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Suzanne Schwab Torok - August 11, 1931 - May 08, 2024

Departed: 05/08/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Suzanne Helen Schwab Torok, of Fairfield, passed peacefully on May 8, 2024 at the age of 92. Sue will be best remembered as a loving wife, mother, grandmother and friend; a gentle woman of quiet, yet determined strength, lightly peppered with an independent streak, and a sense of adventure.

Sue was born August 11, 1931 at Wesley Memorial Hospital in Chicago, IL to the late John J. Schwab and Catherine Tunison Schwab. She was reared in Western Springs, IL where the family were faithful members of All Saints Episcopal Church. Sue learned to play golf and piano during this time, interests that she pursued for the rest of her life.

Sue graduated from Lyons Township High School in 1949. She attended the University of Colorado, Boulder, graduating in 1953, with a B.A. in Sociology. While there, she learned and fell in love with downhill skiing, and joined Pi Beta Phi Sorority and was elected president of her sorority her senior year. She enrolled in the Moser School of Business in Chicago and upon graduation, was hired by Leo Burnett Advertising Co. as an executive secretary on the Marlboro account.

Sue met her husband, Robert “Bob” Torok, while visiting her brother and sister-in-law at Marine Corps Air Station Cherry Point, North Carolina. They were married September 29, 1956, in Western Springs, IL. After his military service, they moved to Connecticut, finally settling in Fairfield, to what would become a beloved family residence on Samp Mortar Lake. Sue’s last residence was in Simsbury, to be near, and cared for, by her daughter, Sarah, and son-in-law, Charlie.

Sue and Bob had four daughters over the course of 14 years; she enjoyed being a mother and homemaker. She also enjoyed pursuing her interests and friendships through golfing in the woman’s league at Smith Richardson Golf Course, playing bridge with neighbors, and singing in the choir at St Paul’s Episcopal Church. Sue volunteered her time often, both at church and school, and served one year as PTA president. Boating on Long Island Sound was a large part of Sue and Bob’s life; they were members of Milford Yacht Club and Cedar Point Yacht Club. Winter activities included family ski trips in New England. As a couple, they enjoyed entertaining friends and family in their home, participating in bridge clubs, organizing neighborhood block parties and progressive dockside dinner parties, vacationing on sailboats with friends, traveling around the world, and making time to visit those they loved. Sue’s quick wit, open and generous spirit, and unconditional love and support will be missed by all those who knew and loved her.

Sue is survived by her four loving daughters: Dori Clough (Paul), Catey Hale (Douglass), Sarah Neagoy (Charlie) and Amy Carey (Ryan); grandchildren: Jessica Clough O’Reilly (Matt), Pam Clough (Austin Jones); Graham (Emily), Alex and Elizabeth Hale; Grace and Evelyn Neagoy; Grant and Ethan Carey; great-grandson, Finn O’Reilly; brother-in-law, Tony Harley; sister-in-law, Mary Ann Torok Neiger (Edward), and many wonderful nieces and nephews.

In addition to her loving husband of 63 years, Sue is preceded in death by her brother, John Schwab Jr. and his wife Jeanne; sister, Dorothy Harley; sister-in-law Bernice Torok Huyser and her husband Jan Huyser; and nephew, Jake Harley.

A Eucharist Service to celebrate Sue’s life will be held at 1:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 25, 2024, at the Church of the Apostles, 2385 Park Ave, in Bridgeport, located within the Rodeph Sholom Synagogue. Friends can greet her family from 12:00 p.m. until the time of service.

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Jane L. Howley - March 06, 1963 - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Jane Cotone Howley, 61 of Ansonia, the beloved wife of Thomas P. Howley, passed away on Wednesday, May 1, 2024. She was born in Bridgeport to the late Romano and Jane (O’Slattery) Cotone.

Jane is survived by her loving husband, Thomas Howley, and her brothers, Ettore Cotone of Needham, MA, and Romano Cotone of Bridgeport. Jane is predeceased by her parents, Romano and Jane Cotone, uncle Ettore Cotone, and grandparents Ferdinand and Angelina Cotone.

Jane will be missed. She loved her dogs, flowers, hummingbirds, and cooking. My Angel will always be with us - till we meet again.

A graveside service for Jane will be held on Tuesday, May 14, 2024 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Thomas Cemetery on Mill Plain Road in Fairfield. All are welcome to attend.

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Joannes Dioses - March 15, 1985 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Joannes Dioses, 39 of Weston, loving husband and doting father, passed away suddenly on April 24, 2024, while traveling for work. He was a kind-hearted, selfless, and generous man.

Joannes (“Juan Pablo”) was born in Lima, Peru, and was known in his neighborhood for carrying around his chess set and challenging relatives and neighbors, old and young alike, to a game. He was truthful to a fault, sometimes getting relatives in trouble for repeating things he had overheard. Always playful, he loved “Carnaval,” a week-long celebration of indulgence preceding lent, where he relished in ambushing neighbors with water balloons. He attended Catholic school ran by nuns of the Dominican Order who often remarked on his prowess in math.

Joannes migrated with his family to the United States when he was 9 years old. He assimilated to life in the States quickly in great part thanks to our loving extended family who already lived here and with whom we celebrated many special occasions. He attended Norwalk public schools and graduated from Brien McMahon High School where he made lifelong friendships. He was a very loving son and brother who made his family proud with his academic achievements. He was also a diehard Knicks fan who idolized Patrick Ewing as a child.

Joannes loved his time in undergraduate school at the University of Connecticut where the enthusiasm for basketball and fanfare were perfect for him. He received his Bachelor of Science in Chemistry and worked as a research associate at Kemira for two years. Although he enjoyed the intrigue of chemistry, his penchant for numbers would lead him to pursue a Master of Business Administration in Accounting from Fairfield University. During his time at Fairfield University, he found an internship at Acme United Corporation that turned into a successful career there. His talent was recognized by the company, and he worked his way from a Business Associate to Vice-President of Operations, Finance and Integrations.

He met the love of his life, Lisa, 14 years ago and they explored many corners of the world in each other’s company. They built a beautiful life together in Weston. He adored his daughter, Pearl, who was the center of his universe. Unicorns, fairies and butterflies became part of his everyday vocabulary. Her love for art led him to hone his drawing skills. Cheerleading for her during swim meets became his new hobby. He was generous with his love and time with all who knew him. While adults mingled at family celebrations, he would find time to play hide-and-seek or chess with his daughter and nephews.

Although he is no longer with us, his fun-loving, dependable, and thoughtful nature will not be soon forgotten. He is survived by his wife, Lisa Dioses, daughter, Pearl, and parents, Carlos and Julia Susan Dioses, as well as his sister Karem Friedman, her husband, Tamir, and nephews, Ari and Zev.

Friends may greet his family on Thursday, May 2, 2024 from 4:00 – 7:00 p.m. at the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home, 50 Reef Rd. in Fairfield. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, May 3, 2024 at 11:00 a.m. at St. Anthony of Padua Church, 149 S. Pine Creek Rd. in Fairfield with interment to follow. The Mass will be livestreamed at https://www.stanthonyffld.org.

A memorial fund to help Joannes' wife and daughter during this difficult time has been established. Contributions can be made via: https://gofund.me/0bcb864c.

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Ellen Collimore - January 09, 1945 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Ellen Jane Buswell Howell Collimore, age 79, of Stratford and formerly of Fairfield, the loving wife of Donal Collimore, passed away peacefully at home with her family by her side on April 9, 2024. Born in Bridgeport to the late Clifford and Helen Buswell, Ellen was a graduate of Roger Ludlowe High School class of 1963. Ellen completed her nursing program at Bullard Havens where she began her career as a pediatric nurse. Later in her career, she worked for Family and Children’s Agency in Norwalk as an intake coordinator, where she received an award from Governor Rowland for her work with families impacted by 911. As a lifelong learner and theatre aficionado, she also attended Norwalk Community College where she took courses in Film Studies.

Ellen raised her family in Fairfield where she lived for 50 years before moving to Stratford. Ellen loved to travel and she and her husband Don traveled together to Alaska, England, Russia, Italy, France, Germany, Austria, Denmark, Sweden and Hawaii. Ellen and Don rafted down the Colorado River together, went snorkeling in Maui and traveled back to her family roots in Scotland. She also loved theatre, music, dancing, animals, movies, shopping, fashion, reading and she cherished the company and laughter of her friends, especially with a glass of Veuve Cliquot.

Ellen continually dedicated her energy to her children’s schools as a PTA volunteer and she was the co-chair of her 25th high school reunion. She loved celebrating and decorating for the holidays, especially Halloween, where costumes and pumpkin carving were always a priority and Christmas, where she herself became Santa’s magic and spirit. Ellen always had the best decorated trees, expertly wrapped, thoughtful gifts and she loved reading classic stories to her children and then, to her grandchildren. Ellen always made sure that everyone around her felt at home and that they were having a good time. Above all else, Ellen loved being a mother and grandmother. Family was her everything.

In addition to her husband, Ellen is survived by her devoted children, Kathryn (Kate) and her husband, James Mascia of Orange, Raymond M. Howell, Jr. and his wife, Erin of Fairfield and Michael Howell of Stratford; her stepchildren, Donal Collimore, Jr. and his wife, Amanda of Easton, Sara Collimore and her partner, Cynthia Lambert of Stratford, Susan Collimore and the late John David Collimore; her cherished grandchildren, Thomas Howell, Christopher Howell, Brian Howell, James Mascia, Joseph Mascia, Donal Collimore III, Jacqueline Forget and Margaux Forget; her sister-in-law, Mary Buswell; as well as her former husband, Raymond M. Howell of Florida. She was predeceased by her brother, Robert Buswell.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, June 23, 2024 from 5:00 – 7:00 p.m. at the Old Post Tavern in Fairfield.

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Mary Louise Cardillo - July 11, 1936 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Mary Louise (Wyant) Cardillo, 87, of Bridgeport, CT, formerly of Hilton, NY, passed away peacefully on April 8, 2024, with family by her side. She is survived by her three children, Susan Nolen of Aston, PA, Richard (Deanne) of Evergreen, CO, and Sandra (Jeff) Shifrin of Wilton, CT.

Mary was born in Holley, NY on July 11,1936 to Ferne Wilson Wyant and Clifford Wyant. She graduated from Holley High School as Valedictorian in 1954 and, more importantly, met the love of her life, Arnold Cardillo. The high school sweethearts were married for 58 years, until Arnie passed away in 2017.

Mary graduated from Cornell University, and taught Home Economics in Hilton, NY, for 25 years. While raising her family in Hilton, she was actively involved as a volunteer in many of her children’s activities, from scouting leader to Sunday school teacher. After retirement, Mary and Arnie enjoyed traveling across the U.S. and across the globe, as well as escaping to Florida every winter. But the greatest joys in Mary’s retirement were her eight grandchildren: Katherine Nolen Schenkel (Randy), Raymond, Laura, and Emily Nolen; Jack and Adam Cardillo; and Matthew and Kyle Shifrin. She traveled to Philadelphia, Colorado, and Connecticut to help as each grandchild was born, and rarely missed a birthday, recital, sporting event, or holiday. Her grandkids came to appreciate “Grandma Lou’s” incredible cooking and baking skills, her beautiful sewing and knitting, and her cozy lap for bedtime stories. Mary never forgot a birthday or anniversary, and spread love to her family, friends and neighbors each year with her wonderful Christmas cookie platters, and homemade Irish crème! She made every holiday incredibly special.

In her last years, Mary suffered from Alzheimer’s. She lost many of her memories, but she always kept her wonderful style and her beautiful smile.

In addition to her children and grandchildren, Mary is survived by siblings Wilson Wyant of Bothel, WA, and Jean Wyant Gleason of Plano, TX, as well as brother-in-law Albert Buell, of Albion, NY, and sister-in-law Shirley Cardillo, of Olivet, MI. In addition to her husband, Arnold, Mary was proceeded in death by sisters Nancy Wyant Teufel and Joan Wyant Buell, sisters in law Ruth and Lorraine Cardillo, and Barbara Wyant, and brothers in law Robert Teufel, Richard Cardillo and Michael Gleason.

A private memorial service will be held in Wilton, CT, followed by interment in Hillside Cemetery, in Holley, NY. If you wish to make a donation in Mary’s name, the family suggests The Alzheimer’s Association, www.alz.org, or any charity you regularly support.

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Rene Paul Caisse - October 18, 1940 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Rene Paul Caisse, age 83, the loving husband of the late Murielle R. Caisse, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 3, 2024. Born in Fall River, MA to the late Leo and Lillian Caisse, Rene was the second youngest of twelve children in his family. He worked in drywall construction prior to his retirement.

Rene and Murielle were part of the founding members of the Cathedral Singers. He was a very good singer/guitarist and they remained active in the St. Augustine Cathedral Singers for many years. Rene also enjoyed the Elks Club in Fairfield, many times serving as their DJ for events. He was also involved with the bowling leagues at Nutmeg and Circle Bowling and played softball in the Fairfield Adult League.

Post retirement, he enjoyed dancing and socializing at several senior centers and truly loved that phase of life with Murielle, after forty-nine years of marriage. Following the death of his beloved Murielle, he became very active in the Shelton Senior Center, meeting new friends, dancing, DJing events and especially calling out bingo games. It was there that he met his partner, Margaret Keane, with whom he shared ten years of many wonderful times.

Rene is survived by his two devoted sons and their wives, Daniel and Ellenmarie Caisse of Portland, CT and Roger and Karen Caisse of Trumbull; his grandchildren, Nicolas (Cora) Caisse, Benjamin Caisse, Meghan Caisse, Brian (Heather) Caisse and David Caisse and his fiancée, Isabel; and, his great granddaughter, Adeline Mae, with his second great grandchild due in June. He will also be missed by his two brothers, Donald and Ronald Caisse and his sister, Terry Cournoyer. Rene was predeceased by his five brothers, Armand, Arthur, George, Raymond & Robert Caisse and his two sisters, Gertrude and Lillian.

Friends may greet his family on Tuesday, April 16, 2024 from 3:00 – 6:00 p.m. at the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home, 50 Reef Road in Fairfield followed by a funeral service immediately thereafter at 6:00 p.m. Inurnment will take place on Wednesday, April 17, 2024 at 11:00 a.m. directly at Gate of Heaven Cemetery in Trumbull.

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Winifred Keane - February 12, 1931 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Winifred Keane passed away peacefully April 1, 2024 at 3:15 a.m. in Wallingford, CT. She was 93. She was born in Beijing, China in 1931, where her father, Dr. Fred Harbert was stationed as a naval doctor. She was the second of six girls born to Dr. Harbert and his wife, Frances Clark Harbert. She had an itinerant childhood as the daughter of a navy doctor. The family eventually settled in Bryn Mawr, PA.

In 1952, Winifred received a BFA degree in Voice and Composition from the University of Pennsylvania where she met her first husband, CommonFund founder George Keane. They had three children together: multiple award-winning composer and musician, Brian Keane, born in 1953; cellist and retired owner of Merit Music in New Canaan, Geoffrey Keane, born in 1954; and retired physical therapist, Dr. Sheila Keane, born in 1957.

After moving to the Berkshires as a new mother, Winifred directed a church choir, singing and composing music for them, and won two scholarships to Tanglewood. Moving to Westport, CT in 1957, Winifred studied voice with Metropolitan Opera bass, Alexander Kipnis and made her Carnegie Hall debut as lyric soprano in 1962 to critical acclaim. She performed her own compositions in various concert halls including Columbia and Yale Universities, Lincoln Center, the Philadelphia Art Alliance and the Charles Ives Festival in Danbury, CT. Winifred was a member of the Westport community for 54 years before moving to Ashlar Village in Wallingford, CT in 2011.

After obtaining her teaching certification in music with a BS degree from Western Connecticut State University in 1967, she taught children K-6 in New Canaan and adult education at Fairfield University. She had many private students and ran the Creative Music Studio in Westport for several years. Later, she took up the French horn and played in bands, orchestras and solo recitals.

Winifred received an MFA degree in Composition from Sarah Lawrence College. Her woodwind and percussion compositions were premiered there under the tutelage of Saul Goodman of the New York Philharmonic in 1972. Her interest in world music found her singing Indian ragas at Wesleyan University and folk songs in Mandarin with Chinese traditional instrumentalists, as well as studying improvisation with cellist David Darling in the Music for People program.

Winifred was the recipient of commissions, awards and prizes for her compositions from the Westport Arts Center, the National League of American Pen Women and the National Endowment of the Arts. Her composition “International Greeting” was commissioned by the U.S. Coast Guard Band in 1985. She wrote compositions for opera, oratorio, choral, songs, orchestra, band, instrumental, sacred music, electronic and microtonal music. One of her more talked about pieces involved electronically processed recordings of Siamese cats, with vocal soloist and Moog synthesizer, which was choreographed for ballet.

A founding member of Connecticut Composers Inc., she later became a member of the American Composers Forum. Later, she developed an interest in poetry and is published by the Fellowship of Quakers in the Arts. Her music is published by Penryn Press.

Winifred was a long-time member of the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) in Wilton, CT and later, part of the Middletown fellowship. She was a prominent member in Al-Anon and various arts organizations. When she moved to Ashlar Village, she got involved with various arts groups there, including a poetry group that she was very fond of. She spent her final 13 years at Ashlar Village.

Winifred is predeceased by her sisters, Lorraine Morey and Jean Albright, her ex-husbands George F. Keane, Harvey Brickman and longtime companion and fellow Westport resident, Walter Schlenker. She is survived by her three children Brian, Geoffrey and Sheila Keane, two grandchildren, Wylder Keane and Dylan Keane and surviving sisters, Mary Weightman, Barbara Schauber and Carol Amling.

A memorial service to celebrate her life will be held on Sunday, April 7, 2024 at 2:00 p.m. at the Chapel at Masonicare Heath Center, 22 Masonic Way, Wallingford, CT 06492. You will be able to join the Ashlar memorial service online via: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/86502841291.

There will also be a smaller, Quaker memorial at Wilton Quaker Meetinghouse, 317 New Canaan Road, Wilton, CT 06897 on Saturday, April 13, 2024 at 2:00 p.m.

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Wendy Alice Ryan - October 21, 1963 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Wendy Alice Ryan, 60 of Bridgeport, the beloved wife of Martin P. Ryan, passed away on Wednesday, March 27, 2024. She was born in Port Chester, NY and was the cherished daughter of the late Alan and Charlotte Pirrie.

Wendy grew up in Fairfield and received her BA from Eastern Connecticut State University and an MA from Sacred Heart University. Wendy was a beloved English teacher for over 25 years and touched the lives of many students in Bridgeport, Ansonia and Bethel.

Wendy enjoyed art in all its forms including photography, poetry and film. Whenever possible, she sought live music from dancing barefoot with the Grateful Dead to dressing up for the opera. She loved to spend her school breaks traveling and was especially fond of visiting family in Scotland. Wendy had compassion for all animals and always had at least one canine companion. She could most often be found digging in her garden.

In addition to her husband Marty, Wendy is survived by her children, Jacob Ryan and his wife, Julie and Alice Ryan and her spouse, Shannon Carter. She will be missed by her siblings, Robert Pirrie and his wife Jen Stone, Sharon Cosek and Lorna Pirrie and her partner Alec Duthie; as well as her nephews, Jim Pirrie and John Heady; and many other relatives, friends and colleagues. Friends may greet her family on Sunday, April 7, 2024 from 1:00 – 3:00 p.m. at the

Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home, 50 Reef Rd. in Fairfield. A memorial service will begin at 3:00 p.m.

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W. Derek Buckley, PhD - December 11, 1939 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Derek Buckley, PhD, 84, of Easton, the beloved husband and soulmate of Val Buckley for over 63 years, passed away peacefully at his home on March 26, 2024 surrounded by his loving family. Derek was born in Manchester, England to the late David and Lillian Buckley. He was a graduate of the Houldsworth School of Applied Science at Leeds University and had a doctorate in physics, math and nuclear science. Derek studied the efficiency of thermoelectric generators and his research included the study of such diversified subjects as global warming, semiconductors and even included joint patents on X-ray lithography. Derek met Val in Leeds, England in 1960 and they were married in 1961.

In 1968, Derek was invited to work on a United States government project at General Dynamics in Rochester, New York and after a year and a half of service and the end of his contract, he and Val decided to make the U.S. their home. From New York they moved to Troy, Michigan, where Derek joined the famous scientist, Dr. Stanford Ovshinsky and continued as a research scientist for five years. Derek then started his 25-year career at PerkinElmer in Norwalk, where he became Vice President of Research and was awarded joint patents in X-ray lithography. It was at this same time that he and Val made Easton their home and where they raised their children. Derek’s other roles were Vice President of Penn Central Corporation, where he had the task of restructuring the business and he retired as President of Qualcorp Corporation in Danbury.

Post retirement, Derek was fascinated by government and successfully ran for office as Easton Town Clerk. He was inspired to reorganize and streamline the office and created paperwork and programs such as marriage forms, dog licenses and many other useful references for town clerks. Much of his work was recognized and used by other towns in Connecticut.

Derek was a man of ethics and incredible honesty and expected the same when he dealt with those who had business dealings with him. He had a great sense of wit and an encyclopedic memory and always had an awesome dialogue with anyone on any subject. He was a most remarkable guy and a wonderful husband who adored his children and all eight grandchildren. He always took time off from work to watch his children's and grandchildren’s activities and sports. He loved and was an avid fan of English soccer and watched Manchester United games all his life.

Derek’s most adamant desire was to carry on his father’s wish to make sure that all his children and grandchildren would have the opportunity to attend university. His wish has become a reality as the last two grandchildren have only a few years to complete high school with plans to go to college.

Derek was an avid reader and studied the leaders of the world. His favorite readings were those of William Shakespeare, Winston Churchill and Margaret Thatcher. He was incredibly supportive of the Easton Senior Center and spent many years taking seniors on trips through Canada, the United States and Europe.

One of his proudest achievements was that at the young age of 55, he constructed several graphs to analyze medical test results that indicated his need to seek additional care for prostate cancer well before traditional medicine would have suggested the same. He later went on to use this information to educate other men in this age group and he credited the treatment at Memorial Sloan Kettering for allowing him to live and enjoy his grandchildren and family for many additional years.

In addition to his wife, Val Buckley, Derek is survived by his two children, Karen-Marie Buckley of Durham, and Paul Derek Buckley and his wife Adriana Buckley of England. He will also be missed by his eight cherished grandchildren, Connor and his new wife Christina, Brennan, Duncan, Dalton, Sophia, Tristan, Sebastian and David; and his brother David and his wife Anne of Australia and their grown children, Alison and David.

Friends are invited to greet his family on Friday, April 12, 2024, from 3:00 – 5:30 p.m. at the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home, 50 Reef Road in Fairfield. A Mass of Christian Burial will take place on Saturday, April 13, 2024 at 10:00 a.m. meeting directly at Notre Dame of Easton, 655 Morehouse Road. Interment will follow in Aspetuck Cemetery in Easton. A recording of the Mass can be viewed by following this link.

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Gloria L. Lutinski - April 02, 1924 - March 20, 2024

Departed: 03/20/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Gloria L. Lutinski, 99 (just shy of her “100th” birthday, 4/2/24), of Fairfield, beloved wife to the late Edward P. Lutinski, passed away peacefully at home with her family by her side on March 20, 2024.

A loving wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, great great grandmother, Gloria will forever be cherished by her daughters Tammy Zadravecz of Fairfield & Linda Kardamis and her husband Paul of Fairfield and, her son Gerald Lutinski and his late wife Elaine of St. Augustine, FL.  She also leaves behind her cherished grandchildren Taylor Zadravecz of South Hadley, MA,  Alyssa Zadravecz Gamby and her husband JR., Christy Sandy and her husband Chris of FL, Leah Pomianowski and her late husband John of Trumbull, Dean Kardamis of Fairfield, her great grandson Jeffrey Lutinski and his family of FL, Hailey and Sage Pomianowski of Trumbull, Maximus and Sianna of Black Rock; several nieces and nephews and former granddaughter-in-law Diana Kardamis of Black Rock.

In addition to her husband Edward, Gloria was predeceased by her grandsons Edward and Wayne Lutinski, both of Florida; and, her sister Joyce Kane of Fairfield.

Gloria was born in Bridgeport and was the daughter of the late Julius and Julia Csapo Farkas. Gloria grew up in the city’s West End and was proud of her Hungarian heritage. She graduated from Bassick High School and went on to work in several manufacturing companies.

Gloria always enjoyed days at the beach with her friends and their families. Gloria’s other passions included playing cards including Pokino, bowling on a woman’s league with her neighborhood friends and making her famous Hungarian stuffed cabbage, stuffed peppers and of course, goulash. She also was an avid baker making cakes, Hungarian cookies and even Greek cookies, which were all delicious to say the least.

I think Gloria was the biggest fan of Elvis Presley. She had many of his albums and an 8 track tape she used to love listening to plus other memorabilia.

Dove chocolates were her “go to”.

Gloria will be sadly missed by many!! She had a heart of gold and was there through thick and thin. The Lutinski Family would like to acknowledge and thank the staff and especially the caregivers at Constellation Hospice Care, Shamrock Homecare and Homecare Pro for taking such great care of Gloria.

There will be no services but a Celebration of her Life will take place at a later date.

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David Howard Jepsen - May 17, 1959 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: David “Dave” Howard Jepsen, 64, of Stratford, CT, also known as “Oscar”, “O”, “Jeb”, “Beautiful”, or “Papa J”, passed away suddenly on March 14, 2024, after suffering a heart attack in his winter retirement home in Brownsville, TX,

David was predeceased by his father, James Howard Jepsen. He is survived by his wife of 34 years, Lauri Jisonna Jepsen, his mother Jean Jepsen, and his sister Laura Bastian (Steve), both of Waterford. David is also survived by his children: Lawrence “LJ” Jepsen, Jennifer Jepsen (Frank Giulietti), Ryan Jepsen (Emily), Sara Jepsen, all of Stratford, and bonus daughter, Ellen Cervone (Thomas) of Watkinsville, Georgia. He will be sorely missed by his in-laws, Lawrence and Barbara Jisonna of Stratford, CT/Brownsville, TX, his sister-in-law Leanne Small (David) of Stratford and his numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

David was born on May 17, 1959, in Bridgeport and raised in Fairfield. He graduated from Roger Ludlowe High School in 1977. During high school, while known as “Oscar”, he volunteered for the Southport Fire Department at 16 years old and that’s where he found his calling. Being one of the few volunteers at the high school with a driver’s license, David was the designated driver for the other high school volunteers who would all pile in his Opel station wagon for fire calls. After graduating, he worked at Hemlock Hardware in Fairfield, where he became fascinated with tools and learned how to use them to fix small machines and engines, a skill he honed throughout his life.

In 1979, David was hired by the Fairfield Fire Department and became a member of IAFF Local 1426. He loved every aspect of the job from supplies to dispatching. When he was promoted to Lieutenant in 1996, he truly enjoyed teaching and sharing his experiences. During his 33-year career, he was rarely without a story to tell. David fought fires even on his last day with the department, when he responded to a mutual aid call for a fire in Bridgeport. He retired as an acting Assistant Chief in December of 2012.

It was during his time as a firefighter that he met Lauri, who would become his best friend and partner in crime. Before they started dating, Lauri set him up on a blind date, but the date changed her mind. So, Lauri met David at the venue to explain and the two of them hit it off. They married in 1990 and settled in Stratford to raise their family.

David loved his family beyond measure and could be found taking his mom shopping, watching Avatar, the Last Airbender with his children, driving late at night to 7-11 for “snacky snacks”, building costumes, cutting lawns while wearing earphones listening to podcasts or Genesis and sharing a love of animals with his sister.

He spent countless hours volunteering for his kids’ activities, from t-ball to school plays. He participated in the Stratford YMCA Indian Guide and Princess Program for 20 years from 1996 – 2016. He loved helping them build boats and cars. He enjoyed camping, fishing and driving in the parades. He was also a devoted volunteer for the Bunnell-Stratford Marching Band & Guard, from 2005-present, long after his children graduated.

After he retired, David began working at Home Depot and then Mike’s Repair Shop in Fairfield. He also worked on small engines for friends and local residents. At the Palm Resaca Park, where he and Lauri spent their winters, he found his last small engine obsession, repairing golf carts for neighbors and became known as the “Golf Cart Guru”.

Friends, family, and colleagues will remember David for his dry sense of humor. Many of whom often heard him ask Lauri, “Hey Hun, did I tell you today, that I love you?” And when she’d answer “no”, he’d yell, “GOOD!” to the hysterics of all those around.

David was incredibly talented, incredibly funny and incredibly loved, and will be dearly missed by all.

Calling hours will be held on Thursday, April 18, 2024, 4:00 -7:00 p.m. at the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home, 50 Reef Rd. in Fairfield. A celebration of life will be held on Friday, April 19, 2024 at 11:00 a.m. at the Scandinavian Club, 1351 South Pine Creek Rd. in Fairfield.

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Shirley A. Smith - June 29, 1936 - March 03, 2024

Departed: 03/03/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Shirley Ann Bensey Smith, the beloved wife of the late Stephen Bartlett Smith, passed away peacefully on Sunday, March 3, 2024. Born on June 29, 1936 in Canebrake, West Virginia to Margaret H. and Steve E. Bensey, Shirley and her seven siblings moved to Southport at a young age and she was a Fairfield resident since.

Shirley attended the Pequot School in Southport and graduated from Roger Ludlowe High School in 1954. It was then she began working in the banking industry where she met her husband, Stephen. While raising two sons, Shirley began working at Fairfield University where she retired. An active member of the Fairfield Beach Club, Shirley enjoyed tennis, swimming, entertaining and spending time on the beach with friends or a good book.

Shirley is survived by her loving sons, Stewart B. Smith and his partner, Lawson Smith and Scott B. Smith, all of Fairfield. She will also be missed by her sister, Margaret Ganley of Norcross, GA, five stepchildren and several nieces and nephews.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Thursday, March 14, 2024 at 11:00 a.m. at St. Anthony of Padua Church, 149 South Pine Creek Rd. in Fairfield. Interment will follow in Oak Lawn Cemetery.

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Robert C. O'Brien - February 11, 1932 - February 24, 2024

Departed: 02/24/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Robert C. O’Brien, 92, of Fairfield and the beloved husband of 65 years of Patricia M. (Rice) O’Brien, passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, February 24, 2024 with his family by his side. He was born in Bridgeport to the late Edward and Dorothy (Ward) O’Brien. He attended Blessed Sacrament School and Warren G. Harding High School.

Bob was a U.S. Air Force veteran earning the rank of Staff Sergeant while stationed in Okinawa and Japan during the Korean Conflict. Upon his honorable discharge, he worked for Sikorsky Aircraft in Stratford. He then attended Fairfield University, earning a Bachelor of Arts degree in Business Administration in 1959.

Bob worked as the Plant Manager of the Mohawk Curtain Co. in Bridgeport and then Director of Manufacturing and Assistant to the President of Century Curtain Co., a division of Kayser Roth Corp. in New York. In 1972, he was appointed Associate Director of Development at Fairfield University. He earned his Master of Arts in Corporate and Political Communication at Fairfield University in 1979 and served on the University’s Board of Alumni, representing the graduate school. In the late 1970’s, he was appointed Executive Director of the Greater Bridgeport Heart Association and then as Executive Director of the Fairfield County Chapter of the Leukemia Society of America. Bob was the first health agency to initiate, introduce and conduct Celebrity Waiters Breakfast and Luncheons in Connecticut as major fundraising events for non-profit agencies. He later served as Director of Communications for an executive search firm. In 1998, Bob was appointed Executive Director of the Connecticut Chapter of the ALS Association. As Executive Director of three health agencies, Bob raised funds for medical research, patient aid and professional and public education.

Bob was a past member of the Kiwanis Club of Fairfield for over 25 years, serving as president in 1984. He attended St. Anthony of Padua Church in Fairfield and St. Thomas Aquinas Church and was a member of the Gaelic American Club.

In addition to his wife, Bob is survived by his loving sons, Sean P. O’Brien of Fairfield, William E. O’Brien and his wife Laura A. O’Brien of Johns Island, SC; his daughter, Kathleen A. Janick and her husband Herb of Cape Elizabeth, ME; and his nephew, Robert S. O’Brien and his wife Andrea of Atlanta, GA. He will also be greatly missed by his grandchildren: Lyddy, Margaret and Timothy O’Brien and Stephen, Dorothy, Thomas and Patricia Janick. He was predeceased by his brother, William E. O’Brien and his wife Terry.

Friends may greet his family on Wednesday, February 28, 2024 from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. at the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home, 50 Reef Rd in Fairfield. A funeral service will take place on Thursday, February 29, 2024 at 11:00 a.m. at the funeral home, followed by interment with military honors in Oak Lawn Cemetery.

Memorial contributions can be made in Bob’s name to: Thomas Merton Family Center, 1406 State St., Bridgeport, CT 06605.

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Deette Pierson Higgins - January 01, 1935 - February 06, 2024

Departed: 02/06/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Deette (DeeDee) Pierson Higgins, age 89, of Fairfield, Connecticut and Amelia Island, Florida, beloved wife of Dr. Kenneth Elliott Higgins. DeeDee passed away peacefully on February 6, 2024, with her family by her side. She was born in Pittsford, NY, to Esther and Mitchell Pierson and was the sister to Mitchell and Gaylord Pierson.

DeeDee attended and graduated from Madeira School in Virginia and Bennett College in New York, where she majored in Modern Dance. She lived a full life spending her childhood and young adulthood riding her beloved horses at Kolaneka Farms and High Point, frequently competing in horse shows and fox hunting with the Genesee Valley Hunt Club.

On September 7, 1957, she married the love of her life, Kenneth Elliott Higgins. The couple started their life together in New Hampshire, where their three children were born and then moved to Fairfield in 1963.

DeeDee and Ken valued novel experiences for themselves and their children with many memorable adventures traveling to Block Island, weekends skiing in Vermont with family and friends, and trips to Grand Cayman, to name a few. Her hallmark quick wit brought laughter and joy to those around her and her clever remarks and humorous anecdotes added warmth and levity to every occasion.

Dance was not just a passion for DeeDee, but a form of expression that brought her immense joy. Growing up, DeeDee and her siblings learned many styles of ballroom dance, her family often spontaneously dancing at night after dinner at their home, High Point. Her graceful movements and rhythmic steps were a testament to her love for the art form and it was always a special treat to watch DeeDee and her family on the dance floor at every family celebration.

Sports were also major part of DeeDee’s life. Accomplished at tennis, golf and skiing, she was a consistent supporter of her children at all their team competitions. She was well-known for enthusiastic vocal support, spirited discussions with the referees and a signature whistle that could be heard above the crowds and across the fields.

Everything in DeeDee's life could lead to singing a song or a jingle. From mundane tasks to special occasions, her voice filled the air with joy and harmony. Growing up, DeeDee enjoyed friendly singing competitions with her brother Mitchell, showcasing their endless knowledge of songs most of us had never heard of. These memories of laughter and music remained close to her heart throughout her life.

Ken and Deedee's home became the heart of our family's celebrations, where every holiday was infused with laughter, song, and the warmth of their love. Their gatherings were a symphony of joy, filled with delicious meals, spirited dancing, and playtime with the grandchildren.

DeeDee is survived by sister Gay Pierson; her three children, Kenneth Higgins, Jr. and his wife Brinker, Kari Higgins Pander, and Mitch Higgins and his wife Elizabeth (Bitsy); 5 grandchildren, to whom she was known as “Nonnie”, Elliott Higgins, Eliza Higgins Grabis, Taylor Pierson McGovern, Ryan Brittany Pander, Whitney Higgins Pander; and two great grandchildren, Charlie Mitchell McGovern and Bodie Pierson McGovern. DeeDee was predeceased by her parents and her brother, Mitchell Pierson, Jr. Always a beacon of light and love, DeeDee’s last words were “I love you more.”

We will miss you, DeeDee. We always knew where home was with you. And through the values you’ve instilled in us and your demonstration of a purposeful life well-lived, you live on.

We love you more, DeeDee.

A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, February 17, 2024 at 11:00 a.m. at Trinity Episcopal Church, 651 Pequot Avenue, Southport, CT 06890.

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Jo-Ann Porch - August 18, 1962 - February 01, 2024

Departed: 02/01/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Jo-Ann Porch.

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Martha Tripodi - March 16, 1963 - January 29, 2024

Departed: 01/29/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Martha Gallucci Tripodi, age 60, passed away peacefully on Monday, January 29, 2024 at her home. Martha was born in Bridgeport on March 16, 1963 to Alfred and Holly Gallucci. She grew up in Fairfield and attended Roger Ludlowe High School and the University of Bridgeport. She resided in Fairfield, Milford and most recently Stratford, Connecticut.

She spent much of her career in massage therapy and was the first medical massage therapist licensed in the state of Connecticut. She also worked for several years as a school bus driver for the Westport school system, much to the delight of the lucky children on her route.

A passionate volunteer, Martha operated the video camera at Black Rock Church in Fairfield, filming the services every Sunday. Known for her great warmth and sense of humor, she had the special ability to connect with people in a deep and meaningful way. An avid decorator and gardener, Martha could turn any house into a home, filled with flowers, candles and love. Never far from her were her Chiweenie Paco or her dachshunds Greta and Vienna.

Martha is survived by her beloved son Matthew Tripodi; her life partner Doug Loucas; her mother Holly Gallucci; sisters Cara Gallucci, Madeline Monde and Adrianne Gallucci; her nephew Will Monde and niece Nicole Monde; cousins Laurie DeCredico and Danny Cenatempo; as well as her many dear friends. She was predeceased by her father, Alfred Gallucci. She will be deeply missed by her friends, family and all who knew her.

Friends may greet her family on Monday, February 5, 2024 from 4:00 - 7:00 p.m. at the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home, 50 Reef Road in Fairfield. A Celebration of Life Service will take place on Tuesday, February 6, 2024 at 11:00 a.m. at Black Rock Church, 3685 Black Rock Tpke., Fairfield, CT 06825.

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Elizabeth Randolph Farrar March - March 19, 1933 - January 28, 2024

Departed: 01/28/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Elizabeth Randolph Farrar March, 90, passed away at her home in Black Rock, Connecticut on January 28, 2024.

Born in Schofield Barracks, Hawaii on March 19, 1933, Elizabeth (“Betty”) was the first of two children of Colonel Benjamin Randolph Farrar and Clement Weeks Ostermann Farrar. After graduating from Manatee County High School in Bradenton, Florida in 1950, Betty earned an A.S. in Fashion Merchandising from the Laboratory Institute of Merchandising (now known as LIM College) in New York City in 1952. While serving as a head buyer at Halle Brothers in Canton, Ohio, Betty met her future husband, Philip Kappes March, who she married in 1955. Following her marriage, she worked at Lord & Taylor in New York City before relocating with her family to Garrison, New York and Wilton, Connecticut.

While raising her three children, Betty founded and directed the Wilton Woods Nursery School. Later, she joined Cadbury Schweppes USA where she served in many positions for more than 25 years, including as a Senior Telecommunications Analyst. Betty earned a B.A. in History with honors from the University of Connecticut in 1994. She studied calligraphy with the School Sisters of Notre Dame and later opened her own calligraphy studio, Elizabeth’s Pen. Following her retirement, Betty discovered the joy of acrylic painting, displaying considerable talent as a still life and landscape painter.

Multi-talented and resourceful, Betty was a skilled gardener, cook, needlewoman, and seamstress. She read constantly, had a great sense of humor, and was a loyal and trustworthy friend. She possessed remarkable insight, sensitivity, and strength. She created loving homes where her children’s and grandchildren’s friends and endless succession of pets were always welcome. She was very proud of her father, a West Point graduate who served in World Wars I and II and was awarded two Purple Hearts and the Silver Star.

Betty loved Cape Cod, regularly vacationing with her family in Chatham while her children were growing up. Over the years, she also enjoyed trips to Canton, Ohio to visit her mother-in-law Ruth Kappes March, and Livonia, Michigan, to visit her beloved sister-in-law Cary March Ormond and Cary’s family. In recent years, Betty enjoyed many happy times vacationing with her family at Pleasant Bay in Harwich, Massachusetts.

In 2016, Betty moved from the Cove area of Stamford to Black Rock to be closer to her children and grandchildren. She enjoyed many events and activities in the area, including Black Rock Day, summer concerts at St. Ann's Church, Sunday afternoons at Captain's Cove, St. Patrick’s Day at The Castle, tree lighting ceremonies, Porchfest, and taking in the beautiful view along St. Mary's. Her home served as the gathering place for many happy and memorable family celebrations.

Betty was predeceased by her father, Colonel Benjamin Randolph Farrar; her mother, Clement Weeks Ostermann Farrar; her former husband, Philip Kappes March; and her sister, Alice Ostermann Farrar Collier. Betty is survived by her son, Duncan Maxwell (“Max”) March (Barbara Guryan March); her daughters, Erica Randolph March Menard (James Joseph Menard) and Victoria Hughes March (Leslie Bruce Finley); and her granddaughters, Victoria Randolph Menard and Claire Elizabeth Menard. Betty is also survived by her nephews, Collin Collier and Casey Collier, who she was blessed to come to know in recent years; her niece-in-law, Lucy Ormond; and her nephews-in-law, Stephen Ormond and Brian Ormond. Betty’s Christian faith sustained her throughout her life, and she passed in the expectation of being reunited with the Lord and her loved ones.

The family would like to express their deepest gratitude to the wonderful aides at Always Caring of Westport, Connecticut for the outstanding care, companionship, and love they provided to Betty and her family. Their support made it possible for Betty to remain in her home until the end of her life.

A memorial service in Betty’s honor will be held in the spring of 2024. For those wishing to donate in Betty’s memory, please consider Wounded Warrior Project or The Salvation Army.

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Frank E. Marak - June 17, 1939 - January 22, 2024

Departed: 01/22/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Frank E. Marak, 84 of Fairfield and the beloved husband of Jacqueline (Blazok) Marak, passed away peacefully on Monday, January 22, 2024 with his family by his side. He was born in Bridgeport to the late Andrew and Amelia (Wydra) Marak and was a lifelong resident.

Frank graduated from Roger Ludlowe High School, Class of 1958. He then joined the U.S. Navy and served honorably for four years. He was a precious metal specialist at Handy & Harmon where he retired after 40 years. In his spare time, Frank loved to garden and watch the New York Mets and Giants games.

In addition to his wife, Frank is survived by his two sons, Matthew Marak of Fairfield and Michael Marak and his wife, Jill of Naugatuck. He will also be missed by his sister, Andrea Hubicska of Shelton. He was predeceased by his brother, Andrew Marak.

All services are private.

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Linda Rogers - September 30, 1964 - January 21, 2024

Departed: 01/21/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Linda Anne Rogers, 59, of Easton, passed away on Sunday, January 21, 2024, after a years-long battle with Alzheimer’s Disease. Born on September 30, 1964, she was the daughter of Helen Rogers and the late John Rogers.

Linda was born in Brooklyn, New York and raised on Long Island. She attended the University of Texas at Austin and worked for over 20 years in marketing and advertising. She was an avid lover of music, fashion, design and entertainment. She will be remembered by those around her as a deeply caring, endlessly passionate and meticulously organized mother, wife and friend.

She is survived by her loving husband, Jody Matejka, and son, Maxwell Matejka of Easton, CT; her mother, Helen Rogers, of Long Island, NY; five siblings, Richard Rogers, Michael Rogers, Patrick Rogers, Nancy Rogers, and Dennis Rogers; and 18 nieces and nephews.

Friends and family are welcome to attend a celebration of her life on April 20, 2024 in Easton. Additional details will be available closer to the event date.

Donations can be made in Linda’s name to Hilarity for Charity (HFC), a non-profit organization that cares for families impacted by Alzheimer’s disease and contributes to brain health research and education, via their website at wearehfc.org.

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Rev. Diane A. Jones - January 12, 1941 - January 08, 2024

Departed: 01/08/2024 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Rev. Diane A. Jones, 82, went home to be with the Lord while the sun was rising on Monday, January 8, 2024. She is most recently from Monroe but lived most of her adult life in Fairfield. She was the daughter of Raymond and Asenath (Eagle) Jones, born in Albany, NY on January 12, 1941.

She grew up in Bridgeport and graduated from Central High School, class of 1958. She later attained her associate degree at Housatonic Community College and was most proud that she became an ordained minister in her late forties.

When she was age 50, Diane started her own church, Word of God Christian Church, affiliated with Faith Christian Fellowship in Tulsa, OK. She was a true woman of faith, running the church with her son Bill, who is also a minister and her daughter-in-law, Teresa for 25 years, first in her living room and then for most of those years at the Jennings School in Fairfield. She was a devoted teacher of God’s Word and faithful believer in divine healing. Diane made lifelong friends with her fellow pastors and also with the wonderful and generous people in her congregation. The church was truly her extended family and there were many joyous services, picnics and celebrations throughout the years. She loved great meals and fellowship with family and friends at her favorite restaurants. She always said she did not cook but made reservations!

Diane also had a keen eye for what she liked. She was an antique car collector and owned several collectible cars. She loved art in all forms, especially watercolor, McCoy pottery and interior design. She also enjoyed a great book and an exciting Yankee game.

Diane, also known as “Di Di” or “Nain”, is survived by her devoted son, Bill Feher and his loving wife, Teresa; her beloved grandchildren, Lianna, Jameson, Talia and Stefan; her brother, Brian Jones and his wife, Mary Jane; and her sister, Jacqueline Sikorski. She is also survived by her loving nieces and nephews and their children. She will also be missed by her beloved cat, Chester.

Friends may greet her family on Saturday, January 13, 2024 from 9:30 a.m. – 11:30 a.m. at the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home at 50 Reef Road, Fairfield. A service will be held at 11:30 a.m. with her good friend, Rev. Robert Buse officiating. Interment will follow at the Mountain Grove Cemetery, 2675 North Avenue in Bridgeport.

Donations in Diane’s memory can be made to Make-A-Wish Connecticut, The Wishing Place, 56 Commerce Drive, Trumbull, CT 06611 or at https://wish.org/ct.

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Ronald A. Krug - August 01, 1932 - December 25, 2023

Departed: 12/25/2023 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Ronald A. Krug , age 91, the beloved widow of Eileen McIntyre Krug, peacefully joined her on December 25, 2023 after a four year struggle with Alzheimer’s disease. Ron was always a proud veteran of the U.S. Air Force having served during the Korean Conflict. Prior to his retirement, he was a purchasing agent with Perkin Elmer in Norwalk.

Ron’s favorite past times were his Tuesday bus trips to the casino, taking the Yankee train with the Travis boys to watch his beloved Yankees even if they lost and in his younger days traveling, golfing, and skiing. He so enjoyed taking care of the many cats and dogs that he and Eileen adopted over the years.

He always cherished his more than 50 years with his Warde Terrace neighbors who became like family. He is survived by Terese Travis-Horvath and her husband, Robert Horvath; the Travis boys and their families; numerous cousins and Eileens’ nieces and nephews.

At Ron’s request, all services have been omitted and he was laid to rest with Eileen.

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Colleen Duffy Fries - November 26, 1956 - December 23, 2023

Departed: 12/23/2023 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Colleen Duffy Fries passed away peacefully in Fairfield, CT on Saturday, December 23, 2023 after courageously facing the challenges of multiple myeloma for nine years. She was the youngest of five children born in Lancaster, PA to the late Harold and Peg (Margaret) Duffy Fries. She is survived by her siblings, Duke (Ann Koch) of Baltimore, MD, Trudy (Barry Brandt), Mary (Barry Gentzler), Kate (Bill Benson), all of Lancaster, PA, and her lifelong best friend, Donna Tierney and her husband, Michael of Fairfield. Colleen was quite close to her ten nieces and nephews, her nineteen great-nieces and nephews, as well as the Tierney children and grandchildren who all cherished her dearly. Colleen graduated from McCaskey High School in Lancaster, Brandywine College in Wilmington, DE, Fairfield University and the University of Connecticut School of Law. She was exceptionally proud of each of these accomplishments. She first practiced law at Bai, Pollock, and Dunnigan and later was a founding partner of the law firm of Coyne, VonKuhn, Brady and Fries, LLC, where she practiced law for the remainder of her successful career. Beyond the courtroom, Colleen treasured being a part of her many family trips to the beaches of New Jersey. She was especially proud of her Irish heritage and celebrated that and many other occasions heartily!

Colleen devoted MUCH of her life to many community organizations. She was Vice President of Seymour Pink, a nonprofit group whose mission is to unite the community in the fight against breast cancer. Through her efforts there, she provided needed legal guidance, a helping hand and she was a steward of justice for all. Her expertise in event planning helped foster the incredible growth of Seymour Pink during the last few years. Colleen was also on the Board of Directors of Living in Safe Alternatives (LISA), an organization that offers alternative living situations for Connecticut’s most vulnerable children and youth.

As a lifelong, devoted Democrat, she was actively involved in the political scene, especially in Seymour, CT. Colleen proudly served as Town Attorney for eight years. She was an elected member of the Seymour Democratic Town Committee and was appointed for a short term on the Board of Police Commissioners.

Colleen is also survived by many dear, close friends including the Robert and Fran Thompson family. From the time Colleen moved from Lancaster to Connecticut, she was considered a part of both the Thompson and Tierney families. Colleen’s family would like to offer a million thanks for all they have done for her over the years, most importantly for the love and care they gave “Leenie” in her final years. The family is forever grateful to Mary Deming, Colleen’s very special friend, who gave so generously of her time to help care for Colleen.

The impact she made on the lives of so many people was invaluable, and our Leenie will be deeply missed.

Friends may greet her family from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. on Saturday, January 20, 2024 at the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home, 50 Reef Road, Fairfield, CT 06824. Please honor Colleen by wearing something pink in recognition of her deep devotion to Seymour Pink. Gifts and donations in Colleen’s memory may be sent to http://www.seymourpink.com/join-the-fight/donate/.

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Sally Burns - July 29, 1936 - December 17, 2023

Departed: 12/17/2023 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Sally Burns, 87 of Fairfield, the beloved wife of the late John Francis Burns, passed away peacefully at her home on December 17, 2023. She was born in Bridgeport to the late Samuel and Edith (Mills) Hydis and was a longtime resident of Fairfield.

After graduating from Roger Ludlowe High School, she met the love of her life and they wed in 1955. Initially she was a stay-at-home mom dedicating her life to family, always there when needed for her husband and children, parents, brothers, as well as extended family and friends. Later in life, she worked at Skydel's department store and Stillson Pharmacy, before retiring from CVS as a pharmacy technician.

She loved to cook and was especially known for her homemade apple pies, St. Patrick's Day corned beef dinners and Sunday meals with pot roast, mashed potatoes and homemade gravy. She was an avid UCONN women's basketball and New York Yankees fan and a longtime member of the Gaelic American Club in Fairfield. Throughout her life, she was able to enjoy traveling to many US parks with family and multiple trips abroad with her husband and lifelong friends, Diane and Bob Ulmer.

Sally is survived by her loving children, Thomas Burns and his wife Lori of Fairfield and Sandra Librandi and her husband Christopher of Milford. She will also be missed by her grandchildren, Danielle Librandi and her husband Michael Hamilton, Paige and Alexandra Librandi, Jack Burns, as well as her great grandchildren, Frankie and Cameron. In addition to her husband, she was predeceased by her brothers, Jack and Edward Hydis.

Sally was the foundation of our family, an amazing mother, grandmother, great grandmother, sister and friend to so many. We will miss her terribly. There's a hole in our hearts, but we feel comfort knowing she's now with loved ones who have gone before her.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, February 9, 2024 at 10:00am at St Pius X Church in Fairfield followed by a private interment in Calvary Cemetery in Waterbury.

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Mary Suzanne (Sue) Riordan - September 11, 1937 - December 07, 2023

Departed: 12/07/2023 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Mary Suzanne (Sue) Riordan, 86 of Fairfield, the beloved wife for over 61 years of the late David J. Riordan, passed away on Thursday, December 7, 2023. She was born in Westport to the late Thomas and Mary (Collier) Bannon. Sue was an avid Bridge player and also loved to bowl, golf and go to the casino.

Sue is survived by her four children, Cindy Miller and her husband, Jim of Newtown, Patty Skurja and her husband, George of Stratford, Lynn Ambrose and David Riordan and his wife, April of Fairfield. She will also be missed by her grandchildren, Kristine (Peter) Cochrane, Steven (Paige) Vichiola, Bobby (Alex) Ambrose, Kacey (Tyler) Albertson, Jennifer (Alex) Magoulas, Jake Skurja, Taylor Miller and Cayla Riordan; and great-grandchildren, Julian, Emma and Colin, Christian, Carter and Brody, Mason and Maya. In addition to her husband, she was predeceased by her brother, Thomas Bannon.

Friends may greet her family on Thursday, December 14, 2023 from 4:00 to 6:30 p.m. at the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home, 50 Reef Rd. in Fairfield. A prayer service will be held at 6:30 p.m.

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Jeffrey Wilson - December 03, 1985 - November 22, 2023

Departed: 11/22/2023 (Fairfield)

Obituary Preview: Jeffrey WIlson, age 37, the beloved son of Kevin Wilson and the late Maria Wilson, died suddenly on Wednesday, November 22, 2023.

Friends and family are invited to gather to honor his life on Sunday, December 3, 2023 from 1:00 - 4:00 p.m. at the Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home in Fairfield. A Vigil Service will be held at 3:30 p.m.

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Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Fairfield community and is committed to giving back through various initiatives and partnerships. They regularly participate in local events, sponsor charitable organizations, and provide educational resources on topics related to grief support and funeral planning. By engaging with the community in this way, they demonstrate their commitment to supporting families beyond the funeral service itself.

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Losing a loved one can be an overwhelming experience, and Shaughnessey Banks Funeral Home recognizes the importance of providing ongoing support during this difficult time. They offer a range of grief support resources, including counseling services, support groups, and online materials. Their staff is also available to provide guidance and recommendations for additional resources in the community.

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What is an obituary?

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Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy.

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A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), and surviving family members. It may also mention hobbies, achievements, and charitable organizations they supported.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform it will appear in. Generally, it should be concise yet informative, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos with the obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. These can be recent or vintage images that help tell the story of the person's life.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the newspaper or online platform directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some may accept submissions via email or online forms, while others may require a phone call or in-person visit.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or online platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others offer package deals or discounts for longer notices.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly common for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can help ensure that your life story is told accurately and authentically.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries can be a celebration of the person's life, so feel free to include humorous stories or anecdotes that capture their personality and spirit.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive issues or controversies surrounding the person's life or death, it's best to exercise discretion when writing the obituary. Focus on sharing positive aspects of their life and avoid potentially hurtful details.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can help honor the person's memory and support a meaningful cause.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or online platform. Some may publish notices immediately, while others may have a delay of several days or weeks.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, corrections or updates can be made to an obituary after it's been published. However, this may depend on the publication or online platform's policies and procedures.

What if I need to write an obituary for someone who was private or had no family?

In cases where there are no immediate family members or close friends to write an obituary, it may fall to a distant relative, caregiver, or social worker to prepare the notice. You can also consider reaching out to colleagues, neighbors, or acquaintances who may be able to provide valuable insights.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share an obituary with a wider audience. You can also create a memorial page or group to share memories and condolences.

How do I preserve an obituary for future generations?

You can save a physical copy of the obituary in a scrapbook or memory box. Many online platforms also offer digital archiving options or downloadable PDFs that can be shared with family members.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to emotional reasons, consider enlisting the help of a friend, family member, or professional writer. You can also take breaks and come back to the task when you feel more composed.

Can I include quotes or poetry in an obituary?

Yes! Quotes, poems, or lyrics that were meaningful to the person can add depth and personality to the obituary. Just be sure to verify any copyright restrictions before including copyrighted material.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?