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Ouellette Funeral and Cremation Care, located at 2011 SE 6th St., Des Moines, IA, 50315, is a trusted and compassionate funeral home that has been serving the Des Moines community for years. Their dedicated team of professionals is committed to providing exceptional care and support to families during their most difficult times. In this article, we will delve into the services and amenities offered by Ouellette Funeral and Cremation Care, making it easier for you to make informed decisions when planning a funeral or cremation.

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Ouellette Funeral and Cremation Care has built a reputation on its commitment to providing personalized and compassionate care to each family they serve. Their experienced staff takes the time to understand the unique needs and preferences of every family, ensuring that each service is tailored to honor the life of their loved one. From traditional funerals to cremations, memorials, and celebrations of life, Ouellette Funeral and Cremation Care offers a range of options to suit every family's wishes.

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Keith A. Krueger - December 10, 1947 - May 21, 2021

Departed: 05/21/2021 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Keith Alvin Krueger, of Ankeny, IA passed on to life eternal on May 21, 2021, after a brief but extremely courageous battle with liver disease. A celebration of life, including a special tree planting ceremony, will be held Friday, May 28th at 1:00 PM on the Krueger (Meyer) family farm that he loved so dearly.   Farm location: 1376 120th Ave, Welcome, MN 56181. Keith, the son of Alvin and Betty Lou Krueger, was born in Fairmont, MN on December 10, 1947.  The oldest of five children (Duane, Darryl, Kevin & Joanne) they lived and learned the farming life.  After graduating from Welcome High School, he went on to further his education at Worthington Community College followed by Mankato State College (Minnesota State University, Mankato) with a degree in business.  After managing various men’s clothing stores in Minnesota and Iowa, Keith and his brother Duane opened their own men’s clothing store, KD Brother’s Men’s Wear in downtown Fairmont, MN.  No matter where he lived in, he was involved in his community.  This included, the Chamber of Commerce, Kiwanis, the Downtown Association, the United Methodist Church and the Mason’s in Fairmont and the Lions Club in Ankeny.  After closing the store, he found his new passion in the insurance business which he was involved in until the very end.

In 1965, he married JoAnn Zahorsky.  Together they were blessed with the three girls, Kris, Wendy, and Stephanie.  This part of his life took him to Worthington, MN; Mankato, MN; St. Paul, MN; Mason City, IA; Fairmont, MN; Welcome, MN, Mankato, MN (again) and Marion and Cedar Rapids, IA.

He was united in marriage to Paula Mueller Vaughn on June 2nd, 2001.  This union added Damon and Lezlee to his family.  His journey continued and took him to Spokane, WA; Stevensville, MT; Victoria, MN; and then to Ankeny, IA.

Left to cherish his memory: wife, Paula Mueller Krueger, Ankeny; Children: Kristine (Todd) Brockman of Mankato; Wendy (Darin) Brockman of Welcome; and Stephanie (Erik Engstrand) Maday of Eagle Lake; Stepchildren: Damon Vaughn, Cedar Rapids, IA; Lezlee (Ryan) Schutty, Ankeny, IA.  Grandchildren: Mara (Christopher Harrison, Jr); Jared, Alastair Brockman; Dylan and Elise (Lukas Poetter) Brockman; Sydney (Nick Sanford) and Jackson (Rylee Mensink) Maday.  Step Grandchildren: Jozie Vaughn; Chase, Carter, Colt Schutty.  Brothers: Duane (Claudia), Mendota Heights, MN; Darryl (Dee), Welcome, MN; Kevin (Cathie), Mankato, MN; and Sister Joanne (Clair) Schmidt, Ceylon, MN.  And many in laws, nieces, nephews, and cousins.

He was preceded in death by his parents and grandparents, niece (Samantha) and nephew (Mathew) and various extended family.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Ankeny Lions Club in care of Ouellette Funeral and Cremation Care  (2011 SE 6th St, Des Moines, IA 50315).

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Guadalupe "Lupe" Maria Cantu - July 21, 1993 - May 08, 2021

Departed: 05/08/2021 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Guadalupe "Lupe" Maria Cantu, age 27, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, May 8, 2021 at MercyOne Des Moines Medical Center.

Guadalupe Maria Cantu was born on July 21, 1993 in Grand Prairie, TX to Juan Marco and Corina (Esparza) Cantu.

In death Lupe rejoins her grandparents; Domingo and Marianna (Lavender) Cantu, parents and little sister, Marianna Cantu.

She will be remembered by her sisters; Andrea Cantu of Des Moines, IA; Alicia Cantu of Dallas, TX; two aunts; Jolanda (Israel) Miranda and Esmeralda (Jose Marin) Cantu.

Lupe had a smile that was contagious and a laugh that made your day better.  Her dimples were her charm. Through life she had many struggles and she was a fighter.

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Ronald Levi Ballard Jr. - November 29, 1971 - May 05, 2021

Departed: 05/05/2021 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Ronald (Ronnie) Levi Ballard Jr., age 49, of Des Moines, Iowa passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, May 5th, 2021. In death he sleeps, awaiting a resurrection to a paradise on earth.

Ronald was born November 29th, 1971 in Des Moines, IA to Ronald Levi Ballard Sr. and Kathryn Elaine Ballard (Thrasher).

Those left to cherish his memory are his sisters; Cheryl Ballard and Lisa Hyde (Shawn), His nieces, Amber Kilburn (Christian) and Shawna Hyde, his great niece and nephews, Dylan, Christian and Skylor Kilburn and Maddison Hardie, His uncle, Gary Ballard (Jane) and cousin, Sarah Ballard, and girlfriend of 22 years, Julie Miller & family.

Ronald is preceded in death by his parents, Ronald Ballard Sr. and Kathryn Ballard (Thrasher) and his uncle Gary Thrasher.

Ronnie enjoyed spending time with his family, reading, fishing, being outdoors and grilling/cooking.

The family will be holding a private memorial in celebration of his life.

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Ronald Eric Jennings - January 31, 1962 - April 18, 2021

Departed: 04/18/2021 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Ronald Eric Jennings, 59, passed away on Sunday, April 18, 2021.  His body will be cremated and no services will be held at this time.

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Mayme Pearl Ward - May 28, 1916 - October 19, 2019

Departed: 10/19/2019 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Mayme Pearl Barnett Ward, (age 103) died on October 19, 2019 in Urbandale, IA after a long, faith-filled and happy life.  She was born on May 28, 1916 to Dudley Burney and Goldie Bruce Barnett in Harrisonville, Missouri. After her mother’s death in 1921, Mayme Pearl and her older brother, Henry Clinton Barnett, were raised by their father and their beloved aunt, Margaret Barnett (Marmie).   They moved to Kansas City, Missouri, where they were active in Westport Presbyterian Church. Mayme Pearl graduated from Westport High School and attended Kansas State University where she was a member of the Pi Beta Phi sorority.

Mayme Pearl married William E. Ward on January 24, 1942 in Kansas City, Missouri.   Her husband Bill served in the Navy as a communications officer in the Pacific during World War II.  Their twin sons, William H. and Robert B. Ward, were born in 1946.   The family moved to Wichita, Kansas in 1950 where Bill worked as a C.P.A. for Arthur Young and Company, soon becoming a partner in the firm.  As a mother and homemaker in Wichita, Mayme Pearl was active in PEO and at First Presbyterian Church, serving as a Sunday School teacher.  She enjoyed tennis, drawing and writing.  Her son Bill became an attorney with the E.P.A. and her son Bob became a United Methodist minister in Iowa.

Mayme Pearl was preceded in death by her husband in 1991 and her son Bill in 1995.  In 2008, she moved to the Des Moines, Iowa area to be near her son, Rev. Bob Ward.  She is survived by son Bob and his wife Martha of Urbandale, IA, grandson David Ward of Denver, CO, and daughter-in-law Laurie Ward of Lawrence, KS, as well as nieces and nephews who remember her fondly.

The family is grateful for the fine care which Mayme Pearl received from the staff at Bickford Cottage of Urbandale. In keeping with her request, no services will be held, and a private inurnment of ashes will take place at a later date at the Highland Park Cemetery in Kansas City, Kansas.  Memorial gifts may be made to First Presbyterian Church of Wichita, Kansas; Westport Presbyterian Church of Kansas City, Missouri; or the church of your choice.

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Edward John Mondo - April 11, 1937 - October 09, 2019

Departed: 10/09/2019 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: In His Loving Memory EDWARD JOHN MONDO

Edward John Mondo, 82, passed away Thursday, October 9, 2019.  Cremation rites will be accorded and no services are planned at this time.

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Courtney Michelle Davis - November 04, 1989 - September 17, 2019

Departed: 09/17/2019 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Courtney Michelle Davis, 29, passed away unexpectedly at her home on Tuesday, September 17, 2019.  Cremation rites have been accorded and a Celebration of Life will be held at 3:00 p.m. Thursday, September 26, 2019 at (722 S. Ankeny Blvd., Ankeny, IA).  The family will greet friends one hour prior to services.

Courtney was born November 4, 1989 to Lawrence and Brenda (Brock) Davis in St. Louis, MO.

Those left to cherish her memory are her mother, Brenda of Des Moines, IA; two sisters; Katie (fiance' Matt), Kathleen (Kevin) and one brother, Paul (Julie), nephews, Paulie and Brenden.

In death she rejoins her father, Lawrence Davis, grandparents; Wesley and Ruth, Harvey and Audrey.

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Connie L. Poundstone - October 12, 1936 - September 06, 2019

Departed: 09/06/2019 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Connie L. Poundstone, 82, passed away with her family by her side on Friday, September 6, 2019 at Polk City Nursing and Rehabilitation.

Connie was born October 12, 1936 to Paul Fox and Mabel Elizabeth (Hawk) Voegtlin in Mitchellville, IA.  She grew up in Mitchellville and graduated from Mitchellville High School in 1954. She later worked at and retired from Delavan Manufacturing.

She is survived by her children; Rhonda (Dan) Burch of Ankeny, IA; Linda (Jim) Hanifen of Johnston, IA; Kim (Steve) Troja of Grimes, IA; Deniese Llamas of Berwick, IA; David Wheeler of Des Moines, IA; nine grandchildren; several great grandchildren, sisters; Shirley Convertti and Jennifer Voegtlin; and brothers; Rex (Karen) Voegtlin and Steve (Cory) Voegtlin.

In death Connie rejoins her parents and sister; Judy Weatherly and grandson; Adrian Wheeler.

Memorial contributions may be directed to the Connie Poundstone Memorial.

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Jose Jorge Gutierrez Ramirez - August 18, 1957 - August 30, 2019

Departed: 08/30/2019 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Jose Jorge Gutierrez Ramirez, 62, of Des Moines passed away at his home on August 30, 2019. Funeral services will be held at 5:00 p.m. Friday, September 6, 2019 at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (3301 Ashworth Rd., West Des Moines, IA) where the family will greet friends one hour prior to services.

José Jorge Gutiérrez Ramírez nació en Puebla, Puebla, México, el 18/08/57. Era un hijo, esposo, padre y amigo; Jorge vivió la mayor parte de su vida en Des Moines, IA. Vivió aquí por un tiempo con su exesposa Dolores y sus dos hijas Elizabeth y Lucina. Dejó seis hermanas llamadas Alicia, Martha, Rosa, Mercedes, Victoria y Silvia y un hermano llamado Arturo. Jorge era un alma libre y apasionada. Amaba a su familia lo mejor que podía, no era perfecto, pero hizo todo lo posible por cambiar. Todos sus seres queridos lo extrañarán, que su alma descanse en paz.

Una noche un hombre tuvo un sueño. Soñó que estaba caminando por la playa con el Señor. Al otro lado del cielo aparecieron escenas de su vida. Para cada escena, notó dos pares de huellas en la arena; uno que le pertenece, y el otro que pertenece al Señor, cuando la última escena de su vida apareció ante él; volvió a mirar las huellas en la arena. Se dio cuenta de que muchas veces en el camino de su vida solo había un par de huellas. También notó que sucedió en los momentos más bajos y más tristes de su vida. Esto realmente lo molestó y le preguntó al Señor al respecto. “Señor, dijiste que una vez que decidiera seguirte, caminarías conmigo todo el camino. Pero he notado que durante los momentos más problemáticos de mi vida solo hay un par de huellas. No entiendo por qué cuando más te necesitaba me dejabas. "El Señor respondió:" Mi precioso hijo, te amo y nunca te dejaría. Durante los momentos de prueba y sufrimiento, cuando ves solo un par de huellas en la arena, fue cuando te cargué, como un padre carga su hijo todo el tiempo que fuiste hasta que llegaste a este lugar sagrado. Incluso para tu vejez y canas, yo tu dios, soy el que te llevaré a los cielos. Isaías 46: 4. y Deuteronomio 1:3

Jose Jorge Gutierrez Ramirez was born in Puebla, Puebla México on August 18, 1957. He was a son, husband, father and a friend.  Jorge lived most of his life in Des Moines, IA. He lived here for a while with his late wife Dolores and two daughter’s Elizabeth and Lucina. He left six sisters: Alicia, Martha, Rosa, Mercedes, Victoria and Silvia and one brother, Arturo.  Jorge was a free soul and a passionate one too.  He loved his family the best he could, he was not perfect but he tried his best to change. All his loved ones will miss Jorge, may your soul rest in peace.

One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.

For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand; one belonging to him, and the other belonging to the Lord, when the last scene of his life flashed before him; he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints.

He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times of his life. This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it.

"Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you, you would walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life there is only one set of footprints. I do not understand why when I needed you most you would leave me.

“The Lord replied, "My precious child, I love you and would never leave you. During times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints in the sand it was then that I carried you, as a father carries his son all the way you went until you reached this holy place. Even to your old age and gray hairs I am your god, I am he who I will carry you to the heavens. Isaiah 46:4. & Deuteronomy 1:31

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Natalie Mary Nihsen - November 14, 1990 - August 15, 2019

Departed: 08/15/2019 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Natalie Mary Nihsen, Nat Nat, Aunt Nat, Scooter, Gabby’s mom, Daughter, Sister, Friend fulfilled God’s purpose on earth on August 15, 2019 at 28 years of age from complications of lupus resulting in a cranial hemorrhage. She was born on November 14,1990 in Peoria, Illinois. She leaves behind Parents John and Kristie Nihsen, sister Sara Jeffries (Jim), brother Tim Nihsen (Randi), nephews Easton, Harley, and Wilson, Niece Kenlea, Grandmas Rose Stoner and Lavon Nihsen. Gone before her are grandpas Kenneth Nihsen and Wendell Stoner, Great Grandma Mary Vanderheiden (who Natalie was named after), uncles Paul Wagoner and Jeff Stoner. As a young child Natalie was charasmatic, happy, and persistent. She hated the word “no” and had a hard time taking it for an answer. She was so persistent that she begged for a purple trash can for her 4th Christmas. That’s all she wanted. Purple trash cans were hard to come by back then but Mom finally found one at the dollar store and Natalie was so happy. As Natalie grew up her favorite things included playing dress up with her sister Sara and building forts with Tim. She was Daddy’s little “Scooter” except when she was sick and made mom rock her while she rubbed her tummy. She loved her baby dolls and would line them up and preach fire and brimstone to them. She would stand on the corner of our lot with the American Flag and sing “I Pledge Allegiance to the Lamb”. She loved her jewelry and the sparklier the better. She ate butter straight from the dish. She loved pasta, casesar salad, Dr. Pepper, and mint chocolate chip ice cream. She found a new passion for skydiving. She loved to sit and pet her dog Gabby Sue who she called “Poopers”. Natalie knew she did not want kids of her own so she cherished being Aunt Nat. She was the best Aunt that E man, Harley man, Kettle bells, and Little Will could ask for. From baking cupcakes, having sleepovers, cheering on at sporting events, going on roller coasters, stopping over for a quick visit, and telling cheesy jokes like “Never trust a fart”. Aunt Nat was THE BEST! In 2012, Natalie’s determination helped her graduate within 3 years from Iowa State University with her degree in elementary education. During her college years Natalie began to experience the debilitating effects of lupus. She never used it as an excuse, but it really affected who she was, leaving her unable to do the things she used to do. Only those closest to her knew how debilitating it truly was. During this time she also took a position at Athene in West Des Moines. Over the years her tenacity lead her to a position as Team Lead for claims processing and contact center. She had many great coworkers who were also dear friends. God gave Natalie parents that accepted Christ as their Savior around the time she was born. When Natalie was in kindergarten she made her own decision to ask Jesus into her heart and then when 9/11 happened she reaffirmed her decision. On the day Natalie went to heaven, we were standing in grief when God gave us comfort through a devotional. “You can trust Jesus through your hard times because of who He is. He loves you, He is good, He is faithful, He is wise, He is almighty, and He doesn’t make mistakes.” Psalm 139:16 says “You saw my unformed body; all the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.” Natalie lived 10,447 days on this earth. God knew before she was born what day would be her last. We grieve with comfort from God’s word that His will has been done. We believe that Jesus died and rose again. Natalie believed that too. On her appointed day she was in heaven, HOME FREE with ultimate healing! No more lupus to suffer day after day. No more shots, sadness, depression or loneliness. God’s got her. We are still here though, left behind to navigate life without her. Our purpose is not yet done. Therefore we will remain to fight the good fight. One day we will see her again. And so shall we ever be with the Lord!

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Michael David Reese - March 13, 1956 - August 04, 2019

Departed: 08/04/2019 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Michael David Reese, 63, of Waterloo, IA passed away at his home on Sunday, August 4, 2019.  Following Mike’s wishes, cremation rites will be a accorded and no formal services are planned.

Mike was born March 13, 1956 to Damon and Shirley (Powell) Reese in Des Moines, IA.  Mike was the oldest of four children and welcomed Jim, Dan and his sis, Cheryl.  On October 24, 1976 Mike was united in marriage to Shelley Warland.  He worked for Fareway for nearly 40 years. He was an avid NASCAR fan, enjoyed classic music from the 60’s and 70’s and liked to watch all kinds of sports.

Mike is survived by his wife, Shelley Reese of Waterloo, IA; son, Brian (Kim) Reese of Webster City, IA; daughter, Amanda (Brent) Lloyd of Mason City, IA; grandchildren; Carson and Addelyn Lloyd of Mason City, IA and Nathan Anderson of Webster City, IA; brothers: Jim (Carol) Reese of Overland Park, KS; Dan (Tina) Reese of West Des Moines, IA; sister, Cheryl (Brent) Ouellette of Ankeny, IA; and several nieces and nephews.

In death Mike rejoins his parents Damon and Shirley Reese.

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Steven E. Nogosek - February 26, 1954 - August 02, 2019

Departed: 08/02/2019 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: In His Loving Memory Steven E. Nogosek

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Helen Louise Cook - September 03, 1942 - June 10, 2019

Departed: 06/10/2019 (Des Moines)

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Joseph Raphel Johnson - February 22, 1943 - June 05, 2019

Departed: 06/05/2019 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Joseph “Joe” Johnson, 76 passed away with his family by his side at his home in Indianola on June 5, 2019.

Cremation rites have been accorded and a celebration of life and potluck lunch will be held from 1:00 - 5:00 p.m. Saturday, June 15, 2019 at the Churchville Hall (2876 South Street, Churchville, IA  50211).

Joseph Raphel Johnson was born February 22, 1943 to Robert and Mary Laurine (Hoelting) Johnson in Des Moines, IA. Joe grew up in the Des Moines area and enlisted in the United States Marine Corp.  He later worked at Armstrong Tire and Rubber for many years.

Those left to cherish his memory are his wife of 56 years; Janice Johnson of Indianola, IA; three sons: JR. (Lundi) Johnson, Robert ( Shelly) Johnson and Vince Johnson, four grandchildren: Cody, Heather (Ray), Joe and Heather, six great grandchildren: and five brothers: Steve (Louise) Johnson, Bob (Bonnie) Johnson, Greg (Charlotte) Johnson, Mike (Bonnie) Johnson, Ray (Beverly) Johnson and a sister in law, Jan.

Joe was preceded in death by his parents, sister; Patty, brother; Matt and grandsons: Austin and Logan.

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Theresa Jean Ramsey - November 02, 1953 - March 26, 2019

Departed: 03/26/2019 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Theresa Ramsey was born November 2, 1953 to William and Mildred Mallory. She was second youngest of their nine children. (Sandra – as a kid) She grew up on the East side of Des Moines and attended East High School.

On Jan. 1, 1970, her son Scott was born. On Nov. 24, 1972, her daughter Deanna was born.

In fall 1973, she met Dan Ramsey and they later married on Jan. 24, 1974. They moved to Ankeny and later settled in Mitchellville, Iowa where they built a home. Dan adopted Scott and Deanna (Janna) shortly after they were married. On Sept. 23, 1976, their daughter Sara (Sarie) was born.

In the early years of their marriage, Theresa worked as a nurse aide and as a saleswoman at Nusash Windows. In 1984, they opened Mitchellville Auto, a car sales business. Together, the two built the business, which remains open after 35 years.

She loved dogs, horses and singing along with her favorite “oldies” tunes. Shopping was always on her radar and she made a hobby out of finding a good sale. She enjoyed the outdoors and camping. She loved the holidays and being with family as well as baking sugar cookies, whipping up fudge, peanut brittle and an assortment of other candies that she could share with those around her.  She loved to laugh and joke and sometimes exaggerate her stories. She was strong and fierce – fighting through a number of health issues over the years.

On March 26, 2019, Theresa left earth and entered the loving arms of God, our great physician. She loved her family in abundance and will forever be missed.

She is survived by her husband, Dan Ramsey and three children Scott Ramsey, Deanna Carder, Sara (Jeremy) Wille; seven grandchildren: Sierra Ramsey, Gannon Ramsey, Justin Savage, Tyler Carder, Jack Wille, Ava Wille and Ryan Wille; and five siblings: Raymond Mallory, Deanie Mallory, Sandra (Art) Martinez, Tom Mallory and Denny Mallory.

Memorial contributions may be directed to the family in care of Ouellette Funeral and Cremation Care at 2011 SE 6th St., Des Moines, IA 50315.

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Arlina Pearce - May 28, 1957 - March 02, 2019

Departed: 03/02/2019 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: On Saturday, March 2, 2019, Arlina Pearce, loving wife, mother and grandmother, passed away at the age of 61.

Arlina was born May 28, 1957, in Waterloo, Iowa to Allen and Thelma (Blackwell) Jenkins.

On October 4, 1980, she was united in marriage to Ron Pearce from Mason City, Iowa.  They have a daughter, Stephanie, and two grandchildren, Nyla and Pearce.

Arlina had a passion for cooking and was great at it.  She loved to host and entertain her family and friends every chance she got.  She also loved to travel.  Most recently she had been to the British Virgin Islands and also toured Ireland, Wales and England.  Arlina learned how to play golf and grew to love the sport in order to spend more time with her husband.

Arlina was best known for her assertive nature, her infectious smile complete with dimples and her generous and compassionate spirit.

She is survived by her husband, daughter, grandchildren, mother-in-law, DeEtta (Nemmers) Pearce, sisters, Leslie (John) White, Marilyn Marbley and brothers, Allen “Butch” Jenkins and Bruce (Dorothy) Jenkins.

A memorial service will be held for Arlina on Saturday, March 9th, at Ankeny First United Methodist Church located at 206 SW Walnut Street in Ankeny at 11:00 a.m.

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Tina Marie Riis - January 06, 1970 - December 18, 2018

Departed: 12/18/2018 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Tina Marie Riis

Arrived January 6, 1970 and fell asleep in death on December 18, 2018. Luke 8:52 “Stop weeping, for she did not die but is sleeping.”

Tina Marie was born on January 6th, 1970, and died of natural causes on December 18, 2018.  She was the oldest of three daughters.  She is survived by her sister Amy, whereas her youngest sister, Toni, died in 1991 at the young age of 15.  Tina’s instructions were not to have a funeral or be buried, but to be cremated.  After recently attending her Aunt Patricia’s Celebration of Life, she said, “That’s what I want if I die, Mom.”  So, later we will plan a memorial service and celebrate her life.

Although she was a homebody and not an adventurous person, Tina flew to Vegas and to Packers games.  She was proud when she finally got her drivers license in April of 2017.  She said it didn’t matter that she didn’t have a car, but “I have freedom! I can drive on the Interstate!”  At the time of her death, she was making new friends and a new life for herself and her cat, Sammy, in Waukee, Iowa.  Sammy had become her comfort, her joy, and constant companion.  Tina was happy to once again to be back near her mother, Lucy, and her stepfather, Don (whom she said was like a dad to her).  She was also very happy to again be near her sister, Amy, and Amy’s companion, Jon.  Tina especially loved Amy’s children, Cody, Levii, Madalynn, and Micaiah.

Tina loved hosting movie nights with her family where she’d cook dinner or have pizza. She never wanted these special times together to end.  She told Amy she was her world and she couldn’t ask for a better sister.  She loved her many aunts, uncles, and cousins.  She frequently spoke of the many ways they went out of their way to make her feel special and loved.

Tina cherished every one of her friends.  Several have commented that she was the best friend one could have.  They have said she was a true friend, one who listened and really cared, a friend who truly would “give you the shirt off her back.”  She never lost hope of reuniting with her best friend, Brenda.  She told her mom they were like twin sisters.

Tina had many very dear friends.  For example, she deeply loved Howie Sloan who is like extended family to Tina’s surviving family.  Shannon, her Advocate, gave her not only support but also friendship.  Shannon said that Tina was one of the strongest women she knew.  She helped Tina lay down new roots and new beginnings in Waukee where Tina was happily renewing old friendships and making new ones.  Brian was an old friend who had taken her out fishing again.  And Tina recently became close to a neighbor, Mynette, and her sister, Misty, as well as their parents.  Demonstrating the depth of their friendship, Mynette and Misty were very helpful to her family after Tina passed away. Tina also enjoyed fishing, movies, cribbage, playing pool, and singing Karaoke.  She loved finding a good deal and collecting purses and shoes.  She loved cats and had one most of her life. Sammy was special though, becoming her “comfort cat.”  Singing was Tina’s passion.  She sang as soon as she learned to talk. At a Judds concert shortly after her sister Toni died, they sang  “Love can Build a Bridge”.  It became a favorite, and we found a CD of Tina singing it.  When she sang “Grandpa” for her Grandpa Bob, he cried.  Bob handed down to his children and grandchildren an old time lullaby (some say a poem) which Tina often sang, leaving no dry eyes in the room.  The song’s title is “Two Little Babes.”  Tina also loved listening to Grandpa Bob’s stories and she believed them all.  He called her his Tinker Bell and she loved him more than any other man. She was funny with a great sense of humor and made us laugh.  Her favorite gag was to dress up like Dorf.  Born with blond hair, she kept it that way her whole life.  And she loved a good blond joke, telling them as if they were a badge of honor.  Sometimes she’d tell one just to be mischievous. (A favorite: “Why are blond jokes so short?  So men can remember them.”)

May all of her family and friends know how much she loved them.  How grateful she was for even the smallest act of kindness, love, and support.  A visit, a phone call, a card, or letter meant so much to her. Tina believed in a Creator and believed Bible teachings.  It is her family’s hope and prayer that they will eventually be united with all their loved ones in the promised Paradise on earth soon to come, and that Tina too will hear the voice of Jesus call to awaken her.  “...he took her by the hand and called to her: ‘Child, get up!’” (Luke 8:54)

Tina was preceded in death by her sister, Toni Michelle Higgins, in 1991. She is survived by many relatives including her mother and stepfather, Lucy and Don St John; sister, Amy Lynn Berg;  and Amy’s children, Cody, Levii (and husband Tanner); Madalynn; and Micaiah.

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Lincoln Leslie Grundmeyer - November 21, 2018 - November 21, 2018

Departed: 11/21/2018 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Lincoln Leslie Grundmeyer went into the arms of Jesus on Wednesday, November 21,  2018, at Mercy Medical Center in Des Moines, IA.

Funeral services will be held at 11:00 a.m. Saturday, December 1, 2018, at Ankeny Free Church (118 NW Linden St., Ankeny, IA  50023). The family will greet friends two hours prior to services.

Lincoln is survived by his parents; Neil and Michaela Grundmeyer (Ankeny, IA), grandparents: Mark and Denise Ballo (Ankeny, IA), Leslie and Christine Grundmeyer (Aurora, IA), Jeff and Tess Kennon (Lime Springs, IA), and many aunts, uncles, and cousins:  Jeremy and Kristy Taylor (Harrison and Hattie) (Edina, MN), Aaron and Alyssa Kennon (Nora) (Renwick, IA), Brenna Ballo (Ankeny, IA), Abby Kennon and Cassy Kennon (Lime Springs, IA), Trent and Angela Grundmeyer (Grace, Faith and Truman) (Ankeny, IA), Kyle and Mackenzie Grundmeyer (Ankeny, IA), Drew and Rhi Grundmeyer (Hazelton, IA), Great Grandparents: Betty Ohl (Oelwein, IA),  Les and Marge Ohl (Strawberry Point, IA), Frank and Carole Ballo (Marshalltown, IA), Steve and Carol Kennon (Oelwein, IA), Chuck and Dolores Ira (Spillville, IA), Lawrence and the late Janet Plote (Gilbert, AZ), and the late Willis and Bernice Grundmeyer (Lamont, IA). Memorial Gifts We have had the pleasure of supporting Ruth Harbor Ministries for the last ten years. Throughout this time, we have seen firsthand how this ministry saves the broken-hearted by pouring love and hope into both the mothers and their babies.  Therefore, we kindly suggest that memorial gifts in honor of Lincoln be given to: Ruth Harbor Ministries 534 42nd Street Des Moines IA  50312

Ruth Harbor is a Christ-centered ministry to young moms who have been impacted by an unplanned pregnancy and chosen to give life to their baby. Housing, support, life-skills training, education, and comprehensive services are provided at no charge to create life-change for the new moms and their babies. You may visit www.RuthHarbor.org to learn more. With Love, Michaela and Neil

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Kenneth Ray Herman - April 02, 1940 - November 08, 2018

Departed: 11/08/2018 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Kenneth Ray Herman, 78, of White Oak passed away Wednesday, Nov. 7, 2018, at Mercy Hospital in Des Moines, IA. Ken was born April 2, 1940, at Iowa Lutheran Hospital to Archie and Mabel Herman of rural Elkhart.

He married his high school sweetheart Bernice McCauley on Oct. 3, 1958, at Marquisville United Methodist Church in Des Moines. They recently celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary.

Ken worked for many years at the Iowa Department of Transportation in Ames, retiring in 1998. He is survived by his wife, Bernice; daughter, Laura (Kevan Sr.) Zechin of Keokuk; son, Brian (Angela) Herman of White Oak; nine grandchildren, Kevan (Tamara) Zechin Jr., Larisa Zechin, Lauren Zechin, Ken Zechin, Kyle Zechin, Laurel Zechin, Jonathan Herman, Lauretta Zechin and Kirby Zechin; and a great-grandchild, Kevan Zechin III.

He also is survived by a niece, Diane Schulze; great-niece, RaeJeanna (Ben) Nyland; great-great- nephew, Kyle Nyland; and many friends and family members.

Ken was preceded in death by his parents and two sisters, Marlene and Wanita.

All who knew him admired his strong faith, quiet strength, work ethic, generous and welcoming spirit, and ornery sense of humor.

Providing for his family’s needs was a priority to Ken. He was a devoted husband and best friend to Bernice and a caring dad to his children and their spouses. His kids knew they could depend on him – whatever was needed. He always had time for his grandkids, including them in his daily routine – tending the garden, caring for birds and feeding farm cats.

Ken was a clever handyman who could fix anything with whatever materials he had around the place. He enjoyed playing old-time music with friends and family, attending music festivals and performing at living history events, care centers and other venues. He always had his camera with him. Ken and Bernice loved traveling to Mountain View, Ark., and the Tennessee Fall Homecoming in Norris, Tenn.; and taking day trips to county parks.

Memorial contributions can be made to Ankeny Free Church.

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Michael Nemmers - February 22, 1952 - July 21, 2018

Departed: 07/21/2018 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Michael Britt Nemmers, 66, went home to be with the Lord on Saturday, July 21, 2018 following a courageous 18 year battle with Stage IV Cancer.

Mike was born February 22, 1952 in Iowa City, IA to Donald and Beverly (Johnson) Nemmers.  Mike graduated from Cedar Falls High School and Embry Riddle University.  Mike served in the U.S. Army before working as an Air Traffic Controller.  He was most recently employed at Wells Fargo Mortgage where he was a Computer Programmer.

Mike enjoyed life!  He loved the Chicago Bears, Chicago White Sox, and the Iowa Hawkeyes.  On weekends, he enjoyed golfing and boating.  He loved spending time with his friends and family, especially his four grandchildren.  Mike accepted Christ as his personal Savior on May 3, 2017.  He loved Saylorville Church and his small group.  Mike was an amazing husband, father, and friend.  The world is a better place because he was in it.

Mike’s memory will be cherished by his wife of 32 years, Anita Nemmers; daughter, Dr. Melissa (David) Billings; sons: Wesley Nemmers and, Blake (Andrea) Schultz; grandchildren: Michael Nemmers, Ashtyn Billings, Megan Billings and Clara Schultz; sisters: Vicki Smith and Deborah Valenta; brothers: Jim (Bonnie) Nemmers and Steve Nemmers; step siblings: Mike (Carrie) Thrall, Teri (Randy) Nordaker and Kris (Bryan) O’Leary; stepfather, Bill Thrall; and numerous nieces and nephews.  He was preceded in death by his father, Donald and mother, Beverly.

The family will greet friends from 5:00 - 7:30 p.m. Wednesday, July 25, 2018 at Saylorville Church (6429 NW 6th Dr., Des Moines, IA 50313).  Funeral services will be 10:30 a.m. Thursday at Saylorville Church.  Interment will be at the Iowa Veteran’s Cemetery.

The family would like to thank Dr. Behrens and staff and Unity Point Hospice for their care and comfort as well as the numerous calls, texts and visits from friends and family.

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Dave Rees - June 29, 1971 - March 19, 2018

Departed: 03/19/2018 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: David Lee Rees, 46, of Ankeny, IA died unexpectedly on Monday, March 19, 2018. Cremation rites will be accorded and a prayer service will be held at 7:00 p.m. Monday March 26, 2018 at Our Lady’s Immaculate Heart Catholic Church (510 E. 1st St., Ankeny IA). The family will greet friends from 4:00-7:00 p.m. Monday at the church.

Dave Rees was born on June 29, 1971 to Tim and Marie (Tunink) Rees in Des Moines, IA. He grew up near Elkhart and graduated from North Polk in 1989.  He married Sheila Rae Vaske on 9-05-98. They resided in Altoona, IA until moving to Ankeny, IA in 1999. He started working at PepsiCo. in 1997 as a route driver and diligently worked his way up through the company, ending his 20-year career as Food Service Senior Manager.  Dave joined Martin Brothers Distribution November of 2017.

Dave and Sheila welcomed a daughter, Rachael, on 7-03-02. Three years later they welcomed Ashley, on 8-17-05, completing their family. Dave had a true love for life.  He loved spending his free time with his family whether it be a quiet evening at home or traveling. He enjoyed watching Rachael and Ashley interact with their friends and never missed an activity. He spent lots of time teaching them various things to prepare for the future, every adventure was a learning opportunity for the girls. There was never a doubt if it could be fixed, Dave could fix it.  He enjoyed being outdoors and had a passion for fishing. He loved taking his annual trips to Canada to fish. He liked to talk about and teach others all he knew about fishing. Dave was always willing to help a friend/neighbor in need with a smile.

Those left to cherish his memory are his wife, Sheila, daughters; Rachael and Ashley of Ankeny, IA; his parents Tim and Marie of Elkhart IA; grandfather Milo Rees of Guthrie Center, IA; sisters: Kris Rees of Johnston IA, Angie (Mike) Netser of Hills, IA, Julie (Geoffrey) Grimes of Ankeny IA, brother Russ Rees of Elkhart, IA, and many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, extended family and friends.

In death Dave rejoins his sister, Lisa, his three grandparents John and Monica Tunink, Sophie Rees, and his Uncle Bob.

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Anthony "Tony" Lawrence - July 08, 1946 - July 20, 2017

Departed: 07/20/2017 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Anthony “Tony” Lawrence, 71, of Ankeny, Iowa went home to be with the Lord on Thursday, July 20, 2017 after a 3 year battle with cancer.

He was born on July 8, 1946, in Hanford, California, the son of Tony and Betty (Hardin) Lawrence. After a few years the family relocated to central Iowa. Tony was the eldest of ten children and grew up in Guthrie Center. He graduated from Guthrie Center High School.

In 1971, Tony married Helene Lawler, together they had three children; Carrie Marie, Eric Anthony and Wade Andrew.  After living in State Center for a few years while Tony worked at Blood’s Dairy Farm, the family moved and made their home in Maxwell, Iowa. The couple later divorced.

Throughout Tony’s career he worked for several companies including Blood’s Dairy Farm, Chicago Northwestern Railroad and Safeway. In 2006 Tony moved to Ankeny to be closer to his growing family and worked at Hy-Vee until his retirement.

Tony will be remembered for his kind heart, generous nature and his unwavering love for the Lord. Tony enjoyed gardening, cooking (many have been the lucky recipient of his meals), woodworking and spending time with his church friends, children and grandchildren.

Those left to cherish his memory are his children; Carrie (Dustin) Heaps of Maxwell, IA; Eric (Jenny) Lawrence of Ames, IA; Wade (Andrea) Lawrence of West Des Moines, IA; and seven grandchildren: Tanner (8) and Kiernan (6) Heaps, John Metcalf (18), Charlie Lawrence (4), Brennan (8), Devon (6) and Brooklyn (4) Lawrence and siblings; Donald, John, Lillian, Ralph, Joe, Leonard, Vivienne and numerous nieces and nephews.

Tony was preceded in death by his parents, Tony (1977) & Betty (1996) Lawrence and his sister Betty “Marie” Brandenburg (1963) and infant brother (1957).

Funeral services will be 10:30 a.m. Wednesday, July 26, 2017 at Saylorville Church (6429 NW 6th Dr., Des Moines, IA 50313).  The family will greet friends prior to services from 9:00 a.m. - 10:30 a.m.

The family wishes to thank the staff of Mercy Medical Center Downtown, Oncology floor for their kind care.

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Richard Harry Butler - April 03, 1943 - June 03, 2017

Departed: 06/03/2017 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Richard "Dick" H. Butler, 74, of Camanche, Iowa, passed away peacefully at the University of Iowa Hospitals and Clinics in Iowa City, Iowa after a brief battle with Leukemia on Saturday, June 3, 2017. Honoring his wishes, cremation rites have been accorded.

Richard was born April 3, 1943 in Eagle Grove, Iowa son of Harry Francis Butler and Bernadine Doyle-Butler. Richard owned and operated Camanche Air Conditioning  for 47 years. He enjoyed hunting, fishing, golfing, gardening and growing beautiful plants and flowers proudly displayed in his yard.

Richard is survived by three brothers; William Butler, Cedar Falls, Iowa; Robert Butler (Gloria) Camanche, Iowa; and James Butler (Jonette) Atlantis, Florida. One daughter, Becky Butler, Ankeny, Iowa.  Three grandchildren; Joshua Bard (Belinda) Davenport, Iowa; Stephanie Brungardt (Joshua) Ankeny, Iowa; Brooke Gehler (Ben) Spencer, Iowa; and five great-grandchildren. A special Friend Linda McConaughey, his kitty Mimi, and many special nieces, nephews, god daughter Megan Wicks of New York, friends and neighbors.

Richard was preceded in death by his parents.

Memorials can be made to an organization or charity of choice.

"Forever in our hearts you'll stay, we will love you and remember you every single day".

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Leilani Joy Lahey - October 06, 2005 - May 29, 2017

Departed: 05/29/2017 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Leilani Joy Lahey was born on October 6, 2005 in Des Moines, IA.  She was surrounded by her family when Jesus called her home early Monday, May 29, 2017. Leilani loved Jesus, food, the show Girl Meets World, and the movie Tangled. She loved to sing at the top of her lungs, and dance till her feet hurt. You couldn’t be around Leilani without smiling and laughing. Her life was a living testimony of who Christ is- She would often ask people very bluntly if they loved Jesus, and wanted everyone around her to know they were loved. Leila didn’t let anything keep her down; she overcame any obstacle that was thrown at her.  She did not lose any battle when she left this earth, but rather gained her ultimate prize. We have no doubt that she ran to right into Jesus’ arms. Although we will miss her for a time here on earth, we move forward with confidence of seeing her again.  John 16:33

Leilani is survived by her parents Steve and Carissa, siblings; Malachi, Isaiah, Ellyona, Ezra, and many aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents.

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Lynnette Evonnee (Vogt) Schnetzer - February 20, 1947 - May 14, 2017

Departed: 05/14/2017 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Lynnette Evonnee (Vogt) Schnetzer was born February 20, 1947 to Thelbert and Laura (Banks) Vogt in Ames, IA. She passed away on May 14, 2017 at Iowa Lutheran Hospital in Des Moines, IA.

When Lynnette was only 2 years old, she was diagnosed with type I diabetes. At that time, her parents were told that she would probably not live to the age of 20. Lynnette didn’t let diabetes slow her down. It motivated her to beat the odds. Lynnette met her husband George “Hank” Schnetzer completely by accident. Lynnette’s cousin was involved in a car accident with Hank and his dad. All three were sent to the hospital. When Lynnette visited her cousin, she also met Hank and his dad. Hank asked for her phone number and the rest was history. They were married on April 6, 1968 in Ankeny, IA.

Lynnette and Hank would live in Des Moines and Polk City before settling in Elkhart for the next 45 years. They went against doctor’s orders and started their family with the birth of their daughter, Laura. Lynnette was a stay-at-home mom until Laura started school. Lynnette worked as a teacher’s aide for a couple of years before she and Hank opened an in-home daycare. Hank worked a night job, so he was able to help Lynnette with the kids during the day. They worked as partners to teach more than 25 young children manners, how to share, and how to have fun without video games, cell phones, or television. Lynnette and Hank were always together. They were best friends and set an awesome example of what love, marriage, and partnership could be. When Hank passed away October 6, 2004, Lynnette made the move to an apartment in Elkhart. Lynnette was a spitfire, always ready with a comeback. She would pull pranks on people whenever she could get away with it. She had great love for God, a great love for family and friends, and a great love of life. She chose to see the good things in life. When the power was out, she would call the electric company to tell them thanks for the opportunity to clean her ceiling fan. She would brighten the day of those who knew her and of complete strangers that she met at the grocery store. She never hurried just to please other people, but she would take time to make others feel important. This was truly her gift.

Lynnette is survived by her daughter, Laura (Tim) Butler of Elkhart, grandchildren, George Butler of Ft. Riley, KS, and Gabrielle Butler of Elkhart, her sister, Peggy Priest (Rob Rater) of Waukee, several nieces, nephews, and other extended family. She was preceded in death by her parents and her husband, Hank.

A Celebration of Life Service will be held at 10:30 a.m. Monday at Elkhart Christian Church (252 S. Washington Ave., Elkhart, IA  50073). The family will greet friends from 9:00 - 10:30 a.m. Monday at the Church. Interment will be in the Elkhart Cemetery.

Memorials may be made to Elkhart Christian Church or to Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including biographical information, funeral or memorial service details, and surviving family members. It serves as a way to share news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries play a significant role in honoring the life of the deceased, providing closure for those who are grieving, and serving as a historical record of the person's life. They also help to notify others of the person's passing and provide details about funeral or memorial services.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary or provide guidance on what information to include.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include funeral or memorial service details and any charities or organizations where donations can be made in lieu of flowers.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a short paragraph.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the notice and help readers remember the person who has passed away.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online publication?

Contact the publication directly to find out their submission guidelines and deadlines. Some publications may have online forms or email addresses where you can submit the obituary, while others may require you to call or visit their office in person.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and the length of the notice. Some newspapers and online publications offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge by the word or line.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it is becoming increasingly common for people to write their own obituaries before they pass away. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life story is told in your own words.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, typically including only basic information such as name, age, date of birth and death, and funeral or memorial service details. It is often used when a full obituary is not desired or cannot be published due to time constraints.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing someone's passing, while a eulogy is a speech or written tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service to celebrate the person's life.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include humorous anecdotes or personality traits in an obituary to make it more personal and reflective of the person who has passed away.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive issues or conflicts surrounding the person's death or family dynamics, it's best to be honest but tactful when writing the obituary. You may want to consult with other family members or a trusted advisor before finalizing the notice.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary. This can be a meaningful way to honor the person's memory and support a cause they cared about.

How do I proofread an obituary for errors?

Carefully review the obituary for spelling, grammar, and factual errors before submitting it for publication. It's also a good idea to have someone else review it as well to catch any mistakes.

Can I change an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, changes cannot be made to an obituary once it has been published. However, if there is an error that needs to be corrected, contact the publication directly to see if they can make adjustments.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and their deadlines. Some online publications may publish notices immediately, while print newspapers may take several days or weeks.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

In some cases, yes. If you want to republish an obituary on a special anniversary or birthday of the deceased, contact the original publication to see if they can re-run the notice.

Are online obituaries permanent records?

In most cases, online obituaries are archived and remain available for viewing indefinitely. However, it's always a good idea to save a copy of the notice for your own records as well.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include meaningful quotes, lyrics, or poems in an obituary to add context and personality to the notice.

How do I handle multiple marriages or relationships in an obituary?

If the person who has passed away had multiple marriages or significant relationships, it's best to be honest and respectful when acknowledging these relationships in the obituary. Consult with other family members or a trusted advisor if needed.

Can I include pets in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to acknowledge beloved pets in an obituary as part of the person's life story.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary or need guidance on what information to include, consider consulting with a funeral home or mortuary staff member who can provide assistance and support.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes, social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share news of someone's passing with friends and family who may not otherwise see traditional newspaper notices.