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Pamela Kaye Roberson - November 18, 1959 - May 08, 2024

Departed: 05/08/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Pamela Kaye Collings-Roberson was born November 18, 1959 in Shawnee to Wayne and Carole (Butler) Collings.  She passed away May 8, 2024 in Tulsa at the age of 64.

Pam grew up in Dale where she played on a state champion basketball team and graduated with the class of 1978.  She enjoyed outdoors, fishing, shooting pool, puzzles, gardening, canning, square dancing and a competitive family game night.  She loved traveling with her family to watch her grandchildren play ball.  Pam was a dedicated hard worker and will be missed by all who knew and loved her.

Pam was preceded in death by her parents, Wayne and Carole Collings.  Survivors include her children, Michael Roberson and wife Emi of Harrah, Crystal Lowry and husband Kyle of Shawnee, Matthew Roberson of Collinsville; six grandchildren, Alexis, Myca, Aubrey, Kylee, Reed, Tess; one great grandchild, Lucy; sisters, Vicki Jordan, and Connie Kelley both of Shawnee; along with many other family and friends.

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Robin Jo Ripley-Palmer - July 27, 1966 - May 02, 2024

Departed: 05/02/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Robin Jo Ripley-Palmer was born July 27, 1966 in Oklahoma City to Robert Sr. and Jo Butler.  She passed away May 2, 2024 in Edmond at the age of 57.

Robin grew up in Oklahoma City attending school at Western Heights where she graduated.  She married her high school sweetheart, Terry Ripley, in 1984 and raised a daughter together.  She later married Paul Palmer, Jr. in 2002 and they had a child together which they raised with their two existing children.  Robin enjoyed going to the lake, riding horses, painting and crafting and riding motorcycles with her husband, Paul, Jr.

Robin was preceded in death by her parents, Robert Sr. and Jo Butler; husbands, Terry Ripley and Paul Palmer, Jr; and her brother, Rex Butler.  Survivors include her children, Kayla Cavner (Courtney) of Guthrie, Emily Parker (Caleb) of Edmond, Hannah Palmer of Guthrie; (5) grandchildren, Gavin, Finley, Blakely, Maverick, Maddox; brother, Robert Butler (Lavitta); and her beloved dogs, Sam, Magwai and Ayla.

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Thomas Wayne Myers - January 04, 1938 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Wayne Myers, “Chief” CMSGT US AirForce was born January 4, 1938 in Neodesha, Kansas.  He passed away April 29, 2024 in Edmond, Oklahoma at the age of 86.

Tommy Wayne was a born explorer, tinkerer, fix-it guy, question asker, fisherman, ornery, brilliant champion to all the people he loved.  Loving son to Margie and Luther Myers, Tom had a charmed childhood following along with his parents, brother, Luther (Tunky) and sister Susie and a host (hundreds) of cousins, aunts and uncles.

He joined the U.S. AirForce in 1955 and then promptly married Frances Lowe, the mother of his two adored and cherished children, Emily and Ricky.

Besides his family, his work and service in the U.S. AirForce was his pride.  As a Vietnam Veteran, he was the most patriotic and dedicated of citizens.  In his retirement, he met and married Ruth Allen.  They had twenty years of travel, work on the ‘farm” and visits with children and grandchildren together.

Hands down, he was the best father, Papa Tom, Uncle Tommy, brother, husband and Chief ever.  Hope you catch the Big One.

Tommy was preceded in death by his parents, Margie and Luther; brother, Tunky (Luther); his sweet granddaughter, Katie; stepchildren, Kevin and Susan Allen.  Survivors include his wife, Ruth Myers; son, Richard Myers; daughter, Emily Carter (Robert); stepchildren, Peter Allen and Paul Allen; grandchildren, Madeline Schrock (Dan), Jenetta Davis, Patrick Manning (Heather), Jessica Carter, Katelyn Carter (Evan), John Carter (Angela), Nathan Myers (Darla Robbins Myers), Malissa Mackiewicz (Thomas); great-grandchildren, Olive Manning, Xzayvr, Derrick, Max, Zachary and Ralene.

A funeral will be held at 11:00 am Monday, May 6, 2024 at Lehman Funeral Home and interment will follow at the Wellston Cemetery. Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Leroy Dry - March 08, 1961 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Allen Leroy Dry was born March 8, 1961 in Alibon near Talihina to Allen Dry and Rosa (Billings).  He passed away April 29, 2024 in Wellston at the age of 63. Leroy spent time in Georgia where he met his wife, Donna.  He enjoyed fishing, hunting, and working for the Harrah Church of the Nazarene. Leroy was preceded in death by his parents, Allen Dry and Rosa Mixon-Cyr; daughters, Helen Dry Lyons; siblings, Sharon Dry Syme, “TJ” Terrell Dry, Melinda “Mimi” Dry Perez. Survivors include his wife of over 30 years, Donna Dry of the home; daughter, Georgina Wood; numerous grandchildren, great-grandchildren; sister, Shirley Bishop; uncle, Fred Billings; along with brother-in-law, Bill Syme; other family and friends. A graveside funeral service will be held at 2:00 pm Saturday, May 4, 2024 at the Rossville Cemetery.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Clovis Faye Cobb - October 12, 1954 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Clovis Faye (Nance) Cobb was welcomed into this world on October 12, 1954, to Raymond and Mandy Nance at St. Anthony’s Hospital in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Clovis passed from this world on April 24, 2024, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.

Clovis was the youngest of four children born to Raymond and Mandy, she was the baby girl, and had three big brothers. Growing up the only girl in a family of boys was not easy, but it gave Clovis the grit and determination she would need later in life as she took on the roll of mother to quite a large family.

In 1972, Clovis met the love of her life, Robert Carlis Cobb, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. This meeting would be the beginning of a very special 52-year relationship that resulted in the establishment of a strong, loving, and compassionate family. The Cobb family home was overfilled with love, laughter and kids, many, many, kids, 9 in total! Clovis not only loved her kids, but she also loved her friend’s kids, her kid’s friends, the neighbor’s kids, and any other kid that needed love. Clovis exhibited an unconditional love that was unmatched, and she instilled this into her family, creating a legacy of unconditional love.

As her children matured, they began families of their own, bringing unbound joy to Clovis with the addition of each grandchild, and later in life, each great grandchild! Clovis was the best wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend anyone could ever ask for. The joy she garnered from being with the ones she loved was evident in her ever-present smile, a smile so beautiful that it was contagious.

Clovis’s love was not reserved only for her family and friends, she loved experiencing life, she loved animals, she loved the beach and lighthouses, she loved to work in the yard, she loved her gold fish pond and her chickens, she loved to star-gaze on the observation deck, she loved to have pool parties and cook outs, she loved road trips, she loved family dinners and game night. Most importantly she loved, she loved hard, she loved raw, and she loved unconditionally.

Clovis’s relationship with her creator, Jehovah God, was strong and carried her through the difficult times in her life. She was strong in her faith that when this life ended, an eternity in paradise awaited her.

Clovis Faye Cobb was preceded by her parents, Raymond and Mandy Nance, brothers Ray Nance and J.C. Nance, Aunt Linda Reeder, and Uncles Jon T. Hill and Cecil Nance.

Clovis’s legacy of unconditional love is carried on by the love of her life, spouse and best friend, Robert C. Cobb of the home. Brother, John (Linda) Nance of OKC. Children; Taprina Milburn of Olympia WA, Jacob Cobb of OKC, Jeffrey (Tracy) Cobb of Chandler, Valarie (Wayne) Braxton of Luther, Joseph Cobb of Edmond, Benjamin Cobb of Moore, Rebecca Cobb of Tulsa, John (Chad) Cobb-Davis of Wellston, Mark (Bridget) Cobb of Wellston. Grandchildren; Aubrey (Donnie) Ashburn, Austin (Stephanie) Mansell, Dylan Spicer, Brenner (Alexandra) Milburn, Liam Spicer, Brooklyn Waldrup, Ryleigh Waldrup, Desire Beach-Cobb, Odessa Waldrup, Zoey Redus-Cobb, Olivia (Robert) Silva, Harrison Cobb, Holden Cobb, Addison Cobb, Robert Cobb, Charles Cobb. Great Grandchildren; Summit Mansell, Georgie Ashburn, Wilder Milburn, Jackie Milburn, Harper Mansell. Nephews; Chris Nance, Timothy Nance. Nieces; Amy Nance and Emily Malone. Countless friends and loved ones whose lives were touched by the unconditional love and light of Clovis Faye Cobb.

Arrangements were under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Fred Erwin Talley - February 03, 1954 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Fred Erwin Talley was born February 3, 1954 in Oklahoma City to Olta and Claudia (McClure) Talley.  He passed away April 18, 2024 in his home in Wellston at the age of 70.

Fred was a man of many talents and passions, but above all, he was a man of extraordinary kindness. Born in a small town, he carried that sense of community with him throughout his life.  His heart was his hometown, welcoming and warm, a place where everyone felt loved and accepted.  Fred was a boy scout who enjoyed fishing and camping.  He even led his daughter’s girl scout troop teaching them how to tie knots.  Fred was a practical joker and was always willing to help his family in any way he could.  He retired from Tinker Airforce Base following 30 years of service as a sheet metal mechanic.

Fred was preceded in death by his parents, Olta and Claudia Talley; and his wife, Cheryl Talley.  Survivors include his children, Jason Talley of Stroud, Bradley Talley and Amber of Stroud, Sarah Hoots and Robert of Edmond, Allison Talley of OKC, Aaron Talley and Lexie of the home; (5) Grandchildren, Ethan Hoots, Devin Hoots, Josie Hoots, Bradley Albert Talley, Langston Talley and one more on the way; brothers, Tom Talley of Wellston, Dale Bell and Marilyn of Pauls Valley, Don Bell of Lindsay; and his best friend, Mike Polach along with other family and friends.

A memorial service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Wednesday, April 24, 2024 in the Lehman Funeral Home Chapel with interment following at a later date in the Paoli Cemetery next to his parents.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Elzina Lynn Pierce - April 05, 1963 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Elzina Lynn Pierce was born April 5, 1963 in Gilroy, California to John and Donna (Overbay) Pierce.  She passed away unexpectedly April 15, 2024 at the age of sixty-one.

Elzina grew up in California.  She was never able to have children of her own, so she attended her sisters’ children’s school activities.  She was introduced as their second mother but was really, just their aunt and personal cheerleader.  Her love of children led her to work at a daycare where she could make a positive impact on young people.  Elzina was a gracious lady who will be missed by her family and friends.

Elzina was preceded in death by her parents, John and Donna Pierce; grandparents, Opal Overbay and Bob Overbay.  Survivors include her partner, Lee Chenoweth of the home; sister, Manette Hair and her husband Brook Allen of Shawnee; nephews and niece, Eric Hair, Falicia Hair, John Langwell and Joseph Langwell.

Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Freda Mae Bales - June 27, 1939 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Freda Mae Collins-Bales was born June 27, 1939 in Ward, Arkansas to A.B. & Mary Collins.  She passed away the morning of April 14, 2024 at her home surrounded by family, at the age of 84.

Freda was preceded in death by her parents, A.B. & Mary (Tucker) Collins; husband Marion Calven Bales Sr; son Calven Bales Jr; sisters Fern Williams, Dee Soderstrom, Pat Brewer; brothers Ronnie Collins and John Collins.

Survivors include her brother Tom Collins of Arkansas; children Gene & Cristy Bales of Davenport, Dennis & Sherry Bales of Davenport, Tamela & Keith Wunderlich of Cambridge KS; 10 grandchildren, Kyle Bales and wife Chelsea, Michael Wunderlich, Guner Wunderlich and wife Amber, Marissa Bowman, Leslie Bales, Cody Bales, Chance Cross, Ashlyn Carter and husband Bryan, Wyatt Cross, Collin Bales; 4 great- grandchildren, Drew Barron, Nicholas Wunderlich, Vivian Wunderlich, Vidalia Wunderlich; along with numerous nieces, nephews and friends whom she loved as her own.

Gene, Dennis, & Tamela would like to make a special thank you to Michael Wunderlich, and Leslie Bales for moving in and being her caretakers.

A celebration of Freda’s life will be held at 1:00 pm Friday, April 19, 2024 at the First Baptist Church of Davenport.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Dedra Gene Kelley - May 30, 1948 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Dedra Gene Kelley was born May 30, 1948 in Minot, North Dakota to Charles and Rose (Feist) Heath.  She passed away April 10, 2024 in Luther at the age of 75.

Dedra loved taking care of people, especially feeding them.  She was a previous part owner of Charley’s Corner Café in Luther, and her cooking was loved by many.  She enjoyed cooking, gardening, reading and traveling and fondly remembered going to London & Ireland with her daughter.  She lived in Palm Springs, California for many years and she loved the heat. She considered it “too cold out” if it wasn’t at least 80 degrees.

Dedra was preceded in death by her parents, Charles and Rose Marie Heath; ex-husbands, and two brothers.  Survivors include daughter, Dessiree Paoli and husband Nicholas of Colorado and their children Dominic and Quinn, daughter Dorinda Marler of Oklahoma and her children Mikel, Liam, Aerowen and Scarlette; and her son, Damian Turnbough of Arizona and his son Hunter; along with eight of her siblings and other family and friends. Dedra’s family will have a virtual celebration of her life on Sunday, April 14, 2024 at 10:00 am. Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Pauline Louise Whitnah - August 26, 1938 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Pauline Louise (Stein) Whitnah was born August 26, 1938 to George and Alvena Stein on the family farm in Wellston.  She passed away Saturday, April 6, 2024 in Edmond at the age of 85.

Pauline was baptized at 2 weeks of age and later confirmed when she was 12.  She began her education at Captain Creek School where she walked 2 miles to attend.  She later graduated from Wellston High School at the age of 16 with the class of 1955.  She met and married Eldon Whitnah July 12, 1958 at St Paul’s Lutheran Church in Wellston.  She was a member of the Captain Creek Home and Community Education for 54 years.  She was an Avon Representative for 43 years and 11 months and honorary FFA degree recipient.  She was the treasurer of the Lutheran Ladies Circle for many years and loved to eat chicken at Long John Silvers and prayed every night for her kids and grandkids, saying each one of their names.

She enjoyed raising a garden, tending sheep, canning and always had something baked for her guests to enjoy.  Pauline took food to families who had a new baby or had lost a loved one.  She would always share details surrounding a loss in the community with a sympathetic approach as she was a source of information.  She worked at the fair in the canning competition area having won the Lodene canning award at least twice.  She had a personal goal to can 100 quarts of green beans annually.  Everyone loved her coconut cream pie and enjoyed buying them at benefit auctions bringing big money to help families in need. She always enjoyed making breakfast for her husband and children.  She and Eldon loved sharing movie nights with their grandchildren, where they would enjoy popcorn and her favorite drink, Dr. Pepper.  Even when life got tough, she was always there for her family and always made their house a home.

Pauline was the family caregiver and peacemaker, especially to her husband Eldon along with other family members and friends through the years.  She loved telling stories of her early years with her dad and friends in the travel trailer.

Pauline was preceded in death by her parents, George and Alvena Stein; husband of 54 years, Eldon Whitnah; great-grandson, Nash Hancock.  Survivors include her 3 sons, Ron and wife Shelly Whitnah, Paul and wife Stacie Whitnah, Wade and wife Dianne Whitnah all of Wellston; 11 grandchildren, Kerry and Melanie Whitnah, Dustin and Abby Allen; Lucas Allen, Chad and Heather Whitnah, Matt and Ashley Whitnah, Shelby and Tom Whatley, Andrew and Jessica Whitnah, Delaney and Alf Hancock, Garrett Whitnah, Heather Whitnah, Chisum Whitnah; 17 great-grandchildren, Colton, Callan, Cam, Teagan, Tennisyn, Ridge, Emma, Savanna, Ryann, Maddox, Kaiden, Westyn, McKinley, Amelia, Emery, Noah, Henry; 1 great-great-grandson, Colsen; siblings, Rosena Scott, Katherine and Bill Green, Christina and Johnny Polach.

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Rex Alexander Pellerin - May 17, 1964 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Rex Alexander Pellerin was born May 17, 1964 in Oklahoma City to Jules and Leona (Thorpe) Pellerin.  He passed away Thursday, April 4, 2024 in Oklahoma City at the age of 59.

He grew up in Wellston and Shawnee, while attending Wellston Public Schools, Dale Public Schools and Shawnee High School.  He also attended the Jim Paul Dance Company in Shawnee, while also dancing under the instruction of Judy Lampl and Janet Combs. Rex performed in numerous plays at Shawnee Little Theatre and Lyric Theater. He proudly served in the Army.

Rex is preceded in death by his father, Jules Pellerin. Survivors include his daughter, Taryn Wilson; three grandchildren; his mother, Leona Thorpe; brothers, Dale Pellerin and Roy Pellerin; along with other family and friends.

A celebration of Rex’s life will be held at 11:00 am Saturday, May 18, 2024 at the funeral home. Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Phillip Avery Owens - May 15, 1975 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Phillip Avery Owens was born May 15, 1975 in Hot Springs, Arkansas to Ronald Crews and Brenda (Tackett) Owens.  He passed away April 3, 2024 in Carney at the age of 48.

Phillip grew up in Arkansas enjoying hunting, fishing, the outdoors and fast cars.  He was a Volunteer Carney Firefighter.  He had a big heart loved to help people and never met a stranger.

Phillip was preceded in death by his father, Ronald Crews; stepfather, David Owens; sister, Karen Crews; and his grandparents, Rolland and Marzell Tackett.  Survivors include his wife of 23 years, Bethany Owens of the home; children, Nickolas Due of Ohio, Browdy Owens and wife Jaden, Tucker Owens, Addison Owens all of Carney; granddaughter, Eden Owens; mother, Brenda Owens of Arkansas; brother, James Owens of Muldrow; stepmother, Gloria Crews; along with other family and many friends.

A funeral will be held at 2:00 p.m. Thursday, April 11, 2024 in the Lehman Funeral Home Chapel with interment following in the Carney Cemetery.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Betty Ann Dawley - August 27, 1947 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: On March 30, 2024 Betty Ann George Dawley departed her earthly home. Upon her arrival in heaven, it has been confirmed, Mona Lisa’s smile is in fact the 2nd most famous.

Betty was born August 27, 1947 to Robert Allen and Anna Lois (Mullen) George. She attended Chandler public school and lived her entire life in Chandler. Betty retired from ONG after many years, leaving behind the most systematic, sanitized, methodical, structured orderly organized office in the history of the company. Her life revolved around music, mainly the piano and organ. She began playing the piano at the Friends Church when she was in the 8th grade. Thanks to BUD and Deloris George for sending her to organ lessons. She made playing simultaneously with both hands and bare feet look easy. Although she taught Sunday school for 40 years she continued to study, even after losing her sight. Thanks to her fancy hearing aids that linked to her fancy iPhone that connected to her fancy bible app, she could continue teaching her class when she figured out her fancy iPad had dictation. (You’re welcome mom, no one wanted you to retire, even though you were driving me crazy trying to help you navigate technology and continually messing up your font size and losing the print button.) Yes, she had us all fooled by her amazing memorization skills, counting steps, feeling her way around rooms waiting to catch a glow from specific light fixtures to know where she was. Betty was dedicated to her children JR & Debbie Ratliff, church and to her God. She loved the mission trips, especially the trip to Africa.

She was married to Rip Dawley for 30 years. They loved to travel by bus, cruise ship, planes, and trains. She looked forward to family reunions, entertaining, cooking, setting the table with real plates, silverware, and cloth napkins, thank you very much, paper plates are for the birds! Although we can all remember the one and only time in 2022, she let us use paper plates and plastic forks.

She was preceded in death by her parents, son James Robert (JR) Ratliff and husband Rip Dawley. Those left to cherish her memories are daughter Debbie Ratliff, Sister Letha George Ramsey, and husband Terroll. Two nieces Angela & Monty Ward, Terra & Zac Morrow. Johnny & Tracey Massucci, David & Geneva Dawley, grandsons David & Bri Dawley, Eric & Andrea Dawley. Very precious to Betty are the six great grandchildren and her greatest joy was making chocolate chip cookies, snickerdoodle cookies and key lime pie with and for Rhianne, Gracie, Addie, Ella, Jackson, and Kevin. Aunt Doris George, Aunt Joy (Mullen) Wilson and Uncle Charlie Mullen.

Special thanks to cousins Mary Beth Howard & Robert Beard who never left Betty and Debbie’s side. Tracey Massucci for the love, gentle care, and tenderness during the most difficult time of her transition and Johnny Massucci for taking her on walks and sitting on the porch so she could feel the sun. Emerald Hospice & Cornerstone Caregivers.  Donations can be made in Betty’s honor to: Kibima Hospital 3320 S Oak, Wichita, KS 67217.

A memorial service will be held at the Chandler Friends Church at 11:00 a.m. Tuesday, April, 2, 2024.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Jewell Delphene Spence - September 03, 1929 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Jewell Delphene (Gallaher) Spence was born September 3, 1929 in Wellston to William Franklin and Olive Gertrude (Woodside) Gallaher.  She passed away March 17, 2024 in Midwest City at the age of 94.

Jewell was the oldest of 9 children, a Registered Nurse, Methodist and a Republican.  She married Rex Spence in 1945 and they raised 3 sons together.

Jewell was preceded in death by her parents, William and Gertrude Gallaher; sons, Gerald Spence, Jimmy Spence; sisters, Louise Ketron, Betty Porter; brothers, Ray Dean Gallaher, Freddie Gallaher.  Survivors include her son, Derald Spence of the home; 9 grandchildren, Rick, Scott, Krysti, Adrin, Ariel, Tiffany, Michael, Lindsey and Jacob; (7) great-grandchildren; (7) great-great-grandchildren.

Jewell requested there to be no service held and left her parting words, “See you in Heaven”.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Ashley ShaNae Wilson - August 14, 1998 - March 11, 2024

Departed: 03/11/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Ashley ShaNae Wilson was born August 14, 1998 and passed away March 11, 2024 at the age of 25.  Ashley spent most of her life in Shawnee.  She was a wonderful, giving person who helped everyone.  She loved her children, mother and bubba’s.

Ashley was survived by her mother, Shelly Wilson of Wellston; children, Kayden Wilson, Athena Wilson, Sylus Hooks, Ricky Grubbs, Sofyia Wilson, Siyara Wilson; brother’s, Jonathan Wilson, Derrik Wilson both of Shawnee; grandparents, Shirley Keen of Chandler, Roy Santin of Midwest City, special cousin, Chad Santin of Chandler along with other family and friends.

A funeral will be held at 1:00 p.m. Saturday, March 16, 2024 in the Lehman Funeral Home Chapel with interment following in the Gable Cemetery in Meeker.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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David Grady - March 20, 1940 - March 09, 2024

Departed: 03/09/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: David Patterson Grady was born March 20, 1940 in Glasgow, Scotland to Benjamin Adams Grady and Williamina Chrissy (Irving) Grady.  He passed away at home in Wellston, the morning of March 9, 2024 with his wife, Sandra by his side.  David was 83. David, his mom, and younger sister, Marion sailed on the Georgic in 1953 to join their dad in Detroit, Michigan who came a year and a half earlier.  After graduation from Hazel Park High School in 1958 and after a few years exploring the United States, he settled in Mineola, Texas but Scotland remained in his heart.  While in Mineola, David was welcomed into the Nazarene Church where he accepted Christ as his savior and was baptized.  This led to his desire to attend Bethany Nazarene College, where he received his bachelor’s degree to spread God’s word.  His desire to help others led him to evangelism, helping juveniles through the court system and following his own recovery helping others find the path to their own recovery.   David met Sandra and they married on November 16, 1985 in Nashville, Tennessee.  They began an outpatient program which continued until they moved to Wellston in 1994.  David began the next chapter of his life being a schoolteacher at Wellston Schools until his retirement.  After Sandra joined him in retirement they enjoyed reading and the life they built together.  David was preceded in death by his parents, uncle Kenny Niven.  Survivors include his wife of 38 years, Sandra; sister, Marion Grayer of Georgia; stepdaughters, Deanna Canelos, Janell Oberly and their families which include 5 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren; along with many nieces, nephews and life-long friends.  A funeral will be held at 2:00 pm Thursday, March 14, 2024 at Lehman Funeral Home.  Interment will be 1:00 pm Friday, March 15, 2024 at the Grady Cemetery in Grady, Oklahoma.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Grace May Wilson - August 17, 1939 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Grace May Wilson was born August 17, 1939 in Hominy to Jim and Beulah (Martin) Gaines.  She passed away March 4, 2024 in Oklahoma City at the age of 84.

Grace lived in Wellston and Carney throughout her adult life.  She enjoyed bingo, Wheel of Fortune, crossword puzzles, reading the Lincoln County Newspaper and gossiping.  She was a stay-at-home mom raising ten children.

Grace was preceded in death by her husband of many years, Virgil Lee “Cowboy” Wilson; two children, Gracie Simpson, Gary Wilson; two grandchildren, Jason Guinn, Christopher Guinn; siblings, James Gaines, Leroy Gaines, and Ruby Webb.  Survivors include her children, Emma Laney and her husband Mark of Stroud, Cindy McLaughlin and her husband Harley of Mangum, Carol Cornett and her husband David of Stroud, Larry Bell of Stroud, Virgil Wilson and his wife Jamie of Chandler, Janette Sexton of Chandler, Robin Wrenn of Oklahoma City, Tim Wilson and his wife Kristi of Chandler; 24 grandchildren; numerous great-grandchildren and many great-great grandchildren.

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Buford Vernon Parrott - July 10, 1930 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Buford Vernon Parrott passed away on February 21, 2024 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. He was born to Herbert and Laura Parrott on July 10, 1930 near Sparks, Oklahoma.

Buford was very proud to have served over 20 years in the U.S. Air Force. He enjoyed a good game of cards or dominoes. And he loved visiting over a good cup of coffee. But his great pride and joy was his family, and nothing beat the hearing or telling of the latest funny story involving a grandchild, niece, or nephew.

Buford is preceded in death by parents Herbert and Laura Parrott; daughter Monette Hart; brothers Nelson, Leo, and Ray Parrott; and sisters Juanita Barnes and Mildred Hagar. He is survived by Treva, his wife of over 68 years; 3 grandchildren; 10 great-grandchildren; and numerous nieces and nephews.

A celebration of Buford’s life will be held at 2:00 pm Monday, February 26, 2024 at Lehman Funeral Home.

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Barbara Ann Selcer - July 25, 1946 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Ann Selcer was born July 25, 1946, to Leon and Myrtle Camren in Cushing, Oklahoma. She passed away, February 21, 2024 in Drumright at the age of 77.

She was the only girl with three brothers, Kenny, Dennis, and Jerry. They lived numerous places until settling in Agra, Oklahoma where Barbara graduated from Agra High School with the class of 1964.

She married Melvin Selcer on January 14, 1966, celebrating 58 years of marriage last month. They have two children, Karen, and Joe, three grandchildren and two great grandchildren.

Barbara spent many years as a babysitter, usually having a houseful of kids, often having some from birth all the way up through grade school. She was a member of Agra First Baptist Church, where she worked in the nursery for many years often taking care of the kids she babysat during the week.

Barbara enjoyed going to yard sales and thrift stores whenever she got the chance. She also enjoyed watching gameshows on TV, her favorite being Wheel of Fortune. She and Melvin frequently went to Branson, often once a month for several years. Most of all, Barbara enjoyed being a grandma.

Barbara was preceded by her parents, Leon, and Myrtle, along with brothers, Kenny and Jerry. Survivors include husband Melvin of the home, daughter Karen Hippe of Bullard, Texas, son, Joe Selcer and wife Rebecca of Agra, three grandchildren, Tyler Doak of Cushing, Jesse Selcer and Sara Selcer of Agra, two great grandchildren, Cora Doak and Lucas Doak of Cushing, brother Dennis and wife Diana Camren of Agra, along with numerous other relations including niece LaDonna Stockholm who helped care for Barbara for the last few years.

A funeral will be held at 10:00 am Monday, February 26, 2024 at Agra First Baptist Church with interment following at Osage Cemetery near Agra, Oklahoma under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston, Oklahoma.

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Jeweldene Osburn - September 20, 1934 - February 19, 2024

Departed: 02/19/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Jeweldene (Duffy) Osburn was born September 20, 1934 in Kendrick to Charley and Dolvie (Lewis) Duffy.  She passed away February 19, 2024 in her home in Chandler at the age of 89.

Jeweldene grew up in Kendrick where she attended school graduating with the Kendrick class of 1954.  She married Alvis Osburn and raised a daughter together.  Her enjoyment came from gardening, dancing, fashion and people.  She was a longstanding member of the First Baptist Church of Davenport.  Most of all, she loved spending time with her great-grandchildren.

Jeweldene was preceded in death by her parents, Charley and Dolvie Duffy; husband of nearly 64 years, Alvis Osburn; sister, Charlene Phillips; and her brother, Charles “Sam” Duffy.  Survivors include her daughter, Jonita Phipps and her husband Curtis; (2) grandchildren, Jade Phipps, Dax Phipps and his wife Jennifer all of Chandler; (2) great-grandchildren, Mia Phipps, Daxton Phipps; brother, Alvie Duffy of Kendrick; along with other family and friends.

A funeral will be held at 2:00 p.m. Friday, February 23, 2024 in the Lehman Funeral Home Chapel with interment following in the Oak Park Cemetery in Chandler.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Wayne Routh - February 02, 1938 - February 18, 2024

Departed: 02/18/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Ellis Wayne Routh, 86, was born February 2, 1938 in Kendrick to John and Flossie (Morton) Routh.  He passed away, exactly one mile southwest of the exact location he was born, February 18, 2024 in his home with his family at his side.

Wayne was a graduate of Kendrick High School with the class of 1956.  He proudly served his country in the United States Air Force stationed in France.  Upon returning home he briefly sold Kirby Vacuum Cleaners until he started working in the Oilfield.  Wayne met Marlene (Miller) and they married June 17, 1961 and raised 4 children together.  Upon retirement he enjoyed working his garden and selling produce at the local farmer’s market.  Wayne was a man of few words and always showed his love of his family through his actions.

Wayne was preceded in death by his parents, John and Flossie Routh; wife of 53 years, Marlene Routh; son, Brian Keith Routh; and all 6 of his siblings along with each of their spouses.  Survivors include his son, Scott Routh of Billings; daughters, Sena Pribble of Chandler, Barbara Belanger and husband Jack of Yukon; daughter-in-law, Susan Routh of Tuttle; brother-in-law, Bob Miller (Fleta) of Mesa, AZ; (6) grandchildren, Stephanie Jensen (Damon), Cera Elizabeth Blair (Seth), Jacob Pribble (Abby), Dylan Wayne Routh (Celeste), Rebekah Routh-Hannon, Matthew McComb; (8) great-grandchildren, Robbie Blair, Benjamin Harris, Daniel Harris, Malee Blair, Joey Pribble, Eleanor Jensen, KyLee Fabian, JaCoby Fabian; girlfriend of 9 years, Janine Harkins of Pine Bluff, AR; along with other family and friends.

A graveside funeral will be held at 2:00 p.m. Saturday, February 24, 2024 in the Oak Park Cemetery in Chandler.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Frank Junior Staley - December 31, 1957 - February 15, 2024

Departed: 02/15/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Frank Junior Staley was born December 31, 1957 in Shawnee to Benjamin Franklin and Edna Leona (Downey) Staley.  He passed away February 15, 2024 in Norman at the age of 66.

From the time Frank was a kid he always loved to make people smile.  From tumbling down the stairs in a closed box and scaring his sisters to pieces, to traipsing through the woods with little sisters in tow, to cut the yearly family Christmas tree, to later becoming a cheerleader while attending high school in Coyle, OK.

Frank was generous man who was always giving to everyone whom he encountered. He was a framing carpenter by trade and blessed many people with his talent and his giving heart. Frank also loved to fish anytime he could and if asked, he always had a fish story to tell. But of all the things that brought him joy, being grandpa was at the top of the list. He enjoyed spending time with, teaching and loving his grandchildren and his great-granddaughter.

Frank moved to Wellston his senior year graduating with the Wellston Class of 1976 and married his high school sweetheart the following year. During the next 45 years together, they raised two children growing their family to later love five grandchildren and one great-granddaughter.

Frank was preceded in death by his parents, Frank and Edna Staley; brothers, Carrol and Charles Staley; infant granddaughter, Carmen; and his brother-in-law, Harley DeVore.  Survivors include his wife, Teresa (Fredrickson) Staley of the home; children, Josh Staley of Macomb, Stormey Staley of McLoud; five grandchildren, Conner, Heaven, Trinity, Paxton, Dakota; great-granddaughter, Melody; sister-in-law, Sharon Staley; siblings, Shirley DeVore, Leona Wood, Margaret Whitworth, Jerold Staley, Lawrence Staley, Betty Huff and husband Steve, Patty Ferrell and husband Donnie; along with other family and friends.

Frank’s family will host a visitation at the funeral home Wednesday, February 21, 2024 from 4:00 – 6:00 pm.  A funeral will be at 10:00 a.m. Thursday, February 22, 2024 at the Trinity Baptist Church with interment following in the Wellston Cemetery.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Sue Taylor - April 28, 1941 - February 09, 2024

Departed: 02/09/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Glenda Sue Taylor, 82 of Wellston, passed away at her home February 9, 2024. Born April 28, 1941 to Glen R. and Thelma Josephine (Wright) Miller in Sparks, Oklahoma. Sue was their pride and joy.

Sue attended her early school years at Kickapoo School in rural Lincoln County, and White Rock School through the eighth grade. Then, graduating from Wellston High School in the class of 1959 as Salutatorian. During her college years, she attended Bethany Nazarene College, OU, OSU and UCO, graduating in 1963 from OSU with a degree she would use throughout her lifetime. Always loving a challenge, she received her Master's Degree in Vocational Home Economics from UCO Summa cum laude.

In 1962, she started dating the love of her life, Ira Taylor, and on March 10, 1963 they were married in Chandler at the Church of the Nazarene. Sue was a life-long member of the Nazarene Church.

Sue started her career in education as a student teacher in Crescent, OK. Next, moving to St. Louis, OK teaching Home Economics. After Ira returned from Korea, they were stationed at Fort Leonard Wood in Missouri where she taught kindergarten. She then moved to Pott. Co. Dept. of Child Welfare. In the 1970's, she was Director of Food & Nutrition for McLoud Schools.  And, finally retiring from teaching at Meeker High School, after many years where she received the teacher of the year award and the KOCO teacher of the year. During her employment at Meeker, she was the advisor for both FHA and YHO chapters where she enjoyed guiding young lives in a positive direction.

In 1987, Sue and Ira, along with their daughter Emberly, opened Sue’s Sewing Shoppe in Shawnee where she taught classes and inspired many with her love and knowledge of sewing, quilting and BERNINA sewing machines. She enjoyed sharing that knowledge with both her high school students as well as her adult students.

Later in life, Sue and Ira helped their youngest daughter Kelsey open Coffee 'N Crafts in Shawnee.

One of Sue's favorite early memories was driving the tractor alongside her daddy at the age of four. She also began learning to sew on her grandmother’s treadle sewing machine about the same age. During the years raising their two older daughters, Emberly and Latisha, Ira and Sue and the girls spent many days making memories camping, fishing and traveling. She especially enjoyed spending time with her grandmother Josie. Sue, Thelma and Josie planned several Campbell family reunions together throughout the years.

Sue always made sure her daughters were dressed beautifully. Many times, making Emberly and Latisha dresses or outfits that matched. The kindergarten teacher in her, taught her daughters many nursery rhymes and they would all sing songs like “You Are My Sunshine” and “A Bicycle Built for Two” while driving in the car.

Sue was a hard worker and often could be found helping Ira dig a ditch with her own shovel, planting a garden or manning a booth at a fair for days, promoting her business. Sue and Ira traveled to many countries for enjoyment as well as to help missionaries through their church organization, Work and Witness. Sue made lifelong friends wherever she would go.

Sue is survived by husband of 60 years, Ira of the home, daughters Emberly Markwell and husband Dale of Meeker, Latisha Aguirre of Shawnee, Kelsey Hart of Wellston, grandsons Jeffery Markwell and wife Christine of Shawnee, Anthony Pinelo of Shawnee and Beckett Hart of Wellston. As well as cousins, extended family and a host of a lifetime of friends.

A visitation will be held from 10:00 to 7:00 pm Thursday, February 15, 2024  at the funeral home with the family present to greet friends from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm.  A funeral will be held at 2:00 p.m. Friday, February 16, 2024 at Lehman Funeral Home and interment will follow in the Oak Park Cemetery of Chandler.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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Leah Shalene Johnson - January 03, 1986 - February 08, 2024

Departed: 02/08/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: Leah Shalene Johnson was born on January 3, 1986 to Larry and Lydia (Northcross) Johnson. She passed away on January 27, 2024 in California at the age of 38.

She is preceded in death by her daughter, Brooklyn Shalene Johnson; maternal grandparents, Hardy and Maudie Northcross; paternal grandparents, Kenneth and Martha Johnson; and several aunts and uncles.

Leah is survived by two sons, Isaac Joel Johnson and Gabriel Johnson; parents, Lydia and Larry Johnson; one sister, April Grayson and husband (Mike); three brothers, Robert Smith and wife (Marie) of Tulsa, Garrett Johnson and Joseph Johnson of Chandler; several aunts and uncles; six nephews; two nieces; five great-nieces and five great-nephews.  A memorial service will be held at 10:00 am Saturday, February 24, 2024 at Lehman Funeral Home.

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John McLin - October 26, 1951 - January 29, 2024

Departed: 01/29/2024 (Wellston)

Obituary Preview: John Wayne McLin was born October 26, 1951 in Westwood, California and later adopted by Marvin and Viola McLin.  He passed away January 29, 2024 in Edmond at the age of 72.

John attended school in Wellston where he graduated with the class of 1969.  After graduation John proudly served in the Army.  He could build a home from the ground up but was a tile setter by trade.  John was meticulous carpenter and a perfectionist of his craft.

He enjoyed hunting and fishing and coached his son’s little league basketball and t-ball teams.  John would give the shirt off his back to someone in need.  This became apparent recently when his family found his bank account consisted of many charitable donations to nearly every charity available.  Most of all, he loved his children and grandchildren.

John was preceded in death by his parents, Marvin and Viola McLin; and his sisters, Sue and Anita.  Survivors include his children, Jeremiah McLin and wife Brandi, Jack McLin and wife Terry, Crystal Shaffer and husband Jason, Destany Lancaster, Danielle Fife, Brandon Inman, Ryan Coughran, Shawn Coughran; (12) grandchildren, Mariah, Kaylea, Gauge, Dakota, Braiden, Madison, Shyanne, Riley, Abbi, Dixie, Blake, and Kolby; (20) step-grandchildren; (1) great-grandchild, Kohen; siblings, Jack, Connie, Maggie, Wayne, Ricky, Deanna, Bobby along with his beloved dog, Bella.

A memorial service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Thursday, February 1, 2024 at the Lehman Funeral Home Chapel.  Arrangements are under the direction of Lehman Funeral Home of Wellston.

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A Team of Dedicated Professionals

The team at Lehman Funeral Home is comprised of experienced and empathetic professionals who understand the importance of providing exceptional care during difficult times. From funeral directors to support staff, every member of the team is dedicated to ensuring that families receive the highest level of service and support. Their expertise and compassion enable them to guide families through the funeral planning process with sensitivity and understanding.

Personalized Funeral Services to Honor Your Loved One

Lehman Funeral Home recognizes that every individual is unique, and therefore, every funeral service should be tailored to reflect their personality, interests, and achievements. The funeral home offers a range of options to ensure that families can create a meaningful and personalized tribute to their loved one. From traditional funeral services to cremation ceremonies, Lehman Funeral Home's experienced staff will work closely with families to design a service that honors their loved one's memory.

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Lehman Funeral Home understands that every family is different, and therefore, they offer a variety of funeral options to cater to diverse needs and preferences. Whether you prefer a traditional funeral service, a memorial ceremony, or a celebration of life, the funeral home's experienced staff will work with you to create a personalized service that meets your requirements. They also provide options for pre-planning and pre-funding funerals, allowing families to plan ahead and alleviate some of the burden associated with funeral arrangements.

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Lehman Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Wellston community and is committed to giving back to the people they serve. The funeral home participates in local events and charities, demonstrating their dedication to supporting those in need. This commitment to community involvement sets them apart as a caring and responsible business that truly cares about the welfare of their neighbors.

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Lehman Funeral Home's facilities are designed to provide comfort and convenience for families during their time of need. The funeral home's modern amenities include spacious visitation rooms, chapels, and reception areas, ensuring that families have a peaceful and private environment in which to gather and celebrate the life of their loved one. Ample parking and easy accessibility make it simple for families to attend services without added stress.

A Tradition of Excellence and Trust

For generations, Lehman Funeral Home has built a reputation for trustworthiness, integrity, and exceptional service. Families have come to rely on the funeral home's commitment to excellence, knowing that they will receive compassionate care and guidance during difficult times. By choosing Lehman Funeral Home, families can rest assured that they are entrusting their loved one's farewell ceremony to capable hands.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, achievements, and accomplishments.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend of the deceased writes the obituary. Funeral homes or mortuaries may also offer assistance in writing and publishing obituaries.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A standard obituary usually includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include a photo, funeral service details, and any charities or organizations where donations can be made in lieu of flowers.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber and serious. Including humorous stories or anecdotes can help celebrate the person's life and personality.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Check with the specific publication or platform for their submission guidelines. Some may accept submissions online, while others may require email or phone submissions. Be prepared to provide all necessary information and payment for publication fees.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers or online sites may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or flat fees.

Can I edit or make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

It depends on the publication or platform. Some may allow corrections or updates, while others may not. It's essential to proofread carefully before submission to avoid errors.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe can vary depending on the publication or platform. Online platforms may publish immediately, while print newspapers may take several days to a week.

Can I include photos or other multimedia in an obituary?

Yes! Many online platforms and some newspapers allow you to include photos, videos, or other multimedia elements to enhance the obituary.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer to keep the obituary private, you can opt for a private online memorial page or limit access to specific individuals. Alternatively, you can choose not to publish an obituary at all.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes! Some people choose to write their own obituaries as a way to reflect on their life and legacy. This can also help alleviate the burden on loved ones during a difficult time.

What if I'm unsure about what to say in an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking help from a family member, friend, or professional writer. You can also look at examples of other obituaries for inspiration.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add a personal touch and help capture the essence of the person being remembered.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there's sensitive information you'd rather not share publicly, consider omitting it or phrasing it discreetly. Remember that an obituary is intended to honor the person's life, not cause unnecessary distress.

Can I include charitable donations information in an obituary?

Yes! Many people choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to continue their loved one's legacy.

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Don't hesitate to reach out to a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor for support. They can help you navigate your emotions and craft a meaningful obituary.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

Yes! You can republish an obituary on special occasions like birthdays or anniversaries of the person's passing as a way to continue celebrating their life.

How do I ensure accuracy in an obituary?