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Miles B. Goss - August 16, 1948 - May 19, 2024

Departed: 05/19/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Gowanda - Miles B. Goss, 75, of Gowanda, passed away Sunday, May 19, 2024 at his home. He was born on August 16, 1948 in Cuba, NY son of the late Alvin and Jean (Bates) Goss. Miles was drafted into the US Army having served during the Vietnam War. For 35 years, Miles worked in area group homes for the WNYDDSO until his retirement. On July 1, 1989, he married the former Cheryl Dunkleman, who survives.

Miles was an avid hunter and fisherman, enjoying his time outdoors and was a member of the Pine Valley Rod and Gun Club. He was also a member of the Gowanda American Legion and Gowanda VFW.

Besides his loving wife of 34 years, Miles is survived by a son, Daniel (Angela) Goss of Cattaraugus, and three daughters; Melissa Pritchard of Randolph, Paula (Robert) Kinney of Olean, and Michelle (Oscar) Gilson of Jamestown. Also surviving are three sisters; Crystal (Barry) Lester of VA, Alvina Hitchcock of Delevan, and Coleen Blakeslee of Freedom. He is also survived by five grandchildren; Cooper Pritchard, Macy Pritchard, Ryan (Allison) Gleason, Matthew Gleason, and Adalynn Gilson, as well as several nieces and nephews.

Private family services will be held.

Memorials may be made to the Gowanda American Legion, Gowanda VFW, or Hospice Buffalo.

Arrangements are under the direction of Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

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Marlene M. Singer - November 22, 1955 - May 02, 2024

Departed: 05/02/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Dayton - Marlene M. Singer, 68, of Dayton, passed away Thursday, May 2, 2024 at her home. She was born on November 22, 1955 in Somerset, MD and was raised by her late adopted parents, Eugene and Marian Schmitt. After Eugene passed, Marian married Carmen Mongiovi, who also predeceases. Marlene graduated from Morrisville State with her nursing degree, and was an LPN. She would later work as a lunch room aide at Cattaraugus Central School.

On April 23, 1976, Marlene married Jeffrey Singer, who survives. Besides her loving husband, Marlene is also survived by three daughters; Jennifer (Patrick) Hoyle of Eden, Rebecca Singer of Cattaraugus, and Kate (Mike) Connors of East Otto. Also surviving is a sister, Mary Jean (late Pat) Kwiatkowski of South Buffalo, and a sister-in-law, Nan Schmitt of West Seneca, as well as three grandchildren; Madison Singer, William Hoyle, and Chloe Connors, and several nieces and nephews.

Besides her parents, step-father, and brother-in-law, Marlene is predeceased by a son, Jeffrey E. Singer, and two brothers Larry Schmitt, and Don (Trish) Schmitt.

Private family services will be held.

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Aliza R. Rosier - April 04, 2001 - April 30, 2024

Departed: 04/30/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Fredonia - Aliza Rae Rosier, 23, of Fredonia, passed away Tuesday, April 30, 2024. She was born on April 4, 2001, in Buffalo, daughter of Jason and Rachel (LaValle) Rosier, who survive. She was a graduate of Gowanda Central School, class of 2019, and Erie 2 BOCES - Loguidice - Fredonia. She worked as a special education teacher's aide at BOCES Fredonia, and also as a cosmetologist at the Vintage Hairpin in Gowanda.

Aliza is survived by her mother, Rachel (Justin Reiller) Galati of Perrysburg, and her father, Jason (Melissa) Rosier of Gowanda, and two brothers; Nolan Rosier, and Carter Rosier, of Gowanda, as well as a sister, Onnah Galati of Perrysburg. Also surviving are four step-sisters; Keira and LilliAunna Reiller, Addison and Riley Gleason, as well as a step-brother, Carter Reiller. Also surviving are her maternal grandmother, Donna (late Johnny) LaValle of Gowanda, and her paternal grandparents, Don (Terri) Rosier of Smith Mills, and Becky Goodbrand of Hamburg, and her paternal great-grandmother, Wilma (late John) Goodbrand of Hamburg. Also surviving is Aliza's significant other, Dan Ackendorf.

Aliza was strong, passionate and generous. She lived life with her loving heart wide open to others. Her beautiful smile lit up the room when she entered. Aliza had a special gift with children who easily connected with her through her work at the school and within her large extended family. Family was everything to Aliza, who treasured time together whether it was a special vacation or a simple movie night. As a creative person, she had a great sense of style expressed through fashion. Aliza also had a passion for music, often sharing the microphone with her mother and sister. She enjoyed painting and creating art that reflected her joyful spirit. Throughout her journey Aliza held on to her faith in God. In a world full of roses, she was a sunflower.

Friends may call on Sunday, May 5, 2024 from 2-6 pm at Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

Funeral services will be held on Monday, May 6, 2024 at 10 am at the Gowanda Assembly of God Church, with Rev. David Gabel officiating.

Burial will be in Pine Hill Cemetery.

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Edward P. Palen - April 16, 1925 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Gowanda - Edward Paul Palen passed away Sunday, April 21, 2024, at the Gowanda Rehabilitation and Nursing Center. He celebrated his 99th birthday five days earlier.

He was born at 17 Palmer Street in Gowanda, NY on April 16, 1925, the youngest child of Paul and Mary Skutnik Palen. His family had a small farm with numerous animals before the village rewrote its zoning ordinances, where he learned the value of hard work, self-reliance and love for nature. As a boy, his closest friends were the Massars, Holocinskis, Palcics and Kralls.

After graduation from Gowanda High School in 1942, he earned a scholarship to Stratford Graduate School in Buffalo, where he studied business subjects. He became proficient at shorthand, a skill he retained and used for the rest of his life.

After a term at Stratford, Ed enlisted in the U. S. Navy in April of 1943. Following boot camp at Sampson Naval Training Station at Geneva, NY, he underwent training at Key West, Florida to become a Soundman, to detect underwater vessels. From there he did amphibious training at Little Creek, Virginia until he reported aboard the destroyer USS Ordronaux (DD-617) at the Brooklyn Navy Yard on Sept. 22, 1943. His rate was Soundman 3rd Class. Among his friends and shipmates was Tommy Byrne of Baltimore, who pitched for four American League baseball teams from 1943 to 1957, primarily the New York Yankees.

During this time, the ship's captain learned that Ed was proficient in shorthand, and his rate was changed to Yeoman 3 rd Class. His duty was to transcribe messages received from other ships, type them and relay them to the commanding officer. He received two promotions, attaining the rate of Yeoman 1st class by Oct. 1, 1944. Ed crossed the Atlantic Ocean six times on the Ordronaux, as part of a convoy between the East Coast and Europe. During his time in Europe, he was in England, Wales, and Ireland. On Feb. 17, 1944, while pursuing a German U-boat off Nova Scotia, he was injured by the premature explosion of a depth charge, for which he was awarded the Purple Heart.  Later that year, sailing along the west coast of Europe, the Ordronaux entered the Mediterranean Sea at Gibraltar, Spain. Ed went ashore in north Africa at Algeria and Morocco. At the time, he was barely 19 years old. He was involved in offensive operations against German forces along the Italian coast in support of the U. S. Fifth Army, including the Battle of Anzio. They participated in Operation Dragoon, the invasion of southern France in August, providing close fire support for troop landings at Frejus and Saint Raphael.

After the war in Europe ended in May of 1945, he came back to the States, then sailed through the Panama Canal and out into the Pacific Ocean, bound for Japan. The Ordronaux participated in the bombardment of Wake Island on Aug. 1, 1945. Preparing for a land invasion of Japan, they were buoyed by the news that on August 6, the first atomic bomb had been dropped on Hiroshima, followed by another nuclear device over Nagasaki three days later. He went ashore at Okinawa and arrived in Tokyo Bay a day before Gen. Douglas MacArthur accepted the Japanese surrender aboard the USS Missouri on Sept. 2, 1945.

Returning to the States, the Ordronaux was taken out of service and Ed was transferred to the USS Champlin (DD-601) on March 27, 1946. He was honorably discharged at Lido Beach, Long Island on April 22, 1946. Besides the Purple Heart, he received the Good Conduct Medal, American Theatre Medal, Victory Medal, Asiatic Pacific Medal, and the European Theatre Medal with two battle stars.

He returned home to Gowanda in April, by which time both his parents had passed away. He worked various jobs, including Fred Schoos Construction and the Moench Tanning Company. On alentine's Day, 1948, he met Veronica Skoczylas at a dance at the VFW Post and began dating. They were married Sept. 24, 1949, at St. Joseph's Roman Catholic Church in Gowanda. They were married 60 years until her death on Nov. 1, 2009. In 1951, he began his career selling property and casualty insurance for the Johnson-Tarbox Agency at 50 West Main Street in Gowanda. When partners Axel Johnson and Charles R. Tarbox parted company, Ed went with Tarbox to 26 Buffalo Street in the old Stelzer Building. In 1957, Tarbox had a new office building constructed across the street, where Ed worked until 2003, when he retired at age 78. He purchased the business in 1966 when Charles Tarbox became postmaster in Gowanda. He

was a member of the National Association of Realtors and New York State Association of Realtors. He was also the Democratic Party chairmen for the Town of Collins in the 1960s. In 1954, Ed and “Ronnie” had a new home built by Herbert O. Harris on Caroline Road, where they resided until her death in 2009, and his moving to the nursing facility in 2023. Together they raised three children, all of whom survive. Mark resides in Missoula, Montana, and Phillip and Marita are in Gowanda. Mark and his wife, the former Kathryn Sue Decker, are the parents of Carleen (Steve) Goodsell and Jared D. Palen, both of the Missoula area. There are six great-grandchilden and a great-

great-granddaughter.

Besides his parents, Ed was predeceased by seven siblings and their spouses, Walter (Bertha) Palen, Helen (Floyd) Edwards, Felix Palen, Jenny (Milford) Anderson, Katherine (Felix) Kosmowski, Frank (Marjorie) Palen, and John (Betty) Palen, as well as his son-in-law, Marita's husband, John T. Tropp.

Ed loved gardening and planting trees, helping the village plant hundreds of trees as part of the Re-Leaf Gowanda initiative, even into his 80s. He was a member of St. Joseph's Church, St. Vincent de Paul Society, and Holy Name Society, a charter member and past commander, in 1951, of James J. Cruden VFW Post 5007, American Legion Post 409, Gowanda Moose Club and the Gowanda Area Historical Society. He devoted many years of service to the Gowanda Lions Club. He loved studying Polish culture and language, attended the Catholic University of Lublin twice on scholarships, and traveled with Ronnie to the Caribbean, Italy, and Poland, where they met some of her relatives in the Skoczylas family. Beginning in the 1990s, he organized and attended several reunions of his shipmates aboard the Ordronaux in various cities across the country. He is believed to be the last surviving combat veteran of World War II from Gowanda.

There will be no public viewing. Interment will take place at Holy Cross Cemetery in Gowanda.

Mentley Funeral Home, Inc., 105 East Main Street, Gowanda is in charge of arrangements.

Send memorials in Ed's name to the Gowanda Lions Club (PO Box 1) or Gowanda Area Historical Society (PO Box 372) ZIP 14070.

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Gene R. Kennedy - November 12, 1949 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Gowanda - Gene R. Kennedy, 74, of Gowanda, passed away Sunday, April 7, 2024 at Brooks Memorial Hospital in Dunkirk. He was born on November 12, 1949 in Irving, son of the late Raymond and Pauline (Harris) Kennedy.

Gene was an enrolled member of the Seneca Nation, Heron Clan. For many years, he worked in construction throughout the Cattaraugus Reservation and was also a mechanic, as most recently at Native Pride.

Mr. Kennedy is survived by his longtime partner, Audrey Seneca, of Gowanda, and a son, Sean Kennedy of Gowanda, as well as three sisters; Phyllis Kettle of Gowanda, Hazel Kennedy of Gowanda, and Sylvia Jameson of Gowanda, as well as several nieces and nephews.

Besides his parents, Gene is predeceased by a sister, Esther Kennedy, and many brothers.

Friends may call on Thursday, April 11, 2024 from 4-7 pm from Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

Funeral services will be held on Friday, April 12, 2024 at 10 am from the funeral home.

Memorials may be made to a charity of the donor's choice.

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Jennifer L. "Jiji" Schneider - May 14, 1955 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Persia - Jennifer L. "Jiji" Schneider, 68, of Persia, passed away Monday, April 1, 2024 at her home. She was born on May 14, 1955 in Plattsburgh, NY, daughter of the late James and Betty Lou (VanBuren) Maneely. She was raised by her maternal grandparents, the late William Bruce (Blanche) VanBuren, following Jiji's mother's sudden passing when she was 3.

She was a graduate of Buffalo State College, with her degree in teaching special education. She taught for many different schools but most of her career was spent as the preschool teacher for Niskayuna Reform Church in Niskayuna, NY.

On August 8, 2010, she married Paul "Duke" Schneider, who survives. Also surviving are two sons; Peter (Jaime Gloria) Rogone of Dallas, TX, and Reese (Holly) Rogone of Buffalo, NY. She is also survived by a step-son, Talon Schneider of Pittsford, NY, a step-daughter, Larissa (Justin) Darling of East Concord, and a brother, Timothy (Debbie) VanBuren of Colchester, VT. Also surviving are two beloved grandchildren; Hudson Rogone, whom Jiji shared a birthday with, and Emerson Rogone, who was born this past January, as well as several nieces and nephews.

Besides her birth parents and grandparents, Jiji is predeceased by a brother, James Maneely.

Private family services will be held.

Memorials may be made to Roswell Park.

Arrangements are under the direction of Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

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Michele A. Gifford - September 05, 1970 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Gowanda - Michele A. Gifford, 53, of Gowanda passed away Wednesday, March 27, 2024 .She was born on September 5, 1970 in Gowanda, daughter of the late Beverly Nephew-Kennedy and William Huff Sr., who survives.

Michele was an enrolled member of the Seneca Nation and the Heron Clan. She was active making new crafts and loved to be creative, especially enjoying her bead work. Michele was also a devoted child of God, who loved the Lord.

Besides her father, Michele is survived by a son, Isaac (Hannah) Gifford of Noble, OK, and two daughters; Brittni Jones of Salamanca, and Elizabeth Gifford of Noble, OK. Also surviving are two brothers, Robert (Rosemary) Armstrong of Long Island, NY, and William Huff Jr. of the Cattaraugus Reservation, as well as two sisters; Deanna Armstrong of the Cattaraugus Reservation, and Stacy Huff of the Akwesasne Reservation in Canada. Also surviving are four grandchildren; Hadowas, Ogayego, Owaosa, and Deyotgwa, and several nieces and nephews.

Friends may call on Monday, April 1, 2024 from 2-4 and 7-9 pm from Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

Funeral services will be held on Tuesday, April 2, 2024 at 10 am from the funeral home.

Memorials may be made to a charity of the donor's choice.

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Michael J. Gernatt Sr. - May 03, 1949 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Collins - Michael Gernatt Sr., 74, of Collins, NY passed away Saturday, March 23, 2024 at Autumn View Nursing Home in Hamburg. He was born on May 3, 1949 in Gowanda, son of the late Francis and Betty (Colvenbach) Gernatt Sr. He was a graduate of Gowanda Central School, and graduated from Bryant and Stratton College with his degree in Accounting. For many years, he ran the Gernatt Family Dairy Farm on Brown St.in Collins ,NY and worked for Gernatt Asphalt in Collins,NY for many years.

He was a member of the Epiphany of our Lord RC Church in Langford, and was active in 4-H as well as an avid bowler. He was also well known for making his famous Mike's Fudge and homemade wine.

Mike is survived by three sons; Jamie (Stacy) Gernatt of Fairfax, VA, Jason (Casey) Gernatt of Jamestown, NY and Michael (Stephanie) Gernatt Jr. of Gowanda, NY . Also surviving are three daughters; Beth (John) Waterman of Perrysburg,NY Lisa (Bryan) Gernatt of Collins,NY and Amanda (Matthew) Gernatt of Irving,NY. Mr. Gernatt is also survived by three brothers; Francis "Joe" (Sandy) Gernatt Jr. of Collins, James (Jeanne) Gernatt of Collins, Thomas (Phylis) Gernatt of Collins, and a sister of Jeanne Keller of Gowanda. Also surviving are 17 grandchildren; Ava, Gianna, Aiden, Brooklyn, Camden, Ethan, Maverick, Emmerson, Brayden, Logan, Colton, Mason, Lexi, Ella, Ally, Jase, and Xander, as well as several nieces and nephews.

Friends may call on Saturday, March 30, 2024 from 2-4 and 7-9 pm from Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Monday, April 1, 2024 at 11 am from Epiphany of our Lord RC Church in Langford. Burial in Holy Cross Cemetery in Gowanda,NY

Memorials may be made to Epiphany of Our Lord RC Church.

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Andrew James Musacchio - May 21, 1935 - March 20, 2024

Departed: 03/20/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Andrew James Musacchio, Jr. born May 21, 1935 died March 20, 2024. A native of Gowanda, NY, he graduated from Gowanda Central School and Buffalo State College. He was an industrial arts teacher at Niagara Wheatfield Central School for over 30

years.

He is survived by his beloved wife of 60 years, Doris (Downer) Musacchio, a nephew, James Andrew Musacchio, Esq. of Gowanda, a niece, Laura Rose Musacchio, Ph.D. of St. Paul, Minnesota, a grand-nephew, Andrew Bruce Musacchio, of Gowanda, a cousin, Karen Musacchio VanCott, of Lawtons, a cousin, Janice Musacchio of Westbrook, Maine.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Andrew James Musacchio, Esq. and Helen Whitcomb Musacchio, a sister, Jean Musacchio Pyle, Esq., a brother, Bruce Whitcomb Musacchio, Esq., his grandparents, Alfred and Bettina Musacchio, a niece, Pamela Jean Pyle Brown, Esq. and a cousin, Alfred (Donna) Musacchio.

Services will be private and for family at the Mentley Funeral Home, Inc., 105 East Main Street, Gowanda, NY.

Memorials can be made to a charity of your choosing.

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Daniel R. Gernatt III - February 17, 1961 - February 27, 2024

Departed: 02/27/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Gernatt, Daniel III - February 27, 2024 of Collins, NY ,at age 63 ,died at his home. Beloved son of Dolores "Dolly" Gernatt and Dan Gernatt Jr., Loving brother of Dianna (Ric) Saraf, Donald (Deb) Gernatt and the late D.R. Timothy Gernatt. Cherished uncle of Kaitlyn Gernatt, Derrick Gernatt and Christina Saraf.

Dan lived an exceptional life with the help of an outstanding team of caregivers who showed the utmost respect and concern for him. Dan was a graduate of Cardinal Mindszenty Highschool and was employed at Dan Gernatt Gravel Products, Inc. in Collins,NY.

The family will be present to receive friends on March 1, 2024 from 4-8 pm at Mentley Funeral Home Inc. 105 East Main Street in Gowanda,NY. All are welcome to attend a Mass of Christian Burial that will be celebrated at St. Joseph's Church, Main Street Gowanda,NY on March 2, 2024 at 12:30pm. Please assemble at the church.

Dan lived his life as an inspiration to others. He always woke up with a smile on his face, looking forward to each day.

Donations in Dan's memory may be made to the Gowanda Ambulance.

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Theodore M. Trewer - July 05, 1952 - February 18, 2024

Departed: 02/18/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Gowanda - Theodore M. Trewer, 71, of Gowanda, passed away Sunday, February 18, 2024 at Bertrand Chaffee Hospital. He was born September 12, 1952 in Warsaw, NY, the son of Wilfred and Chlorena (Shaver) Trewer.

Following in his father's footsteps, Ted chose a career as a railroad conductor, hiring out with Erie Lackawanna then Conrail and retiring with CSX with 42 years of service. Ted was also a train enthusiast and spent many hours of enjoyment on his HO Scale Layout. He loved to play with trains.

Ted proudly served as a volunteer firefighter with over 50 years of service with the East Avon and Collins Fire Departments. After his retirement, Ted spent many volunteer hours mowing and helping to maintain the beauty of the Pine Hill Cemetery.

Ted was an avid Yankee and Pittsburgh Steelers fan but in the end, the Buffalo Bills managed to also win his heart.

Ted was a member of the Collins Center Seniors, the Sons of the American Legion, the Gowanda Moose, the Slovenien Club and the Gowanda United Methodist Church where he served as Treasurer.

Ted is survived by his wife, Susan (Farley) Trewer, two sisters, Pam (Tom) Henie, and MaryAnn (Bob) Exler, his children; Christopher Trewer, Cory (Christina) Trewer and Kelly (Mike) Poquette, as well as grandchildren; Haley, Joseph, Jacob, Emma, Sophie, and Nate. Ted was the bonus dad to two daughters, JoAnn (Bryan) Mentley and Rachael (Dave Myers) Nixon, and bonus grandpa to Zachary, Makenzie, Isaiah, Hayden, and Elizabeth. He is also survived by sisters-in-law LuAnn (David) Billings, Vickie (Randy) Shields, and Judy Payne and many nieces and nephews.

Besides his parents, Ted was predeceased by a brother-in-law, David Farley (Sue Prince surviving).

Friends may call on Thursday, February 22, 2024 from 3-6 pm and Friday, February 23, 2024 from 11 am to 12 pm Noon from Mentley Funeral Home Inc.,105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

Funeral services will immediately follow on Friday at 12 pm Noon from the funeral home.

Burial will be in Pine Hill Cemetery.

Memorials may be made to the Pine Hill Cemetery Association C/O Jill Smith, 35 N. Chapel St. Gowanda, NY 14070, or the Collins Fire Department, 2365 Main St. Collins, NY 14034.

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Carolyn G. Szymanski - April 01, 1931 - January 30, 2024

Departed: 01/30/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: South Dayton - Carolyn G. Szymanski, 92, of South Dayton, passed away on Tuesday, January 30, 2024 at the Gowanda Nursing Home. She was born on April 1, 1931 in Gowanda, daughter of the late Burt and Emma (Higbee) Mosher.

On September 15, 1951 she married Chester Szymanski, who predeceased her on January 22, 1996. Mrs. Szymanski worked at the Gowanda Psychiatric Center as a beautician for 25 years until her retirement.

She is survived by a son, Stephen (Debbie) Szymanski, of South Dayton, and two daughters, Candyce (Doug) Weaver of Cherry Creek, and Cathryn Szymanski of South Dayton. Also surviving are two grandchildren; Derek Szymanski and Kelly O'Hara, and a great-grandchild, Colton Clark, as well as several nieces and nephews.

Besides her parents and husband, Carolyn is predeceased by a brother, Gerald Mosher, and a sister, Lucille Shattuck.

Private family services will be held.

Memorials may be made to the South Dayton Memorial Library.

Arrangements are under the direction of Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

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Althea J. Brooks - March 18, 1931 - January 30, 2024

Departed: 01/30/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Dayton - Althea J. Brooks, 92, of Dayton, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, January 30, 2024 at Buffalo General Hospital. She was born on March 18, 1931 in Gowanda, daughter of the late LeRoy and Dorothy (Leitz) Gabel. She attended Gowanda High School, class of 1948, and married Robert Brooks on March 10, 1951, who predeceased her in November of 1993.

Althea was a member of the Collins Center Seniors, Gowanda Moose Club, and Slovenian Club. She also attended and was a member of the Gowanda Free Methodist Church. She retired as head account clerk from JN Adams Dev. Center with 43 years of service.

Mrs. Brooks is survived by a son, Gregory (Janet) Brooks of Rochester, daughter, Cathlene Brooks of Delaware, as well as brother, Dan (Beverly) Gabel, brother-in-law, Robert Pine, grandchildren Molly (Matt) Davis, Kelly Brooks, great grandchildren Madelyn and Aubrey Davis, as well as many nieces and nephews.

Besides her parents and husband, Althea is predeceased by sister, Norma Pine.

Friends may call on Saturday, February 10, 2024 from 12 pm Noon to 1 pm from Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

Funeral services will immediately follow at 1 pm from the funeral home.

Burial will be in Jolls Cemetery.

Memorials may be made to the Gowanda Free Methodist Church.

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Susan Jean (nee Tarbox) Minnella - July 11, 1946 - January 08, 2024

Departed: 01/08/2024 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Naples, FL - Susan Jean (nee Tarbox) Minnella, 77, formerly of Gowanda, passed away Monday, January 8, 2024 at Vitas Hospice Care in Naples, FL. She was born on July 11, 1946 in Gowanda, daughter of the late Charles and Jean (Kernahan) Tarbox.

For many years, Susan taught elementary grades Kindergarten through 6th grade. She was an avid golfer and gardener but was passionate about playing the piano and singing. She was also a member of St. Joseph's RC Church in Gowanda.

Susan is lovingly survived by her companion, George "Butch" McIntyre, as well as many cousins, friends, and nieces and nephews.

Besides her parents, Susan is predeceased by a brother, Stuart Tarbox.

A memorial mass will be held at a later date.

Susan loved her flowers; as per her wish, flowers are encouraged or memorials may be made to St. Joseph's RC Church.

Burial will be in Collins Center Cemetery.

Arrangements are under the direction of Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

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Demetria Pomales - November 23, 1926 - December 31, 2023

Departed: 12/31/2023 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Gowanda - Demetria Pomales, 97, of Gowanda, passed away Sunday, December 31, 2023 at her home. She was born on November 23, 1926 in Juncos, Puerto Rico, daughter of the late Ezequiel (Julia) Pomales. She was married to the late Dolores Maisonet. She was a faithful servant of over 60 years of the La Salon Del Reino de Testigo de Jehova in Dunkirk. The family would like to thank all the caretakers, visitors, and Kingdom Hall congregant members who aided Miss Pomales through the years.

Miss Pomales is survived by three daughters; Carmen Maisonet of Philadelphia, PA, Gladys (Chaz) Pfalzgraf of Gowanda, and Luz Maisonent of Philadelphia, PA, as well as one brother, three sisters, eight grandchildren, several great-grandchildren, and several nieces and nephews.

Besides her husbands and parents, she is predeceased by a son, Miguel Maisonet, several brothers, and several sisters.

A memorial service will be held at a later date.

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Frank C. Kusiowski - July 03, 1938 - December 27, 2023

Departed: 12/27/2023 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Collins - Frank Charles Kusiowski, 85, of Collins, passed away Wednesday, December 27, 2023 at Autumn View Health Care Facility in Hamburg surrounded by family. He was born on July 3, 1938 in Brooklyn, NY and was the beloved husband of Anita Herman Kusiowski.

Frank was a United States Navy Veteran retiring as a Senior Chief Petty Officer with 32 years of service. He later retired from the Collins Correctional Facility as a Correctional Officer. Frank was a lifetime member of AmVets, the Gowanda American Legion and Gowanda VFW, as well as a devout member of St. Joseph's RC Church and the Knights of Columbus. He was also a 50 year member of the Collins Volunteer Fire Department. Frank drove school bus for Gowanda Central School and enjoyed riding his motorcycle; he was a member of the Fleet Reserve, the Chief Petty Officer Club, Blue and Red Knights Motorcycle Clubs as well as the Gowanda Moose Club and the Slovenian Club.

Besides his beloved wife of 61 years, Frank is survived by three sons; Frank Kusiowski Jr., of Maryville, TN, Joseph Kusiowski of Little River, SC, and Daniel (Ruth) Kusiowski of Maryville, TN, as well as a daughter, Kim Palmquist of Chester, NH. Also surviving is a brother, Richard (Barbara) Kusiowski of Stamford, CT, and a sister, Mary (Robert) Stelley of Gowanda, as well as six grandchildren; Chandler Kusiowski, Eryka (Zachary) Szerbiak, Kyle Kusiowski, Nicholas Palmquist, Stephanie (John) Kane, Joey Stearns, four great-grandsons, and several nieces and nephews. Frank was preceded in death by his parents, the late Joseph and Mary (Gwiazdzinski) Kusiowski.

Friends may call on Friday, January 12, 2024 from 4-7 pm at Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be said on Saturday, January 13, 2024 at 10 am at St. Joseph's RC Church in Gowanda.

Burial with military honors will be in Holy Spirit Cemetery in North Collins.

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Frances D. Chmiel - March 01, 1925 - December 26, 2023

Departed: 12/26/2023 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Gowanda, NY- Frances D. Chmiel ,98, of Gowanda, NY passed away Tuesday December 26, 2023 in Gowanda, NY.

She was born March 1, 1925 in New Albion, NY the daughter of the late Martin Danner and Ruby (Preston) Danner-Gold.

Mrs. Chmiel was married to Henry Chmiel who predeceased her on June 20, 2006.

Mrs. Chmiel was a Registered Nurse at Tri-County Memorial Hospital for many years and also at Gowanda Psychiatric Center until her retirement. She was a Volunteer and donated with the American Red Cross, member of the Gowanda United Methodist Church and the Southtowns Chapter #177 DAV.

She is survived by 3 sons Dennis (Edith) Chmiel of Lawtons, Ny, Henry (Deborah) Chmiel of Gowanda NY and Rob (late Lorrie) Chmiel of Hamburg, NY and 8 grandchildren Dennis Jr., David, Krista, Anthony, Angela, Brandi, Dylan and Rylie and 7 great grandchildren Emily, Joanna, Malia, Jordan, Jax, Jace and Nora. Also surviving are 2 sisters Patricia Miller of Pittsford, NY and Mary Danner of Limestone, NY and several nieces and nephews.

Besides her loving husband she is predeceased by a son Michael Chmiel and 4 brothers James, Raymond, Robert and Preston Danner and 2 sisters Kathleen Stein and Jane Vogtli.

Friends may call at the Mentley Funeral Home Inc. 105 East Main Street in Gowanda, NY on Saturday December 30, 2023 from 11am - 1pm.

Funeral Services will be held on Saturday at 1pm from the funeral home.

Burial will be in Pine Hill Cemetery in Gowanda, NY.

Flowers are gratefully declined, memorials may be made to the Southtowns Chapter #177 DAV or the Gowanda VFW Post #5007.

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Michael L. Sladich - September 04, 1956 - December 26, 2023

Departed: 12/26/2023 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Gowanda - Michael L. Sladich, 67, of Gowanda, passed away Tuesday, December 26, 2023 at the Gowanda Nursing Home. He was born on September 4, 1956 in Gowanda, son of the late Louis and Anna (Voncina) Sladich. For many years, Mike worked at the Gowanda Psychiatric Center as a cleaner.

He was a member of St. Joseph's RC Church and a frequent supporter of the Gowanda Historical Society, as well as the bowling leagues at K&L Lanes in Gowanda for many years. His true passion was the Buffalo Bills. Mike lived and breathed the Bills, and was known for his devout fandom. Mike truly loved all sports, as well as baseball in particular, but the Buffalo Bills always held a special place in his heart.

Mike is survived by several loving cousins, family members, and friends.

A memorial mass will be held on Friday, January 12, 2024 at 11 AM from St. Joseph's RC Church.

Burial will be in Holy Cross Cemetery.

Memorials may be made to Roswell Park, Gowanda Ambulance Service, or St. Joseph's RC Church.

Arrangements are under the direction of Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

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Betty Wallschlaeger - January 28, 1923 - December 25, 2023

Departed: 12/25/2023 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Collins, NY- Betty Wallschlaeger ,100, of Collins,NY passed away Monday December 25, 2023 in Eden, NY.

She was born January 28, 1923 in Milwaukee,WI the daughter of the late Charles and Bertha( Hoffman) Becker.

Mrs. Wallschlaeger was married to Lester Wallschlaeger who predeceased her in 2001.

She was employed as a Medical Stenographer at Gowanda Psychiatric Center for 23 years. She was a longtime member of Trinity UCC Church, member of the Collins Senior Citizens, Englewood Fun Chorus, Collins Volunteer Fireman’s Auxiliary and former member of the Eastern Star.

She is survived by a son Lon (Karen) Wallschlaeger of Collins, NY and 2 daughters Lynn ( Doug Miller) Abbey of Gowanda, NY and Lana ( Vic Wawrzyniak) Dole of Eden, Ny and 8 grandchildren, 7 great grandchildren and a great great granddaughter. Also a son in law John Szalasny of Hamburg, NY.

Besides her loving husband she is predeceased by a a daughter Laura Szalasny and a grandson Alex Dole.

Friends may call at the Mentley Funeral Home Inc. 105 East Main Street in Gowanda, NY on Thursday December 28,2023 from 4-7 pm.

Funeral services will be held on Friday at 11am from Trinity UCC Church in Gowanda, NY.

Burial will be in Riverside Cemetery in Belfast, NY. Memorial s may be made to Trinity UCU Church in Gowanda, NY

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Arnold L Smith - July 24, 1940 - December 03, 2023

Departed: 12/03/2023 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Collins Center, NY - Arnold L. Smith ,83, of Collins Center, NY passed away Sunday December 3, 2023.

He was born on July 24, 1940 in Gowanda, NY the son of the late Roland and Hazel (Arnold) Smith.

Arnie married the former Judith Lindquist who predeceased him on December 27, 2017.

He had previously worked as a Truck Driver for many years, and later worked as an Operator at the West Valley Nuclear Plant until his retirement.

Arnie was a member of the Collins Center Cemetery Association, Gowanda Lions Club, Gowanda Free Methodist Church, Gowanda Pistol Club.He also was a Lifetime Member of the NRA and was an avid hunter and fisherman.

He is survived by his children Matthew Smith, Cami (Scott) Williams, Roland"Scott"(Letty) Smith, Daniel (Krissy) Smith and Christine Cooper also his daughter in law Sandy Smith.Also surviving are 14 grandchildren and 15 great grandchildren.

Besides his wife he is predeceased by a son Arnie Ray Smith and his sisters Marlene Valentine and Bonnie Diblasi.

Friends may call at the Mentley Funeral Home Inc. 105 East Main Street in Gowanda,NY on Friday December 8, 2023 from 4-6pm. Funeral services will be held on Friday at 6pm from the funeral home.

Burial will be in Collins Center Cemetery.

Memorials may be made to the Charity of the Donor's choice.

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Loralyn "Lorie" Colvenbach - December 18, 1956 - December 01, 2023

Departed: 12/01/2023 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Gowanda - Loralyn "Lorie" Colvenbach, 66, of Gowanda passed away Friday, December 1, 2023 at Mercy Hospital in Buffalo. She was born on December 18, 1956, in Gowanda, daughter of the late Elmer and Coralyn (Exford) Colvenbach. For many years, Lorie worked as an aide at the former JN Adam's in Perrysburg as well as the WNYDDSO group homes following its closure. Lorie enjoyed her friends and family, especially going out to eat at the local restaurants, and talking with her friends. Lorie was happy to take care of her friends and family members, being known as the family caregiver.

Lorie is survived by a sister, Carla (Russell) Chadwick of East Concord, and a brother, Bob (Cheri) Colvenbach of Silver Creek, as well as many step-siblings. She is survived by her three nephews, Bruce Colvenbach, Greg Lancaster, and Parker Colvenbach, and two nieces, Nicole Colvenbach and Lyric Colvenbach, as well as many great-nieces and great-nephews.

Besides her parents, Lorie is predeceased by a brother, Shawn Colvenbach, and several step-siblings.

Friends may call on Monday, December 18, 2023 from 2-4 pm from Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

Memorials may be made to a charity of the donor's choice.

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Teri J. Borowski - November 10, 1955 - November 29, 2023

Departed: 11/29/2023 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Perrysburg, NY - Teri J. Borowski , 68, of Perrysburg, NY passed away Wednesday November 29, 2023 suddenly at her home.

She was born November 10, 1955 in Gowanda, NY the daughter of the late John and Grace (Smith) Crouse.

Mrs Borowski was a Developmental Aide and later a Supervisor with NYSDDSO in Perrysburg, NY for 25 years.

She was predeceased by her husband of 30 years Daniel Borowski Sr. who predeceased her March 6, 2019.

She is survived by a son Thomas (Jamie) Bartlett Jr. of Peru, NY, a daughter Jessica (Timothy) Mentley of Cattaraugus, NY, a step son Daniel (Diana) Borowski, Jr. of Seaford, NY and a step daughter Lily Borowski of Panama, NY and 9 grandchildren Zanna, Drew, Rilee, Chelsea (Dan), Erica (Jordan), Jocelyn, Brenna, Dax and Deke and a great granddaughter Ayla.She is survived by 3 sisters Jackie (Gary) Bode of Flower Mound, TX, Linda (Rick) Noecker and Debbie (Jack) Wells both of Perrysburg, NY and several nieces and nephews. She is also survived by her loving companion Michael Rickard of Alexander, NY.

Besides her husband she was also predeceased by her sister Sharon Rogers.

Teri was a loving mother, grandmother and great grandmother who loved nothing more than spending time with her family. Her favorite thing was being a Grandma and will always be known to the grandchildren as "Gramma Barkin' Bo". She enjoyed time outdoors and taking walks, especially in her woods. At home she loved feeding and watching her many, many hummingbirds and all the other songbirds along with working in her flower gardens. She will be missed by all that knew her.

Friends may call at the Mentley Funeral Home Inc. 105 East Main Street in Gowanda, NY on Monday December 4, 2023 from 11am -2pm.

Funeral Services will be held on Monday at 2pm from the funeral home, with Rev. Mike Trenchard, officiating.

Burial will be in Cottage Cemetery.

Memorials may be made to the Gowanda Ambulance Service or the Perrysburg Vol. Fire Dept.

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Larry M. Taber - May 27, 1947 - November 26, 2023

Departed: 11/26/2023 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Perrysburg - Larry M. Taber, 76, of Perrysburg, passed away Sunday, November 26, 2023 at Jones Memorial Hospital in Wellsville. He was born on May 27, 1947 in Gowanda, son of the late George H. and Agnes (Hatch) Taber. Larry served in the US Army, and would later work safety at the former Gowanda Psychiatric Center. In 1990, he married the former Jonette Lauricella, who survives.

Larry and his wife, Jonette, enjoyed partaking in Civil War Reenactments together for over 10 years; Larry was a part of the Cattaraugus County Unit, 9th Mounted Calvary and enjoyed their reenactments all over, particularly in Canada and Gettysburg. Larry was a life member of the Perrysburg Vol. Fire Department, the Gowanda American Legion, and was also a Patriot Member of the NRA. Larry also enjoyed the outdoors, especially deer season and hunting.

Besides his loving wife of 33 years, Larry is survived by a daughter, Laurie A. Taber, of Perrysburg, and two sister-in-laws, Patricia (late Harold R.) Taber of Silver Creek, and Sue (late George J.) Taber of Cottage. Also surviving are three grandchildren; Shawn Sporakis, Brianna Mingle, and Robert J. Mingle, as well as several nieces and nephews.

Besides his parents and brothers, Larry is also predeceased by a sister and brother-in-law, Janice (Fred) Wolfe.

Private family graveside services at Jolls Cemetery will be held.

Memorials may be made to the Gowanda American Legion, Gowanda Ambulance Service, or the Perrysburg Vol. Fire Department.

Arrangements are under the direction of Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda.

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Ester Elouise Ford - November 19, 1937 - November 25, 2023

Departed: 11/25/2023 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Cattaraugus, NY - Ester Elouise Ford ,beloved mother, grandmother, great grandmother and friend to many, left us on Saturday Nov. 25, 2023.Ester was a very young 86 year old.

Ester was a widow of David (Gus) Ford of Yuma, AZ.They spent many wonderful years traveling throughout the country.

Ester is the beloved mother of seven children whom she shared with Herbert C. Booth Sr.They are Herbert (Dawn Klahn) Booth Jr., Melinda(Richard) Inglut, Terrance (Pamela) Booth, Colleen (Thomas) Gifford, Kevin (Lisa) Booth, Shawn (Judy) Booth and Dawn (Scott) Buck.

She was a proud grandmother of Jason Booth, Erin Berger, Morgen Booth, Kyle Booth, Kris Booth, Cory Booth, Heidi Luther, Amanda Ault, Stephanie Gifford, Matthew Booth, Natalie Booth, Conor Booth, Rory Booth, Ericka Buck, Trystan Buck and Hannah Buck.

Ester is also very proud of her 17 great grandchildren and her expected first great great grandchild.

She was born November 19, 1937 in Buffalo, NY the daughter of Bernard and Winifred Brooks.Ester had 8 brothers and sisters and is survived by 2 sisters Lucille Adamowicz and Margaret Hallifax.

Ester passed in her home surrounded by loved ones.She will be missed by all who knew her.

As Ester wished, there will not be a service.But, if you have a mind to, please plant a tree in the spring for the birds she loved so much. Arrangements are under the direction of Mentley Funeral Home Inc. 105 East Main Street in Gowanda, NY

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Frederick L. Reinschmidt Sr. - October 19, 1936 - November 15, 2023

Departed: 11/15/2023 (Gowanda)

Obituary Preview: Perrysburg - Frederick L. Reinschmidt Sr., 87, of Perrysburg, passed away Wednesday November 15, 2023. Friends may call on Sunday, November 19 from 1-3 pm from Mentley Funeral Home Inc., 105 East Main St. in Gowanda. Funeral services with military honors will follow at 3 pm from the funeral home. Arrangements are incomplete, and a full obituary will appear at a later time.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It is usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who knew them. They can help facilitate communication among friends and family, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences.

What is included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, education, occupation, hobbies, achievements, and any notable accomplishments.

Who writes an obituary?

The task of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. Funeral homes or obituary writers may also assist in crafting the obituary.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a short paragraph.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and funeral home websites allow you to upload photos of the deceased. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the obituary and provide a visual tribute.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only the most basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some newspapers may accept submissions online or via email, while others may require a phone call or in-person visit.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as part of their estate planning or as a way to have control over how they are remembered. This can be a unique opportunity for self-reflection and storytelling.

What is an online obituary?

An online obituary is a digital version of a traditional print obituary. It is published on websites, social media platforms, or online memorial platforms, allowing friends and family to share condolences and memories with ease.

How long do online obituaries remain available?

The duration for which online obituaries remain available varies depending on the platform or website. Some may keep them active indefinitely, while others may archive them after a certain period.

Can I edit or update an existing obituary?

In some cases, yes. If you need to make corrections or additions to an existing obituary, contact the original publisher or platform where it was posted. They may be able to assist with updates or revisions.

What is the purpose of an obituary guestbook?

An obituary guestbook is an online space where friends and family can leave messages of condolence, share memories, and pay tribute to the deceased. It serves as a virtual gathering place for those who want to express their sympathy and support.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites that specialize in historical records. Local libraries or genealogical societies may also have access to archived newspapers or records that can help you locate an old obituary.

Can I reuse an existing obituary for another publication?

If you want to publish an obituary in multiple places (e.g., different newspapers or websites), it's generally acceptable to reuse the same text. However, be sure to check with each publication for their specific guidelines and requirements.

What is the cost of publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, location, and type of notice. Some newspapers may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or discounts for online postings.

Do all newspapers charge for publishing an obituary?

No, not all newspapers charge for publishing an obituary. Some may offer this service for free as a courtesy to their readers or as part of their community outreach efforts.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased while also supporting a worthy cause.

How do I write a good condolence message in an online guestbook?

A good condolence message should be sincere, personal, and respectful. Share a favorite memory or anecdote about the deceased, express your sympathy for their loved ones, and offer words of comfort and support.

Can I share an online obituary on social media?

Yes, most online obituaries can be easily shared on social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, or LinkedIn. This helps spread the word quickly and allows friends and family to share their condolences more easily.

What is the etiquette for responding to condolences online?

When responding to condolences online, be sure to thank each person individually for their kind words. You can respond publicly in the guestbook or privately through direct messages or emails.

Can I create an online memorial page for my loved one?

Yes, there are many websites that allow you to create personalized memorial pages for your loved one. These pages can include photos, stories, videos, and other mementos that celebrate their life and legacy.

How do I ensure that my loved one's online presence is respectful after they pass away?

Talk to your loved one about their digital footprint before they pass away. Consider setting up memorials or tributes in advance, and designate someone to manage their online presence after they're gone.

Are there any specific regulations around writing an obituary?

In general, there are no strict regulations around writing an obituary. However, it's essential to respect the deceased person's privacy and dignity when sharing information about their life.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate someone's life and personality. Just be sure to keep it tasteful and respectful of the deceased and their loved ones.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress, consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support. You can also consult with a funeral home or professional writer who specializes in crafting compassionate and meaningful tributes.