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Martha Luzelle Teehee - April 21, 1943 - May 20, 2024

Departed: 05/20/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Martha Luzelle Teehee.

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Thomas R. Saulters - January 21, 1942 - May 20, 2024

Departed: 05/20/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Thomas R. Saulters.

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Rita LaFern Morrison - March 26, 1943 - May 19, 2024

Departed: 05/19/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Rita LaFern Morrison.

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Robert Allen Light - June 15, 1959 - May 19, 2024

Departed: 05/19/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Robert Allen Light, 64, of Oklahoma City, passed away early Sunday, May 19, 2024, after a brave battle with cancer. Family surrounded him.

Bob, a native of Oklahoma City, was born on June 15, 1959, to Milford and Dorothy Light. He was a proud Northwest Classen High School graduate, where he first crossed paths with his future wife, Valicia Neitzel. Their union in November, 1980, was blessed with a daughter, Terri Lynn, in 1981. Bob's professional journey led him to the signage industry, where he thrived as a workflow specialist, leaving a lasting impact during his tenure at S&S Promotions, Inc.

Bob's love for sports was unparalleled, with a particular fondness for ice hockey, college football, and auto racing. His passion for winning extended beyond the spectator's seat, as he captained the 1997 Sooner State Games gold medal-champion roller hockey team. However, it was in the realm of racing radio-controlled cars that Bob truly shone, demonstrating his exceptional skill and dedication.

“Bullet” Bob's racing career began in 1980, when he first competed in local R/C car races. His talent was undeniable, and he quickly ascended through the regional ranks, establishing himself as a formidable competitor in Oklahoma and Texas. In 1982, he made his mark on the national stage, finishing an impressive 9th in his first national championship appearance in Indianapolis. His success continued to soar, with notable achievements including being the top qualifier in the ROAR 1/12th-scale national championship race in 1986 and representing the United States at the IFMAR World Championship in Las Vegas, where he finished sixth. His dedication, skill, and love for the sport were truly remarkable, and his achievements will forever be a source of pride for his family, friends, and the R/C racing community.

Bob won consecutive 1/10th-scale On-Road National Championships in 1988 and 1989 and the NORRCA Sprint Car Dirt Oval Championship in 1990.

In 1992, Bob dominated the NORRCA Oval National Championships, earning Top Qualifier and race wins on pavement and dirt. He repeated as pavement champion in 1993. After traveling the world, racing in locales such as Singapore, the Netherlands, and Japan, Bob returned to competing locally, where he rarely lost at his home track, Competition R/C.

Bob was preceded in death by his wife of 36 years, Valicia Light (ne Neitzel). He is survived by his daughter, Terri Bosnyak, son-in-law Barry Bosnyak, and grandsons Henry and Oliver; his parents, Milford and Dorothy Light; brother, Charles; brother, Jason and wife Kelly Rains; many cousins; and a large extended family of racers, race fans, close friends, and co-workers.

Memorial services will be held at Mercer-Adams Chapel in Bethany, Oklahoma, at 2:00 pm on Thursday, May 23, 2024.

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Dwight Ray Hyde - November 19, 1947 - May 17, 2024

Departed: 05/17/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Dwight Ray Hyde, 76, passed away May 17, 2024, at his home in Oklahoma City. He was born November 19, 1947, to Ralph and Lucille (Andrews) Hyde in LaGrande, Oregon. He was a graduate of John Marshall High School. Dwight married Gwendolyn Lamb on September 9, 1972.

Dwight enjoyed a career as an insurance agent, specializing in long term care. He owned his own business, Hyde and Associates, and was associated with Banker’s Life and Casualty as well as Old Surety. He was an active member of Metropolitan Bible Church and was a part of the Wednesday morning men’s Bible study group.

When Dwight’s children were young, he loved coaching their ball teams and going on family vacations. In later years, Dwight enjoyed skeet shooting with old friends and being with his beloved grandchildren, “Mister and Punkin,” as much as he could.

Dwight was preceded in death by his parents; wife, Gwen; and daughter, Rhaelynn Hyde. He is survived by his son, Daryl Hyde and wife Jessica; brother, Gordon Hyde; and two grandchildren, Dane and Hannah.

Funeral services will be held on Wednesday, May 22, 10:00am, at Metropolitan Bible Church with interment in Memorial Park Cemetery. Viewing at the church will begin one hour prior to the service.

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John Laverne Wells - January 19, 1929 - May 15, 2024

Departed: 05/15/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for John Laverne Wells.

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George David Goodner - May 16, 1929 - May 13, 2024

Departed: 05/13/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: George D. Goodner, 94, of Oklahoma City, passed away on May 13, 2024,

just three days before his 95th birthday. Born in Idabel, Oklahoma, George attended high school in his hometown before pursuing his education. He earned a Bachelor's degree in Mathematics from the University of Texas at El Paso. A proud

fan of the OSU Cowboys, he also spent time at Oklahoma State University. George began his career in El Paso before relocating to Dallas and Arizona. His dedication and expertise led him to transition careers, where he served many years with the Bureau of Indian

Affairs, leaving a lasting impact on the communities he served. True to his nature, George's greatest passion was for his family. He traveled the world with his wife, JoAnn, making friends everywhere they went. Always supportive, he encouraged his children and

grandchildren in all their endeavors, taking a genuine interest in their lives. A devout member of his church, George found joy in serving wherever they lived. He proudly served in the US Army as a surveyor and was awarded the Native American Korean War Veteran

Ambassador of Peace Medal in 2021. He took great pride in his Choctaw heritage. George is survived by his wife of almost 70 years, JoAnn Goolsby Goodner; his daughters, Darla Ures (John) and Vicki Caldwell (Gerald); four grandchildren, Zach Ures, Jake Ures (Betsy), Kelley

Brown (Drew), and Will Caldwell (Tiffany); and three great-grandchildren, Grace, Walker, and Annie Brown. George was preceded in death by his parents, Georgia and Esley; a granddaughter, Adrienne Ures; his grandmother, Nancy Forbes Victor; his aunt, Wilma L. Victor; and his uncle, Frank (Bob) Victor,

who were all like second family to him. A celebration of life will be held at 1:00 pm on Saturday, May 25

at Western Oaks Christian Church, 8100 NW 23rd Street, Oklahoma City, OK.

Inurnment will take place in Dallas-Fort Worth National Cemetery.

George's legacy of love, service, and faith will forever be cherished by those who knew him.

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Donnalene "Donna" June Myers - November 02, 1932 - May 10, 2024

Departed: 05/10/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Donnalene June Myers was born November 2, 1932 and passed away May 10, 2024.

Donnalene grew up in and around Grant County, Oklahoma.

She was preceded in death by her husband and first son.

She is survived by her second son and wife; her grandson and his wife; and great grandson.

She loved to play games, spend time with family and watch football.

Her final resting place will be New Home Cemetery in Nash, Oklahoma.

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Jina Beth Tolle - November 15, 1975 - May 09, 2024

Departed: 05/09/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Jina Beth Tolle, 48, passed away May 9, 2024 in her home in Yukon, OK. She was born

November 15 in McAlester, OK. Jina and the incredibly average Chad Tolle have been married for nearly 23 years. She lived a life full of Jesus and her two sons, Payton and Charlie. Ever a Tigger, she attended thousands of baseball, football, and basketball games and practices, and always treated their teammates

as her sons. Jina met Chad while working at a bank and then spent years serving in homerooms, churches, and ballfields. Later, Jina founded and led a successful home inspection company, and joined Citizens Bank of Edmond. She was an active member of Crossings Community Church. Jina

graduated from Okmulgee High School and the University of Oklahoma. Jina was preceded in death by her father, Bill Wallace; mother-in-law, Glenda Farris Tolle, and grandparents. She is survived by her loving husband, Chad; sons, Payton and Charlie Tolle; sister and brother-in-law, Jill and Marcus Castilla; brother and sister-in-law, Ty and Kersten Wallace; and mother and stepfather, Brenda and Randy Granzow. Jina was officially a daughter-in-law to Tom and Julene Tolle, but loved like their own daughter. Her numerous nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends were also blessed with her comfort cooking and attentive care. Thousands of others were blessed with Jina’s wisdom and faith

through her blog, It Is Well. Jina’s life will be celebrated at 1:00 PM on May 13, 2024 at Crossings Community Church

Venue. Interment will be at the Mount Olive Cemetery, Nardin, OK at a later date.

As an alternative to flowers, contributions may be made to the account “In Memory of Jina Tolle” at Citizens Bank of Edmond, 1 East 1st Street, Edmond, OK 73034.

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Billie "B.Kaye" Stearman - March 21, 1928 - May 07, 2024

Departed: 05/07/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Billie Katherine (B.Kaye) Stearman went to be with her Lord Jesus on May 7, 2024. On March 21, 1928, B.Kaye was born in a small cabin near Prescott, AR, to William (WT) and Josie White. On June 25, 1948, she married Samuel Marvin Stearman. They were married for 61 years.

After graduating from Bethany Peniel College (Southern Nazarene University), she also earned her Master’s Degree in Education. She and her husband Sam pastored Nazarene churches in Kansas, Ohio, Michigan and Oklahoma. B.Kaye, Brother Sam and Dr. Ponder Gilliland co-founded NIROGA (Nazarene International Retreat of Golden Agers), and with Ralph West, founded ARMM (Association of Retired Ministers and Missionaries). Together, B.Kaye and Sam created SAM (Senior Adult Ministries) Tours for seniors, traveling to all 50 states, Mexico, and Canada.

Her love for students drew B.Kaye to teach school in Kansas, Ohio, Michigan, and Oklahoma. In Bethany, OK, she taught second grade where she was awarded Teacher of the Year. Everyone who knew B.Kaye would say that she brightened any room that she entered with her smile and enthusiasm. She was also known for her generous gift of hospitality.

B.Kaye was preceded in death by her husband, Sam; her parents; 1 brother; 1 sister; and her son, Sam, Jr.

She is survived by two sons, Steve Stearman and wife Vickie and Scott Stearman and wife Hermine, all of Oklahoma City; grandchildren, Dustin Stearman and wife Laura of Bethany and Sharilyn Starling and husband Greg of Oklahoma City; and three great-grandchildren, Jake and Samantha Stearman, and Ben Starling.

Viewing will be Sunday, 11am-8pm with family present from 4-6pm. Funeral services will be Monday, May 13, 2:00pm, at Bethany First Church of the Nazarene.

The service was livestreamed and may be viewed on this obituary page.

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Virginia "Jennie" Lee Potter - September 05, 1930 - May 07, 2024

Departed: 05/07/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Virginia Lee (Jennie) Potter was born September 5,1930 to Wes and Florence Carson of Jet, Oklahoma. She passed away May 7, 2024. Virginia graduated from Jet High School and married her high school sweetheart, Charles Platt Potter, in April,1950. They first met in kindergarten and began dating in high school. She was a member of Putnam City Baptist Church.

Virginia worked in many different roles throughout her career. Her roles always centered on her love of people and traveling. She started as a secretary in the Oklahoma City Public Schools. After she retired from Oklahoma City Public Schools, she began selling Mary Kay Cosmetics, working her way up to Sales Director and earning a Mary Kay pink car. After retiring from Mary Kay, she became a tour guide for a senior citizen’s motor coach tour company, making many trips to Branson, MO, almost every state in the U.S and even a few Canadian destinations.

In her spare time, Virginia loved dancing and belonged to the Rollin Square Dance Club. She and Charles would dance every chance they had.

Virginia was loved by her husband, family and many friends. She and Charles had a very loving marriage that served as a role model for others.

Virginia was preceded in death by her parents; brother, Elmon E. Carson; and granddaughter, Kimberly Carrol O’Quinn.

She is survived by her husband, Charles; two sons, Monty Charles of Austin, Texas and Gary Bruce and Beverly Potter of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma; three grandchildren, Wesley Grant and Melissa Jane Potter and family of Coppell, Texas, Lisa Renee and Jason Ruiz and family of Angier, North Carolina, and John Cody and Becca O’Quinn and family of Pollok, Texas. Virginia had nine great-grandchildren and one great-great-grandchild.

Funeral services will be held at Putnam City Baptist Church, in Oklahoma City on May 10, 2024 at 10:00 a.m. with her final resting place in Jet, Oklahoma.

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Shurman Junior Jackson - April 26, 1957 - May 05, 2024

Departed: 05/05/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Shurman was born April 26, 1957, in McGehee, AR to the late Mary Ella and John Gossitt. He departed life on Sunday, May 5, 2024, at Mercy Hospital in Oklahoma City, OK.

Shurman confessed his life to Christ at an early age. He was a 1976 graduate of McGehee High School. After graduation Shurman worked a variety of jobs before he found his passion in serving the elderly.

Shurman re-located to Oklahoma in 1989 and worked at several nursing homes before he began working at the place where he would spend most of his career and eventually retire from, Grace Living Center. He was there until his passing in 2024.

Shurman enjoyed college football, especially OU football. He enjoyed professional football and basketball. His favorite NFL team was the New Orleans Saints. Shurman enjoyed cooking and especially loved grilling. Most importantly, he enjoyed having a good time with his loved ones.

He was preceded in death by his parents, John and Mary Gossitt; and two sisters, Ethel Haywood and Annette Brown.

Left to cherish his memories are his daughter, Shantee Powell; significant long-time partner, Ila Estraca; Ila’s children, Misty Winters, Nikki McKeigg, Joseph Estraca and Terry (Morgan) Anderson; brothers, Freddy Gossitt and Jerry (Cathy) Gossitt; sisters, Linda (husband’s name) Goodwin-Sheets, Patricia Sanders, Jo Ann (Earnest) Smith, Phillis Gardner, Christina (Ray) Cox, Mary (Jerry) Minor, and Willie Mae Butler; best friends, Roy, Reggie, Chewy and Lane; along with his Grace Living Center family.

Viewing is Thursday, 10am-8pm with family present from 5-7pm. Funeral services will be Friday, May 10, 2:00pm at Mercer-Adams Chapel with interment following on Saturday, May 11 in Palestine Cemetery, McGehee, AR at 5:00pm.

The service will be livestreamed and may be viewed on this obituary page.

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Charlcie Pauline Carlton Fletcher Melville - April 05, 1933 - May 04, 2024

Departed: 05/04/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: In remembrance of Charlcie Pauline Carlton Fletcher Melville who passed away on May 4, 2024 in Norman, OK.

Pauline was born April 5, 1933 to Charlie and Reba Carlton in Hobart, Oklahoma. She grew up during the great depression in rural Oklahoma and the Texas panhandle. She graduated high school in Sun Ray, Texas in May 1950 and eloped to Clayton, New Mexico to wed Marcus Leo Fletcher May 27, 1950. This 47-year marriage produced three sons, Mike 1951, Mark 1955 and Milton 1959.

In the late 50’s, Pauline and Leo enjoyed square dancing at Guys and Dolls club in Edmond Oklahoma where they were elected officials. In the 1960’s they were instrumental participants in the funding drives of the Bethany YMCA and Tri City Athletic Association. In 1968, Pauline and Leo respectively served as Worthy Matron and Worthy Patron of Putnam City Chapter 477 Order of Eastern Star. Also, during this period, they studied job related industrial engineering courses at the newly built OSU Tech in Oklahoma City.

Pauline was a proud employee of Western Electric and enjoyed 33 years of service in the industrial engineering department. She loved her work and coworkers.

After retirement, she embraced genealogical studies and organized many research tours to Salt Lake City, Utah to assist others in family research and Daughters of the American Revolution (DAR) inclusion.

After Leo’s passing in 1997, Pauline remarried retired Army Veteran J.R. Melville and moved to Norman, Oklahoma. For the next 25 years they rekindled a love of square dancing. Together they promenaded to square dance National conventions in Minneapolis, MN, Anaheim, CA, Baltimore, MD, and Denver, CO. Pauline loved listening to J.R. practice and perform music concerts at Norman Institute of Music.

She became an adept bowling scorekeeper for many bowling teams at Sooner Bowl. J.R. and Pauline enjoyed each other’s company until her earthly departure.

She was preceded in death by son, Milton LeRoy Fletcher.

Pauline is survived by husband of 25 years, J.R. Melville; sons, Mike (Cherie), Mark (Lynn); 3 grandchildren, Angela Fletcher, Matthew Fletcher (Rose), Michael Steven Fletcher Engelking; and 2 great grandchildren, Carina Rose and Linnea Elizabeth Fletcher.

A graveside reunion will be held at 11:00am on Tuesday, May 14, 2024 at Bethany Cemetery. All friends and relatives are cordially invited to attend and contribute thoughts, stories and prayers.

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Marvel "Donetta" Brown-Posey - April 25, 1934 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Marvel “Donetta” Brown-Posey passed from this world into heaven on May 3rd, 2024. She was born in Longdale, Oklahoma on April 25, 1934 to Elbert F. and Ruby Hays. She spent some of her childhood in El Reno and then moved to Bethany, Oklahoma at a young age. She graduated from Bethany High School where she met Don Brown. They were married on November 5th, 1953, and were inseparable for 56 years until Don passed in 2010.

During the marriage, Donetta worked as a switchboard operator for Southwestern Bell Telephone, while Don got his start as a homebuilder and land developer. The business became successful, and Donetta helped Don by decorating the homes he built. This business thrived for over 50 years.

Donetta’s main devotion was supporting her husband and raising her 4 children. She loved to teach her children, cook and bake, and play tennis. The family vacations at Lake Tenkiller, and in Red River, New Mexico were the most memorable. She and Don also loved to travel the United States in their motorhome. Don and Donetta loved to plan vacations for their children and grandchildren in many amazing places creating memories that have lasted past their lifetime. Don and Donetta were also devoted Christians and loved leading Bible studies to help people know the Lord.

After Don’s passing in 2010, Donetta married longtime friend and family attorney James Posey in 2012, whose wife Shirley passed within months of Don. Donetta and Shirley were longtime friends and tennis partners. Donetta and James spent 12 years together before her passing. They enjoyed studying the Bible and traveling to various destinations.

Donetta was preceded in death by her husband Don Brown, and sisters Janice Downs and Sharon Witt. She is survived by her second husband James Posey, children Gary Brown (wife Mary), Jan Smith (husband Tim), Greg Brown (wife Trisha) and Bradd Brown (wife Marsha), her grandchildren Farrah, Rachel, Blake, Brett, Whitney, Nick, Kayla, Macy (and spouses), brother-in-law Jeff Witt, and a multitude of great-grandchildren and loving step-grandchildren.

Viewing will be Monday, 10:00am to 8:00pm with family present from 5:00 to 7:00pm at Mercer-Adams. Funeral services will be held Tuesday, May 7, 2:00pm at Bethany First Church of the Nazarene with interment in Bethany Cemetery.

The service was livestreamed and may be viewed on this obituary page.

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Cheryl Graves - December 01, 1943 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Cheryl E. Graves, 80, of Oklahoma City, OK, passed away on May 3, 2024. She was born on December 1, 1943 in Dent, MN, the daughter of Frederick and Emilie (Wilschewski) Bunkowski. Cheryl met Don Graves in 1962 while they were both working at Erie Junior Steakhouse in Detroit Lakes, MN (Cheryl as a waitress, Don as a cook) and they were married in 1964. Don and Cheryl went on to have 2 children, Tim and Todd Graves.

Cheryl graduated from Perham High School in 1961, got her undergraduate degree from Minnesota State University in English, received her Master's Degree in English Literature from West Chester University in PA, and finally received a Reading Specialist Certification from University of Central Oklahoma.

Cheryl spent her early years teaching English and reading and eventually worked teaching many foreign students English as a second language.

In 1982, Cheryl turned her passion for teaching and reading into a new venture and opened Sylvan Learning Centers in Oklahoma City and Edmond, OK. She continued to own and operate the centers (and eventually Prometric Testing Center) with her husband Don (after his retirement) until 2007.

After her retirement, Cheryl spent her time with Don doing many things including following her passion for growing beautiful flowers, gardening, watching birds and cooking amazing food for her family. Cheryl was known for her numerous bird feeders and her beautiful flower gardens in her backyard.

Cheryl was predeceased by her husband, Don Graves; father, Frederick Bunkowski; mother, Emilie Bunkowski; and sisters, Marilyn Brekke and Audrey Aylesworth. She is survived by her two sons, Tim (Gerilynne) Graves of Edmond, OK and Todd (Tracy) Graves of Edmond, OK; two grandchildren, Triston Graves and TrayChristien Gillmore and husband Kip, and four great-grandchildren, Jace, Leighton, Rebel and Koe.

The family would like to give special thanks to the loving angels that took care of mom and dad the past 10 years. In particular: Joane, Celeste, Leslie and Barb. These angels were by mom and dad's side through all their health battles and were more than just caregivers, they became good friends and part of our family.

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Rose Marie Belgarde - April 28, 1937 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Rose Marie Belgarde.

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Ida "Lou" Melot - April 28, 1926 - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Ida “Lou” Melot, 98, passed away May 1, 2024 in Oklahoma City, OK. She was born April 28, 1926 in Lone Wolf, OK to Leo and Ada (Cline) Koebelen. She married Mike Melot in 1951 and they enjoyed many years together until his death in 2004. Lou served as a bookkeeper for the family business, Melot’s Sportsman’s Club, for 40 years. She especially loved fishing for crappie and was out fishing any chance she got. When she wasn’t fishing, she also enjoyed painting and gardening. Lou also cooked the best crappie nuggets and fried okra around!

Lou was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Mike; son, Kim Melot; brothers, Emil Koebelen, Leo Koebelen and Lloyd Koebelen; and great-great-grandson, Oliver Lurry.

She is survived by her daughter-in-law, Kathy Roth; son, Max Melot and wife Georgie; 3 grandchildren, Jacqui (John) Bertrem, Matthew (Roxanne) Melot and Mitchell Melot and fiancée Kim; 8 great-grandchildren, Kassi, Kolton, Jordyn, Maddox, Maya, Mason, Maverick and Marisa; and 2 great-great-grandchildren, Oakley and Jaxtyn.

Viewing at Mercer-Adams will be Monday, May 6 from 12-8pm. Funeral services will be held at 10:00am on Tuesday, May 7 at Mercer-Adams Chapel with interment to follow in Spring Creek Cemetery.

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Barry Lee Brady - March 08, 1962 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Barry Lee Brady, born March 8, 1962, passed away unexpectedly April 22, 2024. He graduated from Putnam City West H.S. in 1980 and later from Northeastern A&M with a degree in Finance.

Barry was the son of Paula K. Douglass and Patrick L. Brady. He is survived by his parents; step-mother, Donna Brady; two brothers, Anthony (Tony) Brady and wife Barbara (Bobbie) of Oklahoma City and Matthew Brady of Indianapolis, IN; several nephews; one niece; and many aunts, uncles and cousins.

Memorial services will be held at 10:00am on Monday, May 6 at Heritage Baptist Church, 14317 N. Council Road, Oklahoma City.

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JoAnn "Jodi" Addeene Marsh - May 12, 1935 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Jodi Marsh (JoAnn Addeene Miller), 88, passed away on April 27, 2024 at her home in Warr Acres, Oklahoma. She was born May 12, 1935 to James Miller and Florence (Hassler) Miller in Kansas City, Missouri. Her given birth-name was Joan Addeene Miller (Joan was always pronounced JoAnn.) Her father, James, gave her the nickname “Jodi” and she has been known as Jodi most of her life.

Jodi married Alvin Platt in 1953 after his graduation from the Naval Academy. Together they had 3 lovely daughters before divorcing in 1974. Jodi was a devoted mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and friend.

Jodi studied Early Childhood Development in college and taught preschool as well as being a Preschool Director. In her earlier years, Jodi enjoyed playing the piano, ukulele, and guitar, swimming, biking, fishing and sailing. She always liked to cook, garden, read, pray, attend church and Bible studies, and spend time with family and friends. Then, in her later life she added politics, news, and weather watching to her activities.

In her retirement years Jodi remained active in her church and community. She was a member of Cherokee Hills Christian Church in Oklahoma City. She enjoyed singing at church and around her house. She sang in her church choir for many years and could always be heard singing with exuberance.

Jodi enjoyed loving the people around her and sharing her faith in Jesus as her Lord and Savior. She wanted to be known for how greatly she loved. She easily made new friends wherever she went. She was active in the Chickasaw Elder community, and was proud of her Chickasaw heritage from her father.

Jodi was preceded in death by her parents; and her 2 younger sisters, Janis Miller and Jean Miller. She is survived by her youngest sister, Juanita Miller; 3 daughters, Lenee Duke, Sandra Foley and Patricia Rust; 5 grandchildren, Scott McCurry, Alycia McCurry, Daniel Foley, Conor Foley and Marvel Rust; 5 great-grandchildren, Rogahn Saragusa, Jonas Saragusa, Jenifer McCurry, Matthew McCurry and Avery McCurry-Foley; and many nieces, nephews, and brothers and sisters in Christ. Jodi will be greatly missed by her family and friends.

Viewing will be Friday, May 10 from 9am to 8pm at Mercer-Adams Funeral Service.

Funeral services will be held at 10am on Saturday, May 11 at Cherokee Hills Christian Church, 6601 N. MacArthur Blvd., Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.

A Celebration of Life Lunch will be held at 12:30pm on Saturday, May 11 at the Chickasaw Nation Community Center, 4001 NW 39th Expressway, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.

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Ulysses P. Baxter - June 13, 1942 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Ulysses P. Baxter, Ph.D., 81, passed away April 26, 2024 in Oklahoma City, OK. He was born June 13, 1942 in Chickasha, OK to Emmanuel and Cora (Thomas) Baxter. He was a proud veteran of the US Army.

Ulysses enjoyed a career as a hair stylist. He owned and operated two prominent salons in Oklahoma City and two additional salons in San Francisco. He also had a successful career in real estate in Oklahoma and California. As a singer and songwriter, Ulysses’ greatest passion in life was his music. He also enjoyed poetry. He was featured on several different TV shows, telling the story of how he pushed a peanut up Pikes Peak with his nose!

Ulysses was preceded in death by his parents; brother, George Baxter; and brother, Emanuel Baxter. He is survived by his longtime friend, Greg Kelly; sister, Betty Rinderer; brother, Roger Baxter; sister, Cepha Van Bibber; brother, Daniel Baxter and wife Judy; brother, Thomas Baxter; sister, Flossie Havens and husband Hank; and brother, Steve Baxter and wife Davida.

Services will be held at 10:00 on Saturday, May 11 at Mercer-Adams Chapel with interment to follow in Fairlawn Cemetery, Chickasha, OK.

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Gwendolyn "Gwen" Hyde - April 09, 1948 - April 25, 2024

Departed: 04/25/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Gwendolyn Hyde, 76, passed away April 25, 2024 in Oklahoma City, OK. She was born April 9, 1948 in Rayville, LA to W.A. and Lucille Lamb. She married Dwight Hyde on September 9, 1972.

Gwen worked for SW Bell Telephone and Weokie Credit Union. She enjoyed gardening, cooking and sewing. She was a very loving and selfless wife and mother who always put her family first. Gwen loved her grandchildren, who were the light of her life and brought her a tremendous amount of joy. She had been an active member of Metropolitan Bible Church for the past 10 years.

Gwen was preceded in death by her parents; daughter, Rhaelynn Hyde; sister, Maxine Rushing; and brothers, Billy Davis and W.A. Lamb. She is survived by her husband, Dwight; son, Daryl Hyde and wife Jessica; sister, Janice Jones; brother, Thomas Earl Lamb; and two grandchildren, Dane and Hannah.

Viewing will be at 1:00pm on Wednesday, just prior to the service.

Funeral services will be held at 2:00pm on Wednesday, May 1 at Metropolitan Bible Church, 7201 W. Britton Road, Oklahoma City.

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Stephen P. Mann - November 04, 1943 - April 23, 2024

Departed: 04/23/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Stephen P. Mann, 81, crossed over the Rainbow Bridge on April 23, 2024. Stephen was born on November 4, 1943, in Muskogee, Oklahoma. He was the second son of Jack Ashcroft Mann and Willa Mai Kilgore Mann. Stephen received his Bachelor of Arts Degree from the University of Oklahoma in 1965, where he was a member of the Fraternity Phi Gamma Delta.

Upon graduation, Stephen was commissioned a Second Lieutenant in the U.S. Army Quartermaster Corps and served two years on active duty at the Giessen, Germany Support Center and the Headquarters Garrison Fort Lewis, Washington. He remained in the Army Reserves 4003rd U.S. Army Garrison, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma as a Captain until 1976. In 1968, Stephen joined the Oklahoma Gas and Electric Company as a customer service consultant and left the company in 1979, as a Customer Service Supervisor. He entered the securities industry in 1980, as an Account Executive with E.F. Hutton & Company. In 1984, he joined Leo Oppenheim & Company, Inc., an investment banking firm in Oklahoma City. He retired from the firm after twenty-nine years as Senior Underwriter on May 1, 2013.

Stephen was preceded in death by his parents; his brother, Jack A. Mann, Jr.; paternal grandparents, Stephen Patterson and Floy Ashcroft Mann; maternal grandparents, Henry H. and Mae Palmer Kilgore; and Aunt Elsie Mann Stone.

Stephen is survived by his husband, Michael W. Loveless, of the home. He is also survived by his brothers-in-law, Gordon Loveless and wife, Patti of Oklahoma City; Barry Loveless and wife, Laska of Kerrville, Texas; special cousins, Linda and Brenda; his hand-picked sister, Miss Sharon Williams, who filled many days with laughter, memories, and love; niece, Candace Bacon and his special buddy, Xander; a host of relatives and lifelong friends; and his faithful companions at home Andy, Opie, and Miss Daisy.

Stephen was baptized as an infant at St. Paul Methodist Church in Muskogee, Oklahoma, was confirmed in 1965, in the Episcopal Church. Stephen was looking forward to reuniting with all his fur babies and family and friends that have gone before him and who will meet him at the Rainbow Bridge.

Stephen's family would like to acknowledge the support and love that George, Coco, Alex, Cherry, the rehab team and all the others at Life Spring Hospice who provided care for Stephen during his illness.

Memorial services will be held at 10:00am, Wednesday, May 1 at Mercer-Adams Chapel. Memorial contributions in Stephen’s name may be made to: Free to Live, P.O. Box 5884, Edmond, Oklahoma 73083 or Phi Gamma Delta Foundation, P.O. Box 4599, Lexington, KY 40544-9986

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Gary Lawrence Fieszel - March 08, 1951 - April 23, 2024

Departed: 04/23/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Gary Lawrence Fieszel was born on March 8, 1951 in Dallas, Texas and went to be with the Lord on April 23, 2024 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. He was a proud veteran of the United States Navy. He enjoyed fishing, watching drag racing, movies, talking on the phone, and watching his grandchildren grow up.

Gary was preceded in death by his parents, Harold and Virginia Fieszel and his sister, Carla Fieszel.

He is survived by his daughter, Ginny Fieszel, husband, Rob Davis and daughter Leighton Davis; daughter, Stephanie Lippert, husband, Jake Lippert, and children, Isabella, Noah, and Gabrielle; son, Ryan Fieszel, wife, Kari Fieszel and children, Kayden, Jett and Zoe; his son Casey Ladd Fieszel (Gary’s replica); his brother Steve Fieszel, wife Karen and nephews/niece Jake, Caitlin and Kirk.

Graveside service will be Friday, April 26 at 3:00pm in Spring Creek Cemetery.

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Betty Jean Jackson - January 15, 1943 - April 22, 2024

Departed: 04/22/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Betty Jean (Baker) Jackson slipped from this life into the arms of her Lord and Savior on Monday, April 22, 2024. Betty was born on January 15, 1943, in Cincinnati, OH, to Willard and Naomi Baker. She was a longtime resident of Bethany, OK, and a member of First Baptist Church of Bethany. Betty attended school in Ohio, graduating from Mason High School in 1961 and then attended college for two years. She worked most of her life in governmental office positions, which included overseas, and retired as a receptionist at the Oklahoma City/County Health Department.

Betty was an avid reader, listened to Christian music, sang, played the piano, and loved her dogs. Some of her favorite past times included eating out with family and friends, watching game and mystery TV shows, along with the Hallmark Channel. Betty loved talking to people and sharing stories about the time she lived in Germany. She sang in the choirs at both Council Road Baptist Church and then later at First Baptist Church of Bethany. Betty had a servant’s heart. She volunteered in her church’s children’s ministry and kitchen preparing meals when she could and delivered Mobile Meals with her late husband, Bobby.

Betty was preceded in death by her husband, Bobby R. Jackson Sr.; her parents, Naomi and Willard O. Baker Sr.; and her brother, Willard O. Baker Jr.

She is survived and will be greatly missed by her stepchildren, Ramona Jackson, Bobby Jackson, Jr. and wife Kari, and Cynthia (Cindy) Jackson; sisters-in-law, Yvonne Robertson and husband Keith, Jo Ann Sanders and husband David, and Billie Jackson; 11 grandchildren; 23 great-grandchildren; and 6 great-great-grandchildren, along with a vast number of caring family and friends.

Viewing will be Friday, April 26, 9am-8pm with family present from 6-8pm at Mercer-Adams Funeral Service in Bethany. Funeral services will be at 10am Saturday, April 27, First Baptist Church of Bethany with interment to follow at 3pm in Vamoosa Cemetery near Konawa, OK.

Memorials may be made to Oklahoma Baptist Home for Children - Boys Ranch Town, Edmond, OK.

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Jerry Bernard Sipes - April 23, 1937 - April 22, 2024

Departed: 04/22/2024 (Bethany)

Obituary Preview: Jerry Bernard Sipes was born on April 23, 1937 in Greensburg, Kansas to Bernard Odell and Viola Belle (Schowengerdt) Sipes. Jerry was the oldest of 2 siblings. He was 8 when his sister, Glenna Fae, was born. Jerry’s family moved from Kansas to Arkansas and finally to the Los Angeles, California area. As a child, Jerry took violin lessons and was in the orchestra. His parents wanted him to go to college for music but God had other plans. At the age of 16, Jerry met the love of his life, Janis Lee Ferguson, age 17, at Graham Church of the Nazarene. They started dating and a year later they were married on November 25, 1955. Jerry and Jan had 5 children: Rebekah Ellen (Mike) Dorfsmith, Stephen Paul (Keri & ex-wife Annette) Sipes, Daniel Mark (Marlana) Sipes, Philip Lyn (Susan) Sipes and Matthew Jeremy Sipes.

Jerry was a proud member of the US Naval Reserves, having served during peacetime between the Korean and Vietnam wars. Jerry became a structural steel draftsman and had the pleasure of working from home for most his career. He played fiddle for the Bluegrass Gospel Express band while Janis sang. He was also a member of the CMA (Christian Motorcycle Association) where he and Janis would travel on their Harley Davidson motorcycle or bright green trike to Sturgis, South Dakota to meet other Christian motorcyclists.

Jerry and Janis raised their children in Big Bear, CA. They loved going on road trips to Arizona and moved there in the mid 1990’s. In 2021, Jerry and Jan moved to Bethany, OK to be closer to family. After Janis’ death in 2022, Jerry regularly attended Bethany First Church of the Nazarene and Calvary Nazarene Church. He was very active in Bible studies and get-togethers with his many church friends.

Jerry passed away peacefully in his sleep on Monday, April 22, 2024, one day before his 87th birthday.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Bernard and Viola Sipes; son, Daniel “Dan” Sipes; and his wife, Janis, to whom he was married 66 years.

Jerry is survived by his sister, Glenna Clifft; four children; 20 grandchildren; 26 great-grandchildren; and nieces and nephews who love him dearly.

We celebrate the life of Jerry Bernard Sipes, beloved son, brother, husband, father, uncle, father-in-law, Papa/Grandpa, great-grandpa and friend. We miss him being in our presence but rejoice knowing that he is together again with Janis and in the presence of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, whom he loved.

Funeral services will be held at 2:00pm on Monday, April 29 at Mercer-Adams Chapel. The service will be livestreamed and may be viewed on this obituary page.

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The Facility and Its Amenities

Located at 3925 North Asbury Avenue, Bethany, OK 73008, the Mercer-Adams Funeral Service facility is designed to provide a comforting and peaceful atmosphere for families and friends to gather and celebrate the life of their loved one. The funeral home's spacious chapel can accommodate large gatherings, while its intimate visitation rooms provide a cozy setting for smaller, more personal services. Additionally, the facility features ample parking, wheelchair accessibility, and modern audio-visual equipment to ensure that every service is conducted with dignity and respect.

Services Offered by Mercer-Adams Funeral Service

Mercer-Adams Funeral Service offers a wide range of services to meet the unique needs of each family it serves. From traditional funerals and memorial services to cremations and celebrations of life, the funeral home's experienced staff will work closely with you to create a personalized service that honors your loved one's memory. Other services include:

• Pre-planning and pre-funding options
• Casket selection and burial arrangements
• Cremation services and urn selection
• Obituary writing and placement
• Aftercare support and bereavement resources

The Staff at Mercer-Adams Funeral Service

The team at Mercer-Adams Funeral Service is comprised of dedicated professionals who are passionate about providing exceptional service to families in their time of need. Led by experienced funeral directors and licensed embalmers, the staff is committed to ensuring that every detail is meticulously attended to, from the initial consultation to the final farewell. Their compassion, empathy, and understanding make them an invaluable resource for families navigating the difficult process of saying goodbye.

Community Involvement and Outreach

Mercer-Adams Funeral Service is deeply rooted in the Bethany community and is committed to giving back through various outreach programs and initiatives. The funeral home regularly partners with local organizations to provide educational seminars, workshops, and support groups for those coping with loss. Additionally, the staff participates in charity events and fundraisers throughout the year, demonstrating their dedication to making a positive impact on the community they serve.

What Families Are Saying About Mercer-Adams Funeral Service

Families who have entrusted Mercer-Adams Funeral Service with their loved ones' care often express gratitude for the funeral home's compassionate service, attention to detail, and commitment to excellence. Here are just a few testimonials from families who have experienced the difference that Mercer-Adams Funeral Service provides:

"The staff at Mercer-Adams Funeral Service went above and beyond to ensure that our mother's service was everything we wanted it to be. Their kindness, compassion, and professionalism were truly remarkable." - The Smith Family

"We were blown away by the level of care and attention to detail provided by Mercer-Adams Funeral Service. They truly made a difficult time much easier for us." - The Johnson Family

Contacting Mercer-Adams Funeral Service

If you're seeking a trusted partner to guide you through the funeral planning process or would like more information about the services offered by Mercer-Adams Funeral Service, please don't hesitate to reach out. You can contact the funeral home by phone at (phone number), email at (email address), or visit their website at (website URL). The staff is available 24/7 to answer your questions, provide guidance, and offer support during this difficult time.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online, or in a funeral home's website to inform friends, family, and community members of the passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing essential information to those who need to know about the passing. They help to notify people of the funeral or memorial service details, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences to the family.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family members or close friends of the deceased write the obituary. However, some funeral homes or newspapers may offer assistance or provide templates to help with the writing process.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral or memorial service, charitable donations, and any other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a short paragraph.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

You can usually submit an obituary to a newspaper by contacting their obituary department directly. They will provide guidance on their specific requirements, such as word count, format, and deadlines.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms that allow you to publish an obituary, including funeral home websites, social media sites, and dedicated obituary websites. These platforms often offer more flexibility in terms of content and design.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers or websites may charge a fee based on the length of the obituary or the number of photos included.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The publication timeline for an obituary depends on the specific publication or platform. Newspapers typically have a faster turnaround time than online platforms, which may take several days or even weeks to review and publish.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's difficult to make changes to an obituary once it's been published. However, some online platforms may allow for corrections or updates within a certain timeframe.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only the basic details such as name, age, and date of death. It's often used when a full obituary is not possible or desired.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing someone's passing and providing basic biographical information. A eulogy is a speech or written tribute that celebrates the person's life and legacy, often delivered during a funeral or memorial service.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites. Many libraries also maintain archives of local newspapers that can be searched in person.

Can I use an obituary as a source for genealogical research?

Yes, obituaries can be valuable resources for genealogists. They often provide detailed information about family relationships, dates of birth and death, and other important biographical details.

What is an obituary archive?

An obituary archive is a collection of past obituaries that have been preserved for historical or research purposes. These archives can be found online or in physical repositories such as libraries or genealogical societies.

How do I request a correction to an obituary?

If you need to correct an error in an obituary, contact the publication or platform where it was published. They will guide you through their correction process and procedures.

Can I reprint an obituary from another publication?

You may need permission from the original publisher or copyright holder to reprint an obituary from another source. Be sure to check their policies before sharing or republishing.

What is the purpose of an obituary poem?

An obituary poem is a poetic tribute that honors the deceased. It's often used in addition to a traditional obituary to add a more personal and emotional touch.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include meaningful quotes, lyrics, or phrases in their loved one's obituary as a way to reflect their personality or values.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If you're unsure about what information to include in an obituary due to sensitive circumstances (e.g., cause of death), consult with family members or a trusted advisor for guidance.

What is the role of an obituary in the grieving process?

An obituary serves as a way to acknowledge and validate the loss, providing closure for those affected by the passing. It also helps facilitate communication among friends and family during this difficult time.

Can I create my own custom template for an obituary?

Yes, you can design your own template using various tools like Microsoft Word or Canva. Many funeral homes and online platforms also offer customizable templates for creating unique and personalized tributes.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an LGBTQ+ inclusive obituaries?

Yes, it's essential to be respectful and inclusive when writing an LGBTQ+ obituaries. Use preferred names and pronouns, acknowledge same-sex partners or spouses, and avoid language that might be hurtful or offensive.

How do I share an obituaries on social media?

You can share an obituaries on social media by copying and pasting the text into a post or creating a link to the original publication. Be mindful of privacy settings and respect any restrictions set by the family.