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Christopher Eugene Mashewske - July 21, 1992 - May 20, 2024

Departed: 05/20/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Christopher Eugene (Mashewske) Carney was born July 21, 1992, in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He was raised as the son of Jesse and Jamie Carney. He passed from this life on Monday, May 20, 2024, in Locust Grove, Oklahoma, at the age of 31 years, 9 months, and 29 days.

Chris graduated Locust Grove High School with the class of 2011. Over the years, he worked for National Gypsum in Pryor and Par Fab Industries in Inola. Chris spent time hunting and fishing, but found pleasure in playing video games and messing around in his garage. He had a love for automobiles and motorcycles and was known to be very competitive in playing a game of Risk.

Chris had a fondness for ice cream and snacks. He enjoyed holidays, especially the 4th of July and Christmas. He also enjoyed watching and collecting movies as well as going to the lake and camping. Chris was known to be humorous and soft hearted. Above all, he loved his daughters.

Chris is survived by: his wife, Quin and their 2 daughters, Thea and Everly, of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; his parents: Jesse and Jamie Carney of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; 1 sister: Ashley Cowan and husband Jordan of Chouteau, Oklahoma; 3 brothers: Jeremy Carney and wife Claire of Tahlequah, Oklahoma, Taylor Carney and wife Madison of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, and Trey Smith of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; his grandfather: James Estes of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; several cousins including: Cody Carney and wife Audra of Locust Grove, Oklahoma and Kidd Ryan and wife Ashlynn of Pryor, Oklahoma; as well as numerous aunts, uncles, other relatives and friends.

Chris was preceded in death by: grandparents: Edward Carney, Oweta Carney, and Phyllis Estes; and cousins: Daniel Horton and Stephen Carney.

Graveside services will be held 2:00 P.M., Friday, May 24, 2024, at Mount Zion Cemetery west of Tahlequah on Highway 51. Brother Shawn Bates will officiate. Services were entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home.

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Thomas Van McIntosh - October 07, 1966 - May 11, 2024

Departed: 05/11/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Van McIntosh, Jr. was born October 7, 1966, in Tulsa, Oklahoma, to Mary and Thomas Van McIntosh, Sr. He departed this life on Saturday, May 11, 2024, in Tahlequah, Oklahoma, at the age of 57 years, 7 months, and 4 days.

Thomas grew up and lived most of his life in the Locust Grove area. After graduating Locust Grove High School, he attended Haskell Indian Nations University in Lawrence, Kansas for some time. Over the years, he worked as an electrician and carpenter.

Thomas was an active church goer, faithfully attending His Way Christian Fellowship on Sunday mornings, Iron Post Free Holiness Church on Sunday nights, Markham Ferry Apostolic Church on Wednesday nights, then back to Iron Post Free Holiness Church on Thursday nights. He had become a dedicated Christian and spent as much time with the Lord as possible.

Thomas was very good at drawing in his high school days. Over the years, he enjoyed fishing and being outside. He did not like living in town as he appreciated nature. He missed the squirrels, rabbits, deer, and other wildlife, along with the trees and wild flowers. Pastor Mary Jane Austin referred to Thomas as son because he would call her mom. He was a very funny character that had a good sense of humor.

Thomas is survived by several family members, friends, and church family.

Private graveside services were held at the McClain Cemetery near Locust Grove, Oklahoma. Pastor Mary Jane Austin officiated. Services were entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home.

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Joshua L. Welch - September 15, 1974 - May 08, 2024

Departed: 05/08/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Joshua L. Welch was born September 15, 1974, in Pryor, Oklahoma, to Colleen Kay (Stone) Welch. He sadly left us on Wednesday, May 8, 2024, at the age of 49 years, 7 months, and 8 days.

Josh grew up in Cherokee County, graduating from Oaks Mission High School in Oaks, Oklahoma. Right after high school, he began a successful career in food production and manufacturing with his first job at Simmons Foods where he caught chickens. Over the years, he worked his way up in different positions at Simmons. Along the way, he took nursing classes and also worked for Schwan’s.

Josh had lots of hobbies and passions. He enjoyed grilling, fishing, cruising, and scuba diving. He also enjoyed family outings, playing Bingo, and spending time with his grandkids. Josh always said that his wife Janet was his greatest passion and he truly treasured owning and operating the Fire and Ice Spa in Hulbert, Oklahoma with her. Josh was also a foodie. He enjoyed eating and trips were often based on diving, snorkeling, and food. He was loved very much and will be missed dearly.

Josh is survived by his loving wife, Janet, of the home; his 2 beautiful daughters: Holly Duffield and Marisa Rogers; his caring mom: Colleen Welch; his best buddy and sister: Jolene Tanner; his 6 wonderful grandkids: Baker Hyso, Emelia Duffield, Lucy Duffield, Braelyn Strong, Emmy Strong, and Skyler Strong; 1 nephew: Hayden Tanner, along with numerous other relatives and a host of friends. He was preceded in death by 1 son, Skyler Woodall.

If you would like to support the family, you can send emails to marisa.rogers2996@gmail.com. As well, a GoFundMe account has been established and can be found via Facebook.

Please join Josh’s friends and family as they celebrate his life and the lives he helped by being an organ donor. Memorial services will be held at 2:00 P.M., Sunday, May 19, 2024, at the Oaks Mission High School Gymnasium in Oaks, Oklahoma. Brother Clayton Moore and Eric Johnson will officiate. Cremation services have been entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home.

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Shelly Lynn Bendure-Wilson - February 15, 1970 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Shelly Lynn Bendure-Wilson was born on February 15, 1970, in Pryor, Oklahoma, to Larry and Rebecca Ann (Briggs) Bendure. She departed this life Monday, April 15, 2024 in Muskogee, Oklahoma at the age of 54 years and 2 months.

Growing up, Shelly attended school in Chouteau, Oklahoma, graduating with the class of 1988. For many years, Shelly worked with challenged individuals in their homes. With her clients, she exemplified patience, communication skills, calmness and above all, great kindness. Shelly was also a dedicated homemaker, making sure her family and her home were always taken care of.

On May 12, 2020, in Eureka Springs, Arkansas, Shelly and Graham Wilson were united in marriage, living in Council Hill, Oklahoma for some time. Shelly loved to read and was very fond of any books that told the story of the Amish life. She also enjoyed watching re-runs of “The Little House on The Prairie”.

Shelly had an old soul, given her interest in reading and watching anything that could transport you to a less modernized time. She was very spiritual and known to be a virtuous woman. Above all, Shelly was very nurturing and loving. She loved spending time with her family whom she loved so much. Her big heart will be dearly missed by all that knew and loved her. Shelly is survived by: husband: Graham Wilson of Council Hill, Oklahoma; 3 children: Joshua Steddum and wife Jessica of Salina, Oklahoma, Brandon DeArmond of Pryor, Oklahoma, and Bethany DeArmond and husband Nicholas Richardson of Pryor, Oklahoma; 6 grandchildren: Trevor Steddum, Cindy Rogers, Ryder Steddum, Jackson Richardson, Carter Richardson, and Anthony Richardson; 1 brother: Rodney Bendure of Chouteau, Oklahoma, and

1 sister: Amy Bendure of Chouteau, Oklahoma.

She was preceded in death by: her paternal grandparents: Ray and Avis Bendure; her maternal grandparents: Rod and Rhoda Briggs; Her parents: Larry and Rebecca Bendure; and 1 son: Shawn Matthew Steddum.

Funeral services will be held 10:00 A.M., Monday, April 22, 2024 at the Locust Grove Funeral Home in Locust Grove, Oklahoma. Interment will follow at Chouteau West Cemetery in Chouteau, Oklahoma. Services have been entrusted to Locust Grove Funeral Home in Locust Grove, Oklahoma.

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Joe Frank Chappell - December 20, 1948 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Joe Frank Chappell.

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Amelia McNabb - February 25, 1921 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Sally McNabb passed away early evening on Saturday, April 13, 2024 at the age of 103 years old while living at the Baptist Village in Owasso, Oklahoma. She was born February 25, 1921 to Eulas “Bud” Cato and Ethel Risley Cato at Blackgum Mountain, Oklahoma. She was preceded in death by her parents, one brother (William Cato) and four sisters (Lola Mae Taylor, Viola Franks, Bessie Johnson, and Lillian Peggy Turney), husband Everett Davis, husband Gerald Gene McNabb and daughter-in-law Judy Davis.

Her family moved to Oxnard California when Sally was a young girl. There, she worked on the Naval and Airforce base at Point Magu/Point Hueneme, California. Eventually she moved to Berkley and finally settled in Alameda, California where she had a career working at the Oakland Alameda Naval Supply Center as a Supervisor to many employees until she retired. She loved her career and enjoyed everyone she worked with at the Naval Supply Center. She retired early specifically to move back to Vian, Oklahoma to take care of her Dad after her Mom passed away. In 1999 she moved to Burkburnett, Texas where she lived until October 2014 when she moved to the Baptist Village Independent living in Owasso, Oklahoma.

Sally enjoyed dancing and would go to dancing events in California and in Oklahoma as often as she was physically able to do so. She loved sewing and quilting and made many fine quilts for her family. She would design her own patterns for wedding dresses, gowns, and clothing. She could sit for hours at the sewing machine. She also loved to listen to music and loved doing crossword puzzles. When people asked her how she lived to be over 100 and look so young, she attributed a positive outlook, never worry about something you cannot do anything about, have a sense of humor and be kind to everyone. (And never tell or act your age). There was not a day that Sally didn’t put on her makeup, nice clothes and jewelry, even if she was just staying at home.

Sally is survived by her sons Everett Leon Davis of Burkburnett, Texas, Stewart Gene McNabb and wife Sandra of Springdale, Arkansas and daughter Kathy Brockett and husband Rick of Branson, Missouri. One sister, Alice Miller of Morris, Oklahoma, three grandchildren, (Loni, Kathy Lynn, and Melissa) six great grandchildren (Allen, Chris, Garrett, Brennan, Jonluke and Mareesha) and one great-great grandson (Liam) as well as many nieces and nephews.

A graveside service will be held on April 19, 2024 at 1:00 pm at Box Cemetery in Vian, Oklahoma with arrangements under the direction of Locust Grove Funeral Home in Locust Grove, Oklahoma and Reverend Dale Ritter officiating. Family asks in lieu of flowers to please donate to the Humane Societies or Rescue organizations in your area, as well as the Wounded Warriors, and St Jude’s Children Hospital. The family will be hosting lunch after the service with the location being announced at the service.

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Richard Dwayne Moore - January 18, 1965 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Richard “Rich” Dwayne Moore was born January 18, 1965, in Wichita, Kansas, to Cecil Dale and Juanita JoAnn (Johnson) Moore. He departed this life on Thursday, April 11, 2024, at his home in Locust Grove, Oklahoma, at the age of 59 years, 2 months, and 24 days.

Rich grew up in the Pawhuska area before his family moved to East Tulsa. He then attended Cooper Elementary and Foster Middle School. With the class of 1984, he graduated East Central High School. He served his country proudly in the United States Navy.

Over the years, Rich worked at All Tight Waterproof, Waterproofing Specialists, Trey Waterproofing, and McNutt Waterproofing. He was a jack of all trades being able to paint as well as being able to do finish carpentry and electrical work. Rich was proud of the cedar house he built utilizing his own handcrafted and unique woodwork. He enjoyed hunting, fishing, and taking care of his dogs. He was a master at piddling.

Rich loved to travel to visit friends and family members. He also enjoyed time spent setting around a campfire with his friends. He once converted a “short bus” into a tool shed and fun house. Rich was known to be ornery and if he liked you, he would pick on you. He was also known to argue and debate. Above all, Rich had a good heart, was genuine, and always willing to help others before himself. He will be missed by those knew and loved him.

Rich is survived by: His mother, JoAnn Moore, of Tulsa, Oklahoma; 1 sister: Debi Raper and husband Randy of Bixby, Oklahoma; 1 brother: Steve Moore and wife Alma of Cookson, Oklahoma; numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives and a host of friends. He was preceded in death by: his father.

A memorial service will be held 10:00 A.M., Saturday, May 11, 2024, at the Locust Grove Funeral Home Chapel. XXXX will officiate. Cremation services have been entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home. You may share thoughts, memories, and condolences at www.locustgrovefuneralhome.com.

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Jimson Gene Bluebird - May 08, 1939 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Jimson Gene Bluebird was born on May 8, 1939, in Tahlequah, OK, to Johnson & Emma (Buckskin) Bluebird. He departed this life on Wednesday, April 3, 2024, in Salina, OK, at the age of 84 years, 10 months, & 24 days.

Growing up, Jimson attended school at Cave Springs near Locust Grove. He was a lifetime Mayes & Cherokee County resident. On October 4, 1974, Jimson & Mary Ann Rowe were united in marriage. Together they made their home in Peggs, OK, until Mary Ann’s passing in 1999.

In his younger years, Jimson could be found gigging for fish & crawdad hunting. He also liked boxing, with anyone that wanted to go up against him in a match. Jimson was known as a hard worker having spent many years working for GRDA & at Kaiser in Pryor, OK. He had been a member of the Peggs Community Church, where he would donate his time to help keep the church yard clean & mowed. He loved to mow & enjoyed taking care of his own lawn at home, as well as planting flowers.

Jimson had been a part of a local bowling league in Pryor for many years. Bowling was one of his favorite pastimes. Over the years, he would take care of any stray animals that would stop at the home until they decided to leave. He was a caring individual that loved to tease people and was known for his orneriness.

Jimson liked to watch football, always rooting for his two favorite teams, the OU Sooners & the Dallas Cowboys. He could be seen at local sporting events, watching his great nephews play in their younger years. Above all, Jimson enjoyed & treasured the time he spent with his grandchildren & great grandchildren. He will be missed by all that knew & loved him.

Jimson is survived by: Stepson: John Lewis & wife Cheryl of Peggs, OK, 4 Grandchildren: Carey Lewis & wife Shelby of Bartlesville, OK, Ashley Lewis of Peggs, OK, Joshua Lewis & wife Marissa of Kansas, OK, and Lydia Rega & husband Chris of Prairie Grove, AR, 3 great-grandchildren: Dason Lewis, Kade Lewis, & Saylor Rega; 1 brother: Billy Dean Bluebird & wife Betty of Locust Grove, OK; Numerous nieces & nephews, other relatives, & a host of friends.

He was preceded in death by: his parents; wife: Mary Ann Bluebird; 1 step-son: Darryl Lewis; 2 brothers: George Bluebird & Johnny Bluebird; & 4 sisters: Mary Bluebird, Pearl Vaughn, Judy Abbs, & baby sister Bluebird; & 1 niece: Susan Bluebird.

Funeral services will be held 2:00 P.M., Monday, April 8, 2024 at Peggs Community Church in Peggs, OK. Reverend Rex Henrickson & Reverend Mike Parrish will officiate. Interment will follow at McClain Cemetery near Locust Grove, OK. Services have been entrusted to Locust Grove Funeral Home in Locust Grove, OK.

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Claude George Shadrick - March 08, 1938 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Claude George “Rick” Shadrick was born March 8, 1938, in Sperry, Oklahoma, to Colen and Dolores (Scott) Shadrick. He departed this life on Tuesday, April 2, 2024, at his home in Kellyville, Oklahoma, surrounded by his loving family. He had attained the age of 86 years and 25 days.

Rick grew up in the Collinsville and Owasso areas, graduating Owasso High School with the class of 1956. In 1958, he joined the United States Navy, serving proudly. After his honorable military discharge, Rick worked in a variety of businesses to provide for he and his family. Among his endeavors, he owned and operated The Cajun Boiling Pot in Tulsa and The Bar B Que Shack in Kellyville. He also spent time doing fruit and produce sales, pre-need and cemetery sales, as well as Custom Hay Baling.

On August 1, 1978, he and Sherry Gaylene Rowbotham were united in marriage in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He was of the Christian faith and enjoyed hunting and fishing. He was a proud member of the NRA that spent time reading and watching western movies. Rick was a great cook and enjoyed doing so. His grilled cheese sandwiches and popcorn were second to known.

Rick like to spend time outdoors in his garden or watching birds. Above all, he enjoyed be involved in his grandchildren’s activities. He will be remembered for being head strong and determined, yet affectionate and loving. Rick always made people feel loved and always made sure to tell all the ladies in his life how beautiful they were. He was loved tremendously and will be missed dearly.

Rick is survived by: his wife of over 45 years, Sherry, of the home; 1 daughter: Anita Mizell of Tulsa, Oklahoma; numerous grandchildren including: Heather Taylor and Andrew Walker of Kellyville, Oklahoma, Maranda Ward and husband Christopher of Sapulpa, Oklahoma, Sarah Hubbard of Tulsa, Oklahoma; numerous great grandchildren including: Shyann Taylor, Christopher Taylor, and Haylee Ward; cousin: Lorene Clifton of Tulsa, Oklahoma; numerous other relatives and a host of friends.

He was preceded in death by: his parents; 2 sons: Colen Guy Shadrick and Richard Garland Shadrick; as well as his brothers and sisters.

No services are planned. Cremation services have been entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home.

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Lena Fay Duncan - January 02, 1948 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Lena Fay (Sexson) Duncan was born January 2, 1948, in Phoenix, Arizona to Samuel and Wyoneta (Fogleman) Sexson. She departed this life on Sunday, March 31, 2024, in Claremore, Oklahoma at the age of 76 years, 2 months, and 29 days.

Lena grew up in Locust Grove, Oklahoma where she attended schools. She later attended Northeastern Beauty College. She spent her life as a beautician and hairdresser. For several years she worked at Ginger’s Beauty Shop in Pryor, Oklahoma. She also spent some time working at Mr. Kenneth and Company in Tulsa. Retiring in 2000, she spent the last years of her career working out of her home.

As a Christian, Lena enjoyed reading the bible and watching Joel Olsteen whenever she could. Her church was her home. She also enjoyed reading books as well as playing cards and board games. Family was very important to Lena. She treasured every moment spent with each of them.

Lena was loving, kind, and willing to help anyone in need. She was a second mom to many over the years. If you needed a place to stay or were in need of advice, she was there for you. She was a tremendous cook and made sure everyone was fed. She also loved her dogs and looked after a wild cat as well.

Lena was a straight shooter. She will be remembered for being kind hearted and loveable. She was always fun to be around and naturally was the life of the party. Lena was loved by those that knew her. She will be sincerely missed and fondly remembered.

Lena is survived by: 2 sons: Matt Dawson and wife Amber of Pryor, Oklahoma and Caleb Duncan of Tulsa, Oklahoma; 10 grandchildren: Hannah Duncan, Cruz Duncan, Lexi Dawson, Abby Shaw, Brandi Crane, Mark Dawson, Mattie Jo Boudreau, Michaela McMurphy, Dakota Myers, and Levi Myers; 3 great grandchildren: Dawson Crane, Oaklee Corbet, and Josiah McMurphy; and daughter-in-law: Mel Dawson.

She was preceded in death by: her parents; 1 daughter: Valena Lew Dawson; 1 son: Mark Allen Dawson.

Memorial services will be held 1:00 P.M., Friday, April 5, 2024, at the Locust Grove Funeral Home Chapel. Reverend Mark “Woody” Coday and Reverend George Littledave will officiate. Cremation services have been entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home.

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Roberta Nadine Chance - September 13, 1936 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Roberta Nadine Chance, beloved wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother, left her body on Thursday, March 28, 2024, at the age of 87 years, 6 months, and 15 days. She was loved dearly and will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege to know her.

Roberta was born on September 13, 1936, to Robert “Bus” and Kathleen Robinson in Locust Grove, Cherokee Territory, Oklahoma. Roberta was the oldest child to sister and brother, Sue and Edward “Son”. Some of Roberta’s fondest childhood memories were being with her grandparents who lived near Locust Grove. Her grandmother Robinson loved Maraschino Cherry cake, and often asked Roberta to bake it. Roberta also enjoyed sleeping over at her grandmother Holden’s house, where she always felt deeply loved.

She attended school in Locust Grove from 1941-1954, graduating high school with 30 other classmates. Grandma Robinson gifted Roberta with a musical jewelry box and a bouquet of gladiolas for graduation which Roberta said made her feel so special.

After graduating, Roberta moved to Kansas City, Missouri to attend the National School of Aeronautics. In March 1955, Roberta earned a “Ticket and Reservations” diploma and shortly after was hired by Central Airlines to work at the Kansas City, Tulsa and Fort Worth airports. This began Roberta’s love of travel.

While catching the bus to work to Central Airlines at Meacham Field in Fort Worth, Roberta met her husband-to-be James Henry Chance, who was a charming bus driver. Roberta and James were married in 1957, then moved to California to start a family and welcomed four children: Kathleen Beth (1957), Cynthia Lea (1959), Robert Wesley (1961) and Gary Wayne (1963).

In 1964, Roberta began working for IBM in San Jose, California, assisting the punch card line. Punch cards were a component used to run the first computers. That year, she gifted family and friends holiday wreaths made from discarded punch cards, sprayed gold with pinecone accents. In 1965, Roberta started working at Beech-Nut, where she made Lifesavers and baby food. We were never short of cough drops or mint lifesavers for our homemade Valentines cards. Beech-Nut is where she met Rudy “Sal’ Munoz and they married on March 31, 1972. Roberta continued to work for Beech-Nut until they closed the San Jose division in 1972.

Roberta was always a hard worker and often worked a second job in the food and hospitality industry. This led her to take a full-time job in the East Side Union High School District as a cafeteria cook at Andrew Hill High School. It was the beginning of a very rewarding career, which spanned over 16 years. She quickly built a strong leadership reputation and was offered the opportunity to manage two new high schools and several elementary school cafeterias in the district. In 1977, she was elected President of Valle Verde Chapter California School Food Service Association and served there for four years. In 1978, Roberta received the Josephine P. Morris Scholarship Award from the California School Food Service Association for her outstanding performance and innovative contributions. This award prompted her to go back to school to get a Director Level certification at the American School Food Service Association, which she completed in August of 1986. It was during this time that she married Donald Stephen Ribisi on July 9, 1983. Roberta then went on to become the Director of Food Service management for Franklin-McKinley School District supporting over 20 elementary and middle schools in San Jose until she retired in late 1989.

Roberta later moved to Oklahoma and came out of her first retirement in July 1990 to join the Maintenance & Engineering Quality Assurance team with American Airlines. She received numerous awards for her exceptional work and was recognized for perfect attendance for 8 years, retiring again in 1998. Roberta continued her love of travel, especially with her church, and through American Airlines her family was also gifted with flights. Over the years Roberta had a passion for tutoring and encouraging students of all ages, giving them the tools to excel in life through reading, writing and math. She was also an avid quilter and leaves behind many beautiful quilts as part of her legacy. She loved football and golf, walking, and reading books including her bible. Education was very important to her, and she encouraged her grandchildren to study. Roberta was proud of her Cherokee heritage and wanted to remind her great-great grandchildren “Don’t forget that you are Cherokee, that is where your dignity is.”

She is survived by her four children; Kathleen Beth (Steve) Mendoza, Cynthia Lea Chance, Robert Wesley (Rosemarie) Chance, and Gary Wayne (Hong) Chance; sister-in-law, Christy Robinson; daughter-in-law, Linda Chance. Grandchildren; Lashley Drake Witten, Amanda Shaw (Jason) Zubrick, Nicole Chayrez (Jeremy) Sawvel, Allen Francis Underwood, Love Michelle (Andy) Starn, Thomas Ross Chayrez, Alexander Jeremy Chance, Steven James (Kristal) Chance, Laura Beth (Craig) Phillips, Christina Annemarie Chance and Robert Wesley Chance II. Great grandchildren; Ka’ae Chance-Gamundoy, Elizabeth Marie Texcucano, Dominic Joseph Texcucano, Poetry Starn, Sophia Chance, Edward James Texcucano, Shannon Phillips, Coco Starn, Braxton Gray Underwood, Delilaah James Sawvel, Oliver Chance, Miles Chance, Myles King Sawvel, Luca Owen Chance, Atrayu John Toler, Mirabel Gracie Chayrez. As well as five beloved nieces and nephews and numerous grand nieces and nephews.

She is preceded in death by her parents, sister Barbara Sue Cooper, brother Edward (Son) Clausine Robinson, husbands James Henry Chance, Rudy “Sal” Munoz and Donald Stephen Ribisi and nephew Scott Robinson.

Roberta lived a very principled life and made note of 6 life lessons to remember. May the wisdom of the lessons she leaves behind bring us comfort as we say farewell. 1. Time marches on regardless of what takes place in your life. 2. Knowing Jesus is the most important part of life. For he is our hope and eternal life. 3. Never gossip about another person. It will come back and bite you. 4. Always be kind to others. You never know when you might need their help. 5. Learn what is right and wrong. Always do right. Be honest. Admit if you have wronged someone and seek forgiveness. 6. Have common sense. If you don't, learn what it is.

Our love is with you Roberta, as you take your last big journey into the heart of the Creator. May Heaven be as beautiful as you always spoke of.

A viewing and visitation period will be held from 9:00 A.M. until 10:00 A.M., Friday, April 12, 2024 at the Locust Grove Funeral Home Chapel. Funeral services will be held at 10:30 A.M., Friday, April 12, 2024, at the Locust Grove Funeral Home Chapel in Locust Grove, Oklahoma. Brother Wade Robinson will officiate. Interment will follow at Hogan Cemetery near Locust Grove, Oklahoma. Services have been entrusted to Locust Grove Funeral Home in Locust Grove, Oklahoma. You may leave thoughts, memories, or condolences at www.locustgrovefuneralhome.com.

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Donna Gail Ringgold - October 17, 1951 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Donna Gail Ringgold was born on October 17, 1951, in Tahlequah, Oklahoma to Wayne “Snuffy” Stanton and Mary Elizabeth (Vann) Watkins. She departed this life on Wednesday, March 27, 2024, in Vinita, Oklahoma, at the age of 72 years, 5 months, and 10 days.

Growing up, Donna attended school in Tahlequah, Oklahoma until her family moved to Tulsa, where she attended East Central High School. While living in Tahlequah, she met and married her first husband, Richard Charles Holiman, and to this union was born their son Steven and daughter LaDonna. Years later, while working as a cashier at Joe’s Citgo Gas Station, in Pryor Oklahoma, she would meet her future husband Leonard “Butch” Ringgold. Leonard would come in and aggravate Donna until she finally agreed to go out on a date with him. They were united in marriage on July 5, 2002, in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. Leonard passed from this life on October 11, 2008.

Prior to working at Joe’s Citgo Gas Station in Pryor, Donna had worked as a cook and bartender at the Rose Bowl Bowling Alley in Tulsa, Oklahoma for many years. Donna loved this job so much. On her nights off, she would bowl in different bowling leagues for sport and fun. She had also worked as a cook for Catoosa Public Schools from 1981 to 1991, moving back to Pryor shortly after, to be near her family. Donna was known as a hard worker, always providing for her children.

Donna loved listening to music of all kinds but had a deep love and appreciation for Elvis Presley. She enjoyed crocheting and sewing, in which she sewed clothing for her children in their younger years. Donna loved baking and could please anyone with her talent for preparing delicious desserts. Next to her favorite pastime of bowling, she also loved to aggravate her daughter, LaDonna. Donna attended the Pentecostal Church of God in Pryor, Oklahoma with her mom until she fell ill. She was fond of reading her Bible when time would allow. Known as a kind and caring person, she also will be forever remembered as a loving daughter, sister, mother, grandma and great grandma.

Donna is survived by: 2 children: Steven Holiman of Pryor, Oklahoma, and LaDonna Goebel and husband Terry of Langley, Oklahoma; 7 granddaughters: Kelly Taylor and Gus Wu of Las Vegas, Nevada, Xena Maxie and husband Daniel of Pryor, Oklahoma, Samantha Horton and husband Chris of DeBerry, Texas, Jacqueline Weierman and husband Christian of Wilmington, North Carolina, Cera Anderson and husband Dakota of Enid, Oklahoma, Rochelle Walbran and Audrey of Tulsa, Oklahoma, Cherokee Cave and husband Seth of Tulsa, Oklahoma, 2 grandsons: Mikeal Goebel of DeBerry, Texas, and James Holiman of Tulsa, Oklahoma; 20 great-grandchildren; 1 sister: Regina Jinks of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; 3 brothers: Phillip Watkins of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; Terry Watkins and wife Dawn of Pryor, Oklahoma, and Jerry Watkins and wife LeAnn of Adair, Oklahoma; 11 nieces and nephews, numerous other relatives, and a host of friends.

Donna was preceded in death by: her parents: “Snuffy” and Mary Watkins; her husband: Leonard “Butch” Ringgold; and 1 brother-in-law: Gary Jinks.

Funeral services will be held 2:00 P.M., Thursday, April 4, 2024, at the Locust Grove Funeral Home Chapel. Reverend Jr. Mullins will officiate. Interment will follow at the Fairview Cemetery in Pryor, Oklahoma. Services have been entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home. You may leave thoughts, memories, or condolences at www.locustgrovefuenralhome.com.

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Connie Marilyn Christie - February 17, 1949 - March 13, 2024

Departed: 03/13/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Connie Marilyn “Mickey” (Vaughn) Christie was born February 17, 1949, in Locust Grove, Oklahoma to Marion Chance and Stella Edith (Stipes) Harvey. She departed this life on Wednesday, March 13, 2024, at the age of 75 years and 25 days.

A lifetime Locust Grove area resident, Mickey attended Oak Hill and Locust Grove schools growing up. In 1982, she met the love of her life, Paul Christie. The couple would later marry in October of 1983, living a happy life together for the next 39 years. Paul preceded Mickey in death on January 29, 2022. Mickey was a dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and homemaker. To help provide for her family, she worked outside the home at the Parkhill Nursing Home for several years, as well as the Locust Grove Liquor store for over 20 years. She was a member of Cedar Grove Church.

When Mickey was younger, she played the French Horn and later learned how to play the guitar. As well, she had a great voice making her a great singer. She enjoyed playing bingo and attending Cherokee Elder Care gatherings. Mickey liked to play cards and go fishing. She treasured family gatherings and dinners. She was a tremendous cook with chicken and dumplings, coleslaw, and potato salad being everyone’s favorite dishes.

Everyone was known as “Hun” by Mickey. She enjoyed coloring as a hobby and pastime. She also liked playing with her dogs and watching her programs on TV. Mickey also liked to go to different thrift stores and yard sales. She also spent time at the sale barn in Locust Grove with those trips typically being followed by a meal at Ranch House or Country Cottage.

Mickey also spent many hours at the creek where the sun would always find her, although she was allergic to it. She was a loving wife, great mother, and wonderful grandmother. She was a very beautiful person that was loving and funny. She was always laughing and having a good time. All that knew her, loved her. She will be missed.

Mickey is survived by: 4 children: Benjamin Christie, Greg Vaughn, Kendra Vaughn, all of Peggs, Oklahoma, and Connie Vaughn of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; 3 grandchildren: Jarrod St. Clair of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, Mariah Bahia and husband Aneil of England, and Jeffrey St. Clair of Tahlequah, Oklahoma; 2 brothers: Ricky Harvey and Jack Lee Evans; 2 sisters: Wilma Jean Warren and Nellie Lou Chance; 1 brother-in-law: Richard “Hook” Christie of Peggs, Oklahoma. Numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives, and a host of friends.

She was preceded in death by: her parents; her husband; 1 brother: Glen Evans; 1 sister: Mary Lee Shields; 4 brothers-in-law: Tom Christie, Charles “Watt” Christie, Anthony Christie and William Christie; and 2 sisters-in-law: Rachel Best and Sandra McClain.

Funeral services will be held 2:00 P.M., Friday, March 22, 2024 at Cedar Grove Church south of Locust Grove, Oklahoma. Pastor Dylan Hayes will officiate. Cremation services have been entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home.

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Sherrie Ann Dawson - November 18, 1957 - March 07, 2024

Departed: 03/07/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Sherrie Ann Dawson was born November 18, 1957, in Locust Grove, Oklahoma, to Bud and Nellie (Nichols) Williams. She departed this life Thursday, March 7, 2024, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, at the age of 66 years, 3 months, 18 days.

Sherrie was a lifetime resident of Locust Grove and attended schools there growing up. On February 26, 1982, in Pryor, Oklahoma, she and Roy Allen Dawson were united in marriage. Sherrie was a dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, and homemaker. She always made sure her family was taken care of.

Sherrie was a tremendous supporter of local sports teams. She hardly ever missed an event that included her kids or grandchildren. As well, she enjoyed traveling and going shopping, especially for shoes. Sherrie took pride in making sure her fingernails were taken care of. She was known to spend lots of time laying by the pool and basically doing whatever she wanted to do.

Sherrie was known as a kind, helpful, loving, and giving person. Her family will also remember her for being stubborn, determined, and strong-willed. She loved her family very much and cherished every moment spent with them. Her smile and presence will be missed dearly, but her memory will be treasured by all that knew and loved her.

Sherrie is survived by: her husband of over 42 years, Roy, of the home; 3 children: Michelle Rashford and husband Barry of Broken Arrow, Oklahoma, Chad Kirby and wife Kristi of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, and Matt Dawson and wife Amber of Pryor, Oklahoma; 10 grandchildren: Patrick Knowles, Brittany Rashford, Evan Barnes, Keely Brock, Chelayna Guilfoyle, Kamron Barnes, Cash Kirby, Abby Shaw, Lexi Dawson, ad Mattie Boudreau; 4 great grandchildren; her mother: Nellie Williams, of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; and 1 sister: Terri Knott and her son Kyle Pinkston.

She was preceded in death by: her father; 1 grandson: Greyson Knowles; and 2 children: Mark Dawson and Valena Dawson.

Funeral services will be held 10:00 A.M., Tuesday, March 12, 2024, at the Locust Grove Free Will Baptist Church. Reverend Shaun Cook and Reverend Jeff Blair will officiate. Interment will follow at the New Home Cemetery in Peggs, Oklahoma. Services were entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home.

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Rosie Laverl Hunter - March 25, 1943 - March 06, 2024

Departed: 03/06/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Rosie Laverl Hunter was born March 25, 1943, in Pryor, Oklahoma, to Fred Warren and Nancy Lorene (Thompson) Brannon. She departed this life on Wednesday, March 6, 2024, at her home in Locust Grove, Oklahoma, at the age of 80 years, 11 months, and 10 days.

Growing up, Rosie attended Lone Chapel School before graduating Adair High School with the class of 1962. On October 18, 1977, in Catoosa, Oklahoma, she married the love of her life, Robert L. Hunter. They lived in Tulsa for several years before making Locust Grove their home in 1983. Robert preceded Rosie in death on December 8, 2011. The couple had been married for over 34 years.

Rosie was a dedicated wife and homemaker. She was a member of the Assembly of God Church in Peggs, Oklahoma. She enjoyed working crossword puzzles and doing crochet work. She loved to sing and dance, especially with Gabriel. Rosie was full of life. She was very caring, funny, and a pleasure to be around. She was loved very much by those that were around her. She will be missed dearly.

Rosie is survived by 1 brother: Kenneth Brannon and wife Linda of Pryor, Oklahoma and 1 sister: Edna Riley of Boulder, Colorado. She was preceded in death by: her parents, her husband, and 1 sister: Betty Garner.

Graveside services will be held 11:00 A.M., Monday, March 11, 2024 at Lone Chapel Cemetery near Adair, Oklahoma. Brother Shawn Bates and Chaplain Sherry Barr will officiate. Funeral services have been entrusted to Locust Grove Funeral Home.

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Robert Elmer Dry - March 25, 1931 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Robert Elmer Dry was born March 25, 1931, in Long Rock, Arkansas, to Virgil Lee and Nancy Elva (Gordon) Dry. He departed this life on Monday, March 4, 2024, in Chouteau, Oklahoma, at the age of 92 years, 11 months, and 8 days. Growing up in the Muskogee, Oklahoma area, Robert attended Irving Grade School. He graduated Muskogee High School with the class of 1951. After graduation, Robert proudly served his country by joining the United States Air Force. A recipient of a National Defensed Service Medal, his service during the Korean War lasted through June 18, 1955 During Robert’s service, he spent time as an aircraft mechanic at Edward’s AFB in California. His most significant duty assignment was in the Flight Line Maintenance Squadron and once had the privilege of refueling Chuck Yeager’s airplane. Accidentally spilling a little gas on the wing of Chuck’s plane, Robert asked him if he wanted him to wipe it off. Chuck replied, “Hell no! It will blow off when I get back in the air.”

In 1954, Robert and Rose Mary Foster were married. He worked for General Motors in Kansas City, Missouri, retiring in 1987. Moving from Belton, Missouri, Robert has called Locust Grove, Oklahoma his home for the past 21 years. On October 16, 2011, he was baptized in Jesus Christ’s Church.

On October 7, 2000, Robert and Marjorie Ilene (Garrett) Rogers were united in marriage. Together, the couple made many memories together. Robert had a green thumb as he enjoyed gardening. He could grow anything he wanted and was known for producing the best cantaloupe around. He also enjoyed making Adirondack chairs and benches.

Robert was a proud veteran that was part of the O&A Honor Flight to Washington, D.C. on April 19, 2016. He loved his wife and family very much. In return, they loved him too. He will be missed by all that knew and loved him.

Robert is survived by: his wife, Margie, of the home; his children: Robert W. Dry, Michael E. Dry, and Ruth A. Murphy, all of Missouri, as well as Linda McFarland and husband Joe, Ronnie Rogers and wife Becky, and Jeff Rogers and wife Michele, all of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; 12 grandchildren, 18 great grandchildren, and 1 great-great grandson; 1 brother: Jerry Dry and wife Lynette of Hickory, Kentucky; numerous other relatives and a host of friends.

He was preceded in death by: his parents; 2 sisters: Mary Hendrix and Peggy Wood; 5 brothers: Charles Dry, George Dry, James Dry, Paul Dry, and Wayne Dry; and 1 great granddaughter: Kelsea McFarland.

Funeral services will be held 2:00 P.M., Saturday, March 9, 2024, at the Locust Grove Funeral Home Chapel. Elder Ronnie Rogers, Elder Jeff Rogers, and Priest Tony McFarland will officiate. Interment will follow at the Rose Cemetery in Rose, Oklahoma. Funeral services have been entrusted to Locust Grove Funeral Home. You may share thoughts, memories, and condolences at www.locustgrovefuneralhome.com.

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Shirley Jean Neal - August 16, 1936 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Shirley Jean Neal was born into this world on August 16, 1936, in Locust Grove, Oklahoma, to Maggie Ethel (Jones) and Artie Parker Jewett, Sr. She lived a life of devotion and love, and on Monday, March 4, 2024, at the age of 87 years, she peacefully left this earth in Salina, Oklahoma.

Shirley's journey through life was marked by compassion and selflessness. She attended Locust Grove High School, graduating with the class of 1954. She married the love of her life, Loy Benton Neal, in Rose, Oklahoma, on May 8, 1954. Loy and Shirley shared over 59 years of marriage, raising their children Pam, James, and Katherine in a household filled with love, warmth and care. Loy passed away on May 13, 2013, leaving Shirley with cherished memories of their life together.

Shirley worked at Storie’s Laundry and Hall’s Grocery Store to help provide for her family. Her Christian faith was paramount as she was a longtime member of the Locust Grove Free Will Baptist Church. Shirley loved to fix meals for her family as she was a tremendous cook. She was known for her coconut cream and chocolate pie. As well, she enjoyed sewing and canning vegetables from their garden.

Above all, Shirley treasured time spent watching and taking care of her grandchildren. She and Loy never missed any of their sporting events or activities. Shirley loved her family with all of her heart. Her presence will be forever missed, but her spirit will endure in the hearts of all who were touched by her kindness and love.

Shirley's legacy is carried on by her surviving family that include: 2 daughters: Pam Roach and husband Richard of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, and Katherine Rice and husband Greg of Salina, Oklahoma; 1 son: James Neal and wife Linda of Montrose, Colorado; 3 grandchildren: Amanda Wilkinson and husband Jared, Shelby Lawrence and wife Hailey, and Chisholm Rice and wife Tressa; 4 great grandchildren: Kamry Wilkinson, Sutton Lawrence, Hudson Rice, and Becket Rice; 1 sister: Ilah Faye Grace of Scottsdale, Arizona; along with numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives, and a host of friends.

She was preceded in death by: her parents; her husband; 4 brothers: Claude Jewett, Doyle Jewett, Jess Jewett, and Artie Jewett, Jr.; and 2 sisters: Irene Jewett and Mary Timm.

Funeral services honoring Shirley's life will be held at 2:00 P.M. on Monday, March 11, 2024, at the Locust Grove Free Will Baptist Church with Pastor Jeff Blair officiating. Following the service, Shirley will be interred at Hogan Cemetery in Locust Grove. The Locust Grove Funeral Home has been entrusted with these arrangements, where thoughts, memories, and condolences may be shared at www.locustgrovefuneralhome.com.

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Cheryl Lynn Walkingstick - May 22, 1961 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Cheryl Lynn (Austin) Walkingstick was born May 22, 1961, in French Camp, California, to Clarence Madison and Ruth Annette (Saffell) Austin. She departed this life on Friday, March 1, 2024, in Clarkdale, Arizona, at the age of 62 years, 9 months, and 8 days.

Growing up, Cheryl attended schools in Tahlequah, Oklahoma. Cheryl and George Leo Walkingstick were united in marriage on August 11, 1978, in Cherokee County, Oklahoma. She later received her education to become a nurse, a job that she enjoyed. Over the years, Cheryl lived in Peggs and Locust Grove areas, as well as Kansas State. She and George recently moved to Clarkdale, Arizona from Tahlequah, Oklahoma.

Cheryl treasured and cherished the time spent with her family, especially with her husband, children and grandchildren. She liked to cook meals for her family, which often led to her enjoying eating just as much. She thoroughly enjoyed being near and in the water, spending countless days at the river swimming, fishing, or floating.

Cheryl will be remembered for being funny and having a good sense of humor. She also was known for her big heart, as she was always ready to give when she could. Cheryl was a people person that loved to share stories. She was loved very much and will be missed deeply.

Cheryl is survived by: her husband, George, of the home; 3 children: Amos Walkingstick of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, Joseph Walkingstick of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, and Sam Walkingstick of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; 10 grandchildren: Caylin Ingram and husband Jake, Jake Walkingstick, Chasley Walkingstick, Kaden Walkingstick, Blaice Walkingstick, Laela Walkingstick, Coda Walkingstick, Whitley Walkingstick, Silas Walkingstick, and Callan Walkingstick; 4 great grandchildren: Case Ingram, Judson Ingram, Carter Wise, and Jasper Ingram; 1 brother: Mitch Hargrave and wife Linda of Granbury, Texas; 2 sisters: Annette Brown and husband Johnny Ray of Locust Grove, Oklahoma and Jeannie Secratt and husband James of Tahlequah, Oklahoma. She was preceded in death by her parents.

Funeral services will be 2:00 P.M., Monday, March 18, 2024 at Peggs Free Will Baptist Church in Peggs, Oklahoma. Brother Phillip “Yogie” Bread will officiate. Interment will follow at the New Home Cemetery in Peggs, Oklahoma. Services have been entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home. You may leave thoughts, memories, or condolences at www.locustgrovefuneralhome.com.

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Janelle Ross - March 23, 1935 - February 20, 2024

Departed: 02/20/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Janelle Ross was born March 23, 1935, in Locust Grove, Oklahoma, to Charlie Greenberry and Wilma (Hartley) Austin. She departed this life on Tuesday, February 20, 2024, in Tahlequah, Oklahoma, having attained the age of 88 years, 10 months, and 26 days.

Janelle received her education at Locust Grove schools, graduating with the class of 1953. Throughout her professional journey, she dedicated over three decades to Red Devil in Pryor, Oklahoma, where she worked in quality control, retiring in 2004. She had been a long-time member of the Cumberland Presbyterian Church in Locust Grove.

On June 19, 2010, in Mountain Home, Arkansas, Janelle and Noah “Johnson” Ross were united in marriage. Together, they made Mountain Home their home until Johnson passed in October 2021. After his passing, Janelle moved back to Locust Grove to be near her family and to be in her hometown that she loved.

A woman of strong will and independence, Janelle found joy in simple pleasures - tending to her African Violets and sewing in her younger years. She could often be found watching a few of her favorite TV shows, including The Young and the Restless, and The Price Is Right game show. Janelle loved Scott’s dog named Jaz. She was a loving person and was proud of her family. She will be missed by all that knew and loved her. Janelle is survived by: 3 children: Karen Cole of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, Susan Rogers and Bobby of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, and Scott Ogilvie and wife Tamatha of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; 6 grandchildren: Justin Cole of Teresita, Oklahoma, Hannah Hoffine and Chad of Rogers, Arkansas, Callie Milling and husband Caleb of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, Caleb Ogilvie and wife Britton of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, Cody Rogers of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, and B.J. and wife Megan Rogers of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; 11 great grandchildren and 1 on the way;

She was preceded in death by: parents; her husband and High School Sweetheart: Noah “Johnson” Ross, 1 sister: Betty Breedlove; and 1 brother: Wayne Austin.

No services are planned at this time. Cremation services were entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home.

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Charles Standingwater - July 17, 1929 - February 16, 2024

Departed: 02/16/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Charles Standingwater was born July 17, 1929, in Locust Grove, Oklahoma, the son of Lillie Standingwater and Watson Hair. He departed this life on Friday, February 16, 2024, in Pryor, Oklahoma, at the age of 94 years, 6 months and 30 days.

Growing up, Charles attended Oaks Mission and Locust Grove schools. He married the love of his life, Darlene Pegion Condit, on September 23, 1950, in Ephrata, Washington. To this union was born 5 children, Bob, DeWayne, Susie, Mickey, and Dena. Charles and Darlene spent over 73 years together as a married couple.

Charles and his family moved to the La Jolla Indian Reservation in California in 1975. He was a dedicated husband and father that worked hard to provide for his family. Over the years, his jobs led him to build motor homes and aircraft. As well, he worked on highway construction and as a heavy equipment operator in California. He retired as a supervisor at the Pechanga Casino in Temecula, California in 1998 where he first started working in the kitchen.

After retirement in 1998, Charles and Darlene moved back to Locust Grove. Charles was a 32nd Degree Mason and Shriner. He enjoyed his time being involved in these organizations. As well, Charles enjoyed fishing and traveling. As a person that was on the go constantly, he was hard to keep up with. He never hunted animals, but was known to kill a pheasant with his car, then make sure the meat did not go to waste.

Charles was of the Indian Baptist faith all of his life. He was a devoted Christian that loved to read his bible. Charles was proud of his Cherokee ancestry as he was a Cherokee First Language speaker. His family tree goes back to his great-great-great-great grandfather, Sequoyah. Charles was a resourceful person that found joy in helping and taking care of people. Above all, he loved his wife and family very much. All that knew and loved him will miss and remember him dearly.

Charles is survived by: His wife Darlene; 5 children: Bob Standingwater and wife Roberta of LaPorte, Texas, DeWayne Standingwater of Bellaire, Texas, Susie Johnson of Springville, California, Mickey Vernon of Riverside, California, and Dena Carol Standingwater-Hill and husband Willie of Pasadena, Texas; 17 grandchildren, at least 34 great grandchildren, and 3 great-great grandchild; half-sister: Ruthie Jones of Inola, Oklahoma; he was preceded in death by: his parents; 8 half-brothers; and 1 half-sister.

Funeral services will be held 10:00 A.M., Friday, February 23, 2024, at Snake Creek Baptist Church near Locust Grove, Oklahoma. Reverend Rick Condit and Reverend Richard “Guy” Soldiers will officiate. Interment will follow at the Little Rock Indian Cemetery near Locust Grove, Oklahoma. Services have been entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home. Thoughts, memories, and condolences can be shared at www.LocustGroveFuneralHome.com.

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Larry Dale Harvey - July 27, 1967 - February 13, 2024

Departed: 02/13/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Larry Dale Harvey, a beloved husband, father, son, and friend, passed away on Tuesday, February 13, 2024, at the age of 56 years, 6 months, and 17 days. Born on July 27, 1967, in Huntsville, Arkansas, Larry was the son of Larry Howard Harvey and Janice Kay (Shipp) Mercer.

Larry grew up in the Springdale, Arkansas area where he attended schools. Throughout his life, Larry prioritized his family above all else. On August 1, 1992, he married the love of his life, Melissa Dawn Hall, after meeting her at work at Daisy Manufacturing. Their union blessed them with two beautiful daughters, Cheyenne and Reagan, who, along with his grandchildren, were the pride and joy of Larry's life.

Larry rode bulls for several years. He was a member of both the Professional Rodeo Cowboys Association (PRCA) and International Professional Rodeo Association (IPRA). Though his last ride took place in 1991, Larry carried the spirit of that adventure with him throughout his life.

Over the years, Larry and Melissa worked in their poultry houses. They moved their operation to the Locust Grove, Oklahoma area in 2007. Larry most recently enjoyed working at Green Gate Grill in Twin Oaks. Larry was a part of Calvary Temple in Bentonville, Arkansas. In his leisure time, Larry found peace in the outdoors and found joy in hunting, fishing, and floating the river. He treasured every moment spent with his grandchildren, relishing in their laughter and the memories they created together.

Larry will always be remembered as a strong, yet gentle soul that had a quick wit that often brought laughter to those around him. His quiet demeanor and genuine kindness touched the hearts of all who were fortunate enough to know him. Larry's spirit will be profoundly missed, leaving an irreplaceable void in the lives of his family and friends. May we forever carry Larry's kindness, strength, and laughter within our hearts, honoring his legacy through acts of love and compassion. He will be dearly missed and fondly remembered by all whose lives he touched.

Larry leaves behind a legacy of love and devotion. He is survived by his loving wife, Melissa, who shared over 31 years with him. Holding him dear in their hearts also are his daughters, Cheyenne Wall of Locust Grove, Oklahoma and Reagen Keener and husband Ryan of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, along with his 4 grandchildren: Brazdon, Abbi, Bryleigh, and Kali. Larry's beloved mother, Janice Mercer, his brother Danny Mercer and wife Heidi of Harker Heights, Texas, and his sister Kim Harvey of Springdale, Arkansas, will cherish the memories they shared together. He also leaves behind a special aunt, Gloria Evans of Hindsville, Arkansas, and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, other relatives, and many friends who will continue to honor and uphold his memory.

Larry was preceded in death by: his father, Larry Howard Harvey, his maternal grandmother, Wanda Miller, his maternal grandfather, Arlin Shipp, his paternal grandparents, Ray and Luvella Harvey, a sister, Sonia McKinney, a special aunt, Charlotte Wright, and a son-in-law, Daniel Horton.

Funeral services, officiated by Donna Maybee and Danny Mercer, will be held 2:00 P.M., Monday, February 19, 2024, at Hope Church in Murphy, Oklahoma. Services have been entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home.

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Zelda Mae Downing - August 05, 1939 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Zelda Mae Downing was born on August 5, 1939, near Cedar Crest in Mayes County, Oklahoma, to Charles Andrew and Cora Evelyn (Cox) Cobler. She passed away on Saturday, February 10, 2024, at her home in Locust Grove, Oklahoma, at the age of 84 years, 6 months, and 5 days.

Growing up, Zelda attended Locust Grove schools. She was lifetime Locust Grove resident. On December 21, 1956, in Tahlequah, Oklahoma, she and Jerry “Gabe” Downing were united in marriage. To this union was born 2 children, Kathy and Micheal. Gabe preceded Zelda in death on June 10, 2015. The couple had been married for over 58 years.

Zelda dedicated her life to her family as a loving wife, mother, and homemaker. She found joy in creating a warm and inviting home for her loved ones. Zelda was a great cook and she took pleasure in cooking for her family.

Zelda was a gifted musician that loved to play and listen to music. As a teenager, she and her brother played barn dances where she would play the guitar. She had many instruments that she had collected over the years. She continued to play music throughout her life.

Zelda was a tough person that possessed a resilient spirit and unwavering love for her family. She will forever be remembered as a loving protector of her family and loved ones. Her genuine affection and constant support will forever be treasured by all who knew her.

Zelda is survived by her son, Micheal Downing and Lenna Susan Hanna-O’Neill of Tulsa, Oklahoma. Her legacy lives on through her three grandchildren: April Ketchum and her husband Robert, Audrey Brown and her husband Elvin, Donald Hanna-O’Neill and his wife Catherine, as well as her seven great-grandchildren: Katie Holcomb and her husband Eric, Michael Wilson, Helen Wilson, Patrick Wilson, Brenyn Brown, Killian Hanna-O’Neill, and Odin Hanna-O’Neill and four great-great-grandchildren: Zelda Holcomb, Chandler Wilson, Franklin Wilson, Elliott Wilson. Zelda also leaves behind her beloved brother, Raymond Cobler and his wife Sue of Pryor, Oklahoma, along with many nieces, nephews, cousins, dear friends, and loved ones.

She was preceded in death by: her parents; her husband; 1 daughter: Kathy Stinson; 2 sisters: Lelia Sisco and Mildred Miller; and 5 brothers: Roy Cobler, Leonard Cobler, Orville “Art” Cobler, Melvin “Melt” Cobler and Charles Cobler.

A graveside service to honor Zelda's life will be held at 2:00 P.M. on Thursday, February 15, 2024, at Hogan Cemetery near Locust Grove, Oklahoma. Reverend Blake Wallace will officiate. The Locust Grove Funeral Home has been entrusted with the arrangements.

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Sandra Louise Dunham - October 14, 1947 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Sandra Louise Dunham was born on October 14, 1947, in Charleston, South Carolina, to Jose and Betty Louise (Drew) Gonzalez. She departed this life on Saturday, February 10, 2024, in Tulsa, Oklahoma, at the age of 76 years, 3 months, and 27 days.

Sandra's journey through life took her from her birthplace to the Tulsa area, where she grew up, then she attended Muskogee High School, graduating with the class of 1965. During her time in high school, she had a love for drama. She continued her education at Northeastern State University in Tahlequah, Oklahoma, where she earned her bachelor's degree in teaching. While in college, she was involved in sorority, making lifelong friendships and memories.

For over 24 years, Sandra dedicated her career to educating young minds as an Advanced Science Teacher at Memorial High School in Tulsa. Her impact on the lives of countless students will be truly cherished. Outside of the classroom, Sandra found joy in various hobbies and interests. An avid birdwatcher, she reveled in the beauty of nature and the outdoors. She was a member of the National Audubon Society. Additionally, Sandra embraced an artistic side, showcasing her talent as a painter and indulging in various crafts. Her favorite color was purple and she loved wildflowers.

Sandra was fluent in Hebrew. Her mastery of Hebrew calligraphy allowed her to share her knowledge and passion for the language with others, leaving a lasting impact on those fortunate enough to learn from her. She will be remembered for being strong willed and head strong, yet very giving and kind. She loved all of her family dearly and will be missed by all that knew and loved her.

Sandra is survived by her two cherished daughters, Cherie Surface of Bixby, Oklahoma, and Meredith Lowther, along with her husband Roger, of Fredericktown, Ohio. She will forever be remembered as a loving grandmother to Shalome McKim and her significant other Brian Wood of Owasso, Oklahoma, Alta McKim and her significant other Michael Shadoan of Columbus, Ohio, as well as Walker Lowther of Fredericktown, Ohio, and great grandmother to Marcus, Macie, and Hailey. Sandra is also survived by her brother, Stephen Gonzalez, and wife Cynthia of Plano, Texas, as well as her three sisters Linda Atwood and husband Andrew of Smyrna, Tennessee, Dolores Gonzalez-Nay and husband Hobart of Indianapolis, Indiana, and Cynthia Claunch and husband Richard of Midland, Texas. She is also survived by numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives, and a host of friends.

Sandra was preceded in death by her parents, a loving daughter Teresa Surface, a granddaughter Desiree McKim, and her ex-husband Ron Surface.

A service to celebrate Sandra's life will be held at 1:00 P.M. on Saturday, February 17, 2024, at the Locust Grove Funeral Home Chapel. Pastor Danny Cotner will officiate. Following the service, Sandra will be interred at Hogan Cemetery in Locust Grove, Oklahoma. The Locust Grove Funeral Home has been entrusted with the arrangements. Messages of condolences, shared memories, or thoughtful reflections on Sandra's life can be left at www.locustgrovefuneralhome.com.

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Mary Ellen Stricklen - December 04, 1942 - February 07, 2024

Departed: 02/07/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: Mary Ellen Stricklen was born on December 4, 1942, in Pryor, Oklahoma, to Jesse Web and Pearl (Bogle) Rowland. She departed this life on Wednesday, February 7, 2024, in Arkansas, at the age of 81 years.

Growing up, Mary attended schools in Locust Grove. On October 12, 1961, in Pryor, Oklahoma, Mary and Maurice Wayne Stricklen, Sr were united in marriage. They had been married for over 56 years, when Maurice preceded her in death in 2018.

Mary lived most of her life in Locust Grove. She also lived in Kansas and Missouri for a short time. Mary enjoyed scrapbooking and working with pictures. She liked to go to yard sales and could often be spotted venturing around town. She loved Hershey’s candy bars and enjoyed a bottle of Coke Cola. Mary was known to spread the gospel to anyone and would always encourage parents to take their babies to church. She will be missed.

Mary is survived by: 5 children: Maurice Wayne Stricklen, II and wife Theresa of Leach, Oklahoma, Troy Scott Stricklen and wife Karla of Flint Ridge, Oklahoma, Joey Stricklen and wife Becky of Leach, Oklahoma, Cassidy Stacy and husband Christopher of Okemah, Oklahoma, and Amanda Stricklen and fiancé Ashley Deason of Muskogee, Oklahoma; 20 grandchildren: Maurice Stricklen, III, Marshall Stricklen, Morgan Stricklen, Addison Alkire, Dawson Abbey, Taylor Stricklen, Wyatt Stricklen, Coby Joe Stricklen, Casey Littlejohn, Chais Stricklen, Jesse Stricklen, Shelbie Stricklen, Braden Stricklen, Jacie Stricklen, Triston, Ayden, Brooklyn, Preston, Mia, and Sonya. 16 great-grandchildren; 1 brother: Bob Rowland of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives, and a host of friends.

Mary was preceded in death by: her parents; her husband, Maurice; 6 brothers: Clarence Dan Rowland, Steve Rowland, Ben Rowland, Jim Rowland, J.T. Rowland, and Jack Rowland; and 2 sisters: Arlene Powell and Clara Dean Miller.

Funeral services will be held 10:00 A.M., Tuesday, February 13, 2024, at the Locust Grove Funeral Home Chapel in Locust Grove. Reverend Dennis Nance will officiate. Interment will follow at the Hogan Cemetery in Locust Grove. Services were entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home.

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Johnny Cleveland Orr - November 27, 1943 - February 02, 2024

Departed: 02/02/2024 (Locust Grove)

Obituary Preview: With heavy hearts and profound sadness, we announce the passing of Johnny Cleveland Orr, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, friend, and creative giver of nicknames. Johnny departed this earth on Friday, February 2, 2024, leaving behind cherished memories and an indelible mark on the hearts of all who knew and loved him. Born on November 27, 1943, in Bristow, Oklahoma, to the late Della (Mullins) and Troy Monroe Orr, Johnny obtained the age of 80 years.

Growing up, Johnny attended school in Bristow, Oklahoma, where he excelled in the sport of wrestling during his high school years. As an adult, he moved his family to Locust Grove after a few years in Tulsa. Ultimately, Johnny’s love for wrestling led him to teach a generation of young men in the sport as a coach for the Tulsa Parks wrestling program, and later, as a volunteer coach at Locust Grove schools.

Johnny, a proud and hardworking man, dedicated his life to his craft as a self-employed commercial sandblaster and painter. He was widely known throughout the industry as a subject matter expert in the application of industrial paints. Johnny was a lifelong horseman. Anyone who knew him could easily say that his favorite animal was a horse, probably named Rio. He broke and trained cutting horses for many owners throughout the years. His knowledge of how to train calm steady work horses was widely known. Johnny loved the outdoors and could be found riding horseback on many trail rides. A skilled Ferrier, he specialized in shoeing horses.

Johnny loved his zero turn mowers so much the family could hardly keep him off them. He enjoyed vegetable gardening and had a fascination with watching his vegetables grow. In his younger years, Johnny liked to go skiing. He also enjoyed hunting and noodling. Known by many to have an onery streak, Johnny was a dedicated family man. His sons were his pride and joy and his favorite cow dog named Ruppie was usually by his side. Johnny will be dearly missed by all that knew and loved him. Johnny is survived by: his wife, Carolyn of the home; 3 children: Tony Orr and husband Robert Orr of Tulsa, Oklahoma, Tim Orr and Debbie of Locust Grove, Oklahoma, and Clint Orr and Diana of Locust Grove, Oklahoma; 2 step-children: J.D. Matlock and Lanita of Houston, Texas, and Denise Mayberry of Bristow, Oklahoma; 2 brother: Lonnie Orr and wife Lynda of Chanute, Kansas; and Brandon Orr of Bristow, Okahoma, and

1 sister: Bobbie Dalton of Bristow, Oklahoma.

Numerous grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and friends.

Johnny was preceded in death by: his first wife: Rose Sharon Orr; 1 son: Tommy Orr, 1 brother: Jerry Lee Orr, 1 sister-in-law: Janie Orr; 1 sister: Imojean Weaver, and 1 brother-in-law: Harrison Weaver.

Memorial services will be held 2:00 P.M., Monday, February 12, 2024, at the Peggs Community Church, in Peggs, Oklahoma. Reverend Rex Hendrickson will officiate. Cremation services have been entrusted to the Locust Grove Funeral Home. You may share thoughts, memories, and condolences at www.locustgrovefuneralhome.com.

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