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Myrtle G. Hall - May 08, 1933 - January 08, 2018

Departed: 01/08/2018 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: New Bern – Myrtle Gray Hall, 84, died Monday, January 8, 2018 at Pruitt Health Care Neuse facility.

She had attended Tabernacle Baptist Church. Mrs. Hall was the first female real estate broker in New Bern. She was manager of Builders & Frames Trust, owned by G. E. Lee. She retired from Cherry Point as the first housing inspector at Cherry Point. She was owner and began the first alteration service in New Bern, “His & Her’s Alterations” until retirement when she sold her business. Myrtle loved people and reached out to anyone in need that came across her life. She felt this was her greatest accomplishment.

She is survived by a son, William M. Tingle, Jr. of New Bern; a daughter, Dyan Spence (Ralph) of New Bern; two grandsons, John Bradford Spence and Corey Ryan Spence; and two brothers, Lee R. Hall of Tarboro and Stephen C. Hall (Gail) of Kinston. She was preceded in death by her parents G. Jones Hall and Golda Lee Hall and her sister Shirley Faye Hill.

Graveside service will be 2:00 p.m. Friday at New Bern Memorial Cemetery.

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Betty Hicks Smyer - February 02, 1928 - January 08, 2018

Departed: 01/08/2018 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Betty Hicks Smyer 89 of New Bern, went to be with the Lord on Monday, January 8, 2018.

She was a longtime seamstress, and crafter. She was also a member of the VFW Women’s Auxiliary and served as VWF Chaplin. Betty was also a member of Pleasant Acres FWB Church and Spring Hope Baptist Church.

She is preceded in death by her husband, Oliver Max Smyer, son, Raymond Smyer, and daughter, Peggy Smyer Roebuck.

Betty is survived by one son, David Smyer (Marty) of Orange Park, FL, daughters; Maxine Anderson of Anacortes, WA, Carolyn Johnson (Bruce) of New Bern, NC, brothers; Thomas Hicks (Jeannette) of Rock Hill, SC, Aaron Hicks (Brenda), Eric Hicks (Judy), 14 grand children, 11 great grand children, and 12 great-great grandchildren.

Funeral services will be held at 11:00 am, Saturday, January 13, 2018 at Pollock-Best Funeral Home. The family will receive friends at 10:00 am, one hour prior to the service at the funeral home. Burial will follow at Greenleaf memorial Park. Arrangement entrusted to Pollock-Best Funerals and Cremations

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Robert Warren Boyd - August 15, 1926 - January 04, 2018

Departed: 01/04/2018 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: New Bern - Robert Warren Boyd died on January 4, 2018 at New Bern, North Carolina. He was born on August 15, 1926 at Cleveland Heights, Ohio, the son of Chester and Neva (Shannon) Boyd. He was a graduate of Cleveland Heights High School. He served in the U.S. Navy Seabees during World War II in the Philippines. After the war, he attended Ohio University.

He worked for the Lincoln-Mercury Sales Division of Ford Motor Company in Cleveland until resigning to become the Lincoln-Mercury dealer in Oil City, Pennsylvania in 1958. In 1960 he became employed with Chrysler Corporation in Detroit and retired in 1989 to New Bern. He continued part time employment with Chrysler's Fleet Division through 2005. During his Chrysler career, he was employed at offices in Lima, OH; Detroit, MI; St. Louis, MO; New York, NY; Chicago, IL; Pittsburgh, PA; and Greensboro, NC.

He married Patricia Jane Deahl of East Cleveland, OH on November 22, 1950, who predeceased him in March 2011. He is survived by two daughters, Nancy Boyd of New York City, and Patricia Ann Melone and her husband Michael, of Oveido, FL; two sons, Robert M. Boyd and his wife Amy of Virginia Beach, VA, and Steven D. Boyd and his wife Wendy of Lakewood, CA; plus seven grandchildren, five great grandchildren and several nieces and nephews.

He was a member of First Presbyterian Church, New Bern, and the Emerald Golf Club. He was a past member of the Tidewater Seniors Golf Association, The Scottish Heritage Society of Eastern North Carolina; Elks Lodge #964, and the Craven County Genealogy Society. He was a descendant of John T. Skillman of New Jersey who served in the Revolutionary War.

Memorial services will be held on Saturday January 13 at 11:00 a.m. at the First Presbyterian Church, New Bern. The family will receive friends in the Session House following the service.

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Ann Knighton Christopher - September 13, 1947 - January 03, 2018

Departed: 01/03/2018 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Ann Knighton Christopher, age 70, of New Bern passed away Wednesday January 3,2018 at home.

She is survived by her sister Lynn Erickson of Raleigh, her four children, Nicole Kirby of Oakboro, Dr. Michele Rohrer of Wilmington, Matt Christopher of Hampstead and Ashley Dorn of New Bern, and her eight grandchildren Nate, Aidan and Gracyn Kirby; Davis Cernugel; Leighton Dorn; and Elle, Riely, and Millie Christopher.

“Robbie” was a wife, a mother, a nana and a friend. She was kind, generous, caring and selfless.

She was a loyal friend, confidant, teacher, animal lover, avid crafter and basketweaver. She will be remembered for her generosity, her dedication to her family and friends, and her love for animals.

There will be a graveside service for her immediate family on Friday. A visitation will be held for her beloved friends and family on Saturday January 13 from 10-12 at Pollock’s Best Funeral Home in New Bern N.C.

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Melissa Muse Thomas - November 28, 1967 - January 01, 2018

Departed: 01/01/2018 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Cove City, NC

Mrs. Melissa Muse Thomas, 50, passed from this life with her family by her side, and entered into the gates of heaven to be with our Lord, Monday afternoon, January 1, 2018. She was a graduate of New Bern High School and workied in the banking industry for many years in the Asheville area. Her love of the beach and blue skies brought her back home where she worked for CCHC. Melissa found her "Happy Place" on Ocracoke Island with her husband Jon and his family, enjoying the sun and surf.

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Ella Faye Wisely - April 21, 1938 - December 31, 2017

Departed: 12/31/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Ella Faye Parker Wisely, 79, passed away peacefully at home on Sunday, December 31, 2017.

Mrs. Wisely was the only child born to the late George and Meredith (Parks) Parker on April 21, 1938. She earned her Licensed Practical Nurse diploma from Durham Technical Institute and practiced in hospitals and pediatric offices in Chapel Hill and New Bern.

She was an active member of The Painting Ladies group at the New Bern Senior Center, Tryon Chapter Embroidery Guild of America, past treasurer of the Crystal Coast American Needlepoint Guild, and former member of the Gold Wing Road Rider Association.

She is survived by her husband, Kenneth Wisely, of 61 years; 4 children: Mark (Carol) Wisely of Emmett, Kansas; Bruce (Kathy) Wisely of Raleigh, NC; Pam (Mac) Chapman of Hartsville, SC: and David (Tina) of Timberlake, NC; 8 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren.

A memorial service will be held at Pollock-Best Funeral Home on Wednesday, January 3, 2018 at 3 pm. Friends and family will be received following the ceremony.

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Donald M. Bernhardt - January 15, 1928 - December 28, 2017

Departed: 12/28/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Trent Woods - Donald M. Bernhardt, Sr. 89, died Thursday, December 28, 2017 at his residence.

He was born in Rowan County on January 15, 1928, son of the late Henderson M. and Mary Cline Bernhardt.

He graduated from China Grove High School and NC State University, and taught school in Lynchburg, VA for 35 years. He was an elder and deacon at Elon Presbyterian Church in Lynchburg. He served in the US Navy and was a member of Centenary United Methodist Church.

Surviving is his wife of 66 years Moxie Moore Berhnardt; two sons, Donald M. Bernhardt, Jr. of New Bern and Zachary C. Bernhardt and wife Karen of Newport News, VA; two daughters Moxie B. Pratt and husband Jeffrey of Bayboro and Kim Berhnardt-Tyndall and husband Devon of Kings Mountain, NC; 8 grandchildren, Heather Kaylor, Bo Webber, Victoria Simerly, Elizabeth Conner, Connor, Bernhardt, Cole Bernhardt, Gerald Elder and Missy Wilson; and 12 great-grandchildren, Tyler Webber, Lili Webber, Bella Webber, Donavon Gaskil, Steven Tindal, Gavin Tindal, Kristiana Summers, Kaden Simerly, Alex, Additon, Karen James and David James.

A memorial service will be held 2:00 p.m. Saturday, January 13 at Centenary United Methodist Church.

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Helen Hargett Kennedy - May 26, 1929 - December 28, 2017

Departed: 12/28/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: The Pollocksville Community lost a beautiful, graceful lady on Thursday, December 28th. Helen Hargett Kennedy passed away peacefully, surrounded by family members. She was born on May 26, 1929 to Fred Bryan Hargett and Lena Thomas Hargett. She was predeceased by Audrey Kennedy, her husband of 69 years, her son, Delbert Lynn Kennedy, brothers: Frederick T. Hargett, Richard M. Hargett, and Alfred A Hargett; and sisters: Mary Elizabeth Gregg, and Christabel Bert Cook.

Helen is survived by her son: Audrey W. Kennedy, Jr. (Connie) of Fond du Lac, WI; and daughters: Barbara Sykes (Jack) of Supply, NC; and Donnal Harriett (Allen) of Pollocksville, NC.; 12 grandchildren and 18 great- grandchildren; sisters: Barbara B. Teupel and Peggy A. White.

Helen was a wonderful wife, mother and grandmother. She was known for her generous meals given to members of the Pollocksville community whenever there was a sickness or death in a family. She was an auxiliary member of the Gideons International for 23 years. Helen will be remembered for her strong faith in the Lord, her love for Pollocksville United Methodist Church and for the grace she always showed her family and friends and for those in need.

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Roy Grady Cahoon - July 21, 1932 - December 25, 2017

Departed: 12/25/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: NEW BERN - Roy Grady Cahoon, 85, of New Bern, NC, ended his courageous battle with lung cancer at the Kitty Askins Hospice Center in Goldsboro, NC on Monday, December 25, 2017. Roy is survived by his wife of 60 years, Kay Blackwell Cahoon, and two sons, Brian Grady Cahoon of Bridgeton, NC, and Randall K. Cahoon-Tingle of Raleigh, NC.

He is preceded in death by his daughter, Ellen Kay Cahoon, and by his parents, Pulaski and Lina Cahoon, as well as two older brothers (Jesse and Harry Cahoon) and three older sisters (Lillian Whealton, Elsie Taylor, and Penelope Fleshman).

Roy, a native of Mesic, NC, graduated from New Bern High School in 1950, and entered the US Air Force during the Korean Conflict in 1951. His four-year tour of duty included stations in Oxford, England, French Morocco, Africa, and Savannah, GA. He received an honorable discharge from the Air Force in 1955 having received the National Defense Medal and a Good Conduct Medal during the time of his service.

Roy spent the majority of his adult life working at Marine Corps Air Station Cherry Point, in the Naval Air Rework Facility (NARF). Not long after his military discharge he worked as an aircraft mechanic, but over the course of his career he moved up into the position of Planner and Estimator. He took an early retirement from civil service following the death of his only daughter, Ellen, in 1981. He managed and funded a scholarship through Craven Community College named after Ellen designated for nursing students for a period of several years.

Roy and wife, Kay, spent the first 12 years of their retirement together volunteering at Craven Regional Medical Center (now CarolinaEast Medical Center) as Hospital Auxiliary members. They were active in their church work, first at Neuse Forest Presbyterian Church and later at West New Bern Presbyterian Church, before joining First Presbyterian Church in downtown New Bern.

The family will hold a memorial service celebrating his life on Friday, December 29, 2017 at 2 pm at Pollock-Best Funeral Home in New Bern, with visitation with the family from 1 pm until 2 pm. Private burial will be at New Bern Memorial Cemetery.

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Doris White Hancox - February 16, 1925 - December 25, 2017

Departed: 12/25/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: TRENT WOODS, NC

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Mary Ward McCaffrey - June 10, 1931 - December 23, 2017

Departed: 12/23/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Mary Ward McCaffrey Jun 10, 1931 - Dec 23, 2017

Mary Helen Ward McCaffrey, age 86, passed away peacefully on December 23rd, in Rocky Mount, NC, surrounded by her loving family.

Mary was predeceased by her beloved husband of 54 years, Joseph (Joe) McCaffrey, her son Michael, her parents William and Helen Ward, and her brothers Hugh and John.

She is survived by her daughters and sons-in-law: Patty and Jeff Dorroh of Burns, OR and Terry and Steve Moore of Rocky Mount, NC; her four grandchildren and a son-in-law: Jennifer Moore Christensen and husband Rob Christensen, Matthew Moore, Mary Dorroh and Madeline Dorroh. She is also survived by her brother William Ward; sisters-in-law Marie Louise Ward, Ann Ward, and Joleen Hammel; brothers-in-law Philip Roy and Lennie Hammel, and many dear cousins, nieces, nephews, family and friends.

Mary was born June 10, 1931 in Canton, MA, the second of four children. She knew she wanted to become a nurse at the age of five, and received her RN training through the Massachusetts General Hospital program in Boston, MA. Upon graduation, Mary joined the U.S. Navy and served at Camp Lejeune, NC, where she met her husband Joe, a U.S Marine. Later, Mary earned her BSN from East Carolina University. Throughout the years of raising children Mike, Patty and Terry, Mary and Joe moved numerous times and experienced both wartime and peacetime military separations. Their love and faith was strong, and they somehow made it look easy.

A wonderful wife, mother, sister, aunt, and friend, Mary embraced her faith and her life. She was a compassionate, skilled nurse who worked primarily in home health and hospice roles. She was a devoted volunteer, member of the Catholic Daughters, and member of the St. Paul Catholic Church, in New Bern, NC. Mary’s faith was evident in her kind, nurturing, and loving presence.

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Ryan Koson-Williams - September 09, 1977 - December 22, 2017

Departed: 12/22/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Ryan Walter Koson Williams, age 40, son of Terri Koson of New Bern and Doulas L. Williams of Missouri City, TX died suddenly December 22, 2017 in Durham, NC.

He was graduate of the Institute of Culinary Education in NY, and expressed his love and joy through food. He never never knew a stranger and was known to give the coat off his back for another in need.

In addition to his parents, Ryan is survived by Jesse Schmucker, his stepfather, of New Bern. He is survived and missed by his loving grandmother Judith Koson of Brockton MA, his aunt and uncle (godparents) Sally and Gerard Antonellis of New Bern, and aunt Valerie Ciavarra of Osterville, MA. He is also survived by cousins Jessica Antonellis-John, Anthony Antonellis, Leah Antonellis, Taylor, Terence, Vincent, Mia and Cara Ciavarra.

Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 1:00 pm Saturday December 30, 2017 at St. Paul Roman Catholic Church, 3005 Country Club Rd, New Bern. The family will receive friends after the funeral until 4 pm at BridgePoint Hotel and Marina breakfast room.

The family asks that you remember Ryan by supporting RCS, CarolinaEast Foundation and the Salvation Army.

Pollock-Best has assisted the family with arrangements.

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Mark Dennis Finley - August 27, 1949 - December 20, 2017

Departed: 12/20/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Mark Dennis Finley, 68, died at his home in New Bern on Wednesday, December 20, 2017, with family by his side. He is survived by his wife of 43 years, Susan (née Schimpf); four daughters: Jennifer Russell (Allan) of Savannah, Georgia; Betsy Finley (Daniel) of Ashburn, Virginia; Kate Finley of New York, New York; and Erin Nestor (James) of North Pole, Alaska; six grandchildren; and a sister, Mary Finley (Harry) of Carbondale, Illinois. He was preceded in death by two infant sisters and his parents, Flora (née Crossman) and Melvin Finley.

Mark was born in Peoria, Illinois on August 27, 1949 and spent his childhood in Cazenovia and Washington, Illinois. He was a 1967 graduate of Washington Community High School and earned an associate's degree in Engine Power Technology from Illinois Central College in 1969. He met Susan (“Sue”) in 1971, and they married on February 16, 1974 in Washington, Illinois. He began his career as a welder and subsequently worked as a long-haul truck driver, small business owner, and dragline operator. An entrepreneur at heart, he and Sue moved their young family to rural Western New York state in 1986, and then to coastal North Carolina in 1998. His adventurous spirit and strong faith allowed him to embrace and live each day to the fullest. Mark had a brilliant mind, a great sense of humor, and an infectious laugh. He was an avid reader and had many hobbies, including photography, cutting and splitting firewood, tinkering in the garage, four-wheeling, cowboy action shooting, storytelling, ham radio, making homemade ice cream, and being outdoors. He had an uncanny ability to disassemble and put back together anything he was handed and was a whiz with gadgets and tools. Mark had an excellent ear for music, and his booming bass voice lent itself well to being a member of the church choir and a gospel quartet. A true people person and devoted family member and friend, Mark sincerely enjoyed spending time with others and lending a helping hand when and wherever needed, and was a dedicated member of his church, community, and breakfast groups. Many would say that Mark was the hardest worker they ever knew. He was a proud and loving son, brother, husband, father, and grandfather, and encouraged his daughters to work hard, strive to do what they enjoy, and find their purpose in life. He touched countless lives and is loved and will be missed by many.

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Vera "Arleen" Lloyd Mullen - November 21, 1938 - December 18, 2017

Departed: 12/18/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Vera “Arleen” Lloyd Mullen, 79, passed away Monday, December 18, 2017 following a multi-year battle with lymphoma. Arleen was born in Franklin County, NC on November 21, 1938 to Thraudy Gray Lloyd and Una Gay Lloyd. She was a graduate of Bunn High School in 1956 and went on to get her RN degree from Rex Nursing School in Raleigh in 1959. After college she married Stephen Thomas Mullen, Sr. and briefly joined the US Army Nursing Corps. In 1961 she began raising a family in New Bern, NC. In 1966 the family moved to Marietta, GA and in 1969 the family moved again to Washington Township, NJ. While in NJ she re-certified her RN license and worked as a private nurse, later becoming a head floor nurse at Underwood Memorial hospital.

In 1992, Arleen, and the love of her life, Steve, moved back to New Bern on their beloved Neuse River. While in retirement Arleen traveled the world with Steve and was an active member at Riverdale United Methodist Church. Arleen loved having large gardens and her 100+ rose garden still flourishes. Her greatest joy was being a mother, grandmother, sister and cousin to her family and friends.

Funeral services for Arleen will be 2:00PM, December 22, 2017 at Riverdale United Methodist Church. Burial will follow at Greenleaf Memorial Park. The family will receive friends 6-8 PM, Thursday, December 21, 2017 at Pollock-Best Funeral Home and other times at the family home. Those wishing to offer words of hope and condolences may visit www.pollockbest.com. Memorials, in Arleen’s name, may be made to Riverdale UMC 5195 US Hwy 70 E New Bern, NC 28560.

Arleen is predeceased by her husband of 54 years Steve, Sr. She is survived by her children, Steve Mullen, Jr. of Knightdale, NC; John “Mark” Mullen, and wife Cammy, of Wake Forest; Anita Mullen, of New Bern, NC; Robert Mullen and Traci Moxley, of New Bern, NC; siblings Sylvia Rogers, Thraudy Gray Lloyd, Jr., Vickie Baker, Dr. Ronnie Lloyd, and Debbie Rice. She also leaves behind her dear grandchildren, Lindsey Mullen Todd and husband Darryl Todd, Kevin, Matt, and Mason Mullen; and many cousins far and near.

The Mullen Family would like to give their heartfelt appreciation to Coastal Carolina Cancer Center and all the medical staff that worked so hard for her care.

Pollock~Best Funerals & Cremations is entrusted with the Mullen Family.

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Della Delores Rapp - July 05, 1949 - December 18, 2017

Departed: 12/18/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Greenville - Della Delores Rapp, 68, died Monday, December 18, 2017 at Pruitt Healthcare - Trent facility in New Bern.

She was born July 5, 1949 in Dover, DE, daughter of the late John and Etta Cox Yowell. In addition to her parents she was preceded in death by her daughter Debra Rapp. Surviving is her husband of 47 years Robert A. Rapp; two sons, Robert Rapp, Jr. and William Rapp of

Greenville; six grandchildren, William, Jr., Jasemine, Taylor, Tyler, Tianna and Robert III; and one great-granddaughter Rose. No services are planned

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Charles Henry Schmitt - June 14, 1941 - December 15, 2017

Departed: 12/15/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Charles Henry Schmitt Jr., age 76, resident of Mount Kisco, NY passed away on Friday, December 15, 2017 at CarolinaEast Medical Center, New Bern, NC.

Born on June 14, 1941 in Mount Vernon, NY, he grew up in Scarsdale, NY and was the son of late Charles Henry Schmitt and the late Edythe Marie Schmitt. Charles served his country in the United States Army and was very fond of the outdoors. He enjoyed the water, sailing, hiking, bird watching, cooking, baking and loved animals. In addition, he loved his summers out in Long Island, NY at his families summer house. He loved spending Saturdays with his daughter, Stephanie and visiting daughter, Kristen in NC. He was employed by Charles H Schmitt and Co. the family flooring business, in New York, NY where he was the President and CEO for 42 years.

He is survived by his daughters; Kristen Spoon and David Schaeffer of New Bern, NC, Stephanie Sanford and Tim Sanford of Norwalk, CT, sister, Caryl Speck and Ray Speck of Media, PA, one Grandson, Shawn Spoon of Lockport, NY and many other beloved nieces- Alicia Soukup, Cheri Soukup, Charlene Speck, Sandy McGuire, and Sage Thomas.

A memorial service will be held at a latter date.

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Christine Erickson Friedrich - May 07, 1929 - December 14, 2017

Departed: 12/14/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Christine Katherine Erickson Friedrich

Chris passed away peacefully in her sleep in New Bern, NC, on December 14, 2017, from stroke complications.

She was born on May 7, 1929, in Camden, NJ, to the late Marie and Otto Erickson and grew up in Westmont, NJ. Chris graduated from Haddonfield Memorial High School in 1947 and then attended and graduated from Marion Junior College in Marion, VA. After a year of nurses training at the Medical College of Virginia, she decided instead to pursue an education in physical therapy. As a result, she entered the Richmond Professional Institute of the College of William and Mary and the Medical College of Virginia, graduating in 1953 with a Bachelor of Science in Applied Sciences. After her family, her career of physical therapy was one of the great passions of her life. Her dedication, hard work, and compassion were appreciated by everyone.

Chris is survived by her husband of 63 years, Wayne of New Bern, NC, and her children, Paul E. and wife Leslie (Bethards) of Apex, NC; Charles R. and his wife Elizabeth (Kahrs) of Salisbury, NC; and Karen F. Turner and husband John of Seekonk, MA; nine grandchildren, and four great grandchildren. The love and experiences she shared with all of them was truly amazing. Chris was one of the good ones and loved by all that knew her. She will be most remembered for her active, vibrant, and young-at-heart outlook on life.

A Celebration of Life will be held for friends and family in the Sessions House Building at First Presbyterian Church, 400 New St, New Bern, NC, on Friday, January 5, 2018, at 10:00 AM.

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Shirley Ann Dailey - April 15, 1937 - December 09, 2017

Departed: 12/09/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: NEW BERN, NC

Shirley Ann Daly Dailey 80, of New Bern, passed away Saturday, December 9, 2017 at Crystal Coast Hospice House. Sadly, she was preceded in death by her parents, John and Catherine Daly, son Michael Dailey, six brothers, and two sisters.

Shirley is survived by her husband Tim, two children; Tim Dailey, Sheryle Yates, and their children.

The most important things to Shirley were Faith, Family, and Love. She was a devout member of Annunciation Catholic Church Parish. Over the years, she also enjoyed beaches, square dancing, bowling, country music, and Dunkin Donuts Coffee.

A memorial Mass will be held at Annunciation Catholic Church, Thursday, December 14, 2017 at 11:00 am. The family will receive friends starting at 10:00 am, one hour prior to mass.

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Franklin "Frank" Willis Haynes - April 14, 1957 - December 08, 2017

Departed: 12/08/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: New Bern, NC

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Gerald Alan Justice - September 09, 1957 - December 08, 2017

Departed: 12/08/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Gerald Alan Justice 60, of New Bern, Passed away on December 8, 2017 at Kitty Askins Hospice Center.

Gerald is preceded in death by his mother, Sandra Buick, and his brother Kendall Justice.

He is survived by his son, Greg Justice (Lindsay) and daughter Gina Davenport (Artis), both of Flowery Branch, GA, sister, Jennifer Blackman (Carl) of New Bern, grandchildren; Jaylon Justice, Jordan Justice, Jhace Justice, Jaymon Justice, many beloved nieces and nephews, and former wife Jamie Pittman of Flowery Branch, GA.

A memorial service will be held at Neuse River Baptist Church Saturday, December 16 at 1:00 pm, with pastor Jesse Pittman.

Arrangements entrusted to Pollock-Best Funerals and Cremations.

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Elizabeth Hawley Wood - June 24, 1942 - December 08, 2017

Departed: 12/08/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Elizabeth “Betty” Wood 75, of New Bern, passed away December 9, 2017, surrounded by family and friends.

Betty was a long time member of the Craven County Democratic Party. She served as the campaign director for her life long friends Judge Jerry and Patty Waddell. She was a very proud campaign advocate and close friend to former governor Beverly Perdue, NC’s first female governor. She also spent her time as a Sunday school teacher and youth director at Riverdale United Methodist Church. Betty was also a registered nurse, member of Crossroads Baptist Church, advocate for abused and neglected animals, and stayed involved in the community as a caregiver for the needy.

Betty is preceded in death by her husband Monnie “Ray” Wood, her parents John and Jessie “Footy” Hawley, and Elizabeth “Lib” Coble Hawley.

She is survived by her son Bryan Avery Wood of New Bern, his children Madison, Mason, Megan, and their mother Melissa Arbaugh Wood, brothers; John Holman Hawley III (Carroll) of Goldsboro, Edward O’Neal Hawley (Pam) of High Point, nieces; Mary Hawley Hines, Sarah Hawley Franklin, Summer Hawley Gruber, nephew, John “Jay” Holman IV, dear friends; the Caudle family of Greensboro, Mike Baker, Theda Campbell, Norma Powell, Naomi Morris, and the Comfort Air family.

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Dawne M. Heinz - January 28, 1948 - December 07, 2017

Departed: 12/07/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: New Bern - Dawne McDonald, 69,. Heinz died Thursday, December 7, 2017 at her home.

She is survived by her children, Robert "Rob" F. Heinz, Jr. (Jamie) of Gladwi, MI, Candice R. Heinz of New Bern, Julie M. Tegtmeyer of W. Palm Beach, FL, and Shelley R. Christle (Rod) of Sanford, FL; two brothers Robert McDonald (Gina) of Alabama and Donald McDonald (Cheryl) of Phoenix, AZ; sister Rosalie Combs (John) of Bay City, MI; nine grandchildren Lanie Morris, Alley Morris, Raymond Webb, Joanna Mullins (Derrick), Setphanie Tegtmeyer, Amber Tegtmeyer, Jason Tegtmeyer, Quinn Shine and Dylan Shine; and three great-grandchildren Aeiranna Shine, Kaylynn Webb and Mardi Townes.

She was preceded in death by her husband of 38 years Robert "Bob" F. Heinz, Sr. and parents Donald McDonald and Pearl Iris Williamson McDonald.

A memorial service will be held 3:00 p.m. Monday, December 11 at West Vanceboro Church of God with Rev. Brent Manning officiating.

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Howard J. Smith - September 23, 1935 - December 03, 2017

Departed: 12/03/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: RIVER BEND, NC

Howard Jesse Smith, Jr. of River Bend, formerly of Frederick, MD, passed away peacefully on December 3, 2017 at Carolina East Medical Center.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Howard Jesse Smith, Sr. and Anna Weddle Smith.

Surviving are his wife of 45 years, Katherine “Dee” Smith and three much loved children and their families: Howard Jesse Smith III (Rachael) of Hagerstown, MD, Eva O’Steen Bell (Brian), of New Bern, and John Wesley Cross, Jr (Kim) of Columbia, SC. Also surviving are many grandchildren, great grandchildren and extended family members. Howard will also be remembered by special family member, Wayne Alexander.

Howard worked many years in the Insurance Industry in Frederick, MD. After retiring to New Bern, NC, in 1994, he and Dee fulfilled a dream of being innkeepers and purchased the Aerie Bed and Breakfast and Tea Room. Many happy years were spent caring for guests and being active in downtown New Bern. Pursuing an interest in history, working as an historical interpreter at Tryon Palace was a real joy for Howard. Spare time was spent golfing and gardening. As a member of Centenary United Methodist Church, he particularly enjoyed singing in the Sanctuary Choir.

A celebration of Howard’s life will be held on Thursday, December 7, 2017 at 11:00 AM at Centenary United Methodist Church, corner of Middle and New Streets, New Bern. A reception for family and friends will follow the service.

Howard’s wishes were, that in lieu of flowers, memorials be made to Centenary United Methodist Church, www.centenarychurch.com, or PO Box 1388, New Bern, NC 28563.

Pollock Best Funerals and Cremations will be in charge of arrangements. On line condolences may be made at www.pollockbest.com.

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Tess Russell Luper - June 25, 1934 - November 29, 2017

Departed: 11/29/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: New Bern, NC

Mrs. Tess Carolyn Russell Luper, 83, of the Greenbrier Community of New Bern, passed from this life on earth to her heavenly home with Jesus on Wednesday, November 29, 2017. She was born June 25, 1934, in High Point, NC, the daughter of Rufus Clegg Russell and Juanita Clark Russell. Tess graduated from Greensboro Senior High School and from Women's College, UNC Commercial Department in Greensboro in 1953. She married William Donald Luper on June 6, 1953, in the First Baptist Church of Greensboro, NC. They lived in Westbrook, CT and Wilmington, NC while he served in the US Coast Guard in 1955.

After returning to Greensboro, she served as Executive Secretary to the President of Pilot Life Insurance Company before retiring to be a homemaker and mother. After her husband was sent to Miami, FL with his job, Tess studied acrylic art and began exhibiting and selling paintings in galleries- then in Greensboro, where they moved back to. She served as Missions Administrator at Westover Church from 1984-1993, and coordinated their yearly Missions Conferences.

Tess loved designing houses and the Lupers lived in two of them outside Greensboro- one on eight acres in the woods in Summerfield, and the other on a lake on the 18th fairway at Deep Springs Golf Course in Madison, NC. When they left Madison to move to New Bern in 1995, they have enjoyed living on another lake and 18th fairway at The Emerald Golf Course. She has been active in the Christian Woman's Club, Trent Woods Garden Club, Twin Rivers Artists' League - exhibiting at the Public Library as "Artist of the Month" several times and in other venues around New Bern; and New Bern Woman's Club, where she was named "Outstanding Club Woman of the Year", in 1998. She coordinated several Holly & Ivy Christmas tours when they began. The Craven County Council on Women named her a 1998 Craven County Distinguished Woman Awards Nominee for Arts. Tess was a very active member of Brice's Creek Bible Church, serving on the Missions Committee and planning their Missions Conferences and preparing the monthly missionary prayer calender. She and her husband taught the "Family To Family" support class for the National Alliance For The Mentally Ill - New Bern, for nine years. Some of Tess's favorite things were - designing houses; interior decorating; painting pictures; the different churches she had the honor to belong to and working with all the missionaries they supported and planning the Missions Conferences; having friends to her home for the weekly Bible Studies that Bill would teach; all the animals they loved and were privileged to share their lives with - especially the last two cats, Kate & Kelly; entertaining and having family celebration dinners on birthdays, Thanksgiving, and especially Christmas Eve dinners around the large table in "the big room". She loved - being around her sweet daughter-in-law Susan, who would take her on several trips; her three sons - Donnie, a wonderful Christian and amazing endodontist, as she realized while having a painless root canal in his office and thinking "This is that little baby boy we had?"; Rusty, kind and sweet man, who became her companion going to art galleries and stores - and coming for Mom's home cooking twice a week!; Jonathon "Duke" - who works for Disney in L.A. and makes a long trip to see Mom & Dad, and his two New Bern brothers at Christmas - a smart, loving, and kind person! She cherished being with her grandchildren and their families and especially when they would visit her and Bill with GREAT grandchildren. But the most important thing besides Jesus and God that Tess loved, was being with her husband of over 64 years, Bill, her high school sweetheart and the love of her life. It was AMAZING!!

Sadly, Tess was predeceased by her parents; her brother, Gilbert Clark Russell; stepmother, Myrtle Young Russell; two brothers-in-law, Thomas Calvin Luper and Raymond "Buddy" Luper and her sister-in-law, Ruth Luper Martin.

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Harvey A. Purser - March 13, 1923 - November 29, 2017

Departed: 11/29/2017 (New Bern)

Obituary Preview: Harvey Arthur Purser Jr. 94 of New Bern passed away on November 29, 2017 at CarolinaEast Medical Center. Harvey served his country in the Army during WWII. He retired from Maola with over 37 years of service. Most of all he was a proud “Diddy.”

He is preceded in death by his wife, Mrs. Sammie J. Purser, parents Harvey and Celia Purser, brothers; Ormel Purser, Jesse Lee Purser, and Clifton Purser.

Harvey is survived by his son, Jimmy Purser (Sharon) of New Bern, daughter, Sara King (Mac) of New Bern, sister, Irma P. Tingle of New Bern, three grandchildren; Jamie Peterson (Dennis) of Winterville, NC, Lara Lee King of Raleigh, NC, Mary Beth Harton (Kasey) of New Bern, two great grandchildren; Thomas Peterson and Andrew Peterson, special niece, Dinah Lee Tingle, his many nieces and nephews, and special friends; Colleen Smithwick and Frank Thomas.

The family will receive friends Friday, December 1, 2017 at Pollock-Best Funeral Home from 6pm-8pm. The funeral service will be held 11am Saturday December 2, 2017 at Pollock-Best Funeral Home. Burial will follow at Greenleaf Memorial Park.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's often used to share information about the deceased with family, friends, and community members.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to notify others of a person's passing and provide details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members. It also serves as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or crematorium may assist with writing the obituary or provide guidance on what information to include.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about memorial services, donations, or other ways to pay tribute to the deceased.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform where it will be published. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful for those who knew the deceased.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. You can usually find submission guidelines on their website or by contacting their customer service department directly.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

In many cases, yes. The cost of publishing an obituary can vary widely depending on the publication or platform, as well as the length and complexity of the notice. Some funeral homes or crematoriums may include this service in their overall package.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy.

What are some tips for writing a great obituary?

To write a great obituary, focus on telling a story about the person's life rather than just listing facts. Use specific anecdotes and details to bring their personality and spirit to life. Be honest and authentic in your writing, and don't be afraid to add humor or wit where appropriate.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's personality or values.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there's sensitive information about the person's life or death that you're unsure about including, it's best to err on the side of caution. Focus on sharing positive aspects of their life and avoid anything that might be hurtful or embarrassing to family members or friends.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes! Many families choose to suggest charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to honor their loved one's memory. Be sure to specify the charity and any relevant details.

What if I need to make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

Contact the publication or platform where the obituary was published as soon as possible if you need to make corrections or updates. They may have specific procedures for making changes.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Some may publish immediately, while others may take several days or even weeks.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

Yes! If you want to republish an obituary on a special anniversary or occasion, you can usually do so by contacting the original publication or platform.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an obituary for a veteran?

Yes! When writing an obituary for a veteran, be sure to include their military service details, such as branch, rank, and years of service. You may also want to mention any notable awards or decorations they received.

Can I include pets in an obituary?

Absolutely! Many people consider their pets to be part of their family, so it's perfectly acceptable to mention them in an obituary.

How do I handle multiple marriages or complicated family relationships in an obituary?

This can be a delicate situation! When dealing with complex family relationships, focus on being honest and respectful. You may want to consult with other family members or friends to ensure everyone is comfortable with the language used.

Can I use humor in an obituary?

Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate someone's life! Just be sure to keep it tasteful and respectful – you want to honor the person's memory without offending anyone.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief?

I'm so sorry you're going through this difficult time. Writing an obituary can be a challenging task when you're grieving. Consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support, or seek guidance from a funeral home or crematorium staff member.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media can be a powerful tool for sharing news about someone's passing and connecting with others who knew them. You can share a link to the published obituary or create your own post with details about the person's life.

Are there any cultural or religious considerations I should keep in mind when writing an obituary?

Yes! Be mindful of cultural and religious traditions when writing an obituary. For example, some cultures may have specific customs around mourning or burial practices that should be respected.

Can I include personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Personal anecdotes can help bring the person's story to life and make the obituary more engaging. Just be sure they're respectful and won't offend anyone.

What if I'm not sure what information to include in an obituary?

If you're unsure about what information to include in an obituary, consider consulting with other family members or friends who knew the person well. You can also reach out to a funeral home or crematorium staff member for guidance.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for many years?