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Rafael Torres - July 13, 1957 - March 21, 2023

Departed: 03/21/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Rafael Torres, 65, passed away peacefully at home on March 21, 2023, surrounded by his loving family.

Born in Dominican Republic, Rafael was the son of Jesus Torres and Ludovina Carmen Rodriguez. He is lovingly survived by his wife, Brunilda; his children, Anthony Torres and Sarah Rusk, Stephanie Torres, Ralph Torres, and Katrina Torres-Geronimo and her husband Ramses; his grandchildren, Josalyn Pagan, Annalyss Pagan, Noel Pagan, Giovanni Pagan, Kiera Torres, Taylor Chippendale, Aiden Torres, and Ramses Geronimo II known as RJ; and his siblings, Marilyn Kiran, Iris Cruz, Francia Torres, Randy Torres, and Ray Torres. Rafael worked at Indian Point for over 30 years and enjoyed telling jokes and making others laugh.

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Robert James Sanders, Sr. - September 14, 1929 - March 20, 2023

Departed: 03/20/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Robert J. Sanders, Sr. (Bob), 93, of Towaco, NJ was called by the Heavenly Father on March 20, 2023 at Brookdale Assisted Living after living a wonderful life full of love, noteworthy accomplishments, and service.

He was the devoted husband of Barbara Zlotnick-Sanders with whom he shared nearly 46 years of marriage. He leaves two sons, Robert Jr. and his wife Katie of Pompton Lakes, NJ, Kevin and his wife, Terri of Allentown, PA and a daughter, Dr. Stacy Sanders-Burke and her husband Richard Burke of Norwood, Mass. In addition to his children, he leaves behind five grandchildren, Emily Schwartz and her husband Harry, Richard Sanders and his fianceé Ursa Remondi, Robert J. Sanders III, Steven Sanders, and Ainsley Burke, along with two great grandchildren, Cooper Schwartz and Margaret Schwartz.

Bob was born in Queens, NY to Frank Sanders, Jr. and Lillian (Roeder) Sanders. He graduated from Chaminade High School and Seton Hall University where he was a member of the ROTC. After graduating from Seton Hall, he entered active service in the Korean War where he was stationed in Nuremberg, Germany and later at various posts throughout the east coast. He continued his military career by joining the New Jersey National Guard where he retired as a Lieutenant Colonel in 1989.

Upon discharge from active service, Bob obtained his MBA from New York University and pursued a career in business. He began his distinguished career at Bell Telephone Laboratories/ AT&T and retired from the same company 28 years later. During his career he had the opportunity to present the company’s “new” technology, the electronic blackboard, to President Jimmy Carter at the White House. After fulfilling his career ambitions in business, he became a teacher in the Parsippany school system where he dedicated his time to inspiring younger generations. He was loved by his students for the compassion, wisdom, and generosity he shared.

Bob was an avid tennis player, playing with his lifelong buddies on weekdays at 5am and each weekend. Each Sunday after church he could be found in his favorite chair cheering on his beloved Giants. He shared this love of sport with his sons, daughter, and countless young members of Montville Township and Morris Catholic High School whom he coached.

Without a doubt, Bob’s greatest pride and joy was his family. He frequently reflected on how fortunate he was to be given such a blessing. Now, as we mourn his passing, we acknowledge that we were truly the lucky ones having known and loved him.

Visitation will be held on Friday March 24, 2023 at Scanlan Funeral Home, 781 Newark Pompton Turnpike in Pompton Plains, NJ from 4:00 to 7:00 PM and a Mass will be held in St. Pius X Church in Towaco NJ on Saturday March 25, 2023 at 10am. He will be interred at Arlington National Cemetery.

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Ann McLaughlin - June 27, 1939 - March 19, 2023

Departed: 03/19/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Ann “Nancy” McLaughlin, 83, a long-time resident of Pompton Plains, New Jersey, and most recently a resident of Riverdale, New Jersey passed away on March 21st, 2023. Nancy grew up in East Orange, NJ, attending Holy Name grammar school and Immaculate Conception High School, in Montclair, NJ After graduating, Nancy worked for the phone company, then raised her three children, before starting a wonderful career with The Beacon, an award-winning newspaper of the R.C. Diocese of Paterson, NJ

Nancy served for many years on the Pompton Plains Zoning board and volunteered for the Girl Scouts and at Our Lady of Good Counsel church office.

An active person, Nancy enjoyed competing in the Pequannock ladies' golf league, bowling, and softball. In more recent years, she enjoyed the friendships she made at Bloomingdale Senior Center and Pequannock’s senior communities. Nancy, who was predeceased in death by her husband Paul of 58 years, and son Paul Joseph, is survived by daughters Ann Marie Wells of Morristown, NJ, and Mary Jane Maley and her husband Rich of Churchville, PA

She was grandmother to Conor and Kevin Maley (Mary Jane), Shannon and James Wells (Ann Marie).

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Edith M. Cannizzaro - August 30, 1938 - March 17, 2023

Departed: 03/17/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Edith M. Cannizzaro (nee Baldi), 84, of Highland Lakes, NJ, passed away on March 17, 2023.

Born in Jersey City as the oldest daughter of Charles and Lena Baldi, Edie lived in Union City until the age of 13 when the family moved to Fort Lee. She married Joseph L. Cannizzaro in 1960 and the couple settled in Lincoln Park. Edie called Lincoln Park her home for 40 years, moving to Highland Lakes in 2007, shortly after her retirement.

Edie was a successful career woman at a time when this was rare. She worked diligently from right after secretarial school to her retirement at age 70. Every 10 years or so, Edie would reinvent herself in the corporate world and, with each new career, she enjoyed greater success. She began her work life as a marketing associate for J. Walter Thompson Ad Agency in New York City. She paused her career to raise her children. When she resumed, Edie achieved success as a travel agent, an executive secretary, and a paralegal. She was fastidious, the go-to person in each of her positions, making sure every last detail was taken care of. You knew that if you gave it to Edie, it would get done and done properly.

After Edie retired, she volunteered her talents to the office of Our Lady of Fatima Church, Highland Lakes, and with the church’s Rosary Society. She was an avid football fan, supporting her son and grandsons’ football careers, ringing her famous cowbell at every game to cheer them on. You could be sure to find her every Sunday in the fall watching her beloved Giants and every other football game that was on.

Edie is predeceased by Joseph, her husband of 41 years. She is survived by her children, Lisa Joos, Elaine (Lainie) Cannizzaro, and Joseph Cannizzaro; her son-in-law Mark Joos; her grandsons Ryan Joos, Andy Trainor, Joe Cannizzaro, Matt Cannizzaro, and Dylan Cannizzaro; her sister Linda DeMercurio; her brother Charles J. Baldi, and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

Her family was always her top priority, as she would ensure that Joe and the kids (Lisa, Lainie, and Joe) were cared for like only an Italian Mom could do. She not only provided for her immediate family that way, but everyone she could. She earned the nickname “Feedie Edie” as she made sure to feed family, neighbors, friends, church goers, at every opportunity with Italian dishes (lasagna, risotto, eggplant parmesan) or her favorite deviled eggs. Cooking for others was at the heart of her caregiving and demonstration of love.

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Edward Andrascik - March 21, 1963 - March 17, 2023

Departed: 03/17/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Edward Andrascik, of Pompton Lakes, originally of Lincoln Park, died Friday, March 17, 2023. He was 59.

Ed attended DePaul Catholic High School in Wayne and graduated from Fairleigh Dickinson University, where he met his wife Kathy.

Ed loved to keep busy and had many hobbies. He was an avid beekeeper and loved sharing his honey with friends, family and neighbors, and was actively involved as an Officer with New Jersey Beekeepers Association, and the Northeast New Jersey Branch. Most weekends you could find Ed detailing his beloved Jeep or woodworking at his tool bench. He umpired baseball and softball for many years for area Little Leagues and adult leagues, earning him the nickname "Blue Blue". Ed will always be remembered for his outgoing personality and his love of telling jokes.

Ed is lovingly survived by his wife, Kathy (Miros) and their children, Steven, John and Kristin; his brothers, Tom and his wife Diane, and Albert. He was a loving uncle to Tommy and Skylar. He was predeceased by his parents, Thomas Andrascik Sr. and Doris Andrascik.

A memorial Mass will be held 10 am Monday, March 27th at St. Mary's RC Church in Pompton Lakes.

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Joseph Quiles - November 04, 1941 - March 15, 2023

Departed: 03/15/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Joe was born in Ashland, Pennsylvania on November 4, 1941 to the late Andrew and Antimi (Eavarone) Quiles. Joe spent much of his childhood in Pennsylvania until he moved to Paterson, NJ in his middle school years. Joe graduated from Central High School in Paterson in 1959. During his senior year of high school he began working at Kresge’s Department store where he met his future wife, Carole. Joe attended William Paterson University for both his undergraduate and graduate studies. While in college, Joe taught science at Saint Bonaventure High School in Paterson. He then taught one year at Central High School in Paterson, before going on to teach at West Brook Middle School in Paramus as a math and science teacher. He remained there until his retirement in 2007.

Joe was married to his beloved wife, Carole for over 55 years. They were the proud parents of three children and the even prouder grandparents of six grandchildren. For Joe, his family was everything. He lived his life with love and generosity. Joe lived in Woodland Park for almost 50 years before moving to Pequannock in 2021.

Joe was predeceased by his loving wife, Carole (Bordonaro). He was the cherished father to Tracey Monsko and her husband Marc, Robert Quiles and his wife Tori, and Robyn Vetter and her husband Gregg. Joe was the beloved grandfather to Joseph, Nicole and Carly Monsko, Ryan and Briana Vetter and Gabriella Quiles. He was the dear brother to Mary Ann Pepe and dear brother-in-law to Janice Cusack. Joe is also survived by his niece and two nephews.

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Margaret McDonough - July 28, 1931 - March 13, 2023

Departed: 03/13/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Margaret McDonough, 91, of Pompton Plains, passed away on March 13, 2023.

Born in Ventry on the Dingle Peninsula, Ireland, Margaret was the daughter of Patrick and Ellen Fitzgerald. She came to the US as a teenager, shortly after she met her husband of 52 years, Edmund McDonough. The couple ultimately settled in Oradell to raise their two daughters. Margaret loved getting together with family and friends while enjoying a refreshing “beverage” and dancing to her favorite music. She especially enjoyed spending time with her family and adored and doted on her three grandchildren including her grandog Austin.

Margaret is lovingly survived by her daughters, Margaret McDonough, and Dianne Halbach and her husband William; her brother, Oliver Fitzgerald; her sister, Siobhan Cussen; her grandchildren, Michael and Janine Macrone and Sean Lake; her great grandchildren, Michael and Scarlett; and many nieces and nephews.

A memorial Mass will be held on St. Patrick's Day (fittingly, as it was her favorite holiday), Friday, March 17, 2023 at 10:00 am at Our Lady of Good Counsel Church, Pompton Plains.

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Robert Joseph Liggio - May 26, 1938 - March 12, 2023

Departed: 03/12/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Robert J. Liggio, 84, of Cedar Crest Village and formerly of Elmsford, NY, passed away on March 12, 2023.

Born in New York City, Bob was the son of the late Joseph and Antoinette Liggio. He married Eleanor Pocorobba in 1969 and the couple settled in Elmsford before moving to Cedar Crest Village in 2017. Bob was a renaissance man who could build or fix anything. He and Eleanor traveled often and enjoyed many trips throughout their marriage, including cruises, visiting over 100 National Parks, and family cross country road trips. While at Cedar Crest, Bob was involved in the Train Club, horseshoe tournaments (winner of the Horseshoe Competition 2021), bocce ball, billiards, and poker. He was an avid outdoorsman who found peace and solace in nature. He was a lover of animals who enjoyed bird watching so much that he put up bluebird houses around the Cedar Crest campus. He also made a turtle log and put it in the pond near the chapel so the turtles would have a spot to sunbathe. He enjoyed hiking and created a trail in the woods, affectionately called "The Bob-Along Trail" by other residents. He truly made the world a better place and will be missed by all who knew him.

Bob is lovingly survived by his wife of over 53 years, Eleanor; his children, Elizabeth, Christine, John (Barbara), and Janine (Ronan); and his grandchildren, Emily (Kevin), John, Katie, Matthew, and Benjamin.

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Margaret B. Cooper - April 29, 1932 - March 09, 2023

Departed: 03/09/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Margaret B. Cooper, 90, of Wayne, passed away on March 9, 2023.

Born in Stuttgart, Germany on April 29, 1932, Margaret was the daughter of Alfred and Meta Frida Schex Brumm. She came to the US in 1952 and married William Cooper. She worked as a drafter for NJ Bell for 45 years before retiring in 1992, and then worked for 15 more years as a receptionist at Van Dyk Manor nursing home in Ridgewood.

Margaret is lovingly survived by many friends. She was predeceased by her husband, William.

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Paul A Combes - July 22, 1967 - March 07, 2023

Departed: 03/07/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Paul A. Combes, 55, of Lincoln Park, passed away on March 7, 2023 surrounded by his family.

Born and raised in Wantagh, NY, Paul was the son of George "David" and Sue Combes. He married Amy Goodman in 1993 and the couple settled in Lincoln Park to raise their family. Paul earned his CPA license and was the CFO of Saddleback Real Estate Developers in Fairfield. He loved being outdoors and especially enjoyed camping, barbecuing, and smoking meats. He was an avid golfer and Texas Hold'em champion, and was very active in AA. Paul was proud of his recovery and wanted to help others who were struggling.

Paul is lovingly survived by his wife of almost 30 years, Amy; his sons, Andrew and Matthew; his daughter, Margaret; his father, George "David" Combes; his brother, George COmbes; his sister, Dorothy Hunter; his mother-in-law, Barbara Goodman; and his brothers-in-law, Keith and Bruce Goodman.

Visiting hours will be held from 3:00 to 7:00 pm Saturday, March 11 at the M. John Scanlan Funeral Home, Pompton Plains.

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Frances D. Chorba - January 16, 1956 - March 05, 2023

Departed: 03/05/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Frances D. Chorba, known to all as Kim, died at home Sunday, March 5, 2023 in the care of her loving family. She was 67.

Born in Brooklyn, Kim was the daughter of Joseph and Annette Scifo. Raised primarily in Garfield, she was a 1973 graduate of Paramus Catholic High School. She went on to study political science at Marist College in Poughkeepsie, New York, and graduated in 1977 with her Bachelor’s Degree.

While both were working at Spa 23 in Pompton Plains in the late 1980s, Kim met John Chorba. The two fell in love, and married on October 15, 1989.

Settling in Pompton Plains, John and Kim happily stayed in town to raise their family. The sun rose and set for Kim on the lives of her husband and their two sons, John and Dillon. Her extended family and friends were a focal point of her life, and she delighted in entertaining them at her home. The door was always open at the Chorba house. She was an exceptional cook, and enjoyed spoiling those she loved with her amazing dishes.

In the 1990s, she worked as the Director of Training and Vice President for a financial investment firm in Montvale. She later worked for many years as an advocate for childhood education as the Director for Catholic School Families for the Dioceses of Paterson and Metuchen. In recent years, Kim continued to serve others by becoming a licensed real estate agent.

As a longtime parishioner of Holy Spirit Church, faith was central to Kim’s life. With a Catholic practice formed from her Italian American roots, Kim held tightly to her beliefs and was devoted to the Blessed Mother.

Since childhood, Kim held a long appreciation for the arts, and most specifically, theater. She was an employed actor in her 20s, and later refined her skills as an accomplished Theater Director. Kim opened an acting school where she would train young actors in the arts and in life.

As a longtime resident of Pequannock Township, Kim was an active community servant. She was a patriot and proud American who believed strongly in giving back. She spent 16 years on the Board of Directors at Hearle Village in Pequannock, and also volunteered for the Pequannock Township Flood Committee for over a decade. She was a court-appointed mediator for the Morris/Sussex Vicinage.

Kim was a deeply loved wife, mother, sister, aunt, and friend. She will be dearly missed by her loving family: her husband, John Chorba; her sons, John Chorba and his wife Dana, and Dillon Chorba and his fiance Jamie Cotone; her sister, Mary Ann Roberts and her late husband Lou; her brother, Joseph Scifo and his wife Yolanda; her mother-in-law, Marjorie Chorba and her late husband John; her brothers-in-law, Thomas Chorba and his wife Ann, Michael Chorba and his wife Allison, and Joseph Chorba and his wife Maryann; her nieces and nephews, Tiffany, Natascha, Corinne, Esther, Donnie, Lacey and her husband Alex, Louis and his wife Maria, Megan, Ryan, Giulia, and Gabriella; and her great-nieces and nephews, Aria, Hudson, Gemma, Luca and Kaia. She was also predeceased by her parents, Joseph and Annette Scifo.

Visiting hours will be held Thursday from 4-8 pm at the funeral home. A funeral Mass will be held 11 am Friday at Holy Spirit RC Church, Pequannock. Cremation will be private.

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Lucille Ann Laborda - July 17, 1937 - March 02, 2023

Departed: 03/02/2023 (Pompton Plains)

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Lucille Laborda, 85, of Wayne, died Thursday, March 2, 2023 at St. Joseph's Hospital in Paterson.

Visiting hours will be held 5-8 pm Wednesday at the funeral home. Burial will take place 12 pm Thursday at Laurel Grove Memorial Park, Totowa.

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Margaret Brizek - August 13, 1927 - February 28, 2023

Departed: 02/28/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Margaret Louise (Gerdau) Brizek of Montague, NJ, age 95, passed peacefully from this life on Tuesday, February 28th, 2023. A resident of Montague, NJ, formerly of Fair Lawn, she was born and raised in Hackensack by Charles and Kathryn (McKinley) Gerdau. Marge, as she was called by her family and friends, converted to the Catholic Faith, which became the soul and center of her life.

She courageously raised eleven children in the faith, nurturing each of them and welcoming friends and eventually spouses of her children and grandchildren into the fold. She cherished her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren, each of whom thought they were her favorite.

Marge was a parishioner of Our Lady of Fatima Chapel in Pequannock. She is predeceased by her beloved husband, Joseph Brizek (1921-1982); beloved son, Paul Brizek (1954-1974); beloved granddaughter, Anna Marie Brizek (1999-1999); beloved great granddaughter, Jacki (2022-2022), beloved brother Charles and beloved sister, Kay Mauthe.

She is survived by her daughters: Sandra (Lester Costigan); Margaret (Robert Rochette); Theresa (Thomas Medino); and Mary (Michael Decker). She is also survived by her sons: John; Joseph (Susan); Gerard (Lillian); Andrew (Dawn); Michael (Lourdes); and Daniel (Pamela). Margaret also leaves behind 36 grandchildren and their spouses, and 19 great-grandchildren. Visitation for family and friends: Tuesday, March 7, 2023 4:00-8:00 PM M. John Scanlan Funeral Home, 781 Newark-Pompton Turnpike, Pequannock, NJ Requiem Mass: Wednesday, March 8, 2023 11:00 AM Our Lady of Fatima Chapel, Pequannock, NJ Interment: Immediately following Mass at Maryrest Cemetery, Mahwah, NJ

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Thomas John Filipi - November 18, 1943 - February 27, 2023

Departed: 02/27/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Thomas John Filipi, FAIC, 79, of West Milford, passed away on February 27, 2023.

Born in West Grove, PA, Tom grew up in southeastern PA. He briefly attended St. Andrew's Preparatory School in Middletown, DE before enrolling in college at University of Delaware when he was just 14 years old. He earned his bachelor's in chemistry at age 19 and worked for many years as an analytical chemist. Tom loved to travel and cook, was an avid reader, and enjoyed theater and the opera.

Tom is lovingly survived by his wife of 32 years, Orinda; his son, Adrian and his wife Diana; his stepdaughter, Elaine Schneider and her husband Ronald; his brother, Francis and his wife Deborah; his sister, Elise Abbato and her husband Robert; his grandchildren, Ophelia, Atticus and Oscar Filipi, and Benjamin and Justin Schneider.

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Rosa Gifford - July 20, 1955 - February 25, 2023

Departed: 02/25/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: It is with great sorrow, the Wizner and Weiberth families announce the passing of our strong, brave and compassionate daughter, sister, mother and aunt, Rosa Gifford (Weiberth), at the age of 67.

Born in Mergelstetten, Heidenheim, Germany in 1955, Rosa was just 1 year old when she came by plane to the US with her mother, Rose Weiberth and brother, Franz Weiberth, reuniting with their father, Franz Weiberth, in New Jersey to start their new life.

Rosa gave birth to her son, Joey, in 1974. She was a devoted mother, friend, confidant, companion, advocate and caregiver. She encouraged his passions for electronics, and they regularly bonded over food and TV. Joey was the apple of her eye, who she loved with all that she was.

Rosa’s nature as an advocate and caregiver became her calling when she began a long career as a registered nurse. Her commitment to the field and her patients was evident when she went back to complete higher education in her 50’s. Rosa’s lively character, no nonsense demeanor and absolute commitment to her job made her loved by colleagues and respected by management of the many hospitals and ORs she worked in. She was particularly proud of leading initiatives to introduce robotic surgical products in several ORs.

Rosa was a beautiful person, both inside and out. She was a woman full of vibrant life and energy. Rosa took absolute pride in her appearance, never leaving the house without her makeup being pristine, and her outfit fit for the catwalk. Her trademark bottle of Riesling and smile followed her to every family gathering and party.

Rosa loved her German heritage and its culture, music and the thrill of driving her dodge charger. She loved reading, day trips to the beach, doting on Joey with McDonalds, and spoiling her nieces and nephews. She bought everyone an enormous amount of Christmas popcorn, loved a devil dog for breakfast and a light and sweet iced coffee from Dunkin’.

Rosa passed on February 25th, 2023, comfortably and surrounded by family at Morristown Medical Center. Her sudden loss is shocking to us all, and leaves a gap in our family that cannot be filled. Rosa is predeceased by her father, Franz Weiberth, and is survived by her mother Rose Weiberth, son Joey Rizzo, brother Franz Weiberth, sister-in-law Carol Weiberth, sister Elizabeth Wizner, brother-in-law Adam Wizner, and her many nieces and nephews who loved her like a second mother - one that took spoiling very seriously.

Rosa’s favorite song, and ringtone for the last 10 years, was “On Top of The World” by Imagine dragons. She said it made her smile no matter how often she listened. The opening lyrics “if you love somebody, you better tell them while they’re here” could not ring more true.

There will be a private cremation with a celebration of life to be organized later this spring, details will be shared when available.

Rest in peace Rosa. You are loved. https://everloved.com/life-of/rosa-gifford/obituary/

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Chester S. Zielinski - February 01, 1961 - February 23, 2023

Departed: 02/23/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Chester "Chet" Zielinski, 62, of Kinnelon, passed away unexpectedly on February 23, 2023.

The son of the late Chester and Agnes Zielinski, Chet grew up in Jersey City. He married Mary Butler in 1984 and the couple lived in Lake Hiawatha before moving to Kinnelon in 2016. Chet owned and operated Magnum Solutions, an industrial boiler service company, and loved dogs, cooking, and being with his family.

Chet is lovingly survived by his wife, Mary; his son, Alex; and his mother in-law, Mary Jane Paterson.

Visiting hours will be held from 2:00 to 5:00 PM Sunday, February 26 at the M. John Scanlan Funeral Home. A prayer service will be held during the visitation at 4:30 PM.

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Elvira M. Weller - February 19, 1930 - February 20, 2023

Departed: 02/20/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Elvira M. Weller, of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains, died at home Monday, February 20, 2023. She was 93.

Born in Fair Haven, NJ; Elvira was the daughter of Malcolm and Rose von Taborsky. Raised in Fort Lee, she was a 1948 graduate of Fort Lee High School.

Marrying Raymond Weller in 1952, the couple lived first in Leonia and Palisade Park before settling in Northvale to raise two sons. Both employed by NJ Bell, Elvira spent most of her career working as a switchboard operator, though later was in the Installation and Repair Department.

Following retirement, Elvira and Raymond moved to Manchester, where they enjoyed much of their time by the ocean. The couple lived in Manchester until moving to Cedar Crest in 2016.

Elvira was a longtime volunteer with Head Start in Hackensack, a charity committed to helping children and their families access free health services of the highest quality right in their own communities.

Throughout their marriage, Elvira and Raymond loved to travel. They were able to visit much of the United States, including Alaska and California, and even got to far away places like Australia and New Zealand. Some of their favorite trips were cruising the Caribbean with their friends. Always known to enjoy the casinos, they loved to visit Atlantic City and Vegas.

After moving to Cedar Crest, Elvira quickly made friends, as she always had. She was a very lovely, personable woman, who delighted in conversation with those around her. She will be dearly missed.

Elvira is survived by her sons, Richard Raymond Weller and his wife Kathleen, and Robert Weller and his wife Cathy; her grandchildren, Michelle Laauwe and her husband Kyle, Julie Lettieri and her husband John, and Kristen Weller and her partner Gary Stetz; as well as her great-grandchildren, Brianna, Annabella and Lucas. She was predeceased by her loving husband Raymond, her sister Sylvia and brother Malcolm.

Memorial visitation will be held Tuesday, February 28 from 4:30 - 6:30 PM at the Chapel at Cedar Crest Village, Pompton Plains. Cremation was held privately.

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Alexander J. Serra, Jr. - May 13, 1957 - February 17, 2023

Departed: 02/17/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Alexander J. Serra, Jr., 65, of Stockholm, formerly of Fair Lawn, died Friday, February 17, 2023.

Born in Paterson, Alex was the youngest of three sons born to Alexander and Martha Serra. Raised in Fair Lawn, he was a graduate of Memorial High School there.

Alex lived in Fair Lawn for most of his life before moving to Stockholm in 1999.

He had a long career working in various warehouse jobs, predominantly with Mona Industries in Paterson. Later, he worked as a Janitor for the Hardyston Township School District.

Alex led a simple life, loving the simplicity of spending time with family, especially his beloved parents. He is lovingly survived by his brothers, Charles Serra and his wife Ellen, and Richard Serra; his niece, Gillian Serra Monahan and her husband James; and his great-nieces, Riley, Mila, McKenna, and Sadie.

A graveside service will be held 11 am Thursday, February 23rd, at the Fair Lawn Cemetery in Fair Lawn, NJ.

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Ruth Gunther - December 09, 1927 - February 17, 2023

Departed: 02/17/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Ruth Gunther, 95, born December 9, 1927, passed away peacefully February 17, 2023.

Ruth was born and raised in Jersey City, NJ. She was a secretary for State Farm Insurance for over 25 years. She was a Sunday school teacher with First Reformed Church in Lincoln Park, where she also taught Bible Studies. Ruth enjoyed crocheting, board games, cards and time spent with family. She nurtured and loved her family, kept everyone together, and made sure family always came first.

Ruth is predeceased by her husband Harry (82) and her son Steven (67).

Ruth is survived by her son John Gunther (Patricia); her daughters Nancy Morin (Charles), Jeannette Tempe (Karl), and her daughter-in-law Jill Gunther (Steven); her 8 grandchildren and her 12 great grandchildren.

Visitation will be held on Thursday February 23, 2023 from 11 am -1 pm at the M. John Scanlan Funeral Home. A funeral service willl conclude the visitation at 1 pm. Interment will follow at Mount Rest Cemetery in Butler.

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Norma B. Simmons - February 23, 1925 - February 16, 2023

Departed: 02/16/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Norma B. Simmons, of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains, formerly of Germantown, New York, died at home Thursday, February 16, 2023, just one week shy of her 98th birthday.

Born in Brooklyn, Norma was one of three children born to Richard and Beatrice Ahrens. Raised in the Flatbush neighborhood of Brooklyn, she graduated from high school there before moving upstate to live with family. While out on a double date in Germatown, New York, she met Samuel Simmons. Though they weren't originally paired up, the two were destined for one another, and in 1948, they wed.

Settling in Germantown, Norma and Samuel raised a son and a daughter there together. While Samuel worked six days a week to support his family, Norma kept the kids in line and the house neat and tidy. While the kids were in school, she worked as a seamstress in one of Germantown's only factories: a manufacturer of women's brassieres. With great hours and lots of flexibility, Norma was able to work and manage her home as well, and in turn, gave her family a strong foundation.

Norma had a huge heart, and was driven to help those in need. She took on the care of several elderly relatives, friends and neighbors, who in succession moved into her home to be cared for by Norma at the end of their lives. Norma was gifted with patience and compassion, and never shied from doing the work for those who could no longer do for themselves.

Norma retired to Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains, and immediately enjoyed living in the busy community. She was invited to join a group of women for dinner on her very first day, and that group became her posse. She embraced the clubs, activities and socialization that the community provided, and was happy to live in such a wonderful community.

Norma was deeply loved, and was cared for by her children until the end of her life. She is lovingly survived by her daughter, Nancy J. Simmons and her husband, Leslie Christie, and her son, Samuel S. Simmons; by her grandchildren, Lily, Ahren, Grayson, and Cameron; and her great-grandchildren, Jameson, Eva, Alani and Aidan.

She was predeceased by her husband, Samuel S. Simmons; her daughter, Holly; her daughter-in-law, Melody Froehlich; and her brothers, Douglas and Frederick Ahrens.

A graveside service will be held at the Linlithgo Reformed Church of Livingston, NY, at a future date.

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Lois J. Pruden - March 30, 1928 - February 15, 2023

Departed: 02/15/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Lois June Pruden (née Carnathan) Resident of Spring Hill, Tennessee March 30, 1928 – February 15, 2023

Lois June Pruden, formerly of Paterson and Riverdale, New Jersey, passed away quietly on Wednesday, February 15, 2023, after a brief illness. She was a remarkable member of the “Greatest Generation” – a devoted and loving wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and caring older sibling to her younger brothers and sisters.

Lois was born in Paterson, NJ, to George Sutor and Irene Kamerling Carnathan, the second of nine children. She spent her youth in Paterson, graduating from Eastside High School in 1946. Upon graduation Lois went to work for NJ Bell Telephone as a bookkeeper.

In addition to enjoying dancing to the music of that era, Lois also enjoyed roller skating, where she met her devoted husband of 71 years, Richard (Dick). She and Dick married September 18, 1948. After honeymooning in Cape Cod and Canada, they lived on the second floor of Dick’s parent’s house on 14th Avenue in Paterson. Both their sons were born while living in Paterson. With the birth of her first son, Lois ceased working outside the home and devoted herself to raising her family. She also briefly worked for Berlex Laboratories in the mid-1980’s, until Dick’s retirement in late 1987. The family moved to Riverdale, NJ, in April 1958, residing there for the next 30 years. In retirement, she and Dick lived in North Carolina, California and twice in Tennessee.

Lois enjoyed organizing and hosting family gatherings and socializing with neighbors. She fondly reminisced about family get-togethers in her later years. She and Dick enjoyed dancing to Big Band music and attending Broadway Shows. Another of their favorite pastimes was traveling, both in the United States and abroad. Among her favorite travel locations were Hawaii, Florida, Bermuda, cruising the Caribbean, and extended vacations to England, Germany and The Netherlands, where her sons were stationed, as well as other Western European countries.

Lois was predeceased by her husband Dick, as well as brothers Robert and Walter Carnathan, sisters Iva Carnathan Bankos and Beverly Carnathan Dews. She is survived by her devoted sons Glenn (late Leslie) and Craig (Deborah); grandchildren Chris (Caitlin), Mackenzie, Doug (Kristi), and Megan; great-grandchildren Kaylynn (Mackenzie), Jayden, Isaiah and Ava Lyn (Chris & Caitlin) and, Isabella and Calum (Doug & Kristi); brothers William Carnathan (late Ruth) Harold (Mary), and sisters Jean Carnathan Easdale and Claire Carnathan Hoppstadter. Lois’s caring and generous spirit enriched the lives of everyone who knew her. She will be dearly missed.

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Martha Malanowski - February 16, 1930 - February 14, 2023

Departed: 02/14/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Martha Malanowski (nee Litchko) Martha was born on February 16, 1930 to Andrew and Mary Litchko. She was one of seven children in Hazelton, PA where she grew up. She moved to Rahway NJ as a teenager. She met Edward Malanowski (deceased) and married on April 25 1953 and had two children, Christine and Karen (deceased). She is survived by her Daughter Christine, Son-In-Law Edwin and Grandchildren Kathryn and Victoria. She resided at Cedar Crest in Pompton Plains after 20 years in Toms River, NJ. She most recently was in assisted living where she enjoyed many activities and making friends. She always had a kind word for everyone and worried about family, staff, and friends alike. In spite of her many health issues, she kept

her sense of humor and positive attitude. She will be missed by many.

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Dr. Robin M. Allen - February 16, 1954 - February 13, 2023

Departed: 02/13/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Robin Hiemstra Allen D.P.T.

Robin Marie Allen, 68, of Pompton Plains, passed away peacefully at home on February 13, 2023 after a long illness. Robin was born and raised in Clifton, NJ and married Michael Allen. The couple settled in Pompton Plains and raised two children.

She graduated from Boston University in 1974 and later received her Doctorate of Physical Therapy from UMDNJ in 2003. Robin was an exceptional Pediatric Physical Therapist working in Early Intervention for many years. She loved her patients and they loved her. She always put her heart and soul into her work.

Robin loved to spend time at the beach, no matter the season. She especially enjoyed hunting for seashells, reading with her favorite drink in hand and relaxing in her beach chair.

She was a loving and devoted grandmother to her eight grandchildren; affectionately known as Mom-mom. She enjoyed swimming with them, building sand castles and her yearly tradition of making Christmas cookies. She was dearly beloved and will be greatly missed by each one of them.

Robin is survived by her husband Michael Allen, her son Matthew Allen, her daughter Laura Mahon, eight beautiful grandchildren and hundreds of children she helped throughout the years.

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Lynne Worden - January 30, 1938 - February 13, 2023

Departed: 02/13/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Lynne Worden, 85, of Oak Ridge, passed away peacefully at home on February 13, 2023 after a long illness. Lynne was born and raised in Wayne, NJ and married David Worden in 1961. The couple enjoyed 61 wonderful years of marriage.

Lynne worked in the banking world first as a teller for First National Bank in Paterson, NJ and moved up through the ranks as the bank changed names. Her final years were at PNC as a trainer.

Lynne loved to cook and bake. She especially enjoyed making cakes for those special people in her life. She also enjoyed nature, whether it was keeping a garden or later in life watching the birds in her backyard and taking pictures.

Lynne was a member of The Chapel in Lincoln Park for most of her adult life giving of her time in different ways through the years.

Lynne is survived by her husband David, her Brother in law and wife, Jim and Lynne Worden, Colorado, her brother in law Len Van Orden, of Pennsylvania, 10 nieces and nephews, 25 great nieces and nephews and 2 great great nieces & nephews. She was predeceased by her parents John and Elva Becker and her in-laws James and Elva Worden and her sister Carole Van Orden. If you met her she would take the time to tell you something special about each of them.

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Norma Griffel - March 02, 1936 - February 13, 2023

Departed: 02/13/2023 (Pompton Plains)

Obituary Preview: Norma Elizabeth Griffel (Lynch), age 86, passed away on February 13th, 2023 surrounded by her family.

Norma was born on March 2,1936 in Jersey City, NJ. She was raised in Fair Lawn, NJ and graduated from Fair Lawn High School as the salutatorian of her class. She loved art and was on the art committee in high school and designed a yearbook cover and played softball. Norma loved to sing and act and went to NYC to take singing lessons quite often. While in NYC at one of her lessons, she was asked by Columbia Records to make a recording. She met her spouse Raymond at her theater group. Raymond and Norma married April 14, 1962 and resided in Paterson, NJ until they bought their first home in Oakland, NJ in 1967.

She spent most of her career as an executive secretary. However, her most rewarding job was opening her home and heart to start a day care center in 1993. Not only did she care for her own two grandchildren but watched many others throughout the years. The biggest impact that Norma left was her ability to connect and empathize with people. Norma loved and appreciated her family and made sure they knew that every day. Norma loved to send and receive texts and even had her own Bitmoji. She spent her last year and a half at the Bristal Assisted Living in Wayne, NJ where she was on a first name basis with all the staff. Norma loved to love people! As we move forward in our lives without Norma, her family and friends will honor her legacy by showing all people love, kindness, and gratitude. We will all miss her dearly!

She is survived by her three children Sandy, Scott and Bonnie. Sandy Faren and her fiancé Mike McEvoy (daughter Emily), Sandy's two daughters Lauren and Kristy. Lauren Faren and her partner Jason Kamerer with their daughter Makenna; and Kristy Faren. Scott Griffel and his wife Robin, Bonnie Hinnigan and her husband Rob with their three children, Sean, Kyle (twin sons) and daughter Kelly. Her sister Helen Smith (Helen's twin sister Fran who is deceased), and many other family members.

Norma was predeceased by her husband Raymond Griffel and her parents Joseph and Helen Lynch (O’Neil) and her sisters Jeannie Lynch, Dorothy Michelli, Fran Dietch, Joan Russell, and Norma’s twin sister Lorraine Lynch. P.S. “Cover me Mommy”, “Text me when you’re home”, “Love all my children and their families with every fiber of my being throughout time! Mom, mommy, mama!"

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to share the news of a person's death with others, providing essential details about their life and funeral arrangements. It also serves as a way to honor and celebrate the deceased person's life, sharing their achievements, interests, and personality with those who knew them.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, the deceased person may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A standard obituary typically includes the deceased person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include funeral service details, memorial contributions, and any other relevant information.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a short paragraph. Some online obituary platforms may allow for longer tributes or stories.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed tribute that provides additional information about the person's life and accomplishments.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and funeral homes allow you to upload photos or create a photo slideshow to accompany the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and share memories of the deceased.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and deadlines. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for publication.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly common for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on your life and legacy, as well as a way to ensure that your story is told accurately and authentically.

What is an online obituary?

An online obituary is a digital version of a traditional print obituary, published on websites or social media platforms. Online obituaries often offer more flexibility in terms of content, images, and interactive features such as guestbooks and condolence messages.

How long do online obituaries stay posted?

The duration that an online obituary remains posted varies depending on the platform or website. Some may keep them archived indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period.

Can I edit or update an existing obituary?

In most cases, yes. If you need to make corrections or additions to an existing obituary, contact the publication or platform where it was originally published. They will guide you through their editing process.

What is a memorial donation in lieu of flowers?

A memorial donation is a charitable contribution made in memory of the deceased person. Instead of sending flowers to the funeral service, friends and family can make a donation to a specified charity or organization that was meaningful to the deceased.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites that specialize in historical records. Local libraries or genealogical societies may also have access to archived newspapers and records.

Can I republish an old obituary?

If you're interested in republishing an old obituary, check with the original publication or copyright holder for permission. You may also need to obtain permission from the deceased person's family or estate.

What is a living obituary?

A living obituary is a type of personal essay or reflection written by someone who is still alive. It's often used as a way to share life lessons, wisdom, or experiences with loved ones before they pass away.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be an effective way to celebrate the deceased person's personality and spirit. Just be sure to consider the tone and audience when incorporating humor into the obituary.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you notice errors or inaccuracies in an existing obituary, contact the publication or platform where it was published as soon as possible. They will work with you to correct the mistakes and republish the revised version.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the deceased person's personality or values.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is typically written before the funeral service and provides factual information about the deceased person's life. A eulogy is a speech delivered during the funeral service that shares personal anecdotes and memories of the deceased.

Can I write an anonymous obituary?

In general, it's not recommended to write an anonymous obituary. Obituaries are meant to be authentic tributes that come from people who knew and loved the deceased. Anonymous submissions may not be accepted by publications or platforms.

How do I deal with conflicting opinions about what should be included in an obituary?

In cases where there are differing opinions within the family or among friends, try to find common ground and focus on celebrating the deceased person's life rather than dwelling on disagreements.

Can I include pets in an obituary?

Yes! Many people consider their pets to be part of their family. Including them in an obituary can be a touching way to acknowledge their importance in the deceased person's life.

What if I'm unsure about what information to include in an obituary?

Drafting an obituary can be overwhelming. Don't hesitate to reach out to friends, family members, or even professionals like funeral directors or grief counselors for guidance and support.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media platforms can be effective channels for sharing news of a loved one's passing and reaching a wider audience. Just be mindful of privacy settings and respect for those who may not want to receive this type of news via social media.