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Rick E. "Meat" Hougland - June 17, 1953 - April 08, 2022

Departed: 04/08/2022 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Rick E. “Meat” Hougland, 68, Kokomo, passed away on Friday April 8, 2022, at his home.  He was born June 17, 1953, in Bedford, In. to the late Buck and Roberta (Roberts) Hougland.   On March 3, 1973, in Kokomo, he married Betty Dick, and she survives.

Rick was a 1971 graduate of Kokomo High School.  He worked for ILSMD a logistics company since 2014. He had previously been employed by Mid-America Beverage for 22 years and had co-owned Hougland TVs.

He played softball for over 50 years, many of those years with the Men’s Fast Pitch League at Foster Park.  Rick loved his wife and tolerated his children.  He loved spending time with his family and going fishing with Betty. Over the years, Rick coached his son Eric’s basketball teams, collaborated with his daughter Amy while he played guitar and acted in his son Ian’s amateur films.  Rick was also a talented, self-taught painter and baker.

Along with his wife, Betty, Rick is survived by his children, Amy Marie Parraga, Eric Hougland and Ian (Kathryn) Hougland; grandkids, Sadie Parraga and Lyra Hougland; sister, Pam Hughes; brother-in-law, Mike Tweed and several nieces, nephews and beloved friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Buck and Roberta and his sister, Terri Tweed.

Funeral services celebrating Rick’s life will be held at 6pm Wednesday, April 13, 2022 at Shirley & Stout Funeral Homes, 414 West Jefferson Street, with Pastor Mike Grovak officiating.  Friends are invited to visit with the family from 4-6 pm Wednesday at the funeral home.  Burial will be made in Kokomo Memorial Park Cemetery at a later date.

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Lawrence Robert Smith - July 19, 1946 - March 13, 2022

Departed: 03/13/2022 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Lawrence Robert Smith, 75, of Gallatin, Tennessee, passed away Sunday, March 13, 2022, at home. Larry was born July 19, 1946, in Kokomo, Indiana, to Charles Smith and Valliria Peretti Smith.

He graduated from Kokomo High School in 1964. Larry then attended Purdue University. While there, Larry started Anvil Productions while also playing bass guitar in local Kokomo area bands like Sneed Hern and Storm Crow. After completing his bachelor's degree at Indiana University, Larry was pursuing a master's degree at Ball State when he got a job offer from Performance Magazine in Texas. Larry worked there for twenty years.  He created a new magazine called Tour Guide which he managed for the next 10+ years. That business became Mobile Production Pro which focused on live music production. Larry received 34 platinum records from groups like The Rolling Stones, The Moody Blues and ZZ Top.

Larry is survived by his sister, Carol Peretti, Park City, Utah; his son, Sean Smith, Los Angeles; his stepdaughter, Jennifer Lee Janney, Muncie, Indiana; and six grandchildren.  A special thank you to John and Jessie Stickler for their exceptional care and friendship.  Larry loved you.

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Leonard "Lenny" Locke Jr. - July 26, 1954 - March 10, 2022

Departed: 03/10/2022 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Leonard “Lenny” Locke Jr., 67, Kokomo, passed away at 11:37 am on Thursday March 10, 2022, at his home.  He was born July 26, 1954, to the late Leonard and May (Wolfe) Locke Jr.

Leonard was a 1972 graduate of Kokomo High School.  He worked for Mayflower Movers as a moving associate.  He loved volunteering for Northside Little League. He was an avid baseball card collector and Chicago Cubs Fan.

Leonard is survived by his nephews, Joe Davis, Jeff (Lisa) Davis, Jim (Kristin) Davis; nieces, Mary (Dennis) Parker and Brittany (Floyd) Davis; great niece, Amber O’Brien; great nephew, Jeff Davis Jr.

He was preceded in death by his parents; sister, Peggy Davis; and brother-in-law, John Davis.

A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.  Shirley & Stout Funeral Home & Crematory has been entrusted with arrangements.  Messages of condolence may be left online at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Paul Steven Fisher - January 26, 1967 - February 22, 2022

Departed: 02/22/2022 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Paul Steven Fisher, 55, Kokomo, passed away at 6:27 pm, on Tuesday February 22, 2022, at St. Vincent Hospital, Kokomo. He was born on January 26, 1967, to the late Fredrick and Bessie (Warfield) Fisher II.  On June 4, 2008, he married Lisa Weaver and she survives.

Paul enjoyed spending time with his family and his best friend, Baxxter.  Considered the “Mayor of Mulberry Street”, he also enjoyed barbequing, fishing, playing video games and hanging out in the chat room with dear friends.

Along with his wife Lisa, Paul is survived by his stepchildren, Trevor Weaver and Shawnna Weaver; siblings, Carolyn Fisher, Fred (Elnoria) Fisher, Michelle (Derek) Flager and Stephen Fisher; grandchildren, Trevor Weaver Jr., Silas Andrew Weaver, Kira Pebley and Amira Pebley; and numerous nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his parents; siblings, Marvin Fisher, Stella Thomas, Joseph Fisher and Fredrick Fisher.

A funeral service will take place at 3 pm on Monday March 7, 2022, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home-Jefferson Street Chapel, 414 W. Jefferson St., Kokomo.  Friends may visit with the family from 1 pm to 3 pm Monday at the funeral home. Messages of condolence may be left online at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Sally Elaine Walters - November 22, 1953 - February 05, 2022

Departed: 02/05/2022 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Sally Elaine Walters, 68, Kokomo, passed away at 5:22 pm on Saturday, February 5, 2022, at Community Howard Regional Hospital, Kokomo.  She was born on November 22, 1953, to the late James and Evelyn (Moon) Goad.

Sally graduated from Carroll High School.  She worked for Kokomo Memorial Park as the cemetery manager and retired after 12 ½ years of service.  She loved to go shopping, and spending time with her grandkids and great-grandkids. She enjoyed cooking for her friends and family and watching Judge Judy.

Sally is survived by her daughter, Elizabeth (Larry) Powell; grandchildren, Jordan (Kelsee) Nix, Dominick (Cassandra) Nix and Jermaine Nix; great-grandchildren, Sebatian Nix and Amyra Nix; brother, Jack Goad; nieces, Stacey Rudd and Shelly Bogus; nephews, Chad (Michelle) Rudd, Johnny Bronson and Jerry Bronson.

She was preceded in death by her parents; brother, Paul Goad; and sister, Betty Rudd.

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Sharon Marie Cottingham - May 05, 1988 - January 04, 2022

Departed: 01/04/2022 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Sharon Marie Cottingham passed away unexpectedly at her home on January 4, 2022. She was born on May 5, 1988, in Yuba City, CA to Rebecca (Pritchard) Bennett and Bernard Lammey Jr. She married Steven “Allan” Cottingham on August 28, 2010.

Sharon and Allan had three children. Cody, 13, Connor, 9, and Mackenzie Cottingham who preceded her in death. Sharon was a stay-at-home mom and housewife. She came from a large family that loved her dearly. Her world revolved around her two boys and her family.

Sharon enjoyed spending time with her husband of 11 years and life partner of 17 years. Together they enjoyed playing online games, listening to music, watching their favorite shows, going to concerts, traveling, and spending time with their two boys and extended families. Sharon enjoyed watching movies and eating popcorn with her two boys, Cody and Connor. Sharon was a fierce Mama bear that would have done anything for her two sons and her God-daughter Joshlynn.

She enjoyed cooking, baking, and sharing recipes with family members, especially her beloved Mama T, whom she facetimed daily. Sharon also enjoyed planting flowers and drinking wine. She was often found spending time with her “favorite” sister-in-law Rachel drinking wine and having a good time.

She enjoyed spending time with her father Benard fishing, cooking, working on tractors, and talking. She truly was a Daddy’s girl thru and thru. Sharon enjoyed spending as much time with her mother as possible. She loved to talk and embarrass her mother all costs and wallering on her as much possible.

Sharon enjoyed being outdoors, fishing, gaming and spending time with her nieces, nephews, siblings, and most importantly her mother and father. Sharon had a big heart and cared deeply for those most important to her and family always came first to her. She will be deeply missed.

Sharon is survived by her husband, Steven “Allan” Cottingham; sons, Cody Cottingham and Connor Cottingham, all of Kokomo, IN.; God-Daughter Joshlynn Beard, of Kokomo, IN.; mother, Rebecca Bennett of Kokomo, IN.; father, Bernard Lammey Jr. of Marysville, CA.; Father-in-law Michael Cottingham of Kokomo, IN.; Mother-in-law Kimberely Ellis of Flora, IN.; brothers, Jon (Rachel) Adleman of Kokomo, IN., Dameon Morse, Brandon Morse, and Shane Lammey of Marysville, CA., Todd Cottingham of Sharpsville, IN,; sisters, Alesha (Tony) Naylor of Colorado Springs, CO., Alana Hughes of Kokomo, IN., Sarah Morse-Goad of Apple Valley, CA., Hazel Lammey and Emily Lammey both of  Marysville, CA., Dana(Jared) Stephenson of Walton, IN, Tara (Jeremy) Miller of Flora, IN.; and several nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins.

She is preceded in death by her daughter, Mackenzie Cottingham; father, Vincent “Vince” Bennett; aunt, Mary Ellen; and her grandparents, Christina Edwards, William Pritchard, Jack Bennett, and Bernard Sr. and Sharon Lammey.

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Sedailah Lucille Smith Richardson Stanley - August 25, 1916 - December 17, 2021

Departed: 12/17/2021 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Sedailah Lucille (Oldfather) Smith Richardson Stanley, 105, Kokomo, passed away Friday December 17, 2021, at home. She was born in Miami, IN, on August 25, 1916, the daughter of the late John A. and Clara (Antrobus) Oldfather. On December 7, 1940, she married Russell A. Smith of Peru, he preceded her in death on November 28, 1944, when he was killed in Germany during World War II.

Sedailah was a 1934 graduate of Bunker Hill High School. She earned a degree from the Kokomo Indiana Business College. She worked as a secretary at C.I Togstag Co. and American Standard Pottery until she retired in 1970. She was a member of St. Luke’s Methodist Church, Clubetts Euchre Club, the Eagles Auxiliary, and the Kokomo Senior Citizen’s Choir. Sedailah was an incredibly gifted pianist who played and sang up until her health declined a few weeks ago. She was the director of the Joyful Sounds, a group who traveled and performed together. She enjoyed playing card games, dancing, and had quite the jewelry collection. She held a place in her heart for each one of her family members.

She is survived by her sons, Terry Smith, Dennis (Lora) Richardson; grandchildren, Tracy Meritt, Karen (Wayne) Kirwin, Scott Smith, Troy Smith, Angela (Blake) Martin, Aaron (Christine) Richardson, Brittney (Jake) Buck, Erik (Kylie) Richardson, Montrail Johnson, Taylor (Caleb) Querry, Claire Huff, Max Richardson; 15 great-grandchildren; 2 great-great-grandchildren; 8 great-great-great-grandchildren; long-time caregiver and friend, Anita Kessler; numerous nieces, nephews; and special great-niece, Trisha Kuhns Durham.

She was preceded in death by her parents, John and Clara Oldfather; husbands, Russell Smith, Edward Richardson, Robert “Bob” Stanely; siblings, Elsie Saylor, Charles Oldfather, Ida Herlock, Mabel Kuhns, John Riley; and daughter-in-law, Barbara Smith.

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Barbara Lou "Bobbi" Gifford - July 29, 1929 - November 28, 2021

Departed: 11/28/2021 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Lou “Bobbi” Gifford, 92, of Galveston, passed away at 10:35 a.m. on Sunday, November 28, 2021, at Ascension St. Vincent Kokomo.  She was born July 29, 1929, in Ossian, Indiana, to Clarence R. and Gaile F. (Bryant) Bailey.  On August 14, 1945, she married William B. Gifford, in New London, and he preceded her in death on May 21, 2008.

Bobbi attended Kokomo High School and later worked for Cuneo Press, Haynes Stellite and Delco Electronics before retiring in 1984.  She loved working in her yard, traveling and being with family.  She also loved attending Family Worship Center and was a faithful and devout Christian who loved the Lord.

Survivors include her children, William “Ben” (Sue) Gifford and Stephen Gifford; grandchildren, Samantha (Paul) Thomas, Tammy (James) Long, Rob (Heather) Gifford, Melissa (Brian) Merchand, Tonya (Darren) Williams and Cathy Fouch; 16 great-grandchildren; 9 great-great-grandchildren; niece, Pam (Bill) Shepherd; and numerous “adopted” children.

In addition to her husband, she was preceded in death by her son and daughter-in-law, Rick and Loren Gifford, and grandson, Brad Fouch.

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Bonita Jolene Downs - January 26, 1950 - October 28, 2021

Departed: 10/28/2021 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Bonita Jolene Downs, 71, of Kokomo, passed away peacefully at home with her husband by her side on October 28, 2021. She was born January 26, 1950 in Walnut Ridge, Arkansas to Alvin and Thelma (Faircloth) Skinner. On June 24, 1967 she married Thomas Downs in Kokomo, IN and he survives.

Bonita spent her life caring for patients in memory care. She enjoyed reading, crocheting, and being involved in church. Most of all, she adored all her grandchildren.

She is survived by her husband, Thomas Downs; children, Catherine (Michael) Shelden and Christopher Downs; grandchildren, Thomas (Morgan) Shelden, Victoria Shelden, Skylar Shelden, Stevie Downs, Crystal Downs, Kyle Downs, Logan Downs, and Dollie Downs; great-grandchildren, Lucas, Miles, Emma, and one expected in January; siblings, Carolyn Bogue, Rodney Skinner, DeVon (DeEtte) Skinner, and Donna Crosby.

She was preceded in death by her parents; sister, Alma Shepherd; and a special niece, Dovie Smith.

Funeral services celebrating Bonita’s life will be at 1:00 p.m. Tuesday, November 2, 2021 at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home, 414 West Jefferson Street, with Steve Walker officiating. Burial will follow in New London Cemetery. Friends may visit with the family from 11:00 a.m. until service time Tuesday at the funeral home. Messages of condolence may be left at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Abigail Sue Bell - March 30, 1953 - October 19, 2021

Departed: 10/19/2021 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Abigail Sue Bell, 68, Kokomo, passed away at 8:05 pm on Tuesday, October 19, 2021, at Ascension St. Vincent Hospital, Indianapolis.  She was born to the late John R. and Nola Jane (Mikels) Tippy, in Rochester, IN, on March 30, 1953.

Abigail graduated from Haworth High School in 1971 and received a bachelor’s degree in nursing from Indiana University. She worked in several doctor’s offices and nursing homes as a registered nurse.  She enjoyed reading, watching NASCAR, playing Criminal Case online and loved visiting her sister in Florida.

Abigail is survived by her sister, Rebecca Tippy (Howard) Abrams; nephew, Evan Abrams; uncle, Michael D. (Victoria) Mikels; and several cousins.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Jane and John; her son, Jonathan Bell; and aunts, Claretta Shepherd and Sue Ann Beattie.

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James D. McCain - April 22, 1936 - October 11, 2021

Departed: 10/11/2021 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: James David McCain, 85, of Kokomo, peacefully passed away at 3:44 am on Monday October 11, 2021, after battling dementia. He was born in Kokomo on April 22, 1936, to the late J. Reid and Hope (Kendall) McCain.

Jim is a graduate of Delphi High School.  He served in the United States Army from 1954-1956, where he was stationed in Germany during the Korean Conflict. Jim thoroughly enjoyed welding for the Howard County Highway Department and made many life-long friends over the nearly 40 years he worked with the “County Boys” as he liked to call them.  He enjoyed discussing Republican politics, hunting arrowheads, studying the Bible, raising cows, organic gardening, and  feeding his beloved deer and birds.

Jim is survived by his children, Rebecca (Tony) Vent, Micah (Jennifer) McCain; grandchildren, Katherine (Katie) Vent, Molly McCain and Emily McCain; siblings, JoAnne Gordon and Lynda Brooks.

He was preceded in death by two of his children, David McCain and Kathy McCain; siblings, Nancy Kremers, John Kendall McCain, Jane Geroux, Patricia Kanable, Marialyce Knoll, William McCain, Frederick McCain and Julia McCain.

Friends may visit with the family Saturday November 27 from 10 am to 12 pm, followed by a funeral service at noon, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home, Jefferson Street Chapel, 414 W. Jefferson St.  Burial will follow in Beech Grove Cemetery with military honors provided by the United States Army and the Kokomo VFW Military Rites Team.  Donations may be made in Jim’s memory to the Alzheimer’s Association.  Messages of condolence may be left online at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Lessie C. Cambron - May 10, 1943 - October 10, 2021

Departed: 10/10/2021 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Lessie C. Cambron, 78, of Kokomo, passed away at 3:27 am Sunday, October 10, 2021, at her home.  She was born May 10, 1943, in Arkansas, the daughter of the late Clifton Q. & Idell S. King.

Lessie worked as a private duty nurse for 40 years and for Delco Electronics.  She attended Spirt Church and loved to crochet.  Lessie also enjoyed fishing, camping and caring for the elderly.

Lessie is survived by her daughters, Sheila Taylor and Tondra (David) Gunnell; grandchildren, James (Amber) Brown, Jessica (Stephen) Hardin, Leatha Miller, Kevin Brown, Amber Sleeth and Joseph (Ashley Miller) Sleeth; along with 11 great-grandchildren.

Lessie was preceded in death by her parents; and brother, Clifton W. King.

Funeral service will be held at 1:00 pm Monday, October 18, 2021, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home, Jefferson Street Chapel, 414 W. Jefferson Street, Kokomo, with Pastor Sandy Benzinger officiating.  Burial will follow in Sunset Memory Garden Cemetery.  Friends are invited to visit with the family from 11:00 am until time of service on Monday at the funeral home.  Memorial contributions may be made in Lessie’s memory to Shirley & Stout Funeral Home to help with final expenses.  Messages of condolence may be left online at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Carolyn S. Williams - September 10, 1948 - September 04, 2021

Departed: 09/04/2021 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Carolyn Sue Williams, 72, Kokomo, passed away at 9:40 am, on Saturday, September 4, 2021, at Community Howard Regional Health.  She was born September 10, 1948, in Kokomo, to Fred Taylor and Iris (Linson) Harrell.  On November 18, 1967, Carolyn married Max Bowley, who preceded her in death on January 13, 1991.  On March 17, 2006, Carolyn married Charles Williams, and he survives.

Carolyn was a 1966 graduate of Kokomo High School.  She worked for GM Fisher Body in Marion and was a member of the Kokomo VFW Ladies Auxiliary.  She enjoyed going to rummage sales and loved helping others.  Carolyn was a selfless person, devoted mother and, known as “GG” to her great-grandchildren.

Carolyn is survived by her husband, Charles; children, Max (Kimberly) Bowley and Christy (Rodney) Lawson; grandchildren, Ashlee Sharp, Josh Bowley, Leslie Bowley, Nathan Bowley, Nicolas Bowley and Joy Bowley; great-grandchildren, Kaelynne Sharp and Kamdyn and Kaesyn Rayn; siblings, John (Dorena) Taylor, Diana (Bill) Morgan and Greg (Frieda) Taylor.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Fred Taylor and Iris Harrell, and first husband, Max Bowley.

Services will be at 12 pm on Thursday, September 9, 2021, at Shirley and Stout Funeral Home, Jefferson Street Chapel, 414 W. Jefferson Street, Kokomo, with Pastor Jason Grant officiating.  Burial will follow in Sunset Memory Garden.  Friends may visit with the family from 10 am until the time of the service on Thursday at the funeral home.  Messages of condolence may be left online at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Faye Marie Stout - March 21, 1940 - August 15, 2021

Departed: 08/15/2021 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Faye Marie Stout, 81, Kokomo, passed away at 2:10 am Sunday, August 15, 2021, at her daughter’s home in Camden, IN.  She was born March 21, 1940, in Kokomo, the daughter of the late Robert & Ione (Thomas) McCartney.  On April 19, 1958, in Kokomo, she married Donald L. Stout who preceded her in death on September 7, 2018.

Faye loved gardening, crocheting and working puzzles.  She also enjoyed going to rummage sales, shopping and crafts of any kind.

Faye is survived by her children, Lisa Gatliff, Kokomo, Robert Stout, Kokomo and Rhonda (Kevin) Pavey, Camden; grandchildren, Matthew (Sara) Gatliff, Levi (Addie) Gatliff, Josh Stout, Brittney Stout, Stephanie Stout, Samantha Stout, Robert (Shauna) Godbey and Rodney (Samantha) Godbey, along with 5 great-grandchildren; and nephew, Mike McCartney.

Faye was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Donald; 2 brothers; and son-in-law, Donald Gatliff.

Funeral service will be held at 12:30 pm Thursday, August 19, 2021, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home, Jefferson Street Chapel, 414 W. Jefferson Street, Kokomo, with Pastor Jason Grant officiating.  Burial will follow in Kokomo Memorial Park Cemetery.  Friends are invited to visit with the family from 10:30 am until time of service on Thursday at the funeral home.

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Miriam M. Rutherford - July 23, 1971 - June 29, 2021

Departed: 06/29/2021 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Miriam M. Rutherford, 49, Kokomo; passed away Tuesday, June 29, 2021. She was born in Kokomo on July 23, 1971 to Joseph and Teresa (Day) Mallory.

Miriam attended Kokomo High School.  She then served in the United States Navy.  She worked for Chrysler and Delco Electronics.  She enjoyed playing cards, listening to music, traveling and making memories with her kids, and going for walks.   She loved her family, and enjoyed spending time with her family and friends.

Miriam is survived by her son, Joseph Mallory; daughter, Angelique Bryan; her father Joseph and step-mother, Renee; her mother; sisters, Roxanne (Gurth) Bryan and Marjorie Lynn (Trenton) Jones; three grandchildren; and nieces and nephews, Elijah Bryan, Aiyjah Bryan, Michelle Bradford, Brandon Bennett, and Michael Bennett.

She was preceded in death by a brother, Damon Joel King.

Visitation will be held, Thursday, July 8, 2021 from 1pm until the time of the service at 3pm at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home and Crematory, 414 W. Jefferson St.  Pastor Brian Cook will officiate.  Burial will be held at a later date. Messages of condolence may be left at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Anna "Kathie" Katherine McKibben - June 08, 1949 - June 26, 2021

Departed: 06/26/2021 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Anna Katherine “Kathie” McKibben, 72, Kokomo, passed away Saturday, June 26, 2021 at Signature Healthcare of Fort Wayne.  She was born June 8, 1949 in Winchester to Mary Francis (Houk) Conning.  She married Danny McKibben on March 5, 1985.  He preceded her in death on April 1, 2016.

Kathie was a 1967 graduate of Winchester High School.  She enjoyed shopping, crafting, cooking, and travelling to California, Florida, and any  place that had a beach.  She was fun, loving, light-hearted, and enjoyed life.  Her true love was caring for her family, especially her grandchildren and her husband in his final days.

Kathie is survived by her children, Rob Bainter, Michelle McKee, Tennille Moloch, Beth (Bob) Minet; a brother, Rick Moore; and grandchildren, Sarah Abigail McKee, Taylor, Shelby, Ashley, and Mason Crum.

Along with her husband of 31 years, she was preceded in death by her mother; step-dad, Paul Conning; brother, Terry and sister-in-law, Sue.

Visitation will be held, Thursday, July 1, 2021 at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home and Crematory, 414 W. Jefferson St., from 11am until the time of the service at 1pm.  Pastor Jason Grant will officiate.  Burial will follow at Kokomo Memorial Park.  Messages of condolence may be left at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Billy Wayne Hale - July 11, 1944 - May 01, 2021

Departed: 05/01/2021 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Billy Wayne Hale, 76, Kokomo, passed away at 2:35 pm Saturday, May 1, 2021, at IU Health University Hospital in Indianapolis. He was born July 11, 1944, the son of the late Harold and Frances “Roberta” (Roberts) Hale in Delphi, IN. He married Jim Lauck in 2014, and he survives.

Billy was a graduate of Pilgram Holiness College. He served in the United States Army from 1965 to 1967 obtaining the rank of Sergeant. Billy retired from Chrysler Corporation after 34 years of service. He enjoyed spending time with his family, fishing, and cooking.

In addition to his spouse Jim, Billy is survived by his daughters, Christal (Ryan) Hammond, and Chasta (fiancé Aaron Czalbowski) Stefanatos; step children, Christan (fiancé Lena Johnson) Lauck, Hillary (Engin) Celebi, and Mark Lauck; grandchildren, Madison, Braeden, and Dylan Bryant, Emma (Frank) Enriquez, Tessa Stefanatos, Quinn Hammond, and Remy Celebi; brothers, Paul (Sandy) Hale, David (Diana) Hale, Nathan (Vicki) Hale, and Danny (Diana) Hale; and sister, Faye (Bud) Payne.

Billy was preceded in death by his parents and brother, Harold Ray (Else) Hale.

Funeral services will be held at 11 am Friday, May 7, 2021, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home-Jefferson Street Chapel, 414 W. Jefferson St., Kokomo, with Amy Imboden officiating. Burial will follow in Kokomo Memorial Park with military honors provided by the United States Army and the Kokomo VFW Military Rites Team. Friends may visit with the family 4 to 8 pm Thursday, May 6, 2021, at the funeral home. Messages of condolence may be left online at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Debra J Stahl - August 21, 1971 - March 11, 2021

Departed: 03/11/2021 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Debra J. Stahl, 49, Kokomo, passed away March 11, 2021 at 7:21 pm at her home.  She was born on August 21, 1971, in Chicago, IL,  the daughter of Charles and Gladys (Mills) Stahl.

Debra worked for Rochester Metals as a grinder, Hardee’s, and Penguin Point as a cook and waitress.  She was a member of Carpenter House Church.  Debra loved spending time with her family and grandkids.   She enjoyed camping, fishing, knitting, cross stitch, playing Bingo and Skip-Bo.

Debra is survived by her mother Gladys Arbuckle; children, Gretchen Jones, Gwenevier (Kevin) Laurie, Uriah (Brianna) Milner, Hailey Miller and fiancé Jesse Likens; grandchildren, Braxton Hester, Jesse Jones, Dayton Laurie, Ayva Laurie, Malisa Miller and MaeLee Miller; sister, Tammy (Ronald) Clapper; and beloved dogs, Shopie, Panther, Molly and Snowpup.

She was preceded in death by her father, Charles Stahl; and brother, Jeffrey Stahl.

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Sherry Elaine Kennedy - February 08, 1949 - December 15, 2020

Departed: 12/15/2020 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Sherry Elaine Kennedy, 71, of Kokomo, passed away at 6:35 a.m. on December 15, 2020, at Golden Living Center-Sycamore Village in Kokomo.  She was born February 8, 1949, in Howard County, to Robert and G. Virginia (Stedry) Fording.  On August 24, 1965, she married Robert G. Kennedy, at Grace United Methodist Church.

Sherry enjoyed visiting CAM every day and eating her meals at the Kokomo Rescue Mission.  When her health began to fail, she became a resident at Howard Haven, where she enjoyed the good food, company, birthdays, and holidays.  With a couple of medical difficulties, Sherry moved to North Woods Village and then to Golden Living Center-Sycamore Village.  There, she enjoyed bingo and reading magazines.  She will be remembered as a kind person and a woman of few words.

She was preceded in death by her parents.

A memorial service will be held at 9:30 a.m. on Tuesday, March 30, 2021, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home, Jefferson Street Chapel, 414 W. Jefferson St., Kokomo.  Contributions in Sherry’s memory may be made to CAM, Inc.  Messages of condolence may be left online at www.shirleyandstout.com.  Arrangements have been entrusted to Shirley & Stout Funeral Home in Kokomo.

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Jose I. Martinez-Berrones - July 08, 1933 - December 10, 2020

Departed: 12/10/2020 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Jose I. Martinez- Berrones, 87, Kokomo, passed away 3:01 pm, Thursday, December 10, 2020, at St. Vincent of Kokomo Hospital.  He was born July 8, 1933, in San Lois Potosi, Mexico, to Rogaciano and Maria (Berrones) Martinez-Navarro.  He married Virginia Valencia on October 2, 1964.  She survives.

Jose worked as a math teacher for years back in Mexico.  Once in Indiana he worked as a foreman for the local steel mill and did road construction.  He was a member of Laborer’s Local Union 274.  Jose was an avid sports fan and especially enjoyed going with the family to watch the Kokomo Jackrabbits baseball team.  He enjoyed watching western TV shows, especially the Lone Ranger.  He was a jack of all trades and liked to keep busy by working in the garden, fixing and building things, but above all he loved to spend time with his family and spoil his grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Along with his wife of 54 years, Jose is survived by his daughters, Rosemary (Brent) Rutherford and Irma Martinez; brother, Dimas Martinez-Berrones; grandchildren, Jonathan and Joseph Bogue and Olivia and Amanda Rutherford; great-grandchildren, Bentley and Zoey Bogue-Groves; “the son he never had,” John Gregory Bogue; and many nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his parents; son, Oscar Martinez; five sisters and a brother.

Visitation will be held from 11 am-1 pm, Wednesday, December 16, 2020, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home & Crematory, Jefferson Street Chapel, 414 W. Jefferson St, Kokomo.  A private family service will be held later with burial to follow at Crown Point Cemetery.  Memorial contributions may be made in Jose’s honor to the family in care of the funeral home to assist with funeral expenses.  Messages of condolence may be left at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Walter Leroy Johnson - October 16, 1957 - December 07, 2020

Departed: 12/07/2020 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Walter Leroy Johnson, II, 63, Kokomo, passed away Monday, December 7, 2020, at Community Howard Regional Health in Kokomo.  He was born October 16, 1957, in Howard County, the son of the late Walter Leroy Johnson and Carmen Juanita (Wilkison) Drake.

Walter was a 1976 graduate of Haworth High School.  He also graduated in 1983 from Indiana Vocational Technical College in Computer Programming Technology and was a Master Carpenter.  In 1987 he was given a certificate for Counsel to the Indiana Attorney General Pearson.

Walter filled in one summer for a guitarist who was sick, touring with the Southern Rock Allstars rock band.  He took care of his mother in her final years.  As Alzheimer’s began taking a toll on Walter, through the care and concern of a friend, Charlie Skoog, Walter became a member of the Wildcat Guardians and Grace Fellowship Church.  When Charlie left town, Walter came under the care of CAM, Inc.  In Walter’s final years, he lived in Golden Living-Sycamore Care Memory Unit.  They loved him and took very good care of him.  Covid was his final chapter, and with music playing, he passed at Community Howard Regional Health.

Walter is survived by his sister, Belinda Johnson.

Walter was preceded in death by his parents.

A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, March 30, 2021, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home, Jefferson Street Chapel, 414 W. Jefferson St., Kokomo.  Memorial contributions may be made in Walter’s memory to CAM, Inc.  You may view a video of Walter’s life and leave messages of condolence online at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Ronald Hickman, Sr. - April 04, 1950 - December 04, 2020

Departed: 12/04/2020 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Ronald D. Hickman Sr., 70, Kokomo, passed away 5:50pm, Friday December 4, 2020.   He was born April 4, 1950 in Kokomo to Francis and Ramona (Mossholder) Hickman.  He married Bonnie Lou Shutt on June 16, 1997.  She preceded him in death.

Ronald began working at a young age as he gained the knowledge and tools in construction.  He was self-employed most of his life and also worked in scrap metal collection.  He enjoyed working on cars and trucks and often would trade in a nice vehicle for a vehicle that needed so work simply for the challenge. He also loved spending time with his grandson and “best friend” CJ Randolph.

Ronald is survived by his children, Wayne Shutt, Ronnie Hickman, Jr., Troy Hickman, Louie Steel, Angie Shutt, Mandy Herrington, Brandy Gibson, and Falisha Shutt; brother Timothy Hickman; 17 grandchildren and 7 great grandchildren.

Along with his wife, he was preceded in death by his parents; a daughter, Ramona Hickman; sister, Linda Wooley, brother, James Hickman; and grandchildren, Ashley Caine and Romeo Randolph.

A celebration of life will be held at a later date.  Shirley & Stout Funeral Home & Crematory is assisting with the arrangements.  Memorial contributions may be made in Ronald’s honor to the family in care of the funeral home to assist with funeral expenses.  Messages of condolence may be left at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Shirley Beatrice Johnston - February 05, 1954 - November 10, 2020

Departed: 11/10/2020 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Shirley Beatrice Johnston, 66, of Kokomo, passed away Tuesday, November 10, 2020, at St. Vincent Hospital in Indianapolis.  She was born February 5, 1954 in Kokomo to Fred and Susie (Vendergriff) Bailey.  She married Jeff Johnston on November 17, 2000.  He survives.

Shirley was a member of Lighthouse Missionary Baptist Church, and enjoyed going to church and spending time there.  She enjoyed writing, and authored a book, “The Glory of God,” which she had published.  She enjoyed fishing and spending time with her husband.

Along with her husband of nearly 20 years, she is survived by her son, Jason (Deb) Bailey; brothers, Paul (Evelyn) and David Bailey; sisters, Phyllis (Danny) Brubaker and Renee (Mark) Davis; grandson, Isaiah Bailey; step son, Scott Johnston, and step-grandchild, Raylynn Johnston.

She was preceded in death by her parents and four sisters, Billie Sue Carpenter, Sandra Kay Gibbs, Joyce Bailey and Barbara Bailey.

Funeral service will be held, 1pm, Monday, November 16, 2020, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home & Crematory, Jefferson Street Chapel, 414 W. Jefferson St., Kokomo.  Pastor Bill Meiring will officiate.  Burial will follow in Crown Point Cemetery.  Visitation will be held from 11am until the time of the service Monday at the funeral home.  Messages of condolence may be left at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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June Ann "Miss June" Hughes-Mayfield - May 18, 1943 - August 23, 2020

Departed: 08/23/2020 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: June Ann “Miss June” Hughes-Mayfield, 77, Kokomo, passed away at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday, August 23, 2020, at her home.  She was born May 18, 1943, in Kokomo, to Cecil and Jessie Johnson.  In 1985, she married Dennis Hughes, in Tennessee, and he preceded her in death.

June graduated from Eastern High School in 1959.  She worked as manager of the liquor store in Walton.  She enjoyed doing yard work and loved to shop on the Home Shopping Network.

Survivors include her children, Abby Causey and Todd Mayfield; grandchildren, Ty Mayfield and Cadence Causey; great-granddaughter, Brylee Mayfield; siblings, Richard Johnson, Janie Marshall and Sherry Bosher; sister-in-law, Connie Johnson; several nieces and nephews; and her cat, Boogie.

In addition to her husband, she was preceded in death by her parents and a brother, Jerry Johnson.

A private graveside service will be held in Greenlawn Cemetery with Pastor Chris Ellis officiating.  Messages of condolence may be left online at www.shirleyandstout.com.  Arrangements have been entrusted to Shirley & Stout Funeral Home in Kokomo.

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Anna Louise Floyd - August 03, 1937 - August 17, 2020

Departed: 08/17/2020 (Kokomo)

Obituary Preview: Anna Louise Floyd, 83, Kokomo, passed away at 9:55 am Monday, August 17, 2020, at her home.  She was born August 3, 1937, in Kokomo, the daughter of the late Joseph Oscar & Anna Jane (Hamilton) Ireland.  On June 17, 1956, in Kokomo, she married Eugene Dale Floyd who preceded her in death on May 25, 2007.

Anna had worked for Jody’s Northside Café and loved to crochet and read her Bible.

Anna is survived by her children, Cathy (Roman) Gama, Evelyn Floyd (Thomas Stout), Nellie Browning, Arnold (Joan) Floyd, and Theresa (James) Johnson; along with many grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchildren; and sister, Irene Hiatt.

Anna was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Eugene; and brother, William Henderson.

Funeral service will be held at 1:30 pm Friday, August 21, 2020, at Shirley & Stout Funeral Home, Jefferson Street Chapel, 414 W. Jefferson Street, Kokomo, with Pastor Brad Swain officiating.  Burial will follow in Kokomo Memorial Park Cemetery.  Friends are invited to visit with the family from 11:30 am – 1:30 pm Friday at the Jefferson Street funeral home.  Memorial contributions may be made in Anna’s memory to the Kokomo Humane Society.  Messages of condolence may be left online at www.shirleyandstout.com.

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Facilities and Amenities

The funeral home is located at 414 W. Jefferson St., Kokomo, IN, 46901, and features a warm and welcoming atmosphere that immediately puts families at ease. The facility is designed to accommodate families of all sizes, with spacious visitation rooms, a chapel, and ample parking. Additionally, Shirley & Stout offers a range of amenities, including audio-visual equipment, catering services, and online obituary posting.

Compassionate and Experienced Staff

The team at Shirley & Stout Funeral Homes is comprised of experienced and compassionate professionals who understand the importance of providing exceptional care during a difficult time. From licensed funeral directors to support staff, every member of the team is dedicated to ensuring that families receive the highest level of service and support. With years of experience in funeral service, the staff at Shirley & Stout is equipped to handle even the most complex arrangements with ease and professionalism.

Funeral Services

Shirley & Stout Funeral Homes offers a wide range of funeral services to meet the unique needs of each family they serve. From traditional funerals with burial or entombment to cremation services with memorialization options, the funeral home provides families with the flexibility to choose the type of service that best honors their loved one. Additionally, Shirley & Stout offers pre-planning services, allowing individuals to make their final arrangements in advance and alleviate the burden on their loved ones.

Cremation Options

In addition to traditional funeral services, Shirley & Stout Funeral Homes also offers a range of cremation options. From direct cremation with no formal service to cremation with memorialization options such as scattering gardens or columbaria, the funeral home provides families with a variety of choices to suit their needs and preferences. The team at Shirley & Stout is happy to discuss cremation options in detail and help families make informed decisions about this important aspect of funeral planning.

Grief Support and Resources

Losing a loved one can be an incredibly difficult experience, and Shirley & Stout Funeral Homes recognizes the importance of providing ongoing support and resources to grieving families. Through partnerships with local bereavement groups and counseling services, the funeral home offers a range of resources to help families navigate the grieving process. From support groups to individual counseling sessions, Shirley & Stout is committed to helping families heal and find closure.

Community Involvement

Shirley & Stout Funeral Homes is deeply committed to giving back to the Kokomo community. Through sponsorships, donations, and volunteer work, the funeral home supports a range of local organizations and initiatives. From hosting community events to participating in charity fundraisers, Shirley & Stout is dedicated to making a positive impact on the lives of those they serve.

Contact Information

If you're seeking more information about Shirley & Stout Funeral Homes or would like to schedule a consultation with one of our experienced funeral directors, please don't hesitate to reach out. You can contact us by phone at [phone number], email at [email address], or through our website at [website URL]. We're here to help you navigate this difficult time and provide you with the compassionate care you deserve.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral arrangements, and any charitable donations in lieu of flowers.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by the family of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or mortuary. In some cases, a close friend or colleague may also write an obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, hobbies, interests, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral services, memorial donations, and any other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the individual's life. Typically, an obituary ranges from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online publication?

The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication. Some newspapers have online submission forms, while others require you to contact them directly via phone or email. Be sure to check the publication's website or contact them directly for specific guidelines.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and the length of the obituary. Some newspapers charge by the word or line, while others offer package deals that include additional services such as online memorials.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it is becoming increasingly common for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice that announces a person's death and provides basic biographical information. A eulogy, on the other hand, is a speech or written tribute that celebrates the person's life and shares personal anecdotes and memories.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a great way to capture the personality and spirit of the deceased. Just be sure to keep it tasteful and respectful.

How do I handle sensitive or difficult information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or difficult aspects of the person's life that you're not sure how to address in the obituary, it's best to err on the side of caution and focus on celebrating their positive qualities and achievements.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or lyrics that were meaningful to the deceased can be a great way to add depth and personality to the obituary.

What if I want to keep the funeral private?

If you want to keep the funeral private, you can still publish an obituary that omits details about the service. You can instead focus on sharing information about the person's life and legacy.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to publish an obituary without printing it in a physical newspaper. This can be a cost-effective option that still allows you to share news of the person's passing with friends and family.

How long will my online obituary remain available?

The length of time that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform. Some websites archive obituaries indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time.

Can I update or correct an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, yes. If there is an error or omission in the obituary, you can contact the publication or online platform to request corrections.

What if I want to publish multiple obituaries for different audiences?

This is a common practice, especially if you want to share different levels of detail or tailor the message to specific groups of people. You can publish multiple obituaries in different publications or online platforms.

How do I ensure that my loved one's memory lives on after they're gone?

Publishing an obituary is just one way to honor your loved one's memory. You can also consider creating a memorial fund, planting trees or flowers in their memory, or establishing a scholarship or award in their name.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

Don't hesitate to reach out for support from friends, family members, or a professional counselor. Writing an obituary can be a challenging task, but it can also be a therapeutic way to process your emotions and celebrate your loved one's life.

Can I include information about memorial donations in lieu of flowers?

Absolutely! Many people prefer to make memorial donations rather than sending flowers. Be sure to include details about any charities or organizations that were meaningful to your loved one.

How do I handle requests for donations or gifts from well-meaning friends and acquaintances?

You can include language in the obituary indicating whether donations are preferred over flowers or gifts. You can also set up a memorial fund or online donation page to make it easy for people to contribute.

What if I need help writing an obituary due to language barriers or other challenges?

Contact your local funeral home or mortuary for assistance. Many funeral homes have staff who speak multiple languages and can help with writing and translating obituaries.

Can I republish an old obituary from years ago?

If you want to republish an old obituary from years ago, you'll need permission from the original publication or copyright holder. Be sure to check copyright laws before reproducing any content.

How do I ensure that my loved one's story is told accurately and respectfully?

Take your time when writing the obituary, and consider gathering input from friends and family members who knew your loved one well. Focus on capturing their spirit and essence in a way that feels authentic and respectful.