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Paula M. Adams - April 20, 1949 - April 22, 2022

Departed: 04/22/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: OXFORD – Paula M. Adams, 73, of Ballard Street, died Friday, April 22, 2022, in her home.  She is survived by two sons, William J. Mullen III of Charlton, and Shane R. Mullen of West Brookfield; and four grandchildren, Harley J. Mullen and his wife Brittany of Georgia, Santino Trifone of Warren, Emily Mullen of Oxford, and Jillian Allard of Oxford.  She was predeceased by a daughter, Christine C. Coombs who died in 1989.  She was born in Holden, daughter of the late Russell Edward and Pauline Bernice (LaPrade) Adams, and lived in Oxford since 1972.

Ms. Adams was a paint department associate at the Home Depot in Oxford for 14 years.  She loved gardening and plants, and enjoyed art and painting.  She had a great love for animals.

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Gail Charlotte Brochu - January 27, 1935 - April 20, 2022

Departed: 04/20/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: WEBSTER – Gail Charlotte (Whelpley) Brochu passed into eternity on April 20th, 2022, a beautiful spring day.  Loving daughter of Frederick W. and Helen C. (Moses) Whelpley.  Born January 27, 1935, Medford.

Our mother was a compassionate nurse, and a gifted piano player.  Having earned her R.N. at Newton-Wellesley School of nursing in 1955.  Went on to work at Boston Children's Hospital, and later after moving to Oxford, MA, she worked on the diabetes study and clinic in Oxford, and worked as a school nurse for several years.  She retired from the Women’s Correctional Institution in Framingham. Following eighteen years there, ending as head nurse giving countless women the love and care she could so easily bestow on others.  Growing up watching and listening to her playing Beethoven’s Sonata No. 14 “Moonlight” or Rachmaninoff’s Prelude in C Sharp Minor was something to behold.

She was predeceased by her brothers, Dave, Paul, and ‘Pete’ Whelpley, each of whom she adored, and they her. Her kind sister-in-law Carol, and nieces Diane and Johanne. Her first born son David, which broke her heart, but took comfort in knowing he had placed his faith in Jesus Christ, as also, praise God, our dad has done also, and her cousin John Coney, with whom she shared a birthday.

Waiting to join her, daughters Pamela Raad, Jennifer Turner, Charlotte Brochu and Barbara Campbell. Her sons John and Eric, and their spouses. Blessed with fifteen grandchildren and twenty-four great grandchildren, who deeply loved her. Her sweet sister-in-law Gael, her dear cousin Setphanie, her loved daughter-in-law Karen and lifelong friend Janny. And a generous handful of nieces and nephews.

Special thanks to Webster Manor who gave us four amazing years with our mother. She was a member of Calvary Bible Baptist Church, Danielson.

But most of all for that name which is above every name, Jesus Christ, who died for our sins, according to the scriptures; and that he was buried, and rose again the third day according to the scriptures.

A private graveside service will be held at North Cemetery in Oxford. Paradis-Givner Funeral Home is directing the arrangements.

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Richard "Vinnie" J. Vincent - September 29, 1958 - April 19, 2022

Departed: 04/19/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: OXFORD – Richard J. “Vinnie” Vincent, 63, died peacefully on Tuesday, April 19, 2022, at UMass Memorial Medical Center – Memorial Campus in Worcester, with his family by his side.  He is survived by his significant other, Tarry A. York of Oxford; his daughter, Tina L. Vincent and her fiancé Albert Bressan of Douglas; his former spouse, Susan P. Vincent of Webster; two sisters, Patricia I. Spitz and her husband William of Oxford, and Pamela M. Wright and her husband Kenneth of Oxford; three grandsons, Nathan E. Vincent, Parker J. Vincent, and Ayden A.M. Bressan, all of Douglas; a large extended family, and his beloved American Legion family.  He was born in Worcester, son of the late Richard L. and Marilyn E. (Thomas) Luks, and lived most of his life in Oxford with the exception of his 17 years in the military.  He graduated from Oxford High School in 1976.

Vinnie was a custodian at Oxford Public Schools for many years, retiring as head custodian of the Chaffee School earlier this month.  He was retired from the U.S. Navy and proudly served in Desert Storm.  He was a member of the American Legion Post 58, Oxford Memorial Honor Guard, and the American Legion Riders.  He was also a member of the Auburn Elks.  Vinnie loved riding his motorcycle, camping, and spending time with his family.  He will be remembered as an outgoing man with many friends – the kind of person that everyone wanted to be around.

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Jean-Paul Hache - January 22, 1970 - April 19, 2022

Departed: 04/19/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: NORTH GROSVENORDALE, CT – Jean-Paul Hache, 52, of Reardon Road, died Tuesday, April 19, 2022, at Tufts Medical Center in Boston.  He is survived by his parents, Jean-Guy and Patricia D. (Germain) Hache of North Grosvenordale; his fiancée, Lisa M. Kemp of North Grosvenordale; Lisa’s children, Krista M. Kemp of Dudley and Tyler J.M. Kemp, serving overseas in the Air Force; Jean-Paul’s grandchildren, Alyssa and Ayla Bonneville, both of Dudley; and several aunts, uncles, and cousins.  He was born in Southbridge and lived most of his life in North Grosvenordale.  He graduated from Tourtellotte Memorial High School in Thompson in 1989.

Mr. Hache was an elevator mechanic for the Elevator Union 41, where he worked for 22 years.  He enjoyed tinkering, fixing things, and restoring classic Volkswagens.  In recent years, he loved mowing the lawn in the summer and snowplowing in the winter.  He enjoyed snorkeling and looked forward to traveling to the cottage in New Brunswick, Canada, in the summertime.

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Anthony D. Martocci - July 08, 1966 - April 14, 2022

Departed: 04/14/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: THOMPSON, CT – Anthony D. (Nelson) Martocci, 55, of Lehtinen Road, died Thursday, April 14, 2022, in his home after a courageous battle with esophageal cancer, with his wife by his side.  He is survived by his wife of 19 years, Jennifer J. (Socha) Martocci of Thompson; two daughters, Olivia A. Martocci and Sophia L. Martocci, both of Thompson; his mother, Joann (Martocci) Benoit of Worcester; his sister, Lisa M. Rizzuti and her husband David of North Grosvenordale; two nephews and one niece, J.C. Gallivan Jr. Dominic Rizzuti, and Rosalea Rizzuti, all of North Grosvenordale.  He was predeceased by his father, Herbert W. Nelson, Jr.  He was born in Worcester and lived in Auburn and Worcester before moving to Thompson five years ago.  He graduated from Auburn High School in 1984.

Tony was a patient access service representative at UMass Memorial Hospital in Worcester for 12 years.  Previously, he worked as a salesman at Rotman’s and Bernie and Phyl’s furniture stores.  He held various other positions in his youth before settling into his career.  He was a member of the Knights of Columbus.  In his youth, he enjoyed bowling, attending Patriots games, playing cards, and playing Sunday Morning Softball for Art’s Diner.  He loved the ocean and was a lifelong Parrot head.  Tony loved cooking, enjoyed watching cooking shows, and always dreamed of owning a breakfast and lunch diner.  Most important in his life was spending with this his family, and especially his daughters.  Together they enjoyed family vacations in Falmouth and spending time by the ocean.

Calling hours are Tuesday, April 19, 2022, from 9:30 a.m. –12 noon at Paradis-Givner Funeral Home, 357 Main St., Oxford.  A service will be held on Tuesday at 12 noon at the conclusion of calling hours.  Flowers are welcome or donations may be made to “The Martocci Family GoFundMe,” to help alleviate financial concerns Jen and her daughters.

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June M. Monopoli - November 09, 1933 - April 13, 2022

Departed: 04/13/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: CHARLTON – June M. (Moore) Monopoli, 88, of Gale Road, died Wednesday, April 13, 2022, at UMass Memorial Medical Center – University Campus in Worcester.  She is survived by her husband of 69 years, Nicholas L. Monopoli of Charlton; three children, Nicholas L. Monopoli Jr. and his wife Joy of Leicester, Cathy A. Bartlett and her husband Michael of Woodstock, CT, and Michael D. Monopoli of Charlton; four grandchildren, Benjamin Monopoli and his husband Chris Connor of Boston, Jacob Monopoli of Leicester, Matthew Bartlett and his wife Julie of Connecticut, and Susan Bartlett of Thompson, CT; and a great-grandson, Emmett Bartlett of Connecticut.  She was predeceased by a sister, Beverly “Becky” Trotto.  She was born in Worcester, daughter of the late George and Helen (Hamrin) Moore, and lived in Worcester before moving to Charlton in 1968.

June graduated from the David Hale School of Nursing and worked as a nursing supervisor for many years before retiring in 2004.

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Caroline J. Pizzotti - January 27, 1942 - April 11, 2022

Departed: 04/11/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: OXFORD – Caroline J. (Mattson) Pizzotti, 80, of Wheelock Street, died unexpectedly on Monday, April 11, 2022, at Harrington Healthcare at Hubbard Hospital in Webster.  She is survived by a son, Daniel M. Faulkner, Sr., of Webster; two grandsons, Daniel M. Faulkner Jr. and his wife Shauna, and Jason D. Faulkner and his wife Jessi, all of Charlton; seven great-grandchildren; aunts, uncles, and cousins.  She was predeceased by a son, Scott A. Pizzotti who died in 2009.  She was born in Fitchburg, daughter of the late Toivo and Amanda (Niskanen) Mattson, and lived in Worcester and Abilene, TX, before moving to Oxford 10 years ago.  She attended North High School in Worcester, and was a member of the Greendale Peoples Church.

A graveside service will be held at 10 a.m. on Tuesday, April 19, 2022, at Hillside Cemetery in Sterling.  Paradis-Givner Funeral Home in Oxford is directing the arrangements.

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Louise M. Boutillette Orciani - April 05, 1923 - April 09, 2022

Departed: 04/09/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: OXFORD – Louise M. (Thienel) Boutillette Orciani, 99, formerly of Millbury Boulevard, died Saturday, April 9, 2022, at Christopher Heights of Webster.  She was predeceased by her first husband, Edward J. Boutillette who died in 1965; and her second husband, Henry Orciani who died in 1981.  She is survived by a son, Lawrence B. Boutillette of New York; a granddaughter, Lauren A. Boutillette of New York; two stepchildren, Gary Orciani of West Boylston, and Sharon Killion of East Princeton; a brother, Armand Thienel of Worcester; and a sister, Doris Arcudi of Milford.  She was predeceased by a son, Edward A. Boutillette who died in 2002; two brothers, Robert Thienel and Arthur Thienel; and two sisters, Irene Sigel and Lena Thienel.  She was born in Manchester, NH, the daughter of the late Arthur and Louise (Roy) Thienel, and lived in Worcester before moving to Oxford in 1946.  She graduated from Worcester Girls Trade School.

Mrs. Orciani worked at Steven’s Linen for many years prior to retirement.  She was a member of St. Roch’s Church in Oxford.  She was active at the Oxford Senior Center and a charter member of the Oxford Art Association.  Mrs. Orciani enjoyed living at Christopher Heights in Webster for the past eight years, and participated in the Book Club, the Knitting Club, and the “Agree to Disagree” Club.

A funeral will be held on Thursday, April 14, 2022, from Paradis-Givner Funeral Home, 357 Main St., Oxford, followed by a Liturgy of the Word at 10 a.m. at St. Roch’s Church, 332 Main St., Oxford.  Burial will follow at St. Roch’s Cemetery in Oxford.  Calling hours are Wednesday, April 13, 2022, from 5-8 p.m. at the funeral home.

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Robert O. Jason - May 12, 1955 - April 07, 2022

Departed: 04/07/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: BRIDGEPORT, MI – Robert O. Jason, beloved husband, father, grandfather and brother passed away Thursday, April 7, 2022, at Ascension Mary’s Hospital after a two-year battle with cancer. Age 66 years.  Son of the late Robert G. and Audrey (Olson) Jason, Robert was born in Worcester, Massachusetts on May 12, 1955. Bob married Julie Kostick on October 31, 2018, in Key West, Florida where they resided together for 11 years before moving to Michigan. She survives him. Bob’s forty-year long career in law enforcement and public service began in the US Army as an MP. He later joined the Lebanon, New Hampshire Police Department. He was instrumental in establishing their first canine unit with his canine partner, King. He eventually retired as a Lieutenant Detective after twenty years of distinguished service. At that retirement, Bob went down to the islands to escape the New England cold. That’s where he found the next chapter of his career. Bob joined the US Marshal Service with whom he proudly served as a Special Deputy US Marshal. This second half of his law enforcement career began in St. Croix, US Virgin Islands in the year 2000. It took him to West Virginia, Miami and Key West, Florida where he served as the Lead Court Security Officer. He then accepted a transfer to Michigan as part of a long-range retirement plan with Julie and worked in both the Flint and Bay City, Michigan Federal Court Houses. He retired from the US Marshal Service due to health concerns in October 2021. His hobbies included wood working, metal working, and his GI Joe and WWII collections. He was a master model customizer of 1:6 scale WWII vehicles. Although he had built and rebuilt it 100 times in his head, his dream of building a custom 1940 Ford pickup just ran out of time.

Surviving besides his wife Julie are his son, Mathew Robert Jason (Sherri Lynch), Leominster, Massachusetts; a daughter, Megan Brittany (Jeremy) Pardoe, Hartland, Vermont; three grandchildren, Taylor Jason, Brayden Jason and Riley Pardoe; three sisters, Barbara (Paul) Kieschnick, Georgetown, Texas; Carol Catino, Webster, Massachusetts; Tammy (Rob) Roy, East Longmeadow, Massachusetts; and many nieces and nephews. Robert was preceded in death by two sisters, Linda Bennett and Debbie Blake.

Memorial calling hours are Saturday, May 14, 2022, from 11:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m. at Paradis-Givner Funeral Home, 357 Main St., Oxford.  Remembrances by family and friends will be on Saturday at 1:00 p.m. at the conclusion of calling hours.  Those planning an expression of sympathy may wish to consider a memorial to the United States Police Canine Association.

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Jean Ellen Lougie - August 05, 1955 - April 05, 2022

Departed: 04/05/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: OXFORD – Jean E. (Carlson) Lougie, 66, of Larned Road, died Tuesday, April 5, 2022, in her home.  She is survived by her husband of 47 years, Paul J. Lougie of Oxford; three children, Jeffrey P. Lougie of Oxford, Jennifer A. Pfeffer and her husband Christopher of Riverside, RI, and Christine J. Lougie and her fiancé Miguel of Oxford; six grandchildren, Nathan Lougie, Emma Pfeffer, Ashley Lougie, Johnathan Pfeffer, Claire Wambugu, and Benjamin Wambugu; four sisters, Karen Pheil of Charlton, Deborah Madden of Aurora, CO, Cynthia Rich of Charlton, and Wendy Ryan of Houlton, ME; a brother, Everett Carlson of Charlton; and many nephews, nieces, and cousins, including her cousin Lisa Beauregard of Westboro.  She was predeceased by a son, Peter J. Lougie who died in 2020.  She was born in Worcester, daughter of the late Everett A. and Vera V. (Anderson) Carlson, and lived in Charlton before moving to Oxford 41 years ago.  She graduated from Shepherd Hill Regional High School in Dudley.

Mrs. Lougie lovingly raised her four children, and was known as Momma to many more.  She enjoyed reading, cooking, watching hummingbirds, and gardening.  Her life was centered around her family.  As she said, “Let my family know . . . Momma’s watching you all,” including her additional “kids” Sunny Boy, Leah, Mark, Bruce, and Becky.

The family would like to thank Care Central VNA and Hospice in Webster, for their love and exceptional care during Jean’s illness.

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William J. Pina - September 26, 1926 - March 30, 2022

Departed: 03/30/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: WEBSTER —William Joseph Pina, 95, of Ash Street, died Wednesday, March 30, 2022, in his home.  He is survived by his wife of 40 years, Bettyann (Gagner) Pina of Webster; seven children, Ricardo F. Pina of Worcester, Pamela M. Merchant of Weymouth, William A. Pina of Worcester, Belinda A. Pina of Spencer, Michelle Bailly of Worcester, Robin E. Bailey of Columbia, SC, and Lisa M. Rodgers of Williamston, NC; a brother, Robert Pina of Dorchester; three sisters, Rose Mencos of Roslindale, Clara Johnson of Dorchester, and Terry Fernandes of South Attleboro; 18 grandchildren, 29 great-grandchildren, and many nephews and nieces.  He was predeceased by a son, Frank J. Pina who died in 2015; two stepsons, Emile J. Plourde IV who died in 1992, and David M. Plourde who died in 2018; a brother, Frank Pina; and two sisters, Nancy Pina and Clementina Harris.  He was born in Boston, son of the late Harrison and Mary (Lopes) Pina, and lived in Boston, Spencer, and Dudley, before moving to Webster in 1977.

Mr. Pina worked at Ken-Weld in Worcester for 16 years, retiring in 1993.  Later, he worked at the Lodge at Eddy Pond in Auburn.  He was a member of Good Shepherd Episcopal Church in Oxford.

The family would like to thank Beacon Hospice, his nurse Gina, and his aide Brenda, for their exceptional care during his illness.

A funeral Mass will be held at 10:30 a.m. on Friday, April 8, 2022, at Good Shepherd Episcopal Church, 270 Main St., Oxford.  Those attending are respectfully requested to meet directly at the church.  Burial will follow at Mount Zion Cemetery in Webster.  Calling hours are Thursday, April 7, 2022, from 5-8 p.m. at Paradis-Givner Funeral Home, 357 Main St., Oxford.

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Yvonne A. Latuga - February 21, 1925 - March 26, 2022

Departed: 03/26/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: OXFORD – Yvonne A. (Desmarais) Latuga, 97, of Wheelock Street, died Saturday, March 26, 2022, at UMass Memorial Medical Center – University Campus in Worcester, after being stricken ill at home.  She was predeceased by her husband, Enrico H. Latuga who died in 1974.  She is survived by three children, Joseph E. Latuga and his wife Robin of Oxford, Cheryl A. Latuga of Auburn, and Rico T. Latuga and his wife Denise of North Oxford; her son-in-law, William Wenc of Oxford; her sister, Claire Potter of Ravenwood, MO; six grandchildren, Gary Latuga of Oxford, Joseph Latuga of Webster, Anthony Latuga of North Oxford, Lindsey Whitney of Leicester, Nicholas Latuga of Putnam, CT, and Tyson Latuga of Oxford; twelve great-grandchildren; one great-great grandson; and many nephews and nieces.  She was predeceased by two children, Gina Marie Latuga who died in 1967, and Michael H. Latuga who died in 2015; and a sister, Albertine Plante.  She was born in Bristol, CT, daughter of the late Romeo and Fabiola (Menard) Desmarais, and lived most of her life in Oxford.

Mrs. Latuga worked at Webster Spring in Oxford for many years.  She was a member of the Cooties of the American Legion in Apache Junction, Arizona, when she spent winters there.  She enjoyed camping in her younger years.  She liked to spend time gardening and was well known for her love of baking and cooking.

A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, April 2, 2022, at Paradis-Givner Funeral Home, 357 Main St., Oxford.  Burial will follow at St. Roch’s Cemetery in Oxford.  A calling hour will be held on Saturday from 10-11 a.m. at the funeral home prior to the service.

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Robin A. Sampson - August 22, 1961 - March 22, 2022

Departed: 03/22/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: MANCHAUG – Robin A. Sampson, 60, of Main Street, died Tuesday, March 22, 2022, in her home.  She is survived by her sister, Joey T.R. Vigeant and her husband James of Ayer; her cousin, Bonnie Wade of Webster; and her aunt, Juanita Fielder and her husband Larry of New Mexico.  She was born in Webster, daughter of the late Roger O. and Joyce A. (Girardin) Sampson, and lived in Arizona and Florida before moving to Manchaug in 1986.  She graduated from Westwood High School in Mesa, AZ, in 1979.

Robin worked at Lucky’s Grocery Store in Mesa, AZ, and at McDonald’s Restaurant in Whitinsville for several years.  She enjoyed science fiction books and movies.

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Peter J. Lancette - March 16, 1937 - March 19, 2022

Departed: 03/19/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: WEBSTER – Peter J. Lancette, 85, died peacefully on Saturday, March 19, 2022, with his family by his side.  He is survived by his wife of 52 years, Lydia M. (Poalillo) Lancette of Webster; a son, Peter J. Lancette, II, and his wife Lisa of Charlton; two grandchildren, Juliana C. Lancette and Andrew J. Lancette, both of Charlton; and two sisters, Dolores Regnault and Ruth Jennings.  He was predeceased by a son, Douglas B. Lancette; eight siblings, James, Ernest, Eugene, Donald and Richard Lancette, Robert Puhula, Myrtle Miller and Lillian Muser.  He was born in Syracuse, NY, son of the late George J. and Gladys M. (Bullock) Lancette, and lived in New York, New Jersey, Danbury, CT, and West Boylston, before moving to Webster in 2004.  He served in the Army National Guard in New Jersey.

Throughout his life, Pete worked in the print industry, retiring as print manager from Wright Line Company in Worcester.  Upon retirement Pete enjoyed boating on Webster Lake, spending time with family and friends and attending concerts at Indian Ranch.  Pete loved and was very proud of his son, PJ. for his accomplishments in the medical field and military service.  His grandchildren were most important to him.  Juliana & Andrew brought a lifetime of love into his life.  His greatest pleasure was watching them do well in school and play their sports.  He took great pride in watching them grow up and you could always find him cheering them on from the sidelines at their sporting events.  His family remembers their son Doug with love.  Lydia’s husband & best friend will be missed so very much… until they meet again, God Bless.

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Robert A. Faron - February 21, 1942 - March 16, 2022

Departed: 03/16/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: SUTTON – Robert A. Faron, 80, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, March 16, 2022.  He is survived by his wife of 46 years, Carol A. (Barre) Faron of Sutton; three children, Mark Faron and his wife Lisa of Hopedale, Matthew Faron and his wife Katelynn of Holden, and Kathleen Faron of Sutton; three granddaughters, Avery, Emily, and Dylan, and grandson, Nolan. He was born in Worcester, son of the late John M. and Rose D. (Malboeuf) Faron, and lived most of his life in Sutton.  He graduated from St. Peter’s High School and Worcester Junior College in Worcester.  He served in the Army Reserve 850th Signal Company in Worcester for 3 years, and in the Air Force Reserve 901st Airlift Wing based at Hanscom Air Force Base for 3 years.

Bob worked for the Massachusetts Department of Transportation in the Construction Division for 52 years, retiring in 2015.  He enjoyed playing sports, spending time outdoors, and 4th of July gatherings at his cousin’s home in Grafton.  In addition, he enjoyed leisure time on his land in Sutton, planting flowers, and gardening.  His most important and greatest joy, was spending time with family, especially with his grandchildren and attending their sporting events.

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Tracy J. Calderwood - July 11, 1970 - March 16, 2022

Departed: 03/16/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: OXFORD – Tracy J. Calderwood, 51, died after a short illness from complications from paralysis on Wednesday, March 16, 2022.  He is survived by five siblings, Jay DaSilva and his wife Janice of Yarmouth, Jan Sutherland and her husband Grant of Mashpee, Bob Calderwood and his wife Carolyn of Centerville, Kim Kanash and her husband John of Center Barnstead, NH, and Kelly Joyce and her partner Al Ayotte of Webster; and many nephews and nieces.  He was predeceased by a brother, Scott Calderwood who died in 1983.  He was born in Holbrook, son of the late Robert A. and Barbara (Hobson) Calderwood, and lived in Holbrook and Wareham before moving to Oxford 25 years ago.  He graduated from Upper Cape Regional Technical School in Bourne in 1989.

Tracy was employed by the town of Wareham in the maintenance department at the time of his accident.  He was an avid New England sports fan and followed the Red Sox, Patriots, and Bruins.  He also enjoyed watching NASCAR.  Though he was paralyzed 25 years ago, he always remained an active participant in family activities.  His family included him in everything they did, and he was never left out.  He will be remembered as a great man by his family and friends, and will be missed by all who knew him.

The family would like to thank his P.C.A. care team and his many friends, for helping him fully participate in life, and for caring for him over the past 25 years.

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Maureen T. Bolduc - January 28, 1944 - March 11, 2022

Departed: 03/11/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: NORTH OXFORD – Maureen T. (Wright) Bolduc, 78, formerly of Main Street, died Friday, March 11, 2022, at Notre Dame Health Care Center in Worcester, after an extended period of declining health.  She is survived by her husband of 60 years, John A. Bolduc Sr.; four children, John A. Bolduc Jr. and his wife Charlene of Webster, Cherie A. Sirard and her husband Paul of Charlton, Stephen R. Bolduc and his wife Angela of Sterling, and Suzanne Peregrim and her fiancé Mark Robbins of Oxford; her brother, Richard Wright of Worcester, a sister Deborah Letourneau and her husband Philip of Shrewsbury; two sisters-in-law, Wendy Wright of Marstons Mills, and Lucy Wright of Worcester; seven grandchildren, Jesse, Michael, Jeffrey, Madlyn, Delaney, Nicholas, and Alyssa; and several nephews and nieces.  She was predeceased by three brothers, George Wright Jr., James Wright, and Thomas Wright.  She was born in Worcester, daughter of the late George M. and Madlyn A. (Hughes) Wright Sr., and lived in North Oxford since 1973.  She attended Commerce High School and graduated from David Hale Fanning School of Health Occupations in Worcester.

Mrs. Bolduc was a licensed practical nurse at the Family Health Center in Worcester for 10 years, retiring in 2009.  She worked at several area healthcare facilities as an L.P.N. since 1978.  Her family meant everything to her, especially her grandchildren.  She loved family gatherings and socializing with friends and family.  She was a member of St. Ann’s Church in North Oxford and enjoyed reading, cake decorating, gardening, and attending farm auctions with her husband.  She was a Patriots and Red Sox fan, and had a keen interest in learning the rules of football.

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Joan B. Ryan - October 13, 1940 - March 06, 2022

Departed: 03/06/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: CHARLTON – Joan B. (Phelan) Ryan, 81, of Old Worcester Road, died Sunday, March 6, 2022, at St. Vincent Hospital in Worcester.  Daughter of the late Richard J. and Beulah A. (Demers) Phelan, she was born and lived in Worcester until moving to Charlton in 1969.  She graduated from Commerce High School in Worcester in 1958.

Mrs. Ryan had a long career in the insurance industry, working at New England Life for many years, as well as at Paul Revere and Provident before finally retiring from Unum Insurance in 1999.  She was an active volunteer in her community and children’s endeavors including many years as a CCD teacher at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church in Charlton and treasurer of the Shepherd Hill Booster Club.  A founding member of the Shepherd Hill Music Parents’ Association, she was also a parishioner at St. Roch’s Church in Oxford. She enjoyed reading, bird watching and traveling and was an avid New England sports fan, especially of her beloved Red Sox. Above all, she loved her family and was especially proud that each of her of children chose careers of public service.

She was predeceased by her husband of 39 years, Richard F. Ryan of Charlton who died in 1999; and a son, Richard J. Ryan who died in 1974.  She is survived by her four children, Colonel (U.S. Army, Retired) Diane M. Ryan and her husband Alphonse Roscoe of Bedford, Donna J. Ryan of Charlton, David M. Ryan and his wife Penny of Charlton, and Maureen A. Ryan and her significant other Christopher Martin of Spencer; her sister-in-law, A. Claire Provencal of Webster; six grandchildren, Thomas Ryan, Caroline Roscoe, Katie Ryan, Olivia Roscoe, Zachari Corbett, and Christopher Corbett; numerous nephews and nieces; and many friends at Accord Adult Day Center in Webster.

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Angela M. Palermo - November 04, 1923 - February 28, 2022

Departed: 02/28/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: OXFORD – Angela M. (Gentile) Palermo, 98, died peacefully on Monday, February 28, 2022.  She was predeceased by her husband of 61 years, Vincent R. Palermo who died in 2006.  She is survived by five children, Linda L. LaFleche of Oxford, John P. Palermo and his wife Patrice of Oxford, Anne Marie Palermo of Oxford, James P. Palermo and his wife Maureen of West Palm Beach, FL, and Michael P. Palermo and his wife Martha of Grafton; her daughter-in-law, Debbie Palermo of Leawood, KS; her brother, Francis Gentile of Worcester; her sister-in-law, Amanda Anastasi of Westborough; seven grandchildren, Kristine (LaFleche) DelloStritto and her husband Pete, Jennifer Palermo, Jonna Palermo, Michael James Palermo and his wife Kathryn, Jay Palermo, Micaela (Palermo) Burch and her husband Matt, and Ethan Palermo; two great-grandchildren, Michael and Mia DelloStritto; and many nephews and nieces.  She was predeceased by a son, Stephen Palermo who died in 2017; a son-in-law, Ken LaFleche who died in 2019; a sister, Rose O’Malley; three brothers, Nicholas Gentile, Michael Gentile, and Carl Gentile; and a granddaughter, Amy LaFleche.  She was born in Worcester, daughter of the late Pasquale and Mary (Campaniello) Gentile, and lived in Worcester before moving to Oxford in 1957.  She graduated from Commerce High School in Worcester.

Mrs. Palermo was a member of St. Roch’s Church in Oxford.  She was a member of the Oxford Woman’s Club and the Oxford Garden Club.  She also belonged to the Sacarrappa Tennis Club, the Tuesday Club, and the Rosary Sodality.  Her greatest joys in life were cooking and caring for her family.

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Mark R. Doucimo - September 12, 1968 - February 21, 2022

Departed: 02/21/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: CHARLTON – Mark R. Doucimo, 53, died Monday, February 21, 2022, at home surrounded by family and friends.  He is survived by his loving wife after being together for 19 years, Michelle L. (Cahill) Doucimo of Charlton; four children, Morgan V. Doucimo and Hunter A. Doucimo of Dudley, Kristina E. Harper and her husband Jarrod of Charlton, and Kelsea S. O’Brien of Charlton; his mother, Joyce M. (Poirier) Doucimo and his sister, Nancy R. Doucimo-Garcia of Charlton; his brother, John A. Doucimo of Oxford; three grandchildren, Audriana M. Cirilo and Carter D. Harper of Charlton, and Dillon Harper of Rutland; his aunt, Janet Clougherty of Worcester; nephews and nieces.  He was predeceased by a brother, Richard “Rick” D. Doucimo, who passed in 2016.  He was born in Worcester, son of the late Richard P. Doucimo, and was a lifelong resident of Charlton.  He graduated from Shepherd Hill in 1986.

Mark was a union labor foreman for Marois Brothers in Worcester for 26 years, retiring due to illness in 2020.  Mark started carpentry at a young age, alongside his father, grandfather, and brother. Outside of his dedication to union work, Mark spent a significant amount of time doing side work with his lifelong late friend Gregg “Sully” Szalay. During the winter months, Mark enjoyed snow removal. However, his favorite season of all, was hunting season. Devotion and dedication to hunting trips with friends and family filled his “free time.”  He was a lifelong member of St. Joseph’s Church in Charlton. Mark had the greatest friends ever who spent an extraordinary amount of time and effort to help him hunt when he found it difficult to get around.  His family meant everything to him. Mark built his life with his hands and lived it with his heart.

A funeral Mass will be held at 11 a.m. on Tuesday, March 1, 2022, at St. Joseph’s Church, 10 H. Putnam Rd. Ext, Charlton.  Burial will follow at St. John’s Cemetery in Worcester.  Calling hours are Monday, February 28, 2022, from 4-7 p.m. at Paradis-Givner Funeral Home, 357 Main St., Oxford.  An additional calling hour will be held from 10-11 a.m. on Tuesday at St. Joseph’s Church prior to the Mass.

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Roland H. Lafleche - May 05, 1943 - February 19, 2022

Departed: 02/19/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: SOUTHBRIDGE – Roland H. Lafleche, 78, of Village Drive, died Saturday, February 19, 2022, at Nashoba Valley Medical Center in Ayer, after a long illness.  He is survived by his wife of 13 years, Lenora L. (Daigle) Lafleche of Southbridge; four children, Arthur W. Lafleche of Rochdale, Melessa A. Lafleche of Southbridge, Hallet T. Merrick and his wife Candice of Millbury, and Brenda J. Trifone of Millbury; seventeen grandchildren, and many great-grandchildren, nephews, and nieces.  He was predeceased by three siblings.  He was born in Pawtucket, RI, son of the late Ernest A. and Alida (Paquin) LaFlash, and lived most of his life in Southbridge. Mr. Lafleche was a U.S. Army veteran of the Vietnam War.  He also served in the Army National Guard of California as a guided missile mechanical repairer.  He worked many jobs throughout his life, most recently as a logger with his son Arthur.  He was a member of the American Legion Post 24.  Mr. Lafleche enjoyed race cars, playing cards, watching old movies, and had a passion for art.  He loved going fishing on charter boats.  He will be remembered as a humble, kind man who was loved my many and known to everyone as “Dad.”

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Lynn M. Jarmulowicz - July 18, 1966 - February 19, 2022

Departed: 02/19/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: ROCHDALE - Born and raised in Rochdale, Massachusetts, Lynn Jarmulowicz passed away recently alongside her family.

As a graduate of Leicester High School, she attended New England School of Accounting as well as what was formally called Worcester State College, now Worcester State University.

With a birthday of July 18th, 1966, or as she would always say “two weeks after the 4th of July”, she was hardwired to be a waitress from a young age. Starting in her teenage years, Lynn had an amazing career working as a head waitress at several top restaurants in the Worcester area. No customer or detail ever went unnoticed in the restaurant or even while off work, where she spent time enjoying music and especially her cats.

Lynn was predeceased by her brother Richard J. Donnelly, stepfather Albert A. Raymond and leaves her mother Sheila T. Raymond of Rochdale, a son Dylan James Jarmulowicz of (Rochdale, MA / Tempe, AZ), and sister, brother-in-law, niece and nephew, Lori, Michael, Erin and Michael Gerber who all still reside town-side in Leicester.

Also, the family would like to thank the staff at UMass Memorial, Parson Hills and Hospice who provided top-notch care.

A private graveside service will be held later in the spring at Worcester County Memorial Park in Paxton.  Paradis-Givner Funeral Home in Oxford is directing the arrangements.

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Doris L. Trinque - March 26, 1947 - February 17, 2022

Departed: 02/17/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: CHARLTON – Doris L. (Lavoie) Trinque, 74, of Meadowview Drive, died peacefully on Thursday, February 17, 2022, at the Overlook Masonic Health Center in Charlton, MA surrounded by her family.  She was predeceased by her husband of 39 years, James J. Trinque Sr. who died in 2007; and a brother, Arthur Lavoie who died in 2021.  She is survived by four children, James Trinque Jr. and his wife Justine of Charlton, Dennis Trinque of Webster, Carolyn Trinque and her fiancé Michael Cipro of Holden, and Jennifer St. Pierre and her husband Joel of Coral Springs, FL; a brother, Richard Lavoie and his wife Alexis of Rochdale; four grandchildren, Nicholas and Rylee Trinque of Charlton, Torin Trinque of Abilene, TX, and Justin St. Pierre of Coral Springs, FL; and Kelsea McCart, who was very special to her.  She was born in Worcester, daughter of the late Arthur A. and Louise E. (Beauregard) Lavoie, and lived in Worcester before moving to Charlton in 1984.

Doris was a surgical technician at St. Vincent Hospital in Worcester for over 30 years.  She enjoyed watching baseball and football and was an avid fan of the Red Sox and Patriots.  Most important in her life, was her family.  She especially loved spending time with her children and grandchildren.

The family would like to acknowledge and thank the staff of the Overlook Post-Acute Unit for all their care and support during this difficult time.

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Barbara LaMountain - January 12, 1938 - February 16, 2022

Departed: 02/16/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: OXFORD – Barbara (Welcome) LaMountain, 84, of Federal Hill Road, died peacefully in her home on Wednesday, February 16, 2022.  She was predeceased by her husband of 35 years, Richard T. “Hoss” LaMountain Sr. who died in 1991; a son, Richard T. LaMountain Jr. who died in 2002; and a brother-in-law, Donald Alberts who died in 2020.  She is survived by five children, James LaMountain of Holland, Susan Letscher and her husband John of Whitinsville, Henry LaMountain and his wife Holly of Oxford, Peter LaMountain and his wife Christine of Oxford, and Theresa Maher and her husband John of Deland, FL; her brother, Richard Welcome and his wife Pamela of Worcester; her sister, Shirley Alberts of Pennsylvania; many grandchildren and even more great-grandchildren.  She was born in Worcester, daughter of the late Richard R. and Anita “Ora” (Pollier) Welcome, and lived in Oxford for 62 years.

Mrs. LaMountain held several jobs that she enjoyed, and spent many years caring for her home and family.  She was a member of St. Ann’s Church in North Oxford and generously supported the Oxford Animal Shelter.  She volunteered for Meals on Wheels as well as many other organizations throughout her life.  She enjoyed going to the Dudley Senior Center and playing Pitch daily with her friends.  She loved her family and animals, and was grateful for all her blessings.  She was generous and kind to everyone she met.

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Irene T. Hull - April 13, 1932 - February 13, 2022

Departed: 02/13/2022 (Oxford)

Obituary Preview: OXFORD – Irene T. (Brosnahan) Hull, 89, of Paige Lane, died peacefully on Sunday, February 13, 2022, at Lanessa Extended Care in Webster, after a period of declining health.  She was predeceased by her husband, Frederick “Allan” Hull who died in 2021.  She is survived by three children, Linda Vigeant of Oxford, Allan Hull and his wife Marilyn of Columbia, TN, and Laurie Rawson and her husband Jody of Oxford; two sisters, Frances Bennett of Oxford, and Claire Guzman of California; nine grandchildren, Joseph Vigeant, James Vigeant and his wife Joey, Adam Hull and his wife Ashley, Steven Hull and his fiancée Beth, Michael Vigeant and his wife Susan, Joshua Hull, Ethan Rawson and his wife Jennifer, Aidan Rawson, and John Bedard; eight great-grandchildren, Caitlin, Alex, Natalie, Joseph Jr., Danielle, Olivia, Jasper, and Emilia; and many nephews and nieces.  She was predeceased by two sons, Douglas Hull who died in 2020, and Steven Hull who died in 1980; her son-in-law, Don Vigeant who died in 2015; her daughter-in-law, Carol Hull who died in 2020; and two sisters, Ruth Prunier and Kathryn Troiano.  She was born in Worcester, daughter of the late James and Irene (Graveline) McMahon, and lived in Worcester before moving to Oxford in 1964.  She graduated from Worcester Public Schools.

Mrs. Hull was a bank teller at Shawmut Bank in Worcester for over 25 years prior to retirement.  She spent winters with her husband in Florida for over 20 years.  She enjoyed jigsaw puzzles, oil painting, knitting, crocheting, and playing board games, especially Scrabble.  She loved spending time at the beach swimming and collecting seashells.  She was a wonderful mom, and though her life was not always easy, she was always there for her children as they were growing up and throughout their lives.

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Personalized Funeral Services

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While it may seem difficult to think about planning a funeral in advance, doing so can be a thoughtful gesture of love for your family. By pre-planning with Paradis-Givner Funeral Home, you can ensure that your wishes are respected, while also alleviating the burden on your loved ones during an already difficult time. Their experienced staff will guide you through the process, helping you make informed decisions about your final arrangements.

A Network of Support

Bereavement is a journey that no one should face alone. At Paradis-Givner Funeral Home, they understand the importance of ongoing support during the grieving process. They offer a range of resources, including grief counseling, support groups, and online materials to help you navigate this challenging time. Their team is committed to being there for you every step of the way, providing comfort, guidance, and reassurance when you need it most.

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Paradis-Givner Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Oxford community, with strong ties to local organizations and charities. They believe in giving back to the community that has supported them throughout the years. Through their involvement in various initiatives and events, they demonstrate their commitment to making a positive impact on the lives of those around them.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing essential information for those who want to pay their respects. They help to notify people of the passing, share details about the funeral or memorial service, and provide a sense of closure for loved ones.

What is included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral or memorial service, such as the date, time, location, and any special requests or instructions.

Who writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or obituary writer may assist with writing the obituary. The writer should aim to capture the personality, spirit, and accomplishments of the deceased in a concise and respectful manner.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Typically, it ranges from 100 to 500 words. However, some online obituary platforms may allow for longer or more detailed tributes.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides a more detailed account of the person's life, including their accomplishments, interests, and surviving family members.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, you can write your own obituary in advance. This is often referred to as a "self-written obituary" or "advance obituary." Writing your own obituary can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life story is told in your own words.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

To submit an obituary to a newspaper, you'll typically need to contact the newspaper's obituary department directly. They will provide guidance on their specific submission requirements, including word count limits, formatting guidelines, and deadlines.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms where you can publish an obituary. These platforms often offer more flexibility in terms of content and format compared to traditional newspapers. You can also share the online obituary on social media or via email to reach a wider audience.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or discounts for online publications. Online obituary platforms may offer free or low-cost options.

What is an online memorial?

An online memorial is a virtual tribute to a deceased person that allows friends and family to share memories, photos, and condolences. Online memorials can be created on various platforms, including social media sites, online obituary websites, or dedicated memorial websites.

How long does an online obituary stay online?

The duration for which an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform. Some websites may keep the obituary online indefinitely, while others may remove it after a certain period. Be sure to check with the platform's policies before submitting your obituary.

Can I make changes to an already published obituary?

If you need to make changes to an already published obituary, contact the publication or platform where it was originally published. They may have procedures in place for making corrections or updates.

What if I want to keep my loved one's obituary private?

If you prefer to keep your loved one's obituary private, you can opt for a private or restricted online memorial. This way, only authorized individuals will be able to access the tribute.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include photos with the obituary. Photos can help personalize the tribute and provide a visual representation of the person's life.

What kind of photos are suitable for an obituary?

Suitable photos for an obituary include recent portraits, favorite hobbies or activities, special moments with loved ones, or iconic images that capture the person's personality.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, you can include quotes or lyrics that were meaningful to your loved one in their obituary. This adds a personal touch and helps celebrate their life.

How do I handle condolences and messages from readers?

You can include information in the obituary about where condolences can be sent or how readers can leave messages. Online platforms often provide built-in condolence books or guestbooks for this purpose.

Can I republish an old obituary?

If you want to republish an old obituary for a special occasion like a anniversary of their passing or birthday , you can re-share it on social media or through email .You can also update it with new information if needed .

Is it possible to create a video tribute instead of a written obituary?

Yes! Video tributes are becoming increasingly popular as they offer a unique way to celebrate a person's life through images , music ,and storytelling .You can share these videos on social media ,online memorial websites ,or even at funeral services .

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy when writing an obituary ,double-check all facts ,spellings ,and dates .It's also helpful to have multiple people review the draft before publication .

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to emotional distress ,consider reaching out to a trusted friend ,family member ,or professional writer for assistance .They can help guide you through the process and craft a beautiful tribute .

Can I use humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate your loved one's personality and spirit .Just be sure to balance humor with respect and sensitivity towards those who will be reading the tribute .

How do I preserve my loved one's memory beyond the initial grieving period?

Beyond publishing an initial obituary ,you can continue preserving your loved one's memory through ongoing tributes ,charitable donations ,or establishing scholarships in their name .These gestures help keep their legacy alive over time .