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Located in the heart of Laurinburg, North Carolina, Richard Boles Funeral Service has been a pillar of the community for many years, providing compassionate and professional funeral services to families in their time of need. With a rich history and a commitment to excellence, this funeral home has earned a reputation for delivering personalized and meaningful tributes that celebrate the lives of loved ones.

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Richard Boles Funeral Service is built on a foundation of trust, compassion, and dedication. The funeral home's staff understands that losing a loved one is one of life's most difficult experiences, and they are committed to providing support and guidance every step of the way. From the initial consultation to the final farewell, the team at Richard Boles Funeral Service is dedicated to ensuring that every family receives the highest level of care and attention.

Richard Boles Funeral Service

Address: 13640 Andrew Jackson Hwy (Hwy 74 Bus.)
Post Office Box 1913, Laurinburg, NC 28353, Laurinburg, NC, 28352
Phone Number: 1-910-291-0066
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Pamela Burns - September 19, 1976 - May 19, 2024

Departed: 05/19/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Pamela Burns, age 47 of Laurel Hill passed away at her home on May 19, 2024.
Service arrangements are incomplete at this time.
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Malcolm "Matt" McCormick McIntyre, Jr. - November 15, 1974 - May 17, 2024

Departed: 05/17/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Malcolm (Matt) McCormick McIntyre, Jr., who left us all too soon on the morning of May 17, 2024, at the age of 49.
Born on November 15, 1974, Matt was a dedicated father, husband, son, brother, uncle and friend to many. His early years were marked by a passion for golf, which he pursued with remarkable dedication.  Matt was a standout member of the University of North Carolina at Pembroke (UNCP) golf team. He went on to have a dominate amateur career where he won numerous golf tournaments in and around Scotland County, earning respect and admiration from his peers and competitors alike.
After graduating from UNCP in 1999, Matt transitioned into the field of insurance, where he built a successful career as an insurance agent at his family business. His professionalism, integrity, and commitment to his clients were hallmarks of his work. Matt's warm personality and genuine care for others made him a beloved figure in both his professional and personal life.  He loved teaching his children to play golf, going fishing with his boys at Ocean Isle Beach on his boat that he named after his children, Duke basketball and going on Disney trips with his family.  A highlight of his life was recently walking his beautiful daughter, Cassidy, down the aisle on her wedding day.
Matt is survived by his wife, Noelle McIntyre; his loving children, Cassidy McIntyre Locklear (Jacob), Calli McIntyre, Corey McIntyre, and Conley McIntyre; his father, Mac McIntyre, Sr.; his sister, Mary Mac McIntyre Outlaw (Johnny); father-in-law and mother-in-law, Blanchard and Elsie Granville; sister-in-law, Jessica McInnis (Jonathan), and sister-in-law, Melanie Leahy (Jim). He also leaves behind three nephews, two nieces, a nephew on the way, a friend like a brother, Papa Williams; a beloved dog, Chip; and a host of dear friends and extended family all of whom will miss him immensely.
Matt was preceded in death by his loving mother, Mary Ann Gibson McIntyre.
Rest in peace, Matt. Your spirit will forever live on in the hearts of those who loved you.
A celebration of Matt's life will be held at 3:00 p.m. on Wednesday, May 22, 2024 at the Caledonia Methodist Church followed by interment in the McIntyre Family Cemetery.
Visitation will be on Tuesday evening, 6:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. at Richard Boles Funeral Service .
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Frances Teal McQueen - October 23, 1944 - May 17, 2024

Departed: 05/17/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Frances Teal McQueen of Laurinburg passed away at the age of 79 on May 17, 2024.
Frances was the daughter of the late Woodrow and Gladys Cashwell Teal, born October 23, 1944 in Scotland County, NC.  She was a precious mother and grandmother, devoted sister and friend to many.  In addition to being a homemaker, she worked many years with Scotland Memorial Hospital in the cafeteria, caring for children in Daycare and then retired after many years in customer service from Winn Dixie.  She served as a member of the East Laurinburg Baptist Church, and enjoyed cooking and traveling. Above all, sharing time with family brought Frances her greatest joy.
She is survived by her son, Stephen McQueen and wife Marlene of Laurinburg; grandchildren, Stephen Tyler McQueen and Stephanie Tahler McQueen; brothers, William Teal and wife, Shirley of Laurel Hill, and Lonnie Teal of Wagram; along with a host of loving family and friends.
A memorial service celebrating Frances will be held 6:00 p.m. on Thursday, May 23, 2024 at the Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel officiated by Rev. Richard Tyson and Rev. Tim Hodge.  Family will receive friends following the service at the funeral home.
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Linda Nolan Steen - October 30, 1959 - May 16, 2024

Departed: 05/16/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Linda Nolan Steen, loving mother, grandmother, sister, and friend of Bennettsville, SC departed this life at the age of 64 on May 16, 2024.
She was born October 30, 1959 in Marlboro County, South Carolina, daughter of the late Marshall Evans Nolan and the late Leddie Bell Skipper Nolan. Linda’s love of flowers led to a fulfilling career in silk flower manufacturing and working within the florist industry. She was a member of the True Gospel Emmanuel Holiness Church where she served as a Sunday School Teacher and she also enjoyed attending the Bennettsville Emmanuel Holiness Church.  Linda will be greatly missed and fondly remembered for her love and devotion to her family.
Along with her parents, she is preceded in death by siblings, Tony Nolan, Teresa Nolan, Rita Crowley, and Mary Woods.
Left to cherish her memory is son, Gary Mitchell Steen, Jr., (Tonya) of Bennettsville, SC; daughter, Mary Elizabeth “Beth” Steen (Lonnie) of Bennettsville, SC; brother, Eugene Nolan of Bennettsville, SC; sister, Annette Townsend of Conway, SC; grandchildren, Gabriel Austin Hicks, Jacob Hunter Hicks, and Christopher Luke Hicks; father of her children, Gary M. Steen, Sr.; along with a host of nieces, nephews, family, and friends.
Visitation will be held from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Monday, May 20, 2024 at Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel.
Graveside service will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Tuesday, May 21, 2024 at True Gospel Emmanuel Holiness Church Cemetery, Wallace, SC.
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Judy Marlene Yates-Byrd - Unknown - May 15, 2024

Departed: 05/15/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Judy Marlene Pratt Yates-Byrd of Gibson passed away at the age of 74 on May 15, 2024.
She was born June 28, 1949 in Richmond County, North Carolina, loving daughter of the late Thomas Evander Pratt and Myrtle Kelly Pratt.  Along with being a devoted homemaker, Judy worked in textiles with Fruit of the Loom for many years.  She enjoyed shopping, watching soap operas, and the Hallmark station on the television. Her greatest joy came from time shared with her family. Judy was a loving mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, and friend who will truly be missed.
Along with her parents, she is preceded in death by her beloved husband, Danny Thomas Byrd.
Judy is survived by children, daughter, Tracy Freeman (Jason) of Hartsville, SC; sons, James Yates of Laurel Hill, Patrick Hawes (Paula) of Pennsylvania; sister, Sharon Taylor of Spartanburg, SC; sisters-in-law, Jayne DuRant of Zanesville, OH, Joyce Stubbs (Jimmy) of Bennettsville, SC, Linda Hayes (Charlie) of Gibson; grandchildren, Wil Keziah, Matthew Keziah, Megan Keziah, Elijah James Yates, Ezra Aaron Yates, Dylan Hawes; great-grandchildren, Kendall Munn, Wessley Claire Munn; along with a host of loving nieces, nephews and many friends.
Funeral services will be held on Monday, May 20, 2024 at 3:00 p.m. at the Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel with burial following in Pinecrest Cemetery.  Family will receive friends prior to services Monday beginning at 2:00 p.m. until 3:00 p.m. at the funeral home.
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Debbie Elvis Chaves - June 25, 1965 - May 14, 2024

Departed: 05/14/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Debbie Ann Elvis Chaves, beloved mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, friend and colleague passed away at the age of 58 on May 14, 2024.
She was the loving daughter of the late George Monroe Elvis and the late Truly Mae Goins Elvis born June 25, 1965 in Scotland County, North Carolina.  An alumni of UNC Pembroke, Debbie earned her Bachelor of Science (BS) degree in Computer Science in 2003. She joined UNC Pembroke in November 2006 with Enrollment Management (New Student Programs) as an Administrative Support Associate. In September 2008, Debbie joined the Office of Human Resources (OHR) as a Technology Support Analyst (HRIS Manager).
Debbie is the epitome of data managers and the special skill she possessed was her kindness, her collegiality and ease to work with. With nearly 18 years as a member of BraveNation and 16 of these years with the OHR team. She also served as a member of the Springfield Church of God. She truly cherished her time shared with family and friends. Debbie will be truly missed!
Along with her parents, she is preceded in death by brother, Larry Elvis.
She is survived by her son, Dustin Chaves and wife, Mary of Dahlonega, GA; grandchildren, Henley Mae Chaves, Liam Anthony Chaves and Kennedy Ann Chaves; brother, Dennis Elvis; sisters, Nancy Elvis Gilmore Shoemake and husband, Donald of Laurinburg, Angel Elvis of Visalia, CA, Sylvia Kolb and husband, John of Foxfire, NC.  She also leaves a host of loving family, friends and respected colleagues.
Funeral services will be held 3:00 p.m. on Sunday, May 19, 2024 at the Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel officiated by Rev. David Shoemake.   Graveside committal will follow in Pinecrest Cemetery.    Visitation will be prior to services on Sunday, beginning at 2:00 p.m. until 3:00 p.m. at the funeral home.
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James Trenton Jordan - December 27, 1942 - May 12, 2024

Departed: 05/12/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: James Trenton Jordan, loving father, grandfather, and friend departed this life at the age of 81 on May 12, 2024.
He was born December 27, 1942 in Montgomery County, NC, son of the late Trenton B. Jordan and the late Frances Allen Jordan. When his health allowed, he enjoyed attending the St. David’s Episcopal Church. James was a well-respected educator in the History Department at Scotland High School for many dedicated years until his retirement. He was a talented writer, which led to the publishing of his work. James enjoyed watching television, and loved time spent with his family and the memories they shared.
Along with his parents, he is preceded in death by son, Nicholas Jordan; and brother, David Jordan.
Left to cherish his memory is son, Christopher Jordan and wife, Hilda “Lucia” of Raeford; grandson, Christopher “Gabriel” Jordan; along with his loving extended family and many friends.
The memorial service will be held 1:00 p.m. on Monday, May 20, 2024 at St. David’s Episcopal Church with interment following in the church columbarium.
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Lorie Ann McLean Locklear - May 31, 1960 - May 11, 2024

Departed: 05/11/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Lorie Ann McLean Locklear, passed to her Heavenly home at the age of 63 after a long and courageous battle with cancer on May 11, 2024.
Lorie Ann was the devoted wife of 47 years to the late Jason Locklear, loving daughter of the late Mary Jane Jones McLean and step daughter of the late, Wayne “Bobby” Norton.  She loved being a homemaker and was a wonderful caregiver to family and friends in need.  She was a dedicated employee of Bill’s Cleaners until her health declined.  Lorie Ann and Jason served as faithful members of Turnpike Baptist Church.  Her legacy of love will be remembered by her family and loved ones.
Along with her parents and husband, she is preceded in death by brother, Michael McLean; sisters, Magaline Chance and Margaret Leviner.
Lorie Ann is survived by step daughter, Peggy Locklear; grandchildren, Abby Gail Cook and and Brandon Cook; sisters, Barbara Ann Lockey of Laurinburg and Gloria Jean Knight and husband James of Laurel Hill; many nephews and nieces, including a special niece Judy Duran along with caregivers, Patricia Locklear, Lisa Locklear, Wanda Alegre and Susie Locklear.
Funeral services will be held 3:00 p.m. on Wednesday, May 15, 2024 at the Turnpike Baptist Church followed by the graveside committal in the Locklear Family Cemetery.
Visitation will be prior to services on Wednesday from 2:00 p.m. until 3:00 p.m. at Turnpike Baptist Church.
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Henry Everette Priest - January 12, 1944 - May 11, 2024

Departed: 05/11/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Henry Everette Priest of Maxton, NC departed this life at the age of 80 on May 11, 2024.
He was a son of the late Peter John Priest and the late Hattie Orelia Ranson Priest born January 12, 1944 in Scotland County, NC.  Henry enjoyed his work as a truck driver for Priest Poultry and making deliveries for Revels BBQ until his retirement.   Prior to his illness, he enjoyed attending the East Laurinburg Baptist Church. Henry enjoyed singing, playing the guitar, woodworking, and his favorite was pulling the kids on a “train” behind his lawn mower. He loved being around others and making new friends. Henry’s greatest joy was time shared with his family especially his grandchildren. He was a loving husband, father, brother, grandfather, great-grandfather, and friend who will be greatly missed.
Along with his parents, he is preceded in death by daughter, Carol Britt; son-in-law, Bob Britt; sister, Catherine Priest Butler Evans; and brothers, Elvin Priest, Clayton Priest, William Priest, and John Priest.
Henry is survived by his adored wife, Peggy Denson Priest of the home; daughters, Judy Russell (Dale) of Laurel Hill, Angela Sarvis (Terry) of Mullins, SC; brothers, James Priest of Florida, Melvin Priest (Anne) of Laurinburg; special nephew, he loved as a brother, Willie Priest of Wagram; grandchildren, Eric Russell (Amanda), Amanda Russell (Perry), Mallory Riley (David), Rylan Sarvis; great-grandchildren, James, Alyna, Henry Allan, Diana, Nate, Choie, Michaela, Payton, and Kaylee; along with a host of loving family and friends.
A special thank you to granddaughter, Amanda Russell for the care that she gave to her Pa-Pa.
Funeral services will be held at 4:00 p.m. on Thursday, May 16, 2024 at Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel.   A private interment will be held at a later date.
Visitation will be held prior to the service on Thursday, from 3:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. at the funeral home.
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Carolyn Holland Norton - February 19, 1939 - May 10, 2024

Departed: 05/10/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Carolyn Holland Norton of Laurinburg passed away at the age of 85 on May 10, 2024.
She was the beloved daughter of Evelyn Moser Holland and the late Strucy “I.S.” Holland born February 19, 1939 in Pilot Mountain, North Carolina. Along with being loving homemaker, Carolyn worked in textiles for over 52 years until her retirement from WestPoint Stevens, Inc.  In earlier days, she loved crafting, making ceramics and traveling to craft shows.  Prior to her illness she enjoyed attending Northview Harvest Ministries, and loved working in her yard and flower beds.  Carolyn adored her family and treasured time shared with each of them.  She also enjoyed road trips to Pilot Mountain to visit their extended family.  Her memory will be treasured by all of her loved ones.
Carolyn is preceded in death by her husband, Pearlie G. Norton; son, Billy Graham Norton; faithful companion, Willie Carter; brother, Donald Holland and sister, Thelma Holland Wright.
She is survived by her son, Richard “Wayne” Norton and wife Tami; daughter-in-law, Sue Norton; her beloved mother and best friend, Evelyn “Haha” Holland; brothers, Darrell Holland, Danny Holland and wife Linda all of Laurinburg; sister, Helen Holland Garrett of Ohio; her adoring grandchildren, Brian Caulder, Jamie Johnson, Amanda Clark, Matthew Norton, Michael Norton, Jason “Hank” Norton; nineteen great grandchildren; along with a host of nieces, nephews and many loving friends.
Funeral services will be held 4:00 p.m. on Tuesday, May 14, 2024 at the Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel with burial following in Hillside Memorial Park.   Visitation will be prior to services on Tuesday beginning at 3;00 p.m. until 4;00 p.m. at the funeral home.
Memorial donations are requested to be given to Scotland Regional Hospice, P.O. Box 1033, Laurinburg, NC  28353.
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Maureen Giannini - April 21, 1963 - May 09, 2024

Departed: 05/09/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Maureen Anne Giannini, 61, passed away peacefully while surrounded by family in Laurinburg, NC on Thursday May 9, 2024. Maureen Giannini was born on April 21, 1963 to James and Molly Travers in Yonkers, NY. She married Jimmy Giannini on September 19, 1987 in Ridgefield, CT. They celebrated 37 years of joy, laughter and love together. Maureen was a Senior Practice Manager with Marlboro Family Practice, in Bennettsville, SC, a part of Scotland Health System, where she had also been Director of Scotland Regional Health Network, working in that system for 24 years. She and Jimmy made their home in Laurinburg, NC, they fell madly in love with each other after being set up on a blind date by a cousin of hers in Yonkers, NY and were married after just 6 months.  They were blessed with two children, Michael Giannini (Adeline Howell) of Charlotte, NC and Chris Giannini (Holly) of Laurinburg, NC, both of whom she absolutely adored. Maureen graduated from Stone School of Business in New Haven, CT in 1983, she began her career as a Human Resource Specialist with James River Corporation in Norwalk CT, before moving her family to Laurinburg in 1993. Maureen was a member of the Boyd Lake Road Church of Christ in Hamlet, NC, and attended services as long as she was able.  She enjoyed volunteering at Carolina Bible Camp where she met many lifelong friends and made countless memories while making a difference in young men and women’s lives.  She loved traveling with her family including 25 Caribbean cruises and scores of trips to the family beach house in Sunset Beach, NC.  She had a true passion for Irish culture that grew from childhood trips to her mother’s birthplace in Rossport, County Mayo, Ireland.  She instilled in her boys that same passion by taking them to Ireland several times as well. She was a passionate supporter of the County Mayo Gaelic Football Team, often traveling to Charlotte with Jimmy to watch matches with family that were shown at Connolly’s Irish Pub.  She is survived by her husband Jimmy, adoring children, Michael and Chris, her brothers, Michael Travers (Gretchen) and James Travers, her sister, Anne Travers; and nieces Tara, Kiely and Kiera Bjork.  She is preceded in death by her parents, Molly and Jimmy Travers, her father-in-law Arnold Giannini, her sisters-in-law Rosemary Sweeney and Theresa Giannini, and brother-in-law Paul Bjork. A memorial service will be held for her at the Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel, 3:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 11, 2024.
Visitation will follow the service at the funeral home.
The family has requested that remembrances be made in the form of contributions to Scotland Regional Hospice, P.O. Box 1033, Laurinburg, NC 28353.
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Mary Lou Hogan Dunsford - September 09, 1937 - May 07, 2024

Departed: 05/07/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Mary Lou Hogan Dunsford, age 86 of Laurinburg passed away on May 7, 2024.
She was born on September 9, 1937 in California, daughter of the late Gerald Hogan and the late Mildred K. Harmsen Hogan. Mary loved helping others further their education which led to a fulfilling career as an educator with Scotland County School System then with Richmond Community College until retiring.  She was a member of St Mary Catholic Church where she enjoyed attending when her health allowed. Mary enjoyed volunteering in her community, knitting blankets which she loved to donate, and tending her garden. She was a loving mother, adored grandmother, and beloved friend who will be truly missed.
Along with her parents, she is preceded in death by husband, SMSGT Thomas E Dunsford, USAF (Retired); and daughter, Alice Marie Dunsford.
She is survived by her son, James M. Dunsford of Laurinburg; and grandson, Andrew Dunsford of Charlotte.
A Mass Funeral Service will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Tuesday, May 14, 2024 at St Mary Catholic Church with burial following in Hillside Memorial Park.  Visitation will be held prior to the services from 10:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m. at the church.
Memorial donations are requested to be made to Helping Hand/SC Concerned Citizens for the Homeless, 130 Biggs Street, Laurinburg, NC 28352.
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James Franklin "Frank" Smith - February 14, 1943 - May 05, 2024

Departed: 05/05/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: James Franklin “Frank” Smith, loving son of the late Willie and Bertha Mae Locklear Smith was born February 14, 1943 at home in McColl, South Carolina.  He departed this life at the age of 81 on May 5, 2024 surrounded by his beloved family.
Frank was a Vietnam War Veteran who proudly served our country in the United States Air Force. Following his military service, Frank earned his Associates Degree in Aircraft Mechanics.  His passion for airplanes and aviation led him to a long successful career as an Aircraft Mechanic until retiring after 61 years of service.
He attended the Berea United Methodist Church.  He loved studying anything about airplanes, enjoyed completing jigsaw puzzles, watching old western television movies, and traveling.  Wrestling was also a favorite of Frank’s often traveling with his family to enjoy the events.  Above all, his greatest joy came from sharing time with his family.  He was one of a kind and truly special to all who knew him.  Frank will dearly be missed as a loving husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend of many.
He is survived by his dedicated wife of 36 years, Brenda “Glenda” Locklear Smith of their home; son, Franklin “Shain” Smith (Kristy); daughters, Shawn Smith Tyler (Perry) and Tonya Lee Smith; his sister, Mildred Smith Bowen; grandchildren, Joshua Pepper, Trevor Tyler (Grace), Cody Tyler, Hunter Tyler, Erica Honeycutt, Christan Griggs, David Perry, Jr., Shaina Smith, Shelly Smith and five great grandchildren, along with a host of loving family and many friends.
Funeral Services will be held 1:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 11, 2024 at the Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel.  Burial with military honor will follow in the Oak Grove Baptist Church Cemetery.    Visitation will be from 6:00 until 8:00 p.m. on Friday evening, May 10th at Richard Boles Funeral Service.
The family requests in lieu of flowers that memorial donations be given to Scotland Regional Hospice, P.O. Box 1033, Laurinburg, NC  28353.
The family wished to express sincere gratitude to all who gave their special love and care to Mr. Frank during his illness, especially those of Scotland Regional Hospice and his special mini caregivers, Shaina and Shelly.
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Jacquelyn Cole Dunn - August 28, 1948 - May 05, 2024

Departed: 05/05/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Jacquelyn Cole Dunn, wonderful mother, adored grandmother, great-grandmother, beloved sister, and friend, departed this life at the age of 75 on May 5, 2024.
She was born in Hoke County, NC on August 28, 1948 to the late Jack and Katherine Snipes Cole. Along with being a devoted homemaker, Jacquelyn worked many years in customer service at Kirkley's convenience store. She was a faithful member of Highland Pines Free Will Baptist Church. Jacquelyn loved her chocolate ice-cream and was an avid sports fan of the Atlanta Braves and Carolina Panthers.  Above all, she loved being around people and was loved by all who had the pleasure of meeting her. Jacquelyn will be greatly missed and fondly remembered for her love and dedication to her family.
Along with her parents she is preceded by husband, Lester Robbins; brother, Jerry Cole and wife, Carol; and stepson, Keith Dunn.
Left to cherish her memory are sons, Gary Dunn of Raleigh, Heath Dunn (Tennille) of Southport, Patrick Dunn (Kristan) of Hamlet; daughter, Patricia D. Gause of Hamlet; brother, Greg Cole of Bennettsville, SC; sisters, Jay Locklear (Willie) of Wagram, Susan Chavis (Randy) of Laurinburg; grandchildren, Erin Willingham (Dwight), Abby Willingham, Landon Dunn, Drew Gause, Grady Dunn, Everett Dunn; great-grandchildren, Emily, Violet, and Jasper; along with a host of loving extended family and many friends.
The family will be receiving friends at Patrick Dunns home located at 408 Boyette Street, Hamlet, NC 28345.
Funeral services will be held 3:00 p.m. on Thursday, May 9, 2024 at the Highland Pines Free Will Baptist Church in Hamlet.  Burial will follow the service in Hillside Memorial Park in Laurinburg.   The family will receive friends prior to services on Thursday beginning at 2:00 p.m. until 3:00 p.m. at the church.
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Mack "Boodie" J. Barton - July 31, 1950 - May 04, 2024

Departed: 05/04/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Mack J. Barton, known by many as “Boodie Barton, of Laurel Hill passed away at the age of 73 on May 4, 2024 surrounded by his family.
Mack was born July 31, 1950, son of the late Mack Daniel Barton and the late Magdalene Locklear Barton of Robeson County, NC.  He worked in construction, self-employed specializing in drywall for over 50 years until retirement.  Along with sharing time with family, Boodie loved fishing, cooking at his creek, and riding horses.  He will dearly be missed as a devoted husband, loving father and grandfather, brother, uncle and friend.
He is preceded in death by his parents, each of his brothers, Thurman Barton, Clilton “Tinken” Barton, Raymond “Mann” Barton and Billy Barton.
Mack is survived by his loving wife of 46 years, Donna Faye Norton Barton of their home;  sons, Jonathan Drew Norton (Denise), Matthew “Frosty” Barton (Tanuya), Mack Daniel Barton, each of Laurel Hill; sisters, George Ann Barns, Erma Lee Bullard, Jan Bullard, Goldie Berry (Kenny), Mary Lee Bullard (Waymon), Lottie Pearl Bullard (James Ellis), Jackie Dunn (Leroy); grandchildren, Joshua Barton (AJ), Jacob Barton (Kayla), Austin Barton (Samaria), Hailey Clark, April Gainey, Danyah Norton, Dacota Norton, Dalton Norton, Cheyenne Barton, Kayla McCracken, Allyssa McCracken, Tony Boatwright, Jessie Boatwright, McKenna Moser, Missy Benson; great grandchildren, Blakelynn, Nakiya, Hunter, Layken, Nova, Lilly, Bryson Edge, Braxton Benson; his many nieces, nephews, extended family and friends.
Visitation will be held 6:00 until 8:00 p.m. on Tuesday evening, May 7th, at the Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel.     No other services are planned at this time.
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Curtis Ray Cummings - May 07, 1952 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Curtis Ray Cummings, age 71 of Laurel Hill passed away at his home on May 3, 2024.
He was the son of the late Eula Mae Brooks Jacobs born May 7, 1952 in Robeson County, NC.  He worked many years in construction until his retirement.  He was an avid NASCAR racing fan who loved collecting racing memorabilia and was truly proud of his vast collection of die cast cars.  He also enjoyed fishing and was a loyal fan of the Pittsburg Steelers and Carolina Panthers.
Along with his parents, he is preceded in death by his loving wife, Gail Johnson Cummings.
Surviving are his daughters, Angela Danielle Walters, Olivia Nicole “Nikki” Cummings Fairley (Darrick), Titania Cai Cummings and Felisha Cummings; brothers, Lefty Cummings and Connie Cummings; grandchildren, Autumn Rayona Fairley, Austin Nicolas Reed Fairley, Cameron Riley Cummings, Chloe McKinna Cummings, Christopher Walters, Ashley Raelynn Smith, Aurora Jackson, Leia Jackson, Scarlett Jackson; a special nephew, Cameron Cummings; and a host of family and friends.
A memorial service will be held 11:00 a.m. on Tuesday, May 7th at the Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel.  The family will receive friends following the service.
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Jerry Ray McFadyen, Sr. - November 01, 1941 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Jerry Ray McFadyen, Sr., of Laurinburg, NC passed away at the age of 82 on May 3, 2024.
He was the son of the late William Martin “Mac” McFadyen, Jr., and the late Alleen Abernathy McFadyen born November 1, 1941 in Scotland County, NC.  Jerry was a Veteran who proudly served our nation in the United States Air Force.  His working career consisted of many years with the South Eastern Wire in Virginia, the Town of Gibson Management and Water Department, and with Ingraham Manufacturing.  Jerry also enjoyed his talents in wood working.  He loved his family and truly enjoyed sharing time with each of them.  Jerry will be remembered as a loving father, grandfather, brother and devoted friend.
He is survived by his children, son, Jerry Ray McFadyen, Jr., of Maple Valley, WA; daughters, Camela Dawn McFadyen of Nichols, SC, Tina McFadyen Ivey and husband, Nicky Ivey of Fairmont, NC; sister, Linda Sue Odom of Laurinburg, NC; his adored grandchildren, Jeremy Ivey, Matthew Ivey, Roger “Tyler” Ivey, Lindsey Kersey, Joseph Shuler, Megan Shuler; great grandchildren, Grayson Ivey, Ryan Ivey, Jameson Ivey, Aiden Tyson, Levi Tyson; along with his extended family and many friends.
The family will have a time of visitation on Wednesday evening, May 8th at the Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel.    No other services are planned at this time.
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Madison Lytch - January 26, 1948 - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Douglas Madison Lytch, age 76 of Maxton passed away to his heavenly home on Wednesday, May 1st, 2024.  Born on January 26, 1948 in Bennettsville, SC, the son of the late Douglas McLaurin Lytch and the late Sarah Peterson Lytch.
Madison graduated from Rowland High School then continued his education earning a degree in Agriculture from North Carolina State University.  Upon completing his education, Madison proudly served his country in the Army National Guard.   An avid softball player, Madison helped slug his teams to several championships and national tournament appearances.  He eventually transitioned from the batter’s box to the coaches box as a volunteer coach for many years with the Optimist Club of Laurinburg youth baseball program.   He was a lifelong NC State fan, rooting for all things Wolfpack.
An avid outdoorsman, Madison loved hunting but his real passion was the fellowship and many friendships he fostered through the sport.  He also enjoyed grilling for his family, hosting a pig pickin’ for friends, tailgating in Raleigh or Greenville and was first to volunteer for the cooking duties at the many organizations he was a member of.
Farming was more than an occupation for Madison, he was proud to be the 7th generation to operate his family farm.  In addition to cultivating crops, he was a shareholder and manager of Midway Gin Company.
He was an active, lifelong member of Midway Presbyterian Church, serving as an Elder and on various committees.  Madison’s greatest accomplishment in life was his adoring family as they each will cherish his legacy of love for them.
Madison is survived by his loving wife of 50 years Dina McPhaul Lytch; his son Douglas Adam Lytch (Jennifer) of DeLand, Florida; his daughter Margaret Lytch Dickerson (Benjamin) of Laurinburg.  He was the proud “Pop” of five grandchildren: Morris Douglas Dickerson, Sarah Grace Lytch, Madison Kate Dickerson, Paisley Elizabeth Lytch and Lillian Jane Lytch.  A brother Daniel “Danny” L. Lytch of Harrells and a sister Janet L. Morgan (Lee) of Laurinburg.  Madison also leaves a host of nieces, nephews and many loving friends.
Along with his parents, he is preceded in death by his sister, Sarah Beth Lytch.
Funeral services will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Monday, May 6th, 2024 at Midway Presbyterian Church followed by graveside committal in the church cemetery.  The services will be officiated by Reverend Dr. Stephens G. Lytch.
Visitation for family and friends will follow the graveside service in the Dr. Rodger W. Decker Fellowship Hall at Midway Presbyterian Church.
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Shirley Barber Odom - July 03, 1938 - April 30, 2024

Departed: 04/30/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Mrs. Shirley Barber Odom of Gibson departed this life for her Heavenly home at the age of 85 on April 30, 2024.
She was born in Marlboro County, South Carolina, on July 3, 1938, one of sixteen children of the late Arvin and Meta Rogers Barber. On December 23, 1961, she would marry the love of her life, Johnny, with whom she shared a beautiful life of 62 years. Shirley was a valuable employee of Doormeyer working as an Inspector for over fifteen dedicated years. She was a Godly woman who prior to her illness faithfully served as a member of the Springfield Church of God.  She enjoyed growing flowers her favorites were pink roses, along with baking one of her delicious cakes or homecooked meals. Shirley will be greatly missed and forever remembered as a beloved wife, adored mother, loving grandmother, great-grandmother, great-great grandmother, aunt and friend.
Along with her parents, she is preceded in death by her daughter-in-law, Erika Odom; each of her siblings, James Barber, Prentice Barber, Eston Barber, Edmond Barber, Billy Barber, Ernest Barber, Everett Barber, Pearl Barber, Florence Barber, Nellie Brock, Cora Lee English, Virginia Brigman, Retha May Stevens, Ruby Shoemake, and Harold Barber.
Shirley leaves behind to cherish her memory, husband, Johnny Lawrence Odom of the home; sons, Johnny “Ken” Kenneth Odom of Gibson; Gary Lawrence Odom (Sudie) of Gibson, Christopher John Odom (Kim) of Columbia, TN; grandchildren, Ashley Odom Parker, Amber Odom Callaway, Megan Odom, Rebecca Odom, Caitlyn Odom, Shane Odom; great-grandchildren, Alexis Peterman, Jacob Leviner, Jayden Leviner, Ayden Odom, Chole McCusker; and great-great grandchild, Marley Rose Peterman; along with a host of loving nieces, nephews, extended family and friends.
Funeral services will be held 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, May 4, 2024 at the Springfield Church of God with burial following in Pinecrest Cemetery.
Visitation will be held from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. on Friday, May 3, 2024 at Springfield Church of God.
In loving memory of Shirley, the family requests for all to wear the color pink to her services.
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Linda Geraldine Strickland Mitchell - September 16, 1947 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Linda Geraldine Strickland Mitchell, the daughter of the late Somerset Strickland Jr., and the late Verna Strickland was born September 16, 1947 in Lumberton, North Carolina.  She was a devoted homemaker who loved reading her Bible, enjoyed reading mystery novels, along with watching television comedy and crime shows. Linda cherished her family and their times shared together.  She passed away at the age of 76 on April 29, 2024, a loving mother, grandmother, sister and friend who will be dearly missed by each of her loved ones.
Along with her parents, preceding Linda in death are siblings, Elaine Freeman, Somerset "Bobby" Strickland III, Freddie Strickland, Sue Huckabee; and her granddaughter, Chasity Tew.
She is survived by her children, Lisa Strickland Tew of Laurinburg, NC, Dayton Mitchell of Clayton, GA, Brian Mitchell of Charleston, SC; brothers, Ricky Strickland, Michael “Macky” Strickland (Anita), Craig Strickland each of Laurinburg; eight grandchildren, thirteen great grandchildren, one great-great grandchild, and her many nieces and nephews.
Funeral services will be held 2:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 4, 2024 at the Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel with burial following in Hillside Memorial Park.   Family will receive friends following the service.
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Spencer Wayne Jones - March 12, 1970 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: On April 29, 2024, Spencer Wayne Jones, age 54 of Leicester, NC died at Mission Hospital in Asheville, NC after succumbing to a brain aneurysm.  His fight was fierce but brief and he was surrounded by his loving family and friends.
Spencer was the son of the late William “Bill” Samuel Jones and the late Vicky Brisson Taylor, born on March 12, 1970, in Scotland County. Known as Spencer by friends and Wayne by family, his life trade was in the Signage Industry. From the age of 18, he started as an employee and eventually became a business owner. He was gifted with such immense talent and creativity and not to mention, there was rarely a sign or building so tall that he would be intimidated not to climb.  He usually enjoyed a challenge with a smile.
One of his greatest qualities was his ability to bring a smile to the saddest face or laughter from the unhappiest heart with his original and wonderful sense of humor.  He will be forever missed but his memory will continue to be a beacon of warmth and joy for all who had the pleasure of knowing him.
In his spare time, Spencer enjoyed watching movies and documentaries, DIY projects in and around the home.  He loved playing and spending time with his favorite four-legged canine buddy, Leo.  Most of all he enjoyed and looked forward to spending the rest of his life with his forever love and Fiancé, Donna Kennedy.
Along with his parents, he was preceded in death by his nephew, Tyler Wayne Jones and his stepfather, Jeff Taylor.
He is survived by his loving Fiancé, Donna Kennedy and her daughter, Megan, stepmother, Jacque Jones of Laurel Hill, three brothers, William Jones of New Bern, Eugene Cooper of Laurinburg, Howard & Melissa Cooper of Pinebluff, and one sister, Lynn Jones-Dennis & Tony of Laurinburg. Two Aunts, Elaine Doss of Denver, NC and Beth & Rick Shaver of Lyman, SC.  Two Uncles, Jack Brisson of Laurinburg and Jerry Jones of Valley Alabama. Also, many nieces and nephews and a host of cousins and friends.
The family will have a time of visitation from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. on May 28, 2024 at Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel.
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Skye Bleu Russell - June 21, 1990 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Skye Bleu Russell, 33, passed away April 27, 2024. She was born June 21, 1990 in Nash County. She is preceded in death by her father Mike Britt. Skye leaves to cherish her memory, her mother Vicki Russell; son Carlo Tomasino; grandparents David and Fay Gordon; brother Aron Parker; uncle Jeremy Gordon (Jennifer) and their son Aden; special friend Chris. A visitation will be held at 1:00pm on May 4, 2024 at Cornerstone Funeral Home. The service will follow at 2:00pm with Rev. Thomas Godwin officiating.
Burial will be 1:00 p.m. on Sunday, May 5, 2024 in Marston, NC.
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Betty Rye Lighthall - January 05, 1941 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Betty Rye Lighthall, 83, passed away on Friday, April 26, 2024 at FirstHealth Moore Regional Hospital - Richmond in Rockingham, surrounded by family.  Born on January 5, 1941, in Scotland County, she was the daughter of the late Franklin F. Rye and Martha Stewart Rye.
Betty was born and raised in Scotland County and graduated from Laurel Hill High School in 1958.  In 1957, she met “Jack” and a true love connection was made.  They married later that same year and spent the next 62 years together.  Early in their marriage, they traveled extensively with the U.S. Air Force and lived in Florida, Washington D.C., and Japan.
While living in Washington D.C., Betty went to work as a bank teller.  After many years of service, she dedicated the rest of her working years to banking and retired in 2007.
She loved God and her family.  She always put her family’s needs above hers and was a very special lady to everyone who knew her.  Her hobbies included reading, gardening, and watching western movies.  The family will celebrate her life at a private service.
In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her husband, John LaVerne Lighthall “Jack”; a sister, Isolene Rye, and brothers, Jack Rye, Fred Rye, John Rye, and Rodney Rye.
Betty leaves behind her sons, John Lighthall, Jr., (Karen) of Gibson, Jim Lighthall (Carol) of Laurel Hill, and Jason Lighthall (Emily) of Laurinburg; grandchildren, Jordan Lighthall, Jared Lighthall, Jeremy Lighthall, Katie Lighthall, Jessi Lighthall, Jay Lighthall, Gina Scott, Jamie Jernigan, and Justin Lowery; great-grandchildren Brilea Jernigan and Sawyer Young; sisters Barbara Bunnell and Pat Cox along with many nieces and nephews.
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Jerry Lineau Gattis - June 07, 1942 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: Jerry Lineau Gattis, 81, of Rockingham, NC, entered his Heavenly home on Friday April 26, 2024. He passed away peacefully at his home, surrounded by his family.
He was the youngest son of Edwin Allison Gattis and Ruby Meshaw Gattis. He grew up in Rockingham, North Carolina. Jerry graduated from Pembroke State University with a Bachelor of Science in Business and a minor in Agriculture. He went on to own and operate many successful businesses throughout the years. He is the owner and operator of Everetts Lake Corporation, a private fishing club in Rockingham, NC, where he spent many years fishing and making it a place for members and his family to enjoy.
Along with his parents, he was preceded in death by his sister, Edna Ruth Stewart, and brother-in-law Rayford Stewart.
Jerry was a loyal and loving husband, father, grandfather, nephew, uncle, friend and mentor to many.
Jerry is a long-time, faithful member of East Rockingham Church of God of Prophecy where he met and was ministered to by one of his greatest friends in life, Pastor Marshall Norris, whose friendship became a brotherhood until Marshall’s passing. He loved the Lord with all his heart, and he did not miss an opportunity to tell anyone about his savior. We find so much comfort in knowing how confident he was in his salvation and that he knew he would spend eternity in Heaven.
He was an avid outdoorsman and fisherman. He always dreamed of spending the summer in Alaska. Thirty years ago, he took his first trip there for the summer, and has spent nearly every summer there since, enjoying fishing with his friends while he soaked in the scenery of what he called God’s greatest masterpiece.
He is survived by his loving wife of 49 years, Gwen Ammons Gattis of the home. He leaves behind to cherish his memory a son, Tracy Gattis (Jennifer) of Whispering Pines, NC, Alison Johnson (Perry) of Wagram, NC, and Amy Gattis of Rockingham, NC. In addition to his wife and children he is survived by his grandchildren who lovingly adored their Papa, Luke Johnson, Dylan Gattis, Madison Johnson, Emma Grace Blackwell, Laci Gattis, and Ben Johnson; brother, Earl Gattis of Dinwiddie, Virginia; aunts, Betty Jean Hamblin (Wayne) of Southern Pines, NC, Shirley Nemeth of Fort Myers, Fl., uncle, Douglas Meshaw of Lancaster, Pa; many nieces, and nephews; loved-ones Marcus and Deidre Norris and their children; his church family where he was loved and loved by too many to name individually.
He will be greatly missed. Our hearts are broken, but we find comfort in knowing we will see him again soon, and until then knowing he is rejoicing in eternity where the fish are always biting.
Our family would like to thank our precious friend, Lindsay Hunter, who so greatly helped care for Papa for these last months.
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William "Bill" Ben Ellis - July 05, 1937 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Laurinburg)
Obituary Preview: William “Bill” Ben Ellis, age 86 of Kinston, formerly of Laurinburg, NC passed to his Heavenly home on April 26, 2024.
Bill was the son of the late Walter and Arrie Penny Ellis, born July 5, 1937 in Scotland County, NC.  He was a United States Navy Veteran who proudly served his country from 1955 until 1958.  He then worked in manufacturing, retiring after many years from the L.O.F. / Pilkington Glass Corporation.  He was a talented musician who loved playing all the string instruments and singing for the Lord.  He faithfully served the Christ and prior to his illness, Bill enjoyed attending the East Laurinburg Church of God and Charity Outreach Church of God.   He will dearly be missed by his family and loved ones.
Along with his parents, he is preceded in death by a son, Scott Ellis; brother, Bobby Ellis: and sister, Maggie Nealy.
Bill is survived by Joyce Ellis of Goldsboro; his sons, Michael Ellis (Kimberly), Larry Ellis (Jennifer) both of California, Bobby Ellis (Elizabeth) of Hertford, NC; sisters, Dorothy Ellis Oxendine and Barbara Ellis Stone Fore, both of Laurinburg; his many loving grandchildren and great grandchildren, along with a host of nieces, nephews and devoted friends.
Funeral services will be held 2:00 p.m. on Thursday, May 2, 2024 at the Richard Boles Funeral Service Chapel.  Burial with military honors will follow the service in Hillside Memorial Park.   The family will have a time of visitation prior to services on Thursday from 1:00 until 2:00 p.m. at the funeral home.
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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral or memorial services, and any charitable donations in lieu of flowers.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by the family of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. The writer may gather information from family members, friends, and other sources to create a comprehensive and accurate tribute.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include details about their personality, interests, and accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's wishes. Typically, it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs. Online obituaries often have more flexibility in terms of length and content.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and help readers connect with the person who has passed away.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The submission process varies depending on the publication or platform. You may need to contact the obituary department directly or use an online submission form. Be sure to follow any specific guidelines or requirements provided.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, length of the obituary, and other factors. Some online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while traditional newspapers may charge by the word or line.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure that their life is celebrated in the way they wish. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and accomplishments.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer not to make the obituary publicly available, you can opt for a private or family-only announcement. This may be especially relevant for those who value privacy or have concerns about safety or security.

Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary is a celebration of the person's life, so including humorous stories or personal anecdotes can help bring their personality to life and make the tribute more engaging.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you notice an error or inaccuracy in an obituary, contact the publication or platform immediately to request corrections. They will typically work with you to resolve the issue as quickly as possible.

Can I update an obituary after it has been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to update an obituary after publication, such as adding additional information or correcting errors. However, this may depend on the publication's policies and procedures.

What is the purpose of an online guestbook or condolence message?

An online guestbook or condolence message allows friends and family to express their sympathy and share memories of the deceased. This can be a comforting way for loved ones to connect and support each other during a difficult time.

How long do online obituaries remain available?

The duration for which online obituaries remain available varies depending on the platform or publication. Some may keep them archived indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

In some cases, it may be possible to republish an obituary at a later date, such as on the anniversary of the person's passing. Check with the original publication or platform for their policies on republication.

What is the role of an obituary writer?

An obituary writer is responsible for crafting a well-written and accurate tribute based on information provided by the family or other sources. They may work independently or as part of a funeral home or publication team.

How do I find inspiration for writing an obituary?

You can draw inspiration from various sources, including conversations with family members and friends, photographs, mementos, and personal experiences. Try to capture the essence of the person's life and personality in your writing.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes! Including meaningful quotes or song lyrics can add depth and emotion to an obituary. Choose words that resonate with the person's values, beliefs, or personality.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress, consider seeking support from a friend, family member, or professional counselor. They can help you process your emotions and craft a meaningful tribute.

Can I include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Absolutely! Many families choose to suggest charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to honor their loved one's memory and continue their legacy.

How do I ensure that my loved one's story is told accurately and respectfully?

To ensure accuracy and respectfulness in telling your loved one's story, gather information from multiple sources, verify facts whenever possible, and approach the writing process with sensitivity and compassion.

What if I have conflicting opinions within the family about what to include in the obituary?

In cases where there are conflicting opinions within the family, try to find common ground by focusing on shared memories and experiences. If necessary, consider involving a neutral third party mediator to help facilitate discussions.

Can I use social media to share news of a loved one's passing?

Yes! Social media can be a powerful tool for sharing news of a loved one's passing and connecting with others who are grieving. Be mindful of privacy settings and consider creating a private group for close friends and family.

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About Jeffery Isleworth

Jeffery Isleworth is an experienced eulogy and funeral speech writer who has dedicated his career to helping people honor their loved ones in a meaningful way. With a background in writing and public speaking, Jeffery has a keen eye for detail and a talent for crafting heartfelt and authentic tributes that capture the essence of a person's life. Jeffery's passion for writing eulogies and funeral speeches stems from his belief that everyone deserves to be remembered with dignity and respect. He understands that this can be a challenging time for families and friends, and he strives to make the process as smooth and stress-free as possible. Over the years, Jeffery has helped countless families create beautiful and memorable eulogies and funeral speeches. His clients appreciate his warm and empathetic approach, as well as his ability to capture the essence of their loved one's personality and life story. When he's not writing eulogies and funeral speeches, Jeffery enjoys spending time with his family, reading, and traveling. He believes that life is precious and should be celebrated, and he feels honored to help families do just that through his writing.