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Victoria Ostlund - Unknown - May 11, 2024

Departed: 05/11/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Ostlund, Victoria Marie Born 5/23/34 and went out with the Northern Lights on 5/11/24. Preceded in death by her husband, Arnold and great granddaughter, Ruby. Survived by her 3 daughters, Vicki (Jack) Parsons, Robbin (Tim) Kentfield and Shelly Roberts, 7 grandchildren and 12 great grandchildren. Victoria was the oldest of 11 children. She understood the meaning of hard work, whether it was on the farm, in the Cleaners or doing yardwork (everybody's). She loved her grandbabies, dancing, Keno and her friends. Your tired hands may now rest. Visitation with family will be at 10 am on 5/25/2024 at St. John's Lutheran Church in Chaska, 11 am service will follow with a Celebration of Life at Staring Lake Park in Eden Prairie.

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Carolyn M. Grandstrand - Unknown - May 10, 2024

Departed: 05/10/2024 (Long Lake)

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Carolyn M. Grandstrand was born February 12, 1944, in Grand Forks, ND to Roy and Elizabeth (Johnson) Copeland. Carolyn married her high school sweetheart Rodney Grandstrand on April 8, 1961. They moved to Long Lake, MN in 1964 and to Maple Plain in 1965 where they made their forever home raising five children.

Carolyn and Rod have been active members of Christ Lutheran Church in Maple Plain for over 57 years, raising their children in the Christian faith. Carolyn was a Sunday school teacher, assisted with the youth group activities, served on the church counsel, various women’s groups, prayer chains, and quilt club.

Carolyn enjoyed sewing and passed that love to her daughters. Carolyn has made many wedding, bridesmaids, and flower girl dresses over the years. She sewed clothes for her children when they were little and loved sewing daisy kingdom dresses for two of her granddaughters with matching doll dresses. Carolyn took up quilting later in life and made some beautiful quilts for her family. All who has one truly cherishes it. Besides sewing, Carolyn enjoyed counted cross stich, puzzles, and word finds.

Carolyn and Rod raised their children to love traveling and camping. When the kids were school age, every year Carolyn and Rod would take them on a two week camping vacation. From Rapids City, SD; the circle trip around Lake Superior; Yellowstone National Park and the Grand Tetons to Wisconsin Dells. Also, several weekend getaways to several KOA’s and Jellystone Park.

In 1988, Carolyn chartered the Maple Plain Lioness Club as Vice President, along with her daughter, Brenda as President. Carolyn worked at the Maple Plain post office for 33 years where she met just about everyone in town. After her retirement, she and Rod traveled with their airstream. They belonged to the Wally Bram Airstream Club and owned a lot at the Airstream Park in Clear Lake. They went on and planned many caravans across the country with the Airstream Club. She took a term as vice president and then president over at the park. These times were very cherished, as they met new friends and had so many laughs over the last 30 years.

Carolyn is survived by her husband of 63 years, Rodney Grandstrand, Maple Plain, MN; two daughters, Valerie (Gary) Enfield, Cook, MN; Brenda (Jim) Thieschafer, St. Cloud, MN; three sons, Brian (Patty) Grandstrand, Chaska, MN; Bradley (Tammy) Grandstrand, Dayton, MN; Corey (Tracy) Grandstrand, Stillwater, MN; eleven grandchildren, Heather Boisclair, Sauk Rapids, MN; Tom Wedan, Maple Plain, MN; Chris Boisclair, Sartell, MN; Jenna Grandstrand, Hopkins, MN; David Wedan, Maple Plain, MN; Stuart (Rocque) Grandstrand, Hawley, MN; Sarah (Eric) Voje, Maple Grove, MN; Blake Grandstrand, Stillwater, MN; Mitchell Grandstrand, Dayton, MN; Collin Grandstrand, Eau Claire, WI; Katelyn Grandstrand, Dayton, MN; nine great-grandchildren; one sister, Marion (Glenn) Halvorson, Fosston, MN and two brothers, Bob Hart, Vancouver, WA; Bill (Angie) Copeland, Hayesville, NC, many nieces and nephews, relatives and friends.

Carolyn was preceded in death by her parents, two sisters Virginia McGlynn, Arlene Erickson, two brothers Leland and Gene Copeland, Stepdad, Art Swenson and two stepbrothers, Daryl and Alan Swenson.

Carolyn Grandstrand died on Friday, May 10, 2024, at Methodist Hospital in St. Louis Park, MN, at the age of 80 years, 2 months, and 28 days. She will be missed. May her memory be blessed.

Memorials: Carolyn loved her time at Haven Homes and she touched many people that lived and worked there. If would like to make a donation in her memory to the Haven Homes bus fund, give online at https://www.havenhomesseniorliving.org/donate/havenhomesseniorliving.org/donate/ or mail to 4848 Gateway Blvd., Maple Plain, MN 55359.

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Joel B. Brian Droba - Unknown - May 06, 2024

Departed: 05/06/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Joel Droba, COL (RET) passed away on May 6, 2024, after battling metastatic colon cancer for several years. Joel was born in Detroit, MI on May 29, 1966, and grew up in Bemidji, MN. He attended Bemidji High-School and graduated from Bemidji State University with a B.A. in Classical Music (percussion), with a minor in Military Science. He was commissioned in ROTC as a 2nd LT in the MN Army National Guard as an Armor Officer (combat operations.) He retired as a Colonel in the US Army Reserve after a highly decorated 33-year career specializing in psychological warfare and operations. He is preceded in death by his mother and father, Mary Ann (Briggs) and Leonard “Bud” Steele, and is survived by his wife, Martha Lundell, daughter, Christina Lundell, and two siblings, Gregory Droba and Aletia Droba, brother-in-law, Mohammed Odeibat, and nephew, Shareif Odeibat. Private family service at Fort Snelling National Cemetery, followed by a celebration of Joel’s life which will be scheduled and shared at a later date.

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Craig George LaPointe - Unknown - May 06, 2024

Departed: 05/06/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Craig G. LaPointe, age 79, passed away on May 6, 2024, at his home in San Rafael, CA.Born on April 21, 1945, in Minneapolis, MN, Craig was raised in Plymouth, MN. His beloved wife Sandy (Sandra) and dog Kim Lee were by his side. Craig's life was marked by adventure and dedication. He learned the art of embroidery from his beloved grandmother, Nunny, a hobby that became a treasured pastime. At 17, he left home to join the "Sailors Union of the Pacific"; as a Merchant Seaman, an occupation he cherished for 28 years until retirement, leaving behind a legacy of dedication and hard work. His maritime journey was briefly interrupted when he was inducted into the Army on November 28, 1966. He served honorably until November 27, 1972, and then returned to California to continue his career in the maritime industry.

Craig was truly a  "Jonathan Seagull"; until he met his wife and partner, Sandy. They married on August 16, 1981, finding in each other lifelong companions for adventures. Together, they enjoyed fishing on Swan Lake in Pengilly, MN, camping in Stanley, Idaho, and cruising on his boat in the San Francisco Bay area. Craig also took up golf in Hawaii, spending many happy years playing with family and friends. A fan of blackjack and poker, he relished good games with his friends. In his senior years, he became an avid reader, preferring the tranquility of his home with his wife and dog. He found solace and joy in his summer retreats to Pengilly, MN, where he indulged in his favorite pastime, fishing. Known for his love of Corvettes and his openness to a good party, Craig's home was always a place of joy.

Craig was a pillar of support for his family, especially his siblings, who deeply admired him for his care and companionship. His nieces and nephews treasure memories of sunny days spent swimming in his pool and enjoying his lively company. Services to honor Craig's life will be held on May 15, 2024, at 10:00 AM at Rettinger Funeral Home in Long Lake, MN. A private interment will follow at Saint George Cemetery in Long Lake. In respect of the family's wishes, there will be no reception following the services. Craig's legacy of love, adventure, and family devotion will be cherished and remembered by all who knew and loved him.

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Rita I. Ines King - Unknown - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Rita Ines King ( née Yriart), 77, of Wayzata, Minnesota passed away Thursday April 18, 2024 from congestive heart failure.

Born in New York City and raised in the U.S., Mexico, and Portugal, Rita traveled throughout Europe and South America before settling down in Dearborn, Michigan to raise her family. Rita loved learning. She attended Bryn Mawr College and University of Michigan, earning a BA in Art History and an MBA before embracing her passion for education as a paraprofessional in the Dearborn Public Schools.

After battling cancer as a young adult, Rita was thrilled to meet her husband William Allen King, who helped her through the fear of coming out of remission. Through their mutual love and loyalty, she achieved a dream she thought she would never realize: building a family of her own.

Rita loved being a wife and mother more than anything. Her greatest joy was raising children, and out of all the places she lived, the home she made with her husband in Dearborn was her favorite. She delighted in taking her children to museums and spent many afternoons sharing with them her love of art at the Detroit Institute of Arts and her interest in history at the Henry Ford Museum and Greenfield Village. Her love of learning is a legacy that she left to her children and the students that she taught.

Rita’s final years were spent with her daughter and husband in Minnesota. In her retirement, she enjoyed birdwatching, afternoons at her health club, and corresponding with her many relatives in the United States and in Argentina. She loved speaking Spanish and made fast friends with neighbors and business owners who shared her heritage.

Rita is survived by her husband, William Allen King Sr., her son, William Allen King Jr., her daughter, Kathleen May Vandevoorde (née King), and her brothers, Richard Yriart and Robert Yriart.

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Carl H. Dore - Unknown - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Carl Dore, most recently of Orono, MN- Services Pending

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Elizabeth "Liz" Sjoberg - Unknown - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Sjoberg, Elizabeth "Liz" Holmes, Wife and Mother age 74, of Alexandria, MN formerly of Eden Prairie, MN. Passed away peacefully at home on the First of April, 2024.  Elizabeth is loved deeply and will be greatly missed.  Liz and Dwight had been married for 51 years before Dwight's unexpected passing in November and they are together again.  Liz's greatest pride is her son, Chris. Her humor, strength and love will live on in all who knew her.  Elizabeth is survived by her son, Chris (Sandy Atkinson) Sjoberg; sisters, Anne Wyatt and Pam (Bob Coccoluto) Wyatt; brother-in-law, Doug (Gayle) Sjoberg; sister-in-law Karin (John) Bredesen and several nieces and nephews. Elizabeth was preceded in death by her husband, Dwight Sjoberg; mother, Rose Wyatt; father David Wyatt, and In-Laws, Ethel and Howard Sjoberg. Funeral Services will be at Maple Plain Community Church, 1815 Budd Ave. N. Maple Plain, MN 55359, Wednesday, April 10th. Visitation, 10am, Service, 11am, Cemetery, 1pm. As an expression of sympathy, memorial contributions may be directed to the family with great appreciation.

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Craig S. Johnson - Unknown - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Johnson, Craig Stuart Aged 55, of Medina, unexpectedly passed away on March 29, 2024. He is preceded in death by father Randall Johnson, grandfather Stuart Johnson, grandmother Arlene Wallace and grandfather Everett Wallace. Survived by mother Joyce Johnson, children Sophia and Samuel Johnson, wife Kari Johnson as well as many aunts, uncles and cousins. Craig had a passion for the outdoors, specifically kayaking, fishing, hunting and loved the ocean. A family celebration of life will be held at a later date.

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Kurt W. McPherson - Unknown - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Long Lake)

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Diane P. Perez Winsor - Unknown - March 21, 2024

Departed: 03/21/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Diane (Campbell)  Perez Winsor, age 80 of Orono. Diane brought joy to us from January 1, 1944 until March 21, 2024.  She is preceded in death by her parents, James and Luvern Campbell, loving husband, Glenn Winsor and beloved grandson, Drew Perez.  She is survived by her sister, Jean Turner; sons, Daniel Perez (Marne) and Tray Perez (Christine); Grandchildren, Daniel (DJ) Perez and Markell Ortega (Eric);  Great-Grandchildren, Paislee, Matteo and Leo Ortega; niece, Johnna Ott (Joe) and many other relatives. She loved having family and friends out to the lake to fish, swim and boat.  Some of her favorite times were checking out the stringers and watching the kids swim and play.  She was always involved in seeing each fish caught and cooking/eating them later. We love you with all our heart and will miss you every day. Please join us for food and drink to remember our beloved matriarch at the Wayzata American Legion on Sunday April 7th, 3-5pm, 949 Wayzata Blvd. Wayzata, MN 55391

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Arnold P. Stifter - Unknown - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Stifter, Arnold Paul (Arnie) was born in Winsted, Minnesota on February 17, 1935 to Joseph and Mary (Haekencamp) Stifter. He passed away on March 17, 2024 in Orono, Minnesota. Arnie attended school at St. Mary’s in Waverly, MN and served in the U.S. Military. He was married to Catherine (Seifert) for 19 years and together they raised two children. For much of his adult life Arnie worked as a printer for the Minneapolis StarTribune. He was a passionate fisherman and hunter, always in search of the next big buck or walleye. Arnie was preceded in death by five siblings and many friends. He is survived by his brother Cletus, his children, Vicky and Scott, daughter-in-law, Deb and four grandchildren. He will be deeply missed. A funeral mass will be held at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Waverly, MN at 11 a.m. on Saturday, June 22.

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Dr. Clyde H. Wilkes - Unknown - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Long Lake)

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Donald J. Broeckert - Unknown - February 25, 2024

Departed: 02/25/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Donald John Broeckert age 93 of Monicello, MN. Born January 24, 1931, passed away February 25, 2024. Preceded in death by parents, Eric and Helen Broeckert. Daughter, Penny Broeckert. Survived by sons, Thomas Broeckert and Robert (Angelia) Broeckert. Grandchildren, Victoria, Katherine, Michael, Erich, Grayson and Joshua. Great-grandchildren. Private family service.

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Lois Dion - Unknown - January 31, 2024

Departed: 01/31/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Lois Dion, 86, of Mound Minnesota passed away peacefully on January 31 st , 2024, after a brief illness. Lois was born on September 29, 1937, to Elmer and Edna Kettner in Springfield Minnesota. She grew up on the family farm alongside her sisters Jean, Judy, Sharon, and Darlene (deceased) and her brothers Jerome and Doug.

A good student, she attended Springfield High School and later graduated college earning a master’s degree in education. Along she met the love of her life Douglas Dion and the two were married on July 15, 1961. Lois taught elementary school in the Westonka School district and helped shape thousands of young lives over 30 years of dedicated service. Both Lois and Douglas were passionate sailors and frequently hosted weekends on Lake Superior on their many sailboats. She was the Commodore of her yacht club twice and taught dozens of experienced members the finer points of navigation, maintenance, and spinning yarns. Telling exotic tales was easy for Lois because she and Douglas extensively traveled the world and kept detailed logs of their many adventures. At the mention of almost any country Lois’s eyes would sparkle as she related an amusing account of a beautiful site or a particularly interesting person they had met there. Lois positively affected every person she met and always had a smile and a kind word for everyone. She will be dearly missed but will live on in the many thousands she touched with her warmth, humor, and enthusiastic love of life.

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Jerome "Jerry" W. Bolte - Unknown - January 24, 2024

Departed: 01/24/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Jerome "Jerry" Bolte age 87 of Long Lake. Passed away Jan. 24. Jerry was born and raised on a farm in southern Minnesota, a mile from Ormsby, on June 16,1936, to William and Dorothy Bolte, the first of three children.  He attended grades 1 through 8 in a two-room school in Ormsby, and high school in St. James. He spent two years in the army and after that graduated with a degree in business from Mankato State University. After college he began his 37-year career as a salesman. First, with Hallmark Cards, then for 15 years with Vassarette/Munsingwear (including time as V.P. of Merchandising), and 18 years with Jantzen, selling Women's sportswear and swimwear to department stores and specialty shops.

He was a very nomadic soul, who was fortunate to travel extensively with his wife, Jo, to several European countries. After Jo returned home, he remained in Europe, making 8 one-week trips with Dutch flower exporters to their selling territories in France, Austria, Italy and England. The exporters sold flowers out of their tractor-trailer rigs to 40 to 50 flower shops. From an early age, Jerry was very interested in the trucking business, an interest that did not lead to a career.  His hobby for many years was building plastic model tractor trailers. He also took up painting in later years. Jerry had several volunteer gigs after retiring in 1998, including Big Brother-Little Brother, assisting 3rd grade teachers at north side schools for 15 years, assisting teachers at Hennepin County prison in Plymouth for two years, working with inmates. Several years with Interfaith Outreach retail stores, and 12 years as a friend to a resident of Hammer Residences. Jerry discovered jazz music at 18, while in the army, and has been a devoted listener and collector of jazz music ever since. He was a voracious reader, and enjoyed gardening. Lastly, he was a political junkie on the Democratic side.

Survived by Jo, his wife for 38 years, sons, Matthew (Gail) and David, Grandchildren, Griffin and Laine, step-daughter, Nancy Schrader (James), step-grandchildren, Brittany, John and Emily and also sister, Kay Groth, Preceded  in death by brother, Mike. Funeral service Tuesday Jan. 30th at 11 a.m. at Trinity Lutheran Church, 2060 County Rd 6, Long Lake, with visitation beginning at 10 a.m. Reception to follow at the church.

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Lorraine Cloutier - Unknown - January 19, 2024

Departed: 01/19/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Lorraine E. Cloutier (Skogsberg) of Long Lake, MN. Passed away at the age of 80 on January 19th, 2024. She was born on June 22nd, 1943, in Mpls, and graduated from Edison High school in 1961. She moved to Long Lake in 1966 where she raised her daughters and eventually helped with her 3 grandchildren. She was a wonderful, kind woman who cared deeply for those in her life. Lorraine was a selfless person who put the needs of others before her own. She always wanted to make people happy, whether it was with her contagious smile or her cooking and baking skills. She never wanted anybody to go without a smile or a full belly. She had a love of morning coffee, sports, knitting, cooking, baking, puzzles and word finds. She also enjoyed spending time with her family, and friends. She spent many years working at the local nursing home. After that she discovered a love of photography where she spent 10 years making people smile while at various portrait studios.  Preceded in death by her parents Edward and Doris Skogsberg, her brother, Richard and son-in-law, Barry Roche Survived by daughters, Lavonne Roche and Lynette Cloutier (Jacob Homan) Grandchildren, Christina Bohn (Gary) Micheal Strand, Victoria Ankney (Taylor) Great-Grandchildren, Charlotte, Xavier, Brooklyn Bohn, Brooklyn, William, Melanie Ankney. Many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. The family would also like to recognize and thank the staff of the Glenn Cottages for all the love and care they gave to Lorraine. Visitation to be held at 10 am on February 3rd with service to follow at 11:00 at Trinity Lutheran church in Long Lake, Mn 2060 County Rd 6, Long Lake, Mn 55356

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Kenneth Goldstrand - Unknown - January 19, 2024

Departed: 01/19/2024 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Died January 19, 2024, age 71.  Survived by partner, Grant Eggenberg, his loyal canine companion Weeder, his brothers, Robert, Jr (Fay) and Frank (Kerry), his sisters, Claudia (William Engeland), Kathleen and Barbara (Brian Cole),  brother-in-law, Greg Eggenberg and many nieces and nephews. A celebration of life will be held in the spring.

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Arlene Mrkonich - Unknown - December 31, 2023

Departed: 12/31/2023 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Mrkonich, Arlene Of Minnetrista, passed away December 31, 2023. Daughter of Henry Blood and Helen Johnson. Preceded in death by husband Joe; brothers and sisters Doris McMahon (Art), Edna Cahoy (Don), Walter Brooks (Regina), Alice Okonek (Don) and Wayne Brooks (Ione), and many dear in-laws, relatives, and friends. Survived by children and grandchildren Marko (Bobbi), Joseph and Robert Mrkonich; Betty (David), David and Kathryn Hirschfeld; and Kathryn (Bruce) and Eric Wilson. Arlene was born on February 15, 1932, in Polk County, WI, and was valedictorian of the Frederic Class of 1949. She obtained a teaching degree from Superior State Teachers College in 1951. She then taught second graders in Siren, WI, where she met the new football coach, Joe (of Eveleth). In 1952, he became her husband of 58 years. Arlene and Joe moved to Thief River Falls in 1952, where they were joined by Marko and Betty and lived until 1963. Arlene worked in a bank there and supported farmers with record-keeping, while Joe coached the Prowlers. In 1963, Arlene and Joe moved to Duluth where Joe became a coach at East High School and Arlene obtained bachelor's and master's degrees at UMD. After they welcomed Kate, Arlene began employment with the Duluth Public Schools as a librarian – first in 1970 at Morgan Park High School and then Woodland Jr. High, where she pioneered the use of technology in an expanded multi-media resource center. After 24 years of teaching, Arlene retired to spend more time with her family. Along the way, she was a member of Duluth's Holy Rosary parish and later, the Church of St. George in Long Lake. In Duluth, she was also a member of a bridge club for over 3 decades, an officer of the local AAUW chapter, a docent at UMD's Tweed Museum of Art, and a part-time instructor in the College of St. Scholastica's Library Science program. Arlene excelled and found ultimate fulfillment in her role as loving partner, mother, and grandmother. An avid fan of the Minnesota Gophers, Twins, Vikings, and Wolves, Arlene took special delight in preparing homemade everything and entertaining generations of friends, relatives, and colleagues. In 2011, she overcame a bout with cancer and Joe's death to thrive for another decade, living independently, working on her computer, and planning 2024 events until the day she died. She read 89 books in 2023 – one for almost every year of her life. At Arlene's request, please remember her in your special way. There will be no public funeral service. Arlene's wish was that any memorials be directed to the Minnesota Boychoir, 75 W. 5th St., Suite 411, St. Paul, MN 55102, or https://boychoir.org. May she rest in peace. "But be glad for me if I can die in the presence of friends and family. If this happens, believe me, I came out ahead. I didn't lose this one." (Raymond Carver)

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Paul Richard James - Unknown - December 24, 2023

Departed: 12/24/2023 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Paul Richard James, age 64 of Annandale. Passed away Dec. 24th. Preceded in death by his granddaughter, Kailey Marie, father, Dick and his brother, Steve. Survived by daughters, Nissa James and Julie (Jason) Miller. Grandchildren, Everett, Carregan, Layne and Maverik, mother, Rita James, brothers, John (Lisa) James, Tom (Peggy) James and many loving relatives and friends.

Celebrating the Life and Legacy of Paul R. James Beloved Son, Father, Grandfather, Brother, Uncle, Friend, and Neighbor. In the early morning hours of Christmas Eve, Paul R. James left this world after more than decade long and very courageous battle with early-onset, fast-progressing Parkinson’s Disease. Paul arrived into this world on May 7, 1959, in Carrizozo, New Mexico to parents Richard (Dick) and Rita James while Dick served in the Army. Growing up in Maple Plain, MN with his brothers -- John, Steve, and Tom -- the four boys were often referred to as “The James Boys.” As children, the boys may have been found dragging G.I. Joe action figures behind their mother’s car as she ran errands; as adolescents and then young men, the boys were well-known for their engaging personalities, commitment to family, and generosity of spirit.

From the time he was a child until the time he left us, Paul was often the source of humorous antics as his ever-present mischievous nature meant he was a lover of practical jokes. From “dribble cans” at family affairs to the fingerprints left on the meticulously clean sunglasses of his brother to leaving Mountain Dew cans on the steps of houses of family, friends, and neighbors to let them know he had stopped by to connect if they weren’t home, Paul always found a way to bring love and humor into the lives of those around him. Throughout his life, and despite the challenges he faced, Paul retained that rare spark that only comes from being able to experience moments of joy continually and truly in the world around you. As a result, Paul was able to bring moments of happiness and laughter into the hearts of those he knew and those he newly met, leaving every person a little bit better just for knowing him.

People were drawn to him, whether it was lifelong friends, neighbors, or community members who stopped upon first meeting him just to share a joke and moment of laughter. This characteristic of being able to create connection in the smallest of moments is part of his legacy, passed onto his daughters, Nissa and Julie, and to Kailey Marie, his treasured first granddaughter. The loss of his younger brother, Steve on August 28, 2004, followed by the loss of Kailey Marie to a tragic car accident on July 1, 2021, were two of the only times in Paul’s life where his family saw that infectious spark he had always retained dim for a period of time.

Paul’s commitment to his family was unwavering. From the moment he first became a father on January 16, 1980, welcoming daughter Nissa Lynn with his wife, Teena, followed by the arrival of his second daughter, Julie Anna, on September 7, 1983, his devotion to his family was clear in the way he established his priorities. Paul set an example his daughters strive to emulate with their own families regardless of how busy or trying the world is at any given moment because of who he was as a father to them. As a father, Paul always made time to tell his girls how much he loved them, to educate them about the world, to teach them how to appreciate nature and the importance of conservation, and to counsel them through whatever challenges they faced as children, adolescents, and then as adults. He was always there for those he loved, as evidenced by the fact it was rare for him to not answer an incoming call and just “be there” when needed.

In fact, Paul’s commitment to always being present for those he loved led to his presence at his grandchildren’s arrivals into this world, beginning with Kailey Marie. Paul then traveled to Virginia to welcome his first grandson, Everett, and was one of the first people to hold Everett in the hospital. Just a year later, Paul made his first trip outside of the country, traveling to England to care for Everett during the arrival of Carregan, Nissa’s daughter and Paul’s second granddaughter, in London. Without missing a beat, Paul left the transatlantic flight, traveled to the hospital, and took his first English train with Everett in tow to the countryside, doting on him to make certain Everett knew the arrival of a younger sister would not change how loved he was by his Papa. His second grandson, Layne, arrived the same year, followed by grandson Maverik in 2014. Paul ensured that his grandchildren knew how much he loved them, just as Paul always made certain his daughters knew the same. His commitment to spending time with his grandchildren was evident in the time he spent fishing with Kailey and watching Layne’s baseball games with his son-in-law, Jason. “You can do anything you set your mind to” and “Don’t be afraid to fail – use those experiences to learn and know you are loved regardless” were guiding phrases for steering his daughters and grandchildren through their pivotal moments in life.

A devoted son and brother, Paul rarely missed a James Family holiday gathering. He looked forward to showing off his grilling expertise, to playing cards and lawn games, and provoking at least one of his brothers. He called his mother often, and enjoyed stopping by to see her frequently as he always needed to know she was doing well, and even more so after the death of his father in 2019. He considered his mother to be one of his best friends, and he loved the moments he had with her, making cookies, playing cards, visiting friends, and spending time in Arizona together to escape the Minnesota winters in recent years.

Paul’s intelligence and thoughtful nature made him a gifted solver of problems (he never met a puzzle he couldn’t finish), meticulous carpenter, and highly skilled arborist/tree trimmer. He was creative and loved to tinker, enjoying time spent on woodworking projects, classic cars and of course, his Harley motorcycle. Paul’s love of the natural world was clear in the time he spent admiring all of it – sunrises, sunsets, wildlife, lakes, mountains, the desert flowers – and just appreciating the simple pleasures that so many take for granted.

In the words of Kailey Marie, her Papa was the “nicest, sweetest, most generous and honest person” she knew, and her “most favorite person in the entire world.”  This was Paul’s legacy for those he left behind -- his generosity of spirit, unending kindness, utmost integrity, and honest nature made everyone fortunate to have him in their lives.

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Carl D. Dave Barnes - Unknown - November 18, 2023

Departed: 11/18/2023 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Barnes, Carl David "Dave" age 87 of Plymouth. Passed away peacefully on Nov. 19, 2023 Born Jan. 12, 1936 in Des Moines, IA. Graduated from Iowa State with a degree in electronics engineering. A career in computers followed. Was employed at IBM, Control Data, and other computer companies. Served 6 years in the Air Force Reserves. Was a member of the Wayzata Masonic Fraternity  and Wayzata American Legion. Preceded in death by parents, Russell and Eunice Barnes and two brothers. Survived by loving wife Ann for 46 happy years. Family: C. Dan Barnes, Linda Barnes (Mark) Kathy Barnes, Scott Melchior (Terri), Christi Robertson, (Pat) and Brian Melchoir (Kari). 11 Grandchildren and 6 Great-Grandchildren. Funeral Service 11 am Wednesday 11/29. Visitation 4-8 pm Tuesday at Rettinger Funeral Home 425 Lake St Long Lake.

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Edward C. Chollett - Unknown - November 16, 2023

Departed: 11/16/2023 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Chollett, Edward C. 86 of Maple Plain. Passed away Nov. 16. Preceded in death by brother, Gene and grandson, Nathan. Survived by wife Virginia; children, sons, Patrick (Janet) and their children, Rachel, Kate, and Sarah. Justin (Susan) and their daughter, Lauren and Linden Chollett; daughter, Rochelle and her children, Travis, Samuel (Katie)  Danielle (Caleb) and Kali. Great-grandchildren, Nathan, Lucy, Gemma, and Cora. Brother, Merle (Pat) Chollett; sisters, June Steffen and Donna (Dwight) Mills. Funeral Service 2 PM Wednesday,Nov. 22 with visitation 1 hr prior to service at Rettinger Funeral Home 425 Lake St Long Lake

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Dwight P. Sjoberg - Unknown - November 13, 2023

Departed: 11/13/2023 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Sjoberg, Dwight Paul, Husband and father age 74, of Eden Prairie. Passed unexpectedly on the 13th of November 2023.  Dwight is loved deeply and will be greatly missed. Dwight had an amazing work ethic and received several high-achievement recognitions during his nearly 13 years as a Technical Support Engineer with Dell-Compellent.  His co-workers describe him as a gentleman and dynamic; always having the right words to say and leaving a good impression everywhere he went. Dwight is survived by his loving wife, Elizabeth (Wyatt) Sjoberg, son Chris (Sandy Atkinson) Sjoberg, brother, Doug (Gayle) Sjoberg, sister, Karin (John) Bredesen, and cousins, David Sjoberg and John Sjoberg. Dwight is preceded in death by his parents, Howard and Ethel Sjoberg and cousin Steven Sjoberg. Funeral Services will be at Maple Plain Community Church, 1815 Budd Ave. N. Maple Plain, MN 55359, Tuesday, November 28th. Visitation, 10am, Service,11am, Cemetery, 1pm. As an expression of sympathy, memorial contributions may be directed to the family with great appreciation.

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Dale A. Giguere - Unknown - November 01, 2023

Departed: 11/01/2023 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Dale A. Giguere age 71 of St. Cloud, MN. Pending

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Verne M. Hubbell - Unknown - October 28, 2023

Departed: 10/28/2023 (Long Lake)

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Linda Welch - Unknown - October 16, 2023

Departed: 10/16/2023 (Long Lake)

Obituary Preview: Welch, Linda, age 68 of Wayzata, passed away Oct. 16th, 2023. Preceded by her parents, Lee and Elaine Welch. She is survived by brothers, Gary (Trish) and Mark (Lynn); Sister, Jean (Kevin); nephews, Douglas (Lindsay), Jeffery and Tyler; grand-nephew, Danny and grand-niece, Maggie.

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Personalized Funeral Services

At Rettinger Funeral Home, every family is treated with dignity and respect. The experienced staff takes the time to listen to each family's unique needs and preferences, crafting personalized funeral services that reflect the personality, spirit, and legacy of their loved one. Whether you're planning a traditional funeral, a celebration of life, or a memorial service, Rettinger Funeral Home's team will guide you through every step of the process with sensitivity and compassion.

Cremation Services

In addition to traditional funeral services, Rettinger Funeral Home also offers cremation options for families who prefer this alternative. Their state-of-the-art cremation facility ensures that every cremation is performed with dignity and respect. From direct cremations to memorial services with cremation, Rettinger Funeral Home provides a range of cremation options to suit individual needs and preferences.

Pre-Planning and Advanced Planning

Rettinger Funeral Home understands that planning ahead can be a wise decision for individuals and families alike. By pre-planning or advanced planning your funeral arrangements, you can ensure that your wishes are respected, while also alleviating the burden on your loved ones during a difficult time. The knowledgeable staff at Rettinger Funeral Home can guide you through the pre-planning process, helping you make informed decisions about your final arrangements.

Community Involvement and Support

Rettinger Funeral Home is deeply committed to the Long Lake community and surrounding areas. They recognize that grief support extends far beyond the funeral service itself and offer ongoing support to families through bereavement programs, support groups, and community events. By fostering connections and providing resources, Rettinger Funeral Home helps individuals navigate the grieving process with compassion and understanding.

Facilities and Amenities

The facilities at Rettinger Funeral Home are designed to provide a comforting and peaceful atmosphere for families and friends gathering to celebrate the life of their loved one. The spacious chapel, visitation rooms, and reception areas are tastefully decorated and equipped with modern amenities to ensure that every service is dignified and memorable. Ample parking and convenient accessibility features ensure that all guests feel welcome and accommodated.

A Commitment to Quality and Excellence

Rettinger Funeral Home is dedicated to upholding the highest standards of quality and excellence in funeral care. As a member of various professional associations, they stay abreast of industry developments and best practices, ensuring that their services remain innovative, compassionate, and tailored to meet the evolving needs of the community.

A Message from Rettinger Funeral Home

"At Rettinger Funeral Home, we understand that every life is precious and unique. We believe that honoring the life of your loved one is not just our responsibility, but our privilege. Our commitment is to provide exceptional service, compassionate care, and personalized attention to every family we serve. We invite you to experience the difference that sets us apart – trust, empathy, and dedication." – The Rettinger Funeral Home Team

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, achievements, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy for generations to come.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend of the deceased writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or crematorium may assist with writing the obituary or provide a template for the family to fill out.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include details about their life story, accomplishments, and charitable organizations they supported.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's wishes. Typically, it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs. Online obituaries often have more flexibility in terms of length than print publications.

Where are obituaries published?

Obituaries are typically published in local newspapers, online obituary websites, funeral home websites, and social media platforms. Some families also choose to create a memorial website or blog to share the obituary and other memories of their loved one.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and the length of the obituary. Some online obituary websites offer free or low-cost options, while print publications may charge by the word or line.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and help readers remember the person who has passed away.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only their name, age, and date of death. It is often used when a full obituary is not desired or when time is limited.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice that provides factual information about the person who has passed away. A eulogy is a spoken tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service, sharing personal stories and memories of the deceased.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and deadlines. They may require specific formatting or information, so be sure to ask about their guidelines.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as part of their estate planning or as a way to reflect on their life. This can be a unique opportunity to tell your own story and leave a lasting legacy.

How long after death should an obituary be published?

The timing of publishing an obituary varies depending on cultural and personal traditions. Typically, it is published within a few days to a week after the person's passing.

Can I make corrections to an already published obituary?

If you need to make corrections to an already published obituary, contact the publication directly and they will guide you through their correction process. Be prepared to provide documentation supporting the changes.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer not to publicly announce the person's passing, you can opt for a private or limited-circulation obituary. This might be shared only with close family and friends or posted on a private online memorial page.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to honor their loved one's memory and support a cause they cared about.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can search online archives of newspapers or visit local libraries that maintain archives of past publications. Some genealogy websites also offer access to historical obituaries.

Can I republish an old obituary online?

If you want to republish an old obituary online, check with the original publication for permission or copyright restrictions. You may need to obtain permission from the author or publisher before sharing it online.

What is an online memorial page?

An online memorial page is a virtual space where friends and family can share memories, photos, and condolences for the deceased. These pages often remain active for years after the initial posting.

How do I create an online memorial page?

You can create an online memorial page through various websites that offer this service. These platforms often provide templates and guidance to help you create a personalized tribute page.

Can I link multiple online memorials together?

Yes, some online memorial platforms allow you to link multiple pages together, creating a network of tributes and memories for the deceased.

How long do online memorials remain active?

The duration of online memorials varies depending on the platform's policies. Some remain active indefinitely, while others may be archived after a certain period.

Can I add updates or new content to an existing online memorial?

Yes, most online memorial platforms allow you to add updates, new photos, or stories over time. This enables you to continue celebrating your loved one's life and legacy.

Are online memorials suitable for everyone?

No, online memorials may not be suitable for everyone. Some families may prefer traditional print publications or more private forms of remembrance. It's essential to consider individual preferences and cultural traditions when deciding how to honor your loved one's memory.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary?

If you're having trouble writing an obituary, consider seeking help from a friend, family member, or professional writer. You can also look at examples online or use templates as guidance.

Is it okay to include humor in an obituary?

Yes, including humor in an obituary can be appropriate if it reflects the person's personality or helps celebrate their life. However, be mindful of your audience and avoid anything that might offend or upset readers.