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Curtis Jasper - January 07, 1960 - August 07, 2020

Departed: 08/07/2020 (Lodi)

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Merlyn F. Rokos - July 08, 1922 - July 29, 2020

Departed: 07/29/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Merlyn Rokos went home to be with the Lord and his family on Wednesday, July 29, 2020 at the age of 98. Merlyn was born in Elmwood township, Leelanau County, MI on July 8, 1922. Merlyn was the fourth child of John and Martha (Kauer) Rokos, who were farmers. Michigan winters are very hard. During the depression, Merlyn, his father and brothers, hauled firewood by horse drawn sleigh 7 miles to Traverse City to sell in town every winter day. Merlyn married Mary McCartney on December 1, 1946. They settled in Traverse City, Michigan and lived in a home Merlyn built himself. They had three children; Susan, Michael, and Matthew. Merlyn was a police officer in Traverse City for 16 years, but pay was low. Merlyn needed multiple jobs to support his family. He worked at the Dyoung dairy farm, drove a school bus, and picked cherries. In 1962 the family moved to Milpitas, CA where Merlyn worked at Lockheed Martin on top of secret missiles and satellites for 25 years. After retirement, Merlyn moved to Lockeford, CA where he spent the last 30 years of his life. Merlyn was a self trained carpenter. He loved to make wooden toys and clocks that he gave away to school children and anyone who wanted one. He loved the outdoors and was an avid deer hunter until he was 86. Merlyn was 6'4" and 240 pounds, but was a kind and gentle man. He never had an enemy. He personified the golden rule. He treated everyone as he wanted tone treated. He often helped family and friends by repairing items too difficult for the average guy. He helped people move into a new house. He also helped people financially when they were in a dire situation. He was always there for us all: Our Family Rock. Merlyn was preceded in death by his wife Mary of 47 years; his daughter, Susan Cullom; son, Michael; and granddaughter, Jennifer Gucho. He is survived by his son, Matthew Rokos of Lockeford, seven grandchildren and all eleven great grandchildren. A memorial service (a life celebration) will be held when arrangements can be made at a later date.

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Stephen Michael Koteles - May 01, 1945 - July 23, 2020

Departed: 07/23/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Stephen Michael Koteles, of Lodi, CA, passed away peacefully at his home on July 23, 2020. A devoted husband, father, and grandfather, Steve will best be remembered for his love of family, his gregarious nature, and the kindness and generosity he showed towards everyone Born in Bedford, Ohio on May 1, 1945, Steve was the youngest of four children to Magdalene and Stephen Koteles, and grew up among a close-knit Hungarian community. His father called him Mick or Mickey; others nicknamed Hawkeye. Most people knew him as Steve. To his children he was Dad. Steve graduated from Bedford High and attended Kansas University. As a young man, Steve enlisted in the Navy, and served aboard the USS Vega in Vietnam. While stationed in Alameda, CA, for training in communications, he met Barbara Jean Gray of Oakland in 1967. They married, and in 1974 they moved to Lodi where they raised their three children, who eventually gave them four grandchildren. Steve spent his entire post military career of nearly forty years working for the phone company. Steve was a staunch believer in worker’s rights, leading him to be an active member of the union. Over the years he served a shop steward, bargaining team member, and editor of the union newsletter. His strong support of the union stemmed from his deeply held conviction that all people deserve basic justice, rights, and dignity. Steve also held a deep love and devotion to family. A loving husband, father, and grandfather, Steve worked to support the household while Barbara returned to school to become a Registered Nurse. Through science fairs, butterfly collections, beauty pageants, school plays, choir concerts, band reviews, sporting events, dance recitals, cheerleading competitions, fundraisers, and graduations, Steve was always there to support his wife, children, and grandchildren whenever he could, which was often. His value of critical thinking and education pushed all three of his children to earn college degrees. With charitable hearts, Steve and Barbara gave regular support to St. Mary’s Dining Room, St. Anne’s and St. Christopher’s Churches, and many other charities. He helped start St. Anne’s Bingo Night, constructing the first Bingo Board, and serving as one of the first Bingo callers. Steve could never walk by a Salvation Army bell ringer during the holidays without leaving something, and was known to hand out large bills to strangers in need on the streets. In his final moments, Steve held Barbara’s hand as he peacefully began the next journey. Steve is survived by his wife Barbara; his three children, Stephanie Koteles, Lorrie (Daniel) Morrison; and James (Lesley) Koteles; his grandchildren Michael, Corben, Annie, and Cormac; and his sister Donna Fletcher. He is preceded in death by his parents, Stephen and Magdalene; and his brothers Richard and Thomas. A Celebration of Life memorial will be held in the future.

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Sue Adelle Escobar - May 27, 1929 - July 13, 2020

Departed: 07/13/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Sue Adelle (Fay) Escobar, born May 27, 1929, peacefully passed on July 13, 2020, in Stockton, CA. After becoming deaf at 2 years old, she attended Berkeley School for the Deaf where she met her husband, Lloyd Escobar. They married in 1947 and had a family until he died in 1969. She is survived by daughters, Beth Price, Lorraine Escobar, and Loretta Wyer, eight grandchildren, Nathaniel Larsen, Miles Larsen, Heidi Toikka, Rita Toikka, Faye Cary, Jon Escobar, Jo Anna Amlin, and Jared Amlin, and many great-grandchildren and great-great-grandchildren. Baptized as one of Jehovah’s Witnesses in 1956, Sue devoted 64 years of her life studying the Bible and helping others in the deaf community to develop an appreciation for the scriptures. She proved to be a pillar of strength and encouragement for so many; a constant reminder that tough times can be endured with a sweet smile. It is comforting to know God will not forget her work and the love she showed. (Hebrews 6:10) Her church, Jehovah’s Witnesses, will be providing an online memorial service on July 25, 2020, at 3:00p.

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Donna Marie Gianunzio - January 28, 1936 - July 11, 2020

Departed: 07/11/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Services in the care of Rocha's All Faiths. Please leave your condolences for the family.

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Thomas A. Pishos - November 06, 1934 - July 05, 2020

Departed: 07/05/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Thomas A Pishos "Tommy" "Nasi" was born Athanasius Pishof in Greece 11-6-1934. When Tom was 3 years old, his family came America on the last voyage of the Queen Mary before she was used to transport troops during World War II. Tom attended elementary through high school in Mt Pleasant, MI. He helped his father in the family restaurant "Paul's Famous". Tom excelled at baseball, football, basketball, and track in high school. He graduated from Central MI University with a BS and Masters degree in education. Tom and his first wife, Patricia and their son Paul moved to CA in 1960 where Tom taught 4th, 5th and 6th grades until 1967 when he became an elementary school principal in the Newark CA school district. In 1973 Tom invested his teacher's pension in the 7th Round Table Pizza restaurant ever opened. In the next 9 years he and his partner opened 30 more restaurants. He split from his ex-partner with 16 restaurants in 1985. His new partners, ex-wife Patricia Graham and son Paul increased the number of restaurants to 30 between 1985 and 2000. Tom semi-retired after Paul took over the operations in 2001, after which Paul ran the business into the ground and bankrupt both his parents. Tom married Bonnie Brekke in 1986, who worked as an accountant in their businesses. In 1988 Tom and Bonnie purchased a home, intended for retirement, on Lava Creek near Fall River Mills, CA. Tom bought and learned to fly a single-engine airplane, got his instrument rating, and shortened their commute from a 5 hour drive to a 1 hour 15 minute flight. Bill Hanna (Hanna-Barbera, Yogi Bear's creators) was their next door neighbor. Bill had watched Tom flyfish and catch fish on Lava Creek when no one else could. Bill had Tom give him a lesson to catch trout with wet flies and trolling. In 1993, Tom and Bonnie purchased a 620 acre parcel near Lovells, MI, that became Valhalla Game & Guest Ranch. What a joy for Tom to develop the property into a premier deer and elk hunting lodge. They sold the property in 2004, returning to Lodi, CA. Up until 2008, Tom golfed at every opportunity. In 2013, Bonnie and then Tommy joined The Church of Jesus of Latter-day Saints. After the first attendance, Tom said "there's so much love here". He didn't miss a Sunday until he could no longer attend due to wandering. Tom developed dementia and moved to a memory caregavility in Stockton, CA, April 30, 2019, where he lived with daily visits from Bonnie until Covid-19 isolated everyone. On July 5th, 2020, Tommy had breakfast in his room at 8:30 am. He was tired and laid down for a rest. He never woke up. Tom is survived by his wife, Bonnie (Lodi) and his estranged son, Paul (Valley Springs). He was preceded in death by his father, Paul, mother, Vasilik, brother Sammy, and 2 sisters, Connie and Helen. If you wish to leave a memorial for Tom Pishos, please consider Hospice of San Joaquin, 3888 Pacific Avenue, Stockton, CA 95204 (a non-profit hospice in San Joaquin County) (209) 957-3888 or www.hospicesj.org

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Mike Bates - October 31, 1954 - July 05, 2020

Departed: 07/05/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Mike was born Halloween day 1954 to Carol andLarry Bates in Chico, CA. He grew up in Stockton, graduating from Tokay High School in 1972 and later attended Delta College. Following school, Mike served the Stockton community as a plumber for 45 years where he was honest, trustworthy, and sokind hearted that he would never say no to anyone in need. Attention to detail and a commitment to quality work earned him the finest reputation. Because he was a very quiet man, people were often surprised of his depth of knowledge on a variety of scientific and philosophical subjects. He used this knowledge to organize his thoughts and perform tasks quickly and more accurately. As a devout Christian and a very active member of Big Valley Bible Church in Lodi, Mike did everything with his heart in the pursuit of excellence to serve the Lord. He was a very generous, honorable and loving man who cared deeply about you, giving much yet expecting little in return. He had a passion for the outdoors, in particular fishing and camping, yet he also had an artistic side with a preference for acoustic music and playing his guitar. He rescued many dogs and cats and remained faithful to them to the very end. He was certainly a man of many colors. Mike was called very suddenly and unexpectedly to be with his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, on Sunday July 5, 2020. Atrial Fibrillation likely contributed to his untimely death. It is sad that we will no longer enjoy his wry sense of humor and love of life. He was predeceased by his mother Carol, and is survived by his father Larry Bates, his sister KellyBates and brother David Bates, his uncle Ralph "Sonny" Hilzer (Jodie), his nieces and nephews, Amy (Vern), James, Nycole, Tawny (Bill), Zachary, Travis (Amanda) and Max. Finally, Michael Bates will be dearly missed by his loving life companion Vivian Tierney. A GoFundMe page www.gofundme.com/f/mike-bates has been set up to assist the family with his funeral and final expenses. Any assistance is appreciated. Memorial services are pending. 209-369-5084

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Donna May Frey - November 22, 1954 - July 03, 2020

Departed: 07/03/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Donna May Frey , 65 , from Lodi, CA. passed away on July 3rd 2020 at Dominican Hospital in Santa Cruz, CA. She will be missed by all who knew and loved her more then we can say, the mark she left on the world can never be equaled. She was born on November 22nd 1954 to Robert and Florence McCreery. She had a big beautiful family that she loved with all of her heart. She was survived by her husband Dennis Frey, her daughter Dione Stanhope and son in law Troy Stanhope. Her granddaughter Megan List, grandson in law David List, grandson Shane Silveira, grandson Drake Silveira, great grandson Ronin List and great granddaughter Emery List. She had a large family with several siblings: Florence Crowell, Kay Williams, Laura Canaday, Pat McCreery, Jim (Jackie)McCreery, Mary(Bob) Bandoni and Roberta (Rhett)Ernst. Along with several nieces and nephews . Also her extended family/co-workers at Lodi Memorial Hospital where she worked for over 30 years. She was loved by so many, she was caring and gave all of herself to help and be there for others. She had a big beautiful contagious smile that anyone who had the privilege of meeting her would never forget. She loved to travel, garden , spend time with family and her very beloved pets. She is preceded in death by her father Robert McCreery, mother Florence McCreery, brother Fred William's and nephew Tony Conte lll. A celebration of life will be announced at a later date. "When tomorrow starts without me, I will not be here to see, That the sun will rise and find your eyes; filled with tears for me, But please know you're always in my heart, and I will forever love you, And know, each time you think of me, I will be missing you too. So when tomorrow starts without me don’t think we’re far apart, For every time you think of me I’m right here in your heart."

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Bailus Edgar "Zig" Zeigler - July 02, 1928 - June 27, 2020

Departed: 06/27/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: In the care of Rocha's All Faiths

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James Leroy Wilcox - December 25, 1934 - June 13, 2020

Departed: 06/13/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: In the care of Rocha's All Faiths Cremation & Burial.

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Joan V. Lundquist - May 20, 1933 - June 09, 2020

Departed: 06/09/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Joan Valentine Durrell Lundquist passed away surrounded by her family on June 9t h, 2020, at the age of 87. Joan was born May 20, 1933, in San Mateo, CA, to Bonnie M. (Bare) and Daniel Bedford. Her mother later married Lavell S. Durrell who adopted Joan and lovingly raised her. A graduate of Burlingame High school, she received a B.A. from Wellesley College in 1955, where she majored in Medieval History and minored in Art History. Joan married Weyman I. Lundquist in 1956. Joan and her husband had many adventures in the Alaska Wilderness during the years of 1959-1962, when her husband was Assistant U.S. Attorney for Alaska. Joan and her family lived in Homewood, at Lake Tahoe, for many years, where she was active in environmental organizations including the League to Save Lake Tahoe, the Sierra Club, and the League of Conservation Voters. She was instrumental in getting Granite Chief designated as a wilderness area as part of the California Wilderness Act of 1984, and she served two terms on the Lahontan Regional Water Quality Control Board. As her parents aged, Joan became more active as the manager and later the owner of Bare Fruit Company, a vineyard located in Lodi. Joan was a world traveler, a gourmet cook, an avid bridge player, loved reading, and enjoyed listening to classical music. She had a life-long love of opera, and she enjoyed attending operas with her friends and family. She was well-known as an avid San Francisco 49ers and San Francisco Giants fan. She also enjoyed tennis, alpine skiing, and water skiing. Joan is survived by her four children: Weyman, Jettora, Erica (and her husband Randy), and Kirk; her eight loving grandchildren: Brittany, Chelo, Jack, Charlie, Jesse, William, Robert and Erick; and her brother Dennis J. Durrell of Lodi. Toward the end of her life, she enjoyed the time with her roommates Brittany, Alex, and Kirk. She loved spending time with visiting family, playing with her dogs and cat, watching the 49ers, reading, and chatting with her caretakers Lani and Dianna. Joan will be remembered as well-spoken, intelligent woman with a expansive love of life that was only matched by her love for her family. Services were private. If desired, her family requests contributions in Joan’s memory be made to the League to Save Lake Tahoe.

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Hollee Weethee - December 20, 1961 - June 08, 2020

Departed: 06/08/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Hollee went to be with the Lord on June 8, 2020, surrounded by her loving family. She had a strong faith in Jesus, which provided her with much peace and comfort through her courageous battle with cancer. Hollee was born to Gloria and John Hagen in Carson City, Nevada on December 20, 1961. As a toddler she moved to Lodi and attended Lodi schools. She graduated from Lodi high in 1980 with honors. In 1980 Hollee met the love of her life, Mark Weethee, at Lodi Lake. The two married on December 5, 1981, and were married for 38 years. Together they have two wonderful sons, Nicholas and Christopher. Hollees passion for family was a priority in her life always caring and putting others before herself. Hollee loved taking care of her family and music was always a part of her life and she shared this love with her husband Mark and their two boys. Many friends enjoyed family jam sessions at the Weethee's house. Hollee touched peoples lives and brought much joy to the Lodi community through music. In recent years she was a vocalist for the band Group Therapy. As part of this group Hollee and Mark performed at many local wineries, where they acquired a large fan and friend base. Hollee was easy to talk to and had a wonderful sense of humor, which made it easy for people to call her a friend. Besides the full time job of raising the Weethee boys (Mark included), Hollee worked for the San Joaquin County for 22 years. Hollee is preceded in death by her mother, Gloria; father, John; sisters, Sydney and Gloria; and brothers, Richard and Danny. She is survived by her husband, Mark; sons, Nicholas and Christopher (Kisha) Weethee; her brother, Jack Hagen; and sister, Connie. Hollee was an honest, true, beautiful and brilliant woman. Now she is my sweet angel, who will never be forgotten. Due to COVID-19 At her request there will be a small family memorial. In her honor, donate to the charity of your choice.

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Debra Ann Giles - December 08, 1965 - May 30, 2020

Departed: 05/30/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Services in the care of Rocha's All Faiths. Please leave your condolences for the family.

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Palma Lee Zwingelberg - May 02, 1952 - May 30, 2020

Departed: 05/30/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Palma Lee Zwingelberg (Morrone) 68, of Lodi, California, passed away peacefully on May 30, 2020, surrounded with the love of her family beside her. She was born May 2, 1952, in San Diego Ca to parents, Philip and Geneva Morrone and moved to Lodi when she was 10 years old. Palma was the oldest of 3 siblings Phyllis Miller of Arizona and Jennifer Wise of Lodi. Palma graduated from Lodi High in 1970. She was the beloved mother to daughter Angela Morrone of Lodi and son Philip Huestis who is currently serving in the Army at Fort Jackson SC. She loved spending time with her daughter where they loved cooking together and rescuing animals along with various social events. She worked at Lodi Unified School District main office for many years and was loved by everyone she encountered. Her hobbies included cooking authentic Italian dishes and the rescuing of cats and horses though all animals were her passion. Palma always shined from within and you knew she was in the room. She will be sorely missed by all. She is proceeded by both parents and she is survived by her children, sisters, four nieces Valerie and Emily Callis of Arizona and Terra and Tania Wise of Lodi and one nephew Timmy Jr also of Lodi. And two brother in laws Tim Wise of Lodi and LeRoy Miller of Arizona. She also had many Aunts, Uncles and cousins that will all miss her dearly. A Celebration of Life will be October 10th 2020 starting 1:00 pm at Tim and Jennifer Wise house. Please contact Jennifer Wise at 209-570-6953.

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Clifford Timmons Webber - August 11, 1950 - May 22, 2020

Departed: 05/22/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Services in the care of Rocha's All Faiths. Please leave your condolences for the family.

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Ernest Dean Mewbourn - October 10, 1967 - April 27, 2020

Departed: 04/27/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Ernest (Ernie) Dean Mewbourn, 52, of Ione, California, passed away on April 27, 2020 at his home. Ernie was born in Yuma, Arizona to Ernest Dean Mewbourn and Linda Sue Parker (Tate), on October 10, 1967. He attended Tokay High School in Lodi, California. He worked in construction for 20+ years, became a general contractor and started EDM Construction in 2015. He loved to go camping, hunting, fishing and spending time with his family. Ernie is survived by his wife Debbra Ryan Mewbourn, sisters Debbie Garrett and Linda Oakes, dad Chuck Parker, brothers Steve Parker and Mike Parker, nephews Ron Johnson, John Johnson, Dennis Brown and Joey Oakes. He is preceded in death by his mother and father and nephew Donald Johnson.

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Theresa Jean Tidwell - April 23, 1935 - April 13, 2020

Departed: 04/13/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Theresa J. Tidwell was born in French Camp CA on April 23, 1935 to Joseph and Marrietta Baliva. Theresa was a home maker. She is survived by her children, Paul Adams and Tammy Adams of Stockton and Diana House of Monterey. No services are scheduled and her funeral arrangements are entrusted to the care of Lodi Funeral Home

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Lucille Ann Highley - July 03, 1944 - April 07, 2020

Departed: 04/07/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Arrangement entrusted to the care of Rocha's All Faiths.

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William Wisdom - May 24, 1938 - April 01, 2020

Departed: 04/01/2020 (Lodi)

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John F. Baker - November 02, 1928 - March 30, 2020

Departed: 03/30/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: OBITURARY J0HN FREDERICK BAKER 1928 - 2020 John Frederick Baker passed peacefully into eternal rest at home on 30 March 2020, at the age of 91 years old. He is survived by his loving wife, Marlys Van Schaick - Baker and their three children - David Baker, Joyce Carrroll and Diana Hepseth; as well as, ten grandchildren and 21 great grandchildren. John was born 2 November 1928 in Everton, Missouri to his parents, Frederick William Baker and Mona Maude Cady. He outlived all five of his siblings – Francis Krout, Paulena Will, Anita Hadkins, George Baker and Dwight Ed Baker. In 1935, when John was seven, his family moved to Ione, California, where he attended school and graduated from Calaveras High School in 1948. John met the love of his life, Marlys Van Schaick and married in Jackson, California on 20 January of 1952 and spent the next 68 years together until his passing. His work history began with the California Highway Department Construction Road Crew and the US Forest Service Department. He then made the decision to enter into the National Guard for the next eight years. After ending his military calling, he spent the next 25 years, working at the Calaveras Cement Plant until Its closure. While living in Calaveras County he was very active in church, 4-H activities and camping with his family. After buying a home in Sheep Ranch, they decided to enrich their lives by raising foster children. Once the cement plant closed, John and Marlys then moved to Southern California for John to enter into training at the Los Angeles Trade Technical College. After gaining new skills in repairing high-end motorcycles, moved to Sacramento until he retired for good at 80 years of age. Upon his second retirement, John and Marlys spent time traveling in their 5th wheel trailer, visiting their extended family and friends all over the United States. A few trips were made to Mexico through their church, helping small communities to raise the roof of their own church. During the last years he enjoyed gardening, reading, home improvement and assisting his neighbors, whom they referred to as Big John, with various small tasks when needed. A large get together of his family and friends gathered together to celebrate John’s 90th birthday in November of 2019. John Frederick Baker was laid to rest on April 8, 2020 at Lodi Memorial Cemetery in Lodi, California. In a private ceremony, his son David spoke and read scripture from the bible, alongside with his two sisters, Joyce and Diana. May he Rest in Peace.

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Gary Frank Scherr - October 13, 1961 - March 12, 2020

Departed: 03/12/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Services will be held at Lodi Funeral Home 725 S Fairmont Ave. Lodi on Friday March 20th at 1:00 pm

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Judith JeNean Galindo - February 29, 1940 - February 19, 2020

Departed: 02/19/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: In the care of Rocha's All Faiths.

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Marion Shirley Beauchemin - August 24, 1935 - February 04, 2020

Departed: 02/04/2020 (Lodi)

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Dorothy Thompson - June 27, 1927 - February 01, 2020

Departed: 02/01/2020 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy “Dottie” Thompson, a longtime resident of Lodi, passed away on February 1, 2020 after a short illness. She was 92. Dorothy was born on June 27, 1927 in Boise, Idaho. She was the youngest child of John and Nell Allan. Her husband, LaVor, along with her three older sisters, all preceded her in death. She grew up on a farm in Mayfield, just outside of Boise, and spent her first eight years of education in a one-room school house. After graduating from Boise High School in 1945, she married Ralph Edward Hall in 1951 and traveled the world, living in Casablanca, Morocco and London, England. While in Morocco, Dorothy gave birth to her only son, Cary, in 1952. In 1957 she married LaVor Cole Thompson. They lived in Boise, Idaho and Spokane, Washington for a few years before moving to Lodi in 1966. LaVor owned Ro-Tile Mfg. and Thompson Roofing while Dorothy worked at Lodi Physical Therapy for over 50 years. She was an active member of the Lodi Elks Lodge and Grace Presbyterian Church. Dorothy loved to travel and took many trips and cruises with family and friends over the years. She had a love for antique furniture and was a master at refinishing old pieces. At 87 years old, to keep active, she started volunteer work at Lodi Memorial Hospital. Thanksgiving was a special time for Dorothy. For over 40 years she hosted a family reunion at her home. Dozens of family and friends gathered from all over Southern California, the Bay Area, Utah, and Idaho for several days of celebration. She would never pass up an opportunity to party especially when dancing was involved. Over the years she hosted many parties and gatherings at her home as well as helping organize events at the Lodi Elks Lodge. Dorothy is survived by her son, Cary, and wife, Terri, of South Pasadena, California, stepdaughters, LaJean of Rocklin, California and Vikki of Tsaile, Arizona, along with her granddaughters: Sarah and Leslie, step-grandchildren: Derek, Jacqueline, and Jason, and step-great-grandchildren: Ashley and Allison. She also leaves behind an extended family of nieces and nephews in Boise, Idaho, Ogden, Utah, and Tracy, California. Visitation will be on Friday, February 14 th from 3:00 to 7:00 at Lodi Funeral Home, 721 S. Fairmont Ave., Lodi. Following a private burial, services will be held on Saturday, February 15 th at 11:00 a.m. at Grace Presbyterian Church, 10 N. Mills Ave., Lodi, officiated by Dr. David Hill and Steve Netniss. There will be a reception following at the Lodi Elks Lodge, 19071 N. Lower Sacramento Rd., Woodbridge from 1:00 to 4:00.

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Patrick Francis O'Brien - December 21, 1931 - December 30, 2019

Departed: 12/30/2019 (Lodi)

Obituary Preview: Born 12/21/31 to Francis J. and Margaret O’Brien in Pettigo, Northern Ireland. Passed away 12/30/2019 in Lodi, CA surrounded by family. Pat was a 1956 graduate of All Hallows College, Dublin, Ireland. He subsequently earned two Masters Degrees and a Doctorate in Education and Counseling Psychology from the University of San Francisco. Pat came to Sacramento in 1956, joined the Faculty at Bishop Armstrong High School and served in dual capacities as a teacher and counselor; in 1960 he was appointed Director of the Newman Student Center at Sacramento State College. In 1971 he relocated to San Francisco to become Dean of Student Services at Golden Gate University. He retired from that position in 1994. At GGU he also served as the University Ombudsman and Master of Ceremonies. He held the rank of Senior Adjunct Professor in the University’s Graduate School of Business. After two years in retirement, he was recruited by Catholic Charities of San Francisco to be the Director, Peninsula Family Resource Center, San Mateo. He retired again in 1998. He was an active volunteer in a variety of programs: Women’s Recovery Association, Burlingame, San Mateo County Human Relations Commission, San Mateo County Self-Esteem Committee, San Carlos Economic Development Committee, San Mateo St. Vincent de Paul Society, St. Matthias Parish, Redwood City, Parish Council (Chairman), Therapy Dog Program with his faithful dog, Angel, Lodi, CA. He is survived by his cherished wife (and best buddy) Nancy, his beloved daughter Peggy, granddaughters Hayley and Katie, and, in Ireland, his brother John and his family, the family of his brother Michael (dec.), many nieces, nephews and life-long friends. At Pat’s request, there will be no funeral. A private gathering will be held at a later date to acknowledge his gratitude to all the wonderful people who enriched his life. A favorite quote: “Being Irish, he had an abiding sense of tragedy which sustained him through temporary periods of joy.” W.B. Yeats. (His family and especially his wife, want to note that, despite his laments, his periods of tragedy were few and brief while his periods of joy were many and long-lasting.) Those who knew and loved him appreciated his storytelling, his annual St. Patrick’s Day party, his informative and entertaining Christmas letters, his kindness and his great wit. He was the officiate of choice for family and friends’ weddings, where the bride and groom’s greatest hope was to build as beautiful a marriage as he and Nancy’s. Memorial gifts may be made to St. Vincent de Paul Society, 50 North B Street, San Mateo, CA 94401.

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In recent years, cremation has become an increasingly popular choice for many families. Rocha's All Faiths Cremation & Burial offers a range of cremation options, including direct cremation, cremation with memorialization, and witnessed cremation. Their experienced staff will guide families through the cremation process, ensuring that they understand all available options and make informed decisions.

Burial Services: Honoring Tradition

For families who prefer traditional burial services, Rocha's All Faiths Cremation & Burial provides a range of options. From selecting a casket and choosing a burial site to coordinating with local cemeteries, their team will handle every detail with care and compassion. They understand the significance of honoring loved ones with a traditional burial service and are dedicated to making the experience as meaningful as possible.

Supporting Families Through Grief

Losing a loved one can be a devastating experience, and Rocha's All Faiths Cremation & Burial recognizes the importance of providing ongoing support to families during this difficult time. They offer resources and guidance to help families navigate the grieving process, including:

- Grief counseling and support groups

- Online obituaries and tribute pages

- Aftercare programs and bereavement support

Pre-Planning: A Gift to Your Loved Ones

Pre-planning a funeral may seem like a daunting task, but it can be a thoughtful gesture to your loved ones. By making arrangements in advance, you can ensure that your wishes are respected and spare your family from having to make difficult decisions during a time of grief. Rocha's All Faiths Cremation & Burial offers pre-planning services, allowing individuals to plan their funeral service in advance and lock in costs at today's prices.

Community Involvement and Outreach

Rocha's All Faiths Cremation & Burial is committed to giving back to the Lodi community. They participate in various outreach programs and events throughout the year, including hosting seminars on topics related to funeral planning and grief support. By engaging with the community, they aim to educate families about the importance of funeral planning and provide resources to those in need.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who need to know about the funeral arrangements and other details. They also provide a sense of closure and help people process their grief.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or obituary writer may assist with writing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral service, memorial donations, and other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and newspapers allow you to include one or more photos of the deceased. This can be a nice way to personalize the obituary and help people remember the person.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to find out their submission guidelines and deadlines. Some newspapers may have online submission forms or email addresses where you can send the obituary.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to have control over how they are remembered. This can be a therapeutic exercise and can also help reduce the burden on your loved ones after you're gone.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's death, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. It's often used when a full obituary is not desired or necessary.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice that announces someone's death and provides biographical information. A eulogy is a speech or written tribute that celebrates the person's life and shares personal anecdotes and memories.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or discounts for online-only publications.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

This depends on the publication or platform. Some may allow corrections or updates, while others may not. It's essential to proofread carefully before submitting the obituary.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or platform. Online obituaries are usually published immediately, while print newspapers may take several days or weeks.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include meaningful quotes, poems, or lyrics in an obituary to add a personal touch and reflect the person's personality or interests.

What if I want to keep the funeral private?

If you prefer to keep the funeral private, you can still publish an obituary without including details about the service. You can instead mention that a private funeral will be held or that memorial donations can be made in lieu of flowers.

Can I include charitable donations information in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the person's memory and support a cause they cared about.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or use genealogy websites that specialize in collecting historical records. Local libraries or genealogical societies may also have access to archived newspapers and obituaries.

Can I republish an old obituary online?

This depends on copyright laws and permissions. If you're unsure, contact the original publisher or author to request permission to republish the obituary online.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider asking a friend or family member for assistance. Funeral homes or professional writers may also offer services to help you craft a fitting tribute.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a great way to celebrate someone's life and personality. Just be sure to keep it respectful and tasteful.

How do I notify social security about someone's death?

Contact your local Social Security Administration office or visit their website to report the death and apply for any applicable benefits.

What if I'm not sure about some details in the obituary?

If you're unsure about certain facts or dates, it's better to err on the side of caution and omit them rather than risk publishing incorrect information.

Can I include links to social media profiles in an online obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms allow you to include links to social media profiles or memorial websites where friends and family can share condolences and memories.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

This varies depending on the platform or website. Some may keep online obituaries available indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time.

Can I create a memorial webpage for someone who has passed away?

Yes, many online platforms offer tools to create memorial webpages where you can share photos, stories, and memories of your loved one.

What if I need additional support during this difficult time?

Dont hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or professional counselors for emotional support during this challenging time. There are also many resources available online that offer guidance and comfort during bereavement.