Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock Obituaries

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Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock is a trusted and respected funeral home serving the community of Carlock, Illinois. Located at 203 W. Franklin, Carlock, IL, 61725, this funeral home has been providing compassionate and professional funeral services to families in need for many years. With a long history of dedication and commitment to excellence, Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock has earned a reputation as one of the most reliable and trustworthy funeral homes in the area.

A History of Compassionate Service

Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock has a rich history that dates back many years. The funeral home was founded on the principles of compassion, respect, and dignity, and these values continue to guide their services today. Over the years, the funeral home has built a reputation for providing personalized and meaningful funeral services that honor the lives of loved ones who have passed away. From traditional funerals to cremation services, Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock offers a range of options to suit every family's unique needs and preferences.

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Aneita L. Metzger - March 02, 1926 - April 22, 2019

Departed: 04/22/2019 (Carlock)

Obituary Preview: Aneita L. Metzger, 93, of Carlock passed away Tuesday, April 22, 2019 at the Villas of Holly Brook, Bloomington, IL. Aneita was born March 2, 1926, in Carlock to Thomas and Ruth Rader Swearingen. Aneita grew up in Carlock where she met her husband-to-be, Montel B. Metzger. They married on October 26, 1946, in Carlock. Aneita and Montel were a team for almost 72 years. Montel died in October 2018.

She is survived by their three children, Tom (Margie) Metzger, Waupaca, Wis.; Dee Metzger, Normal; LuAnne Hollingshead, Naperville, IL; five grandchildren, Mindy (Paul) Vitucci, Madison, Wis.; Molly (Tim) Struve, Newport, Ky.; Mary (Alex) Groth, Spicewood, Texas; Hunter Hollingshead, Chicago, IL; and Regan Hollingshead, Lawrence, Kan.; and five great-grandchildren, Jack Vitucci, Emma Vitucci, Madeleine Struve, Lorelei Struve and Josephine Groth. Aneita is preceded in death by her husband, parents; one brother, Harold Swearingen; and an infant brother.

Aneita spent her entire life in Carlock. She met her "Peoria Boy" Montel and they settled down there and raised their family. They made many lifelong friends in the area. She was the Carlock Chronicle newspaper editor for many years. For over 60 years Aneita assisted her husband in the family business, the Montel B Metzger Insurance Agency. They also assisted Barney Argo with Otto-Argo Funeral Home, Carlock. She and Montel often clerked auctions for many years. Summers were spent at the McLean County Fair, the Illinois State Fair and other local fairs watching her three children show sheep and cattle. For over 20 years she was a constant figure ringside. Aneita would bring delicious warm meals from home and clean laundry for her kids!

In their later years Aneita and Montel enjoyed taking cruises. Together they made their trips around town to the Mennonite Relief Sale, local auctions and estate sales. Seldom did you see one without the other! Aneita was a member of the Carlock Christian Church. She played the organ for church services, weddings and funerals. Aneita was a member of the Order of the Eastern Star. She attended Bradley University and a local business school. Aneita enjoyed watching game shows and doing crossword puzzles. She was an excellent speller. Her body was failing her, but Aneita's mind remained sharp and was was stubborn until the end! Aneita was a loving mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and friend. There was nothing she enjoyed more than holding a baby and just gazing lovingly at the little ones. She will be missed by her family and all who knew her.

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Ali G. Stahly Jr. - June 10, 1925 - November 08, 2018

Departed: 11/08/2018 (Carlock)

Obituary Preview: Ali G. Stahly, Jr. age 93 of Eureka, IL formerly of Carlock and Morton passed away at 10:14 AM on Thursday, November 8, 2018 at The Loft, Eureka, IL. His funeral service will be 2:30 PM, Friday, November 16, 2018 at North Danvers Mennonite Church, Danvers IL. Rev. Doane Brubaker will be officiating. Burial will follow at the North Danvers Mennonite Church Cemetery, Danvers IL. Visitation will be 1:00 PM-2:30 PM Friday at the North Danvers Mennonite Church, Danvers, IL. The family requests no flowers. Memorials may be made to North Danvers Mennonite Church, Yaqui Animal Rescue 1803 N. Bryan Road, Mission, TX 78572 or to a charity of the donor’s choice. Arrangements are being handled by Otto-Argo-Calvert Memorial Home, Carlock, IL

Ali was born June 10, 1925 in Carlock, Illinois, the son of Ali G. and Anna Weidinger Stahly, Sr. He married Dolores Hartman April 18, 1946 in Bloomington, IL. They farmed near Danvers where their children Roger and Susan were born. In 1957 they moved to Morton where Ali joined his brother Maurice in the transport and truck sales business in North Pekin. In 1970 Ali retired and he and Dolores spent their time between Morton and Sun City, Arizona. Surviving is a daughter Susan and her husband Steve McCowan, Mission, TX,

their children Tim McCowan, Bloomington and Terri (Joe) Metz, and Susan and Steve’s grandson, Kameron Metz of Morton, along with special nieces, Joyce, Patricia and Sandy.

Ali is preceded in death by his parents, wife Dolores on August 13, 2007, son Roger, and siblings, Cloyd, Lola, Etta, Opal, Lorene, Verda, Lory, Maurice and Norval. Ali was the last living family member.

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Montel B. Metzger - April 28, 1924 - October 05, 2018

Departed: 10/05/2018 (Carlock)

Obituary Preview: Montel B. Metzger age 94 of Carlock passed away on Friday, October 5, 2018 at the Villas of Holly Brook, Bloomington, IL.

Montel was born April 28, 1924 in Kappa, IL the son of Lee W. and Ethel B. (Burger) Metzger. He married Aneita L. Swearingen on October 26, 1946 in Carlock, IL. She survives.

Also surviving are his 3 children, LuAnne Hollingshead , Naperville, IL, Tom ( Margie) Metzger, Waupaca, WI, Dee Metzger, Normal IL.; 5 grandchildren, Mindy (Paul) Vitucci, Madison, WI, Molly (Tim) Struve, Newport, KY, Mary (Alex) Groth, Spicewood, TX, Hunter Hollingshead, Chicago, IL, and Regan Hollingshead, Lawrence, KS; and 5 great-grandchildren, Jack Vitucci, Emma Vitucci, Madeleine Struve, Lorelei Struve, and Josephine Groth.

Montel is preceded in death by his parents, 1 brother, Keith Metzger and an infant sister.

Montel grew up in Peoria, IL and graduated from Peoria Central High. He served in the US Army during WWII from 1944-1946 where participated in Po Valley Campaigns in Northern Italy as a rifleman with Company I, 86th Infantry, 10th Mountain Division. He was honorably discharged June 29, 1946. Upon his return Montel resumed studies and graduated from Bradley University, Peoria, IL. He started the Metzger Insurance Agency, Carlock, IL in 1952. He and Aneita assisted Barney Argo with Argo Funeral Home, Carlock for many years. Montel and Aneita enjoyed traveling and especially loved taking cruises. Montel was a member the Blue Lodge AF & AM, Bloomington Consistory and Mohammed Temple Shrine. He was a 4-H Leader for the Ardent Tillers, Carlock and he sponsored a trophy at the McLean County Fair for the Champion Hereford Heifer. Montel also farmed in the Carlock area for many years. He enjoyed spending time at his farm. Summers were spent at the McLean County Fair, the Illinois State Fair and many other local fairs watching his children show sheep and cattle. He and Aneita also clerked auctions for many years. He was a regular at the sale barn. Montel defied his age and continued to drive out to his farm as often as possible. Just a year ago he sold off the last of his cattle. He enjoyed the daily meeting of his regular coffee group at Denny's. Montel was a loving husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather and friend to many. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

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Walter Edward Hamby, Jr. - March 18, 1933 - November 26, 2017

Departed: 11/26/2017 (Carlock)

Obituary Preview: Walter Edward Hamby, Jr. age 84 of Congerville, IL passed away at 9:05 PM on Sunday, November 26, 2017 at his residence. His funeral service will be 11:00 AM Thursday, November 30, 2017 at the Otto-Argo-Calvert Memorial Home, Carlock, IL with military rites accorded at the funeral home by the Bloomington -Normal American Legion Honor Guard. Rev. Steve Evans will be officiating. Burial will be at Wintz Cemetery, Carlock IL. Visitation will be will be10:00 AM-11:00 AM Thursday at the Otto-Argo-Calvert Memorial Home, Carlock, IL.

The family suggests memorials be made to the Humane Society of Central Illinois.

Walter was born March 18, 1933 in Manzanola, Colorado the son of Walter Edward and Bernice Banes Hamby Sr. Walter moms died shortly after child birth, he was raised by Emma Hamby McGee. He married Laura Bell Hawkins on November 1, 1953 in Arkansas. She passed away December 15, 2015. Surviving is his nephew, Mike (Dawn ) Hawkins, Heyworth, IL, 2 brothers, Homer (Ruth) Hamby, Silver City, New Mexico, Donnie (Jan) Hamby, Las Vegas, Nevada and several beloved nieces and nephews

Walter is preceded in death by his parents.

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Dorothy Jane Oesch - January 22, 1932 - September 18, 2017

Departed: 09/18/2017 (Carlock)

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Linda Lee Waller - March 15, 1942 - May 02, 2017

Departed: 05/02/2017 (Carlock)

Obituary Preview: Click on this link to view Linda Wallers Memorial Tribute Video Linda Lee Waller age 75 of Carlock IL passed away at 3:19 AM on Tuesday, May 2, 2017 at her residence. Her funeral service will be 10:00 AM Saturday (May 6, 2017) at the Carlock Mennonite Church 217 E. Washington St. Carlock, IL. Rev. Doane Brubaker and Rev. Brian Johnson will be officiating. Burial will be at White Oak Union Cemetery, Carlock, IL. Visitation will be 5:00 PM-8:00 PM Friday at the Carlock Mennonite Church, Carlock, IL. The family suggests memorials be made to Easter Seals of Illinois, the Carlock Mennonite Church or 4p support group http://4p-supportgroup.org

Arrangements are being handled by Otto-Argo-Calvert Memorial Home, Carlock, IL.

Linda was born March 15, 1942 in Congerville, IL the daughter of William and Emma Moser Reeser. She married Robert R. “Bob” Waller on July 29, 1961 at the East White Oak Bible Church, Carlock, IL. He survives. Also surviving are her 5 children, Debra Brown, Peoria, IL, Robert (Susan), Waller, Carlock, IL, Diana (Rick) Boschulte, Eureka, IL, Russel (Mary Jo) Waller, Hudson, IL, Gloria (Jimmy) McGowan, Bloomington, IL,12 grandchildren, 6 great-grandchildren, 1 brother, Richard (Kay) Reeser, East Peoria, IL,

2 sisters, Marie Petrowski, Metamora, IL and Edna (Bill) Tellkamp, Punta Gorda, FL.

Linda is preceded in death by her parents, 2 brothers and 1 sister.

Linda and her husband Bob farmed, raised hogs and cattle in rural Carlock for over 55 years.

She loved singing and music. Linda’s family was the most important thing in the world to her. She was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and sister. She will be missed by all who knew her.

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Charles Melvin Charlie Hendricks - August 26, 1947 - February 20, 2017

Departed: 02/20/2017 (Carlock)

Obituary Preview: Charles Melvin “Charlie” Hendricks, 69 of Carlock died at 2:40 PM Monday February 20, 2017 at Advocate BroMenn Medical Center in Normal. There will be a Memorial Service for Charlie on Saturday February 25, 2017 at 10:30 AM at Carlock Mennonite Church in Carlock. Pastor Doane Brubaker will officiate. There will be a visitation from 4-7 PM on Friday February 24, 2017 at the Church. Inurnment will be at a later date at Lantz Cemetery in Carlock. Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home in Carlock is

handling arrangements. Charlie was born August 26, 1947 in Bloomington to Melvin E. and Ada Mae Thacker Hendricks. They preceded him in death. He was also preceded in death by two bothers Paul and Ronnie Hendricks. He is survived by three sisters, Janice I. Reimer of Carlock, Connie (Phil) Raistrick of Bradenton, Florida, Rita (David) Garrison of Carlock, seven nieces and nephews, Susan (Doug) Reimer Sifford of Winter Spring, FL, Sandra (Mark) Wilson of Bloomington, Pamela (John) Rosa of Bloomington, Patricia (Scott) Harter of Bloomington, Brian (Kerstin) Wiles of Atlanta, GA, Matthew (Magdalena) Garrison of Chicago, and Kristin (Jason) Smith of Leroy. Charlie worked many years as a Laborer for the Illinois Department of Transportation. He was an active member of Carlock Mennonite Church, CASA, and in the IDOT Teamsters Union. He had a passion for the Special Olympics where he was active in the Heart of Illinois Special Olympics. He loved the times he spent riding his Harley-Davidson Bike with his friends. He and his friends also attended every FarmAid concert. He had a love for trains, as well as model trains and his 1950 Plymouth Coupe he restored and loved to take on afternoon drives. He affectionately called it “Buffy”. Charlie was a loving brother and uncle and will be deeply missed. The family would like to thank the ICU staff at Advocate BroMenn for the loving care Charlie received. Memorial contributions may be made to Carlock Mennonite

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Marjorie M. Gilbert - December 29, 1924 - December 04, 2016

Departed: 12/04/2016 (Carlock)

Obituary Preview: Marjorie M. Gilbert,91 of Normal IL formerly of Danvers, IL passed away at 3:48 PM on Sunday, December 4, 2016 at the McLean County Nursing Home, Normal IL.

Her memorial service will be 11:00 AM Saturday, December 17, 2016 at First Presbyterian Church, Danvers, Il Rev. Kathy Mitchell will be officiating. Inurnment will be at Park Lawn Cemetery, Danvers, IL.Visitation will be 10:00 AM-11:00 AM Saturday December, 17, 2016 at the church. The family suggests memorials be made to First Presbyterian Church, Danvers, IL. Cremation services provided by Calvert & Metzler Memorial Home, Bloomington, IL.

Marge was born December 29, 1924 in Wenona, IL the daughter of Harry and Helen Smith Shipley. She married Donald Gilbert on July 19, 1944 in Lisbon, ND. He survives at the McLean County Nursing Home, Normal IL.

Also surviving, 2 daughters, Susan Gilman, Mansfield IL, Nancy Walker, Normal IL,8 grandchildren, Stacey Houston, Danvers, IL, Gretchen Arbogast, Bloomington, IL, Jennifer (David) Perry, LeRoy, IL, Thad (Tara) Gilman, Mansfield, IL, Matt (Gia) Walker, Schaumburg, IL, Molly (Matt) Hilt, Carlock, IL, Allyson Tyner, Congerville, IL, Elizabeth Maxwell, Congerville, IL, 22 great-grandchildren,1 sister, Alice Johnson, Bloomington, IL. Marge is preceded in death by her parents,1 daughter, Pamela Arbogast and 1 brother, Kenneth Shipley

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Roberta J. Eickhorst - May 29, 1920 - May 09, 2016

Departed: 05/09/2016 (Carlock)

Obituary Preview: Roberta J. Eickhorst, 95 of Carlock died at 10:03 AM on Monday May 9, 2016 at McLean County Nursing Home in Normal.

There will be a funeral service for Roberta on Monday May 16, 2016 at 11 AM at North Danvers Mennonite Church in rural Danvers. Pastor Brian Johnson will officiate. There will be a visitation from 9AM – 11 AM at the church. Interment will take place in North Danvers Mennonite Cemetery. Otto-Argo-Calvert Memorial Home, Carlock, IL has been entrusted with the arrangements.

She was born May 29, 1920 in Bloomington to Jesse and Della Lippencott Kohler. She married Donald F. Eickhorst on May 20, 1945 in Oakland, CA. He preceded her in death on February 16, 2004. She was also preceded in death by one sister Lucille Kohler.

Roberta is survived by three sons Ronald (Gretchen) Eickhorst of St. Charles, MO, Steven (Charmaine) Eickhorst of Bloomington, Craig (Twila) Eickhorst of Carlock, six grandchildren, Jenny Eickhorst, Blake Eickhorst, Kyle (Lisa) Eickhorst, Reid (Stephanie) Eickhorst, Jonathan (Lindsay) Eickhorst, Emily (Andrew) McIntosh, seven great-grandchildren, Parker, Colin, Miles, Hudson, Elijah, Elliana, and Ella Grace Eickhorst.

Roberta graduated from Carlock High School in 1938 and attended Illinois Wesleyan University. She and Don lived in Downers Grove until 1951 when they moved to her family’s farm south of Carlock. She was a homemaker and enjoyed playing cards and golf. She was a member of North Danvers Mennonite Church, White Oak Home Extension, and McLean County Farm Bureau and a volunteer at Mennonite Hospital for several years. Roberta deeply loved her family and found great joy in their lives and accomplishments.

The family wishes to thank the staff at McLean County Nursing Home for their love and excellent care the past two years. It will always be remembered and appreciated.

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Weldon Elliott Fogle - October 16, 1928 - January 07, 2016

Departed: 01/07/2016 (Carlock)

Obituary Preview: Weldon Elliott Fogle, 87 of Carlock died at 6:20 AM on Thursday January 7, 2016 at his residence.

There will be a private family service and a Celebration of Life to be held at a later date. Inurnment will be in Wintz Cemetery in Carlock. Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home in Carlock is handling arrangements.

Weldon was born on October 16, 1928 in Carlock to George and Edna Woosley Fogle. He married Eloise LaVern Strawn on March 31, 1951 in Bloomington. She preceded him in death on July 17, 1985. He later married Pat Garrett on February 25, 1989. She preceded him in death December 15, 2007. He is also preceded in death by three sisters and two brothers.

Weldon is survived by his children, Merrill Vick, Alice(Jerry) Robinson, Jerry (Mona) Fogle, Mary Kay Kappes, John (Pam Hill) Fogle, Lou (Tim) Daniel, Jim Fogle, Nancy (Kevin) Bohannon, and Andy Fogle as well as his step-children Mike (Marilyn) Garrett, Linda (Jim) Kearney, and Brenda (Dennis Comtois) Tarver, fifteen grandchildren and seven step-grandchildren, seventeen great-grandchildren and fifteen step great-grandchildren.

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Gregory Williams - August 04, 1958 - December 25, 2015

Departed: 12/25/2015 (Carlock)

Obituary Preview: Gregory “Willie” Williams, 57, diedon Christmas morning (Dec. 25, 2015) at his home in rural Carlock.

A celebration of life will be from 1 to 4 p.m. Sunday, January 3, 2015 at The Outpost in Armington. It will be a casual affair. Bring your favorite “Willie” story to share.

Greg was born Aug. 4, 1958, in Peoria, to James and Joyce Conaway Williams. He grew up in Morton and graduated from Morton High School in 1976. He joined the Navy after graduation from high school.

Willie married Renee Golden on April 25, 1986. She is trying to survive his death.

He is also survived by his sisters, Jackie (John) Krueger, Lexington, and Vickie (Doyce) Warren, Armington. Also surviving are his nephews, Clint (Laura) Hagen, Will Krueger and Nik (Sabrina) McCord; nieces, Sonja Krueger and Angel (Jim) Thompson; a great-nephew, Christopher, who always “keeps him in his heart”; and two great-nieces, Katlyn and Jazzmine. He also leaves behind three very sad dogs, Larry, Lucy and Ramona.

He was preceded in death by his parents and his stepsons, Sam and Brandon Miller.

Willie was a wonderful stepdad to Sam and Brandon. They looked up to him and sought his advice. He shared his love of music with them, and he was the strong father figure during their short lives. He was also their friend. Sam and Brandon knew that they could always count on Willie for anything.

Willie had many friends who were touched by his humor, his wisdom, his generosity and his outlook on life. Willie lived life on his own terms.

He was one of the founders of Normal N.O.R.M.L. and the short-lived Green Socks. Willie loved to fish, play poker, travel and just hang out with his many friends. He was a hard worker and believed that you have to work for whatever you want in this world. He had a passion for music. He and Renee would travel many miles just to hear a band or go to a show.

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Funeral Services Offered

Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock offers a wide range of funeral services designed to meet the diverse needs of families in the community. Some of the services they provide include:

- Traditional Funerals: Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock provides traditional funeral services that include visitation, funeral ceremony, and burial or entombment.

- Cremation Services: The funeral home offers cremation services that can be tailored to meet individual preferences, including direct cremation, cremation with memorial service, and cremation with traditional funeral service.

- Memorial Services: Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock also provides memorial services that allow families to celebrate the life of their loved one without the presence of the body.

- Pre-Arrangement Planning: The funeral home offers pre-arrangement planning services that enable individuals to plan and prepare for their own funeral in advance.

Facilities and Amenities

Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock is located in a beautiful and historic building that has been carefully restored to maintain its original charm. The funeral home features spacious and comfortable facilities that can accommodate large gatherings and intimate ceremonies alike. Some of the amenities they offer include:

- Spacious Chapel: The funeral home has a large chapel that can seat hundreds of guests, making it an ideal venue for large funerals and memorial services.

- Comfortable Lounge Areas: Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock has comfortable lounge areas where families can gather and share memories of their loved one.

- Parking Facilities: The funeral home has ample parking facilities that can accommodate large numbers of vehicles.

Staff and Leadership

Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock is led by a team of experienced and compassionate professionals who are dedicated to providing exceptional service to families in need. The staff includes licensed funeral directors, embalmers, and support staff who work together to ensure that every family receives personalized attention and care.

Community Involvement

Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock is deeply committed to the local community and actively participates in various charitable initiatives and events throughout the year. The funeral home believes in giving back to the community that has supported them over the years, and they do so through volunteer work, sponsorships, and donations to local organizations.

Why Choose Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock?

There are many reasons why families choose Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock when they need funeral services. Here are just a few:

- Personalized Service: The funeral home provides personalized service that is tailored to meet each family's unique needs and preferences.

- Experience and Expertise: The staff at Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock has years of experience and expertise in providing funeral services, ensuring that every family receives exceptional care and guidance.

- Compassion and Empathy: The funeral home is known for its compassion and empathy towards grieving families, providing them with comfort and support during difficult times.

Contacting Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock

If you need funeral services or would like to learn more about Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock, you can contact them at (phone number) or visit their website at (website URL). You can also visit their location at 203 W. Franklin, Carlock, IL, 61725. The staff at Otto-Argo-Calvert Funeral Home - Carlock looks forward to serving you with compassion, respect, and dignity.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who want to pay their respects. They help to notify people of the passing, share details about the funeral or memorial service, and provide an opportunity for loved ones to express their condolences.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the obituary is written by the family members or close friends of the deceased, with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral or memorial service, as well as any charitable donations or tributes in lieu of flowers.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Generally, it's recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important details. Aim for around 150-200 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. You may need to provide the written obituary, along with payment for publication.

Can I write my own obituary?

Absolutely! Writing your own obituary can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy. It's also a great way to ensure that your story is told in your own words.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and accomplishments.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers charge by the word or line, while others offer package deals that include additional services like online posting or photo inclusion.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's not possible to make changes to an obituary once it's been published in print. However, online obituaries may be editable depending on the platform's policies.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publication varies depending on the publication's schedule and deadlines. Online obituaries are usually posted immediately, while print publications may take several days or even weeks.

Can I request corrections to an obituary?

If you notice errors or inaccuracies in an obituary, contact the publication or platform directly to request corrections. They will work with you to resolve the issue as quickly as possible.

What if I want to keep my loved one's obituary private?

You can choose to keep the obituary private by not publishing it publicly or by restricting access to certain individuals. Some online platforms offer privacy settings to control who can view the obituary.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including meaningful quotes or song lyrics can add a personal touch to the obituary and help capture the essence of your loved one's personality.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites that specialize in historical records. Local libraries or genealogical societies may also have access to archived newspapers and records.

Can I create a digital archive of my loved one's obituary?

Yes! Many online platforms allow you to save and share digital copies of the obituary. You can also create a digital archive by scanning printed copies or saving them as PDFs.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary?

Drafting an obituary can be a daunting task. Consider enlisting the help of a friend or family member, or seek guidance from a funeral home or professional writer.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate your loved one's personality and spirit. Just be sure to balance humor with respect and sensitivity.

How do I handle condolences and messages from strangers?

If you're receiving condolences from people you don't know, consider setting up a memorial page or online guestbook where people can leave messages. This can help you manage responses while still allowing others to express their sympathy.

What if I want to plan ahead and pre-write my own obituary?

This is a thoughtful gesture! Pre-writing your own obituary can help alleviate burden on your loved ones during a difficult time. Consider storing it with other important documents or sharing it with trusted family members.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share news of a loved one's passing and reach a wider audience. Be mindful of privacy settings and consider creating a memorial page or group.

How do I cope with reading multiple obituaries for loved ones who passed away around the same time?

Losing multiple loved ones in close succession can be overwhelming. Allow yourself time to grieve each individual loss, and consider seeking support from friends, family, or a professional counselor.

What if I'm concerned about identity theft after publishing an obituary?

To minimize risk, avoid including sensitive information like addresses, dates of birth, or social security numbers in the obituary. Additionally, consider using initials instead of full names for surviving family members.

Can I republish an old obituary on its anniversary?

Absolutely! Republishing an old obituary on its anniversary can be a meaningful way to honor your loved one's memory and continue celebrating their life.