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Located at 5033 Rouse Drive, Virginia Beach, VA, 23462, Southside Chapel Funeral Home is a trusted and compassionate provider of funeral services in the Virginia Beach community. With a commitment to excellence and a focus on supporting families during their most difficult times, Southside Chapel has established itself as a premier funeral home in the region.

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Devendrakumar Patel - November 05, 1957 - May 18, 2024

Departed: 05/18/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Devendrakumar Patel passed away on May 18, 2024. Altmeyer Funeral Home Southside Chapel is assisting with the arrangements.

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Martita Sanchez - December 16, 1955 - May 15, 2024

Departed: 05/15/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Martita Sanchez, a cherished member of our community, passed away peacefully on May 15, 2024, at the age of 68. Known for her unwavering love and devotion to her large family, Martita was a pillar of strength and warmth. Her home was always open, a place where her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren gathered to create lasting memories. Martita's legacy is one of boundless love and dedication, leaving an indelible mark on the hearts of all who knew her.

She is survived by her sons, Angel Sanchez, Israel Arroyo, Ismael Arroyo, Prudencio Arroyo, Manuel Arroyo, and Daniel Arroyo, and her daughter Theresa Arroyo. Grandchildren Enrique Perez, Melissa Perez-Hughes, Taina Colon, Triston Sanchez, Antonio Arroyo, and Essence Tesseneire. Great Grandchildren Zavier Perez-Hughes, Jayden Perez-Hughes, Alayna Perez-Hughes.

A devout member of the  Pentecostal Faith, Martita's faith was the cornerstone of her life. She found great joy and purpose in her church community. Her deep spirituality and compassion for others were evident in her daily actions, inspiring many with her unwavering commitment to her faith and service.

For many years, Martita worked for Goodwill, where she touched countless lives through her kindness and dedication. Her work was more than just a job; it was a calling to help others and make a difference in her community. Martita's generous spirit and tireless efforts to support those in need will be remembered fondly by her colleagues and all who benefited from her compassion. She leaves behind a legacy of love, faith, and service that will continue to inspire and uplift those who were fortunate to know her. Martita will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all who knew her. May she rest in peace

Please send flowers to Elizabeth River Baptist Church, 601 Sparrow Road, Chesapeake, VA 23325 by Friday, May 31st.

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Randall Ellis Zink - July 11, 1969 - May 10, 2024

Departed: 05/10/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Randall Ellis Zink (Randy) was born in Mt. Clemens, MI to Carl and June Zink on July 11, 1969. He graduated from Cox High School in Virginia Beach, VA in 1987 and proudly worked for many years as a concrete cutter for Diamond Equipment Contracting. Randy was preceded in death by his father and mother. He is survived by his brothers; Bryan (wife Debbie) and David (wife Brandi) and numerous nieces and nephews.

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Barbara Horner Weich - July 07, 1937 - May 08, 2024

Departed: 05/08/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Horner Weich, age 86, of Norfolk, VA, passed away peacefully on May 8, 2024, in Celina, TX. Born on July 7, 1937, in Norfolk, VA, Barbara dedicated herself to a career as a Life Insurance Agent.

Barbara was a cherished member of Calvin Presbyterian Church in Norfolk, VA. She will be remembered for her dedication to her work and the love she shared with those around her.

Barbara is preceded in death by her loving husband, Douglas Cordell Weich, and her parents, Clyde and Lucille Frances Atkinson Horner. She is survived by her daughter, Valerie E. Weich; son, John D. Weich and his wife, Angie.

A private service will be held for Barbara, where she will be laid to rest alongside her beloved husband at Rosewood Memorial Park in Virginia Beach, VA. To share memories and offer condolences to the family, please visit her Tribute page at AltmeyerFH.com. Memorial contributions in her honor may be made to Calvin Presbyterian Church by clicking HERE.

Barbara Horner Weich will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all who knew her. May she rest in peace.

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John E. Gray - December 14, 1950 - May 08, 2024

Departed: 05/08/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: John Edward Gray passed away on May 8th, 2024, in Virginia Beach, VA. He was 73 years old. Born to Raymond and Doris Gray, John was a cherished father, brother, son and friend. He was a graduate of Granby High School. Johns journey through life was marked by dedication and service. He was drafted into the US Army and bravely served his country during the Vietnam War. After his military service, John worked as a Deep Sea Checker for ILA Local 1624, where he dedicated 30 years before retirement. Outside of his professional life, Johns true joy came from being outdoors, especially on the water enjoying his passion for fishing. John leaves behind a legacy of love and cherished memories. He is survived by his daughter Abby Gray Stevens and her husband Jeffrey Stevens, his brothers Raymond Gray Jr., Kenneth Gray, and William (Bill) Gray, his sister Janet Parsons and her husband Milton Parsons, and his sister Judith McQueen and her husband Jim McQueen. A service to honor and celebrate Johns life will be held on May 14, 2024, at 3 PM at Altmeyer Funeral Home Southside Chapel in Virginia Beach. A reception will follow.

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George William Brideau - November 01, 1983 - May 08, 2024

Departed: 05/08/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: George William Brideau, 40, of Norfolk, VA, passed away on May 8, 2024. Born on November 1, 1983, in Fitchburg, MA, he served in the Army for 7 years and 8 months, completing 2 tours in IRAQ in support of Operation IRAQI Freedom and Operation New Dawn. A sensitive, empathetic, comedic, and creative individual, George was known for his friendly nature. In his career, he excelled in various security roles, reaching the rank of Lieutenant as a Supervisor. His hobbies included Dungeons & Dragons, karaoke, video games, card games, and playing the guitar. George is survived by his daughter Sarah L. McCabe, sister, Erin C. Brideau, mother Mary L. Gibbons, stepfather Gerald Brideau, Nana Barbara Gibbons, uncles Michael Gibbons and Charles Gibbons, and aunt Kathy Cannon. He is also preceded in death by numerous other aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. A visitation will be held on May 19, 2024, at 1:00 PM at Altmeyer Funeral Home & Crematory, Southside Chapel, located at 5033 Rouse Dr. Virginia Beach, VA 23462. Cremation will follow; thus, a viewing is not planned.

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Jose Miguel Irizarry - July 14, 1941 - May 05, 2024

Departed: 05/05/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Jose Miguel Irizarry It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved Jose Miguel Irizarry, 82. He peacefully departed this world May 5, 2024, surrounded by his loving family. Born July 14, 1941 in Puerto Rico, Jose came to the United States as a young man. Though he held various positions, he ultimately decided on a career in transportation. Jose was a man who found joy in the simple pleasures of life. His warm smile and caring heart endeared him to everyone he met. He was known for his love of boxing, wrestling and telenovelas. He had a passion for cooking and enjoyed spending quality time with his family. He is survived by his devoted wife Cecilia and her children; Luis, Vladimir, Francisco, David, Stephanie, and Ruben, his children(from his first marriage to Ann) Christina and Tony, and siblings Carmen, Alex (Audeliz), Mandy (Armando), Judy (Judith) Mildred, Maggie (Margarita), Maritza, Mabel, Sonia, Maribel and predeceased and in loving memory; Gloria, Juan (Nono), Lucy and Efrain (Flaco). Jose leaves behind a large and loving family including numerous grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews. His legacy will continue through the memories shared by those who knew him best. The family will receive friends for visitation on Wednesday, May 15th at Altmeyer Funeral Home, 5033 Rouse Drive, Virginia Beach from 1:00pm to 3:00pm with a memorial service to celebrate Joses life at 3:15pm. A light reception is to follow at Union Ale House, 2224 Virginia Beach Blvd. #113, VA. Beach. May his soul find eternal peace and may his memory forever inspire. Rest in peace dear Jose, you will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved you. Condolences may be shared with the family at www.altmeyerfh.com

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Felix Garcia - June 09, 1956 - May 05, 2024

Departed: 05/05/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Sunrise - June 9th, 1956 - Sunset - May 5th, 2024

Felix Garcia, aged 67, passed away on Sunday, May 5th, 2024 in Virginia Beach, Virginia. Born on June 9th, 1956 in Rio Piedras, Puerto Rico to Antonio Garcia of Manati, Puerto Rico and Constancia Bonilla of Guayama, Puerto Rico, Felix was the youngest of six boys. After arriving in New York City and graduating from high school, Felix enlisted in the United States Marine Corps and graduated on November 26th, 1973 from Parris Island, South Carolina. He served one tour of duty during the Vietnam War where he was an Antitank Assault man, and was honorably discharged on August 31st, 1975 receiving a "National Defense Service" medal, Rifle Expert badge and a "Good Conduct" medal. Ensuing, Felix began his long career as a Federal Civil Servant on September 10th, 1979 with the United States Navy. After serving thirty-six years of faithful and devoted service as an Air Cargo Loading Manager, Felix retired on August 31st, 2015 with numerous accolades, commendations and awards. Never one to remain still, Felix began driving chartered tour buses which helped foster his love of driving, traveling and meeting new people. In his spare time, Felix loved to bowl - so much so that he considered going ‘Pro' until chronic knee injuries sidelined that dream. He was also an avid fisherman, enjoyed going to the movies and supported all things "Semper Fidelis"…OOHRAH!

Felix was proceeded in death by this parents and four brothers: George, Jesus (“Jay”), Raymond and Juan ("Johnny"). He is survived by his brother Hector; his children Michele Mercado (wife of Luis Mercado), Amy Garcia (wife of Tyrone Sellars) and Venessa L. Garcia; his grandchildren Randall John Nieves, Jr., Kelley Elise Sellars, Bruce Antonio Archer, Giovanni Domenic Archer and Catalina Elly Mercado; numerous nieces, nephews and long-time friends.

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Diana Mae Hilliker - December 12, 1947 - May 05, 2024

Departed: 05/05/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Diana Mae Hilliker, born on December 12, 1947, in the charming town of Greenville, MI, passed away on May 5, 2024, in the coastal haven of Virginia Beach, VA, at the age of 76.

Diana was a homemaker extraordinaire who crafted a life as rich as her beloved creations. With a flair for the gifted and the handmade, she could turn a piece of yarn into a masterpiece and a simple afternoon into an unforgettable memory. Her home was a sanctuary not just for family and friends, but also for any animal fortunate enough to cross her path.

Preceded in death by her father, mother, brother, and sister, Diana is survived by her former husband and devoted caregiver, Francis Hilliker. Though their marital journey took different paths, their bond remained unbroken and full of mutual respect and care.

Diana will be laid to rest in her hometown of Greenville, MI, where she first spun the threads of her extraordinary life. In honor of her love for crafting, may we all find a little extra beauty in the handmade and cherish the cozy comforts of home.

You may visit her Tribute page at AltmeyerFH.com. To allow her love of animals to continue, please consider making a contribution in her honor to SPCA by clicking here..

Altmeyer Funeral Home, Southside Chapel, 5033 Rouse Drive, Virginia Beach, VA is honored to serve the Hilliker family.

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Gary Wilson White, Sr. - April 17, 1955 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Gary Wilson White, born on April 17, 1955, in North Carolina, passed away peacefully on April 21, 2024, in Suffolk at the age of 69. He served his country with pride and distinction in both the Air Force and the Army, embodying the true spirit of dedication and service.

Gary worked diligently as a stock person throughout his career, earning respect and admiration from colleagues and friends alike. Beyond his professional life, he was a man of many passions. An avid photographer, Gary captured the beauty of the world through his lens, preserving moments that will be cherished by those who knew him. His love for the outdoors was evident in his enthusiasm for hunting, fishing, and crabbing – activities that brought him immense joy and tranquility.

A sports enthusiast, Gary enjoyed baseball and found solace in running and stretching, which kept him grounded and healthy. His talent as a band drummer added rhythm to his life and the lives of those around him, leaving behind a legacy of music and memories.

Gary was preceded in death by his beloved parents, Curtis and Violet White. He is survived by his devoted son, Gary White Jr., and his wife Colleen; his three cherished grandsons, Braden, Kolby, and Jacob; his brothers, David White and Michael Walker; and his sisters, Susan Dolena and her husband Christopher, and Vicki Tejada.

Gary’s memory will forever remain in the hearts of his family and friends, who will miss his adventurous spirit, kind heart, and unwavering dedication to those he loved.

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Justin T. Blakely - July 02, 1981 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Justin T. Blakely, 42, of Norfolk, VA died April 2, 2024. Altmeyer Funeral Home, Southside Chapel, 5033 Rouse Drive, Virginia Beach, VA is in charge of arrangements. (AltmeyerFH.com)

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Alvin Hurley Daye - October 25, 1945 - December 27, 2023

Departed: 12/27/2023 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Alvin Hurley Daye, 77, of Norfolk, Virginia, passed away on December 27, 2023. Altmeyer Funeral Homes Southside Chapel is handling the arrangements.

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Brian Anthony Roberts - August 01, 1972 - September 05, 2023

Departed: 09/05/2023 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Brian Anthony Roberts.

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Kevin Scott Twiss - April 26, 1965 - May 27, 2024

Departed: 05/27/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Kevin S Twiss who left us on Monday, May 27, 2024 at the young age of 59.

Kevin was a beloved husband, brother and friend. He is survived by his wife, Marsha and his two brothers Matthew and Patrick, his twin. He and Marsha shared a lifetime that began in childhood, blossoming into a journey filled with love and laugher.

Originally from Malone New York, Kevin's journey through life was marked by deep connections with friends that included places he called home from Northern Virginia to Virginia Beach.

Kevin was a faithful fan of the New York Giants rarely missing a Sunday to watch the game, throw in a little golf and some tennis he would be in his element. He enjoyed surrounding himself with good friends and meeting new people because laugher was his way of life.

If there is a cause or a charity that you would like to support, consider making a one time donation in memory of Kevin Twiss.

A celebration of Kevin’s life will be held soon at Altmeyer Funeral Home in Virginia Beach. Dates and times will be announced shortly. We invite all who knew Kevin to join us in honoring his memory and sharing the stories that made him such a special part of our lives.

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Charles M. Boggs - March 12, 1968 - May 25, 2024

Departed: 05/25/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Charles Boggs, age 56, passed away on May 25, 2024 in Norfolk, Virginia. Local arrangements are being handled by Altmeyer Funeral Homes Southside Chapel.

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Dennis Jirousek Cole - February 22, 1937 - May 23, 2024

Departed: 05/23/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Dennis Jirousek Cole, born February 22, 1937, in Cleveland, Ohio, passed away peacefully on May 23, 2024, in Virginia Beach, Virginia, at the age of 87.

Dennis led a diverse and fulfilling life marked by his varied careers and deep dedication to his family. He served as an Insurance Agent for All State Insurance Company, worked diligently on a Christmas tree farm, and upheld the law as a Sheriff in Florida. Although he retired in 1992, his professional journey reflected his adaptability and commitment to serving others.

A devout Catholic, Dennis attended St. Joseph's in Cleveland, Ohio, where he nurtured his faith and community ties.

He was preceded in death by his father, Cyrus Jirousek, his mother, Elizabeth Ambrose Jirousek, his son, Dennis Anthony Jirousek, and his daughter Shari Jirousek Meyer Schmidt Webb.

Dennis is survived by his loving family, including his son, Michael R. Jirousek, his daughters, Debra Ann Quitter and her husband James Timothy, and Lisa Marie Lape and her husband Charles. He also leaves behind eight cherished grandchildren, Cassandra, Brianna, Margaret, Amanda, Kimberly, Michael, Heather, and Corey, and seven great-grandchildren, Cody, Jacob, Caitlin, Maddie, Izzy, Emily, and Peyton.

Though Virginia Beach, Virginia, was his final home, Dennis lived a life enriched by experiences in various states, residing in South Carolina and Arizona for ten years each, and Florida and Washington for fifteen years each.

A memorial service to honor Dennis's life will be held on Sunday, May 26, 2024, at 1:00 PM at the Altmeyer Funeral Home, Southside Chapel, located at 5033 Rouse Drive, Virginia Beach, Virginia, 23462.

Dennis will be remembered fondly by his family and friends for his unwavering love, strength, and the rich legacy he leaves behind.

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Richard Allen Fugere - May 21, 1970 - May 23, 2024

Departed: 05/23/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: A Celebration of Richard's life will be held in the near future. The date and time of the celebration will be announced as it becomes known.

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Leo William Hermans - November 05, 1954 - May 20, 2024

Departed: 05/20/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Leo William Hermans, Jr., an all-around good egg and jack-of-all-trades, signed off for the last time on May 20, 2024, at the spry age of 69. Born on November 5, 1954, in the naval town of Norfolk, VA, Leo made his final landing in Nassawadox, VA, leaving behind a legacy of hard work and optimism.

Throughout his 69-year run, Leo wore many hats—literally and figuratively. He fought fires, hammered roofs, built homes, and shaped metal, proving there wasn't much he couldn't do with a tool in hand. His resume read like a Swiss Army knife's instruction manual, but one thing was for sure: Leo was never a quitter and always aimed to find the silver lining, even if it was wrapped in sheet metal.

A proud patriot, Leo served his country with distinction in both the US Army and the US Navy. He was the kind of guy who could seamlessly transition from military boots to carpenter's boots, showing his versatility and unwavering spirit.

Preceded in death by his parents, Leo William Hermans, Sr. and Leslie Hermans; his brother, Gene Hermans; and the grandmother who raised him, Mary Walker, Leo now joins a heavenly reunion that surely includes some epic storytelling.

Left to carry on his legacy are his sister and brother-in-law, Diane and Butch Jones; his brothers, Tony Hermans, Chris Hermans and Wayne Hermans; and his sister, Renee. While Leo's passing leaves a void, his resilience and positive outlook leave an indelible mark on those who knew him.

A celebration of Leo's life will be held at 2 PM on Saturday, June 8, 2024, at Altmeyer Funeral Home, Southside Chapel, located at 5033 Rouse Drive, Virginia Beach, VA. A reception will follow, offering a chance to swap stories and toast to a life well-lived. You may also visit his Tribute page at AltmeyerFH.com to share memories and offer condolences to the family.

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Jack Edwin Irizarry - September 09, 1948 - May 19, 2024

Departed: 05/19/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Jack Irizarry, age 75, passed away on May 19, 2024 in Virginia Beach, VA. Local arrangements are being handled by Altmeyer Funeral Homes Southside Chapel.

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Devendrakumar Manibhai Patel - November 05, 1957 - May 18, 2024

Departed: 05/18/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Devendrabhai Manibhai Patel: Born in Adas, Gujarat, India on November 5, 1957, he was a son of the late Manibhai and Surajben Patel. He is survived by one daughter, Dharti Patel of NJ; four sons, Ashu Patel of TN, Ravi Patel of TN, Akshay Patel of TN, and Ben Barajas of SC; four sisters, Sudhaben Patel of Charlotte, NC, Jaydeviben Patel of Inman, SC, Jasvantiben Patel of North Bergen, NJ, and Devyaniben Patel of Charlotte, NC

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Shirley A. Kirk - April 01, 1961 - May 06, 2024

Departed: 05/06/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Shirley A. Kirk, 63, of Norfolk, VA died May 6, 2024.  She was born April 1, 1961.  There will be no formal service at this time.  Altmeyer Funeral Home, Southside Chapel, 5033 Rouse Drive, Virginia Beach, VA is in charge of arrangements. (AltmeyerFH.com)

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Tracy D. Jones - April 01, 1961 - May 06, 2024

Departed: 05/06/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Tracy D. Jones, 54, formerly of New York, died May 4, 2024.  He was born August 4, 1969.  There will be no formal service held at this time.  Altmeyer Funeral Home, Southside Chapel, 5033 Rouse Drive, Virginia Beach, VA is in charge of arrangements. (AltmeyerFH.com)

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Laura Jean Owens - September 18, 1963 - May 04, 2024

Departed: 05/04/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Laura Owens, age 60, passed at the age of May 4, 2024. No services are scheduled with the funeral home at this time.

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Denis A. LeBlanc - October 01, 1974 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Virginia Beach)

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Carmen Diane Rivera - August 30, 1948 - May 02, 2024

Departed: 05/02/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Carmen Diane Rivera, age 75, passed away on May 2, 2024.

Funeral arrangements are in the care of Altmeyer Funeral Home and Crematory, Southside. At this time there are currently no services scheduled to take place.

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Funeral Services Offered

Southside Chapel Funeral Home offers a wide range of funeral services to meet the unique needs of each family they serve. Some of the services they provide include:

- Traditional funerals with visitation and burial or entombment

- Cremation services with options for memorialization and scattering

- Memorial gatherings and celebrations of life

- Graveside services and burials

- Veteran's services and honors

- Pre-planning and pre-funding options for peace of mind

The Facility and Amenities

Southside Chapel's state-of-the-art facility is designed to provide a comfortable and serene atmosphere for families to gather and celebrate the life of their loved one. The funeral home features:

- A spacious chapel with seating for over 200 guests

- A large reception area for gathering and sharing memories

- A private family lounge for quiet reflection and conversation

- Ample parking and convenient accessibility

The Staff at Southside Chapel

The team at Southside Chapel is comprised of experienced funeral professionals who are dedicated to providing exceptional care and service to each family they serve. From licensed funeral directors to administrative staff, every member of the team is committed to ensuring that your needs are met with compassion, understanding, and professionalism.

Community Involvement and Support

Southside Chapel Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Virginia Beach community and is committed to giving back through various charitable initiatives and sponsorships. They understand the importance of building strong relationships with local organizations, churches, and community groups to better serve the needs of their neighbors.

Planning Ahead: The Benefits of Pre-Planning

While it may seem difficult to think about planning a funeral in advance, doing so can bring peace of mind and relief to both you and your loved ones. By pre-planning with Southside Chapel, you can:

- Ensure your final wishes are respected

- Lock in costs at today's prices

- Relieve your family of the burden of making difficult decisions during a time of grief

Contacting Southside Chapel Funeral Home

If you're seeking more information about Southside Chapel Funeral Home or would like to schedule a consultation with one of their experienced funeral directors, please don't hesitate to reach out. You can contact them by phone at [phone number], email at [email address], or by visiting their website at [website URL]. Their caring staff is always available to answer your questions and provide guidance during this difficult time.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who knew them. They help to notify people of the passing, share details about the funeral or memorial service, and offer a sense of closure for those grieving.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased. Funeral homes may also offer assistance with writing an obituary as part of their services.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral or memorial service, charitable donations in lieu of flowers, and any other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Generally, it's recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important information. Aim for around 150-200 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and help readers remember the person.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and any specific requirements they may have. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for publication.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms and websites that allow you to publish an obituary. These often offer more flexibility in terms of content and design compared to traditional newspapers.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication or platform. Newspapers typically charge by the word or line, while online platforms may offer package deals or flat fees. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to several hundred dollars.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

This depends on the publication or platform. Some may allow minor corrections or updates, while others may not make changes once it's gone to print. Be sure to proofread carefully before submitting.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe varies depending on the publication's schedule and deadlines. Online platforms may publish immediately, while newspapers may take several days or even weeks.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes! Many people choose to write their own obituary as a way to control how they're remembered and ensure accuracy. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary?

DON'T worry! Writing an obituary can be a difficult task. Consider enlisting the help of a friend or family member, or seeking guidance from a funeral home or professional writer.

Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber and serious. Including lighthearted moments or humorous stories can help celebrate the person's personality and spirit.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

Be mindful of sharing sensitive details that might cause discomfort for surviving family members or friends. Focus on highlighting the person's positive qualities and achievements instead.

What if I need to correct errors in an already-published obituary?

Contact the publication or platform immediately to report any errors. They may be able to issue a correction or reprint the revised obituary.

Can I reuse an obituary for multiple publications?

You can reuse the same text for multiple publications, but be aware that some platforms may have specific formatting or content requirements. Be prepared to make adjustments as needed.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

This varies depending on the platform. Some online obituaries may remain available indefinitely, while others may expire after a certain period (e.g., 30 days). Check with the platform for their policies.

Can I create a memorial website or page for my loved one?

Yes! Many online platforms offer tools to create memorial websites or pages where you can share memories, photos, and stories about your loved one. These can serve as a lasting tribute and gathering place for those who want to pay their respects.

What if I'm unsure about what to include in an obituary?

Talk to friends, family members, or colleagues who knew the person well. They can offer valuable insights and suggestions for crafting a meaningful tribute.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and personality to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's spirit or reflects their values.

How do I handle requests for donations in lieu of flowers?

If you'd like to suggest donations in lieu of flowers, specify the charity or organization in the obituary. You can also provide details on how donations can be made (e.g., online link or mailing address).

What if I need additional support during this difficult time?

DON'T hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or professionals for emotional support during this challenging time. There are also many resources available online, such as grief counseling services and support groups.

Can I republish an old obituary for a anniversary or special occasion?

Yes! You can republish an old obituary as a way to commemorate special occasions like anniversaries or birthdays. This can be a meaningful way to continue celebrating your loved one's life.