Monte's Chapel of the Hills Obituaries

Obituary Preview: Patricia Winterson 1936-2024Patricia Marilyn Winterson, age 87, of Marin County, California, passed away on April 27, 2024. Pat was born on June 11, 1936, in New Bedford, Massachusetts, to Harold and Sophie Winterson (née Rapoza). Pat knew heartache at a very early age when her mother died of tuberculosis. The events that followed shaped her into a fiercely independent and courageous young woman. She grew close to her Massachusetts relatives, graduated from New Bedford High School in 1954, and shortly thereafter moved to California seeking new experiences and adventure. She landed in San Francisco, and eventually moved to her home in Mill Valley where she lived most of her life.Pat had an impressive and rewarding career at United Airlines that began as a flight attendant in 1958 in San Francisco. She worked for United for 43 years, and in 1973 was the highest ranking woman at the company (managing more than 1,300 people). Pat helped challenge gender-based discrimination and promote equality in the workplace. In 1976 she delivered a speech about women in management, the first time in the history of United that the subject had been addressed publicly. She was incredibly driven, pushing the boundaries at work, and also pushing herself intellectually, reading entire collections of classic authors, and seeking mentors and friends who expanded her horizons and perspectives. She earned a degree from University of San Francisco in 1979.A curious adventurer, Pat’s life was full of travel and exploration. She loved bargain shopping in Hong Kong, exploring museums and architecture in Paris, and passing the time in restaurants and bookstores in Florence. She was a beloved daughter, sister, cousin, aunt, friend and employee. She was a lover of novels and biographies, a generous supporter of animals, and an old movie buff. And she loved her dear Gracie, Sophie and Phoenix.Pat is survived by many dear famly and friends, and is predeceased by her partner of 20 years and best friend, Frank Murphy, and her three beloved brothers. She has spent her life exploring with people she loved, and now she’s on to her next voyage, with lots of love waiting for her on the other side. To honor Pat’s deep love of animals, please consider a donation to one of her favorite organizations, Marin Humane Society.

Obituary Preview: Wilbert Gerard “Jerry” Thompson passed away on April 6, 2024, at his home in San Rafael at the age of 93.Jerry was born on November 11, 1930, in San Francisco to Walter and Loretto Thompson. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, uncle and friend. Jerry is survived by his children, Tim Thompson (Molly Sims partner), Sally Merz (John), Beth Sasan (Tim), Dennis Thompson (Nancy), Paul Thompson (Kathleen), Peter Thompson (Toni) and daughter in-law Debi Thompson (Steve deceased). Jerry was the beloved grandfather of Jerry, Jen, Luke, Conor, Maggie, Stephanie, Jake, Petra, Ray, Maile, Matthew, Erin, Annie, Jack, Amanda, Allison, Charlotte, Shannon, Ellen, Wil, Emily, Addy, Kyle, Kenny, and Greta, and 33 great grandchildren. He is also survived by his brothers Bob Thompson and Jim Thompson, and sisters Nancy Giorgi and Mary Gaidano.Jerry was predeceased by his wife of 65 years, Erin O'Donoghue Thompson, daughter Stephanie Thompson, son Steve Thompson, parents Walter and Loretto Thompson, brother Walter Thompson Jr., and sister Sr. Sally Thompson of the Sisters of the Holy Names.Jerry’s family moved to San Anselmo in 1933 before the Golden Gate Bridge was built. Jerry went to St. Anselm Elementary School and St. Anselm High School, class of 1948, where he forged lifelong friendships.Jerry’s mother told him at a young age he should date cute Erin O’Donoghue. Their first date was at a dance at The Pavilion in Fairfax where their love blossomed. They married in 1950 after the initial protest of Erin’s father, who thought the marriage would never last. 65 years later they celebrated their anniversary in Yountville, surrounded by their children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.After attending College of Marin, Jerry went to work full time in the family business, joining his father and brothers at WG Thompson Painting. Jerry worked his way from the ground up, starting as an apprentice, and quickly advancing to journeyman, foreman, and general superintendent. As owner of one of the Bay Areas largest painting contracting businesses, Jerry was in charge of over 200 painters at times and supervised work on notable Bay Area landmarks such as SF City Hall, SF Opera House, UCSF, and the Transamerica Pyramid, as well as many prominent hotels, universities, office buildings and hospitals. In 1994 Jerry left WG Thompson and started Jerry Thompson & Sons Painting with two of his sons, continuing the family painting business legacy which began in the late 1800’s. All who knew Jerry in the construction industry respected and admired hishard work ethic and integrity. He sat on many industry boards and committees throughout his career, serving as President of the local Painting & Decorating Contractors Association and negotiating many Painters Union agreements. Jerry worked extremely hard until he retired in 2011 at the age of 80.After raising their 8 children, which included the oldest, Stephanie, who was developmentally disabled, Jerry and Erin explored the world together. Jerry especially loved traveling to see the big animals of Africa. In his later years he shared his joy of travel with his children and grandchildren.Jerry loved participating in sports. He competed in boxing and played basketball and football in high school. He was an avid tennis player and took part in “serious” tennis matches with his dearest old friends Stan Payton, Ben Guglielmo, and Jack Fahy. He learned to ski with his children and brought them to the slopes for years. Jerry could be found coaching his children at the San Anselmo little league field, attending football games at Marin Catholic and watching and cheering on his grandchildren in later years. In recent years he was a fixture on the San Rafael bocce courts and could be counted on to make the game point.Above all, Jerry will be remembered for his infectious laughter, warm smile, and unwavering kindness. He had a remarkable ability to light up any room and leave a lasting impression on all who had the privilege of knowing him. Jerry kept his sense of humor and positive attitude all the way to the end of his life. His wonderful caregivers, Rai Marisilino and Betty Toka can attest to his continued joking, teasing and laughing, even while enduring a failing body.

Obituary Preview: Shirley died April 21,2024. She was born in Detroit, Michigan to Charles and Irene Steiner on October 31, 1930, the second youngest of 8 children.  She married William Forrest on June 26, 1954, and they moved to California in 1957.Shirley and Bill moved to Marin Valley Mobile Country Club in 1983.  She worked for Fireman’s Fund Ins. Co. for 17 years and retired in 1996.  In 1993 her husband Bill passed away after 39 years of marriage.  Following her retirement from Fireman’s Fund Ins. Co. Shirley worked for ten years as Office Manager for the Marin Valley Mobile Home Park, where she lived. She truly loved this job.Shirley is survived by her five children: Joan (and Dave), Bill, Pat, Katy, John (and Traci) and many loving grandchildren and great grandchildren. She is also survived by her sister Mary Lou and her husband Hank.She was active in St. Isabella’s Parish for over 38 years, a CCD teacher for two years and a Eucharistic Minister for the sick for 22 years. Most recently she was a member of St Anthony’s Parish in Novato.Shirley enjoyed family gatherings, social affairs and going to garage sales and thrift shops was a favorite past time. She will be missed greatly.Assisted by Monte’s Chapel of the Hills, San Anselmo, CA.

Obituary Preview: Marinwood resident for more than half a century, Les Mize passed away peacefully surrounded by his family at the age of 78 on April 4, 2024, after a long battle with multiple health challenges. A beloved husband, father, and grandfather and deeply committed to his family and his community, Les leaves a legacy of service and love that will continue to inspire all who knew him.Born in San Francisco on October 12, 1945, to Marie and Robert Mize, Les grew up in Mill Valley as one of eight children. An active youth and a 1963 graduate of Tamalpais High School, Les was keen to be an involved citizen. As a teen, he sought out volunteer opportunities. In addition to being the youngest member to join the Mill Valley Lions Club, at the age of 18, he was active with the Mill Valley Junior Chamber of Commerce. These formative experiences instilled in him a sense of commitment to service and community and solidified for him the merits of hard work and earning the respect of others—values that would shape his life's journey.A self-proclaimed flag-waver and patriotic to his core, he proudly served his country in the U.S. Army Reserves. From 1965 to 1971 his service (which included army cook) and basic training took him to Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri, as well as summers at Fort Ord and Camp Roberts. Les remained a card-carrying member of the local branch of the American Legion.It was during these years that Les met the love of his life, Patty Vaio, at John Finn Accounting in Mill Valley, where they both worked at the time. Their first official date was a New Year’s Eve event ushering in the year 1969, and the happy couple married that summer, forging an incredible partnership in love and life.In 1970, Les and Patty moved to Marinwood, and by 1972 began a family—welcoming six children within ten years. Both being dog lovers they welcomed several dogs to their home over the years—including many yellow labs! They became active in their parish of St. Isabella, where many of the children attended grade school. Les and Patty immersed themselves in the lives and activities of their children. From little league and soccer coach to Irish dance and musical theater dad; from parish and school leadership to years as a Boy Scout Troop 71 Committee Chair, Les was invested in the lives of his children.A gifted salesman, Les found success in the commercial print industry. Initially with George Lithograph Company, Les teamed up with the Fong family in 1976—a partnership that marked the beginning of Fong Brothers Printing, Inc.—a company that went on to become the third largest commercial printer in Northern California. After more than forty years as the company’s Vice President, Les retired in 2016 but remained involved with a handful of clients to the present day. Les and the whole Mize family truly cherished the nearly half-century partnership with the entire Fong family and have nothing but gratitude for the friendship and opportunities afforded.Perhaps a unique hallmark of his success in sales was his passion for Mickey Mouse. Clients nicknamed him Mickey Mouse and loved seeing what tie or wristwatch he was wearing, or what aloha-style Disney shirt he might have on—that inevitably came with a story or trivia session. Even his office was decked out with Disney memorabilia and came to be a coveted stopping point on any plant tour.Growing up admiring the Mickey Mouse Club and a fan of the wholesome family values on which Walt Disney based the creation of his theme park, Les was excited to make his first trip to Disneyland in 1973. He immediately fell in love with the entire concept—the beautiful landscaped gardens and pathways, a place to play and have fun as a family, wonderful music and entertainment, the cleanliness—he felt at home on Main Street U.S.A. and would spend the rest of his life sharing, visiting, collecting, endeavoring to re-create and emulate, investing in, and learning more about all things Disney.Les loved taking his family to Disneyland, and later he and Patty expanded their park visits to Walt Disney World in Orlando, Florida. The two attended multiple Disneyana Conventions and events and enjoyed opportunities to meet artists, authors, Imagineers, and entertainers—and there were plenty of opportunities to add to his growing collection with limited edition and signed collectibles. He took countless Disney courses, earning not only his Mouseters Certificate but his Ducktorate Certificate as well.His love of Disney was perhaps only rivaled by his love of Christmas. Over four decades and with the help of an ever-expanding family that came to include sons- and daughters-in-law and grandchildren, Les and his family, affectionately known as Team Mize, built up a seasonal spectacle that became a holiday destination for generations of visitors. The Mickey Mouse Christmas House offered extensive window displays, various vignettes, and tens of thousands of lights, and the magic of Christmas was shared broadly. The Mize Family and their Christmas creation were featured on ABC’s inaugural season of “The Great Christmas Light Fight,” as well as several local network Christmas specials, and various features in newspapers and magazines.Les enjoyed supporting local initiatives such as Can Do! and Kelly’s Wishes Foundations through the Mickey Mouse Christmas House. During the farewell season in 2017, Les and his family were delighted to receive a special Resolution from the Marin County Board of Supervisors presented by then-Supervisor (now California State Assemblyman) and fellow Lion Damon Connolly, recognizing the impact the Mickey Mouse Christmas House had on the community. In addition, Les was honored to receive a similar recognition from the Marinwood Community Services District (CSD). Les and his family shared a love of Lake Tahoe and purchased a vacation home in Chamberlands on the West Shore in 1978. Since then, Les was involved with the Chambers Landing Beach and Mountain Club (CBMC) Board and became a Director. He remained active on the Board until very recently, having served as President for some ten years. When the Chamber’s Landing Recreation Association was formed around 1982, Les became one of the first Directors on the Board—holding leadership positions several times over including President, Secretary, and Treasurer. Les remained active on the Board for the rest of his life and was the last remaining original Board member still serving. He was compelled to serve to ensure that the place he and his wife and children grew to know and love would remain and thrive for future generations. At a time when the historic Chambers Landing Bar and Restaurant were put up for sale and risked an uncertain future, it was Les and a couple of other Recreation Association members who took the initiative and invested personally, created the Pier Company, and sold stock shares—a move which ensured the preservation of cherished landmarks. Winter snow weekends and summer boat rides with family were great, but Les loved to sink his feet into the hot summer sand on the beach at Chambers with his newspaper in hand and relax at the end of the day with a Chambers Punch!Les never did anything small or halfway. Dating back to his teen years, his dedication to Lion’s Club was unparalleled, as indicated by his 59 years of perfect attendance. Having served twice as President in his Mill Valley Lion’s Club, Les chartered the San Rafael Las Gallinas Lion’s Club in March of 1980. He served as Charter President for the club’s first seven years and at other junctures as well. Twice named Lion of the Year in the Mill Valley Club and three times in the Las Gallinas Club, Les earned many distinctions: Lions International Life Member; Progressive Melvin Jones Fellow; Lions Eye Foundation Life Member; Helen Keller Fellow; Canine Companions Life Member; Ear of the Lion Life Member; Multi-District 4 Excellence Award recipient. Les also served three times as Lion Zone Chair and two years as Region Chair.The pinnacle of his Lion’s Club experience was serving as District Governor for his District 4C-2 in 2017-18. In that year, he made visitations to the 55 clubs in the region, participated in countless events, helped facilitate local Lions relief efforts during the 2017 wildfires in Northern California that devastated many of the communities in his district, energized membership drives, and served as an ambassador for all Lions initiatives. With his local Club, Les was instrumental in creating many annual and long-lived traditions such as the Annual Easter Egg Hunt at Marinwood Park, which just hosted its 45th annual hunt. With his fellow Lions, Les was always on hand to feed the masses with his signature corned beef at the Annual St. Patrick’s Day party, host and judge a youth speech contest, emcee a Halloween costume parade, fill countless shifts of Marin County Fair Parking, volunteer at a community event, recruit new (and re-engage former) members, and much, much more!He was a lifelong SF Giants and 49ers fan and, an avid reader of the San Francisco Chronicle and the Marin Independent Journal (an IJ carrier as a boy!). He enjoyed his garden, cooking, and a nice Cabernet Sauvignon. He kept up with current events, invited discourse, and was firm and consistent in his opinions. He was a conscientious and faithful voter and encouraged each of his children to register when they turned 18, as was their right and duty.Known to the next generation of Team Mize as Papa Mic, Les loved watching his grandchildren grow and develop. From his classic Donald Duck voice and trips to Disneyland to sharing his love of Chambers over a summertime ice cream treat or a Shirley Temple, he cherished his time with them.Les lived life on his terms. As a couple of his favorites, Frank Sinatra and Elvis Presley, crooned, he “did it my way.” Les was a bit of a character, a good judge of character, and a man of character—a man of principles, faith, and family. He was a collector—of things and memories. He had a hard time letting go of anything, a quality that gave him the fight to persist when his body was failing. While his retirement years were marred with health issues, he made the most of the time he had and accomplished much in his 78 years. The Mize family wishes to thank the many doctors, specialists, and healthcare workers, particularly through his many stays at Marin Health Medical Center, who treated Les and helped him eke out as many more memories as his body could manage.Les Mize is predeceased by his parents Marie and Robert Mize, four brothers, and two sisters; and is survived by his devoted wife of nearly 55 years, Patricia; his six children, Eileen Mize, John (Tricia) Mize, Karen (Jeremiah) Gill, Megan (Sean) Albright, Scott (Danielle) Mize, and Ryan (Hilary) Mize; nine grandchildren—Alyssa, Dylan, Delaney, Quinlan, Patrick, Connor, Peter, Mackenzie, and Cody; his brother Charles (Piedad) Mize; many nieces and nephews and grand nieces and nephews; and countless friends and fellow Lions. Les will be remembered fondly for his kindness, generosity, long-winded stories, sense of humor, and unwavering commitment to his family and his community. He will be forever missed and never forgotten. In the words of his hero, Walt Disney, “If you can dream it, you can do it.” And echoing the words of his pal, Mickey, “Oh, Boy!” Did he ever!All are welcome to a Celebration of Life on Saturday, May 18, 2024, at 1 pm at St. Isabella’s Church (One Trinity Way, San Rafael, CA 94903) with a reception to follow. Gifts in memory of Les Mize may be made to the Las Gallinas Lions Club who support many local and youth programs in Marin County at www.lasgallinaslions.com.

Obituary Preview: Sean Robert Canon Greenbrae, CA Feb 28, 1974 – March 17, 2024Loving father, very much beloved son, brother, husband, friend, coach, volunteer, and monumental leader of the Southern Marin Broncos youth football program, the Ross Valley Little League, and Idex Global Services, passed away in the early hours of Sunday, March 17.Sean is survived by his wife, Kari, his two sons, Cooper and Jasper, his parents, Ted and Jan, his brother James, and a multitude of other family members and dear, lifelong friends.The brevity of this announcement is the polar opposite of the incredibly significant positive impact Sean made to all he dedicated himself to, and the immeasurable love all that knew Sean hold for him.A celebration of life will be held on Friday, March 22 from 4:00 PM to 6:00 PM at the Fairfax Pavilion located at 142 Bolinas Road, Fairfax, CA.Additional information on how best to support Kari, Cooper, and Jasper will be forthcoming.

Obituary Preview: Catherine Ann Cortez (February 13, 1953 to March 12, 2024)Catherine Ann Cortez, age 71, of Tiburon, CA, passed away in her home on March 12, 2024. She was known as Cathy to her parents and siblings and as Cortez to her extended family and friends.  Cathy was preceded in death by her parents and her sister Patricia.  She is survived by her Aunt Catherine Barri; siblings Mary Anne Cortez (William Price), Carolyn Cortez Slowikowski (Daniel), and Christopher Robert Cortez (Tamera); 11 nieces and nephews; 19 great nieces and nephews; and numerous cousins from her prolific family.Cathy was born in Santa Barbara, CA in 1953 to Robert Boniface Cortez and Mary Anne (Kohn) Cortez.  As their first child, she made sure her subsequent siblings knew “rank has its privileges” whenever family benefits and advantages were given.  When rank alone was insufficient, she was quick to call “dibs” with the strategic placement of a licked finger on whatever tasty morsel was contested.  She was a proud Air Force brat as her father served during her childhood.  Due to military transfers, she attended at least five grammar schools and two high schools.  Ultimately, Cathy graduated from O’Fallon H.S., in Illinois while her family was stationed at Scott Air Force Base.After graduation, Cathy returned to her beloved home state of California.  Her extensive family of aunts, uncles, and cousins quickly welcomed her with open arms.  Aunt Cathy Barri and Uncle Armando Barri were her second parents.  She worked in various jobs, including as a telephone operator in San Francisco, a job fitted for her witty linguistic skills.  However, Cathy’s true love was working with dogs, having a rare communication talent when it came to pups.  The most mischievous dogs would behave like angels under her care.Being vertically challenged, it was a surprise that she chose to play the accordion, an instrument that was large in comparison to her size.  Maybe there is some truth that coffee and cigarettes stunt your growth?  She was also fond of dark chocolate, Coca Cola, bacon, tacos, and Old Bob’s beef stew.   Two of her favorite past times were reading and arguing.  Speaking of arguing, all knew she would strictly interpret rules and expect others to follow suit especially if she caught you as a “razz on a spazz.”  She admonished non-rule followers by saying, “a card laid is a card played.”  If that logic was not enough, she’d double down with “of all the nerve.”  Bottom line, although diminutive, she, like her two short and stubborn sisters, could be a force of nature if she caught you in her crosshairs.Fortunately for her community, Cathy made her mark devoting herself and her talents to her passions and causes.  Cortez was brilliantly intelligent and an astoundingly quick study.  She became an advocate for low income housing and served as a board member in housing-related matters.  Although not trained in the legal field, Cathy self-educated and could cite rules, statutes, and regulations to the sub-paragraph.  She was gifted with an excellent memory and a zeal for helping others.Cathy will be remembered for her unique sayings for life events and actions and for her sense of style. She used her cleverness to name her close friends and family such as “Bear” (cousin Richard Barri), “Maxine” (sister Mary Anne), “Thern” (cousin Catherine Rice), and “Ricster” (Ric West friend and adopted cousin).  Everyone who knew her can close their eyes and hear the jingle and jangle of her many many bracelets and bangles.  Surely, Mary and Bob heard her coming.Cathy’s family know she guarded her personal affairs and was burdened with personal struggles she carried alone. We are comforted that she is now at peace.  Eternal rest dear sister.

Obituary Preview: John Henry Kruse Hirshfeld, Jr., known affectionately as Jack or Jackie, passed away at the age of 95 on March 9, 2024, surrounded by loved ones at home in San Rafael. Jack was a lifelong Bay Area resident and a cherished friend to many. Born on July 13, 1928, in San Francisco to the late John Henry Kruse, Sr. and Amelia Dorothy Arietta.Jack grew up in San Francisco alongside his sister, Valerie Jeanne Hirshfeld Dickinson, and his first cousin, Ella Frances Aiello, who was born in the same house as he,  three months prior. He attended Balboa High School, where he was president of his senior class. Post-graduation, Jack proudly served his country during WWII as a Seaman 1st Class in the US Coast Guard and later enjoyed his years of travel as a U.S. Merchant Marine. Jack’s professional life was marked by his dedication to the San Francisco Fire Department, which he joined in 1954, originally as a temporary Marine Fireman hired to be a stoker on Fireboat 2. He rose through the ranks and retired as Assistant Chief. Jack spent most of his career on Trucks 15 and 5, retiring after 35 years of service in July 1989. During his retirement, he remained close to his SFFD family at regular get-togethers. Before his passing, the Retired Firefighters of Sonoma County honored Jack’s lifelong commitment to the fire department and its community with an award, recognizing his 35 years of service and 34 years of happy retirement. Father John Greene, retired Chaplain of the SFFD and Jack’s friend remarked, “When Jack answered the last alarm, he was one of the most respected members of the San Francisco Fire Department.”On April 7, 1956, Jack married the love of his life, Bonnie. They built a life rich in love, laughter, and family, which included their twenty-two godchildren and countless friends. Jack found pleasure in the simple joys of life and was an aficionado of the horse races, where he always “broke even.” He could often be found on the golf course, bocce ball courts, or rooting for the Bears at a Cal game as his grandmother did before him. Jack made holidays special. His legendary corned beef and cabbage became a mainstay for St. Patrick’s Day celebrations, and his Easter egg hunts a treasured part of “Eastah.” Jack loved spending time with his grandchildren, teaching them how to make his famous chocolate milkshakes and lemon meringue pies and how to play soccer in his yard.Jack will be remembered as a loving godfather, grandfather, and friend. He leaves behind his cousin and goddaughter, Joanne Zito-Sterzenbach (Dieter, Carina, and GJ); his godchildren, Kim Davis (grandchildren Andrea and Brendan), Jan Kowleski (Richard Harpham) and Scott Davis; godson, Charlie Ulbrich (Hannah, Elias, and Madison), and his SF Fire Department family.Services to celebrate Jack’s life will be held in San Francisco on Friday, April 5, 2024, at 1 pm at the Church of the Epiphany, 827 Vienna St. A reception will immediately follow at the Olympic Club Lakeside Clubhouse at 599 Skyline Blvd.  In place of flowers, donations to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital or Shriner’s Hospital are appreciated.Assisted by Monte’s Chapel of the Hills, San Anselmo, CA.

Obituary Preview: Alan H. Bowker, beloved husband, father and brother, died at home in San Anselmo on March 8, 2024 after a courageous struggle with cancer.     Alan was passionate about travel photography, railroads, ham radio, computers, music, and above all, people.  He especially enjoyed spending time with daughter Kate Delaney and her husband Daniel Beard and their children Henry, Nick and Susannah  (Ann Arbor, MI). He never lost his optimism and joy in life. Born in Washington D.C. in 1948 where he spent his early years, he frequently visited his maternal grandparents in Frostburg, Maryland.  It was in Frostburg that Alan learned to play the trombone with his grandfather, and began a life long love of music.  He was a season subscriber to the San Francisco Symphony for decades and took great pride in his 3 grandchildren all playing music. When he was 10 his family moved to Casper Wyoming.  At 14,  Alan started a part time job as DJ at the local radio station.  He studied broadcasting at the University of Wyoming in Laramie, moving to the Bay Area to pursue a graduate degree in Broadcast Engineering at San Francisco State.  As a production engineer, Alan worked at KCBS on public affairs and entertainment features, which often included celebrities in the music and entertainment world. While he enjoyed working in broadcasting, Alan took a keen interest in early personal computers and went on to work in Information Technology for Northstar Computers, Fantasy Records,  Dolby, The Good Guys, Homestake and KGO TV.  For a time he advised Stanley Kubrick on using personal computers for script preparation. These jobs often required travel around the world, and fed his love of adventure.  He became a gifted travel photographer, focusing on the people he encountered in exotic locations.  Alan met his wife, Louise, on a train in India in 2015 where they were both touring.  They continued their adventures over the years crossing Russia on the TransSiberian Railroad, trips to Asia, New Zealand and Europe until the pandemic clipped their wings.  In spite of his illness, they managed to squeeze in a trip to Kenya and Tanzania, and to Egypt before travel became too difficult. Alan obtained a ham radio license while in high school and it remained a keen interest all his life.  Most recently he earned the AMSAT (American Radio in Space) Grid Master Award, working all 488 grids in the country, a feat shared by only 62 other people.  He was an active member of the Marin Amateur Radio Society and continued to act as mentor to new operators. He will be missed by so many friends, family and former colleagues, and especially by his wife and his cats.  A celebration of his life will be planned at a later date.

Obituary Preview: Lisa Uyder, 59, of Novato, California, passed away on Thursday, March 7th, 2024, from complications of a hiatal hernia.   Lisa was born on April 20th, 1964, to Dwight and Karen Kirchner, in Wayne, Nebraska. After Lisa graduated high school, she went on to enter the Army, where she served our country from 1983 to 1986.   After completing her service, she started her career in Insurance and Hospice care.   In 1983, Lisa met Michael Whittaker while serving in the Army at the NATO Headquarters in Belgium. Lisa and Michael went on to have two children, Bronson and Lena.  In 2001, Lisa met Jason Uyder while working at Bankers Life & Casualty. They married on Christmas in December of 2003.   In 2020, Lisa retired and spent her time on cooking, traveling, and loving life with her family.   Lisa was predeceased by her father, Dwight. She is survived by her mother, Karen; her husband, Jason; her son, Bronson; her daughter, Lena; her two brothers, Kevin and Mark; her two sisters, Debra and Laurie; and many beloved cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends.

Obituary Preview: It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Helen Jane Honsa, our beloved mother, grandmother and friend. Helen was born in Alliance Ohio on January 16 1928 to William and Verna Burkhart, and left us peacefully in San Rafael California on March 1 2024.In addition to being an accomplished businesswoman who operated a beauty salon with distinction for over 40 years, Helen was also a loving and devoted mother to six children: Diane Wright, William Honsa,  David Honsa, Nancy Honsa-Iberti, Patricia Garrison and Douglas Honsa who all survive her. She is also survived by her children’s spouses and partners Barbara, Steve, Diana, Terryl , Hal and Melody. She leaves behind her dear daughter of the heart Julie Withey, her brother Robert Burkhart and generations of treasured grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchildren. Helen was preceded in passing by her cherished husband Hank Honsa, and her longtime partner Bob Warrington.Helen will be best remembered for her grace, kindness and generosity. She had a gift for making everyone feel at ease in her home, and her house was always a warm haven for family and friends. Helen had a fondness for gardening, and found a love and remarkable talent for creating art later in life. She brilliantly painted many beautiful landscape scenes that reflected her peaceful and joyful spirit. Her kitchen was also a culinary studio, and she reveled in cooking seafood caught straight off the Mendocino coast and crafting delicious Norwegian pancakes by the dozen. Possessing a sense of unconditional compassion and kind hearted dedication, Helen left a lasting and positive influence on the community by supporting senior and veterans causes through her many years of selfless volunteering. Respected and deeply loved, Helen Honsa truly touched the lives of so many in her precious time with us.  Her legacy of love, good will and creativity will forever be remembered by her bereaved family and those who had the blessing and good fortune to know her.  “To live in the hearts of those we love is never to die”Family will celebrate Helen’s life and legacy at a later date.

Obituary Preview: Julie (Leonardi) Isetta passed away peacefully on February 29th, surrounded by her loving family. Her passing was quick, and she left behind heartbroken family and friends.Julie was raised in San Rafael by her parents, Raymond and Marie Leonardi with her sister Joyce. Being a part of a big Italian family, she grew up surrounded by her grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins, all who lived within a few blocks of her. Julie attended Saint Raphael School, Marin Catholic High School, and Dominican College, where she earned her teaching credential. She went on to teach Fourth Grade at Loma Verde in Novato. Julie married her husband, Michael Isetta, who came from a large family himself, and they had five children together. As a teacher, Julie was active with her children’s education at St. Rita School in Fairfax, where she later resumed her teaching career. She was well-known for her wit, creativity, and joy that she shared with her students.Julie’s family was most important to her, and she loved everything about being a wife and mother. She enjoyed taking trips to Tahoe with them and making day excursions to Sonoma or Bodega Bay packed with six-course picnic lunches. She loved trying new restaurants, going to the movies, and having game nights with her kids and their friends.Julie’s greatest joy came later when her children started to have children of their own, and she was blessed with nine grandchildren whom she adored. Together with Mike, they made frequent drives to Petaluma for their various babysitting duties. She would spend hours planning yearly trips (especially to Disneyland), themed parties, and picking out gifts for the entire family. She especially loved Christmas, and the house was filled with packages ready to be delivered to her kids and grandkids.Julie’s passing left a giant hole in her family, and she will be missed dearly. She is survived by her husband of 47 years, Michael, and their five children, Jessica (Nick) Somoff, Tony (Vanessa) Isetta, Greg (Katie) Isetta, David Isetta, and Maureen (Kaj) Kibak. She is also survived by her sister, Joyce (John) Boccabella, and her “sister-cousins,” Gay (Charles Schultz) Leonardi, Leslie (Joseph) Bronzini, and her many relatives and friends. Her grandchildren Ray, Frankie, Alessia, Lucy, Nico, Daniella, Owen, Eloise, and Toby are going to especially miss their Gangie.A memorial mass will be held on Friday, March 22nd at 11:00AM at St. Rita’s Church: 100 Marinda Dr, Fairfax. The mass will be preceded by a Rosary prayer service at 10:30AM for those who wish to join. Funeral arrangements by Monte’s Chapel of the Hills, San Anselmo.The family prefers donations in Julie’s name to United Cerebral Palsy of the North Bay or the St. Rita Church Building Fund.

Obituary Preview: Mary Ann Haeuser (nee Ehrhardt) died on Friday, February 16, 2024 in the presence of John Haeuser, her husband of 59 years, Ingrid Klansek, her friend of 43 years, and Nancy Toney, her neighbor of 52 years.  Born in New Jersey, she moved reluctantly to California, landing eventually on Laurel Place, from which she declared she would not move until she was taken out feet first.Mary Ann earned degrees from Trinity College (B.A.), Creighton University (B.S.N.), UC San Francisco (MSN), and Sonoma State University (FNP).  She worked as a floor nurse at Marin General Hospital over a span of more than 20 years (1973-1994).  She eventually moved into teaching, serving as a Professor of Nursing on the faculty at Dominican College of San Rafael (1990-2009).  She said, after she started teaching, that she finally knew what she wanted to do when she grew up.Mary Ann maintained an extensive network of colleagues from professional groups including the Fellowship of Catholic Scholars, the National Catholic Bioethics Center, the National Association of Catholic Nurses, the Association of California Nurse Leaders, the Ritter House Advisory Board, and the Aldersley Advisory Board.  She also enjoyed a large acquaintance in the Catholic and Pro-Life communities, including the Marin Network for Life and 40 Days for Life.Mary Ann’s proudest achievement, however, is the family she and John raised together.  She is survived by her daughter Margaret (Randy) Bayuk and their children Elizabeth, Nicholas, Olivia, Alexander, Juliana, Penelope, Peter, Max, and Ivan, her son Chris (Cyndi) Haeuser and his children Robert and Michael, her daughter Molly (Kevin) Kennedy and their children Kate, Ryan, and Will, and her son Charles (Hilary) Haeuser and their children Sophia, Josie, Luke, Sebastian, Mick, and Iggy, as well as four great grandchildren, Benjamin, Beowulf, Bella, and Oliver.Mary Ann’s funeral will be held at 10:30 am on Monday, February 26, at St. Sebastian’s Catholic Church in Greenbrae, CA, followed by a reception in the church hall.  There will be a viewing and rosary at 2 pm on Sunday, February 25, at Monte’s Chapel of the Hills in San Anselmo.  A private interment ceremony for the family will be held the following day.

Obituary Preview: Jan Lind Farnsworth January 6, 1940 – February 14, 2024

Obituary Preview: Sr. Joanne Cullimore, OP March 15, 1931 — February 13, 2024 Sister Joanne Cullimore, a Dominican Sister of San Rafael for 69 years, died peacefully on February 13, 2024 surrounded by her Dominican Sisters. A gifted story-teller in both word and visual art with a keen sense of and appreciation for color and light, Sr. Joanne led a rich and colorful life. Much like the landscapes she would often paint to savor a moment or remember a vista, Sr. Joanne’s life and experiences with people around the world is a vibrant canvas to behold.   Born Joan Joy Cullimore in Bakersfield to Clarence and Rosemary Cullimore, Sr. Joanne and her brother Clarence, Jr. grew up in a loving home that would greatly influence her love of learning and her creative pursuits. An astute student of life, Sr. Joanne’s interests were varied—be it religious sculpture, especially the crucifix, or the daily activity at the bird feeder outside her window, Sr. Joanne was in touch with her surroundings and with what moved her. Her watercolors have been described as a “warm personal response to the gentle gifts of nature”; they often display “a wash of warm color suffused with light.” Please read more about Sister Joanne’s life at www.sanrafaelop.org. A Mass of the Resurrection will take place on March 4 at 10:00 am in the Dominican Sisters Gathering Space (1520 Grand Avenue, San Rafael). Following the Funeral Mass, Sr. Joanne will be buried in St. Dominic’s Cemetery in Benicia. Memorial gifts in honor of Sr. Joanne Cullimore may be made to the Retirement Fund, Dominican Sisters of San Rafael, Advancement Office, 1520 Grand Avenue, San Rafael, CA 94901.

Obituary Preview: Sam Sprague 78, of Marin County, California passed away peacefully with his family members by his side on February 12, 2024 at 5:11pm. He was born on January 24, 1946 in San Francisco, California. He attended Redwood highschool and upon graduating in 1964 deployed into Thailand and Guam with the Navy as a Seabee. After serving he returned to Marin to start a family with his wife Sharon having Stephanie and starting what would be a 40 year career with PG&E. Upon retiring he helped with his grandchildren Tyler with activities such as the Pinewood Derby and watching Oliver with Tinsley, with some teasing along the way. Sam was a friend to all willing to lend a hand no matter the occasion, A neighbor who wanted the best for everyone around him, A loving husband for 56 years and counting, A proud father who spoiled his daughter, a proud grandpa who's mark will never leave. Sam Sprague was an all around good man who will be missed by many. There will be a viewing and rosary service at Monte’s Chapel of the Hills on Tuesday February 20th from 5pm-7pm. Rather than flowers please make donations to Marin Foster Care for Sam.

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Obituary Preview: Maureen Brigid CassidyDied in San Rafael on February 7, 2024 at the age of 88.  Born April 3, 1935 to the late Helen and Frank Cassidy of Ireland.  Loved mother of Ann Yavorsky and John Yavorsky (Donna).  Adored grandmother of Joshua Yavorsky (Kylee) and Jacob Yavorsky.  Joyous great grandmother to Oliver, Carter and Aria Yavorsky.  Dear friend to Nancy Cook.  Loving sister of Dolores Bondanza (Joe), Bridget Brawley (Tom), and the late Helen Cassidy, William Cassidy, Frank Cassidy, and Rosaleen Adams.  Loving sister-in-law to Lita Cassidy and Richard Barsotti and the late Leonard Meiswinkel, Judy Cassidy, and Anthony Adams.Maureen was born in San Francisco, California. She attended St. Peter’s Grammar School and St. Peter’s High School.  Upon graduation from high school, she entered the order of the Sisters of Mercy.  She departed the convent after seven years and enrolled at Lone Mountain College where she earned her master’s degree in history.  A lover of education, Maureen dedicated her life to the field including teaching for the Department of Defense in Germany, for Our Lady of Loretto in Novato and as principal of St. Rita’s School in Fairfax.Maureen’s greatest love was spending time with her family often travelling to North Carolina, Georgia, and Alaska to see her grandchildren.  Maureen enjoyed travelling the world, including her beloved Ireland fourteen times.  She loved her home in Novato, often marveling at the view of the hills and sunsets from her windows.  Maureen enjoyed gardening (winning awards for her tomatoes) and feeding the hummingbirds.

Obituary Preview: Alice was born in Brooklyn, New York, July 29, 1929 and died February 4, 2024. Al and Alice were married for 62 years until Al died 11/21/2019. Alice was the youngest of the five children born to Giovanni and Adelgisa Casazza, Garbarino. The first four children were born from 1913 to January 1920. Alice’s family was involved in construction, her father was highly respected for his supervision of underwater and underground tunnel construction including the Holand Tunnel.  Two of her brothers-built homes, her father insisted that all five children helped with the building of the homes thus they all learned construction.  She grew up in a home that had a bocce ball court so there always were a lot of visitors, and this her lifelong love of the sport. Her mother could quickly fix a meal for the visitors. Alice and her father loved to sing Old Italian songs.Alice graduated from the clothing design program at Prospect Heights High School in Brooklyn.  She was accepted to attend The Fashion Institute of Technology in Manhattan. Prior to starting at FIT she was advised to work at a large clothing manufacturer to gain knowledge of clothing production.  It was good advice. After five weeks on the job, she was promoted to be an assistant to the pattern maker. The combined knowledge of design, pattern making and production resulted in Alice, at age 22, supervising the design department at New York’s second largest manufacturer.In 1956 while visiting relatives on the west coast she met Albert Vipiana of San Anselmo. They married in 1957 and honeymooned in Havana Cuba. In California Alice was a pattern maker at Korte of California. Once Al and Alice had children Alice returned to school to get a teaching credential so that she could have the same days off as the children. She taught pattern making and sample making at Berkley High School. She later returned to what she liked best, pattern making.Al and Alice were always together, they loved to dance, play Bocce, entertain visitors and traveling with their children. Alice eventually got an insurance agent license and join Al in his insurance agency, DeWolf Ins. In the insurance business Alice was able to use her knowledge of construction doing, loss control building inspections and estimating the cost of building replacement. Al and Alice enjoyed working together including remodeling fixer upper properties and the homes that they lived in.  For eight years they sang Italian songs with the North Bay Italian Cultural Center’s Coro Allegro.Alice and her dear friend Geraldine “Geri” McDonough did undercover work for Pulitzer Prize investigative reporter Ed Montgomery. Alice and Geri were a part of the team that succeeded in have a pedophile put in jail. Alice was a competitive synchronized swimmer with the San Francisco Surfins. Active in civic activities, she aided Freda Klusman in saving the S. F. Cable Cars and the Palace of Fine Arts. In 2004 she was Marin Republican Women of the year.  Alice and Al were founding members of Bridgemont High School, and they were founding members of Marin Bocce Federation.Alice was preceded in death by her husband Al and grandson John Elliot Vipiana. She is survived by her daughter Mary (Peter) Cole, of Gilbert Az, son John (Ann) Vipiana of Bend OR., grandchildren David, Brian and Judson Cole, Julia Vipiana (Grant) Otter, Great Grandchildren Brooks and Lucy Otter and Everett Cole.

Obituary Preview: Linda Marie Heilmann March 30, 1941 - Feb 3, 2024Linda Marie Heilmann nee Morbello passed away peacefully at home on February 3rd surrounded by her loving family just two months shy of her 83rd birthday. She was born to  Erminio and Rose Morbello on March 30th, 1941, in San Francisco, California where she spent her childhood.  She was a graduate of St. Vincent dePaul Grammar School, St. Rose Academy High School, and Dominican University of California.As a young girl Linda enjoyed many unique experiences.  She enjoyed fishing at Muni Pier, horseback riding in Golden Gate Park and frequenting her father’s delicatessen, Lucca’s on Chestnut Street.  Her fondest childhood memories were of an extended trip on the Queen Mary with her parents to visit family in Casale, Italy.Linda left a teaching job to stay at home with her three children, who she raised with her husband John in Marin County.  As a mom, she was active in the St. Patrick School community serving as a substitute teacher, Physical Education teacher, Campfire Girls troop leader and chair of the fashion show fundraiser.  She could regularly be seen supporting her children at their many sporting events.  When not taxiing her children to their various activities, she could frequently be found at the local tennis courts either playing tennis or visiting with her friends.A proud penguin, Linda was active in the alumni association at Dominican University serving several terms on the alumni board and enthusiastically attending alumni and sporting events in her gold and black.  She also spent several years working for Marin Special Olympics in the office and coaching the athletes in their events.  Her community work brought her much joy and she talked about it enthusiastically.Linda had friends from every phase of her life: grammar school, high school, college, parent activities and church. Her legacy is evident in the number of close personal friends she leaves behind who were touched by her loyalty, kind nature and her love of a good laugh.  Linda is survived by her devoted children Ann Jaime (Mark), Christine Heilmann (Jim Grant) John Heilmann (Moira); and her beloved grandchildren Ian, Emma, Rosey, and Lily as well as her sister-in-law Mary Heilmann. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, John, her parents and her daughter, Mary. The family is thankful for her caregivers Lizzy, Lily, and Tina, who provided her with  companionship and compassion. Additionally, they are grateful for the service of Hospice of Marin, especially her nurse, Michelle.  A Memorial Mass will be held  at 10:00 a.m., Thursday, February 15, 2024 at St. Anselm Catholic Church in Ross, California, followed by a reception at Dominican University, Edgehill Mansion.  Donations may be made in Linda's memory to Dominican University of California or a charity of your choice.Assisted by Monte's Chapel of the Hills, San Anselmo, California.

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Obituary Preview: Bruce Block April 27, 1938 – January 21, 2024Bruce was born to George Block and Mildred Wehrmann Block in Oakland, California where he, his parents and his sister Nancy lived. He attended Peralta and Jefferson Grammar Schools, Hamilton Junior High and Fremont High School. He attended Cal Poly, San Luis Obispo, and graduated from San Jose State with a BS and MBA in 1968. He did a stint in the US Army from 1961 through 1963.Bruce worked as the Material Manager at Schlage Lock Company from1965 to 1969 and then founded Block Awards, a promotions and awards company. In 2000 he became a Stock Broker with Paine Weber, then Wedbush, and retired in 2010.Bruce loved all things sailing/racing and spent 7 years as Executive Secretary of the Yacht Racing Association of SF Bay, 18 years as Secretary of the Pacific Inter Club Association of Northern California and was involved in both the Intrepid Campaign for the America’s Cup and the Silver Eagle Bicentennial Event. He was also a member of the SF Harbor Committee.Bruce also loved water sports at Lake Tahoe where he spent his summers. He was an active member of the Tahoe Yacht Club, serving as Commodore in 2012. He loved working on, cruising and showing his classic 1937 Chris Craft powerboat “Tomahawk” and was active in the annual Classic Wooden Boat Show.On the Bay, he actively campaigned his beloved Islander 36 “Block Buster” for many years and served as Fleet Captain for a year. Other club memberships included the Corinthian Yacht Club, St. Francis Yacht Club, and the Olympic Club.Off the water Bruce enjoyed skiing, golf and reading classic novels.He married Donna Schneider Cardoza  in 1987 and became a loving husband and step father to her two sons Christian and Michael Cardoza. He leaves behind his wife, two step sons, their wives Ruth and Lindsay, two grandchildren Elizabeth and Luke, nephews Ted and Tim Lemasney, niece Tracy, their children, and cousins Kent and Loren Wooldridge.A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, 16 March, 2024 at the Corinthian Yacht Club, 43 main Street, Tiburon, CA. from 2PM – 5PM.

Obituary Preview: David Hinman, 96, of Larkspur, California passed away peacefully on January 10, 2024 with his children lovingly by his side.David (Dave) was born on June 5, 1927 to George and Mabel Hinman in San Francisco, California. He had four brothers and together they supported their mother after their father passed away. Dave was only 13 years old at that time. When 17 years old, Dave joined the Army as an able bodied seaman and served on troop transport ships during WWII.In 1947 Dave met Phyllis O'Connor on a blind date. They immediately hit it off and married 3 years later in 1950. The two had their first child, Michael in 1952. Their second child, Mary-Louise was born in 1954 and their third child Patricia was born in 1958.Dave began his married life working as a carpenter. With the added responsibility of a growing family, he applied to become a San Francisco firefighter and was hired. Dave loved being a firefighter, loved the camaraderie and loved serving his community. He rose up through the ranks and retired as an Assistant Chief. Dave loved dancing, travelling and RV'ing with Phyllis and visiting with his children's families.While we lost our most beloved Dad and will miss him greatly, many have lost a good friend and a loved one in him. He has been a source of strength to many and a master at humor and witty timing to all. There was so much more to him than just Dad, though to us that was his greatest role. Dave was also a friend, a co-worker and colleague, a volunteer, a problem solver, a builder and handyman, a golfer and the list goes on and on.Dave was predeceased by his wife Phyllis, the love of his life, his parents and 4 brothers. He is survived by his 3 children, son-in-law, daughter-in-law, 8 grandchildren and 11 great grandchildren.A private family funeral mass will be held at Saint Patrick's Church in Larkspur, California. Assisted by Monte's Chapel of the Hills, San Anselmo, CA.Published by Marin Independent Journal on Jan. 21, 2024.

Obituary Preview: Sr. Ruth Droege, OP February 4, 1929—December 28, 2023Sister Ruth Droege, PhD, a Dominican Sister of San Rafael for 64 years, died peacefully on December 28, 2023, at the age of 94. A true intellectual, scholar, and student of life, Sr. Ruth touched the lives of countless students and colleagues. From the basics of physical education to the mystical nature of meta-physics, Sr. Ruth’s quest for knowledge and understanding of what makes humans tick propelled her pursuit of knowledge, fueled her reflections, and guided the discussions she offered freely. She greeted each new day with a warm smile and a deep sense of appreciation. Please read more about Sr. Ruth’s life—her career as a clinical psychologist, being an avid runner and prolific writer, and more at www.sanrafaelop.org.  There will be a Mass of the Resurrection on January 10, 2024, at 11 am in the Dominican Sisters Gathering Space (1520 Grand Avenue, San Rafael). Following the Funeral Mass, Sister Ruth Droege will be buried in St. Dominic’s Cemetery in Benicia.  Memorial gifts in honor of Sr. Ruth Droege may be made to the Retirement Fund, Dominican Sisters of San Rafael, Advancement Office, 1520 Grand Avenue, San Rafael, CA 94901.

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Obituary Preview: Patrick J. Gallagher, born March 14, 1935, in Brooklyn, New York, passed away on December 4, 2023, at the age of 88.   A proud graduate of Brooklyn College, Patrick served as a U.S. Navy aviator from 1959 to 1963, attaining the rank of lieutenant, became carrier-trained, and flew two tours of duty from the USS Coral Sea.   After his service,  Patrick's passion for aviation carried him into a distinguished career with Pan American Airlines, becoming a Captain and flying 707 and 747 jets on international routes until his retirement.   A long-time resident of Kentfield, California, he is survived by his loving second wife, Diane Gallagher, his sons with his first wife, Lucille (deceased), David Gallagher, Brian Gallagher, and Colin Gallagher; step-daughters, Stacy Spaniolo and Kristan Spaniolo-Ellis; niece, Mary Dignam, and nine grandchildren.   In addition to his parents, Michael and Jennie Gallagher, Patrick was predeceased by his siblings Eileen Kearney, John Gallagher, and Nancy Gallagher.   Patrick's commitment to education and love for aviation marked his life's journey.   A memorial mass and reception will be held in January.