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Matilda R Keith - January 28, 1932 - May 13, 2024

Departed: 05/13/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Matilda (Tillie) Rose Keith was born January 28, 1932 to Leo and Rose Wolf on a farm near Zurich, KS and departed this life on May 13, 2024 in Wichita, KS with her children by her side.
Growing up during the height of the depression, they moved to several farms in Northwest Kansas to provide for the family. Tillie was only able to attend school through the 8th grade, because she needed to help her dad on the farm. However, she was so intelligent that she picked up on things that school cannot teach. When not helping on the farm, she worked for others to help provide money for her family. Her family finally settled on their own farm 8 miles north of Penokee, KS until she met the love of her life.
Tillie met Everette Keith at the Springhill Dance where he swept her off her feet. He would even fly his plane the 15 or so miles to pick her up for a date. They married on April 17, 1949, and to this union had three children: James, Joseph, and Annette.
She was a farm wife in the true sense of the word. She milked cows, raised chickens, planted gardens, canned food, and everything else it took to raise her family, but she still found time to have fun with family, friends, and neighbors. Tillie was involved in planning many gatherings and community functions, and enjoyed interacting with friends. She was a very social person who enjoyed being around others and some of her favorite activities were dancing and playing cards. Hobbies that she enjoyed were cake decorating, quilting, gardening, and traveling. She was always on hand to help others with catering or just lending a hand.
Tillie is survived by her son, Joseph and wife Karen of Penokee, KS, her daughter, Annette and husband, Larry Nickelson of Wichita, KS and daughter-in- law, Geralda Keith of Hill City, KS; ten grandchildren, 22 great-grandchildren (and one on the way), and one great great grandchild. She also has one surviving sister, Donna and her husband Joe Scott of Healy, KS as well as a host of nieces and nephews.
She is preceded in death by her husband, Everette, her son, James, her parents, a brother, Robert, sisters, Virginia, Eleanor, and Arlene and their spouses.
Tillie will be greatly missed by those whose life she has touched. Her love of family and joy in life are her lasting legacy. She was a care-giver for the majority of her life and an inspiration to all.
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JoAnn Helen Martin - December 01, 1936 - May 09, 2024

Departed: 05/09/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: JoAnn Helen Martin, 87, of Zurich, Kansas, passed away May 9, 2024, at Sheridan County Long Term Unit in Hoxie, Kansas. JoAnn was born December 1, 1936, to John Ploeger and Amelia (Wasinger) Ploeger at the family farm outside of Studley, Kansas. She spent her childhood with her twin sister, Leona, as well as four other sisters. June 13, 1953, she married Robert “Bob” Martin in Studley. To this union five children were born: Roberta, John, Trela, Robert, and Stephanie.
JoAnn and Bob spent most of their life in the Studley and Hoxie area. JoAnn worked at various jobs including the couple’s BJ Cleaning business and working at area hospitals in the housekeeping/laundry department. They later moved to Plainville where she worked at a local hardware store for many years before retiring.
JoAnn was known to always be on the go relishing life. Bob and JoAnn went to many dances, especially enjoying the polkas, waltzes, and classic country tunes. Bowling was another pastime where she won many trophies. She also liked playing games of Pitch and drinking coffee with “the girls”. Playing games such as Bingo, Uno, Monopoly, Solitaire and Chicken Foot with her kids and grandkids was a special delight; and she was always known to win.
Other interests included embroidering and crocheting. Many were given to family and friends. She also donated several of her pieces to church auctions. JoAnn was also an avid Kansas City Royals fan. While watching the games, she always had a notebook full of stats on each player.
Over the years JoAnn was a faithful member of the Catholic Church wherever she lived. She was a member of St. Anne’s Catholic Church in Zurich until it was demolished. Then she became a member of St. Joseph Catholic Church in Damar. While there she was a member of and treasurer for several years with the ladies of St. Anne Sodality.
After moving into the long-term care unit, JoAnn loved to keep busy folding the towels every morning as an activity.
JoAnn was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Bob, three children: Roberta Ann Martin, Robert Allen Martin and Trela Kay Minium, and three siblings: Marylou Long, Rosa Doris Horton, and Viola Scott.
She is survived by her son, John (Donna) Martin of Larned; her daughter, Stephanie (Shane) Maddox of Zurich, and two siblings: her twin sister, Leona Washburn of Hoxie, and Jeannie Stillwell of Marysville; eight grandchildren and 17 great grandchildren. Visitation is Monday, May 13, 2024 at 5:30 PM, at St. Joseph Church in Damar, Kansas Wake is Monday, May 13, 2024 at 6:30pm at St. Joseph Church in Damar, Kansas Funeral Service is Tuesday May 14, 2024  at 10:30am at St. Joseph Church in Damar, Kansas Burial will be Tuesday May 14, 2024 at 2:00pm at St. Frances Cabrini in Hoxie, Kansas
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Lawrence Gene "Larry" Desbien - February 13, 1955 - April 22, 2024

Departed: 04/22/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Lawrence Gene “Larry” Desbien, 69, of Damar, Kansas died April 22, 2024, at the Hays Medical Center in Hays, Kansas. Larry was born February 13, 1955, to Phillip E. and Verna O. (Simoneau) Desbien in Hays. He grew up with his six siblings in and around the Damar area. He attended grade school in Damar and graduated from Palco High School in 1973.
Following graduation, he attended Vocational Tech in Beloit, Kansas, becoming an electrician. Larry married Christine Hamel June 14, 1975, in Zurich and together they raised five children. His first job in his field was at Hadley Hospital in Hays. He then was in maintenance at St. Anthony Hospital also in Hays, and the hospital in LaCrosse.
In 1980 Larry enlisted in the United States Air Force. Here he became a ground radio communications craftsman. Six years of his service were filled with many overseas deployments including: Alaska, Japan, Australia, Guam, and France. Throughout his military service, Larry displayed a deep commitment to his country. Following 20 years of military service, he retired with the rank of Master Sergeant, and returned to Damar. Beyond his miliary career he was a pillar of strength and support for his family, friends, and community. He organized and led the Memorial Services on Memorial Day in both Damar and Bogue until his health declined.
Family and Faith were always the most important part of Larry’s life. Larry was a devout Catholic and an active member of St. Joseph Church in Damar. He gave his time and talents as a Religious Education teacher, Eucharistic Minister and Lector.
As a civilian Larry did substitute teaching in the area and soon became the maintenance and transportation director for USD 269. A few years later, Larry joined the Midwest Community Bank staff in Plainville and Palco. He began as a loan officer, and later a compliance officer until he retired.
Full retirement kept Larry very active and busy. As a grandpa of 16, he was definitely hands-on. He willingly accepted the duty of sexton for St. Joseph Cemetery and had various hobbies and projects he was always excited to tell you about. And his story wouldn’t be complete if we left out his love for raising cattle.
Left to mourn Larry and to follow his legacy of love and service are his devoted wife, Chris of Damar; sons: Perry Desbien of Smith Center and Travis Desbien and wife Rachael of Hill City; daughters: Mindy Desbien of Damar, Tracy Stithem and husband Chris of Topeka and Savannah Desbien of Topeka; brothers: Ed Desbien and wife Mary of Boise City, Oklahoma, Jim Desbien and wife Paula of Plainville, Richard Desbien and wife Wanda of Nampa, Idaho; sisters: Gerry and husband Don Larson of Hays, Chris Sillin of Hutchinson, and Sheila and husband J.F. Surmeier of St. Joseph, Missouri; 16 grandchildren: Emily, Amber, Jason, Brady, Rylan, Lincoln, Scarlet, Graham, Alexis, Parker, Maelyn, Nolan, Evelyn, Ellie, Emmett, and Bentley; many nieces and nephews, and many friends.
Larry’s warm smile, kind heart, and gentle spirit endeared him to all who knew him. He will be remembered fondly for his sense of humor, his love of adventure, and his steadfast loyalty to those he cherished. Rest in Peace, good and faithful servant. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, April 27, 2024, at 10:30 AM at the St. Joseph Catholic
Church in Damar, KS. Visitation will be Friday 6-8PM with a Vigil Service at 7PM all at the church. Memorials are suggested to St. Joseph Catholic Cemetery and may be sent to Stinemetz Funeral Home, 522 N. Pomeroy Ave, Hill City, KS 67642.
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Donald "Don" Goscha - June 09, 1936 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Donald L. Goscha “Don”, son of Leo M. and Teresa E. (Schorer) Goscha was born in Rural Decatur County, Kansas June 9, 1936, and passed away April 14, 2024, at Good Samaritan Hospital in Kearney, Nebraska.
At the age of 12, the family moved to Norton County, Kansas where he attended country school through the 8th grade and graduated from Lenora High School in 1956. He served in the United States Army from 1956 to 1960. Don married Alice Peterson at St. Francis of Assisi Church in Norton, Kansas May 28, 1960. To that union four children were born: James Patrick “Pat”, Teresa, Craig, and Ann. They had five grandchildren; granddaughters: Courtney Flores, Erin Sullivan, Maddie Goscha, and Aubrey Goscha; and grandson: Blake Sullivan.
Don worked most of his life and retired from KN Energy as a service technician. As a practicing Catholic, his faith was very important to him, and he remained active in the church, attending St. Francis of Assisi in Norton, Kansas. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus and the Lions Club.
Survivors include children: Pat Goscha of Atwood, Kansas, Teresa (Alan) Flores of St. Joseph, Missouri, Craig Goscha and Mona Heasty of Lawrence, Kansas, and Annie (John) Sullivan of Great Bend, Kansas; siblings: Imogene Hahn of Denver, Colorado, Jean Riemann (Ronald) of Beloit, Kansas, Evelyn (Chris) McDiffett of Norton, Kansas, Marilyn (Bill) Schrum of Phillipsburg, Kansas, Karen (Max) Parsons of Ness City, Kansas, and Bob (Sandy) Goscha of Bartlesville, Oklahoma.
He was preceded in death by his wife Alice Goscha; his siblings: Jerry Goscha, Bill Goscha, Joan Riemann, and Jeanine Augustine; and his grandson Blake Sullivan.
Memorials may be made to Stinemetz Funeral Home 522 North Pomeroy Ave. Hill City, Kansas 67642 and will benefit Sully’s Foundation (epilepsy awareness) and Prairie Developmental Services in Atwood, Kansas, or Masses.
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Marilyn Jean Lannerd - May 17, 1938 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Marilyn Jean Lannerd, 85, of Hill City, Kansas died April 12, 2024 at her home. She was born May 17, 1938 in Indianapolis, Indiana To Dewitt and Bertha (Rutledge) Schiedler. She is survived by her daughters Tina (Pete) Riss of Hill City and Joyce McConnell of Morrison, Colorado; her sons: Mike Lannerd of Denver, Colorado, Max Lannerd of Edgewater, Colorado, and Mark (Lisa) Lannerd of Thornton, Colorado; and six grandchildren. No services are planned at this time.
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Laurie Ann Knipp - June 07, 1963 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Laurie Ann Knipp, 60, of Hill City, Kansas, passed away April 8, 2024, and entered the Gates of Heaven to be with her parents and her son Allen Michael. She was born June 7, 1963, in Hill City to Wilbert and Iona (Brin) Knipp. She lived all her life in Hill City; however, she did travel to other states on several occasions.
She worked at Cameron’s Corner for over 25 years, rarely missing a day. She enjoyed her job, all the employees and especially the customers. As an employee and friend, you could always count on Laurie’s reliability. She worried more about others than herself. When her mother became ill and needed help, there was Laurie. She always took time for her children and grandchildren, as well as her dog, Buddy. Laurie loved babies. She was so excited when her first grandchild Kamryn was born. They patiently awaited her arrival by eating Laurie’s favorites: pork chops with a Pepsi!
When she wasn’t working or taking care of her children and then her grandchildren, you would frequently see her just driving around town or headed to her favorite fishing hole. Time at the lake with her family was made extra special because Laurie loved making a big breakfast for them.
Laurie was proceeded in death by her parents, Wilbert and Iona, and her son Allen Michael. She is survived by her daughter: Ashley (Jonathan) Frazier of Hays, Alicia (Ian) Dohl of Russell, and Hilary Boese of Hill City; two brothers: Eddie of Hill City, and Wayne of Wichita; five sisters: Vivian Messer of Santa Rosa, California, Jeanie Stakes of Arlington, Texas, Charlotte Pfeifer of Hays, Deanna Zeman (Mark) of WaKeeney, Marcia Pfeifer (Gerald) of Hays; grandchildren: Priscilla, Kamryn LeeAnn, Krew Allen, Raider Allen Lavon; and Laurie’s daughters’ grandfather figure, Rudy Augustine of Hill City; 15 nieces and nephews, one uncle, two aunts, and many friends.
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Marcia Faye Dinkel - December 05, 1945 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Marcia Faye Dinkel, 79, passed away March 14, 2024 at the Sheridan County Health Complex LTC, in Hoxie, Kansas. Marcia was born December 5, 1945 in Holdrege, Nebraska to Roscoe and Ilene (Gentry) Brown. The family resided in Morland, Kansas where Marcia graduated from Morland High School in 1964. Marcia and David Dinkel were united in marriage January 14, 1968 and were blessed with three children: son Tracy, and daughters Jodi and Valerie.
During her lifetime, Marcia worked at various jobs including waitressing, grocery store cashier and her final employment, as a dietary aide at Graham County Hospital. In her spare time, she enjoyed crocheting and crossword puzzles.
Preceding her in death were her parents and her husband, David. Survivors include son, Tracy (Chanda) Dinkel, of Hill City; daughters Jodi (Travis Riffle, of Uhrichsville, Ohio; Valerie (Luke) Polson, of Marysville and a brother Robert (Holly) Brown, of Salina; grandchildren: Bret, Nick (Rachel), Kaylen, Haley, and Madison, and four great grandchildren: Colt, Remi, David, and Leo.
A private family service will be held at a later date.
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Barbara Jean Collier - June 14, 1958 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Barbara Jean Collier, 65, died March 8, 2024, at her home in Hill City, Kansas. She was born June 14, 1958, in Denver, Colorado, to Andy Joe Martz and Constance Virginia (Lundstrom) Martz. She is survived by her husband David Paul Collier of the home. No services are planned at this time.
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Joan Grace Hull - July 28, 1936 - February 27, 2024

Departed: 02/27/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Joan Grace (Dorman) Hull, 87, Hill City, Kansas, passed away February 27, 2024, at Hays Medical Center. She was born July 28, 1936, to Orval and Grace (Paintin) Dorman in WaKeeney, Kansas. When Joan was born, her parents were told that she would never be able to walk. Her mother rubbed her legs diligently every day. When the Kansas Crippled Children came to visit the little Dorman girl who couldn’t walk, Joan’s mother proudly stated, “You can find her outside playing!”
Music was always an important part of Joan’s life. She played the trumpet and was in the Trego County High School marching band. In 1950 while attending high school, Joan met her best friend Carolyn Flagler (Riggs). Carolyn and Joan played duets on their accordions at local talent shows. In July of 1954, Joan was playing her accordion in Penokee where she met another talent show contestant, Russell Hull from Hill City. A week or two later they began dating. That fall they attended one semester together at Fort Hays State College. Joan and Russell were married December 18, 1955, at the WaKeeney Presbyterian Church. They had just recently celebrated their 68th wedding anniversary.
Faith in God was very important to her. She was a lifelong member of the Hill City Presbyterian Church. She played the organ every Sunday and served as a member of the Session. She worked at the Farmers and Merchants Bank for over 20 years, also working for Cover Up Products, a family-owned business for 21 years.
Joan was an excellent cook! Her family always requested her fabulous fried chicken, and she was also known for her homemade cinnamon rolls. Every morning Joan would work on a jigsaw puzzle and play solitaire on the computer. She loved spending quality time with her family and friends. Cross stitching, playing bingo, cards, board games and Pictionary were favorite pastimes. She enjoyed the Game Show Network. Books were never far away; her favorites were Harlequin romance novels, Laura Wilder, and Louis L’Amour. Joan loved her flowers, especially the peonies. She was always happy to share roots with others so they, too, could enjoy the beautiful colors.
Joan was preceded in death by her parents: Orval and Grace Dorman; grandparents Guy and Lucy Dorman and James and Rosa Bella Paintin; and first-born daughter Bonnie Jo Hull. Survivors left to cherish her memory are her husband, Russell, Hill City; her children: Natalie Reynolds (husband Mike), Wichita and Linda Hull-Viera (husband Jerry), Topeka; and her grandchildren Samantha and Kathryn Viera, Topeka.
Memorials are suggested to the Hill City Presbyterian Church or to Dawson Place and may be sent in care of Stinemetz Funeral Home, 522 N. Pomeroy, Hill City, Kansas 67642.
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Ronald William "Ron" Washburn - August 06, 1942 - February 05, 2024

Departed: 02/05/2024 (Hill City)
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Bert Daniel Gansel - October 17, 1931 - January 30, 2024

Departed: 01/30/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Bert Daniel Gansel passed away at the Graham County Hospital on January 30, 2024, at the age of 92. He was born on October 17, 1931, to Ferd and Virginia Gansel, on the family farm outside of Hill City, Kansas. Bert married the true love of his life, Marianne Rouse, in the middle of a major snowstorm on November 26, 1952. Bert and Marianne were married for over 71 years.
Family was Bert's pride and joy, and time spent with his family was his favorite. His most treasured place to spend time was Colorado, and Bert and Marianne owned a cabin in Woodland Park for almost 50 years. Many memories were made in Colorado; the entire family developed a similar love for the state.
Bert was proud of the fact that he was a graduate of Fort Hays State College. For over 60 years, he was involved with the family business, Farmer's Lumber. He also designed residential and commercial plans in the evenings to support his family. His hobby was woodworking, and he spent countless hours in his shop creating wonderful projects. He was a longtime member of the local Methodist church, serving on many committees and in several capacities. Bert also served on the Hill City Council.
Bert is survived by his wife, Marianne, of the home. Other survivors include his children: Greg (deceased wife Debbie), Hill City; Jeff (wife Sheryl), Salina; and Jean (husband Craig), Wimberley, Texas. His grandchildren are Michelle Billips (husband Brett), Hill City; Michael Horton, Hill City; Amanda Aulbach (husband Matt), Kyle, Texas; and Nolan Morris (wife Ili), Wimberley, Texas. His great grandchildren are Gabi Bryant (husband Wyatt), Great Bend; Gracie Billips, Garrett Billips, and Greeley Billips, all of Hill City; Halle Morris, Wendell Morris, and Remy Morris, all of Wimberley, Texas; Declan Aulbach and Annie Aulbach, both of Kyle, Texas; and Raif Horton, Hill City. A great-great grandchild is Saige Bryant, Great Bend. His siblings are sister Virginia Marie Cafferty, Boise, Idaho; brother Frank "Bud" Gansel, Hill City; and sister Phyllis (husband Warren) Slocombe, Manhattan. Bert was preceded in death by brother-in-law Alan Cafferty; brother Richard (and wife June) Gansel; sister Jeanette (and husband Lee) Miller; and sister-in-law Kathy Gansel.
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Janifer Sue Bell - October 29, 1942 - January 30, 2024

Departed: 01/30/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Janifer Sue (Burton) Bell, 81, Penokee, Kansas, passed away January 30, 2024, in Hill City, surrounded by her family. She was born October 29, 1942, in Webster to Farrell Lee Burton and Florence Rebecca (Jones) Burton. She was their youngest child, preceded by Rea Joyce (Paxson) and Gary Lee “Buzz" Burton. Jan (as known by most people), Jani (as known by family and school mates), or Bear (as known by the Bell family) attended elementary school at Webster. She attended and graduated from Hill City High School where she served as her class treasurer. Her dad was the high school janitor, and her mom was one of the school’s cooks.
Jan met her future husband, Larry Earl Bell, at a birthday party held at her home in Penokee. (Larry and she later purchased that house in 2004). They started dating during their junior year. As the treasurer of their senior class, Jan planned a “senior sneak trip" to Colorado Springs. Due to a few “incidents" there were no more senior trips after that. After graduating from high school, Jan enrolled in Beauty School in Wichita. Larry was convinced to join the Army with assistance from two lifelong friends Roger Michael and Gary Ginther. After passing her state boards Jan began working at Larry's Aunt Vesta Mauck’s beauty shop in Hill City.
While on leave on December 19, 1960, Larry proposed. Following his second eight weeks of Army training the couple had two weeks to plan and prepare their wedding. They were married July 9, 1961, at the Prairie Home Methodist Church, south of Hill City. Larry drove his dad’s (Mark Bell) sheriff's car with sirens blaring and lights flashing the entire way back to Hill City. They took their brief honeymoon “in the big town of Hays". The very next day they drove to Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri, so Larry could finish his Army training. Then Larry was sent to Germany where he met their special friends Johnny “J.C." and Lorraine McCall of Tennessee. Later, while stationed at Fort Bragg, North Carolina, they met other special friends, Elmer “Troy" and Katy Gibson from Michigan, for whom Jan's and Larry's son Troy is named. While Larry was in the Army Jan worked as a beautician in Ellis and in North Carolina. Once Larry was discharged from the Army, the couple moved back to Hill City. They found out that they were expecting their first-born child (Darrin). At the same time Larry's brother Elwyn and his wife Karen were expecting a baby (Mike) and his
brother James Duane and Shirley were also expecting a baby (Sherry). All were born within days of each other. Darrin Earl was born October 15, 1964. Their second son, Troy Shane, arrived November 4, 1966, in Hill City while Jan was visiting her family. Although Larry was working in Scandia, he made it home in time for the birth.
In 1968 Jan and Larry bought the “farm" in Penokee. Jan opened Jan's Beauty Nook and they operated Larry's Tavern. They also raised pigs, sheep, and a garden. Their third child, a daughter, Dawn Janette was born January 27, 1971. The family lived in Penokee until 1973 when they moved to Cheyenne, Wyoming. In 1974 they moved to Craig, Colorado for the first time. Jan was a babysitter and Boy Scout leader while there and also in Vernal, Utah where they spent time with Larry's brother James Duane and wife Candy Walts and children Denise, Missy, Geoff and Kristi. Their family moved several more times around Colorado before settling back in Craig in 1978, along with James Duane’s family. During their time there they spent most of their leisure time with James Duane’s family for holidays and many, many camping trips. While in Craig, Jan worked as a manager of several different retail stores and at one time was a nanny. In 1988, Jan opened another beauty shop, although she didn't cut hair anymore. It was her “retirement".
In 1992, Jan and Larry moved to Colby. Jan worked as a retail store manager until 1994. Then she became the main babysitter for their grandson Ryan. When Larry retired in 2004, they moved back to Penokee. Once there Jan worked briefly in retail before she began her dream job of working part time at the Graham County Public Library. Among other things, Jan always enjoyed reading, camping, and reconnecting with family and classmates.
Jan was preceded in death by her parents; her brother Gary “Buzz" Burton; brothers-in-law: Elwyn Bell, James Duane Bell, Orman Bell and Don Paxson; nephews: Terry Paxson and Eric Bell; and her husband of 56 years, Larry in 2017. Survivors left to cherish her memory are her children and grandchildren: Darrin, wife Becky, and children Dalton Earl and Shaylee Kristeen (Colby); Troy (Colby) and son Dr. Andrew Jordan Thayer (Seattle, Washington); Dawn (Penokee) and son Ryan Scott Bell (Hill City) and fiancée Zoe Rose Ann Austin, and special friend Marshall Clapp; her sister Rea Paxson; her sisters-in-law: Karen Bell, Bobbie Bell, Jean Bell and Joyce (Doyle) Lyon; all of her nieces and nephews, each of whom had a special place in her heart; and her many, many cousins. Jani will be remembered for her very kind loving heart and her willingness to open her heart and home to all who knew her.
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Charles LaVerne Worcester - August 16, 1930 - January 25, 2024

Departed: 01/25/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Charles Worcester was born August 16, 1930, to Milo and Nellie Worcester on their farm north of Hill City, Kansas. He passed away peacefully January 25, 2024, at the Main Street Villa in Cheney, Kansas, where he had resided for the past two years. His witty humor, giving spirit, contentment (he never complained), and kindness were still very evident in his life. He will be missed by his family, friends, and all those whose lives he touched.
Charles was one of four children: Eugene, Charles, Don, and Katherine. He grew up working on his parents’ farm and attended  Roscoe School, a small country grade school north of his home. He rode his horse to school and started the fire in the stove for everyone. Later he attended Hill City High School where he was an active member of FFA and 4-H. In 1948 he graduated from high school and went on to attend Kansas State University with his cousin, Bill. After two years he returned to Hill City to farm with his dad. He loved farming and ranching.
On August 10, 1956, he married lovely Lola Lowery from Maxton, North Carolina. The couple was blessed with four children: Debbie, Greg, Nellene, and Stan. Charles’s love for God and his faith were evident in his farming and how he raised his family. He served as a deacon and was a lifetime member of Hill City Christian Church. With farming, he never quit or was discouraged if there was not a crop that year. He just kept praying and allowing us to see his faith that God’s provision was there even if we couldn’t see it. He made sure our family was in church for Sunday morning, Sunday school, Sunday evening, Wednesday night youth group, VBS, Camp, Mission trips, and Revivals. Charles took advantage of every opportunity for us to learn more from God’s word ~ a legacy of faith that all his children continue to share.
He served as the Graham County Farm Bureau President and represented our farming community at many meetings including some and  in Washington, D.C. Charles believed in our democracy, the right to vote, and for those representatives to represent the people in their county, state, and country. He loved America and saw voting as a privilege that we do not want to lose. He encouraged us to register and took pride in flying the American flag at his home. Last July he was still voting by absentee ballot for the local Cheney school board. He appreciated getting to vote. He also enjoyed being involved in 4-H as a project leader and fair superintendent. He enjoyed talking to the kids who brought in their projects, encouraging them in their record keeping, and judging in the gardening section. A loving and proud father, he was supportive of all our activities. If we were in it, he was there, whether in Hill City or in a surrounding town. This love carried into his grandchildren’s lives: enjoying the Sternberg Museum, birthdays (all out of town as none of his children stayed in Hill City), sports, plays, and graduations, among other things. This was a privilege as he usually drove by himself to state track or state cross country meets, and seeing them receive Eagle Scout and other awards. Charles was proud of his grandchildren, and they were proud of him and the efforts he made being there to support them. He treasured taking pictures of them and with them.
When Charles had to place his dear wife in the nursing home in Wakeeney, he showed us how to love even more. He went every day to see her and encouraged others to go see her as well. Later he moved Lola to the Hill City Dawson Place where his mother, Nellie, was also a resident. He visited two or even three times a day. How hard this must have been to have his wife and his mother in the nursing home at the same time, but he never complained or acted discouraged. He kept praying, attending church and often taking Christian radio cassettes to the Dawson pPace for them to enjoy. After his mother passed away in 2001 and then his wife  in 2004, his faith never wavered. He was thankful for the time he had with them.
Charles showed his love for his community as well. He drove dialysis patients from Hill City to Hays for many years. He made one, or sometimes two, trips a week depending on the schedule needs to fill. He even took Doc Brassfield to Denver. It was a trip that showed God’s divine protection was definitely with him as he turned the wrong direction in eight lanes of traffic, and an officer was there to pull in front and protect them. He even managed to find the doctor’s office in downtown Denver! Occasionally motorists stranded in the snow were rescued by Charles. He would take them to our home. One couple stayed three days with him and mom on the farm. He truly believed, “You reap what you sow,” Galatians 6:7b. If you give, God gives back.
In 2016 Charles agreed to move to Olathe to live with Greg and Shelia. He missed the farm, but having been a widower for 12 years, he enjoyed their company, Greg’s humor was just like dad’s, and Shelia’s cooking was so much better than TV dinners. Proverbs 17:22 “A merry heart doth good like medicine…” He attended Community Bible Church with Deb and Phil and Bible Study with Greg and Phil. He enjoyed seeing his kids and grandkids in the area. He even spent a month in Colorado with Stan and Sylvia in Castle Rock. Stan also has the same sense of humor and Sylvia is also a great cook. He thrived and was content wherever he was.
When his health began to decline, he moved into the Cheney Main Street Villa, close to where Nellene works at the Cheney Golden Age Home. There he continued his jokes and puns with the staff, entertaining them at almost every meal with his favorite rendition of “If You’re Happy and You Know It” and his table mate Frank would clap his hands. He found himself not only cared for but loved there as well. The wonderful staff played games with him (dominos was a favorite), watching squirrels and birds out the dining room window. He called his walker his Cadillac. He told them, “Be careful where you park it. I don’t want it scratched.” He enjoyed teasing the beauty shop lady as well saying, “Are you using a mower up there?” and “Have you ever done this before?” even though she had been a beautician for many years. She would reply “Nope. You’re going to be my guinea pig.” They would both laugh. At mealtimes Charles was always coming up with a new way to get more desserts ~ he would eat it first and then say he hadn’t had dessert yet when Nellene came over to eat with him. Occasionally the staff would sneak him a piece before AND after his meal. He had a bell on his walker and would say “beep, beep” when he was behind other residents. Charles meowed at the cute facility puppy and other times barked, which probably confused her. When the staff checked him, he pretended to be sleeping and startled them with a “Boo!” Before they even touched him to do vitals, he’d say “Ouch!” When Nellene asked her dad how his lunch was, he always said, “I don’t know what it was, but it was good.” She also asked his table mate, Frank, who had an empty plate, “Did you already eat, Frank?” Dad responded before Frank could, “Of course, he didn’t eat, Frank, or Frank wouldn’t be sitting there.” Humor and kindness to the end ~ he would always ask would you like some of mine when Nellene would eat lunch with him, even though her plate was full. December 30, 2023, he entered the St. Joe hospital with aspiration pneumonia. He was released back to his home at the Villa on Country Care Hospice January 8, 2024. With the wonderful, loving Villa staff and excellent hospice care he continued his legacy of love and laughter, and served Jesus until his last breath January 25, 2024. “A good name is better than riches, and loving favor rather than silver.” Proverbs 22:1
Charles was preceded in death by his parents, Milo and Nellie; his brothers Eugene and Don; and his wife, Lola. He is survived by his sister, Katherine Morse (Barton); children: Debbie Streiff (Phil), Greg Worcester (Shelia), Nellene Henson (Kurt), and Stan Worcester (Sylvia); his 12 grandchildren: Megan Sturm (Tom), Ben Henson (Katie), Kaitlin Evans (Patrick), Alecia Henson, Denae Nesbit (Carl), Colette Worcester, Brogden Worcester (Amanda), Andy Worcester (America), Ryan Worcester, Roni Worcester, Jake Streiff, and Jesse Streiff; and his 11 great grandchildren: Jonathan, Adison, Aileena and Connor Sturm; Mica Nesbit; Michael, Carson, Romeo, Charlie, Jennifer, and Lillian Worcester. If you wish to give a memorial, please make it to the Main Street Villa for the two years they invested in our dad to make his life wonderful.
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Rosalie Alice "Skippy" Foster - October 10, 1935 - January 02, 2024

Departed: 01/02/2024 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Rosalie Alice Foster, affectionately known as “Skippy”, age 88, formerly of Hill City, Kansas, passed away peacefully January 2, 2024, in Leavenworth, Kansas. She was born in Russell Springs, Kansas October 10, 1935, to James Golden (1893-1942) and Alice Ruby (Johann) Armstrong (1908-1944). Rosalie was raised by her maternal grandmother, Louisa Jane (Darland) Johann Gallagher (1865-1956). She was also preceded in death by her husband Lyle Alfred Foster (1929-1996), and her only sibling, Parker James Armstrong (1931-2021).
Rosalie had a love of family, reading, westerns, cross-stitching, traveling, board games, puzzles, Elvis, JFK, and rearranging furniture. She was always ready on a moment’s notice for an adventure. She was a cheerful, thoughtful, and caring mother and grandmother who will be greatly missed by her loving family and friends. Rosalie was known to all as having a very kind soul.
Rosalie is survived by her seven children: Ed (wife Cristie) Foster of Hill City, Dale Foster of Leavenworth, Ron (wife Renee) Foster of Hutchinson, Jackie (husband James Bond) of Paoli, Oklahoma, David Foster and John Foster both of Leavenworth, and Jim (wife Sherry) Foster of Lindsborg; 18 grandchildren: Alan, Amy, Tracy, Tammy, Travis, Robyn, Rochelle, Ryan, Haley, Allison, Richard, Amy, Andy, Amber, Raelynn, Riley, Cody and Staci; 31 great grandchildren; eight great-great grandchildren and many, many, other family members and friends.
Cremation has taken place and a celebration of life and interment at Memorial Lawn Cemetery will be held on Saturday, March 30, 2024, in Hill City, Kansas. Stinemetz Funeral Home in Hill City, Kansas is assisting the family with the arrangements.
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Mary Worcester - June 23, 1936 - December 30, 2023

Departed: 12/30/2023 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Mary Worcester, also known as Marilyn “Mary” June Maxine (Maupin) Worcester, passed away peacefully December 30, 2023, at the age of 87 in Hill City, Kansas. She was born June 23, 1936, on the farm north of Antelope Lake, near Morland, Kansas, to Charles Courtney and Essie Lydia (White) Maupin. Mary was a beloved member of her community and will be deeply missed by her friends, family, and all who knew her.
Mary was described as the epitome of sweetness. She had a kind heart and a generous spirit, which endeared her to everyone she met. She made it very easy for everyone to love her. She leaves behind a legacy of love and compassion that will be cherished by those who were fortunate enough to know her.
Mary's educational journey began at a country school north of Antelope Lake near Morland, Kansas. She then attended public schools in Morland, Kansas with two years at Morland High School and then two years at Hill City High School, in Hill City, Kansas, while providing nanny services to the Chipman family. She graduated from Hill City High School in May 1954. After graduating from Hill City High School, Mary was married to Don Worcester September 5, 1954. Mary also pursued outreach classes in bookkeeping through Colby Community College.
Throughout her life, Mary dedicated herself to raising her children and later found employment at Shields IGA in town. She then spent 27 years working as a bookkeeper and clerk for The Farmers Lumber Company of Hill City, Kansas. Mary and Don also owned the Pomeroy Inn for many years in Hill City, which she considered her pride and joy. At the Inn, she baked extraordinary homemade cinnamon rolls for the guests and the local community before heading to work at the lumber yard. Mary saw the inn not only as a business, but also as a mission to help people. She often provided accommodation for needy families and individuals, who had been referred to her by the Hill City Ministerial Alliance, without any cost.
Mary's faith played an important role in her life. While raising her family, she and Don attended the Hill City Christian Church. Later, she re-established her affiliation with the Methodist Church, attending services and finding solace in her faith during her husband's long illness.
Outside of her professional life, Mary had a variety of hobbies and interests. She actively participated in local elections and served as a Graham Township Trustee and a Hill City Township Treasurer at one time. Following in her father's footsteps, she valued politics as an important aspect of daily life. Mary also enjoyed family activities, baking, cooking, sewing, and raising chickens while selling eggs to people in town. As a farmer's wife, she embraced the hard work that came with harvest time each year.
She was preceded in death by her father, Charles Maupin; her mother, Essie Maupin; brothers and sisters-in-law: Elwin and Birdie Maupin and Dale and Ann Maupin; sisters and brothers-in-law: Imogene and Leo Garrison, Coralie and Otto Keith, Redonda and Don Patton; and brothers-in-law, Norman Brandyberry, and Archie Edgell. She was also preceded in death by her high school sweetheart and husband, Donald "Don" Worcester; brother and sister-in-law, Eugene and Helen Worcester; sister-in-law, Lola Worcester; and brother-in law, Barton “Bart” Morse.
Mary is survived by her five loving children: Sherri Worcester (Dale Gillman) of WaKeeney, Terry (Sandy) Worcester of Flagstaff, Arizona, Larry (Jody) Worcester of rural Hill City, Karri (Jim) Sisk of Norton, and Perry “PJ” Worcester of Santa Fe, New Mexico; two sisters, Phyllis Brandyberry and Charlene Edgell, both of Dawson Place, Hill City; brother-in-law, Charles Worcester, of Cheney, Kansas; and sister-in-law, Katherine Morse, of New Braunfels, Texas; nine grandchildren; fourteen great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews. Mary Worcester will forever be remembered for her sweet nature, generosity, and love for her family and community. Her legacy will continue to inspire and touch the lives of those she leaves behind.
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Melva Smith - June 16, 1929 - December 16, 2023

Departed: 12/16/2023 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Melva M. (Herman) Smith was born June 19, 1929 in Hill City, Kansas and passed away peacefully at the age of 94 on December 16, 2023 at the Santana, Kansas Long Term Care Facility. She had been a resident of the Satanta facility the past six years. Melva always joked that she had outlived most all of her friends, and they were all now located “north” of town.
Melva graduated from Hill City High School in 1946 and married Ivan Smith that very same day. After Ivan returned from WWII, they began their life together in Cut Bank, Montana where he started a long career in the oil pipeline business. They soon returned to their roots in Hill City where their two children, Jerry and Kimberly, were born and raised, both graduating from Hill City High.
Ivan’s career with Mobil took them to stints in Valley Center and Topeka, and finally, three years in Saudi Arabia. After retirement in the mid’80’s, they settled back in their hometown of Hill City while spending time traveling the country in their beloved Holiday Rambler Motorhome. They also took many trips abroad with the Holiday Rambler Owner’s Club. They loved spending their winters in an RV retirement community in South Texas in Donna.
Melva was preceded in death by her parents George and Marvel Anderson; husband Ivan; and daughter Kimberly. Survivors remaining to cherish her memory include her son Jerry and his wife Joy of Woodland Park, Colorado and their children Reilly Smitherman and husband Seth (Reno, Nevada), Kylee Smith (Washington, D.C.), Kody Smith (Bozeman, Montana) and granddaughters Allison Schaaf and husband Brook (Dripping Springs, Texas), Kayla Beck and husband Evin (Franklin, Tennessee) and Whitney Merritt and husband Travis (Naples, Florida). In addition, she leaves ten great-grandchildren, Reagan and Teddy Smitherman; Ivan, Seven and Tovin Schaaf; Maddox, Emmy and Elsa Beck and Taras and Anjali Merritt.
Melva’s remains were cremated and placed at the Hill City Cemetery next to her husband Ivan.
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Brett Toll - August 13, 1973 - December 08, 2023

Departed: 12/08/2023 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Brett Toll was born August 13, 1973, in Hoxie, Kansas, to Lloyd and Linda (Schulte) Toll. He passed away at his home in Littleton, Colorado, December 8, 2023. Brett lived the first three and a half years of his life in Grinnell, Kansas before his dad was transferred for his work to Logan, which was a perfect place for Brett to spend his childhood.
From the beginning, Brett always loved the outdoors. He spent a lot of his childhood playing with his friends by the North Solomon River among the trees, trails, and some of the mill and other foundations from the earlier days of Logan. And the time spent on the Toll family farm near Morland further influenced who he became as an adult. Hunting, fishing, farm chores, and hiking with family members in the creeks surrounding the area guided his life.
Brett spent his grade and high school years in Logan, graduating from Logan High School in 1991. During that time, he became active in the Boy Scouts. Brett and his dad were partners, attending the various activities and events that make up the scouting program. With the support of his family, his troop leaders and members, and his tenacity, he attained the Eagle Scout rank. Brett was the sixteenth Eagle Scout from the Logan Boy Scout Troop 124.
While growing up, Brett attended St. John’s Catholic Church with his family. He received the sacraments, was an altar server and lector, and belonged to CYO. His Eagle Scout project was planting trees on the perimeter of the church property. After high school, Brett attended Kansas State University, graduating from the Kansas State School of Engineering. He thoroughly enjoyed his college years and was one of K-State football’s biggest fans.
After earning his college degree, he accepted a position with Francis Constructors, Inc. in Colorado. The company name was later changed to FCI Constructors, Inc., which is an employee-owned general contracting firm. When Brett passed away, he was a Project Manager for the company, working there for 26 years. With his strong work ethic Brett believed in doing a job well from the beginning to the end, and he liked to work.
Brett made some great friends in Denver who taught him the technicalities of mountain climbing. Being an avid outdoorsman, hiking and snow skiing as well as fishing and hunting were also passions of his. In 2003 he met the love of his life, Diann Schwartzkopf, through mutual family members. They had many things in common since they both came from small farming communities in Kansas. Their marriage ceremony was on Kansas Day, January 29, 2005, when they became partners for life.
Brett and Diann’s only child, Conrad, their pride and joy, was born May 29, 2012. From a very young age he was taken on fishing trips, hunting expeditions, hiking, and skiing, in the hope that he, too, would develop a love for the great outdoors. Conrad was encouraged by his parents in his scouting pursuits to follow in his dad’s path. Just recently he made the transition from Webelos to Boy Scouts; he’s learning the proper steps.
After Brett was diagnosed with neuroendocrine small cell carcinoma, he was doggedly determined to beat it. He fought his cancer for one and a half years with all that he had: prayers, sheer will, and the support of his wife, son, family, and friends.
Brett was preceded in death by his grandparents, Alan and Donna Toll and Virgil and Laverna Schulte; and his mother-in-law, Lolita Schwartzkopf. He is survived by his wife, Diann, and his son, Conrad, of the home; his parents, Lloyd and Linda Toll of Logan; his sister, Brooke Gunstrom and husband Jonathan, of Juneau, Alaska; his brother Trevor Toll, of Littleton; his father-in-law Herb Schwartzkopf, of Ransom; his brother-in-law, Mickey Schwartzkopf, wife Melanie, and daughters, Jocelyn and Sophia, of Edwardsville; and numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, and good friends.
Brett was a loyal, faithful friend, a meticulous perfectionist, and a good family man. He played hard, but also worked hard. In essence, he considered himself a simple guy, a good Christian, who considered nature and the outdoors to be his cathedral.
Brett didn’t want fancy words spoken over him because he knew he wasn’t perfect. But everyone who knew him would agree that this passage from the Bible best describes his life. “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” ~ 2 Timothy 4:7. Burial will follow the Mass and luncheon at Morland City Cemetery, Morland Kansas
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Alice Bowans - July 03, 1932 - November 29, 2023

Departed: 11/29/2023 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Alice Charlene Bowans, 91, a longtime Graham County resident, passed away November 29, 2023, at Credo Senior Living in Hoisington, Kansas. She was delivered at home by Doc Pete, in rural Graham County, Kansas July 3, 1932, to Ella (Veverka) and Charles William Smith, Sr. Their family included five other children: Edith (Austin Dillon), William George, Arlene (Bill Bright and Elmer Leikam), Veda (Abe Miller) and Charles, Jr. (Shirley).
Alice attended school and graduated from Palco High School in 1951. After high school she attended the Colorado School of Floral Design, receiving a diploma on October 16, 1953. Later Alice completed a specialized course of study, “Management for the Ladies of Funeral Service”, issued by the National Foundation of Funeral Service School of Management, on March 2, 1956. Using her floral design training, Alice began a job at Flowers by Frances in Hays where she became an exceptional florist. She especially enjoyed working with Ruby.
December 8, 1984, Alice married the love of her life, Ed Bowans. Her entire life she was a caretaker, starting with her parents and then her siblings. She had no children but was extremely busy helping take care of her many nieces and nephews through the years. Alice was always on the go, visiting friends and family. After her husband Ed passed away, she began a job with Development Services of Northwest Kansas (DSNWK). She fell in love with Marge.
Everyone who knew her called Alice “The Cat Woman”. She loved animals and would have saved them all if she could. She even fed the wildlife. Some hobbies she enjoyed included sewing, gardening, floral design, and canning. Although Alice led a fulfilling life, in the last few years her health failed. However, she still enjoyed visiting and eating her favorite foods.
Alice was preceded in death by her parents Ella and Charles; her husband Ed; and her five brothers and sisters: Edith, William George, Arlene, Veda, and Charles, Jr. Survivors left to cherish her life and greatly miss her sharing stories and memories of their ancestors include her many nieces and nephews.
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Ora Mae Irby - December 17, 1931 - November 11, 2023

Departed: 11/11/2023 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Ora Mae's Life Story (written by Ora Mae) I was born into the family of Carroll Earl Kennedy and Olive Blanche (Lee) Kennedy  December 17, 1931, who already had four children. Carroll Earl Jr. (Ken) was the oldest, then Ilene Ardelia, Roma Lee and Olive Ruth, then Me! (I’m not sure they were real pleased when I popped out – another girl!)
We were living in Hunter, Kansas at the time and Daddy ran a grocery store – Momma helped there some – I don’t know how much – but we had a “hired girl” who stayed with us when Momma wasn’t home, and she would sing songs to us. They were sad songs. “The East Bound Train Was Crowded”, “A Vine Covered Shack”, “Letter Edged in Black” and so on – and I would lay on the shelf under the table and cry and cry. We were still living in Hunter when one morning we were all told that we had another sister – she was supposed to be Daniel Josephus LDS after Grandpa Kennedy – but she was Doris Jean instead. (another girl).
It was during the dust storm days – and that was bad enough! But all of us kids managed to get the measles at the same time during a real bad dust storm. Momma had to hang wet towels up to the window to keep the dust from coming in around the windows.
I remember there was a “Billy Goat” in town and every time I went to town – that “Billy Goat” would chase me up the stairs beside the grocery store! We kids were playing “Hide & Seek” and I hid on the floor in the back seat of our car – but they didn’t have to look for me because there was broken glass on the floor from the accident that had happened when Daddy and Mommy had gone to the World’s Fair in Topeka. Anyway, as you can imagine, I yelled real loud when I knelt on the floor. I don’t know when Daddy opened a store in Abilene so of course we moved to Abilene – I can’t remember too much about living there but was a bad time for our family because Daddy lost the store, so Momma made handmade men’s neckties and the older kids had to sell them. It was while Momma was making the ties, Ruth was giving a bath in the washtub in the kitchen and Ruth said If I didn’t sit still, she would pour hot water on my head and I must have not sat still because she took the tea kettle from the stove and poured that water on my head!
I did attend kindergarten in Abilene, however, I only attended one day because some little boy teased me because I didn’t get my picture all done!! So, I wouldn’t go back – I guess that was not a good deal because that was during the time Momma was making ties and that was the least of their worries. Shortly after that we moved to Colby where Daddy and Momma ran a feed and grain store or something like that. I remember very little about school in Colby except I guess the 1st grade teacher thought I should take the first grade over, but the 2nd grade teacher said she would help me! But I should have stayed in the 1st grade!! We lived in three different homes while in Colby – the last two houses were closer to the railroad tracks (which was where the folks worked) and we always walked to school. When I started 5th grade we moved to Ogden, Kansas because Daddy had a job at Fort Riley. It was a small town close to the base. I enjoyed school there because the 5th and 6th grade were in the same room, so I really learned 6th grade twice!!
That was when we first started going to church more – at least I remember. That was when I realized I needed Jesus. The speaker was from the Christian Bible College in Manhattan, Kansas. I wanted to go forward, but I thought everyone would think it was awful – because my daddy was the Sunday School Superintendent, and I should have already been a Christian! Anyway, I was baptized in the Christian Church in Junction City, Kansas. We moved to Manhattan, Kansas the summer before my 7th grade, which made it easy for me because everyone came from different grade schools to the junior high building. This was when I became interested in singing and I was accepted into “The Robed Choir” with my two good friends in high school. We thought we were so good because 9th graders were not usually in “The Robed Choir.” My folks let me take voice lessons and I was told I was ready for solo work. Ha!Ha!
Between my junior and senior year in high school, Daddy was transferred from Fort Riley to Forbes Air Force Base in Topeka. My folks let me continue voice lessons in Topeka – well that was a BLOW. I wasn’t standing properly nor breathing correctly, so basically, I started from the beginning again!! Since I had planned on going to K-State had we stayed in Manhattan, I had only two classes to take to finish high school. So, at Topeka High, I took “Retail Selling” and worked downtown in the afternoons.
We attended the Topeka Bible Church. That is when I met two girls who also just moved to Topeka. Ruth and I and Faye and Virginia Moore started singing double duets. Sometimes it was more giggling than singing.
After I graduated from Topeka High in 1949, I had decided I wanted to go to Moody Bible Institute in Chicago. But I had to wait until January 1950 because I had to be 18 before I could be accepted. Roma Lee met me at the train station and went with me to Moody. But since I didn’t speak to anyone and of course they were all new – the new students had to be there early for orientation. Anyway after supper I called Roma Lee, who was attending Wheaton College, I told her I wanted to go home because “no one spoke to me.” So she called a friend that she had known at Moody and he called his girlfriend and she and some of her girls came to my room. They helped me take my trunk to my room, so I was fine then. I didn’t do real well because my roommate Geraldine Ruhl and I played “ping-pong” most of the time. I really only attended Moody about three terms when my thyroid started me shaking real bad. I’d get up in conducting class and they couldn’t tell too well if I was conducting or just shaking, so the school nurse put me on the phenobarbital four times a day then something else to keep me awake in class! So, when I went home for Christmas, Roma Lee insisted I go see the doctor! I did and had my thyroid removed with Radioactive Iodine. Because Moody changed from term basis to semester, and I would have had to start all over most of my classes, I never continued.
I worked at “Pelletier’s Department Store” which is where I worked during high school for Retail Selling until I started as a draftsman at Southwest Bell Telephone company. My supervisor had a nervous breakdown (no, I don’t think it was my fault). I learned after I married, he was a distant relative of Grandma Inez – he was Ralph Wing and his wife came to our home when we had the Wing Reunion.
I met Darrol Irby at Roma Lee’s wedding in Bogue (She had helped open the Hospital in WaKeeney and met Don Irby). Shortly after their wedding Darrol started going to K.U. Medical Center to have surgery on his lip and mouth. He always stopped in Topeka. To make a long story short we were married in the First Baptist Church in Topeka on October 17th, 1954, and moved to the farm south of Bogue. Needless to say – I had never even tried to learn to cook nor had I ever lived on a farm before!! Poor Darrol!! But he never complained – even when he would come home for dinner and find the “slow cooker” setting in the snow with the dinner burnt!!
Our first daughter, Sara, was born October 1, 1955; on July 28, 1957, our second daughter Janet was born; on October 15, 1960, our third daughter Christina was born; on November 15, 1961, our first son, Siegle was born. Darrol was so excited when he called my folks, to let them know – the nurse said he really didn’t need a phone. And again, on July 13, 1963, Murlin was born. Darrol remodeled our four-room home into a nine-room home with a half basement recreation room. Darrol passed away on November 12, 1997. A lot of changes happened. Siegle moved home to help me keep things going, but in 2008 we had a chance to sell the farm and pay off the bank and still have enough to buy a home in Bogue. Murlin bought 20 acres where the house and outbuildings are. I bought a nice three-bedroom home at 405 9th Street in Bogue which has been a good home for me. Obituary
Ora Mae Kennedy Irby died November 11, 2023, surrounded by family. She was born December 17, 1931, to Carrol Earl Kennedy and Olive Blanche Lee Kennedy in Hunter, Kansas. After graduating from Topeka High in 1949, she attended Moody Bible Institute in Chicago, Illinois. Because of illness, she was only in Moody for about five terms. She worked in the Pelletier Department Store until she worked as a draftsman at Southwestern Bell Telephone Company in Topeka. She married Darrol Wayne Irby on October 17, 1954, in Topeka. After their five children were grown, she started working part-time as a substitute at Bogue Grade School and worked as an Outreach Instructor for Colby Community College teaching basic education to mentally handicapped adults at the Kobler Center in Hill City. She retired after working for 25 years.
She was a member of the Bogue Community United Methodist Church. Music was very important to her, and she helped with the choir for many years, serving many different committees helping youth choir, teaching Bible studies, and a member of U.M.W. in which she held a District Office. Ora Mae was also a member of the American Legion Auxiliary, T.P.M. Church, Bridge Club and Pinochle Club. Ora Mae loved her Lord, her family, and her music.
She is survived by her five children: Sara (Bill) Seller of Oberlin, Janet (Darel) Reynolds of Agra, Christina (Craig, deceased) Green of Livingston, Tennessee, Siegle (Clint) Irby-Duncan of Bogue, and Murlin (Joy) Irby of Bogue; 15 grandchildren; 23 great grandchildren; a sister, Ruth Norsworthy of Raleigh, North Carolina and sister-in-law Lois Kennedy of Manhattan; Ora Mae was preceded in death by her husband, Darrol Irby; parents, Carroll Earl and Olive Branch Kennedy; mother-in-law, Inez Irby; brother, Ken Kennedy; sisters: Doris Woods, Roma Lee Irby, Ilene Wallace; and grandson, Andrew Green.
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Tyler Warren Winn - May 06, 1993 - November 09, 2023

Departed: 11/09/2023 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Tyler Warren Winn, Hill City, Kansas, was tragically taken from his loving family November 9, 2023, in rural Sheridan County, Kansas. He was born May 6, 1993, to Allen and Debra (Smith) Winn in San Angelo, Texas. He was one of five siblings and the only son. Although Tyler moved to Kansas in 2016, he was a true Texan. “You can take the Texan out of Texas, but you can’t take Texas out of the Texan.”
Tyler graduated from San Angelo Central High School in 2011 where he was active in the Mariachi band playing the Guitarron. He loved working with his hands and even competed in the Texas Skills USA building trades competition. Tyler had many hobbies including: playing the guitar, putting puzzles together, video gaming, holding a black belt in karate, and upcycling junk parts into artwork. He was very intrigued by wiring systems and was attending Arizona State University working toward his Electrical Engineering Degree. His true passion, though, was cars and trucks. This love began with the purchase of his 1979 Z28 Camaro when he was 16.
Right out of high school Tyler followed in his father’s footsteps and began working in the Texas oilfields. His true calling became clear to him after landing a job as a lube tech in the Chevy House. It wasn’t long before he was a GM Certified Technician. After moving to Kansas, Tyler met the love of his life, Stephanie Wands. Following a few twists and turns, which included their firstborn, Ryder in 2019, Tyler began working as a diesel technician and opened his own automotive shop, LoneStar Auto. When they found out they were expecting a second son, Raysson, in 2021, the decision was made to move closer to their family in Hill City, Kansas. Tyler began working as a John Deere technician for BTI in Hoxie, Kansas. Life had one more blessing for them in 2022 when Daddy’s Princess, RhyAnne, was born. On October 15, 2022, Tyler and Stephanie finally tied the knot.
Tyler was only a member of the Hill City Community for 2 ½ years, but his impact will be felt for years to come. He was Vice President of the Graham County Auto and Art Museum where he organized and pulled off the biggest car show the community had ever hosted. He showed Northwest Kansas how a burnout contest was meant to be done and was already planning the 2nd Annual Car Show. A toy drive in Hill City has been established to honor his legacy as this was something Tyler and Stephanie were organizing. Tyler was a member of the Hoxie Hotrodders Lions Club and was very active in the Salina, Kansas car scene. He was the guy other car guys called when they couldn’t figure out something. He was always quick with advice and willing to teach others. Tyler was never idle. He worked tirelessly to provide for his family and to reach the goals he constantly set for himself.
Tyler is survived by his loving wife Stephanie Winn and his children, Ryder, Raysson, and RhyAnne of Hill City, Kansas; his father Allen Winn and his sisters Jaime Maldanado, Haley Winn, Allison (Joe) Martin, and Holly Winn of Texas; and his grandmother, Sue Smith of Michigan. He is also survived by his grandmother-in-law Sandra Veh; his mother-in-law Jami (Lonnie) Sprinkle and father-in-law  Todd (Leslie) Wands; his brothers-in-law: River (Craig) Ledet, Riley (Zoey) Wands, Tate (Skylar) Wands, and Jaran (Jordyn) Clark, along with many nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends who were like family. Tyler was preceded in death by his mother, Debra Winn, his paternal grandparents, his maternal grandfather, and his grandfather-in-law John Veh.
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Michael Kemp Money - June 11, 1939 - October 26, 2023

Departed: 10/26/2023 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Michael Kemp Money, 84, of Hill City, Kansas, passed away October 26, 2023. He was born to Rex and Katharyn (Kemp) Money in Enid, Oklahoma, June 11, 1939.
Mike was raised in Pratt, Kansas, and moved to Hill City his senior year, graduating from Hill City Memorial High School in 1957. He graduated from Fort Hays Kansas State College with a Bachelor of Science in Business. Throughout college, Mike drove home every weekend to work for his father at Money Chevrolet as a wash boy. While at Fort Hays, Mike met his lifelong partner Kay ImMasche, and they were later married in 1961 at the Methodist Wesley Foundation in Hays, Kansas.
Mike was a man of few words, but his loyalty to his community and family was unwavering. Though his first love was the automobile and truck business, he found true happiness in Kansas's greatest gift, its land. There was nothing Mike loved more than to take Kay out on evening rides through the country at sunset. But beyond everything else, the pride and love for his family was closest to his heart.
Mike was preceded in death by his parents and sister, Susie (Money) Wessling. Survivors include his beloved wife and companion for over 61 years, Kay of the home; a brother, Larry Money (Dawn) Perryton, Texas; sons Michael Money of Salina, Kansas, and partner Annie Grevas, and Doug Money (Teri) of Penokee, Kansas; daughter Meg Money of San Diego, California and partner Bill McNamara; daughter Gretchen Elliott (Ben) of Lindsborg, Kansas; grandchildren: Ashley Money, Michael John Money, Tayler Atkins (Casey), Clay Money (Katelyn), Beck Elliott (Kennedy), Cort Elliott, Karik Elliott, and Crew Elliott; great-grandchildren: Locke, Leighton, and Macy.
Cremation has been chosen, and a memorial service will be held in the Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church, Hill City, Kansas, on Wednesday, November 1, at 11:00 A.M.
Suggested memorials to the Frontier Stage Theater in Hill City or to the “Mike and Kay Money Scholarship" at the FHSU Foundation. Online donations accepted https://foundation.fhsu.edu/donate/ or checks to FHSU Foundation for the “Mike and Kay Money Scholarship" or may be sent  in care of Stinemetz Funeral Home, 522 N. Pomeroy, Hill City, Kansas 67642.
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Penny Rae Law - September 11, 1964 - October 26, 2023

Departed: 10/26/2023 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Penny Rae Law, 59, of Hill City, Kansas entered into the arms of Jesus October 26, 2023. She was born September 11, 1964, at the Graham County Hospital in Hill City to Clarene (Haynes) and Randall Law. Penny grew up on a farm between Hill City and WaKeeney. She attended grade school in Hill City and furthered her education at Beamgard Learning Center in Atwood. At age 21 Penny began attending Kobler Center (DSNWK) and a few years later started a job cleaning at Pizza Hut in the mornings. Penny gained many lifelong friendships through these experiences. She retired from Pizza Hut in 2016 after 20 plus years and continued attending Kobler Center until 2023.
Penny had an incredible zest for life and enjoyed bowling, cheerleading, participating in Special Olympics events and 4-H. She loved Reba McEntire and watching her favorite TV shows on DVDs. Her favorites were Little House on the Prairie, Dr. Quinn Medicine Woman and The Waltons. Penny had a magnetic personality and never met a person she didn’t like. She had a joyous giggle and a smile that could light up a room.
Penny was preceded in death by her father Randall Law, her sister Kim Wagner, and her grandparents Clarence and Oda Haynes and Frank and Edna Law. She is survived by her mother Clarene Law-Wanker and stepfather Bob Wanker, Hill City; brothers: Steve Law, Plainville, and Chad Law (Stephanie) Hays; nephew Sawyer Law, Hays; niece Nikki Wagner, Wichita; great niece Alexis Wagner, Wichita; and many cousins. She had a special relationship with her uncle, Gary Haynes, Hill City; aunt, Korla Griffey, Norton; cousins: Sheila Law, Fort Smith, Montana and Ashley Law, Loveland, Colorado; and many other family members and close friends.
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Deborah Louise Gansel - April 19, 1959 - October 19, 2023

Departed: 10/19/2023 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Deborah Louise Gansel was born April 19, 1959, in Tawas City, Michigan, the first-born child to Alfred David, Jr. and Rebecca (Stoltenberg) Perry. She was later joined by two younger sisters Cheryl and Katherine. David was in the Air Force, which meant as a child, she and her family made several moves. After her father’s passing in the spring of 1973, the family moved back to Hill City to be close to family. Debbie cared for her younger sisters while her mom went to nursing school. While attending Hill City High School, she became best friends with Darla (Brandyberry) Goodrow. They have remained close throughout their adult lives. Debbie graduated from HCHS in May 1977.
On March 10, 1979, Debbie married Michael Horton. They made their home in eastern Texas where he worked in the oilfield, and she was a stay-at-home mom and daycare provider. The couple was blessed with their first child on July 10, 1979, when Michelle Lee entered the world. A few years later, on January 12, 1983, Michael Linn joined the family. Debbie was very active with her children and was always seen playing with them, going fishing, and doing fun craft projects. She was also a Girl Scout and Boy Scout leader. In October of 1990, Debbie and Mike were divorced and she and her children moved back to Hill City to be close to her mother, Becky.
Once in Hill City, Debbie quickly jumped into the role of a single mother. She worked long hours and nearly every day (often working split shifts) at the Western Hills Restaurant. The customers loved her, and she loved them. The guys at the round table quickly became like family and were often tasked in her children’s teenage years as informants of things that they were trying to keep secret. Debbie always joked with Michelle that she could find out about a mishap before Michelle had time to make up an excuse. Debbie was not only a great mom to her two children, but also took on the role as second mom to many of their friends.
After many declined invitations by her sister Kathy, Debbie finally agreed to go out one night to have a drink and do something besides work. It’s at this time that the romance of Greg and Debbie began. They each have their own version of who caught the other’s attention first, but anyone watching knew what was going to be. The two were engaged July 5, 1991, during a “wonderful” four-day vacation to the cabin in Woodland Park, Colorado. During that time, they traveled to Cripple Creek (before it was a gambling town) and drove miles along Ridge Road enjoying the scenery. The two were married February 14, 1992 at the We’ve Only Just Begun wedding chapel in Las Vegas, Nevada. Throughout their marriage Greg’s family often said that Debbie was the answer to their prayers and was the best thing that ever happened to him. In the summer of 1993, Greg and Debbie moved into Greg’s grandparents’ house following renovations. Debbie worked tirelessly in the yard making flower gardens, an herb garden, and an overall beautiful backyard with a pond to relax in the evenings. Greg was a devoted husband to Debbie throughout their 31 plus years of marriage.
Debbie started working at the United States Postal Service as a mail clerk and city carrier January of 1999. She had always dreamt of this job and had even tested for it while living in Texas prior to her move back to Kansas. So many of her customers remember her for her contagious smile and laugh, no matter how long the line was or how stressed she might have been. Many customers have mentioned during the time of her illness how they missed the TLC that she gave them at the post office. She enjoyed her co-workers just as much and was always excited to take them some sweet treats to enjoy. If there were too many sweets leftover at home, she took them to the post office, and they would disappear.
In May of 1999, Debbie started her journey in her favorite role…that as grandma. She was one of the best around and as she did with her children, she also became a bonus grandma to many of her grandchildren’s friends. She was known by everyone as Grandma Black…a name given to her by her granddaughter Gracie. While Michelle attended nursing school, Grandma Black took great care of Gabi so Michelle could study and work. After Michelle became a nurse, Debbie was often seen picking up her grandchildren from daycare at Tammy VanLoenen’s if work was keeping her late. Debbie often joked how convenient it was to have a backyard next to the daycare her grandbabies attended and often talked to all the children over the shared fence.
Debbie loved nature and enjoyed a good thunderstorm. She enjoyed the change of the seasons (especially spring and fall) but dreaded the cold of the winter. With each spring, she anxiously awaited the opening of the greenhouse so she could purchase more flowers and plants. She had a large collection of indoor house plants that she kept going all year long and seemed to be able to keep anything alive. She was also an amazing cook. She rarely followed a recipe but could make everyone’s day with her concoctions. The only thing she hated about cooking was figuring out what to make for supper. She enjoyed hosting Thanksgiving dinners with her family and taking multiple sides to any family dinners. Everyone knew if Debbie was coming, something good was going to be on the table. She enjoyed gardening and she and Greg had an amazing vegetable garden for many years. She had flats of tomatoes in the summer for all the family to grab from and then canned enough salsa to feed a small army. She was always an early riser, something she “blamed” on working at the restaurant. She was found each morning at the kitchen table drinking her coffee and finishing the crossword puzzle in the Salina Journal. She truly enjoyed playing games with her grandchildren and was often found playing Scrabble and Upwords. They were always excited if they won, as that was quite the accomplishment…although like most grandmas, the rules were a little different when she played games with them.
As winter settled in this past year, Debbie’s health took a turn for the worse. She and her family rallied to fight this illness through the face of so many complications. Debbie passed away October 19, 2023, at the Graham County Hospital.
Debbie was preceded in death by her parents and grandparents. Left to mourn are her husband, Greg; daughter Michelle (Brett) Billips; son Michael Horton, all of Hill City; grandchildren: Gabrielle (Wyatt) Bryant, Great Bend, Gracie, Garrett and Greeley Billips, Cadence McCollum, and Raif Horton, all of Hill City; and great granddaughter, Saige Bryant; parents-in-law Bert and Marianne Gansel; sisters Cheryl Lee, Stanwood, Washington and Kathy (Tim) Cameron, Hill City; brothers/sisters-in-law Jeff (Sheryl) Gansel, Salina; and Jean (Craig) Morris, Austin, Texas; and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts, uncles and friends.
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Lenus Edward Schuck - May 09, 1952 - October 11, 2023

Departed: 10/11/2023 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Lenus Edward Schuck, 71, of Edmond, Kansas passed away October 11, 2023. Lenus was born May 9, 1952 in Concordia, Kansas to Alfanso “Al” and Alta (Rowley) Schuck.
Lenus graduated from Hill City High school in 1970. After attending Fort Hays University, he became and avid farmer. He married Diane September 4, 2004, in Hill City, Kansas. Lenus was known to be honest and a hard worker and would do anything for his family and friends.
Lenus is proceeded in death by both his parents and his faithful and beloved companions Annie and Bailey. He is survived by his wife Diane of 19 years; son Austin and wife Katie Schuck of Hill City, Steven and wife Chris Breinig of Hays, Robert (Tanya) Breinig of Topeka, Amanda Breinig of Hays; grandchildren: Joshua Forbes, Madison Easton, Jordan Breinig and Noah Lantham; many beloved cousins and friends.
A Celebration of Life will be held October 23, 2023 at 11:00 A.M. at Stinemetz Funeral Home in Hill City. The family requests those who wish to express sympathy to consider making a donation to the Kansas Dialysis Foundation in Lenus Schuck’s name.
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Donald Heikes - April 21, 1936 - October 10, 2023

Departed: 10/10/2023 (Hill City)
Obituary Preview: Donald “Don” Heikes, 87, Lenora, Kansas, died October 10, 2023, in Salina, Kansas with family by his side. He was born April 21, 1936, in Norton, Kansas to Lamoine “Dick” Heikes and Opal (Pratt) Heikes.
Growing up on the family farm, Don worked hard and always made sure the chores were done before heading to school. It was a time-consuming endeavor of wrangling cattle, pigs, psycho chickens and two baby brothers. He graduated from Lenora High School at the tender age of 18, married his high school sweetheart Gloria Personett, April 10, 1955. Don and Gloria started their own family only seven miles from where he grew up. Now he and Gloria had three kids to wrangle, well the first two anyway. The youngest was good.
He began working at a local gas station but decided rather quickly that he was tired of pumping gas. One day he walked over to the Exchange Bank of Lenora and asked for a job. He was hired even though it was only to keep the sidewalk swept. His employers realized the potential in Don and sent him to banking school. Don eventually owned the bank and worked there alongside Gloria for 42 years.
Family, country, and community were very important to Don. He joined the Army National Guard as a young man and served 24 years ending with the rank of Major. Listing everything Don Heikes did in his life would take several pages. So here are some highlights of a very busy life: past Lenora City Council, past Mayor of Lenora, member of Lenora Pride, treasurer for the United Parish Church, several banking organizations, Norton County Hospital Board, Cemetery Board for the Lenora South Cemetery, Grand Master of Odd Fellows.
Then outside of all those activities, he helped maintain the Lenora Airport (yes, Lenora had an airport), was in charge of the Veterans’ flags at the local cemeteries, (with Gloria and Neva’s help) and was a member of the Audubon of Kansas Board (a wildlife conservation group).
Being a farm kid, Don respected and loved the outdoors. He enjoyed fishing, hunting and bird watching. He also liked to paint, do woodworking and loved model trains. He had a wonderful singing voice and was a member of a local quartet.
Don was preceded in death by his parents; two brothers Dwight Heikes and Dennis Heikes; his wife of 68 years, Goria Personett Heikes; and a son Kevin Heikes. He is survived by one son, Bryce Heikes of Mexico; one daughter Neva Heikes of Salina; and a granddaughter Serina Heikes of Kansas City.
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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral or memorial services, and any charitable organizations or causes they supported.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and can be a meaningful way to celebrate the life and legacy of the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The task of writing an obituary usually falls to the family members or close friends of the deceased. Funeral homes or mortuaries may also offer assistance with writing and publishing obituaries.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also mention any notable achievements, awards, or accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform it will be published in. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the tribute and help readers remember the person who has passed away.

How do I submit an obituary for publication?

The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication or online platform. You can usually find submission guidelines on the website or by contacting the publication directly.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, word count, and other factors. Some online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while traditional newspapers may charge by the line or word.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately and in their own words. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and accomplishments.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only the most basic information such as name, age, date of birth and death, and funeral service details. It is often used when a full obituary is not desired or feasible.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing a person's death and providing biographical information, while a eulogy is a speech or written tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service to celebrate the person's life and legacy.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include meaningful quotes, poems, or lyrics in an obituary as a way to add personal touches and reflect the personality of the deceased.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or private aspects of the deceased person's life that you wish to keep out of the public eye, it's best to exclude them from the obituary or discuss them discreetly with close family members or friends.

Can I include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes, many people choose to include information about charitable organizations or causes that were important to the deceased in their obituary. This can be a meaningful way to honor their memory and continue their legacy.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The time it takes for an obituary to be published varies depending on the publication or online platform. Some may publish immediately upon receipt, while others may have a delay of several days or weeks.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. However, this depends on the policies of the publication or online platform.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary or need guidance on what to include, consider reaching out to a funeral home or mortuary for assistance. They often have experience with writing and publishing obituaries.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to publish an obituary exclusively online. This can be a cost-effective option and allows for easy sharing with friends and family across different locations.

How do I share an obituary on social media?

You can share an obituary on social media by copying and pasting the link into a post or creating a new post with the text of the obituary. Be sure to respect any privacy settings or restrictions set by the family.

What if I want to publish multiple versions of an obituary?

If you want to publish multiple versions of an obituary (e.g., one for local news outlets and another for social media), you can tailor each version to fit the specific audience and platform.

Sometimes yes, sometimes no – it depends on the publication or online platform's policies regarding external links. If allowed, links can be useful for directing readers to additional resources or memorials.

How do I ensure accuracy in an obituary?

To ensure accuracy in an obituary, double-check all facts and details before submitting it for publication. Consider having multiple people review it for errors before finalizing it.

What if I need to correct errors in an already-published obituary?

If you discover errors in an already-published obituary, contact the publication or online platform as soon as possible to request corrections. They may have procedures in place for handling corrections.

Can I republish an old obituary for anniversary dates or special occasions?

Yes, some families choose to republish an old obituary on anniversary dates (e.g., one-year anniversary of passing) or special occasions (e.g., birthdays) as a way to continue honoring their loved one's memory.

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About Jeffery Isleworth

Jeffery Isleworth is an experienced eulogy and funeral speech writer who has dedicated his career to helping people honor their loved ones in a meaningful way. With a background in writing and public speaking, Jeffery has a keen eye for detail and a talent for crafting heartfelt and authentic tributes that capture the essence of a person's life. Jeffery's passion for writing eulogies and funeral speeches stems from his belief that everyone deserves to be remembered with dignity and respect. He understands that this can be a challenging time for families and friends, and he strives to make the process as smooth and stress-free as possible. Over the years, Jeffery has helped countless families create beautiful and memorable eulogies and funeral speeches. His clients appreciate his warm and empathetic approach, as well as his ability to capture the essence of their loved one's personality and life story. When he's not writing eulogies and funeral speeches, Jeffery enjoys spending time with his family, reading, and traveling. He believes that life is precious and should be celebrated, and he feels honored to help families do just that through his writing.