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Margaret O'Hare - July 13, 1939 - May 13, 2024

Departed: 05/13/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Margaret Catherine O’Hare, of Madison, passed away peacefully on Monday, May 13, 2024 surrounded by her loving family. She was 84.

Maggie was predeceased by her parents, Thomas “Frank” and Frieda O’Hare; her beloved son, Jonathan P. Chang; and her brother, Thomas O’Hare. She is survived by her eight children, Mary Chang (and husband George Yankwitt), Peter Chang, Eileen Machler (and husband Brian), Kevin Chang (and wife Michelle), Carolyn Chang (and husband Peter Martin), Leslie Metzler (and husband Thomas), Emily P. Chang, and Terence Chang; her three sisters, Joan O’Hare, Mary Jane O’Hare and Doris Primich; brother, Dennis O’Hare; fifteen cherished grandchildren, Erica Kessler (and husband Thomas), Kaitlyn Bott (and husband Jeffrey), Peter Chang, Jacqueline Berk (and husband Matthew), Elodie Peay (and husband Connor), Ryan Chang, Colin Chang, Luke Machler, Madeline Bauer (and husband Jacob), Jonathan Chang, Matthew Metzler, Emma Carreno, Simon Chang Martin, Quinn Chang Martin and Maya Metzler; one great-granddaughter, Raegan Kessler; and many loving nieces, nephews and cousins.

One of six children, Maggie was born on July 13, 1939 in Highland Park into a large, loving Irish Catholic family. After high school, Maggie went on to earn her degree in nursing. While a nursing student at St. Peter’s Hospital in New Brunswick, she met a young resident, Dr. Peter Chang. The two were married and lived in Delaware, Pennsylvania and West Virginia before settling in Edison. Maggie was a wonderful mother to her nine children, loving them unconditionally and supporting them in all that they did. She was particularly thrilled to become a grandmother and took great pride and joy in the achievements of her fifteen grandchildren.

Maggie had a beautiful voice and gave the gift of music to her children throughout their lives. She was a talented seamstress and enjoyed making clothes, including First Holy Communion dresses and prom gowns for her daughters. An expert knitter, she made sweaters and scarves for family and friends, and later learned how to weave on a loom. Maggie loved to cook and bake for her family, and mastered her skills by attending many cooking classes over the years. Her culinary gifts will be truly missed at birthdays and holidays alike.

Maggie was warm and loving and had a wonderfully unique sense of humor. She was a loyal friend to many in all walks of her life over the years.

Two things were most important in Maggie’s life: her devotion to family and to God. Her tremendous Catholic faith gave her unwavering strength her entire life and she attended mass regularly. One of Maggie’s greatest achievements and a source of great pride was when she completed her journey to become an oblate at St. Mary’s Abbey in Morristown.

We will miss Maggie deeply but take solace in knowing that she is with the Lord. May she rest in peace.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend a memorial visitation for Maggie on Monday, May 20, 2024 from 12:30 p.m. to 2:30 p.m. held at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison.

Immediately following the visitation, a memorial Mass will be offered at 3:00 p.m. at St. Vincent Martyr Church, 26 Green Village Road, Madison. Those who are unable to attend in person may attend the Mass virtually by visiting www.svmnj.org and following instructions for live-stream mass viewing.

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Mitchell D. Rubin - January 11, 1943 - May 10, 2024

Departed: 05/10/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Mitchell Donald Rubin, raised in Queens and a longtime resident of New Jersey, passed away on May 10, 2024 at age 81.

Mitch graduated with his Bachelor’s degree from Queens College and obtained his JD and Tax LLM from NYU Law. He practiced law for decades in AT&T’s tax department, working particularly long hours during the company's divestment period in the early 80’s.

Mitch was an avid fan of the arts - most notably theater, music and modern art - and was deeply knowledgeable regarding a wide variety of subjects. Among other topics, he loved to expound on world history, religion and movies. He was deeply involved with his Jewish heritage and the LGBTQ+ community of New Jersey, and with family and friends through activities like his valued book club.

After several lengthy hospitalizations in recent years, Mitch would often share the unsolicited advice “don’t get old.” Well, he did, and we’re glad.

Mitch was predeceased by his parents, Ruth and Andre, and his brother, Herbert. He is survived by his brother Stuart, his two children, David Rubin and Jessie Van Arman (nee Rubin), children-in-law, Shannon and Darius, and his grandson Avery along with many close friends and community.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend a memorial visitation for Mitch on Sunday, May 19, 2024, from 12:00 PM to 3:00 PM with a 1:00 PM Celebration of Life Service held at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison.

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Dr. Herbert M. Potash - June 16, 1938 - May 07, 2024

Departed: 05/07/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Dr. Herbert M. Potash of Madison, NJ, passed away on Tuesday, May 7, 2024. He is survived by his loving wife and life partner of 63 years, Janice, son, David Potash and daughter-in-law Jenny Gibbs, daughter, Stephanie Barry and partner Kevin Drexler; grandchildren, Sam, Max, and Nicky Barry, Lydia and Michael Potash, and his beloved Welsh terrier, Jasper.

Herb, affectionately known as Doc by his family, was, like elder sister Betty, born in the Bronx, NY to parents Esther (Gordon) Potash and Saul Potash. The son of Lithuanian immigrants, Herb worked alongside his parents at their dry goods store in the Bronx, attended Hebrew school, and graduated from DeWitt Clinton High School at the age of 16. He then attended University of Chicago for his BA in Psychology, continued with his MA at Kent State University, and completed his PhD in Psychology at Michigan State University, where he met his wife. He ultimately attained his Diplomate in Professional Psychotherapy.

Dr. Potash had an illustrious career as both a university professor and a private practitioner. He began his teaching career at the University of New Hampshire, and then devoted over 30 years of his professional life to heading the Master’s Program in Clinical Psychology at Fairleigh Dickinson University in Madison, NJ. During this time, Herb wrote two textbooks for use by his students and fellow practitioners. He also worked at two state clinics. Doc impacted thousands of future practitioners through his innovative approach to teaching and his dedication to existentialism, the therapeutic practice founded in deep reflection on what it is to be human. He maintained a private clinical practice in his home for decades, helping hundreds of people both professionally and personally. After retiring from teaching, Dr. Potash wrote Becoming Plumb Healthy for his grandchildren, sound and loving words of wisdom summarizing his philosophy with myriad life lessons. Anyone who knows Herb can extract his true essence from this book.

A connoisseur of life, Herb was a passionate gourmand, serving as the appetizer chef at his and Jan’s numerous dinner parties. He was fond of Spanish food, ice cream and Jan’s delicious homemade cherry pie. As an art enthusiast, he appreciated many Impressionist and post-Impressionist painters, especially the works of the Ashcan School. Herb loved classical music, particularly violin, as well musical theater and dance. He enjoyed being close to Broadway and took in hundreds of shows, plays, and concerts with his friends and family.

Doc most loved spending time with his family and was dubbed the King of Scrabble, as he never lost! He traveled extensively with all of them, from numerous trips to Europe, winters in Hollywood Beach, FL, and summers in Newport, RI, and Saratoga, NY. Herb always welcomed a new adventure. A sports enthusiast, Doc was a die hard Giants fan—both football and baseball— and often recounted the games he attended at the Polo Grounds before the boys of summer left for the west coast. Herb and Jan took up tap dancing later in life to help keep active and once surprised the entire family with a rousing performance of “We’re a Couple of Swells.” More recently, Herb joined a competitive bridge group and diligently worked for master points.

Thoroughbred horse racing was Herb’s other great passion. In his retirement years, he became part owner of several thoroughbred horses. One of them, Afleet Again, won a Breeder’s Cup race in 2012, and his triumph was among Herb’s happiest experiences. Herb most relished time in his beautiful home of over 50 years, gardening in the backyard oasis he and Jan grew together over the years. In his own words: “I have been given the gift of love and have been able to give it back toothers. My life has been so full of meaning for me that I will never be fully obliterated by death. We conquer death by the affirmation of our own lives and by affirming the importance of thelives of loved ones who are no longer with us.”

In this spirit, Dr. Potash will be honored with a celebration of life in late summer. Contact CelebratingHerbertPotash@gmail.com for more information.

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Terence McGowan - May 06, 1944 - May 04, 2024

Departed: 05/04/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Terence McGowan, of Madison, passed away peacefully on May 4, 2024 in Morristown. He was two days shy of his 80th birthday.

Funeral services and interment will be held in Ireland in the McGowan family plot.

May he rest in peace, his work here is done.

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Mary A. Prudente - June 03, 1925 - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Mary A. Prudente, a longtime Madison resident, passed away peacefully in her sleep on Wednesday, May 1, 2024 at Chatham Hills. She was 98.

Mary is survived by her devoted and loving daughter, Phyllis Nunn and her husband Edward Nunn, Sr. of Madison; one grandson, Edward Nunn, Jr. and his wife Wendy; three cherished great grandchildren, Frank Nunn, Mary Nunn and Cathleen Nunn; four sisters, Jean Piano, Caroline Pezzino, Agnes Yuliano and Frances Caruso; many loving nieces, nephews and dear friends.

In addition to her parents, Mary was predeceased by her beloved husband, Ralph Prudente in 1983; one brother, John Terracciano; and three sisters, Filomena Prudente, Catherine Pendolino and Annette Brown.

Mary was born in Florham Park to the late John and Filomena Terracciano on June 3, 1925. She was one of nine Terracciano children, growing up in a large, loving family in the home which still stands in Florham Park. She received her sacraments at St. Vincent Martyr Church and was proud to be a life-long communicant.

Mary and Ralph were married in 1947 and settled in his hometown of Madison, and shortly after they welcomed their daughter Phyllis into the Prudente family.

Mary was a wonderful mother, proud grandmother and great grandmother, and her entire life was devoted to taking care of others. Mary expressed her love for family and friends through her cooking and hospitality. She especially loved to cook and bake for her family during the holidays and on special occasions. Seeing all of her family together brought great joy to her heart.

It was only natural that Mary had a career doing what she loved. She cooked for many years in several Madison public school cafeterias, King James Nursing Home in Chatham, Bell Labs in Murray Hill, and Drew University in Madison. She enjoyed going to work every day and took great pride in it. Mary also valued all the friendships she made along the way. She also worked part-time as a beautician, and in her retirement was a crossing guard in Florham Park, keeping kids safe.

Mary naturally made everyone feel special and loved. The entire family will cherish all the fond memories and the scores of “Aunt Mary stories” that the family will continue to share and treasure.

To know Mary was to truly love her. She lived a long and beautiful life, and leaves behind a tremendous legacy that will live on for generations within her family. May she Rest in Peace.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend a visitation for Mary on Sunday, May 5, 2024 from 7:00 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. held at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, May 6, 2024 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Vincent Martyr Church, 26 Green Village Road, Madison. Those who are unable to attend in person may attend the Mass virtually by visiting www.svmnj.org and following instructions for live-stream mass viewing.

Interment will follow at St. Vincent’s Cemetery, Madison.

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David E. Whiting - May 26, 1938 - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: David Edgar Whiting, Chatham Business Owner, longtime Florham Park resident

David Edgar Whiting, born in West Orange, New Jersey and a resident of Florham Park from 1970 to 2000 before retiring in Forked River, passed away from pancreatic cancer at age 85 on May 1.

He was the proud business owner of Dependable Parts in Chatham from the 1960’s-2000 and of 168 Main Street.

Dave discovered Chatham, New Jersey not from a map, a job, or a drive from the neighboring county, but from a guy he met on the Citizens Band Radio.

Dave, a 1956 graduate of Bloomfield Technical School trained in electronics, held one of only seven licenses in the state of New Jersey, a requirement to be on the radio band. A skilled technician always ahead of technology trends, he was keen for adventure.

In pursuit of the best radio signal, Dave would take to the Mountain peak in West Orange, where he could participate in what he called a “gossip circle” of guys on the radio. Here he met a fellow enthusiast who invited Dave to visit him at Dependable Parts, where he worked part-time in his hometown of Chatham.

After bouncing around various technical and appliance jobs in the Oranges, Dave described coming to Chatham as “finding God’s country where people paid their bills for your work,” unlike his early experiences in Orange. Eventually, Dave bought Dependable Parts from the owner who was keen to be in the budding technology business but needed someone with the right skills and acumen to help the company succeed. Dave thrived with the times, becoming a sought-after Zenith authorized dealer.

Over the years at Dependable Parts, Dave worked side by side with his beloved co-workers Chris Ahlers and Steve Fetherston. He also enjoyed working with a few local students who he hired as part-time employees and kept as lifelong friends.

Dave knew the Chatham towns along with neighboring Madison and Summit like the back of his hand. After nearly 30 years of installing countless TV antennas on roofs and servicing an impressive amount of TVs and electronics, he was familiar with most of the homes and families in the area. He loved his customers and enjoyed meeting and helping a great number of people in the community.

Dave loved Chatham and proudly supported the Best Little Luncheonette and the Chatham Sub Shop for his daily lunch walks. He was a member of the Chatham Chamber of Commerce and could be found most Tuesday evenings at Charlie’s Aunt. He also loved being a landlord of 168 Main Street where he and Peg Whiting were owners from 1975 to 2023.

In addition to all things electronic, Dave was also skilled and equally passionate about motors. He took great pleasure in his impressive car collection. For many years, he could be spotted driving in Chatham’s Fourth of July parade in his baby blue 1954 Kaiser Darren or 1959 T-bird convertible. He was also known to take a spin around town while restraining the V12 265 Hp engine that bolted from 0-80 in seconds in his 1963 Jaguar E-Type coupe roadster. His garage swelled with many motorcycles, including his favorite lawn mowing tractor and a go-kart he crafted from a lawnmower engine and plywood, for his children (and sometimes himself) to enjoy in the woods behind his house. Dave was not only an adventurer and Thrill seeker, In addition to working and spending time on his many projects, Dave was a very quiet organizer and protagonist of fun. He was the ringleader for a bi-annual father-son dirt biking weekend at the “coal pile” mountains in Scranton, PA. Trucks, vans, and trailers would leave his driveway on a Friday, returning at the end of the weekend covered in dirt, carrying smiling fathers and sons with stories to tell. Many memories and legends came from these weekends, and invitations were highly coveted. A family friend who joined for every trip shared this memory: I always remember feeling so comfortable wherever we were, as long as your Dad was there! There was never any concern about getting lost or having some kind of breakdown. As long as Uncle Dave was around things were always ok!

Always plotting the next adventure from his reclining chair, Dave also planned various canoe, rafting, and tubing excursions along the Delaware Water Gap along with annual winter ski trips with family and friends. He never missed an opportunity for a summer picnic, which always included his favorite group game, Pie face.

Dave also took his toys on the water. In the 60’s he bought a very old motorboat with a 35 Hp Evinrude engine from his friend and fellow technical enthusiast, Jay Fisher. This white and robin’s egg blue boat had many Jersey adventures before it went to Wisconsin to reside in a barn. It would come out to play during the annual family holiday week on Lake Ripley, Wisconsin. Dave would spend half the vacation repairing the boat and the other half doing endless loops around the lake so that everyone got a turn water skiing and tubing.

In 1993 his garage swelled once again when he added the Harley Davidson Electra Glide cruiser to his collection. This next chapter saw Dave organizing many local rides enjoyed with his son Brian. He also went on several cross-country adventures with friends and family to visit his other son, Brett, out west.

Dave passed along many of his best attributes, skills, and talents to his three children. Brian was gifted with David’s technical and mechanical acumen and passion for projects. Brett was graced with Dave’s “man of the people” spirit, open-heart, and generosity with creating connections and planning gatherings. And Gwen received Dave’s creative problem-solving skills and passion for creating and building a business.

Dave was a steadfast rock, dedicated to his children. From assisting Brian with his childhood recycling collection to driving him for midnight practice at the Ice Hockey Rink, Dave was blessed to have a son who was his best friend, sharing passions for projects together.

Dave and Brett enjoyed many father-son activities including years of cross-country adventures, sharing invaluable experiences and moments as they traveled the US. Dave was always happy to be the driver for Gwen and her friends throughout high school, college, New York City, and beyond. While he enjoyed getting everyone home safely and was always up for a drive, he also loved as a friend of Gwen wrote this week, “having a front row seat to the fun.”

In the 80’s, Dave spent endless hours behind the very first and giant!) Betamax Video Recorder, capturing hours of video footage of Gwen and her teammates competing in the Madison Rosettes YMCA Gymnastics meets.

While Dave loved to mentor and care for his children and extended brood, he was known to look the other way when he knew they were up to mischief, sometimes joining them in a crank or caper.

In his small suburban circles, Dave was always perfectly placed to be there for many young neighbors and locals who needed safe adult support. Dave’s unique, kind way made him special. He was very proud and privileged to be a role model, mentor, friend, and father figure for a few key people in his life, including Bill Howell and John Duetsch. Even a toddler neighbor would come to the backyard to see if Mr. Whiting could play, as he enjoyed Dave’s life-sized toys.

Dave and Peg shared 30 years together filled with family, friends and fun. Many wonderful years, Sunday luncheons, holidays and weekly visits with Dave’s mom Olive and brother Charles. Years of holidays, vacations, and special events with Peg’s parents Bob and Winnie, Peg’s sister Cindy and her husband Jud, and his nieces Betsy and Susan. In addition, they enjoyed spending time together with many life-long friends.

Dave spent his retired years dedicated to the Lacey County Ambulance Squad and enjoyed volunteering on many charity motorcycle events.

Dave served in the U.S. National Army Reserves as a cook and fondly recounted the camaraderie with the guys and especially his time talking to everyone and making mash potatoes in the mess hall. Dave truly embodied the spirit of living life to the fullest. He loved what he did and the people he did it with. A month ago, the hospice chaplain asked Dave if there was anything left on his bucket list or if there was anything he didn’t get to do, to which Dave responded peacefully, “no, I’m good.’

Dave is survived by Margaret Taber Whiting of Florham Park, son David Brian Whiting of Florham Park (mother Judy Whiting of Madison), son Brett Taber Whiting, daughter-in-law Elieen Whiting, and granddaughter Sage Marie Whiting, of Bloomington, MN, and daughter Gwen Laura Whiting and son-in-law James Jordan Dale of Bridgehampton and New York City, NY.

Charitable contributions may be made in Dave's memory to the Lacey Township EMS, P.O. Box 289, Forked River, NJ 08731.

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Ralph J. Ercole - January 28, 1960 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure. Ralph Joseph Ercole, a longtime Morristown resident, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by the love of his family on Sunday, April 28, 2024. He was 64 years young. Ralph was born in Brooklyn, New York on January 28, 1960, and was the cherished son of Josephine and Abramo Ercole (1934-1976). Josephine and Abramo filled Ralph’s life with love, tradition, and family values, which he instilled in his own family.

Ralph leaves behind his beloved wife of 37 years, Colleen Ercole (née Clark); four devoted children, Jonathan Ercole and his wife Jessica, Justin Ercole and his significant other Emily, Christian Ercole and his wife Amy, and Gabrielle Ercole and her significant other Matthew; his loving mother, Josephine Ercole; one sister, Ann Marie Ercole; one brother, Joseph Ercole; his cherished grandchildren, Reagan Rose, Riley Josephine, and Reid David; his treasured dog, Bowie; and many nieces, nephews, cousins and dear friends.

Ralph grew up in Dix Hills and attended South Ridge Elementary School and Green Meadows Junior High. Shortly after the loss of his father, he graduated as valedictorian from Commack High School. Ralph went on to pursue higher education at Fordham University - College of Business Administration, where he excelled academically and earned a B.S. in finance with summa cum laude honors. During these formative college years, he lived with his Aunt Marge, Uncle Ted, and cousins Eddie and Steve in the Bronx.

Upon graduating, Ralph began his successful career on Wall Street working for O’Connor & Associates and quickly became Vice President of U.S. Specialist Operations. He continued to progress in his career and served as a key employee at various other institutions such as Bear Sterns, Lehman Brothers, Knight Financial Products, Vicis Capital Management and several other organizations.

Despite his professional achievements, Ralph viewed his greatest accomplishment as his beloved family. He married his soulmate, Colleen, on March 21, 1987 and they settled in Morristown where they built a beautiful life together and raised their four children: Jonathan, Justin, Christian and Gabrielle.

As an avid sports fan, Ralph served as the coach for several of his children’s sports teams, attending athletic events with them and supporting them in all their academic and co-curricular pursuits. His family fondly remembers Ralph’s interest in cooking and grilling for nightly family dinners, particularly his spicy sausage and peppers, which he made on a routine basis. Acting as a master of the grill always brought him so much happiness. He cherished every moment with his grandchildren and was blessed to have made so many memories with them - they absolutely adored their “Poppy”. When Ralph wasn’t spending time with his children or grandchildren, he could be found with his golden retrievers, Ryder and Bowie.

Ralph continued sacrificing and working to provide for his family until his last day. They all turned to him for advice and will continue to seek his guidance through prayer in the future. There is no doubt that Ralph had an impact on everyone he met. He was a pillar of wisdom, guidance and strength for all.

Despite the deep sadness in his family's hearts, they take comfort in knowing that he is now at peace, watching over his most prized and cherished achievements from above. With his early departure, Ralph had so much more love to give and smiles to be had. We hope we can all honor his legacy in the years to come. He will be with us every Yankee and Giants game we watch, football cake and rainbow cookie we eat, and every achievement and milestone we make. He is deeply missed and will continue to be for the rest of our days.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend a visitation for Ralph from 1pm to 5pm EST on Sunday, May 5, held at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison, NJ 07940.

Funeral services will begin at 11am EST on Monday, May 6 celebrated at Saint Mary’s Abbey located at 230 Mendham Road, Morristown, NJ 07960.For those who wish or are unable to attend, the mass may be livestreamed by visiting this link.

Charitable contributions may be made in Ralph’s memory to support the family during this time.

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John DeWitt - Unknown - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: John DeWitt, a longtime resident of Newton, passed away peacefully at his home at the age of 61.

A graveside service will be held at 3:30 p.m. on Friday, April 26, 2024 at the New Cedar Ridge Cemetery, Jacksonburg Road Blairstown, New Jersey.

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Carmine A. Cavezza - May 29, 1940 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Carmine Anthony Cavezza, age 83, a longtime resident of East Hanover, passed away peacefully after a short illness on Wednesday, April 17, 2024 with his family by his side.

Carmine is survived by his two devoted sons, Michael A. Cavezza and James C. Cavezza and his wife Meredith; three grandsons who he adored, Dante, Nicholas and Matteo; two brothers, Mario Cavezza and his wife Patricia & Francesco Cavezza and his wife Lucia; three sisters, Carol Spagnuolo and her husband Pasquale, Lucy Cavezza McGrath & Mary Belknap and her husband William; and several extended family members and dear friends.

Carmine was predeceased by his beloved wife, Diana Cavezza (née Rizzo) in 2018; his son, Thomas D. Cavezza on January 25, 2024; and an infant daughter, Christina Cavezza, many years ago.

Carmine was born in the town of Cicciano in Naples, Italy on May 29, 1940 to the late Tomasso and Rosina Cavezza. He emigrated to the United States with his family when he was 12 years old, settling in Madison, NJ. Carmine’s parents instilled the importance of family, faith and hard work in all of their children.

Carmine graduated from Madison High School and shortly after enlisted in the United States Army to serve his country, which he was extremely proud of. He served in Germany and Libya before being honorably discharged.

After his time in the Army, Carmine married his beloved wife, Diana Cavezza. They lived in Madison shortly before settling in East Hanover in 1969, where they raised their three sons.

Carmine had a career spanning close to 50 years with New Jersey Transit out of their Maplewood hub. He drove a New Jersey Transit bus for many years and on several different routes. Carmine was dedicated to his work and his professionalism made him a role model for new hires joining New Jersey Transit. He was proud of his near half a century of service to the people of New Jersey and the many friendships he forged with his colleagues.

Carmine’s most proud role was that of father and grandfather. He loved to spend time with his three sons and his three grandsons, who he was deeply proud of. Carmine taught them everything he knew and his life revolved around his family. He enjoyed cooking for everyone during the holidays and spending time with his family during the summers at the shore. He was also well-known for being an incredible gardener. Carmine expertly grew tomatoes and various other vegetables in his garden.

Carmine made the world a better place and touched the lives of many. He will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him, and leaves behind a beautiful legacy that will live on for generations within his family.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend the visitation from 1:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. on Sunday, April 21, 2024 held at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison.

Funeral services will begin at 9:00 a.m. at the funeral home on Monday, April 22, 2024 followed by a 10:00 a.m. Mass of Christian Burial celebrated at St. Rose of Lima Church, 312 Ridgedale Ave, East Hanover.

Entombment will follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, East Hanover. Charitable contributions may be made in Carmine’s memory to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 262 Danny Thomas Place, Memphis, TN 38105

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Phyllis A. Campbell - November 25, 1924 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Phyllis A. Campbell, a longtime Madison resident, passed away peacefully on Sunday, April 14, 2024 at Garden Terrace in Chatham. She was 99.

Phyllis is survived by her daughter, Judith Campbell of Madison; two granddaughters, Christine Preston and her husband Michael; the Hon. Samantha Elliott and her husband Matthew; one grandson, Bryan Campbell and his wife Elena; five great-grandchildren whom she adored, Delia Preston, Fiona Elliott, Ben Preston, Sarah Kate Preston, and Henry Elliott; her daughter-in law, Shana Campbell, and family; and many dear friends at Juniper Village.

In addition to her parents, Phyllis was predeceased by her beloved husband, Dr. Matthew J. Campbell, DDS; her two sons, Mark Campbell and Paul Campbell; one granddaughter, Kathryn Stanley; and one great-granddaughter, Kathryn Preston.

Phyllis was born on Staten Island on November 25, 1924 to the late Helen Hegarty Lotz and Edward Lotz. She was raised with her brother and two sisters in a large multigenerational family in the close-knit West Brighton neighborhood of Staten Island.

Phyllis married her husband Dr. Matthew J. Campbell on December 28, 1946. They lived in the Georgetown section of Washington DC while Matty completed dental school and they welcomed their daughter Judy. They eventually settled back on Staten Island where they welcomed sons Mark and Paul, and Matty started his dental practice. They enjoyed many adventures there with Phyllis’s sister and brother-in-law Bobo and Lou McNally, their children, and many other friends and relatives. Phyllis was an active parishioner of Sacred Heart Parish in Staten Island for many years and was also a member of the mother’s guild of Augustinian Academy.

After many joyous years focused on her children, Phyllis decided to return to school, graduating from Richmond College, now known as the College of Staten Island, at the age of 54. She had a long career as a volunteer coordinator, first with Memorial Sloan Kettering Medical Center in New York City and then with Snug Harbor Cultural Center on Staten Island.

After her husband Matty’s death in 1991, Phyllis moved to New Jersey to be closer to her daughter Judy and family. During that time, she began another career, commensurate with her acute sense of fashion, as a sales associate at Burberry in the Short Hills Mall. She enjoyed this job and the friendships she made with her clients and colleagues.

Always pursuing new interests, she taught English as a second language, studied French, and practiced yoga. All of these activities brought new and interesting people into her life. She spent the last 8 years living at Juniper Village in Chatham, NJ where she became one of the residents at the heart of the community.

Phyllis was known for her apt turns of phrase. Even those who were unfamiliar with her special sayings knew immediately what she meant to convey. Her quips, sharp wit, bright smile, and warmth will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to the visitation held on Thursday, April 18, 2024 from 3-5 p.m. and 7-9 p.m. at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison.

Funeral services will begin at 9:00 a.m. on Friday, April 19, 2024 at the funeral home followed by a 10:00 a.m. Mass of Christian Burial celebrated at Corpus Christi Church, 234 Southern Boulevard, Chatham.

Interment will be held at St. Peter’s Cemetery, 52 Tyler Avenue, Staten Island, NY 10310.

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Cesar Antonio Quispe - December 16, 1969 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Cesar Antonio Quispe, of Morristown, passed away peacefully on April 13, 2024, at Morristown Medical Center. He was 54.

Cesar was born in Lima, Peru to Luisa Montes and Florencio Quispe on December 16, 1969. He went to high school at Don Bosco Tech in Paterson, NJ and graduated in 1988. He went on to earn a Bachelor of Science degree in electrical engineering from New Jersey Institute of Technology [NJIT]. He worked as an information technology consultant specializing in Microsoft for many companies throughout his career. Most recently he was a Deputy Director for Cognizant Technology Solutions where he worked for 17 years. He lived life to the fullest and was a nerd and big kid at heart. He enjoyed all things Disney, superhero and Star Wars-related; arcade, pinball and video games; movies, nice meals, gadgets and tech, attending concerts, comedy clubs, seeing shows on Broadway, his dogs and traveling. Most of all, he cherished his friends and family with his greatest joy tied to any activities with his children. As a first-generation US citizen, Cesar represented the American Dream and often supported Hispanic/Latinx organizations.

Cesar is survived by his wife Alison, son Jackson (20), daughter Katherine [Katie] (18) and father Florencio Quispe of Morristown, NJ; his brother Ronaldo Quispe of New York City, NY; his brother Joel, sister-in-law Patricia and nephew Ivan Quispe of Seattle, Washington and numerous uncles, aunts and cousins. He is preceded in death by his mother, Luisa Montes.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend a memorial visitation for Cesar on Saturday, April 20, 2024, from 11:00 AM to 1:00 PM with an 11:30 AM funeral service all held at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison.

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Helen R. Stuehler - March 16, 1941 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Helen Ruth Stuehler, a lifelong resident of Harding Township, passed away peacefully at her home on Friday, April 12, 2024, at the age of 83, surrounded by the love of her family.

She is survived by her two nieces, Beth Stuehler Krawczuk and her husband Stephen, Rebecca Stuehler and her partner Michael; a nephew, Matthew Stuehler and his wife Treacy Kiley; along with five cherished great-nieces and nephews.

In addition to her parents, Helen was predeceased by her brother, David Stuehler, and sister-in-law, Angela Stuehler (nee Pulsinelle).

Helen was born in Newark, NJ on March 16, 1941 to the late Carl Max and Jessie Helena Stuehler (nee Jansen). The family moved to Harding Township in 1945 where she and her brother David were raised on Mount Kemble Lake.

Helen was brilliant, extremely creative, with a profound connection to nature.

Helen began her academic journey at NYU with an interest in pre-med, but graduated with a BA in English. While at NYU Helen had a distinguished fencing career, winning many awards and championships.

Post-graduation, Helen resided in Manhattan, combining her love for science and writing, she worked as a Lab Technician and Technical writer at The Rockefeller University.

Soon Helen moved closer to home and worked for the West Indies Laboratory and Department of Earth Sciences at Fairleigh Dickinson University in Madison, NJ where she was a technical writer and contributor to marine biology research.

Coming from a very artistic family, Helen's love for art continued to grow and she sought out more education studying art at a university in Mexico and County College of Morris. Brief employment at The New School and Cooper Union in NYC fueled her talents.

Helen was a gifted, whimsical, and prolific artist throughout her life. Her creativity was projected through many mediums, such as collages, oil painting, and clothing design. She was particularly passionate about transforming recycled materials into innovative art pieces.

She was blessed with a life that afforded her to travel extensively and explore the world. An incredible example of her adventurous spirit was when she and her mother went canoeing down the coast from NJ to Hollywood Florida camping under the canoe on the beach many nights. According to the Carteret County News-Times of Beaufort NC they also took some inland waterways and occasionally hitched a ride on the back of yachts.

Helen cared deeply about the environment and was a strong supporter of the Great Swamp National Wildlife Refuge. She loved nature and the Great Swamp was a special place to her ever since she was a girl.

Although Helen will be deeply missed, her warmth, and love will always be remembered by her family and friends. May she Rest in Peace.

Funeral services will be held privately for the family at Helen’s request.

Charitable contributions may be made in Helen’s memory to the Great Swamp Watershed Association, P.O. Box 300, New Vernon, NJ 07976.

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Kevin M. Piccolo - July 01, 1977 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Kevin M. Piccolo, a longtime Madison resident, passed away peacefully on Thursday, April 11, 2024, after a long illness. He was 46.

He leaves behind his devoted parents, Raymond Piccolo and Connie Russo-Streiff; his stepfather, Andrew Streiff; one brother, Brian Piccolo; his grandmother, Dorothy Piccolo; two uncles, Frank Piccolo and Neil Russo; and one niece, Madison, as well as many dear friends.

Kevin was preceded in death by his maternal grandparents, Joseph and Madeline Russo; and his paternal grandfather, Frank N. Piccolo.

Kevin was born in Summit on July 1, 1977. He was raised in Madison and graduated from Madison public schools. Kevin was a very athletic child and teenager before falling ill at age 20. He participated in junior football and Kiwanis club baseball and loved being with his friends. Kevin was well-loved in Madison.

Kevin always kept a positive outlook on life and had an incredibly strong will. His life was a testament to strength, faith and unwavering hope. Kevin truly inspired everyone he met.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend a visitation for Kevin on Monday, April 15, 2024 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. held at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, April 16, 2024 at 9:30 a.m. at St. Vincent Martyr Church, 26 Green Village Road, Madison. Those who are unable to attend in person may attend the Mass virtually by visiting www.svmnj.org and following instructions for live-stream mass viewing.

Interment will follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, East Hanover.

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Valdaishia L. Simpkins - June 25, 1996 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Madison )

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Valdaishia La-Teifah Simpkins was embraced into arms of the Lord on Monday, April 8, 2024 after a tragic accident. She was 27.

Valdaishia is survived by her two cherished daughters, Lauryn Ariel Marshall and Lani Emma Blaise; her beloved parents, Rasheda Belinda Emma Harris of Summit and Ormond Simpkins, Sr. of Irvington; two brothers, Ormond Simpkins, Jr. and Jaden Christopher Harris; three sisters, Bernadette Harris, Shaquetta Valerie Simpkins and Rasheda Mary Downing; her paternal grandfather, Cornell Simpkins, Sr.; four nieces and four nephews; and a host of extended family and dear friends.

She was predeceased by her maternal grandparents, Christine Harris and Michael Roundtree; and her paternal grandmother, Valerie Emma Johnson.

Valdaishia was born on June 25, 1996 in Newark, NJ. She attended Northern Elementary School before moving to Bernardsville, NJ where she attended Bernardsville Middle School and High School. She graduated from Columbia High School in Maplewood, NJ.

Valdaishia had a career at Newark International Airport with Prime Flight, a service contractor to Jet Blue and United Airlines. She was responsible for helping the elderly and disabled board flights and traverse the airport. Valdaishia was in the process of completing the educational and specialized training requirements to become a TSA agent at Newark Airport. She was excited to begin her new career.

Valdaishia’s most proud accomplishment was being the absolute best mother she could. The sun rose and set for her two little girls, Lauryn and Lani, and she was so proud of them. She was a devoted mother who worked tirelessly to provide a good life for her girls and loved to spend every minute she could with them. Valdaishia also loved her nieces and nephews deeply and spent a great deal of time watching her little nephew, Man-Man. She also loved her mother deeply and was a wonderful daughter.

Valdaishia will be remembered for her heart of gold and for being an incredible mother. We all take comfort in knowing that her legacy and good nature will live on in her two daughters.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to a visitation for Valdaishia on Wednesday, May 1, 2024 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, May 2, 2024 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Vincent Martyr Church, 26 Green Village Road, Madison. Those who are unable to attend in person may attend the Mass virtually by visiting www.svmnj.org and following instructions for live-stream Mass viewing.

Interment will follow at St. Teresa’s Cemetery, Summit.

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Jianxiang Liu - October 23, 1970 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Jianxiang “Jesse” Liu, a longtime Short Hills resident, passed away peacefully with his family by his side on Saturday, April 6, 2024. He was 53.

He leaves behind his beloved wife of 27 years, Qingmei Bu; his loving parents, Guankun Liu and Qinying Deng; three cherished daughters, Monica, Helen, and Selena Liu; one brother, Jianwei Liu; and many nieces, nephews, and dear friends.

Jianxiang was born in Guangzhou, China on October 23, 1970. He achieved his bachelor's degree from Sun Yat-Sen University where he met his future wife, Qingmei. The couple emigrated to the United States together in 1992, with Jesse receiving his first master’s degree in math at the University of Georgia. He then went on to graduate from Yale University with a master’s degree in computer science. Jianxiang had a long career as a Financial Engineer at MatlinPatterson in New York City.

Jianxiang and Qingmei married on July 12, 1996, and first settled in New York before coming to New Jersey to raise their family. His three daughters were the light of his life and Jesse was incredibly proud of them.

Jesse was a passionate supporter of education, serving on the Millburn Board of Education for three years. During his time on the Board, he was instrumental in having the Lunar New Year recognized as a school holiday and in starting a Chinese school in Millburn. At the same time, Jesse enjoyed outdoor activities and was an avid long-distance runner who participated in over 20 marathons. He started a running club in Short Hills that has since grown to have over 300 members. Jianxiang and his family loved to travel and visited numerous National Parks where they made many treasured memories.

Jesse had a great sense of humor and brought light to the lives of everyone he met. Although Jesse’s family is deeply saddened by his passing, they take great comfort in knowing that he is at peace.

A memorial service for Jesse will be held on Saturday, April 20, 2024 from 2:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. at the Westin Governor Morris, 2 Whippany Road, Morristown, NJ. At the conclusion of the service, a memorial visitation for Jesse will follow from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m.

For those unable to attend the memorial services for Jesse in person, a livestream of the memorial service can be viewed by visiting this link.

In lieu of gifts, charitable contributions in Jesse’s memory may be made to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network or Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center.

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Sharon M. Littlejohn - May 05, 1951 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Sharon Mae Friedman Littlejohn, a longtime Madison resident, passed away peacefully at home on Friday, April 5, 2024. She was 72.

Sharon leaves behind her beloved husband of 36 years, James Robert Littlejohn; one brother, Leonard Friedman; one sister, Irene Friedman; one niece, and many dear friends.

Sharon was born in Morristown on May 5, 1951, to the late Dr. Myron L. and Lola Friedman (née Melman). She was a proud graduate of Morristown High School, after which she attended the College of St. Elizabeth, graduating with a bachelor’s degree in sociology.

Sharon met her beloved husband Bob in 1982 when she visited the store he was working at. The couple became inseparable, marrying on May 21, 1988. She had a 30-year long career with Morris County Social Services, working her way up to administrator before her retirement. Sharon cared deeply for people, which was reflected both in her work and in her desire to give to others. She generously donated to many different charities throughout her life, and she was always willing to do anything for her family and friends.

In her spare time, Sharon enjoyed reading the bible and watching every Hallmark movie she could. Her family will never forget her kind and giving spirit, though they take solace in knowing that she is at peace.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend a memorial visitation for Sharon on Wednesday, April 10, 2024, from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM with a 6:00 PM memorial service held at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison.

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Helen Pickel - January 02, 1940 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Helen Pickel (née Cerullo), a longtime Chatham Township resident, passed away peacefully into the arms of the Lord on Easter Sunday, March 31, 2024. She was 84.

Helen leaves behind her beloved husband of 62 years, Francis George Pickel; two devoted sons, Francis George Pickel II and his wife Letitia, and Joseph Pickel and his wife Richelle; two brothers, Albert and Richard Cerullo; one sister, Dolores Stricchiola; six cherished grandchildren, Lauren, Joseph, Victoria, Francis George III and his wife Rayna, Christopher, and Kayla; one treasured great-grandchild, Mara; and many nieces, nephews, and dear friends.

She was preceded in death by her parents and one sister, Lillian Mozer.

Helen was born in Passaic on January 2, 1940, to the late Joseph and Josephine Cerullo (née Kastella). She grew up in Passaic until the age of 7 where, following the passing of their mother, her father placed her and her sisters under the care of the Sisters of St. John the Baptist in Gladstone. In Gladstone, Helen attended and went on to graduate from Mount St. John Academy.

Helen met her future husband, George, through George’s sister. The couple had their first date at the movies and had been inseparable ever since, marrying on February 4, 1962, and settling in Chatham to bring up their two sons.

Helen had part-time jobs as a sales associate in retail stores throughout the years, but her focus was always her family. Having her kids and later her grandkids all together at her home brought a special joy to Helen’s life, and she treasured the memories they shared during the holidays. Even after her children had moved out of the home and created their own families, Helen always cherished phone calls from them. She also enjoyed traveling with her husband and family down the shore to Wildwood and LBI, Atlantic City, seeing Broadway shows in New York City, taking an airplane ride through the Grand Canyon, and cruises to the Caribbean just to name a few. She was a devoted supporter of her grandchildren and enjoyed attending their sporting events and dance recitals.

Helen will be remembered for being a low-key, simple, caring, and loving wife, mother, and grandmother. She will be deeply missed, but her family takes comfort in knowing that she is at peace.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to a visitation for Helen on Friday, April 5, 2024 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison.

A funeral service will be celebrated on Saturday, April 6, 2024 at 10:00 a.m. at the funeral home. Interment will follow at St. Vincent’s Cemetery, Madison.

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Jessie Cuccaro - July 13, 1923 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Jessie Cuccaro, a lifelong Madison resident, passed from this life into the arms of her Lord on Thursday, March 28, 2024 at the age of 100.5 years old. She died peacefully at her home with her daughter by her side.

Jessie is survived by her daughter, Barbara Eutsler of Florham Park; six loving nieces and nephews; and numerous great nieces and nephews.

She was predeceased by her beloved husband of 72 years, Francis X. Cuccaro; her son-in-law, William “Bill” E. Eutsler, Jr.; one brother, Michael Bozzi; and her sister-in-law, Maxine Bozzi.

Jessie was born on July 13, 1923 to Filomena and Stanley Bozzi and was a Madison resident her entire life. She was raised on Central Avenue with her brother Michael and resided at two other homes on Central Avenue with her family throughout her life.

Jessie was a graduate of St. Vincent Martyr School and Madison High School. After graduating from high school during the height of World War II, she worked at Ciba Pharmaceutical Company in Summit. Her brother, Mike, formed a friendship with a schoolmate, Francis Cuccaro, introducing him to his sister. Jessie and Francis were married in January, 1948 and later welcomed their daughter Barbara into the family.

In their younger years, Jessie and Francis were fortunate to have traveled extensively. They both worked hard, but always made the time to travel and spend time together on vacations with their family.

Around 1963 Jessie began a new career as secretary in the admissions office at Fairleigh Dickinson University in Madison. She worked there for over 15 years before retiring in 1980. Jessie developed many valued friendships with her colleagues during her time at the university.

Jessie was a wonderful wife, mother and devoted friend who had a kind heart and gentle spirit. She was a lifelong parishioner of St. Vincent Martyr Church, attending daily mass up until she could no longer drive herself. Jessie loved her church deeply and prayed the rosary daily, her Catholic faith gave her tremendous strength throughout her entire century of life.

Jessie expressed her love and admiration for family and friends through her cooking and baking. She never let anyone that visited her home go unfed. Holidays were always most memorable with her wonderful cooking and warm hospitality.

Jessie also had a deep appreciation for nature and loved gardening. She grew beautiful flowers of many different varieties. She valued the peace and beauty that being outdoors brought to her.

Relatives and friends are kindly invited to a memorial visitation on Wednesday, April 3, 2024 from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison.

A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, April 4, 2024 at 10:00 a.m. at St. Vincent Martyr Church, 26 Green Village Road, Madison. Those who are unable to attend in person may attend the Mass virtually by visiting www.svmnj.org and following instructions for live-stream Mass viewing.

Interment will follow at St. Vincent’s Cemetery, Madison.

The family would like to offer their heartfelt thanks to Jessie's caregivers, Allyson Lewis and Hortense Huie for their dedication and the outstanding care they provided her over the years.

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Francesca S Seidita - July 04, 1955 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Francesca S. Seidita, of Maplewood, passed away peacefully on Thursday, March 28, 2024, after a long illness. She was 68.

Francesca was born in Jackson Heights, NY on July 4, 1955, to the late Vincent and Vita Seidita. She grew up in East Islip before attending Bryn Mawr College in Pennsylvania to obtain her bachelor’s degree. She stayed in the Philadelphia area and had a 35-year career as a budget director at the University of Pennsylvania. In 2020, Francesca moved to New Jersey to be closer to her family.

Francesca will be lovingly remembered by her beloved daughter, Jessica Walthew; her son-in-law Will Field; her cherished grandson Benjy; her brother Vinnie, his wife, Laura, and their children Gemma and Danny; her brother Jimmy, his wife, Gale, and their children Ella, Ruby, and Gio; as well as many friends from college and former work colleagues.

Services for Francesca are being held privately for her family.

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Baby Oakley Maldonado - February 07, 2024 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Baby Oakley Augustus Maldonado, aged 7 weeks, passed gently into the arms of Jesus on Thursday, March 28, 2024. Oakley is the son of Oscar Jr. and Alexis Maldonado of Madison; the brother of little Oscar Alexander Maldonado; and the grandson of Maureen Vassilatos, Oscar Sr., and Noemi Maldonado

Baby Oakley was an unimaginable miracle baby who in his brief visit to this earth, loved being held close by his parents, brother, and grandparents. He brought great joy and warmed the hearts of everyone that met him.

A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be held for Oakley at 1:00 p.m. on Thursday, April 11, 2024 at St. Vincent Martyr Church, 26 Green Village Road, Madison, NJ 07940.

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Nancy T. Brower - January 31, 1929 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: The wind has changed direction, and like her much loved Mary Poppins, Nancy Tasman “Taz” Brower has left us. She died peacefully on March 25, 2024 at age 95, with her family around her. Taz was born January 31,1929 in Lansing MI and grew up with her loving and devoted parents Eric and Helen Tasman in South Orange, NJ. Taz loved spending time with her wonderful father who called her “Pal.” He taught her to ride a bike, play tennis, and roller skate, and together they loved to watch baseball and football games. Such was their relationship that she took on her dad’s nickname–”Taz” which she used for the rest of her life. Calling her Nancy was a tip off that you were either a telemarketer or that you wanted to irk her. While her Mother proclaimed Taz’s sister “practically perfect in every way,” and that Taz “would never be a lady,” she forged a wonderful bond with her Dad over their mutual love of sports. After graduating from Miss Beard’s School in 1947 as the “Athenian” sports captain, she went to Vassar, barely graduating in 1951. “I think I loved playing bridge more than studying,” she often remarked. Double dates with various Princeton men paid off, and she finally settled on Bailey Brower Jr of Chatham, NJ. Though she never converted him to skiing, he fashioned her into an avid Princeton football fan. Together they never missed 70 years of Yale-Princeton games, where she was never shy about loudly offering her analyses of the coach’s play-calling. Yet she always included a supportive “Go Tigers!”

Taz’s “first child” was the Noe Pond Club which she and Bailey established in 1955. Taz loved nothing more than being at Noe, teaching swimming and lifesaving, and creating programs and memories for so many families over the years. She invented the “emblem system” with badges that showed the level of swimming each child had accomplished. Proudly wearing your Gold Fish gave you access to the “deep end” and let the lifeguards know where you belonged. Taz led the development of superb swimming, diving and tennis teams, first at Noe, and then at Copper Springs and Clover Hill. Her most unique creation was the annual “Watershow,” a musical she narrated complete with scenery on the dock and costumes able to be swum in without drowning! Some of her favorite people were the young men and women on the staff, many of whom will never forget Taz, Lake Wallenpaupack, water skiing, and raucous games of touch football.

Taz showered her love and support on her four daughters, six granddaughters, and one grandson. She loved decorating for the holidays, especially Christmas. Taz and Bailey’s nine-foot Christmas trees were legendary as were the evenings of caroling in the neighborhood followed by a hilarious “Yankee Swap.” Many a burned Christmas dinner resulted in the fire department showing up, much to the delight of her grandson. When a fireman exclaimed, “Oh no, Taz, not again!” She offered him cookies and the day was saved. One of Taz’s essential parental beliefs was that the family that played Wales Tales together stayed together, and many games were played around the Brower family room table. Sons-in-law were inaugurated into this tradition, and though she loved them dearly too, Taz would never ever take it easy on them.

In addition to running Noe Pond, Taz co-founded and starred in many shows as part of the Morristown Marionette Players for nearly 45 years, relishing her roles as heroes, witches, wizards, or really any part that involved a good costume. Throughout her life she volunteered at the Red Cross and Junior League, served as an officer of the National Recreation and Swimming Association as well as the Town And Country Association and NJ Junior Tennis Association, and held various leadership positions at Morristown-Beard School, serving as a Trustee, President of the Alumni Association and more. Taz was ahead of her time, empowering girls through her coaching and directing of school plays at the Peck School, and she was instrumental in bringing girls lacrosse to the Morris County area. She inspired her offspring to live lives full of sports and theater. Taz played a mean game of field hockey well into her 40s, and cheered on the athletic and artistic exploits of her daughters and granddaughters.

Taz loved sharing a good laugh, cruising in her red convertible, making up silly lyrics to well-known songs to celebrate a milestone, or beating anyone in a game of cards. Her spirit was indomitable, and she will be missed by the many who knew and loved her, including her wonderful caretakers Lucy and Karen. Taz was predeceased by her opinionated but much loved Bailey, and is survived by her daughters and their spouses– who will gladly toast to Taz with anyone: Kate Solisti and Marcus Kurek, Kris and Kurt Schulte, Kim and Chuck Barton, Karin Brower Corbett, as well as assorted granddaughters, grandsons-in-law, and one grandson.

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Jonathan Henry Miller - May 06, 1945 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Jonathan Henry Miller, longtime Berkeley Heights resident, passed away peacefully Monday, March 25, 2024.

He was born May 6, 1945 in Pittsburgh, PA.

Jon was raised in Mount Lebanon, PA the South Hills of Pittsburgh. He graduated Mt. Lebanon High School in 1963 and went on to attend West Virginia Wesleyan College, earning a degree in Economics. West Virginia Wesleyan is where he met his wife Susan Sherrer Miller. Jon graduated WVWC in 1967 and enlisted in the US Air Force.

After proudly serving his country abroad he was honorably discharged March 19, 1974. He and Suzie returned to Berkeley Heights, NJ and raised a family there. Jon & Sue would make Berkeley Heights their home for the next 43 years.

Jon was a family man and patriot, through and through. He served on the Union County Regional School Board for one term, an elected position.

He was a loyal fan of the Pittsburgh Steelers and attended Super Bowl XXX in Tempe, AZ. He was also a fierce Pittsburgh Pirate fan. Jon enjoyed a decorated career in the insurance industry before retiring to South Kingstown, RI.

Jon always had a bright and sunny disposition and always wore a smile. He was adored by his children and grandchildren alike. Surviving are daughter Melissa Miller and son in law Andy Neill, grandsons Luke, Tucker & Harrison Neill of South Kingstown, RI; son Keith Miller and daughter in law Amanda Miller, granddaughter Vivian Miller and grandson Owen Miller of Madison, NJ; Rod & Dana Miller of Dalton, GA along with granddaughters Hannah & Claire Miller.

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John Adelbert Makely - July 29, 1938 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: A world traveler, loving husband, proud father and grandfather, John Adelbert Makely, 85, died in his sleep in the early morning of March 24, 2024 after a long battle with Alzheimers disease.

John Makely was born in Buffalo, NY on July 29, 1938 to Marion and Adelbert Makely, an engineer for AT&T, who sang in a barbershop quartet.

John graduated from Kenmore High school and then went on to the University of Buffalo earning a degree in Labor Relations. His brother Allen Makely was his fraternity pledge master in college which capped off an adventurous adolescence.

John married Celeste Valente Capobianco in 1963 soon after he had joined Pan American World Airways where he started by working the reservations agent at ticket counter and culminated a 20 year career as Director for the South-Central United States based in Houston Texas.

Makely traveled with the US and Chinese National Ping Pong teams during their eight city tour and earlier in 1968 as Manager of Religious Affairs for Pan Am he traveled with Pope John Paul on flights between Rome and Istanbul and to South America.

Travel was central to the Makely family and their three children, John Allen, Karen and David spent most of their childhood vacations overseas with trips to Tahiti, Hawaii, Hong Kong, South Africa, Ivory Coast, Senegal, Mexico and much of Europe with three years living in London. John’s favorite line about working for Pan Am was “ We can fly anywhere in the world, we just can’t afford to get off the plane “

Retirement from American Express in 2001 brought him to Wellfleet, MA on Cape Cod. Always social, adding to the Makely’s large circle of friends came naturally whether it was the Norchester tennis club in Houston, Texas in the 1980’s, or the beachfront art scene in Wellfleet John Makely thoroughly enjoyed being part of the community and reveled in sharing his experiences and capacity for humor.

He was a founding member of Wellfleet Preservation Hall, a Catholic Church converted to a town community center. Also, In 2010, he and Celeste, along with a group of dedicate residents, established the Wellfleet Community Garden.

John will be remembered as an avid woodworker, building desks, chests and wooden toys when not restoring trucks and cars or taking apart a transmission or sewing machine just to see how they worked. A meticulous note-taker and student of all things mechanical including his full frame-off restoration of a 1947 MG TC roadster. While proud of his career and hobbies, John was most proud of his family saying recently “I am very happy for the success of my children and grandchildren, and if anyone interferes with that, I will kick their ass”

John Adelbert Makely is survived by his wife of 61 years, Celeste Makely and their children John Allen Makely, Dr. Karen Celeste Makely and David Edward Makely and their spouses as well as seven grandchildren: Maya, Olivia and Audrey Mills, Jack and Colin Makely and Katie and Abigail Makely along with many nieces and nephews. John is also survived by his big brother and best friend Allen C. Makely, 89, and his wife Jeannine. In lieu of sending flowers the family asks for donations to https://www.caregiver.org/

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Gerard C. Miley - October 14, 1959 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Gerard C Miley, of Madison, passed in his sleep March 17, 2024 at 64. He was born in Stretford, Manchester UK, a stones throw from Old Trafford, home of Manchester United Football Club. Naturally, he spent his life religiously devoted to supporting the one true Manchester club, Manchester City.

Uninterested in the rigidity of formal education he joined the workforce straight out of high school. He started with Standard Chartered Bank, where he met his beloved wife, Alison. Despite his obvious attraction, he maintained a professional relationship at work even refusing to vote for Alison in a contest to elect the "best bum" in the office.

When their affection could no longer be contained, they married in 1983 and had two beautiful children, Alexandra who married Thomas Kirk and James who married Mackie Elwell.

His three grandchildren Oliver Kirk, Chloe Kirk and Jem Miley will remember him as their Poppa.

He climbed the ranks through Standard Chartered which eventually brought him the opportunity to move his family to the US. The family fell in love with America and when his contract was up, he sought new employment at Oracle to continue living the American dream.

Immediately, Oracle moved the family to the Netherlands, where they spent a year enjoying the poffertjes, frikandel and seaside. Upon his return to the States, he joined Deloitte where he would ultimately finish his career as a partner.

He was as passionate arguing the minutiae of financial strategy as he was capable of recalling major and minor historical events and trivial facts.

He was an avid reader and lover of fun, traits that would lead to hosting The Firkin Pub quiz fundraiser for The Chatham Emergency Squad annually for many years.

As a former rugby player, he loved to cheer on James and team at Marist College as an unofficial manager/benefactor.

He made his dream of living at the beach a reality when he purchased “Blue Moon” in Cape May. A house full of family memories, laughter, holidays and giggles.

He will be fondly remembered for his good nature, warmth, bear hugs and quick wit. Charitable donations in his memory can be made to https://www.multiplesystematrophy.org/

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Jonathan P. Chang - April 22, 1974 - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Madison )

Obituary Preview: Jonathan Paul Chang, a longtime resident of New Jersey and Florida, passed away unexpectedly. Born in New Brunswick on April 22, 1974, he was raised in Edison with his brothers and sisters in a large, loving family. Jonathan graduated from John P. Stevens High School, and earned his Bachelor’s degree in Business and Finance from King’s College in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania.

Jonathan is survived by his daughter, Emma Carreno; his son, Jameson; his mother, Margaret O’Hare; his father, Dr. Peter Chang and his wife Shu Hua; his eight siblings, Mary Chang and her husband George Yankwitt, Peter Chang, Eileen Machler and her husband Brian, Kevin Chang and his wife Michelle, Carolyn Chang and her husband Peter Martin, Leslie Metzler and her husband Thomas, Emily Chang, and Terence Chang; several loving nieces and nephews; and many dear friends and colleagues.

Jonathan was incredibly proud of his daughter Emma and her accomplishments, and cherished his time with her. He loved his family deeply and was a loyal, devoted friend who never hesitated to help anyone in need.

Jonathan found great strength and comfort in God, and Jonathan’s warmth, compassion, and humility were unparalleled. He was equally fun-loving with a great sense of humor. He had a deep appreciation for music and was a diehard sports fan, rooting for the Yankees, Devils, and Giants with his family.

Jonathan was a gifted athlete. A pool shark at the age of 5, he enjoyed playing baseball, soccer, and basketball as a child. As an adult, Jonathan became a triathlete and an avid runner. He raced in several triathlons, half and full marathons, and traveled to Wales to compete in his second Ironman Triathlon in September 2011.

Jonathan’s love of golf began at a young age. He was a member of his high school golf team and was captain of his college golf team. Jonathan excelled in all aspects of the sport and made it his career, most recently as Assistant Caddy Manager at Plainfield Country Club. During the winter months, he would transition to his home in Florida where he worked in the golf industry as well, including at Trump National Golf Club in Jupiter. He treasured the countless friendships he made with club members and colleagues alike.

Our hearts are devastated over the sudden loss of Jonathan. He leaves behind a tremendous legacy. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend a visitation from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Friday, March 22, 2024, at the Madison Memorial Home, 159 Main Street, Madison, NJ, 07940

Mass will be celebrated at 10:00 a.m. on Saturday, March 23, 2024, at St. Vincent Martyr Church, 26 Green Village Road, Madison.

Cremation will be held privately for the family. Charitable contributions may be made in Jonathan’s memory to: Fern House, 1958 Church Street, West Palm Beach, FL, 33409. https://fernhouse.org/donate/

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