Stendeback Funeral Home Obituaries

Understanding the Importance of a Funeral Home

In times of grief and loss, it can be overwhelming to navigate the process of planning a funeral. This is where a funeral home like Stendeback Funeral Home comes in – providing a sense of comfort, guidance, and support during a difficult time. Located at 200 S. Walnut St., Carmi, IL, 62821, Stendeback Funeral Home has been serving the community with compassion and dedication for many years.

A Brief History of Stendeback Funeral Home

Stendeback Funeral Home has a rich history in Carmi, Illinois, dating back to [insert year]. Founded by [insert founder's name], the funeral home has remained family-owned and operated, with a commitment to providing exceptional service and care to families in need. Over the years, the funeral home has undergone changes and expansions, but its core values of respect, dignity, and compassion have remained unchanged.

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Douglas Smith - January 28, 1961 - May 24, 2022

Departed: 05/24/2022 (Carmi)

Obituary Preview: Douglas "Doug" Lee Smith, 61, of Carmi, passed away on Tuesday, May 24, 2022, at his home, surrounded by his family. He was born in Carmi, Illinois, on January 28, 1961, the son of Glenard and Loretta (Mundhank) Smith.  Doug married Cynthia "Cindy" Sexton on October 29, 1993. Together they shared 30 years of life and love. He worked as a mechanic for the City of Carmi for 20 years.  Doug had a love for old cars and trucks, especially Chevys. He loved working with his hands and building things, and one of his greatest accomplishments was building his home. If he was building or working on something, he was happy.

Doug is survived by his wife, Cindy Smith of Carmi, IL; two son, Michael Smith and John Rush, both of Carmi, IL; five grandchildren who he truly loved, Chloe Steele, Evan Rush, Chloe Smith, Kynley Smith and Bradley Smith; brothers and sisters-in-law, Pam Attebury, Anthony Sexton, Chris (Suanne) Sexton; and numerous nieces and nephews.  He is preceded in death by his parents; grandparents, Guy and Wilma (Holland) Mundhank and Max and Olla Smith; mother and father-in-law, Gerald and Helen Sexton; a brother-in-law, Joe Attebury; and his faithful companion, Dozer. Funeral services for Doug Smith, will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Friday, May 27, 2022, at Stendeback Funeral Home in Carmi, with burial following at North Maple Ridge Cemetery in Carmi.  Family and friends may visit from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Thursday, May 26, 2022, at Stendeback Funeral Home in Carmi, who is in charge of arrangements

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Gary Lynn Frashier - March 02, 1953 - May 24, 2022

Departed: 05/24/2022 (Carmi)

Obituary Preview: Gary Lynn Frashier, 69, of Maunie, passed away on Tuesday, May 24, 2022.  He was born in Fairfield, Illinois, on March 2, 1953, the son of Everett Glenn and Ella Lou (Atteberry) Frashier.  Gary married Rita Lynn Wasson on July 6, 1985, in New Harmony, Indiana, and she survives.  He worked at Trelleborg in Carmi, Illinois for 42 years.  Gary enjoyed spending time with family and hunting.

In addition to his wife, Rita Frashier of Maunie, IL, Gary is survived by his daughter, Rachel (Josh Watkins) Frashier of Carmi, IL; a grandson, Kyler Watkins of Carmi, IL; siblings, Terry (Mandella) Frashier of Maunie, IL, and Patty Delong of Maunie, IL; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.  He is preceded in death by his parents.

Funeral services for Gary Frashier, will be held at 12:00 p.m. on Wednesday, June 1, 2022, at Stendeback Funeral Home in Carmi. Burial will follow at Marshall Ferry Cemetery in Rising Sun, IL.  Family and friends may visit from 10:00 a.m. until time of service on Wednesday, June 1, 2022, at Stendeback Funeral Home in Carmi, who has been entrusted with arrangements.

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Larry Dean Brock - January 04, 1946 - May 17, 2022

Departed: 05/17/2022 (Carmi)

Obituary Preview: Larry Dean Brock, 76, of Carmi, passed away on Tuesday, May 17, 2022.  He was born in Sumner, Illinois, on January 4, 1946, the son of Delbert and Gladys (Inyart) Brock. Larry graduated from Sumner High School in 1964. He married Ellen Hayes in February, 1965,  They had a daughter, Darla in 1968.  Larry and Ellen moved to Wyoming in 1971 as he went to work in Lance Creek, Wyoming until they moved to Midwest, WY  in 1972.  Their second daughter, Marcia, was born in 1974. He then went to work for Kagie Well Service and Terra Resources.  Larry moved back to Illinois in 1982 and worked for various oil companies,  He later married Gloria Renshaw, and she preceded him in death on March 10, 2013.

Larry is survived by two daughters, Marcia (Memo) Jones of Midwest, WY, and Darla (Allan) Lindsay of Edgerton, WY;  step-children, Jamie Ward and Karen Ward Sexton; grandchildren, Tosha (Steven) Salway and Joshua (Mercedes) Lindsay, Madison and Jacob Jones and Jaryn and Jadyn Sexton along with Karen Ward and her children, Clay Inboden and Chasity Harris; and four great-grandchildren.  In addition to his wife Gloria Brock, he is preceded in death by his parents; a brother, Jerry Dee Brock; and a half sister, Shirley Ann Van Gilder.

A private memorial service will be held at a later date.  Stendeback Funeral Home in Carmi, is in charge of arrangements.

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Marilyn H. Ackerman - March 10, 1934 - May 07, 2022

Departed: 05/07/2022 (Carmi)

Obituary Preview: Marilyn H. Ackerman, 88, of Carmi passed away on May 7, 2022 at Wabash Christian Village in Carmi.  She was born in Carmi, IL on March 10, 1934 the daughter of Baylus and Martha Jane (Baird) Hargrave.  Marilyn married Harry Ackerman on December 26, 1953 in Corinth, MS and he preceded her in death on May 19, 2015.  She was a homemaker and was a devoted treasurer for several years of Big Prairie United Methodist Church. Marilyn loved to cook and entertain. She enjoyed the Holidays, especially Christmas, when she would make Christmas candy with her daughters and grandchildren.

Marilyn is survived by her daughters, Sharon (Chas) Hisch of San Antonio, TX. Lisa (Dean) Cross of Carmi and Amber (Alex) Carney of Carmi; grandchildren, Julie (Chad) Loughrey, Kimberly (Cale) Brooks, Adam (Danielle) Cross and Ashley Cross, Walker Roser, Lexa, Liza and Levi Carney; great-grandchildren, Jack  and Lucy Loughrey; along with several nieces and nephews.  She was preceded in death by her parents, husband; and four siblings, Reva Price, Lester, Chester and Ervin Hargrave.

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Donald Ray Phipps - September 24, 1936 - April 27, 2022

Departed: 04/27/2022 (Carmi)

Obituary Preview: Donald Ray Phipps, 85, of Crossville, Illinois, passed away on Wednesday, April 27, 2022, at Fairfield Memorial Hospital in Fairfield, Illinois.  He was born on September 24, 1936, the son of Raymond Paul and Opal Bernice (Large) Phipps.  Don married Leta Rae Hatcher on December 9, 1956, and she survives.  Prior to opening Don Phipps and Sons Heating and Air in June 1980, he worked for his uncle, Hobert Large at Large Brothers Heating and cooling for 14 years, learning the trade which became his life long career. Don was a member of Salem Primitive Baptist Church in Crossville. He was a Boy Scout Leader, and enjoyed hunting, fishing and attending his grandkids' sporting events.

In addition to his wife, Leta Phipps of Crossville, IL, Don is survived by two sons, Tony Ray (Sheri) Phipps of Affton, MO, and Kevin Ray Phipps of Carmi, IL; four grandchildren, Devin, Tyler, Drew and Eryn Phipps; two brothers, Dale (Judy) Swafford of South Bend, IN, and Gary (Dawn) Swafford of Benson, AZ; and several nieces and nephews.  He was preceded in death by his parents.

Funeral services for Donald Ray Phipps will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Wednesday, May 4, 2022, at Salem Primitive Baptist Church, west of the intersection of County Roads1625 East and 2300 North, Crossville, Illinois with Minister Kevin Freeman officiating. Burial will follow at Little Wabash Cemetery in Crossville, Illinois. Family and friends may visit from 5:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Tuesday, May 3, 2022, at Stendeback Funeral Home in Carmi, Illinois. Stendeback Funeral Home in Carmi is in charge of arrangements.

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Lois Arlene Gwaltney - September 30, 1934 - April 26, 2022

Departed: 04/26/2022 (Carmi)

Obituary Preview: Lois A. Gwaltney, 87, of Carmi passed away at her residence on Tuesday, April 26, 2022. She was born in White County, IL the daughter of Herbert and Janet (Rogers) Seal. Lois married Ted F. Gwaltney on May 10, 1956 and he survives.  She attended Stewart Street Baptist Church in Carmi and  enjoyed her flowers and square dancing with Ted.  Lois worked for many years at Eastwood Sand and Gravel in Grayville before becoming the Hostess at Two Tony's and in more recent years, Ginny's.

Lois is survived by her husband of 65 years, Ted; a sister-in-law, Ann Seal of Evansville; nieces, Terri (Jeff) Whitler of Carmi and Karen (Rachel) Seal of Evansville; along with several Gwaltney nieces and nephews.  She was preceded  in death by her parents and a brother, John William Seal.

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Kathryn Jean Coston - September 06, 1926 - April 22, 2022

Departed: 04/22/2022 (Carmi)

Obituary Preview: Kathryn Jean Coston, 95, of Carmi passed away at 10:50 p.m., Friday, April 22, 2022 at Wabash Christian Village in Carmi.  She was born near New Haven, IL on September 6, 1926 the daughter of Fred and Effie (Aud) Browning.  Kathryn married Melvin Wayne Coston in Morganfield, KY on December 14, 1944 and he preceded her in death on June 4, 2010.  She was a homemaker. Kathryn is survived by her four children, Steve (Rita) Coston, Cathy Seiler and Beth Fechtig all of Carmi and Jo (Danny) Satterfield of Mt. Vernon, IN; two sisters, Julia Pettijohn and Maxine Hancock; several grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews.  She was also preceded in death by a son, Michael Coston, sister, Vernell Bates, brother, Mark Wayne Browning. sister-in-law, Louise Browning and three brothers-in law, Dallas Bates, Gene Pettijohn and Robert Hancock

Graveside funeral services and burial will be held on Tuesday, April 26, 2022 at 10:00 a.m. in Union Ridge Cemetery. Stendeback Funeral Home in Carmi is in charge of arrangements.

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Christopher "Krist Karloff" Adams - Unknown - April 14, 2022

Departed: 04/14/2022 (Carmi)

Obituary Preview: Krist Karloff, AKA “Christopher Adams” was a man of many facets, who lived with passion and an unmatched energy. Krist never wanted to blend into the crowd. He had a unique view of life and how to lead it. Every part of his life reflected this. First and foremost Krist was a family man. He loved his girls more than anything in his world. He strived to teach them the importance of strength and independence but also kindness and compassion. He taught them that quality time together with loved ones and making memories was of the utmost importance.

Art and music were always a huge part of Krist’s life. His closest and oldest friends remember him drawing doodles of them in middle school. In his late teens music moved to the forefront of his life. He learned to play bass and guitar, then he formed and played in many bands in the SoIl area. He went on to start the “Punk House” which was not only a local music venue but also a safe place to come together and share in his passion for good music and great friends. Many of the friendships formed at that time turned into lifelong bonds that will never be matched.

A few years later he began to develop an interest in tattooing. Art, that had never left his heart, found a way back into the driver's seat. He bounced around several shops, learning from many pioneers and iconic figures in the industry and developing his own unique style before setting out on his own to form Evil Genius Tattoo Club. As owner of Evil Genius, Krist discovered a new passion. He wanted to build up his community. With the help of the friends and family he had made along the way he launched “Super Awesome Fun Time” a program that provides school supplies to local kids in need. Through this program Krist and Evil Genius, over the last six years, have provided thousands of backpacks for local children. These words are merely a summation of a life fully lived. No amount of words could or will ever fully capture the spirit of Krist Karloff, a man truly larger than life itself. Krist was survived by his daughters, Olivia and Evelyn; Fiancée, Bailey Uselton; Mother, Debra Mitchell; Brother, Zachary Grove; Sisters; Amanda Adams, Mariah Grove. As well as countless other friends and family made along the way. He bought the ticket and truly took the ride!

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Dean Fleming - August 23, 1941 - June 26, 2020

Departed: 06/26/2020 (Carmi)

Obituary Preview: Dean Fleming 78 of Kansas and formerly of Carmi and Enfield passed away June 26, 2020 in Olathe, KS. He was born August 23, 1941 in Carmi, the son of Everett and Violet (Bradshaw) Fleming.

Dean worked most of his life in Car Sales, having worked at The Walter Williamson dealership in Carmi. He had been a member of the Carmi Elks and had served as Exalted Ruler. He was a 1959 graduate of Enfield High School. He was a proud veteran of the United States Army.

He is survived by his wife, Karen; and his son, Mike Fleming of Carmi.

Memorial graveside services for Dean Fleming will be held at 11:00 a.m., Saturday, April 30, 2022 in Enfield Cemetery with full military honors by the Carmi American Legion and VFW. Stendeback Funeral Home in Carmi is in charge of arrangements.

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The Services Offered by Stendeback Funeral Home

At Stendeback Funeral Home, the staff understands that every family is unique, with their own set of needs and preferences. To cater to these individual requirements, the funeral home offers a range of services, including:

• Traditional funerals with visitation and burial or cremation
• Cremation services with memorialization options
• Pre-planning and pre-funding options for peace of mind
• Monument sales and design services
• Grief counseling and support groups

The Facilities at Stendeback Funeral Home

The facilities at Stendeback Funeral Home are designed to provide a comfortable and peaceful environment for families to gather and pay their respects. The funeral home features:

• A spacious chapel with seating for over [insert number] guests
• A reception area for families to gather and share memories
• A private family lounge for quiet reflection
• A state-of-the-art preparation facility for dignified care of loved ones

The Staff at Stendeback Funeral Home

The staff at Stendeback Funeral Home is comprised of dedicated professionals who are committed to providing exceptional service and care. From licensed funeral directors to administrative staff, each team member plays a vital role in ensuring that families receive the highest level of care and attention. The staff includes:

• Licensed funeral directors with years of experience
• Certified bereavement counselors for grief support
• Administrative staff for assistance with paperwork and logistics

The Benefits of Pre-Planning with Stendeback Funeral Home

While it may seem difficult to think about planning a funeral in advance, doing so can bring numerous benefits to both you and your loved ones. By pre-planning with Stendeback Funeral Home, you can:

• Lock in costs at today's prices, protecting your family from future inflation
• Ensure that your wishes are respected and carried out
• Relieve your family of the burden of making difficult decisions during a time of grief
• Take advantage of available discounts and promotions

The Community Involvement of Stendeback Funeral Home

Stendeback Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Carmi community, with a strong commitment to giving back through various initiatives and partnerships. Some examples include:

• Sponsoring local events and charities
• Participating in community outreach programs
• Collaborating with other local businesses to support families in need

Conclusion: Trusting Stendeback Funeral Home with Your Loved One's Care

In conclusion, Stendeback Funeral Home is more than just a funeral home – it's a trusted partner in your time of need. With its rich history, comprehensive services, comfortable facilities, dedicated staff, and commitment to the community, you can rest assured that your loved one will receive the care and respect they deserve. Whether you're planning ahead or facing an unexpected loss, trust Stendeback Funeral Home to guide you through the process with compassion, empathy, and professionalism.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral or memorial service arrangements, and any charitable organizations where donations can be made in their memory.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased, with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their personality, accomplishments, and interests.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's wishes. Typically, it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs.

Can I include photos or other multimedia in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and newspapers allow you to include photos, videos, and other multimedia elements to make the obituary more personal and engaging.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Each publication or platform has its own submission process. You can usually find guidelines on their website or by contacting them directly. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for publication.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication, length of the obituary, and any additional features such as photos or online guestbooks. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to several hundred dollars.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life is celebrated in the way you want.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a longer, more detailed tribute to the person's life.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the deceased. Including humorous stories or anecdotes can help celebrate their life and bring comfort to those who are grieving.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

It's essential to be respectful of the deceased's privacy and that of their loved ones. If there's sensitive information you're unsure about including, consider consulting with family members or close friends before publishing the obituary.

Can I include information about charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable organizations where donations can be made in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased's legacy.

How long after the funeral should an obituary be published?

The timing of publishing an obituary varies depending on cultural and personal traditions. Some families prefer to publish it immediately after the death, while others wait until after the funeral or memorial service.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to publish an obituary without printing it in a physical newspaper. This can be a cost-effective option and reach a wider audience.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers, genealogy websites, or visit local libraries or historical societies to access old obituaries. Some websites also offer paid services to search for and retrieve archived obituaries.

Can I republish an old obituary?

If you have permission from the original publisher or copyright holder, you can republish an old obituary. Be sure to credit the original source and respect any copyright laws.

What is the purpose of an online guestbook?

An online guestbook allows friends and family to leave condolences, share memories, and pay tribute to the deceased. It provides a space for people to express their feelings and connect with others who are grieving.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

The duration that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform or publication. Some websites keep them archived indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period.

Can I edit or update an already published obituary?

In most cases, it's possible to make corrections or updates to an already published obituary. Contact the publication or platform where it was originally published to request changes.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking help from a funeral home, grief counselor, or professional writer who specializes in obituaries. They can provide guidance and support during this difficult time.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy, verify facts with multiple sources, including family members, friends, and official documents. Double-check spelling, dates, and other details before submitting the obituary for publication.

What if I'm not comfortable writing an obituary myself?

If you're not comfortable writing an obituary yourself, consider asking a trusted friend or family member for assistance. Many funeral homes also offer this service as part of their packages.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes! Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share an obituary with a wider audience. You can also create a memorial page or group to collect condolences and memories.

How do I deal with negative comments or trolls on an online obituary?

If you encounter negative comments or trolls on an online obituary, report them to the platform's administrators immediately. Focus on celebrating the life of your loved one and ignore hurtful comments.