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Lesneski Mortuary: A Compassionate and Professional Funeral Home in San Clemente

Located at 640 South El Camino Real, San Clemente, CA, 92672, Lesneski Mortuary is a trusted and respected funeral home that has been serving the community for many years. With a commitment to providing exceptional service and care, Lesneski Mortuary is dedicated to helping families navigate the difficult process of saying goodbye to their loved ones.

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Lesneski Mortuary has a rich history of providing compassionate and professional funeral services to the people of San Clemente and surrounding areas. The funeral home's experienced staff is dedicated to ensuring that every family receives personalized attention and care, tailored to their unique needs and preferences. From traditional funeral services to cremations and memorial gatherings, Lesneski Mortuary offers a range of options to suit every family's requirements.

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Fimia Donoso Morales - February 03, 1936 - May 14, 2024

Departed: 05/14/2024 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Fimia Donoso Morales, beloved mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend passed away peacefully on May 14, 2024, in San Clemente, California, she was 88 years old.
Fimia was born on February 3,1936, in the Republic of Panama, to her parents, Jose Maria Donoso and Albertina Gonzalez de Donoso. Fimia was one of nine children, second to the youngest and a twin. Growing up in Panama City and Veraguas, Panama she enjoyed riding horses, learning about home economics, practicing her faith and spending time with her siblings and parents. Fimia lived and shared her Catholic faith throughout her life. She taught her children and grandchildren to have faith and serve God. That Jesus Christ shows us the way, truth, and light to live our lives and pray the rosary.
Fimia met the love of her life Albert A. Morales at a dance in Panama City, Panama where he was serving in the United States Air Force and stationed in the Canal Zone. They were married March 25, 1955, and as a new bride emigrated to the United States. She and her husband Albert made their home in California where they raised their children Roxanne and Mauro. Fimia had many talents, interests and passions including cooking, sewing, dancing, growing plants, orchids, and was an avid sports fan of the Lakers, Angels and USC football. Her hospitality was appreciated by all and she loved to entertain others by cooking great meals. Family favorite dishes included her cheesecake, Chinese fried rice and her BBQ chicken.
Fimia proudly became a Naturalized United States Citizen in 1965. In 1978 the State of California granted her an adult education teaching credential and she taught classes for ABC Unified School District adult education classes. She was a community advocate and leader in her own right and through her work with nonprofit United Community Group she served the Latino community and residents of Hawaiian Gardens, California. She provided programs and classes in citizenship education, English as a Second language, sewing, cooking, cake making and provided childcare for program participants. Fimia valued education and lifelong learning and she instilled those values in her students, children, and family. She loved and knew the importance of reading, she read the Los Angeles Times newspaper every day, and enjoyed a diversity of books including biographies, and novels by Irving Stone.
Fimia radiated strength, even as a petite woman. She believed in the importance of hard work, coupled with faith and the message that unconditional love makes the world a better place for us all.
Fimia Morales is now reunited with family and friends in heaven. She was preceded in death by her husband of over 50 years, Albert A. Morales; her parents, siblings Maximo Donoso, Albertina Donoso de Tristen, Raul Donoso, Nelly Seitz, and Jilma Donoso de De Los Santos. Her surviving family includes her children Roxanne Garza (Francisco), Mauro Morales (Janet Murguia), grandchildren Roman Garza and Carolina Garza; her twin sister Dimia Clark and sister Otilia Donoso de Tapia and brother Casimiro Donoso; plus, many nieces and nephews from the Morales & Donoso families that she dearly loved.
The family is deeply grateful for the loving care provided by her dedicated caregivers during her final years, especially Emily Lemus, Vilma Manuel and Lynn. Visitation and Rosary
Monday, June 10, 2024, from 3:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Lesneski Mortuary - 640 El Camino Real, San Clemente, 92672
The recital of the Holy Rosary will begin at 3:15 p.m. Funeral Mass
Tuesday, June 11, 2024, at 11:00 a.m. Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Church- 105 N. La Esperanza San Clemente, CA 92672 Reception to follow Mass
If you wish to send a memorial gift for Fimia Morales in lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Alzheimer’s Orange County. Phone donations- call Alzheimer’s Orange County at 949-955-9000 Mail donations: ​ Alzheimer’s Orange County​ 2515 McCabe Way, Suite 200​ Irvine, CA 92614 Floral tributes provided by: BEACH CITY FLORIST in San Clemente, CA (949) 584-2262
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Albert Henry "Buster" Arnim - January 26, 1932 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Albert Henry (Buster) Arnim passed away on April 27, 2024 at home in San Clemente, California.
Buster was born on January 26, 1932 in Houston, Texas to Albert Henry Arnim Sr. and Bebe (Vacek) Arnim.
After graduating from the University of Houston he served in the United States Army for two years.
Buster was a gifted Salesman and Sales Manager. He was proud to be a partner in the Houston Trunk Factory, a well-regarded luggage and leather goods store with many locations in Texas.
After retirement he and his beloved wife Julie purchased a fifty acre site in Ellsworth, Michigan and built and established a bed and breakfast inn. ‘The House on the Hill’ is still in operation today.
Buster and Julie retired to San Clemente, California. Julie passed away on March 30, 2004. Buster continued to enjoy family and friends in the warmer climate of California.
Buster is preceded in death by his wife Julie, son Chris, and brother Larry.
Buster and Julie enjoyed fifty-three years of marriage. They were true partners in love and life.
Buster is survived by his children: Deb (John) Madden of Greenwood, Indiana; Bubba (Caryn) Arnim of Matagorda, Texas; and Juge (Bud) Smith of Aliso Viejo, California; seven grandchildren and eleven great grandchildren.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Lesneski Mortuary.
A private service will be held at a later date.
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Richard Marvin Francisco - July 13, 1939 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Richard Marvin Francisco passed away April 14, 2024, peacefully at home in San Clemente with his family at his side.
Richard was born on July 13, 1939 to Marvin Francisco and Harriet Frost Francisco in Upland, California. When Richard was seven, his mother passed. When Richard was twelve, his father remarried. Within a year, his father passed of a heart attack, leaving his stepmother, Edmarie, to raise Richard and his brother Alan after having raised her two adult daughters, Rosemary and Louise. Richard was forever grateful Edmarie remained in his life as a mother, and grandmother to his children. He attended elementary and middle school in Upland. During his freshman year he moved to Claremont, California where he graduated from Claremont High School in 1957.
Following a year at UC Berkley (which he chose over Stanford, Duke and the Naval Academy) he attended California Polytechnic College – Kellogge Campus in Pomona, California, which was an all-male school at the time. He married Rosemarie Streich Francisco on September 4, 1959. While finishing college, they lived in Riverside, California. Upon graduation they settled in Claremont, California, raising their three children, Douglas, Julie and Christina (Tina).
After graduating with a degree in political science, he began what would become a lifetime career in procurement. The first ten years of his career, he worked in the aerospace industry for Atron, AeroJet, EOS and Beckman Instruments. This was an exciting time to be in aerospace procurement, as this was the decade the USA was racing to the moon.
With the culmination of the moon landing, the aerospace industry downsized. Richard was given the option of a different position within Beckman Instruments or to use their human resources department to find other employment. He chose the latter, subsequently taking a job with Fleetwood Enterprises in Riverside, California on December 23, 1970. One of Richard’s first glimpses into how Fleetwood cared for their employees, occurred when, as a new hire, he received a Christmas turkey the next day. The move to Fleetwood Enterprises turned out to be a fortuitous move.
After a brief time in the training program and as a plant purchasing manager, Richard was moved to the corporate headquarters in Riverside, California where he spent the next 28 years as the Director of  Purchasing for the Motorhome Division and Travel Trailer Division. In this capacity, Richard negotiated contracts with major national and international companies.
In 1973, they moved from Claremont to Riverside. The move allowed Richard to spend more time with his family. Riverside was a wonderful place to raise children. The entire family developed lifelong friendships during their 45 years in Riverside. In 2018, Richard and Rosie moved to San Clemente, California.
One of Richards hobbies was hunting. In earlier years, he hunted pheasant with his brothers-in law in Norther California. Later he changed to hunting waterfowl, joining local duck clubs near Prado Dam and in the San Jacinto Valley. He loved to travel to different hunting locations. Some of his favorites were goose hunting on the Eastern Shore of Maryland and hunting internationally in South America. Other hobbies included cars and travel. Whenever possible, he combined the two. He attended the Indianapolis 500, the Ontario 500 and races at the Riverside International Raceway. He even drove his beloved Pantera at the Riverside Raceway…once! His love of travel was often shared with his beloved Rosie both internationally and within the USA. They visited many of the states and Canadian Provinces. Highlights were traveling with friends, visiting National Parks and seeing Triple Crown winner Affirmed win the Kentucky Derby.
Although Richard loved hunting, car racing and travel, his greatest love was his family. Richard is survived by his wife of 64 years, Rosemarie Francisco, his son Douglas Francisco (Pari), daughters Julie McBride (Todd) and Christina Gaffney (Mark); his “five outstanding grandsons” Chad Francisco (Alec), Tucker Francisco, Sean Gaffney, Brian Gaffney, and Ryan McBride; his brothers-in-law Otto Streich and Terry Hodges; and his sisters-in-law Jeanette Streich Bosson, Judy Lobb Plummer and Dee Francisco. He is also survived by many nephews and nieces, who were all greatly loved by their “Uncle Rich”. He was preceded in death by his parents and brother, two step sisters, six brothers-in-law and four sisters-in-law.
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Joseph "JJ" Jedidiah Martin - October 14, 2006 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: In loving memory of Joseph “JJ” Jedidiah Martin, who passed away on March 23, 2024, in San Clemente, California, in a solo car accident after texting his dad: "Comin home". He was born on October 14, 2006 in Washington State. Joseph’s recent journal entries captured his gratitude for his faith in Jesus, his church community, and the love of his family and friends. He loved his pets, music, the beach, books, sunsets, and the Bible. He excelled as an athlete, son, brother, friend, employee and student, leaving an indelible mark on all who knew him.
Known for his growing faith, his authenticity, inquiring mind, thoughtfulness, passion, kindness, and good looks, Joseph’s memory will forever be cherished by those whose lives he touched. He is survived by his siblings Elizabeth, Benjamin, and Gabrielle and his loving parents, Sahl and Sara. At age 17, Joseph lived a life that leaves a legacy of authenticity and triumph. Upcoming events: Friday, April 5th, 2-6pm: An open-casket viewing at Lesneski Mortuary, 640 S. El Camino Real, San Clemente
Saturday, April 6th , 12:00 noon, internment at Mountain View Cemetery, 2400 N. Fair Oaks Ave., Altadena, California, in the Deodar Lane Plot, Lot 2421, the family burial site of Joseph's great-great-grandparents, The Reverend Walter C. Buckner and his wife Eva. Parking is limited, so please carpool. Saturday, April 6th, 6-7:30pm, a reception and sunset farewell starting at 411 Avenida Grenada and proceeding to the San Clemente Pier Joseph copied this poem into a recent journal entry: God, I offer myself to Thee - to build
with me and to do with me as Thou wilt. Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy will. Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Thy Power, Thy Love, and Thy way of life. May I do thy will always!
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Ann Elizabeth Fulton-Curran - May 31, 1944 - March 21, 2024

Departed: 03/21/2024 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Ann (Twiname) Fulton-Curran May 31, 1944 - March 21st, 2024
Ann passed peacefully with family by her side.
Ann was born in White Plains, NY and spent her childhood in Briarcliff Manor, NY. Ann attended Briarcliff High Schook, Kent Place School and Boston University.
She enjoyed a long and varied career with American Airlines, retiring in 1995. Upon moving to San Clemente, CA, she worked as a clerk at the Dana Point Library and continued as a volunteer. Ann was a member of The National Society of the American Revolution.
Ann enjoyed her many years in San Clemente California. She was a favorite among her neighbors and always took the time to share stories with them. Ann will be remembered for her passion for animals, including her beloved dogs Cosmo and BG, her optimism and giving spirit and affinity for white wine!
She is survived by daughter Elizabeth Sauter, granddaughter Rachel Sauter and grandson Steven Sauter. She is also survived by her nieces; Ellen Twiname, Natalie Wilkey, Mindy (Haus) Fulton and Katie Fulton, by her nephews; Jimmy Flynn, Kevin Twiname , Eric Twiname, Jim Fulton Jr. and Bobby Fulton and her brother-in-law Jim Fulton.
Ann is preceded by her parents Beatrice DeNike Hunter Twiname and James Dean Twiname, her brother James Dean Twiname, Jr., sister Beatrice Gayle Twiname, and husbands; Bob Fulton and Jerry Curran.
Her celebration of life will be in San Clemente on July 13th where here ashes will be scattered at sea to join Jerry’s.
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Barbara Cornelia Schouten - January 25, 1930 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Barbara Cornelia (Babs) Schouten, January 25, 1930 - March 8, 2024. Babs Schouten passed away in peace in San Clemente, CA, after recently celebrating her 94th birthday with family and friends. She was born in Utrecht, The Netherlands and was the second oldest of 8 children. She married Johannes (Hans) Schouten on January 21, 1956, and soon afterwards they emigrated to the United States of America. They started their new lives in Arcadia, CA where they raised their four sons. Babs and Hans became Naturalized Citizens in 1962. They called Arcadia home for 33 years before retiring to San Clemente, CA in 1989.
After formal schooling, and learning four languages (Dutch, English, German and French) Babs held several secretarial jobs, her favorite, being executive secretary at the Phillips Electronics Distributorship for The Netherlands. She also worked as a translator at Caltech before the birth of her sons. She cherished being a mom and homemaker while the boys were in school. Her beautiful Dutch accent remained a part of her throughout her life.
After moving to San Clemente to enjoy retirement, Babs quickly became involved in her new hometown. Always the devout Catholic, she was active at Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Church as a parishioner and Eucharistic Minister. She joined the San Clemente Garden Club, Bunco, and Canasta clubs with her neighbors, where she was known as having an extensive knowledge of flowers and plants as well as being a skillful card player. Babs loved her social life, participating in her community, playing card games, and attending events with her friends and family.
She was a devoted daughter, sister, wife, mother, Oma (grandmother) and Overgrootmoeder (great grandmother). She will be remembered for her quick smile, great Dutch cooking, outgoing personality, attention to detail, but most of all her fantastic memory and her love of family. Babs will be greatly missed by all who knew her. She is survived by her youngest brother, Jos Willemse in The Netherlands, her four sons and their spouses, Raymond (Yvonne), Dennis (Angela), Donald (Kaycee), Stuart (J’Amy), (9) grandchildren and (6) great grandchildren.
Funeral services will be held on Saturday, March 23, 2024, at 2:00 PM at Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Church in San Clemente, CA.
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Steve Alan Harrison - October 12, 1949 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: As we reflect on the journey of a life well-lived, we find solace in the memories that will forever remain etched in our hearts. As we share our memories and bid our farewells, we also embrace the legacy he leaves behind—a legacy of love, strength, and family bonds that endure through the generations.
Steve was more than a husband, father, and brother; he was a steadfast pillar of strength, a source of unwavering support, and a friend to many. His journey was one of profound connections, and at the center of it all was his deep and abiding bond with his best friend and wife, Sondra. Their love story was one for the ages, a narrative of shared dreams, mutual respect, and a partnership that weathered the storms of life with grace.
In the tapestry of family life, Steve's role as a father was both nurturing and inspiring. His three daughters—Amber, Jennifer, and Stacey—were the lights of his life. Steve took pride in watching them grow, imparting wisdom, and offering a steady hand as they navigated life's twists and turns. The love he showered upon them was not just paternal but a guiding force that shaped their characters and fueled their aspirations.
As a brother, Steve shared a special bond with Kenny Sr. Their connection was more than just blood; it was a bond forged in shared experiences, laughter, and the unspoken understanding that only siblings can share. The memories they created together, the triumphs, and the challenges they faced side by side, are a testament to the strength of family ties.
Steve's impact reached beyond his immediate family, extending to friends and community alike. His kindness, warmth, and genuine nature left an indelible mark on those fortunate enough to know him. Steve's legacy lives on in the hearts of all who were touched by his presence, a legacy of love, resilience, and the enduring power of meaningful connections.
As we bid farewell to Steve, let us remember not only the tears of parting but also the smiles and laughter he brought into our lives. In the tapestry of memories, let us find comfort and strength, knowing that the love and wisdom he shared will continue to guide us in the days to come.
Rest in peace, Steve Harrison. May your spirit find eternal peace, and may the love you shared continue to echo through the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to call you friend, husband, father, grandfather, and brother.
A Service will be held at DWYC on Saturday April 13th with a Burial at Sea 9 AM followed by the Celebration of Life at the Club.
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Nicole Liane Hakim Perez - February 27, 1987 - February 19, 2024

Departed: 02/19/2024 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Nicole Liane Hakim Perez of Rancho Santa Margarita, loving mother, daughter, and sister, died at Providence Mission Hospital in Mission Viejo on February 19, 2024, at the age of 36, surrounded by family.
She was born February 27, 1987, in Long Beach, California. Joe and Linda Hakim adopted Nicole as a baby.
As a young girl, Nicole loved swimming and was involved in soccer and gymnastics. She attended Capo Valley Christian Schools from kindergarten through the third grade. She loved music and could play the guitar and piano.
Nicole was sharp as a whip. She graduated high school with a GED. She pondered the idea of becoming a hairdresser and attended Beauty College in Lake Forest for a short time. She also loved to bake, especially cupcakes and worked at several cupcake shops in South Orange County.
Nicole is survived by her daughter, Ava Rose Perez, her mother, Linda Hakim, her two brothers, Tom and Steve Hakim, her birth mother, Kathryn Siebert, half-brother, Brandon Siebert, and a large extended family of aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Memorial services will be held Friday, March 8, at noon at Lesneski Historic Chapel, 640 S. El Camino Real, San Clemente.
Interment to follow at 1:30 pm at Ascension Cemetery, 24754 Trabuco Rd., Lake Forest.
Dinner reception immediately following interment at Aunt Janet Frazier‘s house.
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Ashley Christine Fuson - September 11, 1997 - January 15, 2024

Departed: 01/15/2024 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Ashley Christine Fuson, 26, Gone Too Soon.
On January 15, 2024, we got the devastating call that our beloved and incredibly sweet Ashley had been involved in a fatal car accident in the Santa Clarita area.
Ashley was born on September 11, 1997, in Riverside, California. She graduated from high school in Yucaipa in 2015, then attended Eastern University in Pennsylvania for a year before getting homesick and returning to Southern California. She finished her education at Riverside Community College and earned her AA in Graphic Design. Ashley also took classes at the Fashion Institute of Design and Merchandising, aspiring to become a fashion designer.
Ashley was an astonishing young woman on her way to accomplishing great things. She had a sensitive, beautiful soul and was so smart, funny, adventurous, and artistic. She was always the one to help plan family gatherings, even when she was just a child.
Ashley loved bringing joy to people's lives. She had an infectious smile, and her laugh could make anybody happy in an instant. She also enjoyed traveling far and wide. France, Greece, and Norway were among her many destinations.
Ashley was incredibly gifted when it came to creating things. She could take something that was ordinary and make it extraordinary. She brought life to objects that people had overlooked and forgotten about. Ashley found special joy in making wreaths for herself and her loved ones. She even started a business making wreaths for local companies a few years ago.
Starting from the time she was a little girl dressing up as a princess, Ashley had a passion for clothes — always trying to look her best at family gatherings and in public. She loved it when people complimented her on an outfit that she had spent hours putting together. She was the kind of girl who would wear high heels to Disneyland just to make a fashion statement. She was truly one of a kind.
Ashley is survived by her mother, Laurie Atkinson, and her two sisters, Alexandra Fuson and Aynalise Atkinson, as well as a very large extended family of grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Ashley's passing has left a hole that cannot be filled, but she will forever be in the hearts of her family and friends. We take comfort in knowing that we will be with her again someday and that she lives within us every day.
A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, February 10, at 2:00 pm in San Clemente. We will be gathering to share some of our favorite memories — to laugh, to cry, and to remember a wonderful person. If you would like to attend, please reach out to 909-362-4822 or 909-654-0903 so we can provide additional information.
The family is also asking for pictures and stories about Ashley. We truly appreciate the many heartwarming things that have already been shared with us.
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Winifred Louise Jacob - September 11, 1931 - January 14, 2024

Departed: 01/14/2024 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Winifred “Wini” L. Jacob, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully in the arms of Jesus on January 14, 2024, in Laguna Woods, California. She was born on September 11, 1931, in New York City, New York.
Wini was a woman of immense love, strength, and grace. Throughout her life, she touched the hearts of all who knew her. Her warm smile, kind heart, and gentle spirit will be deeply missed by her family and friends.
Wini is survived by her loving spouse of 73 years, John L. Jacob. Together, they shared a lifetime of love, laughter, and cherished memories. Their bond was a testament to the power of true love and commitment.
After moving to California in the mid-1950’s, Wini and John built a beautiful life together. They were blessed with four wonderful daughters: Winifred Marie Jacob, Louise Anne Murphy (John), Jean Theresa Jacob (Mark Hatfield), and Karen Jacob Young (Frederick). Wini’s dedication to her family was unwavering, and she poured her heart and soul into being a loving mother and role model to her children.
Wini’s legacy lives on through her 11 grandchildren and 7 great-grandchildren. She adored each and every one of them and took great joy in watching them grow and thrive. Her love and wisdom will forever be a guiding light in their lives.
Wini was an accomplished accountant, secretary, travel agent, and teacher of her Catholic ideals. She will be remembered for her unwavering faith, her acts of selflessness, and her ability to bring joy to those around her. She had a heart full of compassion and was always there to lend a helping hand or offer words of encouragement. Her presence brought comfort and peace to all who knew her.
As we mourn the loss of Wini, let us also celebrate the beautiful life she lived. May her memory be a source of strength and inspiration for us all. She will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
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Robert "Terry" Terrance Fisher - May 11, 1948 - January 09, 2024

Departed: 01/09/2024 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: The family of Robert Terrance Fisher, “The Fish”, 75, a long-time resident of San Clemente, passed away peacefully on January 9, 2024 in San Juan Capistrano, California. Terry is predeceased by his parents Robert Lewis Fisher and Alice Bonnie Fisher, along with Susan (Wilson) Gottardi, his sister. Terry is survived by his life partner Julia Dix, his brother Richard Fisher (Claire), and daughters Lacy Alice and Kaylee Lynne Fisher as well as his loving nieces and nephews.
Terry was born May 11, 1948 in Tucson, Arizona. He was raised in Pasadena, California and spent many of his summers in San Clemente. His love for, and the magic of San Clemente, would eventually lure him back as an adult where he would raise his family.
Twenty-year-old Terry, enlisted in the US Army on September 10, 1968, and shortly thereafter he was sent to Vietnam where he served his country from 1968-1970. There was no desk job waiting in Vietnam for Terry. His job was operating in the jungle as a Forward Observer, often times being put in harm's way. His letters home often spoke compassionately for the children of Vietnam and the senselessness of war. Yet, he believed that even though it was a mistake for America to have entered the war, America could not abandon the South Vietnamese until such time that they could defend themselves. He also told his mother not to worry, that the son who was sent to war would be the same son coming home, but a lot wiser and a more confident person. Terry rarely if ever, talked about Vietnam after returning, and he would never claim to have been a hero, but Terry was in the truest sense of the word - a hero.
Returning home, Terry graduated from Cal State University, Fullerton with a degree in business. He worked in several retail sports stores where his love for the outdoors and his eye for business led him to becoming a Sales Representative beginning his career at Hansen Ski boots. Shortly after marrying his wife Patti (Sebek) Fisher (whom they share 2 daughters), Terry’s ability “to sell Ice to Eskimos” along with his nuanced ability to accomplish and understand business, would lead him to start his own Rep Agency, Fisher Sales. They and the “Fisher Sales” crew he established would go on to represent many companies in the snow, surf, and ski sectors. You could call Terry one of the early pioneers in the business. Some of their lines included: Hansen Boots, Atomic skis, Thule, San Marco Boots, Volant Skis, Descente, Quiksilver/Pirate Surf, Roxy Eyewear, Smith, Bolle’, and Bauer.
His love for people and his uncanny ability to transform customers into friends, earned him their confidence. Humor was one of the many tools in Terry’s selling arsenal, from his good-natured laugh, to his personalized license plate-TRSTME1.
Along with active sports in the Orange County area, Terry was an avid skier and played Rugby for the Newport Rugby Club for many years. He made numerous friendships that lasted his entire life. Fish loved to tell stories and as the years went by, his rugby story exploits tended to grow, much like Pinocchio’s nose. The funny and endearing thing was this made Fish’s stories even better. They will forever be remembered, according to his dear friends, as “Fish Tales”.
Julia Dix joined Terry’s life over a decade ago, sharing a wonderful and loving life together.
Terry leaves behind a legacy of compassion and kindness to those that knew him well and a lifetime of love for his daughters, Lacy and Kaylee. Lacy was born with a disability called Rett Syndrome. The tireless love, compassion, and endless care that Terry, Patti, Kaylee, and John have showered Lacy, could make for a best- selling movie. Terry surely loved his girls. The Army Vet who played Rugby and was frankly a man’s man, was truly a soft, tenderhearted Teddy Bear.
All of us who knew Terry had the pleasure of witnessing a life well lived of a very kind and generous man. We look forward to seeing Terry again one day. Rest in Peace, Fish.
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Robert Bruce Grant - October 14, 1943 - December 30, 2023

Departed: 12/30/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Robert B. Grant: A Life Well Lived
We all hope to lead a life of worth and purpose—using our natural abilities and life experiences to the highest effect, treasuring those we hold most dear, and making a mark on the issues we care about most. By this measure, Bob Grant’s life was an unparalleled success, leaving behind a legacy of professionalism, integrity, generosity and kindness.
Born and raised in Tustin, Calif., alongside his parents (Victor and Bettie) and two brothers (Jay and Kerry), Bob loved sports of all kinds, particularly enjoying basketball and baseball, and excelled in track and field in high school—setting records for both long jump and javelin are among his many claims to fame. He graduated from Tustin High School in 1961, and studied at Santa Ana Junior College before setting off to get his bachelor’s degree at Cal State Fullerton.
Shortly thereafter, Bob earned his CPA and began his distinguished career in public accounting working for the Internal Revenue Service, Arthur Young & Company, Coleman & Grant, and Deloitte. He served as Managing Partner of Deloitte’s Orange County office, and continued to serve clients as a sole practitioner after his retirement from Deloitte at age 62. Bob’s technical acumen and strategic leadership helped countless clients and professionals reach their potential, and he was a strong and caring mentor to all those who had the pleasure and privilege of working with him. His professional legacy will endure through the lives he touched and the indelible mark he left on the firms where he worked.
His skill as a financial expert was outshone only by his generosity of spirit. Bob was widely acknowledged for his charity work, bringing his gifts of “head and heart” to Orange County’s most vulnerable neighbors. He was passionate about his work with Casa de Amma, serving those with special needs, Family Assistance Ministries, bringing life-giving support to those in greatest need throughout Orange County, Casa Recovery, offering treatment for mental health, and Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation, funding innovative research for type 1 diabetes, among other worthy charitable causes throughout his life. He made perhaps his greatest mark on the Orange County Community Foundation, serving on the board for nearly a decade and as Board Chair, and on many committees after his Board term ended. Bob contributed in countless ways to the Foundation’s success as one of the largest and fastest-growing community foundations in the nation.
On the personal front, he delighted in his family and friends, loved to throw a good party, and created a sense of welcome and warmth for all who knew him. He had a competitive spirit, laughed loudest at his own jokes, and warmed the hearts of the many he called “pal.” He lit up every dance floor he ever stepped foot on—eyes closed, one with the music, rocking his signature moves. As he got older he also seemed to get younger, bringing endless joy and love to his grandchildren with whom he has a deep and special bond. When he wasn’t golfing with his buddies, surfing, skiing, boating, or lighting the backyard on fire with his beloved weed torch, you could find him immersed in playful banter with his bestie Betty, the love of his life and wife of 46 years.
Physically healthy all his life and often thought to be invincible, Bob was diagnosed with pulmonary fibrosis at the age of 79. After a brave, wholehearted and steadfast battle with this heartbreaking disease, he passed away eight short months later with his family by his side at Providence Mission Hospital in Mission Viejo, Calif., on December 30, 2023. His resilience endured until the very end, as did his positive spirit, and his strong faith provided a sense of peace and curiosity as he transitioned into the unknown.
Two months prior to Bob’s passing, he threw one final party for himself—an 80th birthday family talent show. Twenty-five humans from the Grant clan came together to eat and drink, sing and dance, and laugh and cry, as we celebrated this most special man and all the ways he’s touched the lives of those closest to him. It is without question that he left this earthly plain knowing how deeply loved he is. He was a pillar of strength and support with a sense of humor to be reckoned with, and he will be dearly, dearly missed.
Bob was always intrigued by his Scottish roots and so proud of the Grant Family Crest, and there’s no one who embodied its motto more fully: Stand Fast. The most determined man you’ll ever meet and an immovable anchor for his family, even as he took his last breaths. A true Grant in all his glory.
Bob is survived by his wife Betty, five children (Chris, Casie, Kelly, Bobby and Jamie), five grandchildren (Rylie, Preston, Andrew, Makenna and Micah) and two great grandchildren (Maverick and Jenna Jade). And his departed best dog friend Jackson has been undoubtedly and excitedly awaiting his arrival to the Spirit world.
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Shirley Schwengle Kimmel - December 29, 1927 - December 24, 2023

Departed: 12/24/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Resident of San Clemente, California, Shirley S. Kimmel, passed peacefully at her home on December 24, 2023, at the age of ninety-five. She was born December 29, 1927, in Redwood Falls, Minnesota.
Shirley is survived by her loving and devoted daughters, Karen Kimmel, Mary Danielson Roberts, Jean Kimmel Veatch, and son-in-law Randy Veatch, as well as seven grandchildren and nine great grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her husband, Melvin Albert Kimmel, and grandson, Andrew Kimmel Danielson.
Shirley lived her early years on a farm in Mora, Minnesota, a second-generation Swedish immigrant. She loved to tell stories of catching mice to earn her first bike, playing with her cats in the hayloft, and running from a goose who overtook her and tweaked her on the fanny as she ran and jumped the fence. Shirley’s family moved from Minnesota to Broken Bow, Nebraska, when she was a senior in high school. She was not happy to leave the farm but made the most of it and graduated Valedictorian in her class. She went on to earn a bachelor’s degree from the University of South Dakota in 1949 and continued to the University of Arizona where she earned her master’s degree in teaching and Spanish. She met Mel in Arizona; they were wed in 1952 and settled in Phoenix. Mel and Shirley moved to Los Angeles in 1956 for new opportunities. In 1964, they moved to Huntington Beach where they raised their 3 daughters. In 1986, after the girls had grown, Shirley and Mel moved to San Clemente. For most of her career, Shirley taught or counseled students at the Junior College, high school, and middle school levels. She was a beloved teacher and lifelong learner. She also invested in real estate and managed a family farm.
During their retirement, Shirley and Mel were active members of the choir and bible study at Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Church. They enjoyed traveling and spending time with the grandkids. Shirley and Mel loved their San Clemente years and the wonderful relationships with neighbors and fellow parishioners.
Shirley was a woman of deep faith. She will be deeply missed by all her knew and loved her.
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Miguel Angel Nunez Juarez - December 26, 1986 - December 24, 2023

Departed: 12/24/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Miguel Angel Nunez Juarez.
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Santo Redivo - January 25, 1934 - December 24, 2023

Departed: 12/24/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Santo Redivo, 89, beloved husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, and friend passed away on December 24th, 2023 in San Clemente, California, peacefully at home.
Santo was born in Roveredo in Piano, Italy, on January, 25th, 1934. At a very young age, he immigrated to Canada with his family. He married his first girlfriend and the love of his life, Arlette in May 1957. The couple and their first son, Ronnie, immigrated to America in the early 1960s, and made Southern California their home. They went on to be blessed with two more children, Michael, & Linda.
Santo was a linguist and spoke five languages, which was valuable regarding his work for Ralph M. Parsons, as a copper mining engineer. He was a world traveler both through leisure, and his professional life working abroad.
He is survived by his family, son Ronnie and his wife Melody, his son Michael and his wife Richelle, his daughter Linda and her husband Matt; his seven grandchildren, Joshua, Andrew, Matthew, Kayla and her husband Michael, Ryan, Jack, and Kate; and two great-granddaughters, Faith, & Daisy. He was preceded in death by his brother Bruno Redivo, and his wife of 62 years, Arlette. --- Visitation will be held Wednesday, January 10th from 4:00 pm to 7:00 pm at Lesneski Colonial Chapel, 640 S. El Camino Real, San Clemente, CA Mass of Christian Burial will be January 11th, 2024, 10:30 am, at Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Church, 105 La Esperanza, San Clemente, CA Internment to follow at Ascension Cemetery, 24754 Trabuco Rd, Lake Forest, CA
Arrangements entrusted to Lesneski Colonial Chapel, 640 S. El Camino Real, San Clemente, 949-492-1717, Directors.
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Javier Torres - September 05, 1965 - December 15, 2023

Departed: 12/15/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Javier Torres.
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Dolores Marie Dille - February 04, 1939 - December 09, 2023

Departed: 12/09/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Dolores Marie Dille.
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Victoria Farias Rodriguez - November 24, 1948 - November 29, 2023

Departed: 11/29/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Victoria Farias Rodriguez.
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Robert Kenneth Binns - August 01, 1958 - November 22, 2023

Departed: 11/22/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Robert (Bob) Binns passed away after a long fight with Frontotemporal Degeneration (FTD) and Corticobasal Degeneration (CBD) on November 22, 2023, at the age of 65. He passed in his home surrounded by family and so much love.
Bob was born August 1, 1958, to Pauline and Lloyd Binns, in Santa Monica, CA. He was the youngest of four brothers. They moved to Reseda, CA, when Bob was three, and lived at that residence until he married his wife, Jodi Merrill Binns.
Bob and Jodi were married on a beautiful Saturday afternoon, March 6, 1982, at the First Presbyterian Church of Encino. Very young and so much in love, they remained married for 41 years. Shortly after marriage, they moved to Saugus, CA, where they were blessed with four children. In 1990, the family moved to San Clemente, CA, where they lived until the time of his death. Bob and Jodi were best friends throughout their marriage and went everywhere together. The family had grown to include seven grandchildren, who were the love of their lives. He enjoyed spending time with his entire family and was very much a family man.
Bob attended Reseda High School, Class of 1976. He remained friends with many of his high school friends up until his passing. Bob worked at Canoga Auto Parts before beginning his career at Southern California Edison. Starting as a meter reader, Bob was promoted several times until he retired after 39 years, on January 4, 2019, as a project manager in the Street and Outdoor Lighting Department.
Bob spent his life devoted to family. His briefcase would be left at the door when he came home from work, not to be touched again until he left the next morning. He enjoyed cars, music, and racing, whether on TV or in person, attending many racing events with his son Robert and grandson Ben. He had a great love for muscle cars; his last car being a 2020 Limited Edition 50th Anniversary Dodge Challenger. His love and knowledge of music brought him to Verizon Amphitheater for many years catering the dressing rooms of the artists. Many who knew him were amazed at his memory. He would remember details of bands, music, lyrics, dates, cars, the racing circuits, and details surrounding his work at Edison that were so intricate, he became the go-to person for questions and trivia.
Bob is survived by his wife, Jodi; his son and daughter-in-law Robert and Katie; daughters and sons-inlaw Christie and Ben, Carina and Mike; daughter Marissa, along with seven grandchildren, Aria, Ben, Isabella, Alivia, Jack, David and Penny.
Bob, I love you. You are my “Always and Forever,” my one and only, my best friend. You will forever be in my heart.
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Norman Lee Ludwig - December 06, 1957 - November 22, 2023

Departed: 11/22/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Norman was born in Newport Beach California, he was an Alter Boy, he was raised on the hill in San Juan Capistrano, where he played on 50 acres. He loved riding dirt bikes and his 1600 buggy in those hills. He raced motocross and raced at the Los Angeles Coliseum, he later got a superlite and raced with MTEG and came in third place in the Glen Helen Off-Road Championship Series, where they televized the race on ESPN2. He had his business with his business partner before he was diagnosed with CLL. He called it retirement, but he had his good days and his bad days. He just made it to his wedding anniversary of forty years.
He is survived by his wife of 40 years, Gabriella (Gaby); two sisters, Carol Rosales and Norma Stone; nephews, Jose Rosales and Michael Stone; nieces Vanessa Rosales and Brandy Stone; Godsons Brandon Dieckhoff and Jacob Ebargary; grandniece and grandnephews, lots of cousins, second and third cousins.
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Phyllis Rose Rader - February 22, 1940 - November 04, 2023

Departed: 11/04/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Phyllis Rose Rader, age 83, of Dana Point, CA, passed away on November 4, 2023. Phyllis was proud to be a native Tennessean, having lived in Blount County for 80 years. Due to declining health, she relocated to Southern California in 2020 to be near her daughters. She was a kind, fun-loving person with a creative mind and a keen sense of humor. She enjoyed writing poetry, telling stories, cooking, entertaining, and cheering for the Vols. She was expert-level at putting together jigsaw puzzles and could spot a fitting piece from across the room. Her carrot cake was simply divine! Most of all, Phyllis was a wonderful mother who dearly treasured her family and lifelong friends.
She is predeceased by her husband, Edgar “Sam” Rader; parents, Charles and Anna Cunningham; brother, William “Billy” Cunningham; sisters, Betty Hutton, Dorothy Walker, and Mary McDowell; brothers-in-law, John Hutton, T.R. Walker and Joseph McDowell, and niece, Julie McDowell.
She is survived by her daughters and sons-in-law, Amanda and Michael McPhaul, and Andrea and Andrew DeLorenzo; sister, Bobbie Wood; and seven nephews and a niece.
She is also deeply missed by her much beloved, sweet, wild, and relentlessly baying Beagle, Disco Newton Rader, and her grand dogs, Wrigley “Who’s a Good Boy” Scott DeLorenzo, and Russell “Brussels Sprout” and Clyde “Side-Eye” McPhaul. She was always happy to lounge with them and was most generous with crumbs.
On the day of her passing, she expressed her love and appreciation for her life, family, friends, and the community she missed so much. She was happy and at peace.
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Rose Ann Unfried - May 12, 1930 - October 10, 2023

Departed: 10/10/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Rose was born on May 12, 1930 in Cleveland Ohio. She was the eldest child of Robert and Bertha Dissauer. She had 2 sisters, Teresa and Bertha and two brothers, Robert and Joseph. She grew up in Cleveland and when she was 16 years old, while working with her best friend, Irene Unfried, met her future husband, Richard Michael Unfried, Irene’s brother. They were married on July 5, 1947 until Dick’s death on August 15, 2015 - 68 years. They had 7 children between 1950 and 1966. Kathleen, Richard Jr. Colleen, Michael, Robert, Mary and James. Kathleen and Jim were born on the same day 16 years apart. An omen?
They moved from Ohio to California in February of 1967 to the city of Garden Grove and lived there until moving to Sun City, CA in 1990s. Their final move was to San Juan Capistrano in 2005 and loved this area of southern California.
Rose did not complete high school while growing up in Cleveland but went back to night school with 5 of her children still living at home and received her GED. Then she went back to work.
She worked for Crocker Bank, Blue Magic, a company that made metal polish and then at Lawerence printing company.
Rose enrolled the 5 younger children in Catholic School at St. Columbian in Garden Grove. She hoped all of her children would choose her faith.
Rose attended daily Mass and would walk to church from her house to St. Columbian with her husband after they had retired.
Rose loved traveling the world visiting churches and Holy sites like, Fatima, Lourdes, Medjugorje, Rome and Jerusalem. She visited churches in Norway, Belgium, Austria, Czech Republic, Slovak Republic, Israel, Spain, Italy, France and Portugal.
Rose would visit her family as often as possible back in Ohio, Florida, Pennsylvania, Indiana, Oregon and Arizona and always celebrated Baptisms, First Communions, Confirmations, Weddings and Funerals where ever they may be.
From her and her husband’s 7 children Rose now has 27 grandchildren, 30 great grandchildren and 5 great-great grandchildren.
Rose’s funeral Mass will be at Holy Trinity Catholic Church in Ladera Ranch on Friday, October 27, 2023. Viewing starts at 10 am with a rosary prayed 20 minutes before Mass starts at 11 am. There will be a motorcade to Ascension Cemetery and after the graveside services a reception at 31301 Via Cuartel in San Juan Capistrano, CA.
All are welcome and please let us know if you are coming to the reception by Monday Oct. 23rd.
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Jenée Suzanne Fraine - February 02, 1960 - October 07, 2023

Departed: 10/07/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Jenée Suzanne Fraine passed away suddenly on October 7, 2023 at Mission Hospital in Mission Viejo, CA. Jenée is survived by loving husband Jim Fraine, loving son Garrett Stapleton (Elisha), loving family, including mother Charlene Webber, sister Sheri Horn (Brian) and brother Mike Webber (Monica). Jenée is a life-long resident of Orange County and was a court reporter for the Orange County Courthouse in Santa Ana, CA. A list of Jenée’s life achievements include; • Born in Beverly Hills – February 2, 1960 (Groundhog Day - Aquarius!) • Raised in Huntington Beach and Fountain Valley, CA • Attended Lamb Elementary School, Fountain Valley, CA • Girl Scouts of America: 1967-1970 • Graduated Fountain Valley High School in June, 1978
• Graduated Orange County College of Court Reporting and graduated in record time with a degree as a Certified Courtroom Reporter in 1980 - 18 months. • Received position as Certified Courtroom Reporter in 1981 • Married childhood sweetheart, Marlin Stapleton on August 27, 1983 • Welcomed the joy of her life, son Garrett Glenn Stapleton on September 23, 1989
• Thrived in her career as Orange County Certified Court Reporter from 1981 to 2018. • Married the love of her life, Jim Fraine, and he, to his love on May 26, 2001 • Jenée, Jim and Garrett shared time between Yorba Linda, CA and Annapolis, MD where they developed their passion for sailing 2001-2006 • Jenée passed a more advanced, rigorous CSR test – Registered Professional Reporter in 2006 • Jenée and Jim bought a second home in Laguna Beach in 2006 - to experience "full time beach life" – just love to be near that water! • Jenée and Jim spent a year planning and finally set sail on a world tour - April, 2010
• Jenée trained to be SV Jungle’s (sailing vessel) safety and medical officer. In addition, Jenée further developed as the ship gourmet chef much to the crew’s pleasure. • The sailing trip was interrupted by Jim's throat cancer in September, 2010 with recovery in Boston MA and Yorba Linda, CA - thanks to Jenée's TLC, Jim was on the road to recovery in months and ready to set sail once again! • The world tour resumed in April, 2011 - visiting 35 countries and 150 islands over the next 2 years • Jenée and Jim developed necessary skills to address any emergency at sea or in port • Jenée's skills included critical sail repair – while under way at sea! • Jenée proved her courage and stamina over and over while undertaking a 30,000 mile sail • After completion of their world sailing tour Jenee and Jim settled in San Clemente, CA to maintain close proximity to son Garrett and stay close to the sea - 2014 • Jenée became a certified yoga instructor in 2018 - her other love • Jenée and Jim purchased another home in Bokeelia, FLA to get back to sailing the Caribbean Sea in their retirement years - more "local" travels among the beautiful Caribbean islands • Jenée and Jim took country dance lessons and were graduating to disco dance lessons!
As for Jenée's future plans as far as they may have been - Jenée continued to find great pleasure in being the most supportive, loving and true partner to husband Jim. Jenée re-kindled a close relationship with her Mom (and next door neighbor) and they spent just about every day together walking and talking. Jenée maintained a friendship with ex-husband Herky and his family. Most of all, Jenée welcomed with open arms our newest family member, Elisha Lisath with the wedding to Jenée’s adored son Garrett and the beginning of their exciting journey together and whatever joyful additional family they may present. How to describe Jenée's legacy?
Jenee loved being on the water, enjoyed music, water skiing, dancing, yoga, friends & family, sailing, traveling and her beloved kitties. Her high sense of fashion was augmented by her extreme satisfaction at picking up a sexy, smart outfit at TJ Maxx for $19.99. She is a great friend and remembered fondly by many - going back 30+ years with Kathy P, Kathy H, Jacqi V, Sheri J, Kim C and Karen H. In addition, many years with April K, Martha W and Linda B. Jenée’s Fraine family sisters all are also deeply loved by Jenée and they fell in love with our self-described "girly girl". Lastly, Jenée found joy in reuniting with sister Jennie Cardenas (Adrian), brothers Bobby and Omar Boyd and their wonderful families. It is forever a joy to witness Jenée meeting new people - beginning with her bright light that is a combination her ethereal beauty, brilliant smile and "join in with me" laugh that leaves one helpless to do anything but "join in" and laugh. Jenée's sweetness and love of fun is forever contagious and with no cure in sight or sought out. Words to Mom from Garrett; Well, all that above was from a great guy with a weird accent named Jim aka “da da” … Now to the red headed step child… Mom, I miss you greatly. No one would have imagined you would have left so soon but God had a plan. Elisha and I are sure gonna miss out on the free child care. (No, Elisha is not pregnant. I’m just trying to keep it light.)
My mother taught me so many things in life and showed me parts of the world I had never seen. Some of my fondest memories were in Cabo San Lucas when I was 14 years old, drinking beers on the beach along with our trip to Nova Scotia and summers in Green Harbor.
Thank you mom for making me the man I am today. I will love you and miss you forever. Sorry you couldn’t meet Elisha and I’s future kids, but we know you will be their guardian angel now and they will grow to know you as just that.
Rest easy mom, we’ll take it from here. Finally; For those of us here who remember Jenée, we may find solace in this;
Jesus has decided that Jenée's work is done here on earth and He took her to be with Him, while we here who remain have more work to do.
To all; please check your hearts condition and hug your spouse - always. Thank you and love to you all November 7, 2023 My Darling Jenée,
I just finished a good book called "On Grief & Grieving" by Elisabeth Kűbler-Ross, M.D. and found it very helpful. One chapter was titled "Letter Writing" and in it the suggestion was a made to write you a letter, then write a response letter from you to me. When writing long hand it suggests using the dominant hand (right) to write to you and the left hand for your letter to me. I'll try typing more with my left on your response and see how that works.
Now, where to I begin this thing? First, I should bawl my eyes out - check. Then I ask, why did you have to die, the most healthy person I know was NOT on top of a heart condition (aneurysm) that led to an aortic dissection - a tear in the aorta. C'mon now, this can't be happening. I spent the better part of a day, three days after you passed, totally pissed at you for dying. I'm sure it wasn't your intention, don't care, this didn't need to happen!. See, I got that out and now I feel better. I get it, you were scheduled for the cardiologists test, as I am. Your situation didn't appear to be at a critical level - until it was. Then its way too late. October 7 was the suckiest day of my life and then it's over, but it's not. You should know, everyone is beyond shocked - "not Jenée, NO!" It is very strange, this grieving process, (Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance). I tend to hang around the Anger and Depression rooms a little longer than I probably should but I find I'm working it out. - I'll get there but I'm not rushing. Definition of Grief that I like:
Grief is the intense emotional response to the pain of a loss. It is the reflection of a connection that has been broken. Most important, grief is emotional, spiritual and psychological journey to healing. Grief always works - grief always heals. There you have it - nice and neat. Quite a thing how you roll along, making progress then you come across something that triggers you and bam! Full blubber - baby blubber. Don't care, it's a great release, then you move on. So let me move on a little. You are the perfect person for me in every way and I believe, me for you. We are truly two goobers who love nothing more than being together - always. My credit for this goes to you - as you are beautiful inside and out. What do I treasure the most about you? Allow me to illuminate; Looking at you - your statuesque beauty Your smile Your laugh - everyone shares this love of you - it's for everyone Your sense of humor - nobody likes your jokes more than you! Common Jenée reFraine: "I'm funny" And you definitely are dear (see how I worked in Fraine - cool!) Your love of Garrett - you will drop everything and go anywhere for your boy! Your love of family - yours and mine Your great girlfriends So proud to walk hand in hand with you - always Making eye contact with you from across the room always brings an adorable smile and a wave Your love of adventure, your love of travel Your street sense - impressive Your love of food Your dancing - if that's what we call it - while preparing food, wearing an apron Your love of fun and high energy Your pinpoint memory and total recall of every dumb thing I said - and always willing to share! Your love of fashion - you're a knockout, a home run, always How you meet people, enjoy people and they love you back Your love of your kitty cats, Ava, Romeo and Beansie (oh, they are loving me in spades right now) You saved all my Birthday cards to you with my loving goobery written inside Tucking you into bed every night, beginning the tradition aboard S/V Jungle - well over 10 years ago Your love of me - never felt anything like it in my life and that is a full measure to sustain me
I will say here, you and I did not get cheated in life in our 22+ years of marriage. Beyond the pictures and stories, you and I shared years and years of an intense, first hand experience, immersed in everything the world could offer two lovers. And love we did! The food, the sights, the people, the challenges ... we both know. What people may not know is you were a driving force in all these adventures, not just a loving passenger. We unlocked and freed each other to travel the globe and experienced life in ways that many can only read about. Not to brag but there it is.
You and I we're loading up for our next adventure to sail the Caribbean (no more oceans!), including some of our favorite locations; the San Blas, Providentia, Guanaja, the Exhumas ... We loved our new place and sailing base on Pine Island, FLA. Life couldn't be better and more promising until it wasn't. Oh, I visited some dark places. What if I just gear up and head off to find you. Get me in front of those pearly gates and I like my chances of finding you - don't care how I got there and who I pissed off. But then I figure who will take care of the cats and keep an eye on your Mom and Garrett. Sure others will help but it's something you want me to tend to as well. I love you in the truest and deepest sense that one can love another. Please know this my darling, I will live my life well and when finished, I will come for you and I will find you even if it takes eternity, All my love, J ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ November 8, 2023 My Darling Husband,
Oh, I love saying that. And I'm glad you found the birthday cards. Don't forget the other cards for Christmas, Anniversary, Valentines Day from you and the cats, although I'm pretty sure you got those cards as well.
Where do I begin? First of all, I love you so very much. If you want to talk about being shocked, imagine how I felt. I knew this was bad from the beginning, like nothing I ever felt and it kept getting worse until I went to sleep in the ambulance. Please know that the pain is gone, that my body has left you, but I have not and I never will. Keep me inside you, in a nice place and I know the pain you feel will ease but I hope the love and fondness for me will not. Think of it this way; the sadness, tears and sudden thoughts are my way of reminding you of me and the relief you speak of that follows, is me telling you thank you for remembering and honoring me. See how nice that is - that makes me happy. You be happy too please. As for rushing off to find me - easy Captain Birdbrain. (You know I love saying that). As you say we have eternity to find each other again, a few more years is but seconds.
As for our life together, what we experienced together was wonderful and far beyond all my hopes and dreams. We missed nothing! I know you heard from many friends and family and talk about our love for each other was so obvious and a joy to see. I know that as well - I was there and loved, loved, loved every minute of it. I've told you and others how special you make me feel and I see the same love from all your brothers to their wonderful wives. The Fraine boys are OK in my book.
My darling, look at the Birthday card I gave you days before my passing - it says it all! Please do look after Garrett and Mom and I'm so glad that you all found additional bonding and love through this experience - that makes me very happy.
When all is finished, in due time, please come find me - I will be waiting only for you. I Love You, Jenée
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Julia "Judie" Ann Spray-Merrow - July 03, 1957 - September 22, 2023

Departed: 09/22/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Julia Ann "Judie" Spray-Merrow, 66, of San Clemente, CA, passed away on September 22, 2023 at Providence Mission Hospital in Mission Viejo, CA. Born on July 3, 1957, in Twentynine Palms, CA, Judie was the daughter of Ronald Gene Spray and Geraldine Ross.
On July 4, 1999, in Las Vegas, NV, Judie married Chris Merrow. Judie was a beloved wife, mother, sister, grandmother, and great-grandmother. Judie obtained the CADAC II certification from the State of California, and she dedicated over 20 years of her life to helping others, specifically those who battled addiction, as an Alcohol & Drug Abuse Counselor and Case Manager at various treatment centers in San Clemente and surrounding areas. Judie was a beautiful, kind, and caring person who never met a stranger. She had a heart of gold and would go out of her way to help anyone in need. Her love for people, her family, and most importantly, her love for her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, was evident in everything she did. One of her favorite scriptures was from Psalm 37. "Trust in the Lord, and do good; Dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness. Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord, trust also in Him." Psalm 37:3-5
Judie cared deeply for her friends and enjoyed being a devoted wife, sister, mom, grandma, and great-grandma. She had a giving heart, always thinking of others before herself. She lived and breathed everything about Southern California, the sunshine and the ocean. She loved animals, and had many pets during her life, including dogs, Faith and Hope, and cats, Ping and Pong. Judie also found joy in playing bingo, going to the casino, gardening, playing card games and board games, as well as watching Survivor, Law & Order and other crime shows on TV.
Judie will be deeply missed by her husband, Chris, her son Steve Rocha (fiancé Chelsea), 8 grandchildren, and 2 great-grandchildren. She is also survived by her sister, Amy Spray Raymo (Mark), her step-mom, Joyce Spray, 2 step-brothers, numerous nieces and nephews along with many other family members and friends. Judie was preceded in death by her grandparents, her father, Ronald Gene, her mother, Geraldine, her brother, James Carter, her sister, DaleRae Spray, and her daughter, Charlsie Phillips.
Her wishes were to be cremated, and her ashes scattered at sea, following in the same fashion as her mother, Geraldine, and sister, DaleRae. A celebration of life will be held at a later time to honor Judie's memory.
Contributions in Judie's name can be made to the GoFundMe page to help with final expenses or to her church, The Effect Recovery Church & Counseling Center. The Lesneski Mortuary in San Clemente, CA, is assisting the family with the arrangements during this difficult time.
Celebration of Life will be held at The Effect Church, 27124 Paseo Espada, Suite 801, San Juan Capistrano, CA, on October 28, 2023 at 1:00 pm, Pacific Standard Time. Formal funeral attire is optional. Please be comfortable and come as you are. All are welcome. There will be a time for family and friends to share personal connections and stories. Refreshments will also be provided. For those who are unable to attend, the service will be live streamed and can be accessed from The Effect Church Facebook page.
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Martin H. Algar - June 11, 1936 - August 24, 2023

Departed: 08/24/2023 (San Clemente)
Obituary Preview: Martin Hearn Algar 6-11-1936 to 8-24-2023 Martin Hearn Algar passed away at home in San Clemente early on August 24th. He is survived
by his wife of 32 years, his two daughters, Janine and Yvonne and two sons Brian and Martin Jr. He was a grandfather and great grandfather. Born in 1936 at Ponders End, Enfield, London, he was the 8th child in a family of nine; life was not easy. At a young age, Martin experienced the
blitz of London and was a child evacuee sent away with his brother to rural England for safety. In the early 50’s Martin emigrated to South Africa with his sister and brother-in-law. He partnered with his brothers to form a contracting firm and learned the building trade during
these years. Martin met his first wife, and mother of his 5 children, Anna, in Southern California. Returning to South Africa for a time, then residing in Riverside County until moving to Laguna Beach,
California after divorce. Martin built homes in Laguna Beach during the 70’s & 80’s, spent leisure time at Ben Brown’s golf course and around town. He came to be known in the community as a hard-working builder, developer, landlord, golfer, and raconteur. After several short marriages, he met his 5th
wife, Pamela and married in 1991. His last project in Laguna Beach was development of a multiunit vacation rental on Catalina Street. Martin and Pamela moved to San Clemente in 1996 where he continued to successfully renovate and sell homes near the Municipal Golf Course. Martin was cremated at Lesneski Mortuary in San Clemente. No public service is to be held, but he will be honored as a father, husband and friend—mourned and missed. His memory and the stories he told will remind us
that we have loved and been loved.
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Families choose Lesneski Mortuary because of its reputation for excellence, compassion, and professionalism. The funeral home's experienced staff, beautiful facilities, and range of services all contribute to a memorable and meaningful experience for those who have lost a loved one. Whether you're planning ahead or need immediate assistance, Lesneski Mortuary is here to guide you every step of the way.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral arrangements, and any other relevant details.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing and to provide details about their life and legacy. It also serves as a way to honor and celebrate the deceased person's life.

Who typically writes an obituary?

Obituaries are often written by family members, close friends, or funeral home staff. In some cases, a professional obituary writer may be hired to craft the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include funeral arrangement details and any charitable organizations or causes that the family would like to support in lieu of flowers.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform where it will be published. Typically, an obituary ranges from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the tribute and make it more engaging.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The submission process varies depending on the publication or platform. You can usually find guidelines on their website or by contacting their customer service department directly. Be prepared to provide the written obituary text, along with any accompanying photos or other materials.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers and online sites offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge several hundred dollars or more.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it is becoming increasingly common for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life story is told in the way you want it to be remembered.

What is a self-written obituary called?

A self-written obituary is sometimes referred to as a "living obituary" or "autobituary."

Is it appropriate to include humorous anecdotes or personal stories in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the deceased person. Including humorous anecdotes or personal stories can help bring the person to life and make the tribute more engaging and relatable.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or poems can be a beautiful way to add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the deceased person's values, interests, or personality.

What if I need to make changes to an obituary after it has been published?

Contact the publication or platform where the obituary was published as soon as possible if you need to make corrections or updates. They may have specific procedures for making changes after publication.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published online?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary online can vary depending on the platform and their workflow. Some sites may publish immediately, while others may take several hours or days.

Can I share an obituary on social media?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to share an obituary on social media sites like Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn. This can be a convenient way to notify friends and acquaintances who may not see the traditional newspaper publication.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only basic information such as name, age, date of birth and death, and funeral arrangements. It is often used when a full obituary is not desired or cannot be published due to time constraints.

What is the difference between a death notice and an obituary?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, while an obituary is a more detailed tribute that includes biographical information and other relevant details about the deceased person's life.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for many years?

Yes, it's never too late to write an obituary for someone who has passed away. This can be a meaningful way to honor their memory and share their story with others.

How do I find archived obituaries from past years?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or websites that specialize in storing historical records. Many libraries also maintain archives of local newspapers that may include older obituaries.

Can I use an online template to write an obituary?

Yes, there are many online resources that offer templates and guides to help you write an obituary. These can be especially helpful if you're struggling to get started or need guidance on what information to include.

Is it okay to mention charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Absolutely! Many families prefer donations to charity in lieu of flowers as a way to honor their loved one's memory and support a cause that was important to them.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or private details about the deceased person's life that you're unsure about sharing publicly, it's best to err on the side of caution and omit them from the obituary. Focus on celebrating their life and accomplishments rather than revealing potentially sensitive information.

Can I include information about memorial services or celebrations of life in an obituary?

Yes, it's common to include details about memorial services, celebrations of life, or other gatherings that will be held in honor of the deceased person.

What if I'm not sure what information to include in an obituary?

If you're unsure about what information to include in an obituary, consider consulting with family members, friends, or a funeral home director for guidance. They can help you determine what details are most important to share about the deceased person's life.

Can I write multiple versions of an obituary for different audiences?

Yes, it's not uncommon for families to create multiple versions of an obituary tailored to different audiences or publications. For example, you might write a longer, more detailed version for online publication and a shorter version for print newspapers.

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About Jeffery Isleworth

Jeffery Isleworth is an experienced eulogy and funeral speech writer who has dedicated his career to helping people honor their loved ones in a meaningful way. With a background in writing and public speaking, Jeffery has a keen eye for detail and a talent for crafting heartfelt and authentic tributes that capture the essence of a person's life. Jeffery's passion for writing eulogies and funeral speeches stems from his belief that everyone deserves to be remembered with dignity and respect. He understands that this can be a challenging time for families and friends, and he strives to make the process as smooth and stress-free as possible. Over the years, Jeffery has helped countless families create beautiful and memorable eulogies and funeral speeches. His clients appreciate his warm and empathetic approach, as well as his ability to capture the essence of their loved one's personality and life story. When he's not writing eulogies and funeral speeches, Jeffery enjoys spending time with his family, reading, and traveling. He believes that life is precious and should be celebrated, and he feels honored to help families do just that through his writing.