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George S. Love - March 25, 1923 - April 18, 2022

Departed: 04/18/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: George Stuart Love, 99, passed away on Monday, April 18, 2022 at the Charles George VA Medical Center. He was born on March 25, 1923 in Cheraw, SC to the late Gordon and Grace Thomas Love.

Mr. Love served in the US Army from 1941-1945 and was WWII veteran. He worked at the VA Medical Center as a nursing assistant for 15 years. Mr. Love was a member of St. John A Baptist Church where he served as a deacon for over 60 years and was a long-time member of the choir. He enjoyed fishing, gardening, hunting, church activities, Bible study and spending time with his family and friends.

Left to cherish his memory is his wife of over 75 years, Pauline Evans Love; daughter, Joan Martinez; 3 grandchildren, Cakeisha Martinez, Paul Martinez, George Martinez (Sonja); 7 great-grandchildren, Portia Martinez, Zana Ruff, Maria Martinez, Andre'a Martinez, George Martinez, Celina Martinez, Gabriel Martinez; 2 great-great-grandchildren, Alexis O’Kelley and Dy'min Singleton; sister, Grace Nicholson (Ray); sister-in-law, Mary Sue Nesbitt; many other relatives and friends.

Family visitation will be from 6:00-8:00 pm Friday, April 22 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Funeral service will be 12:00 pm Saturday, April 23 at St. John A Baptist Church. Burial with military honors will be 12:00 pm Monday, April 25 at the WC State Veterans Cemetery.

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Debra Finley - December 09, 1952 - April 08, 2022

Departed: 04/08/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Debra O’Nedia Finley, 69, passed away on Friday, April 8, 2022. She was born on December 9, 1952 in Asheville, NC to the late James Finley and Ruth Hampton Finley.

Debra was employed with the VA Medical Center as a dietary aide for 29 years prior to her retirement. She was a faithful member of Sycamore Temple Church of God in Christ where she served as a prayer warrior. Debra enjoyed reading and spending time with her family and friends.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by brother, Harold “Bo” Finley; sister, Carolyn Finley.

Left to cherish her memory is son, Omar Finley (Nisie) of Greer, SC; sisters, Ernestine Taylor of Las Vegas, CA, Margie Evans, Hazel Finley, Tonnie Moorman all of Asheville, NC; brother, James Finley of Asheville, NC; granddaughter, Omankee Finley; grandson, Omar Finley II; special friend, Betty Wells; a host of nieces, nephews, other family member and friends.

Public viewing will be from 12:00-6:00 pm Friday, April 15, 2022 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Funeral service will be at 2:00 pm Saturday, April 16, 2022 at Sycamore Temple COGIC with public visitation one hour prior to the service. Burial will follow at Sunset Cemetery.

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Walter Mapp, Jr. - December 12, 1934 - April 05, 2022

Departed: 04/05/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Walter Howard Mapp, Jr. 87, of the Montford/Pearson Dr./Birch St neighborhood departed this life Tuesday, April 05, 2022. He was born December 12, 1934 in Asheville, NC to the late Walter Howard Mapp, Sr. and St. Ola Deshields Mapp.

Walter was educated in the Asheville city school system and attended New Mt. Olive Baptist Church as a youth and traveled throughout the city and local area to sing with his brothers. He met and married the love of his life, Jessie Mae Simuel Mapp in 1954. Walter served two years in the U S Army and afterward was employed with American Enka Corp (BASF) for 33 years as a Maintenance Supervisor. He was also employed by the Euro Spec dealership and Exxon in Fletcher.

He was an ardent bowler and member of several bowling teams at Star Lanes and Sky Lanes bowling centers. In March 2022 he was inducted into the WNC Bowlers Association Hall of Fame.

In addition to his parents, Walter was preceded in death by his wife of 45 years, Jessie Mae Simuel Mapp; brothers, Winston Mapp and Wilbur Mapp; grandson, Alexander L. Mapp (Mann).

Surviving family to cherish his memory include sons, Howard D. Mapp (Rochelle), Asheville  and Kevin E. Mapp, Newport News, VA; daughters, Carol M. Williams (Arthur), Asheville, Deborah R. Mapp, Dayton, OH, Faye L. Mapp, Asheville and Benita L. Jones (Henry), Stone Mountain, GA; sisters, St. Ola Mapp,  Atlanta, GA  and Pat Proctor, Asheville; brothers, Wallace D. Mapp (Brenda), Asheville, Kenneth A. Mapp (Ellen), Atlanta, GA and Leonard K. Mapp, Asheville; 11 grandchildren; 24 great-grandchildren; 20 great-great-grandchildren; a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

Public viewing will be from 12:00-6:00 pm Saturday, April 9, 2022 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Funeral service will be 12:00 pm, Monday, April 11, 2022 at New Mt. Olive Baptist Church. Burial will follow at Sunset Cemetery.

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John Willie "Pete" Lewis - May 01, 1941 - March 26, 2022

Departed: 03/26/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: John Willie (Pete) Lewis was born in Greenwood, SC on May 1, 1941 to the late Thomas Charles Lewis and Irma Louise Chappelle Lewis and was raised in Asheville, NC. He departed this life on Saturday, March 26, 2022.

His hobby was attending Car Shows where he won several awards for displaying his 1953 Ford Crestline Victoria and 1955 Ford Fairlane. John retired as a Supervisor of Housekeeping at UNC-Asheville after 18 years of service.

He was preceded in death by his brothers, Tommy (Barbara) and Robert (Nina); grandmother, Lela Mae Johnson; grandfather, John Johnson.

He leaves to cherish his fond memories, his wife of over 60 years, Bessie Smith; son, Michael Lewis (Rita) of Winston-Salem, NC; daughter, Sharon Belton (Walter) of Spartanburg, SC;  son, John L. Lewis of Spartanburg, SC; grandchildren, Shanice, Taurean, D. J., Moesha, NeeNee (MeeMee), Josiah; great-granddaughter,  ADream; sisters, Anna Friday of Sacramento, California and Lula Mae Gilchrist of Washington, DC; brother, Chester Lewis of Atlanta, Georgia; a host of nieces, nephews, and other relatives he loved dearly.

A Celebration of Life will be held at 3:00 pm Saturday, April 2, 2022 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Live streaming of the service will be available here on the website.

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Katie Mae Dixon - October 04, 1926 - March 07, 2022

Departed: 03/07/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Katie Mae Miller Dixon, 95, passed away Monday, March 7, 2022 at Mission Hospital. She was born October 4, 1926 in Fletcher, NC to the late John Wiley and Pearl Suber Adams.

Katie was a member of Fairmount Missionary Baptist Church and served as Chair of Hospitality and a member of the choir. She loved her family, her community and completing puzzles. Katie was famous for making and serving her “Lillie Dillie” ice treats to the children. She also served as a foster grandparent and a volunteer with the Asheville Police Department.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by husband, Joseph R. Dixon, Sr.; son, Joseph R. Dixon, Jr.; grandson, Curtis Jackson.

Left to cherish her memory are sons, Dennis Dixon and Gregory Dixon, Sr.; daughter, Denise Gibson; 10 grandchildren; 12 great-grandchildren; 11 great-great-grandchildren; other family members and friends.

Public viewing will be from 1:00-6:00 pm Friday, March 11, 2022 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Funeral service will be 1:00 pm Saturday, March 12, 2022 also in the chapel. Burial will follow at Sunset Cemetery.

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Xylas "Rudy" Andrews - August 08, 1984 - February 27, 2022

Departed: 02/27/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Xylas D’Angelo “Rudy” Andrews, 37, passed away on Sunday, February 27, 2022 in Greenville, SC. He was born on August 8, 1984 in Asheville, NC to the late Van Andrews and Angela Skinner.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by brother, Jeffrey Andrews; grandfather, Johnny Moon; grandmothers, Ida Moon and Elizabeth Skinner; uncle, Thomas Skinner.

Left to cherish his memory are children, Asia Andrews and Xya Andrews; siblings, Michael Skinner, Neco Hyatt, Nikka Cade; uncles, James Brooks, Kenneth Skinner, Jeffrey Skinner; aunts, Wanda Henry-Coleman, Vickie Gibbs, Elaine Skinner, Verdie Beavers; several cousins; other family members and friends.

Memorial Service will be at 12:00 pm Saturday, March 19, 2022 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service.

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Jillian Renee Justice - August 04, 1978 - February 23, 2022

Departed: 02/23/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Jillian Renee Justice passed away on Wednesday, February 23, 2022. She was born on August 4, 1978 in Asheville, NC, to Bobby Justice, Jr. and Deidra Love.

Jillian attended Asheville High School and graduated from Jordan High School in Long Beach, CA, Class of 1996. She worked in numerous medical positions throughout her life.

Jillian loved singing and being a mother and grandmother. Her smile could light up any room. Her sweet but stern personality let you know just where you stood in her life. She will be greatly missed by all who know and love her.

She was preceded in death by her beloved grandmother, Emma Jean.

Left to cherish her memory are her parents; daughters, Rikkayah Hayes and Essence Hayes; granddaughter, Aniyla; brothers, Bobby Justice and Terrace Anthony Davis; paternal grandmother, Frances Justice; God-mother, Glenda Scott Best friend, Lisa Mace Drummond; special friends, Nay Nay, Antoinette, Jasmine, T.J. and Trey Rush; special cousin, Tameika Gibson; a host of other family members and friends.

The family of Jillian Justice wishes to extend our sincere thanks to everyone.

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Fred Douglas Wilkerson, Jr. - January 14, 1943 - February 19, 2022

Departed: 02/19/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Fred Douglas Wilkerson, Jr., 79,  passed away Saturday, February 19, 2022 . He was born January 14, 1943 in Rutherford County, NC to the late Fred Douglas Wilkerson, Sr. and Helen Logan Wilkerson.

Fred attended the Asheville public schools. He was a member of the football team and a graduate of  Stephens-Lee High School. He also attended Kittrell College. Fred married his high school sweetheart, Jeroline Graves. They moved to Detroit, MI with their family of five children, Bobby, Fredrick, Kevin and Denise, later having another son, Michael.

Fred worked hard to provide for his family as an auto mechanic with Dana Corporation for over 15 years. He enjoyed working on cars, bicycling, exercising and spending quality time with family and friends. Fred enjoyed life and would always go out of his way to help those in need.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by sons, Frederick and Michael; daughter, Denise; sister, Linda Thomas.

Left to cherish his memory are sons, Bobby and Kevin; several grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Fred's memory and legacy will continue to be remembered through his surviving children's lives and those who knew and loved him dearly.

A memorial service will be at 12:00 pm Saturday, March 5, 2022 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service.

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Darlene Resper - November 10, 1962 - February 16, 2022

Departed: 02/16/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Darlene Renee Resper, born, raised and a life-long resident of Asheville, N.C., mother of four & grandmother of seven, unexpectedly went to be with our Lord and Savior on Wednesday, February 16th, 2022 at 9:31 PM at the age of 59.

Darlene is survived by all four of her loving children, Jezoar Resper and wife Shasta of Spartanburg, S.C., Leticia Adams of Asheville, Hosea Resper of Asheville, and Elisha Resper of Asheville. She is also survived by six grands JaShun Resper of Asheville, Joel Resper of Asheville, Taquaia Resper of Winston-Salem, Paris Dunbar of Black Mountain, Iza Resper of Asheville, and Jezoarielle Resper of Spartanburg, S.C. She is survived by 4 of 6 siblings Tyrone Resper and Gloria of Asheville, Andrea Stevens and husband Curtis of Powder Springs, Ga., Teresa Mabry and husband Ralph of Abingdon, Va., and Tanya Anthony and husband Reginald Anthony of Winston-Salem. She also has countless nieces, nephews, cousins and friends who loved her dearly as well.

Darlene was preceded in death by her parents James and Thelma Resper, who were long-life residents of Asheville, her three siblings, Robina Resper, Debra Lyles and James Resper, as well as her grandson Ezekiel Resper.

Darlene was born on Saturday, November 10th, 1962 in Asheville, N.C. to James and Thelma Resper. She attended Asheville High School. She spent many years working at Wal-Mart and worked for Lowe’s where her co-workers spoke highly of her and she will be sorely missed. Other significant times in her life include her children’s births. Jezoar Resper April, 10 1978, Leticia Adams March, 27 1984, Hosea Resper January 9, 2001, and Elisha Resper September 17th, 2002. She was affectionately called “Doll” (because she looked like a babydoll as an infant) and was the baby sister to her 6 siblings who loved her dearly. “We’re going to miss you very much sister”, says Andrea.

Darlene was a pillar within her family and community where she cared for her family and attended Crossroads Church in Asheville. She loved her children and grandchildren very much and bragged about them to everyone she encountered, showing pictures with a big grin. As her children reflect together on who their mom was, this is their memories and favorite things about her. “Her smile”, says Hosea, “Helping me and my kids”, says Leticia, “She was kind to anyone she ever met”, says Elisha, “A big heart and unconditional love for us no matter what”, says Jezoar. “a faithful servant of the Lord that prayed over her children, grandchildren and friends”, they all four agreed. She will be deeply missed by family, friends and all who knew her.

A public viewing will be offered at Ray’s Funeral Home on Sweeten Creek Rd. on Friday, February 25th from 1 PM to 6 PM. The funeral will be held on Saturday, February 26th, 2022 at Crossroads Church in Asheville. Visitation begins at 12 PM and the service will follow at 1 PM. Reverend Doctor J Michael Brown will officiate. She will be buried near her grandson Ezekiel Resper at Sunset Cemetery following the service. Purple was Darlene’s favorite color and in her honor we are wearing purple. Flowers, donations or condolences may be sent to Ray’s Funeral Home or Crossroads Church at 20 S. Bear Creek Rd Asheville, N.C. 28806, (828) 254-5519.

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Hansom Floyd - June 26, 1930 - February 11, 2022

Departed: 02/11/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Our beloved and cherished family matriarch, Hansom Christopher Floyd, was called home to glory on Friday, February 11, 2022 at the age of 91 after battling an illness. The family is deeply saddened by her missing presence, but joyful that she is no longer in pain, and finally seeing the face of Jesus who she called on to do his will. She was and always will be immensely treasured.

Hansom was born to her parents Walter and Anita Avery Christopher in Asheville, North Carolina, on June 26, 1930, where she was raised and spent a majority of her life. After proudly graduating from Stephens Lee High School in 1948, she started her career at Square D Electrical Manufacturer, where she progressed until retiring after more than 30 years of service. Hansom met the love of her life and married George Edward Floyd on September 2, 1962. They had 20 blissful years of marriage, in which they shared their joys of music, traveling, spending time with family and worshipping together, before George passed away on September 3, 1982.

Hansom was a very caring soul who was dedicated to her family. She spent years nurturing and caring for family members in their time of need, and fostering the development of her nieces and nephews. Hansom was a blessing to them all. She was known for providing continuous words of affirmation to her loved ones and everyone she met. Hansom was a very active member in her churches, Mount Zion Missionary Baptist Church and Holy Tabernacle of God and Christ in Asheville, North Carolina. She was a very good cook and baker, known especially for her delicious cakes and homemade ice box jelly.

In 2007, Hansom relocated to Decatur, Georgia, to reside with her sister, Mary Evans.  They spent hours together laughing about Asheville and telling stories of times with family and friends, near and far. Hansom spent hours playing hymns on her keyboard and singing for all. Also, she became a member of Greater Piney Grove Baptist Church in Atlanta, Georgia, where she served on the Motherboard.

Hansom is preceded in death by her father, Walter Christopher; mother, Anita Avery Christopher; brothers, James Sherman Morton, Willie Leroy Christopher and Vincent Walter “Bubba” Christopher; husband, George Edward Floyd; and maternal grandmother, Hansom Boozie Avery. She is survived by her brother, Larry Christopher; sister, Mary Evans; sister-in-law, Shirley Austin; nephews, Andre Christopher, Rodney Christopher (Shandra), and William Evans; nieces, Belinda Austin, Channelle Christopher Marsh (Randy), and Christi Craig (David); great-nephews, Rodney Christopher II (Shainalyse), Brandon Muse, Jordan Muse, Trey Christopher (Ayannah) and Kennedy Stinson; great-niece, Devon Craig; great-great nephew, Syx Christopher; great-great niece Milani Christopher, and a host of more nephews, nieces, cousins, friends, church and community members.

Funeral service will be 1:00 pm Friday, February 18, 2022 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Visitation will be one hour prior to the service. Burial will follow at Sunset Cemetery.

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Tinia Ramsuer Gamble - February 10, 1930 - February 11, 2022

Departed: 02/11/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Tinia Laura Ramsuer Gamble, daughter of late parents -Christopher Columbus and Sarah Ramsuer-Carson born February 10,1930 in Asheville, North Carolina. Tinia was called home by the Lord on February 11, 2022.

Tinia was a faithful member of Wilson Chapel United Methodist Church until it dissolved. She did not hesitate to become a faithful member of Hopkins Chapel AME Zion Church where she remained an active member. She was a dedicated Deaconess as well as her work with the Usher Board, kitchen committee and any where needed. Tinia was also a member of the City-Wide Usher Union until her health began to decline.

She obtained her GED and a Certified Nursing Assistant Certification. Over the years she worked at the Head Start Program, Mills Manufacturing and Visiting Home Professionals from which she retired.

Her favorite past time every morning was reading the ‘Daily Bread’.  She also liked to knit, doing word searches and jigsaw puzzles, but her utmost joy was always being supportive and available for her family.

Tinia was preceded in death by her sisters, Mary Ramsuer Gamble and Martha Ramsuer Ligon; brother, Robert Ramsuer, Sr.; daughters, Phyllis Folston and Frankie Mackey; grandsons, Kenneth Gamble and Derrick Folston; and granddaughter, Tonyetta Folston.

She is fondly remembered by sons, Donnie of Durham NC., Terry of Saginaw MI, Rayford (Faye) of St. Petersburg FL, and Rodney of Winston-Salem, NC; daughters, Pamella of Raleigh, NC, Angela (Kenneth) of Raleigh, NC, Cecelia (Lester) of Winston-Salem, NC, Lucinda (Tyrone) of New City, NY. She is survived by 13 grandchildren; 40 great-grandchildren; 18 great-great-grandchildren; a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and other extended family and friends.

Public viewing will be from 4:00-6:00 pm Friday, February 18, 2022 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Funeral service will be 2:00 pm Saturday, February 19, 2022 at Hopkins Chapel A.M.E. Zion Church. Burial will follow at Violet Hill Cemetery.

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Donald Webber - Unknown - January 24, 2022

Departed: 01/24/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Donald Webber passed away on Monday, January 24, 2022 at Mission Hospital.

Public Viewing will be from 2:00-5:00 pm Sunday, January 30, 2022 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Funeral service will be 1:00 pm Monday, January 31, 2022 also in the chapel. Live streaming of the service will be available here on the website.

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Willie Mary Tucker - May 26, 1940 - January 21, 2022

Departed: 01/21/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Willie “Mary” Tucker, loving mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, passed away on Friday, January 21, 2022, at the age of 81. Mary was born on May 26, 1940, in Spartanburg, SC to the late Charlie and Patricia West Tucker.

Mary moved to Asheville, NC as a young child with her mother, father and 6 siblings. She graduated from Stephens-Lee High School. Mary was previously employed at the Alcohol/Drug Treatment Center and Dollar Tree. She was a member of Tabernacle Missionary Baptist Church where she served as Superintendent of Sunday School.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by sister, Peggy Tucker and brother, Jesse Tucker.

Left to cherish her memory are children, Christa “Lottye” Jones and William “Choo-Choo” Harrison; brothers, Charlie Tucker, Tommie Tucker, Johnny Tucker; sister, Annie Tucker; grandchildren, Monique Cox, Rashunda Harrison, Revonda Harrison, Kiayan Jones; 6 great-grandchildren; several nieces and nephews; many other relatives and friends.

Public viewing will be from 3:00-7:00 pm Friday, January 28, 2022 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Funeral service will be 12:00 pm Saturday, January 29, 2022 at Tried Stone Missionary Baptist Church. Burial will follow at Sunset Cemetery.

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Patricia Jenkins - March 31, 1954 - January 21, 2022

Departed: 01/21/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Lee Jenkins, also known as "Pearl Lee" passed away on January 21, 2022 in Charlotte, NC. She was born on March 31, 1954.

Patricia retired from Carolina Village in Hendersonville, NC where she worked as a dietary aide. Pearl Lee was a permanent resident of the Clear Creek community in Hendersonville,  NC, most of her earthly life.

Ms. Jenkins resided there over 55 years until she relocated to Charlotte, NC around 2016 to live with her daughter.

She was preceded in death by parents, Albert Jenkins and Berder Mae Nesbitt; special cousins, Daniel Nesbitt and Charles Nesbitt.

Left to cherish her memory is daughter, Cynthia Mitchner; granddaughters, Ava Ashford and Aaliyah Erwin;. Also a special cousin, Rayfield Nesbitt, along with a host of other family members & friends.

Funeral arrangements are being planned and will be announced at a later date.

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Angelique McKoy Hill - January 30, 1971 - January 19, 2022

Departed: 01/19/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Mrs. Angelique Nicole McKoy Hill, known as “Nink Nink /Angie” was born January 30, 1971, to Maynard & Patricia McKoy in Wake County. Angelique was educated in the Wake County School system. She received her AA Degree from Phoenix University, BSW from Mars Hill University, MSW from Canyon University, Licensed Clinical Therapist from American Association of Christian Counselors, & a PhD in Christian Counseling from Metropolitan Christian University. She was consecrated as a Bishop in 2016. She married Pontiff Charles Ray Hill, Sr. in Asheville, North Carolina.

Angelique loved wearing hats and dressing like her grandmother. She also enjoyed fishing like her daddy and had a heart like her mother and grandmother. Her passion was music and helping others. She played the keyboard and Hammond organ. Angelique was also a successful business owner. She loved to sew, cook, the TV show “Dr. Who”, Clint Eastwood movies, and the singer “Rod Stewart”. Angelique loved watching her children succeed. She was a loving daughter, wife, mother, granddaughter, sister, aunt & friend.

Angelique was preceded in death by her son, Kell Jones; grandmother, Pastor Edith Marie Pearson; nephew, Allen Jay Upchurch.

Left to cherish her memory is husband, Pontiff Charles Hill; daughters, Tiffany McKoy, Shakinah Brooks, Jahnia Jones, Kandice Rosa (Demetrius), Carlotta Hill; sons, Shaquan Jones, Charles Hill II (Tiffany), Jamie Hill, Quincy Hill, Tarvaris Hill; grandchildren, Samya McKoy, Blossom Brooks, Messiah McKoy, Cartier McKoy, Tamylah Jackson, Danielle Hill, Aaliyah Bady, Nashana Davidson, Jordan Hill, Mason Hill, Hayli Rosa, Emilio Rosa; brothers, Maynard McKoy Jr., Lamont McKoy (Tiffany), Elder Sherrard McKoy (Jojuana), Marshall McKoy (Catherine), Elder Linwood McKoy (LaToya), Shaun McKoy, Joel McKoy; sisters, Monique McKoy & LaQuinta McKoy Teems(Sylvester); a host of aunts, uncles, 39 nieces & nephews (combined) cousins, & friends.

Public viewing will be from 3:00-6:00 pm Wednesday, January 26, 2022 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Funeral service will be 10:00 am Thursday, January 27, 2022 also in the chapel. Burial will follow at 2:00 pm at the WC State Veterans Cemetery. The funeral service will be lived streamed here on the website.

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Patricia Tucker Flowers - October 25, 1963 - January 10, 2022

Departed: 01/10/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: The Daughter and Mother, Patricia Athena “Tina” Flowers’ love of life didn’t come to an end with her death. Her boundaries were unlimited as she utilized her God given talents to touch and change the lives of others. Ms. Patricia “Tina” Flowers was born October 25, 1963, in Asheville, North Carolina to Charlie Tucker, Jr., and Claudia Morgan Tucker. As she lay in her room at Mission Hospital, she quietly grasped the hands of the angels and transitioned to her Heavenly Home on January 10, 2022, after a courageous battle with kidney disease and other medical issues, surrounded by her loved ones who will continue to honor her legacy by living their lives to the fullest.

Tina graduated from A C Reynolds High School and furthered her education at Kings College in Charlotte where she studied Medical Office Terminology. She worked in that field as a technician for several years until she decided to settle into her first love, becoming a chef. She was a devoted and attentive daughter to her parents, a loving mother to her son, a dedicated sister to her brother and sister-in-law, a caring aunt to her nieces and nephews, and a compassionate friend to her church and community. Tina was the overseer for the Food Program at Tabernacle Missionary Baptist Church and even if she was not having the best day, she could be found at the Center giving out food. When Covid-19 was at its most critical point, she passed out flyers letting the people in the communities know when she would be there, loaded boxes and passed them out so the people would not be lacking and have enough food. If there was a funeral or any other event where food was needed, hers was the first face you would see. Her smile was infectious, and you could hear her laugh above others. Her words were always, “What do you need?” There was always a crowd, because her food was delicious and there was always a line of people to eat.

Patricia Athena “Tina” Flowers was initiated as a member of Daughters of Zion Chapter No. 2 OES on December 6, 2013. With the skills and passion of food preparation, we knew “Tina” was already predestined and following the path of community service prior to her ever becoming a member of an OES Chapter. Projects she had already spearheaded became a team effort with her as the executive chef and the members of the Order willingly followed her lead and expertise. Tina was not just a cook; She used and refined her skills and passion as an executive chef. She was a leader and could easily manage a kitchen staff and control the costs with the suppliers so she could get the “most” and the “best”. She loved catering the food for the St. James Grand Lodge Sessions and the Meetings. Tina collected the food from various Food Banks, served meals to the Veterans monthly, the Rescue Mission, and provided meals for the Youth in the church and community during Summer Camp. She was always busy. In June 2021, Tina sponsored a Kidney Benefit Drive, which not only assisted in her needs, but in others also. Not only did the Benefit raise money, but it served to raise the awareness of keeping the kidneys healthy, being a donor, and was a day of fun, food, and fellowship for all. Tina loved the Tabernacle Missionary Baptist Church and worked diligently and was faithful in her attendance until her health prevented her from going. She was a member of the Missionary Society, and the Kitchen Committee, and looked forward to preparing meals for all the special days at the church.

Preceding her in death was her Paternal Aunt, Peggy Ann Tucker, Paternal Uncle Jesse David Tucker, Maternal Aunts, Betty Boyd (Ernest), Lessie Belle Williams (Macke), Annie Mae Morgan, Alberta Weston, and Nieces, Darlene Morgan and Louise, Nephews-Franklin, Larry, Randell, and Kenneth.

Left to cherish her memories are her parents, Charlie Tucker, Jr. and Claudia M. Tucker, Asheville, North Carolina, Foster son, Taj Huggins, brother Charles Tucker (Lisa), Asheville, NC, Nephew, Joshua Lavar (LaShonda) Tucker of Atlanta, Georgia, Neice NaTasha Tucker, Asheville, NC, Great nephews, Elijah and, Josiah of Atlanta, Georgia, (C J) Weaver of Shelby, NC, Kyree, Kywone, Alonso all of Asheville, North NC, and Great nieces Natalia Tucker of Asheville, NC and Amirah of Atlanta, Georgia, She also leaves with cherished and loving memories Paternal Aunts, Mary Tucker, Annie Belle Tucker, Paternal Uncles, Tommie Tucker and Johnny Tucker, Maternal Aunts, Barbara Hunter (Ervin), Uncles, Clarence (Marshe)Morgan, and Charles (Betty) Morgan all of Asheville, NC, Special Friend, Johnny Knox, Hickory, NC and lifelong Sister Friends, Tanya Cooper, Edna (Gent) Hines, Sharon Allen, Asheville, NC and a host of cousins, extended family and friends.

Tina was a loving daughter, sister, aunt, niece, and friend. Although she was stubborn at times, she was funny, outgoing, and vivacious,and her loving and caring personality will be missed by all who knew and loved her. When you think of Patricia Athena “Tina” Flowers, celebrate the memories you have of her. Remember that life is fragile and short and should be lived to the fullest.

THE FUNERAL SERVICE IS RESCHEDULED FOR 1 PM, THURSDAY, TRIED STONE MISSIONARY BAPTIST CHURCH, 100 CARROLL AVE.

THE BURIAL WILLL FOLLOW AT ASHELAWN GARDENS OF MEMORY.

The Tucker Family extends their sincere appreciation to all who have made various  acknowledgements of love and support.

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Patricia Harris - Unknown - January 06, 2022

Departed: 01/06/2022 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Harris passed away on Thursday, January 6, 2022. Public viewing will be from 10:30-11:00 am Saturday, January 29, 2022 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Graveside service will follow at 11:00 am at Sunset Cemetery.

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Bessie Gray - April 07, 1951 - December 18, 2021

Departed: 12/18/2021 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Bessie Lynch Gray, 70, passed away Saturday, December 18, 2021, at Four Seasons Palliative Care.  She was a native of Henderson County.  She was the daughter of the late Howard and Bessie Lynch.  She was employed as a cook at several restaurants. Bessie enjoyed working for the Sheltered Workshop where her bubbly personality brought a smile to many.  She had an infectious love for everyone she met.  She volunteered her time to bring joy to so many.  Bessie loved cooking and was passionate about feeding many friends and family with her famous mac and cheese.  She enjoyed spending quality time with her grandchildren.  Like most grandmothers, she didn't hesitate to tell it like she saw it!  She was a loving aunt who became like a second mom to many of her nieces and nephews.  Bessie was also passionate about dancing and could dance like no one else.  She would dance all night to her rhythm and blues collections.  Bessie's love of music extended to the piano where she would play the keys off of a piano. While she resembled Diana Ross, many didn't know she could give Diana Ross a run for her money especially when she got a microphone in her hand!

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by son, Anthony Lynch; brothers, Clifford Lynch, Jr., Willis Lynch; sisters, Annette Summey, Helen Darity, Virginia Edgerton, Evelyn Allen.

Left to cherish her memory are brothers, Michael Lynch (Cynthia), Wade Lynch, Illar Lynch (Denise); sisters, Euretta Williamson, Lucille Carthens, Beulah Landrum (Leroy), Peggy Lynch, Gloria Simmons; grandchildren, Quentin Robinson, Justin Lynch, MaKenzie Lynch, Sidney Frady, Sasha Frady; 4 great-grandchildren; several nieces and nephews; other family members and friends.

Bessie loved her sisters and brothers with all her heart.  They knew when she wanted her space, she really wanted her space.  They will cherish the memories of their sweet and loving sister.

Funeral service will be 1:00 pm Friday, December 31, 2021, at Hendersonville First Church of Nazarene. Public viewing will be one hour prior to the service. Burial will follow at Oakdale Cemetery.

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Robert "Blue" Johnson - April 09, 1959 - December 16, 2021

Departed: 12/16/2021 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Robert “Blue” Johnson passed away on Thursday, December 16, 2021. He was born on April 9, 1959, in Asheville, NC to the late Jimmy Blackman and Mary Jo Arial Johnson.

Blue was a graduate of Asheville High School, class of 1977. He worked various jobs including Red Lobster, T.K. Tripps and Shrimp Boat. He was a member of Mt. Zion Missionary Baptist Church where he served on the Welcome Committee. Blue also served his community and Haywood Street Baptist Church. He was an artist and enjoyed coloring and painting pictures and cooking.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by sisters, Debra Cannady, Jennifer Whiteside and Patrice Blackman.

Left to cherish his memory are children, LeeKenya Major (Darnell) and LaKesha Major; sisters, Annette Arial, Ernestine Sullivan, Dora Dawkins, Donna Evans (Eddie); brothers, Michael Johnson, Willie Johnson, Johnny Johnson; grandchildren, Keonica Major and Daveon Galloway; special niece, Kimberly A. Johnson; several aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews; host of other family members and friends.

Memorial service will be held at 2:00 pm Monday, December 27, 2021 at Mt. Zion Missionary Baptist Church.

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Robin Joseph Ingram - July 24, 1964 - December 07, 2021

Departed: 12/07/2021 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Robin Denise Joseph Ingram, 57, was born July 24, 1964 in Cheverly, Prince George's County, Maryland to Peggy Sims Joseph and the late Robert Joseph. She entered eternal rest Tuesday, December 7, 2021 at her home. She was a graduate of T. C. Roberson High School, Class of 1983. Robin was a child care provider.

In addition to her father, Robin was preceded in death by maternal grandparents, Albert Bennie Sims and Bessie Lee Chaplin Sims; paternal grandparents, Wesley Calvin Joseph and Georgieanna King Joseph; aunt, Inez Sims Chambers (Johnny Chambers).

Family left to cherish her memory include husband, Daryl Earl Ingram, Sr., Orlando, FL; son, Daryl Earl Ingram, Jr.; mother, Peggy Sims Joseph; sister, Pamela Renee Joseph-Byrd (Donelle M. Stevens, Jr.), all of Asheville; brother, Robert Joseph, Waldorf, MD; special brother/cousin, Johnathan Eric Chambers (Tenika Brunson Chambers), Columbia, SC; special sister/cousin, Christine Dawn Joseph-Bussie (Darrin Bussie), Landover, MD; special sister, Victoria Yvette Jones Rookard (Lavoid Rookard), Newport News, VA; special god sister, Promise LeRai Hill (Cameron D. Bynum), Hendersonville, NC; aunt, Wanda Faye Joseph-Morris (Larry Morris), Clinton, MD; uncle, John Wesley Joseph, Springdale, MD; a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

Live streaming of the service will be available here on the website.

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Bonnie N. Love - November 15, 1951 - December 04, 2021

Departed: 12/04/2021 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Bonnie N. Love passed away on Saturday, December 4, 2021 at her home in Charlotte, NC. She was a native of Asheville and a daughter of the late Moultrie and Ada House Love.

In 1969, Bonnie was a part of the first integrated class of Asheville High School and the subsequent protests that resulted from the Brown V. Board of Education decision of 1954. During her time in Asheville, Bonnie served as Youth Advisor for the NAACP youth chapter, Million Women March Committee Chairman and Community Health Director of New Hope Community Health Center. Bonnie was an advocate for the African American Community. Bonnie was known for her work in not only promoting awareness in healthcare disparities, but bringing stakeholders together to enact change. Bonnie was passionate about revitalizing "The Block” and preserving African American culture in downtown Asheville. Bonnie has been recognized and interviewed for over 15 Citizen Times articles ranging from 1969 at the age of 17 as an outstanding student, to her work with the New Hope Community Health Center and revitalization efforts on the Block in 2004.

Bonnie worked on many initiatives supporting non-profit organizations including community and business development, assisting mothers overcoming substance use and mentoring at risk youth.

Bonnie Love was not only a faithful and dedicated mother, but she was also an educator (civil rights, health care, mental health and wellness), women’s right activist, artist and a grant writer.  A visionary that helped birth a culture of care and respect for the black community in Asheville. Notable community accomplishments include Goombay Committee, Holiday on the Block, Music on the Block, Midnight Basketball, and Shop the Block.

As an African American Cultural Artist, Bonnie enjoyed sewing, doll making, and creating handmade jewelry.

Bonnie's legacy lives on through her husband, Elder Curtis Devette; children, Jonathan Samuel (Jacqueline), Serena Andrews (Kelvin), Marshall Love (Divine); brother, Ralph Love; grandchildren, Jonathan Jr., Jaxson, Shamirrah, Kayhleb, Joshua, and Micah.

Public viewing will be 12:00-1:00 pm and Family Visitation 1:00-2:00 pm Monday, December 13, 2021 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Funeral service will follow at 2:00 pm. Burial will follow at Sunset Cemetery.

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Billy E. Gardenhight, Sr. - September 27, 1934 - November 19, 2021

Departed: 11/19/2021 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Billy E. Gardenhight, Sr. 87, passed away Friday, November 19, 2021.

Billy was a native of Asheville and a son of the late Edward Eugene Gardenhight and Fannie Williams Gardenhight.

He attended the Asheville public schools and was a graduate of the historic Stephens-Lee High School, Class of 1954. At Stephens-Lee, Billy was captain of the football and basketball teams. He was inducted into the school's first sports Hall of Fame. He attended Shaw University. Billy was an avid golfer. After a federal racial discrimination suit against Buncombe County, Billy was hired as Assistant Professional at Asheville Municipal Golf Course. He was later employed as Youth Director of the Afro-American Youth Society. Billy held several positions with the Opportunity Corporation of Buncombe-Madison Counties as Youth Director, Weatherization Coordinator and Transportation Supervisor. He was a member of Brooklyn Mission FBH Church. Billy and his wife, Martha were foster parents for 32 years with the Eliada Foster Care program. In 2013, Billy was recognized at the 6th Bi-Annual Ceremony as an Asheville Living Treasure.

Billy was a member and former president of the Skyview Golf Association. He served as tournament director for the Skyview Open, a major recognized tournament for Black Golfers during segregation and beyond. The tournament was won several times by Lee Elder, the first African American to play in the Masters Golf Tournament, Augusta, GA. Billy was a member of several golf associations throughout the Southeast. He won many amateur tournaments and was inducted into the National Black Golf Hall of Fame in 1994.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by sons, Billy Jr. and Eric.

He is survived by his wife of 62 years, Martha Koon Gardenhight; sons, Lee Shepherd (Gail) and Roderick Shepherd; foster-son, Nicholas Freeman; several grandchildren; sister, Marcia Mack; several nieces and nephews, including special niece, Ava Roberts; other relatives and friends.

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Jennifer Whiteside - March 15, 1949 - November 19, 2021

Departed: 11/19/2021 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Jennifer Ida Arial Whiteside, 72, passed away on Friday, November 19, 2021, at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital in Philadelphia, PA. She was born on March 15, 1949, in Asheville, NC to the late Haywood Shumate II and Mary Jo Johnson.

Jennifer attended Stephens-Lee High School and went on to receive her GED through Hillcrest Enrichment Program. She was a member of Mt. Zion Missionary Baptist Church. Jennifer was employed as a baker with Acheme Market. She enjoyed playing video games and spending time with her family and the love of her life.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by sister, Deborah Cannady; grandson, Joseph Whiteside, Jr.; great-grandson, Jeremiah Patterson.

Left to cherish her memory are children, Larry Whiteside (Amber), Joseph Whiteside (Susan), Cassandra Whiteside (Wayne); brothers, Michael Johnson, Robert Johnson; Willie Johnson, Johnnie Johnson, Haywood Shumate III; sisters, Annette Arial, Ernestine Sullivan, Amanda Shumate; 9 grandchildren; 27 great-grandchildren; loving companion for 16 years, Herman Gore; a host of nieces, nephews and cousins; other family members and close friends.

Public viewing will be from 2:00-6:00 pm Friday, November 26, 2021 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Funeral service will be at 4:00 pm Saturday, November 27, 2021 also in the chapel. Live-streaming of the service will be available here on the website.

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Kedrick "Cricket" Green - September 15, 1992 - November 18, 2021

Departed: 11/18/2021 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Kedrick Tevon Green “Cricket”, 29, passed away on Thursday, November 18, 2021. He was born in Asheville, NC on September 15, 1992, to Terria Shade Lytle and the late Errol Green.

Cricket graduated from Community High School in 2011 and attended South College. He was a member of St. John Baptist Church where he was a drummer. Cricket loved fast cars, sports and his favorite team was the San Francisco 49ers. He also had a love for fishing. He will be remembered for his infectious sense of humor and his contagious smile.

In addition to his father, he was preceded in death by grandfather, Eugene Green; grandmother, Louise Shade; great-grandmother, Frances Shade.

Left to cherish his memory are his loving parents, Donald and Terria Shade Lytle; sister, Kia Green; brother, Kewan Shade; precious children, Ky’Li Terria and Khai Denver; special friend, Tiara Teal; special aunts, Tammy Wallace (Steve), Eleanor Simuel; special uncles, James Shade (Joan), Curtis Shade; grandmother, Sandra Green; grandfathers, James Collins and Isaac Wilson; special cousin, Eboni Shade; many other family members and friends.

Public viewing will be from 12:00-6:00 Friday, November 26, 2021 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service. Funeral service will be at 1:00 pm Saturday, November 27, 2021 at St. John Missionary Baptist Church. Burial will follow at Sunset Cemetery.

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Ruthell Taylor - March 27, 1944 - November 15, 2021

Departed: 11/15/2021 (Asheville)

Obituary Preview: Ruthell Slydell Taylor, 77, of Asheville, NC, passed away on Monday, November 15, 2021, at the Laurels of Green Tree Ridge. She was born on March 27, 1944, to the late Edward Greene and Ruthell Howard.

Ruthell worked as an assembler at Square D Company before retiring. She was a member of Tried Stone Missionary Baptist Church. She loved to sing, bake, listen to music, watch Michael Jordan play and spend time with family. She was also a care taker to many.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by husband, Harold Taylor; brothers, Gary Morman and Ellisworth Morman; sister, Loretta Morman Left to cherish her memory is granddaughter, Sophia Slydell; grandson, Antoine Carter; great granddaughters, Ayesha Carter, Ariyana Carter, Nyla Slydell-Waters; great grandson, Antoine Carter II; son, Donald Slydell; sisters, Sheena Morman, Colis Muchemu; brothers, Robert Morman and Dickey Morman; other relatives and friends.

Memorial service will be held at 2:00 pm Monday, November 22, 2021 in the chapel of Ray Funeral & Cremation Service.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral arrangements, and other relevant details.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary or provide a template for the family to fill out.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), and surviving family members. It may also include hobbies, interests, achievements, and other personal details that celebrate the person's life.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Typically, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the newspaper or online platform directly to inquire about their submission process and any specific requirements they may have. Some may have online forms or email addresses where you can submit the obituary.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication or online platform. Some newspapers may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals. Online platforms may offer free or paid options.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to reflect on their life and leave a final message for loved ones. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your story is told in your own words.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, often including only the most basic information such as name, age, and date of death. It is typically shorter than an obituary and may not include as much personal detail.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing someone's death, while a eulogy is a spoken tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service. A eulogy is typically more personal and emotional, sharing stories and memories of the deceased.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include humorous anecdotes or quotes in an obituary as a way to celebrate the person's personality and spirit. However, be mindful of the tone and audience when doing so.

How do I handle sensitive or difficult information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or difficult aspects of the person's life that you're unsure how to address in the obituary, consider consulting with other family members or close friends for guidance. Be honest but tactful in your approach.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the person's legacy and continue their impact.

How long after someone passes away should I wait before publishing an obituary?

The timing varies depending on cultural and personal preferences. Typically, an obituary is published within a few days to a week after someone passes away, allowing time for funeral arrangements to be made.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

This depends on the publication or online platform. Some may allow edits or corrections, while others may not. Be sure to proofread carefully before submitting the obituary.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary or need guidance, consider consulting with a funeral home or mortuary staff member. They often have experience writing obituaries and can provide valuable assistance.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes, many online platforms specialize in publishing obituaries and allow you to share them with friends and family through social media or email.

How do I share an obituary on social media?

Copy the link to the online obituary and share it on social media platforms such as Facebook, Twitter, or LinkedIn. You can also share it via email or messaging apps.

Can I create a memorial website or page for my loved one?

Yes, many online platforms offer tools to create memorial websites or pages where friends and family can share memories, photos, and condolences.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

This varies depending on the online platform. Some may keep obituaries archived indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time.

Can I republish an old obituary from years ago?

If you have permission from the original publisher or copyright holder, you may be able to republish an old obituary. Be sure to check copyright laws and regulations before doing so.

What if I want to keep my loved one's passing private?

In some cases, families may choose not to publish an obituary due to personal reasons or privacy concerns. This is understandable, but keep in mind that friends and acquaintances may still want to pay their respects.

Can I use an obituary as part of a funeral service or memorial?

Yes, many families choose to read the obituary aloud during a funeral service or memorial as a way to honor their loved one's life and legacy.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an obituary for someone who was young or died suddenly?