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Eleanor P. O'Neil - October 19, 1937 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (Madrid)

Obituary Preview: Madrid: Eleanor G. O’Neil (Packard), age 86, passed away on Saturday, April 27, 2024, at Massena Hospital. Visitation hours will be held on Sunday, May 5, from 1:00 to 3:00 pm at the Phillips Memorial Home in Madrid, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held 10:00 am on Monday, May 6, 2024, at St. John the Baptist Church Madrid, NY with Rev. Garry Giroux officiating. Burial to follow in the Madrid Cemetery.

Eleanor is survived by her loving husband of 66 years, Robert E. O’Neil, and her four daughters, Cyndi (Tim) Hope of Fairfax, VA, Kathy O’Neil of Norfolk, NY, Karen O’Neil of Herndon, VA and Brenda (Don) McCall of Madrid, NY along with her two foster daughters; Elizabeth Stein of Hampstead, NC and Lisa Jenner of Ogdensburg, NY and an exchange student daughter Silvia Azevedo (Kris) Williamson of Armação dos Búzios, Brazil. Eleanor is also survived by eleven grandchildren: Amanda (Chris) Roi, Kathleen (David) Robins, Molly (Kyle Carlson) and Riley Hope, Brock, Heidi, Alyssia and Mathew Simons, Josh O’Neil, Megan and John McCall along with five great-grandsons, Hayden and Zach Roi, MacKinnon and Charles Robins and Anders Carlson. She is survived by her sister, Shirley Watson of Malone, NY and sister-in-law Rita O’Neil of Canton, NY along with numerous nieces and nephews.

Eleanor was born on October 19, 1937, to the late Charles and Florence (Alguire) Packard in Waddington, NY. She is a 1956 graduate of Madrid High school. She married Robert (Bobby) O’Neil on September 28, 1957, at St. John the Baptist Church in Madrid, NY with the late Reverend Maurice O’Neil as officiant.

Eleanor was a member of Norfolk American Legion Post No. 925 Auxiliary. She enjoyed sewing, cross-stitch, gardening, Sudoku and bowling.

In addition to her parents, Eleanor was predeceased by her brother Don Packard and a sister, Alice (Noreen) Brander. Family and friends are welcome to share memories, photos, memories, and condolences online by visiting, www.PhillipsMemorial.com

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Stanley N. Matthie - December 25, 1943 - February 03, 2024

Departed: 02/03/2024 (Madrid)

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Howard A. Rutherford - April 20, 1932 - January 03, 2024

Departed: 01/03/2024 (Madrid)

Obituary Preview: Madrid, NY: Howard A. Rutherford, 91, passed away with his family by his side after a lengthy illness on Wednesday, January 3, 2024. Howard was born to the late Dewitt and Christine (Morris) Rutherford on April 20, 1932 in Madrid, NY. He attended Madrid schools and then enlisted in the United States Army and served honorably during the Korean Conflict. He served in the 11th Airborne Division (The Angels) as a paratrooper specializing in parachute assault operations, and was stationed at US Army Sheridan Kaserne in Augsburg, Germany. He returned home and worked as a contract employee during the St. Lawrence Seaway Project until 1959. He also worked for the Tree Preservation Company, St. Lawrence County Soil and Water Conservation District, and then later went to work at Madrid-Waddington Central School District as a bus mechanic, retiring in 1995 after 28 years of service. After serving in the army, he developed a passion for flying. He took flying lessons from his friend and flight instructor Clarence Petty at the Potsdam Airport and purchased an Aeronca single-engine 2-seater airplane. Many family members and friends have fond memories of taking to the skies with him to see the Madrid area from a different perspective! He also loved gardening, fishing, hunting, beekeeping, being outdoors cutting wood, and making maple syrup “liquid gold” at his sugar shack. He took great pride in producing the purest maple syrup. Howard is survived by his loving children, Irene (Leland) Oshier, Christopher (Shirley) Rutherford, Thomas (Carrie) Rutherford, Daniel (Nicole) Rutherford, Robert (Christine) Rutherford and John (Jennifer) Rutherford. Howard is also survived by his grandchildren; Christie, Gregory, Adam, Emily, Evan, Noah, Ethan, Cooper, Gianna, Luke, Kara and Chloe and great-grandchildren Carson, Sophie and Leo along with a brother Morris Bruce Rutherford. He is also survived by brothers-in-law Josef and Werner Heimbach and their families in Germany, along with several nieces, nephews and cousins. He is predeceased by his wife of 63 years, Elisabeth, who he met while stationed in Germany and who passed away November 10, 2023. He was also predeceased by a daughter Lori Ann in 1969, his sisters and brothers-in-law; Doris (Harry) Williamson, Beverly (Robert) Irving, Noreen (Robert) Seaman and sister in-law Barbara Rutherford. The family is thankful for the compassionate care that he received at Ogdensburg Family Practice, Claxton-Hepburn Medical Center and Hospice of St. Lawrence Valley. Per Howard's wishes, there will be no calling hours or funeral services. There will be a private graveside service held at the convenience of the family at a later date in Madrid Cemetery. If you wish, donations can be made to Hospice of St. Lawrence Valley; 6805 US Route 11, Potsdam, New York, 13676 or Madrid Fire Department; P.O. 69 Box Madrid, New York 13660 in his memory. Family and friends are encouraged to share memories, online condolences and photos of Howard by visiting www.PhillipsMemorial.com

Madrid, NY: Howard A. Rutherford, 91, passed away with his family by his side after a lengthy illness on Wednesday, January 3, 2024.

Howard was born to the late Dewitt and Christine (Morris) Rutherford on April 20, 1932 in Madrid, NY. He attended Madrid schools and then enlisted in the United States Army and served honorably during the Korean Conflict. He served in the 11th Airborne Division (The Angels) as a paratrooper specializing in parachute assault operations, and was stationed at US Army Sheridan Kaserne in Augsburg, Germany. He returned home and worked as a contract employee during the St. Lawrence Seaway Project until 1959. He also worked for the Tree Preservation Company, St. Lawrence County Soil and Water Conservation District, and then later went to work at Madrid-Waddington Central School District as a bus mechanic, retiring in 1995 after 28 years of service.

After serving in the army, he developed a passion for flying. He took flying lessons from his friend and flight instructor Clarence Petty at the Potsdam Airport and purchased an Aeronca single-engine 2-seater airplane. Many family members and friends have fond memories of taking to the skies with him to see the Madrid area from a different perspective! He also loved gardening, fishing, hunting, beekeeping, being outdoors cutting wood, and making maple syrup “liquid gold” at his sugar shack. He took great pride in producing the purest maple syrup.

Howard is survived by his loving children, Irene (Leland) Oshier, Christopher (Shirley) Rutherford, Thomas (Carrie) Rutherford, Daniel (Nicole) Rutherford, Robert (Christine) Rutherford and John (Jennifer) Rutherford. Howard is also survived by his grandchildren; Christie, Gregory, Adam, Emily, Evan, Noah, Ethan, Cooper, Gianna, Luke, Kara and Chloe and great-grandchildren Carson, Sophie and Leo along with a brother Morris Bruce Rutherford. He is also survived by brothers-in-law Josef and Werner Heimbach and their families in Germany, along with several nieces, nephews and cousins.

He is predeceased by his wife of 63 years, Elisabeth, who he met while stationed in Germany and who passed away November 10, 2023. He was also predeceased by a daughter Lori Ann in 1969, his sisters and brothers-in-law; Doris (Harry) Williamson, Beverly (Robert) Irving, Noreen (Robert) Seaman and sister in-law Barbara Rutherford.

The family is thankful for the compassionate care that he received at Ogdensburg Family Practice, Claxton-Hepburn Medical Center and Hospice of St. Lawrence Valley. Per Howard's wishes, there will be no calling hours or funeral services. There will be a private graveside service held at the convenience of the family at a later date in Madrid Cemetery. If you wish, donations can be made to Hospice of St. Lawrence Valley; 6805 US Route 11, Potsdam, New York, 13676 or Madrid Fire Department; P.O. 69 Box Madrid, New York 13660 in his memory. Family and friends are encouraged to share memories, online condolences and photos of Howard by visiting www.PhillipsMemorial.com

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Elisabeth Rutherford - November 10, 1934 - November 10, 2023

Departed: 11/10/2023 (Madrid)

Obituary Preview: Madrid: It is with heavy hearts that the family announces the passing of Elisabeth “Elsie” Rutherford on Friday, November 10, 2023. She passed away peacefully, surrounded by her beloved family on her birthday. She was 89 years old.

Elsie was born November 10, 1934 in Augsburg, Germany and moved to the United States in 1959 to begin raising her loving family. She was the daughter of Maria and Josef Heimbach.

She is survived by her husband of 63 years Howard; and her children, Irene (Leland) Oshier, Christopher (Shirley) Rutherford, Thomas (Carrie) Rutherford, Daniel (Nicole) Rutherford, Robert (Christine) Rutherford and John (Jen) Rutherford.

Elsie is also survived by her grandchildren; Christie, Gregory, Adam, Emily, Evan, Noah, Ethan, Cooper, Gianna, Luke, Kara and Chloe, along with her great-grandchildren; Carson, Sophie and Leo. Elsie is also survived by her brothers, Josef and Werner Heimbach and families, brother-in-law, Morris Rutherford, and sister-in-law, Noreen Seaman, along with many nieces, nephews and cousins.

Elsie was predeceased by an infant daughter in 1969. Also, a special sister-in-law, Barbara Rutherford, a special friend Ellen Martin, sister and brothers-in-law Harry and Doris Williamson, Robert and Beverly Irving, and Robert Seaman.

Her greatest joy was being a mom, raising her children and spending time with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She enjoyed gardening, birdwatching, baking, making German entrees and socializing with friends. Elsie's family would like to thank Hospice of St. Lawrence Valley (Candace and Peggy), Ogdensburg Family Practice (Trudy Kiah) for their care, compassion and the love they showed as well.

Per Elsie's wishes, there will be no public calling hours or funeral services.

A private graveside service will be held in Madrid Cemetery at the convenience of the family at a later date.

Memorial donations may be made in Elsie’s memory to Hospice & Palliative Care of St. Lawrence Valley; 6805 US Highway-11, Potsdam, NY 13676 or Potsdam Humane Society; 17 Madrid Ave. Potsdam, NY 13676. The family has entrusted arrangements to the care of the Phillips Memorial Home in Madrid, New York. Family and friends are welcome to share photos, memories and condolence online by visiting www.PhillipsMemorial.com

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Elaine M. Tyndall - December 18, 1957 - November 01, 2023

Departed: 11/01/2023 (Madrid)

Obituary Preview: MADRID - With heavy hearts, the family of Elaine M. Tyndall, age 65, report her passing at home late Wednesday evening, November 1, 2023 from a brief illness. She was surrounded by her loving family.Calling hours for Elaine are with the Phillips Memorial Home in Madrid, NY on Tuesday November 7, 2023 from 4:00 to 7:00 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Wednesday, November 8, 2023 at 11:00 AM at St. John the Baptist Church with Msgr. Robert Aucoin officiating. Burial to take place following funeral services in the Parish Cemetery.Elaine M. Tyndall was born to the late Cornelius and MaryEllen (Mayville) Trombley in Ogdensburg, NY on December 18, 1957. She attended local school. Graduating from Madrid-Waddington High School in 1975. She soon met and was married to her loving husband of nearly 45 years William “Bill” M. Tyndall in St. John the Baptist Church on July 21, 1979 with Mgrs. Bailey and Rev. Lalonde officiating. They soon began their family and she started work at Moongate Nursing Home in Canton, NY. Elaine worked as a hospitality manager at Best Western in Canton, NY for many years. She then moved on as a waitress, her latest being at Spanky's Diner in Massena, NY. With her free time Elaine enjoyed showing her creativity with her event planning business, Visions 2020.Elaine took great joy in always helping out others and the community. Elaine was part of starting the Madrid Bluegrass Committee. She also helped Repeat Performance with their prom dress program, she also would coordinate window decorating contest during the Christmas season at Spanky's. Elaine's home was always welcoming and inviting for friends and family. Her daughter's childhood friends always looked to her as a second Mom. Always catering to every sleepover need and surprising the girls with spontaneous weekend trips. For several years, Elaine opened her home as a daycare in which she created lifelong bonds with the children and their families. In later years, her home was the place to be for any celebration or gathering. Elaine's motto truly was always "the more the merrier!" She was a giving person that could “make a brick wall smile”. She enjoyed her time spent with family and especially her grandchildren.Elaine is survived by her devoted husband, Bill and their loving children, Carla and Matt Averill of Madrid, NY, Sara and Mike Petrie of Gouverneur, NY and Kaitlin and Brandon French of Madrid, NY. Elaine also leaves behind her eight grandchildren to cherish her memory, Ben, Caleb and Karson Averill, Katelynn, Kenslee, and Callan Petrie, Finn and Jocelynn French; along with her great-grandchildren, Ashlynn and Wyatt.Elaine is also survived by her siblings, William and Sue Trombley of Madrid, NY, Theresa and Rick Dumas of Norfolk, NY along; with several nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents, Elaine is predeceased by her sister, Margaret Galotti.Memorial contributions may be shared with Hospice of St. Lawrence County; 6805 US-11, Potsdam, NY 13676 and the Potsdam Cancer Center; 50 Leroy St, Potsdam, NY 13676. The family has entrusted arrangements to the care of the Phillips Memorial Home in Madrid, NY.Friends and family are welcome to share memories, stories, condolence and photos online, by visiting www.PhillipsMemorial.com

MADRID - With heavy hearts, the family of Elaine M. Tyndall, age 65, report her passing at home late Wednesday evening, November 1, 2023 from a brief illness. She was surrounded by her loving family.

Calling hours for Elaine are with the Phillips Memorial Home in Madrid, NY on Tuesday November 7, 2023 from 4:00 to 7:00 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Wednesday, November 8, 2023 at 11:00 AM at St. John the Baptist Church with Msgr. Robert Aucoin officiating. Burial to take place following funeral services in the Parish Cemetery.

Elaine M. Tyndall was born to the late Cornelius and MaryEllen (Mayville) Trombley in Ogdensburg, NY on December 18, 1957. She attended local school. Graduating from Madrid-Waddington High School in 1975. She soon met and was married to her loving husband of nearly 45 years William “Bill” M. Tyndall in St. John the Baptist Church on July 21, 1979 with Mgrs. Bailey and Rev. Lalonde officiating. They soon began their family and she started work at Moongate Nursing Home in Canton, NY. Elaine worked as a hospitality manager at Best Western in Canton, NY for many years. She then moved on as a waitress, her latest being at Spanky's Diner in Massena, NY. With her free time Elaine enjoyed showing her creativity with her event planning business, Visions 2020.

Elaine took great joy in always helping out others and the community. Elaine was part of starting the Madrid Bluegrass Committee. She also helped Repeat Performance with their prom dress program, she also would coordinate window decorating contest during the Christmas season at Spanky's. Elaine's home was always welcoming and inviting for friends and family. Her daughter's childhood friends always looked to her as a second Mom. Always catering to every sleepover need and surprising the girls with spontaneous weekend trips. For several years, Elaine opened her home as a daycare in which she created lifelong bonds with the children and their families. In later years, her home was the place to be for any celebration or gathering. Elaine's motto truly was always "the more the merrier!" She was a giving person that could “make a brick wall smile”. She enjoyed her time spent with family and especially her grandchildren.

Elaine is survived by her devoted husband, Bill and their loving children, Carla and Matt Averill of Madrid, NY, Sara and Mike Petrie of Gouverneur, NY and Kaitlin and Brandon French of Madrid, NY. Elaine also leaves behind her eight grandchildren to cherish her memory, Ben, Caleb and Karson Averill, Katelynn, Kenslee, and Callan Petrie, Finn and Jocelynn French; along with her great-grandchildren, Ashlynn and Wyatt.

Elaine is also survived by her siblings, William and Sue Trombley of Madrid, NY, Theresa and Rick Dumas of Norfolk, NY along; with several nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents, Elaine is predeceased by her sister, Margaret Galotti.

Memorial contributions may be shared with Hospice of St. Lawrence County; 6805 US-11, Potsdam, NY 13676 and the Potsdam Cancer Center; 50 Leroy St, Potsdam, NY 13676. The family has entrusted arrangements to the care of the Phillips Memorial Home in Madrid, NY. Friends and family are welcome to share memories, stories, condolence and photos online, by visiting www.PhillipsMemorial.com

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Betty M. Barkley - February 13, 1931 - July 30, 2023

Departed: 07/30/2023 (Madrid)

Obituary Preview: Madrid: Betty M. Barkley, age 92 passed away on Sunday, July 30, 2023, surrounded by her loving family. Arrangements are under the care and direction of the Phillips Memorial Home in Madrid. Friends and family may be received on Thursday, August 3, 2023, from 10:00 AM until the time of funeral services at 2:00 pm at the Phillips Memorial Home in Madrid. Burial will follow in Madrid Cemetery.

Betty was born to Alva and Della (Giroux) Hollinger on February 13, 1931, in Potsdam. With the untimely passing of her mother, Betty spent some formative years at the St. Joseph Orphanage in Ogdensburg, NY. There she developed skills and discovered passions that she would enjoy for a lifetime. On May 5, 1950, she married William Barkley, he predeceased her in 2009. Betty was a homemaker, she was a master bread baker, pie maker, and donut fryer. Many organizations benefitted from her creations at fundraisers. She was also an artist; drawing, painting, and especially crocheting.

She is survived by her children; William “Bill” Barkley Jr. and Sherry Barkley of Madrid, NY; Cynthia and Rodger Heinig of Coco Beach, FL; Cathy Gwinn of Madrid, NY and Grandchildren, Eric and Lynne Heinig, Rebecca Heinig, Allison and Joshua Barkley, two great-grandchildren, Caronwyn and Shillam Heinig, along with many nieces and nephews.

In addition to her parents, Betty was predeceased by her siblings Kenneth and William Hollinger, Mildred Cameron, Kathryn Hooper and a son in-law James Gwinn.

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Lucille Burns - September 29, 1929 - July 20, 2023

Departed: 07/20/2023 (Madrid)

Obituary Preview: Madrid, NY. Lucille Matilda Burns age 93 of Madrid, NY. Passed away peacefully into Heaven on Thursday July 20, 2023 surrounded by her loving family.

Arrangements are under the care and guidance of the Phillips Memorial Home 20 church street Madrid.

She was born on September 29, 1929, in North Troy, Vermont to the late Aime and Beatrice (Prive) Dufresne. She was the eldest of the ten Dufresne children. She grew up working on the family dairy farm in the Bakersfield, Vermont. Lucille married Ronald Burns on August 14, 1948. They moved to northern New York State where Ronald found work and eventually started a successful construction business. Ronald and Lucille were married for 67 years. They raised six children in an active, happy home where many lasting memories were made. Lucille had worked in retail at Sunshine Hardware and True Value Hardware stores. She was known for being punctual, frugal and baking the most delicious rolls. Lucille enjoyed her family, her cats, reading, garage sales and her Catholic faith. She had been actively involved for many years at St. John the Baptist Catholic Church in Madrid.

Lucille is predeceased in death by her husband, Ronald, two brothers; Phillip and Roger Dufresne. Three Sisters; Pauline Lawyer; Jeannette Messinger and Lillian Luman. Lucille is survived by her six children; Joanne and Allen Auberger of Madrid; Roddy and Darlene burns of Lisbon; Margaret (Peggy) Murphy of Canton; Roger and Tiffany Burns of Arlington, TX; Ricky and Diane Burns of Canton and Bonny and Dale Adams of Massena, her siblings, Georgette and Dick Hale of Enosburg, VT; Andrew and Carol Dufresne of Bemus Pt, NY; Anita and Robert Longley of Brattleboro, VT and Suzanne and Harold Stone of Bakersfield, VT. She is survived fifteen grandchildren, 32 great grandchildren and 19 great, great grandchildren as well as many step –grandchildren.

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Sharon D Wise - February 09, 1953 - July 17, 2023

Departed: 07/17/2023 (Madrid)

Obituary Preview: Sharon D. Wise, age 70, of Canton, NY passed away on Monday, July 17, 2023.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Phillips Memorial Home 20 Church Street Madrid with date and time of services to be determined at a later date.

Sharon was born on February 9, 1953, to the late Gerald and Veronica (Parker) Dresye.

She was predeceased by her parents Gerald J. Dresye and Veronica M. Dresye; and an infant grand-daughter Emelia J. MaComber.

Sharon is survived by her husband, Herbert E. Wise; children, Kimberley L. Wise-MaComber and her husband, Thomas MaComber, and Gregory A. Wise; her grand-daughter, Evelyn R. MaComber; Sister Sue L. Dresye; and numerous cousins.

She graduated from Holy Family High School in 1971. She earned a B.A. in History from SUNY Potsdam in 1975.

Sharon married Herbert E. Wise of Canton on May 1, 1983, at the United Church of Madrid.

Sharon worked for the Potsdam Museum from 1975 to 1979, and then joined the Bursar’s Office at SUNY Potsdam until 1983. She then worked at SUNY Canton in the Registrar’s Office until her retirement in 2010.

Sharon greatly enjoyed music and shared that love with friends and family. She played soprano bugle from the ages of 15 to 25 in the Roethel Marching Band. She was a member of Sweet Adeline’s (now known as the Acapella North Chorus) for many years, and was a dedicated member of the United Church of Madrid choir.

She was a reaffirmed member of The United Church of Madrid from 2004 until her passing and greatly enjoyed attending services. She proudly served as church president from 2012 to 2018 and was the church historian.

Among her many hobbies, Sharon was a passionate genealogist. She poured many hours into the family history, providing a rich record that can be enjoyed and added to for years to come.

An avid knitter, Sharon will most be remembered for her many handmade blankets, sweaters, hats, and mittens that have been bought, gifted, or donated around the North Country.

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Ronald J. Burke - March 01, 1940 - June 18, 2023

Departed: 06/18/2023 (Madrid)

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Robert Blanes - September 13, 1957 - May 30, 2023

Departed: 05/30/2023 (Madrid)

Obituary Preview: Madrid NY, Robert R. Blanes age 65 passed away peacefully at his residence on Tuesday May 30, 2023 surrounded by his loving family.

Arrangements are under the care and guidance of the Phillips Memorial Home 20 Church Street Madrid, NY.

Born in Buenos Aries, Argentina he was the son of the Late Alfredo and Sofia (Meceras) Blanes.

He was united in marriage to Donna Barnes on January 22 1977 in California. Robert was proud of his heritage and proud to be a citizen of the United States of America. He enlisted in the Army in 1977 and served until 1981.

Robert worked in the distribution business for many years as well as being a Police Officer and a Corrections Officer. Robert was a loving man whose family came first. He was a proud American a proud Veteran and an avid fisherman. He will be missed.

Robert is survived by his loving wife of 46 years Donna L. (Barnes) Blanes; two son’s Christopher and Kary Blanes of Edwards, NY and Antonio R. and Kimberly Blanes of Florida. He is also survived by one Brother Mario and Lezli Blanes of Arizona and a sister Estela –Blanes- Pawelko of Arkansas. He is also survived by 8 Grandchildren and three Great Grandchildren. Several nieces and nephews also survive.

Services are private and at the convenience of the family.

Family and friends are invited to share on-line condolences and memories at www.PhillipsMemorial.com.

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Paul E. Pyrce - October 23, 1931 - May 12, 2023

Departed: 05/12/2023 (Madrid)

Obituary Preview: Madrid:. Paul Pryce Sr. of Potsdam, age 91 passed on to the other side while in his sleep at the Highland Nursing Home in Massena, where he had been a resident for several months. Arrangements are under the care and guidance of the Phillips Memorial Home 20 Church Street Madrid, NY

Paul was born October 23, 1931 in Madrid NY to Alfred Pryce and Vivian (Irish) Pryce. He attended Madrid school until his marriage to Mary Ann Dawley, also of Madrid. They were married for 71 years, until Mary Ann’s death in November 2021. They had two children, Paul Jr., and Joann Mary Pryce.

Paul worked for the town of Madrid for several years as an equipment operator. He worked on the Long Sault Dam Project on the Seaway Construction as a crew foreman. Later worked at the Madrid Waddington school as a custodian/bus driver. At the same time, he owned and operated a backhoe and trucking business until his retirement.

His happiest times were when he was operating his hoe or some other piece of equipment. During his retirement, he enjoyed gardening, cutting logs and firewood, and especially bowling.

Paul is survived by a sister, Donna Kay Tracey, and a son, Paul Jr., and Karla. Three grandchildren and seven great grandchildren. He is predeceased by his parents, his wife Mary Ann, brothers Harold, Gene, Robert, and sisters Pauline, and Sharon.

A grave side service will be held on Thursday May 18, 2023 at the Madrid Cemetery at 10:00am with Pastor Lee Sweeny officiating.

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Marion McIntosh - March 10, 1931 - January 27, 2023

Departed: 01/27/2023 (Madrid)

Obituary Preview: Massena: Marion McIntosh, 91, formerly of County Route 14, Canton, NY, passed away peacefully at home on Friday January 27, 2023.

Marion was born on March 10, 1931 in Wuppertal-Barmen, Germany to the late Dr. Ludwig Auerbach and Anneliese Auerbach (Abel). She graduated as Valedictorian in 1949 from Waddington Union Free School. She continued her education at St. Lawrence University receiving her BA and Master’s degree in Education. She worked as a Science teacher at Madrid-Waddington High School from 1954-1986. She was an officer of NYS Science Teachers Association.

Marion married Ronald “Snook” McIntosh on August 3, 1951 in Louisville, NY and resided in Waddington, NY until they moved to Bucks Bridge in 1954.

Marion is survived by her daughter, Anna Heller, her son, Richard McIntosh and three grandchildren, Anthony McIntosh, Jessica McIntosh, and Benjamin Heller.

Memorial contributions can be sent to Potsdam Humane Society; 17 Madrid Ave, Potsdam, NY 13676 West Potsdam Fire Department; 801 Co Rd 34, Potsdam, NY 13676; Planned Parenthood; 9 Miner Street Rd, Canton, NY 13617, Hospice of St. Lawrence County; 6805 US-11, Potsdam, NY 13676 or any other secular charity of choice.

Arrangements are under the care and direction of the Phillips Memorial Home, Madrid, NY. Family and friends are encouraged to share memories, photos and condolences online by visiting www.PhillipsMemorial.com

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Robert James Buffham - March 06, 1957 - January 08, 2023

Departed: 01/08/2023 (Madrid)

Obituary Preview: Potsdam, NY. Robert J. Buffham, age 66, passed away on Sunday, January 8, 2023.Born in Canton, NY he was the son of the Late James R. and Nancy H. (Burke) Buffham.Robert was an avid woodworker, coach, sportsman, outdoorsman, and nature lover. He was a loving father of his three children, and proud grandfather to four beautiful girls. He enjoyed teaching his children and grandchildren about fishing, hunting, and the outdoors. He was very involved in various different sports, and always was involved with pulling the best pranks on those who he loved. He always had amazing stories to tell, and loved to laugh. Whether it was fishing with his two sons, taking his grandchildren for rides on the four-wheeler, or showing his daughter his latest woodworking piece he was creating, he always had time for his family and thought fondly of them. Robert was a wonderful father, husband, brother, uncle, friend and provider. He was always dependable for those he cared for. Robert is survived by his loving wife Denise (Shorkey) Buffham; two sons and a daughter, Matthew Buffham of Johnnsonville, NY; Kevin Buffham of Madrid and Erika and Nathan (Buffham) Witkop of Sedona AZ. He is also survived by his two sisters, Debra and Stephen Hanson of Madrid, NY and Brenda and Daniel Evans of Niskayuna, NY along with four Grandchildren, Aurora and Tala Witkop and Samantha & Coralyn Buffham. Many nieces and nephews also surviveFriends and relatives are invited to call on Thursday January 12, 2023 at the Phillips Memorial Home 20 Church Street Madrid NY from 10:00 am to 2:00pm a Mass of Christian Burial will take place at St. John the Baptist Church in Madrid at 2:00pm with the Rev. Garry Giroux officiating. Burial will take place in the spring at the family’s convenience.Family and friends are invited to share on line condolences and memories at www.PhillipsMemorial.com

Potsdam, NY. Robert J. Buffham, age 66, passed away on Sunday, January 8, 2023.

Born in Canton, NY he was the son of the Late James R. and Nancy H. (Burke) Buffham.

Robert was an avid woodworker, coach, sportsman, outdoorsman, and nature lover. He was a loving father of his three children, and proud grandfather to four beautiful girls. He enjoyed teaching his children and grandchildren about fishing, hunting, and the outdoors. He was very involved in various different sports, and always was involved with pulling the best pranks on those who he loved. He always had amazing stories to tell, and loved to laugh. Whether it was fishing with his two sons, taking his grandchildren for rides on the four-wheeler, or showing his daughter his latest woodworking piece he was creating, he always had time for his family and thought fondly of them. Robert was a wonderful father, husband, brother, uncle, friend and provider. He was always dependable for those he cared for. Robert is survived by his loving wife Denise (Shorkey) Buffham; two sons and a daughter, Matthew Buffham of Johnnsonville, NY; Kevin Buffham of Madrid and Erika and Nathan (Buffham) Witkop of Sedona AZ. He is also survived by his two sisters, Debra and Stephen Hanson of Madrid, NY and Brenda and Daniel Evans of Niskayuna, NY along with four Grandchildren, Aurora and Tala Witkop and Samantha & Coralyn Buffham. Many nieces and nephews also survive

Friends and relatives are invited to call on Thursday January 12, 2023 at the Phillips Memorial Home 20 Church Street Madrid NY from 10:00 am to 2:00pm a Mass of Christian Burial will take place at St. John the Baptist Church in Madrid at 2:00pm with the Rev. Garry Giroux officiating. Burial will take place in the spring at the family’s convenience. Family and friends are invited to share on line condolences and memories at www.PhillipsMemorial.com

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A Convenient Location

Situated at 20 Church Street, Madrid, NY 13660, Phillips Memorial Home is easily accessible and conveniently located for families from all walks of life. The funeral home's central location makes it an ideal choice for those seeking a dignified and meaningful way to say goodbye to their loved ones.

A Comprehensive Range of Services

Phillips Memorial Home offers a wide range of services designed to meet the unique needs of each family. From traditional funeral services to cremation options, memorial ceremonies, and pre-planning arrangements, the experienced staff at Phillips Memorial Home will guide you through every step of the process with sensitivity and compassion.

Personalized Funeral Services

The team at Phillips Memorial Home understands that every individual is unique, and that their funeral service should reflect their personality, interests, and accomplishments. They work closely with families to create personalized tributes that celebrate the life and legacy of their loved one. From music selection to flower arrangements, every detail is carefully considered to ensure a meaningful and memorable experience.

Cremation Options

In recognition of the growing demand for cremation services, Phillips Memorial Home offers a range of cremation options to suit individual preferences. From direct cremation to cremation with a memorial service, the funeral home's experienced staff will help families navigate the cremation process with dignity and respect.

Pre-Planning Arrangements

Phillips Memorial Home encourages families to consider pre-planning their funeral arrangements. By doing so, individuals can ensure that their wishes are respected, alleviate the burden on their loved ones, and lock in costs at today's prices. The funeral home's knowledgeable staff will guide you through the pre-planning process with compassion and understanding.

A Commitment to Community

Phillips Memorial Home is deeply committed to the community it serves. The funeral home participates in local events, supports charitable organizations, and provides educational resources to help families cope with grief and loss. This commitment to community is reflected in the funeral home's dedication to providing exceptional service and care to each family they serve.

Grief Support and Resources

Losing a loved one can be a devastating experience, but it doesn't have to be faced alone. Phillips Memorial Home offers a range of grief support services and resources to help families navigate the grieving process. From bereavement counseling to online resources and support groups, the funeral home's compassionate staff is dedicated to supporting families every step of the way.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who knew them. They help to notify people of the passing, share details about the funeral or memorial service, and provide an opportunity for loved ones to pay tribute and share memories.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by the family members or close friends of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. The writer will gather information from the family and create a concise and respectful summary of the person's life.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral or memorial service, burial arrangements, and any charitable donations in lieu of flowers.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words. Longer obituaries may be more suitable for online platforms or memorial websites.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the notice and make it more engaging for readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and requirements. They may have specific guidelines for formatting, word count, and deadlines. You can usually find this information on their website or by calling their office.

What is the cost of publishing an obituary in a newspaper?

The cost varies depending on the newspaper, location, and length of the obituary. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to several hundred dollars for a print publication. Online obituary platforms may offer free or low-cost options.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary before they pass away. This can be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and legacy. However, it's essential to discuss your wishes with your loved ones to ensure they understand your intentions.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites like Ancestry.com or Newspapers.com. Local libraries or historical societies may also have archives of past newspapers that you can access.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, corrections or edits can be made if there are errors or inaccuracies in the original obituary. However, this may depend on the publication's policies and deadlines. It's essential to review the obituary carefully before submitting it for publication.

What is a death notice versus an obituary?

A death notice is a brief announcement that simply states the person's name, age, date of death, and funeral information. An obituary is a more detailed biography that provides additional context about the person's life.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber and serious. Including humorous stories or anecdotes can help capture the personality and spirit of the deceased.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive issues or controversies surrounding the deceased's life, it's best to approach these topics with tact and discretion. Consider consulting with family members or close friends to determine what information should be shared publicly.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes! Quotes, poems, or lyrics that were meaningful to the deceased can add a personal touch to the obituary and provide comfort to those reading it.

What is a living obituary?

A living obituary is a written tribute to someone who is still alive. It's often used as a way to honor individuals who have made significant contributions or achievements during their lifetime.

How do I write an obituary for someone who was cremated?

The process is similar to writing an obituary for someone who was buried. Be sure to include information about any memorial services or celebrations of life that will take place.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes! Many online platforms specialize in hosting digital obituaries. These websites often offer features like guest books, photo galleries, and donation links.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe varies depending on the publication's schedule and deadlines. For print newspapers, expect 1-5 business days for publication. Online platforms may publish immediately or within 24 hours.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

In some cases, yes! If you want to republish an obituary on a special anniversary or birthday of the deceased, contact the original publication or online platform to inquire about their policies.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking assistance from a funeral home staff member, professional writer, or online resources that provide templates and guidance.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Absolutely! Many families prefer that donations be made to a favorite charity instead of sending flowers. Be sure to include the charity's name and contact information in the obituary.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

Diligently fact-check dates, names, and other details with family members and records. A single error can cause unnecessary distress for loved ones.

Can I write multiple versions of an obituary for different audiences?

Yes! You may want to create separate versions for different publications, online platforms, or social media channels. Tailor each version to its intended audience while maintaining respect and dignity for the deceased.