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Katherine Moody - November 16, 1939 - April 12, 2022

Departed: 04/12/2022 (Shawnee)

Obituary Preview: Katherine Ramsey-Moody, 82, of Shawnee, passed away Tuesday, April 12, 2022, at her home. She was born November 16, 1939, in McAlester, Oklahoma, to Mr. and Mrs. Winford J. Ramsey.

She married the love of her life on September 24, 1955, to Joe Franklin Moody in Collin, Texas.

She was greeted in Heaven by her husband, parents, her youngest son, Floyd, and her brothers Leon and Charles, brothers-in-law George, Jimmy, and Sister-in-law Barbara.

Survivors include her brother, Royal and sisters Alveda and Wanda of Texas, her daughters Kathleen of Norman and Mary of Tecumseh, Son and Daughter-n-law Joe and Bridget of Shawnee, 10 grandchildren, 41 great-grandchildren, and 25 great-great grandchildren, and many nieces, nephews, and cousins and her pets of many years, her dog Bit, and her cat whisper.

She cherished every moment with her children, grandchildren, and many pets she took care of and loved over the years. She always enjoyed watching OU Sooners football and NFL games, especially the Dallas Cowboys.

She loved the Lord, and her favorite scripture was Psalms 23.

Katherine's Celebration of Life is scheduled for Saturday, April 23, 2022, at 11:00 am at the Faith Community Church of God Church located at 43005 Macarthur Street, Shawnee, Oklahoma. Arrangements are under the direction of McElyea and Owens Funeral Group 5106 North Harrison, Shawnee, Oklahoma.

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Sha'non Good - September 16, 1975 - March 15, 2022

Departed: 03/15/2022 (Shawnee)

Obituary Preview: Dana Sha’non Good returned to her heavenly home on March 15, 2022. She was a beloved daughter, sister, friend to all, and a devout Christian.

Sha’non was born on September 16, 1975, to Dennis and Shannon Good and lived her life in Prague, Oklahoma.

She graduated from Prague High School in 1994 and enjoyed working as a Home Healthcare CNA. Sha’non was a proud member of the Prague First Baptist Church and the FFA. She loved riding horses, raising pigs, and spending time at the lake. Most importantly, Sha’non loved people; she never met a stranger and had a genuine love for everyone.

Sha’non is preceded in death by her parents Dennis and Shannon Good and grandparents Charles and Frankie Prater and Marvin and Lucille Good; and step-father, Tim Denny.

She is survived by her sister Amber Good of Winfield, Kansas; Brother Dillon Good of Quinton, Oklahoma; Mother Carrie Good; Mamaw Jo Sands; Aunt Kayla and Uncle Monte Johnson; step-sister, Rachelle Denny of Cleveland; nieces and nephew, Kaycee, Cody and Destiny of Cleveland; Precious friend Kay Young, many beloved family and friends.

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Betty Lou Moore - August 11, 1960 - March 10, 2022

Departed: 03/10/2022 (Shawnee)

Obituary Preview: Betty Lou Moore, a resident of Shawnee, passed away on Thursday, March 10, 2022 in Shawnee at the age of 61. Betty was born on August 11, 1960 in Wichita Falls, Texas to Reinaldo Sapata and Celia Subia Sapata. Betty grew up in Wichita Falls, Texas. She married Michael F Moore Sr, on September 28, 1991 in Reno, Nevada. They remained happily married for 30 years. Betty worked as a boutique Manager for Leece in Shawnee Mall for approximately 11 years. She was an active member of Life Church of Shawnee. She loved going to the casino, any time spent with her children or grandchildren, and her work at Shawnee Mall. Betty was a loving daughter, sister, wife, mother and grandmother and she will be deeply missed. And, she was a proud Marine mother, supporting all Marine endeavors. Betty is preceded in death by her mother and her father and her grandparents. She was also preceded in death by two brothers, Longino Sapata and Orlando Sapata. Betty is survived by her husband, Michael Moore Sr. of the home; by four daughters, Stephanie Lowe and husband Randy of Shawnee, Stormi Head Roller of Shawnee, Selinda Tosh and husband Michael of Shawnee, and Bobbi Ann Moore of Shawnee; by three sons, Stephen Head of Shawnee, Michael Moore Jr and wife Caycee of Shawnee, and William Moore of Shawnee; by four sisters, Mary Trevino and husband Samuel of Wichita Falls, TX, Selinda Martinez and husband Pete of Wichita Falls, Veronica Chandler and husband James of Wichita Falls, and Erica Esquibel and husband Carlos of Wichita Falls; a brother, Reinaldo Sapata Jr of Wichita Falls; 18 grandchildren, Shelbi Head, Harlee Rae, and Ford Head, Chyanne Lowe, Madilyn Lowe and Logan Lowe, Gunner Head, Zoie Roller, Kloie Roller, Kaylie Roller, Kenzi Tosh, Michael Tosh, Emma Tosh, Cruz Ahumada, Demi Ahumada, Rolando Guillen, Stetson Moore and William Moore Jr; as well as numerous extended family and many good friends. Funeral Services for Betty will be held on Thursday, March 17, 2022 at 10:00am at Life Church of Shawnee. Interment will follow immediately afterwards at Resthaven Memorial Park. Arrangements have been entrusted to McElyea & Owens Funeral Group of Shawnee. Pallbearers will be Stephen Head, Michael Moore Jr., William Moore, Randy Lowe, Mike Tosh, and Hichan Sadik. The family has designated Life Church of Shawnee, 5113 N. Harrison, Shawnee, OK 74804 or USO, PO Box 96860, Washington DC 20077-7677 as appropriate for Memorial Contributions.

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Doris Faye Lyon - September 02, 1947 - March 01, 2022

Departed: 03/01/2022 (Shawnee)

Obituary Preview: Doris Faye Lyon, a longtime resident of Tecumseh, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully at her home on March 1, 2022, at the age of 74. Doris was born on September 2, 1947, in Prague, Oklahoma, to Ralph and Oleta (Thompson) Montgomery. As a follower of Jesus Christ, she entered into her eternal home on Tuesday, March 1, with her husband Paul of 55 years by her side. Doris married the love of her life, Paul Lyon on June 25, 1966, in Shawnee, Oklahoma. Doris loved big! If she spent any time with you, you were a forever friend and had a place in her heart. She enjoyed sewing with friends, family get-togethers and above all else she loved spending time with her grandkids. Doris was also an active member of a sewing club. Doris is preceded in death by her mother and father, Oleta and Ralph Montgomery; her sister, Anita Erven; and a granddaughter, Chloe Barrick. Doris is survived by her husband, Paul Lyon of the home; a son, Greg Lyon of Shawnee; a daughter, Michelle Williams and her husband Billy of Warner, Oklahoma; granddaughter, Sarah Stanberry and her husband Joshua of Shawnee; grandsons, Jesse Lyon of Blanchard and Chandler Barrick and wife Holly of Ward, Arkansas, and Cooper Barrick of Warner; great grandchildren, Lillie Lynch, Melody Stanberry,and Liam Stanberry; sisters, Kathryn Gray of St. Charles, Missouri and Betty Lobaugh of Tulsa; brother, Jackie Montgomery and wife Fran of Pueblo, Colorado; brother-in-law and sister-in-law, William and Mary Lyon of Shawnee; a sister-in-law, Sandra Burton of Bethel, and sister-in-law, Mary Pinkston of Shawnee. Doris was a loving wife, daughter, mother and grandmother and she will be missed by the many people she called friends. Viewing for Doris will be held on Friday, March 4, 2022, from 2:00pm until 8:00pm at McElyea & Owens Funeral Group, 5106 N. Harrison Street in Shawnee. Funeral Services for Doris will be held at 2:00pm on Saturday, March 5, 2022, at Liberty Baptist Church with Rev. Phil Thompson officiating. Burial will follow immediately at Garden Grove Cemetery under the direction of McElyea & Owens Funeral Group.

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Segreta Mae Davis - October 14, 1937 - January 29, 2022

Departed: 01/29/2022 (Shawnee)

Obituary Preview: Segreta Mae Davis, known to many as Skeeter and a resident of Tecumseh, Oklahoma, passed from this earthly life on Saturday, January 29, 2022 in Shawnee at the age of 84.  Segreta was born on October 14, 1937 in Jasper County, Missouri to Albert Elmer Williams and Emma Ava (Coy) Williams.  She later lived in the Tulsa, OK area and then moved to Oklahoma City.  She attended Capital Hill High School. She was a Christian, read her bible faithfully, and enjoyed discussing God's word.  Many things from the bible puzzled her, her curiosity helped her learn and live in reaching God's truths.

Segreta really enjoyed the chance to make friends.  She had made several new friends since moving to her new apartment.  One of her special friends Jeannie began as her caretaker and housekeeper but later became one of her most trusted friends.  When she moved into the senior retirement community she didn't realize just how much she would enjoy it or the relationships she would build.  The next six years ended up being her happiest, thanks to great friends like her neighbors Ronnie and Margaret, and with all her friends.  During these last years she proved to herself and to everyone that she had become such a strong independent woman, living alone.  Segretta had such a tender and sweet spirit and a heart of gold.  She always thought of and worried about everyone she knew, even for those she didn't know.  She never had much in life but what she did have she was thankful for and always was generous with those that wanted or were in need.  She loved to laugh and got tickled quite easily and was considered "safety" to many.

She was a loving homemaker and an exceptional friend.  She loved to cook and can food items, did all kinds of crafts, and became a collector of bright and beautiful things.  She enjoyed gospel and country music, but loved listening to IL Divo.  Often you could hear her singing and humming.  Segreta loved crafting and buying pretty things. She was an attentive mother, grandmother and great grandmother, she loved her family dearly and she will be missed by the many people who knew and loved her.

Segreta married Chester Warren Davis on October 29, 1954 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.  Chester preceded her in death, passing in October, 2020.

She is preceded in death by her mother and father, her grandparents, her husband, and her son-in-law(son) Darrell Wakley.

Segreta is survived by her daughter, Linda Murphy and husband Michael of McLoud, OK; daughter, Sharon Harvell of Goldthwaite, TX; a daughter, Vicki Wakley of Chandler; and a son, Eddie Davis and Donna of Oklahoma City; by 13 grandchildren, Jason Bierman, Adam Bierman, Cameron Murphy, Eddie Davis II, Nick Davis, Chad Davis, Amanda Brown, Ashley Harvell, Johnny Harvell Jr, Daniel Wakley, Bobby Wakley, Brian Wakley, and Adrian Alissa Wakley; several great grandchildren; other extended family and many good friends.  She also leaves behind her special little dog, Sally whom she adored.

The family has designated the Wounded Warrier Project, PO Box 758516. Topeka, KS 66675 as appropriate for memorial contributions.

The family will announce a public committal/burial service to be held at a future date at Pilgrims Rest Cemetery in Newalla.  Arrangements have been entrusted to McElyea & Owens Funeral Group of Shawnee.

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Sharon Murray - September 21, 1937 - January 13, 2022

Departed: 01/13/2022 (Shawnee)

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Sharon Elizabeth Schultz Murray passed peacefully from this life on Jan. 13, 2022. Born Sept. 21, 1937 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma to Joseph and Marcine Schultz (Whitaker). Truly a lady in every sense of the word, she also was a devoted wife, mother, daughter, sister, and friend. Throughout her life she was kind and loving to all who made her acquaintance. Sharon taught herself to play the piano at an early age and loved the “old-time” hymns. She went to college at OSU when it was Oklahoma A & M College, having obtained a Choir scholarship while in high school. After 2 semesters, she married the love of her life, Lonnie Murray, whom she met in church when she was 8 years old and he 11. Perhaps the deciding factor for marriage was how well she could fry chicken! Sharon and Lonnie loved to go square dancing in the early 60’s and were very social with family and friends. Sharon especially loved spending time with her sisters, Mom, Aunt Mary, and her Grandmother Whitaker. She was spiritual and knew her Bible cover to cover. One of her favorite sayings was “Calling all Angels”!

Married to Lonnie almost 52 years, they first made their home in Oklahoma City and later in 1968 bought a beautiful old home and farm east of Shawnee.

Sharon’s career began as so many working women of the 50’s, as a telephone operator with Southwestern Bell. After her children were born and school-age, she went on to work for FAA (Federal Aviation Administration) where she met one of her longest life-long friends, Betty Lane. The Murrays and the Lanes spent every Sat. night together for the next 45 years sharing a meal and playing cards and dominoes. After FAA, Sharon learned of an opportunity at Dulaney’s, the RCA Whirlpool distributorship for the state of Oklahoma by way of neighbor MaryAnn Hightower who was employed there. Sharon hired on as a bookkeeper and she and MaryAnn spent the next 35 years carpooling to work and back. At Dulaney’s, Sharon climbed the corporate ladder where she retired as Advertising Manager. Sharon and Lonnie took many beautiful trips with Sharon’s coworkers; among them Rome, London, Hawaii, and several cruises.

As the eldest of 5, Sharon was a talented homemaker as well, crafting through her precise seamstress skills anything from men’s western shirts to costumes and wedding dresses. She would design her own patterns on old paper grocery bags. She was also true to her ability to fry chicken and hosted many Sunday dinners and all holiday meals with family were held in her home. Sharon and Lonnie were labeled the “glue” of the family. “Granny” loved her family more than words could ever express.

Sharon was preceded in death by husband Lonnie, her parents, brother J. Michael Schultz, and brother-in-law Steve Murray. Remaining to honor her legacy: son David (Marcy) Murray, Shawnee, daughter Lonita Murray, Earlsboro; grandchildren Matthew (Amanda) Murray, Kyle Murray, Lucas (Anne) Anderson, and Audrey Anderson; great grandchildren YouennJosselin, Makenzie Cox, Reylli and William McEntee, Ronan Anderson, and Graham and Monroe Murray. Also left to cherish her memory are sisters Nola, Judy, and Margaret, as well as many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, and first cousins Bill and Sophie Whitaker.

There will be a private family Memorial held at a later date.

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Leonard St John Anterola Jr. - February 04, 1934 - January 01, 2022

Departed: 01/01/2022 (Shawnee)

Obituary Preview: Leonard St. John Anterola Jr. of Shawnee, Oklahoma, passed away on January 1, 2022, in Shawnee, after a two-week illness at the age of 87 years.

Leonard was born on February 4, 1934, in Portsmouth, Virginia. He was the son of Leon San Juan Anterola and Minnie Willey-Freeman. Leonard Is survived by his loving wife, Rhoda Recafort Anterola; and their son, Kelly Recafort Anterola; Leonard’s other children include, Catherine Johnson and husband Larry, Andrew Williams and wife JoAnne, Laura Young and husband Jason, Monica Cooper and husband Rick, and Leonard St John “Sinjin” Anterola III. Also mourning his loss Is special grandson, Joseph Roger Anterola. Leonard was blessed with several grandchildren: and great grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by his parents; one son, Joseph Anterola; and one baby sister, Ruth Lorraine Anterola who passed on March 11, 1933.

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Ona Aileen Goode - January 28, 1925 - December 29, 2021

Departed: 12/29/2021 (Shawnee)

Obituary Preview: Ona Aileen Goode of Wellston, Oklahoma, passed away on Wednesday, December 29, 2021, at the of 96 years.

She was born on January 28, 1925, in Milfay, Oklahoma. She was the daughter of Charles Wallis and Cannie (Kilgore) Wallis.  She grew up in the Milfay, Stroud and Agra communities. She married at the age of 17 years. She owned and operated a barbeque restaurant in Stillwater, Oklahoma.

She was preceded in death by, her parents; her husbands; seven brothers and sisters; and one daughter, Louise Arnold.

She is survived by two daughters, Barbara Arnold, and Dorothy Tudor; two sons, Bob Stump, and Billy Stump; one stepdaughter, Kitty; three brothers, Kenny Wallis, Wayne Wallis, and Bud Wallis; numerous grandchildren, and numerous great grandchildren.

Viewing will be held on Monday, January 3, 2022, from 12:00 pm till 8:00 pm a the McElyea and Owens Funeral Group, 5106 North Harrison, Shawnee, Oklahoma.

Graveside services will be held on Tuesday, January 4, 2022, at 2:00 pm at the Osage Cemetery, Agra, Oklahoma.

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Cecil Edward Anderson - December 29, 1934 - December 21, 2021

Departed: 12/21/2021 (Shawnee)

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Cecil Edward Anderson, born December 29, 1934, passed away on Tuesday, December 21, 2021, in Rockport Texas at the age of 86 years old.

Cecil was born at home in Davis, Oklahoma to Noeal and Annie Anderson, the third of five boys. He graduated from Harjo Highschool in 1952 where he played baseball and basketball for the Harjo Hornets. In March 1953, he joined the US Army and in May 1953 married Evelyn Souders.  They were married for 56 years with her passing away in July 2009.

In March 1973, he retired from the US Army at the rank of Chief Warrant Officer 4 as a logistician.  He was proud of his military service, having served two tours in Vietnam, the first with the 3rd Squadron of the 4th Calvary Regiment, Cu Chi 1966, and the second with Headquarters, II Field Forces in Long Bien 1970.  He was awarded the Bronze Star Medal, Meritorious Service Medal, Army Commendation Medal, Republic of Vietnam Commendation Medal, Vietnam Cross of Gallantry, National Defense Service Medal, Good Conduct Medal and Overseas Service Ribbon. In the summer of 1972, he and a crew of sons, nephews and others built their retirement home in the Johnson Community, where he resided until the fall of 2009.

After retirement from the US Army Cecil pursued a career in the insurance industry working for Prudential Insurance, Farmland Industries and Farmers Insurance Group retiring in 1991.  Much of his time in the insurance industry was spent with his good friend Dewey Goodin.  He also had a small farming operation with cows, goats, guineas and always two or three dogs.

Cecil was active in the community, getting involved in local civic issues to include being one of the group that worked to incorporate the community of Johnson.  He served as its first mayor in 1986.

In July 2009, when his wife Evelyn passed away, he moved to Rockport Texas.

Cecil was a Christian, always ready to share his faith. A man of character, a provider, role model and friend.  He was very generous with his time and money.  He always took care of everyone.  He loved to fish, filling the boat with fish many times, and would take anyone who wanted to go fishing.

He loved his children and grandchildren; while Evelyn was alive, they would take the grandchildren on vacations to see the many sights of the Western United States.

He was preceded in death by his parents, wife Evelyn, oldest son Warren and brothers James, Noeal and Wesley Anderson.

He is survived by Kenneth and Cheryl Anderson of Norman, OK; John and Debbie Anderson of Angleton TX; Marcy and David Murray of Shawnee, OK; Daughter in law Connie Anderson of Angleton TX; grandchildren Josh, Stephanie, Erin, Matthew, Kyle, Justin, Jessica, Lucas and Audrey; nephews and niece Russell, Randy and Melissa (who he fostered when they were young); along with many other nephews, nieces and great-grandchildren.

The family would like to extend a special thank you to Belinda Helm, his care giver for many years and her family in Rockport Texas for making him part of their family.

Donations in Cecil’s memory may be made to the following:  Sallateeska Baptist Church, P.O. Box 1842, Shawnee OK, 74802 or the Mount Pleasant Baptist Church, 7101 Kings Road, Shawnee OK 74804.

Funeral services are under the direction of McElyea and Owens Funeral Group, 5106 N. Harrison, Shawnee, Oklahoma, 74804.  Family visitation scheduled for Sunday afternoon from 4 to 6 PM and services scheduled for Monday, December 27th at 10:00 AM at the Johnson Community Cemetery with military honors.

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Patricia Caruthers - March 26, 1953 - December 14, 2021

Departed: 12/14/2021 (Shawnee)

Obituary Preview: Patricia “Trish” Jean Caruthers of Norman, Oklahoma, passed away on December 14, 2021, in Norman at the age of 68.

Patricia Jean Caruthers was born on March 26, 1953, in Long Beach, California.  She was the daughter of Beverly Placker and John Sullivan.  She grew up in Boron, California and graduated from Boron High School.  In 1971, Trish moved from Boron to Norman, Oklahoma where she lived the remainder of her life.  On May 15, 1993, Trish married Mike Caruthers and they made their home in Norman.  Trish worked in office management until a medical condition prevented her from working further.  At that time, Trish became a full-time homemaker.  Trish enjoyed cooking and baking but spending time with her family was the passion of her life.  She spent a great deal of her time caring for nieces and nephews which were like her own children.

She was preceded in death by her parents and her father-in-law.

She is survived by her husband, Mike Caruthers, of Norman; one sister, Kathy Kelso and husband, Keith of Norman; three brothers, Mike Sullivan and wife, Kim of Grove, OK; Kevin Sullivan of Knoxville, TN; and David Placker and wife, Julie of Norman; her Mother-in-law, Sylvia “Bunny” Caruthers of Chickasha, OK; two sisters-in-law, Debbie Halfast and husband Kent of Azele, TX; Marsha Stidham and husband Ronnie of Chickasha, OK; numerous beloved nieces and nephews.

Private services will be held at a later date.

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Elmer Don Shannon - December 27, 1946 - December 12, 2021

Departed: 12/12/2021 (Shawnee)

Obituary Preview: Elmer Don Shannon, a resident of Shawnee, passed away in Shawnee on Sunday, December 12. 2021 at the age of 74. Don was born in Harrah, Oklahoma on December 27, 1946 to Elmer Frank Shannon and Belva Rae Carlisle Shannon. Don grew up in the Choctaw area and attended school in Choctaw. At a fairly early age Don went to work doing concrete work and later worked on the railroads. Later in life, Don lived in Shawnee, where he attended the Evangelistic Center Church as a member. Don was a gun enthusiast, loved deer hunting and fishing, and raised many chickens over his lifetime. Don owned and operated a store on Highway 177 for several years before his retirement. Don is preceded in death by his mother and father and a brother, Tommy Ray Shannon. He is survived by two daughters, Angela Shannon Graves and husband Nicholas of Shawnee and Misty Shannon Layton and husband Brandon of Moore, Oklahoma; also by a son, Don Wesley Shannon of Norman; and 15 very special grandchildren. Funeral services are currently pending with McElyea & Owens Funeral Group of Shawnee. Service times will be released as soon as the information is finalized with the funeral home.

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Norma I Daffer - August 05, 1930 - October 22, 2021

Departed: 10/22/2021 (Shawnee)

Obituary Preview: Norma Imogene (Barnes) Daffer of Norman, Oklahoma, passed away on October 22, 2021, in Norman at the age of 91 years.

Norma Imogene (Barnes) Daffer was born on August 5, 1930, in Mount Carmel, Illinois. She was the daughter of Clyde and Eatha Barnes. She grew up in Mount Carmel attending Mount Carmel Public Schools and graduating from Mount Carmel High School. Following her education she married George Roy Daffer Sr., and they made their home in Mount Carmel until 1967 when they moved to Norman. She then began her dress shop, Mode – O- Day, in Norman operating it for a few years. She then began working for the Norman Public Schools in foodservice and later worked as a bookkeeper at the Security National Bank. In September of 1970, George preceded her in death, and she continued to make Norman her home. She enjoyed crocheting, animals, and coaching her son Steve’s baseball team and she loved spending time with her grandchildren and family.

She was also preceded in death by her parents; one son, Kevin Daffer; one sister, Juanita Barnes; and four brothers, Leo, Chester, Doyle, and Lewis Barnes.

She is survived by two sons, George Roy Daffer Jr., of Norman, and Steve Daffer of Norman: and two grandchildren, Lauren Daffer of Norman, and Zach Daffer of Norman. Visitation will be on Wednesday at Immanuel Baptist Church, 1777 East Robinson, from 1:00 pm till 8:00 pm

Funeral Services are scheduled for Thursday, October 28, 2021, at 11:00 am at the Immanuel Baptist Church in Norman with Rev. Ken Huddleston officiating. Burial will follow in the Resthaven Memory Gardens in Oklahoma City.

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At McElyea and Owens Funeral Group, every funeral service is tailored to reflect the personality, interests, and achievements of the deceased. The funeral home's experienced staff takes the time to listen to families, understanding their needs and desires, and works closely with them to create a meaningful and memorable tribute. From selecting the perfect casket or urn to choosing music, flowers, and other elements, the funeral home's team is dedicated to ensuring that every detail is meticulously planned and executed.

Cremation Services

McElyea and Owens Funeral Group also offers cremation services for families who prefer this option. The funeral home's state-of-the-art crematory ensures that the cremation process is carried out with dignity and respect. Families can choose from a range of cremation packages, including direct cremation, memorial services, and scattering ceremonies. The funeral home's staff is happy to guide families through the cremation process, answering any questions they may have and providing support every step of the way.

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McElyea and Owens Funeral Group understands that planning ahead can be a wise decision for many families. The funeral home offers pre-planning options that allow individuals to make their funeral arrangements in advance. By pre-planning, individuals can ensure that their wishes are respected, reduce the burden on their loved ones, and even lock in costs at today's prices. The funeral home's staff is happy to guide individuals through the pre-planning process, answering any questions they may have and providing guidance on available options.

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McElyea and Owens Funeral Group's facilities are designed to provide comfort and convenience to families during difficult times. The funeral home's chapel is spacious and elegantly decorated, with ample seating for family and friends. The facility also features a reception area where families can gather after the service to share memories and condolences. Additionally, the funeral home offers ample parking, wheelchair accessibility, and other amenities to ensure that all families feel welcome and supported.

Community Involvement

McElyea and Owens Funeral Group is deeply committed to giving back to the Shawnee community. The funeral home participates in various charitable initiatives throughout the year, supporting local organizations and events that benefit families in need. The funeral home's staff is also active in community outreach programs, providing educational resources and support to individuals and families affected by loss.

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What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing essential information for those who want to pay their respects. They help to notify people of the passing, share details about the funeral or memorial service, and provide a sense of closure for loved ones.

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A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral or memorial service, such as the date, time, location, and any special requests or instructions.

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The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or obituary writer may assist with writing the obituary. The writer should aim to capture the personality, spirit, and accomplishments of the deceased in a concise and respectful manner.

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The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Typically, it ranges from 100 to 500 words. However, some online obituary platforms may allow for longer or more detailed tributes.

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Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include photos with the obituary. Photos can help personalize the tribute and provide a visual representation of the person's life.

What kind of photos are suitable for an obituary?

Suitable photos for an obituary include recent portraits, favorite hobbies or activities, special moments with loved ones, or iconic images that capture the person's personality.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, you can include quotes or lyrics that were meaningful to your loved one in their obituary. This adds a personal touch and helps celebrate their life.

How do I handle condolences and messages from readers?

You can include information in the obituary about where condolences can be sent or how readers can leave messages. Online platforms often provide built-in condolence books or guestbooks for this purpose.

Can I republish an old obituary?

If you want to republish an old obituary for a special occasion like a anniversary of their passing or birthday , you can re-share it on social media or through email .You can also update it with new information if needed .

Is it possible to create a video tribute instead of a written obituary?

Yes! Video tributes are becoming increasingly popular as they offer a unique way to celebrate a person's life through images , music ,and storytelling .You can share these videos on social media ,online memorial websites ,or even at funeral services .

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy when writing an obituary ,double-check all facts ,spellings ,and dates .It's also helpful to have multiple people review the draft before publication .

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to emotional distress ,consider reaching out to a trusted friend ,family member ,or professional writer for assistance .They can help guide you through the process and craft a beautiful tribute .

Can I use humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate your loved one's personality and spirit .Just be sure to balance humor with respect and sensitivity towards those who will be reading the tribute .

How do I preserve my loved one's memory beyond the initial grieving period?

Beyond publishing an initial obituary ,you can continue preserving your loved one's memory through ongoing tributes ,charitable donations ,or establishing scholarships in their name .These gestures help keep their legacy alive over time .