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Ronald E. Thorne Jr. - March 03, 1957 - March 18, 2022

Departed: 03/18/2022 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Ronald E. Thorne Jr.,  Age 65, Passed away peacefully on March 18th, 2022.

Ron was born on March 3,1957 in Chicago, IL to Ronald and Gloria (Boyajian) Thorne.

He is survived by his beloved Fiance Pamela Wood, He was a loving father to Zachary and Stephanie Thorne; Dearest Grandfather to Domink and Galileo Kopacka; Dear Brother to Elizabeth DeYoung, Carol Thorne-Russel, and Gregory Thorne. Survived by many wonderful cousins.

He was a talented auto body man for years and enjoyed working on anything with a motor. Especially his truck and his boat. His dream was to get back out on the water to go fishing and boating with his family.

Ron was a genuine man who had a knack for helping people. He wasn't afraid to lend a hand or teach someone how to do something. He had a way of ease when talking with people and knew how to crack a joke when it was needed. His easy going demeanor will live on through his family and friends.  Memorial services will be held at Lutheran Church of the Resurrection In Oak Forest, Illinois on Saturday April 2nd 2022 from 10am to 1 pm.

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Jean K. Pawlowski - August 26, 1945 - February 23, 2022

Departed: 02/23/2022 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Jean K. Pawlowski, Carbondale Illinois, formerly from Herrin, Illinois, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, February 23,2022. She was 76 years of age.

Jean is survived by four children, Randy (Becky) Hall, Alisa (Jim) Maleski, Tony Hall, and Donna Ashtiani; her grandchildren; great grandchildren; one brother, Tony Kent; one sister, Jackie Sunshine. Jean will be greatly missed by those she impacted most. May she continue to rest in peace.   Per the request of Jean, no services are scheduled at this time.

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Patricia A. Pence - February 22, 1935 - February 22, 2022

Departed: 02/22/2022 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Ann Pate, 87, of Johnston City, IL, passed away on her birthday Tuesday, February 22, 2022, at home with her loving family by her side.

Pat was born on February 22, 1935 in Weaver, IL. She spent her life amongst several cities in Illinois including Johnston City and Montgomery. She was united in Marriage to David Pence on October 15, 1975.

Pat leaves to cherish her memories her loving husband David Pence; three children; Lora Sutcliff, Charles Sutcliff and wife Robyn Sutcliff (Prince), Lynn Hardin; her six grandchildren, Stacy Kageff-Davidson and husband William Davidson, Danielle Perruquet, Daniel Hardin, Ryan Hardin, Dylan Sutcliff, Casey Sutcliff; three great-grandchildren,  Conin Perruquet, Odin McMillan, Rozlin Hardin and  several nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her parents, 4 sisters one brother.

The family will host a celebration of life for friends and family at her home in Johnston City, IL.  Sunday, March 6, 2022, 2:00pm-5:00pm.

Cards may be sent to Southern Cremation and Mortuary Services, 1213 N. Robert A Stalls, Carbondale, IL 62901. 1-618-616-0893 or www.southerncremation97.com.

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Patricia Ann Stover - February 14, 1955 - February 20, 2022

Departed: 02/20/2022 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Ann Stover, who loved to be called “Nana” by her grandchildren and great grandchildren, departed this life with her loving family by her side on February 20, 2022, at the age of 67.

Patricia Ann was born in Biloxi, MS, on February 14, 1955 to David and Lillian Jones.

Patricia Ann was a wonderful mother to Donna D. Jones of Savannah, GA, Wilcox O. Yorama of St. Louis, MO, Christy E. Yorama of Orlando, FL and Olajide E. Marshall of Savannah, GA.  She raised and empowered her children as a single parent in Carbondale, IL; to be independent while she worked as an Independent Home Nurse Aide.

Patricia Ann was known for her zest for life, laughter, her compassion for others and sense of humor.  She enjoyed experiencing new adventures, she loved trying new food, listening to music, reading and meeting new people.  She always made a friend wherever she worked or lived.  Her friends or her children’s friends became lifelong family.

Patricia Ann found true companionship and married John W. Stover. They enjoyed watching movies and listening to old school music together.

Patricia Ann leaves to cherish  her loving husband, four children, and six grandchildren, Patricia Hill Golden, Jayla R. Hill, Cynclaire Marshall, Kyla Yorama, Lanisa Marshall, and Amar Marshall; three great-grandchildren, Kaidence Hill, DeMaurion Jordan Jr., and Eva Jordan; three nieces, Lynette Cripps and  Sherry McCoy both of San Francisco, CA and Gwen Johnson of Gulfport, MS; three nephews, Louis Jones Jr., Paul and Peter McCoy both of San Francisco, CA and a host of other relatives and friends.

She is preceded in death by her parents; sister, Evelma McCoy; one brother,  Louis Jones Sr; one niece, Kim McCoy.

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William Dale White - November 24, 1951 - January 25, 2022

Departed: 01/25/2022 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Dale “Mousey” White, 70, of Paulton, passed away peacefully at 1:45 A.M., January 25, 2022 at home surrounded by his loved ones.

Mousey was born November 24, 1951 in Paulton, IL to Curt and Ethel (Robinson) White.

Mousey was a talented man who enjoyed working on automobiles, lawnmowers, and boat motors. He could build and fix anything, from houses to cars to motors. He never turned down a chance to help someone, even a stranger. Just as he did with everyone he touched; he could restore the broken into the best.

Mousey was a very special man; a man with a never-ending smile and a heart of gold. He saw the good in everyone and loved with everything he had. He touched the lives of each person he knew, with both his heart and his hands. The stories and advice he shared was filled with wisdom and entertainment. His ability to uplift each and every one with his light-heartedness continued to his last days.

Mousey is survived by, his partner of 20 years, Carolyn Winchell of Jackson, MO; three sons, Dale “Dewey” White (Kelly) of Rockford, IL, Stephen Crain of Marion, IL, Dwayne (April) Crain of Pittsburg, IL, Dale “Little Dale” (Christy) Crain of Paulton, IL; three daughters, Tammy (Roger) Gowin of Rockford, IL, Becky White of Rockford, IL, and Melissa (Steven) Whitecotton of Paulton, IL; 17 grandchildren; 18 great grandchildren of Rockford, IL; brother, James (Kay) White of Herrin, IL; one niece, Kitty Cavin of Herrin, IL and his beloved dog, Mitzi.

Mousey was preceded in death by his parents; Curt White and Ethel (White) Robinson; his brother; Robert White; his niece, Rhonda White, and numerous friends.

The family asks that you celebrate Mousey’s life by going fishing. Those who knew Mousey knew fishing was something he truly enjoyed.

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Howard W. Thompson - May 06, 1948 - January 14, 2022

Departed: 01/14/2022 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Howard W. Thompson, affectionately known as “Wayne” 73, of Hurst, passed away on Friday, January 14, 2022 at Memorial Hospital of Carbondale with his loving wife by his bedside.

Howard was born on May 6, 1948 in Oraville, IL to Earl and Della Thompson.

He was raised in Ava, IL later moving to Carbondale, IL to attend school. After school he joined the United States Army in 1965. Howard also drove Semi Trucks for over 30 years until he retired.

Howard was united in marriage with Marcia Thompson on June 28, 1972 in Murphysboro, IL. He enjoyed traveling, 4- wheeling, and spending time with his family. He was a devoted husband, father, and friend.

He is survived by his loving wife of 49 years, Marcia Thompson of Hurst, IL; three children: David Thompson of Murphysboro, IL, Julie Lazorchak of Johnston City, IL, and Michael (Susy) Thompson of Royalton, IL; four grandchildren: Emily Rich (Joe) Matuszczak of Hurst, IL, Kelsie Thompson of Royalton, IL, Teddy (Heather) Rich of Hurst, IL, and Kaitlyn Thompson of Royalton, IL; three great-grandchildren: Evaley Collier, Avery Rich, and Jolee Matuszczak all of Hurst, IL; two brothers: Glenn (Sharon) Thompson of Winchester, TN and Ronnie (Leanne) Thompson of Lick Creek; two sisters: Phyllis Denam of Cambria, IL and Joyce (Bob) Harrison of Lake of Egypt, IL and a host of nieces, nephew and other relatives.

He is preceded in death by his parents Earl and Della Thompson; three brothers Albert, Ralph, and Willard (Willie) Thompson; and one sister Della Jane.

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Kevin D. Kincheloe - October 28, 1964 - January 07, 2022

Departed: 01/07/2022 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Kevin Dale Kincheloe, 57, of Carmi, IL, formerly Mt. Vernon, IN, passed away peacefully January 7, 2022 surrounded by his dog Scarlett and a lifelong friend.

Kevin was an avid fan of sprint car races, especially The World of Outlaws and Steve Kinser. Kevin had a love for the outdoors. He enjoyed camping, riding motorcycles, tractor pulls, fishing, and especially loved riding rollercoasters. Kevin enjoyed spending time with his family and friends and always brought fun to those surrounding him. Kevin is survived by his son Derrick Baker of Evansville, Aunts Mary Thornberry, Patty Edwards, Peggy Boling, Suzann Hume all of Jeffersonville, IN, Nieces and Nephews Melissa Gilpin, Robert Weir,and Brandi Wilson, all of Evansville, Elizabeth Sisson (David) of Nashville, NC, Stefanie Bierman (Lucas) of Mason, IL, and Nikki King (Kyle) of Mt. Vernon. He is also survived by great nieces and nephews Tatiana and Gabrielle Gilpin, Tytus Wilson, Draven and Sadie Jo Sisson, Kaden, Hunter, and Noah Bierman, Skylar, Natalie, Drake, and Jacelyn King, as well as several cousins.

Kevin was proceeded in death by his parents, Gene and Barbara Kincheloe, and Grandparents Ennis and Ida Mae Kincheloe and James and Margaret Hume.

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Fred F. Greco - August 08, 1949 - January 03, 2022

Departed: 01/03/2022 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Fred Frank Greco, 72, of Elkville, Illinois passed away on Monday, January 3, 2022 surrounded by his loving family at his home. Frank was born on August 8, 1949 in St Louis, Missouri to John and Frances Greco who preceded him in death.

Frank work many years as a Steel Worker. He enjoyed attending Cardinals baseball games, fishing, listening to music, and collecting antiques with his wife Brenda “Sue” Greco. They spent many years together.

Fred is survived by his devoted wife Brenda Sue Greco; one daughter, Tammy Tucker; one son, Robert (Melanie) Greco; grandchildren, Jerry and Amanda Crawford, Samantha Thomas, Quentin Floyd, and Austin Norton; great-grandchildren; Emma Floyd, Loni Bloom, Preston Crawford, Seth Mendoza, and Novea Mendoza; two brothers Sam and John Greco; one sister Elizabeth Hughes and a host of nieces, nephews, and other relatives and friends. Interment will be at Jefferson Barracks Cemetery in St. Louis, MO on January 13, 2022 at 2:00pm

All donations can be made out to Alzheimer's Association.

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Robert E. Mosbach - November 04, 1938 - December 30, 2021

Departed: 12/30/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Robert Eugene Mosbach, 83, of Coello, Illinois passed away at 11:27a.m., on Thursday December 30th, 2021.  Robert, or "Slim" as most called him was born on November 4th, 1938 in Eureka, Illinois. He passed away in the comfort of his home, as requested with the love and support of all of his loved ones.

Robert was a diesel mechanic for many years, he spent most of his time working on farm equipment, it was a passion of his. He also enjoyed attending tractor shows, coon hunting, horses, camping, and would have preferred to be outside most of his days.

Robert was preceded in death by his mother and father, Fred and Alice (Schall) Mosbach, along with two brothers and two sisters.

He was survived by his wife, Helen Sue Mosbach of 33 years, also residing in Coello, Illinois. Including his four sons; Tim, Eddie, Eugene, and Lyell, his 3 daughters; Tonja, Missi, and Patti. Robert also had many grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Services for Robert will be privately held.

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Thomas R. Prior - December 03, 1963 - December 18, 2021

Departed: 12/18/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Russell Prior, age 58, of Cave In Rock, Illinois, passed peacefully surrounded by his loved one’s on Saturday, December 18, 2021.

He was born in Valparaiso, Indiana on December 3,1963 to Thomas and Vivian Prior, who both preceded him in death. He was also preceded in death by his stepfather Dennis Tucker and brother Jason Tucker.

Tom was a loving husband, father, grandfather, uncle and brother. He enjoyed spending time with family and being outdoors. His knowledge and sense of humor will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

He is survived by his wife Lindsey, three daughters; Danielle, Amanda, and Madison, one son; Matthew, six grandchildren; Tyrell, DJ, Ma’kyah, Malia, Ariana and Amarriya, four brothers; Brad, Clay (Sandy), Greg (Tina), Bobby (Chelsea), two sisters; Samantha and Ashley, and many other relatives and friends.

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Willie C. Payne - December 24, 1956 - December 11, 2021

Departed: 12/11/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Willie Carl Payne, 64, of Carbondale, Illinois, passed away on Saturday, December 11, 2021, surrounded by his loved ones. He was born on December 24, 1956, in Joiner, Arkansas, to Mr. Willie and Edith Payne, who preceded him in death.

He was also preceded in death by his son, Carlando Carr; a loving friend Annie Carr; sisters, Rosie Mae Miller, Alberta Payne, and Almeeta Simmons; brothers, Richard Woods, Eddie Payne, Ralph Payne, Ernest Payne, and Mike Payne.

Willie worked for E.T. Simonds Construction LOCAL 702 for 25 years, later retiring due to health reasons. He grew a passion for “Tinkering” with cars for local people in the community. He spent a great deal of his time with his children, grandchildren, and many others he adopted throughout the years.

He leaves to cherish his legacy two daughters, Phenina Jones of Carbondale, IL and Rena (Brad) DeDecker of Desoto, IL; sons, Robin (Shirley) Jones of Springfield, IL, Willie Jones, Nathan (Sarieta) Carr, Justin (Jaylyn) Carr all of Carbondale, IL, Stevie Carr of Parkhill, MO; sisters, Dollie Faye Payne and Tommie (LC) Nelson of Carbondale, IL, Brenda (Jackie) Rowe of Hayti, MO; brother, Cal Payne ; 21 grandchildren, 7 great-grandchildren, a host of other relatives and his life long friend Rodney Allen of Carbondale, IL. He will truly be missed by all the lives he impacted.

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Veronica L. Rice - September 20, 1965 - November 29, 2021

Departed: 11/29/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Veronica Rice of Sioux Falls, SD passed away on November 29, 2021 at her home. She was born on September 20, 1965, in East St Louis, IL to Charles and Mary Lee Rice, who preceded her in death.

She is also preceded in death by her 2 brothers Victor Rice and Charles Rice Jr., her grandparents, uncles, and aunts.

Growing in East St. Louis, IL she attended school in District 189, receiving many certificates for her academic accomplishments throughout high school. After high school she moved to Sioux Falls, SD with her aunt Annie Lee Vaughn. She went on to nursing school obtaining her CNA license later going for her CDLs to drive trucks.

She had a passion for what she did in life. She looked forward to traveling back home to East St. Louis and down to Scooba, MS to spend time with her family and friends during the summer months.

She leaves to cherish her memory her nieces Tonita Rice, Estelle Hillstrom, Ceveja Rice and Remi Mae Rice; Her nephews Victor Rice Jr., Charles Rice III, Raheem Rice, and Carver Rice; great nieces and nephews; TreVaughn, TreyVell, Kiyan, Maxse, Kameron, Ellie Mae, and Charli; one uncle, Ollie White; and a host of relatives and other friends.

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Terry L. Payne - November 20, 1956 - October 03, 2021

Departed: 10/03/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Terry L. Payne, 64, of Murphysboro, IL passed away Sunday, Oct. 3, 2021 at his home.

He was born Nov. 20, 1956 to Dixie and Kenneth Payne in Chicago, IL.

He retired from the US Navy after 20 years of service in 1995. He volunteered at the VFW and the American Legion which eventually led to a job.

He married Joyce Garris on Nov. 7, 1979.  She passed away on Jan. 28, 2014.

He is survived by his mother, Dixie Payne; 4 sisters, Beverly Griffin, Mary (Rob) Wood, Frances (Jack) Robbins, Connie (Lonnie) Cox; 1 brother, John (Sharon) Payne; and numerous nephews and nieces, several great nephews and nieces.

He is preceded in death by his father, Kenneth Payne, and grandparents. A small Memorial is planned on October 16, 2021, at Murphysboro American Legion from 1:00pm -3:00pm 1700 N. Gartside Street Murphysboro, IL 62966

Memorial Donations are suggested to the Payne Family.

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William B. Hornick - July 19, 1944 - September 04, 2021

Departed: 09/04/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: William B. Hornick, affectionately known as "Bill" 77, gained his Heavenly Wings on September 4, 2021, surrounded by his children at his home, as he wished.

He was born July 19, 1944 to John and Marie Hornick in Trenton, New Jersey. In 1985 he met and married Olivia Malroy.

Bill work many years across several states with New Jersey Bell, AT&T, Southern Bell, Bell South, and Quest Communications.

He retired and enjoyed hunting, fishing, football, boxing, traveling, and spending time with his family and  friends. He gave his life to Christ and became a Deacon for many years.

Bill loved traveling to Key West, Florida. That was one of his favorite places to travel.

He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather. His knowledge, wisdom and sense of humor will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

He is survived by his children: Kaylynne Simmons, Scott (Trish) Imhoff, Brandi (James) Porm, and Caine Larson; Sister-in-Laws, Alma (John) Carder and Cathy (Paul) Payne; several grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and a host of other relatives and friends.

He is preceded in death by his wife, parents, sister, son, and his brother-in-law.

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Marjorie Martin - May 26, 1957 - July 16, 2021

Departed: 07/16/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Marjorie Ann Martin, 64, went to be with the Lord July 16, 2021, 8:42 am at her home in Cutler, IL with her husband Herbert by her side.

Marjorie was the youngest of three children born May 26, 1957 to Major Thomas Connolly and Mary Ann Connolly (nee) Tibbets. Her parents and two brothers, Thomas Connolly and John Connolly preceded her in death. She graduated from Anna-Jonesboro high school in 1975.  She attended SIU-C  where she earned a Bachelor's Degree in Physical Education.

Then in 1978 after college, Marjorie joined The United States Army where she proudly served her country until 1986.  During her military career, Marjorie rose to the rank of Sergeant.  While stationed in Germany, she worked as a Nike-Hercules Missile Technician, becoming the first female Missile Technician there.

Marjorie continued her military career as a Medic with the 517th M.A.S.H. Unit and ended her Military career as a Clerk Typist for the Aviation Maintenance Dept at Fort Campbell KY.   Marjorie enjoyed many hobbies which included Traveling, Gardening, Cooking, Teaching Roller Hockey to the kids in her and her son's neighborhood, Archery, Bowling, Softball, Basketball, and Swimming.

She was very active in her community with being a Sunday School teacher, Volunteering at the Rochester NY Right to Life group, numerous food pantries and being the Adjutant at American Legion Post Joseph Gallipiau 294, where she also was active in the Post Auxiliary in Avon NY, as well as a devoted member of the Denmark Baptist Church, Cutler, IL.

Marjorie married Herbert L Martin Jr. on May 29, 1999 at Tower Grove Park in St Louis Mo. They have four children Scott Connolly of St Louis Mo, Alana Connolly of Rochester NY, Christine (Andrew) Edwards of St Louis Mo, and Candace Aston of St Louis Mo.   Marjorie also had two grandchildren, Megan (Clay) Ream of North Carolina and Katherine Rose Aston of St. Louis Mo.   She also had seven sisters (In-laws) that loved her very much...Carol (Steve) Miller of Warrenton, Mo. Cheryl Bange (Richard) King of Warrenton, Mo. Mary (Ed) Wittenbrink of Steeleville, IL. Jeannie Holder of St. Charles, Mo. Cyndi (Wayne) Williams of Chula Vista CA, Karen Martin of O'Fallon Mo. and Janet (Bill) Daugherty of Pinckneyville, IL.

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Jimmy R. Nelson Jr. - June 30, 1982 - July 12, 2021

Departed: 07/12/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Jimmy Ray Nelson, Jr., was born in on June 30 in 1982 in Kennett, Missouri, to Dollie and Jimmy (Payne) Nelson.

He enjoyed fishing, landscaping, painting, singing, dancing, and spending time with his family and friends. Jimmy was loved by many people.

He leaves to cherish his memory: his wife, Marissa Lilly; his children, Khalil Lilly, Jalecia Nelson, Jalil Nelson, Daveon Nelson, and Deiyon Nelson, all of Carbondale, Illinois; his mother, Dollie Payne of Carbondale, Illinois; his father, Jimmy Nelson of Leavenworth, Kansas; his sisters, Teresa (Darcy) Ross, Edith (Karl) Neal, Alberta Nelson, Sheltel Nelson, all of Carbondale, Illinois, Catrina Wilson, Charlotte (Lamont) Taylor, and Joyce (Jason) Mckenzie, all of Kansas; his brothers, Eddie Payne, Richard Nelson, both of Carbondale, Illinois, Timmy (Autumn) Wilson, Jermaine (Jessica) Wilson, Jimmy Nelson III, James Nelson, and Joel Nelson, all of Leavenworth, Kansas; and a host of other family and friends.

He was preceded in death by his Grandparents, Aunts, Uncles, Nephews, and Cousins.

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Raymond G. Melhuish - October 25, 1940 - July 09, 2021

Departed: 07/09/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Raymond Melhuish was born on October 25, 1940 in Melbourne, Australia, to Robert and Edna Melhuish. He died peacefully, at his home on July 9, 2021, with his loving wife by his side.

At the age of 15 the wondering bug hit Young Ray and he begin to explore and work all over the continent. He drove road trains and operated heavy equipment for several years.

He enjoyed breaking horses, commercial fishing, dove for tropical fish, catching crocodiles, mustered cattle and bull catching.

Raymond came to the United States in 1990's, which was on his bucket list. He held several ranch managing jobs. In 1996 he met and later married his wife Karin. Together they owned and operated a horse hauling business, giving them the opportunity to travel to 48 different states, Canada, and Mexico.

Raymond leaves behind his wife; one sister; one half brother; one stepson; one stepdaughter; two grandsons; two brother-in-laws; one sister-in-law, and a host of nieces, nephews, and other relatives.

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Theresa M. Andrews - November 21, 1961 - June 04, 2021

Departed: 06/04/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Theresa Marie Andrews (Sissy Cupp) was born on November 21, 1961 in Washington, D.C., to Carlos Pruna and Mary Heinze. She made her grand entrance through the gates of Heaven at 2:24 AM on June 4, 2021 in Carbondale, IL.

Theresa accepted Christ into her life at an early age. She received her education in the North Carolina Public School System. Upon completing high school she did some traveling and met Melborne (Gene) Cupp. They got married and made their home in Elk City, OK. To this union two children were born, Tonya Travis and Gene Brooks Cupp. While in Elk City, OK she worked for the Elk City Regional Medical Center and Carls Jr., along with a couple other places throughout the years. Theresa also met and married Dave Andrews in Elk City. After Dave passed away, she moved to Southern Illinois to be closer to her mother. Theresa worked in the bakery at Walmart.

Theresa enjoyed spending time with her friends and family, playing the game of Farkle, taking long drives, fishing, reading, watching a good movie, and watching her favorite hummingbirds out on her porch.  She had a great love of animals, especially the cats she had over the years. Spending time with her grandkids was on the top of her list of favorite things.

She leaves to cherish her memories, her loving children, Tonya Travis of Rosebud, AR and Gene Brooks Cupp and wife Karlee of Elk City, OK; her mother, Mary Heinze of Herrin, IL; her father Carlos Pruna of Florida; her stepfather Royce Heinze of Herrin, IL; two sisters, Donna Griffin of Durham, NC and Michelle Pruna of Owensboro, KY; her grandchildren, Gabrielle Cupp, Chad Edsall, Grace Edsall, and Amillia Graham; and a host of other relatives and friends.

Theresa will be laid to rest in Elk City, OK at the Fairlawn Cemetery.

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Miguel A. Garcia - August 26, 1954 - May 27, 2021

Departed: 05/27/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Miguel Garcia, 66, passed away on Wednesday, May 27, 2021 peacefully, at his home. Miguel was born August 26, 1954 in Chicago, IL to Cornelio and Margarita Garcia

His is survived by his twin brother, Angel Garcia; and his sister, Lumi Garcia; song with a host of nieces, nephews and other relatives. He will be remembered fondly by his family and friends.

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Gary Behm - June 26, 1954 - May 12, 2021

Departed: 05/12/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Gary Behm was born on June 26, 1954 in Kewanee, IL, to Lawrence and Bernedean Behm.

Gary accepted Christ at an early age. He received his education in the Kewanee Public School System. Gary was the husband of Mrs. Tammy Behm, sharing 25 years of marriage.

He enjoyed spending time and raising his grandson Bryson of the last 10 years of his life. He also enjoyed tinkering with cars.

He held may jobs over the years lastly being employed at IKE Honda of Marion, IL. He loved working with his hands building and fixing just about anything.

He is survived by his wife of 25 years, Tammy Behm; his son, Gregory (Sarah) Behm of Shelbyville, KY; his daughter, Jennifer (Rustin) Shelly; his stepchildren, Chelsey Mensen, Alisha (Travis) Bierman, Tiffany (Jameson) Sanders; his grandchildren, Bryson, Blake, Paris, Mackenley, Malcom, Taitym, Jayce, Alli, Reagan, Isaiah, Braden, Eveiah, and Madilynn; and a host of other relatives and friends.

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Roderick E. Hudson - July 12, 1964 - May 05, 2021

Departed: 05/05/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Roderick was born to Evelyn and Thomas Hudson on July, 12 1954 in Cairo, Illinois. He was the youngest of nine siblings; Billy of St Mary, MO, Thomas (Janet) Hudson Jr. of Suffolk, VA, Darrell Hudson and Kevin Hudson of Carbondale, IL, Michael Hudson of Hampton , VA, Karen (Barry) of Murphysboro, IL, Barbara and Patronia of Carbondale, IL.

He graduated from Meridian High School in 1982 and lived in Illinois until his early 20's before relocating to Atlanta, GA. While in Atlanta, he worked several jobs before he came into trucking and freight, but once he discovered truck driving a passion was ignited. He would spend several years driving for various trucking companies before starting his own trucking company, Hustle Transport, LLC, in 2015. Roderick acquired a few trucks, a DOT number, and authority to haul freight. Roderick worked extremely hard to get his business up and running. He dedicated countless hours, days, nights, holidays and weekends to seeing his dreams come to fruition. He was relentless to have something to leave behind to his children. His dream was for everyone to see Hustle Transport trucks and trailers driving up and down expressways and roadways all over the U.S.A. A lot of his dreams were staring to be realized, but were unfortunately cut short when he was called home on May 5th, 2021. He was warm and endearing man, loved by all he came into contact with.

Roderick is survived by his four children, Courtland (Erica) Smith of Colorado Springs, CO, Zollie Harris of Atlanta, GA, Lawanda Hudson and Rodnesha Hudson of Atlanta, GA; grandchildren, Laila, Kailani, Kaeman all of Colorado Springs, CO, Zavion, Zareah, Zamora, Zymier Harris, all of Atlanta, GA.

Roderick was preceded in death by his maternal grandparents, Bura and Cherrie Robinson, paternal grandmother Irene Hurt, his father Thomas Hudson, and sister, Lawanda Hudson.

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LaKyrra R. Harvey - April 17, 1984 - April 24, 2021

Departed: 04/24/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: LaKyrra Rachelle Harvey was born on April 17, 1984, in Cairo, IL, to the union of Larry Harvey Sr. and Karen Hudson Harvey.

On Saturday, April 24, 2021, the Lord called her home, at the age of 37, to a place of rest and peace.

LaKyrra was educated in the Carbondale Public School System. She had numerous jobs within the city, last being employed by SIU Dietary Department.

LaKyrra professed her belief in the Lord at an early age. She attended Praise Outreach Ministries of Carbondale, IL, under the leadership of Pastor Brenda Holder.

She was a loving mother, sister, aunt, and friend. She enjoyed reading, listening to music, and dancing. She also enjoyed talking and visiting with her friends. While visiting, LaKyrra would talk and clean your entire house. She was a very generous and free-spirited individual.

She leaves to cherish her memories: her loving children, Mariyah Thomas, Ishanti, Makilah, and Isean Garner of Carbondale, IL; her mother, Mrs. Karen Harvey of Murphysboro, IL; one sister, LaKeba Hudson of Carbondale, IL; one brother, Larry Harvey Jr. of Carbondale, IL; grandmother , Evelyn Hudson of Carbondale, IL; three aunts, Barbara and Patronia Hudson of Carbondale, IL and Mary Dobson (Tony) of Millington, TN; seven uncles Billy Hudson of St. Mary, MO, Thomas (Janet) Hudson III of Suffolk, VA, Darrell and Kevin Hudson, both of Carbondale, IL, Michael Hudson of Hampton, VA, Roderick Hudson of Atlanta, GA and James (Carolyn) Harvey Jr. of Carbondale, IL; special nephews, Jarron Warren and Larry Harvey III; special cousins, Brandy and DeMika Hudson; special friends Ike Garner, Leesa Greer, and Shira Lewis.

LaKyrra was preceded in death by her father Larry Harvey Sr., her grandparents Thomas Hudson Jr., And James and Mary Harvey Sr., and great grandmother Cherrie Robinson.

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Gloria Jean Nunley - September 04, 1963 - March 25, 2021

Departed: 03/25/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Gloria Jean Nunley entered this world on September 4, 1963, to the late Mrs. Rosie Mae Alexander and Mr. Knox Nunley in Turrell, Arkansas. She was called home to glory on Thursday, March 25, 2021, at her residence in Carbondale, IL

Gloria moved to Southern Illinois as a young child with her Grandmother, Ms, Jackson, She attended and graduated from Carbondale Community High School in CArbondale, IL. Gloria was employed at CCS Rehabilitation Center for over 15 years. She later began a career as a caregiver to so many. She was employed by DOHRs and ADDUS healthcare, where she was able to take care of her loved ones. Gloria gave her life to Christ during adulthood at New Life COGIC in CArbondale, IL.

Gloria loved cooking for others. She was passionate about the love that she poured into her food. Her family enjoyed coming over on any given Sunday and Holiday to eat and fellowship. Gloria also loved shopping for clothes for her family and friends. She would always buy what someone needed, and not necessarily what they wanted.

Gloria loved to travel any chance she could get. She went on trips with her brother Jackie, visiting family in Arkansas. She also looked forward to traveling with her road dog, Mama Mary, to visit her best friend in Springfield, IL throughout the year.

Gloria was preceded in death by her parents; her grandparents; three sisters; Jean Thompson, Fannie Love, and Estella Love- Lewis; two brothers, Leon Miller and Kelly Nunley; a special niece, Lorraine Lawless; nephew, Quinton Lewis; and a special daughter Michelle Brown.

Gloria leaves to cherish her memories; her sister Jearline(Kevin) Tinsley; and two brothers, Samuel L. Nunley and Jackie L. Nunley, all of Carbondale, IL, a host of nieces, nephews, and other relatives; her best friend Joyce Ann Reese of Springfield, IL; two special friends, Bonita Hughes of Carbondale, IL and Mary Wright of Colp, IL; and her dog Prince.

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Robert A. "Bebop" Glasco - May 12, 1963 - February 28, 2021

Departed: 02/28/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Robert A. “Bebop” Glasco was born on May 12, 1963 in Charleston, MO, to William and Lacella Glasco.

Robert accepted Christ into his life at an early age. He received his education in Carbondale Public School System. Robert embarked into a beautiful journey with the love of his life, Lita Ray together, with love, they raised two daughters. Robert loved helping anyone he encountered.

As a young man he loved driving. While on that road, it allowed him to see many things, many places and meet many people. Robert’s passion was his family, later in life his desire for caring grew greater earning him lifelong friends along the way. Robert enjoyed, working on cars, moving furniture, working in the yard, and cooking. He also appreciated sitting outside with his wife, visiting his family while listening to music, and watching his grand children grow. Robert had an art for telling stories and giving people knowledgeable information. To know Robert was a life enhancing experience.

On the evening of Sunday, February 28, 2021 at 6:52pm., God called home one of his greatest soldiers. Robert’s work on this earth has been completed, leaving behind a legacy of guidance and love. Now he is resting in the arms of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. He was preceded in death by his mother, father, several aunts, uncles, and cousins.

He leaves to cherish his memories his Loving  Wife, Lita Ray Glasco of Murphysboro, IL; His two daughters, Tiffney Glasco (Rico) of Carbondale, IL; Daffney Glasco (Jay) Elerby of Murphysboro, IL; His siblings, Shirley (Robert) Kent of Carbondale, IL; Johnny (Joyce) Glasco of South  Bend, IN; Terry Glasco of South Bend, IN; Norman Glasco of Montegomery, AL; Joe Scott of Carbondale, IL; Russell Scott of South Bend, IN; Sonny Glasco and Tony Glasco of Springfield, IL, 10 grandchildren, and a host of other relatives and friends.

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Paul V. Trosclair - August 19, 1953 - February 21, 2021

Departed: 02/21/2021 (Carbondale)

Obituary Preview: Paul V. Trosclair, 67, departed this life on Sunday, February 21, 2021 at Memorial Hospital of Carbondale.

He was born on August 19, 1953 to Virgus and Laverne (Kraus) Trosclair in Melrose Park, IL.

Paul was an adventuresome soul with a love for travel, he was a gentle soul with a vibrant personality and a gift to make others around him laugh and feel good. His creativity and whimsical musings will live on in his works of art and craftsmanship.

Paul will be remembered with deep love and fondness by his wife of 31 years, Nora Tuhey; two sisters, Phyllis Dewey and Patricia Trosclair; two brothers, Joseph and John Trosclair. His memory will also live on through his other relatives and friends.

A private service will be held at a later date.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and surviving relatives.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a permanent record of the person's life and legacy.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving relatives. It may also include information about the funeral or memorial service.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The submission process varies depending on the publication or platform. You can usually find guidelines on their website or by contacting their customer service department.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, word count, and additional features such as photos or online memorials. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to several hundred dollars.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life is remembered exactly as you want it to be.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. It's often used when a full obituary is not desired or feasible.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing a person's death and providing biographical information. A eulogy is a speech or written tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service to celebrate the person's life and legacy.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the deceased. Including humorous anecdotes or quotes can make the tribute more engaging and memorable.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If the deceased had sensitive or private information they wouldn't want shared publicly, it's best to omit it from the obituary or consult with family members before including it.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Yes, this is a common practice. By specifying a charity or cause in the obituary, you can encourage mourners to make a donation in memory of the deceased instead of sending flowers.

How long after death should an obituary be published?

The timing of publishing an obituary varies depending on cultural and personal preferences. Typically, it's published within a few days to a week after the person's passing.

Can I update or correct an already published obituary?

In most cases, yes. Contact the publication or online platform where the obituary was published to request changes or corrections.

What is an online memorial or tribute page?

An online memorial or tribute page is a digital space where friends and family can share memories, photos, and condolences for the deceased. It can remain active for years to come.

Can I create my own online memorial page?

Yes, there are many websites and platforms that allow you to create a custom online memorial page for your loved one.

How do I find old obituaries from past decades?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers, genealogy websites, or local libraries. Some websites specialize in archiving historical obituaries.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an obituary for someone who was young or died suddenly?

Yes. When writing an obituary for someone who died young or suddenly, it's essential to be sensitive to the emotional impact on their loved ones. Focus on celebrating their life and accomplishments rather than dwelling on the circumstances of their death.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, poems, or lyrics that resonate with the deceased's personality or spirit can add depth and meaning to the tribute.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?