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Gerrard Whitney Keane - September 06, 1956 - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Gerrard Whitney Keane, affectionately known as “Whit” and “Grampy”, passed away peacefully in the arms of his loving wife, Kathy, on May 1, 2024. Whit had suffered a long battle with dementia, and is finally at peace. He was born on September 6, 1956 to Robert and Geraldine Keane in Reading, PA. Whit graduated from Ashbrook High School, and lived out his great love and passion for music by earning his Associates degree in Broadcasting from Gaston College. He was a DJ for the local college radio station, and was known to dedicate songs to his future wife Kathy on the station quite frequently. Ever the romantic, his song dedications paid off when he and Kathy married in 1980. Together they built a beautiful family with four daughters, and supported each other through the highs and lows in life, and loved each other unconditionally through it all.

Whit is preceded in death by his parents and sister, Laurie Barry of NJ. He is survived by his wife Kathy, daughters Jeannette Anselmo (husband Tim), Katie Barnes (husband Rusty), Whitney Dowd (husband Parker), and Rachel Keane (fiance Brian), grandchildren Paisley, Luke, Adam, Oliver, Scarlett, Hadley and Marin, sister Torry Keane of VA, nieces Kim and Keely, nephew Sean, and many sister and brother-in-laws whom he adored.

If you ever had the honor of meeting Whit, you would never forget him. His smile was contagious, his laugh was heartwarming, and his ability to find the good in any situation, no matter how bad it seemed, made him adored by all. He was funny, boisterous, faithful, kind, and incredibly intelligent. He was often referred to as a big kid, even by himself, because he never took life too seriously, and was always laughing and goofing around. He was a self taught handyman, and could fix any car or home repair before google and the internet were ever created. He was so encouraging, and so proud of his four daughters. He would stop strangers to tell them about his girls, and boasted about them as his most prized possessions. He took great pleasure in being called “Dad”, and said becoming a father was the best thing that ever happened to him. He coached his daughter Jeannette’s volleyball team in school, supported his daughter Katie’s passion for art, and showed up to help set up and support his daughters Whitney and Rachel in all their school concerts and theater performances. His seven grandchildren brought out his most soft and lovable side, and he was absolutely elated with each of their births. Whit was compassionate, and so very loving. He spoke words of encouragement and love that would fill your soul, and make you feel beautiful and loved.

One of Whit’s greatest passions was music. He had an extensive record collection, and you would rarely find him without his headphones on, the speakers blasting in the living room to his favorite jams, or playing his harmonica. He became an avid gardener later in life, and delighted with each new bloom he had planted. He was quite the artist, and master of the grill. His steaks and burgers were hands down the best around. He loved to talk politics, was a huge Chicago Bears fan, and was his absolute happiest at the beach, basking in the sun or body surfing on a wave. He was a devout Catholic, and found great peace from his church families at St. Michael’s and Queen of the Apostles. He made the statement that he knew heaven would be his final resting place (which was reassuring to the family in this time of grief).

The family deeply appreciates your support during this difficult time. A memorial will be held at Queen of the Apostles Catholic Church in Belmont at 10:00 am on Friday, May 3rd, followed by his burial at Evergreen Cemetery in Belmont.

Whit never wanted his family and friends to be sad after his passing, and instead always asked us to throw a celebration of his life, and celebrate we will! A celebration of Whit’s beautiful life will be held at his daughter Whitney’s residence at 1:00pm following his burial at 105 Eagle Rd, Belmont, NC. Please join us to celebrate Whit’s life, and the profound impact he made on every life he touched. If you would like to make a donation in Whit’s honor, please send them to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital or Queen of the Apostles Catholic Church.

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James Robert Thomas Jr. - March 01, 1948 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Every significant event and date led James Robert Thomas Jr., better known as Jim, to the most significant day of his life, April 29, 2024. This is the day his race on earth was completed. Jim was born to the late James Robert Thomas and Betty Mixon Thomas on March 1, 1948. The Thomas siblings were: Jim, David, Beth, Motte, and Tibby. Jim married the love of his life, Candice and they began their journey navigating life together! Jim owned and operated Thomas Printing in Charlotte, NC for nearly twenty-five years. While he had many notable days in his life, the best day of his life was September 10, 1996. On this date, Jim received the gift of the Holy Ghost beginning his race with Jesus Christ. The following day Jim was baptized by immersion in Jesus Name for the remission of sins. The introduction of this “new life” transformed Jim and redirected his passions towards a Kingdom that was not of this world. A Heavenly Kingdom. Jim began looking for a city which hath foundations whose builder and maker is God. Every day, he continued the race faithfully, pressing toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus. Upon retirement to Fripp Island, SC, Jim felt his call to the ministry. Rev. James Robert Thomas, Jr. founded and pastored The Pentecostals of Beaufort on Lady’s Island for 20+ years and it continues to be a thriving body of believers. What a legacy! In addition to his pastorate, Jim along with his wife Candice operated a successful upscale furniture resale shop, The Front Porch. Jim created many long-lasting friendships through this business adventure. After many years of incredible ministry and success in the low country of South Carolina, it was time for another look at retirement! Upon the second retirement, Jim would relocate back to the Charlotte area and reside in Belmont, NC, choosing to be close to dear friends and his newly found church family, The Upper Room Church. Jim was an active member as he was consistently working, giving, and cultivating an atmosphere of life all around himself. The short-time he was at the URC, he left a lasting impact that will never be forgotten. It’s impossible to summarize a life well lived in such few sentences. Jim was a friend to all, a pastor to his flock, a loving husband, father to a spoiled rotten dog/part human, Beau, but above all, he was a faithful Christian. Jim fought the good fight, finished his race, and kept the faith. Well done to a faithful servant of Jesus Christ. We love you, Jim. We will see you again! Visitation will be the Upper Room Church, 1405 Armstrong Ford Rd., Belmont, NC 28012 on May 4, 2024 at 12pm w/ the Homegoing Celebration at 1pm.

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Ruby Featherston Wallace - October 25, 1930 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Ruby Taylor Featherston Wallace, 93, of Dallas, NC passed away on Friday, April 26, 2024 at Stanley Total Living Center. Ruby was born on October 25, 1930 in Mecklenburg County to the late Charles Jennings Featherston and Lettie Kathleen Lennon Featherston.  She was preceded in death by her husband, Jasper Don Wallace, and sons, Don Taylor Wallace, Eddie Dale Wallace, and Jack Allen Wallace. She is survived by her son Wayne Glenn Wallace, and daughter Susan Wallace Jacobs, as well as several grand children and great grandchildren. Ruby graduated from Gastonia High School in 1950. Throughout her life, she was known for her skills and talents of crocheting, gardening, sewing, and caring for her family. She will also be greatly remembered for her famous white cucumber seeds that were sold nationwide for many years. She was a hard worker, full of spunk, and loved the Lord.  There will be a receiving of family and friends on Friday, May 3, 2024 from 3-4 pm at Independent Baptist Tabernacle Church in Dallas, NC, with a graveside service to follow.

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Patricia Ann Kirkland - May 08, 1955 - March 21, 2024

Departed: 03/21/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Patricia A. Kirkland, 68 of Stanley, NC, went to her heavenly home March 21, 2024. She was the daughter of the late Jack and Jean Kirkland. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her sister Diane Kirkland and brother in law Jimmie McAllister.

Patricia is survived by sister Ruth McAllister, nephew Casey Dellinger (Jenna), niece Jennifer Queen (Doug), great nephews Liam Dellinger, Sully Dellinger, great nieces Freya Dellinger, Cassie, Gypsy Rose and Eliza Queen.

Patricia enjoyed spending time with her nieces and nephews. She also enjoyed our trips to the beach and mountains. She retired from the Gaston County Library, which she still enjoyed having lunch with her co workers.

A service to celebrate and honor Patricia's life will be held 3:00pm Monday March 25, 2024 at Emmanuel Free Will Baptist Church in Dallas.  The family will visit with friends from 2-3:00pm prior to the service at the church.

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Daniel Scott Davis - July 12, 1964 - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Daniel Scott Davis, born July 12, 1964, in Michigan, passed away on March 15, 2024. He was the beloved son of the late Mary Alice Davis, and was also preceded in death by his brother Larry Camp. Daniel is survived by his wife of 22 years Angie Davis, 4 loving children: Scott Davis (Amanda) of Indian Land, Jeff Davis (Ashley) of Oak Island, Jeremiah Driscoll (Paige) of Fort Sill, OK, and Rebekah Austing (Christopher) of Spartanburg, SC. He was also a cherished grandfather to 7 grandchildren: Cooper, Trevor, Rylan, Lily Brooke, Sara Grace, Ava Gayle, and Jackson.

Daniel was a devoted brother to Rick Camp and Dave Davis, and shared a special bond of friendship for 50 years with Robbie Burchfield.

He was known for his passion for cooking, often hosting and entertaining his loved ones. Family meant everything to Daniel, especially his grandchildren, whom he adored spending time with, listening to their music and watching them grow.

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James Ronald Henson Sr. - October 14, 1934 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Stanley)

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James Ronald Henson Sr. - October 14, 1934 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Stanley)

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Thomas Brandon Burch - November 10, 1993 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Brandon Burch was born on November 10, 1993 in Charlotte, NC and lost his fight with diabetes on March 14, 2024. He was a beloved husband, father, son, brother, and friend. Brandon leaves behind his wife of almost 9 years, Ragan Burch. He is survived by his two children, Bailey Burch (9) and McKenna Burch (6); parents, Todd Burch and Donna Pope; and brother, Chris Burch. He leaves behind nephews, Dillon Burch and Bradley Burch, and niece, Abigail Burch. Brandon had a passion for riding motorcycles with his closest friends. He loved letting his two daughters play with his long, red beard. Brandons love for his wife was evident as they spent half of their life together.

The two met in English class of their freshman year in high school at age 14. Their friendship blossomed into an unbreakable love for each other. They began planning their lives together shortly after graduating high school. Growing their family with unconditional love and silly moments. Brandon was an adored father by his two little girls and will truly be missed! A service to honor and celebrate Brandons Life will be held at New Life Baptist Church on 527 N Buckoak Street in Stanley, NC on Tuesday March 19, 2024 at 7:00pm. Visitation at 6:00pm. Brandon will be remembered for his outspoken heart, dedication to his family and friends, and witty sense of humor.

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James Alan Funderburk - September 26, 1959 - March 07, 2024

Departed: 03/07/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: James Alan Funderburk, born on September 26, 1959, in Charlotte, passed away on March 7, 2024. He was the beloved son of the late Helen and Landon Funderburk.

James was preceded in death by his wife of 34 years, Scarlett Funderburk. He is survived by his two children, Alicia Kidd of Stanley and Brandy Kidd of Dallas, and his adored grandchildren Cameron, Caleb, Hudson, and Caralina. James is also survived by his brother, Landon "Buzz" Funderburk Jr. of Charlotte, and his three sisters: Wanda Sullivan of York, SC, Myra Bell (Jeff) of Statesville, and Amy Miller (Wayne) of N. Charleston. He leaves behind numerous nieces, nephews, great nieces, and great nephews as well.

James graduated from West Mecklenburg High School and had a passion for working on cars, drawing, and collecting antiques. His love for his wife was evident as they spent all their time together.

A service to honor and celebrate James' life will be held at The Freewill Church Of Jesus Christ on 145 Hamrick Road in Gastonia, NC, USA, on Monday March 18, 2024, at 6:00 pm. Visitation will follow.

James Funderburk will be remembered for his kind heart, dedication to his family, and his talents in craftsmanship.

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Jada Elaine Harkey - April 02, 1999 - February 27, 2024

Departed: 02/27/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Jada Elaine Harkey was the daughter of April Nicole Harkey and was born April 2, 1999 in Charlotte North Carolina. She gained her angel wings on Tuesday February 27,2024. She was 24 years old.

Jada graduated from Stuart Cramer High School in June of 2017.

She was a daughter and granddaughter, precious niece, sister, aunt, and loving mother of Mason Harkey.

She was a member of Hickory Grove Baptist Church; and enjoyed being an active member of the youth group.

She was very artsy and as a child her art works were displayed throughout Gaston  County. She loved  and valued spending time with her family, going camping, to the beach, and especially loved holiday get-togethers. She was a rockstar cheerleader and captain of her team years in row. She loved to cook almost as much as she loved to eat, and had dreams of becoming a master chef. She loved to sing, dance, and be silly making everyone around her laugh. Jada had an infectious smile that would light up any room, and a laugh that made it impossible not to join in. She loved her Mason, and wanted to give him the world and then some. Jada had a heart of gold, and she valued caring for others.

She was preceded in death by her uncle Jeremy Rimmer. She is survived by her son Mason, & her mother April Harkey. Her sisters, Carmen (son Kylan) and Haylee along with her Brothers, John and Blake. Her grandparents, Jerry Harkey, Debbie Bryant and husband Danny.

Special Aunt Gina Rimmer, sons Triston, Oliver, Morgan. Brandy Bryant, son Noah. Favorite Uncle Tony Harkey, wife Cinthya, son Irving, daughters Mia and Layla.

Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday March 9, 2024 at 2:00 at Hickory Grove Baptist Church, 3717 Hickory Grove Rd. Gastonia NC 28056 with Visitation following at 2:45.

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Debra A Cordell - February 21, 1957 - February 20, 2024

Departed: 02/20/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Debra Ann Cordell, loving wife, devoted mother, cherished grandmother, and beloved sister, passed away peacefully at her home  on February 20, 2024, just one day shy of her 67th birthday. Debra was born on February 21, 1957, to the late Lance and Ina Craig in Caldwell County.

Debra was a beacon of light to all who knew her. She grew up in South Gastonia and was a member of the Union Road Optimist Club, where she exemplified kindness and generosity. Debra was a dedicated homemaker who found immense joy in cooking for her family and caring for their every need. Her family and grandbabies were her world, and she poured her heart and soul into creating a warm and loving home for them.

Despite facing challenges, Debra was determined and resilient. She was proud of returning to school later in life to earn her GED, a testament to her perseverance and commitment to self-improvement. Debra's beautiful voice echoed through the halls of her home, bringing  joy to those around her.

Debra was preceded in death by her brothers, Jerry Craig and Billy Craig, and her sister, Amber Floyd. She is survived by her loving husband of over 49 years, Michael Cordell, her children Michael Cordell Jr. and wife Amanda, Jennifer Cordell, Josh Cordell and wife Natasha, and Laura Cordell. Debra also leaves behind her grandchildren Elijah Cordell, Blake Butterfield, Addison Cordell, Lucas Moretz, Eric Moretz, Isabelle Cordell, and Gabriella Cordell, as well as two great-grandchildren. She is also survived by her brother, Danny Craig.

A celebration of Debra's life will be held at the First Methodist Church of Mount Holly, NC, on North Main Street, on February 23, 2024, at 2:00 PM. The family will receive friends from 1-2:00pm prior to the service at the church. Burial will follow at Evergreen Cemetery in Belmont.

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Robert Henry Broome - November 21, 1936 - February 18, 2024

Departed: 02/18/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Robert Henry Broome, born November 21, 1936, in Gaston County, peacefully passed away at Caromont Regional Medical Center on February 18, 2024. He was the beloved son of the late Tom and Ruth Broome.

Robert was a devoted husband to his wife of 65 years, JoAnn Broome. Together, they built a life filled with love, laughter, and cherished memories. Robert is survived by his three children: Pam Grahl (Mark) of Dallas, Robert H Broome Jr. (Cindy) of Dallas, and Michael Broome (Tonia) of Gastonia. He was a loving grandfather to Megan, Landon, Dustin, Courteney, Dalton, and Logan, and a proud great-grandfather to Caden and Marleigh.

In addition to his immediate family, Robert leaves behind a community of friends and loved ones who will deeply miss him. In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his brother, Richard Broome.

A private funeral service will be held to honor Robert's life.

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Faye Helms Moore - August 22, 1931 - February 16, 2024

Departed: 02/16/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Faye Helms Moore, born August 22, 1931, in Stanley, NC peacefully passed away on February 16, 2024, at Lakewood Care Center. She was the beloved daughter of the late Ernest and Mary Helms.

Faye was a loving and devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, and friend. She was preceded in death by her husband of over 63 years, Olin George Moore, her sister Mary Moore Hovis, and her brother David Converse Helms.

She is survived by her three children: Mike Moore and wife Valerie of Stanley, Jackie Rimmer of Stanley, and Elizabeth Moore of Stanley. Faye also leaves behind five grandchildren: Angel Goins (Drew), Julie Rimmer, Casey Boyd (Jake), Madi Moore, and Luke Moore, as well as great-grandchildren Jaycee and Colee Boyd. She is also survived by her brother, Buck Helms and his wife Ann.

Faye was a woman of faith and a dedicated member of First Methodist Church in Stanley and Gateway Cowboy Church. She retired as an assistant teacher from Springfield and Kiser Elementary, touching the lives of many young students with her kindness and wisdom.

Beyond her professional life, Faye was a talented songwriter, pouring her heart and soul into her music. Her melodies will continue to resonate in the hearts of those who knew and loved her and had her CD's.

A funeral service to honor and celebrate Faye's life will be held at CommonGround -  Hickory Grove Road in Stanley, NC, on February 22, 2024, at 1:00 PM. The family will receive friend from 12:00-1:00pm prior to the service at the church. Burial will follow at Hillcrest Gardens Cemetery. Friends and family are welcome to attend and pay their respects.

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Janice K. McCummings - May 11, 1941 - February 08, 2024

Departed: 02/08/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Janice Huffstetler McCummings, 82, passed away at her home on Thursday, February 8th, 2024, surrounded by her loving family. She was born to the late Kenneth and Dora Alice Huffstetler in Cramerton, NC. She was preceded in death by her daughter Sandy Williams Ward, and brothers-in-law James Burr and Richard McCummings. She is survived by her loving husband Barry McCummings; daughter Kathy Williams Keane and spouse Whit of NC; sons Victor Hart and spouse Anita of NC, Billy Williams of VA, and Tony Williams and spouse Brenda of PA; brother Kenneth Huffstetler of Korea; sisters Cecilia Burr of NC and Twynkle Huffstetler and spouse Linda Childers of NC; sisters-in-law Margaret Slota and spouse Ray of NJ, and Joyce Zachry and spouse Paul of MD; brother-in-law Joseph McCummings of FL. She leaves behind 19 grandchildren, and 36 great grandchildren, who all affectionately called her “Mom Mom”. Janice married her soulmate, Barry, on April 13th, 1979. Never was a couple made more perfect for each other than Janice and Barry. They have loved and cared for each other in sickness and in health, through good and bad, and have set the ultimate example of a loving couple for their family to follow. It feels impossible to summarize the beautiful life Janice lived. Her smile was contagious, and her laugh made it impossible not to join in. She loved to snuggle all the babies in the family, play cards or board games with her grandkids, and would have happily had a yard sale every weekend if she could. She played more than her fair share of Bingo over the years, and could spend hours playing the slot machines at the casino. She loved a good joke or funny story, and couldn’t wait to get home to share it with Barry, so they could laugh together. That was one of the many things that made Janice so special. She wanted to share her joy with others. Janice was kind, compassionate, hilarious, loving, and the absolute most wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. Her passing comes as a great shock and a deep wound, and it is gravely felt by her entire family and countless others who loved her deeply. Janice had a strong faith in God, and we found comfort in knowing heaven was awaiting her arrival. The family deeply appreciates your support during this difficult time. A Memorial was held in NC on Sunday, February 11th at the Barn at Sandcastle Farm. A viewing will be held on Saturday, February 17th at 12:30pm at R.T. Foard Funeral Home, 111 S. Queen St.,Rising Sun, MD. A graveside service will follow at West Nottingham Cemetery. Pastor Harold Phillips officiating. A Celebration of Life will be held on Sunday, February 18th at 1:30pm at The Barn of Nottingham 101 Ponds Edge Drive, Nottingham, PA. 19362

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Jefferson Ray Lockman - July 30, 1943 - February 05, 2024

Departed: 02/05/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Jefferson “Jake” Ray Lockman, 80, born in Statesville, NC to the late Wade and Hazel Lockman, passed away peacefully on February 5th, 2024.

Before his retirement, Jake worked many years for Hunt Manufacturing in Statesville, NC. Jake and Lorene, his beautiful wife of nearly 20 years, resided in Belmont, NC.  Jake and Lorene enjoyed life, spending time at the beach, dancing, dining out, spending time with family, and attending church.  Both were avid sports fans, no matter the sport!

Jake is preceded in death by his wife, Lorene Lawing, his mother and father, Wade and Hazel Lockman, his sisters, Helen Bovier and Laura June Lockman, and his son Eric Lockman.

Jake is survived by his brother, David Lockman (Laura), his sons, Paul David and Jeff Lockman (Angela), his stepdaughters,Susan Heath (Jimmy), Debbie Tucker (Ed), and Cindy Tilley (Kent) as well as many grand and great grandchildren, nieces,and other extended family.

The family will celebrate the life of Jake with a graveside service to be held on Saturday February 17th, 2024 at 12:00 at Hillcrest Cemetery in Mt. Holly, NC.

Words cannot express the gratitude we have for the loving and caring staff at Stanley Total Living Center.  They became like family and Jake loved them dearly.  He was the resident jokester, lovingly referred to as “Jake the Snake” by the staff.  We are also appreciative of VIA Health Partners for being there for us in our time of need.

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James William McDaniel - November 30, 1966 - February 01, 2024

Departed: 02/01/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Jamie went to be with the Lord on Thursday February 1, 2024.  He was a Loving Son, Father, Brother, Uncle and Friend. Survivors include: Mother: Patricia Christenbury Son: Kaleb Chaise McDaniel Daughter: Destiny Smith Niece: Allie Anna Pickett Sister: Rebecca (Cissie) Pickett The Service will be held at Castanea Community Church

Monday February 5, 2024, at 6:00 p.m., with Pastor Charles Barrier officiating. Jamie,

Until that sweet day when we see you again, we miss you and Love you so very much. Your Family –Mama, Kaleb, Destiny, Allie and Cissie

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Margie Bernice Grindstaff - October 27, 1924 - January 20, 2024

Departed: 01/20/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Margie Bernice Spencer was born on October 27, 1924, in Gaston County, NC to the late Thomas Boyd Spencer & Mattie Ethel Wallace.

On January 20, 2024, she passed away peacefully at home with her loving daughters & granddaughter by her side.

She resided in Mt. Holly for most of her life where she raised her family.

She was an early & lifelong member of Goshen Free Will Baptist Church.  In her earlier years with the church, she led the youth choir and later served as the choir director of the church for many years.  She loved her church and her church family. She is preceded in death by her husband JD Grindstaff & daughter Angie Poole

Left to cherish her memory are daughters Millie Bahr (Jim), Nancy Hoffman (Hoyle) & Rhonda Frye.  Grandchildren, Phil Hodge (Christa), Jayson Hoffman (Glendie), Christy Crump (Randy), Sherri Vermette (Steve), William Dagenhart, Camilla Bahr, Jamie Klatt (Jared), Sara Poole, Brice Dellinger (Ayla), sister Nancy Beaty as well as 14 great-grandchildren.

She was a true testament of her faith and was a remarkable wife, mother, grandmother and friend.  She will be missed by all who knew her.

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Jack Allen Wallace - December 08, 1962 - January 13, 2024

Departed: 01/13/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Jack Allen Wallace of Dallas, Nc passed away peacefully on January 13, 2024 at Caromont Regional Medical Center. Jack was born on December 8, 1962 in Gastonia, NC to the late Jasper Don Wallace and Ruby Featherson Wallace. He was a talented carpenter, an avid gardener, and worked for many years in the pipeline industry. Jack spent the last several years of his life caring for his mother, who he loved deeply.

He was preceded in death by father, Jasper Don Wallace, and brothers, Don Taylor Wallace and Eddie Dale Wallace.

Survived by his mother, Ruby Featherston Wallace, and siblings Wayne Wallace, and Susan Jacobs as well as several nieces and nephews.

Jack will be greatly missed by those who loved him. He will be remembered for all of the kind things he did for others, for all of the jokes and stories he told, and the passion he had for taking care of his family.

A graveside service was held Friday January 19, 2023 at Independent Baptist Tabernacle Church Cemetery.

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Rosietta Dover Lawrence - June 18, 1933 - January 08, 2024

Departed: 01/08/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Rosetta “Pat” Lawrence of Iron Station, NC passed away on January 8, 2024 after a long illness. Mrs. Lawrence was born on June 18, 1933 in Turnerville, Georgia to Eugenia and Wofford Dover. She moved to Charlotte with her family in the 1940’s. Mrs. Lawrence retired from Graphics Packaging in Charlotte after many years of service. She is predeceased by her parents and by her husband William Rudolph Lawrence. Surviving Mrs. Lawrence are her two sons, William Jackson Lawrence (Katie) of Harrisburg, NC and Alfred Lee Lawrence (Chris) of Lincolnton, NC. Mrs. Lawrence is also survived by grandchildren Matthew Lawrence, Hickory, NC, Adam Lawrence (Sydney), Mooresville, NC, Jenny Lawrence (Phillip West), Charlotte, NC, Genie Pope, Texas, two step-grandchildren Patsy Branch and J.C. Branch and seven great- grandchildren. Interment at Sharon Memorial Park, Charlotte, NC with graveside service on Wednesday January 10 at 1:00 pm.

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Trenton Michael Doane - June 16, 2003 - January 07, 2024

Departed: 01/07/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Trenton Michael Doane, 20, of Indian Trail, NC passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, January 7, 2023. Those that knew Trent might speak about his good humor and ability to make you laugh, when you least expect it. Perhaps they’ll remember his unquestionable talent to write lyrics and compose music (two of his favorite past-times). His knack for capturing a memory, moment or feeling in a song was compelling and often hit the heart with force, moving you to reverie. Trent was a native to Union County, born in Monroe on June 16, 2003 and attended Poplin Elementary, Porter Ridge Middle and High schools along with being active in many local sports organizations in the area. His friends, classmates and coaches will recall his competitive nature combined with sportsmanship. Trenton was very close to his family, both immediate and extended. He could always be counted among the cousins at family gatherings and would happily wrestle his younger cousin to exhaustion or bring a drink or dessert to an aunt with a smile and flourish. Trenton will remain a treasured memory to his family and friends who know that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. Left to cherish his memory is his Father Michael Doane (Sarah), siblings Trevor, Chloe, Ryan and Claire. paternal grandmother Marlene Linville, devoted Aunt Patricia Rooney, maternal grandfather David Rushing, along with multitudes of extended aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. He is preceded in death by his beloved Mother, Amber Doane. All are welcomed to join the family to remember Trenton and celebrate his life on Saturday, January 13, 2024 at Shiloh Baptist Church, 2301 N. Rocky River Rd. Monroe, NC 28110. Visitation to begin at 1 pm immediately followed by a service at 2pm officiated by Pastor Brad Kelley.

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Charles Ray Crisp - July 16, 1937 - January 04, 2024

Departed: 01/04/2024 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Charles Ray Crisp, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, passed away peacefully at his home on January 4, 2024. He was born on July 16, 1937, in Gaston County, NC, to the late Lillian Lucille Sahms and Robert Guy Crisp.

Charles was preceded in death by his children, Charles Kenneth Crisp and Cynthia Yvonne Lawrence, as well as his brother, Robert Crisp.

He is survived by his loving wife of 65 years, Mildred Ruth Crisp, who stood by his side through thick and thin. Their commitment and enduring love serve as an inspiration to all. Charles leaves behind a legacy through his four children: Shelia Welch (Bryan) of Gastonia, Sam Crisp (Theresa) of Newport News, VA, April Crisp of Mount Holly, and Robert Crisp (Carla) of Gastonia.

Charles was blessed with a large and loving family, including 19 grandchildren and 19 great-grandchildren, as well as numerous extended family members.

Before retiring, Charles dedicated many years of his life to working at Nixon Construction.

In his free time, Charles found joy in watching NASCAR racing and was a former dirt track driver. The thrill of the track and the camaraderie of fellow competitors and fans brought him happiness.

Charles served his country as a proud veteran of the US Air Force. His dedication to his country and his selflessness in defending the freedom we hold dear will never be forgotten.

A funeral service to celebrate Charles's life will be held at Macedonia Baptist Church in Gastonia, NC, on Sunday January 7, 2024, at 2:00 PM. Burial will follow at Gaston Memorial Park. The family will receive friends from 1-2:00pm prior to the service at the church. Family, friends, and all those whose lives were touched by Charles are welcome to attend and pay their respects.

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John Ernest Stowe - February 20, 1960 - December 31, 2023

Departed: 12/31/2023 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: John Ernest Stowe, born on February 20, 1960, in Charlotte, North Carolina, passed away on December 31, 2023, at Caromont Regional Medical Center. He was the beloved son of the late Ronald and Barbara Sims Stowe.

In addition to his parents, John was preceded in death by his sister-in-law, Cathy Stowe. He is survived by his three brothers, Ronnie Stowe and wife Vanessa, Donnie Stowe and wife Wanda, and Mike Stowe, as well as numerous nieces, nephews, and extended family members.

John had a passion for woodworking and spent countless hours honing his craft.

In addition to his love for woodworking, John had a love for NASCAR and dirt track racing. He could often be found cheering on his favorite drivers on the television or at the track.

A memorial service will be held on January 20, 2024, at True Gospel Interdenominational Church, 511 Wilson St. in Stanley, NC. Friends and family are invited to pay their respects and celebrate John's life at 11:00 am.

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Bonnie Houston Wilson - February 24, 1932 - December 27, 2023

Departed: 12/27/2023 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Bonnie Houston Wilson, faithful servant of the Living God left this world to join Jesus, her blessed savior on Wednesday morning, December 27th.  Bonnie was born on February 24, 1932  to the late Mamie and Thomas Houston of Pink Hill, NC; the youngest of 17 children.  After marrying Ernest (Sonny) Wilson in 1947, they moved to Charlotte and started a business and family.  She and Sonny shared two beloved sons, Mike and Wade. The family built a home in south Charlotte in 1964,  where Bonnie still resided until recent years. Although Charlotte became home for Bonnie at a young age, she had profound roots “down home” in Eastern NC where she would travel to as often as possible, most especially for treasured family reunions. She even made the drive herself well into her 80’s.

Bonnie was a tireless worker for the Kingdom of Heaven. A true prayer warrior! She served local ministries for several decades and was most recently a devoted member of Steele Creek Church of Charlotte.  Bonnie’s love of others was evident in her countless, faithful prayers and acts of service to her family, church and community.  Her life was hallmarked by quiet service, whether it was the preparation of meals for others, working in church ministries, or witnessing to others during her daily life.

Bonnie was preceded in death by her husband Ernest “Sonny” Wilson, sons Mike Wilson and Wade Wilson, and daughters in law, Wanda Wilson and Pam Wilson.  Surviving family members include her grandson Michael Wilson (Heather), granddaughter Sunny Walls (Mark), bonus grandchildren Michelle Newman (Steve), Joey Bolden, Jerri-Lynn Snyder, Jamie Bolden, 7 great grandchildren and 4 great great grandchildren, numerous nieces and nephews who she loved dearly and thought of often.

A graveside service will be held 12:00pm noon on Tuesday January 2, 2024 at Sharon Memorial Park in Charlotte.

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Sonya Tara Childers - March 03, 1961 - December 27, 2023

Departed: 12/27/2023 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: Sonya Tara Childers, beloved wife, mother, sister and grandmother passed away on December 27, 2023 in Gastonia, NC at the age of 62. She was born March 3, 1961 in Gaston County, NC to late Patricia Brooks and husband Jimmy and Troy Smith.

She is predeceased by her husband Sam Childers and grandson Dalton Haas.

Sonya is survived by her three daughters Tabitha McMahon (Tim), Crystal Crosby (Robbie) and Tara Hoffman; her sister Hope Pressley; brothers Todd Smith and Troy Smith Jr.; grandchildren Randy Morgan (Faith), Harlie Workman, Jonas Hoffman, Elijah Workman, Krislyn Hoffman, Spencer Guffie, Kaitlyn Wood (Merlyn), Connor McMahon, Savannah Allman and Cailey Haas; great grandchildren Rylee and Raelynn Haas and Leo Wood.

Sonya enjoyed spending time with her family and keeping her grandchildren. She enjoyed riding motorcycles with her late husband Sam.

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Ann Luckey McCord - February 05, 1939 - December 21, 2023

Departed: 12/21/2023 (Stanley)

Obituary Preview: On the morning of December 21, 2023, Nola Ann Luckey McCord peacefully passed away in her home in Denver, NC. Ann was born on February 5, 1939 in Lincoln County, NC to late Harry and Winnie Luckey. She was preceded in death by her husband James Arthur McCord; brothers Eugene Luckey and Buddy Luckey; sister Donnie Hall

Ann is survived by two children: Renee Luckey Miller of Denver and Scottie Thompson and wife Kathy of Mount Holly. She also leaves behind two grandchildren Caleb White and Kelcey White; three great grandchildren Logan White, Wyatt Moeller and Raina White; brother Jerry Luckey; and a sister Betty Jo Wells.

A memorial service will be held on Saturday December 30th at the First Methodist Church of Mount Holly at 2:00 PM. The family will receive friends following the service.

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At Painter Funeral and Cremation Services, every funeral service is tailored to reflect the personality, interests, and spirit of the deceased. The funeral home's experienced staff works closely with families to create a customized service that honors their loved one's memory. From selecting music and flowers to choosing a casket or urn, every detail is carefully considered to ensure a meaningful and memorable celebration of life.

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For families who prefer cremation, Painter Funeral and Cremation Services offers a range of options to suit their needs. From direct cremation to cremation with a memorial service, the funeral home provides guidance and support throughout the process. Their state-of-the-art crematory ensures that every family can trust that their loved one will be treated with dignity and respect.

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Painter Funeral and Cremation Services understands the importance of pre-planning for end-of-life care. By making arrangements in advance, families can spare their loved ones from having to make difficult decisions during a time of grief. The funeral home's pre-planning experts work with individuals to create a personalized plan that reflects their wishes and budget, providing peace of mind for both themselves and their families.

Community Involvement

Painter Funeral and Cremation Services is deeply committed to serving the Stanley community. Through involvement in local organizations and events, the funeral home demonstrates its dedication to supporting families beyond the funeral service itself. From sponsoring community events to participating in charity initiatives, Painter Funeral Home is a valued partner in the community.

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Losing a loved one can be a devastating experience, but it doesn't have to be faced alone. Painter Funeral and Cremation Services offers a range of grief support resources to help families cope with their loss. From counseling services to support groups, the funeral home provides ongoing support to ensure that families receive the care they need during the grieving process.

Contact Information

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary or provide a template for the family to use.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include details about their life story, personality, and accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and help others remember the deceased.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some newspapers may have online forms or email addresses for submitting obituaries.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms and websites that allow you to publish an obituary. These may include funeral home websites, memorial websites, social media groups, or online obituary databases.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers or online sites may charge a fee for publishing an obituary, while others may offer it as a free service.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Some may publish it immediately, while others may have a delay of several days or weeks.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. However, this depends on the publication or platform's policies and procedures.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to control how they are remembered and to ease the burden on their loved ones after they pass away.

How can I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites that specialize in collecting historical records. You may also contact local libraries or genealogical societies for assistance.

Can I republish an old obituary?

If you have permission from the original publisher or copyright holder, you may be able to republish an old obituary. Be sure to check copyright laws and regulations before doing so.

What is the purpose of an obituary archive?

An obituary archive is a collection of past obituaries that provides a valuable resource for genealogists, researchers, and individuals seeking information about their ancestors or loved ones.

How do I write a good obituary?

A good obituary should be honest, respectful, and informative. It should capture the essence of the person's life and personality, while also providing necessary details about their passing.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, humor can be an appropriate way to celebrate the person's life and personality. However, be mindful of the tone and audience when deciding whether to include humor in the obituary.

What if I don't know much about the person who passed away?

If you're tasked with writing an obituary but don't know much about the person who passed away, try gathering information from family members, friends, or colleagues who knew them well.

Can I include quotes or poetry in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or poetry can be a meaningful way to add depth and emotion to an obituary. Choose pieces that resonate with the person's life or personality.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there is sensitive information about the person's life or passing that you're unsure how to handle, consider consulting with family members or a trusted advisor for guidance.

What if there are errors in the published obituary?

If you notice errors in a published obituary, contact the publication or platform immediately to request corrections. They may have procedures in place for making corrections or issuing apologies.

Can I create a memorial website instead of publishing an obituary?

Yes, memorial websites can provide a more personalized and interactive way to honor the deceased. They often allow visitors to leave condolences, share memories, and view photos and videos.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

The duration that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform or website. Some may keep them archived indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time.