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Patricia H. Edison - December 11, 1927 - April 15, 2022

Departed: 04/15/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Thornquist Hannagan Edison, age 94, of Grand Rapids passed away on Friday, April 15, 2022, after a short illness. Pat was preceded in death by her husband of fifty years, William (Bill) H. Edison, in 2000.

Born in Grand Rapids, Pat was a nearly lifelong resident and supporter of East Grand Rapids. It was in high school at East that Pat discovered her passion for volunteerism by leading an effort to sell War Bonds during WWII.  At the University of Michigan, Pat majored in English and Journalism and was a member of the Delta Gamma sorority. She graduated in 1949 as a member of the Phi Beta Kappa Society, the oldest academic honor society in the United States.  Pat was also a member of Phi Kappa Phi, an honor society that recognizes superior scholarship. These prestigious distinctions demonstrated her exceptional academic achievements and keen intellect, as well as foreshadowed her dynamic career in leadership and philanthropy.

Her late husband Bill described Pat as a “professional volunteer.” Pat served as a member of various boards in Grand Rapids including Aquinas College, Butterworth Hospital, the Porter Hills Foundation, and the Grand Rapids Community Foundation. Pat led the Grand Rapids Community Foundation as its first female Executive Director from 1980 – 1986. She was acting Executive Director of the Frey Foundation from 1988 – 1990. Pat’s other commitments included serving as President of Junior League of Grand Rapids and President of the East Grand Rapids Public Schools Board of Education. She also served as a member of the City of East Grand Rapids Planning Commission from 1976 – 1980. A member of Grace Episcopal Church throughout her adult life, and a member of the Vestry from 1979 – 1981, Pat was a woman of profound and deep faith, which comforted her throughout her entire life and especially in her final days. Pat also enjoyed longtime membership at Kent Country Club, where she loved to meet friends for an afternoon of bridge and (occasionally) a round of golf with Bill. Curious by nature and an avid reader, Pat embodied the definition of a “lifelong learner,” which even extended to embracing current technology to adapt to physical challenges during what she called her “battle against old age.”

Pat was the kind of person we all strive to be. She personified graciousness, elegance, thoughtfulness, generosity of heart, positivity, intentionality, and perseverance. Simply put, Pat was beautiful inside and out. She loved her family and friends dearly, and she loved the community to which she was devoted. But most of all she loved Bill whom she met at age 17 and with whom she formed a remarkable partnership and love story. Pat will be deeply missed.

Pat’s legacy continues through the lives of her three devoted children John (Louise “Punky”) Edison, Barbara (Michael) Pemberton, and Stephen (Monica) Edison; seven adoring grandchildren Patty (Vincent) Racco, Michael Edison (partner Meaghan Cotter), David (Katie) Edison, Kyle (Stacey) Moore, Julie (Eric) French, Maggie Edison and Grace Edison; and thirteen wonderful great-grandchildren Cira, Mia and Nadia Racco, Bailey, Liam and Lila Edison, Avery, Rylee, Maddie and Charlie Edison, Lillian Moore, and Eli and Henry French. Pat also leaves behind sister-in-law Mrs. John S. (Penny) Edison, and many nieces and nephews.

The family would like to extend special thanks to the staff at Porter Hills, and especially Paige Hendrickson, Linda Gaffin, and Kris Bennett for their exceptional friendship and care.

Funeral services will be held on Saturday, April 23 at 11:00 am at Grace Episcopal Church (1815 Hall Street, SE Grand Rapids). The family will receive friends at the church beginning at 10:00 am.

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Rose Marie Goldner - June 17, 1930 - April 13, 2022

Departed: 04/13/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: On Wednesday April 13, 2022 Rose Marie Goldner, loving Mother and Grandmother passed away at the age of 91.  Rose was born June 17, 1930 in Flint MI and was the last surviving of her six siblings.  Rose married Edward Goldner in 1960 and they were together 44 years until his death in 2004.  They raised three children Gary, Janet and Karen in East Lansing and were blessed with numerous grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Rose spent her last working years as an administrative assistant in the Medical Humanities department at Michigan State University.  She enjoyed spending time with family and friends in Oscoda on Lake Huron and falling asleep listening to the sounds of the waves on the beach.  She also enjoyed donating to the local casinos and looked forward every year to seeing how her money was spent.  Rose was full of spirit with an independent nature that served her to the very end.  She will be greatly missed.

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Franklin Buist Jr. - June 12, 1924 - April 11, 2022

Departed: 04/11/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Beloved Son, Brother, Uncle, Husband, Father, Grandfather, and Great-Grandfather, Franklin Buist Jr, age 98, passed away peacefully on Monday, April 11, 2022.

Franklin Buist Jr was born in Grand Rapids, MI on June 12, 1924, the son of Mary (Northouse) and Frank Buist.  Loyal to Grand Rapids, and the State of Michigan, he was an energetic, knowledgeable ambassador.  Truly a spiritual man in both word and practice, naturally charitable.

His professionalism in career was balanced by zest for life.  Pursuit of adventure and travel, appreciation for classic automobiles, Summers by the Lake, Photography, impromptu baritone singing, American History, pure joyfulness for the creativity of Walt Disney World;  all foremost among his passions.

Dedication to family, and Betty Ann (Foley) Buist, his wife of nearly 60-years, was his greatest love.  Franklin organically nourished his family and leaves behind his wife Betty Ann and their loving children: Candace and Patricia (Indiana), Cheryl (Grand Rapids), Jacquee and her husband Mike (Denver), Franklin and his wife Nurdan (New Orleans), Michael and his fiancé Linda (Pensacola), David and his wife Kaitlin (Lansing);  Grandchildren:  Ahnuh and her husband Ryan (Chelsea), Maryn and Lincoln, who affectionately referred to him as ‘Pop Pop’ (Lansing);  Great-Grandchildren:  Lea and Cohen (Chelsea);  several Nieces and Nephews.

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Ted Frey - April 26, 1944 - April 11, 2022

Departed: 04/11/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Edward “Ted” John Frey, Jr., age 77, of Ada passed away peacefully at his home on April 11, 2022, surrounded by his loving family. He was a beloved father, son, husband and brother. Background

An entrepreneur, business and real estate developer, philanthropist, family man and animal lover, Ted Frey made an indelible impact on communities in west and northern Michigan.

Ted was born in Grand Rapids, Michigan on April 26, 1944, the son of Edward J. Frey, Sr. and Frances “Tallie” M. (Taliaferro) Frey. After graduating from Ottawa Hills High School where he played basketball, Ted attended Grand Rapids Community College and Grand Valley State College (GVSU).  He began his career working at Foremost Insurance Company and Union Bank & Trust Company. Ted then spent nearly two years in South America working for World Bank where he provided agricultural lending and worked to develop high yield crops and boost irrigation. Upon returning to Grand Rapids, he honed his skills as a real estate developer, working on several development projects in downtown Grand Rapids.

In 1979, Ted along with his wife Elizabeth, moved their family to Harbor Springs. He brought with him a sharp mind for numbers and entrepreneurial spirit and continued developing businesses and real estate in northern Michigan. Having been involved in the brick and block business in Grand Rapids and Detroit, he founded Emmet Brick and Block in Petoskey, a business that still thrives today.

Ted enjoyed a simple quiet life surrounded by the beauty of northern Michigan’s landscape and the crystal-clear waters of Lake Michigan and Little Traverse Bay. It was there that he took up golf. His passion for the game sparked a vision that resulted in the design, development and construction of Little Traverse Bay Golf Club & Restaurant, a hidden gem nestled among the hills overlooking the panoramic views of Little Traverse Bay. The golf course and restaurant operated for three decades before Ted sold the property.

An avid sailor, Ted competed in numerous Chicago-to-Mackinaw and Port Huron-to Mackinaw races and spent countless hours sailing the beautiful waters off Petoskey and Harbor Springs.

Ted treasured time with his current wife of 26 years, Brenda, as well as his children, grandchildren and dogs. He loved to travel with Brenda, and they explored many places around the world. He had a passion for all animals, but in particular dogs. He was instrumental in establishing a veterinary clinic at Little Traverse Bay Humane Society, a no-kill animal shelter. While it is often said that dog is mans’ best friend, it was apparent that Ted was also dogs’ best friend.

Ted had recently sold his home in Harbor Springs to return to his birthplace of Grand Rapids and purchased a home in nearby Ada. Ted and Brenda also have a home in south Florida where they have spent the past 27 winters enjoying the warm weather and sunshine. Community Service

Ted was a loving and compassionate man intensely focused on community, diversity, philanthropy and education. With a deep sense of humanity and a generous spirit, he was actively involved in the communities of Petoskey, Harbor Springs, Charlevoix and Grand Rapids. He constantly fought for equal housing, education, employment and health care opportunities for all. He was a quiet mentor to many and believed in fostering the potential of others. He silently worked behind the scenes as he developed projects to better serve the communities he loved.

The Petoskey Harbor Springs Area Community Foundation, The Little Traverse Bay Conservancy, The Dyslexia Center, Little Traverse Bay Humane Society and Dental Clinics North are just a few of the many organizations Ted was involved in. Most recently, he worked with North Central Michigan College in Petoskey where he helped develop a plan to provide quality, high tech education to students and to provide continuing education for all regardless of age, race, ethnicity or economic status. Ted served for decades as a trustee, treasurer, chairman and investment committee member of the Frey Foundation based in Grand Rapids. For more information regarding Ted’s grant making and leadership roles within the foundation, please click here: https://freyfdn.org/ted-frey

Ted’s commitment to service and love for his family and community continued through his final days. His spirit and legacy will live on, and he will be truly missed by those who knew and loved him and those whose lives he touched. Family

Ted is survived by his wife, Brenda, and his faithful chocolate lab, Henry. Also surviving are three daughters, Mary E. Frey Bennett (Richard) of Gainesville, FL, Cynthia A. Frey of Harbor Springs, MI and Sarah R. Frey of Harbor Springs, MI; six grandchildren, Luke, Eric and Emma Bennett, Grant and Grace Rose and Laura Young; three siblings, Mary “Twink” C. Frey of Grand Rapids, MI, John M. Frey (Hildi) of Charlevoix, MI, and David G. Frey (Judy) of Grand Rapids, MI; and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his daughter, Barbara C. Frey, and grandson, Parker W. Rose. Services

The family will hold a small private service to honor Ted. A celebration of Ted’s life and legacy is being planned by his family. To be updated on the celebration of life, please return to this site. Memorial Contributions

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Bob Udell - May 22, 1941 - April 10, 2022

Departed: 04/10/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: On Sunday April 10, 2022, Robert Fay Udell, age 81, passed away unexpectedly in his home in Cascade, MI. Robert was born May 22, 1941, in Grand Rapids, MI the son of Max and Janet Udell.

He graduated from Creston High School in 1959 and went on to attend Case Western where he graduated in 1963 with a BS degree in engineering. He did his graduate work at the University of Florida and spent his life in the aerospace industry. Robert married the love of his life Katherine Schanz in 1963 and they welcomed their first son Robert Scott in 1965 and their second son Michael Loren in 1967. Robert enjoyed music, sailing, his pets, and using his hands especially for his many woodworking projects.

Robert is survived by his wife Katherine (Schanz) Udell; his children Robert Scott Udell and Michael Loren Udell; his grandchild Natalie Udell, and his nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents and his siblings, Loren and Ken.

Robert’s visitation is scheduled for Tuesday April 19, 2022, at 10 am EST at Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Home followed immediately by a memorial service at 11 am.

For those who wish, in honor of Robert and in lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to the Humane Society of West Michigan.  Share a memory or condolences on this tribute wall.

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Mary Ann Vanden Berg - May 07, 1943 - April 09, 2022

Departed: 04/09/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Mary Ann (De Loof) Vanden Berg, age 78, passed away April 9, 2022 from complications of Lewy body dementia. Her spirit left her earthly body to join the great cloud of witnesses who wait for the resurrection. She died peacefully in the presence of loving caregivers at Porter Hills. She leaves her loving husband Ken, daughter Holly and John Van Essen and Kerri Vanden Berg, her grandchildren Emma and Josh Van Essen, sister Lynn and Kirk Rottschafer, Gordon and Jane Vanden Berg and nieces and nephews; Shelli Rottschafer (Daniel Combs), Jenna Jansen(Chad), Corey Visker(Kyle)and and Ben Vanden Berg(Stacy Ladenburger).

Mary Ann was an educator, teaching preschool and elementary school. She was an active member of Westminster Presbyterian Church. Ken and Mary Ann had many enjoyable years in retirement, traveling the US in their camper and spending time in Florida. They also enjoyed spending time with their children and grandchildren.

A memorial service will be held at Westminster Presbyterian Church located at 47 Jefferson Ave, SE Grand Rapids, MI 49503 on Friday, April 29 at 2:00 pm. Visitation will be prior to the service from 12:30 to 2:00 pm.

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Phyllis Joan Crooks - August 05, 1933 - April 08, 2022

Departed: 04/08/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Phyllis Joan (Kayser) Crooks, age 88, of Sand Lake, Michigan, passed away on Friday, April 8, 2022.

Our loving wife, and mother, Phyllis, was born on August 5, 1933, to the late Richard and Velma Kayser in Grand Rapids, MI. She graduated from Ottawa Hills High School in 1951.

Richard and Phyllis met in high school, and they wed on March 15, 1952, going on to have two children. Phyllis enjoyed many years volunteering as a member of the Blodgett Hospital Guild. She loved bird watching and gardening. Phyllis was always a joy to converse with. She was so positive and happy. You were guaranteed some laughs every time you visited with her, even during her last days.

Phyllis was predeceased by her parents, brothers Robert Kayser, Doug Kayser and sister Marianne (Richard) Bentz. She will be greatly missed by her husband and two children, Debra (Mike) Grimminck of Grandville, Michigan, and son Craig (Mary Helen) Crooks of Ada, Michigan, along with grandchildren, Joe Grimminck, Jessica (Donald Walker) Grimminck, John Grimminck, Kristina (Patrick) Johnson, Ali Day, Addison Crooks (Jordan Fountain), Alana (Justin Spangenberg) Crooks and Anna (Logan Anderson) Crooks; great grandchildren Annabelle, Caleb, Silas, Claudia, Emily, Erin, Ethan, Jaden, Mason, Harlow, Jevy, Poppy and Lavender; as well as many wonderful nieces, nephews and special caregivers Kathy and Beth.

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Emily Ione Bolthouse - April 24, 1923 - April 07, 2022

Departed: 04/07/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Emily Ione Bolthouse passed away on Thursday April 7, 2022 at the age of 99.  She was preceded in death by her loving husband of 72 years, Donald, brothers Jack (Mickey) & Ernest (Edna) Gommesen, her mother and father Ione (Shinkman) and Ernest Gommesen, father & mother-in-law Clarence & Connie Bolthouse, and brother-in-law Robert (Virginia/Bobbi) Talsma.

She is survived by her sons, Jeffrey and Daniel (Sally) Bolthouse, grandchildren Nate, Anna (Chris) Hartemayer, and John, three adorable great grandchildren, Elle, Emma and Ava, and many nieces and nephews.

Emily lived a full life. She loved God, her family and her friends.

She was a member of Fuller Ave CRC most of her adult life. She served in many ministries there over the years. She will be remembered for her fun loving, positive attitude and sense of humor.

Emily was crafty and loved to make things with her hands, needlepoint, sewing, macrame, knitting sweaters, countless mittens, and beautiful quilts.

Her family would like to express a special thanks to all of those who cared for her so warmly in her final days at Raybrook Cook unit and Faith Hospice.

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Christos T. Panopoulos - January 01, 1936 - April 05, 2022

Departed: 04/05/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Christos T. Panopoulos, accomplished entrepreneur, avid golfer, grateful philanthropist, shrewd card player, nature lover, proud patriot, faithful servant and true family patriarch, is now at rest.

Chris was the first of five children born to Theodoros and Athanasia Panopoulos, in Dara, Arcadia Greece on January 1, 1936.  Before he emigrated to the United States at the age of 19, he survived two wars which provided the context for many of his most formative experiences.  He was sponsored by his Uncle Xenophon (Panopoulos) Payne, in Chicago where he started to build his American dream.  After working various jobs while learning English, he earned his United States citizenship and attained his cosmetology degree, eventually taking over a small salon in The Pantlind Hotel in Grand Rapids, MI.  He married Joan Vallas in 1964 and together, with their parents, they built Salon Enterprises, which included Panopoulos Salons, Haircuts Plus, and CHIC Cosmetology Schools.  Success with this business afforded them the opportunity to bring his siblings to America to create their own destinies.

Chris was involved in many community organizations including the Grand Valley University Foundation and Metro Health Foundation.  He was honored to be inducted into the West Michigan Businessman Hall of Fame in 2004.  He was an Archon of the Greek Orthodox Church and a member of Leadership 100.  Chris was an outdoorsman who tended to his garden, hunted, fished, and golfed at every opportunity.  He appreciated good food and wine, devoured fresh figs (often from his own trees), and celebrated every occasion.  He loved his native Greece, but he was a proud American, often heard proclaiming “God Bless America!”  Though Chris was proud of his business, his true loves were his church community, his many friends and, above all, his family.

A courageous fighter to the end, Chris battled cancer successfully for many years, against all odds.  He faced that obstacle with the courage, determination, optimism, and perseverance that defined his entire life.  Chris is survived by a loving family including his devoted wife of 57 years Joan, his daughters Paula (late Mark) Hurd, Thania Panopoulos, Alicia (Evan) Magas and Christa (Jason) Bird.  He adored his seven grandchildren: Kelly (Tommy), Kathryn, Nicholas, Jenna, Christos, Sophia, Thano and his great-grandson, Cooper.  He is also survived by his brother Demetrios (Chrysoula) Panopoulos, his sister Iota (George) Mourloukos, his brother-in-law John Pappas, his sister-in-law Connie Vassiliades (late Tony), and many nieces and nephews.  Chris’ friends from Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, Cascade Hills, southern California, and Salon Enterprises were like family to him as well.  Chris was preceded in death by his parents, Athanasia and Theodoros Panopoulos, his sister Lola Pappas and his brother Panos Panopoulos.

He lived with great faith, gratitude, and an infectious love of life.  His family thanks God for his many years and feels blessed beyond measure for the life he and Joan created, the opportunities they provided, and the community they served.  May his memory be eternal.

Visitation will be held on Sunday, April 10th from 3pm-7pm.  Funeral Service will be held on Monday, April 11that 11am.  Both the visitation and funeral service will be held at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 330 Lakeside Drive NE.  Burial service will be private for the family.

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Fred Fichter - February 03, 1926 - April 02, 2022

Departed: 04/02/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Frederick L. Fichter age 96, of Caledonia, passed away at his home on April 2, 2022.  Fred was preceded in death by his wife of 65 years, Dorothy, his son Allen and son in law Martin. He is survived by his daughters, Sue Kloostra and Linda Cole, five grandchildren, Jennifer (Hal) Steppe, Jason (Chrissie) Budrick, Jesse (Gia) Budrick, Kyle Cole and Brian Cole and eight great grandchildren.  A Celebration for Fred will be held Friday, April 15 from 2 to 5pm at the Frederik Meijer Gardens & Sculpture Park.  Memorial contributions are suggested to the Frederik Meijer Gardens & Sculpture Park or a charity of your choice.

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Frank Reynolds Blossom - June 12, 1946 - April 02, 2022

Departed: 04/02/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Frank Reynolds Blossom was at his core a story teller, coach, teacher, and mentor whose gift to the world was helping others bring out the best in themselves. He was a true creative who loved finding new ways to express ideas and solve problems.

His career took him into advertising, where he turned his gift for storytelling into memorable campaigns to help brands find their voice. Frank’s storied career as Creative Director at Leo Burnett, D’Arcy, Noble & Associates and Felder Communications Group propelled top brands like Heinz Ketchup, Maytag and Lay’s Potato Chips into mainstays of American culture. In 2010, Frank was awarded The Silver Medal, the American Advertising Federation’s highest honor to professionals who have made outstanding contributions to the advertising and marketing industry and who have been active in furthering creative excellence and responsibility in areas of social concern.

He developed his coaching voice on the soccer field, using his skills honed as an All-American player at Ohio Wesleyan to coach neighborhood kids and eventually his own daughters in the beautiful game. His coaching turned to teaching when he became a professor of Advertising at Grand Valley State University where he used his experience in the advertising world to create programs and opportunities to help students practice their skills like Yardsticks, Creative Smackdown, GrandPR, and the Bloom Group. He took pride in using his networks to help students land their first internships and jobs, and was always generous with his advice and recommendations. In 2018, following his retirement from GVSU, the Frank Fund Endowment was established as a way to help defray the costs of “non-traditional educational experiences” including creative professional development, conferences, and interviews for cross country opportunities. The endowment was created for creative community members to “give back, so others can move forward” as a way of funding “extra mile” costs for students.

Coming from a family of strong women, including his mother, wife, two daughters and four sisters, he also found ways to contribute outside the classroom, focusing on opportunities for women and girls. He lent his time, energy and creative talents to the Women’s Resource Center, an organization working to empower women in the workplace, served on the Board of ANSWER, an organization supporting girls education in Nepal, and worked with the Pediatric Oncology Resource Team, serving West Michigan families with children battling cancer.

He found joy in helping others, though he was most happy on the porch of the family cottage in Castle Park, carefully selecting an appropriate soundtrack, and regaling visitors over bocce and cocktails with new (and many old) stories.

He had a quirky sense of humor, expressed in his colorful socks and hats, constantly changing flags, and favorite pranks on friends and family. His passion for life and loyalty was only tested by the Chicago sports teams he loved, who taught him lifelong lessons about disappointment and hope for better days.

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Peter White Steketee - May 07, 1940 - March 31, 2022

Departed: 03/31/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Peter White Steketee was born in 1940 to parents Paul “Jack” F. Steketee, Jr. and Marian White Steketee who both predeceased him.  Peter had one sister, Sallie Steketee Warner, who also predeceased him on January 21, 2022.  He is survived by her three daughters and several grand-nieces and grand-nephews.

Peter grew up in East Grand Rapids, attended East Grand Rapids High School and graduated from Phillips Academy, Andover, Massachusetts in 1958.  After graduation he went on to the University of Michigan graduating with high honors in 1962.  He was a member of the ATO fraternity throughout his college years.  He became an avid fan of the University of Michigan football and basketball sports teams and remained a fan his entire life.  After graduation from Michigan, he continued his education at the Harvard Law School graduating with a J.D. degree and high honors in 1965.

Peter leaves behind a family grateful for his love and generosity: loving wife of 58 years, Joan Powers Steketee; children, John Steketee (Tina), Andrew Steketee, and Elizabeth Steketee (Mike Maloney); as well as six grandchildren, Charles Steketee (Kristen Withrow, mother), Jonathan (Jack) Steketee, Henry Steketee, Eleanor Steketee, Imogen (Emma) Maloney, and Benjamin Maloney.  He was devoted to his family and friends and will be greatly missed.

In addition to his devotion to family, Peter was committed to fighting for the natural resources all Michiganders hold so dear, and he leaves a legacy of commitment to conservation.

Peter’s legal career began in 1966 at Pillsbury, Madison and Sutro in San Francisco.  During the four years he practiced there he handled oil and gas matters and was an active member of the Sierra Club.  He was instrumental in San Francisco’s urban renewal of Alamo Square, stopping the development of the Bolinas Lagoon on the San Andreas Fault and the development of parks in San Francisco.

Over the time period of 1967 through 2008, Peter practiced with VanderVeen, Freihofer & Cook in Grand Rapids.  After his association with the VanderVeen law firm, Peter continued practicing law as a sole practitioner, specializing in environmental cases with the West Michigan Environmental Action Council, and Scenic Michigan. In 2009 Peter was awarded a Special Conservation Award by the Michigan United Conservation Clubs (MUCC) for work on the following: *Bottle bill initiative *Deregulation of DDT *MDot – stopping wholesale cutting of roadside trees Capping the number of billboards in Michigan

*Consumers Power – stopping use of plutonium as fuel at their Big Rock Reactor.  As a  result of Peter’s work on the case President Carter issued an executive order suspending the use of plutonium.

One of Peter’s greatest achievements was assisting the West Michigan Environmental Action Council in obtaining passage of the benchmark Michigan Environmental Protection Act of 1970.

In addition, Peter represented MUCC in the dispute over interpretation of the tribal Treaty of Washington of 1836 relating to Great Lakes fishing rights and inland hunting and fishing rights.  Peter spent over 30 years involved in this complex case which was not settled until year 2000.  The foundation laid in the 2000 settlement resulted in a 2007 Inland settlement that protects these resources and provides a fair use of these resources in the future.

In presenting the Special Conservation award, the MUCC described Peter as an extraordinary legal analyst with an encyclopedic knowledge of the history of the issue that was key in its ultimate resolution and his ability to maintain calm and perspective when emotions on this issue were very, very high… by peeling back the layers of those emotions to get to the real issues.

Peter gave freely of this time and expertise for fisheries, wildlife and water quality issues for many, many years.  A big thank you to Peter for his dedication, steadfastness, skill, and legacy of commitment to conservation.

Peter was not “all work and no play.”  He was an accomplished painter in oil and pastel for portraits, florals, and landscapes.  He enjoyed working in his art studio and experimenting with new techniques.  He followed in the footsteps of his grandmother, Sallie Hall Steketee who was a painter, and Helen Steketee.  In addition, Peter took delight in creating cartoons.

Throughout his life Peter seemingly was never without a book in his hand.  He collected a large library of books, many of which were books signed by the author.  He had an encyclopedic knowledge of birds, flowers, rocks – geology, insects, astronomy, and history, much of which he loved to tell his grandchildren about as he walked the trails and wandered the woods Up North.

Perhaps fly fishing was the hobby Peter enjoyed the most.  He loved fishing for trout at his cottage on the Little South Branch of the Pere Marquette River and in Colorado.  He could fish for hours on end.

Over his lifetime Peter enjoyed travels to San Francisco, Colorado, and Nantucket Island, Massachusetts with his family for vacations.

In later life Peter spent several years residing at Green House #2 in Cook Valley Estates, Grand Rapids, Michigan.  He exhibited a great sense of humor, was quick with a laugh, and entertained fellow residents with stories and jokes around the dinner table. A private family ceremony is planned.  The family wishes to thank all the staff who cared for Peter during the time re resided at Green House #2, as well as Emmanuel Hospice for their special care and support of Peter.  Please, no flowers.  A memorial contribution may be made to either of the following: The Land Conservancy of West Michigan 400 Ann Street NE, Suite #102 Grand Rapids, MI 49504 Or Addison Gallery of American Art/Phillips Academy 3 Chapel Avenue Andover, MA 01810

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Casey Gillespie - April 09, 1959 - March 24, 2022

Departed: 03/24/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Brian Casey Gillespie, known by friends and family as Casey, passed away on March 24, 2022 at the age of 62 after a courageous battle with lung cancer. He was surrounded in person and in prayer by his loved ones.

Casey was born in Grand Rapids, Michigan. With the exception of his years at Gilmour Academy for boarding school, he spent his entire life in Grand Rapids. He attended Aquinas College before working with his father, Irving Gillespie, at Gillespie Sales Engineering Company. He went on to serve as the President and CEO for over forty years.

There was no sport that Casey didn’t succeed at. He was an incredible golfer, tennis player, skier, and biker. He loved reading and movies, and could be found on Saturday mornings watching cult classics in the living room. He was a Jeopardy champion and a master at word games. Casey also had a passion for service to others and was a loyal steward to his community and church.

More than anything, Casey was deeply dedicated to his family and friends. He met the love of his life, Nancy, volunteering with the Grand Rapids Jaycees. They were married for 32 wonderful years. He loved his siblings, children, nieces and nephews unconditionally. He was known for his beautiful, thoughtful letters, infectious laugh, and warm smile.

Casey is survived by his wife, Nancy; sons Colin (Lauren) and Stephen; daughter, Meredith; brothers Irving Jr. and Michael; sisters Patricia (David) and Kathleen (Debra); and many cousins, aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews. Visitation will be held at Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Home (4291 Cascade Road in Grand Rapids) on Friday, April 8 from 5-8 p.m. A funeral mass will be held on April 9, Casey’s birthday, at St. Robert of Newminster Catholic Church (6477 Ada Drive in Ada) at 11:00 a.m. A short visitation will be held before mass in the Narthex at 10:00 a.m.

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Richard K. Cardinal - October 12, 1937 - March 23, 2022

Departed: 03/23/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Richard Kenneth Cardinal, age 84, of Kentwood passed away peacefully on Wednesday, March 23, 2022 at his home surrounded by his loving family.

Richard was born in Belding Michigan on October 12, 1937 the son of Kenneth and Idell (Stieg) Cardinal. He graduated from Belding High School class of 1955. He served in the Navy Reserve from 1954 to 1962. He worked as a Manufacturing Supervisor at Westing House/Knoll Furniture Systems. After his retirement, he worked part time at Menards and enjoyed helping others with his knowledge and skill in handyman work and house renovation.

In 1955, he married his best friend and the love of his life Kay Arlene (Hardy) Cardinal who passed in December 2012. He was also preceded in death by his son Scott. Surviving are his son David (Lisa) Cardinal and daughter Georgia (Andre) Campos. Also, surviving are his four grandchildren Anthony Guitierrez, Garrett Cardinal, Lindsay Murphy and Madison Sutton and his seven great grandchildren Siana, Simone, Mateo, Braeden, Coulter, Vada and Graycen. He is also survived by his 3 brothers Gene, Jerry and Tom Cardinal.

The family is planning a celebration of life service with the immediate family on Tuesday March 29, 2022.

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Nancy Freyermuth - February 08, 1924 - March 15, 2022

Departed: 03/15/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: On Tuesday March 15, 2022, Nancy Lee Freyermuth, 98, passed away peacefully and entered into her Heavenly home.  She was born on February 8, 1924 in Cincinnati, Ohio to the late Robert and Grace Lee.  Nancy lived in Ada where she was involved in the community for many years.  She was the wedding director and longtime member at East Congregational Church.  She loved antiques, Perry Como, The Andy Griffith Show, Martha Stewart and spending time with her family.  She will be greatly missed.

Nancy is survived by her son Tom (Peg) Freyermuth, grandchildren Allison Freyermuth, John Freyermuth, Carey (Jen) Lascari and great grandchildren Lucy Jane Fravel and Kyle and Tyler Rampanelli.  She was preceded in death by her husband Hubert, and daughter and son-in-law Sue and Wally Blanksma.

A private graveside service will be held at Ada Cemetery at a later date.

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Mary Jane VanOosten - January 31, 1928 - March 13, 2022

Departed: 03/13/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Mary Jane (VandenBerge) VanOosten, age 94, began her eternal life through faith in Jesus Christ on Sunday, March 13, 2022, surrounded by her family.  Mary Jane was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother who will be dearly missed.  Fondly known as “Gaga” to many, she had an amazing zest for life, an engaging personality, and a selfless interest in others.

Mary Jane was a graduate of Western Michigan College (now University) and taught in Grand Rapids public schools.  After raising her family, she was a substitute teacher for Forest Hills Public Schools.  Gaga loved her Hidden Lake, and she loved long walks on her beach at Lake Michigan.  She was blessed with the opportunity to travel many places around the world with her loving husband, Jim, family, and friends.

Mary Jane was preceded in death by her parents Adrian and Deane VandenBerge, brother Howard (Nancy) VandenBerge, husband of 55 years Jim VanOosten, and granddaughter Dr. Lindsey Marie Okoroafo.  She is survived by her children Jamie (Bob) Jedele, Cathie Daane, Patti (Steve) Bohatch; her grandchildren Heather (Jeff) Miller, Paul (Kara) Jedele, Tim (Kate) Jedele, Mark (Shelby) Jedele, Katya (Ethan) Wyant and Reesie Bohatch; great grandchildren Landon, Lydia and Elsie Miller, Mason and Marley Jo Jedele, Owen and Ava Jedele, Phoenix Jedele; brother-in-law David Schick.

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Rickey L. Olson - January 14, 1949 - March 12, 2022

Departed: 03/12/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Rickey Leo Olson fell asleep in the Lord on March 12, 2022.  He was born on January 14, 1949 in Manton Michigan to his parents Albert and Alice Olson on their living room sofa.  He was a proud Marine Corps Veteran of the Vietnam War. He was honored as a Purple Heart recipient and was held with the utmost respect as a soldier and a man from his Marine Corps brothers.

He lived in Grand Rapids Michigan and raised a family of 6 children and 20 grandchildren through his years. He retired from GM and enjoyed his retirement playing golf, attending his grandchildren's events and wintering in Florida.  Rick lived a full life. He loved God, his wife Marian, his siblings, children, and grandchildren fiercely and they all loved him in the same fashion.

He is Survived by his wife Marian Olson; Children: Rickey Leo Jr (Emily) Olson, Stacey Bauer, Annie (Patrick) VanSandlyne, Chadd Olson, Benjamin Olson, Amanda (Joey) Detmer, PJ (Jennifer) Morgrette, Todd Morgrette; Siblings: Roger (Marcia) Olson, Rocky (Kate) Olson, Carol (Bob) DeWitt, Tammy (Scott) Bravata and Ricky (Holly) Marshall And 20 Grandchildren, Gresham, Cecelia, Sophia, Joseph, Joshua, Aidia, Dahlia, Innes, Aksel, Hayddon, Patience, Levi, Bently, Aillah, Millie Mae, Adelie, Brayden, Maddie, Austin, Ellie.

Funeral Services will be held at 11am on Wednesday March 23rd at St. Nicholas Orthodox Church, 2250 East Paris Ave Grand Rapids, MI 49546.  The family will greet relatives and friends for a visitation on Tuesday at the Metcalf and Jonkhoff Funeral Home from 5-8pm with a Trisagion Service at 7pm and also at the church on Wednesday from 10-11am.  Interment will be at Chapel Hill Memorial Gardens.  The funeral service will be live streamed at https://stnicholasgr.com/watch-live/.  Memorial contributions may be made to POW-MIA (https://www.pow-miafamilies.org/).

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Gaylord R. Terwilliger - Unknown - March 12, 2022

Departed: 03/12/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: The Rev. Gaylord R. Terwilliger of Grand Rapids, age 87, went to be with the Lord on Saturday, March 12, 2022.

Gaylord was born in Battle Creek, MI on October 2, 1934, the son of Silas and Fern (Martin) Terwilliger.  He graduated from Bellevue High School in 1952 and from the Grand Rapids School of the Bible and Music in 1955.  Over the years he pastored several churches, including Belmont Bible, Green Lake Calvary, Calvary Bible Church in Mt. Morris, MI, Grace Bible Church in Peoria, IL, and Faith Bible Church near Peoria, IL.  In his latter years he served as a hospital visitation pastor at Calvary Church in Grand Rapids.

He is survived by his wife of 67 years, Jean (Brocker) Terwilliger, their children Michael (Sally) Terwilliger of Grand Rapids, Steven (Nancy) Terwilliger of northern Michigan, Cindy (Randy) Parr of Mapleton, IL, 8 grand children and 4 great-grand children.  He is also survived by his sister Yvonne Herwich of Kansas, and preceded in death by his sister Lulabelle Sherbert, and brothers Wendell Terwilliger and Albert Elston Terwilliger.

The family will receive friends at Calvary Church, 707 E. Beltline NE, Grand Rapids, from 10:00 to 11:00am on Monday, March 21.  The service celebrating his life will follow at 11:00am, with Josh Warren officiating.  The family is being served by Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Home.

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Marilynn M. Jewell - October 16, 1927 - March 10, 2022

Departed: 03/10/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Marilynn Miller Jewell, aged 94, passed away on Thursday, March 10, 2022. Marilynn was born to George and Herma Miller on October 16, 1927, in Jackson, Michigan. At the age of ten she moved with her family to Erie, Pennsylvania. She attended Strong Vincent High School, graduating early, as salutatorian, at age sixteen. She attended Mercyhurst College under a full scholarship, where she graduated, as valedictorian, with a major in German, and minors in English, Latin, Spanish, and Chemistry. After teaching Spanish, Latin, German, and English at the High School level, Marilynn was offered a position at Mercyhurst College, teaching German, English, and Latin. In 1981 she took a sabbatical to earn a PhD from University of Michigan in Higher Education. She remained at Mercyhurst College for the remainder of her career, retiring as full Professor in 1993 at age sixty-five.

Marilynn married Ken in 1948, with whom she had four children. She is survived by three of their children: Christine Jewell and her husband, William Abbott; Raymond Jewell and his wife, Donatella; William Jewell and his wife Carol; and Rosemary Jewell, widow of Marilynn’s son Kenneth R. Jewell, who predeceased her —eight grandchildren: Mitchell Jewell, his wife Victoria, and their child Isabel; Douglas Jewell; Martin Lochner, his wife Renee, and their children Clover and Forrest; Samuel Lochner, his wife Brandy, and their child Charlie; Kevin Jewell; Kendra Jewell Knight, her husband Graham Knight, and their child Rhea; Laura Jewell Novack, her husband Douglas Novack, and their children Madison and Lucas; Carley Jewell, her husband Ben Bouman, and their child Bennett.

Marilynn loved learning—learning everything—and devoted her life to learning and teaching. She  was very dedicated to her students, and was much loved and respected by them. She especially enjoyed leading many Educational Tours to Europe, where she would teach her students about the history, culture, and languages of many European countries. She also led a group of fellow professors on an educational trip to Egypt, where she very much enjoyed learning and teaching about Egyptian culture and history. Marilynn was keenly interested in other cultures and countries her whole life, and was a curious and adventurous traveler in Europe and Asia.

Even with her full life teaching and learning, Marilynn was a devoted and caring mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She will be remembered for her guidance, support, her love for family and our many collie dogs, her wisdom and her chocolate chip cookies.

A memorial service celebrating her life will be held at 11am on Wednesday March 16th at the Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Home with visitation one hour before the service.

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Phyllis A. Sirotko - January 20, 1939 - March 09, 2022

Departed: 03/09/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Phyllis A. Sirotko, age 83 of Grand Rapids, formerly of Whitehall-Montague, fell asleep in the Lord Jesus Christ, whom she loved her entire life, on Wednesday, March 9, 2022.

She was born in Pontiac, Michigan January 20, 1939 to Arnold and Esther Bourziel who were teachers and musicians.  Phyllis loved music, especially classical and jazz.  She played flute, piano, guitar and had a beautiful voice.  Mrs. Sirotko held a Bachelor of Science in Nursing from The University of Michigan and was a Registered Nurse.

Phyllis raised four children while moving around the world, from Germany to Hawaii.  She was a stellar example of an Army Chaplain’s and parish priest’s wife; a mother, musician, gardener, and community volunteer extraordinaire.  She received the highest award, “Volunteer in Public Service,” at Fort Knox, Kentucky, for exceeding 4,500 volunteer hours with organizations like the Red Cross, English/ESL, Special Olympics, community orchestras & jazz bands, and Covenant House.

Phyllis married the great love of her life, Theodore F. Sirotko, May 5, 1962. They met while singing in the church choir.  Surviving is her husband, Fr. Ted; daughters MaryAnne Sirotko-Turner (John III) of Atlanta and Kathleen (David) Bower of Cincinnati; sons Stephen Sirotko of Norfolk and Michael Sirotko (Angela) of Allendale; grandchildren: Eva Bower, Nicholas Sirotko, Nathaniel Sirotko, and Noah Sirotko; and numerous cousins and extended family coast-to-coast.

Funeral services will be held on Saturday, March 12 at St. Nicholas Antiochian Orthodox Church, 2250 E. Paris Avenue SE, Grand Rapids. Visitation from 10am to 12pm, Service at 12:00pm, with Meal of Mercy following.

Memorial Contributions may be made to St. Nicholas Antiochian Orthodox Church, Clark Foundation-Benevolent Fund, or Emmanuel Hospice.

Below is a link to live stream the service live on Saturday. https://stnicholasgr.com/watch-live/

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Wilhelm W. Seeger - May 07, 1936 - March 09, 2022

Departed: 03/09/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Wilhelm (Bill) Werner Seeger, age 85, of Alaska, MI, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, March 9, 2022.  Bill was born on May 7, 1936 to parents Emilie and William Seeger.  Bill was preceded in death by his wife of over 55 years, Dr. Mary Anderson Seeger; and cousin Karl Gustav Siebert.  Surviving are his brother Dr. Joachim (Polly) Seeger; niece Cindy (Dan) Ciruli; nephew Steven (Ashley) Seeger; three great nieces and two great nephews; cousin Christel (Siebert) Timmers; and Sisters-In-Law Kathryn George Johnson and Jane Elizabeth El Shami.  Bill started his education at Immanuel Lutheran School and graduated from Central High School. He then went on to earn degrees from Grand Rapids Community College, the University of Michigan and his doctorate at the University of Wisconsin.  He was proud of his German heritage which led him to a career in teaching German studies at Grand Valley State University where he taught for over 40 years. He played a vital role in laying the foundation for GVSU's International Education Program in 1967, by asking his German relatives to take in GVSU students.

Growing up above The Schnitzelbank Resturant (on Jefferson Avenue-Grand Rapids), Bill's first language was German. Later in life, he reminisced about cleaning tables and bar-tending as a young adult. The Schnitzelbank Restaurant was established by his grandparents, Gustav and Martha Horn who settled in Grand Rapids, after emigrating from Germany in the 1920's with their daughters Charlotte and Emilie.  Joe Seeger and the Seeger family would like  to express their appreciation to Bill and Joe’s “niece”, Kathy Timmers Sebel, for the loving care and support she gave Bill and Mary during these last few years.

Donations in his honor can be made to a charity of your choice.

A private memorial for family and friends will be held at a later date.

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William " Mike " Conlin - Unknown - March 07, 2022

Departed: 03/07/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: William Michael "Mike" Conlin left this earth on March 7, 2022, after a brief illness, ending a great run of 94 years. He was born in Brookfield, Missouri, where he developed a keen love of aviation. Mike would frequent the Salinas airfields and hitch rides on flights there from friendly pilots, including one ride that he took to Florida with no return plan, prompting a call to his tolerant mother that he would get back in a few days. After graduating high school, he served in World War II in British Guiana. His love for all things aviation and flight was a personal passion and also became the focus of his professional life. A move to Los Angeles, California lead to both his first job at Western Airlines, and his introduction to Margaret Jarmer. They married and eventually moved to East Grand Rapids, Michigan, where they raised their two daughters, while Mike held managerial positions for numerous aviation-related businesses. He then moved on to hold roles with Lear Jet in Wichita Kansas , then moved to Dallas working as the U.S. face of the French helicopter firm Sfena. This led to his love of France and many happy trips to the country - including a 2001 trip to Paris with his entire family. After a brief attempt at retirement he and Margaret formed Merlin, a successful aviation consulting practice. He and Margaret both received their pilot licenses and enjoyed flying to many locations around the U.S. They traveled to all seven continents, with particular highlights being Antarctica, New Zealand, and Singapore - and while they were home, they volunteered for the Frontiers of Flight Aviation Museum in Dallas. Margaret passed away after a long illness in 2016. He was then fortunate to find new love and happiness with Glenda and they married in 2018. Glenda and Mike spent the last four years together at Porter Hills Retirement Village in Grand Rapids, where they enjoyed attending St. Thomas church, visiting with family and traveling to Greece, Pentwater, Traverse City and the U.P. Mike was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather. He was a devout Catholic and rarely missed a Sunday mass - no matter where his world travels took him. And he was a sharp thinker, with a keen recollection of his travels that he shared in vivid stories with his family and he followed national and international news with great interest. We are grateful for the compassionate and professional care he received at Blodgett hospital. Mike was predeceased by Margaret Conlin and infant son David. Mike is survived by his wife Glenda Conlin; daughters Margot Shirley (Gary Johnson) and Rosemary Conlin (Mikel Cahill); grandchildren Matt Furjanic (Jen Trompeter) Melanie Ryan (Dave Ryan), Lucy Cahill, and Nina Cahill; and great grandchildren Parker Ryan, Elliot Ryan, and Grayson Furjanic. The funeral will be held at St Rita's Catholic church in Dallas, on March 25. A memorial will be at Porter Hills Town Square on Wednesday March 16 at 11 a.m.

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Joan Marie Lynch - December 28, 1930 - February 24, 2022

Departed: 02/24/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Joan Marie Lynch – called Joanne by her husband and Nonee by her grandchildren – passed away peacefully on Feb. 24, 2022, holding the hands of her children. She was 91, and in the days preceding her death, she declared it was time to “go home.”

Joan was born on Dec. 28, 1930, in New Boston Township, Mich., and grew up in Saginaw. She graduated from Saint Peter and Paul High School in 1948 and met Edward Lynch – Pete, as she called him – shortly afterward on a blind date. They married on Nov. 17, 1951, and had four children: Michael, Tracey, Peter, and Dan. Joan and Pete moved to Lapeer in 1957, where Pete served as superintendent of schools and Joan formed friendships that would last decades. They lived in Lapeer for 27 years before moving back to Saginaw – first into Joan’s mother’s home after her mother, Maude, died, and then to a small ranch home with a blue bedroom and a talking car – a Chrysler experiment that never took.

In 1990, Joan and Pete moved to Grand Rapids and across Plainfield Ave. from Tracey and her family, ensuring Tracey’s three children would be exposed to infinite “Nonee-isms.” Joan often asked rhetorically, “Who has more fun than people?” and no one had more fun than her grandchildren. Visits with Nonee included trips to Showbiz Pizza (and later Chuck E. Cheese), baskets of fish at Long John Silver’s, and shopping at Meijer Thrifty Acres. Raised during the Great Depression, Joan understood the value of a dollar, and she bestowed her budgeting tips and tricks on anyone who would listen.

A self-proclaimed VIP – Very Irish Person – Joan was a devout Catholic, attending Mass every Sunday at St. Jude Parish, where she also helped count weekly tithing. She was especially proud to see her son, Peter, be ordained as a Deacon in 2017. In her final days at Boulder Creek Memory Care, despite the dementia that cruelly took too many of her memories, she still could recite her Hail Mary’s and participate in the Rosary. Joan is preceded in death by her parents, John and Maude Clark, her beloved husband, Pete, her eldest son, Michael, her brother, John, and her sisters Audrey Speckhard, Colleen Auld, and Christine Rutherford. She is survived by her children: Tracey (Floyd) Champagne of Grand Rapids, Rev. Mr. Peter (Kathy) Lynch of Lapeer, and the Honorable Judge Dan (Carolyn) Lynch of Concord, NH, as well as nine grandchildren, nine great-grandchildren, and dozens of nieces and nephews. While her family will miss her dearly, Joan always reminded them that “time goes by.”

A funeral Mass and celebration of life is scheduled for 11 a.m. on Monday, Feb. 28, at St. Jude, 1120 4 Mile Rd., Grand Rapids. The family will receive visitors from 10-11 a.m. in the church vestibule just prior to the funeral Mass. Interment at Saint Peter and Paul Cemetery in Wyoming will be private.

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Donna K. Stuit - October 18, 1936 - February 23, 2022

Departed: 02/23/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Donna Kae Stuit, age 85 of Grand Rapids, went to be with her Lord and Savior on Wednesday the 23rd of February 2022.   Donna was preceded in death by her loving husband Ronald in 2014.  She is survived by her son Jeff, daughter Susan Shaw (John), granddaughter Allison Shaw, brother-in-law Robert Stuit, as well as many nieces and nephews.  She was also preceded in death by her parents Glenn and Audie Thompson, twin sister Dortha Forslund, and her older sister Alyce Poulson.

Donna was born in 1936 at her parents’ farmhouse on Cascade Rd in Grand Rapids Township, along with her twin sister Dortha. They shared a profoundly close bond as identical twins throughout their lives, and Dortha was on Donna’s mind even the day before her passing.  Donna graduated from Ottawa Hills High School, attended Grand Rapids Junior College where she met Ron, and together they attended Michigan State University, graduated in 1958 and then married. Donna went on to earn her Master of Education degree which she employed during 25 plus years of teaching, mostly the 3rd grade at Ada School in the Forest Hills School District. When not focused on her students, Donna loved tending to her family, her friends, and her beloved home on the Thornapple River in Cascade where she and Ron resided for nearly 60 years.

Donna had the most caring of spirits and a wonderful sense of humor.  Even as her body and mind declined in recent years, she was able to have fun and enjoy life.  The family wishes to thank the amazing staff at Sunrise of Cascade and Hospice of Michigan, and all the loving family and friends who have supported them during Donna’s journey to her heavenly home.

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Dorothy J. Gordon - Unknown - February 18, 2022

Departed: 02/18/2022 (Grand Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy Jean Gordon loving mother, grandmother, great grandmother and wife of Paul Gordon, died on Feb. 18th at the age of 97 surrounded by her loving family.  Dottie was born in Greensburg, PA and was the daughter of George and Bertha Duncan.  The family moved to Hillsdale, MI and in 1941 she enrolled at Wheaton College where she met Paul Gordon.  After the war they were married (1948) and started their 60 year adventure together.

In addition to starting a family, Dottie was instrumental in helping build Gordon Food Service into the company it is today.  She served with humility, often behind the scenes, and was a blessing to so many people in the company whose lives she touched.

Paul and Dottie were active members of Berean Baptist Church throughout their lives and served in many ways.  They also devoted summers to Gull Lake Ministries, where Dottie helped lead Lady’s Day Retreats for over 25 years.

They loved to entertain, especially at the cottage, and welcomed whoever showed up at the back door with a meal and a bed if they needed one.

They also loved to travel, often visiting missionaries they supported around the world.  They included their kids and grandkids on several family trips to Africa, South America and Israel.

Dottie was a terrific athlete and never lost her love of sports, especially golf. And they loved spending Saturday afternoons in the fall at the Big House.

Mom was most of all devoted to her family and her  Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. She was a rock, strong and faithful in every crisis that came along.  As she aged she was always sweet and positive, full of grace, joy and gratitude. She was a wonderful example of what it truly means to love the Lord with all your heart, soul, mind and strength.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Paul, in 2008.  She is survived by her four children, Dan (Magee) Gordon, Connie (Terry) Metzger, Jim (Bonnie) Gordon and Joyce (Ron) Williams.  And her 16 grandchildren, Molly (Kevin) Guzniczak, Katybeth (Caleb) Halulko, Tommy (Kristy) Gordon, Ben Metzger, Britt Metzger, Melissa (Marty) Biles, Tim (Alyson) Metzger, Laura (Ben Harrison), Kara (Andy) Warren, Bryan (Leah) Gordon, Krista Gordon, Kimmy (Matt) Rorech, Kelly (Mike) Hiskes, Erin (Philip) McClarty, Courtney (Sean) Cox, Paige (Ben) Rasmussen, Blake Williams and fiancé Haley Brennan.  And 36 great grandchildren.

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Services Offered by Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service

Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service offers a wide range of services to help families plan and conduct meaningful funerals, memorial services, and celebrations of life. From traditional funeral services to cremation options, the funeral home provides personalized support every step of the way. Some of the services offered include:

- Traditional funeral services with visitation and burial

- Cremation services with memorialization options

- Celebration of life services

- Memorial services

- Graveside services

- Veteran's services

The team at Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service understands that every family is unique, and they work closely with each family to create a personalized service that honors their loved one's memory.

The Facilities at Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service

The facilities at Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service are designed to provide a comfortable and welcoming environment for families and friends to gather and pay their respects. The funeral home features:

- A spacious chapel with seating for over 200 guests

- A cozy reception area for family gatherings and receptions

- A private family room for quiet reflection and conversation

- Ample parking for guests

The facilities are well-maintained and tastefully decorated, providing a peaceful atmosphere for families to say goodbye to their loved ones.

The Team at Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service

The team at Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service is comprised of experienced and compassionate professionals who are dedicated to providing exceptional care to families. The staff includes licensed funeral directors, embalmers, and support staff who work together to ensure that every detail is taken care of. The team is led by experienced funeral directors who have spent years honing their skills and providing comfort to grieving families.

Pre-Planning Services at Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service

Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service understands the importance of pre-planning funeral arrangements. By planning ahead, individuals can ensure that their wishes are respected, alleviate financial burdens on their loved ones, and gain peace of mind knowing that their affairs are in order. The funeral home offers pre-planning services that allow individuals to:

- Make informed decisions about their funeral arrangements

- Choose from a variety of options to suit their needs and budget

- Lock in prices at today's rates

- Ensure that their wishes are documented and respected

Community Involvement at Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service

Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service is committed to giving back to the Grand Rapids community. The funeral home participates in various community events and supports local charities and organizations. Some of the ways they give back include:

- Hosting seminars and workshops on topics related to grief, loss, and end-of-life care

- Partnering with local hospices and healthcare organizations to provide educational resources and support

- Supporting local charities and fundraising events

- Providing free resources and guidance to families in need

Why Choose Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service?

When it comes to choosing a funeral home, families have many options. So why choose Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service? Here are just a few reasons why:

- Personalized service: The team at Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service takes the time to get to know each family and tailor their services to meet their unique needs.

- Experience: With years of experience serving the Grand Rapids community, the team at Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service has developed a deep understanding of what families need during difficult times.

- Compassion: The staff at Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service is comprised of compassionate professionals who genuinely care about the families they serve.

- Reputation: Metcalf & Jonkhoff Funeral Service has built a reputation for excellence in the Grand Rapids community, earning trust from families who have come to rely on their expertise.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and funeral or memorial services.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

Obituaries are often written by family members, close friends, or funeral home staff. In some cases, a professional obituary writer may be hired to craft the notice.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral or memorial services.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and personal preference. Typically, they range from 100 to 500 words.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Where are obituaries typically published?

Obituaries are often published in local newspapers, online obituary websites, funeral home websites, and social media platforms.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and location. Some newspapers and online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge a fee based on the length of the obituary or additional features such as photos or videos.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it is possible to write your own obituary in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life story is told in your own words.

What is an online obituary?

An online obituary is a digital version of a traditional print obituary. It can include multimedia elements such as photos, videos, and audio clips, as well as allow for online condolences and guestbook signatures.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and requirements. Some newspapers may have online submission forms or accept email submissions.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it has been published?

In most cases, corrections or updates can be made to an obituary after it has been published. However, this may depend on the publication's policies and deadlines.

What is a memorial website?

A memorial website is an online platform where friends and family can share memories, photos, and stories about the deceased. It can serve as a permanent tribute to their life and legacy.

How long do online obituaries remain available?

The duration that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform or publication. Some may keep them archived indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period.

Can I include photos or other multimedia in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow for the inclusion of photos, videos, or audio clips in an obituary. These can help to personalize the tribute and celebrate the person's life.

What is the purpose of an obituary headline?

The headline serves as a brief summary of the person's life and helps readers quickly identify the content of the obituary.

Can I write an anonymous obituary?

In most cases, it is not recommended to write an anonymous obituary. Obituaries are meant to be a public tribute to the deceased and provide accurate information about their life.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites. Local libraries or historical societies may also have archives of past newspapers that can be searched.

Can I reuse an existing obituary template?

Yes, many templates are available online that can be used as a starting point for writing an obituary. Be sure to customize it to fit the individual's unique life and personality.

What is the role of an obituary in the grieving process?

An obituary can serve as a therapeutic outlet for those grieving, allowing them to process their emotions and celebrate the life of their loved one.

Can I include quotes or poetry in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or poetry can be a meaningful way to add depth and personality to an obituary. Choose pieces that resonate with the person's values or spirit.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

Contact the publication or platform immediately if you notice any errors or inaccuracies in an obituary. They will work with you to correct the mistake as soon as possible.

What is the significance of including funeral or memorial service details in an obituary?

Including this information allows friends and family to attend the service and pay their respects to the deceased. It also provides closure for those who cannot attend in person.

Can I create a custom design for my loved one's obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms offer custom design options for obituaries. You can work with their designers to create a unique layout that reflects your loved one's personality.

How do I share an online obituary with others?

You can share an online obituary via social media platforms, email, or messaging apps. You can also provide a link to the obituary on funeral programs or other printed materials.