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James Kenneth Rhoades - July 28, 1944 - April 21, 2022

Departed: 04/21/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: James Kenneth Rhoades, 77, Kokomo, passed away on Thursday April 21, 2022, at his home.  He was born in Wabash, IN., on July 28, 1944, to the late Glenn K. and Lois (Crane) Rhoades.

James was a 1962 graduate of Wabash High School. He worked for the Chrysler Corporation as a Job setter and retired after 30 years of service.  He was a member of the debate team and band at Wabash High School.  He was an avid swimmer, who enjoyed teaching his kids how to swim.  He loved going on the family vacation every year to Yogi Bear Campground, where he enjoyed camping, grilling, cooking, and fishing.

James is survived by his children, Glenn (Kimberly) Rhoades, Sheila (Shannon) Rhoades, Stephen Rhoades and Jeremy Rhoades; grandchildren, Dustin Rhoades, Kelsie Rhoades, Rachael Rhoades, Courtney Rhoades, Jeremiah Rhoades, Jacqueline Rhoades, Jade Rhoades, Israel Rhoades, Autumn Rhoades and Willow Rhoades; great grandchildren, Harper, Samuel, Noah, Kyen, Gia and Grayson; and the mother of their children, Sherry C. Rhoades.

He was preceded in death by his parents and one brother.

A celebration of life will take place at a later date.  Stout & Son Funeral Home has been entrusted with cremation.  Messages of condolence may be left online at www.stoutandson.com.

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Phyllis Joan Scott - January 03, 1939 - April 13, 2022

Departed: 04/13/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Phyllis Joan Scott, 83, Kokomo, passed away peacefully Wednesday April 13, 2022, at 9:02 pm surrounded by her family. She was born January 3, 1939, in Tipton County, to the late Earl and Frances (Rice) Conwell. On January 16, 1966, she married Fred W. Scott Sr. and he preceded her in death on November 18, 2009.

She graduated from Kokomo High School. She worked as a custodian at Western High School for 20 years and retired in 1992. She loved having family meals around the big family table and loved having her grandkids stay the night with her.  She is a breast cancer survivor and enjoyed watching Hallmark and Family Feud. She loved playing Bingo and Euchre with her friends at the Senior Center.

Phyllis is survived by children, Tom (Teresa) Smith, Jean (Denny) Heaton, Kelly (Clyde) Petrey, Fred W. Scott Jr., Kevin Scott, William (Diana) Scott and Jackie Long; grandchildren, Jason, Michael, Kim, Jennifer, Damon, Kasey, Brock, Cristy, Kristina, Matt, Andy, Cara, Jessica, Matt, Brenton, Brandon, Luke, Trisha and Nicole; several great grandchildren and one great great grandchild.

She was preceded in death by her parents, husband; sons, David Long and Kraig Scott; and brother, Richard Conwell.

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Mary Helen Rubush - June 09, 1933 - April 12, 2022

Departed: 04/12/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Mary Helen (Quakenbush) Rubush, 88, of Forest, passed away 5:11 pm Tuesday April 12, 2022, at Ascension St. Vincent—Kokomo. She was born at home in Howard County on June 9, 1933, the daughter of the late Warren and Mary Jane (Clark) Quakenbush. On June 12, 1951, she married James Rubush in Frankfort, IN, and he survives.

Helen was a 1951 graduate of Western High School. She worked as a homemaker all her life who made taking care of her family a priority. She was an avid reader. Helen enjoyed tending to her flowers and vegetable garden. She was a skilled quilter and sewer. She was a loving wife of 70 years and she adored her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

In addition to her husband James, she is survived by her children, William F. Rubush, Sharon (Sam) Crail, North Carolina, Marilyn (Howard) Leisure; brother-in-law, Rex Hendershot; grandchildren, Scott Rubush, Orlando, FL, Joe Mitchell, Danielle (Chris) Beard, North Carolina, Stephanie (Chris) Bronstrup, North Carolina; stepgrandchildren, Shelly (Tom) Cunningham, Brian (Melissa) Crail, Florida; great-grandchildren, Kelsey Mitchell, Ava Beard, Tanner Beard, Brody Bronstrup, Camden Bronstrup; step-great-grandchildren, Kyrsten (Wade) Teltoe, Bryce Cunningham, Ashley Cunningham, Hannah Crail, Emma Crail; numerous nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her parents, siblings, Mildred Shuck, Richard (Shirley) Quakenbush, Betty (Marvin) Bingman, William Quakenbush, Eleanor (Eugene) Martin, Barbara Hendershot; daughter-in-law, Cathy Rubush.

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Maude (Brazill) O'Rourke - April 06, 1929 - April 11, 2022

Departed: 04/11/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: It is with profound sadness that we announce that Maude Brazill O’Rourke, 93, Kokomo, Indiana, passed away peacefully 6:03 pm April 11, 2022, at Bloom at Kokomo. She was born in Battle Harbor, Labrador, Canada, on April 6,1929, the daughter of Lavinia Quentin Brazill and Stanley Whitbourne Brazill. She is survived by her brother, Hogarth;and pre-deceased by her 4 brothers and 3 sisters.  On June 1, 1950, she married Norman Elsas O’Rourke, a decorated USAF veteran served for 26 years, he preceded her in death on September 5, 2012.  She was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother.

Maude worked alongside her husband at a successful family-owned restaurant, Country Gal’s Kitchen in Montgomery. Alabama.  After retiring, she and her husband relocated to Kokomo, Indiana, to be close to their extended family. She was a very caring person who will be missed by family and friends alike.

A beloved mother, she is survived by her daughters Lillian Gillar and her husband, Albert of Sunrise, Florida; and Kathy Young and her husband, Jeff of Russiaville, Indiana.

Affectionately known as “Nana” (a role she relished) to her grandchildren: James Boley and his wife, Rebekah (and her son Ethan Kinney), of Kokomo, Indiana; Clint Boley of Kokomo, Indiana; David Young of Russiaville, Indiana; Kyle Young and his wife, Carly, currently residing in Dublin.Ireland; Christina Ujj and her husband, Bence of Marietta, Georgia; Kimberly Kozak and her husband Brian of Ocala, Florida; and Tiffany Gillar of Gainesville, Florida. She is the blessed great-grandmother of Tanner Boley, Konnor Boley, Sydnie Boley, Taylor Boley, Ashtin Boley, all of Kokomo, Indiana; Grayson Young of Dublin, Ireland; and Julia Ujj of Marietta, Georgia.

Maude’s family would like to extend a special thank you to the staff at Bloom and Paradigm Health for their excellent care and compassion.

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John Henry Carver Jr. - March 24, 1949 - April 08, 2022

Departed: 04/08/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: John Henry Carver Jr., 73, of Bringhurst, passed away 10:35 am Friday April 8, 2022, at Ascension St. Vincent – Kokomo. He was born in Kokomo on March 24, 1949, the son of the late John Henry Carver Sr. and Amelia Ann (Krych) Carver. On April 15, 1985, he married Ellen Rosenbush, and she preceded him in death on August 16, 2006.

John graduated high school at St. Joan of Arc. He worked as a foreman at Pepco Springs and conducted inspections. He loved model trains, gardening, and assisting others with short wave radio broadcasting. John was an avid reader and he dabbled in writing.

He is survived by his children, Doug Rosenbush, Michal Noble, Jon Patrick Carver; brothers, Jim Carver, Tom Carver; best friend, Sherry Farnsworth; grandchildren, Danielle Featherstone, Robert Rosenbush, Joshua Rosenbush, Aleshia Marie Lair, Jacob Noble, Jonathan Noble; and several nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his parents, John Henry Carver Sr. and Amelia Carver; and wife, Ellen Carver.

There are no public services scheduled at this time. Cremation has been entrusted to Stout & Son Funeral Home. Messages of condolence may be left online at www.stoutandson.com.

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Robert "Bob" Charles Morphew - December 06, 1941 - April 03, 2022

Departed: 04/03/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Robert “Bob” Charles Morphew, 80, Kokomo, went home to meet his Lord and Savior at 3:48 pm Sunday, April 3, 2022. He was getting ready for church, but instead was taken to worship with the angels and saints.  He was born December 6, 1941, in Marianna, Arkansas, the son of the late Payton and Maudie (Whisenhunt) Morphew. On June 20, 1959, he married Wandavee (Payton) Morphew in Anderson, and she survives.

Bob was a 1959 graduate of Alexandria High School. He surrendered to the ministry on Sunday, September 29, 1968, and preached his first sermon that very evening.  He received his Master’s Degree in Theology from Texas Baptist Institute in 1976 and a teaching certificate from Texas A&M University. Bob taught many seminary classes over the years in Texas, Indiana, and Michigan.  Bob shared the word of God from childhood, later pastoring churches in Indiana, Ohio, Texas, and Arkansas, most recently at First Landmark Baptist Church in Kokomo for the past 28 years. Bob loved spending time with his family and friends, gardening, carpentry, and most of all, leading others to Christ.

In addition to his wife of 62 years, Bob is survived by his children, Kimberly Phillips, Tamara (Tim) White, Pamela (Mark) Cullum, and Bobbi (Johnathan) Jasay; 23 grandchildren, Steven (Brandi) Phillips, Summer Crain, Shane Phillips, Shannon (Jonathan) Bryant, Lacey (Dave) Wright, Lindsey (Caleb) Morris, Susie (Dalton) Steele, Dylan Phillips, Marcie Pennington, Robert “Payton” (Amanda) Pennington, Kevin (Jill) Brock, Miranda Cullum, Klair (Kelly) Heathman, Tiffany Cullum, Heaven Mason, Dakota Jasay, Austin (Cassadi) Jasay, Jewel Jasay, Jeanette (Kraig) Richmond, Lydia Jasay, Joseph Jasay, Laura Jasay, and Levi Jasay; 36 great-grandchildren, Anabella Phillips, Izzac Phillips, Gaius Phillips, Eden Phillips, Steven Tiberius Phillips, Titus Crain, Piper Crain, Zander Crain, Ruby Phillips, Lilah Phillips, Tristan Bryant, Jaxon Bryant, Felicity Bryant, Logan Wright, Benjamin Melton, Madison Wright, Riley Henson, Kyleigh Henson, Tinleigh Steele, Everest Steele, Stevie Steele, Luke Pennington, Melody Pennington, Josie White, Brayden White, Bonnie Brock, Elam Brock, Timothy Heathman, Elizabeth Heathman, Nathan Heathman, Fitzlana Heathman, Presley Heathman, Asher Rhodes, Leah Mason, Christopher Mason, and Lillian Mason; siblings, Virginia Kuhn, Phyllis (Kevin) Alexander, and Mike (Brenda) Morphew; siblings-in-law Jane Morphew, Donna Sue Kiel, Hollis Jester, Shirley Morphew, Ellen Morphew, Sylvia (Russ) Marling.

Bob was preceded in death by his parents; mother and father-in-law, Ollie and Susie Payton; 10 siblings, Louise Everett, T.A. Morphew, Truett Morphew, Payton Morphew Jr., Leroy Morphew, James “Buddy” Morphew, Sue Jester, Rodger Morphew, Gloria June, and Joe Morphew; granddaughter, Jessica White; son-in-law, Steven Phillips Sr.; 4 unborn grandchildren; 11 unborn great-grandchildren; along with many other friends, in-laws, and family members.

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Ronald L. Howard - February 09, 1941 - April 01, 2022

Departed: 04/01/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Ronald L. Howard, 81, Kokomo, passed away at 4:04 am Friday, April 1, 2022, at Northwoods Village in Kokomo. He was born February 9, 1941 in Kokomo, the son of the late Wayne D. Sr and Ethel (Mullis) Howard. On February 16, 1962, he married Dixie Lawson in Kokomo, who preceded him in death on March 29, 2019.

Ron attended Kokomo High School. He retired from Cuneo Press after 10 years of service. Ron was also the captain at Harrison Township Volunteer Fire Department for 22.5 years. He enjoyed fishing, and working out in his garage.

Ron is survived by his son, Michael (Lisa) Howard; grandchildren, Cody and Cameron Howard; siblings, Ralph (Cindy) Howard, Barbara Parks, and Marjorie (Merrill) Horho; along with several nieces and nephews.

In addition to his wife Dixie, Ron was preceded in death by his parents, Wayne Sr. and Ethel Howard; son, Mark Howard; brother, Wayne Howard Jr.; and grandson, Michael C. Howard.

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Phyllis Voneda Mumaw - April 18, 1931 - March 30, 2022

Departed: 03/30/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Phyllis Voneda Mumaw, 90, Kokomo, passed away on Wednesday, March 30, 2022, at Golden Living Center. She was born April 18, 1931, in Howard County to the late Allan and Bernice (Cox) Rayls. On March 12, 1948, she married Richard G. Mumaw in Kokomo, who preceded her in death on December 19, 2009.

Phyllis retired from Delco Electronics and worked at several flower shops in Kokomo as a floral designer. She had an artistic and creative nature. Phyllis was a member of Abundant Life Church. In 2006, at the age of 75, she graduated with a bachelor’s degree in Christian Ministry from Indiana Christian University.

Phyllis is survived by her two children, Denise Johnson, and Gary (Nancy) Mumaw, both of Kokomo; sister, Shirley Lindsay, Rio Rancho, NM; 7 grandchildren, Charles (Brooke) Mumaw Jr., Mary (Ron Charles) Mumaw, Melissa (Josh) Douglass, Dennis (Katie) Johnson Jr., Justin (Jenna) Mumaw, Drew Mumaw, and Derek Mumaw; and 9 great-grandchildren.

In addition to her husband Richard, Phyllis was preceded in death by her parents; son; Charles A. Mumaw; sister, Marilyn Joan Warden; and brother, Jerry L. Rayls.

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Carolyn Carson - August 25, 1933 - March 27, 2022

Departed: 03/27/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Carolyn Taylor Carson, 88, of Russiaville, passed away at 5:20 am Sunday, March 27, 2022, at her home. She was born in Monroe Township on August 25, 1933, the daughter of the late Russell and Ester (Small) Taylor. On May 1, 1965, she married Don Carson at the New London Friends Church, who preceded her in death on October 22, 1999.

Carolyn was a 1951 graduate of Western High School. She was a lifelong member of New London Friends Church since 1944, and the New London Eastern Star. Carolyn worked at PPG in downtown Kokomo, Higbee Body Company, and Western School Corporation as a cook, where she retired from.  Her hobbies included crocheting, knitting, cross-stitching, and sewing.

She is survived by her children, Russell “Rusty” (Barbara) Carson, Linda Marie Sardin; brother, Lewis (Mary Frances) Taylor; grandchildren, Allison (Nick) Ogle, Natasha Tones, Lanika Sardin, Tiffany Covell, and Skylar (Kaitlin) Weikart; great-grandchildren, Ava, Lakai, Laina, Austyn, Kaitlyn, and Cora; and several nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Russell and Ester Taylor; husband, Don Carson; sisters, Virginia (John) Haynes, and Helen (Ralph) Kelly; 4 nieces; and 5 nephews.

Funeral service will be held at 2 pm Saturday, April 2, 2022 at Stout & Son Funeral Home, 200 E. Main St., Russiaville, with Pastor Jason Grant officiating. Burial will follow in New London Cemetery. Friends are invited to visit with the family from 12 pm to 2 pm Saturday at the funeral home before the service. Memorial contributions may be made to the New London Friends Church or the Russiaville Ambulance Service in Carolyn’s memory. Messages of condolence may be left online at www.stoutandson.com.

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Julia Ann (Rodkey) Orem - March 01, 1927 - March 27, 2022

Departed: 03/27/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Julia Ann (Rodkey) Orem, 95, of Russiaville, passed away 6:27 pm Sunday March 27, 2022, at her home. She was born in Russiaville on March 1, 1927, the daughter of the late Dudley and Lucille (Coin) Rodkey. On June 29, 1947, she married Leon Orem in their home and where they raised their family, and he survives. Last year, they celebrated 74 years of marriage.

Julia Ann was a 1945 graduate of Forest High School. She was an original member of the Fredrick Heinmiller Accordion Band. She worked as a homemaker and farm wife for 74 years. Julia Ann was a member of (Forest) Union Baptist Church where she led children’s Sunday school classes, was the Missionary Treasurer, and a member of their Fellowship Class. She was a past member of the Russiaville Home Economics Club. Julia Ann grew up cherishing her farm life. She was devoted to her family and preserving her heritage.

In addition to her husband, she is survived by their children, Raymond “Ray” Rodkey Orem, Russiaville, Donna Kay (Mark) Trenary, Forest; grandson, Ronnie (Stephanie) Orem, Forest; granddaughter Cheryl (Kevin Ridenour) Orem, Russiaville; great-grandchildren, Justin Byrd, Austin Orem, Hailey Orem, Gavin Ridenour.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Dudley and Lucille Rodkey; and son, Dudley Jay Orem.

Julia’s family would like to extend a special thank you to her caregivers; Karen Harness, Cami Harness, Doris Lechner, and Mae Yoder.

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Michael "Bryan" Johnson - June 12, 1959 - March 15, 2022

Departed: 03/15/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Michael “Bryan” Johnson, 62, of Hemlock, passed away 10:29 pm on March 15, 2022, at IU Health University Hospital in Indianapolis. He had his family by his side and passed after a battle with prostate cancer and a short battle of AML. He was born in Tipton, IN, on June 12, 1959, to Doris Williams and Don Johnson. On April 4, 2006, he married Melissa Morgan, and she survives.

Bryan was a 1978 graduate of Tipton High School. He has worked for 38 years at Amerigas Propane as a bulk driver. Bryan was passionate about spending time with his family. Some of his favorite things were grilling out, watching movies, helping kids and grandkids with their sports, and attending band or choir concerts. He was always there when they needed him, even if it was the advice they didn’t want to hear. He appreciated golfing with his sons and brother. Bryan was a member of Wildkat Creek Golf Course and often played in their league. He loved playing softball with his son, brothers, in-laws, or other stragglers he called family.

Bryan was very strong in his faith. He was an avid church goer and was a member of Woodland Church of God. Everybody who knew Bryan knew that he was a great man who was very loving and full of sarcasm. He would give you the shirt off his back if you needed. He always knew the right thing to say, and he will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

He will be greatly missed by those who survive him. In addition to his wife, Melissa Johnson, he is survived by his children, Brandy (Mark) Shelly, Jacob (Heather) Johnson, Josh (Reanna) Chilcote, Justin Morgan, Hannah Morgan, Jacob Morgan, Lilly (Scootie) Morgan, Jared Johnson; father, Don Johnson; brothers, Donnie (Aileen) Johnson, Eric (Tracy) Johnson; sisters, Heather (Rick) Ferren, Shannon Johnson; grandchildren, Allenah, Joe, Bryleigh, Cora, Tobin, Shawn, Imogen, Olliver, Aiden, Thomas; special aunt Karen (AJ) Henry; aunt, Ann Wisehart; uncles, Carson Hughes, Hal Hughes; several nieces, nephews, and cousins.

He was preceded in death by his mother, Doris Williams; stepfather, Jerry Williams; and aunts and uncles.

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Beverly "Sue" Thornton - January 24, 1934 - March 14, 2022

Departed: 03/14/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Beverly “Sue” Thornton, 88, Forest, peacefully went to be with her Lord & Savior at 3:43 pm Monday, March 14, 2022, at her home. She was born January 24, 1934, in Forest, the daughter of the late Ralph and Florence (Chapple) Milner. On May 31, 1959, she married Robert “Tex” Thornton in Dyer, IN, who preceded her in death on November 2, 2016.

Sue was a 1951 graduate of Forest High School, where she enjoyed a high level of success as a student athlete.  She was presented with the Purdue GAA award for all around excellence. She also served as the secretary and treasurer of her class.  Upon graduation, Sue wasted no time finding a job and was hired at Haynes Stellite as a quality controller. Sue and her sister Marilyn worked alternating shifts in order to provide care for their aging grandmother. While at Stellite, she met and befriended many co-workers that became lifelong friends. For recreation, Sue joined a rouge softball team sponsored by the YWCA. Her skill, talent and outgoing personality earned her a job as the Y-teen director. Many of the young athletes she mentored were so impacted by her influence that they too formed decade long friendships. Coaching brought much satisfaction but competing was Sue’s passion. She holds the record at 55 years of consecutive participation in the state tournament.  Bowling brought many new friends, adventures and even a lifelong partner as she met her husband Tex while bowling. Sue became an ambassador for the sport holding many offices and committee chairs throughout her long and colorful bowling career. She was elected to both the Kokomo and State Bowling Hall of Fames. During the summers, she played golf, mostly at the American Legion, of which she was a long time supporter. Sue prided herself in out-driving most male counter parts and won many side bets which were always donated to charities. She also excelled at cards, darts, and billiards. Sue participated in the Area IV Senior Games for many years winning numerous medals. With her family, Sue enjoyed many camping and fishing expeditions.

Sue was also a lover of the Purdue Christmas show and Beef & Boards dinner theatre. She often arranged group outings for those without transportation. She always devoted much time to community good works. She ran the area food pantry for over 30 years and oversaw the voting poles, serving as Inspector for more than 2 solid decades.

Family, faith, friends and fun were her cornerstones. Sue was willing to help better her community and church in any way asked of her. She devoutly served the Lord and honestly lived by the “Golden rule”. She earned a countless number of friends as a credit to her devotion and determination to help people live their best lives. Like George Bailey, Sue had a rich, wonderful life, she will be missed.

Sue is survived by her daughters, Nancy (Jim) Feasel, and Betsy Thornton; nieces, Rebecca (Loren) Curry, Pam (Clarence Vlasak) Wakeman, Jennifer (Simon) Ladd, Marla (Kirk) Caldwell, and Darlene (Jim) Hensley; nephews, John (Bunny) Wakeman, Robert (Peg) Wakeman, and J.J. Thornton; brother, Jerry Milner; and beloved K-9 companion, Princess. Sue was also the birth mother of Doug Rogers with whom she developed an affectionate relationship several years ago while he was researching his biological roots. Doug has added 2 grandchildren, and 3 great-grandchildren to the family.

In addition to her husband Tex, Sue was preceded in death by her parents; brother, Dick Milner; sister, Marilyn Milner; in-laws, Doug and Eleanor (Milner) Wakeman; and son-in-law, Bob Young.

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Richard "Dick" Francis Gore - December 19, 1934 - March 11, 2022

Departed: 03/11/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Richard “Dick” Francis Gore, 87, of Kokomo, passed away 8:30 am Friday March 11, 2022, at his home. He was born in Howard County on December 19,1934, the son of the late Wayne N. and Tressa Rose (Lutsch) Gore. He has shared the last 23 years of life with his love and significant other, Joyce Hughes, and she survives.

Dick was first employed at Cuneo Press for 4 years then was the District Manager of the Indianapolis Star and News. Dick proudly served his country in the United States Air Force from 1955 through 1959 as an aircraft mechanic. He also served for 5 years in the Reserves. He worked at Haynes Stellite for 8 years then served at the Chrysler Casting Plant as a metallurgist for 28 years until his retirement in 1993. While at Chrysler, he served on the Bargaining Committee and as a Union Steward for Union #1302. Following retirement, he used his time volunteering at local food banks and as the President of the Senior Center Advisor Board. He was a proud member of the Back to Basics Alcoholics Anonymous group. In January 2022, he received a token and certificate for achieving 40 years of sobriety. He was a member of the Eagles, Moose Lodge, Elks Lodge, and American Legion. He adored his children, grandchildren, and companion Joyce. Some of his hobbies include wood working, landscaping, golfing, and boxing. He loved ball room dancing and was a member of the Kokomo Ballroom Dance Club.

Dick is survived by his daughter, Justina (Steven) Arnold; significant other, Joyce Hughes; sisters, Freda Tharp, Margaret Ann Goldsberry; extended family, Debbie (Nick) Graves, Pamela Kinsey, Jeff Hughes, Jim (Mindy) Hughes; sister-in-law, Beverly Gore; biological grandchildren, Brooke, Jenny, Jason, Brieonna, Austin; special ballroom dance partners, Jordyn, Haley and Gracie; extended family grandchildren, James, Marcie, Kyle, Adam, Melissa, Charlie; biological great-grandchildren, Colston, Destiny, Gavin, Micah; extended great-grandchildren, Austin, Jordyn, Haley, Jocelyn, Maddie, Gabe, Ledger, Emeri; and several nieces, nephews, and extended family members.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Wayne and Tressa Rose Gore; daughters, Karen Peterson, Tamirein Earlywine; siblings. Dr. Wayne Gore, Mina Lou (Bill) Gentry, David Jon Gore; brothers-in-law, Gene Tharp, Mike Goldsberry, Todd Gore; and grandchildren, Zachary McCombs, Brittni Earlywine; great-granddaughter, Gracie White.

Dick’s family would like to extend a special thank you to Ascension St. Vincent Hospice and their nurses for the excellent care he received.

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Steven "Willie" A. Graham - January 09, 1950 - March 05, 2022

Departed: 03/05/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Steven A. Graham aka “Willie”, 72, Russiaville, passed away Saturday March 5, 2022, at his home. He was born in Kokomo on January 9, 1950, the son of the late Judith and James Hill. On July 11, 1981, he married Pamela Partin, and she survives.

Steve was a 1968 graduate of Western High School. He retired from Chrysler after 36 years of service. He was passionate about his Harley Davidson motorcycle. He enjoyed taking rides cross country with his wife and many friends. He was a member of Milwaukee Iron for 35 years. Steve enjoyed watching cowboy tv shows and often wore his black cowboy hat. He loved all his grandchildren and appreciated spending time with them.

In addition to his wife Pam, Steven is survived by his daughter, Chelsea Graham; grandchildren, Ashlynn Holmes, Amarii Graham, Timothy Johnson III, Aiyanah Johnson; sisters, Elizabeth (Steven) Neterval, Deborah (Steven) Titus; brother-in-law, Jim Simpson and his family; sister-in-law, Kathleen McMenamy and her family; several cousins and extended family.

Steve was preceded in death by his biological father, Harry Graham; mother, Judy Hill; and stepfather, Jim Hill.

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Danielle Roberta Mattingly - August 12, 1979 - March 01, 2022

Departed: 03/01/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Danielle Roberta Mattingly, 42, Kokomo, passed away 8:08 pm Tuesday March 1, 2022, at her home. She was born August 12, 1979, in Big Piney, Wyoming, the daughter of the late Daniel Robert and Elisie (Lopez) Mattingly.

Danielle graduated from Big Piney High School in Big Piney, Wyoming. She was previously employed at Golden Corral in Kokomo where she worked as a server. She appreciated the time she spent with her family. They enjoyed several movie nights and countless hours of playing board games together. She loved drawing, solving Sudoku puzzles, and listening to country music. She was a loving and helpful person who volunteered her time serving at food pantries.

She is survived by her children, Santagesha (Christopher) Halton, and Skyler Mattingly; sister, Cathy (Gabriel) Burgos; brother, Steven Charles Mattingly.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Daniel and Elisie May Mattingly.

Stout & Son Funeral Home has been entrusted with cremation. Messages of condolence may be left online at www.stoutandson.com.

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Ronald "Ron" Lee Herr - January 22, 1937 - February 19, 2022

Departed: 02/19/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Ronald “Ron” Lee Herr, 85, Kokomo, passed away on Saturday February 19, 2022, at his home.  He was born in Frankfort on January 22, 1937, to the late Loren E. Herr and Helen (Whiteman) Foreman.  On July 8, 1956, at Forest United Methodist Church, he married Sharon “Sue“Browning.

Ron was a 1955 graduate of Forest High School.  He worked for Chrysler as a machine repairman for 36 years and retired in 1992.  He was a member of the West Point Christian Church, where he served as the Deacon for years.  He was a member of the Russiaville Masonic Lodge # 82 for 60 years, he served as a 32° Scottish Rite Freemason at the Valley of Indianapolis for 58 years, and the UAW # 685.  He loved watching sports, especially his grandkids games. His favorite team was the Chicago Cubs, he spent time in Arizona watching spring training, and he attended games at Wrigley Field. He was on the bowling team at the Eagles. He enjoyed spending time with his family and loved traveling and playing cards with his friends.

Along with his wife, Sue, Ron is survived by his children, Rhonda (Dave) Grimm, Doug (Lynne) Herr and Darrin (Michelle) Herr; grandchildren, Emily Grimm, Matthew (Kelsey) Grimm, Alisha (Grayson) Miller, Cameron (Madison) Herr, Lindsay Herr and Michael Herr; great grandchildren, Marlowe Grimm, Easton Miller, Harlow Miller, Dawson Herr, Irelynn Herr and Ethan Riley; siblings, Jackie (Kay) Herr, Frederick (Barbara) Herr and Donna Foreman.

He was preceded in death by his parents; stepfather, Roy Foreman, brothers, Gary Herr and Danny Foreman; sister, Cathy Herr; grandson, Adam Luke Grimm.

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Marlene Kay Butcher - January 11, 1951 - February 10, 2022

Departed: 02/10/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Marlene Kay Butcher, 71, Bringhurst, passed away at 11:19 am Thursday, February 10, 2022 at Ascension St. Vincent in Kokomo. She was born January 11, 1951 in Logansport, the daughter of Fred Trapp and Mary Wertz. On January 18, 1970, she married Danny Butcher in Flora, IN, who preceded her in death on April 21, 2000.

Marlene was a 1969 graduate of Carroll High School. In December of 2021, she retired from ReMax Realty after 30 years of service. Marlene devoted her life to God and her family, as she was a member of Crossroads Community Christian Church in Bringhurst.

Marlene is survived by her children, Andrea (Mark) Cable, and Adam Butcher; grandchildren, Wesley, Bailey, and Avery; mother, Mary Trapp Miller; siblings, Martin (Susan) Trapp, and Marcia (Charlie Dill) Giddens.

In addition to her husband Danny, Marlene was preceded in death by her father, Fred Trapp; father-in-law, Charles Butcher; and mother-in-law, Beulah Butcher Butts.

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Nashalla N. Fearnow - April 24, 1944 - February 10, 2022

Departed: 02/10/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Nashalla N. Fearnow, 77, Clearwater, FL., passed away at 7:17 am Thursday February 10, 2022, at Palm Garden Nursing Home, Largo, FL.  She was born to the late Jack L. and Rosamond (Bell) Fowler on April 24, 1944, in Kokomo, IN.  On February 22, 1964, she married Richard Fearnow, and he preceded her in death March 19, 2012.

Nashalla was a homemaker who enjoyed taking care of her four children and the children of multiple families through the years. She loved her family first and foremost.  She loved talking on the phone with her family and friends. She always put the needs of others and their happiness first.  She always welcomed family and friends into her home, making her home the neighborhood hang out.   Coffee pot was always on and ready for anyone who dropped by to have a chat and to smoke and joke.  She was feisty but the most compassionate person. Her life and role as a daughter, wife, mother, and Mimi, is where she grew her strength and left her legacy. She will live in the hearts of those she touched. To the world, she was mother, to our family-The World.

Nashalla is survived by her children, Melissa G. (Steve Garrett) Neher, Darrin (Melissa K.) Fearnow and  David (Angie) Fearnow; grandchildren, Austin Fearnow, Ryley (Andrew) Dougherty, Matthew Neher, Sarah (Josh Leon) Garrett, Zoe Garrett, Lauren Fearnow, Morgan “My duck” Fearnow, Sharese (Josh) Fearnow-Sexton and Drew Fearnow; great grandchild, Elijah Dougherty; sisters-in-law, Barbara Fowler, Kathy Keller, Patricia Souders, and Betty (Leanord) Reed; many special life long friends, nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews and their children, who were all very special to her; and her beloved companion and fur baby, Buddy.

She was thankful for her grandson and granddaughters and her friend and caregiver Brittany Beck for helping take care of her.

She was preceded in death by her parents, husband; son, Richard “Kent” Fearnow; and brother, Michael Fowler.

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Doris R. Williams - March 24, 1941 - February 09, 2022

Departed: 02/09/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Doris R. Williams, 80, Tipton, went to be with her Lord and Savior on Wednesday February 9, 2022, at her home. She was born March 24, 1941, in TN, the daughter of Floyd and Edith (Rutherford) Hughes. On December 4, 1976, she married Jerry J. Williams, and he preceded her in death on January 31, 2015.

Doris attended Western High School. She retired from National Seal in Frankfort where she worked in production. She formerly attended Souls Harbor Church. Doris enjoyed traveling with her husband in years past. She liked spending time with her family, and she adored her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Doris was an avid Reggie Miller and Michael Jordan fan. She loved watching NASCAR and her favorite driver was Joey Logano.

Doris is survived by her children, Bryan (Melissa) Johnson, Donnie (Aileen) Johnson, Eric (Tracy) Johnson, Angela (Brook) Sparks; siblings, Anna Wisehart, GA, Carson Hughes, IN, Hal Hughes, IN, Karen (AJ) Henry, IN; 19 grandchildren; 23 great-grandchildren and 2 more on the way.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Floyd and Edith Hughes; husband, Jerry J. Williams; and brother, Johnny Hughes.

Friends are invited to visit with the family from 10 am to Noon on Friday February 18, 2022, at Stout & Son Funeral Home, 200 East Main Street, Russiaville, IN 46979. Funeral service will begin at Noon on Friday at the funeral home, with Pastor James Strunk officiating. Burial will follow in Kempton Cemetery at a later date. The family requests no flowers be sent. Messages of condolence may be left online at www.stoutandson.com.

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Wilma I Stone - October 12, 1934 - February 02, 2022

Departed: 02/02/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Wilma I (Crail) Stone, 87, of rural Frankfort, went to be with her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ late February 2, 2022, at the home of her daughter.

Wilma was born October 12, 1934, in rural Clinton County to Oral and Stella (Thomas) Crail. She was a 1952 graduate of Scircleville High School where she was editor of the school newspaper and active in the drama club. After graduation she helped with her family’s farm until her marriage October 28, 1960, in Kempton to Norman Stone. They enjoyed 60 years of marriage.

Wilma was a devoted homemaker who loved spending time with her daughter, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She spent many hours with them playing games, doing arts and crafts and sewing, crocheting and cooking. She also enjoyed traveling, camping and caring for her cats. She was a member of Scircleville United Methodist Church and was active in the church’s womens group, the Willing Workers.

Wilma is survived by her daughter, Tami (Rob) Breeding, two granddaughters, Marissa (Jon) Moore and Veronica Breeding, four great-grandchildren, Everett, Isaac and Kathryn Moore and Emily Marcel, special niece, Rita Dunn, several nieces and nephews, two sisters-in-law, Marge Stone and Ceal Stone and her loyal guard dog, Buster.

She was preceded in death by her parents, husband and stillborn daughter, Patricia.

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Charles "Chuck" Richards - May 20, 1949 - February 02, 2022

Departed: 02/02/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Charles “Chuck” Edward Richards, 72, of Amboy, passed away 8:16 pm Wednesday February 2, 2022, at St. Vincent Hospital 86th Street in Indianapolis. He was born in Clendenin, West Virginia on May 20, 1949, the son of Martha (Richards) Lanning. On December 9, 1994, he married Shannon Huffer, and she survives.

Chuck owned and operated his own fencing and semi-truck driving businesses. He was a member of the Izaac Walton League Lafontaine. He was passionate about fishing, hunting, and being outdoors. Chuck often took his beagles with him to hunt rabbits. He enjoyed tinkering and fixing up cars, mowers, and boats. Chuck was the kind of man who never met a stranger. He had a heart of gold.

In addition to his wife, he is survived by his daughter, Carli Richards; siblings, Gene (Shirley) Richards, Tipton, Robin (Suzanne) Richards, Noblesville, Mary Richards, Tipton, Phyllis (Johnny) Fields, Anna Mae Townsend, Kokomo, Jack (Carrie) Richards, Kokomo, Bob Richards, Ruth Smith, Tipton; several nieces and nephews; and his beloved dog, Coopie.

He was preceded in death by his mom, Martha Lanning; paternal grandparents, Joseph Richards and Gracie Cobb; and several aunts and uncles.

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Judith Ann Graham - December 07, 1938 - January 31, 2022

Departed: 01/31/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Judith Ann (Rayl) Wilburn Graham, 83, of Kokomo, passed away 5:13 pm Monday January 31, 2022, at Community Howard Regional Health in Kokomo. She was born in Clinton County, IN, on December 7, 1938, the daughter of the late Darrell and Ruby (DeFord) Rayl.

Judy was a 1957 graduate of Prairie High School in Tipton County, IN. She retired from Farm Bureau where she worked as an administrative assistant. She was also employed at Bruno’s Pizza in Frankfort for over 20 years. Judy was described as an ornery woman with a great sense of humor. She found joy in pulling practical jokes on her friends and family. Judy liked listening to Vince Gill and watching TV, especially if she was watching Indiana University basketball or the Golden State Warriors because she was an avid fan of both. Judy adored the time she spent with her grandbabies, great-grandbabies, and her beloved canine companion, Coco.

She is survived by her children, Debbie (Dave) Osborn, Mindy (Duane) Gerald, Douglas (Jodi) Wilburn, Missy Wilburn; siblings, Mona (Charlie) Rayl Graham, Brenda Rayl Duncan; brother-in-law, Gary Amos; grandchildren, Josh (Maggie) Gerald, Morgan (Michael) Myers, Kourtney Gerald, Shannon (Jennifer) Knapp, Rebecca Osborn; great-grandchildren, Lennon Gerald, Marshall Myers; bonus children, Chris and Paula Fawcett, Jim “George” Smith; several nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Darrell and Ruby Rayl; the father of her children, George Wilburn; husband Gerald “Jerry” Graham; sister, Karen Rayl Amos.

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Robert Eugene Cassis - July 06, 1928 - January 31, 2022

Departed: 01/31/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Robert “Bob” Eugene Cassis, 93, of Kokomo, passed away 9:29 pm Monday January 31, 2022, at his home. He was born in Marietta, OH, on July 6, 1928, the son of the late Alex and Helen (Bacela) Cassis. Bob was married to Carolyn Hannah, and she preceded him in death in 1981. On June 22, 1994, he married Jane Bennett at Southside Christian Church, and she survives.

Bob was a 1946 graduate of Kokomo High School. He went straight into the military and proudly served our country in the United States Navy from 1948 through 1952. After his military service, he worked at Delco Electronics in salaried suggestions and retired after more than 30 years there. Bob enjoyed gardening, photography, and playing golf. His favorite local course to play was Chippendale Golf Club. He also scouted out other courses out of state to play at with his wife, Jane. Bob was a peaceful and honest man who loved his family, especially his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He was his grandchildren’s biggest fan and attended all their sporting events.

In addition to his wife Jane, he is survived by his children, Robin (Ryan Chalk) Graves, Donald (Tonya) Lauderbaugh, Caryn Cassis-Hrabos; brother, Richard Cassis; grandchildren, Heather (Matt Dewitt) Mosier, Hannah (Nick) McClure, Amber (Justin Welsh) Graves, Tori (Dylan) Akshar, Kylee Lauderbaugh, Ty Lauderbaugh; great-grandchildren, Journie Hale, Iris Dewitt, Finnlee McClure, Emersyn Dewitt, Jace Akshar.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Alex and Helen Cassis; wife, Carolyn (Hannah) Cassis; siblings, Betty (John) Eklem, Ronnie (Pat) Cassis; sister-in-law, Barbara Cassis.

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Rev. Joel Neal Blanton Sr. - November 03, 1925 - January 30, 2022

Departed: 01/30/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Rev. Joel Neal Blanton Sr., 96, of Logansport, passed away 2:20 am Sunday January 30, 2022, at Blair Ridge Nursing Home in Peru, IN. He was born in Drumright, OK, on November 3, 1925, the son of the late Marcus and Lillian (Hubbard) Blanton. On January 26, 1948, he married Geraldine “Geri” Johnson, and she preceded him in death on April 4, 2010.

Joel was a 1944 graduate of Depew High School. After graduating, he proudly served his country in the United States Navy as seaman and Gunners Mate from 1944 to 1946. he enrolled at Columbia University, NY for general studies. He earned a Bachelor of Music in 1953 from Oklahoma Baptist University. Joel achieved a Bachelor of Divinity and a Master of Divinity both from Southwestern Baptist Seminary. Joel’s life work was devoted to pastoring at several Baptist Churches across Oklahoma and Indiana. All of his family was proud of his conversion to Christ and serving people to help them do the same.

Joel is survived by his sons, Joel Blanton Jr., Jeffrey (Charlene) Blanton; 10 grandchildren; and several great-grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Marcus and Lillian Blanton; wife, Geri Blanton; daughter, Glenda Marsh; and brother, Frederick Blanton.

Friends are invited to visit with the family from 1 pm to 3 pm Monday February 7, 2022, at Baptist Temple Church, 700 East Broadway, Logansport, IN 46947. Funeral service will be held at 3 pm on Monday at the church, with Pastor Mark Foreman. officiating, military rites will be provided by the United States Navy and the Kokomo VFW Military Rites Team. Burial will take place in Oakdale Cemetery in Depew, Oklahoma. Stout & Son Funeral Home has been entrusted with arrangements. Messages of condolence may be left online at www.stoutandson.com.

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Paul Richard Mooney - January 18, 1947 - January 26, 2022

Departed: 01/26/2022 (Russiaville)

Obituary Preview: Paul Richard Mooney, 75, Greentown, passed away at 1:18 pm on Wednesday January 26, 2022, at Golden Living Center. He was born on January 18, 1947, to the late Edward and Rosetta C. (Pinnick) Mooney, in Fulton Co., IN.

Paul served in the United States Army. He was a self-employed truck driver for 15 years before retiring.  He loved racing and enjoyed his time with the Kokomo Speedway Racing community.

Paul is survived by his sisters’ Marqueta (Harold) McGuire, Shirley (Don) Bogan, and Linda Cunningham; special nephew, Troy (Tammy) Mooney; and several nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his parents; 2 brothers, Edward Mooney Jr. and Charles Mooney; and his grandparents.

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A Team of Dedicated Professionals

The staff at Stout & Son Russiaville Chapel is comprised of experienced and compassionate professionals who understand the intricacies of grief and the importance of personalized care. Led by licensed funeral directors, the team is trained to provide emotional support, guidance, and expertise throughout the funeral planning process. Their dedication to families is evident in every aspect of their work, from the initial consultation to the final farewell.

A Facility Designed for Comfort and Convenience

The funeral home's facility, located at 200 E. Main St., Russiaville, IN 46979, is designed to provide a peaceful and comforting environment for families and friends to gather. The chapel's warm atmosphere, complete with comfortable seating and tasteful décor, creates a sense of serenity and tranquility. Ample parking and convenient accessibility ensure that all guests can participate in the celebration of life without concern.

Personalized Funeral Services

Stout & Son Russiaville Chapel recognizes that every individual is unique, and their funeral service should reflect their personality, interests, and accomplishments. The funeral home offers a range of options to customize the service, including:

• Traditional funerals with visitation and burial or cremation
• Celebrations of life, featuring personalized elements and tributes
• Cremation services with memorialization options
• Pre-planning and pre-funding arrangements for peace of mind

The funeral home's experienced staff will work closely with families to create a meaningful and memorable tribute that honors their loved one.

Supporting Families Through Grief

Beyond the funeral service, Stout & Son Russiaville Chapel remains committed to supporting families as they navigate the grieving process. The funeral home offers:

• Grief counseling resources and referrals
• Support groups for adults and children
• Online obituaries and memorials for sharing memories and condolences
• Aftercare programs to provide ongoing support

By acknowledging the complexities of grief, Stout & Son Russiaville Chapel demonstrates its dedication to helping families heal and find closure.

A Commitment to Community Involvement

Stout & Son Russiaville Chapel is an integral part of the local community, actively participating in initiatives that benefit residents and promote awareness about important issues. The funeral home supports local charities, hosts educational seminars, and partners with organizations to improve end-of-life care.

A Tradition of Excellence Continues

As Stout & Son Russiaville Chapel looks to the future, it remains steadfast in its commitment to providing exceptional service, compassion, and support to families in need. With a legacy spanning over 125 years, this esteemed funeral home continues to earn the trust of its community, solidifying its position as a leader in the funeral industry.

If you're seeking a trusted partner to guide you through one of life's most challenging moments, look no further than Stout & Son Russiaville Chapel. Contact them today to learn more about their services and how they can help you honor your loved one with dignity and respect.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, achievements, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to notify friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased, although it can also be written by a funeral home or newspaper staff. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include details about their life story, accomplishments, and charitable donations.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Typically, it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs. Online obituaries often have more flexibility in terms of length and content.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed and personalized tribute to the deceased.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it is becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This allows them to have control over how they are remembered and to share their life story in their own words.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and any specific requirements they may have. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for publication.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, many online platforms and funeral homes offer the option to publish an obituary on their website or social media channels. This can be a convenient and cost-effective way to share the news with a wider audience.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some newspapers charge by the word or line, while others offer package deals or flat fees. Online platforms may offer free or low-cost options.

Can I include photos or videos in an obituary?

Yes, many online platforms and some newspapers allow you to include photos or videos in an obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and share memories of the deceased.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

The duration that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform or website. Some may keep it available indefinitely, while others may remove it after a certain period of time.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it is possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after it has been published. Contact the newspaper or online platform directly to request changes.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer not to publicly announce the death, you can opt for a private or limited-circulation obituary. This can be especially useful for families who wish to keep the news within a small circle of friends and relatives.

Can I include charitable donation information in an obituary?

Yes, it is common to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary. This allows friends and family to make a meaningful contribution in memory of the deceased.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you notice an error or inaccuracy in an obituary, contact the newspaper or online platform immediately to request corrections. They will typically work with you to resolve the issue promptly.

Can I reuse an existing obituary template?

Yes, many funeral homes and online platforms offer pre-designed templates for writing an obituary. You can also find examples online or use one from a previous family member as a starting point.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary, consider seeking help from a family member, friend, or professional writer. Many funeral homes also offer assistance with writing and editing obituaries.

Can I include humor or personality traits in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary is a celebration of the person's life, so feel free to inject humor, anecdotes, and personality traits that capture their spirit and essence.

How do I ensure that all relevant family members are notified about the death?

Create a list of all family members and friends who should be notified about the death. You can also ask your funeral home or bereavement support group for assistance with notifications.

What if I'm dealing with complex family dynamics during this time?

Sensitivity and compassion are essential when navigating complex family relationships during this difficult time. Consider seeking support from a therapist, counselor, or trusted friend or relative.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's values, interests, or personality.

How do I preserve memories of my loved one after they're gone?

Create a memory book, scrapbook, or digital archive with photos, mementos, and stories about your loved one. You can also plant trees, create memorial gardens, or establish scholarships in their honor.

What resources are available for coping with grief after losing a loved one?

Contact local bereavement support groups, hospices, or counseling services for guidance and support during this difficult time. Online resources and hotlines are also available 24/7.