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Aldon C. Dixon, Jr. - Unknown - October 29, 2020

Departed: 10/29/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Milo - Aldon C Dixon, Jr., or Cliff to his friends and family, 74, passed away at home surrounded by friends and family on October 29, 2020.

He was predeceased by his mother, Katie Jones Dixon, his father Aldon Dixon Sr, and his younger brother, Billy Dixon.

He is survived by his wife of 29 years, Patricia Dixon and her daughter, Miranda; his children, Joseph and his wife, Candy; and Liz Kettner and her husband, John; his two grandchildren, Tucker and Elle; and his adopted children, Micheal and Steven, and Kate; and a niece, Milinda "Mindy" Durant and her husband, and their son, Tommy, of North Caroina.

He was retired from truck driving and was a veteran of the U.S. Navy. The date of a service will be determined. Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Condolences and memories may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Roy B. Provo - March 24, 1960 - October 27, 2020

Departed: 10/27/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Dover-Foxcroft - Roy B. Provo, 60, husband of Karen A. (McGovern) Provo, passed away suddenly October 27, 2020, in Dover-Foxcroft. He was born March 24, 1960, in Stuttgart, Germany. Roy worked in maintenance for many years at Mayo Regional Hospital, and currently for Maine Highlands Federal Credit Union. His greatest joy was spending time with family, especially his grandchildren. He enjoyed living a simple life in Dover-Foxcroft, fishing, and time spent at Peaks Kenny State Park.

He is survived by his wife, Karen; mother, Thersia Provo; three sons, Andrew and his wife, Britney, Mark and his wife, Bronwyn, and Frank; four grandchildren, Ardis, Liberty, Emmett, and Rose; two brothers, Steven and Robert Provo; and sister, Barbara Provo and her husband, David.

There will not be any services held at this time.

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Joel R. Wortman - April 09, 1968 - October 27, 2020

Departed: 10/27/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Greenville – Joel R. Wortman, 52, passed away unexpectedly October 27, 2020, in Big Moose TWP, as the result of an automobile accident. He was born April 9, 1968, in Dexter, the son of Roland V. Wortman Sr. and Rosalie (Hyland) Wortman.

Joel graduated from Greenville High School in 1986 where he played soccer, basketball, and baseball. He loved sports, was a life-long Celtics fan, and attended numerous major and minor league baseball games in stadiums from Montreal to Miami. He liked to fish and was an avid hunter. Joel was passionate about music and rocked out at countless concerts throughout his lifetime.

Joel always followed his own path which led him to Florida, where he worked for many years at Forest Hills Memorial Park in Palm City. He returned to Maine in 2001 where he was employed by Pleasant Hill Golf Course in Scarborough while living in Old Orchard Beach. In 2006 he was drawn home to Piscataquis County to raise his family and to be closer to his beloved Moosehead Lake. At the time of his passing, Joel was employed by Theriault Brush Chipping of Rockwood and in the winter months by The Olive Garden in Bangor.

He will be remembered for his unmatched work ethic, his irreverent charm, his loyalty to family and friends, his infamous smirk, and above all, his love for his boys.

Joel is survived by his two sons, Joel Angus and Joshua Pierce of Greenville and Dover-Foxcroft; their mother, Julianne (Brown) Wortman of Dover-Foxcroft; his father, Roland V. Wortman Sr.; his mother, Rosie Wortman, both of Greenville; his brother, Roland V. Wortman Jr. and wife, Shyla Wortman; niece, Hunter Wortman, all of Georgia; his nephew, Roland V. Wortman III of Shirley; several aunts and uncles, and a vast number of cousins.

He was predeceased by his grandparents, Llewyllen F. Sr. and Mary Wortman, and George and Bitha Hyland, all of Greenville.

Services will be private for the family. Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Messages of condolence and memories may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

Below is a link for a Go Fund ME to help with expenses and for the boys. https://www.gofundme.com/f/joel-wortman-memorial-fund?utm_medium=email&utm_source=product&utm_campaign=p_email%2B2300-co-team-welcome

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Scott D. MacLauchlan - January 08, 1958 - October 24, 2020

Departed: 10/24/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Parkman – Scott “Renegade” D. MacLauchlan Sr., 62, passed away at home October 24, 2020, after a battle with MS. He was born January 8, 1958, in Dexter, the son of Donn C. and Mary Jane (Britten) MacLauchlan.

Renegade started a 48 year career of driving truck at age 14 for his family business, M&M Milk Transport. Over his career he hit all 48 states, and was literally a walking road map from the east coast to the west coast. Over his career, he drove for Midwest Coast, Ted Davis, Steve Wilbur, Pottles, Roger Perkins, Donny Tompkins, Ziggy Spack, Steve Mason, Gerald Thomas, Irby Construction, Everett Brown, A.E. Robinson, E.J. Carrier, and Gordon Contracting. He earned his nickname, “Renegade” from wrestling and stealing cattle. He had a love for music, especially ‘80’s rock, and knew the lyrics and meaning to almost any song.

Renegade is survived by his wife of 39 years, Judy (Austin) MacLauchlan; son, Scott D. MacLauchlan Jr. and his fiancée, Courtney Davis; grandson, Lil’ Ant; parents, Donn and Mary Jane MacLauchlan; three sisters, Donna MacLauchlan and her husband, Donzo Wierbilis, Susan MacLauchlan, and Ann Manian and her husband, Jeff; and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his mother and father-in-law, Janet and Jesse Austin.

A private burial will be held for the family at the Lawn Cemetery, Guilford. A celebration of Renegade’s life will be planned at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, P.O. Box 91891, Washington DC 20090-1891. Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Messages of condolence may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Aubrey D. Acker - August 15, 1927 - October 23, 2020

Departed: 10/23/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Sebec – Aubrey D. Acker, 93, passed away October 23, 2020, in Sebec. He was born on August 15, 1927, in Kingston, Nova Scotia, one of six children of Perley and Effie Acker. He immigrated to this country in 1952 with his late wife of 68 years, Madeline, and two children, later adding number three. He was a wonderful husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather and uncle. He was also a friend to many across this country and Canada. He and his family also hosted a student from Finland in 1968/69, Kirsi Sell, who came back with her husband, Jokke as a surprise to help celebrate his 80th birthday.

Aubrey and Madeline traveled the world, but mostly the United States and Canada. If they missed a State or Province it was an oversight. He was also a friend to many around the continent and would drop everything to lend a hand to anyone. They once drove their 1930 Model A Roadster from Massachusetts to California with another couple as it was the man’s dying wish and they didn’t think they should travel alone.

They also took many trips with their three girls during their school breaks, including a trip to Mexico to see a bull fight, the Grand Canyon, the Painted Desert and of course Disneyland.

He was a well-respected builder in Massachusetts and some of his children and grandchildren carry on the tradition of building custom homes in the same area today. He continued his creativity in his later years working with stained glass. He created many memorable pieces of art that will be enjoyed for many generations.

He is survived by his three daughters and their families: Starr and Verl Gillespie of Wendell, Minnesota, Twila and Warren “Rody” Palmer of Westford, Massachusetts, and Joan and Harold “Buddy” Baird of Sebec, Maine. He is also survived by his seven grandchildren: Jolene Fagan, Kirsi Baird, Titus Palmer and his wife, Melissa, Travis Preble and his wife, Myndie, Melanie Baird and her husband, Patrick Hanson, Max Palmer and his wife, Jessica, and Sam Palmer; as well as sixteen great-grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews.

Instead of flowers please donate to Sebec Village Assoc. (SVA) in care of Joan Baird, 87 Sunset Drive, Sebec, Maine 04481, who will donate half of your generous donation to Hospice who made caring for him at home possible and use the other half to improve and maintain their community building.

A funeral service will be conducted 11:00 am Tuesday, October 27, 2020, at the Lary Funeral Home, Dover-Foxcroft. Burial will follow in the family lot in the Dover Cemetery. Condolences and memories may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Debbie S. Mayville-Elliott - August 07, 1957 - October 23, 2020

Departed: 10/23/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

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Greenville, ME. – Debbie S. Mayville-Elliott, 63, passed away October 23, 2020, at Northern Light C.A. Dean Hospital after her battle with cancer. She was born August 7, 1957, in Malone, NY, the daughter of William and Beatrice (Castagnier) Mayville.

She married her husband, Mark J. Elliott on August 31, 1979. Debbie began her career as a Biochemist after earning two bachelor’s degrees. Later, she changed careers to education as a math and science teacher. In 1991, she established a Massachusetts first child led recycling program “Kids with a Porpoise” and later joined the Conservation Commission. As a Den Mother she encouraged a full 75% of her scouts to complete the rank of Eagle Scout!

She enjoyed her retirement with Mark and the time spent at their home in Greenville on Moosehead Lake. She also enjoyed traveling, all water sports, ATVs, motorcycling and snowmobiling.

Debbie is survived by her loving husband, Mark; son, Alexander; two daughters, Amanda Sheehan and Jennifer Clarke; step-mother, Gladys Yaddow; sister, Linda Elmer; step-brother, John Aldrich; two step-sisters, Sandra Lauzon and Pam Manson; and seven grandchildren, Patrick, Matthew, and Lillian Sheehan, Elizabeth and Benjamin Clarke, and Luke and Will Elliott. She was predeceased by her parents.

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Holly M. McCormick - May 01, 1963 - October 20, 2020

Departed: 10/20/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Brownville – Holly M. McCormick, 57, passed away October 22, 2020, at her home. She was born May 1, 1963, in Skowhegan, the daughter of Anthony and Linda (Klutts-Moody) Voisine. Holly had a special love for her family. She loved being outdoors, especially camp, enjoying a good fire with friends, family, and cold beer.

She is survived by her husband, Rickey, of Brownville; a daughter, Tori and her husband, Zach, of Millinocket; three sons, Michael David of New Hampshire, Justin and his wife, Laura, of Texas, and Jason and his wife, Allison, of Charleston; her father, Anthony Voisine of Milo; her mother, Linda Voisine of Corinth; two brothers, Steve Voisine and Rosa Heal of Sebec, and Michael Voisine of Brownville; a sister Sabrena Voisine of New Hampshire; 8 grandchildren, Elizabeth, Abigail, Jacob, Korbyn, Anthony, Grifyn, Madison, and Alexander. She leaves her mother-in-law and father-in law, Vivian McCormick and Anthony Cyr; nieces and nephews, Sarah, Lily, Nicholas, Kara, Anthony and Adam; special friends Theresa Voisine, Harriet Eddy, Sheri Mathieu, Heather Pelletier, and Rocki Remington; and her best friend, her four-legged companion, Spencer Doodle. She was predeceased by her father-in-law, Herschel McCormick; her paternal grandparents, Anthony Sr. and Gertrude Voisine; and maternal grandmother, Mildred Strang.

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Alberta M. Rich - Unknown - October 20, 2020

Departed: 10/20/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Charleston - On Oct. 20, 2020 Alberta Mitchell Rich, 98, moved from her earthly home, stepping into her long-awaited heavenly home to be with the Savior she loved and served. Her faith has inspired her family, friends, and acquaintances.

Alberta was the daughter and tenth child of Ivan and Lucy (Thorne) Mitchell. She was born in Island Falls, ME. She attended school in Milo before moving to Charleston when eleven. After elementary school she attended Higgins Classical Institute. Alberta married Arthur Hall Rich, and they had four children: Sandra Rhoda, (John) E. Millinocket, ME; Janice Rockwell, (Kenneth) Milo, ME; Lawrence Rich, Sr. (Jacquelyn) Walnut Creek, CA; and David Rich, Boca Raton, FL. Grandchildren: Dale Rhoda (Kara); Daniel Rhoda (Jeannette); Douglas Rhoda (Shannen); Lawrence Rich, Jr. (Jerico Padallan); Valerie Alekshun (Steve). Great grandchildren: Nathaniel, Benjamin, Tyler, Julie, Joel, Molly, Annabelle, and Jason Rhoda, Caitlyn, Douglas, and Kenneth Alekshun. She is also survived by many nieces and nephews.

Alberta was predeceased by her parents, nine older siblings, and her beloved husband, Arthur.

She and Arthur moved to CT where he built aircraft during WW II. They returned to Charleston in 1946 so he could assist his father, N. Harold Rich, in managing Richland Farms, eventually running the farm himself. Alberta did the extensive bookkeeping there among many other tasks. After Arthur’s death in 1972, Alberta worked for eleven years as a legal secretary for Thatcher Adams in Bangor.

Alberta cherished her family and they her. She encouraged each of her children to pursue college degrees and to live up to their potential. Alberta enriched the lives of her five grandchildren and later the great grandchildren, who called her GG. She made wonderful memories hosting large family gatherings as well as visiting in our homes. She loved to travel, especially to visit family and to see new areas. She went to AZ to visit David many winters and got to see the Grand Canyon and other beautiful national parks.

Alberta was active in her community. She was a faithful member of Charleston Baptist Church for nearly seventy years, where she served as deaconess, treasurer, Sunday School and Vacation Bible School teacher. She was active in the American Baptist Women’s mission organization at local, state, and national levels. Alberta was a ballot clerk and never planned to miss town meeting. As a young homemaker she attended local Univ. of Maine Cooperative Extension demonstration classes such as canning and taught bread making. She belonged to The Grange and The Order of the Eastern Star. Alberta worked with Thelma Ditzel to organize the Charleston Historical Society and start the local Book Group. She felt truly blessed to have many close friends of all ages.

The family wishes to give special thanks to the staff at Pleasant Meadows for the compassionate care she received there, for the past three years. We also thank Mayo Hospital staff for their excellent end-of-life care.

A private family committal service is scheduled. We plan to honor mom’s memory with extended family and friends when such gatherings are more safe. Anyone wishing to, may send memorial gifts to Charleston United Baptist Church, 53 Main Road, Charleston, ME 04422 or to Pleasant Meadows Activity Fund, 137 Park St., Dover-Foxcroft, ME 04426. Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Condolences and memories may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Charles E. Hesketh - September 03, 1932 - October 13, 2020

Departed: 10/13/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Charles (Charlie) Edward Hesketh, age 88, died on Tuesday, October 13, 2020, in Kennebunk, Maine.

Charlie is survived by his son Philip Charles Hesketh and his wife Valerie, of Sanford, Maine, his brother John Hesketh and his wife Sue of Mahomet, Illinois, sister Caroline Hesketh Fitzpatrick and her husband Jim, of Whitefield, Maine, grandsons Zachary Hesketh of New Gloucester, Maine, Conor Hesketh of Dover, NH, and his step grandson Hunter Doolittle and his wife Shelly, of Portsmouth, NH. He also leaves behind his close cousin George W. Levensalor. He is preceded in death by his loving wife Sara (Sallie) Ramsay Hesketh, and his daughter Melinda Hesketh.

Charlie was born on September 3, 1932 in Sebec, Maine, to parents Norman Record Hesketh and Bernice Ellen Dow. He graduated from U Maine Orono in 1954 with a BS degree in Agriculture. Charlie was proud to serve his country during the Korean war as a Sargent in the Army. Charlie was a great family man and a loving father. He married Sallie in 1956 and the couple adopted two children together. In 1968, he and his family moved on to the family dairy farm to take over the running of it for the next 5 years. Following the sale of the family farm in 1973, Charlie took a position with Penquis Surge, where he worked for more than 20 years. Charlie and his wife served on the Piscataquis Fair Committee, as well as the Maine State Fair Committee, traveling the state reviewing and enjoying every state and county fair. Charlie retired and, along with his wife, moved to Alfred, Maine in 2005 where he could be closer to his son and grandsons.

A private graveside service is scheduled for 1:00 on Saturday, October 24th in Dover-Foxcroft, Maine. The Reverend Mello will officiate. The family would like to express their sincere thanks to the Kennebunk Center for Health and Rehabilitation for their care of and attention to Charlie in his final days. Also, their thanks go to the staff at Mayflower Place where Charlie resided from 2016 to 2020.

Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Condolences and memories may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Owen P. Goodine - March 17, 1942 - October 11, 2020

Departed: 10/11/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Atkinson – Owen P. Goodine, 78, passed away October 11, 2020, at his home. He was born March 17, 1942, in Milo, the son of Charles L. and Mildred P. (Clement) Goodine. Owen worked for Bangor and Aroostook Railway for over 35 years, including the last 20 years as a machine shop supervisor. After his retirement he was self employed for several years building homes with co-worker and great friend, George Johnson. Owen was never one to stay still very long and could often be found gardening or sawing out lumber in lumber mill. He was an excellent woodworker. Owen loved hunting and fishing with family and friends; Ice out fishing in Allagash every year, fishing on Schoodic Lake with Victor, and a moose hunt with his grandson, Trevin, were some of his favorite memories. He always looked forward to and had a passion for deer season. He thoroughly enjoyed watching his family grow and spending time with grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Owen will be remembered as a friend to everyone by his warm embraces, kind words, caring heart, and cheerful smiles.

Owen is survived by his loving wife of 57 years, Roberta (Doore) Goodine; two sons, Tony and wife, Tami, and Todd and wife, Christine; daughter, Amy and companion, Thomas Hall; 8 grandchildren, Jennifer Noke and husband, Luke, Tia Baxter and husband, Andrew, Ashley Goodine, Tristi Gould and companion, Matt Colley, Aaron Goodine, Branson Goodine, Trevin Guyotte and significant other, Sidney Quigley, and Jackson Goodine; 4 great-grandchildren, Clara, Avery, and Blakely Noke, and Ayla Baxter; 3 brothers, Gregory and wife, Cathie, Timothy and wife, Libby, and Norman and wife, Teresa; 3 sisters, Cynthia Goodine, Gloria Green and husband, Guy, and Helena Green; and several nieces and nephews. Owen was predeceased by his parents; two sisters, Juanita Emery and Alfreda Preble; and a very special niece, Charelle Goodine.

A private graveside service will be held for the family at the family lot in Sweet Cemetery, Atkinson. Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Messages of condolence and memories may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Betty E. Adams - March 28, 1932 - October 04, 2020

Departed: 10/04/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Abbot – Betty E. Adams, 88, passed away October 4, 2020, at Hibbard Nursing Home in Dover-Foxcroft. She was born March 28, 1932, in Parkman, the daughter of Sterling and Iola (Perkins) Hersey. Betty’s working career was spent at Hardwood Products in Guilford. In her spare time, she spent many hours serving snacks and dinners at the Abbot Evangelical Free Church, and at Meals for Me. Betty was a very giving person with her time.

Betty was predeceased by her husband of 68 years, Alvin. She is survived by two daughters, Pam Doodeman and Diane Rollins, both of Abbot; a brother, Sterling Hersey of Blanchard; two sisters, Nora Hersey of Sebec and Betty Walker of Bingham; five grandchildren; and some very dear in-laws.

A special thank you is extended to the staff in the Special Care Unit for the care, compassion, and love that they gave her over the years.

A memorial graveside service will be conducted at 1:00 p.m. Sunday, October 25, 2020, at the family lot in Blanchard Cemetery, Abbot, with Pastor Ray Beless officiating. Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Condolences and memories may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Sally M. Mountain - December 26, 1943 - October 04, 2020

Departed: 10/04/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Bangor – Sally M. Mountain, 76, passed away peacefully after a courageous battle with cancer on October 4, 2020, at her home in Bangor. She was born December 26, 1943, in Dover-Foxcroft, the daughter of Clifton and Eva Mountain. She grew up in Dover-Foxcroft, graduated from Foxcroft Academy and touched hearts throughout her life with her caring attitude and free-spirited adventures. Whether it be a joke amongst friends or a spin on the dance floor, Sally was accustomed to putting smiles on faces!

She is survived by her brother, Stuart Mountain and his wife, Lynn, of Wichita Falls, TX; two sons, Rick VanDyne and his fiancé, Tammy, of Medway, and Blaine VanDyne and his wife, Michele, of Moorseville, NC; five grandchildren, Jordan-Lee, Ryan, Matthew, Daniel, and Christina; and two great-grandchildren, Disney and Tommy Jane.

A graveside service will be held 11:00 a.m. Thursday, October 8, 2020, at the family lot in the Dover Cemetery. Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Condolences and memories may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Jeanne A. Cookson - December 27, 1949 - October 03, 2020

Departed: 10/03/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Guilford – Jeanne A. Cookson, 70, passed away peacefully October 3, 2020, at home with her family by her side after a three year battle with ovarian cancer. She was born December 27, 1949, in Dover-Foxcroft, the daughter of Rev. Sidney E. and Ruth A. (Loane) Buzzell. Jeanne earned a degree in cosmetology and had a beauty shop for 10 years. She decided to go back to school to pursue her dream of being a teacher. She earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Education from the University of Maine. Jeanne went on to work 25 years for S.A.D. 4 as a kindergarten teacher where she touched so many young lives. She sang in the choir and taught Sunday school for many years at the Guilford United Methodist Church. Jeanne had a beautiful voice and love of music and her faith was unwavering. She enjoyed making personalized cards that she would randomly send to others. During her illness she crocheted hats and other items that she donated for chemo patients and children. Jeanne was truly an angel that walked on this Earth and touched so many lives!

Jeanne is survived by her loving husband, soul mate, and best friend, David Cookson; her daughter, Rachel Hutchins and husband, Sam; son, Daniel Cookson and wife, Amy; sister, Helen Feldman; nine grandchildren who were her pride and joy, Morgan, Nick, Buddy, and Sydney Hutchins, Sarah, Brandon, and Kaitlyn Cookson, and Kaleb and Mackenzie Redimarker. She was predeceased by her parents, and her brother-in-law, Howard Feldman.

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Robert E. Hussey Sr. - December 27, 1927 - September 27, 2020

Departed: 09/27/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Milo- Robert E. Hussey, Sr., 92, passed away peacefully September 27, 2020, at his daughter, Heather’s home in Corinna. He was born December 27, 1927, in Milo, the son of Bertram and Cora (Weymouth) Hussey. Bob’s life revolved around his family and his hard work was exceptional. His humor and life lessons will never be forgotten, especially his whistle or thumbs up.

He started working at a young age at Kroemer’s Farm in Milo, harvesting potatoes. He went on to work for the American Thread Co., Bangor and Aroostook Railroad in Derby, and he also owned his own logging trucks. He later retired in 1987 from Great Northern Paper Co. in Millinocket after almost 3 decades of service. He worked for Cianchette when Bangor International Airport was built.

Bob’s love for the ocean was where he enjoyed an annual tradition every 4th of July in Bar Harbor. He started tenting with his family at Lily Bay State Park and then onto Southwest Harbor and Bar Harbor. In later years, he made the trip to Bar Harbor with his 5th wheel camper. He enjoyed the pancake breakfast, parade, and fireworks. He appreciated the time with family and loved watching his grandchildren grow up. Bob enjoyed many years on Schoodic Lake and hunting and fishing at Camp 29. He was an incredible woodworker and really enjoyed spending his time woodworking.

Bob lost Helen, the love of his life on December 10, 2019. They were married on June 15, 1948 and enjoyed 71 years of marriage together. The youngest in his family, he was additionally predeceased by his parents; brothers, Irving, Clyde, Otis, Elwood, George, Arnold, and John; sisters, Addie and Irma; and a special niece, Patty.

He is survived by six children and their families; son, Robert Hussey Jr. and his wife, Melanie, and their children, Christopher Hussey and Melissa Isherwood and her husband, Darren, their 12 grandchildren, and 1 great-grandchild; son, Randy Hussey and his wife, Brenda, and their children, Andrew Hussey and his wife, Sarah, Amanda Hussey, Aaron Hussey and his wife, Barbara, Adam Hussey and his wife, Caitlin, and Amarie Mooers and her husband, Dane, and their 8 grandchildren; daughter, Trudy Baird and her husband, William, and their daughter, Elizabeth Rondini and her husband, Jeff; son, Kim Hussey and his wife, Debbie, and their children, Luke Hussey, Nathaniel Hussey, and Jennifer Nadeau and her husband, Ryan, and their 5 grandchildren; daughter, Holly Potter and her children, Adam Potter and his wife, Megan, and Dustin Potter and his wife, Samantha, and her 4 grandchildren; and daughter, Heather Berg and her husband, Robert, and their daughter, Alison Berg Haass and her husband, Chase, and their grandchild, Barrett. He will be missed by many extended family members.

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Beverly I. Marston - January 30, 1929 - September 26, 2020

Departed: 09/26/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Bangor – Beverly I. Marston, 91, passed away September 26, 2020, at a Bangor nursing facility. She was born January 30, 1929, in Lewiston, the daughter of Elroy and Evelyne (Pray) Leadbetter. She grew up in Auburn and graduated from Edward Little High School in Portland, where she met the love of her life, Douglas, a returning World War II veteran.

Beverly worked at various secretarial positions during her life but spent most of her years raising her family and working as a homemaker.

She was predeceased by her husband, Douglas, of 62 years.

Beverly is survived by a daughter, Linda Pratt and her husband, Owen, of Dover-Foxcroft; a son, Stephen, of Boston, MA; two granddaughters, Kristina Van Den Bosch and her husband, John, of Berthoud, CO, and Emily Flaherty and her husband, Noah, of Beverly, MA; and two great-grandchildren, Lilah and Aiden Flaherty.

A graveside service will be held at a later date at Gracelawn Cemetery, Auburn.

Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Condolences may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Karen L. Meservey - June 23, 1958 - September 25, 2020

Departed: 09/25/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Milo – Karen L. Meservey, 62, passed away September 25, 2020, at her sister’s home in Newport. She was born June 23, 1958, in Dexter, the daughter of Edward and Syretha (Gamblin) Meservey. Karen worked home health for many years. She was an avid bingo player.

Karen is survived by her long time companion, John Webb; son, Randall Woodbury Jr.; daughter, Crystal Noyes; sister, Sharon Dearborn; three brothers, Allen, Sam, and Michael Meservey; a special friend, Herbert Sinclair; several grandchildren; two great-grandchildren; and several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her daughter, Susanna Goodine.

Burial will be in the Sebec Corner Cemetery. Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Messages of condolence and memories may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Wayne S. Dearborn - September 13, 1933 - September 25, 2020

Departed: 09/25/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Garland - Wayne S. Dearborn passed away on Sept. 25, 2020, in Scarborough.

He is survived by his wife, Donna; three children, Ron (Lisa) Dearborn, Darlene (Bob) Allen and Debra (John) Volpe. He leaves three grandchildren, Tyler Allen, Minetta Volpe, and Wayne Volpe; six great-grandchildren; and an extended family.

At Wayne's request there will be no services. Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Condolences may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Paul L. Ruksznis - June 10, 1928 - September 25, 2020

Departed: 09/25/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Guilford -Paul L. Ruksznis, 92, passed away peacefully at home on September 25. He was born June 10, 1928, the son of Frank and Virginia (Littlefield) Ruksznis, Paul graduated from Guilford High School in 1946. He began working for the U.S. Postal Service in 1946 and then served in the Maine National Guard and U.S. Air Force in Manchester NH, where he established many friendships that lasted a lifetime. He returned to Guilford, and married his high school sweetheart, Catherine “Kay” Johnston in 1954. Together they had 4 children. He worked for the U.S. Postal Service until retiring in 1988.

Paul’s lifelong passion was hunting and fishing, which he was able to enjoy until recent years. He built a camp on Whetstone Pond in 1950 where he enjoyed 70 summers with his wife, family, and friends. In his retired years, they spent many winters in Florida.

Paul was a member of the Guilford Fire Department, serving as chief for 5 years. He served as a Piscataquis County Deputy, was a 50 year member of the Masons then Shriners, member of the IOOF Lodge 37, and town selectman for 2 terms. Paul was an advocate to build and served on the board for the senior citizens complex, Riverbend Homes.

He is survived by his wife of 66 years, Catherine; sons, Thomas Ruksznis and wife; Penny Smith Ruksznis of Skowhegan, Frank Ruksznis and wife, Cheryl Hartford Ruksznis of Sangerville; daughters, Mary Smith of Portland, and Judith Folsom and partner, David Bovill of Moultonboro, NH; foreign exchange student daughter, Marina Gomez de Ormeno and husband, Jorge of Bogota, Columbia; brother-in-law, William Johnston and wife, Julie of Poquoson, VA; sister-in-law, Bernadette Johnston of Venice, FL; 8 grandchildren; and 4 great grandchildren. Paul was predeceased by his parents, Frank and Virginia Ruksznis, and cousin, Phyllis Sharpe Mills.

The family wishes to thank the caring healthcare providers who assisted Paul: Rose, Cathy, Diana, and Chris.

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Everett L. Colson - October 25, 1958 - September 25, 2020

Departed: 09/25/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: DOVER-FOXCROFT- Everett L. Colson, 61, died Sept 25, 2020, at Northern Light Eastern Maine Medical Center. He was born on Oct 25, 1958, in Ludwigsburg, Germany, to SFC (RET) Everett S. Colson, and Johanna E. (Grampp) Colson. Everett then traveled the world to his father’s next duty station, wherever it may be. From Ft. Devens, MA, to Ft. Carson, CO, to any point in between, Everett was a well-versed Army brat until his father’s retirement.

After graduating from Foxcroft Academy in 1976, Everett joined the U.S. Army as an Air Defense Artillery (Chaparral Missile Crewman) Soldier and was sent to Ft. Bliss, TX for his Basic Combat Training. However, during his training, Everett had broken his foot and had to be medically discharged. It was during his wait for his discharge that Everett met the love of his life, Maria M. Mellon, and he soon married her, and received his discharge from the U.S. Army.

Everett and Maria immediately moved back to Dover-Foxcroft, and he soon started working at local mills until he finally found his place at Pride Manufacturing where he proudly worked until 2007.

During his time in Maine after his brief Army stint, Everett became an avid connoisseur of popcorn, dry humor, and sarcasm. He also cherished his beloved electric blue Geo Metro, and his gas mileage (that he often bragged about) that came with it. Everett also became the “most lovable curmudgeon” to his children’s many friends that frequented the house, and either his children or their friends would not have had it any other way.

During his final years, Everett got into photography and had several friends who helped mentor him to become a ‘mildly avid’ photographer. Despite his reputation for being a stubborn man, Everett made a lot of new friends via social media that loved to test his witty banter, and political point of views. And no matter the end of their conversations, they all still loved and cared for Everett, as he did for them.

Everett was predeceased by his parents, Everett and Johanna, and by adoring wife, Maria M. Colson. He is survived by his children who loved him very much, Michelle Mellon, of Dover-Foxcroft, John Mellon and wife, Stephanie, of Lawson, Colo., James Colson of Westbrook, and Joshua Colson and wife, JaShelle, of Bangor; loving grandchildren, Brittany Tyler Curtis and husband, Cory, Brandon Michael Dyer, Abigail Rose Mellon, Kyren Luke Mellon, Matthew Patrick Fillmore, Ayden Amos Mellon, and Joshua Everett Ames; his great-grandchild, Bentley Michael Curtis; and very close members to the family Samantha Ames, and Kenneth Corson.

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Michael A. Alfonso - June 13, 1943 - September 25, 2020

Departed: 09/25/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Guilford, ME and Pepperell, MA – Michael A. Alfonso passed away September 25, 2020, at his residence in Pepperell, MA. Mike was born June 13, 1943, in Pepperell to Diana (Mills) and Samuel Alfonso. He was known by his neighbors as “Mike from Maine” or “the walker”.

He enjoyed wood carving and spent many hours researching his family tree. He had a passion for gardening, working countless hours at his home in Guilford making beautiful flower beds and tending a large vegetable garden. He was a former member of the Pepperell Garden Club where he would volunteer planting flower gardens around town. His other passion was his woodlot; he loved the trees and knew every species on the lot and where it was. He had a lot of interest in educating himself with the hobbies he had. He was a fabulous cook and baker. The homemade spaghetti sauce was one of a kind and he made his daughter’s wedding cake.

Early on he worked as a park ranger in Baxter State Park, a job he spoke of often, telling many stories of his adventures and the people he met. As a young man he was proud to have met Governor Baxter and displayed a photo of them together on his wall. In 1971 he went to work at General Electric in Bangor, ME, retiring in 2002.

He is survived by his former wife, Carol; his daughters, Theresa Tilton and husband Steve, Angela Alfonso and partner, Rodney Ramsdell, all of Sangerville; his grandchildren, Kimberly and Stephen Tilton and Macee Pearl; and his uncle, Joe Mills, who was very dear to him. He was predeceased by his parents and brother, Sam.

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William R. Orton III - January 08, 1945 - September 19, 2020

Departed: 09/19/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Sebec - William Richard Orton III died peacefully at home on September 19, 2020. Bill was born in Upper Darby, Pennsylvania to Dorcas Chase Orton and William Richard Orton Jr. on January 8, 1945, and grew up on Cape Cod, Massachusetts. After high school Bill went to MacLean Hospital School of Nursing in Belmont, Massachusetts and he served his first tour of duty in Vietnam, as a registered nurse. After further studies, Bill returned to Vietnam for another tour of duty as a certified registered nurse anesthetist (CRNA).

Bill came to Maine in 1976 and worked at Mayo Regional Hospital as a nurse anesthetist for thirty-five years. He loved his work and felt very fortunate to have met wonderful people during his long career.

Bill loved hunting, fishing, and being in the outdoors. He had fond memories of the very first moose hunt in Maine in the fall of 1980 and several fishing trips to Cooper Camp in northern Quebec. Bill loved watching hockey, traveling with his wife, Julie, and spending time at Garland Pond. But above all, he loved his family and loved spending time with them.

As a member of the Big Pine Gun Club in Abbot, Maine, Bill participated in many activities, including skeet shooting and winter pistol league. He taught several safety courses for youth and he made many friends at the club.

In retirement, Bill volunteered for Pine Tree Hospice. He was very committed to serving clients and providing them with opportunities to enjoy the outdoors. He was always ready to take a long drive on the back roads of Maine.

Bill is survived by his wife, Julie, son and daughter-in-law, Rich and Myra of Brooklyn, NY, son and daughter-in-law, Ben and Christine of Toronto, Canada, granddaughter, Julieta of Toronto, Canada, and son and daughter-in-law, Rob and Doris of Portland, Maine. He is also survived by his sister and brother-in-law, Hester and Earl Grue of Brewster, Massachusetts and by his mother-in-law, Mary Gorman of Woburn, Massachusetts, and by many nieces and nephews, sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law. He will be dearly missed by many relatives and friends.

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Hazel M. MacHarrie - May 02, 1928 - September 19, 2020

Departed: 09/19/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Dothan, AL – Hazel M. MacHarrie, 92, passed away September 19, 2020 at the home of her daughter, Paula Brown, of Slocomb, AL. She was born May 2, 1928, in Patterson, NJ, the daughter of James Flanagan and Hazel C. (Mutter) Hollins. She had served with the U.S. Air Force and was extremely proud of her military background. She had lived in Maine for 43 years before moving to Dothan to be closer to her daughters.

She is survived by her daughters, Paula Brown (Jeff), and Patricia Bryars (Jeff); grandchildren, Melissa DeLeo (Jeremy), Daniel Watters, Jr. (Casey), Jesse Watters (Lauren), Brean Nichols, and Hadas Spivey (Russell); nine great-grandchildren; niece, nephews and other extended family members and friends. She was predeceased by her husband, James MacHarrie, and a sister and brother-in-law, Marie and Edwin Howard.

Memorial contributions may be made to Disabled American Veterans, Chapter 9, PO Box 310972, Enterprise, AL 36331.

Funeral services were held at 10:00 a.m. Friday, September 25, 2020 at the Sorrells Funeral Home, Slocomb, AL. A graveside committal service will be conducted 11:00 a.m. Wednesday, September 30, 2020, at the family lot in Sebec Corner Cemetery, with Pastor Isaiah Hill officiating. Local arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Condolences may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Theodore T. Galuski - September 01, 1953 - September 17, 2020

Departed: 09/17/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Guilford - Theodore “Ted” T. Galuski, Jr., 67, passed away on September 17, 2020, at home surrounded by his family. He was born on September 1, 1953, to Theodore T. Galuski, Sr. in Taunton, Massachusetts.

Ted grew up in Taunton, where he enjoyed playing fast pitch softball and bowling in leagues for candlepin and duckpin. When he was 16, Ted met the love of his life and wife of 42 years, Marjorie, at Henry’s Root Beer stand, they were married 8 years later on July 9, 1978, in Las Vegas, NV. In 1989, he and his wife moved to Maine to raise their six girls in an area that was considered safe and relatively free of crime. Despite moving away from Massachusetts, Ted loved visiting Cape Cod and walking the canal with his wife. When Ted wasn’t working, he enjoyed spending time at Harlow Pond and taking his beloved black lab, Sadie, swimming. He also loved being a grandfather and spending time with his grandchildren.

He is survived by his wife, Marjorie; his six daughters, Vanessa McInnis, Meagan Rankin and her husband, Jeff, Ivy Todd and her husband, Timothy, Aislynn Galuski and her husband, Readell, Tedianne Thurlow and her husband, Robert, and Abbie Connolly and her husband, Andrew. He leaves his 10 grandchildren, Benjamin, Thomas, Kolbin, Parker, Gabriella, Daxton, Remington, Hunter, Elliot and Maggie; his sister, Ann Marie Brodeur and her husband, Jeff; his aunt, Johanna Jardin; and many other family members. He was preceded in death by his father.

A private family memorial service will be held at a later date.

Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Condolences and memories may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Robert N. Stevens - Unknown - September 16, 2020

Departed: 09/16/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Conway, SC and Dover-Foxcroft – On Wednesday, August 19, 2020, Robert “Bob” Norman Stevens, Sr. loving husband and father of five children, went to be with his Lord at the age of 88. Bob was born February 27, 1932, in Dover-Foxcroft to Charles and H. Marion (Trundy) Stevens.

Bob graduated from Bangor High School, Class of 1950. He spent two years at Gorham State Teachers College. During this time, he joined the United States Naval Reserve. On August 11, 1951, he married Delores (McLaughlin) Stevens. They raised three sons, Richard, Mark, and Robert, Jr., and two daughters, Cathy and Cheryl.

Bob was a man of strong faith and went on many mission trips spreading this passion for God by building schools and churches in Russia, Africa and Paraguay. He was known for his quick wit, his infectious smile, and his kind and compassionate spirit.

Bob was preceded in death by his father, Charles; his mother, H. Marion; his two brothers, Louis and Myles; and his daughter, Cathy. He is survived by his wife, Delores; his four children, Richard, Mark, Robert, Jr., and Cheryl; his 11 grandchildren and 17 great-grandchildren.

A graveside memorial service will be conducted at 1:00 p.m. Saturday, October 3, 2020, at the family lot in Pine Grove Cemetery, Dover-Foxcroft. Flowers may be delivered to the Lary Funeral Home, 62 Summer Street, Dover-Foxcroft, ME 04426. Condolences and memories may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com.

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Cornelia Beal Newman - June 14, 1935 - September 16, 2020

Departed: 09/16/2020 (Dover-Foxcroft)

Obituary Preview: Hampden - Cornelia Beal “Von Hoofe” Newman, 85, passed peacefully September 16, 2020, after a long battle with Alzheimer’s disease. Connie was born on June 14, 1935, in Bangor, Maine, the daughter of Ralph and Elaine Beal of Ellsworth, Maine.

Connie is survived by three of her four children: her daughter, Shelley Lewis and her three sons, Perry, Derek and Jason; her son, Sean Ireland and his wife, Julie, and their two daughters, Nicole and Meghan; her son, Keven Ireland and his wife, Jennifer, their two sons, Jacob and Zachary, and their daughter, Cassidy; her grandson, Casey Ireland and his wife, Jennifer, and their daughter, Quinn; her granddaughter, Mayme Ireland and her daughters, Catalina and Maleiya; and her granddaughter, Heather Spalenka. Connie is also survived by her stepson, David; her stepdaughter, Julie Vanidestine and her husband, Michael; her sister, Marion Kettell; and dear friend, Jan Blake of Winter Haven, Florida. Connie was predeceased by her husband, Harold; her sister, Frannie; her son, Ralph; her son-in-law Roger Lewis; and good friends Betty Sprague, Nona Haller, and Alice McInnis.

Connie was raised by her beloved grandmother, Effie Beal, growing up in Ellsworth. She began playing the piano at a young age, and became a talented musician, sharing her love for music by playing for small audiences, at church services, and teaching her granddaughter, Nicole, to play. Connie married her husband, Harold “Pop” Newman, in October of 1983. They lived in Hampden, Maine and enjoyed entertaining family and friends by their pool. Connie enjoyed a long career in the banking industry working for over 40 years at Merrill, Fleet, and Bangor Savings Bank. She learned the business from the ‘ground up’ starting as a teller progressing through a number of positions, including loan officer, and branch manager. Banking for Connie was like her second family, as she came out of retirement in 1998 only to go back into banking working for her longtime beloved friend, Alice McInnis. In recent years, she and Harold moved to Winter Haven, Florida where they enjoyed their retirement in the sun, golfing, and socializing with friends in their community. After Harold passed, she came home to Maine to be with her family. As Connie would say quite often, “Let’s make like Gretzky and get the puck out of here” – she made her exit and left her mark on all of us. Those who wish to remember Connie in a special way may make gifts in her memory to the Alzheimer’s Association, 225 N. Michigan Ave., Fl. 17, Chicago, IL 60601. Arrangements are in the care of the Lary Funeral Home. Condolences to the family may be expressed at www.laryfuneralhome.com

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The funeral home's facilities are designed to provide a warm and welcoming atmosphere, perfect for saying goodbye to loved ones. The chapel is spacious and comfortable, with ample seating for friends and family. The staff takes great care to ensure that every aspect of the facility is immaculately maintained, from the beautifully landscaped grounds to the elegant decor.

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Lary Funeral Home offers a range of cremation options to suit every family's needs. From direct cremation to cremation with a memorial service, they can help you create a meaningful tribute to your loved one. Their staff is knowledgeable about the cremation process and can answer any questions you may have, helping you make an informed decision about this important choice.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and funeral or memorial service arrangements.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend writes an obituary, but it can also be written by a funeral home or other organization. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral or memorial services, charitable donations, or other special requests.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but it's generally recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important details. Aim for around 100-200 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many newspapers and online obituary platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the tribute and help readers remember the person.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to ask about their submission process and deadlines. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for publication.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms that allow you to publish an obituary, such as Legacy.com, ObitsArchive.com, or FuneralHomes.com. These platforms often offer additional features like guest books and photo galleries.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to $500 or more, depending on the length and features of the obituary.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituary as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately and authentically. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and accomplishments.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing a person's death, while a eulogy is a speech or written tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service. A eulogy is typically more personal and anecdotal than an obituary.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a great way to capture the personality and spirit of the deceased. Just be sure to keep it respectful and appropriate for the audience.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you notice an error in an obituary, contact the newspaper or online platform immediately to request corrections. Be prepared to provide documentation or evidence to support your claim.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes! Social media can be a powerful tool for sharing news of a loved one's passing and connecting with others who want to pay their respects. Share the link to the online obituary or create your own post with the necessary details.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some may publish same-day or next-day, while others may take several days or even weeks.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the deceased's personality or interests.

What if I'm not comfortable writing an obituary myself?

DON'T WORRY! Many funeral homes offer assistance with writing and submitting obituaries. You can also ask a trusted friend or family member for help.

Can I update an existing obituary?

In some cases, yes. If new information becomes available or you need to make corrections, contact the newspaper or online platform to ask about updating the existing obituary.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or websites like Ancestry.com or FindAGrave.com. Local libraries or genealogical societies may also have resources to help you find old obituaries.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Absolutely! This is a thoughtful way to honor the deceased's memory while supporting a good cause. Be sure to include the charity's name and address in the obituary.

What if I'm struggling with grief after writing an obituary?

Losing a loved one is never easy. Reach out to friends, family, or a professional counselor for support during this difficult time. Writing an obituary can be a therapeutic exercise, but it's okay to ask for help when you need it.

Can I include personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Personal stories and anecdotes can bring the deceased to life and make the obituary more engaging. Just be sure to keep them respectful and appropriate for the audience.

How do I know what information to include in an obituary?

Think about what made the deceased unique and special. What were their passions? What did they accomplish? What will they be remembered for? Use these details to craft a meaningful and memorable tribute.

Can I write multiple versions of an obituary?

Yes! You might want to write different versions for different audiences or purposes (e.g., a longer version for online publication versus a shorter version for print). Just be sure to proofread carefully before submitting any version.