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Einer J. Jensen Jr. - December 28, 1931 - April 21, 2022

Departed: 04/21/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Einer Jensen was a proud father, grandfather and great grandfather.  He believed in hard work and taking care of his family.  Einer was a devoted husband to his wife Mary and a cherished father to his nine children.  He served in the Army during the Korean War and cared greatly about his community, St.James.  He loved gardening and tending to the many animals that he brought home over the years. He will be missed and in our hearts forever.

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George (Jorge) Mendez - August 30, 1928 - April 20, 2022

Departed: 04/20/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for George (Jorge) Mendez.

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Raymond A. Retus - Unknown - April 19, 2022

Departed: 04/19/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Raymond A. Retus.

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Kim M. Gatto - March 07, 1957 - April 18, 2022

Departed: 04/18/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: GATTO – Kim Marie of Smithtown, NY on April 18, 2022 at the age of 65. Beloved wife of the late Tony. Devoted mother of Anthony (Andrea), Michele (Dave) Green, and Kristen (Doug) Tyburski. Cherished grandmother of eight. Adored sister of Eileen (Koko) Parsihoglu, John (Kelly) Guzzo, and predeceased by Don & Anthony Guzzo. Family will receive friends Thursday, 7-9 pm and Friday, 2-4 pm & 7-9 pm, at St. James Funeral Home, 829 Middle Country Rd. (Exit 59 L.I.E.) St. James, NY. Mass of Christian Burial will be held Saturday, 9:45 am, at the Church of St. Aidan in Williston Park, NY. Interment to follow at Holy Rood Cemetery in Westbury, NY.

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Ruth Deutsch - December 06, 1940 - April 14, 2022

Departed: 04/14/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Ruth Deutsch.

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Joanne Melosci - April 03, 1945 - April 14, 2022

Departed: 04/14/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Joanne Melosci, 77 years old of St. James, NY passed away on April 13, 2022.  Loving Mother to John Jr, Jacqueline Forneiro and son-in-law John and was predeceased by her son Thomas.Beloved Grandma to Cassie, James, Jayson and Jessica.  Devoted sister to Muriel and Geraldine.  Loved deeply by numerous lifelong friends. She was a bookkeeper for many years at golf clubs and when retired spent countless hours making dolls for The Giving Doll foundation, which was her joy and outlet for her creativity.  She loved the NY Mets and "her boys"  Keith and Ronny in the broadcast booth.  She started each day with tea in a sunflower mug, (of course) crackers and the word jumble from her Newsday

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Alice B. Moran - March 24, 1923 - April 14, 2022

Departed: 04/14/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Moran, Alice Bailey, 99 years old of Stony Brook, NY and formerly of Nissequogue, NY, passed away on April 14, 2022.  Devoted wife of the late Arthur S. Moran. Loving mother of Lauretta (James) Haag, Arthur (Susan) Moran, JoAnn Polakoff, Marguerite (William) O’Dwyer, and Marilyn (David) Michaels. Precious grandmother of Allison, James, Kathryn, Arthur, Christopher, Michael, Kristina, Lauren, William, Thomas, Christine, Alexander and Jennifer. Treasured great-grandmother of 23 and sister-in-law to Jean Bailey. Alice was predeceased by her daughter Alice Marie, her father Charles, her beloved mother Laura as well as her brother Charles.

Her Catholic faith was central to Alice’s life and guided her in the support and care of others. She was a teacher for many years with the Smithtown Central School District and a dedicated faith formation and RCIA catechist at Sts. Philip and James Church in St. James, NY. She was also the founder of the senior group at Sts. Philip and James and spent many happy hours with the group. Family members sought Alice’s sound counsel and always appreciated her encouragement and support. She was a friend to many over her long life.

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Christopher P. Mackin - September 10, 1955 - April 11, 2022

Departed: 04/11/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Christopher Mackin, 66, passed away on April 11, 2022 in Manhattan, NY. The fourth eldest of fifteen siblings, Christopher was born on September 10, 1955

to his beloved and predeceased mother Margaret Fulgham. Christopher grew up in Hicksville, NY and graduated Hicksville High School in 1974. After high school, Christopher went on to become a trichologist and quickly captured the recognition of celebrities. Such notable clients included Meg Ryan, Julia Roberts, Nicole Kidman, Annie Leibowitz, Barbara Walters, Mary

Tyler Moore, Carly Simon, Carole King, Denise Richards, and many more. Christopher worked at the renowned Elizabeth Arden Salon on 5th Avenue and developed his own hair product line. Christopher was remarkably talented and featured on QVC, Good Morning America, NBC Today Show, Lifetime Network, and Home Shopping Network. He was also highlighted in Vogue, Allure, Glamour,

Self, Cosmopolitan, Harper’s Bazaar, NY Times, NY Observer, and the NY Post. Christopher was a loving uncle, brother, and friend. He always had an open heart to anyone he met, especially anyone less fortunate than him. Christopher spent many hours helping at the local soup kitchen and was always willing to spare what he had for anyone he met on the street. Christopher was also a lover of all animals, especially his dogs, Aspen and Buddha, and his cat, Oreo. Christopher was always regarded as a caring and fun uncle, that you could always count on for a good time. A room full of laughter and smiles always meant Christopher was in the room. Christopher had life-long friendships with people all around the world and his heart was always devoted to caring for each and every one of his

relationships. Christopher is predeceased by his stepfather Maurice Fulgham and is survived by his 15 siblings, 8 brother and sister-in-laws, 24 nieces and nephews, and 8 great-nieces and nephews. Christopher’s loving heart, lust for life and

laughter will be greatly missed by all.

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Dorothy A. Keesser - June 13, 1921 - April 10, 2022

Departed: 04/10/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy Ann Keesser, formerly of Port Charlotte, joined her husband, John, in heaven on April 10, 2022. She passed peacefully with family by her side, two months shy of her 101st birthday. Dorothy was born June 13, 1921, in Richmond Hill, Queens, to Gustav Schoenthaler and Elizabeth Appel Schoenthaler. She graduated from Grover Cleveland High School in 1939, married John in 1944, and lived in New Jersey before moving to East Northport in 1954, where she and John raised their family. Dottie and John moved to Port Charlotte, FL, in 1981, where they enjoyed Florida living. During her time in Port Charlotte, Dottie became an avid golfer. She rarely missed a day on the course and even managed several holes-in-one. Dottie lived an independent life and was an enthusiastic Bingo participant and card player. Dottie spent the last two years of her life closer to her daughter in New Jersey. John, her husband, Florence Eckerle, sister, and daughter-in-law Susan predeceased her. Dottie was a devoted mother to Jack Keesser and Janet (Jack) Meehan. Precious Nana to Jack (Michele) Keesser, Donna Keesser, Susanne Keesser Alexander, Michael Keesser and Janine Meehan (Ted) Perez, and Sean (Emily) Meehan. Dottie was Great Nana to many: Nicholas Boyle, Rowan, Liam and Aerin Keesser, Kelly Ann, Ryan, Meghan and Thomas Perez, Sam and Elijah Alexander, and James and Maeve Meehan.

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Laurie B. Meckler - March 17, 1954 - April 07, 2022

Departed: 04/07/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Laurie Beth Meckler, MD, died on April 7, 2022 in St. James, Long Island, after a lengthy illness. The eldest of three children, she was born on March 17, 1954 in the Bronx, New York, to Morton and Edith Meckler. Her father ran a successful custom manufacturing business in Long Island City. Laurie attended PS 173 in Queens, Ryan Junior High School where her mother taught, and Francis Lewis High School.   She received her BA in Art History from Oberlin College in 1976. While working in art preservation at Guild Hall in East Hampton, NY, Laurie became fascinated with the chemistry involved in the process.  As her interest shifted to the chemistry involved in medicine, she began pre-medical studies. She enrolled in pre-med courses at Hunter College, excelling  in organic chemistry to the extent that she ended up tutoring fellow students in her program.  Laurie studied medicine at Weill Cornell Medical College graduating in 1989. She completed her residency in psychiatry at Yale University in 1993.

Dr. Meckler was married to neurologist Michael Heublum from 1994 to 2003 and together they had two sons, Harry and Jack. After scaling back professional duties for her young family, she returned to the full time practice of psychiatry. In private practice for over twenty years, she was devoted to her patients, accepted them without regard to finances, and continued her practice into her final weeks.

Laurie’s love of art, travel, literature continued throughout her life, expanding her impressive circle of friends and building a culturally rich life for her sons. She married John Stanford White in 2008, later settling in St. James. She died  at home surrounded by close friends and family. In addition to her sons and husband, she is survived by brothers Rick and Jeff Meckler, sister-in-law Sandy Meckler, nephew Jason Meckler, niece Leigh Meckler, and grand-niece Geneva. Known to be intellectually gifted, loyal and generous to a fault, possessing a true love of people, Laurie will be forever missed.

A private memorial will take place at a future date.

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Philip F. Brennan, Jr. - March 31, 1931 - April 06, 2022

Departed: 04/06/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Philip F. Brennan, Jr..

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Karen J. Lessler - April 01, 1957 - April 04, 2022

Departed: 04/04/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Karen Lessler passed away on April 4th after a battle with pancreatic cancer. Karen Jean Lessler was born on April 1, 1957. Her passion for the community, children and her family will be deeply missed. As her family, we grieve a great loss but take comfort in knowing she is at peace and her love and passion will continue to live in our hearts.

Dr. Karen Lessler was the King’s Park High School Principal and Middle Country School District Board President receiving numerous awards and accolades during her tenor.

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Marilyn A. Horan - May 04, 1944 - April 02, 2022

Departed: 04/02/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Marilyn A. Horan.

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Joan Giannola - January 21, 1929 - April 01, 2022

Departed: 04/01/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Joan Giannola 1929 - 2022

With saddened hearts but happy memories we share the passing of our loving mother and nannie Joan Giannola on April 1, 2022 at age 93.

Joan is survived by her son and daughter-in-law, Richard and Joann Giannola; her daughter and son-in-law, Joan and Frank Sabella; her grandson and his wife, Vincent and Shelley Seeno; and her granddaughter and her husband, Laura and Alex Spitzel.

We will remember her wonderful cooking; her love of nature, especially animals, birds, cats, and gardening; her enjoyment of classic movies; and her fond recollections of “Brooklyn days.” Mostly, we will remember her love for her family and the fun times we shared with her.

In honor of Joan’s love of animals, memorial donations to the North Shore Animal League will be welcomed. Go to the North Shore Animal League website at https://www.animalleague.org.

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Catherine Zemalkowski - October 10, 1943 - March 27, 2022

Departed: 03/27/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Zemalkowski, Catherine T. On March 27th at the age 78 Loving mother of Laurel Gallo (Michael) and Gregory Beloved sister of Robert Bumbolow Cherished grandmother of Dylan, Tyler and Joey.  Visitation Wednesday 2-4 & 7-9 at Saint James Funeral Home 829 Middle County Road Saint James NY Funeral mass Thursday 10 am at Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary R.C. Church. Interment Mount Saint Mary Cemetery

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Edwina M. Pierce - July 19, 1937 - March 26, 2022

Departed: 03/26/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Edwina M. Pierce.

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Joseph E. B. Ladouceur - June 01, 1933 - March 26, 2022

Departed: 03/26/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Publisher, Novelist, Drama Critic, Jeb Ladouceur, Sr., 1933- 2022

Jeb Ladouceur, Sr., a 58-year resident of Smithtown, died on Saturday, March 26 2022, at the age of 89.

Founder of The Fire News in 1973, and still carried on the rolls as the iconic publication’s Publisher Emeritus, Mr. Ladouceur is survived by his wife of 64 years, Elizabeth, sons Jeb, Jr., Will, and Andrew, as well as daughters Meg Longpré and Carolyn Purcaro. He also leaves behind 14 grandchildren and 7 great grandchildren.

Born in Buckingham, Quebec, Canada in 1933, Ladouceur emigrated to Long Island with his parents and sister, Bette Ann in 1944. He graduated from Riverhead High School in 1951 and immediately enlisted in the United States Air Force, during the Korean War where he served with distinction in this country and in North Africa. It was during his term in the military that Mr. Ladouceur became a naturalized American citizen, an event he always defined as the greatest privilege of his life.

Jeb was honorably discharged from the USAF, enrolled in St. John’s University, married his childhood sweetheart Elizabeth White in 1957, and graduated from SJU with honors in 1959. In the half-dozen years that followed, Mr. Ladouceur engaged in a number of advertising-related jobs during which the young couple lived in various Long Island towns before settling for good in their adopted Smithtown. There, the Ladouceurs raised their close-knit family in the Stony Hill Path residence, where Jeb and Elizabeth would spend the next 55 years, following Mr. Ladouceur's unsuccessful run for the New York State Senate in the politically charged year of 1968.

Conversely, Ladouceur’s 1973 launching of The Fire News proved eminently successful. The publication promptly became both an accepted communications vehicle for Long Island’s 20,000 fire and rescue volunteers, and an acknowledged effective conduit between the newspaper’s several advertisers and their Fire and Rescue Service buying influences. Mr. Ladouceur retired from active leadership of the ground-breaking publication when The Fire News was sold in 2000.

Printer’s ink continued to course through Jeb Ladouceur’s veins, and in the first 12 years of his retirement the indefatigable Smithtown resident penned no fewer than a dozen published novels in the thriller and mystery genres. All were well received, according to the author’s longtime publicist, Debbie Lange Fifer of Kings Park, and some won awards for excellence.

Long an aficionado of legitimate theater, Mr. Ladouceur turned his pen to drama criticism in 2010. He was syndicated with a number of Long Island weekly newspapers and online publications, and producers soon joined area editors, along with readers, in referring to his reviews as among the finest examples of literary evaluation in print.

Ladouceur once served as president of the Landing Civic Association, chaired the Fundraising Committee for Smithtown’s Tercentenary celebration, and was appointed to the N.Y. State Arson Task Force by former Governor Mario Cuomo. He was a charter member of the Long Island Author’s Circle, an organization he and five other area writers founded in 2015.

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Jeanette Charlotte Johnsen - November 03, 1931 - March 17, 2022

Departed: 03/17/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Jeanette Charlotte Johnsen passed peacefully in the comfort of her home surrounded by her children on Thursday, March 17th, 2022.

Jeanette was survived by her six children Jimmy, Joanne, Corinne, Elizabeth, Ellen and Lynn, as well as her 7 grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren.

Jeanette was born on November 3rd, 1931 to Mary and Sankey Magnussen, she had an older sister Hilda and two older half sisters Rose and Stella.

Jeanette was born in Bayridge, Brooklyn and at the age of 4, her mother Mary unexpectedly passed away. Jeanette, Hilda, Stella, Rose and her father Sankey moved in with their Tante Agnes for a period of time. When Jeanette was 8, her father remarried to Edith, they moved into an apartment in Bayridge, Brooklyn and Jeanette began to establish friendships that would last throughout her lifetime. After High School, Jeanette started working her first job as a secretary on John Street in Manhattan, N.Y.. She would many years later work as a part time administrative assistant at Stony Brook University after her husband retired. When Jeanette was 16, she met her future husband Einar Johnsen while attending a dance with her friends at Finn Hall in Brooklyn, N.Y. At the time, Einar was a young Norwegian Sailor working on a Cargo ship traveling between Cuba and Brooklyn transporting sugar. They courted for 2 years before they married and started a family in a small one bedroom apartment. Together they established a close knit group of friends and family, and shortly after, moved out to Long Island and built their forever home on land that was gifted to them by Jeanette's father Sankey. It took Jeanette and Einar 2 years of traveling back and forth on weekends between Brooklyn and Lake Grove, along with the help of Einar's brother Rolf, friends and family to complete the construction. All the while raising the two eldest of their children at this time. Jeanette's sister Hilda and her husband Arne also bought a home and raised their kids nearby, which was ideal for these two best friends. Jeanette would raise 4 more children and was primarily a homemaker when her children were young. At that time, Jeanette, her sister Hilda and her closest friends formed a club they called "The Friendly Circle", that met monthly for good laughs, good food and fellowship. However, their primary focus was to give back by helping others in need. Jeanette and her husband were also proud members of The Sons of Norway Lodge in St. James, N.Y., where they enjoyed the kinship and traditions that they shared with other fellow Norwegian-Americans. Jeanette was a devout and faithful Christian and attended St. James United Methodist Church for more than 40 years. She had many loving memories of "the church on the hill" where several of her dearest friends and family worshiped with her there. Jeanette, Einar and their children enjoyed family road trips, camping and traveling abroad to Norway where the family still owns their father's childhood home in a small seaside town by the name of Farsund. Jeanette loved to entertain family and friends in their cozy home, she was an excellent cook and loved to throw dinner parties. When Jeanette's husband Einar passed and her children were grown, she volunteered at her library as well as a local soup kitchen, where she made lasting friendships. She also enjoyed taking vacations with her sister in law Doris, as well as road trips with her close friends. She also enjoyed teaching herself piano as she loved to learn how to play church hymns, her favorite was "The Old Rugged Cross". But what mattered most to Jeanette, was the importance of family and the quality time that she shared with her children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, neices, nephews and everyone who was near and dear to her heart.

Mom, you were the matriarch of our family, a strong willed woman with a soft and loving heart. We love and miss you already, but we are comforted in knowing that you are now with the Lord and resting peacefully. Lovingly, your children Jimmy, Joanne, Corinne, Elizabeth, Ellen and Lynn

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Kathleen T. O'Hanlon - October 22, 1929 - March 06, 2022

Departed: 03/06/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: With great sadness we announce the passing of Kathleen T. O’ Hanlon (nee Flanagan) on March 06,2022 - wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother ,sister, aunt, and great friend .

Kathleen is survived by her children John and Vicki, Jimmy and Terri, Chrissy(deceased)and Laurie, Kathleen and Tony, Michael and Janet, Tricia and Philip, grandchildren Kara and Chris, Kelli and Jimmy, Jaime and Ben, Brian and Deanna, Jennifer and Kurt, Emily and Josh, Michael and Aubrey, Shaun, Ryan, Katie and her fiancé Brandon, Chris, John, Lily, Quincy, great grandchildren Gabby, Aubrey, Grayson, Avalynn, Grace, Johnny, Ella, James, Jack, Julie, Liam, Giada, Zoey, Cali, Victoria, Dylan, Ivy, and Jude. She was also a great Aunt to all her Flanagan and Higgins nieces and nephews and OPENED HER HEART AND HOME TO MANY OTHERS!!

She was preceded in death by her husband John T. O’Hanlon, her son Chrissy O’Hanlon, and her brothers Peter and John Flanagan. Kathleen was born on October 22, 1929 to Peter and Anna Flanagan in The Bronx, New York

She married John T. O’Hanlon in 1948 and together they raised six children in Copiague and Greenlawn New York.

The O’Hanlon family would like to give special thanks to her caregivers Cheryl, Mary, and Gerard. Family was a legacy and any life she touched became part of her family

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Joseph Vallone - August 19, 1943 - March 05, 2022

Departed: 03/05/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Joseph Vallone (August 19, 1943 - March 5, 2022)

Joseph Vallone, 78, died unexpectedly in his home in Fort Salonga, NY on March 5, 2022. Joseph was survived by his 3 children Jennifer, Nicole and Michael and his grandson Jaxon Joseph.

Joseph was born August 19, 1943 to Benedetta Pipitone Vallone and Vito Vallone. Joseph’s older brother, Mario Vallone, died in 1998.

Joseph was born in Alcamo, Sicily and at 4 years old he came to America with his mother and family. His father and brother had already moved to Brooklyn, NY and met them at the Ellis Island gate.

Joe went to West Hempstead High School. Joe received his cosmetology license in Queens, NY.  He was drafted into the United States Army during the Vietnam War Era and served as a Radio Operator. Joseph, also studied English and Psychology at Nassau Community College.

Joseph met his first wife and mother of his children, Theresa Costagliola Vallone in Long Beach, NY. Joe and Theresa were married in 1971. Their first home was in Huntington Station, NY. They lived in Dix Hills, NY next but settled in Kings Park, NY for most of the children’s school years in Smithtown Central School District. Joseph bought his final home in Fort Salonga, NY in 1999.

Joseph opened his first hair salon, Hair Art in 1970 by Hofstra University. Hair Art was one of the first unisex hair salons on Long Island. He had a vertical blinds business in the late 80’s early 90’s called JNM Verticals. In 1992 he opened his final hair salon on Main Street in Smithtown, NY called Genesis Hair Studio. When Joseph retired he followed his love and admiration of music and became part of the road crew for one of his favorite bands.

Joseph was very handy, young at heart and loved being up to date with the latest technological devices. Joe was a lover of social media, live music, cooking, family and his friends.

Joseph will be deeply missed. He will live on in the hearts and minds of his family, friends and all who knew him.

Peace and love forever dad.

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Maria Canale - May 02, 1941 - February 27, 2022

Departed: 02/27/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Maria Canale.

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Gerard F Bishop - November 18, 1957 - February 24, 2022

Departed: 02/24/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Gerard Bishop passed away on February 24th after a long battle with 9-11 related cancer. Jerry was born on November 18th, 1957 in Farmingdale NY. His kindness and generosity along with his sense of humor will be missed. As his family we grieve our loss but take comfort in knowing he is at peace and will continue to live in our hearts.

Jerry graduated from Lynbrook High School in 1975 where his best sport was wrestling. The core group of friends from high school lasted throughout his life. He graduated from SUNY Albany and went on to a career in the NYPD. He retired as a Lieutenant in 2003. He was dedicated to helping those around him.

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Anne P. Pell - October 15, 1939 - February 22, 2022

Departed: 02/22/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: We announce with sadness the passing of Anne Pell ~ wife, mother, grandmother, aunt and friend.

Anne was born and raised in Flatbush, Brooklyn to parents Patricia and Patrick Pius.  She was the eldest of three daughters.  Anne was a graduate of Catharine McCauley High School in East Flatbush.  After High School she worked at John S. Swift Printing Company where she met John Pell.  Their first date was at the last Sunday game played at Ebbets Field.  They married in 1960.

After starting a family, they moved to St. James, Long Island.  Anne became involved with the church and school communities.  She was active in the Mills Pond Elementary School Band Parents Club and was also a Girl Scout Leader.  She was very creative and enjoyed ceramics, needlework and gardening.

She returned to work as a clerk at the local Five and Dime and eventually took other positions as a travel agent and a bookkeeper.

She enjoyed entertaining and hosted many family gatherings where all enjoyed her fabulous cooking.  When her time wasn’t occupied by entertaining and school events, she loved traveling and was fortunate enough to have visited Tokyo, Singapore, Hawaii, Alaska and England and also cruised to many other destinations.

She is survived by her husband John, her daughters Jeanne Sandler and Lauraine Pell-Yee and her son John (Lisa), grandchildren Danielle Sandler, William Sandler, Jacque Moon Yee, Hannah Pell, Jude Yee and Jack Gregory Pell.

She is also survived by her sisters Marie Martinetti and Joan Legge (Mike) and nieces and nephews Christine Barrett (Sean), Michael Legge (Suzanne), Katherine McLennan (David) and Patrick Legge (Krista) and ten great nieces and nephews.

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Maureen Berhalter - January 08, 1946 - February 20, 2022

Departed: 02/20/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Maureen Berhalter.

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Zenaida Raymundo - November 11, 1938 - February 19, 2022

Departed: 02/19/2022 (St James)

Obituary Preview: Zenaida Raymundo, age 83 of Smithtown NY, passed away on Saturday, February 19, 2022. She was born to the late Andres Zablan and Gregoria Zablan at St. Luke’s General Hospital in the Philippines, on November 11, 1938.

Zeny as she’s fondly called, attended Centro Escolar University in the Philippines, where she took up Education Major in Science and Filipino studies. She practiced teaching for a total of 17 years wherein she spent most of her professional life in St. Dominic Academy in Pulilan, Bulacan in the Philippines. If you ask her former students, they will say that she’s strict and want to impart good discipline to her students.

She got married at the age of 38 years old and had their first son, Rozen on December 13,1978. Allan Andrew was then born after two years on September 16,1980. She migrated to the US with her sons and first came to America in September 1996. She lived with her sister, Dr. Lilia Zablan in Smithtown.

She goes back and forth between the US and the Philippines. She made sure to spend most of the holidays and special occasions with her family. If you ask the people closest to her, everyone will agree that she’s friendly, personable, and generous. She’s very giving and always wants to see the smiles on people’s faces when she gives them presents. She’s also religious and devoted to her faith. She might not be able to go physically to the church to hear mass, but she always prays and talk to God.

“A Mother is she who can take the place of all others but whose place no one else can take.” this quote can describe how Zenaida is to her children, A mother’s love is truly irreplaceable. It is rare to find someone who will love you endlessly like a mother.

Zenaida is survived by her two sisters and a brother, two sons and daughters-in-law, three grandchildren, and several other loving relatives and close friends.

Zenaida will have an intimate funeral service not far from her home. The family wishes to thank all of those who cared for her during her last days. For those who have known Zenaida in her fruitful journey with us, her service will be held at St. James Funeral Homes, 829 Middle Country Rd, St. James NY, 11780.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The task of writing an obituary usually falls to the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include details about funeral services and memorial donations.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but it's generally recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important information. Aim for around 150-200 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many newspapers and online obituary platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the tribute and make it more engaging.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some newspapers may have online forms or email addresses for submitting obituaries.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately and with dignity. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and accomplishments.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or discounts for longer notices.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. However, this may depend on the policies of the newspaper or online platform.

What is a living obituary?

A living obituary is a self-written tribute that celebrates a person's life while they are still alive. It can be a unique way to share one's story and reflect on their accomplishments without waiting until after they've passed away.

Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber or formal. Including humorous stories or personal anecdotes can help bring the person to life and make the tribute more engaging and relatable.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or use genealogy websites that specialize in collecting historical records. Local libraries or genealogical societies may also have access to old newspapers or archives.

What is the purpose of an obituary archive?

An obituary archive is a collection of past obituaries that provides a valuable resource for genealogists, researchers, and individuals looking for information about their ancestors or loved ones who have passed away.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has no family?

If someone has no immediate family members, friends or acquaintances may choose to write an obituary as a way to honor their memory and acknowledge their existence.

How do I handle writing an obituary for someone with a complicated or difficult past?

This can be a sensitive topic. It's essential to approach the task with empathy and honesty while still being respectful of the person's life and legacy. Consider seeking guidance from a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor if needed.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes! Including meaningful quotes or song lyrics can add depth and personality to the tribute. Choose something that resonates with the person's spirit or reflects their values and interests.

What is the role of social media in sharing obituaries?

Social media platforms have become increasingly popular for sharing news of a loved one's passing and providing a space for friends and family to pay their respects and share memories.

How do I write an obituary for someone who was cremated?

The process is similar to writing an obituary for someone who had a traditional burial. Be sure to include details about any memorial services or celebrations of life that will take place.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Yes! Many families choose to suggest charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to honor their loved one's memory and support a cause that was important to them.

What is the significance of publishing an obituary in multiple languages?

Publishing an obituary in multiple languages can be especially important for families with international ties or those who want to reach a broader audience. This ensures that everyone who knew the deceased can learn about their passing and pay their respects.

How do I write an obituary for someone who was young or died suddenly?

This can be an especially challenging task. Be honest about the circumstances surrounding their passing while still celebrating their life and accomplishments. Consider seeking guidance from a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor if needed.

Can I include memorials or tributes from friends in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including memorials or tributes from friends can add depth and richness to the tribute. These can take the form of written messages, photos, or even videos.