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Kathleen "Kit" Erin Hall - July 30, 1977 - August 10, 2021

Departed: 08/10/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Kathleen "Kit" Erin Hall passed peacefully on August 10th, 2021 after a brief illness due to complications from surgery. She was born on July 30th, 1977 in Ithaca, New York to parents Randall and Cheryl O’Connor. Kit worked at Cornell University as an event planner and then as an assistant to the NROTC program.

Kit is survived by her two daughters, Kori Helen Hall and Kaytlyn Mae Hall, who were her pride and joy in life. She is also survived by her brother, Randall O’Connor II (Amber), best friends Kaylee Oliver and Sarah Watkins, and her beloved pets Lil and Clover. She is predeceased by her parents, her brother Branden (Billy) O’Connor, and her “soul dog”- Lincoln Montgomery Hall.

Kit was unsurpassed in her devotion to family, both biological and chosen. She valued deep connections and friendships, and never let the coffee get cold for a loved one who needed an open ear and heart during hardship. For her daughters, she would go to the ends of the earth if it meant she could procure a genuine smile or giggle. Anyone lucky enough to witness Kit in a fit of laughter was in for a treat, snorting and all, at which point it became impossible not to join her. She played countless hours of Boggle (but would never admit that she only beat Kaylee once), believed coffee was the ‘nectar of the Gods’, and could easily be bribed to do just about anything when Kori or Kaytlyn offered cuddle time in exchange. When she wasn’t re-watching Lord of the Rings, cooking spaghetti, or reading one of her thousands of books, she enjoyed seeing as much of nature as she could and admiring the world around her. Kit had an appreciation for life and her girls that was unmatched. She never allowed her loved ones to forget just how much they meant to her, a remarkable capability to love that we carry in our hearts now more than ever.

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Caryn "Chaya" Elaine Spector - August 16, 1950 - August 07, 2021

Departed: 08/07/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Caryn “Chaya” Elaine Spector died peacefully at home on Saturday, August 7, 2021 surrounded by love.

Chaya was born on August 16, 1950 in Bronx, NY. She was the daughter of Harold (Pee Wee) and Harriet Spector and the sister of Arlene. She grew up in Astoria, Queens in a cooperative housing community where she developed lasting friendships.

She attended Queens College and the College of Staten Island in New York City where she received an undergraduate degree in Cultural Anthropology. After college she briefly relocated to Santa Fe, New Mexico which she loved.

She moved to Ithaca, NY in the early 1970’s and lived in the Lavender Hill commune in West Danby where she built her own cabin. Lavender Hill became a family of friends that has lasted forever and was so important to her. She worked in the cooperatively owned Samadhara Bakery in the Dewitt Mall in Ithaca. She developed a love of cooking and baking.

She moved to California in 1980 and lived in the Bay Area. There she met b.g. (Barbara Nabors-Glass) and became a member of her extended family. Together, they raised Nikol, their beloved daughter.

After working in management for several years, Chaya started her own business as a bookkeeper.  For over 30 years, she worked with many small companies, non profits and startup businesses. She loved her clients and they loved her.

Chaya served as a board member and was very active in the Women’s Cancer Resource Center in Berkeley, CA.   While volunteering Chaya met Bridgett Perry who became her wife and partner for 24 years. Together they constantly nurtured the children in their extended family which included Joel, Nina and Skylar.

Chaya and Bridgett traveled often and extensively. They spent a lot of time in Ecuador where Bridgett founded the CITTI Project to help people with disabilities find and develop resources. During those trips they developed lifelong friendships with several of the volunteers.  Chaya also became the in-house photographer.

Chaya continued to develop her skills as a photographer and evolved into an artist of mixed media influenced greatly by indigenous cultures. Chaya was a member of an art group that met frequently, and she loved felting and making women.  She also became an avid birder, traveling to various places to see and to photograph birds.

Chaya and Bridgett moved to Ithaca in 2010. Together, they created a beautiful home and garden filled with light, art and flowers, a dog and cats. Birds flocked to their feeders. They were so happy and often traveled to their favorite destination – Costa Rica.

Throughout Chaya’s life she was a champion for social justice fighting against war, racism, homophobia and inequity. Most recently, she consistently filled the Tompkins County Mutual Aid Blue Boxes with food for people in need.

Chaya and Bridgett enjoyed time with their many friends locally, across the country and globe. They deeply cherished their loved ones and especially Mercer, their grandchild.

Bridgett was diagnosed with ovarian cancer and Chaya took care of her for six and a half years till she died in 2019. In April, Chaya was diagnosed with stage four pancreatic cancer. Her family, friends and members of the community quickly mobilized to care for her. Professional caregivers and Hospicare also provided much needed support.

She leaves to cherish her memory – mother-in-law, Rosetta, daughter, Nikol, son-in-law, John, grandson Mercer, nieces, Erica, Tania, Dara and grandniece, Nia, her beloved dog, Choclo, and cats Hudson and Chandler and a host of loved ones.       She is flying free.

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Ronald Edward Robbins - December 31, 1967 - August 01, 2021

Departed: 08/01/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Ronald Edward Robbins, born December 31, 1967, in Tompkins County Hospital, Ithaca, NY, to Lois Ayers Hulbert and Thomas Robbins, passed away suddenly on Sunday, August 1, 2021.

Ron was very active in the Lansing Rod & Gun Club.  He also loved to play pitch, euchre, and horseshoes, and was a diehard Pittsburgh Steelers fan.  He worked many years for Price Chopper and was most recently employed at Lansing Market.  Ron’s family meant the world to him and he loved having cookouts and making people laugh.

He is survived by his mother, Lois Ayers Hulbert of Lansing; father, Thomas Robbins of Genoa; brothers, Marty Robbins (Jennifer) and Shane Robbins (Tonya); children, Justin Yonce (Kelly), Kari Rose (Dustin), Amanda Robbins, and Dylan Robbins (Cheyenne); and his loving companion, Michelle Bachelor, and her two daughters, Mackenzie and Jordan.  He had 11 grandchildren:  Samara, Lily, Audrey and Noah Yonce, Mackenzie Rose and Dustin Rose, Jr., Samantha Park, Olivia Robbins, Annabelle Robbins, and William and RyLeigh Park.  Ron is also survived by many cousins, nephews, nieces, and uncles.  He was predeceased by his maternal grandparents, Robert and Evelyn (McKane) Ayers; paternal grandmother, Jane Stevens; and brothers, Allen “Stog” Ayers and Robert (Jake) Ayers.

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Charlotte S. Wilson - July 04, 1941 - July 31, 2021

Departed: 07/31/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Charlotte “Char” S. Wilson, 80, of Lansing, NY, passed away following a brief illness on July 31, 2021, at Cayuga Medical Center, Ithaca, NY. Born in Ithaca, she was the daughter of the late Raymond and Marjorie (Royce) Ploss.  Char was very active in the Lansing community and a member of the Lansing United Methodist Church.

She is survived by her loving husband, Floyd G. Wilson; daughters, Robyn Sundquist and Kelli Avramis; and several other family members.  In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her son, Randy Sundquist.

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Nariman B. Mistry - October 21, 1937 - July 01, 2021

Departed: 07/01/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Nariman Burjor Mistry was born in Mumbai, India, on October 21, 1937 to Burjor and Jer Mistry. In 1964, he married Virginia (Gin) Garland, and they had four children: Roshan, Manek, Premila, and Jal. The couple celebrated their 57th wedding anniversary on June 21, 2021. Nari died at home on July 1, 2021, enfolded in the love of his family.

Nari received his undergraduate degree in physics from St. Xavier’s College in Mumbai, and then spent two years doing research. He came to the US when he was 21, arriving in New York City on the ocean liner Ile de France. He did graduate work in physics at Columbia University, and received his PhD in 1963.

While attending Columbia he worked on a project studying neutrinos. The three professors leading this research were later awarded the Nobel Prize in 1988, and Nari and Gin were honored and excited to travel to Stockholm to attend the awards ceremony.

Nari began work at Cornell University in 1964 and worked there for 39 years. His career focused on particle physics, and he worked with his colleagues at Cornell’s synchrotron (particle accelerator) to study the fundamental properties of matter and energy. He was an active member of the Radiation Safety Committee, and served as chairman for many years. Nari also enjoyed teaching graduate students, and traveling to other countries to work at other facilities.

He shared many wonderful tales of his travels, and took pride in his punctuality: he happily related the story of arriving for a meeting in Moscow just on time, having taken a plane, train, and bus, despite weather problems and travel delays.

Nari retired from Cornell in 2003 and then pursued a second career as a self-taught artist. He painted watercolor landscapes, scenes around Ithaca, and birds, among other subjects. His work appeared in regional galleries and he was an enthusiastic participant in the Greater Ithaca Art Trail.

Nari also loved music. He played piano and encouraged his children in their musical interests, often accompanying them. He was a member of the board of the Cayuga Chamber Orchestra and served as its president for some years, inspiring many people who enjoyed the orchestra’s concerts.

Nari was a Renaissance man. In addition to his work, his lifelong devotion to the piano, and his other artistic achievements, he enjoyed gardening, bird watching, canoeing, sailing, cross-country skiing, hiking, camping, and traveling. He was extremely well-read and he enjoyed learning new information and understanding complex problems on any topic. He was also an adept mechanic, plumber, electrician, and carpenter, and he was the go-to person for any home repair.

But Nari’s greatest pride and satisfaction came from his family. He had a deep love for his wife, children, and grandchildren. He was close with his siblings in India and Australia, and with other extended family members around the globe.

He was a very active father, always interested and very proud of his children. He delighted in his grandchildren: he told them stories, drew pictures, taught them about nature, made videos, and truly embraced his role as “Papa.” Nari also shared his love with the many foster children he and Gin cared for: Shireen, Christina, Amber, Kimmie, Brittany, Elisabetta, and Lacey.

When reflecting on his life, he expressed his hope that he’d taught his children morality, integrity, honesty, and pride in their accomplishments. This, he said, was more important to him than any of his other professional or personal achievements.

Nari is survived by the love of his life, his wife of 57 years, Virginia, of Ithaca, NY, his children, Roshan (Eric) Swope of Harrisville, NH, Manek (Jodi Backlund) Mistry of Olympia, WA, Premila Mistry of Washington, D.C., and Jal (Stephanie Lee) Mistry of East Greenwich, RI.

He is also survived by his grandchildren, Maya, Molly, Eliana, and Abigail; by his brothers, Jangoo (Firdaus) Mistry and Ronnie (Armaiti) Mistry; by his brother-in-law Shahrookh Tafti; and by many cousins, nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents, his sister Gulnar Tafti, and his granddaughter Ayla Mistry.

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Olga A. Welch - June 15, 1929 - June 30, 2021

Departed: 06/30/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Olga Agatha Welch affectionately known as Dearest in her home country of Jamaica, was born on June 15, 1929, in Morris Hall, St. Catherine, Jamaica, West Indies. She was the oldest girl of fourteen children born to Hezekiah Welch and Mary Mc Lashing. Her father who was a professional baker went home to be with the Lord when Olga was only eleven years old. Her mother, on the other hand lived to the ripe old age of ninety-seven years old. Olga left the district of her birth to live with an aunt in Kingston. She spent many years living in Kingston where she cared for many nephews, nieces and even the children of strangers who came to live with her in their time of need. Olga never hesitated to provide a cozy and welcoming home for those in need. Olga and her siblings were blessed to be brought up in a deeply spiritual household. Their mother affectionately known as Mother Mc would not allow them to ever skip Sunday school. Olga would recount stories of her childhood that they would have to be in church even if they had to go without the proper shoes. Due to this amazing foundation four of her brothers were ministers in their church and they all her siblings became Christians.

During her early life, she worked in food service for many years at the now defunct Canewood College in Kingston Jamaica. She received a diploma from the University of the West Indies in Infant and Childcare Management. Suffice it to say that she has spent a lifetime caring for many children who affectionately remember her as Nanny Olga. After many years of living in NJ, she moved in November 2000 to Ithaca, NY to be closer to her daughter Joan. When sister Olga was not working, you would find her in the kitchen whipping up something delicious. She was a specialist in making curried goat as many here can attest to.

Sister Olga was baptized at Bethel United Apostolic church at 20 South Camp Road in Kingston Jamaica. Once she made the decision to give her life to the Lord, she never looked back. She moved to the United States in 1986 and attended the Church of Jesus Christ Apostolic Inc. in Paterson New Jersey where her brother the late Japheth Welch was a minister and later became the presiding bishop. In Ithaca Olga attended Baptized Church of Jesus and was very active in volunteering for the food pantry where she met many people who later became friends.

Sister Olga was eager to go home to be reunited with her parents, siblings and her son who went ahead of her. She was a devoted mother, sister, aunty, godmother, mother-in-law, cousin and friend. She lived a full life and on June 30, 2021, 2 weeks after her 92nd birthday God called her home.

Funeral services officiated by Rev. Nathaniel Wright will be held on Friday, July 16, 2021, at 10:00 a.m. at Calvary Baptist Church, 507 North Albany Street, Ithaca, NY 14850.  Interment will follow in Calvary Cemetery, Ithaca.

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Shirley Elaine Wirth - July 29, 1934 - June 27, 2021

Departed: 06/27/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Shirley E. Wirth, of Ithaca, N.Y., age 86, died peacefully at home from complications of dementia on June 27, 2021. She was attended by loving family members.

She was born to Wanda and Adrian Brooks in Lake City, Mich., in 1934. The family then took up residence in Evart, Mich., where she grew up. She had adventurous early years living in a house trailer while her father worked in the Willow Run bomber factory during World War 2. She graduated from Evart High School in 1951 and then attended Davenport Institute, where she studied office management, business machines, and business English. Subsequently, she worked in several secretarial positions.

She married Robert L. Wirth in 1957, and they lived in Lansing, Mich., for three years as he finished his engineering degree at Michigan State University. While they were there, their first son, Eric, was born. In 1961 they moved to Dayton, Ohio, where their second son, Randy, was born. In 1973 the family moved to Ithaca, N.Y., a place she cherished for its natural beauty and cultural riches.

She had paused her office career in 1959, with the birth of her first son, and she resumed it in 1973, taking positions at Cornell University that culminated in twelve years of service as the executive staff assistant to the university counsel (1978–90).

Shirley was extraordinarily devoted to helping others. While in Ohio, she volunteered to care for patients at the Dayton State Hospital and young people at the Bergamo Center for Developmentally Handicapped Children. After moving to Ithaca, she volunteered for Camp Fire Boys and Girls in 1990–93. For the next ten years, as part of Literacy Volunteers of Tompkins County, she gave immigrants and refugees one-on-one instruction in the English language and American customs. This effort earned her the Henry Cowan Outstanding Tutor Award in 2002 and the fervent gratitude of many new citizens. She also volunteered for years at Cayuga Heights Elementary School, giving lessons in sewing to innumerable children.

A passionate quilter, she was a member of the Tompkins County Quilters Guild from 1997 to the end of her life, chairing the guild’s 1999 exhibition. Her other interests included collecting early lighting devices (especially antique oil lamps), reading mountains of books, traveling, camping, and hiking.

Shirley had a questing spirit and touched many lives with her kindness. She is survived by her husband, Bob; her sons, Eric and Randy; two granddaughters, Caitlin and Emily; and her sisters, Eloris and Denise.

Funeral services and burial in Pleasant Grove Cemetery, Ithaca, will be private. A memorial service will be held at a future date, to be announced.

Contributions in honor of Shirley may be made to Tompkins Learning Partners or the SPCA of Tompkins County.

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Constance Susan Allen - October 04, 1948 - June 27, 2021

Departed: 06/27/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Constance “Conni” Allen, 72, passed away from ovarian cancer at home among family on June 27, 2021.

Born October 4, 1948 in Chisolm, Minnesota to Lawrence and Mary Nettle, Conni was the only girl among 7 siblings.  Growing quickly into a rollicking knockabout, Conni was one of a thousand screaming fans who met the Beatles when they landed in Midway Airport in 1964.  Instilled by the spirit of the 60s, Conni became a dedicated groupie to the Chicago rock scene, following bands like Styx, The Little Boy Blues, and Bangor Flying Circus all the way to California.  By 1968, she had returned to Chicago where she was swept up in the 1968 Democratic National Convention protests.

At the turn of the decade, Conni relocated to Tampa, Florida, where she spent the early 1970s tarring roofs, waiting tables, and working at the University of South Florida.  She also lived for a stretch on the beach on Anna Maria Island off Florida’s gulf coast.  During this time Conni took up photography, surfing, and became a hair stylist.  In the late 70s, her interests included running half-marathons, biking, and hiking, culminating in taking on the Appalachian Trail in 1979 where, at one point, she encountered a wild bear up close.   Her outdoor excursions would continue into the next decade and beyond; in 1989 she climbed Mount Katahdin in Maine.

In 1980, Conni gave birth to her first child, her daughter Erin.  Motherhood would do little to quell her gypsy ways, and by the end of the year she had moved to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, where she gave birth to her daughter Shawn in 1985 and son Patrick in 1990.  Her passion for exercise expanded to long-distance biking, and she biked the length of Florida, Iowa, and Indiana among many other states.

Conni proudly spent the duration of the 1990s obtaining her associates degree from Community College of Allegheny County, while raising three young children.  Graduating accomplished a long-term goal of completing her higher education degree decades after high school.  She would begin the millennium as an intensive care unit (ICU) aide at Shadyside Hospital and UPMC in Pittsburgh where she dutifully and passionately served.

In 2010, Conni visited Light on the Hill, a retreat in the hills of Van Etten, New York with a friend.  While there, Conni met Joanne Turnpenny and the two quickly became close.  Within a year, Conni had packed her bags once again and followed her heart to Ithaca.  On New Year’s Eve 2014, the two were married at the Wesleyan Chapel in Seneca Falls, New York.  In the seven years between meeting and Joanne’s passing, the two were inseparable, spending time enjoying musicals, birdwatching, traveling, and taking in the wilderness of New York.  In 2017, Joanne succumbed to breast cancer at age 52.

Between the two of them, their circle of dedicated friends, followers, and companions grew enormously.  Following the Presidential Election of 2016, Conni organized the Ithaca chapter of the National Women’s March.  She also volunteered at Greensprings Natural Cemetery Preserve and an active member of the local Democratic Party.   Wherever she went, Conni never met a stranger.

After Joanne’s passing Conni retired from the medical field but wasn’t ready to settle down. Conni’s wanderlust soon returned: she, along with her grandson, packed her car and explored the continental United States, scouting the American Southwest and Pacific Coast.  Upon her return home in 2018, she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer.   Undeterred, Conni had the adventure she dreamed of by finally travelling abroad to Ireland.  Conni’s Irish walkabout lasted several weeks, during which she made new Irish friends, stayed in Irish homes, and witnessed up close the beauty of the Emerald Isle. It’s easy to imagine Conni, walking stick in hand, standing atop an Irish glen reciting Mary Oliver’s poem “The Summer Day:” Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?

Over her lifetime, Conni saw herself as an avatar for womanhood; a vicar for the empowerment of women and staunchly women-first.  She was self-reliant, bold and brazen, but always with a touch of humor.  She was both jokester and practical joker, often ruining either by bursting out laughing.  That same laugh was often infectious, causing those around to join in uncontrollably or not.  Her joie de vivre flowed endlessly into others and into everything she did -- from organizing marches, to tending to bed-ridden patients, to hiking trails and biking highways, to ultimately love and marriage.  Her passion was life itself and she never wasted any of it. In her penultimate moment, among friends and family, she cracked a grin and said, “I won.”

Conni is proceeded in death by her parents and her wife Joanne (Jo) Turnpenny.

She is survived by: her aunt Pat Lamb of Michigan; her brother Sean Nettle of Homewood, Illinois; her daughter Erin Erck (Steve) of Portland, Oregon; her daughter Shawn Hill (Cary) of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania; her son Patrick Allen of Ithaca, New York; her daughter Amy Beth Galton (Lanie) of Ithaca, New York; her sister-in-law Amy Lord of Winter Garden, Florida; and her sister-in-law Patti Nettle of Oak Lawn, Illinois.  She was grandmother to Zane, Greyson, and Max; and fun aunt to Riley, Dani, Brady, and Brad on one side, Amber, Sarah, Adam, and Emily on the other.

Memorial services will be Saturday, July 3, 2021, at 3:00 p.m. at Greensprings Natural Cemetery Preserve.  Any and all who were touched by Conni are invited and welcome to attend.  Reception to follow.

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Alfred DiGiacomo - November 29, 1922 - June 27, 2021

Departed: 06/27/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Alfred (Alfonso) DiGiacomo, 98, passed away on June 27, 2021. He was born and raised in Huntington Station, New York. As the oldest of five, he served as the translator between his immigrant parents and the Huntington School District. He graduated from Huntington High School in 1941. Al worked at Sarrow’s Grocery Store until he enlisted in the U.S. Army in November 1942. He was assigned to overseas duty in October 1943. Sergeant DiGiacomo joined the 926 Signal Battalion as a switchboard operator providing air support for ground services to the 9th Tactical Air Command. He received a medal for his service in the European African and Middle East Theater with five battle stars for his participation in the Battle of Normandy and the Battle of the Bulge.

Al was honorably discharged in November 1945 and returned to Huntington Station.  His sister Carmella “Millie” introduced him to her coworker and friend, Mary O’Brien. After a year-long courtship they married. Al was active as a leader in the Cub Scouts for eight years and the Boy Scouts for two years. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus in Huntington and Ithaca.

A self-educated architect, Al studied drafting under the G.I. Bill and, after a 12-year apprenticeship, received his architectural license. Later in life, he continued his studies and received a Bachelor of Professional Studies degree from Empire State College. He designed many buildings on Long Island, including Islip High School, South Oaks Hospital, Huntington Elementary School, Suffolk County Police Precincts, and the Long Island Arena. The design for Islip High School was selected for exhibit at the National School Boards Convention.

As County Architect for Suffolk County, he was responsible for the design and construction of many buildings including two community college campuses and the master planning for the County Center in Yaphank which Newsday described as planning at its best. Al served on the board for The Long Island Chapter of the American Institute of Architects and was a founding member of the Long Island chapter of the Construction Specifications Institute.

Al and Mary moved to Ithaca in 1980 when he accepted the position of Senior Architect with Cornell University. There, he played a key role in campus building expansion. He was directly involved in the design of Snee Hall, Uris Hall reading room, Biotechnology Building, Townhouses, Akwe:kon House, many renovation projects including Willard Straight Hall terrace and dining hall and the addition of a third floor to Hasbrouck Apartments.

Upon retirement in 1993, he enjoyed traveling and spending time with his family and grandchildren. He wrote five books including “A Soldier’s Diary” and “American Bread”, highlighting his memories and aspects of his life. He took courses in computer use and painting. Every year Al presented his personal WWII experiences to Ithaca High School students during “A Soldier’s Story Day”. He also met with Ithaca College and Cornell students as part of a volunteer program called Project Care which promotes dialogue and understanding between generations. Al loved the annual intergenerational Harvest Moon Dance. He enjoyed attending events and trips organized by the Greater Ithaca Activities Center Senior Program.

Al was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 66 years Mary, sisters: Carmella Impellizeri, Marie (Joseph) Kelsey, in-laws: John O’Brien, Jean (Stanley) Ferner.

Al is survived by his six children and their spouses: Frank (Deborah Marinsky), Kathleen (the late Neil) Shanahan, Kenneth (Patricia), Robert, Thomas (Nancy), and Carol (Dale) Casler. His grandchildren Alana (Nick), Danielle (Charlie), Gavin (Catie). Brien (Angelis), Patrick (Carissa), Keara, Kyle (Maggie), Terence, Arielle (Zack), Julia (Spencer), Casey and Michael. Alfred was also blessed with six great-grandchildren: Maya, Jacob, Mia, Scarlett, Colin, and Daniel. His surviving siblings include Frank DiGiacomo (Fran) and Rita (the late Bob) Comeau and sister-in-law Dorothea (the late Dennis) Buckley and numerous nephews, nieces and cousins. He is also survived by his spirit artist and “partner in shenanigans” Lynn Capani-Czebiniak.

Al will be remembered for his fierce independence and love of music, photography, gadgets, books and storytelling.

Relatives and friends are welcome at Lansing Funeral Home in Lansing, NY on Tuesday, July 6, from 4:00 to 7:00 PM. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated by Fr. Joseph Marcoux on Wednesday, July 7, at 10:00 AM at St. Catherine of Siena Church, Ithaca. Visitation will be held at M.A. Connell Funeral Home in Huntington, NY on Thursday, July 8, from 2:00 to 4:00 PM and 7:00 to 9:00 PM. Burial with Military Honors in St. Patrick's Cemetery in Huntington, NY on Friday, July 9.

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Mary Lynn Jones - March 20, 1945 - June 25, 2021

Departed: 06/25/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Mary Jones, 76, died peacefully at her home surrounded by family on June 25, 2021.  Mary, a librarian, touched the lives of many, through sharing her countless gifts and talents.  She was an avid reader, seamstress, baker, traveler, crossword enthusiast, trivia fan, and organizer of wonderful shindigs. Her greatest joy came in welcoming guests to her home, on Cayuga Lake, and serving memorable home cooked meals.  Mary enjoyed travel, visiting all 50 states, all the Canadian provinces, Mexico, and many Caribbean islands.  She loved her family and friends without condition and shared her generous spirit with those in need.

Born on March 20, 1945, Mary was a proud native of Michigan and graduated from North Muskegon High School in 1963.  She attended Western Michigan University, graduating in 1967, where she majored in English.  She later earned a Master of Library Science, in 1969, as a Lyndon Baines Johnson scholarship fellow.  After graduation, she worked in several Michigan public schools before relocating to Lansing, New York.  She finished her career as the librarian of Dryden High School.  She was a member of Good Shepherd Catholic Community in King Ferry, New York.

Mary was the adored wife of Thomas Jones, who she married on August 17, 1968 at St. Mary’s Church in Muskegon, Michigan, and the loving mother of Matthew (Amy) Jones.  She was the proud grandmother of Aiden, Carlin, and Vivian Jones.  She is also survived by her siblings, Bill (Donna) Walters, Joan (Clair) St. Clair, Bob (Sandy) Walters, and Debra Walters; brother-in-law John Jones; and many nieces and nephews.

She is predeceased by her parents, Fred and Lorene Walters; siblings, Fred Walters, Jr., Ed (Helen) Walters, Russell Walters, Jean (Ed) Schmeltzer, Frank Walters, and Chuck (Leslie) Walters.

Visitation will be at Lansing Funeral Home on Tuesday, June 29, 2021, from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m.  A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:00 a.m. on Wednesday, June 30, 2021, at St. Catherine of Siena Church, Ithaca, New York.  Private interment will be in St. Mary’s Cemetery, Clayville, New York.

The family extends sincere appreciation to Roswell Park Cancer Institute, Cayuga Medical Center, and Hospicare.  A special thanks to home caregivers Julie, Teneisha, Althea, Crystal, and Rosemary for their loving care.

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Marian Ingerson - November 22, 1954 - June 25, 2021

Departed: 06/25/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Marian Olli Ingerson, 66, of Newfield, passed away peacefully at home on June 25, 2021, with her husband by her side.  Born in Ithaca, NY, on November 22, 1954, she was the daughter of the late Alfred and Laura (Knapp) Olli.  Marian was a graduate of Newfield High School and went on to earn her Bachelor’s and Master’s in Education degrees from SUNY Geneseo.  She retired from Spencer-Van Etten Central School District, where she spent her career as a special education teacher.

Marian was a member of Newfield United Methodist Church, where she was active in the women’s group. She also was a member of the Newfield Historical Society as well as the Archives Committee. After retirement, she volunteered at Tompkins Learning Partners where she tutored in adult literacy. In her free time, she enjoyed weaving and spending time outdoors—especially hiking and camping in her younger days.  She also had a passion for reading and a love for her cats.  Marian was always concerned with the well-being of others and will be remembered as an extremely thoughtful and patient person.

Marian is survived by her loving husband of nearly 40 years, Kevin Ingerson, whom she married on August 22, 1981, in Newfield; sisters, Deborah (Jeffrey) Liker and Susan Rafalak; sister-in-law, Mary Smith; Kevin’s siblings, Steven (Sabine) Ingerson and Karen (Joseph) Campbell; and many nieces and nephews.  In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her brother, Michael Smith; brother-in-law, John Rafalak; and father-in law and mother-in-law, Roy Ingerson and Jacqueline Abriel.

A funeral service will be officiated by Pastor Geri Judd at 11:00 a.m. on Tuesday, June 29, 2021, at the Newfield United Methodist Church, 227 Main Street, Newfield.  Anyone who has not received the COVID-19 vaccine will be asked to wear a mask.  Interment will immediately follow at Greensprings Natural Cemetery Preserve, 293 Irish Hill Road, Newfield.  Guests are welcome to wear casual attire.

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David L. Heck, Sr. - March 23, 1931 - June 25, 2021

Departed: 06/25/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Mr. David Heck, Sr. passed away peacefully on Friday June 25, 2021, surrounded by loving family in Lansing, NY.  Born March 23, 1931, in Shelby, Ohio, he was the son of Eldon and Gertrude Heck.  He graduated from Shelby High School in 1949, and went on to earn his Bachelor of Science in Mathematics from Kenyon College, in Gambier, OH, in 1953.  In the summer of 1953, he enlisted in the US Army, and was stationed at Camp Kilmer, NJ, from 1953-55.  He then pursued and earned his Master’s degree in Math and Statistics from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill in 1958.  In 1958, he moved to Endicott, NY, and took a job with IBM, where he worked for 33 years, primarily at the Glendale Lab, retiring in 1991.

In the early 60’s, he met the love of his life, Joyce (Carman).  They were married on November 13, 1965, at St. Ambrose Catholic Church, Endicott, and together they had 2 sons, David Jr. and Robert.  Raising his boys gave him great joy, as he was very involved in their various activities, including scouting, workshop activities, and introducing them to running, tennis and cycling.

Through the 60’s, he was an avid tennis player, traveling around the region for various tournaments.  In 1971, he was introduced to running as an early member of the Triple Cities Runners Club and began his streak of 17 consecutive Boston Marathons, 3 New York City marathons and various others.  Training through the winters of Upstate NY was a joy for him.  In the late 80’s, he took up the passion of cycling, and was a mainstay in the Tioga Velo Club.

Born Lutheran, it was in 1996 that he joined the Catholic Church, through the RCIA program.

In 2003, Dave and Joyce converted their summer home on Cayuga Lake to their permanent residence, and embraced the Lansing community as their own.  He was very involved in the Cayuga Lake Water Shed Network, active in town meetings and enjoyed getting to know the youth through various scholastic sports.  His smile and inquisitiveness were infectious.

In addition to his parents, David was preceded in death by his wife, Joyce (Carman), brother Warren Heck, sister Emily (Heck) Olmsted, brother-in-law Richard Olmsted, brother-in-law Robert T. Carman, Jr. DDS, brother-in-law Richard DeWalt, brother-in-law Ambrose Cook, Sr., sister-in-law Mary Cook, sister-in-law Lynn (Stoltz) Carman and sister-in-law Barbara Carman.  He is survived by his son David Heck, Jr., DDS and daughter-in-law Dr. Michelle (Cilia) Heck of Ithaca, NY, son Robert Heck, DDS of Charlotte, NC; sister Joyce (Heck) DeWalt of Springfield, OH, sister-in-law Bernadine Carman of Naples, FL and brother-in-law Thomas R. Carman, Sr. of Vestal, NY; grandchildren Domenica, Joey and Ray; and numerous nieces, nephews, and great nieces and nephews.

The family will receive family and friends from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. on Thursday, July 1, 2021, at Lansing Funeral Home, Lansing, NY.  A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Our Lady of the Lake Catholic Church in King Ferry, NY, on Friday, July 2, 2021, at 11:00 a.m. with a luncheon to immediately follow at Myer’s Park, Lansing, NY, Pavilion A.

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Debra Ann Dwyer - September 16, 1960 - June 19, 2021

Departed: 06/19/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Debra Ann Dwyer, age 60, of Lansing, NY passed away June 19, 2021 as a result of ovarian cancer. Deb was born on September 16, 1960 in Quincy, Illinois, daughter of Kenneth and Georgia Robertson. She received a bachelor's degree in Animal Science from the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign. She met her husband while working at the US Meat Animal Research Center in Clay Center, Nebraska. In 1987, they married and moved to Lansing, NY where Deb began her 33-year career at Cornell University. First, as a research technician she was a mentor, friend, and sometimes mother to numerous graduate students, and later as the university Institutional Biosafety Committee administrator where she supported faculty to successfully and safely accomplish their research.

Deb is survived by her husband of 33 years, Daniel Dwyer; children, Abby and Zachary Dwyer; parents, Kenneth and Georgia Robertson; brothers, Steve and Kent Robertson; and many in-laws, nephews, and nieces.

A memorial gathering will be held from 10:00 to 11:30 a.m. on Monday, July 12, 2021, at her home, 363 Luce Road, Lansing, NY.  A service will begin at 11:30 a.m., officiated by Rev. Ron Gaesser.

Services in Quincy, IL, will be led by Tim Robertson on Saturday, July 24, 2021, from 10:00 a.m. to noon at Ellington Memorial Presbyterian Church, 4600 North 36th Street, Quincy, IL.

The family asks those who would like to make a contribution in Deb’s memory to kindly consider the Ovarian Cancer Research Alliance or Adirondack Council.

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Carolyn Burin-Mikula - May 18, 1941 - June 16, 2021

Departed: 06/16/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Carolyn Burin-Mikula (née Daghita) was carried away by her guardian angels on June 16, 2021, at the age of 80. She is survived by 3 daughters, 3 grandchildren and 9 great-grandchildren, as well as many nieces and nephews and her Aunt Bendina Daghita O’Conner. Carol was an amazing mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and friend. All who knew her will never forget her.

In keeping with Carolyn’s wishes, there will be no services.  For those who wish to honor her with a contribution, please consider St. Jude Children’s Hospital, the American Cancer Society, or the Humane Society.

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Donald William Mansfield - November 22, 1927 - June 04, 2021

Departed: 06/04/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Donald William Mansfield (Lt. Col. USAF-Ret.), 93, died peacefully June 4, 2021, at the home of his daughter and son-in-law in Ithaca, New York, where he had lived for over six years. The cause of death was Alzheimer’s disease. He is mentioned in several history books, magazines, and newspapers as the pilot who dropped the last bomb in the Korean War on July 27, 1953. His flight memorabilia from Korea are housed at the Smithsonian National Air and Space Museum.

After being assigned as a B-26 pilot to the 8th Bomb Squadron of the 3rd Bombardment Wing, he was selected to drop the last bomb (22 minutes before the cease-fire ending the Korean War) by Gen. Eugene (Ben) LeBailly, who, according to an article in Air Force Magazine, had been asked by President Truman to handpick a pilot for this mission. He flew more than 30 night missions in Korea, beginning with his first combat mission, ironically, on June 4, 1953.

He joined the Air Force in 1950 (receiving his pilot’s wings in 1951) and retired in 1970 as a command pilot having flown over 5,000 hours. He was also honorably discharged in 1947 from the U.S. Army after one year of service. His decorations include the Distinguished Flying Cross, the Bronze Star, the Air Medal (one oak leaf cluster), the Air Force Commendation Medal, and the Distinguished Service Cross (awarded by the Republic of China). He was a member of the Order of Daedalians for 50 years.

He flew B-47s (and in his words, "instructed future instructors how to instruct") in the Strategic Air Command at McConnell Air Force Base (AFB) in Wichita, Kansas, from 1957 to 1963. He then studied for one year at the Air Command and Staff College at Maxwell AFB in Montgomery, Alabama, graduating in 1964.  From 1964 to 1966, he received training with the Defense Intelligence Agency and studied Mandarin Chinese in Washington, D.C., before becoming the Assistant Air Force Attaché in the Republic of China (Taiwan) from 1966 to 1969. His Air Force career culminated with one year of service in Vietnam (1969-1970).

Upon his retirement, he had a full second career as Administrative Assistant (now often referred to as Chief of Staff) for U.S. Representative John Seiberling (D-14-Ohio) from 1971 until the congressman’s retirement in 1987. During Don’s time on Capitol Hill, he was honored to provide assistance to Seiberling’s achievement of doubling the size of the United States National Park System, including the establishment of Cuyahoga Valley National Park.

He was born November 22, 1927, in Akron, Ohio, 11 months after the death of his brother, Donald Allen Mansfield, age 3.  His life began by bringing great joy to his grieving parents and older sister, then drew to a close by bringing immense joy and laughter to the four grandchildren he lived with for the past six years, as well as to his adult children and their families. He graduated from Akron’s East High School in 1945, earned a BA from the University of Akron in 1950, and received an MA from Ohio University in 1957, where he also taught Air Force ROTC. He was a proud Eagle Scout, and a member of Phi Delta Theta fraternity, and of three honoraries: Pi Kappa Delta (forensic), Pi Sigma Alpha (political science), and Scabbard and Blade (military). The mayor of Akron declared “Donald W. Mansfield Day” on January 2, 1987, to honor his 36 years of service to our country.

After retiring, he devoted many hours volunteering at George Washington’s Estate at Mount Vernon and Inova Mount Vernon Hospital, as well as serving on the vestry and committees of St. James Episcopal Church in Alexandria, Virginia. His most cherished role was that of husband, father, and grandfather; he is sorely missed. He was very witty, a talented cornet and mandolin player, loved to play handball and water-ski, always kept a beautiful yard, and loved animals, especially the family dogs who were often seen resting by his feet waiting for his gentle pat to their heads.

He was predeceased by his beloved wife of 66 years, Joy Lee (nee Cassady); his father, Stanley Mansfield; his mother, Amy Margaret Mansfield (nee Jones); his sister, Betty Ruth Lamb; his brother-in-law, Thomas Lamb (Lt. Col. USAF-Ret.); and son-in-law, William P. Sellers IV. He is survived by his children, Mark S. Mansfield (Liudmyla), Ruth E. Smith (Richard), Virginia D. Mansfield-Richardson (Brian); grandchildren, Nicholas Mansfield (Joanna) and Jesse, Cassady, Gillean, and Devin Richardson; and great-granddaughter, Nina Mansfield.

His family deeply thanks his devoted caretaker and good friend Robin Richards. We also thank the many kind Tompkins County deputy sheriffs who routinely came to check on Don as part of the Project Lifesaver program, and who always took time to ask him about his flying days. Finally, thanks goes to the East Hill Flying Club for the many hours Don enjoyed sitting on the deck overlooking Cayuga Lake and watching airplanes fly over our house, naming each one by make and engine, as they took off and landed from nearby Ithaca Tompkins Regional Airport. He often commented that “the winds aloft are very good today.” So, we remember him with these lines from the poem High Flight by John Gillespie Magee, Jr.: Oh! I have slipped the surly bonds of Earth And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings;

. . . . Put out my hand, and touched the face of God.

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Joseph Gerald Rinaldi - August 01, 1965 - June 01, 2021

Departed: 06/01/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Joseph Gerald Rinaldi, 55, of Pennellville, NY, passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, June 1, 2021. He was the Operations Manager at Great Northern Mall for over 30 years.  Joe had a big heart and was loved by all.  He loved camping, kayaking, and spending time with family and friends.  At any gathering, you could always find him behind the barbecue grill.  He will be greatly missed.

Joe is survived by three sons, Joseph Michael Rinaldi, Nicholas David Rinaldi, and Cole William Rinaldi; his mother, Florence Bresett; sisters, Tina Ciamarro (Chris) and Dina Bell; brothers, Ronald Bresett (Becky) and Jim Rinaldi (Michelle); grandson, Carter Joseph Rinaldi; and many nieces and nephews.  He was predeceased by his father, Joseph P. Rinaldi, and his brother, Maynard (Jay) Bresett.

The family is planning a Celebration of Life on July 11, 2021, from noon to 2:00 p.m. at Goettel Park, 755 North Main Street, Central Square.

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Delores K. Dick - June 12, 1936 - May 24, 2021

Departed: 05/24/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Delores K. Dick, of Ithaca, died on May 24, 2021. She was born in Sibley, IA on June 12, 1936 to parents Margaret and Henry Den Beste.  Dee received a Bachelor of Science degree in nursing from the University of Iowa and practiced as a R.N. in Kansas City, MO before starting her family. She nurtured her family through relocations, travels, adventures, and life’s tribulations. Following Kansas City, Dee and family lived in Champaign, IL and Newark, DE before settling in Ithaca, NY in 1977. Sabbatical stays included Montreal, London, Vancouver, and Harpenden, UK (her favorite). Dee enjoyed a second career as a Public Health Nurse and head of the Tompkins County Health Department’s Hypertension Control Program. She was preceded in death by her daughter Natalie in 2017. Survivors include her husband of 62 years, Richard; children, Kevin (Sandra Carroll), Laura (Zane Memeger), and Craig (Katy Dunlap); and grandchildren Max and Olivia Memeger. Dee loved her family, a good book, a great meal, a stunning sunset, and the world around her.  She disliked being the center of attention and would much rather give than receive. If you are inclined to send flowers, please make a contribution to a cause that is meaningful to you instead. And be sure to appreciate your next sunset.  That would make her very happy!  Her life will be celebrated by her family at a later date.

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Rhonda Elaine Glennon - January 20, 1966 - May 23, 2021

Departed: 05/23/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Rhonda Elaine (Oltz) Glennon passed away peacefully on May 23, 2021, following her brief battle with cancer. Rhonda was born in Ithaca, NY on January 20, 1966. She was pre-deceased by her parents, Gretchen and Ronald Oltz, of Danby, NY.  She is survived by her husband John, daughter Veronica (Rogier) and son Jonathan; stepdaughters Kirsten Glennon-Baran (Steph) and Lisa Glennon-Lamont (Eric); granddaughter Madison May Gonzalez; brother Marvin Oltz; and sister Elizabeth Becker.  She is also survived by her foster father George Smith; foster sisters Joann Riley, Bonnie Compton and Betty Poole; and foster brother George Smith Jr. She was pre-deceased by foster mother Jacquelyn Smith.

Rhonda graduated from Ithaca High School June 1984. She worked for Tanyer Gasoline and Pit Stop convenience stores until moving to North Carolina in 2010.  She recently moved to St. Augustine, FL last year. Rhonda was obsessed with sea turtles and everything involving the ocean. She loved her family and friends fiercely. She brought so much joy and light to the world and everyone who knew her.

Her life was too short and she will be deeply missed.

Family and friends are invited to calling hours on Friday, May 28, 2021, from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Lansing Funeral Home, 32 Auburn Road, Lansing, NY 14882.  A memorial service will immediately follow at 7:00 p.m. at the funeral home.

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Nicholas Cole Cooper - March 21, 1999 - May 22, 2021

Departed: 05/22/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Nick was born on March 21, 1999, in Ithaca, NY. On May 22, 2021, he lost his lifelong battle with depression and chose to end his pain in King Ferry, NY.

Nick graduated from Lansing High School in June 2017. He was an avid D & D player and computer gamer. He had a very creative mind and was a truly gentle soul. He rarely said much, but when he did, he often was making someone laugh.

Nick is survived by his father Thomas F. Cooper, mother Jennifer Carlton-Cooper, sister Ashli Wilson, brother-in-law Benjamin Wilson, niece Payton Wilson, paternal grandmother Barbara Cooper, maternal grandparents Richard & Linda Carlton, uncles Brian Cooper, Jack (Victoria) Cooper & Jonathan (Lisa Everts) Carlton, cousin Dannielle (Kaitlin) Younes, brother-by-heart Christopher (Jasmond) Pratt, a large extended family and a close knit group of friends. He was predeceased by his paternal grandfather Albert Cooper.

Calling hours will be held Sunday, May 30, 2021, from 1:00 to 3:00 p.m. with a memorial service immediately following at Lansing Funeral Home, 32 Auburn Road, Lansing, NY 14882. Services will be officiated by Rev. Phil Jordan and livestreamed at: https://client.tribucast.com/tcid/1484949786. Please dress comfortably as Nick would have done. Please do not send flowers; Nick would hate the smell of them. He lost his battle but we want others to keep beating theirs.  Please consider contributions in Nick’s memory to American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP) P.O. Box 74 Freeville, NY 13068 or online at https://afsp.donordrive.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=2413150 Remember, if you need help please reach out to someone!

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Garrel Shane Pottinger - October 29, 1944 - May 21, 2021

Departed: 05/21/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Garrel Pottinger, a Lansing resident, died in Rochester at the Strong Memorial Hospital on May 21, 2021, at age 76, of complications of chronic heart failure.  Born in Cincinnati, Ohio, on October 29, 1944, he earned three degrees in philosophy from Michigan State University (1966) and the University of Pittsburgh (1968 and 1972). He taught philosophy at California State University, Hayward in 1971—72 before accepting a faculty position in philosophy at Carnegie-Mellon University, where he met and married Rachel Maines, then a graduate student in the history of technology.  He taught philosophy at Potsdam State University from 1983 to 1986.

Garrel moved to Ithaca from Potsdam, NY, in 1986.  He was employed as a computer scientist for Odyssey Research Associates from 1986 to 1991, and for Digicomp Research in 1996 and 1997. From 1997 to 1999 he worked with his wife Rachel Maines in her museum consulting firm, before taking a position at the Tops Friendly Markets (Lansing) in 2000.  He retired in 2007.

He is survived by his wife, Rachel Maines, a daughter, Rachel Amanda Pottinger, who is a professor of computer science at the University of British Columbia, Vancouver, and a brother, Marion Giles Pottinger, a retired engineer in Akron, Ohio.

A memorial service will begin at 4:00 p.m. on Monday, June 28, 2021, at Lansing Funeral Home, 32 Auburn Road, Lansing.  For those wishing to attend via Zoom, please request the link by contacting the funeral home at 607-533-8600 or lansingfuneralhome@gmail.com.

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Ralph L. Brown, Jr. - February 16, 1965 - May 12, 2021

Departed: 05/12/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: “No matter where I am, your spirit will be beside me. For I know that no matter what, you will always be with me.” – Tram-Tiara T. Von Reichenbach

Ralph L. Brown Jr. (Mae Mae) 56, of Ithaca, NY passed away unexpectedly on May 12, 2021. Ralph Lee Brown was born on February 16, 1965.

He is survived by his children, Shantelle (Jason) Ellison, Sherard Brown and Shyann Brown; grandsons, Jayden Ellison, Kavion Ellison, Roman Ellison, Cameron Ellison and Zion Ellison; brothers, Charles (Tish) Brown, Larry Brown, Eric Brown and Rashid Brown; sisters, Patricia Brown and Yvette King; father, Ralph Lee Brown Sr.; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

He is predeceased by his son, Ralph Lee Brown III; his brother, Jesse Brown; his mother, Fannie Mae Hubbard; and other aunts and uncles.

Ralph was a good man. He did his best to live life to the fullest each and every day. Even when life got busy or complicated for Ralph, he always made time to show his love and support for his children. Ralph was a proud and loving father who simply wanted his children to pursue life and happiness without regret.  He was also a caring son, brother, uncle, grandfather, and friend. Ralph cherished his family near and far. He will be greatly missed but never forgotten by all who knew and loved him.

A graveside service will be held on May 28, 2021, at 12:00 p.m. at Calvary Cemetery in Ithaca, with Rev. Nathaniel Wright officiating. “Love you, later.”

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Frank W. Young - May 31, 1928 - April 26, 2021

Departed: 04/26/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Frank W. Young, 92, Professor Emeritus at Cornell University, died on April 26, 2021, at his home in Ithaca, NY.  Frank was born in Chicago, IL, on May 31, 1928.  At Deep Springs College in Nevada, Frank completed his undergraduate studies and was provided with a unique and special experience that had a profound impact on his life. At Deep Springs, he was tasked with everything from learning Latin, economic theory, and American government, to helping a Paiute Native American who did not speak English irrigate the fields. After serving in the military, he went on to earn his Ph.D. in Anthropology from Cornell University in 1957 based on his fieldwork in Nova Scotia, where he studied the impact of urbanization on two fishing villages.  This study was followed by similar comparative research in Mexico, Puerto Rico, Tunisia, and the Southern Tier region of New York State.  Much of this research used a new method of data collection focused on health trends. In 1968, he spent a year at the Center for Advanced Studies in the Behavioral Sciences and in 1975, he was a senior fellow at the East-West Center. After teaching at San Diego State and the University of Pittsburgh, he returned to Cornell, where he spent most of his academic career and taught for 33 years.  As a professor of development sociology, Frank was best known for his work in social differentiation and social structure, and later in population health.  He was widely published in sociological journals and was the advisor for many doctoral students over his academic career. Frank’s commitment and attention to their careers endeared him to generations of his students.

Frank met Loretta “Lorrie” Rushforth in a mountain lodge near the town of Champery, Switzerland, in the summer of 1977.  After communicating through letters, they were married ten years later in her native Chile.  Together, they traveled to Morocco, Spain, Italy, France, Portugal, the Yucatan Province in Mexico, and the Caribbean Islands.  Frank always had a warm personality and was especially hospitable to people who came from abroad.  In retirement, he organized a monthly lunch group with his fellow professors called the “China Lunch.”  He also belonged to the Argentine Tango Club and loved the outdoors—from canoeing in the Adirondacks to snorkeling in the Yucatan. To his children, Christopher and Douglas, Frank was a father who taught strength, patience, love, and the ability to overcome unimaginable hardships in pursuit of a better life.

He is survived by his wife of 33 years, Lorrie Young; two sons, Christopher and Douglas Young and their families, including grandsons Alex and Andrew; and sister, Nellvergne. He was predeceased by his first wife and mother of his children, Ruth, in 2001.

Funeral services and interment in East Lawn Cemetery, Ithaca, will be private.

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Eleanor Anne Barnard - September 13, 1927 - April 20, 2021

Departed: 04/20/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Eleanor Anne Cooke Barnard died in Ithaca on April 20, 2021.

Eleanor was born on September 13, 1927, in Norfolk, Virginia to Dr. Andrew B. Cooke and Mary Eleanor Tunison Cooke.  She was an accomplished sailor and as a water lover her entire life, a body surfer well into her eighties.  On land, dancing was one of her special delights.

A member of Tri Delta sorority, she graduated from the College of William & Mary in 1949.  She worked as a medical technologist in a hospital in Norfolk and later worked in the diagnostic lab at Cornell University’s College of Veterinary Medicine.  At Cornell, she mentored many of her younger colleagues and had special relationships with a number of her international fellow lab technologists.

Eleanor was a lover of all things outdoors, especially gardening and bird watching.  She volunteered at the Lansing School for Girls, the Cornell Plantations, and with the Citizens Pruners for the City of Ithaca.

In December 1951, she married and began a new lifetime of adventures with Ralph Roger Barnard (d. 2013), who at the time was an ensign in the U.S. Navy.  Together they raised four children: Anne Cooke Miller, R. Roger Barnard, Jr., Mary Barnard Button, and Sharon Elizabeth Phillippi (d. 1996).

A longtime resident of Longview, Eleanor was actively involved with assorted music activities – the Mad Hatters Kazoo Band, the Intergenerational Choir, and learning to play the ukulele and piano.  In addition to her love of all things musical, she leaves to her children, grandchildren, their spouses, and other extended family members a legacy of learning, exploration, and living life to the fullest.

With family always at the center of her attention, she shared at the end of her life that her one regret was that she would not live to see the full choreography of the lives of her children’s children and their children.  But also surviving to celebrate her life are grandchildren Danielle A. Hautaniemi, Conor W. Hautaniemi, Ralph Roger Barnard III, Jonathan D. Barnard, Andrew A. Barnard, Lincoln F. Barnard, Sarah M. Tsipouroglou, Christopher C. Phillippi, Jennifer J. Phillippi Cumpian, and Nathan L. Phillippi, as well as 18 great grandchildren.

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Eleanor A. Bachelor - November 20, 1928 - April 17, 2021

Departed: 04/17/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Eleanor Bachelor 11/20/28 – 4/17/21 - Mom, Mommy, Mother, Elmrod, Gramma, Minga Minga.

It was a warm and sunny Saturday afternoon and after all of the good-byes, hugs and kisses, it was quiet and we knew Dad had come to take her home.  In the background we could hear him playing his harmonica “Hey, look a yonder comin’ comin’ down that railroad track. It’s the Orange Blossom Special bringing my baby back.” Mom got to spend her whole life in her house and when she couldn’t care for herself, the whole family pitched in so she could stay at home.  One of us, who thinks she’s the favorite—Ronnie, made it so Mom had the best care ever, being there morning, noon, and night.  It was Mom’s wish to be at home and we made it happen. Our hearts were broken as we held her as she took her last breath.  Her companion and loyal dog for 12 years, Johnny ‘Cash’ was also laying on her chest.

Mom had so many friends that we can’t possibly mention everyone; but we would like to thank Ginny from CMA, and Leeann and Erica from Hospice for all their help.  We send a special thank you to Mary Ann Varn, NP from CMA for taking care of Mom and her family for many years.

She was predeceased by Wellington, her husband of nearly 60 years; her brothers Leonard and Richard Burun; and parents Joseph and Anna Burun. She is survived by her daughter, Cheryl Ortlieb – Lori & Nate, Gavin, Lily, and Paige Hobart, Amy & Fred, Maxwell & Quinn Wescott; daughter, Pat & Kevin Vincent – Caleb & Natalie, Haylee & Brendon and Gavin Vincent, Catlain & Jason, Gunner & Phoenix Lansing; daughter, Ronnie Horton –  Stephanie & Arnold, Victoria, Alexa & Alec Vasquez, Jonathan & Missy Horton; daughter, Cindy & Chuck Bower – Chad & Curtis, Anthony & Shelby, Devlin, Jamie & Levi Bower; and son, Willy Bachelor (Nicole) –  Kaysee & Patrick Nedrow, Tyeler & Becca, Payton and Kasier Bachelor, Jordon & Billy, William & Ryleigh Bachelor–Parks, Mackenzie, Addison and Brennon Bachelor. Eleanor is also survived by her brothers, Joe & Mary Burun and Family, and Stanley & Donna Burun and Family; and sisters-in-law, Joyce & Sonny Kimpland and Shirley Burun and Family.

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Hazel Mae Sherman Hart - February 03, 1922 - March 24, 2021

Departed: 03/24/2021 (Lansing)

Obituary Preview: Hazel Mae Inman Sherman Hart, 99, of Lansing, passed away at her home while surrounded by her daughters on March 24, 2021.  Born in Lansing, she was the daughter of the late Walter V. and Anna May Davis Inman.

Hazel lived in various places in Tompkins County throughout her life, but Lansing was always home to her.  She attended Lansing Central School and went on to earn her GED.  For many years, Hazel worked on her first husband’s family farm on Lansingville Road—milking cows, hauling milk, plowing snow, bailing hay, and other various farm jobs.  She also worked as a Home Health Aide until age 86.  However, her most difficult and most precious job was raising her six children, whom she loved more than anything.

Hazel is survived by her children, Patricia (Danny) Card, Connie Sherman (Rick May), and Debbie (George) Figures; daughter-in-law, Diane Sherman; son-in-law, Byron VanZile; honorary daughter, Betty (Scott) Dean; grandchildren, Mark (Leeann) Sherman, Barbara (Tom) Policay, Jeff Sherman, Sherl (Jeff) Walters, Tina Petruska, Kathy (Eric) Hart, TeriLynn Phillips, Teresa VanOrman, Keith (Michele) Sherman, Richard (Val) Cook III, and Nicholas Figures; honorary grandchild, Betty’s daughter Katie; 22 great grandchildren; 15 great-great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her first husband, Richard Sherman; second husband, John Hart; children, Roger Sherman, Maxine VanZile, and Richard “Ricky” Sherman; grandchildren, Michael Phillips, Tammy Walrad, and Howard “Hoddy” Walrad, Jr.; and brothers, Robert (Elsie) Inman, Merton (Velma) Inman, Veda Quick Tanner, Freda (Dick) McFall, and Russell Inman.

Hazel’s family would like to extend a special thank you to everyone at Woodsedge in Lansing for all of the love and friendship she received—you made her feel special and she loved you, and she loved living there.  Also, thank you to the Hospice nurses, Jen and Kim, and aide, Meg, for the loving care and making it possible for her to be at home; to Dr. Ristedt—she loved your personal visits and you made her feel special; and to Edna, the Hospice Chaplain for her visits.  Her daughters Pat and Connie had the opportunity to be with Hazel and care for her around the clock for the last seven months.  Her family apologizes if they forgot to mention anyone because everyone Hazel knew was important to her.

Friends and family are invited to calling hours on Saturday, April 10, 2021, from 11 a.m. to 1 p.m. at Lansing Funeral Home, 32 Auburn Road, Lansing, NY 14882.  A Celebration of Life will be announced at a later date.  Private interment will be in Lansingville Cemetery.

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Lansing Funeral Home's facilities are designed to provide a warm and welcoming atmosphere for families and friends to gather and pay their respects. The funeral home's spacious chapel can accommodate large gatherings, while its intimate visitation rooms provide a cozy setting for smaller, more personal gatherings. Additional amenities include ample parking, comfortable seating areas, and state-of-the-art audio-visual equipment.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and any notable achievements.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to notify friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased. Funeral homes or mortuaries may also assist in writing the obituary or provide templates for families to use.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral services, memorial donations, and other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the wishes of the family. Typically, they range from a few sentences to several paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow photos to be included with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the notice and help readers remember the deceased.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed notice that provides additional information about the person's life.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online publication?

The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication. Some newspapers have online submission forms, while others require email or phone submissions. Be sure to check with the publication for specific guidelines and deadlines.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

Yes, there may be a fee associated with publishing an obituary in a newspaper or online publication. The cost varies depending on the length of the obituary, the number of publications it will appear in, and other factors.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your story is told in your own words.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites. Local libraries or historical societies may also have copies of old newspapers or obituaries on file.

What if I want to keep my loved one's obituary private?

If you prefer not to make the obituary publicly available, you can choose to share it only with close friends and family or publish it in a private online memorial.

Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary is a celebration of the person's life, so feel free to include stories or humorous moments that capture their personality.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you notice an error in an obituary, contact the publication or funeral home immediately to request corrections. They will work with you to resolve the issue as quickly as possible.

What if my loved one did not want an obituary published?

It's essential to respect your loved one's wishes. If they explicitly stated they did not want an obituary published, it's best to honor their request.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes! Many families choose to include information about memorial donations or charities in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to continue their loved one's legacy.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and their deadlines. Online publications may post the obituary immediately, while print newspapers may take several days.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

Sometimes families choose to republish an obituary on special occasions like birthdays or anniversaries. Check with the original publication for their policies on republication.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking assistance from a funeral home, grief counselor, or professional writer who specializes in crafting meaningful tributes.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with your loved one's personality or spirit.

How do I preserve my loved one's online obituary?

You can save a copy of the online obituary as a PDF or screenshot. You may also consider creating a permanent online memorial or tribute page.

What if I'm unsure about what to include in an obituary?

Talk to family members, friends, or a funeral director for guidance. They can help you determine what information is most important to include and how to craft a meaningful tribute.

Can I update an existing obituary with new information?

Contact the original publication or funeral home to request updates. They will work with you to make changes and ensure the revised obituary is accurate and respectful.

How do I create a digital archive of my loved one's life story?

You can create a digital archive by scanning photos, documents, and mementos; recording audio or video stories; and writing down memories and anecdotes. Consider using online platforms or memory books specifically designed for this purpose.

What if I need support during this difficult time?

Losing a loved one can be overwhelming. Don't hesitate to reach out to friends, family, support groups, or professional counselors for emotional support during this challenging time.