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Charles Craig Munger - February 03, 1931 - May 08, 2021

Departed: 05/08/2021 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Charles Craig Munger, age 90, of De Smet, SD, passed away on Saturday, May 8, 2021, at his residence in De Smet. Memorial Services will be 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, May 15, 2021, at the De Smet Community Church. Pastor Jim Millman will officiate with music provided by Dianne Perry and Julie Millman. The service will Live-Streamed on our website.

Visitation will be at the church on Friday from 5-7 p.m.

Burial will be at the De Smet Cemetery. Military graveside honors will be conducted by the De Smet American Legion Post #138 and the Funeral Honors Team of the SD National Guard. Honorary pallbearers will be his lifelong friend, Merle Klinkel, and the De Smet American Legion and the De Smet Fire Department. Active pallbearers will be all of his grandchildren.

Charles Craig Munger was born on February 3, 1931, to Howard and Florence (Zahllar) Munger in De Smet, SD. In 1949, Craig graduated from high school alongside his sweetheart, Bonnie Johnson. That year he also became a state champion on the mile relay team. His athletic ability and sports accomplishments earned him the nickname, “Speedy”. Following graduation, he joined the U.S. Army which took him to Colorado Springs, CO, where he and Bonnie would be united in marriage on September 23, 1950. Craig remained in the Army until March 29, 1980, when he was honorably discharged for retirement as Master Sergeant.

Throughout his life, Craig owned the De Smet Dry Cleaners and worked at the De Smet News and Butler Paper Company. Outside of work, Craig gave back to his community in many ways. He was an active member in the American Legion for 69 years where he served his term as Legion Commander. He spent many years with the De Smet Fire Department and Ambulance Services. Craig helped develop Prairie Park along with serving on its board and he served on the De Smet Development Board. The community titles he held are Hospital Board, County Commissioner, Laura Ingalls Wilder Director, Church Treasurer, Bulldog booster of the year, and Grand Marshall of the Old Settler’s Day Celebration.

Craig is survived by his wife Bonnie; his children, Sandra (Ronald) Wersal of Faribault, MN, Judy Page of Pierre, SD, Steve (Janie) Munger of De Smet, SD, and Kent (Diana) Munger of De Smet, SD; twelve grandchildren: Aaron, Alisha, Derrick, Tami, Shannon, Spencer, Jessica, Jada, Cole, Tate, Sam, and Ali; and fifteen great-grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Howard and Florence; one brother, Howard; and one sister, Neva. Arrangements by Crawford-Osthus Funeral Chapel De Smet, Watertown, Hayti and Bryant www.crawfordosthus.com

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Anitra Schardin - Unknown - February 05, 2021

Departed: 02/05/2021 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Anitra Schardin, age 93, of De Smet, SD, passed away Friday, February 5, 2021, at her daughter’s home in Baltic, SD. Private family funeral services will be held at 10:30 AM on Friday, February 12, 2021, at the American Lutheran Church in De Smet, SD. Reverend Jonathan Dolan will officiate. Music will be provided by Julie Baszler. The service will also be available via Facebook Live on the Crawford-Osthus and the American Lutheran Church Facebook pages.

Public visitation will be held on Thursday, February 11, 2021 from 5-7 PM at the American Lutheran Church in De Smet, SD.

Face masks are required at both services.

Anitra Martha Jensen was born on the family farm three miles north of Tyler, MN, September 10, 1927, one-half hour before her twin sister, Agneta, to Jens Christian Jensen and Marie Christine (Oerter) Jensen. Anitra attended Marshfield Township Country School until 9th grade when the family moved from the farm into Tyler MN where she attended and graduated from Tyler High School in 1945. Anitra worked as a secretary at Lyon-Lincoln Rural Electric in Tyler MN where she met the love of her life, Hilbert ‘Blackie’ Schardin. They were united in marriage on June 12, 1949, in Tyler MN and moved to De Smet SD to begin their married life and raise a family. Anitra lived in De Smet SD for 68 years before moving to Baltic, SD where she lived with and was cared for by her daughter, Janice. During her 68 years in De Smet, Anitra worked at Kingsbury Electric Cooperative eventually working a variety of part-time jobs as a bookkeeper for Iverson Chrysler Dealership, Peschel’s Meat Locker, and Schmidt’s Shoes while being custodians at American Lutheran Church and raising their five children. Anitra and Hilbert also owned and operated Schardin Lane’s in De Smet where they enjoyed bowling in single and couple leagues. They were both excellent bowlers traveling to participate in many State bowling tournaments throughout their married life. After Hilbert’s death in 1974, Anitra found full-time employment at Kingsbury County Soil Conservation Office, Kingbrook Rural Water and eventually De Smet Farm Mutual, where she worked until her retirement at age 65 and was another ‘great memory’. Anitra belonged to American Lutheran Church in De Smet, was a life-long member of WELCA and Rebecca Circle. She taught Sunday school, sang in the choir and absolutely loved having all of her family home for the Holidays and attending Sunday services together where the family filled up several pews. Anitra always put her family first and spoiled them with her famous homemade cinnamon rolls, chocolate chip cookies, krazy korn, her delicious roast beef and pheasant dinners and many other favorites! She made 12 quilts hand embroidering them all for each of her grandchildren that they treasure. Anitra was an avid sports fan and played fast pitch softball up until her third child was born. She tried cross country skiing, golf and tennis but bowling was her favorite. Anitra was a huge fan of the Boston Celtics, Minnesota Twins, Vikings, Timberwolves and Gophers and locally, her De Smet Bulldogs. She was the #1 fan of any team her grandchildren played on! She was very knowledgeable about sports and could talk the talk with anyone especially her grandchildren who were impressed with her knowledge of many sports. Grandma was their biggest “cheerleader”. She was famous for her post-game discussions with each of them, always encouraging them to do their best, to never give up and to take pride in excelling and being a leader. She traveled thousands of miles in her 1990 Buick Century to attend the events of her children, 12 grandchildren and 23 great-grandchildren throughout their elementary, junior high, high school and college years. Anitra enjoyed playing solitaire while watching or listening to sporting events on the television and radio simultaneously. When the family was all together for her 75th birthday they went bowling and she “beat us all”! Anitra loved the Lord and her family and always put them first. Anitra is survived by her five children; Sharon Papendick, Burnsville, MN; Richard Schardin, Madison SD; Janice Schardin, Baltic, SD; Diane (Mark) Neu, Alcester SD; and Bradley (Vicki) Schardin, Marion SD; 12 Grandchildren, Sara Albrecht, Sharlene (Johnny) Peterson; Brandon (Rachel) Schardin; Jennifer Grover, Ryan (Megan) Kortemeyer; Matthew (Renee) Neu, Scott (Alexa) Neu, Todd (Kara) Neu, Trenten (Courtney) Neu; Andrea (Alan) Flyger, Brock Schardin, Cara Schardin and fiancé Tyler Gerdes. 23 Great-Grandchildren: Kaleb and Siena Albrecht, Savannah, Maya and John Peterson; McKayla and Adam Schardin; Holland, Harper, (twins) Laken and Finley and Crew Kortemeyer; Presley, Bennett, Teagan, Tucker, Jensen, Vernon and Emma Neu and step-grandson, Keaton Stelzer; Shea, Taya and Jade ‘Anitra’ Flyger; Sister-in-law, Viola (Schardin) Hansen and brother-in-law, Harlan Barck, numerous nieces, nephews and life-long friends who will miss her dearly. Anitra was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, Hilbert Vernon, Grandson, Joshua Kortemeyer, her twin and seven other sisters, two brothers, and eight in-laws; and nineteen Schardin brothers and sisters in-law. Anitra is the final member of her immediate Jensen family to enter the Gates of Heaven, and what a joyous reunion with her husband and families that will be. Now the “Kitten Ball” Team is full once more! Memorials can be given in Anitra’s memory to Daugherty House, Sioux Falls SD and American Lutheran Church.

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Ella C. Weerts - September 30, 1928 - February 04, 2021

Departed: 02/04/2021 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Ella C. Weerts, age 92, passed away on Thursday, February 4, 2021, at the De Smet Good Samaritan Society. Private family funeral service and visitation will be held 1:00 pm, Saturday, February 13, 2021, at the American Lutheran Church in De Smet, SD. The service will also be available via Facebook live on the American Lutheran Church page and the Crawford-Osthus Funeral Chapel page. Private family burial at the Le Seuer Cemetery, Bancroft, SD. Face masks are required. Ella Clara Marie (Behm) Weerts, 92, of Bancroft, South Dakota, passed away on February 4, 2021.

She was born September 30, 1928 in Madison, SD to Frieda (Wulff) and Arthur Behm. Ella grew up on the family farm by Canova, SD.

She attended Pearl #1 Country School through 8 th grade and graduated from Canova High School in 1946.

During the school year, Ella lived in town and worked at Ray’s Grocery Store.

After graduation, Ella worked full time at Ray’s Grocery Store.

Later, she moved to Mitchell, SD and worked as a bookkeeper for Armours. She married Elmer Donald Weerts on June 4, 1950 at Immanuel Lutheran, Canova, SD where she had been baptized and confirmed.

They made their home on the Weerts family farm north of Bancroft where they raised their five children.

She was the bookkeeper for E. Weerts, Inc. for over 50 years. Ella was a member of St. John’s Lutheran Church in Bancroft, SD, where she was organist for over 30 years, taught Sunday School and was active in WELCA, serving as treasurer, secretary and president.

She also served as secretary and treasurer for the church. Ella was active in the community as a member of the Friendly Farmerettes Extension Club and a 4-H Leader.

She enjoyed baking cookies, gardening, decorating cakes, playing Scrabble, doing crossword puzzles (in pen), raising chickens, sewing, drawing, and playing piano. Ella was a kind soul who loved her family and her church. She will be missed dearly by her family and friends. Ella is survived by four children, Eugene (Mary) Weerts of Bancroft, SD, Eunice (Kent) Kapplinger of Fargo, ND, Erland (Marlys) Weerts of Bancroft, SD, and Evelyn (Richard) Cottam of High Point, NC; son-in-law, Delmer Wolkow of De Smet, SD; sister-in-law, Bernice Mundhenke of De Smet, SD; 13 grandchildren, Mathew (Betty) Wolkow of Lewisville, TX, Michael (Lori) Wolkow of

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Marlys J. Erickson - November 11, 1948 - February 02, 2021

Departed: 02/02/2021 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Marlys J. Erickson, age 72, of Bryant, SD, passed away on Tuesday, February 2, 2021, at the De Smet Good Samaritan Society. Memorial services will be at a later date. Marlys was born on November 11, 1948, to Melvin and Cleo (Teason) Seppanen in Estelline, SD. She graduated from Bryant High School in 1967. After graduation, Marlys spent time working as an aid at the Bryant Elementary School and doing daycare. On December 22, 1973, Marlys married Arthur “Art” Erickson at Our Redeemer Lutheran Church in Bryant, SD. She continued to work in daycare until her daycare kids had grown up. When her own children were born, Marlys continued to be a stay at home mom to raise them. As a member of Our Redeemer Lutheran Church, Marlys was also part of the ladies aid. She loved taking care of her children, going to garage sales, and doing puzzles with “Mrs. B”. She also enjoyed meals at Perkins and listening to Sunday morning classic country radio. Marlys is survived by her husband, Arthur “Art”, of Bryant, SD; a son, Tyler Erickson of Bryant, SD; a daughter, Jordan (Jake) Drotzman of Yankton, SD; a brother, Bill (DeeAnn) Seppanen of Watertown, SD; two sisters, Darla Seppanen (Mike Nelson) of Sioux Falls, SD and Jean (Bryon) Jaqua of Arizona.

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Roger Knock - April 13, 1949 - January 24, 2021

Departed: 01/24/2021 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Roger Knock, age 71, of De Smet, SD, passed away on Sunday, January 24, 2021, at Avera De Smet Memorial Hospital. Private family funeral services will be at 10:30 AM on Saturday, January 30, 2021, at American Lutheran Church in De Smet. The service will be live-streamed on Facebook Live, the Crawford-Osthus Funeral Home website, and the American Lutheran Church website. A public walk-through visitation will be at the church on Friday, January 29, 2021 from 5-7 PM. Face masks are encouraged. Burial will be at the Pleasant Lutheran Cemetery in rural Vienna, SD. Military honors will be immediately following the service. It will be conducted by the American Legion Post #138, Patriot Guard Riders and the Funeral Honors Team of the U.S. Navy. Active pallbearers will be: Wallace Knock, Tebbo Knock, Richard Knock, Eric Knock, Jared Knock and Kendal Thompson.

Memorials may be directed to the De Smet American Lutheran Church or the De Smet Event and Wellness Center.

Roger was born on April 13, 1949, in Sioux Falls, SD to Arthur and Inez (Hassebroek) Knock. He graduated from Willow Lake High School in 1967 and joined the United States Navy where he spent 18 months in Antigua and 18 months in Iceland. In 1974, he graduated from South Dakota State University.

On August 6, 1971, He married Sharry Thompson at the Bethlehem Church in Vienna, SD. The couple made their home in De Smet, SD, where Roger worked in the floor covering business. He then started working in the custom fabrication industry for Twin City Fans in Brookings, SD, and Desco in De Smet, SD. In 2011, the couple semi-retired together.

He was a member of the De Smet American Lutheran church, where he held many positions, and was a former mayor of De Smet. Roger was also a member of the De Smet Fire Department and the De Smet Booster Club. He coordinated the Meals on Wheels program in De Smet. Roger’s loves were first and foremost his family, followed by the De Smet Bulldogs’ activities as well as SDSU football and basketball.

Roger is survived by his wife, Sharry, of De Smet; one son, Derik (Tricia) Knock of Omaha, NE; one daughter, Lindsay (Jeff) Nolte of De Smet, SD; three grandchildren: Madyson Knock, Mesa Nolte, and Caleb Nolte; three brothers: Wallace (Kathy) Knock of Willow Lake, SD, Tebbo Knock of Brookings, SD, and Richard (Crystal) Knock of Willow Lake, SD; two sisters: Ruth Westling of Alcester, SD and Ardis (Marty) Conway of San Luis Obispo, CA; one sister-in-law Laurie Knock of Willow Lake, SD; and numerous nieces and nephews.

Roger was preceded in death by his parents; one brother, Paul; and his brother-in-law, Bruce Westling.

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Darlene M. Close - November 10, 1937 - January 21, 2021

Departed: 01/21/2021 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Darlene M. Close, age 83, of De Smet, SD, passed away on Thursday, January 21, 2021, at the Good SamaritanCenter in De Smet. Darlene was born November 10, 1937, in Comfrey, MN, to parents Fred and Grace (Smit) Becker. Marie Becker Lund Close was the third of four children. The family moved to Sioux Falls, SD where Darlene attended and graduated from high school. Upon graduation she worked at McKennan Hospital. She liked to travel and see different curiosities and would recount fondly

trips taken with friends during her early adult years. Darlene married Donald Lund in December 1962 and began a family, moving from South Dakota to Minnesota. Eventually the family moved to Oldham, SD where they operated the

family farm and raised 3 children, Mike Lund, Terrie Lund Riefenberg, and Keith Lund. Darlene was active in her children’s lives, making sure to attend sporting events, band concerts, plays and 4-H events. Darlene was artistic and loved to express her creativity through all types of arts and craft projects. Darlene also loved animals and was particularly fond of her pet dogs Lady and Rosie. Divorced in 1987, Darlene moved to DeSmet, SD and worked in the Kingsbury County Register of Deeds and Community Action office for many years. She gained much joy helping people and working with the public. Darlene married Andrew Closeand lived together in

DeSmet until his death in 2018. Darlene is survived by her children: Mike Lund & his wife Laurie of Seattle, WA, Terrie Lund Riefenberg and her husband Paul of Gastonia, NC, and Keith Lund and his wife Tanya, their two children Carissa and her husband Cody Krause and Hunter; and her great grandchildren, Caydin and Cadhla Krause of Omaha, NE; her brother Dennis Becker of Sioux Falls, and her sister

Patricia Russell, also of Sioux Falls, SD.

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JOY “Smokey” WALLUM - Unknown - December 23, 2020

Departed: 12/23/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: JOY “SMOKEY” WALLUM, 95, Iroquois, SD, died Wednesday, December 23, 2020 at Dougherty Hospice at Sioux Falls, SD. Services will be scheduled in the spring, due to COVID regulations, pending with Osthus Funeral Home, De Smet, SD.

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Clarence Penner - May 29, 1934 - December 01, 2020

Departed: 12/01/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Clarence Penner, 86, died Tuesday, December 1, 2020 at the Village Assisted Living in De Smet, South Dakota.

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John Bjorkman - November 21, 1954 - October 20, 2020

Departed: 10/20/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: John C. Bjorkman was born on November 21, 1954 to Lee and Betty Bjorkman. He grew up on a farm near Oldham and attended Oldham High School. John then went on to earn a degree in Education at DSU, later earning a Master’s degree at SDSU and an Education Specialist degree at SFU. John had a passion for teaching and helping the youth. He also enjoyed refereeing high school basketball and football games, which he did for 30 years. John also loved fishing, hunting, and spending time with his family and grandchildren. His grandchildren were the light of his life. John passed away on October 20, 2020 from Covid-19 at Avera McKennan Hospital. He is proceeded in death by his mother and father, Betty and Lee Bjorkman. He is survived by his wife, Chris; Children: Matt (Trish) Bjorkman, Nick (Kelsey) Bjorkman, and Kassi (Marcus) MlCak; His four grandchildren: Trey and Ella Mlcak and Sutton and Beckett Bjorkman; His brother, Jim Bjorkman; and sisters: Tacy (Dave) Bressler and Connie (Mike) Bickett. Services will be determined at a later date, due to Covid service recommendations.

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NORMA RABENBERG - Unknown - October 16, 2020

Departed: 10/16/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Norma Lee Halverson Rabenberg, formerly of Bancroft and DeSmet, was born at Bancroft, South Dakota to Susie Williams Halverson and Alfred Halverson on April 26, 1929.

She passed away Friday, October 16, 2020 at the Brookings Health System, Brookings, SD.

She had been at the Estelline Nursing and Care Center in Estelline since January of 2020. Prior to that she was at Edgewood Vista Assisted Living in Brookings, SD. A private family funeral service is scheduled at 10:00 a.m. Wednesday, October 21, 2020 at the Osthus Funeral Home in De Smet with burial to follow at the LeSeuer Cemetery in Bancroft, SD. Pastor Marty Reynhout of Redwood Falls, MN will be officiating. Norma graduated from Bancroft High School and attended Huron College where she majored in music, playing piano, organ, trumpet and singing soprano in college musicals.

This was followed by her marriage to Clarence E. Rabenberg on September 18, 1949 and the beginning of their 65-year marriage and life on a farm near Bancroft. Lanette, Jerry and Glen were born of the marriage. High points in Norma’s life included singing at Bethel MB Church at Yale, SD, which the family attended from 1960 –2000.

Clarence and Norma moved to DeSmet in 2000 and began attending the DeSmet Christian Missionary Alliance Church, where Norma participated musically by singing as well as occasionally playing the offertory during services.

She had a wonderful gift and could play many hymns, one after the other, which people always enjoyed.

She also particularly enjoyed the Community Concert Series. A little known fact is that Norma started the state 4-H dog competition in DeSmet through the Bancroft 4-H club, which evolved to include many different counties, culminating in a state competition that continues at the State Fair to this day.She did this during the time she was raising a number of breeds of purebred, registered dogs. Norma’s great enjoyment was her Saladmaster cookware sales.

She was a master demonstrator and won many awards nationally, including several trips to Europe.

She made many friends while selling and looked forward to seeing them at her booth at the SD State Fair every year. Long after she had retired from sales and continuing to her passing Norma would talk animatedly about Saladmaster, previous sales and travels, and the many close friendships developed through this endeavor. Norma Lee, as her oldest friends called her, loved her family, music, animals and traveling.

She was always open to new things and stayed involved in life to the end.

She had a great sense of humor and was someone worth getting to know.

Her strong faith and enjoyment of so many diverse things gave her great character and strength. She could be a force to be reckoned with. Survivors include her children, Lanette (Dennis) Parise of Kirtland, OH; Glen Rabenberg of Bancroft and Yankton; Jerry (Mary) Rabenberg of Grand Rapids, MI; her grandchildren from Lanette: Dr. Grant Sanders of Chagrin Falls, OH and Lana Sanders of Kirtland, OH, and from Jerry and Mary: Travis Rabenberg,of Grand Rapids, MI. She was preceded in death by her parents, her husband Clarence, and her older brother, Darrell Halverson. Donations and memorials may be made to Samaritan’s Purse, a Franklin Graham/Billy Graham ministry at www.samaritanspurse.org/donate or Samaritan’s Purse, PO Box 3000, Boone, NC 28607.

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JOY Y CARROLL - January 07, 1933 - October 08, 2020

Departed: 10/08/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: JOY Y. CARROLL, 87, De Smet, died Thursday, October 8 2020, at Brookings Hospital, Brookings, SD.

A public walk-through visitation is scheduled 6:00PM-8:00PM Wednesday, October 14, 2020, at St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church. A private family funeral service is scheduled at 11:00 AM Thursday, October 15, 2020 at St. Thomas Catholic Church, De Smet, with Father Jim Callahan, Father Cathal Gallagher, and Father Richard Baumberger officiating.

Burial will follow at St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Cemetery, De Smet, SD. Masks are encouraged for all services and 6-foot distancing is required during all services. Joy Yvonne Peterson was born on January 7 th , 1933 in her family home in Willow Lake, SD to Albert Peterson and Verna (Gluenkin) Peterson. In 1946 Joy graduated from Willow Lake High School.

She worked in the bank in Willow Lake and helped pop popcorn at the theater in Willow Lake owned by Tom Ward. She married Tom Ward at St Mary’s Catholic Church in Bryant, SD on July 26 th , 1955.

They lived in Bryant until January 1957 when they purchased the J.C.Penney building in De Smet and made it Ward’s V Store.

Tom and Joy lived in De Smet the rest of their lives.

Joy was a housewife raising 4 children when Tom died May 11 th , 1974.

She then became the owner and manager of Ward’s V Store. Joy then met Robert “Bob” Carroll and they were married at St Thomas Aquinas Church, De Smet on May 28 th , 1982 and moved to Clara City, MN for a short time until moving back to De Smet.

Joy continued to work for 30 more years with her daughter, Patti, running the family business. Joy was involved in many activities in De Smet. For 17 years she was the De Smet Chamber of Commerce Secretary.

She would take time to write a personal note to all the tourists that wrote for information about De Smet.

Joy organized the American Red Cross Blood mobile in De Smet for over 30 years as a volunteer.

She was a member of our local P.E.O., Church Altar Society and Church Choir. Joy loved working with the public at her business, but when the day was done, she wanted to spend the time with her children. As they got older and started college, she went out and got two part time jobs at night so that they would be able to afford college.

This was something she wanted for her kids since she had not been able to have the opportunity for herself. Joy loved people, but her true love was her family.

Her children meant everything to her and then she loved their children even more. She just loved being Grandma and Great-Grandma. Joy’s faith was the center of her world.

She loved being a member of the Catholic faith. She would say the Rosary daily, never missed Mass and when she drove by the Church, she would always make the sign of the Cross. February 22 nd , 2019 was one of the saddest days of Joy’s life when her first born, Julie Gutzmer, went to heaven. Survivors include her husband, Bob Carroll, and her children: Tom (Diane) Ward of Rapid City, SD, Patti (Jay Slater) Ward of De Smet, SD, Dr. David (Annie) Ward of Garretson, SD, and son-in-law Dwight (Julie) Gutzmer (Highmore, SD); her grandchildren: Shannon (Jacob) Forester and Dr. Bridget (Austin) Eichacker (Rapid City, SD), Jerrod (Cassandra) Gutzmer (Pierre, SD), Kim Hayden, Krissy Ward (Rapid City, SD), Dr. Charles (Dr. Paige) Ward (Houston, TX) and Chase (Nancy) Ward (Garretson, SD); her great-grandchildren: Piper Forester, Adelaide Eichacker, Juliet Eichacker, Ava Gutzmer, Jasper Gutzmer, Malone Gutzmer, Conor Hayden, Caylin Ward, Isaac Ward and Araya Ward;

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Doris Cummins - May 20, 1928 - September 06, 2020

Departed: 09/06/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Doris Cummins, 92, died Sunday, September 6, 2020, at Avantara, Pierre, SD. A public visitation is scheduled for 12:00PM (noon)- 1:00PM, Friday, September 11, 2020, with a 1:00 PM memorial service to follow at De Smet Community Church, De Smet, SD, with Pastor Jim Millman officiating.

Burial will follow at De Smet Cemetery, De Smet, SD. Memorial donations may be directed to Countryside Hospice, Pierre, SD; or charity of choice. Doris Burrows Pollitt Cummins was born May 20, 1928 in Knutsford, England, to Arthur and Anne (Burrows) Pollitt. She grew up during World War II when there were bombings in the area.

Her grandfather made beautiful brass creations and her father held jobs at the Post Office and at the City of Knutsford. She met Bob Cummins when he was stationed in England during World War II at the dances held at the Co-op in downtown Knutsford. She was very young and was supervised closely at the dances by her sisters. Bob returned stateside, and after a time, began writing letters to Doris.

She worked at the Ford Garage as an accountant in Knutsford until she flew to the U.S. on July 4, 1947 to see Bob and to decide if the cultural differences were too different or if she would like to stay and marry him.

Bob stopped on the Mendota Bridge near the Minneapolis/St. Paul airport and asked Doris to marry him and presented her with an engagement ring.

As soon as Doris arrived in De Smet, Grandma Cummins was already planning the wedding. Doris stayed with Bob’s parents, Charley and Ann, until the wedding one month later. They were married August 4, 1947. Doris attended classes to become a naturalized citizen of the United States of America and after completing the required classwork and examinations, she was very proud of becoming a US citizen Doris had the most beautiful dark brown eyes that sparked with emotion, and she had a very quick wit.

She loved to dance, played the piano by ear, and was the best wife and Mom that anyone could ask for.

She played sports with us, went on family bicycle rides, and we always remember Dad wanting to ski one more time.

One of our favorite memories was Mom taking him all the way around Lake Poinsett on skis trying to tire him out.

We are very blessed to have had her in our lives! Family was very important to Doris. She had five brothers: Charles, James, Thomas (Mary), Harold, Jack (Edith); and five sisters: Win (Bill), Marjorie (Don), Freda (Clem), Jo (Freddy), Glenda (Mick). She is survived by two of her sisters, Freda Jones (Clem) of Newcastle, NSW, Australia, and Jo Da Prato of Newton Stewart, Scotland, and numerous nieces, nephews and other family members. She was very proud of her five children and loved them dearly.

Maureen (Doug) Droz, Jim (fiancée Pam), Tom, Shelley (Kenny) Pfannenstiel, and Jan (Gill) Hedman.

Her grandchildren brought her great joy including Brittany (Kade), Alli, Kristen (Charlie), Sean (Hannah), Shelby (Mike), Carly (Dale), Teri (Jamie), Jennifer, Jennifer, Gretchen.

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Robert “Bob” Heitland - December 30, 1928 - September 01, 2020

Departed: 09/01/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: ROBERT “BOB” HEITLAND, 91, died Tuesday, September 1, 2020, at Prairie Lakes Hospital, Watertown, SD. A graveside memorial service and burial is scheduled at 3:00 PM Friday, September 4, 2020, at Collins Cemetery, Willow Lake, SD, with Reverend Marjie Brewton officiating. Robert Bernard Heitland was born December 30, 1928, near Willow Lake, SD, to Herman and Dorathea Heitland. Bob grew up near Willow Lake, moving with his parents in 1943 to the farm where he currently resided. He attended country school through the eighth grade, after which he worked on the family farm. In January 1951, Bob joined the United States Navy.

After six weeks of basic training at the Great Lakes Naval Training Center, he boarded the USS Twinning DD 540 in California.

He served in the Korean War with three tours of duty to Korea from 1951 -1954.

He also traveled to the Philippines, Hermosa, and Hong Kong.

He was discharged in October 1954. Bob was united in marriage to Darlene Marx on September 4, 1954, at Long Beach, CA.

The couple returned to South Dakota and farmed in the Willow Lake area until moving to Fargo in January 1957, where Bob attended mechanical school. Upon completion of his education, they moved to De Smet, where he was employed at O’Keefe Implement as shop foreman. In 1964 the couple moved to Bob’s family farm north of De Smet to take over the farming operation.

They farmed and raised livestock until health issues forced him to retire in 1984.

Darlene passed away in July 2008. Bob was an extremely bright man who could fix anything.

He was a very talented mechanic who loved to visit with others about cars and tractors.

He also loved music.

He enjoyed playing the accordion and dancing during his younger years.

Most of all, he was a fighter.

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Lorene Heller - September 04, 1925 - August 12, 2020

Departed: 08/12/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Lorene (Albrecht) Heller passed away on August 12, 2020, after 94 wonderful years of life.

She resided at Tuff Memorial Home in Hills, SD. A funeral service is scheduled for 10:30 AM Tuesday, August 18, 2020, at American Lutheran Church, De Smet, SD, with Reverend Jonathon Dolan officiating.

Burial will follow at De Smet Cemetery, De Smet, SD.

Visitation hours are 5:00-7:00PM with a 7:00PM family prayer service on Monday, August 17, 2020, at American Lutheran Church, De Smet. Lorene Augusta Albrecht was born September 4, 1925 to Henry and Sylvia (Wegner) Albrecht. She grew up on the family farm south of De Smet, attended Matthews Country School, and graduated from De Smet High School 1943.

She continued her education at General Beadle in Madison, SD, where she earned her teaching degree and taught at rural country schools for several years. Lorene was united in marriage to George Heller on June 2, 1945.

The couple resided on their beloved farm south of De Smet, where they were blessed with good times and four children, David, Diane, Dennis, and Debora. Lorene’s life centered around her love for God, family, and her church, American Lutheran Church in De Smet.

She was blessed to have many family and friends throughout her 94 years.

Her heritage meant so much to her.

She found great joy caring for her family and farm.

She tended large vegetable and flower gardens, and raised chicken and farm animals.

Many were the recipients of her wonderful cooking and baking.

George and Lorene hosted many gatherings on the farm for family and friends.

They were members of dance clubs, card clubs, camping clubs, and loved to travel and do craft shows together.

She was also able to resume her first love of teaching by substitute-teaching at the De Smet and Lake Preston schools for many years.

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Vera Raether - March 02, 1923 - June 17, 2020

Departed: 06/17/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Vera (Lorenz) Raether, passed away on June 17th, 2020, after 97 lovely years. She resided at Good Samaritan Nursing Home, DeSmet, SD. Vera was born March 2, 1923, in Esmond, SD, daughter of Paul A. Lorenz and Emma (Weitzel) Lorenz.

Vera attended Elementary School in Esmond High School in Iroquois, SD, and attended the Northwest Business College, Huron, SD.

Following college, Vera worked for the Agricultural Stabilization & Conservation Service (ASCS) in Huron, SD. Vera married Leonard H. Raether on the 29 th of November,1945, and thereafter, Vera & Leonard farmed near Iroquois. They were blessed with two children, Jerry and Cheryl. In 1965, Vera returned to a payroll position. She worked for Raven Industries, Inc., DeSmet, SD, as a company product-line Inspector for 20 years. Many friendships developed there, and have continued since her retirement from Raven’s in 1988. Concurrent with her retirement, Leonard also retired, they sold their farm, and moved to DeSmet. Vera enjoyed her many groups: dance, cards, coffee, golf, travel, her church, and she loved to cook. She entertained many family and friends.

In short, Vera thrived to socialize.

She was spirited and had a quick witted-mind throughout her life.

Always humble. Vera is survived by her son, Jerry Raether (Jane), Ogallala, NB; and her daughter, Cheryl Raether Rockwood (Stephen), Poway, CA; her grandchildren, Todd Raether (Jennifer), Gordon NB; Joel Raether (Kim), Denver, CO; and Michael Bryant (Jessie),Wheat Ridge, CO; and by numerous caring step-grandchildren, great and great-great step-grandchildren; three sister-in-laws, Margaret (Raether) Heavirland, Betty (Raether) Shafer, and Darlene (Raether) Knouse; brother-in-law Dale Raether (Sue). She was preceded in death by her husband, Leonard Raether; her parents and grandparents and by her in-laws, Herman (Margaret/Mary) Raether; brothers, Jabe and Clarence Lorenz; sisters, Lucille DeJong, Fern Cronin and Faye Fisher; brother-in-laws, Herbert, Herman Jr., and Leander Raether; William Cronin, Harry DeJong, Wayne Fisher, Kenneth Heavirland, Danny Knouse, Adrian Ruby, Stu Shafer, and by sister-in-laws, Betty, Florence, and Pat Raether; and a step-grandson. Vera was one of the last-living,second-generation decedents of her grandparents, Frank John Lorenz, Sr., and Anna (Reimann) Lorenz who immigrated from Hamburg, Germany in 1893.

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Darla Rydbom - July 23, 1963 - May 11, 2020

Departed: 05/11/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Darla Anne Rydbom, 57, passed away May 11, 2020 at her apartment in Brookings. SD. A private celebration of life is planned for May 18, 2020, at the De Smet Cemetery, with Reverend Kris Larson officiating. Darla Anne Rydbom was born July 23,1963 to Arthur and Venus (Tiggelaar) Rydbom at the De Smet hospital.

She graduated from De Smet High School in 1981.

After graduation, she continued working at the De Smet Good Samaritan Center.

Upon moving to Brookings, Darla then worked at the Advance Center and United Living Center. Darla had a love for anything to do with poodles.

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Brenda Jennings - February 22, 1961 - May 09, 2020

Departed: 05/09/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: BRENDA DARLENE (BUCHOLZ) Jennings, 59, died Saturday, May 9, 2020 at her home in Bancroft, SD.

A private family service will be scheduled on May 16, 2020, at Osthus Funeral Home, De Smet, SD, with Reverend Richard Poppen officiating.

Burial will follow at LeSueur Cemetery, rural Bancroft, SD. Brenda Darlene Bucholz was born Febraury 22, 1961, to David Jr. and Mary (Canfield) Bucholz at Wagner, SD.

She graduated from Wagner High School.

After graduation, she worked for the DOT at Mitchell, SD; Raven’s and Wilbrecht’s Electronics at Huron, SD; and the Kingsbury County Highway Department at DeSmet, SD.

Most recently, she was working for ROCS Transit at De Smet. She was united in marriage to Paul Jennings on June 6, 1998 at Bancroft, SD.

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Elsa Fetzer - May 19, 1926 - April 28, 2020

Departed: 04/28/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Elsa Fetzer, 93, De Smet, died Tuesday, April 28, 2020 at Good Samaritan Nursing Home, De Smet.

A private family funeral service is scheduled for May 1, 2020. Elsa was born in Kronau, Germany, on May 19, 1926, to Rudolf Max and Lena (Moch) Hees.

Her childhood was normal, but during her teens Germany was at war and times were hard. At the end of the war, she met an American G.I., Edwin D. Fetzer, that could speak German because of his German descent.

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Evelyn Thue - June 13, 1920 - April 26, 2020

Departed: 04/26/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Evelyn Florence Thue, 99, Lake Norden, SD, formerly of Bryant, SD, died Sunday, April 26, 2020, at Avantara, Lake Norden, SD.

A celebration of her life will be scheduled at a later date. Evelyn Ingalls Thue was born June13, 1920, to Jed and Margaret (Miller) Ingalls at Spirit Lake, Iowa.

Her family lived with her parents on a farm near Spirit Lake, IA, until 1924, when she moved with her parents and her sister, Esther, to a farm near Bryant, SD, about 2.5 miles north of the Garfield Church. Her siblings, Edith, James, and Dorothy were born here.

She started elementary school in 1926 at Cleveland Rural District #2 and graduated from high school in 1938. After high school, she married Neil Thue on October 26, 1940 at Watertown, SD.

The couple had two children, Donald and Robert. The family lived, farmed, and raised their family on the Thue homestead 3 miles west and about ¾ mile north of Lake Norden. When Evelyn and Neil retired from the farm in the fall of 1969, they moved to Bryant and purchased the Beastrand home, south of the baseball field and swimming pool park.

Evelyn worked as a dietary manager at Parkview Care Center in Bryant for 12 years.

A few years after Neil’s death in 1989, Evelyn sold her house and moved into an apartment in Bryant.

She spent her last few years in the Parkview Assisted Living Center, and recently was moved to Avantar, at Lake Norden, where she went onto her heavenly home at the age of ninety-nine and 10 months Evelyn was active in the Garfield Lutheran Church until its closing in 1978, and then at Our Redeemer Lutheran Church in Bryant. She served in the Garfield Ladies Aid and was a member of the choir, Sunday School teacher, Sunday School Superintendent, and vacation Bible School director. She was also involved in several community organizations, including Friendly Circle Club and Sunshine Extension Club. In later years, Evelyn was very active in the Bryant Senior Center, 60-Plus Meals, and the Parkview Care Center Auxiliary in Bryant, as well as the Red Hat Society. Evelyn enjoyed her vegetable garden and her flowers and had a green-thumb as well as preparing meals for work crews at harvest time.

She also entertained the clan on Grandma’s birthday, Christmas Eve, and during summer vacation time.

She was proud to teach her boys how to cook and clean and take care of the yard. Evelyn was a shining example of a typical South Dakota housewife, farmwife, and mother. She was always willing to service and help where needed, with a cheerful and loving heart. Survivors include her two sons: Robert Thue, Yankton, SD; and Donald (Sharon) Thue, Lake Norden, SD; six grandchildren, and several great and great-great grandchildren; her sisters: Esther Rocca, Novapo, CA; and Edith Gist, Callwell, Idaho; and several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Neil; her sister, Dorothy, and her husband, Keith Barenklau; her brother, James Ingalls, and his wife, Joyce;

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Rozella Noem - November 18, 1933 - March 16, 2020

Departed: 03/16/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: **PLEASE NOTE** The funeral service for Rozella Noem will be a private service for FAMILY ONLY.

A public memorial service will be scheduled at a later date. Rozella Harriett (Fedt) Noem, age 86, passed away at Jenkins Nursing Home in Watertown, SD on Monday, March 16, 2020.

She was born on November 18, 1933 to Marvin and Elva (Anderson) Fedt at the farm near Hayti, SD.

She grew up on farms near Hayti and Bryant and attended country grade schools.

Rozella attended high school in Bryant, graduating in 1951 and was especially proud of being a Bryant Scottie.

On June 7, 1953, she was united in marriage to her lifelong fishing, dancing and travel partner, LeRoy,at Garfield Lutheran Church near Bryant, SD.

While in high school, Rozella lived at different boarding houses in Bryant.

After graduation, she worked for 2 years at the Bryant State Bank.

After marriage, the couple moved close to her childhood home in Cleveland Township and began farming. Farming was central to the lives of LeRoy and Rozella.

They saw it as a way of life, and the best place to raise their family of 4.

In 1959, the couple took the biggest step of their lives, and purchased the farm just up the road from the one they had rented from Rozella’s aunt and uncle for several years. Rozella played a critical role in the support of the farming operation.

There was no doubt the couple partnered in the business and way of life.

Every dollar was accounted for by the former bank teller.

Spiral bound notebooks and other various documents tell the tale of how they conducted both business and pleasure, down to penny detail of the approximately $60 spent while on the honeymoon to the Black Hills. Rozella was very active in service and social organizations including American Legion Auxiliary, the baseball concession stand, many church circles and ladies aid organizations, Red Hats Society, and the Board of Directors for the Parkview Care Center. Rozella’s hobbies included bowling, especially going to various tournaments.

One particularly proud moment was when she placed in a national tournament in 2004. Of course, other hobbies included the travel, fishing and camping. She was so happy for having shared her life with her late husband of 61 years and love of her life, LeRoy and talked often of being with him in heaven. Also grateful for having shared her life are her children Douglas (Kathy) Noem of Bryant, Gene (Jennifer) Noem of Ames, Iowa and Wayne (Laurie) Noem of Bryant, Cindy (David) Larson of Erwin; 12 grandchildren, 23 great grandchildren, one soon to arrive greatgreat grandchild; sister Shirley Ann Rasmussen, sister in law June Noem and many nieces, nephews, cousins and close friends. Some very special people that preceded Rozella in death include her parents, her beloved husband LeRoy, a very special grandchild Shaune Noem. A private family Service honoring Rozella will be held at the Our Redeemer Lutheran Church in Bryant, SD, Friday, March 20, 2020, with Minister Colin Beveridge, for family ONLY, at 11:00 AM.

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Sandra Fedt - March 16, 1941 - March 11, 2020

Departed: 03/11/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Sandra Jean Fedt, 78, formerly of Bryant, SD, died Tuesday, March 11, 2020 at United Living Center in Brookings, SD.

A funeral service is scheduled for 10:30 AM Saturday, March 14, 2020, at Our Redeemer Lutheran Church, Bryant, SD, with Reverend Bryan Taffe officiating.

Burial will follow at Garfield Cemetery, Bryant, SD. Visitation hours are 5:00-7:00 PM Friday, March 13, 2020, at Our Redeemer Lutheran Church, Bryant, SD. Sandra Jean

Kirsch was born March 16, 1941, to Carl and Frencesca (Wenschlag) Kirsch at Watertown, SD.

She grew to adulthood in the Naples and Vienna communities.

She attended Augustana Academy at Canton, SD, for one year and graduated from Vienna High School in 1959. She was united in marriage to Lyle Fedt on June 12, 1959.

The couple farmed in the Bryant community, and bought the Bryant Lounge in 1980.

In 1982, they moved into the city of Bryant. She was a member of Our Redeemer Lutheran Church, Bryant, where she was involved teaching Sunday School and singing in the church choir.

She was also active in the Bryant Community Club, Bryant Birthday Club, and the Hamlin County Ladies’ Extension.

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Ruth Muilenburg - August 20, 1923 - March 01, 2020

Departed: 03/01/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Ruth Marie Muilenburg,

96, De Smet, died Sunday, March 1, 2020, at Dougherty Hospice House, Sioux Falls, SD.

A funeral service is scheduled for 10:30 AM, Friday, March 13, 2020, at American Lutheran Church, De Smet, SD, with Reverend Jonathan Dolan officiating.

Burial will follow at De Smet Cemetery, De Smet, SD.

Visitation hours are 5:00-7:00 PM Thursday, March 12, 2020, at Osthus Funeral Home, De Smet. Ruth Marie Geyer was born August 20, 1923, to Otto and Martha (Gehm) Geyer at Manchester, SD.

She grew to adulthood in the Manchester area, and graduated from Manchester High School. On January 13, 1944, she was united in marriage to Fred Muilenburg at Luverne, Minnesota. The couple farmed in the Manchester area for a short time, and then managed

J. L. Healy Ranch for 18 years.

They moved to De Smet, where they owned and operated the Terrace Park Dairy, and later, Muilenburg’s Commercial Feed Lot, where Ruth was the bookkeeper. The couple retired in De Smet. Ruth played the piano, and with her husband, Fred, and her brothers Art and Robert, they enjoyed playing as an orchestra for many dances.

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Donna Rae Fedt - August 13, 1943 - February 23, 2020

Departed: 02/23/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Donna Rae (Tobey) Fedt, age 76, passed away at Avera Dougherty Hospice House in Sioux Falls, SD on Sunday, February 23, 2020 after a seven-year battle with cancer. She was born on August 13, 1943 to Delmar and Grace (Klungseth) Tobey at the family farm near Willow Lake, SD.

She grew up on the farm and graduatedas class Valedictorian from Willow Lake High School in 1961 and attended South Dakota State College.

On May 4, 1963, she married Eugene Fedt of Bryant at Garfield Lutheran Church. Donna worked a short time at Bryant State Bank in 1962 and 1963. In November of 1963, Donna and Eugene moved to Ft. Sill, Oklahoma Army base.After Eugene’s discharge from the Army in October of 1965; they moved to Webster, SD where Eugene worked for Northwestern Public Service.

In 1966, they moved to the Fedt farm where they continue to reside.

Donna returnedto a career in banking in 1981where she enjoyed helping customers and retired in 2012. She was especially proud and supportive of her immediate and extended family.

Her favorite time was spent with her grandchildren at the farm and their activities.

Donna enjoyed outdoor activities such as gardening and taking care of her lawnwhile working the farm with Eugene.

Her favorite past time was bowling and participated in league bowling for over 30 years traveling to several national bowling tournaments.

She was inducted into the Hayti Bowling Association Hall of Fame in 2015. She was a member of Garfield Lutheran Church for 14 years and is presently a member of Our Redeemer Lutheran Church in Bryant.

Donna was active in church Ladies Aid, Extension Club, Birthday Club and the American Legion Auxiliary. Donna has served on various boards and is currently Dixon Township Treasurer. Grateful for having shared her life are her husband of 56 years, Eugene Fedt of Bryant, SD; father Delmar Tobey of Bryant;her children:

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Marian Nelson - July 31, 1923 - February 11, 2020

Departed: 02/11/2020 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Marian J. Nelson, 96, formerly of Lake Preston, passed away at the Avantara Care Center in Lake Norden on February 11th, 2020.

Funeral services will be held at the Lake Preston Lutheran Church on Saturday, February 15th at 11 a.m. with visitation on Friday, February 14th from 5-7 p.m at Lake Preston Lutheran Church.

Burial will be at Clara Cemetery in Erwin at a future date. Marian Jesse Powell was born on July 31st, 1923 on a farm near Wessington Springs to

George and Madge (Homewood) Powell.

After graduation from Wessington Springs High School in 1941, she worked several jobs close to home, including a job as a temporary teacher in the local country school.

Later, after completing secretarial coursework at Nettleton College in Sioux Falls, Marian worked for the U.S. Treasury Department in Washington D.C. during World War II.

Upon returning to South Dakota, she worked for a time for the International Harvester Company.

After a courtship that began at the Arcota Ballroom in Sioux Falls, Marian married Arnold W. Nelson on June 1st, 1948 at Templeton Church in rural Wessington Springs.

They farmed near Garretson until 1956 and moved to a farm near Erwin where they farmed until Arnold’s passing in 1977.

She continued to live on the farm for several years before moving to Huron where she was active in the local Senior Center.

In 1997, she moved to Lake Preston where she lived for 18 years.

She then moved to the Care Center at Lake Norden.

Marian enjoyed reading, genealogy, bible study and putting her green thumb to good use both indoors and outdoors.

She especially loved caring for her daughter Arleen, and also “putting coffee on” whenever family and friends stopped in, which often made for a very crowded house, much to her delight.

Preceding her in death, husband Arnold, brother George Marvin Powell, sister-in-law Beverly Powell and brother-in-law Raphael “Ray” Zimmer.

Marian is survived by sister Ethel Jane Zimmer of Omaha, NE, and sister-in-law Rose Marie Nelson of Madison, SD.

Grateful for the life she shared are her children, Bill (Jane) Nelson of Burbank, SD, Wynn (Tim) Clement of Iroquois, SD, Wanda (Joel) Weese of Arlington, SD, Arden (Carol) Nelson of Lake Preston, SD, and Arleen Nelson, Brookings, SD.

Marian also shared her special life with 14 grandchildren and 14 great grandchildren.

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Roy Wade - January 24, 1930 - December 27, 2019

Departed: 12/27/2019 (De Smet)

Obituary Preview: Roy Ellis Wade, 89 of De Smet passed away Friday, December 27, 2019 at the Good Samaritan Center in Howard. His memorial service will be 11:00 a.m. Friday, January 3 at the American Lutheran Church of De Smet with Pastor Jonathan Dolan officiating. Visitation will be held Thursday, January 2 from 5 to 7 p.m. at the Osthus Funeral Home. Roy was born January 24, 1930 to Clarence (Herb) and Mary (Myers) Wade. He grew up in the De Smet area and married Donna Gilbertson on August 31, 1952 at West Bethany Lutheran Church near Erwin. He and his wife, Donna raised their family and worked together on their farm for 65 years. He served in the Marine Corps at Camp Pendelton, California during the Korean Conflict. He was a member of the American Lutheran Church, De SmetAmerican Legion Post 138, past director for the Kingsbury County REA Co-op, and board member for Manchester Township for many years. Roy enjoyed staying busy restoring cars,tinkering in his shop, gardening, and working on projects for his children and grandchildren. He was proud of his grandchildren and great-grandchildren and thought the world of them. His is survived by his wife, Donna, children, Jean (Marvin) Bouska of Rapid City Duane of Walcott, Iowa, and Mary (Brad) Wienbar of Iroquois, four grandchildren, Mathew Wienbar of Beresford, Wesley (Kristen) Bouska of La Crosse, Wisconsin, Anne (Kevin) Schaefer of Colman, and Leah Wienbar of Madison, eight great-grandchildren, Raine and Ash Wienbar, Brielle, Barrett and Blaire Schaefer, Roy, Frank, and George Bouska, brother-in-law Merlyn Gilbertson and sisters-in-law Carole and Delda Gilbertson and many nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by his parents, and brother Blair.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

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Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend of the deceased writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary or provide guidance on what information to include.

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A standard obituary usually includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, city of residence, and names of surviving family members. It may also include details about their occupation, hobbies, achievements, and any notable accomplishments.

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In some cases, corrections or updates can be made to an obituary after publication. However, this may depend on the policies of the newspaper or online platform.

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A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

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Including funeral service details allows friends and family to attend the service and pay their respects to the deceased.

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