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Tariq Rasul Christopher Smith - July 09, 1992 - February 21, 2022

Departed: 02/21/2022 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Tariq Rasul Smith, age 29, passed away on February 21, 2022 in his apartment in Greenville, North Carolina after battling a lifelong illness of sickle cell disease.Tariq was born on July 9, 1992 in Spanish Town, Jamaica. He graduated from Excelsior High School in Kingston, Jamaica. Shortly after graduating, Tariq moved to Cameron, North Carolina, USA to live with his aunt Sandra Myers and her two daughters Safiya Myers and Sha’Air Hawkins. Sandra was happy to take him under her wings, and Safiya and Sha’Air loved having Tariq in their home. It wasn’t long before Tariq started calling his aunt Sandra “mom” and his cousins Safiya and Sha’Air “sis.” Tariq was very happy living in the States and would frequently attend family reunions in New York and New Jersey. He even spent his 21st birthday with Safiya in New York City where they celebrated his joyous birthday.

While living in North Carolina, Tariq studied accounting at University of North Carolina Greensboro. He loved it there and was very involved including being a member of the Transfer and Adult Student Union (TASU). He continued his education at a local community college where he proudly earned his associate’s degree while also working full-time. Tariq’s most recent job was providing customer service within the healthcare industry.

Another one of Tariq’s proudest moments in his life was in January 2021 where he became a citizen of the United States of America.

Tariq’s hobbies and joys in life included writing fantasy stories loosely based on his real-life family, drawing, listening to pop and soca music, anime, Korean drama, playing Magic cards, his favorite color blue, and most importantly spending time with family. He was affectionately known as the “fun bartender” during family gatherings and would often be found playing dominoes with the older men in the family. He loved being in social settings, and he took much pride in being Jamaican.

One of the greatest marks Tariq left in this world is all the hearts he touched. He had a really big heart and always wanted to help others. He was just so happy to be in others’ company. Tariq’s forever loving and forgiving heart was enough to brighten anyone’s day. He was known to always look at the brighter side of things, and even when life got hard, he maintained a positive attitude. Although being in Tariq’s presence was a gift in and of itself, Tariq’s ability to keenly observe others made him a phenomenal gift giver. He was happy to sit back and watch people to truly understand them and then give them thoughtful and meaningful gifts that he knew would improve their lives. Tariq also had a very contagious hearty laugh that would lighten up any room. Even his aunt Sandra’s friends were drawn to him and knew him to be her sweet adoring son. People just loved being in his presence.

Tariq’s biggest dream in life was to return to Jamaica and help strengthen its economy, which is what drew him to study accounting. He was good with numbers and knew the impact that personal financial empowerment could have on the citizens of Jamaica.

Tariq is survived by his mother, Janice Lee-Mitchell, his father, Carlton Smith, his younger brother, Amir Andrew Woolery, his grandmother, Peggy Lee, his aunt, Sandra Myers, his two cousins, Safiya Myers and Sha’Air Hawkins, and several other family members who loved him deeply.

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Thomas Crawford - October 14, 1945 - December 30, 2021

Departed: 12/30/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Thomas Crawford was born in  Spartanburg, South Carolina on October 14th, 1945, to Ms. Eunice Crawford.

During his formative years, he attended the public schools and in the New Jersey School System. Thomas acquired a talent and a gift for culinary arts and he became a well-known cook. As a result of his gift, he enrolled in chef school and learned how to cook many exquisite dishes that represented cultures from all over the world. Because of his unique cooking skills, Thomas was able to attract jobs in many exclusive restaurants in New York and New Jersey. One of the most memorable and prestigious restaurants known as Windows of the World, where he served as head chef. Thomas also loved to cook for his family and entertain friends, who also enjoyed being introduced to the new dishes he had learned to perfect. Thomas learned to enjoy many  hobbies but his favorite sports were fishing and the energies  he dedicated to ‘working-out’ in the gymnasium. In fact,  when Thomas went fishing, quite often said, “ I’d go fishing every day, if I could.”

In addition, Thomas enjoyed  a special skill which involved his artistic ability with wood artistry and carpentry. During these moments, He often made his children furniture, coffee tables, and even Rocking-Chairs. Thomas loved  people, and for that reason he really enjoyed his job at Meals on Wheels which allowed him to deliver food,  kind words, and many smiles to those he served.

To honor his legacy and memory, Thomas is survived by his children: Dion Denise Jackson, Neil, Thomas, Mansa, and DeAnna Crawford; his siblings David, Nelson and Betty Jean Crawford; his former wife, Josephine Crawford; and finally, Thomas also leaves an extended family of numerous grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and friends of whom he loved quite intimately.

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Roy Lee McNatt - June 28, 1934 - August 03, 2021

Departed: 08/03/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Roy Lee McNatt was born to the late Minnie Gilmore McNatt and Bennie McNatt on June 28, 1934, in Fayetteville, NC. He transitioned from labor to reward and traded his earthly crown for a heavenly one on August 3, 2021.

Roy was educated in the Cumberland County School System. He accepted Christ at an early age while attending his home church, Lock’s Creek AME Zion Church. In his early twenties, he moved to Newark, NJ; there, he attended Faith Temple Freewill Baptist Church. He later met and married the late Mrs. Lena Wright McNatt; to this union three children were born: Roylnn, Malisha, and Sherry McNatt. They eventually migrated back to North Carolina and he continued attending his home church until his health declined.

Roy served the community as a plumber for over 40 years. After working so diligently for many years, the fruits of his labor came into fruition and he was later able to retire. He had a heart of gold and would give the shirt off of his back to anyone in need. Roy never met a stranger and by the end of the conversation, you would forever have a place in your heart for him.

Roy is preceded in death by: his wife, Lena Wright McNatt; two bothers, William McNatt and Paul McNatt; six sisters, Martha Viola Samuels, Annie McNatt, Ruby Patterson, Melissa Martin, Annie Rhone, and Winnie Lewis. Roy leaves to cherish his memories: three daughters, Roylyn McNatt, Malisha McNatt, and Sherry McNatt; two brothers, Bennie (Dororthy) McNatt and Robert McNatt; two sisters, Christine Pounds and Iola Kelly; three grandchildren, Craig Faulk, La’Toi McNatt, and Coleman Robinson; five great grandchildren, Amare Faulk, Aisha Faulk, Mackenzie Faulk, Peyton Robinson and Preston Robinson, a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, extended family members, and friends. Roy will greatly be missed!

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Charles Melvin Felix - April 18, 1931 - August 02, 2021

Departed: 08/02/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: On Monday, August 2, 2021, God in His infinite wisdom called his son home

Charles Melvin Felix (also known as Melvin, Baby-Cakes, Mr. Felix, Charlie, Uncle Melvin, Daddy, Grand-daddy, and Grandpa) was born on April 18, 1931, on the beautiful island of Christiansted, St. Croix in the United State Virgin Island. He was born to the late Florence Elisa Ford Blyden and Samuel Felix. Granny, realizing that the economic situation didn't lend itself to her advancement, so she gathered her boys Charles whom she called Melvin and his older brothers Rudolph and Bod both (decease), and moved to the beautiful sister island of St. Thomas, in 1944. Charles always had a free- spirited personality growing up. Charles and two other young guys got on a boat as stowaway and the next thing grandma knew she got a call telling her he had enlisted in the United State Army, where he severed from1951 to 1954. On his returning home, Charles following in his mother's footstep, he became a young entrepreneur cooking and selling finger-liking spareribs and barbeque chicken, giving him the name Bady-Cakes. Charles also worked as a Taxi Driver and then entered into the Police Force as a Correctional officer.

He was a devoted husband and father to his children. Later in life devoting his life to Christ, living a fulfilling life although he was met with many crossroads.

Charles is reunited in death with his mother Florence Blyden. Charles leaves to cherish his memories, his brothers Antonio Bryan , Warren Frett and Wife Dorothy Felix, Children David A. Felix , Faye, Coral ,Eva, Melvin Jr., Delores, Despi, Dariel, Darien, Deborah and Slyvia Felix. Also, Aubrey, Steveroy Bridges and Eustance. He leaves a special nephew Warren Jr. along with grandchildren and great grand too numerous to mention, amongst a host of family and friends.

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Aretha Mae Farmer - June 20, 1961 - July 01, 2021

Departed: 07/01/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: ++ Obituary ++ She is more precious than rubies; and all the things thou canst desire are not to be compared unto her.-Proverbs 3:15

On Thursday, July 1, 2021 God in His infinite wisdom reach down into His flower garden and picked out a beautiful flower name Aretha Mae Farmer, and called her to eternal rest.  She was preceded in death by her late father, Earnest Campbell, late mother, Maggie Mae Dixon Snow, brother, Samuel Farmer, andsister, Patricia Ann Snow .

Aretha attended elementary, middle, and high school within theCumberland County School System, which included attendance at Terry Sanford High School.

She joined membership and was baptized at Rock Springs AME Zion Church in Fayetteville, NC. She served the Lord by offering a helping hand whenever she could until her health began to decline.

She worked in many food service establishments as she loved to cook.

Aretha Mae Farmer leaves to cherish her memories: her step-father, Fred D. Snow of Lumber Bridge, NC; her two sons, Ron Farmer of Fayetteville, NC & Cedric Farmer of Maxton, NC., her only daughter, Chaunacie Farmer, of Fayetteville, NC; two brothers: Rev. Charles Farmer (Carolyn) of Parkton, NC ElderBernard Snow (LaCresha) of Lorton, VA.; sisters: Angela Snow Powell (Dwayne), Eloise Rey (Stennett) both of Fayetteville, NC, Queen Briggs (Chrisler) of Conyers, GA, and step-sister,Barbara Ann Snow of Fayetteville, NC;  two uncles: CharlesCampbell of Red Springs, NC & Charlie Dixon of Raeford, NC; eight grandchildren:  Zyriah, Zytiana, Za’Marious, Ty’Niya, Keyala, Lamonika, Jayla, and Syncere’ Knowledge and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

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Ola Mae Clark - May 16, 1952 - May 18, 2021

Departed: 05/18/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Ola Mae Moore Clark was born May 16, 1952 to Felton Moore, Sr. and Ellen Moore in Muscogee County, Columbus, Georgia.  She departed this life on Tuesday, May 18, 2021 at Cape Fear Valley Hospital in Fayetteville, NC after a brief battle with a reoccurrence of cancer.  She was preceded in death by her husband; Ralph Vernon Clark who passed away on February 10, 2021, Parents; Felton Moore Sr. and Ellen M. Moore and Sister Dorothy Thomas.   Ola was educated in the public-school systems of Columbus, Georgia and New York City.     Ola went on to attain her certification in Home Health Care where she did private duty nursing.  After living and working in Brooklyn, New York for over 53 years Ola decided to make Fayetteville, NC her retirement home where she enjoyed exploring, shopping and even learned how to drive.   Ola was a faithful member of the Country Club Drive Church of Christ in Fayetteville, NC and was an avid notetaker and active bible school participant.   Ola is survived by her sisters, Gwendolyn Carter; Fayetteville, NC, Brendolyn Smith; Columbus, GA, and one brother, Felton Moore, Jr (Jeanette); Fayetteville, NC; and stepdaughter Olivia Clark of Brooklyn, NY.   “Ola”, “Peggy”, “Aunt Ola”, “Aunt Peggy” will be missed by a host of nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews and cousins and friends. Aunt Ola/Aunt Peggy had an especially close relationship with her Nephew; Felton Moore III of Greensboro, NC, Niece; Joloria Sample of Fayetteville, NC, Great-Niece Abigail Sample of Fayetteville, NC. and her goddaughter; Skymadison “Bubbles” Rhodes of Brooklyn, NY.

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Tina Marie Reaves-Brown - February 04, 1956 - May 15, 2021

Departed: 05/15/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Our beloved mother, grandmother, sister, and confidante, Tina Marie Reaves-Brown, took flight on the wings of a snow-white dove and transitioned from labor to reward on May 15, 2021. She was born on February 4, 1956, to the late Charlotte Mitchell and Roland Reaves, Sr. in Knoxville, TN.

After high school, Tina chose to further her education and  relocated to Chicago, Illinois. There, she received her degrees in Sociology and Psychology. After completing school, she then went on to have a successful career as a Postal Carrier.

Tina was passionate about caring for others. She gave unselfishly of herself and provided exceptional care for the loves of her life, her children and grandchildren. She has     created innumerable memories with them that they all will cherish forever in their hearts. She desired the absolute best for them and worked diligently to foster their every need. In addition, Tina was a great friend to many! She would give the shirt off her back to anyone in need without thinking twice about it. Tina leaves to cherish her memories to: her children; Rosmarrous Reaves, of Iowa, Edwin Reaves, of Fayetteville, NC, Ronald (Tammy) Reaves, of Fayetteville, NC, Charlotte (James) Crawford, of Fayetteville, NC; one sister, Connie Reaves, of Tennessee; her grandchildren, Sierra  Reaves, Alyssa Reaves, Shaniece Reaves, Michael Reaves, Marcus Samples, Kristina Crawford, Edwin Reaves, and Hasani Reaves; one great-grandchild, Harmony; a host of cousins, friends, and extended family members. Tina will forever be missed but her legacy will continue living on through those she leaves behind

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Sam F Gerald - October 24, 1969 - May 01, 2021

Departed: 05/01/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Memorial Reflections In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you.    John 14:2

Sam Fleishman Gerald III, affectionately known as Gerald, was born October 24, 1969 in Fayetteville, NC to the late Thelma Griffin and Sam F. Gerald Jr. On May 1, 2021 God called him home to be with his parents.

Gerald was educated in the Cumberland county schools and graduated in 1988 from Douglas Byrd High School in Fayetteville, NC.   Gerald served three years in the United States Army at Fort Bragg, NC.   Gerald then attended Fayetteville Technical Community College and earned his certification as an Electrician.  Gerald’s work as an electrician took him all over skillfully applying his trade.  Gerald was last employed as a General Foreman for White Electrical in Raleigh, NC.

Gerald became a member of the A J Henderson LodgeNo.792 Prince Hall Affiliated May 24, 2010. Gerald was currently serving as the newly elected Senior Warden.   Gerald was also a member of Kindah Temple No. 62.

Gerald leaves to cherish his memory and is survived by: his loving wife, Jelaine Noland Gerald;  sons; Sam F. Gerald IV (Portia) of Nashville, TN; Khiry and Khalil Noland of San Antonio, TX; five beautiful granddaughters, Zenobia Furmon; Sam’ya, Arjiana and Essence Gerald of Nashville, TN and Lily Noland of San Antonio, TX; stepfather Sherman “Pops” Dixon, from Fayetteville, NC; Sisters, Paula Griffin of Clarksville, TN; Charman McMillan (Eddie) of Hope Mills, NC; Rotarsha Dixon McKinnon (Tomangus) of Fayetteville, NC; Sher (Breezy) Dixon of Fayetteville, NC; Brothers, Reginald Bunting, Atlanta, GA; Tony Bunting of Anderson Creek, NC; and Chris Bunting of Fayetteville, NC; Mother in Love, Debra Johnson of San Antonio, TX; former wife, Sandra Charlot(Sam) Williams of Fayetteville, NC.  His extended family; James Jones Jr of Hope Mills, NC; Raymond Summerville, Raeford, NC; Roland Polite, Randall M.Carter Sr; and Wandalyn Jones all of Fayetteville, NC.

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Willie Howard Riddick - September 28, 1952 - March 31, 2021

Departed: 03/31/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Obituary Willie Howard Riddick Jr. was born on September 28, 1952 and departed this life on March 31, 2021. Willie was the son of Willie Howard Riddick Sr. (deceased) and Catherine Riddick.  Willie attended the Roselle school system and graduated from

Abraham Clark in 1972. Upon graduating Willie went into the US Air Force.  Willie met and married the love of his life Patricia (Patti) Cherubini Riddick with whom he had one son Michael Riddick

and one stepdaughter Angela Cherubini. Willie and Patricia departed this life forty-seven days apart. Their love was together all the way until the end.

Willie was a hard worker and retired from Merrill lynch after many years of service. He also worked many parts time jobs as well. He was an avid Oakland Raiders and New York Knicks fan.

Willie is survived by his son, Michael Riddick of Fayetteville, NC, step-daughter, Angela Cherubini of Pennsauken, NJ and one grandson, RJ Morgan.  She also leaves to cherish his memories his mother Catherine Riddick, Roselle, NJ, four sisters Sharon Peterson (Michael)Bush Kill, Pa, Joanie Greene Fayetteville, NC, Kim Riddick Roselle, NJ, Melanie Armstrong (Doyle) Linden, NJ and a host of nieces, nephews and friends. Willie was truly loved and will be missed but never forgotten.

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Charles Bellamy - June 05, 1942 - March 10, 2021

Departed: 03/10/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Charles “Charlie” Conois Bellamy was born on June 5, 1942 in Tabor City, North Carolina, to the late Reverend Charlie Bellamy and Mrs. Rosa Bellamy Riggins (Rev. Sylvester V. Riggins, stepfather). On Wednesday March 10, 2021, God dispatched one of His angels from heaven to the Hermitage Retirement Center in Rockingham, North Carolina to call him home. Charles accepted Christ at an early age and became a member of Union Baptist Church in South Carolina. He received his formal education from Horry County Public schools and went on to graduate from Chestnut Consolidated High School in 1961 and later furthered his education by attending Fayetteville Technical Community College. He then went on to serve his country in the United States Army twice and was honorably discharged. He also became a Prince Hall Ancient Free and Accepted Mason and is a current member of King David Grand Lodge of Georgia, where his son Steve White resides as Deputy Grandmaster. On May 29, 1982, he was joined in holy matrimony to Theresa O’Garra of Bronx, NY and they later made Spring Lake, NC their home. He leaves to cherish precious memories his wife Mrs. Theresa Bellamy, children Steve White (LaRita White) of Atlanta, GA; Ramona Preston (Irvin Preston) of Tampa, FL; Raymond White (Shakima White) of Bronx, NY; Sharlie Brown (Byron Brown) of Winston-Salem, NC; Ronald Gore of NC, Calvin Zachary Bellamy of San Antonio, TX, Bruce Bellamy of Myrtle Beach, SC, Wayland Bellamy (Cassandra Bellamy) of Greensboro, NC; Karen Lewis (Eugene Lewis ) of Ewingville, NJ, Sherry Bellamy, Queenie Pigott (Alan Pigott) of Myrtle Beach, SC, Ebony Evans of Myrtle Beach, SC, Miracle Evans of Myrtle Beach, SC. Several loving grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Charles was preceded in death by four brothers and two sisters: Edward Bellamy, Wilbert Bellamy, Edmond Riggins, Samuel Riggins, Earlene Bessant, and Julene Gause. He leaves behind his sister Carrie Lee Hudson and his brother Alfred Bellamy along with a host of sorrowing nieces, nephews, cousins, relatives and friends. Matthew 5:4 “Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.” Acknowledgements The family of Charles Bellamy expresses their most heartfelt gratitude for each kind act during the passing of their loved one. Your kind words, thoughts, and actions will be remembered forever. We also would like to thank Patterson Memorial Funeral

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Eunice Lonice “Nete” Carroll Murphy- Adams - October 17, 1935 - March 02, 2021

Departed: 03/02/2021 (Fayetteville)

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On March 2, 2021 our beloved mother, grandmother, sister, and aunt, Eunice Lonice “Nete” Carroll Murphy Adams, departed this life at Cape Fear Valley Medical Center in Fayetteville, N.C.

She was born to the Late Henry Clarence and Ida Blanche Geddie Carroll on October17, 1935. She was the youngest of ten children, eight that have preceded her in death. She has one surviving brother Leander Rudolph Carroll of Autryville, N.C.

Eunice joined Sandy Grove FWB Church in 1949 and remained a member until her demise. She was a graduate of Armstrong Senior High School and attended Fayetteville State University.

Eunice continued her work in the church with her two spiritually ordained husbands. Her first husband was Elder Muriel Colton Murphy whom she was married to from 1954-1981 and then her second husband was Bishop Edward F. Adams (1984-1989).

She had an interesting and diverse adult career cycle which involved her being a Fayetteville City bus driver, A book keeper, A N.C. Agriculture Extension Agent and she owned and operated a successful florist and upholstery shop with her family. She was also the Cape Fear Conference “A” Financial Secretary for 27 years, and a licensed Life & Health, Property & Casualty and Long-Term Care Insurance agent until her death. She also was a piano/keyboard musician for various churches for 50 years. She leaves to cherish her memories three children, Vicki Murphy Sellars of Hope Mills, Muriel Dwight of Eastover, Jon Rinaldi (Linda) of Silver Springs, Maryland. Also four grandchildren, Damyko (Pamela* Special granddaughter), Jamye Rothwell (Bryan), Vallyn Murphy (Rob), Stephanie Murphy (Benjamin), Honorary grandson Lance Brooks. She also leaves many nieces, nephews,cousins, two sister in laws, a multitude of friends, and most of all a Services are as follows Viewing on Sunday March 7, 1-6pm at Patterson Memorial Funeral Home Chapel

Graveside service Monday March 8, at Sandy Grove Freewill Bpst Church at 1PM.

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Eddie Lee Bridges - September 07, 1944 - February 12, 2021

Departed: 02/12/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Eddie Lee Bridges.

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Patricia Ellen Riddick - October 18, 1953 - February 12, 2021

Departed: 02/12/2021 (Fayetteville)

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On February 12, 2021 our beloved mother, wife, grandmother, daughter and sister, Patricia Ellen Riddick, departed this life at Cape Fear Valley Medical Center in Fayetteville, N.C. She was born to the late Mario Cherubini and Florence Pallitto on October 18, 1953.

She was married to the late Willie Howard Riddick, Jr whom the Lord called home on March 31, 2021 for over 10 years.  Through this marriage one son was born Michael Riddick.  Prior to their union Patricia had a daughter Angela Cherubini and grandson RJ Morgan whom she affectionately loved.

Patricia was a lifelong cook and avid dog lover.  Patricia was a kind, friendly and loving person, loved by many and will be deeply missed by her family and friends.

Patricia is survived by two children, Michael Riddick of Fayetteville, NC, Angela Pennsauken New Jersey and one grandson, RJ Morgan. She also leaves to cherish her memories, her mother,Florence Pallitto, Fort Myers, Fl, one sister Lisa Ohmann, Fort Myers Fl, her mother in law Catherine Riddick, Roselle, NJ, four sisters in laws, Sharon Paterson, (Michael) Bush Kill, Pa,Joanie Greene, Fayetteville, NC, Kim Riddick, Roselle, NJ, Melanie Armstrong and Brother in Law Doyle Armstrong Linden, NJ and a host of nieces, nephews, and a multitude of friends. Patricia will be missed but never forgotten.

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Ralph Vernon Clark - November 03, 1949 - February 10, 2021

Departed: 02/10/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Ralph Vernon Clark was born on November 3, 1949 in Brooklyn, New York. He was the son of the late Lenora Clark and Ralph S. Clark.

Ralph was educated in the Catholic school system in Brooklyn, New York. After completing his education, he entered into the United States Army and proudly served his country from 1968-1974. After being honorably discharged he went on to work for the United States Veterans Administration where he retired after 33 years of faithful service. He went on to live his retired years here in Fayetteville, North Carolina.

Ralph was affectionally know as the “Lost Temptation”.  Anyone who knew Ralph, knew he loved his music,  he would always have his head phones on singing and doing a two step or three.  Ralph was also a big fan of basketball, the Knicks was his team.

Ralph was a proud member of the Country Club Church of Christ of Fayetteville, North Carolina where he was baptized and added to Christ in May 2019.

Ralph leaves to cherish his memories and is survived by his loving wife of 21 years Ola “Dear” Clark, his beloved daughter Olivia Clark of Brooklyn, New York. His brother Dennis Miller of New York, his two sisters Imani Mustafa of Connecticut, his sister Denise Abushreekh of Atlanta. His Brother in law Felton Moore, Jr. (Jeanette) of Fayetteville, North Carolina, and two sister in laws Gwendolyn E. Carter of Fayetteville, NC and Brendolyn Smith of Columbus, Georgia.  A host of nephews, great nephews, nieces, great nieces, cousins and many other family members.  His best friend Reggie Bennett from Poughkeepsie, New York.

While Ralph had a wonderful relationship with all his nephews and nieces, he shared a special bond with his Nephew Felton Moore III also know as Butch.

Ralph is preceded in death by his brothers Dana Clark and Barry Clark of Brooklyn, New York and his sister in law Dorthy Ann Thomas of Warner Robins, Georgia.

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Mary Lee McQueen - July 11, 1927 - February 02, 2021

Departed: 02/02/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will hardship, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. -Romans 8: 35, 37-39

Mrs. Mary Lee Dunlap McQueen transitioned from labor to reward on February 2, 2021 after briefly battling an illness. She was born on July 11, 1927 to Martha and Joseph Dunlap in Fayetteville, NC.

Mary married the love of her life, Mr. Roman McQueen Sr.; to this union, 10 children were born. She gave unselfishly of herself and worked diligently to foster their every need. After learning more about the bible, she was later added to the body of Christ and joined the Church of Christ in Lumberton, NC; she was an active member until his health declined. She had a smile that could warm the coldest of hearts and one of the most beautiful souls to ever walk this earth.

She is preceded in death by her parents, her husband, and two sons, Roman Jr. and Steven. Mary leaves to cherish her memories: eight children: Shirley Davis (John), Betty Chatman, Clara McRae (Robert), Stanley McQueen (Patricia), Cleveland McQueen, and Shontelle Black, all of Spring Lake, NC, Richard McQueen of Newark, NJ, and George McQueen (Edgie) of Granitesville, SC; four sisters: Earline McLeod and Gerline Clark (James) of Lauringburg, NC,  Flora Johns of Dover, DE,  and Lottie Douglas (John) of Fayetteville, NC; three brothers: Roy Dunlap (Mildred) of Manhattan, NY, Frank Dunlap (Cleona) of Hamlet, NC, and Linwood Dunlap of Monroe, NC; 40 grandchildren, 57 great-grandchildren, 24 great-great grandchildren, a host of extended relatives and friends. Mary legacy will forever live on and will never be forgotten!

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Gregory Scott Williams - March 22, 1969 - January 14, 2021

Departed: 01/14/2021 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Mr.Gregory Scott Williams passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 14, 2021 at Duke University Hospital. Services will be live stream via Patterson Memorial Funeral Home Facebook Page@ 1PM 1/21/21

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Lillis Adams - December 13, 1944 - November 19, 2020

Departed: 11/19/2020 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Lillis Adams was born on December 13, 1944, to the late Colon McDonald and Minerva McDonald Curry, in Fayetteville, NC. She entered into rest on Thursday, November 19, 2020, at Cape Fear Valley Medical Center, surrounded by her children and grandchildren. She completed her education at Fayetteville Tech Community College. She retired from Cape Fear Valley Medical Center’s Labor and Delivery Unit. Her fondest memories were spent with her family and loved ones. She was loved by everyone. She was preceded in death by four sisters, Bettie Jean McDonald, Lois Lovingood, Martha McDonald, and Mittie Bennett. She leaves to cherish her memories: her significant other of 32 years, Hosea King; her five children, Poncé (Stella) McDonald of Charleston, SC, Iveena Henderson of Chester, VA, Sibyl Pratt of Woodbridge, VA, Michael Burton of Fayetteville, NC, and Brechelle Pinkett of Fayetteville, NC; two sisters, Marjorie McDonald Brewington and Geraldine McDonald, both of Fayetteville, NC; brother, Kenneth (Shena) McDonald of Fayetteville, NC; eleven grandchildren, Jonathan Pratt, Ikeena Henderson, Poncé McDonald, Ionna Henderson, Kenneth McDonald, Amber Pratt, Mylecieé Burton, Carrington Burton, Brekeah Finney, Nikelle Pinkett, Taylor Pinkett, and Skye Burton; nine greatgrandchildren; and a host of nieces, nephews, and cousins.

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Arthell Elliott - October 04, 1945 - October 06, 2020

Departed: 10/06/2020 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Arthell Elliott passed away peacefully at his residence in Columbia, SC, yesterday, October 6th.

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Linda Mason - October 01, 1944 - September 26, 2020

Departed: 09/26/2020 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Linda Mason, 75, of Fayetteville,NC, transitioned from labor to reward on Saturday, September 26, 2020.

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Christine Alease Harris - December 25, 1962 - September 22, 2020

Departed: 09/22/2020 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Christine Alease Harris, affectionately known as Chrissy, was born on the morning of December 25, 1962 in Norfolk, Virginia to parents Alice Faye Jefferson and Gerald Johnson, Sr. On the evening of September 22, 2020, God whispered her name and ushered her into His heavenly realm.

Christine was a 1981 class graduate of Green Run High School in Virginia Beach, Virginia; she then attended Norfolk State University in Norfolk, Virginia. While attending college, Christine met the love of her life, Staff Sergeant, United States Air force, William R. Harris in November 1984. Thereafter, Christine chose to leave college and decided to serve her country by joining the U.S. Air force in June 1985 and was stationed at Andrews Airforce Base in Maryland. On October 17, 1985, Christine was joined in holy matrimony to her lifelong sweetheart, William R. Harris, of 35 years. To this union was born two daughters Chanel Harris and Cierra Harris, both of whom she dearly loved and raised in admonition of the Lord.

The journey of the U.S. Air Force took the Harris family to live in Suitland, Maryland, Okinawa Japan, Brandon, Florida and lastly, Fayetteville, North Carolina. After honorably discharging from the military, Christine transitioned her career into civil service where she devoted 30 years of dedication and hard work. Throughout the years, she worked her way up to become an Information Specialist, Freedom of Information Act (FOIA) Privacy Officer, at the United States Army Forces Command (FORCOM) headquartered in Fort Bragg, North Carolina. Christine’s Husband and daughters remember her as a brilliant, kind, gentle, patient and driven woman who inspired them to excellence and encouraged them to pursue their goals. Christine was also a faithful servant of Christ and her radiant smile is deeply missed. She worked diligently on several ministries at the Country Club Drive Church of Christ in Fayetteville, North Carolina for over 25 years, to include the Church of Christ Ladies Lectureship-Retreat as the Awards/Scholarship Coordinator. Christine was lovingly called "The Voice of the Retreat.” Although her beautiful voice and persona that captivated their audiences for years has been silenced, we will never forget the warmth of her smile and the uplifting feel of her words. Christine’s favorite bible scripture was Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

Christine leaves to cherish her memory and is survived by her loving husband William R. Harris, her children Chanel Harris (Silver Spring, MD); Cierra Harris (Charlotte, NC); two Shih Tzus, Fendi and Chubbs of Fayetteville, NC; her parents Alice Faye Jefferson and Oscar Jefferson of Virginia Beach, VA; Two sisters, Karen Dunlap and Sabrina Lucky of Virginia Beach, VA; Three Brothers, Larry Marshall (Jennifer) of Virginia Beach, VA; Steven Marshall of Virginia Beach, VA and Sean Marshall (Cecilia) of Fleming Island, FL; Father-in-Love George Harris of Brandon, FL, brother-in-love, Jeffrey Harris of Detroit MI; two sisters-in-love, Mila White (Corzell) of St. Augustine, FL and Dana Hill (Jimmy) of Fleming Island, FL; special friends Charles and Tracia Geter of Fayetteville, NC; three Godchildren and a host of aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

Preceded in her death; father, Gerald Johnson, Sr.; mother-in love Charlotte Harris; nephew Calen White and brother in-love Anthony Harris.

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Pervis Smith - May 31, 1952 - August 20, 2020

Departed: 08/20/2020 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Pervis Smith 68, of Lumberton passed away on Wednesday August 19, at Southeastern Hospice House.

Services will be held on Friday August 28, at 2PM. Celebrations of Life By Leggett-Patterson Funeral Home Chapel.

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Percy Rogers - August 17, 1949 - August 17, 2020

Departed: 08/17/2020 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Percy Rogers 71, of Eastover NC passed away on Monday August 17, peacefully at Womack Army Hospital.

Graveside services will be held on Thursday August, 20 at Lock’s Creek AME Church At 11:00 a.m.

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Phyllis Gail Suggs - August 03, 1949 - June 21, 2020

Departed: 06/21/2020 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Ms. Phyllis G. Suggs, 70, passed peacefully on Sunday, June 21, 2020.

Services will be held on Saturday, June 27, 2020 at Patterson Memorial Funeral Home Chapel’s Public visitation will be from 12pm-2pm.

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Cora Lee Cox - March 24, 1944 - June 19, 2020

Departed: 06/19/2020 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Cora Lee Patterson Cox was born March 24, 1944 to the late Mr. Evander and Lillie Mae Patterson in Cumberland County, NC.  She graduated from Shawtown High School and was a long time member and faithful musician at Moore Union Free Will Baptist Church.  She was called home to be with our Lord on June 18, 2020 at Moses H. Cone Memorial Hospital in Greensboro, NC.

Cora Cox was married to the late George Cox who preceded her in death.  She was also preceded in death by her son, Richard Cox; sisters Mary Patterson, Rev. Clara Swann, Mother Helen Lee and Mrs. Audrey Cain; brothers James Patterson, Vander Patterson, Eugene Patterson, Leroy Patterson, Lenon Patterson, Woodrow Patterson, Hubert Patterson and Claude Patterson.

She leaves to cherish her memories two daughters, Caroline Cox and Sybil Patterson; two grandsons, Christopher Cox, Derrick Cox; her beloved brother, Mr. Jesse Patterson and a host of nieces, nephews and friends including her best friend since elementary school, Ms. Bessie Marsh Terrell.

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Samantha A. Cogar - August 10, 1971 - June 12, 2020

Departed: 06/12/2020 (Fayetteville)

Obituary Preview: Samantha “Sam” Cogar was born on August 10, 1971 to Peggy Cogar and Donald Cogar. She transition from labor to reward on June 12, 2020 at the UNC Health System.

Sam graduated from Cape Fear High School in 1990. She later began working at Kinlaw’s Welcome Grill and served as an Assistant Manager. She enjoyed going on vacation and her ultimate favorite place to visit was the beach.

Sam was always eager to help and create an environment of joy and laughter. She mostly enjoyed sharing and embracing good time with her friends and family; she was always there for anyone that needed a helping hand, sound advice and a firm shoulder to lean on. If the greatness had a smile; she had it. She had a smile that could warm the coldest of hearts and a beautiful soul.

Sam leaves to cherish her memories: her children, Anthony Cogar, Stanley McDougald, and Sarrina McDougald; one    sister, Tonia Cogar; one nephew, Robert King; one niece,  Taniya Hargroove; six grandchildren: Aliya McDougald, ZyMere McNatt, Nevah Lock, Heavenly Gibbs, Syncere Gibbs, and Elaishia Stokes; one great niece; one great nephew; a host of cousins, extended family members, and friends that has touched through the years.

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Compassionate and Caring Staff

The staff at Patterson Memorial Funeral Home is comprised of experienced and compassionate professionals who understand the importance of providing emotional support during times of grief. They take the time to listen to families, understand their needs, and tailor their services to meet those needs. From helping with funeral arrangements to providing grief counseling, the staff at Patterson Memorial Funeral Home is dedicated to making a difficult time a little easier.

State-of-the-Art Facilities

Patterson Memorial Funeral Home's facilities are designed to provide a comfortable and welcoming atmosphere for families and friends gathering to pay their respects. The funeral home's chapel is equipped with modern amenities, including audio-visual equipment, to ensure that every service is memorable and meaningful. In addition, the facility offers ample parking and is easily accessible for those with disabilities.

Personalized Funeral Services

At Patterson Memorial Funeral Home, every funeral service is tailored to reflect the personality and spirit of the individual being honored. From traditional funerals with military honors to celebration of life ceremonies, the funeral home's staff works closely with families to create a personalized tribute that celebrates the life of their loved one.

Cremation Services

In addition to traditional funeral services, Patterson Memorial Funeral Home also offers cremation services for those who prefer this option. The funeral home's cremation services include direct cremation, cremation with memorial service, and cremation with traditional funeral service. Their experienced staff will guide families through the cremation process, ensuring that every detail is taken care of with dignity and respect.

Pre-Planning Options

Patterson Memorial Funeral Home understands the importance of planning ahead for final arrangements. By pre-planning funeral services, individuals can ensure that their wishes are respected and alleviate some of the burden on their loved ones. The funeral home's staff will work with individuals to create a personalized plan that meets their needs and budget.

Community Involvement

Patterson Memorial Funeral Home is committed to giving back to the community it serves. Through various outreach programs and community events, the funeral home demonstrates its dedication to supporting local organizations and initiatives. By building strong relationships with community partners, Patterson Memorial Funeral Home continues to make a positive impact on the lives of those they serve.

Contact Information

If you're in need of funeral services or would like more information about Patterson Memorial Funeral Home, please don't hesitate to reach out. You can contact them by phone at [insert phone number], email at [insert email], or visit their website at [insert website]. Their staff is available 24/7 to provide guidance and support during your time of need.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend of the deceased writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary or provide a template for the family to fill out.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral or memorial service.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos or other multimedia in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and some print publications allow you to include photos, videos, or audio clips to enhance the tribute to the deceased.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the newspaper or online platform directly to inquire about their submission process and any specific guidelines they may have. Some may require a funeral home or mortuary to submit the obituary on behalf of the family.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or online platform. Some newspapers charge by the word or line, while others offer package deals that include additional services like online memorials or guest books.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. Contact the publication or online platform directly to request changes.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

The duration that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform. Some may keep it active indefinitely, while others may archive it after a certain period.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to control how they're remembered and to spare their loved ones from having to do so during a difficult time.

Is it appropriate to include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including humor or personal stories can help capture the personality and spirit of the deceased, making the obituary more engaging and memorable.

Should I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, including information about charitable donations or memorial contributions can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased and support a cause they cared about.

Can I include quotes, poems, or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, incorporating quotes, poems, or song lyrics can add depth and emotion to an obituary, providing insight into the deceased's values and personality.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

Triple-check facts such as dates, names, and spellings to ensure accuracy. It's also a good idea to have multiple people review the obituary before submitting it for publication.

Can I write an obituary for someone who didn't want a traditional funeral or memorial service?

Yes, an obituary can still be written as a way to acknowledge and celebrate the person's life, even if they didn't want a traditional funeral or memorial service.

How do I handle sensitive or private information when writing an obituary?

Omit any sensitive or private information that could be hurtful or embarrassing to surviving family members or friends. Focus on celebrating the person's life and achievements instead.

Can I include information about the deceased's pets in an obituary?

Yes, many people consider their pets to be part of their family and would like them mentioned in the obituary. This can be especially comforting for those who are grieving.

How do I write an obituary for someone who died under difficult circumstances?

approach this situation with sensitivity and compassion. Focus on celebrating the person's life and accomplishments rather than dwelling on the circumstances of their death.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes, social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share an obituary with a wider audience and reach people who may not have seen it through traditional channels.

How do I preserve an online obituary for future generations?

Consider printing out a copy of the online obituary or saving it digitally in a secure location. You may also want to create a physical scrapbook or memory book with copies of the obituary and other mementos.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an obituary for someone who was well-known or public figure?

When writing an obituary for someone who was well-known or a public figure, be sure to include relevant details about their career achievements and public life. You may also want to consult with colleagues, friends, or family members who knew them best.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for many years?

Yes, even if someone has been deceased for many years, you can still write an obituary as a way to honor their memory and share their story with others.