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Sonia Ann Heim - August 01, 1983 - May 14, 2024

Departed: 05/14/2024 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Sonia Heim, 40, of Vernon, beloved daughter of Timothy and Kathleen (Wilson) Heim, passed from this world on Tuesday, May 14, 2024. She was born in Rockville, CT on August 1, 1983. A cherished daughter, mother, and sister, Sonia dedicated her life to helping others. Her caring spirit was most at home in time spent with her family and appreciating the beauty of nature and its animal creatures. Sonia operated her own practice, Pawsitive Thoughts Counseling, for many years where her therapy dog was instrumental in assisting her clients in supportive therapy to achieve their goals. Sonia was also an avid runner and often participated in races held at her favorite venue, Disney World. Her kindhearted and giving spirit and her unfailing sense of humor will be deeply missed by the countless lives she touched. In addition to her parents, Timothy and Kathleen of Ellington, Sonia is survived by her son, Levi Timothy Walker; and her brothers, Timothy Heim, Jr. of Ellington and Dereck Heim and his wife Denise of Cleveland, GA. All services will be held privately. In honor of Sonia's memory, donations can be made to Dakin Humane Society by visiting www.dakinhumane.com or a local animal rescue of the donor's choice. For online condolences, please visit www.somersfuneralhome.com.

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Marjorie N. Johnson - February 18, 1931 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Somers)

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Nancy E. Yoho - April 10, 1948 - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Nancy E. Yoho, 75, of Ellington, peacefully passed away on Friday, March 29, 2024, in the comfort of her home. She was born in Clarksburg, WV, on April 10, 1948, the daughter of the late John Flaherty and Thelma Eileen (Pigott) Moore. Nancy spent her formative years in West Virginia before relocating to Ellington.

Throughout her career, Nancy worked diligently for various telephone companies, dedicating many years of service before retiring.

Nancy was a devout member of the Somers Baptist Church, where she found solace, community, and purpose. Her faith was a guiding light throughout her life, bringing her comfort and strength.

She is survived by her loving husband of 56 years, Terry Yoho, her son David Yoho and his wife Megan, and her cherished grandchildren Alexander and Molly Yoho. Nancy is also survived by her siblings: Vince Flaherty, Olivia Shuttleworth, and Linda Bethmann, along with several nieces and nephews.

Friends and family are invited to pay their respects on Wednesday, April 3, from 4-5 pm at the Somers Funeral Home, located at 354 Main St. in Somers. A service honoring Nancy's life will follow at 5 pm. A burial will be held at a later date in Clarksburg, WV.

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Cecilia Babij - August 30, 1946 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: It is with great sadness, we announce the loss of Cecilia L. (Powder) Babij. Ceil was born on August 30, 1946 to the late Jesse L. Powder and Cecilia M. (Samski) Powder in Baltimore, Maryland. Ceil received her bachelor’s degree from the University of Mississippi (Ole Miss) and completed her master’s degree in education from the University of Connecticut (UConn) in 1975. She spent 32 years as a classroom teacher educating and nurturing children to become the best they could be. Her classroom was built on kindness and respect for others. Ceil’s career as a teacher was fun and rewarding. She often remarked that she hoped all teachers would experience the same wonderful reward of working in the classroom with children as she did. Teachers know the only secret to that success is to find time for what Ceil considered the really important “STUFF”!! Ceil is survived by Michael P. Babij, her husband of 53 years, and her amazing daughter and son-in-law, Stacey L. and Michael J. Flynn of Somers, CT. She also leaves a wonderful brother and “sis-in-law,” Clayton and Linda Powder of Deatsville, Alabama. Ceil’s brightest stars in the sky are her cherished grandchildren, Gracie Lee Cecilia and Gavin Michael Joseph Flynn of Somers. Ceil defined true love and total happiness as time spent with her “Grands”! Ceil will be watching over her Gs and supporting them by sharing their sorrows as well as celebrating their joys! In Ceil’s honor, always find the good in people, support each other in your daily life, and do random acts of kindness whenever you get the opportunity. A fond farewell (in ABC order) to some of the many fun friends Ceil enjoyed over the years – Auntie, Auntie Shell, Beulah, Gagee, Granny, Martha, Mseburns, Mo-Ho, One L., and Ruby! They know who they are! (Lunches out, shopping buddies, and much more)!

As per Ceil’s request, there will be no calling hours. Relatives and Friends may join the family for a Mass of Christian Burial on Friday, March 15, 2024 at 1:00 p.m. at Holy Family Church, 23 Simon Rd., Enfield. Burial will be private and held at the convenience of the family. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. For online condolences, please visit www.leetestevens.com.

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Henry H. Broer - May 17, 1932 - February 20, 2024

Departed: 02/20/2024 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Henry H. Broer, 91 of Somers, CT died on February 20, 2024, at home surrounded by his family and loving wife Patricia of over 63 years. He was born in Brooklyn, NY. His family moved to Somers in the 1940’s. The Korean War, in which he served in the Air Force from 1952 – 1956, interrupted his education. He was a graduate of American International College in 1958, and continued with graduate studies at the City University of New York from 1958 -1963. His thesis studies were in Psychopharmacology. While attending graduate school, he was a Research Assistant at Maimonides Medical Center.

For almost 30 years he was a Clinical Chemist in the Department of Pathology at Baystate Medical Center in Springfield, MA, retiring in 1995. During his tenure there he was also Technical Director of Clinical Chemistry and Hematology. Prior to his appointment at Baystate Health he was Chief Medical Technologist at Citizens General Hospital in New Kensington, PA for 4 years. He was a member of the American Association of Clinical Chemistry, a past member of The American Association for the Advancement of Science, the New York Academy of Sciences and the Korean War Veterans Association.

Following retirement, he did many years of volunteer work at the Computer Center at the JCC in Longmeadow, MA. He was a member of the Town of Somers School Building Committee, and the Conservation Commission. He and his wife enjoyed their years of retirement with travel across the U.S. and Europe and several cruises. They visited all 50 states; their visits to Idaho and the northwest were especially memorable.

He leaves a wife of 63 years, Patricia Lyons Broer, 4 sons, Christopher and his wife, Angela of Myrtle Point, OR, Michael and his wife, Lisa of Chicopee, MA, Stephen and his wife, Colleen of Monroe CT, and David and his wife, Andrea of Ashford, CT; 6 grandchildren, Jacob, Kaitlyn, Aidan, Benjamin, Mary Beth and John who were the joy of his life. He was predeceased by his father Herman in 1932, and his mother and stepfather, Susie and Barney Schleinhege, and by his sister, Helen Clark of Somers.

Calling hours will be Sunday February 25, from 1-4 pm at the Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main St., Somers. Funeral services will be held Monday morning, February 26, at 9:30 am from the funeral home with a procession to St. Mary’s Church, 27 Somers Rd, Hampden, MA for the Liturgy of Christian Burial at 11:00 am. Following the Mass, Henry will be laid to rest in Somers Center Cemetery. For online condolences, please visit www.somersfuneralhome.com.

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Melissa Jane Rockett-Silverstone - May 22, 1956 - February 12, 2024

Departed: 02/12/2024 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Melissa Jane Rockett Silverstone died recently at her home in Emerald Isle, NC. She was previously a resident of Somers, CT and Woodbridge, CT. She leaves behind her beloved children Elise of Mt. Pleasant, SC and Jared of Irvine, CA as well as Jared's wife Jenna and their newborn daughter Penelope. She also leaves her former husband, Philip Silverstone, with whom she continued to share a mutual love of their children. Siblings John and wife Maria, Cynthia and husband Francis, Andrew and wife Martha, Todd and wife Jill and Jody and husband Wesley are left to remember Melissa. She was also survived by many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents, John and Charlotte, as well as her brothers Peter and Phillip. Melissa's greatest achievement, as well as her greatest joy, was raising her two children. She shared in all their childhood adventures, and raised them with great love to become the thoughtful and caring adults they are today. Melissa earned a BSN from the University of Connecticut School of Nursing and worked at the UConn hospital as a medical surgical nurse prior to the birth of her children. She earned two Master's degrees, from California State University and Fairfield University, and became an Advanced Practice Registered Nurse. After her children were grown, Melissa devoted her time to working at various clinics that served disadvantaged and vulnerable populations.

A service in memory of her life will be held at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main St. Somers, Connecticut at 2:00 p.m. on Saturday March 9, 2024.

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Clara Irene Kuca - January 28, 1922 - January 14, 2024

Departed: 01/14/2024 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Clara I. Kuca “Irene”(Meyer), 101, of Somers CT, wife of the late Stephen Kuca, passed away peacefully at her home on Sunday, January 14, 2024. She was born in Rockville, CT on January 28, 1922,to Henry and Mary (Luetjen) Meyer. She and her husband Stephen, to whom she was married for 54 years moved to Somers in 1956. They owned and operated the former Kuca Dairy Farm on Watchaug Road, Somers. Irene was an independent woman who was a passionate golfer and a lifetime member of Elm Crest Country Club, where she was a member of the Woman Golf League. She was also the first woman hired at Minterburn Mill in Rockville, CT where she worked before marrying her beloved Steve. She is survived by two sisters, Marilyn Yedziniak, of Willington and Kathleen Wasilefsky, of Ellington. Irene was adored by her numerous nieces and nephews whom she thought of as her own, who all loved her very much. Her door was always open, and they all felt like she was a second mother. She had a special bond with her nephew Darren Ouellette whom she made her home with. She was predeceased by her siblings, Russell Meyer, Ernest Meyer, and Helen Meyer. Relatives and friends may join the family for a calling hour on Thursday, January 18, 2024, from 11 am -12 pm at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main St, Somers. A Funeral Home service will take place at 12:00 pm, burial will follow at Somers Center Cemetery. For online condolences please visit www.somersfuneralhome.com

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Gloria Jean Kusia-Kondracki - September 26, 1957 - January 10, 2024

Departed: 01/10/2024 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Gloria Jean Kusia – Kondracki, age 66, of Somers, passed away on January 10, 2024, at Johnson Memorial Medical Center in Stafford. She was the beloved wife of Anthony Kondracki for almost 37 years.

Born in Stafford, Gloria was the daughter of the late Anthony and Stefney (Suleski) Kusia. She lived nearly her entire life in Somers, where she became a cherished member of the community. Gloria began her career at Pratt & Whitney, dedicating 10 years to the company. Later, she transitioned to a fulfilling role as a Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA), working at Kimberly Hall, Suffield House, Vernon Manor, and serving as a compassionate home health aide for Interim Healthcare.

Gloria's caring nature extended beyond people to her love for animals. She was a true animal lover, showing kindness and compassion to all creatures. Additionally, she found joy in dancing at her local favorite hang-out, Joanna's Restaurant in Somers.

She is survived by her loving husband, Anthony Kondracki, and their daughter, Melissa Kusia of Somers. Gloria also leaves behind her sister, Pauline Spingola, and her husband, Reginald of Somers, and four step-children. She was predeceased by her brother, Henry Kusia.

A funeral service to celebrate Gloria's life will be held at 11 AM on Friday, January 19, with visitation taking place one hour prior from 10 to 11 AM at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main St., Somers.

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Richard Clifford - September 28, 1932 - December 28, 2023

Departed: 12/28/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Richard Clifford, aged 91, passed away, Thursday, December 28, 2023, after a long illness. He was born in Glasgow, Scotland, UK, on September 28, 1932. He earned a degree in Mechanical Engineering and was an accomplished draftsman. He served 2 years in the UK National Service, in Malaysia, in the Royal Army Service Corps, Intelligence Division. He moved to the United States in 1964 with his family. He was a member of the Sheet Metal Workers Union Local #40, Hartford, CT for over 50 years. Richard was passionate about the Ukelele and played for the Glastonbury Ukelele Club for 15 years. He was pre-deceased by his parents, Edward and Catherine (Cunningham) Clifford, 2 brothers, Jack Cronin and Edward Clifford. He is survived by his wife Mary C. (McMahon) Clifford, his daughters, Elaine Clifford and Annette Clifford Bowes and his 2 granddaughters, Nicole L. Mitchell and Eliza M. Bowes, his 2 sisters, Maureen Johnson of Anne Arbor Michigan and Veronica Clifford of London, UK. Richard’s family wishes to thank all members of Chestnut Hill, East Longmeadow, Massachusetts, for his care and well-being during his illness. All Services will be held privately at the convenience of the family. For online condolences please visit Somersfuneralhome.com

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Jenifer B. Charette - December 02, 1962 - December 23, 2023

Departed: 12/23/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Jenifer B. Charette, 61, of Somers, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her loving family on December 23, 2023. She was the beloved wife of Keith M. Charette, and a loving mother, daughter, and nana. Born in Hartford, CT on December 2, 1962, Jenifer was the daughter of Janet (Semanie) Bowers and the late Richard Bowers. She was a lifelong resident of Somers.

Jenifer was a woman of many passions and talents, with an infectious smile and spirit. As an accomplished artist, she expressed herself through her creative works that touched the hearts of those around her. She found joy in cultivating beautiful gardens, capturing life's moments through photography, and exploring the world through her love of travel.

Jenifer had a deep love for music and sports, with a special soft spot for track & field. She was a passionate, lifelong Celtics & Red Sox fan, through the good and the bad seasons. Her love for track & field was on full display coaching the town’s youth track and field program as well as competing in the senior circuit.

Jen also loved to attend her children’s sporting events, sitting on the sidelines in the freezing cold to watch a soccer match or catching a weekend football game. The winter found her in the school gym attending and coaching countless basketball games. Spring brought baseball, track and bags of peanuts. No matter the sport or distance, Jen was there to cheer on her children all the way through college.

She shared her love of music with family and friends, whether singing and playing guitar or attending countless concerts and music festivals with good friends. Never forgetting to share her experiences seeing the Eagles at the Yale Bowl or The Rolling Stones in Philly.

Jen will be deeply missed by her devoted husband, Keith, and their two children, Aaron Charette and wife Mia of Monson, MA, and Kelsey Charette of Somers. Jenifer also leaves behind her two grandchildren, William and Ava and her mother, Janet Bowers, of Cape Cod. Jenifer was predeceased by her father, Richard Bowers, and her brother, Paul Bowers.

Friends and family are invited to pay their respects during the visitation on Friday, January 5, from 4-7 pm at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main St., Somers.

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Donna Chesanek - November 15, 1937 - December 15, 2023

Departed: 12/15/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Donna Strode Chesanek was the beloved wife of the late Joseph Andrew Chesanek and mother of nine children. One of five children born to the late Thomas and Nora (Richardson) Strode, she enjoyed a happy childhood in Gillett, AR.

Donna enjoyed a distinguished career with the FBI from 1958 to 1963 where she worked as a secretary to Agent Jamie S. Johnson under J. Edgar Hoover, the Director of the FBI. She was very proud of her service to the Bureau and won several awards. Director Hoover was impressed with her service and her character and wrote a personal letter to Donna’s parents congratulating them and commending them on raising such a fine daughter. She resigned in 1963 after the birth of her first child, but maintained the relationships she developed among the members of her FBI family throughout her life. Donna’s deep love of her Catholic faith guided her daily life as she answered the call to love God and her family. Donna was deeply pro-life, and for many years spent an hour each week in adoration of Our Lord at St. Martha Catholic Church Eucharistic Adoration Chapel praying for the unborn and her family. To deepen her spiritual life, she became a member of the Lay Fraternity of St. Dominic. She exemplified the words of her motto, “be good, be kind, be holy.”

Donna enjoyed tending to her vegetable garden and it was her interest in nutrition and living a healthy lifestyle that led her to study pre-med at Arkansas A&M, at which time she was recruited to work at the Federal Bureau of Investigation in Washington, D.C.

Donna is survived by her nine children, Hope C. Johnson (Bill), Marcus A. Chesanek, Faith A. Gouveia, Donna R. Graziano (Dave), Marie L. Dawson, Theresa C. Prior (Dennis), Christopher J. Chesanek (Amy) and Charity C.M. Chesanek, Michael A. Chesanek, 21 grandchildren, and 3 great-grandchildren as well as a brother, Joseph Strode (Carolyn) and a sister, Joyce Woodson (John) and several beloved nieces and nephews. She is preceded in death by her husband, parents, brother Leon Strode and sister Shirley Strode Fondren.

The family extends its deepest appreciation for the devoted care from the staff at Silver Linings Home Care, Interim Healthcare, and Baystate Hospice whose kindness and support added so much to her quality of life. Memorial donations can be made to St. Jeanne Jugan Parish - St. Martha Catholic Church in Enfield, CT, St. Mary Catholic Church in Hampden, MA, and Baystate Hospice. Visitation will be at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main Street, Somers, CT from 9:00 am - 11:00 am on Friday, December 22, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Hampden, MA, 27 Somers Road, Hampden, MA at 12:00 pm. Donna will join her husband in a private burial at a later date at the Massachusetts Veterans Memorial Cemetery in Agawam, MA. For online condolences, please visit www.somersfuneralhome.com

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Eugene T. Benson - August 19, 1960 - December 12, 2023

Departed: 12/12/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: The Al Held Foundation mourns the death of Eugene “Gene” Benson, an artist and the longtime studio assistant of painter Al Held and later studio manager of the Al Held Foundation. Benson died on December 12, 2023, in Boiceville, New York at age 63.

Born and raised in Connecticut, Benson called the Catskills his home ever since he took a job working in Held’s Boiceville painting studio in 1992. A devoted craftsman and talented artist, Benson played a significant role in the creation of Held’s paintings, some of which are on permanent display in prominent museums around the country. Benson became the collection manager of the successor Al Held Foundation after Held died in 2005 and participated in the posthumous installation of major public art projects including a 60-foot painting at the Jacksonville Public Library and a 50-foot stained-glass window at the federal courthouse in Orlando.

Born August 19, 1960, Benson was one of four children. A natural facility for drawing emerged in his youth, and after graduating Somers (CT) High School in 1978, he attended Paier College of Art to study illustration. After one year, seeking adventure, he enlisted in the U.S. Army, training in Fort Knox as a tank driver and later deploying in Germany. After two years of service, Benson reenrolled in Paier to intensively study drawing and painting, studying with recent Yale MFA graduates Sarah Schuster and Jeffrey Carr. He earned a diploma in 1985.

To establish himself as a young artist he worked for a machine shop and a construction company several days a week while painting landscapes during his free time. In an interview he recalled devising a practice of driving into the country after work and painting en plein air as the sun set into the darkness to surprise himself with the unseen results. The course of Benson’s life altered one weekend in 1990, when he first visited Held’s studio where the friend of a friend worked. Benson immediately fell for Held’s huge palette of acrylic paints lining the wall and submitted his name for the next open position. The call came two years later. Benson continued to maintain his personal art practice and his oil paintings grew increasingly abstracted and structured through his fascination with the modernism of Arthur Dove. He exhibited to critical acclaim in numerous group shows in galleries and museums in Connecticut, the Hudson Valley, and New York City, and had a solo exhibition of his colorful landscapes at Imogen Holloway Gallery, Saugerties, New York. New York Times critic Vivien Raynor praised Benson’s “richly painted view of a village street” displayed at the Stamford Museum in 1989. In the Poughkeepsie Journal, Linda Marston-Reid singled out his work in a group show at the Holloway Gallery in 2014: “Tremper Mountain may be small in size, but the presence of color and shapes is monumental, like the surrounding mountains.”

In recent years, as the Al Held Foundation expanded its public and educational programs, Benson assisted with the presentation of a range of contemporary artists and students installing artwork on the property. He has also led hands-on workshops for students and artists, teaching the techniques of “painting with tape” employed by the Held studio. Standing six foot nine, he wowed onlookers with his graceful wingspan bending and guiding tape into the signature curves and geometric shapes found in Held’s paintings. Benson’s exquisite touch and aesthetic sensibility enriched the property and visitor experience.

Gene is survived by two sisters, Regina Skinner of Somers, CT and Norma Benson Lussier of Somers, CT and brother-in-law, Karl Fleck of Somers, CT as well as nieces and nephews, Luke Lussier, Bethany Dillen, Erich Fleck, Hillary Skinner and Garrett Skinner. He also leaves leaves a dear friend, Mara Held. He was predeceased by his parents, Eugene A. and Hildegarde (Thoben) Benson as well as his sister, Roberta (Benson) Fleck. Eugene's family will receive family and friends on Thursday, December 28, 2023 from 3-5 pm at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main Street, Somers, CT. Burial will be at the convenience of the family. For online condolences, please visit www.somersfuneralhome.com

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Richard A. Stolarz - April 24, 1930 - November 21, 2023

Departed: 11/21/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Richard Anthony Stolarz, 93, of Ellington, peacefully passed away on November 21, 2023 surrounded by loved ones. His battle with a recent multitude of medical issues showed his courage in facing life challenges with optimism and tenacity. Despite these obstacles, Richard stayed strong until the end. Richard was born on April 24, 1930, in Rockville, Connecticut. His parents were Polish immigrants who lovingly and successfully raised their nine children on a farm in Ellington. Richard would entertain us with many stories about growing up on their farm on Jobs Hill Road. He and his best friend Tony, would walk to school a mile down the road before classes started so that they could block off the chimney and smoke up the classroom. Of course, to their delight, school would be cancelled. Even though the family was of limited means, Richard did have a bicycle. He was so protective of that bicycle, he would “plant” a pebble on the seat to ensure it wasn’t being ridden by one of his siblings. Richard attended Rockville High School where he was a member of the football team and graduated in

1948. Richard met Maria Sacuta, a petite and pretty Polish immigrant at a Polish picnic in Springfield, Massachusetts. He was smitten and they dated for a time. In 1951, Richard was drafted into the United States Army to serve in the Korean War. He proudly and bravely served from July 11, 1951 to May 11, 1953 when he was honorably discharged. After returning home, Richard and Maria were married on May 31, 1955. Together, they had 67 wonderful years of marriage. Richard and Maria lived in Springfield, Massachusetts before he realized his dream of moving back to the farm in Ellington. In 1968 and 1969, he built their home on a parcel of land at the Stolarz homestead. He was the ultimate handyman and did most of the work on the house by himself. Without a doubt, his house was his pride and joy. He enjoyed walking in the woods and going to the pond where he and his brothers and sisters would skate as children. His favorite pastimes were playing golf, and watching football. Richard and his wife enjoyed traveling to destinations in Maine, Florida, California, New Mexico, Colorado, Nova Scotia and St John, USVI. Richard was a great father who reared his four daughters with great pride, affection and good judgment. He graduated from Hillyer College, Ward School of Electronics in 1956 and worked for Hamilton Standard from 1959 until his retirement in 1991. Richard cherished his Polish heritage and he and Maria were fortunately able to visit his family in Poland on two occasions. The pride he felt for his ethnicity and Catholic faith parallels the patriotism that he embraced for his country.

In addition to his wife Maria, he leaves his daughter, Mary Ann Gambacorta and her husband, Vincent, his daughter, Debra Snow and her husband, Michael, his daughter Diane Stolarz, his daughter Elizabeth Stolarz, his grandchildren, Kevin (and wife Sarah) and Kimberly Gambacorta, Natalie Snow, and Samuel Wysocki, and his great grandchildren, Tyla, Kolton, and Kody Gambacorta. He is survived by his sister, Gertrude Persano. He is predeceased by his parents, Anthony and Sophie, sisters, Emma Stolarz, Phyllis Stolarz, Evelyn Stolarz, Mary Jane DeLisa and Elizabeth Nebelsky and brothers Henry and Theodore “Teddy”. He also leaves his dear friend, his “buddy,” Tony Dombek who remained his best friend for nearly ninety years. Relatives and friends are welcome to join the family for visitation from 9:30 to 11 am on Wednesday, November 29 at the Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main St (Rt. 190), Somers.  A funeral service will follow the visitation at 11 am.  Richard will be laid to rest with Military Honors at Ellington Center Cemetery. For online condolences, please visit www.somersfuneralhome.com

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Janice P Holmes - January 15, 1928 - November 21, 2023

Departed: 11/21/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Janice Lucy Holmes, 95, of Somers, beloved widower of Roger B. Holmes,died on Tuesday, November 21, 2023. She was born January 15, 1928 in Willimantic to Roland and Elmyra (Patterson) Powe. An avid music lover, she was a long time violinist who played for several orchestras for many area churches, senior centers and nursing homes. She was also a long time member of several, choirs and choral groups at local churches, including The United Methodist Church of Enfield. Janice, along with her husband, was very involved in the 4-H Club in the area. She was also a big fan of the UCONN Women's Basketball Team. Janice was a 12th generation direct descendent of Mayflower passenger, Stephen Hopkins. She was an active member of the Massachusetts Society of Mayflower descendents which she was very proud. Janice is survived by her children; her daughter, Dr. Cynthia Holmes-Bacon of Mesa, AZ; her son, Curt R. Holmes and his wife Charissa of Ellington; her grandchildren, Cassandra and Colin Holmes of Ellington; a sister, Priscilla Stetson of Griswold and 3 nieces. Besides her husband Roger who passed in 1995, she was predeceased by her son Craig R. Holmes in 2008. Relatives and friends may join the family on Monday, November 27, 2023 from 3 - 6 pm at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main St., Somers. A Funeral Home Service will take place on Tuesday, November 28, 2023 at 10:00 am. Burial will follow in New Willimantic Cemetery, Willimantic. Please consider memorial donations in Janice's memory to The United Methodist Church of Enfield, 41 Brainard Rd, Enfield, CT 06082. For online condolences please visit Somersfuneralhome.com

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Christi V Oswell - August 19, 1966 - November 19, 2023

Departed: 11/19/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Christi Valerie Oswell, 57, of Somers, passed away on Sunday, November 19, 2023 at her home. Born in Hartford, CT on August 19, 1966, she was the daughter of Marilyn (Kibbe) Oswell and the late George Oswell and was a lifelong resident of Somers. Christi worked in the food service industry for Blair Manor and also worked many years at LEGO. In her leisure time, she enjoyed cooking for family and friends, loved to shop online, and was a sports collectibles enthusiast. Above all else, she loved spending time with her family, especially her nieces and nephews. Besides her mother Marilyn Oswell, she leaves her partner, Paul Cormier; 5 siblings, G. Lee Oswell and partner Beverly Clements, Ronald Oswell and his wife Sue, Jay Oswell and partner Sue Chadbourne, Jill Bower and her husband Karl, and Tammy Gowash and her husband Ken; as well as many nieces, nephews and cousins. Services will be held privately. Donations can be made to Somers Ambulance, 400 Main St. Somers CT 06071. For online condolences, please visit www.somersfuneralhome.com.

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Jacqueline Ann DiFronzo - May 28, 1943 - November 04, 2023

Departed: 11/04/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Jacqueline Ann DiFronzo (Jackie), 80, of Somers, beloved wife of John C. DiFronzo, Jr., passed away on Saturday, November 4, 2023, at Hartford Hospital surrounded by her family.

Jackie was born in Hartford, CT on May 28, 1943, she was the daughter of the late James and Anna (Digan) Little and grew up in East Hartford, CT, before moving to Hartford, CT with her family. John and Jackie married in 1962 and settled in Somers where she raised her family.

Jackie loved being a mom and raising her 5 children. She enjoyed being part of the Brownies with her daughters and watching her sons in Midget Football and High School sports. She was active in a local Day Care before being employed by AETNA Life & Casualty.

If Jackie loved being a mom she was over the moon when she became a grandmother. You could find Jackie every Sunday with a house full of family and grandchildren. Her children, grandchildren and great granddaughter made her heart full.

Besides her husband John, she leaves 5 children, John DiFronzo, III of West Springfield, Jeffrey DiFronzo and his wife Karen of Enfield, Jennifer DiFronzo of Enfield, Justina Girouard and her husband David of Enfield, and Jessica DiFronzo and partner Chris Norton of Enfield; 6 grandchildren, Nicholas DiFronzo and partner Alison Perreault, Zachary DiFronzo and partner Maria Aritan, Brianna DiFronzo and fiancé Vincent Scaficchia, Morgan DiFronzo, and Julianna and Joseph Girouard, and great-granddaughter, Adelyne Grace DiFronzo; her brother, John Little and his wife Carole, of Navarre, FL; her sister, Mary Ann Tobin of Enfield, CT; and several nieces and nephews. Besides her parents, she was predeceased by her brothers James Little, Jr. Mark Little, and her sister Margaret Greene.

Relatives and friends may call on Thursday, November 9, from 6:00-8:00 PM at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main St., Somers, CT. Burial will be private. For online condolences, please visit www.somersfuneralhome.com.

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Selma M. Ruggiero - June 21, 1933 - October 18, 2023

Departed: 10/18/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Selma M. Ruggiero, 90, of Somers, formerly of Stamford, passed away peacefully surrounded by her family at home on Wednesday, October 18, 2023. Born and raised in Stamford, CT on June 21, 1933, she was the daughter of the late Clinton H. Parker and Elsie (Noack) Parker. Selma joined the family business, Parker Travel Service and worked with her family until her retirement. She was an avid bowler, a member of the German-American Club in Stamford, and also sang in many choirs throughout her life. She is survived by her daughter, Susan Hogan, her stepdaughter, Margaret Ann Tytor, and niece Judith Cohen. She was blessed with four grandchildren, Rachel Hetzer, Amy Forney, Jessica Daley and Matthew Hogan and six great grandchildren, Timothy Little Jr, Caitlin Little, Auryn Daley, Shelton Forney Jr, Cameron Forney, and Reese Forney. She was predeceased by her beloved brother, Robert N. Parker. A loving wife, devoted mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, and friend, she will be missed by so many family and friends. A celebration of her life will take place at a later date. Memorial donations may be made to Hartford Healthcare Hospice at Home, 1290 Silas Deane Highway, Suite 4B, Wethersfield, CT 06109. For online condolences, please visit www.somersfuneralhome.com.

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Darryl A Anderson - June 25, 1944 - October 01, 2023

Departed: 10/01/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Darryl A. Anderson, 79, of Somers, died on Sunday October 1, 2023 at Manchester Memorial Hospital. He was born in Stafford on June 25, 1944 to Adolph and Ruth (Smith) Anderson. After graduating Somers High School, Darryl proudly served in the US Army during the Vietnam War as a medic. He received the National Defense Service Medal, Vietnam Campaign Medal, Vietnam Service Medal and a Good Conduct Medal. He enjoyed golfing, camping and bowling but especially loved his family who reside close by on the Anderson Compound. Darryl retired from the former LR Hawthorne in Enfield after 30 years of truck driving which he absolutely loved. Darryl is survived by his daughters; Carol Mairano and her husband Richard of Trumbull, Lori Franklin and her fiancé Michael Clougherty of Somers; his brother Kenneth Anderson and his wife Betty of Somers; his sisters, Arlene Haughn and her husband Robert of Somers, Beverly DeLorge and her husband Kenneth of Somers; his grandchildren, Ryan and BrittanyMairano of Trumbull; his sister in law Cynthia Anderson of Somers and numerous nieces and nephews. Besides his wife Judith who died in 2010, he was predeceased by his brother Ralph Anderson. Relatives and friends may join the family on Thursday, October 5, 2023 from 4-7pm at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main St, Somers. A Funeral Service will be held at 10:00 am on Friday, October 6, 2023 at The Somers Congregational Church, 599 Main St, Somers. (Please meet directly at Church). Burial will follow at Somers West Cemetery. Please consider a donation in Darryl’s memory to the Somers Volunteer Fire Department, 400 Main St, Somers, CT 06071 For online condolences please visit Somersfuneralhome.com

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Anthony A. Scussel - December 11, 1942 - September 16, 2023

Departed: 09/16/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Anthony A. "Tony" Scussel, age 80, of Stafford Springs, Connecticut, passed away peacefully on September 16, 2023. A loving husband, father, and grandfather (“Gampa”), Tony was a lifelong resident of Stafford Springs and made a considerable impact on his community. Tony married his high school sweetheart, Roseann, and the couple shared a loving, 60-year marriage wherein they raised two children, Anthony and Angela. In his early days as a father, Tony was an avid fly-fisherman and an enthusiastic Little League coach for both of his children; today, they fondly recall his loud, sometimes disruptive--but always well-intentioned--support for them on the sidelines. With his talent for arranging flowers, he founded The Growth Company in 1979 and managed it tirelessly ever since, growing it into the Enfield institution it is today and brightening countless homes and events with his creations.

Tony was known for his remarkable dedication and drive, continuing to run the business into his eighties and also previously serving as President of both the Italian Club and Rotary Club of Stafford. Despite working long hours all week, he never missed Friday night dancing at Joanna’s Restaurant. His fun-loving spirit also shone through the many trips he took with Roseann, his golf outings with the “Fab Four”, his extravagant Halloween costumes that entertained his grandkids growing up, and his memorable Fourth of July pool parties with friends and family. Underneath the fierceness with which he supported his family—whether on the sidelines of sports games, at weddings and graduations, or through challenging times---was a heart of gold, and often a handmade bouquet to go along with it.

He is survived by his wife, Roseann (Sartori) Scussel; his sister, Elaine Hobart; his son, Anthony C. Scussel, and his wife, Darly Scussel; his daughter, Angela Alton, and her husband, Sean Alton; and his two granddaughters, Hannah Alton and Eve Alton, and two step-grandchildren, Pierre-Carly Desilier and Fritz-Carly Andre. Visitation hours will be held from 4-8 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 21, 2023 at Somers Funeral Home 354 Main St., Somers, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:00 a.m. Friday Sept. 22, 2023 at St. Edward's Church, 27 Church St., Stafford Springs, CT. (Please meet directly at Church). Committal will follow at St. Edward's Cemetery in Stafford. Donations in Tony's memory may be made to the Rotary Club of Stafford, PO Box 277, Stafford Springs, CT 06076. To leave online condolences for Tony's family, please visit www.Somersfuneralhome.com

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Jean M. Hutton - February 01, 1934 - July 27, 2023

Departed: 07/27/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Jean M. (Bastarache) Hutton,89, of Somers, beloved wife of Richard ‘Dick’ Hutton passed away July 27th, 2023, surrounded by family in the comfort of her home. She was born in Stafford, the daughter of Tilman and Alice (Bourque) Bastarache. Besides her husband she is survived by her seven children Judy Cooley and her husband Wayne, Dennis and his wife Sheryl, Cheryl Lastrina and her husband Joe, Sue Dow and her husband Glenn, Tom and his wife Sue, Jim and his wife Gretchen, and Nancy Barrett and her husband Andy.

Jean’s whole world revolved around her and Dick’s large family with their 7 children,28 grandchildren, 38 great-grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews. They were her pride and joy.

Besides her loving husband of 70 years and children, she is survived by her siblings Leatrice Niemann, Laurie Bastarache (Elaine), Irma Krasinski (Ben), Frances Fortini and Roger Bastarache (Marie).

She was predeceased by her granddaughter Andrea Cooley, and brothers-in-law William Niemann and Norman Fortini.

Jean was a faithful communicant at All Saints Church and a member of The Catholic Daughters of America.

For many years Jean enjoyed hunting antiques and refinishing projects, knitting blankets for her expanding family, and traveling all over the states with Dick in their motorhome. Her fierce passion above all was family. She cherished spending as much time as possible with them and would travel near and far for parties, sacraments, and sporting events. We will be forever grateful for her generous love that brought us together and her legacy will live on in all of us. Relatives and friends may join the family on Tuesday, August 1, 2023, from 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main St. Somers. A Mass of Christian Burial will take place at 10:30 am on Wednesday, August 2, 2023, at All Saints Church, 25 School St, Somersville, CT 06072 (Please meet directly at church). Burial will follow at Somers Center Cemetery. Memorial donations may be made to the Somers Rotary Club Scholarship Fund, P.O. Box 2, Somers, CT 06071 or Connecticut Children’s Medical Center in memory of Andrea Cooley either online at give.connecticutchildrens.org or mail to 282 Washington Street, Hartford, CT 06106. For online condolences please visit somersfuneralhome.com

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Kathleen Dubuque - November 24, 1946 - July 24, 2023

Departed: 07/24/2023 (Somers)

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Craig Ferro - June 10, 1980 - July 24, 2023

Departed: 07/24/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Craig Joseph Ferro, passed away from a 3 1/2 year courageous battle with Esophageal Cancer at the age of 43 on Monday, July 24, 2023 with his family by his side. He was the beloved husband of 18 years to Stacy (Barnes) Ferro and the loving father of his four beautiful children Cole, Rylee, Shane and Greyson. Craig was born on June 10, 1980 in New Milford, CT to Bernard Ferro III and Janet (Ingegneri) Ferro. Craig had a career spanning over 20 years with Cooker Construction, most recently as the company manager foreman. Outside of work, he excelled at every activity that grabbed his interest, whether it was playing and teaching his children how to play hockey, or fixing things around his home. Craig enjoyed spending time with his family at their vacation home in New Hampshire, where they enjoyed snowmobiling and skating in the winter and boating and various water activities in the summer. He will be remembered for his strong work ethic, his zest for life, his determination, his physical and mental strength and most importantly his love for his family, friends and animals, who will miss him dearly. He truly was his family's Super Hero and always will be! Craig can always be seen through Cole's ability to be so focused on a career in helping others, Rylee's loving and helping nature of all she comes in contact with, Shane's strong will and determination and Greyson's compassionate and funny ways. He managed to be fierce, but fair and completely genuine in all he did.

In addition to his wife and children, Craig is survived by his parents, Bernard Ferro III and Janet (Ingegneri) Ferro of Somers, his sister, Ashley Farr and husband Tim of FL, his brother, Douglas Ferro and his wife Jenna of Somers, his In-laws Steven and Deborah Barnes of Somers, his fur babies, and many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews and close friends. His family will receive relatives and friends from 4-7pm on July 30, 2023 at the Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main Street, Somers. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11am on July 31, 2023 at St. Michael Church, 128 Maple Street, East Longmeadow, MA. Burial will be private, at the convenience of the family. Memorial donations can be made in Craig's memory to The Ferro Family Scholarship Fund (A holding account for a scholarship to be named later). Checks can be mailed to

The Ferro Family 120 Florida Rd. Somers, CT 06071. For online condolences, please visit http://www.somersfuneralhome.com.

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Edwin J Willard - July 22, 1952 - July 19, 2023

Departed: 07/19/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Edwin J. Willard, of East Longmeadow, MA, beloved husband of 41 years to Heather (Richards) Willard, entered into eternal peace on Wednesday, July 19, 2023. He was born in Springfield, MA on July 22, 1952, the son of the late John S. Willard and Dorothy (Coderre) Willard. Edwin had a long career in the printing business, and left the industry due to progression of his Multiple Sclerosis. He was an avid motorcyclist and accomplished several cross country journeys and trips along the east coast. Edwin also enjoyed trips to the shooting range and was also known as a "frustrated audiophile".

In addition to his wife, Edwin leaves behind his sister, Dorothy Caron of South Hadley, MA; his brother William Willard of Westfield; a niece and 2 nephews.

Edwin's family will receive relatives and friends from 11 am to 1 pm on Monday, July 31, 2023 at the Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main Street, Somers. Donations in his memory may be made to an animal rescue of the donor's choice. For online condolences, please visit www.somersfuneralhome.com.

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Frederick J Schneider - October 14, 1926 - July 13, 2023

Departed: 07/13/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Frederick J. Schneider, 96, of Somers, died Thursday, July 13,2023. He was born October 14, 1926, in Somers to Frank and Mary (Rau) Schneider who immigrated from Germany. His parents settled in Somers, purchased land, started a farm on what is known today as Schneider Rd. Fred went to school in a small schoolhouse in town, he then attended Rockville High School. Fred was the youngest of seven children, he joined and proudly served in the United States Navy during WWII and served as Seaman 1st class. He was deployed on the USS California; he survived a bayonet wound to his leg during an ambush on an island in the South Pacific. He was employed at Hamilton Standard where he retired from with over 25 years of service. While working at Hamilton he also worked for EC Allens doing tile work and Bartels Pools in Springfield, MA. Fred was never one to sit still for long. He was a loving father and gave his kids a great life. He enjoyed motorcycles, horses, boats, and many family vacations. He and his wife Hazel traveled extensively. They enjoyed their homes in Maine and Florida. He loved building cabinets, furniture, garages, sheds, gardening, fishing, taking in animals of any kind. He harvested his garden and made sauerkraut, green tomato wine and grape wine. He volunteered at the Special Olympics. He was also a jokester, always trying to make people smile. He is survived by his children; Frederick “Rick” Schneider of Monson, Jacquelyn I. Schneider Stevenson (Shep) of Somers; stepchildren, Antonie Wilson (David) of Maine, Alexis Johnson (Brian) of Ellington; grandchildren, Kate Schneider , Jessica Lara (Saul), Joshua Schneider, Jonathan Stevenson (Nicki), Geoffrey Stevenson and girlfriend Jennifer Palazzo, eight grandchildren, three step grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews. Frederick always said “I did it my way “ and he did until the end. He was predeceased by his wife Hazel T (Devecis) Schneider; his former wife, Jacqueline (Wilson) Schneider; his siblings and their spouses, William and Elenor, Mary and Bud Thompson, Louise and Bernie Whitney, Otto and Charlotte, Andrew and Alberta, Edward and Charlotte; one step grandchild. Please consider donating to the Special Olympics in Frederick’s name. Relatives and friends may join the family on Monday, July 17, 2023, from 10-11 am at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main St, Somers, CT 06071. A Graveside service and burial will take place at Somers Center Cemetery, Somers. For online condolences please visit www.Somersfuneralhome.com

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Frederick J Schneider - October 14, 1926 - July 13, 2023

Departed: 07/13/2023 (Somers)

Obituary Preview: Frederick J. Schneider, 96, of Somers, died Thursday, July 13,2023. He was born October 14, 1926, in Somers to Frank and Mary (Rau) Schneider who immigrated from Germany. His parents settled in Somers, purchased land, started a farm on what is known today as Schneider Rd. Fred went to school in a small schoolhouse in town, he then attended Rockville High School. Fred was the youngest of seven children, he joined and proudly served in the United States Navy during WWII and served as Seaman 1st class. He was deployed on the USS California; he survived a bayonet wound to his leg during an ambush on an island in the South Pacific. He was employed at Hamilton Standard where he retired from with over 25 years of service. While working at Hamilton he also worked for EC Allens doing tile work and Bartels Pools in Springfield, MA. Fred was never one to sit still for long. He was a loving father and gave his kids a great life. He enjoyed motorcycles, horses, boats, and many family vacations. He and his wife Hazel traveled extensively. They enjoyed their homes in Maine and Florida. He loved building cabinets, furniture, garages, sheds, gardening, fishing, taking in animals of any kind. He harvested his garden and made sauerkraut, green tomato wine and grape wine. He volunteered at the Special Olympics. He was also a jokester, always trying to make people smile. He is survived by his children; Frederick “Rick” Schneider of Monson, Jacquelyn I. Schneider Stevenson (Shep) of Somers; stepchildren, Antonie Wilson (David) of Maine, Alexis Johnson (Brian) of Ellington; grandchildren, Kate Schneider , Jessica Lara (Saul), Joshua Schneider, Jonathan Stevenson (Nicki), Geoffrey Stevenson and girlfriend Jennifer Palazzo, eight grandchildren, three step grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews. Frederick always said “I did it my way “ and he did until the end. He was predeceased by his wife Hazel T (Devecis) Schneider; his former wife, Jacqueline (Wilson) Schneider; his siblings and their spouses, William and Elenor, Mary and Bud Thompson, Louise and Bernie Whitney, Otto and Charlotte, Andrew and Alberta, Edward and Charlotte; one step grandchild. Please consider donating to the Special Olympics in Frederick’s name. Relatives and friends may join the family on Monday, July 17, 2023, from 10-11 am at Somers Funeral Home, 354 Main St, Somers, CT 06071. A Graveside service and burial will take place at Somers Center Cemetery, Somers. For online condolences please visit www.Somersfuneralhome.com

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In conclusion, Somers Funeral Home stands as a beacon of hope and comfort in the heart of Somers, Connecticut. By providing personalized funeral services, cremation options, pre-planning expertise, and community support, they have earned a reputation as a trusted partner for families navigating the most difficult times. If you're seeking a funeral home that truly cares, look no further than Somers Funeral Home.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It serves as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries play a significant role in honoring the life of the deceased, providing closure for those who are grieving, and serving as a historical record of the person's life. They also help to notify others of the person's passing and provide details about funeral services and memorial contributions.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include a brief biography, accomplishments, and any notable achievements.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and personal preference. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and help readers remember the person.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online publication?

Contact the publication directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some may accept submissions online, while others may require email or phone submissions.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication and the length of the obituary. Some newspapers offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge by the word or line.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to control how they are remembered and to spare their loved ones from having to do so during a difficult time.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a longer, more detailed tribute that provides a biography and other information about the person's life.

Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary is a celebration of the person's life, so including humorous stories or personal anecdotes can help capture their personality and spirit.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

Be mindful of sensitive or private information that may not be appropriate for public consumption. Consider consulting with family members or close friends before including any potentially sensitive details.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial contributions in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial contributions in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the person's memory and support a cause they cared about.

How long after death should an obituary be published?

The timing varies depending on cultural and personal traditions. Typically, an obituary is published within a few days to a week after the person's passing.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to publish an obituary without printing it in a physical newspaper. This can be a cost-effective and environmentally friendly option.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

DOUBLE-check facts such as dates, names, and spellings to ensure accuracy. It's also a good idea to have multiple people review the obituary before submitting it for publication.

Can I update or correct an obituary after it's been published?

Contact the publication directly if you need to make corrections or updates to an already-published obituary. They may be able to assist with revisions or publish a correction notice.

What is the purpose of an obituary archive?

An obituary archive is a collection of past obituaries that can be searched by name, date, or other criteria. This resource can be helpful for genealogical research, historical purposes, or simply to revisit memories of loved ones.

Can I find old obituaries online?

Yes, many online archives and databases offer access to historic obituaries. You can also try contacting local libraries or genealogical societies for assistance in finding old obituaries.

How do I cope with writing an obituary during a difficult time?

Writing an obituary can be an emotional task. Take your time, gather support from loved ones if needed, and focus on celebrating the person's life rather than mourning their loss.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an obituary for someone who was young or died suddenly?

Yes, writing an obituary for someone who died young or suddenly can be especially challenging. Be sensitive to the circumstances surrounding their death and focus on celebrating their life and legacy.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including meaningful quotes or song lyrics can add depth and personality to the obituary.

How do I decide what information to include in an online guestbook or condolence message?

Be respectful of the family's wishes and keep your message brief and sincere. Share fond memories or condolences, but avoid sharing sensitive or private information.

What is the significance of publishing an obituary in multiple languages?

Publishing an obituary in multiple languages can be especially important for families with international connections or those who want to reach a broader audience.