Cartwright & husband Justin, nephews Jacob Trejo, EJ Carnero, nieces Keryssa Carnero,& Mandy McAllister and 5 grandsons Patrick, Kaden, Jamison, Chase, & Jaxson. Skip was also survived by many cousins, friends, & neighbors who to him were his family.

Skip will be remembered for his heart for others, his tremendous strength, and his love for coaching the kids. May he rest in Paradise, forever. The family asks if you would like to make a donation in honor of Skip. Artesia Little League Baseball will be accepting donations on his behalf. For donations contact Rolando at 575-513-2172 or mail a check to P.O. Box 1108 Artesia, NM.

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Wendell "Wendy" Ray Parker - May 20, 1953 - March 18, 2022

Departed: 03/18/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: On Friday, March 18, 2022 Wendell "Wendy" Parker, age 68, passed away in Lubbock, TX.

Wendell was born on May 20, 1953 in Artesia, NM. He was the son of Joe Orland and Delma (Wood) Parker. He married the love of his life, Sharon Ivans June 29, 1974.

He was preceded in death by his parents, sister Orlene Foster, brothers Royce, Jerry, Larry, and Rodney.

Survivors include his wife Sharon Parker, daughter Raylene (Parker) Miller and Husband Shaun of Prosper, TX; son Chad Parker and wife Andrea of Albuquerque, NM; 7 grandchildren: Logan, Kiara, Hayden, Ava, Natalie, Noah and Jackson; sisters Sally Phillips and husband David of Carlsbad, NM and Ann VanWinkle of Hope, NM; and numerous nieces and nephews.

A private family memorial will be held at a later date.

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Pamela Jean Moreau - January 30, 1954 - March 16, 2022

Departed: 03/16/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: On Wednesday, March 16, 2022, our beloved Pamela J. Moreau, age 68, peacefully gained her heavenly wings at home in the arms of family. Pam was born on January 30, 1954, in Artesia, NM. She was the daughter of Wilda Jean and F. M. (Jiggs) Parrish. She married the love of her life, Jimmy A. Moreau, in the backyard of her best friend of over 40 years, Debbie Ross. Memorial services will be held at 10 am on Tuesday, March 22, in the chapel at Terpening and Sons Mortuary. There will be a "Last Ride" from the old Kmart building, kickstands up at 11:30. A celebration of life will be held after the ride at Andy and Marcye Davis' barn off of James Funk Rd. Come share favorite memories of Pam. The family is asking that you please wear something Winged Riders, Harley Davidson, or orange and black to the celebration. Honorary pallbearers are: Jacob Martinez, Jax Short, Bryton Schwiger, Wesley Schwiger-Stone, Gabe Parrish, Tim Parrish, Jarrod Moreau, Tyler Moreau, Gary Dale Moreau, Wesley Isaac Johnson, Josh Johnson, and Wade Johnson. Pam loved her family!! Her grandkids were her pride and joy. She enjoyed spending time with them anytime she could. Favorite memories were watching thunderstorms from Pop's shop, Nana's light, showing the babies the moon in the sky, and just playing at the house in Nana's rags. In Pam's 33 year career, she started as a teller and worked tirelessly to retirement as the Operations Officer at First American Bank. She loved her "girls" and was the BEST supervisor as they say. Pam's hobbies include reading books from her huge library collection. Some of her favorite authors include Steven King, Dean Koontz, Anne Rice, and John Sanford. She also loved doing crosswords, search and finds, and Sudoku puzzles. She could dance her heart out too. Anywhere you found her, you would find a radio playing music at all times. She loved dancing around her large kitchen with her husband, kids, and grandchildren. Friday nights were game nights at the Moreau house. She has passed that love on to her family. Rummy, Canasta, 10,000, Skip-Bo, and Uno. The remainder of her weekends, she could be found on the back of their Harley Davidson. Many adventures were found while traveling the states on the bike. Pam was a founding member of the Winged Riders Motorcycle Club. She also was the driving force behind the many rallies, toy runs, food drives, and monetary donations for locals in need. Mom loved her baby, Free-duh!! If the puppy couldn't go, Nana didn't go. That's just the way it was. If you ever saw Mom without her dog, she sure didn't stay long. They were inseparable. She was preceded in death by her parents, brothers Ronnie and Jimmy Parrish, and a son, Jacob. Survivors include husband, Jimmy, of the family home. Sons Jamey Schwiger, wife Selena, and Michael Melton. Daughters Brandy Wolf and Taryn Moreau, husband Dan. Grandsons Wesley Stone, wife Lindsey, Bryton Schwiger, Jacob Martinez, and Jax Short. Granddaughters Adrianne and Deanna Martinez, Kaylee and Presley Florez. One great granddaughter, Skylar and many nieces and nephews. Pam will be remembered for her heart for others, her tremendous strength, and her BEAUTIFUL smile. May she rest in Paradise, forever.

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Crystal Leigh Perez - March 06, 1969 - March 15, 2022

Departed: 03/15/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services are scheduled for 10 am Saturday, March 19, at Trinity Temple Assembly of God for Crystal Leigh Sherrell Perez of Artesia, New Mexico.Crystal, 53, died on March 14, 2022 in Pottsville, Arkansas.Bobby Argo will officiate at the services. Cremation will take place under the direction of Terpening & Son Mortuary.Crysty was born March 6, 1969 in Roswell, New Mexico; the daughter of Jerry Sherrell and Ruthie Sherrell.She graduated from Artesia High School in 1987. She worked at Yates Petroleum for several years.She married Rocky Perez and moved to Glendale, Arizona where she worked for Waste Management.Crysty loved all her family and friends. She was preceded in death by her mother.Survivors include her husband Rocky Perez; father Jerry Sherrell and wife Angel; brother Jerry Wayne Sherrell and wife Tammy; sister Ashlie Rodriguez and husband Damian; also by her nieces Amber Sherrell, Leanne Kloppenburg, and Deanna Rodriguez.

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Lowell McRivers Irby - February 28, 1933 - March 15, 2022

Departed: 03/15/2022 (Artesia)

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Carolyn Sue Chumbley - March 11, 1948 - March 14, 2022

Departed: 03/14/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Services are scheduled for 10 am Friday, March 18 at First Baptist Church for Carolyn Chumbley of Artesia, New Mexico. Mrs. Chumbley 74, died on March 14, 2022 at her home in Artesia. Carolyn was born on March 11, 1948 in Artesia; the daughter of Burnice Virgil Bratcher and Maggie Elizabeth Wyche Bratcher. Carolyn was a lifelong resident of Artesia. Above all things, Carolyn was an artist. Carolyn expressed her artistic gift through a variety of media, including oil and watercolor painting, crocheting, needlepoint, ceramics, quilting, and all manner of home construction and remodeling. Carolyn was a gifted seamstress, having made clothes for herself, and those she loved. She was a member of the local quilting club and made numerous quilts for her family and loved ones. Carolyn was an accomplished musician, and will be remembered for her gift of music, which she shared with others throughout her life. She began playing the piano in the church in her teen years and extended this ministry to include singing in choir, playing in the handbell choir, and participating in church holiday music each year at Christmas and Easter. Carolyn also spent many years as an accompanist and teachers aid in the Artesia Public Schools. "Mrs. Chums" love of music had an enduring impact on a countless number of children. Carolyn's love was also expressed in cooking for others. No holiday meal was complete without Carolyn's home made bread. She shared her love of cooking with all of her children and grand children, teaching them to make her homemade bread, her own grandmother's ice cream, and "Grannie" cookies, which were re-named by the grand kids as "Grammy" cookies. Carolyn was preceded in death by her father. Survivors include her mother Elizabeth Bratcher; husband George Chumbley; sons John Chumbley, Lynn Chumbley and wife Kimberly, Robert Chumbley and wife Tao; a brother Mike Bratcher; sisters Avonna Davis and Zelma Haggard; and seven grandchildren - Lawson, Kaitlyn, Deacon, Hudson, Lilian, Margo, and Reid. Ty Houghtaling and David Brunson will officiate the services. Burial will follow at Woodbine Cemetery. Pallbearers are Lawson Chumbley, Timothy Yates, Ben Haggard, Nick Haggard, Zach Mathews and Raymond Mathews. Honorary Pallbearers are Deacon Chumbley, Hudson Chumbley, Reid Chumbley. A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants. She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: "Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all." Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate. Proverbs 31 10-31

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Margaret Baca Aguilar - June 27, 1934 - March 11, 2022

Departed: 03/11/2022 (Artesia)

Obituary Preview: Services for Margaret Baca Aguilar will be held at Trinity Temple on Saturday, March 26 at 11:00 am. Pastor Larry Rolan will be presiding. Burial at Twin Oaks Cemetery immediately after the service. Margaret was born to Albino and Mary Baca on June 27, 1934. She passed away at the age of 87, on March 11, 2022. Margaret held multiple jobs. She served on the Artesia Public Schools School Board for 25 years, from February 1992 to 2017. Margaret loved going to church. She was a very loving Mother, Grandmother, and Great-Grandmother. Margaret was a long resident of Artesia. She raised 7 children and many of their friends that would stay with her from time to time, her door was always open and she loved everyone. Margaret was a people person, who loved talking, visiting, and listening to anyone she met. She was loved by all who met her. Margaret always loved cooking her homemade spaghetti and meatballs for Christmas dinners. Margaret was preceded in death by her parents, Alvin and Mary Baca. Grandmother Petra Baca. Two sisters, Lora Lopez, and Clara Landeros. Two brothers, Albino Baca Jr. and Bobby Alaniz. Two Great-Grandsons, Benjamin Hernandez and Matthew Fierro. Margaret is survived by Rosemary Fierro and her husband, Sammy of Artesia. Suzanne Valencia of San Angelo. Texas. Jerome Aguilar and wife, Tracy of Artesia. Audrey Saenz and husband, Eli of Artesia. Mark Aguilar and wife, Margie of Carlsbad. Ivan Aguilar and wife, Celeste of San Angelo, Texas. Fabian Aguilar of Artesia. Brother Jo Baca of Artesia. Two nieces, Debra Martinez and family, and Ruth Valdez and family, both from Carlsbad. 21 Grandchildren, 27 Great-Grandchildren, 21 Great-Great Grandchildren, many nieces, and nephews. The family would like to thank the special people that took such loving and great care of their Mother. Fussein of the Dialysis Center. Luisa Seal from Encompass Home Health Care. Jessica, Bonnie, and Debra from Hospice Care and Pastor Michael.

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A Wide Range of Funeral Services

Terpening & Son Mortuary offers a comprehensive range of funeral services designed to meet the diverse needs of the Artesia community. Their services include:

- Traditional funeral services with visitation and burial or entombment

- Cremation services with options for memorialization and scattering

- Memorial ceremonies and celebrations of life

- Graveside services and burials

- Pre-planning and pre-arrangement options for those who wish to plan ahead

A State-of-the-Art Facility

The mortuary's facility at 611 W. Grand Ave is designed to provide a comfortable and peaceful atmosphere for families and friends gathering to pay their respects. The spacious chapel can accommodate large crowds, while the intimate reception area provides a cozy setting for sharing stories and memories. The facility is also equipped with modern audio-visual equipment, ensuring that every service is conducted with dignity and respect.

Personalized Funeral Planning

At Terpening & Son Mortuary, every funeral service is tailored to reflect the unique personality and spirit of the individual being honored. The mortuary's experienced staff works closely with families to understand their wishes and preferences, incorporating personal touches and meaningful elements into every service. From favorite music and flowers to special mementos and rituals, every detail is carefully considered to create a truly personalized celebration of life.

Caring for Families During Difficult Times

Losing a loved one is never easy, but Terpening & Son Mortuary is committed to making the grieving process as smooth as possible. Their compassionate staff provides emotional support and guidance throughout the funeral planning process, offering resources and referrals to help families navigate their loss. From bereavement counseling to aftercare programs, Terpening & Son Mortuary is dedicated to supporting families during their time of need.

Community Involvement

Terpening & Son Mortuary is deeply rooted in the Artesia community, actively participating in local events and charities that benefit the region. The mortuary's staff members are proud to volunteer their time and resources to support worthy causes, from sponsoring Little League teams to hosting community fundraisers. By giving back to the community that has supported them for so many years, Terpening & Son Mortuary demonstrates its commitment to making a positive impact on the lives of those they serve.

Contact Information

If you're looking for a trusted funeral home in Artesia, New Mexico, consider reaching out to Terpening & Son Mortuary. You can contact them by phone at (phone number), or visit their website at (website URL). For more information about their services or to schedule a consultation, please don't hesitate to reach out.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and funeral or memorial services.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the deceased person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also mention any charitable organizations or causes that were important to the deceased.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos of the deceased in the obituary. This can help personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful to readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the newspaper or online platform directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some may have online forms or email addresses where you can send the obituary, while others may require you to visit their office in person.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or online platform. Some newspapers or websites may charge a fee based on the length of the obituary or the number of photos included, while others may offer free or discounted rates for certain types of notices.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it's possible to write your own obituary in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and accomplishments. Keep in mind that your family or executor may need to review and edit the final version before publication.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only basic information such as their name, age, and date of death. It's often used when a full obituary is not desired or cannot be published due to time constraints.

What is a funeral notice?

A funeral notice is a type of obituary that focuses specifically on the details of the funeral or memorial service, including the date, time, location, and officiant. It may also include information about visitation hours or other events related to the service.

Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the deceased. Including humorous stories or personal anecdotes can help celebrate their life and make the tribute more engaging and relatable.

How do I ensure accuracy in an obituary?

To ensure accuracy, double-check all facts and spellings before submitting the obituary for publication. Verify dates, names, and other details with family members or official documents whenever possible.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or lyrics that were meaningful to the deceased can be included in an obituary. They can add context and depth to the tribute, as well as provide comfort to those who are grieving.

What if I want to keep certain information private?

You have control over what information is included in an obituary. If you prefer not to disclose certain details, such as the cause of death or specific family relationships, you can omit them or phrase them discreetly.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to publish an obituary without printing it in a physical newspaper. This can be a cost-effective option that still reaches a wide audience.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or online platform. Some may publish notices immediately, while others may have a delay of several days or weeks.

Can I make corrections to an already-published obituary?

If you need to make corrections to an already-published obituary, contact the publication or online platform directly. They may be able to issue a correction notice or update the original posting.

What if I'm unsure about what to write in an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking guidance from a funeral home director, grief counselor, or professional writer who specializes in tributes. You can also look at examples online for inspiration.

Can I include charitable donations information in an obituary?

Yes, you can include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary. This allows friends and family to make contributions in memory of the deceased.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If you're dealing with sensitive information such as a suicide or controversial circumstances surrounding the death, approach the topic with compassion and tact. Consider consulting with a trusted advisor or grief counselor for guidance.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for a long time?

Yes, it's never too late to write an obituary for someone who has passed away. This can be a meaningful way to honor their memory and provide closure for loved ones.

What if I'm not comfortable writing an obituary myself?

If you're overwhelmed by the task of writing an obituary, consider asking a friend or family member for assistance. Alternatively, some funeral homes and online platforms offer writing services or templates to help guide you through the process.