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James R. Smith, Sr. - August 27, 1943 - June 26, 2023

Departed: 06/26/2023 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Middlesex – James R. Smith, Sr.79, passed away Monday, June 26, 2023 at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital –Somerset in Somerville.

Born and raised in Nanticoke, PA, Jim settled to Middlesex Borough in 1962 and has been a resident since. He worked for Ferris Brothers as driver and in sales until retirement in 2016.

A selfless man, Jim devoted his time to the Fraternal Order of the Eagles, holding position of treasurer as well as with the Bound Brook Moose Lodge 988 where he was sworn in as Vice President. Jim also held a treasury chair with the Moose Lodge District 6 of New Jersey.

In his spare time, he enjoyed watching NASCAR and NCIS.

Predeceased by his grandson, Jimmy Smith, III and three sisters, Roberta Killian, Sally Yudichak and Anne Grabinski; surviving are his wife of 26 years, Linda (Brink) Smith; two sons, James Smith, Jr. and wife Tracy and Joseph Smith and Andrea; step daughter Michelle Tharp, brother, Thomas Smith, brother in law Joe Yudichak and nieces and nephews.

He will also be missed by his six grandchildren.

Family and friends may gather on Monday, July 3, 2023 from 4-7PM in the Middlesex Funeral Home, 528 Bound Brook Road Middlesex NJ 08846. Funeral services will begin at 6PM.

Cremation will be held privately.

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Bernard P. Graebener - February 05, 1926 - February 05, 2021

Departed: 02/05/2021 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Bernard Philip Graebener, a loving husband and committed father of 11 children, died peacefully at his home in Bound Brook on Friday, February 5, 2021. He was 95. Bernard was a dedicated family man and a devout Catholic who devoted himself to his family, his church, his community and his country. Throughout his life, he set an example of hard work, principled conduct, strong faith and selfless service to others that his children and their offspring now emulate.

Bernard Philip was the youngest son of Johannes Graebener of Paderborn, Germany and Mary Bohlinger of Jersey City, New Jersey. He was born on February 5, 1926 in East Harlem, NY. One of eight children, Bernard spent his childhood on East 112th Street playing stickball, practicing piano, and pedaling his balloon-tire Schwinn throughout the five boroughs and along the Palisades. He graduated from the NYC High School of Commerce in June 1943. At the age of 18, he enlisted in the U.S. Navy and served as a Yeoman 2nd Class at the Wildwood Naval Air Station during WWII. Upon reentering civilian life, Bernard began his career as a salesman for a series of NYC-based corporations, selling the manufactured construction materials they supplied and providing the technical support needed to install them. His clients included commercial, industrial, educational, and transportation companies throughout the city. In 1951, he was recalled to military service during the Korean Conflict and served at the Key West Naval Base and the Harry S. Truman Little White House.

One day in 1947, Bernard went roller skating at the Fordham Skating Palace in the Bronx, met a statuesque, auburn-haired young beauty there named Agnes, and asked her to skate--his future wife. They married in 1949 at Our Lady Queen of Angels in Manhattan, where Bernard’s father was the church organist and choir director. After starting their married life in the Bronx, the couple moved their growing family in 1955 to central New Jersey, ultimately settling in Bound Brook in 1963. The turn-of-the-century colonial that became the family home—“Graebeners’ Mountain”—turned into a life-long project for Bernard as he repaired, renovated, and expanded it to accommodate his rambunctious and boisterous children and their many miscellaneous pets. Whenever he was not rebuilding the house, Bernard led Boy Scout camping and bicycling trips, served as Air Explorer Scout leader, tutored E.S.L. students in English at the town library, and sang bass in the parish choir. Throughout his life, he was an avid swimmer, cyclist, sailor, and camper who taught his children to love the outdoors and to care for Nature and its preservation. Even into his 90s, he regularly pedaled his ten-speed Trek around town, religiously swam laps at the Y, and volunteered during the annual beach cleanups at Sandy Hook National Seashore. When Bernard finally sat down, he was a voracious reader of non-fiction, a habit he maintained to the very end.

Bernard was predeceased by his beloved wife, Agnes (2013), their precious infant daughter, Susan Marie Graebener (1958), and his grandson and best buddy, Eric Matthew Graebener (2020).

Bernard is survived by his 7 sons:Bernard W. Graebener (veteran, U.S. Army) of Hammonton, NJ; Lawrence Graebener, MSN, RN and his wife Elizabeth (nee Froehlich), MSN, RN (both of them U.S. Veterans Administration retired nurses) of Middlesex, NJ; Mark C. Graebener and his wife Norma (nee Estimbo) of San Antonio, TX; Karl Graebener and his wife Sharon (nee Jakelsky) of Bound Brook, NJ; Raymond Farrell (USMC-Ret.) of Round Hill, VA; Peter Graebener (veteran, USMC) of Spring, TX; and Paul Graebener and his wife Louisa (nee Bartok) of Washington, NJ; his 3 daughters: Jean Graebener, BSN, RN of Naples, FL; Karen Graebener of Bound Brook, and Nancy Miller and her husband William (veteran, U.S. Army) of Newmarket, NH; his grandchildren: Katherine Graebener (veteran, USMC), Clay Graebener, Erin Graebener, Mark William Graebener (veteran, U. S. Army) and his wife Angela, Annessa Graebener-Smith, and her husband, Jeff Smith, William Malcolm Miller Jr., Keefe Graebener, Maximillian Graebener, Elsabeth Graebener, Nicole Brodie (nee Miller) and her husband Tyler, Kurt Graebener, Gretchen Graebener, William Scott Farrell (U.S. Army), John Ryan Farrell (U.S. Army), and Brigette Graebener; and his 3 great grandchildren: Mark Minsoo Graebener, Matthew Minsa Graebener, and Danek Smith.

Visitation will be held at the Middlesex Funeral Home, 528 Bound Brook Road, Middlesex, NJ, on Friday, February 12, 2021 from 4 pm to 7 pm. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday, February 13, 2021 at 10am at St. Joseph Church, 111 E. High Street, Bound Brook, NJ.

Entombment will follow at Resurrection Burial Park, Hoes Lane, Piscataway, NJ.

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Frances Blount - October 03, 1925 - October 07, 2019

Departed: 10/07/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Plainfield – Frances F. Blount, 94, passed away peacefully Monday, October 7, 2019 at home.

Born to the late Joseph and Mary Seylaz in Newark, Frances grew up in the city. During World War II, she served in the hospitals in the USAAC Emergency Corps as a Private First Class. She married John R. Blount before settling in the home her late husband, John, and she built in Plainfield in 1951.

A final inspector for Elastic Stop Nut Company in Union, Frances also worked as a caregiver for Crescent Avenue Presbyterian Church in Plainfield before retirement. A natural caregiver, Frances enjoyed being with her daughter, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.

Frances enjoyed playing bingo, taking trips to Atlantic City and growing African violets in her home. She also enjoyed attending Sage Elder Care and watching Jeopardy and Wheel of Fortune nightly.

Predeceased by her husband of 61 years, John R. Blount and numerous siblings; surviving are her daughter, Ellen Peterson and husband Matthew of South Plainfield; three grandchildren, Christine Krieger and husband Charles, Brian Peterson and partner Brian Dunn, and David Peterson and wife Erin Connor and two great grandchildren Joshua and Kaylee.

She will also be missed by her three sisters, Angelina Marino, Leorah Marino and Ruth Semenas; nieces, nephews and grand nieces and nephews.

Funeral services will begin on Friday, October 11, 2019 at 9AM in the McCriskin – Gustafson Home For Funerals, 2425 Plainfield Avenue South Plainfield NJ 07080 followed by a funeral mass in Sacred Heart RC Church at 10AM.

Entombment will follow in Hollywood Memorial Park, Union.

Family and friends may gather in the funeral home on Thursday from 2-4PM & 6-8PM.

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Mary Bayachek - November 20, 1922 - September 28, 2019

Departed: 09/28/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Mary Bayachek, 96, died on, Saturday, September 28, 2019 at home in Toms River.

Born in Madera and raised in Scranton, Pennsylvania, Mary lived in New Brunswick for a period of time before moving to South Plainfield in 1949 were she resided until relocating to Toms River in 2000.

Mrs. Bayachek worked on the production line for Revlon Cosmetics in Edison and enjoyed her excursions to Atlantic City. She is predeceased by her husband Nicholas Sr.; sisters, Anna Bednar, Catherine Runco and Helen Mokis and brothers, Harry, Michael, and Marty Mokis

Surviving are her children, Janet M. Schmidt and her husband Spencer of Poolesville, MD., Kathy Askew and her husband Jim of Milton, DE., Christine Repasky and her husband Michael of Pt. Pleasant and Nicholas Bayachek Jr. and his wife Kathryn of Middlesex; sisters, Julia Jaworski of Scranton, PA., and Dorothy Torsky of Macungie, PA., 10 grandchildren and 14 great grandchildren.

Funeral Services will be held on Wednesday, October 2, 2019 at 11am in the McCriskin – Gustafson Home for Funerals 2425 Plainfield Ave. South Plainfield, NJ 07080.

Entombment will follow at Lake Nelson Memorial Park, Piscataway, NJ.

Visitation will be held on Tuesday, October 1, 2019 from 4-8pm in the funeral home. In Lieu of Flowers please consider making a donation to the Meals on Wheels of Ocean County program 225 4th St. Lakewood, NJ 08701 or to the Holisticare Hospice 1144 Hooper Ave. Suite 208 Toms River, NJ 08753 www.holisiticarehospice.org

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Edward Christilles - April 20, 1960 - September 23, 2019

Departed: 09/23/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Edward Christilles.

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Doris Petrella - August 24, 1929 - September 22, 2019

Departed: 09/22/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Warren – Doris Petrella, 90, died Sunday, September 22, 2019 at BrightView in Warren.

Born to the late Anthony and Josephine Petrella, in Newark, Doris grew up in Plainfield, graduating from Plainfield High School. She settled to South Plainfield for over 40 years before relocating to Warren.

An artistic woman, Doris enjoyed needle point, cross stitch, ceramics and painting. She also enjoyed making small gifts for her family during Christmas time.

Predeceased by her seven siblings, Madelyn Lorenzett and Ralph, Patrick, Louis, Joseph, Angelo and Anthony Petrella; surviving are her 13 nieces and nephews and many great nieces and nephews and great great nieces and nephews.

Funeral services will begin on Wednesday, September 25, 2019 in the McCriskin – Gustafson Home For Funerals, 2425 Plainfield Avenue South Plainfield NJ 07080 at 8:30AM. A funeral mass will be held at Sacred Heart RC Church, South Plainfield at 10AM.

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Revathi Narasimhamurthy - April 29, 1961 - September 20, 2019

Departed: 09/20/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Family and friends may gather in the funeral home on Friday, September 27, 2019 from 12PM-2PM.

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Barbara Yulick - July 18, 1937 - September 10, 2019

Departed: 09/10/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: New Bern, NC – Barbara Helene Yulick, 82, died Tuesday, September 10, 2019 at her home New Bern.

Born in New Brunswick, Barbara grew up in Piscataway and resided in South Plainfield for a majority of her life before retiring to New Bern, NC.

Barbara and her late husband, Charles were the owners and operators of B&C Deli in South Plainfield.

Predeceased by her husband, Charles who died in 2015 and grandson, Michael Retzko, surviving are four children, Barbara Retzko and husband Rick, Charles Yulick and wife Michele, Terry Salge and husband Mark and Robert Yulick; five grandchildren, Lauren Altomare (Joe), Carly Barone (Robert), Matthew and Nicole Salge and Adrianna Yulick and three great grandchildren, Julianna, Hailey and Garrett.

Funeral services will begin on Tuesday, September 17, 2019 at 10AM in South Plainfield Funeral Home, 2456 Plainfield Avenue South Plainfield NJ 07080 followed by burial in Holy Redeemer Cemetery, South Plainfield.

Family and friends may attend visitation on Monday from 2-4PM and 7-9PM in the funeral home.

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Deborah Swahla - June 25, 1952 - September 09, 2019

Departed: 09/09/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Deborah Ann Swahla, 67, passed away quietly at home surrounded by family on Monday, September 9, 2019. Deborah was a loving daughter, sister, wife, mother and grandmother. She is survived by her mother, Stephanie Milnicsuk; husband John Swahla; daughter and son in law Rachel and Thomas Watlington; son and daughter in law, Dennis J. Jr. and Amanda Yuhasz; granddaughters, Paige and Payton Yuhasz, as well as several other family members.

Deborah was employed at Johnson & Johnson Corporate for over 30 years and retired a few years ago. She was looking forward to her retirement. Deborah loved her dogs, Blossom and Dancer. She loved to decorate was an amazing cook with a glowing personality that was infectious. She also enjoyed watching Lifetime movies and QVC

with her husband, John. Deborah enjoyed hosting holiday dinners, and she truly loved her family.

Funeral services will be held on Friday, September 13, 2019 at 10AM in the McCriskin – Gustafson Home For Funerals, 2425 Plainfield Avenue South Plainfield NJ 07080. Burial will follow in St. Gertrude’s Cemetery, Colonia.

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Catherine Oberlander - Unknown - September 01, 2019

Departed: 09/01/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Catherine Oberlander.

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Petro Pisar - January 10, 1925 - August 25, 2019

Departed: 08/25/2019 (South Plainfield)

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Dolores Buerkle - December 02, 1928 - August 24, 2019

Departed: 08/24/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Jackson – Dolores V. Buerkle, 90, formerly of South Plainfield died Saturday, August 24, 2019 at The Bartley Nursing Home in Jackson.

Born to the late Joseph and Rose Rosania in Newark, Dolores was raised in Bloomfield and resided in Scotch Plains for over 40 years. In 2002, she relocated to South Plainfield before settling to Jackson.

Office manager for Napor Associates in Springfield, she retired in 1995. Dolores enjoyed spending time with her family, especially her grandchildren.

Predeceased by her son, Richard Buerkle and two siblings, Carmela Squires and Joseph Rosania; surviving are her two children, Sue Alexander and husband Lou of South Plainfield and Kenneth Buerkle and wife Barbara of Jackson and daughter in law, Patricia of Hillsborough.

She will also be missed by her five grandchildren, Alison, Ryan, Kevin, Jenna and Stephanie.

A memorial gathering will be held on Tuesday, August 27, 2019 in the McCriskin – Gustafson Home For Funerals, 2425 Plainfield Avenue South Plainfield, NJ 07080 from 4-7PM.

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Tony Dellaventura - November 10, 1927 - August 23, 2019

Departed: 08/23/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Plainfield – Tony Dellaventura, 91, passed away Friday, August 23, 2019 at JFK Haven Hospice in JFK Medical Center, Edison.

A lifelong resident of Plainfield, Tony was a communicant of St Bernard of Clairvaux and St. Stanislaus Kostka RC Church where he served as an usher for many years.

Tony served with the United States Army until his honorable discharge in 1952, he continued in the Army Reserves until 1956 where he was awarded with a Korean Service Medal, 3 Bronze Stars and an United Nations Service Medal. He went onto work and retire from National Starch Chemical in Plainfield after 42 years of dedicated service.

An avid golfer, Tony enjoyed watching NY Yankees baseball as well as the stock market and taking trips to New York City. Tony was also a life long member of the Maddalonese Society.

Predeceased by 8 brothers and sisters; surviving are his brother, Dominick Dellaventura of Smithville and sister, Josephine Dellaventura of Plainfield as well as many nieces and nephews.

Funeral services will begin on Wednesday, August 28, 2019 at 9:45AM in the McCriskin – Gustafson Home For Funerals, 2425 Plainfield Avenue South Plainfield NJ 07080 followed by a funeral mass in St Bernard of Clairvaux and St. Stanislaus Kostka RC Church, Plainfield at 11AM.

Burial will follow in Hillside Cemetery, Scotch Plains.

Family and friends may gather on Tuesday from 3-6PM in the funeral home.

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Nancy G. Abroscat - June 10, 1922 - August 21, 2019

Departed: 08/21/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Nancy G. Abroscat of Piscataway, age 97, passed away Wednesday morning, August 21, 2019, in the home of her daughter-in-law, Josephine Abroscat.

Nancy was preceded in death by her husband of 49 years Frank Abroscat; daughter, Dorothy Goodfriend; brother, Victor Licciardi, sisters, Joanne "Babe" Gaber and Dorothy Agnello; nephew Carl Gaber, and great-nephew Joey Licciardi.

Nancy is survived by her brother, Thomas Licciardi and wife Paula, of Boonton,NJ; devoted daughter-in-law Josephine Ferrera and her partner Ron Baylis of Piscataway, NJ; son and daughter-in-law, John and Linda Abroscat of South Carolina; son-in-law Martin Goodfriend and wife Kathy of Charlottesville, VA; her granddaughter Gina Abroscat and wife Colyn of Dunellen, NJ, grandson Jason Goodfriend and his wife Keri of Aldie, VA , granddaughter Amy Meredith and husband Rob of Yardley, PA, and grandson Kurt Goodfriend of Ashburn, VA; seven great grandchildren and a host of beloved nieces, nephews, great nieces, great nephews and beloved friends.

Nancy was born on June 10, 1922 in Garfield, NJ, the first daughter of the late Thomas and Mildred Licciardi. She was big sister to four siblings Victor, Joanne, Dorothy and baby brother Tommy and lived within a few minutes of all her aunts, uncle and cousins. Nancy's large Italian family encouraged a love and devotion to those closest to her that she shared with others throughout her life.

In her youth, Nancy discovered a passion for literature and the arts. Her love reading and learning encouraged her to seek higher education after high school. She graduated from Katherine Gibbs Business School and was the youngest price regulations clerk for NJ during the war. She was also a high school secretary earning a whopping $24/week, twice the average salary during time.

In the 1940s, Nancy met and fell in love with Frank Abroscat. The two married in 1944 and had two children, John and Dorothy. After purchasing Midway Deli, the family moved to Piscataway to be closer to the store.

Midway Deli and Liquors became Nancy's stage. Affectionately known to her customers as Mrs. A, she treated every one as though they were family. The great prices, delicious food and plenty of alcohol made the store a Piscataway staple in its 50 years owned by the Abroscat family. Nancy became a local celebrity with her oversized glasses, warm heart and cheerful smile.

Nancy could charm anyone but her light shown brightest with her grandchildren. They were the apples of her eyes and gave her the strength to continue living life fully after the loss of her husband Frank in 1993 and daughter, Dorothy in 2003.

Though Nancy officially retired in 2008, she enthusiastically worked until the age of 92. Her incredible work ethic was only surpassed by her love of life. She traveled the world, drank wine, laughed loudly and fully, loved her family and made friends everywhere she went. She could never be forgotten and will live on in our hearts forever.

Funeral services will be held on Saturday, August 24, 2019, at 10:30 a.m., at the Piscataway Funeral Home, 18 Stelton Road Piscataway, NJ 08854, followed by burial in Resurrection Burial Park, Piscataway.

Family and friends may gather for visitation on Friday from 3-8 p.m., at the funeral home.

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Robert Ryan - April 18, 1942 - August 04, 2019

Departed: 08/04/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Piscataway - Robert W. Ryan 77, died on Sunday, August 4, 2019 in the Haven at JFK Medical Center in Edison.

Born in Summit to the late Frank and Doris Ryan, Robert resided in the Gillette area before settling to Piscataway in 1979. He served with the United States Army during the Vietnam War and was honorably discharged in 1968.

Robert retired from the research department of Bell Laboratories of Murray Hill in 2000 as a MTS.

A lover of bluegrass and country music, Robert also enjoyed fishing, playing his guitar and preforming magic tricks with playing cards.

Surviving are his wife of 41 years, Alice (Kalinowski) Ryan of Piscataway; son Kenneth Ryan of Piscataway and two sisters, Rita Glover and husband Steven and Elaine Ryan. He will also be missed by a host of extended family and friends.

Visitation will be held on Thursday, August 8, 2019 beginning at 4pm followed by a 7:30pm funeral service in the Piscataway Funeral Home 18 Stelton Rd. Piscataway, NJ 08854.

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Sandra Johnson - Powell - August 05, 1948 - July 17, 2019

Departed: 07/17/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Sandra Johnson Powell was born on August 5th 1948 in Montclair, New Jersey, the oldest of five children to the late Georgia Urling. “Sandy” as she was affectionately called, attended public schools in Montclair, and obtained a Bachelor of Arts from Fisk University in Nashville, Tennessee.

Sandy started her career at Aegis Insurance Service Inc, where she had the opportunity to live in Bermuda, and work in various parts of New Jersey. She worked her way up the company’s ladder and had the opportunity to represent the company at various seminars throughout the United States. Sandy became the first African American Woman to become Vice President of Underwriting in the company. Sandy retired from Aegis Insurance Service, Inc. in September, 2014 after thirty-four years of service.

Sandy married the love of her life John Powell, Jr., on July 9th, 1988. Sandy and John enjoyed life to the fullest and had the opportunity to travel throughout the world. They attended concerts, family outings and celebrations. Sandy was known to have an amazing book collection. She was active in various book clubs and volunteered her services in helping families in the community.

Sandy was someone who always put others first. She loved her mother, loved sister Marci who preceded her in death and held her sisters dear as she did everything in her power to make sure they were taken of. Sandy departed this life on July 17th, 2019 at JFK Medical Center in Edison, New Jersey with her husband by her side.

She is survived by her husband John Powell, Jr, her stepdaughter June Powell-Beasley (Delbert), her step grandchildren Nia Beasley, and Darrell (DW) Beasley of New York, sisters Bonnie Johnson of New York, and Autumn Urling of Montclair New Jersey, her best friend forever Sandy Jackson of Plainfield, New Jersey, and host of lifelong friends.

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Ernest Lear Jr. - February 08, 1937 - July 17, 2019

Departed: 07/17/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Ernest A. Lear, Jr. passed away in Piscataway, NJ on July 17, 2019 surrounded by his loving family.

Born on February 8, 1937 to Ernest A. Lear, Sr. and Mary Cameron Braidwood Lear, Ernie grew up in South Plainfield, NJ. He attended North Plainfield High School where, in his sophomore year, he met his wife of over 63 years, Rose Marie Lear (nee Faso). Together they raised a family in Piscataway, NJ. Ernie had many different interests and hobbies. He enjoyed music and played both drums and guitar and instilled his love for music in his children.

Ernie developed a fondness for trucks and driving them when, as a teen, he began delivering milk for Frank’s Dairy. He went on to enjoy a long career in the trucking industry where he held many different positions. Ernie was a Ford man through and through, recently restoring a 1960 Ford Super Duty F-1000 tractor similar to a vehicle he drove early in his career. He enjoyed attending truck shows where he proudly displayed this vehicle.

Ernie enjoyed hunting, coached little league, and was an active member of the Piscataway Superchief Band Parents Association for over 15 years where he and Rose Marie made many life-long friends. Ernie was a prankster who loved to have fun and make people laugh. He was outgoing, generous, and had a special gift for making people feel loved and important.

He is survived by his loving wife, Rose Marie, his five devoted children, Michael, Kenneth, Susan, Nancy and Matthew, his grandchildren Jennifer, David, Charles, Joseph, Catherine, and his great-grandchildren Natalie and Declan; his sister Joan, his brother-in-law Peter and his wife Beverly and many nieces, nephews and friends who will dearly miss him.

Memorial Gathering for relatives and friends will be held on Thursday, July 25, 2019 from 10:30am – 1:30pm in the McCriskin – Gustafson Home For Funerals 2425 Plainfield Ave. South Plainfield, NJ.

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Richard "Dick" Hoelzel - January 07, 1933 - May 01, 2019

Departed: 05/01/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: South Carolina - Richard “Dick” H. Hoelzel, age 86, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, May 1, 2019 at his residence.

Born in Newark, NJ, he was a son of the late Gordon and Emma (Gerst) Hoelzel. A longtime resident of Middlesex Borough, Richard and his wife were devoted parishioners of Our Lady of Mount Virgin. A loving and devoted husband, father and grandfather, Dick was a veteran and honorably served his country with the United States Navy. Raising his family as a Tool and Die tradesman, he and his late wife Rose retired to Murrells Inlet which afforded Dick the opportunity to pursue his passion of golfing, achieving 3 hole in ones in his lifetime!

Predeceased by his son, Richard Hoelzel; sister, Doris; three brothers, Gordon, Robert and Kenneth Hoelzel and infant daughter, Mary.

Surviving are his two sons: Roger (Laura) Hoelzel of Toms River, Bill (Ann) Hoelzel of Hillsborough; two daughters: Karen Hoelzel (Debbie Faiello) of Milford, Patricia (Charlie) Boyle of Somerset; four grandchildren: Kristen, Allison, Matthew Hoelzel and Erin Boyle and his brother, John (Kathy) Hoelzel.

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Stephen Ciak - October 23, 1952 - April 29, 2019

Departed: 04/29/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Parlin – Stephen A. Ciak, 66, died Monday, April 29, 2019 at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital in New Brunswick.

Born in Kearny, Stephen is a long time resident of Parlin. Prior to retirement from Middlesex County Educational Services and Commission, Stephen worked for St. Andrews Church and Cloverleaf Park Cemetery.

Predeceased by his brother who died in 2014, John Ciak; surviving are his wife Evelyn A. (Kelly) Ciak of Parlin and three brothers, Bobby and his wife Carrie of Florida, Dennis and his wife Stephanie of South Plainfield and Tony and his wife Dianne of Rockaway.

Funeral services are private.

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Amelia Zuccarelli - December 06, 1915 - March 28, 2019

Departed: 03/28/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Bridgewater – Amelia (Cossi) Zuccarelli, 103, passed away peacefully early morning of Thursday, March 28, 2019 surrounded by her loving family and closest friends.

A resident for over 100 years of Middlesex Borough, Amelia was born in New York City on December 6, 1915. On May 25, 1935, she married her life partner, Joseph P. Zuccarelli, former Middlesex Borough Council and Mayor in the 1950’s. The woman behind the man, she would always show her approval and disapproval with thumbs up or down; they were happily married for over 76 years.

An Honorary Life member of the Middlesex Elks #1488 and devoted parishioner of Our Lady of Mount Virgin, Amelia loved flowers and had a “green thumb” when it came to African Violets. She spent much of her spare time knitting and crocheting, which brought happiness to others.

Predeceased by her husband, Joseph in 2012 and three brothers, Christopher, Bernard and John Cossi; surviving are her beloved daughter, Emily Joan DeScenza and husband Joe; sister in law, Marietta Rodriguez and numerous nieces and nephews.

Funeral services will begin on Tuesday, April 2, 2019 at 8:30AM in Middlesex Funeral Home, 528 Bound Brook Road, Middlesex NJ 08846, followed by a funeral mass in Our Lady of Mount Virgin at 9:30AM.

Family and friends may gather on Monday from 2-4PM and 6-8PM.

Donations may be made to the Joseph P. Zuccarelli scholarship Fund c/o the Middlesex Elks 545 Bound Brook Rd, Middlesex, NJ 08846.

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Ursula Kaspereen - March 12, 1934 - March 16, 2019

Departed: 03/16/2019 (South Plainfield)

Obituary Preview: Valdosta, GA – Ursula C (Costello) Kaspereen, 85 of Gulfport, Florida, passed away in Valdosta, GA on March 16, 2019. The daughter of Thomas W. and Cecilia M Costello (Lyons) she was born March 12, 1934, in Elizabeth, New Jersey.

After High School Ursula worked at Bell Telephone in Elizabeth. She married Frank Kaspereen and settled in South Plainfield where they raised their four children. Many days were spent sitting on the front porch, which was a gathering place for her neighbors and children. She spent several years working part time in the South Plainfield High School cafeteria.

She was a faithful parishioner of Sacred Heart Church and was always in attendance at Sunday night Bingo. She loved attending her children’s sporting events and could easily be heard in the stands ringing her cowbell. Ursula was a NY Yankees fan, particularly during the Billy Martin era. She was also a big Joe Namath fan.

Ursula loved her family and Irish heritage. Her favorite Holiday was St. Patrick’s Day. She and Frank attended many Irish music events. They retired in Gulfport Florida.

Ursula was predeceased by her husband, Frank and first son Frank Thomas. She is survived by her children, Michael and his wife Mary of Maine, Theresa of Georgia, Paul of Georgia and Walter and his wife Lynn of Delaware. She is also survived by her grandson Jacob and his wife Macey, granddaughters Madison and Hannah, and great-grandson Cooper, along with many nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by her brothers Thomas, Jack and sister Delores.

A funeral Mass will be held at Saint John’s Church in Valdosta on April 8 at 9:30 am.

A memorial gathering will be held on Friday, May 3, 2019 in the McCriskin - Gustafson Home For Funerals, 2425 Plainfield Avenue South Plainfield NJ 07080 from 4 to 7 p.m.

Family and friends may gather back on aturday May 4, 2019, from 9 to 10 a.m. for Ursula's memorial service.

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The funeral home's facility at 2425 Plainfield Ave. is designed to provide a comfortable and serene atmosphere, perfect for celebrating the life of your loved one. With ample parking and easy accessibility, the facility can accommodate gatherings of all sizes. The interior is tastefully decorated, featuring elegant chapels, visitation rooms, and reception areas that exude warmth and sophistication.

Personalized Funeral Services

At McCriskin-Gustafson Home For Funerals, LLC, every funeral service is tailored to reflect the unique personality and spirit of the individual being honored. Their experienced funeral directors take the time to listen to your needs and desires, working closely with you to create a meaningful and memorable tribute. From traditional funerals to cremation services, they offer a range of options to suit your family's preferences.

Cremation Services with Dignity

For those who prefer cremation, McCriskin-Gustafson Home For Funerals, LLC provides dignified and respectful services that honor your loved one's memory. Their crematory is operated with the highest standards of care and integrity, ensuring that your family's wishes are fulfilled with precision and compassion.

Pre-Planning: A Gift to Your Loved Ones

One of the most thoughtful gestures you can make for your family is to pre-plan your funeral arrangements. By doing so, you'll spare them from having to make difficult decisions during an emotional time. McCriskin-Gustafson Home For Funerals, LLC offers pre-planning services that allow you to make informed choices about your final arrangements, ensuring that your wishes are respected and your family's burden is lightened.

Grief Support and Resources

Losing a loved one can be a devastating experience, but you don't have to face it alone. McCriskin-Gustafson Home For Funerals, LLC understands the importance of grief support and offers resources to help you navigate the healing process. From counseling services to support groups, they're committed to helping you find comfort and solace during this difficult time.

A Commitment to Community

McCriskin-Gustafson Home For Funerals, LLC is deeply rooted in the South Plainfield community and is dedicated to giving back. They participate in local events and charities, supporting initiatives that benefit families and individuals in need. By choosing this funeral home, you're not only honoring your loved one but also contributing to the betterment of your community.

Contact Us: Your Partner in Times of Need

If you're facing the loss of a loved one or would like to learn more about McCriskin-Gustafson Home For Funerals, LLC's services, please don't hesitate to reach out. Their caring staff is available 24/7 to answer your questions, provide guidance, and offer support during this difficult time. You can contact them at (phone number) or visit their website at (website URL). Let them help you navigate the funeral planning process with compassion, dignity, and respect.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It often includes details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the person's life.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend writes the obituary, although it can also be written by a funeral home or crematorium. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include details about the funeral or memorial service.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the notice and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the newspaper or online platform directly to find out their submission guidelines and deadlines. Some may accept submissions online, while others may require email or phone submissions.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication or online platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or discounts for longer notices.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituaries in advance as a way to ensure that their story is told accurately and honestly. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a longer, more detailed tribute that celebrates the person's life.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber and serious. Including humorous stories or anecdotes can help capture the person's personality and spirit.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive issues or conflicts within the family, it's best to approach the obituary with tact and discretion. Consider consulting with other family members or a trusted advisor before finalizing the notice.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the person's legacy.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe varies depending on the publication or online platform. Some may publish immediately, while others may take several days or weeks.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, changes cannot be made once an obituary has been published. However, some online platforms may allow corrections or updates.

What if I need to correct an error in an obituary?

Contact the publication or online platform directly to report any errors. They will work with you to correct the mistake as quickly as possible.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

Sometimes families want to republish an obituary on anniversaries or special occasions. Check with the original publication or online platform to see if this is possible.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives, visit local libraries or genealogical societies, or contact the newspaper directly to access archived obituaries.

Are obituaries available online?

Yes, many newspapers and online platforms publish obituaries online, making them easily accessible to readers worldwide.

Can I share an obituary on social media?

Absolutely! Many online platforms allow you to share obituaries on social media sites like Facebook and Twitter.

How do I notify friends and family of an upcoming funeral or memorial service?

In addition to publishing an obituary, consider sending personal notifications via email, phone calls, or social media messages to ensure that everyone is informed.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary?

DON'T worry! Funeral homes, crematoriums, and some online platforms offer assistance with writing obituaries. You can also ask a friend or family member for help.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes! Including meaningful quotes or poems can add depth and emotion to the obituary.

How do I handle conflicting opinions within the family when writing an obituary?

Talk openly with family members about their concerns and try to reach a consensus. If necessary, consider seeking guidance from a neutral third party.

What if I need help finding resources for writing an obituary?

Contact local funeral homes, crematoriums, or online platforms for guidance and support. They often have templates and resources available to help you write a meaningful obituary.