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Millsap Funeral Service, located at 700 East Poplar Street, Fort Gibson, OK 74434, has been a pillar of the community for many years, providing compassionate and professional funeral services to families in their time of need. With a long history of serving the people of Fort Gibson and surrounding areas, Millsap Funeral Service has built a reputation for excellence and dedication to helping families say goodbye to their loved ones with dignity and respect.

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Millsap Funeral Service has a rich history of providing personalized and compassionate funeral services to families in the Fort Gibson area. The funeral home's commitment to excellence is evident in every aspect of their operations, from the meticulous attention to detail in preparing loved ones for viewing to the thoughtful guidance provided to families as they navigate the funeral planning process. The staff at Millsap Funeral Service understands that every family is unique, and they strive to create a personalized experience that honors the life and legacy of each individual.

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Alvin Leroy Sanger - August 02, 1945 - April 21, 2016

Departed: 04/21/2016 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Alvin “Butch” Leroy Sanger, 70. Our beloved friend, Al, passed peacefully into the arms of God at home on Thursday, April 21, 2016. Al was born August 2, 1945 in Blackwell, Oklahoma to Elma and Alvin Sanger. After serving a tour in Vietnam, he returned home to study social work, which was his life’s calling. He spent more than 40 years in this field helping others. That was his gift.

In 1993 he married the love of his life, Mary Shanks. They moved to “God’s Country” a.k.a. Northeast Oklahoma. He was a sweet and loving husband, father, step-father, son, brother, and friend. He leaves behind Mary of the home; sister, Sue Engle of Blackwell, OK; daughter, Cindy Esselstyn of Asheville, NC; son, Brian Sanger of Norman, OK; step-daughter, Jeni Mittelstaedt, of Gardner, KS; step-son, Todd McBroom of Leavenworth, KS; and their respective families, several nieces and nephews, many close friends as well as eight beautiful grandchildren.

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Alvin Leroy Sanger - August 02, 1945 - April 21, 2016

Departed: 04/21/2016 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Alvin “Butch” Leroy Sanger, 70. Our beloved friend, Al, passed peacefully into the arms of God at home on Thursday, April 21, 2016. Al was born August 2, 1945 in Blackwell, Oklahoma to Elma and Alvin Sanger. After serving a tour in Vietnam, he returned home to study social work, which was his life’s calling. He spent more than 40 years in this field helping others. That was his gift.

In 1993 he married the love of his life, Mary Shanks. They moved to “God’s Country” a.k.a. Northeast Oklahoma. He was a sweet and loving husband, father, step-father, son, brother, and friend. He leaves behind Mary of the home; sister, Sue Engle of Blackwell, OK; daughter, Cindy Esselstyn of Asheville, NC; son, Brian Sanger of Norman, OK; step-daughter, Jeni Mittelstaedt, of Gardner, KS; step-son, Todd McBroom of Leavenworth, KS; and their respective families, several nieces and nephews, many close friends as well as eight beautiful grandchildren.

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Harold Gene Johnson - December 14, 1943 - January 07, 2016

Departed: 01/07/2016 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Harold Gene Johnson, 72, of Spiro, OK, will be held at 10:00 A.M. Tuesday, January 12, 2016 at Millsap Funeral Service Chapel in Fort Gibson with Pastor Keith Wilson officiating. Pallbearers will be sons: Michael Wayne Johnson, Mark Allen Johnson, Harold Eugene Johnson; and brothers: Dennis W. Johnson, Donald “Bud” Johnson, and Billy “Stevie” Johnson. Burial will be in Fort Gibson National Cemetery.

Harold was born December 14, 1943 at Fort Gibson, OK, the son of M. H. and Mary (Collins) Johnson and died Thursday, January 7, 2016 at Fort Smith, AR. On July 12, 1962 he married Nettie Frances Wright in Muskogee. Harold proudly served his country in the U. S. Navy for 20 years. He was a member of the Masons.

Survivors include his wife, Nettie of the home; three sons, Michael Johnson of Krugerville, TX, Mark Johnson of Encinitas, CA, Harold Johnson of Denton, TX; four brothers, James of Webbers Falls, Dennis of El Paso, TX, Donald of Wagoner, Billy of Okay; two sisters, Vonda Copeland of Coweta, Cristine Belinda Rabey of Jonesboro, AR; nine grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents; two brothers, Doyle Eugene Johnson and Geary Allen Johnson; and one sister, Brenda Kay Dunn.

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Lloyd J. R. Adams - August 01, 1929 - January 04, 2016

Departed: 01/04/2016 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Lloyd J. R. Adams, 86, of Fort Gibson, OK, will be held at 1:00 P.M. Thursday, January 7, 2016 at the Community Gospel Center in Fort Gibson with Reverend Don Landers and Reverend Don Hayes officiating. Pallbearers will be Eric Adams, Micah Adams, Jeremy Hayes, Ethan Hayes, Earl White, Keith Bolinger, and Chance Johnson. Burial will be at South Bethel Cemetery in Braggs, OK, under the direction of Millsap Funeral Service of Fort Gibson.

Lloyd was born August 1, 1929 in Muskogee, OK, the son of Roy and Thelma Lee (Burton) Adams and died Monday, January 4, 2016 at Muskogee. On December 14, 1952 he married Anna Jean Bolinger in Muskogee. Lloyd served his country in the U. S. Army during the Korean War. Prior to retirement, he worked at Acme Engineering in Muskogee. He was a member of V.F.W. and the American Legion.

Survivors include his wife, Anna Jean, of the home; son, Clinton Adams and wife, Vicki, of Braggs; daughters, Karen Hayes and husband, Don, of Fort Gibson, Gwyn Johnson and husband, Garner, of Braggs, Arlene Abel and husband, Alan, of Wagoner; sister, Frances Close of Fort Gibson; six grandchildren, Eric Adams, Micah Adams, Jeremy Hayes, Amanda Johnson, Alyssa Johnson, and Alaina White; five great-grandchildren, Ethan Hayes, Landon Hayes, Parker Hayes, Denise Adams, and Shawn Adams; numerous other friends and loved ones. Lloyd was preceded in death by his parents; brothers, Leon Adams of Texas, and Don Close of Wagoner.

The family would like to extend their appreciation to the staff of Jack C. Montgomery Veterans Administration Medical Center and the staff of Davita Dialysis Center of Muskogee.

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Marvin Wayne Walker - July 27, 1951 - December 15, 2015

Departed: 12/15/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Marvin Wayne Walker.

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Danny Scott - April 30, 1942 - November 24, 2015

Departed: 11/24/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Danny Scott, 73, of Warner, OK, passed away on Tuesday, November 24, 2015 at Muskogee. Danny was born April 30, 1942 at Sallisaw, OK, the son of Claude Scott Sr. and Okla (Wright) Scott. On July 22, 1967 he married Norma Reiswig in Stilwell. Danny was a truck driver and member of the Oak Grove Baptist Church.Survivors include his wife, Norma, of the home; daughters, Deann Scott of Warner, Marilyn Atkerson and husband, Lonnie, of Higginsville, MO; son, Phillip Scott and wife, Dede, of Clarksville, TN; grandchildren, Natasha Benge and husband, Wesley, Jennie Schueller and husband, Andy, Ryan Atkerson and wife, Emily, Tyler and Ethan Atkerson, Ashley, Haley, Lyndsey, and Katy Scott; great-grandchildren, Robert Benge, twins - Emma and Nathan Schueller; brother, Claude Scott and wife, Dora, of Vian; sister, Doris Trotter and husband, Jerry, of Vian. Danny was preceded in death by his parents; brothers, Charles, Don, John, and Bob; sisters, Margaret Horn and Betty Cox.Funeral services for Danny will be held at 11:00 A.M. Friday, November 27, 2015 at Warner Memorial Cemetery with Reverend Pat Alexander officiating. Burial will be under the direction of Millsap Funeral Service of Webbers Falls.

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Margaret Irene Cook - July 02, 1924 - November 09, 2015

Departed: 11/09/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Margaret Irene Cook, 91, of Fort Gibson, OK, will be held at 1:00 P.M. Friday, November 13, 2015 at Millsap Funeral Service Chapel in Fort Gibson with Reverend Kelly Payne officiating. Pallbearers will be Kelly Hammack, Larry Hammack Jr., Jason Hammack, Lonnie Gilleland, Douglas Gilleland, and Matt Crittenden. Burial will be in Memorial Park Cemetery in Muskogee.Margaret was born July 2, 1924 at Muskogee, OK, the daughter of Hiram and Ninnie (Wilson) Clark and died Monday, November 9, 2015 at Muskogee. Prior to retirement, Margaret worked as a nurse aide.Survivors include her children, Jerry Hammack and wife, Brenda, of Gore, Larry Hammack and wife, Jeannie, of Okay, Patsy Smith and husband, Leroy, of Fort Gibson; numerous grandchildren and great-grandchildren; and sister, Ruby (Clark) James of Eugene, Oregon. She was preceded in death by her siblings, Mark Clark, Clifford Clark, Jim Clark, Wanda Webb, Lora Donakey, Katie Holmes, Ruth Webster, Dolly, and Emily.

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Sammie Norman Moore - July 11, 1936 - November 07, 2015

Departed: 11/07/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Sammie Norman Moore was born on July 11, 1936 in Ford City, California to Jess Monroe and Julia Vera (Garrison) Moore and passed from this life on Saturday, November 7, 2015.Sammie spent his early years in Taft, California but moved to Gore, OK, where his family lived for a few years before moving to Fort Gibson, OK. Sammie attended Fort Gibson schools and graduated in 1955. Soon thereafter he married his high school sweetheart, Ginger, on December 28 and was married 55 years before they were separated by Ginger’s death on November 16, 2011.Sammie was a selfless provider for his family. Immediately following his high school graduation, he worked for a short time for Marvin’s Motorcycle Shop fixing bicycles. On August 1, 1955, Sammie joined the United States Army where he served until July 31, 1958. This service included a 16 month tour in Uijongbu, Korea with the 45th Infantry. After Sammie’s time in the military, his work life included jobs at Callery Chemical Company in Muskogee, OK, Cabot Titanium Corporation in Ashtabula, Ohio, Kerr McGee/Sequoyah Fuels Corporation in Gore, OK, and the Indian Capital Area Vo-Tech in Muskogee, OK, where he retired in 2008.Sammie is survived by his five children, Mark Moore and wife, Tammy, of Tulsa, Mitchell Moore and wife, Diana, of Temecula, CA, Melanie (Moore) Kaufman and husband, Brent, of Yukon, OK, Michael Moore and wife, Linda, of Broken Arrow, and Melissa (Moore) Thompson and husband, Jeff, of Norman; ten grandchildren; ten great-grandchildren; three brothers, Monroe Moore of Gore, George Moore of Cushing, and Leonard “Buster” Moore of Fort Gibson, OK; and numerous cousins, in laws, nieces, and nephews. Sammie was preceded in death by his wife, Virginia Lee (Fisher) Moore; parents, Jess and Julia Moore; one brother, Charles Moore; and one sister, Pauline Shivers.Funeral services for Sammie will be held at 10:30 a.m. Thursday, November 12, 2015 at the Church of Christ in Fort Gibson with grandson, Chris Kaufman, officiating. Pallbearers will be Mark Moore, Mitchell Moore, Michael Moore, Sean Moore, Craig Moore, and Justin Thompson. Honorary pallbearers will be Arvel Hammack, Tom Bebee, Jim Treadway, Charles Dortch, Jerry David Walker and the Fort Gibson Lady Tigers Basketball Team. Burial will be in the Fort Gibson National Cemetery under the direction of Millsap Funeral Service of Fort Gibson.

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Crystal Lynn Gauntt - December 09, 1983 - October 17, 2015

Departed: 10/17/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: 7:30 A.M. October 17, 2015, a new angel was leading Heaven’s choir in a glorious celebration. Crystal “Ce Ce” Gaunt lost her battle with cancer, but won the battle of life, as she walked through Heaven’s gates. Her amazing gift of song and outgoing personality touched many lives in her short 31 years we were blessed with her. She leaves behind us all mourning, but celebrating her victory. Sing on, sweet angel, and we will see you soon.

Funeral services for Crystal Lynn Gauntt, 31, of Fort Gibson, OK, will be held at Timothy Baptist Church of Muskogee, Tuesday, October 20, 2015 at 1:00 P.M. with Reverend Kelly Payne officiating. Serving as pallbearers will be Cody Parker, Adam Parker, Brant Parker, Derek Hoover, Levi Cooper, Brett Hansen, Jeff Johnson, Corey Rowland Sr., Ryan Williams and Katez Marshall. Burial will be in Citizens Cemetery in Fort Gibson under the direction of Millsap Funeral Service of Fort Gibson.

Crystal Lynn Gauntt was born December 9, 1983 in Muskogee, OK, to Timothy Gauntt and Paula (Ragsdale) Gauntt and died Saturday, October 17, 2015 in Fort Gibson, OK. Crystal attended school at Fort Gibson where she was a lifelong resident. She was employed by Enterprise Financial Services as a records clerk.

Crystal is survived by her parents, Tim and Paula Gauntt; one sister, Khadney Payne and husband, Jimmy; one niece Kaehryn Payne; grandfather, Rowe Dean Ragsdale; aunts and uncles, Freddie and Joyce Ragsdale, Scott and Kelly Gauntt, Darryl and Mecie Gauntt, James and Vickie Staton, Marcy McGinnis, Doug and Beverly Ragsdale all of Fort Gibson; numerous cousins and other relatives. She was preceded in death by grandparents, Charlene (Rolland) Ragsdale and Fred Sr. and Carol Gauntt

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Richard Delano Brewer - November 24, 1936 - October 15, 2015

Departed: 10/15/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Richard Delano Brewer.

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Mary Lou Harp - June 06, 1938 - October 08, 2015

Departed: 10/08/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Mary Lou Harp, 77, of Webbers Falls, OK, will be held at 2:00 P.M. Monday, October 12, 2015 at the First Assembly of God in Webbers Falls with Reverend Wendell Cox officiating. Pallbearers will be Tyler Stephens, Taylor Stephens, Jason Harp, and Jordan Sharp. Honorary pallbearer will be Bobby Joe Tripp. Burial will be in Vaught Cemetery under the direction of Millsap Funeral Service of Webbers Falls.

Mary was born June 6, 1938 at Webbers Falls, OK, the daughter of Odis and Lila Vay (Judkins) Menie and died Thursday, October 8, 2015 at her home in Webbers Falls. Mary was a lifelong resident of Webbers Falls and a member of the First Assembly of God. She was a homemaker.

Survivors include two daughters, Stephanie Calvert and husband, James, Kelly Stephens and husband, Larry, all of Webbers Falls; son, Jeff Harp of Searcy, AR; eight grandchildren; 12 great-grandchildren; sisters, Loretta Johnson and husband, James, of Webbers Falls, Nancy Sadler of Greenwood, AR; sister-in-law, Ethel Menie; two brothers-in-law, Lendle Pritt and Tom Shirley. She was preceded in death by the father of her children, Paul Harp; parents; great-grandson, Dayton Bradley; two sisters, Dorothy Pritt, Ruth Clay Shirley; two brothers, Mutt Menie, Jack Menie and wife Jimmie Lee.

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Ramona Wright - June 20, 1933 - October 06, 2015

Departed: 10/06/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Ramona Wright, 82, of Fort Gibson, OK, will be held at 2:00 P.M. Friday, October 9, 2015 at Millsap Funeral Service Chapel in Fort Gibson, OK, with Chaplain Lee Griffith officiating. Burial will be in Fort Gibson National Cemetery.

Ramona was born June 20, 1933 at Lewistown, IL, the daughter of Edward and Lala (Utzinger) Hicks and died Tuesday, October 6, 2015 at her home.

Survivors include her husband, Jack of the home; children, Laura Napier of Huntington, WV, George Chambers, Vicki Thomas, Sandy Byrd, John Chambers, and Zach Wright all of Fort Gibson; 28 grandchildren; four step-grandchildren; two sisters, Delores Hoover and Donna Millhollin.

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Ruth Clay Shirley - June 18, 1932 - September 29, 2015

Departed: 09/29/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Ruth Clay Shirley, 83, of Little Rock, AR, will be held at 2:00 P.M. Friday, October 2, 2015 at the First Assembly of God in Webbers Falls with Reverend Robert Adams, Pastor Paul Holderfield, and Pastor Gary Brown officiating. Pallbearers will be grandsons: Sean Clay, Justin Clay, Chad Clay, Dexter Ross, Ron Ross, and Rocky Ross. Burial will be in Vaught Cemetery under the direction of Millsap Funeral Service of Webbers Falls.

Ruth was born June 18, 1932 at Webbers Falls, OK, the daughter of Odis and Lila Vay (Judkins) Menie and died Tuesday, September 29, 2015 at Gore. On May 31, 1948 she married Leo Clay. He preceded her in death on December 3, 1986. Ruth married Tom Shirley on August 4, 1990 in Webbers Falls. She attended school at Webbers Falls and the Assembly of God. Prior to retirement she had worked as a clerk and in health care.

Survivors include her husband, Tom of the home; son, L. D. Clay and wife, Phyllis, of Gore; daughter, Terry Ross and husband, Dusty, of Webbers Falls; two step-sons, Tom Shirley Jr. and Michael Shirley; daughter-in-law, Vicki Clay of Webbers Falls; 15 grandchildren; 28 great-grandchildren; one great-great-grandchild; sister-in-law, Ethel Menie of Webbers Falls; brother-in-law, Lendle Pritt of Gore; three sisters, Loretta Johnson and Mary Lou Harp both of Webbers Falls, and Nancy Sadler of Greenwood, AR. She was preceded in death by her husband, Leo Clay; son, Dwight Clay; grandson, Kyle Kirkpatrick; two brothers, Mutt Menie, Jack Menie and wife, Jimmie Lee; and sister, Dorothy Pritt.

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Mary Elizabeth Burton - April 25, 1924 - September 26, 2015

Departed: 09/26/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: On April 25, 1924 Mary Elizabeth Turner Burton was born to BB and Roberta Turner in El Dorado, AR. She passed from this life on September 26, 2015 in Muskogee, OK. Her life was filled with may adventures because her husband, Dewey Burton, worked various construction jobs in various states as a licensed pipe fitter. Mrs. Burton followed her husband during his travels making a HOME for the family wherever work took them. It may have not been a luxurious house but it was most definitely a HOME. She was always willing to sacrifice personal belongings to make a home for her family. This meant moving all of their possessions that would fit in the back of their car leaving behind the unnecessary items. In addition to being a homemaker, Mrs. Burton worked for Corning Glass and one hour Martinizing after settling their home in Muskogee where she made many lifelong friends. Mrs. Burton also served many friends and other family members by sitting with them during their illnesses or deaths. She seemed to have a special talent of making those around her feel better during difficult times.

Mrs. Burton supported her husband in his hunting and fishing expeditions and joined him often even winning a few crappie tournaments along the way.

After moving to Fort Gibson in 1960, they had room for a LARGE garden, putting in several long hours working this garden growing everything except weeds. They always produced more than they could eat and would call their friends to come and help them reap the fruits of their labors. Mrs. Burton also crocheted many items including dollies, Christmas ornaments, table clothes, and afghans and shared them with her family and friends.

Mrs. Burton volunteered at the Muskogee Regional Hospital driving the shuttle cart to carry people to the front door from the parking lot and back.

Mrs. Burton loved her Fort Gibson Church of Christ family and volunteered often for numerous activities from VBS to folding weekly bulletins and meal preparations.

Mrs. Burton was preceded in death by her husband, Dewey Burton; parents, BB and Roberta Turner; sisters, Edith Boland and Irene Watkins. She is survived by her daughter and husband, Nancy and Howard Avery of Muskogee; sister, Burney Wilson of Tyler, TX; grandchildren, Mike Avery of Muskogee and Becky Avery of Muskogee; great-grandchildren, Blake Avery and wife, Erika, of Fort Gibson, Biancca and Briaynna Wright, Randy Mills and Brinlee Avery all of Muskogee; great-great-grandchildren, Kylar and Koltyn Scott and Jordyn Avery; many other “family members” who thought of her as “granny” or “Aunt Mary”.

Funeral services for Mrs. Burton will be held at 10:00 A.M. Wednesday, September 30, 2015 at the Fort Gibson Church of Christ with Budd Tibbles and Budo Perry officiating. Pallbearers will be Jerry Perry, Leonard Moore, Ted Maplethorpe, Blake Avery, Randy Mills, and Charlie Dortch. Honorary pallbearers will be all the members of the Fort Gibson Church of Christ. Burial will be in Citizens Cemetery under the direction of Millsap Funeral Service of Fort Gibson.

The family will receive visitors from 5:00 P.M. to 7:00 P.M. Tuesday, September 29, 2015 at Millsap Funeral Service, 700 E. Poplar, Fort Gibson, OK.

In honor of Mary's memory and in lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Fort Gibson Church of Christ Building Fund, P.O. Box 787, Fort Gibson, OK. 74434.

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Amy Gene Rila - January 21, 1925 - September 25, 2015

Departed: 09/25/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Amy Gene Rila “Nanny”, 90, died Friday, September 25, 2015 at her home in Ft. Gibson, Oklahoma surrounded by her family. She was born Wednesday, January 21, 1925 in Muskogee, Oklahoma to James H. Ford and Kaleetah Starr Ford. She was the second of eight children. She attended Muskogee High School where she played basketball and afterwards worked at Teel Laundry.

Amy converted to Catholicism in 1944, and married Anthony Joseph Rila on September 16, 1945 in New York City, New York. After marriage, she had four children, Anthony Jr., Michael, Roseanna, and David.

Amy, “Nanny,” loved God and her family. She spent her life sharing her love with her children, grandchildren, and other family. She had a passion for sewing, and used this passion to make clothing and bedding for the ones she loved. She was also an avid football fan with her favorite team being the Dallas Cowboys, and she took pleasure in watching the games while enjoying her favorite beverage, Coca-Cola. Her other interest included dancing, gardening, writing, watching classic movies, and taking care of her beloved dogs.

She is survived by two children, Roseanna Watkins and David Rila and wife Kim; grandchildren, John Jones, Susan and John Mills, Mickey and Aom Rila, Michelle McQuillen, Jeannette and Bryon Haak, Jennifer and Brian Kizzia, Heather and Harvey Dorman, Roy and Crystal Lane, and Amanda Lane; great-grandchildren, Tyler McClure, Olive Kizzia, Amy Haak, Cassie Haak, Ethan Heinken, Joey McQuillen, Tosha Lane, Kalei Lane, Kourtney Lane; brother, James Ford; sisters Cherry Crater, Bluie Ford, Marcella Jacobs, and Billie K. Smith.

She is preceded in death by her parents; her husband Anthony J. Rila; sons, Anthony J. Rila Jr. and Michael Rila; brothers, Charles Ford and Bob Ford; daughter in-laws, Carlene Rila and Dyrenda Rila; granddaughter, Lisa Rila.

Funeral services for Amy Rila will be held at 1:00 P.M. Wednesday, September 30, 2015 at Millsap Funeral Service Chapel in Fort Gibson with Deacon James Ruyle officiating. Burial will be in Fort Gibson National Cemetery.

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William Robert Peyton - December 18, 1942 - September 23, 2015

Departed: 09/23/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for William Robert Peyton.

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Darrell Lynn Stanfill - December 11, 1950 - September 21, 2015

Departed: 09/21/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Darrell “Bo” Stanfill, 64, of Braggs, OK, will be held at 10:00 A.M. Friday, September 25, 2015 at South Bethel Cemetery in Braggs with Lyndell Jamison officiating. Burial will be under the direction of Millsap Funeral Service of Fort Gibson.

Bo was born December 11, 1950 at Baptist Hospital in Muskogee, OK, the son of Glen and Maxine (Summers) Stanfill and died Monday, September 21, 2015 in Muskogee. He served his country in the U. S. Army as a Scout Gunner with the 4th Cav in Vietnam and received a Bronze Star, two Air Metals, National Defense Service Metal, and Vietnam Service Metal. Bo was a man of many talents. He played baseball for the Muskogee American Legion and Connors State College. He was also invited to try out for the Philadelphia Phillys. He could sell almost anything to anyone and make you think you needed it, even if you didn’t. He sold John Deere Tractors for many years, was a long haul trucker, a logger in Oregon, a Recruiter for the Army National Guard, and the Sheriff of Braggs. He could “rig” anything to make it work and did so often. Bo was an avid outdoorsman who loved to fish, hunt, ride ATV’s, ride horses, camp, bale hay, and hunt for buried treasures. On July 7, 2008 in Alamosa, CA, he married Nancy Rambo, a former Braggs High School sweetheart. He spent his last day fishing with her at one of his favorite spots.

Bo was preceded in death by his parents, Glen and Maxine. He is survived by his wife, Nancy of the home; daughter, Mallory (Nate) Miller and son, David Stanfill all of Kansas City, MO; step-daughters, Bianca Isbell of Braggs, Jana (Mitch) Thornbrugh of Fort Gibson, and Kate (Brad) Maxey of Fort Gibson; 16 grandchildren; brother, Barry (Teresa) Stanfill of Braggs; sister, Gayla Rambo and his “Partner in Crime” Joe Rambo of Braggs; two nephews, Brannon and Brett Stanfill of Braggs that he was especially close to. We will miss you being in the lead because, “IT’S ALWAYS AN ADVENTURE”!

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Brenda Lee Risely - June 28, 1967 - September 17, 2015

Departed: 09/17/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Brenda Lee Risely.

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Joan Irene Hammond - July 23, 1930 - September 13, 2015

Departed: 09/13/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Joan Irene Hammond.

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Frank Leroy Frey - December 11, 1935 - September 08, 2015

Departed: 09/08/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Frank Leroy Frey, 79, of Checotah, OK, will be held at 11:00 A.M. Monday, September 21, 2015 at Fort Gibson National Cemetery. Burial will be under the direction of Millsap Funeral Service of Fort Gibson.

Frank was born December 11, 1935 at White Butte, South Dakota the son of Frederick and Theresa (Lockner) Frey and died Tuesday, September 8, 2015 at Muskogee. Frank served his country in the U. S. Air Force from 1954 to 1977.

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Seba Lamar Cox - July 13, 1942 - August 26, 2015

Departed: 08/26/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Seba Cox, 72, of Roland, OK, will be held at 2:00 P.M. Monday, August 31, 2015 at Millsap Funeral Service Chapel in Webbers Falls with Reverend Terry Cripe and Reverend Wendell Cox officiating. Pallbearers will be Sidney Powell, Alan Powell, Charlie Shanks, Bobby Woodrome, Jacob Rauser, Roger Irving, and Charles Pearson. Burial will be in Vaught Cemetery.

Seba was born July 13, 1942 the son of Leslie and Anna Lee (Willis) Cox and died Wednesday, August 26, 2015 at Sallisaw. He was a farmer and had lived in the area for the past 70 years. Seba was of the Pentecostal faith.

Survivors include his daughter, Gwen Schaefer Erdmann of Roland; brother, Calvin Cox of Webbers Falls; grandsons, Abraham Goodman, Max Goodman, Bobby Woodrome, Brandon Woodrome, Casey Rauser; and eight great-grandchildren.

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Barbara Joyce Kerns - January 22, 1933 - August 19, 2015

Departed: 08/19/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Barbara (Ford) Kerns was born January 22, 1933 to John and Lola Ford of Fort Gibson. She met the love of her life, John Kerns, on a blind double date in Muskogee. They were married 54 years and lived in Fort Gibson all their lives.

She had several jobs before quitting to raise her four children. She spent most of her time blessing them with an undying “Jesus like love that is still present today by our presence here.“ Any friend or child that spent time at her house knew her as Granny or Grandma. She loved unconditionally with grace and servitude.

Her family never failed to receive a birthday card from her every year. She was the most giving person anyone could know. She will be missed by everyone she touched with her smile, warmth, and her love.

She is preceded in death by her husband, John Kerns; parents, John and Lola Ford; sister, Margie Kidder; and brother, Louie Ford.

Those left to cherish her memory are son, Johnny Kerns and wife, Lisa Kerns, of Fort Gibson; son, Jimmy Kerns of Fort Gibson; daughter, Tina Kizzia and husband, Mark Kizzia, of Fort Gibson; daughter, Sandra Brice and husband, Tony Brice of Big Cedar; grandchildren, Jeremy Kerns, Rebecca Anderson, Cali Godsson, Dustin Ross, Audrey Ross, Chris Kizzia, Brian Kizzia, Jacob Brice, and Sarah Averill; 15 great-grandchildren; brothers, David Ford of Okay and John Henry Ford of Braggs.

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Hazel Iona Vaughan - October 16, 1914 - August 18, 2015

Departed: 08/18/2015 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Hazel Iona Remer Vaughan was born in a tent near Drumright, Oklahoma on October 16, 1914 to Ed and Dora Remer. Hazel moved to the Carlile area when she was young and attended school on Moonshine Road. As a young girl, Hazel loved to ride her pony, swim in the creeks, and hang out with her brother D. When Hazel was in her teens she moved to Missouri where she took a job and was married. Out of this marriage a son, Ed, was born. Eventually Hazel ended up in Kansas City where she worked as one of the first female machinist in a factory that helped with the World War II effort. While in Kansas City, she enjoyed working and dancing. Hazel and Ed continued to live in Kansas City where Ed grew up and had his own family. When Hazel retired, she moved back to the Carlile area to be with her brothers, Merle and Henry, and their families. Hazel enjoyed helping in the garage with her nephews, going dancing, and spending time with her brothers. In December of 2003, Hazel moved into the Gore Nursing Center where she celebrated her 100th birthday last October with family and friends. Her earthly journey ended on August 18, 2015. Hazel commented many times that she had a good life and was blessed with a long one.

Her family left to cherish her memories include a daughter-in-law, Jean Vaughan; three grandchildren, Tim, Steve, and Theresa Vaughan; four great-grandchildren, Chad, Dalton, Timmy, and Brook Vaughan; and one great-great-granddaughter, McKinzee Vaughan, all of the Kansas City area; sister-in-law, Geneva Remer of Carlile, OK; four nephews, Gary Grotzinger of LaMonte, Missouri and Larry Grotzinger of Sedalia, Missouri, Dewey and Johnny Remer of the Carlile aea, and Preston Remer of Vian, OK; one niece, Carla McCoy of the Carlile area; many more relatives and friends.

Her son, Ed; parents; brothers, D., Merle, and Henry Remer; and sister, Helen Grotzinger preceded her in death.

A Time of Remembrance will be held Thursday, August 20, 2015 from 9 AM to 4 PM and Friday, August 21, 2015 from 9 AM to 7 PM at Millsap Funeral Service in Webbers Falls, Oklahoma.

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Barbara June Allen - January 22, 1923 - January 28, 2014

Departed: 01/28/2014 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Barbara June Allen, 91, of Fort Gibson, OK, will be held at 11:00 A.M. Saturday, February 8, 2014 at Greenhill Cemetery in Muskogee with Reverend Jerry Swepston officiating. Arrangements are under the direction of Millsap Funeral Service of Fort Gibson.

Barbara was born January 22, 1923 at Tulsa, OK, the daughter of Jack and Arlie Sue (Bland) Jones and died Tuesday, January 28, 2014 at Muskogee. Prior to retirement, Barbara worked as a medical secretary. She was a member of the First Baptist Church in Fort Gibson.

Survivors include her son, Jack Stuart Shackelford and wife, Leslie, of Catoosa; and daughter, June Whiteaker of Fort Gibson. She was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Jack Shackelford; three children, Sidney Shackelford Fletcher, Kenneth E. Shackelford, Linda Brooks; and brother, Col. H. B. Allen.

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Barbara June Allen - January 22, 1923 - January 28, 2014

Departed: 01/28/2014 (FORT GIBSON)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Barbara June Allen.

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A Wide Range of Funeral Services

Millsap Funeral Service offers a comprehensive range of funeral services designed to meet the diverse needs of families in the Fort Gibson area. From traditional funeral services with visitation and burial to cremation options and memorial services, the funeral home provides families with the flexibility to choose a service that best suits their needs and preferences. Additionally, Millsap Funeral Service offers pre-planning services, allowing individuals to make arrangements for their own funeral in advance, alleviating the burden on their loved ones during a difficult time.

Personalized Funeral Planning

The staff at Millsap Funeral Service takes great pride in their ability to create personalized funeral services that truly reflect the life and personality of each individual. They work closely with families to understand their needs and preferences, incorporating personal touches and meaningful elements into the service. Whether it's a favorite song, a special poem, or a unique ritual, Millsap Funeral Service is dedicated to creating a service that is both meaningful and memorable.

Cremation Services

In addition to traditional funeral services, Millsap Funeral Service also offers cremation options for families who prefer this alternative. The funeral home's cremation services are designed to provide families with a dignified and respectful way to say goodbye to their loved one, while also offering a more affordable option. The staff at Millsap Funeral Service is experienced in handling all aspects of the cremation process, ensuring that families receive the highest level of care and attention.

Facilities and Amenities

Millsap Funeral Service is housed in a beautiful and historic building located in the heart of Fort Gibson. The funeral home's facilities are warm and inviting, providing families with a comfortable and peaceful environment in which to gather and celebrate the life of their loved one. The facility features a spacious chapel, visitation rooms, and a reception area where families can gather and share memories with friends and loved ones.

Community Involvement

Millsap Funeral Service is deeply committed to the Fort Gibson community, actively participating in local events and supporting various charitable organizations. The funeral home's staff is dedicated to giving back to the community that has supported them over the years, hosting events such as grief support groups and educational seminars on topics related to end-of-life care.

Why Choose Millsap Funeral Service?

Families in the Fort Gibson area have come to trust Millsap Funeral Service because of their unwavering commitment to excellence, compassion, and personalized care. With a long history of serving the community, Millsap Funeral Service has established itself as a leader in the funeral industry, providing families with a level of service that is unmatched by other funeral homes in the area. Whether you're planning ahead or facing an unexpected loss, Millsap Funeral Service is here to support you every step of the way.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and acquaintances of the person's passing.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to share the news of a person's passing with others, providing essential details about their life and funeral arrangements. It also serves as a way to honor and celebrate the person's life, sharing their achievements, interests, and personality with those who knew them.

Who writes an obituary?

Obituaries can be written by a variety of people, including family members, friends, funeral home staff, or professional obituary writers. In some cases, the deceased person may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include funeral service details, memorial contributions, and other relevant information.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Traditional newspaper obituaries are often limited to 200-300 words, while online obituaries can be longer and more detailed.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and funeral home websites allow you to upload photos of the deceased person. This can help bring the obituary to life and provide a visual tribute to the person who has passed away.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

To submit an obituary to a newspaper, contact the paper's obituary department directly or use their online submission form. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for the publication.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life story is told in your own words.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and achievements.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or platform. Some online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while traditional newspapers may charge by the word or line.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. However, this depends on the publication or platform's policies and procedures.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The time it takes for an obituary to be published can vary depending on the publication or platform. Online obituaries may be published immediately, while traditional newspapers may have a delay of several days or weeks.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber or serious. Including humorous stories or anecdotes can help capture the person's personality and spirit.

What if I want to keep the funeral private?

If you want to keep the funeral private, you can still publish an obituary without including funeral service details. This allows you to share the news of the person's passing while maintaining privacy around the funeral arrangements.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes! Many families prefer donations to charity in lieu of flowers. You can include this information in the obituary along with details on how to make a donation.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search for old obituaries through online archives, genealogy websites, or local libraries. Some newspapers also maintain archives of past issues that can be searched online or in-person.

Can I republish an old obituary online?

In most cases, yes! If you have permission from the original publisher or copyright holder, you can republish an old obituary online. Be sure to follow any applicable copyright laws and regulations.

What if there are errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you notice errors or inaccuracies in an obituary, contact the publication or platform where it was published. They may be able to correct the mistakes or issue a correction notice.

Can I create a digital archive of my loved one's obituary?

Yes! Many online platforms allow you to save and share digital copies of obituaries. You can also create a digital archive using cloud storage services like Google Drive or Dropbox.

How do I handle condolences and messages from readers?

You can respond to condolences and messages from readers personally or designate someone else to do so on your behalf. Some online platforms also provide tools for managing condolences and guestbooks.

Can I include quotes or poetry in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including meaningful quotes or poetry can add depth and emotion to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's personality or spirit.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you need help writing an obituary, consider consulting with a professional writer or asking a friend or family member for assistance. Funeral homes may also offer guidance and support during this process.

How do I ensure that my loved one's legacy lives on through their obituary?

An obituary is just one way to celebrate your loved one's life. Consider creating a memorial website, planting a tree in their honor, or establishing a scholarship fund to continue their legacy.