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Christopher L. Nooney - Unknown - May 14, 2024

Departed: 05/14/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Christopher L. Nooney, 35, of North Chatham, NY, passed away peacefully on May 14, 2024. He was born on January 18, 1989, in Albany, NY.

Christopher was known for his heart of gold and great sense of humor. He had a deep passion for music and a love for animals of all kinds, especially wolves. An avid sports fan, he cherished watching college basketball, with March Madness being his favorite time of year, a tradition he enjoyed sharing with his mother.

He worked as a mechanic at Tony Scott Auto in East Greenbush, where he formed close bonds with his co-workers, whom he considered brothers.

Christopher will be deeply missed by his mother, Bonnie R. Nooney of North Chatham, NY; his aunt and uncles, Ed and JoAnn Rouse of Atlanta, GA, Brian and Maryann Rouse of Clifton Park, NY, Jay and Beth Rouse of Virginia, Jeff and Tammy Rouse of North Chatham, NY and Aaron and Beth Rouse of Virginia. He is also survived by several cousins and nephews.

In addition to his father, Bruce, he was also predeceased by his half-sister, Tara Hughes and his grandparents, Ed and Avril Rouse and Lyle and Jeannine Nooney.

A graveside service will be held at a later date.

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David P. Eberlein - December 24, 1938 - May 07, 2024

Departed: 05/07/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: David P. Eberlein, 85, of Valatie NY passed away on Tuesday May 7, 2024 in Albany NY. He was born in Hudson NY on December 24, 1938 and was a Mechanic for Niagara Mohawk Power Corp. until his retirement. Dave and his lifelong friend and business partner Rudy Bozik also operated Omi Automotive in Omi NY for many years. He was a lifelong resident of Columbia County and most recently lived in Valatie with his devoted wife Diane.

Dave was a proud lifetime member of the Kinderhook Elks Lodge #2530 and the Glencadia Rod and Gun Club, where he valued many new and longtime friendships. He also enjoyed the camaraderie of many friends at Four Brothers, Samson's, and the Niverville Pub.

Dave enjoyed all things automotive, spending time outdoors, and most importantly, spending time with his beloved family and friends.

Dave is survived by his loving wife Diane Eberlein, sons Victor (Pamela), Matthew (Victoria), David (Kerin), and daughter Cristina (James) Shord. He is also survived by his grandchildren Patricia, Jennifer, Matthew, Laura, Alexandra, and Katelyn Eberlein, and Keira and Andrew Hourigan. He was predeceased by his parents Gustav and Bertha Eberlein.

Calling hours will be held at 10:00am on Friday May 17 at the Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home, 1015 Kinderhook St. Valatie with a service at 12:00pm conducted by Rev. Dan Cohn. Burial will follow at Stuyvesant Falls Cemetery, 1620 Route 9, Stuyvesant Falls NY.

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Patricia A. Hickey - March 08, 1941 - May 04, 2024

Departed: 05/04/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Patricia A. Hickey, 83, of Valatie, passed away with her family by her side on May 4, 2024. Born in Troy, NY on March 8, 1941, she was the daughter of the late Ellsworth Henry and Esther Mary (Ingraham) Fosby Sr and the wife of the late Robert A. Hickey.

Before her retirement, Patricia was employed by Speedy Sales in Nassau, NY. She was a member of the Reformed Dutch Church of Claverack and enjoyed Jigsaw Puzzles, reading and the company of her loving nieces and nephews.

She is survived by her twin sister, Priscilla A. Fosby of Valatie; her favorite niece, Teresa (William) Krein of Hudson; a special great niece, Savannah Rae Favorito and several other nieces and nephews. Besides her parents and husband, Patricia is also predeceased by her brothers, Ellsworth Henry Fosby Jr. and Richard Fosby Sr.

Friends are invited and may call from 12-1 PM, Tuesday, May 7, 2024 at the Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home, Rt. 9, Valatie, NY with services following at 1PM by Rev. Stanley Webster. Burial will follow at St. John the Baptist Cemetery, Valatie. Donations in Patricia's name may be made to the Valatie Rescue Squad, POB 242, Valatie, NY 12184.

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Maureen Elizabeth Rielly Commisa - Unknown - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Maureen Elizabeth Rielly Commisa (76) passed peacefully on April 24, 2024, after a courageous 11-year battle with cancer. She was surrounded by those she loved at her home in Valatie, NY.

Maureen was a beloved mother, grandmother, sister, and friend. Born in Troy, she grew up in Scarsdale, and raised her children in Valatie. She worked with her family at Rielly Company many years before she fearlessly moved west and built a whole new life. 'Reen expanded her career, met new friends who became family to her and fell in love with the southwest. She traveled as often as possible before retiring to the Valatie area she loved most. A woman of many talents, 'Reen was a voracious reader with a passion for history both as a historian & one of our family's archivists. A music lover to the core, she shared her enthusiasm with everyone.

A true artist whose ability included multiple forms of expression; Maureen's talent was inherited by her grandchildren. Nature was her happy place and her muse; she never missed the opportunity to appreciate its beauty. She was always up for a drive to take pictures or chase sunsets. In spring she planned her garden while summer was full of horse racing as she enjoyed all aspects of the sport. Fall brought hopes of the post season for her beloved NY Yankees & apple picking, and winter was full of family time, ice skating and joy of the holidays. 'Reen was also an amazing cook. She loved to discuss cooking and recipes with her friends and family. She experimented with flavors, loved to use fresh herbs from her garden, and her pesto was always in high demand.

She leaves decades of fond and colorfully fun memories to her family Jenna Commisa, Dana (Greg) Gideon, Aimee (Chris) Chaves, her grandchildren Keegan Williamson, Hannah Gideon, Gregory Gideon Jr, and Riley Chaves, siblings, nieces & nephews, and friends. She is predeceased by her parents Gerard & Barbara Rielly, and brother "Jack" Rielly.

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Brian Martin Hesler - November 21, 1965 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Brian Martin Hesler, 58, of Valatie, New York, passed away peacefully at his home on April21, 2024 after a long battle with an alcohol substance use disorder.

Brian was born in Niskayuna to James Edward Hesler and Janet May Barnthouse on November 21, 1965. He attended Mont Pleasant High School and graduated in 1983. He was the youngest of seven siblings and always had a knack for making people laugh. Brian worked as a New York State Corrections Officer for more than 30 years before retiring in2022. It wasn't an easy job and it took its toll in many ways, but he always worked hard to provide everything he could for his family. Brian was known for his sense of humor and the kindness he displayed towards many. For many years, he was active with the American RedCross as a blood and plasma donor and he never hesitated to help someone in need.

Brian loved his family, especially his two children. He will be missed by many. For many years, Brian kept his struggles with addiction a secret, an unfortunate stigma that is all too common. His family hopes that by sharing this it may encourage others to get the help they need.

He is survived by Susan Hesler, his daughter Samantha Hesler (Owen Smith), his son Jonathan Hesler, his beloved dog Willow, his six siblings: Jim Hesler (Marcia Hesler),Barbara Pearsall (Greg Pearsall), Paul Hesler (Sharon Hesler), Helen Mead (Rande Mead),Kathy Garretto (Paul Garretto), David Hesler, and his many nieces, nephews, and their children. He was predeceased by his parents James and Janet Hesler, and his son Benjamin Hesler.

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Samuel Anthony Gamello - November 28, 1921 - April 20, 2024

Departed: 04/20/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Samuel Anthony "Red" Gamello, Sr , 102, of Castleton, New York, passed away on 04/20/2024

peacefully in Barnwell Nursing home, in Valatie, New York. Sam was born in Newton Hook, NY to parents Gaetano and Rose Gamello (Greco) on November 28,

1921. Sam attended grade school in Kinderhook, New York, before beginning work at an early age. However, it was his profession as a barber that brought him the most pride. For over 50 years, Sam dedicated

himself to his craft, cutting hair and connecting with his community in Albany. During World War II, Sam bravely served his country as a member of the US Navy. His service was a

source of pride throughout his life. In 1999, Sam was honored by the local American Legion Post number 47 for his unwavering dedication

as a member for over 75 years. Sam is survived by his children Tom, Timmy, and Debbie (Donald), sister and very special caregiver Rosie, brother Guy, numerous grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces, and nephews. He was preceded by his wife Mary, son Sam (Joanne), his parents, and siblings Lena, Joe, Frank, Ralph,

Charlie, Jimmy, Susie, and Lucy. The wake will be held at Bond Funeral Home in Valatie, NY, on Thursday April 25, 2024 from 4-5:30 pm. A prayer service will follow at 5:30pm/

A private graveside service with military honors will follow on Friday at 11 am at the New Sacred Heart Cemetery on South Old Post Road, in Castleton, NY.

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Janet M. Godfrey - August 02, 1934 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Peacefully and surrounded by her family, Janet Godfrey, 89, of Niverville, NY, passed away on April 13th, 2024. Janet was born in West Albany, NY, on August 2nd, 1934, the daughter of George and Lillian Bleichert. She grew up in West Albany, NY, as the oldest of six children. Janet enjoyed working at the candy counter when Grant's Department Store opened on North Pearl Street in 1950. It was there she met her husband, Paul Godfrey Sr. They settled in Niverville, NY, and raised their three children.

Janet's greatest joy was spending time with her family, especially watching her grandchildren and great-grandsons grow. She took enormous pleasure in cooking for her family, entertaining, and singing (many weekends in the late 70s at the Lakeshore house in Niverville). Her sense of humor was beyond compare, and she had a unique ability to make everyone feel like they were part of the family.

Survivors include her three children: Paul Godfrey and his wife, Karen, of North Chatham, NY; Linda Meehan of Niverville, NY; and Lisa Swartz and her husband, James, of Ghent, NY. Additionally, she is survived by her four grandchildren: Justin Godfrey and his wife, Angie; Steven Meehan and his wife, Justine; Katie Meehan; and Thomas Meehan. Also, four treasured great-grandsons: Ryan Godfrey, Connor, Cody, and Colin Meehan. Janet is also survived by her beloved sister, Julie Curtis; sister, Lillian Smith; brother, Joseph Bleichert; and sister-in-law, Donna Bleichert, as well as several nieces and nephews.

Janet is predeceased by her husband of 50 years, Paul Godfrey Sr., and brothers George and John Bleichert.

Visitation will be held at the Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home on Friday, April 19th, 2024, from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm. A small gravesite service will follow at the Gerald B. H. Solomon Saratoga National Cemetery at 2:00 pm, where she will be buried alongside her husband.

Memorial donations may be made in Janet's name to the Valatie Rescue Squad or Community Hospice.

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Daniel G. Main - July 07, 1947 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Daniel G. Main II, 76 of Castleton-on-Hudson NY passed away peacefully at Van Rensselaer Manor Nursing Home of Troy- Saturday April 13th, 2024. Daniel was born July 7th, 1947 in Albany, NY. He was the loving son of the late Daniel and Catherine (Rosch) Main. Predeceased by his brother Joseph Belfiore Jr (2008), sister Kathleen Caswell (2022) as well as, his son in-laws Ian Ashline (2019), Darren Miller (2022) and great nephew Daniel Butler (2009). In addition, he is also survived by his wife Kelly Travers- Main and children Caitlyn (William), Rachel (Alex), Daniel III (Lilly); grandson Owen Ashline, granddaughter Willow Mae Crandall, nephews and niece Glenn (Vicki), David, Sandra Butler, as well as extended family and friends.

Daniel was a graduate of Columbia High School and was presented the Cibulas Medallion Award. Throughout the years of employment, he worked for Corellis & Hoffarth Refuse, Demartini Oil & Equipment, Sterling Winthrop and Owens Corning of Delmar NY in the Predictive Maintenace Department for 28 years. He was also a member of the St. Lukes Lutheran Church of Valatie, the 1970's Rensselaer County Motorcycle Club, Nassau Sportsmans Club, a brother of the Renssalaer County Masons branch of East Greenbush, as well as an honorary member of the East Coast Riders- Columbia County. He was an avid outdoorsman, drag racer, motorcycle rider and always loved tinkering on something in his barn. Daniel was a loyal friend you could always count on and a protective guardian of his family. Daniel's greatest achievement was 37 years of sobriety which he guarded dearly. *The Main Family would like to extend their thanks to Van Rensselaer Manor for the care of Daniel the last 6 years up to his passing.* Services for Daniel will be held Sunday, June 2nd, 2024 at 12:00 p.m

at St. Luke's Lutheran Church 1010 Kinderhook Street Valatie, NY 12184.

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Helen A. Praga - May 03, 1937 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Helen "Chink" A. Praga, 86, of Valatie, NY passed away peacefully surrounded by her family at home on April 12, 2024. Born in Hudson, NY on May 3, 1937, she was the daughter of the late Edward and Jennie (Youzwak) Williams and the wife of the late Phillip A. Praga.

Before her retirement, she was a receptionist for the Barnwell Nursing Home in Valatie.

Chink is survived by her daughter, Phyllis Hermance of Valatie; brother, Eugene "Pipper" Williams of Niverville, NY; sister, Sheila Usyk of Chatham Center, NY; grandchildren, Phillip A. (Linda) Martel, Christopher (Gabby) Lee, Jennifer (Nicolas) Lee and Andrea (Billy) Lee; 11 great grandchildren and several nieces and nephews. Besides her parents and husband, she is also predeceased by a daughter, Philecia Lee; a brother, Edward "Archie" Williams; sisters, Jeannette Tator, Pauline Hamm and Patricia Wheeler and her son-in-law, Bud Hermance.

Calling hours will be from 10 -12 PM, Tuesday at the Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home, Valatie followed by a graveside service at 12:30 PM at St. John's Cemetery, Valatie.

Donations in Helen's name may be sent to the Valatie Rescue Squad or the Valatie Fire Company.

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Charles Frederick Heermance - March 25, 1931 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Charles Frederick Heermance, 93 of East Greenbush, NY passed away on April 10, 2024 at the Evergreen Commons Nursing home in East Greenbush. Charles was born in Niverville, NY to Elizabeth and Frederick Heermance on March 25,1931. Charles attended the Martin H. Glynn school in Valatie, NY, eventually getting his GED. Charles married the love of his life Mary in 1951, this past January, they celebrated 73 years of marriage. In 1952, Charles was drafted into the Marine Corps to serve in the Korean conflict. He was honorably discharged on March 12,1954. For over 25 years, Charles worked at the GAF/BASF factory in Rensselaer, NY in the Steam generation facility. Charles was an avid golfer, bowler, home chef, and prankster who was an astute observer of human nature. Charles enjoyed swimming and on several occasions was able to rescue drowning children while watching his own. Charles witnessed profound poverty and starvation overseas while in the Marine Corps, which led him to grow vegetables on 11 acres of land, and to supplement his income with a family produce stand. Charles is survived by his wife Mary Heermance of East Greenbush, NY, his daughters Christine Tolcser (Eric) of East Schodack, Lisa Heermance of East Greenbush, son Martin Heermance (Sharon) of Boston; grandchildren Lara and Andrew Heermance, his nephew Richard Jacker, niece Amanda Wood and great nephew Lee. Charles is predeceased by his parents and his sister Katherine Kelsey. Memorial donations may be made to the Regional Food bank of Northeastern NY. The family wishes to extend their gratitude to the compassionate staff at the Evergreen Commons nursing home and the nursing staff at Albany Medical center. Funeral Services for the family were held at the Raymond E. Bond funeral home in Valatie, NY. Burial followed at the Woodlawn cemetery Valatie, NY.

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Marilyn M. Starker - May 10, 1935 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Marilyn M (Welfinger) Starker, 88, passed away peacefully at home on Sunday, April 7, 2024 in Valatie, NY. She was born and educated in Albany. She was the daughter of the late William and Emma (Hart) Welfinger. Marilyn was a homemaker for years before working and retiring from St. Peter's Hospital after 20 plus years. Marilyn is survived by her children, Patricia (Brian) Loucks, Russell (Virginia) Starker, and Gregory (Annette) Starker, six grandchildren, five great-grandchildren, several nieces and nephews, and Rusty (Wendy) Bascom who was like a son to her. She was predeceased by her brother, William Welfinger, sisters Shirley Gresens, Emma Burnett, and Joan Grattan. Services will be private at the convenience of the family. Memorial donations may be sent to Valatie Rescue Squad or Shriners Hospitals for Children.

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Norman Wayne Kay - February 07, 1941 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Norman Wayne Kay, 83, of Stuyvesant, NY passed away peacefully April 7, 2024 at the Pinehaven Nursing Home in Philmont, NY. Born in Stuyvesant on February 7, 1941, he was the son of the late John Joseph and Ruth Estelle (Mapes) Kay. Before his retirement, Norman was a Mason for Western Restoration in Albany, NY.

Norman was the husband of Faye (Kurtz) Kay of Stuyvesant; the father of Tracy Abrial, Mark and Troy Kay, all of Stuyvesant and Jami VanWagner of South Carolina; the brother of Albert Kay of Ticonderoga, NY; the grandfather of 4 grandchildren and the father-in-law of 2 son-in-laws and 1 dauther-in-law.

Funeral services will be at a later date. Contributions in Norman's name may be made to the Shriners Hospitals for Children, 2900 Rocky Point Dr., Tampa, FL 33607 or the Wounded Warrior Project, 4899 Belfort Rd., Suite 300 Jacksonville, FL 32256.

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William C. Mackey - September 26, 1949 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: William C. Mackey, 74, of Niverville, passed away on April 7, 2024 at home. Born in Albany, NY on September 26, 1949 he was the son of the late Albert R. and Frances M. (Youzwak) Mackey.

He was a member of the American Legion, Valatie, NY and the Kinderhook Elks, Kinderhook, NY.

William is survived by his siblings, Donald and Joseph Mackey of Valatie, NY, Sharon Hagadone of Virginia, Judith Mackey of Schodack, NY; several nieces, nephews and cousins and his caregiver, Lauralea Ingham.

Funeral services will be at a date in the near future.

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Alice K. Hornung - July 14, 1933 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Alice Katherine Hornung, 90, of Valatie, passed away on April 5, 2024 at the Pinehaven Nursing Home in Philmont, NY. Born on July 14, 1933, she was the daughter of the late Frederick John and May (Silvernail) Hornung.

Before her retirement, Alice was a Registered Nurse for the Columbia Memorial Hospital for 30 years.

She was an active member of the 1st Presbyterian Church in Valatie, the Business and Professional Women's Foundation in Hudson, the Trippers, the Red Hatters and the Fortknightly Club. Alice also enjoyed volunteering at the Mac-Haydn Theater in Chatham.

She is survived by her sisters, Margaret Knight of Chatham and Mary (Rex) Bryce of Troy; her nieces and nephews, Deborah (Tad) Holtz, Diane (David Angel) Bryce, Danielle (Scott) Smith, John (Linda) Knight, Elizabeth (Jay) Guetersloh and Edward Knight. Great nieces and nephews also survive her.

Calling Hours from 11-1 PM, Friday, April 12, 2024 with Alice's funeral to begin at 1PM will be at the 1st Presbyterian Church in Valatie. Burial will follow at the Ghent Union Cemetery.

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Mabel Ann Usyk - April 20, 1939 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Mabel Usyk, 84, of Valatie, NY, passed away peacefully on April 5th, 2024, in Lenox, MA. Born in Hudson, NY on April 20th, 1939, she was the daughter of the late Henry B. and Dorothy (Williams) Tator, Sr.

Mabel grew up in both Valatie and North Chatham, NY . She was a graduate of Ichabod Crane Central Schools. Many will remember her big wave and smile as she delivered mail for USPS on the rural routes of Valatie. She was one of the first in the area to sell manufactured homes in the mid 70's. She worked for Golden Acres Mobile Home Sales where she and her sister Pearl were known as the "Golden Girls". Earlier in her life, she was a member of the Chatham BPW, the Tri-Village Ladies Auxiliary, the Kinderhook Lake Improvement Association and the Red Hats. She also worked as a poll worker for the many elections throughout the years

An avid horsewoman, Mabel raised and enjoyed riding her many horses over the years. She was also known for her cooking and baking. Throughout the years she hosted many families and friends with her parties and celebrations. Known to all as "Aunt Mabel's Kitchen".

She is survived by her children, Rhonda (Steve), Lisa (Keith) and Richard (Laurie) Usyk; her greatest gift, granddaughter, Ashley Goodrich; her favorite niece, Debbie Hahn Ostrowksi; many nephews and her Weimaraner, Mollie.

Mabel was predeceased by her husband, Richard M. Usyk, her sister, Pearl Ingham, her brothers, Fred and Henry Tator, Jr., nephews, Robert, Danny and David Tator and her companion Howard VanHoesen.

Funeral Services will be 11AM, Thursday at the Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home, Valatie with Reverend Dave Krott officiating. Burial will follow at the North Chatham Cemetery. Friends may call from 4-7PM, Wednesday at the funeral home.

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Patrick Michael Grattan - October 08, 1954 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: A bright light has dimmed on earth and now shines among the stars. Patrick Michael Grattan was born on October 8, 1954 and passed away on March 27, 2024 with his loved ones by his side. Between those two dates lay an exquisitely lived life.

Pat was born to Thomas Grattan and Constance (Harmer) Grattan in Caerphilly, Wales (both deceased) and spent his early years in Wales, England, Ireland, Canada, and Kinderhook before establishing himself as a force to be reckoned with in Valatie, New York. He served his community for over 30 years as Mayor of Valatie, Supervisor of the Town of Kinderhook, and Chair of the Columbia County Board of Supervisors. Over the past 14 years, he was Associate Court Attorney at the Greene County Supreme and County Court in Catskill. Throughout his career, he set highly ambitious, sometimes seemingly impossible, goals to make life better for his fellow citizens, and achieved them through a mix of knowledge, empathy, and charm.

Pat was a strong proponent of education. He attended Hudson Valley Community College, received his B.A. from Siena College, M.A. in Literature from the College of St. Rose, and his J.D. Degree from Albany Law School.

A true Renaissance man, he was known not just for his leadership and legal mind, but also as a skilled plumber and carpenter – as comfortable with a wrench in his hand as a gavel. He was always willing to ply any of his trades on behalf of his vast array of friends from all walks of life. If he was your friend, he was your steadfast and loyal friend forever.

Pat was most proud of his family. He was a devoted husband to Liz and a dedicated father to his daughter Emily. As busy as he was, he was most happy to be back in his longtime home enjoying a delicious meal and working on an endless list of home improvements. He loved working on the house, chopping wood, and mowing the lawn. No matter what he was doing, he was always thinking. A voracious reader and witty raconteur, he could converse on any topic and be counted on for strong commentary on the state of the world, always delivered with a mischievous grin. Oh, the stories he could tell.

Pat is survived by his beloved wife of nearly 40 years Liz (Mink) Grattan, his devoted daughter Emily Grattan, and son-in-law Ben Groder, as well as his sisters Mary Grattan Gielen (Frank) and Eileen Grattan, his brother Kevin Grattan (Denise, deceased) and eight nieces and nephews in Columbia County and Canada.

To honor Pat's remarkable life, there will be a viewing from 11-12:30 PM followed by his funeral at 12:30 PM on Saturday, March 30, at the Ghent Reformed Church, 1039 County Rte. 22 in Ghent. Burial will be in the West Ghent Cemetery followed by a reception in the church hall.

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Doris Mary Graham - April 26, 1939 - March 21, 2024

Departed: 03/21/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Doris Mary Graham, 84, of Valatie, NY, passed away on March 21, 2024 with her son, Billy at her side. Born on April 26, 1939 in Valatie, she was the daughter of the late Joseph John and Elsie Grace (James) Youzwak and the wife of the late William Joseph Graham, Sr. who passed away in July of 1988.

Doris was a graduate of the Ichabod Crane Central School District in Valatie. Before her retirement, she accomplished a long career at New York Telephone / NYNEX for 37 and a half years. She was an Operator, worked in the Mailroom then moved on to secretarial positions for many different people before completing her career in Exchange Carrier Relations which was a department that dealt with independent phone companies such as Berkshire Telephone Company in Kinderhook, NY. She was a member of the Tri-Village Seniors, the Telephone Pioneers and for 30 years a committee member for Boy Scout Troop 114.

Doris is survived by her beloved son, William J. Graham, Jr. of Valatie and many nieces, nephews, cousins and lifelong friends. Besides her parents and husband, she was also predeceased by her sister-in-laws, Jackie and Marge O'Brien, Jean Graham and Lorraine Monaco and her brother-in-laws, Jack, Bob and Harold Graham.

A mass of Christian burial for Doris will be held 12:30 PM, Monday at St. John the Baptist Church, Valatie, with Rev. Steve Matthews officiating. Calling hours will be prior to the service from 10-12 PM at the Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home, Valatie. Burial is at the Cemetery of the Maples, East Chatham, NY. Donations may be made to St. John the Baptist Church, 1025 Kinderhook Street, Valatie, NY 12184 or the Columbia-Greene Humane Society, 111 Humane Society Road, Hudson, NY 12534

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Stephen J. Shpur - June 10, 1944 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Stephen Joseph Shpur, 79, of Kinderhook, NY, passed away on March 19, 2024, surrounded by family members at Albany Medical Center. Born on June 10, 1944, in Detroit, MI, to Gerald and Dorothy Shpur, Steve lived a life defined by dedication, love, and joy.

After graduating from Port Henry High School in 1962, Steve pursued his passion for education, obtaining both bachelor's and master's degrees in physical education from the State University of New York College at Cortland. His professional journey spanned over three decades, which started off with being a physical education instructor at Crown Point High School for three years before dedicating 30 years to Ichabod Crane Central School, where he was cherished as a teacher, coach, and mentor.

While Steve found fulfillment in his career, he had many personal pursuits. Steve was a long time member of the Kinderhook Reformed Church. He served as an usher and volunteered on several committees. Steve took delight in the simple pleasures of bird watching, coin collecting and fishing. He was a dedicated fan of the Detroit Lions, Tigers and Red Wings. Steve is well known around town for his love of Necco Wafers, and sharing Smarties with his grandchildren.

But his greatest joy came from sharing life's moments with his beloved wife, Janet. Together, they celebrated 57 years of marriage, creating countless cherished memories and enjoying their six remarkable grandchildren.

Survived by his loving wife, Janet, Steve leaves behind a legacy of love and guidance through his sons and daughters-in-law: Russ and Alicia (Simonetti) of East Cannan, CT, Jason and Christy (Seebode) of Queensbury, NY, and Andy and Kerri (Martinovich) of Oxford, FL, as well as his grandchildren: Jacob, Caleb, Benjamin, Joshua, Katelyn and Emily.

Additionally, Steve is survived by his brother, Gerald Shpur, his sister, Bonnie (Richard) Bruce, brothers Tim (Jill) Shpur and Tom (Sue) Shpur, sister Joanne (Floyd) Shappy and sister-in-law Ann (Gus) Harris. He is also survived by nieces Katie, Chrissy, Heather, Kerri, Tara, Danielle, and nephews Jeremy, Jed, Taylor, Ryan, Travis, and Tristan. He will also be sadly missed by his pet cats Buddy and Miggy.

Steve was preceded in death by his brother Michael Shpur, sister-in-law Jeanne Shpur, nephews Jared Shpur and Christopher Shpur, niece Kristi Shpur, mother Dorothy Shpur, father Gerald Shpur, mother-in-law Isabelle Hasselbach, and father-in-law Richard Hasselbach.

There will be a celebration of life for the family to be planned at a later date.

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Priscilla Rogati Spinner - April 26, 1945 - March 13, 2024

Departed: 03/13/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Priscilla Rogati Spinner, age 78, of San Ramon, CA passed away on March 13, 2024 at her residence.

Priscilla was born in Little Rock, AR to the late Dr Gene Rogati and Beatrice Thrasher Rogati on April 26, 1945. She went to high school at Ichabod Crane Central School in Valatie NY, graduating in 1963. She went on to earn a Bachelor of Science degree from Boston University in 1967. She earned a Masters degree in Speech Pathology from the State University of NY at Buffalo. She worked as a speech therapist for the Vallejo CA Unified School District for over 32 years. She enjoyed reading, movies, live theater and concerts and traveling the globe.

Priscilla is survived by her husband, Howard Spinner, of San Ramon, CA; her son, Zac Saunders of Pinole CA; her daughter, Jen (Mike) Spencer of Goodyear AZ; her sister, Polly Connelly of Tucson AZ and her brothers, Peter (Marilyn) Rogati of Cortland NY and Paul (Karen) Rogati of Essex MA. Priscilla also has two grandchildren, Dylan and Kyle Spencer who live in Goodyear AZ. Besides her parents, Priscilla is predeceased by a son, Kevin Spinner.

Memorial donations may be made to UCSF Benioff Hospital's Pediatric Cancer Program in San Francisco, CA.

A Celebration of Life service will be held in the SF Bay Area at a future date.

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Thomas V. Kihlmire - August 11, 1952 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Vincent Kihlmire, 71, of Stuyvesant, NY, passed away peacefully after a brief illness. His family was fortunate to be with him at the time of his passing.

Tom was born in Poughkeepsie, NY to Vincent and Eleanor Kihlmire on August 11, 1952.

Tom is survived by his wife of 50 years, Mary Kihlmire and his daughters, Jessica Wright and her husband, Jeffrey of Westborough, MA and Jennifer Liptak and her husband, Jonathan of Keene, NH. Tom will also miss his young grandson, Henry James Wright whom he had so enjoyed and loved. He is also survived by his brother, Gregory Kihlmire and his wife, Jeanette of LaGrangeville, NY. He is preceded in death by his parents, Vincent and Eleanor.

Visitation will be held at the Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home, Valatie, NY on Tuesday, March 19th from 11:00am to 1:00pm. Burial will follow at St. John the Baptist Cemetery, Valatie at 1:15pm.

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Danielle C. Walker - January 24, 1983 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Danielle C. Walker, 41, of Kinderhook, NY passed away on March 8, 2024 after a brief illness. Born on January 24, 1983 in Albany, NY, she was the daughter of Kathy (Pitcher) Walker of Kinderhook and the late Bradley Walker formerly of Albany, NY.

She is also survived by her partner of 13 years, Jett Rowen; son, Jett Rowen, Jr.; brother, Brad Walker III of Rensselaer; niece, Kaylin (Cody) Meissner; nephew, Ryan; and a great nephew, Conor.

Danielle cherished spending time with and taking care of her son, Jett. She spent many hours capturing and neutering stray animals and finding homes for the neglected and unwanted pet population.

She will be greatly missed by her family and friends.

Services will be private and a memorial will be held at a later date.

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Jane Sparkes Musante - October 29, 1937 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Jane Sparkes Musante passed away peacefully on March 8, 2024 in her Kinderhook, NY home.

Jane was born on October 29, 1937 in Charleston, West Virginia to Nancy Wren Sparkes, an actress and Edward Marcus Sparkes, an inventor and mechanical engineer.

Jane attended Oberlin College where she met her husband of over 50 years, Tony Musante, in a performance of L'Histoire du Soldat — she as a dancer and choreographer, he as an actor. After graduating in 1959, Jane and Tony both moved to Manhattan and were married on June 2, 1962. Manhattan remained their prime residence for over 5 decades along with a home in Los Angeles and a retreat on Block Island.

Jane and Tony traveled the world and were inseparable in both work and life.Tony was well known in Film, TV and Theatre in the United States and abroad. Jane wrote scripts for their TV and Films in the US and in Italy. She was a freelance screenwriter, member of the Writers Guild American West, National Academy of Television Arts and Science, and is listed as a notable screenwriter by Marquis Who's Who.

Jane is survived by 5 siblings — Deborah Baxter, Beverley Tierney, Nancy Bagnal, Edward Sparkes III and Anne Lieberman as well as nine nieces and nephews. Jane was preceded in death by her husband, Tony, who died in 2013.

Burial services will be held at 11:00 AM on March 18, 2024 at the Island Cemetery next to Tony, reunited in love on their beloved Block Island.

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Paul D. Silver - April 13, 1953 - March 06, 2024

Departed: 03/06/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Paul David Silver passed away peacefully at his home in Kinderhook on March 6, 2024 after a hard fought battle with cancer. He was 70 years old.

Born in Brooklyn to Eugene and Ernestine Silver, he was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, son, brother, uncle, cousin and friend.

Paul was a graduate of Hudson High School, Columbia-Greene Community College, SUNY Albany, and Albany Law School. In his early work years, he was an integral part of the team at The Town Fair, a toy and baby furniture store in Hudson, NY, owned by his family. He began his legal career clerking for the Honorable Roger J. Miner, his mentor and friend. He continued his career at the Office of the NYS Attorney General, and ended his legal career as an Assistant United States Attorney for the Northern District of NY. During his early tenure there, he successfully prosecuted numerous significant narcotics and weapons cases. Paul was honored by the International Narcotic Enforcement Officers Association, cited for obtaining indictments and convictions against over 100 defendants charged with federal drug and drug related crimes, and for his vigorous efforts to cripple the drug trade in the Capital District. Paul later handled appeals for the government before the Second Circuit Court of Appeals.

He was a dedicated volunteer for the Hudson Fire Department's JW Hoysradt Hose and Chemical Company #8, Greenport Rescue Squad and Valatie Rescue Squad. He also spent many hours working with the dogs at the Columbia-Greene Humane Society.

Paul is survived by his wife of 40 years, Maryann; his children, Joseph (Corinne) Silver and Lizzie (Austin) Silver; siblings, Judy McCall, Lynn Silver, Richard (Toni) Koweek, Jim (Annette) Koweek and Joan (Gary) Koweek; step-siblings, Leslie Block, Greg Ives and Cliff Ives; sister-in-law, Annemarie Boberg; grandson, Douglas Arthur Hughes; nieces, Mary (Vincent) Grasso, Jamie Klein, Kate McCall, Tara (Mike) Dugan, Stephanie (Matt) Koweek, Molly Koweek, Katie (Ben) Anderson and Sommer Koweek; nephews, Mike (Jennifer) McCall, David (Manoela) Koweek, Clay Koweek, Wesley Koweek, Gage Arcuri and numerous cherished cousins and friends. Paul was predeceased by his parents, Eugene and Ernestine Silver, Arthur and Janice Koweek; stepmother, Rita Silver; and his best friends, Dog, Rocky and Trooper.

Passionate animal protector, beloved counselor, mentor and friend to so many, Paul will be missed by all who knew him. A celebration of Paul's life will be held at a later date.

Should you wish to make a memorial donation in Paul's name, please consider: JW Hoysradt Hose and Chemical Company, 515 Warren Street, Hudson, NY 12534, The Martin Van Buren Nature Trails (friendsoflindenwald.org) (please designate trail maintenance), POB 64, Kinderhook, NY 12106 or Tunnel to Towers Foundation (T2T.org), 2361 Hylan Blvd., Staten Island, NY 10301. Arrangements are with the Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home, Valatie, NY.

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Karen Lee Bogarski - October 14, 1948 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Karen Lee Bogarski, 75, of Glenmont, NY passed away on March 2, 2024, peacefully at home. Born in Hudson, NY to Kathryn (Lee) and Frank Bogarski on October 14, 1948.

Karen went to High School at Ichabod Crane in Valatie, NY and graduated in 1966. She worked as a Calculations Clerk for the NYS Office of the State Comptroller for 10 years and for many years at the National Union Bank of Kinderhook. She enjoyed spending time with her kitty.

She is survived by her beloved daughter, Kendra and her husband Waldemar Chajon and their 3 children, Jakob, Jaina and Zackery; sister, Regina Blair of Valatie and her children, James (Colleen) of East Greenbush and Jeffrey Meltz of Valatie; sister, Christine (Dale) Schermerhorn of Kinderhook and their children, Michael Schermerhorn of Kinderhook and Erin (Justin) Gansowski of Phoenix, NY; sister, Susan Kmiotek of Conway, South Carolina; sister-in-law, Aldea Bogarski and her children, Laura (Chris) Rowan and Frank Bogarski III.

Besides her parents, she was predeceased by her brother, Frank Bogarski, her niece, Amanda Schermerhorn and her brother-in-law, Pete Kmiotek.

Friends are invited and may call from 4-6 PM, Monday, March 4, 2024 at the Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home, Rt. 9, Valatie. Karen's graveside service will be 11 AM, Wednesday, March 6, 2024 at St. Mary's Cemetery, Rt. 9, Stuyvesant Falls, NY. Memorial donations may be made to Animalkind, POB 902, Hudson, NY 12534.

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Joseph B. Hughes - Unknown - February 29, 2024

Departed: 02/29/2024 (Valatie)

Obituary Preview: Joseph B. "Butch" Hughes, 80, of Nassau, NY passed away peacefully at home on February 29, 2024 with his family by his side. Born on October 10, 1943 in Hudson, NY he was the son of the late Douglas and Evelyn (Best) Hughes.

Butch is survived by his wife of 56 years, Joanne; his daughters, Kristin (Michael) Evans and Jennifer (Robert) Wallace; his beloved grandchildren, David (Karen) O'Neil, Caitlin (Mark) Walseman and Chelsea Wallace and his cherished great grandchildren, Brynlea and Flynn.

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A Team of Caring Professionals

The staff at Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home is comprised of experienced and dedicated professionals who are passionate about providing exceptional care to families. From the moment you walk through the door, you'll be greeted with warmth and empathy by our team of funeral directors, counselors, and support staff. Our team is dedicated to listening to your needs, understanding your wishes, and guiding you through the funeral planning process with sensitivity and compassion.

Personalized Funeral Services

At Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home, we believe that every life is unique and deserves to be celebrated in a way that honors their memory. We offer a range of personalized funeral services designed to reflect the personality, interests, and achievements of your loved one. From traditional funerals to cremation services, memorial ceremonies, and celebration of life events, we'll work with you to create a meaningful and memorable tribute.

Funeral Pre-Planning: A Gift to Your Loved Ones

While it may seem difficult to think about, funeral pre-planning can be a thoughtful and responsible decision that spares your loved ones from having to make difficult choices during a time of grief. At Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home, we offer pre-planning services that allow you to make informed decisions about your final arrangements, ensuring that your wishes are respected and your family is protected from unnecessary burden.

Supporting You Through Grief

Losing a loved one can be one of the most challenging experiences you'll ever face. At Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home, we understand that grief is a journey that requires support, guidance, and compassion. Our team offers bereavement resources, including counseling services, support groups, and online resources to help you navigate the grieving process.

A Facility Designed for Comfort and Convenience

Our funeral home is designed to provide a warm and welcoming environment for families to gather, share memories, and celebrate the life of their loved one. Our facility features spacious visitation rooms, a chapel for services, and ample parking for guests. We're conveniently located at 1015 Kinderhook St., Rt. 9, Valatie, NY 12184, making it easy for friends and family to attend services.

A Commitment to Excellence

At Raymond E. Bond Funeral Home, we're committed to exceeding your expectations in every way possible. We strive for excellence in everything we do, from the smallest details to the largest gestures of compassion. Our goal is to provide a level of service that not only meets but exceeds your needs, ensuring that you feel supported, comforted, and cared for during one of life's most difficult moments.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and funeral or memorial services.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

Obituaries are often written by family members, close friends, or a funeral home. In some cases, a professional writer or journalist may be hired to write the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their accomplishments, military service, or charitable work.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Typically, it ranges from 100 to 500 words. Longer obituaries may be published online or in specialized publications.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Can anyone publish an obituary?

In most cases, yes. Anyone can publish an obituary in a newspaper, online platform, or social media site. However, some publications may have specific guidelines or requirements for submitting obituaries.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers and online sites offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge by the word or line.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes. Many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help to personalize the tribute and make it more engaging.

What is the purpose of an obituary photo?

The primary purpose of an obituary photo is to provide a visual representation of the person being honored. It can also help to evoke emotions and create a sense of connection with those who are reading the obituary.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes. Quotes, poems, or other forms of creative expression can be included in an obituary to add depth and personality to the tribute.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. You may need to provide written consent from the family or executor of the estate.

Can I edit an obituary after it has been published?

In most cases, no. Once an obituary has been published, it is difficult to make changes. It's essential to proofread carefully before submitting the final version.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The time frame for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Online platforms may publish immediately, while newspapers may take several days or weeks.

Can I request corrections to an obituary after it has been published?

Yes. If there are errors or inaccuracies in the published obituary, contact the publication or platform directly to request corrections.

What is a living obituary?

A living obituary is a self-written tribute that celebrates a person's life while they are still alive. It can be used as a way to reflect on one's accomplishments and share their story with others.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes. Writing your own obituary can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy. It can also ensure that your story is told in your own words.

Is it appropriate to include humor in an obituary?

Yes. Humor can be an effective way to celebrate a person's life and personality. However, it's essential to consider the tone and audience when deciding whether to include humor in an obituary.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes. Including information about charitable donations or memorial services can provide friends and family with ways to honor the deceased and continue their legacy.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites such as Ancestry.com or FamilySearch.org. Local libraries or historical societies may also have access to archived newspapers and obituaries.

Are online obituaries permanent?

In most cases, yes. Online obituaries are typically archived permanently and can be accessed for years to come. However, it's essential to check with the specific platform or publication for their archiving policies.

Can I create a digital scrapbook or memory book from an obituary?

Yes. You can use online tools or software to create a digital scrapbook or memory book from an obituary. This can be a meaningful way to preserve memories and share them with others.

How do I cope with writing an obituary during a difficult time?

Writing an obituary can be an emotional task. Take your time, gather support from loved ones, and focus on celebrating the life of the deceased rather than dwelling on their passing.

Is it necessary to include every detail about the deceased in an obituary?

No. While it's essential to include key details such as name, age, and date of death, you don't need to include every aspect of the person's life. Focus on highlighting their achievements, personality traits, and relationships that made them special.