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Located in the heart of New Britain, Connecticut, Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home has been a beacon of comfort and support for families during their most difficult times. With a rich history and a commitment to excellence, this esteemed funeral home has earned a reputation as one of the most trusted and respected in the region.

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Founded on a foundation of compassion, integrity, and dedication, Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home has been serving the community for generations. The funeral home's story began with a simple yet profound mission: to provide families with personalized, dignified, and meaningful funeral services that honor the lives of their loved ones. Today, this commitment remains unwavering, with the funeral home's team of experienced professionals working tirelessly to ensure that every family receives the care and attention they deserve.

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Albert J. Thibodeau - March 28, 1922 - February 03, 2024

Departed: 02/03/2024 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: Our Father and Grandfather, Albert “Al” J. Thibodeau, of New Britain, passed away at the young age of 101, on Saturday, February 3, 2024 at The Hospital of Central Connecticut with his dear grandson, Scott Thibodeau, by his bedside. Even though a failing heart took him away from this world, his loving heart left a beacon of light and love to all who knew him. Al was born in Haverhill, Massachusetts, on March 28, 1922, 1 of 9 children. He married Agnes Burke on May 25, 1947, and together for 57 years, built their life and family in New Britain where they raised their four sons, Gary, Billy, Tommy and Jimmy. Al resided in New Britain for 70 years. Al served in the US army during WWII. He worked at Pratt & Whitney testing engines until his retirement in 1980. Al’s main passion throughout his life was his love of bowling where he enjoyed participating in many bowling leagues in Plainville at Lessard Lanes, bowling a score of 220 at 95 years of age. Al was also a puzzle and book enthusiast and enjoyed watching his favorite team, the Boston Red Sox. His fondest memories was taking his family on vacation to Salisbury Beach in Massachusetts. Most of all, Al cherished every precious moment he spent with his family, especially his 9 grandchildren and 13 great grandchildren. The family will be forever grateful for the compassionate and loving care provided to our Father by his son, Bill and loving wife, Rosanne, and his “best friend” and grandson, Scott Thibodeau. Al was predeceased by his wife, Agnes Burke Thibodeau and is survived by his four sons, Gary Thibodeau, William Thibodeau and wife, Rosanne, Thomas Thibodeau and his wife, Suzanne and James Thibodeau and his wife, Holli, and his above mentioned grandchildren and great grandchildren. We invite you to join our family as we remember and celebrate the life of Albert Thibodeau on Tuesday, February 13, 2024 at 10:00 am at Shaker-Hill Funeral Home (Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home, 764 Farmington Avenue, New Britain, Ct. followed by a reception at the Crystal Ballroom, 211 Farmington Avenue, New Britain, Connecticut. Please come and share your memories and stories of the time we shared together. A private service for burial will be held at a later date. Our Father’s message to all is “Don’t cry, be happy.”

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Elizabeth A. Wilson - May 12, 1944 - January 24, 2024

Departed: 01/24/2024 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: Elizabeth Alice (Fraulino) Wilson passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on January 24, 2024 at Middlesex Hospital in Middletown, Connecticut after a long illness with complications from diabetes. She was born on May 12, 1944 to the late Elizabeth Alice (Wilcox) and Amilcare Rosario Fraulino in Meriden, Connecticut. Elizabeth was the wife of the late Thomas Wilson of Middletown, Connecticut. Elizabeth was a graduate of Portland High School Class of 1962. She worked at Middlesex Hospital for many years until her retirement. Her family was her primary focus. She leaves to mourn her her devoted daughter Shana (Wilson) Cole (John), her devoted son William “Bill” Wilson (Laura), and her beloved son Thomas (Wilson) Vanderford (Shelly) of Corinth, Mississippi, her beloved granddaughter Heather (Demoranville) Ocasio (Lionel), her beloved grandson Charles Cole (Cailyn), her beloved grandson David Roman, her beloved granddaughter Madison Paige (Blake DeShazier), her adored four great-grandchildren Aiden Ocasio, Thomas James (TJ), Deya Lyric, and Navy Moon. She also leaves her sister Priscilla (Fraulino) Harkness, and her sister Violet (Fraulino) Agro. She also has several nieces and nephews. Elizabeth was predeceased by seven half-brothers and sisters: Anna Cecilia Fraulino, Samuel Michael Fraulino, Frank George Fraulino, William Michael Fraulino, Vincentia “Jenny” Elizabeth Fraulino, Columbia Rose Fraulino (Elizabeth’s Godmother), and Amilcare Joseph Fraulino. A memorial will be held on Saturday January 27, 2024 at 2:00 PM at Northford Community Church, 4 Old Post Road, Northford, Connecticut 06472 .

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Gloria Talarico - August 04, 1940 - January 22, 2024

Departed: 01/22/2024 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: Gloria Jean (Lestini) Talarico, 83, devoted wife of Philip L. Talarico, passed away in the early morning on Monday, January 22, 2024, in New Britain, CT after a courageous battle with Alzheimer's disease.

She was born on August 4, 1940 in New Britain, CT, the eldest child of Gregory and Lena (Daversa) Lestini, and was raised in New Britain with her two younger sisters, Vicki and Rose, as part of a large and loving extended family. A lifelong resident, Gloria graduated from New Britain High School in 1958 with a passion for playing music and plans to become a teacher. She earned her Bachelor's degree from Central Connecticut State University in 1962, before later returning to earn her Master's degree as well. She married her husband and partner of 62 years, Phil, on September 2, 1961 and together they shared their lives in love and raised their three sons: Jimmy, Gary, and Philip.

Gloria began her career as a dedicated elementary school teacher in New Britain public schools where she worked for many years before eventually taking a position at St. Mary School in Newington, CT. There she taught, cared for, and nurtured her many students for the rest of her career, until her retirement in 2006. Throughout her life, she was also a faithful parishioner of St. Ann Church in New Britain, where she volunteered, sang in the choir, and served as both a lector and Eucharistic Minister. Gloria was a deeply religious woman who truly strove to apply her Christian values to all she did.

A beloved daughter, sister, cousin, wife, mother, aunt, and grandmother, Gloria exemplified what it means to be a family matriarch. She valued making memories and sharing meaningful experiences with those she loved. She enjoyed traveling both in the United States and abroad, seeing shows, and attending sports games. As both a gifted baker and cook, Gloria never missed an opportunity to bring her family and friends together around a delicious Italian meal to mark a holiday, birthday, or simply Sunday supper. Her caring spirit, kindness, generosity, and loving nature was unmatched and she will be deeply missed by all that were fortunate to know her.

Gloria is survived by her husband Philip Talarico, her sons, James; Gary (and his step-daughter Ashley Merrill); and Philip (Rebecca) Talarico, her sisters, Victoria (Paul) Wetowitz and Rosemarie Lestini, her niece Renae Wetowitz, her nephew Ryan (Cristina) Wetowitz and their children, Drew and Carson, many cousins, extended family, and friends who will keep her memory alive, and her granddaughter, Alicia Talarico (and her partner Pete Howard), with whom she shared a special and unbreakable bond. In addition to her parents, she is also predeceased by her daughter-in-law, Rebecca Rodriguez Talarico, and many aunts and uncles.

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Ryan Marie Feraco - February 25, 1985 - January 22, 2024

Departed: 01/22/2024 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Ryan Marie Feraco.

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Shirlene Patricia Artis - March 17, 1945 - January 16, 2024

Departed: 01/16/2024 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Shirlene Patricia Artis.

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John Stanley Lewko - October 11, 1954 - January 16, 2024

Departed: 01/16/2024 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for John Stanley Lewko.

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Allenstine Druscilla Willis - February 07, 1926 - January 14, 2024

Departed: 01/14/2024 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: Mrs. Allenstine Willis, widow of Chief Clifford J. Willis, has passed.

“Sparky,” as she was affectionately known, was born to Norman and Leila Sparks of New York City. She attended Hartford Public schools. She was a graduate of Johnson C. Smith University, Central Connecticut State University, and student at Yale School of Nursing. She began her career as a bacteriologist for the Connecticut Department of Public Health. She was among the first African Americans employed as a public health scientist for the state. Upon her marriage, she continued her career as a science teacher in the New Britain Public School system. Together with Clifford, she raised three children- Clifford Jr., Monica, and David.

Allenstine was always an advocate for community advancement through education, civil rights, and justice. Her active membership and leadership roles in The New Britain chapter of the American Federation of Teachers (AFT), NAACP, Connecticut Democratic Women, American Association of University Women (AAUW)and Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated supported these values. In 1950, she was a founding member of the first Connecticut chapter of Alpha Kappa Alpha-Epsilon Omicron Omega- in Hartford. She enjoyed patronizing the visual and performing Arts. Family and friends were able to share these interests as she organized bus trips to New York City and Boston to attend live theater, concerts, and tour historic museums.

Her legacy continues through the lives of her family, friends, and former students.

Her Celebration of Life will be on Saturday March 2, 2024, at the New Britain Museum of American Art 56 Lexington Street at noon.

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Stephen Michael Picciano - June 29, 1958 - January 05, 2024

Departed: 01/05/2024 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Stephen Michael Picciano.

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Paul Michael Aparo - February 05, 1948 - January 03, 2024

Departed: 01/03/2024 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: Paul Aparo, 75, of New Britain passed away on January 3, 2024 after a brave battle with cancer.

Paul was a graduate of Pulaski High School and UCONN. He retired from the Traveler’s Insurance Company, IT department, after many years of service. After retiring, he became an AARP tax aide volunteer.

Paul was an avid gardener, known for growing the best tomatoes ever. He also enjoyed golfing and barbequing on the grill in the summer months.

Paul was predeceased by his parents Paul T. and Dorothy (Karcz) Aparo. He is survived by his sister, Susan.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday, January 13, 2024 at 10:30 am at the Faith Bible Church, 168 Unionville Ave, Plainville, CT.

Memorial donations may be made to an animal shelter of your choice, New Britain Roots Program, or Faith Bible Church. To share a memory of Paul, or to extend condolences to the Aparo Family, please visit www.shakerfuneralhome.com.

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Jason Todd Graff - October 14, 1979 - January 01, 2024

Departed: 01/01/2024 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Jason Todd Graff.

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Dorothy Marie Zaleski - July 04, 1926 - December 28, 2023

Departed: 12/28/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Dorothy Marie Zaleski.

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Claudette M. Pirruccio - October 16, 1967 - December 23, 2023

Departed: 12/23/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Claudette M. Pirruccio.

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Maria Isabel Soto - July 08, 1962 - December 15, 2023

Departed: 12/15/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: In loving memory of Maria Soto, a beacon of warmth and kindness. Born July 8, 1962, in Mayaguez,, Puerto Rico, and raised in New York City, Maria, the daughter of the late Carmen and Antonio Soto, transitioned peacefully surrounded by love on December 15, 2023 at the Hospital of Central CT in New Britain.

Predeceased by her only son, Wilfredo Fajardo (Willito), and the father of her children, Wilfredo Fajardo (Willie), Maria is survived by her four daughters: Roseanne Fajardo, Willma Fajardo, Lillian Vargas, and Kyara Vargas. Her legacy extends through her grandchildren: Angel (Aj), Angel Isaiah, Estefani, Joniel, Jonel, Evana, Roberto, Amari, Mayzin, Janoah, and great-grandchildren Kaylani and Christian.

In Maria's presence, joy flourished. Her infectious smile illuminated every room, and her compassionate spirit embraced all in need. Maria's unwavering love for family defined her essence. Nothing surpassed the importance of family to her. A celebration of Maria's life will be held on Wednesday, December 20th, at Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home, 764 Farmington Ave. New Britain. Calling hours commence at 5 PM, with a service beginning at 7:30 PM. Let us gather to honor a remarkable soul whose love and light will forever echo in our hearts. To share a memory of Maria or to extend condolences to the her family, please visit www.shakerfuneralhome.com

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Jacqueline Rae Anderson - September 03, 1938 - December 15, 2023

Departed: 12/15/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: Jacqueline Rae (Kenneson) Anderson, “Jackie”, 85, of Bristol, passed away peacefully on December 15, 2023, at the Village Green of Bristol. Jackie was the loving wife of 62 years to her husband Robert Anderson until he passed away in January 2023. Together with her husband and young children, she learned Bible truths and was baptized as one of Jehovah’s Witnesses in April of 1972. Jackie was a registered nurse for some 40 years. After retiring, she and her husband moved to Jumping Branch, WV in 2001. There she was actively involved in the Hinton Congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses helping others to learn Bible truths along with her husband. She enjoyed retirement and the simplicity of life for 18 years before moving back to CT.

Jackie was quiet and timid, and sacrificed her time and energy by taking care of her family and willing to help others in need. Her most special role was being Grandma to her only grandson, Jarron.

Jackie loved to spend time reading, doing jigsaw puzzles, word puzzles, and crosswords. She was an avid reader. It only took a few days for her to finish a book and then she was onto the next one. Her children often said that she probably read enough books throughout her life that could fill an entire library. She enjoyed being together with her family and late husband throughout the years. Her favorite memories included a vacation in Hawaii, going to Tanglewood music festivals, picnics, and adventurous rides in the country.

Jackie is survived by her three children, Cheryl Anderson; Gail and her husband Andre Richli; and Scott Anderson and his wife Arlene; her only grandchild Jarron Anderson Richli and his wife Sherri; her sister Judy Bianca; nieces and nephews; and a large family of spiritual brothers and sisters. She was predeceased by her sister Roberta Ahrlich and brother Raymond Kenneson.

We take comfort in the fact that very soon our mother will be reunited with her family and friends with the ability to serve her heavenly father for all eternity.

Our special thanks to the staff of Village Green of Bristol for the care she received and the special attention they provided.

Family and friends are invited to call on Friday (January 5, 2024) from 5 to 7 PM at the Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home, 764 Farmington Ave. New Britain. Burial will be private and at the convenience of the family. To share a memory of Jacqueline, or to extend condolences to the Anderson Family, please visit www.shakerfuneralhome.com.

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Mariana Fontanez Cortes - June 26, 1954 - December 12, 2023

Departed: 12/12/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Mariana Fontanez Cortes.

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Alice B. Sklar - April 01, 1932 - December 06, 2023

Departed: 12/06/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: Alice Sklar, born on April 1, 1932, in Hartford CT, passed away peacefully on December 6, 2023 in West Hartford CT. When Alice met Robert Sklar, their worlds stood still. This was love at first sight like none other. They shared their love and affection for each other for 65 years of marriage. Together they raised three beautiful girls. They were the loving parents of Risa and Gordon Blair of Miami Shores, Beth Sklar and Robert Wyllie of Niantic, and Mona and Andy Starczewski of New Britain. She was the cherished grandmother of Matthew and Danielle Ryan and their two sons, Jackson and Theodore, Benjamin Ryan and Sanna Piispanen, and James and Lizbeth Ryan. Alice loved to be around people. She studied teacher education at Willimantic State Teacher's College and worked at The Children's Village, a home for needy youngsters. She also worked at G. Fox & Company, Cigna, and the Hartford Conservatory in administration. She loved to knit, crochet, do crafts , garden, refinish furniture and was an amazingly talented artist who loved to paint, do ceramics, and take photos with her Canon AE1. She loved printing her photos and mailing them as postcards to friends and family. Alice , Bob and the girls enjoyed their time at the shoreline, fishing, camping , cooking and wading. Alice very much enjoyed spending winters in Puerto Rico where Bob often joined her as she worshipped the sun and the ocean. Alice, known as Alicia , la reina (queen) de Boqueron, always brought joy to those around her and had many friends. She lived a long and beautiful life and will be missed. The Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home and the Hebrew Funeral Association are assisting the Sklar family with services. Donations in Alice’s memory may be made to the American Heart Association. https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83433295531?pwd=ckJZdmhiU1haWVd6UWFRUmt5RmJVdz09 Meeting ID: 834 3329 5531 Passcode: 764827

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Angel Luis Maldonado - May 18, 1934 - December 04, 2023

Departed: 12/04/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Angel Luis Maldonado.

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Annette Sirois - April 19, 1937 - November 25, 2023

Departed: 11/25/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: Annette Sirois, 86, of New Britain, passed away on November 25, 2023 at the Pines in Bristol. She was the widow of Reno Sirois. Born in Madawaska, Maine. She is a daughter of the late Henry V.O. and Lena (Ouellette) Cyr. She attended the Lincoln School 17 in Madawaska. Annette worked as a nanny when she was younger in Maine. She moved to Connecticut in the 1950s working as a life long factory worker, eventually retiring from Accurate Brazing in Newington. Annette met and married Reno Sirois and had two children; the late Sandra Corriveau and Donald Sirois. She leaves behind her son, Donald Sirois and his wife Candice; six grandchildren, Eric and Olivia Corriveau and Haley, Riley, Kyle, and Mallory Sirois. She also leaves two sisters, Diane Bouchard and Rose Marie Beaulieu; three brothers, Emile, Raymond and Delmer Cyr. Besides her daughter Sandra, Annette was predeceased by seven sisters, Lorraine, Bernadette, Jeannette, Jacqueline, Florence, Verna, and Rena and two brothers, Edwin and Joseph.

Funeral rites for Annette will be held Friday, December 1, 2023 at 10:30 am in St. Katharine Drexel Parish at St. Jerome Church, 1010 Slater Road, New Britain, CT. We will meet directly at the church. Committal service and final resting place will be in Rose Hill Memorial Park, 580 Elm Street, Rocky Hill, CT.

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Brian Michael Killeen - June 22, 1974 - November 22, 2023

Departed: 11/22/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Brian Michael Killeen.

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Mildred J. Walker - September 07, 1941 - November 21, 2023

Departed: 11/21/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Mildred J. Walker.

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Glenda Pate - Unknown - November 10, 2023

Departed: 11/10/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Glenda Pate.

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Mary Ann Pagano Nardelli - March 22, 1932 - November 08, 2023

Departed: 11/08/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Mary Ann Pagano Nardelli.

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Helen M. Carey - April 13, 1944 - October 28, 2023

Departed: 10/28/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Helen M. Carey.

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Arlette Coelho - January 20, 1938 - October 28, 2023

Departed: 10/28/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: Arlette Coelho, 85, of New Britain, passed away peacefully on Saturday afternoon, October 28, 2023.

Born on January 20, 1938, Arlette was always independent, strong, and active. She was dedicated to her teaching career, and was chosen to teach in France for several years. A breast cancer survivor, Arlette was an accomplished cook, gardener, and had a passion for quilting. She also volunteered her time with many nonprofit organizations to share her knowledge and experience with others.

Her deepest devotion was the special love she shared with her parents. She honored them throughout her life, and graciously filled the role of primary caregiver for several years.

Arlie was predeceased by her cherished parents, Angelina & Antonio, her dear brother Walter, and her beloved cousin Barbara.

She is survived by her sister Albertina Coelho of Charlotte, NC, sister-in-law, Sandy Coelho of Windsor Locks, CT; nephew Christopher Chausse of New Bedford, MA; goddaughter Leslie Diangelo of Plymouth, MA, and several cousins, extended family and close friends.

Arlette was loved by so many. Her positive outlook, generous spirit, and kind heart left an impression that will forever be remembered in our hearts.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Wednesday (November 8, 2023) at 11:00 AM at St. Joachim Parish in St. Mary’s Church, 544 Main St. New Britain. Committal service and final resting place will be in St. Mary Cemetery, 1141 Stanley St., New Britain. Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home is assisting the family. To Share a memory of Arlette or to extend condolences to the Coelho Family, please visit www.shakerfuneralhome.com.

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William Alexander Hargrave - September 27, 1948 - October 26, 2023

Departed: 10/26/2023 (New Britain)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for William Alexander Hargrave.

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The Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home is situated in a beautifully maintained facility at 764 Farmington Avenue, New Britain, CT, 06053. This stunning building provides a serene and comforting environment for families to gather, reflect, and celebrate the lives of their loved ones. The funeral home's interior is tastefully decorated, featuring warm colors, elegant furnishings, and ample natural light. The spacious chapels and visitation rooms are designed to accommodate families of all sizes, ensuring that everyone feels welcome and comfortable during their time of need.

Personalized Funeral Services Tailored to Your Needs

No two individuals are alike, and neither should their funeral services be. At Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home, the team understands the importance of creating personalized tributes that reflect the unique personality, interests, and spirit of the deceased. From traditional funerals to cremation services, memorial gatherings, and celebrations of life, the funeral home offers a wide range of options to suit every family's preferences and budget. Their experienced staff will work closely with you to design a customized service that honors your loved one's memory and provides comfort to those who are grieving.

Expert Guidance Every Step of the Way

Planning a funeral can be an overwhelming task, especially during a time of great emotional distress. That's why the team at Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home is dedicated to providing expert guidance and support throughout the entire process. From helping you navigate the complexities of funeral planning to assisting with paperwork, logistics, and other details, their compassionate professionals will be by your side every step of the way. They understand that every family is unique, and they'll work tirelessly to ensure that your needs are met with sensitivity, respect, and professionalism.

Caring for Families Beyond the Funeral

The care provided by Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home doesn't end with the funeral service. They recognize that grief is a journey that continues long after the ceremony is over, and they're committed to supporting families through this difficult time. Through their bereavement resources and aftercare programs, they offer ongoing support, guidance, and connection to help families heal and find closure.

A Commitment to Community Involvement

Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the New Britain community and is dedicated to giving back through various initiatives and partnerships. They believe in supporting local organizations, charities, and events that make a positive impact on the lives of their neighbors. By doing so, they demonstrate their commitment to building stronger relationships and fostering a sense of community that extends far beyond their funeral home's walls.

A Legacy of Trust and Excellence

For generations, Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home has been a trusted name in New Britain's funeral industry. Their legacy is built on a foundation of excellence, compassion, and dedication to serving families with dignity and respect. As you navigate the difficult days ahead, know that you can rely on the experienced professionals at Paul A. Shaker Funeral Home to guide you through every step of the funeral planning process. With their expertise, empathy, and commitment to excellence, you can trust that your loved one will receive the farewell they deserve.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and funeral or memorial services.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased, although it can also be written by a funeral home or other third party. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, education, career, hobbies, and achievements.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the individual's life. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the notice and help people remember the deceased.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online publication?

The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication. Some newspapers have online forms or email addresses where you can submit the obituary, while others may require you to contact them directly.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication and the length of the notice. Some online publications offer free or low-cost options, while traditional newspapers may charge several hundred dollars.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it is becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life is celebrated in the way you want.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a longer, more detailed notice that provides additional information about the person's life.

Can I include humor or personality in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the deceased. Including humorous anecdotes or quotes can help make the notice more engaging and celebratory.

How do I handle sensitive or difficult information in an obituary?

If there is sensitive or difficult information about the deceased that you're not sure how to handle, it's best to err on the side of caution and omit it or discuss it with family members before including it in the obituary.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased and support a good cause.

How long after someone passes away should an obituary be published?

The timing of when to publish an obituary varies depending on cultural and personal traditions. Typically, it's published within a few days of the person's passing, but it can be delayed if necessary.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

Yes, some publications allow you to republish an obituary at a later date, such as on the anniversary of the person's passing. This can be a meaningful way to continue celebrating their life.

What if I need to make corrections to an already-published obituary?

If you need to make corrections to an already-published obituary, contact the publication directly as soon as possible. They will work with you to correct the error and republish the revised notice.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including quotes or poems that were meaningful to the deceased can add depth and personality to the notice.

How do I ensure that an online obituary remains available over time?

Some online publications archive their obituaries indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period. Be sure to check with the publication about their archiving policies.

Can I create a digital archive of an obituary?

Yes, there are several ways to create a digital archive of an obituary, such as saving it as a PDF or creating a memorial website. This can be a meaningful way to preserve the notice for future generations.

What if I'm unsure about what information to include in an obituary?

If you're unsure about what information to include in an obituary, consider consulting with family members or friends who knew the deceased well. You can also seek guidance from a funeral home or other professional.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media can be a powerful tool for sharing news of a loved one's passing and connecting with others who are grieving.

How do I handle condolences and messages from readers?

You can choose to receive condolences and messages from readers through email, social media, or other means. Be sure to respond thoughtfully and graciously to those who reach out.

What if I need additional support or guidance while writing an obituary?

If you need additional support or guidance while writing an obituary, consider reaching out to a funeral home, grief counselor, or other professional for assistance. They can provide valuable guidance and support during this difficult time.